Pearl - August 20, 2025


Any Virgin Woman After 25 Years Old Has Something Wrong With Them


Episode Stats

Length

19 minutes

Words per Minute

151.74939

Word Count

2,971

Sentence Count

226

Misogynist Sentences

43

Hate Speech Sentences

37


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What is a virgin woman? Now, you would think, you really would think that this would be something
00:00:05.260 that we all just agree on, right? All right, so today we're talking about virgin women. So last
00:00:11.520 show, I did a reaction to a video, and I said, men say they want virgin women until they see
00:00:19.380 the virgin women available. I said, men, they constantly gaslight, the same way women gaslight
00:00:26.920 us about what we find attractive. Sometimes men do the exact same thing to us. Now, remember,
00:00:36.220 in girl world, we only care about what attractive men think. Now, I'm not saying this is right.
00:00:44.380 I'm not saying this is a good thing, but we have a new series on this channel, and it's called It
00:00:50.980 Is What It Is. So this is a segment on Pearl Daily where I talk about the way the world is, not the
00:00:56.720 way I want it to be, not the way I wish it was. You know, I had a friend of mine say that should
00:01:06.920 is the worst word in the human language because it's just a wish list. And I realized that I myself
00:01:13.800 as a YouTuber, I use this term just a lot. And I actually almost got embarrassed thinking about
00:01:21.840 about it after I came to this realization. You know, when you're a YouTuber and you talk for a
00:01:28.000 living, you're forced to deal with uncomfortable truths about yourself because if you don't notice
00:01:33.300 them, the world notices them for you. So one of them that I learned was that when I was younger,
00:01:40.140 I was very idealistic and unrealistic. And so I would say things like,
00:01:45.300 I shouldn't vote, you know, I can't say that anymore. Or women should be in the kitchen. Women
00:01:53.160 should make a sandwich. And these things are funny, right? They're hilarious. I'm always trying
00:01:56.940 to put in an entertaining show for you guys, but it's not realistic, right? It's not, this isn't,
00:02:03.260 this isn't something that is a realistic point of view. And I think that's where a lot of liberals
00:02:10.440 are born. That's where a lot of liberals, they look at us conservatives and they're saying,
00:02:14.780 what world do you guys live in? You guys are insane. Are you not seeing what's going on?
00:02:20.860 And I'm not saying the liberals are right either. The liberal men, I mean,
00:02:24.620 we see the way that they simp to no end. They really do. They're, they're like the,
00:02:29.940 they're like the Incredibles, you know, that show, but just in simping. But in a way,
00:02:36.260 conservative simp harder. Now I'm going to talk about this topic and you guys are going to be
00:02:42.080 able to call in, but there was one comment that actually sparked this whole show. And I can't,
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00:04:11.000 because I really thought to myself, I understand why he thinks this. I really do. Um, it probably does
00:04:18.940 seem contradictory. So my take is that female virgins have something wrong with them more times than they
00:04:29.300 don't. Now, I'd like to differentiate. Female virgins below a certain age, you could argue, maybe they don't.
00:04:41.380 But I don't think virginity is this bonding construct the way that it used to be. I think at one point,
00:04:54.280 maybe so. But the virgins of today are just not the virgins of yesterday. And the reason I came to this
00:05:02.040 conclusion was real life experience. You know, you see the stats about body count, right?
00:05:09.780 And you think to yourself, well, that's obviously the women with the higher body counts
00:05:14.620 are the whores. And that's true. There is truth to that. I'm not saying it's not.
00:05:19.740 But I like to have more nuanced conversations on this channel. So during the last show, I reacted to
00:05:27.820 a clip of a woman named Riley who went on a dating show, and she was a socially awkward woman.
00:05:34.580 Not the most attractive, maybe like a five or a four. She went on this dating show, and she pitched
00:05:40.080 herself to 20 guys, and she was rejected. And listening to her talk, I don't think I would be shocked
00:05:46.760 if she was a virgin. I really wouldn't. I don't know if she is or she isn't, but she fit one of the
00:05:52.200 archetypes of virgins I've seen on the market. So the comment, so during, during this show, I titled
00:06:00.080 it, men say they want virgins until it comes down to picking them. So the comment said, Pearl went from
00:06:08.700 women should be virgin and young to no, you don't want a virgin. Seriously, Pearl isn't consistent at
00:06:14.300 all. She's insecure about her situation, about not being a virgin and aging and couldn't live up to
00:06:19.560 the standards she originally argued about. And now is trying to convince people that no, you don't
00:06:24.260 want a virgin. Subconsciously, she comes across as jealous that everyone gets married first, regardless
00:06:29.400 of if they're a virgin or not. And I, you know, I do read the comments. So I looked at this comment,
00:06:35.540 and I said, I can understand why he thinks that. But I want to pitch to you guys my ideas. I want you
00:06:43.240 to have an open mind. And at the end, you could tell me if you agree or disagree, we could do a
00:06:49.500 call and show. Now, I'm not saying I am the end all be all, but all I am repeating back is what I
00:06:56.380 have seen on the market. So the first definition I think is really important is what is a virgin woman?
00:07:04.520 Now, you would think you really would think that this would be something that we all just agree on,
00:07:10.040 right? You would think that we would know like a virgin, a virgin's a girl that never had sex,
00:07:16.420 right? That's what you would think. That's what, that's what, that's what you would think.
00:07:25.340 All right. Now, let me share the screen. So the definition of a virgin is a person who has never
00:07:35.300 had sexual intercourse. That's the one. Number two is an unmarried woman devoted to religion. So
00:07:42.940 women are sneaking in. They're sneaking in another definition.
00:07:52.420 They're sneaking in another definition into Webster. Can you imagine? That's how women,
00:08:01.400 that's how women manipulate is we have a tendency to change the definition of words.
00:08:07.360 Three had absolutely chased young woman or four Virgin Mary. So I prefer definition three. So for the
00:08:13.420 purpose of this conversation, I would say a virgin woman is a woman that has never done anything that
00:08:19.760 could give her an STD. BJ's, that can give you an STD. Getting finger blasted, hand jubs, that can give you an STD.
00:08:33.980 Soaking, I'm pretty sure that can give you an STD. So all of the workarounds here at Pearl Daily,
00:08:40.280 we do not count those hoes. Just because you found a way to get off without hoeing,
00:08:46.460 doesn't mean you're better than the other hoes. I put you in the same category. I really do.
00:08:54.540 So, um, all right.
00:09:00.440 Now, the next question I had is, do women want to be virgins on their wedding day?
00:09:06.660 So conservative men have a tendency to have this idea that women want to wait till they're married
00:09:11.640 and they're just falling victim to these evil men who just take their virginity.
00:09:18.820 But if we look at what women are choosing, it does not look like women have any intention or want
00:09:25.640 to do this. So let me share my screen. Also make sure you guys like the video. All right. Hit that
00:09:32.980 like button. Subscribe to the channel. I, I hit, you know, okay. Now they're saying this is a bad take
00:09:41.680 because sharing a drink can give you an STD. All right, guys, within reason, right? I think if you
00:09:48.940 could get off, if you can orgasm from a man, if you can, if that can happen, if he's causing it,
00:09:56.160 I just don't, I just don't, I don't think you're that innocent. Okay. I don't, I don't. And I am
00:10:04.440 tired of being gaslit about this. Obviously, obviously shit. Like what was the point of that
00:10:10.900 comment? That was just a stupid comment. I hate it when people know what you're saying, but they
00:10:16.540 force you, they force you to give it a more detailed explanation. That's annoying. That's,
00:10:24.960 I just want you to know in the chat, whoever put that you're annoying. That's an annoying thing to
00:10:29.820 do. All right. So putting things in order, relationship sequencing, the preferences of
00:10:36.580 American woman in America today, 70% of people cohabitate before marriage and 90% of people have
00:10:43.380 sex before they marry. Moreover, 40% of kids are born to unmarried mothers. It's easy to assume these
00:10:49.360 trends are driven entirely by shifts in values and attitudes like the sexual revolution.
00:10:54.960 or the deinstitutionalization of marriage. But there's an alternative thesis as well.
00:11:02.220 Maybe the family breakdown has grown because people don't desire conventional sequencing of
00:11:07.360 marriage and childbearing, but because there are obstacles to this outcome. So remember,
00:11:13.260 they always want to take the blame away from women. Okay. They, they always want to do this.
00:11:20.620 They always want to say it's not because women want to do it. They're brainwashed.
00:11:26.600 They're like, come on guys. Um, the prevalence of damaging penalties that discourage marriage for
00:11:32.780 working class people could be prevented from many achieving family lives they want. And indeed,
00:11:38.960 family dissolution, marriage penalties are a major concern of working class parents.
00:11:43.400 All right. Number one. Um, wait, hold on.
00:11:54.380 All right. To explore the question of why the sequencing, can I assume it on this?
00:12:00.500 To explore the question of why the sequencing of family events has changed. I fielded a survey about
00:12:06.460 3000 women age 18 to 44. And the survey was another wave of long running surveys, um, called the
00:12:13.420 demographic intelligence of family survey, which pulls American woman about their family attitudes,
00:12:19.020 fertility preferences, and lifestyle twice a year to provide market research for companies that make
00:12:24.100 products for children's and moms. Hence why it only surveyed women. I assessed sequencing in a
00:12:29.560 straightforward way. I asked women to arrange six relationship stages based on what they thought would
00:12:34.920 be the best order for them personally. The stages were getting married, moving in together, having a
00:12:40.260 child, buying a house, meeting each other's families, and having sex. By forcing respondents to put these
00:12:45.760 stages in order, I directly measured women's views of what they would personally prefer for their own
00:12:50.940 relationships. In other words, I measured the extent to which high rates of cohabitation and
00:12:57.280 premarital sex reflect explicit value differences. All right. So women put the order women want
00:13:05.620 relationships to happen. They want to meet the family. They want to have sex, move in together,
00:13:10.680 then get married and buy a house and have a child.
00:13:16.980 Contrary to popular Hollywood driven narratives that frame meeting the family is a huge relationship
00:13:22.660 step that people want to postpone. Women overwhelmingly selected meeting each other's families as their
00:13:28.060 first preferred step out of the six. Now, to me, that's just a signal status. Like women love signaling
00:13:34.320 status to the family. On average, meeting the family was selected was the second listed item. While this may
00:13:41.880 seem counterintuitive, it's very straightforward. Many women say they prefer to be in the relationship with
00:13:47.520 someone who already knows their life and background, not a stranger. Other ways, other, now remember,
00:13:53.340 women are gaslighting here because if that were true, then we would be meeting in our hometowns and
00:13:58.460 not on hinge. Okay. Otherwise, women may explicitly desire familiar approval for partners. Furthermore,
00:14:05.400 it's best to, it's important to remember the question asked women about what would be best, not typical. If
00:14:11.600 women knew up front that their potential partner was their best partner, they might move in faster.
00:14:16.860 On meeting families. Okay. My point is it, um, 78% of women in this survey picked an onboarding that
00:14:27.280 prelaced home ownership before children. Um, 40 to 50, uh, 50% of newborns are born to renters. Okay.
00:14:37.600 Uh, this survey also asked women if housing costs has impact. Okay. I don't, I don't really care. I really
00:14:43.420 wanted to just put, um, um, women want to marry before kids, but they definitely want the sex before
00:14:50.740 marriage. The majority of women. Sex at the first relationship stage. And if we look at what women
00:14:58.380 are picking, right, women aren't really picking to wait until they're married. We're really not,
00:15:07.040 you know, I mean, it's just not something that we personally are choosing. Okay. Let me check the
00:15:12.460 chat really quick. So I really want to just kill this idea that women want to wait until we're
00:15:19.620 married. If we wanted to, we would, you know, we would be rushing to get with all the guys that are
00:15:24.700 offering commitment. There's a ton of them, but we're not. Okay. So the next question I had,
00:15:33.420 how many virgin brides are there and what are your chances of finding one? All right. So less than
00:15:40.760 5% of women are virgins. And that, that's what Grok told me. So let's assume because women are liars,
00:15:50.300 not all, not all, not all, that 2.5%, let's say half are lying. So out of a hundred women,
00:15:57.320 you are going to meet 2.5% that are virgins. And actually now what percent have given a hand job
00:16:07.900 or a blow? You know, we'll, we'll include that with the lying, even though I guarantee half of
00:16:12.500 them will have been finger blasted. I'm just going to, I'm going to give it. What percent are ugly?
00:16:18.240 What percent are fat? Let's divide that in two. I'm going to just subtract half a percent. Let's say
00:16:25.200 we're at, even though it's really higher, I'm just for shits and giggles going to say 2%.
00:16:29.840 What percent are bitches? Let's 1.5%, let's say. Now we get, we're dealing with left.
00:16:38.600 What percent, um,
00:16:40.780 what percent are using their virginity to build their brand or have a lot of debt? Let's just,
00:16:49.140 now let's say it's one out of a hundred women. Now you say, you guys keep saying, Pearl, you're
00:16:57.780 contradicting yourself. Now you said women should be virgins. And that's where I really wanted to
00:17:08.160 talk about how the marriage contract has changed over time. Okay. Men and women have compete,
00:17:14.700 conflicting sexual strategies. Women want men to not know how valuable they are. So they give up
00:17:21.560 their leverage the rest of their lives, um, and be loyal to them and give them like the goal of women
00:17:28.760 is to tame the alpha, right? Let's say. And the goal of men is to have, maybe have a wife, but bang
00:17:36.440 hot women forever. And before in the old days, it was a compromise, right? They would meet in their
00:17:43.060 hometown. Maybe the families would get together. Um, a lot of time the, the woman would come with a
00:17:49.000 dowry, right? So they would actually be like, Hey, son, this girl, my daughter's a hassle. She's
00:17:54.620 really annoying. Here's some money to deal with her annoyingness forever. Here you go. And
00:18:02.340 so before the women would say, you know what? I really could do better than you. I really could
00:18:14.000 like, I'm pretty hot, but you're good enough. And I'm going to settle and we're going to make a deal
00:18:20.120 here. This is going to be a compromise for both of us. And the man would say, look, I could bang some
00:18:26.620 hot chicks. I could, I could bet, I could bang Stacy and Teresa over there, but you know what?
00:18:34.500 I'm going to compromise here and we're going to get together. And then he's like, you know what?
00:18:39.920 You didn't have sex with anybody else. Or if you did law, I'm sure women have always lied.
00:18:44.240 If you had a whole phase, you ended it at like 20. Um, so let's, let's compromise here.
00:18:52.020 You can give me like 10 kids. A lot of times they'd work on the farm, you know, but now what
00:18:59.640 happens is the women have completely foregoed, foregone their side of the mating strategy.
00:19:11.200 The women have foregone, they have said, do you know what? We're not going to bring youth. We're
00:19:16.960 not going to give, bring purity to the table, but I still demand a traditional marriage.
00:19:23.680 I still demand to stay home. I still demand to be a stay at home mother to like one kid. It's
00:19:31.560 like one kid, you can't get a part-time job. You know what I mean? That's it.