Pearl - Are ＂Dating The Same Guy＂ Groups Good or Bad？ (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 men most answered very quickly no because men are useless

00:00:07.840 this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not young

00:00:13.520 men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different

00:00:18.400 world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female men and women

00:00:26.960 are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate

00:00:33.280 has broken out about the value of marriage you've kind of got the tradcon versus red pill thing

00:00:37.760 this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like

00:00:42.960 grown boys and infants and actually become men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's

00:00:48.320 a machine designed to extract resources from you now many of the red-pilled have taken the position

00:00:53.200 that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:56.180 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:00:59.800 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:03.460 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:06.320 Because if me and you were in a business contract,

00:01:08.540 you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:11.500 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:13.660 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:17.240 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:20.120 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:22.740 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:27.780 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:30.980 You need no evidence.

00:01:32.120 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:35.820 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:39.160 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:41.680 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:43.980 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:46.120 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:48.480 Before you know it, you're homeless. You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:51.680 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:01:54.240 Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:58.540 Family is the foundation of society.

00:02:00.260 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:03.420 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:07.720 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:09.700 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:11.520 We tell them to put off family into marriage.

00:02:13.300 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:16.040 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:20.180 oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's anything else in life

00:02:24.820 that we actually ever go into preparing to fail right like if you have the mentality of this is

00:02:29.380 going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to

00:02:33.460 fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages

00:02:37.680 because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the

00:02:42.240 children and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave

00:02:47.680 When I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:51.580 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:55.340 They think, well, men have all the rights.

00:02:56.880 They have all the power.

00:02:58.140 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:03:00.420 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:03:03.040 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:06.300 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:08.200 Men are homeless.

00:03:09.160 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:10.900 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:15.180 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:20.820 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:24.720 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:27.320 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol,

00:03:31.300 three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:34.380 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:36.220 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:37.440 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:39.060 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:40.300 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:42.260 If men are in trouble, so are women.

00:03:44.700 everybody knows this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table

00:03:50.080 said they wanted a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really set up against you

00:03:55.440 to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't want to marry them so you know who

00:04:00.480 wants more economically and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman

00:04:06.900 anymore i don't want to be a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn

00:04:12.140 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:13.980 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:16.760 The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men.

00:04:18.620 No, I think you simp for women.

00:04:20.060 She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff.

00:04:22.200 But Pearl is right about this.

00:04:23.460 It's already happening. It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:26.080 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending

00:04:28.680 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:04:31.720 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:35.960 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:40.040 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:41.360 The American story does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:05:11.360 or you can apply to our members only community where you can ask me questions directly on things

00:05:18.420 like how to build a YouTube channel. Yesterday I did thumbnails and people learned a lot. You know,

00:05:24.960 I talked about what makes a shitty thumbnail and why you guys are ruining your thumbnails by the

00:05:30.040 choices that you're making. All right. So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. The tea app

00:05:36.860 has been all over the news lately the tea app is used by women to share their stories about men

00:05:42.880 and the app allows them to share pictures and private data about men without their consent

00:05:47.960 the idea for this app is not an original one groups on sites like facebook am i dating the

00:05:54.280 same guy where women share photos of men and compare notes about who they've been dating and

00:05:59.160 how their experience has been around since the 2010s men do not have access to these spaces and

00:06:06.040 anything can be said about these men while the women choose to remain anonymous. Let's get right

00:06:11.120 to the point. We all know that women created these groups. It's because they don't know how to take

00:06:16.540 L's in dating, especially when they're older. Women hate, and I mean hate, when they get got.

00:06:23.140 They hate when a man plays the game better than they do, and this is how they get revenge. Dating

00:06:29.380 is a risk and women want to minimize that risk of taking an L by destroying the reputation of a man.

00:06:37.300 Things used to be so simple before feminism. Men used to see a pretty woman and ask her out on a

00:06:43.020 date. Then he would go to her house and ask her father if he could take her out on a date. A man

00:06:48.860 used to court a woman, marry a woman, and then they would move on down the path of life. Women

00:06:54.940 called that patriarchy and feminism blew that whole thing up. Now, we have a deregulated sexual

00:07:01.120 marketplace where women can do what they want. When left to their own choice, modern women are

00:07:06.140 trying to date the top 20% of men. These men have so much choice that they don't want to commit to

00:07:11.180 women, which is really understandable when you think about all these baddies today. Sleep with

00:07:16.700 multiple women and leave relationships when they see fit. How have women responded to having this

00:07:23.660 much choice they've responded with these groups and shaming men to prevent them from enjoying what

00:07:29.980 they've earned the ability to be able to do by becoming a man of means men have started fighting

00:07:38.000 back and now they are suing the women in these group so a guy in tuscan arizona are we dating

00:07:46.560 the same guy is suing going out on a first date how do you know for sure that the person you're

00:07:51.260 seeing isn't already dating someone else. Well, in Tucson, there are nearly 4,000 women in a

00:07:56.360 Facebook group called, Are We Dating the Same Guy? 13 News reporter Shelby Slaughter has been looking

00:08:01.760 into the story. She joins us now live in studio. Shelby. Well, Dan, it is hard to get out there

00:08:07.640 and meet people. And naturally, when you have a bad experience with someone, you want to tell

00:08:11.800 your friends and even warn others. And that, but there's a difference. What this group, sorry,

00:08:16.160 there's a difference between friends and the american public you know you can crash out with

00:08:22.720 your friends but you're not supposed to crash out in public you know to do it started as a

00:08:30.640 way for women in southern arizona to make sure other women in the area aren't dating the same

00:08:36.480 guy i want to change the way women look at women and six months ago nirvana spivey set out to do

00:08:42.480 just that creating a faceb

00:08:45.520 are we dating the same g

00:08:48.520 4,000 women looking to f

00:08:50.860 boyfriends or even their

00:08:53.500 being dishonest. A lot of

00:08:55.520 go through this thing wh

00:08:56.900 dating one guy and he's l

00:08:58.900 double life. He's seen lik

00:09:01.060 and she has no idea. Spive

00:09:04.000 the group isn't to bash m

00:09:06.940 door for transparency open

00:09:10.000 Yeah, okay, and that could be the idea, but the problem is when you let anonymous people

00:09:14.780 make up any story about a man, the challenge is a lot of stuff gets through that's not

00:09:20.600 true.

00:09:21.760 It kind of gives other girls, like, a knowledge, so when they're out there in the dating world,

00:09:26.840 they're like, ah, you're a player, no thank you.

00:09:29.680 They already have a hand and they already have a no.

00:09:31.480 The group shows posts like these.

00:09:34.200 We've blurred the men's faces and names, asking for things like tea or dirt on a man before

00:09:39.600 things get too serious yeah and so what you have is a bunch of women going into something in bad

00:09:44.880 faith so they meet a guy and they're already looking for things wrong with him and the thing

00:09:50.160 is guys if we had women being posted in these groups and they said has anyone gone to date with

00:09:55.480 her i mean come on ladies have have we never ghosted a man i have you haven't ever ghosted a

00:10:02.240 guy where he maybe expected something and like he would probably blast us in in these groups

00:10:08.640 and you know i'm not saying it's the right thing to do but the game is the game right i'm not always

00:10:13.920 a good person and neither neither are most people all right sometimes that doesn't sit well with men

00:10:19.840 who find out about the group attorney alex mori an expert on free speech and defamation tells me

00:10:25.920 unless these women are making threats in the group they aren't violating any laws a lot of speech

00:10:32.300 online people go like oh i hate this conversation or they were being mean or they were being a jerk

00:10:36.500 yeah okay but they can the women can ruin my life they can they can flag my posts and and whatever

00:10:43.780 of me but if they do it it's perfectly fine legal and it's just about safety i hate oh my gosh i

00:10:52.340 don't hate women i don't hate women i don't i don't i love women i just love them so much they're so

00:11:01.540 awesome here they were um you know criticizing me really harshly a lot of that is protected by

00:11:09.540 the first amendment even if the guy that's being talked about doesn't like it maury tells me women

00:11:16.020 in the group would have to be saying things that are provably false to fall under defamation

00:11:21.300 other things like giving general warnings is considered free speech if women are making

00:11:28.820 provably false claims about these particular men, they could open themselves up to potential

00:11:38.520 defamation suits. And Nervy tells me this is already something she has in mind. And when

00:11:45.600 posts come in warning other women about things like sexual assault and domestic violence,

00:11:50.880 she'd make sure the women provide things like police reports before it gets published in the

00:11:55.740 group. You can't stick out there that this man did this without backup proof to it, because then you

00:12:00.960 could be victimizing the man as well. And I spoke with a couple of the women in that group, and they

00:12:06.160 tell me having a space to go while putting feelers out there in the dating world has made them feel

00:12:10.940 safer. Reporting live in studio, I'm Shelby Slaughter. And remember, they doxxed a lot of

00:12:16.320 the women in these groups, and a lot of them are fat. So remember, ladies, when a woman says he's

00:12:22.180 just playing games. She's probably just not hot enough to be with him. And you might not be either.

00:12:26.500 You might not be. And I think that looks play a big part and they're not everything, but they do

00:12:34.040 get you in the door. So if you're wondering why a guy doesn't like you, look at your pictures

00:12:38.620 together and ask yourself, does this make sense? And sometimes it doesn't. Well, can a bad date

00:12:44.400 land you a court date after you post about it online? Well, a group of local women say they

00:12:49.820 are now forced to defend themselves in court after they took to social media to warn other women

00:12:55.420 about a potential suitor. Tonight on your sites, Christine Lazar takes a look at the case and what

00:13:01.340 it could mean for our free speech. The First Amendment protects you from any laws meant to

00:13:07.040 limit your free speech, but it doesn't prevent someone from taking you to court because they

00:13:12.380 don't like what you said about them online. Now, a group of women say they're being bullied into

00:13:17.620 silence by a guy who didn't like what they had to say about his online dating behavior anything is

00:13:24.580 possible really um when you meet strangers off the internet but most don't think comments about

00:13:30.180 a bad date will lead to a defamation lawsuit filed by the guy they wish to forget i felt like i was

00:13:37.220 big take that alho you got passed you got smashed and passed and women look i'll tell you what

00:13:45.940 but you are much better off knowing that this could happen to you in the dating game

00:13:51.300 and just taking that out. It's an L. Look, it's sometimes men sleep with you and don't call you

00:13:59.080 back. And that just is an L. And there's all these trad con guys that want to act like, oh,

00:14:04.860 my wife, that would never happen to her. Look, they don't want to get married because they're

00:14:11.100 not accepting what's on the marketplace. I'm just being honest here. If you're a mid, it's

00:14:18.300 probably going to happen. If you're beautiful, it might never happen. But that's why mids have

00:14:22.380 higher body counts. So honestly, just by the things that were coming out of his mouth. Back

00:14:27.340 in 2021, Olivia Berger had a single date with a guy she met online. She says she ended that date

00:14:34.040 early and didn't think about him until years later when she saw this post in a private Facebook

00:14:40.360 group called Are We Dating the Same Guy? The post had photos of her former date and read

00:14:46.560 tea in comments, asking if others had met him in person. Olivia weighed in.

00:14:52.560 I want to emphasize I had never had a date like this, ever.

00:14:55.660 Years before Olivia met him, Vanessa Valdez matched with him on a dating app.

00:15:00.220 She also commented on the post.

00:15:03.040 Then I said, how is this guy still allowed to be on dating apps harassing women?

00:15:08.160 Vanessa says a lot of time this is like the alpha guy women get angry when they can't either lock

00:15:14.220 down alpha or don't get the attention they want from alphas so they just try to ruin his life

00:15:19.900 reputation or when a beta acts like an alpha not sure which this is was anything but routine

00:15:27.060 he took issue with her having a male friend in one of her profile photos and in a message called

00:15:33.020 her a moron and wrote, it's fun watching you burn. And at that point, my stomach dropped.

00:15:41.620 Hearing someone say it's fun watching you burn, a stranger from the internet, it was very

00:15:46.940 unsettling. Vanessa responded that he should stay away from women and get help before reporting him

00:15:53.040 to the dating app. And that's the info she says she relayed on that Facebook post. But in my post,

00:15:59.560 I redacted his phone number and just tell the truth and share my experience.

00:16:04.600 But her version of the truth will now be put to the test.

00:16:08.180 The guy she and Olivia and 10 other women claim to have dated and later dissed in the

00:16:13.300 Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook group are now being sued for defamation, sex-based

00:16:18.580 Yeah, yep, take that out, take that out.

00:16:22.440 And this is the challenge.

00:16:24.700 We used to have freedom of speech in this country, but women ruined it with all these

00:16:28.220 bullshit lawsuits i'm getting dragged to court currently and none of this would happen if women

00:16:35.820 didn't ask for this so um yeah women it's women's fault in all honesty nation uh and and now women

00:16:47.820 are eating the consequences of what they fought for which is you don't have freedom of speech

00:16:52.140 um and if you ruin a man's reputation for fun like women do for men uh you are going to face

00:16:57.580 the consequences an invasion of privacy by a man named stewart lucas murray i think my initial

00:17:04.300 reaction is this this can't go anywhere this is there's nothing i said that wasn't true um but

00:17:13.020 yeah it i felt silenced i felt like i was being intimidated into silence and that could be a

00:17:19.820 problem according to defamation attorney jeff lewis in first amendment world we call that a

00:17:25.820 chilling effect meaning when people fear they're going to be sued they either stop talking or they

00:17:32.060 change what they're going to say because they're worried they're going to be sued

00:17:35.420 lewis and men have to do this all the time men have to change their speech to not offend women

00:17:42.060 all the time but when women have to do it it's world war three uh anyone can sue another person

00:17:49.500 for what they say about them online but that doesn't mean they'll win you know you know i

00:17:54.940 I wonder if men made a site called, are we effing the same girl?

00:18:00.820 And if how that directory would work out.

00:18:03.860 The first way to avoid being sued for saying things on the internet is to say things that are true or that are opinion.

00:18:09.400 And if you step outside of truth or opinion, there's a good chance you might get sued if it's something negative.

00:18:14.360 In this case, the women say that's what they did.

00:18:16.900 They spoke their truth.

00:18:18.680 Murray disagrees.

00:18:19.680 In his lawsuit, he claims one of the women falsely said he was involved in the murder of his ex-wife.

00:18:26.160 What? You guys are saying he committed murder? You guys are nuts. Oh my gosh.

00:18:34.700 STDs. Both of them and Vanessa say they never posted that or saw any other women make comments

00:18:41.360 of that nature. In a statement to us, Murray says he has never met, much less dated, some of the

00:18:47.340 women posting about him. He went on to accuse the women of catfishing him, saying they posted

00:18:52.540 highly filtered and enhanced photos on their dating profiles, concluding perhaps these women

00:18:58.220 are not successful at dating for obvious reasons. Lewis believes this case will make it to court.

00:19:05.060 Because a judge at this early stage can't believe one side or the other, that's a jury question. So

00:19:11.960 this case will likely go to trial if it doesn't settle. And without representation and not a lot

00:19:16.760 of expendable income to fight a lawsuit.

00:19:19.580 The women worry this could bankrupt them.

00:19:22.380 At the end of the day, these kinds of suits don't just affect me and Vanessa and our co-defendants.

00:19:28.740 And I feel that a lot of times women are still being silenced.

00:19:32.680 In January, a similar lawsuit was filed in Chicago by a man who was also the subject

00:19:38.160 of a post in the Facebook group, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:19:41.880 I did reach out to the moderator of that group, but she has not responded.

00:19:46.400 moderator, by the way, has created a fundraiser to help the women in Chicago being sued.

00:19:51.760 These women here in L.A. says she has not offered to help them. Christine Lazar, KCAL News.

00:20:00.960 Well, isn't it the consequences of our own actions? All right, let's see who else we got.

00:20:07.820 All right, we got some more lawsuits. The women we spoke with feel they did nothing wrong.

00:20:12.700 They say the truth. Of course, they feel they did nothing wrong. It just never ends.

00:20:18.520 And their opinions are protected against defamation. It's very crazy eyes. You see that?

00:20:26.940 Yeah. The accusations are baseless. I feel not just for myself, but for my co-defendants and for

00:20:34.300 the other women that he's gone after. Olivia Berger and Vanessa Valdez are just two of

00:20:40.540 multiple women being sued for defamation libel sex-based discrimination and other allegations

00:20:48.380 by stewart lucas murray he's basically suing us for 2.6 million dollars in damages

00:20:53.660 it all started with this post on the facebook group are we dating the same guy when olivia

00:20:59.900 and vanessa saw the post and all the comments they added their own experiences he seemed

00:21:06.300 in my opinion, pretty smug and very arrogant. The entire date, he was putting me down for

00:21:12.960 various things, my job included. Vanessa never went on a date with Murray because she says she

00:21:20.080 didn't like the messages he sent her, at one point even calling her a moron. Everything I said was

00:21:26.340 just my experience with him and my opinions on how I think, you know, he should not be on dating

00:21:31.860 sites we contacted murray for comment but he declined an on-camera interview instead he

00:21:38.800 directed us to this website with a long statement that says in part yeah so this is a chad running

00:21:44.440 through these hoes and now their hoes are what it's like women begged to be run through they're

00:21:48.960 like please run through us we don't want to be a main chick we want to be a side chick if you like

00:21:53.580 us too much we're going to crash out and the men are like fine we'll run through you if you you

00:21:58.060 guys insist we'll treat you like a piece of meat and so they do it and then the women cry now we're

00:22:03.980 here this action is not a game and the accusations against the defendants are serious i rejected each

00:22:11.780 of them and cut them off quite swiftly instead of going their separate ways they went on for months

00:22:18.400 and yeah because women never take l's and so they they of course hold on to any attention they've

00:22:23.880 gotten and reminisce on it for the rest of their life. And if they can, they'll brag about it and

00:22:30.480 then ruin the man's life. Years to spread misinformation about me and countless others.

00:22:37.200 Their actions were deliberate and they are now playing the victims, unquote. His full statement

00:22:43.200 will be up on our website. This is not his first lawsuit. It's not his second lawsuit. It's not his

00:22:48.780 fifth lawsuit um he has a pattern and it seems to me that that pattern is most often directed

00:22:56.560 towards women what have you learned from this experience um the importance of speaking up and

00:23:04.700 telling the truth and not being silenced take that out take that out old ladies you know what

00:23:15.780 old ladies can win they really can i've seen many women that are old they have kids i have seen so

00:23:21.540 many women win in my life that i actually think nothing is too big of a red flag for you to win

00:23:26.900 there is somebody that'll take you there's so many men in the world um but the picture the challenge

00:23:32.500 is we make it so difficult for ourselves we just make it even harder news five at six starts now

00:23:39.460 it's a he said she said playing out on social media it's always the mids isn't it yeah it's

00:23:45.060 never the beautiful women because the beautiful women have so many more choices where the mids

00:23:50.180 this is the most exciting thing that's happened to the you know this is this is the challenge if

00:23:54.500 you guys like flirt too low they get too excited and now you're the most exciting thing that's

00:23:59.460 happened to them in their life where the beautiful women are used to being hit on so they don't care

00:24:03.380 they'll forget about you tomorrow facebook groups all across the country there are thousands of

00:24:08.740 of people vetting their next date

00:24:11.200 in a group called, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:24:14.980 The idea is to provide a safe space

00:24:16.760 to share dating experiences.

00:24:18.840 News 5 anchor Tessa DeTiro sits down

00:24:20.800 with a Northeast Ohio man who feels the sharing

00:24:23.000 in these groups has gone too far.

00:24:26.580 This is how a typical conversation begins

00:24:29.220 on the Facebook group, Are We Dating the Same Guy?

00:24:32.600 This is a screenshot of a post

00:24:34.300 from the Cleveland-Akron Canton page.

00:24:37.020 The group has more than 55,000 members.

00:24:40.740 This picture shows a dating profile set up by Matthew Napier.

00:24:44.980 The anonymous poster asks, anyone waiting for the tea to spill?

00:24:49.580 It was just a big bash fest, pretty much.

00:24:53.020 And that's pretty regular in that group.

00:24:56.540 Matthew Napier sat down with me to share his experience being reviewed more than once.

00:25:01.880 Imagine if a man did this to a woman and all the men were like,

00:25:05.900 saying how evil a woman was or how bad or how she was bad in bed or she doesn't want anything

00:25:13.800 serious it would be pretty like invasive wouldn't it i don't i wouldn't want a google review of the

00:25:19.100 guys that have gone on dates with me that'd be pretty embarrassing um but women just feel like

00:25:25.980 they can do whatever several of these groups where he was called pushy creepy and even weird

00:25:32.440 She made it sound like I was a danger to people with the terminology that she was using.

00:25:38.360 And then people started ridiculing me.

00:25:40.020 They started making fun.

00:25:40.780 There are less simps every day.

00:25:42.240 Let it crumble.

00:25:43.380 Yeah, I know.

00:25:43.840 But some woman, some guy will do it.

00:25:45.640 It just never ends.

00:25:47.140 The group rules are clear.

00:25:49.460 Do not take screenshots or share any information outside of the group.

00:25:53.740 Don't share personal info, phone numbers, family members, or employment information.

00:25:58.500 stating the group is about protecting women, not judging men.

00:26:03.340 Napier contends in his case, those rules weren't followed.

00:26:07.140 They looked at my LinkedIn and they saw my previous employer

00:26:10.300 and they looked it up, who the head of HR was.

00:26:14.260 And then they posted her information.

00:26:17.100 Women never quit.

00:26:18.880 They never quit.

00:26:20.340 Like, oh my gosh, if I could go into detail of the way vengeful women have tried to get back at me,

00:26:26.820 I actually almost reacted to all my hit pieces today, not for just for money, because these usually do pretty well.

00:26:36.140 Her phone number and her email address and told everyone to call.

00:26:41.380 Can you see the other side? Can you see the idea that this was created to weed out a bad dating experience?

00:26:49.820 experience. Yeah. I think that the original idea about, you know, creating a safe spot for

00:26:57.080 Pimping ain't easy. Thank you. Thanks for the super chat, Danny. I appreciate it. This is the

00:27:02.940 last day of the month. So I do get paid next month off of this month's donation. So thank you guys.

00:27:08.780 You could put your hard earned money anywhere and you choose to do it here. So I do appreciate you

00:27:13.100 guys? For women to actually find men who are bad people or violent, things like that, absolutely.

00:27:23.600 I see the need for that, but it's not being used for that. To follow the group rules,

00:27:31.260 a local member chose to speak with me anonymously. She uses the community to make sure she's dating

00:27:37.360 safely. Before I even go on any date, I literally go on that page just to gather just a little bit

00:27:45.180 more information about the person. And at one point when she was in a serious relationship,

00:27:50.800 she looked up her fiance. My answers were within that group based on, you know, the woman that

00:27:56.760 came forward. Yeah. So a lot of times women go to the group and you can kind of see the way women

00:28:02.100 do this. It might not be a group like this, but it's their friend group. It's their family group.

00:28:06.660 women care a lot about being accepted in their group more often than they care about the

00:28:12.340 relationship with the man. I had gone on a date with them. Meanwhile, we were engaged. So it was

00:28:18.060 one of those things I was like, okay, this is exactly what I needed. Matthew Napier has hired

00:28:23.160 attorney Mark Trent. We've had thousands of phone calls and emails from men throughout the country,

00:28:28.220 even globally, from even the UK that have contacted us. Trent gained clients after filing

00:28:33.520 this lawsuit in late July against Meta, the parent company of Facebook, and the are we dating the same

00:28:40.060 guy parent company known as Spill the Tea Incorporated. We would like to have their

00:28:44.820 specific posts taken down. We want to have the group overall taken down because we don't think

00:28:49.480 it has a positive purpose. That suit is working its way through the courts. Meanwhile, the group

00:28:56.000 puts reputations in the court of public opinion. What the group is there for is to really just

00:29:03.420 inform other women as well as protect other women bullying people both men and women and it just it

00:29:11.980 needs to stop and the crazy thing is women feel entitled to not being bullied online but men

00:29:17.680 they feel the right to bully men on the internet and over exaggerated makeup stuff allowed it

00:29:25.100 even the the admins um and the moderators of the group has allowed it so facebook has filed a

00:29:31.960 motion to dismiss that case while a court ruling is still pending here. And Rob, I want to be

00:29:37.100 clear. I'm not in the group. So we looked at it from the outside, but from a check today,

00:29:41.260 it shows that just 40 posts today, I shouldn't say Jeff, that's a lot in one day on that page.

00:29:47.160 And there are pages like this in major. Okay. All right, guys. So we are going to be asking

00:29:53.360 you guys the question, should men take legal actions against these groups and the women

00:29:58.580 running them what is your opinion on whether we are dating the same guy groups are they necessary

00:30:06.260 or is it a case of women not being able to take an owl should men create a similar page why haven't

00:30:13.860 men created similar pages so we're gonna pin that in the description and please call in and let me

00:30:19.700 know what you think if you've ever been posted in one of these groups please call in it's pretty

00:30:24.740 funny um doug mpa are you on the line i am here how's it going i know you've been pinned in these

00:30:33.540 groups uh so i was uh i've talked so i got put in one of those groups because you know me i'm

00:30:44.100 i'm mr ghost women i don't think that you guys if you're dating these women and you're just not

00:30:49.620 feeling it you don't owe her any kind of logical explanation at all who cares but women can't

00:30:54.740 stand it they have to know and they need closure you see it in these um in these romance movies

00:31:00.980 all the time i need closure he owes me that guys you don't owe these women anything no that means

00:31:07.300 they want to get banged out one time by you you should take it guys well actually no because you

00:31:13.060 you know how many guys i know they got the girl pregnant with closure sex that's their own fault

00:31:20.000 wear a condom problem solved take your closure sex wear a condom i don't care how much she says

00:31:26.760 daddy poppy take it off no take keep it on keep it on keep it on get your closer close your sex

00:31:35.740 and get the fuck out that's i mean we talked about this before doug mpa it's it's them they

00:31:42.020 could they could hit it one more time stroke it right and pull out no don't take that don't take

00:31:47.520 that chance she's wrapping her legs around you know like she's not letting you pull out it's the

00:31:53.720 last time she's not letting you pull out so wrap it up fellas get your closure set i'm all for you

00:32:01.260 guys you know you guys deserve some closure sex for the bullshit these women have put you through

00:32:07.580 seriously you've been posted in you've been posted in that group you deserve some closure

00:32:12.620 sex i'm for it um so so varia says safety says the woman clapping oh having sex with hot randoms

00:32:23.100 online yeah i mean they don't care about safety so i've had multiple conversations with multiple

00:32:30.860 women in my life about they're trying to justify why a woman's why women should be able to feel

00:32:38.060 safe at the cost of men's privacy well you have to understand i don't have to understand anything

00:32:43.360 no and and then they're acting like women won't just assume something about you because you're

00:32:51.980 in that group in the first place well if he was a good guy he wouldn't be in this group in the

00:32:56.520 first place yeah true i mean some some women are crash out and they can't take an l so they post

00:33:05.960 them anyway 100 true yeah i mean just take that l and women will put a guy they don't even know

00:33:14.080 his name on the birth certificate and make him pay child support you don't think that they

00:33:17.840 wouldn't put some guy they wouldn't even know his face in a facebook group and say i went on

00:33:22.720 a date with this guy he's he's a piece of shit and if there was they would if there was a directory

00:33:28.160 of women it would be far worse than the directory of men yeah like if there was yeah go on oh well

00:33:35.360 i'm sorry go ahead go ahead because i was into some afterwards if there was a directory of women

00:33:40.400 where you could look up women it would include false allegations child support herpes it would

00:33:47.760 it would have such messed up things talking to multiple men at the same time

00:33:54.400 and men don't do that because they think you know what i don't want the drama

00:33:58.720 why actually you tell me doug mpa why would you not do that tell me well so here's the thing

00:34:06.240 first off guys learn how to take l's early in life because life makes them have to number one

00:34:12.800 number two we're taught from young that if you do anything but take the l uh on the chin and

00:34:21.040 keep it moving you're shamed and ridiculed and seen as dangerous you how many videos have we

00:34:26.880 seen online by now where a man will be staying there watching some girl up a spray paint his

00:34:34.400 car or burn up his property and stuff i know he's expected to just take it yeah that's what it is

00:34:42.000 guys we're taught from young if you if you take an l you just have to take it and keep on moving

00:34:46.320 but women aren't and then that's exacerbated by the fact that women don't really start taking l's

00:34:52.960 until they're in their 30s that's why all these broads that were exposed in that t app where the

00:34:57.200 average age is what 33 to 38 or something like that yeah it's when life starts giving it's so

00:35:01.760 crazy how we don't take l's so even almost our if it's 33 to 37 it's almost our mid-30s that we

00:35:08.640 don't take an l yeah and then all of a sudden because i always say this guys women always say

00:35:15.280 oh men will never know what it's like to to be pregnant it's so awful and then give birth and

00:35:21.440 all this pain or whatever blah blah blah i always say well women will never know what it's like

00:35:27.120 to face the amount of rejection that a man has to face women wouldn't be able to take

00:35:32.000 10 of the rejection that the average guy faces let's let's role play here let's role play okay

00:35:39.040 so i'm gonna i want you to reject me and i'll love to learn to take it okay all right okay

00:35:46.000 go ahead all right you're at the grocery store hey can you help me find something i'll be first off

00:35:54.880 i'd say wait are you like a mid or are you i'm are you attractive a mid or no she's a chubby

00:36:01.920 shakes okay oh she's the type of girl hey sir excuse me sir could you help me find something

00:36:08.080 so so if she's the type of girl that's on the the t app i would just say do i know you

00:36:14.720 no you don't but like would you mind helping me like find something really quick and then i'd be

00:36:19.920 be like um i'm actually only in here for a couple of things and then and then i have to go sorry

00:36:26.320 okay but i just had a quick it was like a super quick question is it okay no it's not okay

00:36:32.040 oh okay but thanks though okay have a good day let me log into the t app

00:36:39.380 yeah or i remember hey guys i have uh aj's rant and reactions and i we're actually brothers in

00:36:48.840 real life we're twin brothers so i have my so if a woman comes up and starts talking i say oh yeah

00:36:54.340 wait do i know you because i have a twin brother all right let's try again we're at the gym okay

00:37:02.200 wow that's are you doing is that bench wait so you're doing you have a camera set up or no

00:37:13.480 no no camera setup i'm just coming up i'm just coming up and saying hi is that is that bench

00:37:18.440 are you doing bench right now i'd say um yeah you know i'm exercising uh do i know you you have

00:37:28.600 you have something um what's that on your face what's that on my face i'm like that smile

00:37:36.680 oh then i'd be like well i'm just gonna work out but um i hope you have a good workout though and

00:37:46.060 then i put my earphones back in and i would keep um keep doing what i'm doing you gotta keep it

00:37:51.000 short and sweet and to the point don't even i don't even flirt back i just say hey i don't know

00:37:56.260 you very well um i'm gonna get back to my workout so see you later have you had women approach you

00:38:02.200 the last few years have you noticed any difference um or no it's okay if not i'm just curious well

00:38:09.880 so yes because i always advocate guys when you hit 35 the whole world opens up

00:38:17.240 so yes i have but well here's the thing are you talking about like approach and hit on yeah in

00:38:25.400 real life i've just i've heard a couple guys say they've gotten approached in real life more than

00:38:30.200 ever the last few years i'm just curious if you've experienced that or no so i haven't had women

00:38:38.120 hit on me i've had women initiate conversation that's like the same thing no it's not okay

00:38:45.720 it's not the same thing because a woman hitting on you would literally be like you said hey

00:38:51.320 what's it on your face it's a smile that's hitting on you but women will come up and try to find

00:38:57.240 something to talk about yeah and and women just they they haven't had to do it so they don't know

00:39:04.600 how so guys you think that men stumble talking to women try watching women stumble talking to men

00:39:13.400 women will try to um they'll ask you what your favorite sports team is when you know

00:39:18.760 for a fact that they don't watch sports you know they'll try to or they'll talk about

00:39:27.640 some kind of exercise in the gym that like women don't normally do like oh yeah you're doing flat

00:39:33.320 bench and they don't look like they do flat bench at all you know so there's a difference between a

00:39:40.920 woman initiating contact and a woman hitting on you i saw this and it's funny because a lot of

00:39:46.280 guys they don't know um it's weird for them to get hit on guys put in the chat if you would be

00:39:53.560 okay with a woman walking up to you and just hitting on you and saying hey i think you're

00:39:58.760 attracted you have a nice smile let's go out sometime i saw this video of this girl going

00:40:06.280 up to an influencer being she was like are you single and he's like i'm gonna walk he's like

00:40:11.000 I'm going to walk with God. And she's like, can I join that? I was like, okay, that was smooth,

00:40:23.160 girl. I see you. I don't know why I rejected her because she was pretty, but you know.

00:40:28.520 Yeah. But guys, we think that if a pretty girl is coming up to us in public,

00:40:33.880 that we're about to get got somehow and like if she's like a eight and she's walking up to

00:40:41.000 a somewhat average guy who knows he's average uh we're just like there has to be a camera around

00:40:48.360 or she's gonna set me up to get robbed he was he was a chad he was a chad and he he did have a

00:40:54.740 camera but it was because he was famous but it was i just i just respected the shot do you know

00:40:59.980 mean you got to respect even if women get rejected i have to respect the ones a little bit more i

00:41:06.780 don't respect women but like you know i would give them a little bit more like this much more respect

00:41:12.780 you know at least you shot your shot you know yeah yeah well especially in in this current

00:41:18.460 dating market once again men are being told not to approach women are are too weak to approach

00:41:25.340 or are too scared of rejection so now there's a big staring contest out in public so

00:41:31.980 yeah um is anyone on the line to talk about rb dating the same guy yeah so before i bring the

00:41:38.300 people up like the video guys we really appreciate you being here subscribe to the channel we are on

00:41:43.660 our way to three million so subscribe to the channel thanks to see it it's good to see all

00:41:48.940 all the regulars in the youtube chat and i just wanted to say thank you to joseph jillic oddly

00:41:55.300 man and who else is in the audacity chat i think that's everyone in the audacity chat thank you for

00:42:02.800 being in the audacity chat everyone who really appreciate it oh and rodolfo you're in there too

00:42:07.960 good to see you first up we have

00:42:13.480 been ben is coming up uh

00:42:23.000 benny there hey yeah sorry about what's going on ben what's going on hey i uh i actually

00:42:31.560 oh can you hear me all right i can hear you now okay sorry about that yeah i'm here okay so tell

00:42:44.500 me what you think um do you have you ever been in one of those groups um what do you think men

00:42:50.400 should sue should men create a similar page what are your thoughts i had to mute that i think that

00:42:57.720 um men should sue i was actually posted on one of these pages recently actually it's

00:43:04.840 happened three times but the most recent one really pissed me off okay chad

00:43:11.800 i'm not a chad really i don't think but um tyrone gloctavius gavin

00:43:21.080 and and i made a post about it because it just really pissed me off and then

00:43:25.640 what i don't get is is that to me it's just a slander group i i i don't see it as any other

00:43:32.920 thing that like that's all that i've really seen on there and i know some of the guys on there

00:43:37.160 sometimes and you can tell that they're lying um because you know these people um and i really just

00:43:45.080 think they need to get rid of it and i think if they can sue they really should i wish i could

00:43:49.320 sue you know i mean but and you should see the post i made though it's pretty funny anyways

00:43:54.680 that's all i have to share can you tell me can you tell me like what was the story they put on

00:43:59.880 and what actually happened i mean i could i could show you the post i guess well you can just give

00:44:06.040 me you don't have to show it word for word but give me a summary of what they said happened

00:44:09.960 versus what actually happened okay so i'm in i'm on the facebook dating and then all of a sudden

00:44:15.960 a friend of mine tells me that i'm on this web page a girlfriend you know not a girlfriend but

00:44:21.480 a friend who's a girl so then a couple other girlfriends that i know start telling me about

00:44:25.880 it so they start sending me screenshots of it so now i'm like reading i'm like oh my god this is

00:44:31.080 crazy and i do have kind of a color colorful past but i'm really not a violent i'm not a violent

00:44:36.760 person or anything like that but i did have like drug issues like throughout my life but i don't

00:44:41.240 anymore um anyways i anytime that i'm dating someone i will tell them who i am like oh you

00:44:48.920 like i don't do people really hide who they are that much when they get into relationships because

00:44:54.200 in my experience that that hasn't been the case on either end with me or her um so yeah i think

00:45:02.760 it's just entirely fucked up and that mentioned mentioned i was talking to one of my friends

00:45:10.120 and i said look um the sad part about it is i know a lot of guys you know a lot of red pill

00:45:17.880 channels like oh yeah you know don't spend more than 20 on a date and only take her to coffee and

00:45:22.520 guys a lot of us still take women on traditional dates especially a lot of us older guys that's

00:45:29.640 what we were taught to do yeah and so you plan this date no you met this woman you plan this

00:45:37.400 date you pay for this date to invite this woman into your life to do this to you

00:45:43.560 understand i'm saying it's a no starter yeah it's almost like you're paying her to trash you in a

00:45:51.060 way yes it's a no starter there is no future with a girl who's done that and i don't understand why

00:45:56.500 they don't see that either yeah well usually it's a woman that took was the girl that said that

00:46:01.940 about you someone who took an l like that you wouldn't have seen anyway i feel like it's just

00:46:06.680 their crash out on the way out you know what i mean yeah i can expound so um what happened was

00:46:13.000 okay so the girl and she kept talking to me and then she saw you know whatever they said and she's

00:46:17.480 like well i still kind of want to see them and go i asked all the girls i go did you post me on this

00:46:23.560 and she admitted it and i said that's really messed up and i kept talking to her um but i

00:46:29.240 held my ground with it because it's just i was i was not going to go on a date with her what was

00:46:33.160 her counter argument would be as the women i talked to like well you have to understand that

00:46:37.560 women need a safe place and it's not about you it's about the women it's just like are you trying

00:46:42.520 convince me that it's okay that my privacy was compromised yeah so so they think that it's to

00:46:49.000 protect women i do not think it's to protect women in fact i think probably a bunch of women messaged

00:46:56.200 me after so i'm kind of thinking that it does the opposite um really so you got posted and they like

00:47:03.560 found you on instagram or where'd they message you yeah so either like you know friend people

00:47:10.040 i'm friends with um people that knew me mostly you know but a lot of girls messaged me that

00:47:16.520 you know i could probably and if i'm such a like horrible horrible person they don't know me like

00:47:21.880 it's like from my hometown like acquaintances right like we all grew up to it together even

00:47:26.680 if we're in a friend group you know yeah um but um i don't i don't know i again i just i'm off track

00:47:35.080 with my thinking because it's been pissing me off for days i like lost sleep over it and

00:47:40.680 i just just kind of done with it and again like i said it was the third time it's happened and

00:47:45.720 i don't understand why a girl would think that she can post your photo on one of these

00:47:49.640 groups and that you would ever like isn't the goal like long term or marriage or like a stable

00:47:54.760 relationship but like you you've started it off with that that there is i don't just i don't see

00:48:00.360 a future with that um so i don't understand why they don't see that part of it and like personally

00:48:06.200 i i wouldn't want like a guy reviewing like what kind of pressure does that put you under if

00:48:11.240 someone's reviewing every date that you go on like come on ladies you've never been an

00:48:16.200 a lot of date i have like come on like ever in your whole life you've never done anything

00:48:22.920 a little weird a little awkward like come on the main thing about it is women will will okay

00:48:30.360 the majority of women still won't approach a man, date a man, court a man, and propose to a man,

00:48:35.880 but they have all sorts of opinions as to how men do it. That's why women shouldn't be able

00:48:43.000 to do this kind of thing because unless you're going to step up to the plate and approach a man

00:48:48.520 and plan a date, well then stop talking about how men do it. So once again, now we have

00:48:55.160 the great staring contest now yeah i'm just afraid that at some point that you know it's going to get

00:49:01.400 me in trouble i i had a marriage that went it was horrible i was i was like i was behaving really

00:49:08.360 good i had a business me and my father were working and i meet this girl i get her pregnant

00:49:12.520 i break up with her i didn't know she was pregnant she tells me she's pregnant so i marry her so i'm

00:49:16.840 a simp like this is like 12 13 years ago right i marry her then later on i found out she's cheating

00:49:23.160 on me the whole time, all this stuff. She ultimately gets into drugs. Then I leave her,

00:49:28.360 and then I found out she's prostituting. This is well before fucking OnlyFans. This is when

00:49:33.640 it was still a shocker. Ultimately, I left her. We had a kid together. Through that,

00:49:42.440 I ended up with my own drug and depression issues. I got through that myself, so I'm not clean,

00:49:48.360 and i admit that but like i i still don't think that you should be able to put my photo up on

00:49:52.920 something that's a public forum if you want to search me like say on a you know like a background

00:49:59.960 check or or ask people about me and all that i think that's totally fine you know but it's a

00:50:05.320 public forum that's it's a big difference and if you wanted if you cared about your safety

00:50:10.520 why are women going over to men's houses they don't know you know what i mean like for like

00:50:16.280 hookups and whatever like there's women that go straight to men's houses off of tinder and

00:50:21.400 whatever if you're really that concerned about safety why are we going out at night why are we

00:50:25.480 solo traveling like come on women don't give a about safety cool um i think it turns them on

00:50:36.200 yeah okay thanks for calling it call it anytime okay you're welcome bye bye cool great call we've

00:50:44.200 had some really good calls as of late job okay next up says zoom user

00:50:53.720 zoom user

00:50:57.240 zoom user you're on mute why you didn't change your name it just says zoom user i have no idea

00:51:03.800 we're going to give you a couple more seconds because you're probably listening to the youtube

00:51:07.800 it says zoom user zoom user going once zoom user going twice

00:51:14.840 zoom user i'm putting you back in the waiting room okay next up we have peter

00:51:24.920 peter's coming up guys hit that like button we really appreciate it subscribe if you haven't

00:51:29.320 already and we have peter are you there peter

00:51:37.960 peter i'm not gonna say your last name peter peter going once peter going twice

00:51:49.960 she's back in the waiting room next up we have nick

00:51:56.640 yes how you doing hey nick how are you i'm doing fantastic pearl how are you

00:52:05.960 are you chad tyrone gloctavius have you been in these groups well i called in uh i think last

00:52:13.920 week or two weeks ago i was on the the std okay calling show you remember me um can you remind

00:52:21.620 me what was your story and i'm bad with names i'm 20 i was 21 years old caught chlamydia oh yeah i

00:52:28.720 with this guy and i gave it to 10 girls around six girls happens to the best of us yeah yeah okay did

00:52:36.560 that get you in the i'm gonna read a super chat but then think about the question did that get

00:52:41.280 you in the group or was it something else support from a woman who identifies falling into the

00:52:45.760 category not all not all not all love your content it helps protect my son thank you alexia um i do

00:52:53.120 say not all and i i guess i mean it but pretty much all 99 you know but i guess there might be one

00:53:03.120 okay sorry um do you have an answer to the question um did that get you in the group or did

00:53:07.120 something else well so actually that did not get me in the group actually but i was posted in the

00:53:14.080 group uh it's been like three months ago now okay um but i got blasted in there someone posted like

00:53:22.240 a picture of me is like any red flags before i go on a date with them anyone know him that's what

00:53:28.000 was posted it wasn't even like she never even hung out with me i was just texting her um and

00:53:33.680 then the comments blew up because i i would text a lot of girls a lot of the same texts

00:53:41.200 and apparently they didn't like that so they were every girl in the city was posting our

00:53:46.800 screenshot of our conversations of me sending them the same videos and pictures and all that

00:53:51.920 was it at least fire like did you look good in the pictures at least no it wasn't even like pictures

00:53:57.440 of me it was just like uh like sometimes like i'll send a picture of like my motorcycle and

00:54:02.240 then i'll just send it to like 100 girls or whatever and there was like six girls like oh

00:54:07.440 my god he texted me at the same time the same picture all this and then they were all just

00:54:13.040 they were just loving it they're like who's this guy uh he's kind of handsome like they were just

00:54:17.600 gassing me up in the comments but they were like yeah he just seems like he just wants to hook up

00:54:22.760 though like that's why i never saw from your point of view was it true did you just want to hook up

00:54:28.160 or were you open to something serious no i'm always open for the right one but were the women

00:54:36.120 posting you were you open with them or no well the thing is i had no idea who they even were so like

00:54:41.920 i don't know okay like i have a big list of phone numbers which i just spam through whenever like i

00:54:47.480 want something but but the fact is like most of the comments from in the comments though was girls

00:54:54.660 that we'd never been on a date with so the actual girls that i did like have relationships with or

00:55:01.180 like i slept with none of them got posted no one said anything bad about me on a date which i'm

00:55:07.420 glad for but i did have one person asked me these like um she made up a lie in the comments she was

00:55:14.100 like um if i remember she was like yeah my friend met him at the bar and he was dancing with her

00:55:21.380 but then he turned around to talk to another girl while dancing with my friend which wasn't true

00:55:26.580 i was helping this girl that was on the floor that fell down but then she got mad at me saying

00:55:31.960 i was trying to hit on another girl so she did say that but most of the girls really didn't care

00:55:36.180 about that i didn't but that was the worst thing that got posted on there cool so again pa you got

00:55:43.820 any other questions for him you know it's just what can you do man you're just gonna see less

00:55:50.560 and less guys dating like why because one like i said on the last call you're you're trying to

00:55:56.120 date these girls and they're going in in bad faith it's just costing you money and time dude

00:56:00.820 i have i i completely agree as a guy with like uh like a high body count whatever which a lot

00:56:06.520 of guys in here listen to like certain guys like fresh and fit and stuff like that i do admit that

00:56:12.200 after a while it does get boring and there's limited returns like there's not really any good

00:56:18.400 returns from this lifestyle um all you're really gonna end up getting at the end of the day is

00:56:24.820 you're gonna end up either with a kid or you're gonna end up getting stds or you're gonna end up

00:56:29.840 getting with the charge yeah so it's important to not not have a lifestyle like this where you're

00:56:37.200 constantly everywhere you go like everywhere i go now ever since that post like i go to the bars

00:56:41.920 like girls recognize me they all like no way they recognize you at the bars from that post

00:56:48.320 just so like yeah in the bar girls at the bar would be like oh i seen you on the facebook group

00:56:53.200 and some shit like that yeah i know a guy that was posted in there and like um some of the women at

00:57:00.800 his work walked up that he was friends walked up and said why are you in this group yeah yeah and

00:57:07.040 then he's on the back foot and he and he it's like if you don't say anything they're gonna assume

00:57:12.160 the worst and then so you quote unquote have to explain yourself because someone turned

00:57:16.880 to told a version of a story that never should have heard in the first place yeah i've been lucky

00:57:22.720 i've been lucky but i had my wife my one friend he's more attractive than me he's like a definition

00:57:28.160 of a chad and he he got posted as well and he got like a false allegation on him but um some girl

00:57:35.360 that ended up sleeping with him ended up posting in the comments she was like oh he was such a

00:57:41.840 creep like he was trying to hook up with me and it was just and and i i rejected him and he got

00:57:47.760 upset that's what she said even though she ended up sleeping at his house the whole night and all

00:57:53.120 this so like that ruined his reputation as well so there is guys that do get false falsely accused

00:57:59.280 on there um and there's not really any way you could even defend yourself since the group is

00:58:04.000 private right and if any girl like wants to like uh defend you they'll just ban them as well

00:58:11.200 yeah yeah i agree all right nick thanks for calling in buddy really appreciate it thanks

00:58:16.640 for calling in chad i'm not i'm not a chad i don't believe i don't think i'm a chad i think

00:58:22.560 i'm pretty average looking but i think it's important that like i don't think looks is

00:58:27.520 everything i know pearl always says that but i think there's there's a lot of ugly guys like hey

00:58:32.800 you know you're totally correct for men yeah i don't think it's a hundred percent the look there's

00:58:39.220 a lot of guys that they care too much about looks but girls end up like even in these groups they'll

00:58:43.880 pull some ugly ass guys in there and they're still getting some motion as well so even as an ugly guy

00:58:49.000 you can still have a reputation as well it's not not dealing with the world cool well thanks for

00:58:54.000 calling in okay calling anytime all right thank you bro bye bye okay i'm gonna let in i see

00:59:00.740 friend of the channel

00:59:02.740 Sean what's up

00:59:04.840 buddy

00:59:05.120 what's goody what's good

00:59:10.520 hey Sean how are you

00:59:12.420 super

00:59:14.660 good

00:59:15.180 so tell me have you

00:59:18.340 are we dating the same guy

00:59:20.640 where are you at Thailand

00:59:21.860 yeah they got it

00:59:24.140 come on

00:59:27.000 in Thailand

00:59:27.920 yeah bruv

00:59:29.520 do you i don't even know what language they speak there i don't know that this might sound really

00:59:35.080 dumb is it a different language or is it english no no it's a different language it's called thai

00:59:41.040 so they speak thai okay so can you even read if they if they post about you can can you even read

00:59:46.680 what they're saying yeah pearl google translation stupid question my bad so no no no so tell me

00:59:57.260 have you ever been posted in there did they oh you know what maybe they would put the best breakup

01:00:02.580 ever right yeah right yeah right it was an amazing experience you know exactly but i want some

01:00:12.620 copyrights i want some royalties if they put that in there but no no they have one um they have one

01:00:19.480 for different areas so sometimes you know if you live in like patia then they have one for bangkok

01:00:24.380 So the girls just share information about guys that are dating to make sure that they're not dating the same investment vehicle.

01:00:30.880 They're not invested in the same investment vehicle.

01:00:33.600 That's how I see it.

01:00:34.760 Okay.

01:00:36.180 Have you ever been posted?

01:00:37.720 Go ahead.

01:00:38.240 Have you ever been posted in one?

01:00:41.120 Yeah.

01:00:42.060 But it was just something like, oh, hey, this guy, is anybody dating this guy?

01:00:46.800 But it's kind of weird, too, for me, because I tell girls, like, I'm not exclusive to you.

01:00:51.620 So at the end of the day, if you put me, well, not put me in the chat, but if you just know

01:00:56.460 anything about dating me is I'm never closed on my end, whether I want to do it or not,

01:01:01.140 it's up to me, but I'm never just gave an ultimatum to be closed on my end.

01:01:06.740 And so they don't do it so much, but sometimes they still do it because they want what they

01:01:11.440 want.

01:01:11.700 Right.

01:01:12.200 So boom.

01:01:13.620 Do you ever sell them a dream or no?

01:01:16.980 Nah.

01:01:17.640 Well, being with me is a dream.

01:01:19.580 I don't need to sell you a dream.

01:01:20.720 I'm living the American dream so at the end of the day I don't even sell them that but at the end

01:01:26.100 of the day I know what you mean do I give them experiences that is like a dream then you could

01:01:30.640 say yes but I don't sell them a dream I tell them who I am and what I want but they create their own

01:01:35.340 dreams you know how that goes you know how it is Doug they're gonna create whatever they want I

01:01:39.080 know we have like a little hamster wheel in us at all times um so do you think that men uh do you

01:01:45.160 think they should create their own version of this like are we fucking the same girl app and you can

01:01:50.960 just look her up and then see what her history is has she falsely accused a guy has she done this

01:01:56.720 that what do you think yeah i think guys should fight fire with fire so the guys who's suing

01:02:02.760 guys who's saying hey i'm gonna do this i'm gonna take legal action i think you should do it man

01:02:07.080 i'm not gonna be one of those guys hating in the background oh no men should just shut up and be

01:02:10.600 quiet and take the l no that's why you're losing so net net at the end of the day you know fight

01:02:15.280 fire with fire i don't have nothing against it i think it's a smart thing for people to do

01:02:20.240 yep yep uh this whole men taking the high road thing and men just take yeah yes press charges

01:02:27.540 press charges equal rights is equal lefts all that stuff guys you know yeah give them the

01:02:35.940 equality they ask for exactly i see nothing wrong with providing equality out so at the end of the

01:02:42.840 day yeah if they put you on there and they do that and you feel like as though and you think

01:02:46.580 you should do x y and z go get it done you'll never hear me say nothing run down on you and

01:02:51.800 say hey man real men don't do that no whatever dummies don't do that yeah real real men don't

01:02:57.980 negotiate with terrorists so that's what i would say yeah but we do take them out so

01:03:03.960 all right thanks thanks sean thanks for calling ed no problem peace out oh good

01:03:13.480 talk to you buddy we did take him out that's funny all right we're gonna try it zoom user again

01:03:22.920 yes dog oh you're back yes buddy how you doing good are you a chad tyrone glock tape have you

01:03:32.840 been posted in these groups let me know pearl i'm oh i'm the casanova oh yeah

01:03:41.880 happens to the best of us all right so what they say about you what do the ladies say

01:03:50.600 that's a good question to be honest you have to ask you have to ask the local ladies

01:03:57.560 i i'm not i'm not at liberty to divulge that kind of information because it doesn't appear

01:04:08.220 online at the moment from what i know okay so you're not on those pages

01:04:14.340 so what do you think about them though do you think that they're a legit thing for women to do

01:04:22.580 Do you think it's wrong for women to post guys on there?

01:04:24.640 What do you think?

01:04:27.060 I guess, you know, it's regional, right?

01:04:30.980 So ladies, they love to talk.

01:04:35.240 They love to communicate.

01:04:37.860 They love to feel safe, right?

01:04:41.180 That's important.

01:04:43.420 I guess if...

01:04:44.680 Yeah, but the biggest problem is there's a difference between being safe and feeling safe.

01:04:49.560 a lot of women don't feel safe in some of the safest cities uh in the world and you can call

01:04:57.020 the cops it's like i mean i guess he can rape you but like not for that long the cops are coming

01:05:05.120 if you call 9-1-1 don't say that god no that's the thing in most in most western cities especially

01:05:14.020 the united states women can walk around half naked drunk and nothing happens to them so like

01:05:22.020 this whole in fact they're putting a stat showing that men have less reason to feel safe at night

01:05:28.180 because we're more likely to be victim of a violent crime which happens much more often

01:05:34.340 than an essay so like you know i don't there's feeling safe and then actually being safe and

01:05:42.180 it's funny because a lot of these women who don't feel safe and like you know major cities from the

01:05:47.620 u.s try go into other areas of the world and tell me how safe you feel i yeah i mean i guess maybe

01:05:59.060 that's like also a psychological problem i mean i don't know why they would kind of like you know

01:06:06.180 if if they're like all in their heads and they confront trust their like their girlfriends

01:06:17.620 then maybe like as a like a a cheap kind of like solution is to post in a group and

01:06:30.900 we've talked about it multiple times women can't take else

01:06:33.460 impossible men when were young you probably still remember the first time that you got your heart

01:06:39.940 ripped out the first time you were told that you weren't tall enough that you weren't athletic

01:06:44.020 enough that you don't run fast enough it happens early and and so women have have accepted that

01:06:50.580 men have to take the l's and women don't and if women have to take an l everyone has to pay for

01:06:55.380 it's just like uh in the house okay okay but but but but but do we always accept defeat yes

01:07:04.180 yes most men do every day do yeah they just take it 100 there was maybe a time like 10 years ago

01:07:13.800 i remember more men would be like pushy even if like you said no nowadays they're like okay see

01:07:19.660 Yeah, like they don't care.

01:07:21.740 Yep.

01:07:23.920 Hmm.

01:07:24.780 But even when we're young, you're taught that if you just don't take it,

01:07:29.420 if you don't just take the L and keep it moving, you could be a creep.

01:07:33.420 You're toxically masculine, all this stuff.

01:07:37.460 That's why you see these women.

01:07:41.060 Yeah, but do the do.

01:07:42.520 Why did he keep pursuing me?

01:07:44.860 I told him no, but then he stopped right then.

01:07:47.900 he he's supposed to keep going after i say i mean no doesn't really yet now more than ever no means

01:07:55.100 no to men hey lady how you doing can i get your number well i don't think so okay bye

01:08:00.060 wait where are you going you see that all the time why don't men keep trying after i say no

01:08:06.860 there is no keep trying after you say no once you say no goodbye

01:08:10.380 yeah

01:08:13.260 yeah

01:08:15.500 women just can't take L's dude

01:08:16.820 do you have any other thoughts on the Facebook

01:08:20.020 group

01:08:20.500 the Facebook

01:08:23.660 I'm not even on Facebook

01:08:24.880 I'm on Facebook but like

01:08:26.640 I don't really see the point in being on Facebook

01:08:29.260 alright well thanks for calling

01:08:31.860 in calling anytime alright

01:08:33.440 alright thanks buddy

01:08:35.000 alright

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01:08:56.320 again and it says joining joining doug mpa don't kill me uh-huh i'm so thirsty do you mind talking

01:09:14.400 to them while i fill my water it'll take five yeah go ahead okay i'm like so thirsty i'll be back

01:09:21.840 go ahead uh it's not joining with peter peter are you there

01:09:30.720 peter if i count to three and you're not on there i'm gonna kick you out of the call

01:09:37.280 because it's second time peter going once peter going twice and i'm removing you from the call

01:09:46.000 guys you gotta get your technology together please gotta get your technology together up next we have

01:09:54.220 dan

01:09:55.040 dan's coming into the call please be ready please have your sound connected you're on mute dan

01:10:04.060 dan

01:10:06.420 dan

01:10:09.020 yes gotta get your stuff together dan going once

01:10:15.300 Dan going twice

01:10:17.500 puts you back in the waiting room

01:10:20.000 he's probably listened to the YouTube

01:10:21.780 so he'll probably realize in about

01:10:23.740 10 seconds that I tried to call him into the call

01:10:26.180 okay

01:10:27.400 we have another good friend of the channel

01:10:29.500 Sean

01:10:30.260 with the Eeyore avatar

01:10:35.480 always good to see him in here

01:10:37.600 so I'm going to bring him in here

01:10:38.780 Sean how you doing buddy

01:10:41.400 hey how's it going can you hear me

01:10:43.720 yep how's it going uh going all right man so what do you think about this whole because we've been

01:10:50.300 talking about the t app i think you called it on that one but the facebook groups are we dating

01:10:56.340 the same guy that came first so first off do you think that these guys should legally sue these

01:11:01.680 women and then what do you think about the are we dating the same guy groups so my opinion is no

01:11:08.340 to be honest like i i think guys shouldn't sue because in my in my experience and from what i've

01:11:14.200 seen because i know girls that are like in new york city that are on that page given that there's

01:11:18.400 just so many guys that are i mean there's a higher girl to guy ratio so usually the girls are actually

01:11:24.800 dating the same guy that's actually very yeah that's what i'm saying though you look there's

01:11:29.640 a lot of guys there aren't a lot of guys yeah i mean so over there things are very slanted in

01:11:34.820 men's favor. So that's why I would say there's a lot more active users on those specific cities

01:11:40.300 in particular, whether it's New York City, Albany, like basically everywhere across New York for the

01:11:45.140 most part, like major cities. But I would say like in general, if you're getting posted on there,

01:11:49.940 it's to your benefit because a girl who's not that into you, maybe she goes on a date with you

01:11:54.940 or two, she's not posting you on there. She's only posting you on there if she's highly emotionally

01:12:00.740 invested. And at that point, no matter what feedback she hears, whether it's positive about

01:12:05.500 you or it's negative about you, in my opinion, it's still going to play in your favor. Because

01:12:10.180 from what I've observed is that, because I've been posted on there and, you know, girls who

01:12:15.820 will come to me saying, oh, you know, I heard such and such about you, but they'll be like,

01:12:19.980 oh, I heard it from a friend, but I know someone who's on the forum who like, oh, that was posted

01:12:23.800 about you. And I'll just be like, oh no, you know, that girl was just jealous that, you know,

01:12:28.080 i didn't stick around you know with her but you know she's just sad that you know you're gonna

01:12:32.340 end up with me so like i know i'm obviously lying right but like you know you just play it that way

01:12:37.480 and it just plays with their emotion how did you get posted on there did you did you feel like it

01:12:42.580 was earned or did you feel like it was unwarranted you know go ahead i would say i mean as far as

01:12:50.920 what she was aware of i would say it is unwarranted i think the girls who are generally posting guys

01:12:57.000 on there are already active members of that group because they've been cheated on in the past so

01:13:01.000 they're just bitter and jaded to some extent they just think all men cheat which okay fair enough

01:13:06.500 there's a lot of there's some truth to that but you know at the same time like i i would say it's

01:13:12.020 unwarranted i didn't do anything in that interaction that would have led her to believe that

01:13:15.800 uh but no i mean my observation is it tends to play to guys favors who do get posted on there

01:13:22.460 because whether you get positive feedback or negative feedback uh what's that saying all

01:13:26.960 press is good press yeah and if no one's posting anything like if no one's responding anything

01:13:32.380 about you you know that's probably you know neutral at best but i i would say in general

01:13:37.820 it does play to the guy's favor because you're already like you already own the real estate

01:13:41.680 inside her brain if that makes sense because she's probably thinking about you all the time

01:13:44.720 uh but yeah i mean i would say they should honestly rename that group to am i in a

01:13:50.540 situationship you know what i mean yeah do you know what i found that some people haven't even

01:13:57.340 met the guy yet it's like do you expect him to be loyal now yeah i mean i don't know why they

01:14:04.340 had that expectation it's very weird to go along with that they don't even say what dating is

01:14:10.840 like me i saw the girl once and she put me on there because i ghosted her

01:14:17.540 and i'm like i don't owe you anything when you didn't even like you guys weren't even hooking

01:14:24.460 up right sorry you didn't even get to that point i know but that's my point i'm like like already

01:14:30.180 so it's like are we dating listen what's the t there is no t because i don't i just didn't want

01:14:35.740 to talk to you anymore see because because that's what i'm saying women have been telling men for

01:14:42.280 past 60 years we don't owe you our time our resources our bodies anything but they don't

01:14:47.880 like how men are responding i don't owe you anything either the t app is women assuming that

01:14:54.440 men owe them transparency men owe them something socially we don't owe you anything and they're

01:15:01.720 trying to make up for the fact that like men aren't giving that to them and that's what pisses

01:15:06.520 me out the most men may have had to accept this dynamic but women are doing everything

01:15:13.640 to stop equality from happening once again 50 60 years we don't owe you anything if i tell you no

01:15:20.440 no leave me alone but then but but then men do the same thing they can't stand it i'm on a

01:15:27.400 conceptual level here you know take that l let's say we should make a commercial that's like how

01:15:35.480 to take the l ladies ladies ladies go ahead no i was gonna say like so a friend of mine in new

01:15:42.600 york city she's she actually posted and this was like about a month ago a guy who she was basically

01:15:48.440 dating and quite frankly still is dating uh and you know basically the comments that came back

01:15:54.360 was oh he's a nice guy and and you know oh you know just we we things did not match up and things

01:16:00.120 like that and i'm talking to her because like i'm trying to get to know you know what is this guy

01:16:03.720 i like and i realized this guy's a brokie he's a bum and somehow this guy's getting posted on there

01:16:08.540 so that you know like it doesn't make sense to me like why girls are posting usually low quality

01:16:14.120 guys that are on there other than like you know drama that's why yeah it's just emotions and

01:16:19.340 drama that are quite frankly on there and then you know they'll stay in these situationships forever

01:16:23.420 and then wonder why the guys you know are not committing it doesn't make sense to me to in my

01:16:29.100 opinion i i think if they're posting the guy on there they've already lost if that makes sense

01:16:33.140 like i don't i don't think anyone who's ever posted a guy on these forums has ever actually

01:16:37.460 ended up in a real relationship with those guys let alone married yeah i agree so i mean yeah i

01:16:45.700 mean so so my take on is i i think uh it is an invasion of privacy i will say that because i

01:16:50.580 don't know how often they actually take those pictures down uh and obviously i don't think men

01:16:55.220 want their you know pictures on the internet forever you know undisclosed and on the on the

01:17:00.740 t app they let you put the book the guy's phone number where he lives where he works yeah they

01:17:08.180 have everything on there like oh yeah it's not that bad it can be that bad they're literally

01:17:15.300 posting all of your private information your phone number your address what i never understood is

01:17:21.460 like you know you would think they'd be just trying to figure out is that guy married or

01:17:24.900 something like that or like is he in a relationship but that's usually not it it's like it's almost

01:17:30.100 like it's become more normalized and i think it's because like you know whenever when i started

01:17:34.020 using online dating i noticed just about every girl i went on a date with was searching me on

01:17:38.740 linkedin and i could tell because it could kind of say you know who your searches are coming from

01:17:42.420 and you can see what companies that they're at and it's pretty much the person who i recently

01:17:46.660 went on a date with and i think it's just become more normalized in women's mind that any information

01:17:51.540 that they can find about you is now fair game so whether it's you know social media stalking you

01:17:57.460 or you know using these forums that they believe only women have access to that now it's become

01:18:02.820 more and more legitimized i i think it's just become more normalized but to me it doesn't make

01:18:07.700 any sense as far as quote-unquote safety because if safety is concerned like why are there so many

01:18:12.020 girls who will meet you know strangers who they've never met before as opposed to guys who they know

01:18:15.860 in real life like that used to not be a thing 20 years ago like yeah that makes you know you just

01:18:20.420 like the drama we just like the drama yep yeah i mean 20 years ago right the idea of a girl being

01:18:27.940 on match.com or a guy being on match.com was considered very weird like people would just

01:18:32.340 question that and now i think the idea of searching up strangers is now more legitimized so

01:18:39.140 women women will get baby rabies because one woman gets pregnant and they're so jealous of the

01:18:45.700 of the status that the of what the attention that the woman is getting from being pregnant

01:18:52.500 that they'll go out and get pregnant yeah that is you think that women aren't just posting stuff

01:18:59.460 about men to participate in the conversation and get the same amount of likes and attention

01:19:05.220 in these groups come on now women will make a stupid mistake like getting pregnant by some loser

01:19:11.060 Just to be able to participate in a friends group with a bunch of other women pregnant.

01:19:16.560 Come on now.

01:19:17.720 No, that's true.

01:19:18.380 I mean, you know, I've gone on dates with girls and I'll take them back to my place.

01:19:21.500 And in my neighborhood, there's pretty much a lot of new couples that have like kids and stuff like that.

01:19:26.700 So they're like, you know, they have their first kid or second kid.

01:19:29.460 They're all like under seven years old because there's like a good elementary school around.

01:19:33.660 And so anytime I take a girl for a walk in that neighborhood, you know, after a date, they start like thinking, oh, you know, I could get married to this guy.

01:19:40.720 I could start having kids with this guy.

01:19:42.620 So I think that's definitely is true.

01:19:44.340 Like, you know, when they start seeing their friends have kids,

01:19:48.120 they start thinking, oh, no, I got to have kids and I got to find a guy.

01:19:51.640 And who's going to give me commitment?

01:19:53.820 And, you know, is this guy a commit-a-phobe?

01:19:55.720 Is he just leading me on?

01:19:56.720 So I think that's why they go on this sort of T-app.

01:19:59.340 Are we dating the same guy type stuff?

01:20:01.220 But to be honest, any girl who's 35 who's basically on those forums,

01:20:03.980 I think they're pretty much all screwed.

01:20:05.760 They're all going to be on that, what is it, Ask Women Over 40 subreddit?

01:20:08.940 pretty soon you know what i'm talking about right all those bitter women like they pretty much are

01:20:13.820 the same girls that are on uh you know the ask women over 30 10 years later you know and they're

01:20:18.940 the same ones that are going to be on that t app and whatnot so cool all right well thanks for

01:20:25.180 calling sean always a good call and always good insight yeah thanks for calling in thanks guys

01:20:32.540 uh next uh thanks for um doing that while i got my water oh yeah of course i usually try to fill

01:20:38.460 it before the show but yeah you look like you you were kind of hurting a little bit

01:20:47.020 okay so we're gonna bring up joe and then i'm gonna try dan again joe are you there hey hey

01:20:52.860 how's it going hey joe how are you hey good good i just had a couple of thoughts i wanted to share

01:21:00.380 I haven't actually been on one of these apps myself, but I have had false accusations and, you know, my wife is trying to take the kids away and everything.

01:21:14.400 So what I was thinking, and I saw, I've been watching a lot of content related to this T app thing, and I saw there was a man version of it, apparently called T-Born, but it was within a couple of days, it was banned from all of the app stores, from Apple and Google and everybody.

01:21:34.660 But what I was thinking was, I don't know if you could do Facebook groups or whatever, but I was thinking that men should do a version of it, but actually follow the rules where you just post a picture, maybe a first name, not reveal everybody's full name and address and everything.

01:21:55.760 and then if you have

01:21:58.200 like court documents or something

01:21:59.640 basically just say are you currently dating them

01:22:02.220 or when did you date them

01:22:03.560 give a date range

01:22:04.620 because that's supposedly what the whole thing was about

01:22:07.980 in the first place

01:22:08.700 just are you dating this person at the same time

01:22:11.080 that I'm dating them

01:22:12.060 and then you could have multiple people line up

01:22:16.040 and it could show overlap

01:22:17.500 but then if you had like court documents

01:22:20.440 or something

01:22:21.140 like my ex has

01:22:23.560 and aggravated assault with a deadly weapon from 2007 or whatever.

01:22:29.860 I've got those documents, so I could maybe submit them,

01:22:34.720 and then a moderator could basically authenticate them

01:22:38.320 and then just put aggravated assault with a deadly weapon 2007

01:22:43.140 without revealing the entire document to the entire world or whatever.

01:22:50.420 So anyway, that's what I was thinking.

01:22:52.180 I was thinking guys should do it, but they should do it right.

01:22:54.340 And, you know, not just docs everybody and make up a bunch of dumb stories like only facts, please.

01:23:01.300 You know what I mean? And basically show them like, yes, this is this can be a good idea,

01:23:06.740 but you can do it right and not just embarrass everybody.

01:23:10.660 Also, the last time I thought, oh, go ahead.

01:23:13.660 Look, I'm for equality, man.

01:23:16.740 I don't think that you see you're kind of saying that men should take the higher ground

01:23:22.020 and you just you just the right way but why why i mean because i mean i mean because anybody can

01:23:30.660 make up stories about anybody then the whole thing is completely worthless because men are actually

01:23:35.140 held to the rules women aren't so it's like well no because i think i think the idea does actually

01:23:42.220 have value like you know um i you know if i'm dating somebody i want to know if other guys are

01:23:50.420 seeing her she's seeing other people behind my back or whatever but you're never gonna really

01:23:54.740 know anyway i mean you just assume she is because it's if if the if if the woman's even slightly

01:24:01.780 attractive it's easy for her to sleep with other people if you assume she is though

01:24:06.500 well then what do you want to know for if you assume she is

01:24:11.140 it's still it would still be nice to know for sure like like for example um would you tell her

01:24:20.100 or would you just go like what would be your plan

01:24:25.220 i here here's like here's like a very specific example so like um

01:24:34.180 in my my marriage lasted 13 years and uh ended in december of 2024. so um and and after after the

01:24:45.140 fact i've looked into it and i missed a bunch of uh apparently very obvious red flags but um

01:24:52.900 starting about seven years ago when we moved into the town that we had moved into

01:24:58.080 um my wife started saying that she wanted to go out she liked singing karaoke i've never really

01:25:03.680 been into karaoke or whatever so like about twice a month sometimes three times a month she would go

01:25:10.660 out on the weekends or on Wednesdays

01:25:13.000 or whatever the day was that they had

01:25:14.520 karaoke or whatever. And she would go

01:25:16.700 out and have some drinks

01:25:18.520 and, you know, I felt like

01:25:20.560 she needed a night out. She was always like,

01:25:22.640 I hate being cooped up with the kids and this and that

01:25:24.740 or whatever.

01:25:26.500 So, now that

01:25:28.580 she left me in December, I'm like,

01:25:31.960 everybody was telling me when she left, they're like,

01:25:34.560 there's no way she would leave unless she had another guy.

01:25:37.000 Right? Or somebody to stay with

01:25:38.860 somebody else who's taking care of her.

01:25:40.620 Why did you just say she had one?

01:25:41.400 Like, what's the point of even knowing?

01:25:44.440 Well, I'm just saying, like, I would,

01:25:48.500 I would have been, if I had been able to know earlier,

01:25:55.680 then I think I would have been better prepared

01:25:57.600 because she very specifically basically tried to blindside me.

01:26:01.840 She basically just left with the kids and didn't say a single word to me.

01:26:04.640 She never talked about divorce.

01:26:06.000 She never said she wanted to separate.

01:26:07.420 she never said anything she just disappeared with the kids and then about 30 days later i get hit

01:26:14.520 with this uh court notice or whatever saying that she wants a restraining order and i'm a danger to

01:26:20.180 she's afraid of me and everybody you know i'm apparently the worst person on the planet earth

01:26:24.100 um but the last time i talked to you i did say we had a hearing on july 22nd

01:26:29.460 um and we had that hearing and uh a big surprise to me she had the kids taken away from her

01:26:39.600 the custody evaluator no way uh had an argument with her right the custody of the evaluator is

01:26:46.320 making recommendations on what should be done with the kids and she had a fight she had a fight with

01:26:51.360 the custody evaluator and then the custody evaluator got cps involved and had the kids

01:26:56.480 taken away from her do you have them now then no nobody has them but when they when they took the

01:27:04.600 kids away from her that means they don't have to pay her child support anymore and and i didn't

01:27:09.340 and i didn't know this i think everybody should know this um the office of the attorney general

01:27:15.340 will garnish your paycheck automatically if you if you have a pending divorce uh that involves

01:27:22.680 child support like i thought they could only garnish your paycheck like if uh you were behind

01:27:28.200 on payments or if you messed something up or no they start taking money out of your paycheck

01:27:35.420 immediately and if the judge thinks that you have investments that could be liquidated they

01:27:42.660 they're basically taking 65 of my paycheck since january and then on top of that they were trying

01:27:51.320 to charge me $800 a month for child visitation. So basically, 100% of my paycheck has been going

01:27:59.680 down the tubes since January. But that's all stopped at the hearing at July 22nd. So that's

01:28:07.840 all good news. Now they're going to do another round of basically fitness evaluations or whatever

01:28:14.800 Everybody has to basically prove that they're not insane.

01:28:20.780 But also, good news on the other side of the good news was my mom had actually taken care of my nieces and nephews when my sister was getting divorced a couple years ago.

01:28:33.720 And so she wants to take care of the kids.

01:28:37.300 And so all she has to do is get the home study done from CPS, and then she can probably get the kids.

01:28:46.740 And the other good news is I don't have to pay for visitation anymore.

01:28:50.760 So I get free visitation, and my paycheck's not getting garnished.

01:28:55.300 Anyway, but I know that's all side information, but, man, I didn't know any of this.

01:29:01.060 I didn't know any of this until I was right in the middle of it.

01:29:03.240 That's what happens. You have a lot of guys, they go down to Kinko's and make their copies and put out everything.

01:29:10.960 They think they're all ready, then they go to actual court.

01:29:14.520 It's insane what they can get away with.

01:29:18.120 And basically, that's the other thing I was thinking about related to this T-app,

01:29:22.420 is women can say anything they want, and it's like everybody automatically believes them.

01:29:28.180 Same thing in court.

01:29:29.000 Like the wife can make any kind of accusations that she wants against the husband, saying he's scary or he's dangerous or he's emotionally distant.

01:29:38.260 Who's not emotionally distant, right?

01:29:40.680 But you know what?

01:29:42.020 You're emotionally distant to a woman that's trying to destroy you.

01:29:47.320 Gee, imagine that.

01:29:48.480 Oh, yeah, exactly.

01:29:49.980 Like, yeah, exactly.

01:29:50.860 Like she would she would she would try to start these fights and she'd be yelling at me and then she'd say, well, you're just shutting down.

01:29:57.040 You're just emotionally shutting down.

01:29:58.420 what i'm like what what am i supposed to do you want me to scream back at you like that's not

01:30:03.060 gonna help anything like we've you know this is this is just dumb yeah um but anyway i was just

01:30:11.060 saying and we're gonna move on to the next caller because we okay okay thanks for calling in all

01:30:15.620 right yeah yeah thanks thanks thanks for the check-in all right next up we have dan

01:30:22.260 i think if there was a woman in the call queue earlier call back in because i was going to bring

01:30:31.840 you up um but they're not there anymore danny there hi can you hear me yeah hey dan um are you

01:30:40.860 a chad were you put in the group are we dating the same guy so yeah um i was actually posted in

01:30:47.820 there, uh, three times. Um, the first time I was ever posted, I kind of actually deserved it.

01:30:56.700 Cause at the time it was, uh, this was, uh, December of 2023 and, uh, my, I was with my

01:31:03.920 girlfriend at the time and I was on a dating app. So yeah, I got, I got busted, uh, cheating and

01:31:11.560 someone, someone was asking about me, seeing if they were, you know, dating this guy and whatnot.

01:31:16.160 and um someone from my work who i was friends with on facebook uh obviously you know like

01:31:24.860 noticed that i was posted on there and then i'm guessing it was her who messaged my girlfriend

01:31:30.700 and you know that that relationship ended um just so fast hold on cpro you see what i said

01:31:38.000 about people at your job and stuff there are people at your job in your personal life that

01:31:42.680 will go on there i mean i guess his was blatant but you know being put in there opens up to people

01:31:49.400 and opens you up to people in your life seeing you in there anyway go ahead dan yeah and um but

01:31:56.600 it's kind of funny because that my my ex-girlfriend uh nine months later after that relationship

01:32:03.380 ended she messaged me out of the blue and cheated on on her current boyfriend uh with me

01:32:12.300 nine months later saying she messaged me how much she missed me and saying that she wanted a family

01:32:18.240 with me. And so that was kind of funny that she broke up with me for cheating and then she ends

01:32:22.740 up going and cheating on her boyfriend. But yeah, anyway, four months. So four months later after

01:32:28.500 that happened, there was this other girl who posted me in there for, she got mad at me for

01:32:34.640 ghosting. I hooked up with her a couple of times and then we were going to meet up a third time,

01:32:39.700 but then I just, I just honestly wasn't in it. Like, I don't know. It didn't feel like it.

01:32:45.000 And then she posted in, in there saying, Oh, I was a, you know, I was an asshole or whatever.

01:32:50.360 And, um, she ended up reporting me on a bumble and hinge for ghosting. And then I got kicked

01:32:57.700 off of there for ghosting, you know? And, um, and then later the third time that I was posted,

01:33:06.800 um was i believe it was november of 2024 was the last time and uh this girl and i had hooked up

01:33:17.480 or whatever a couple times and um she was just asking you know she's like oh i heard this guy

01:33:25.360 was posted in here before for cheating on his girlfriend i just wanted to make sure that he

01:33:29.000 wasn't dating anyone you know and then i had someone else from my work who i didn't know i

01:33:35.980 worked at a hospital so of course it was like these nurses you know and um she um she was saying

01:33:45.000 that she made up this crazy rumor saying that i was sleeping around in the hospital which wasn't

01:33:52.260 true at all she was saying i was sleeping with like 80 percent of the nurses in the hospital that

01:33:56.820 i've only only slept with one nurse at the hospital at that hospital but and she was like

01:34:02.540 saying I was spreading STDs. Um, some, some other girl who I, who I did go on a date with was mad

01:34:09.740 saying that, Oh, like he, I'm a dickhead for like ending the date in like 45 minutes. Um,

01:34:18.120 uh, what is the girl who posted me the second time saying that I ghosted her came on. Another

01:34:24.600 girl said that I was, uh, I was an ass because I ghosted her, uh, because she sent me a picture

01:34:30.860 of her body and then I didn't like it so I just stopped talking to her did you say you didn't

01:34:40.600 like it or did you know I just what was wrong with it flat oh yeah yeah she had like cellulite

01:34:49.560 and whatnot yeah she was she was chubbier than I thought and um she sent me a picture of a body

01:34:54.900 And like, she just sent it. And then I didn't say anything.

01:34:59.660 So I might be a little bit of an ass for that, but I don't know. But, uh,

01:35:03.700 yeah. So, so that is what happened. Uh, but yeah, I, the, the, the thing,

01:35:08.820 the whole thing about the, the STDs and whatnot, uh,

01:35:12.460 saying that I was spreading and I never had an STD in my life. So, and,

01:35:16.700 and then I, and I know I've seen that girl who I worked with before,

01:35:21.420 but i never really knew her and she was she was gross like this girl was like a 1.5 out of 10

01:35:29.120 she was gross and then so i had no idea why she mentioned me like that and then my my best friend's

01:35:38.540 ex-girlfriend was saying that it was like commenting like on my sex life like saying that

01:35:44.060 um like oh you know he's he's had girls come in and out but i hadn't heard nothing about him

01:35:49.640 recently. I was like, why, why, why would you even say that? Like, I'm not, you know, I don't

01:35:54.600 know. It's, it's, it was weird. And the whole thing, um, made me mad enough, uh, to the point

01:36:01.040 where I had made this, uh, are we dating the same guy exposed group on Facebook? And, um,

01:36:09.960 I had it, it was running for about, I don't know, three months, something like that. Uh, and, and

01:36:14.980 started like the followers on it started picking up so fast like i had about 5 000 followers before

01:36:20.820 we finally got we finally got banned because women just kept reporting the group kept reporting the

01:36:25.780 group and and what we were doing is me and my girlfriend uh my current girlfriend um were

01:36:31.860 screenshotting uh are we dating the same guy post because she was in there you know and then we were

01:36:36.740 just posting everything that they were posting and yeah and like yeah we would like you know when we

01:36:41.620 We see we would, you know, when they would talk shit about, you know, a guy on there, we would do the same.

01:36:50.680 Like we would bully that girl back and, you know, us where talk smack about her.

01:36:58.720 And then that's what that's why our group got banned.

01:37:03.000 But I was like, well, we're doing the same thing that they were doing.

01:37:06.940 Why did our group get banned?

01:37:08.660 You know what I mean?

01:37:09.160 and these girls were so mad about that exposed group and like all these it was so funny they

01:37:14.840 were just like oh you don't care about women's safety you don't care about women's safety

01:37:18.140 it's not about women's safety i literally don't care about women's safety

01:37:22.620 like what more do you guys want you have the police you can call i mean it's pretty safe

01:37:29.680 outside um yeah exactly i don't know like yeah if a man does rape you on a date it's pretty easy

01:37:36.640 to go press charges like you'll probably win even if you're lying so like what more do you want i i

01:37:43.920 just think that you know modern women always talk about their intuition and their discernment all

01:37:48.960 this stuff you either have it or you don't you can't say that you're you know okay you have all

01:37:54.480 this intuition and women know before guys know and women mature faster and stuff but then have

01:37:59.840 this victim narrative would they have to be protected from these horrible men

01:38:06.720 yeah i know and then like yeah my ex-girlfriend being a hypocrite breaking up with me and then

01:38:11.200 cheating on yeah and i don't know that's just they're they're hypocrites it's it's it's funny

01:38:16.880 but yeah man all right i gotta go my girlfriend's about to be here in a couple minutes and

01:38:20.800 well thank you for letting me talk i'm glad you found a non-crazy one so

01:38:25.360 though. Yes, she is so far

01:38:27.480 the most sane one I've ever seen.

01:38:29.360 Thanks for calling in.

01:38:31.300 No problem. Thank you.

01:38:33.960 And that is everyone.

01:38:36.440 Cool.

01:38:38.680 You got any

01:38:39.340 final thoughts, my

01:38:41.120 infamous

01:38:41.660 friend?

01:38:46.320 No, it's just

01:38:47.380 women don't know how to take

01:38:49.280 L's and

01:38:50.940 what they say with the T

01:38:53.300 app, the average age,

01:38:54.940 women on the ids were between 33 and 37 why do you think that is because that's when women have

01:39:00.840 to start taking l's ladies take the l and all you're doing is ruining dating men didn't approach

01:39:06.720 before but then you're they're really not going to approach now and here's the thing men used to

01:39:11.280 actually put their real names on their online dating profiles or they used to tell you their

01:39:15.940 real names during a date they're not going to do that anymore ladies all they're doing is ruining

01:39:21.400 dating go ahead ladies online dating is the future unfortunately that's probably how you're gonna

01:39:27.400 meet your husband and just know you're gonna have to smash a couple dudes um that'll probably pass

01:39:33.960 you unless you're beautiful if you're beautiful you might get around that um and when that happens

01:39:40.040 i would just take that out yeah i would just eat it because this is just an example of what do i

01:39:46.120 always say is the worst thing about modern women parole modern women are whores baby mamas but the

01:39:52.920 biggest problem is they they talk too much and i say that in a sense of like social media and just

01:40:01.960 saying their business women of the past would keep things to their graves will keep secrets

01:40:09.240 that's what it was about now it's the exact opposite i mean you guys keep secrets all the

01:40:13.000 time like the secrets of how much you hate us like men men don't really like women like that's

01:40:18.400 the thing men don't i mean they kind of do like they like looking at us having sex with us maybe

01:40:26.100 having someone there sometimes but in general they don't really like our opinions they don't really

01:40:32.520 like our nagging they don't really like our personalities so you know men lie to us all the

01:40:40.500 time and tell us that we like those things yep what if she said they'll say we want you around

01:40:46.340 but we don't want you around yeah yeah so men lie and they're like we like that we they don't like

01:40:53.180 that at all but women you know the difference is i i said this the other day men have the courtesy

01:41:00.280 of lying to women they lie about cheating on us you'll be like did you cheat on me he'll look you

01:41:05.500 in your eye your eye and say no and they do that for your benefit ladies

01:41:10.480 but women can't look them in their eye and say i've never been with anybody but you

01:41:17.920 you're the best i ever had we can't lie and we think there's some virtue in being honest and

01:41:24.500 there's really none uh like what let me get this straight we want to say we think there's

01:41:29.840 virtue and saying you're like the fourth best i've ever had no it's called the art of the lie

01:41:38.280 just like he calls you the most beautiful woman in the world do you know what i mean those two

01:41:43.560 comparisons it's like obviously you're mid because most women are i'm sure maybe a beautiful woman's

01:41:51.220 watching my show probably not um so you're probably mid and your husband has to lie to you

01:41:56.680 but you don't want him to say you know diane you're like a 5.4 out of 10. you'd be pissed

01:42:03.500 right but women we we feel like we could say you know i dated this rapper i dated this guy

01:42:12.220 and that guy and and look i'm not saying to completely lie but if you can you should yeah

01:42:18.580 i would just did you see that one video where this guy is walking up the couples on some boardwalk

01:42:25.860 somewhere and he's like how did you two meet and so it's this it's this black guy oh i think i know

01:42:32.820 where she was like i was getting older yeah she's like well he kept hitting on me for like seven

01:42:37.700 years and i was getting older so i decided hey why not and they have two kids and he's looking at it

01:42:43.620 like easy bro like what and everyone everyone was like may this type of love never find me

01:42:49.700 yeah like look at that may be true look let's let's be honest here for a second ladies

01:42:55.540 most people don't marry the best sex of their life can we just be honest man or woman

01:43:01.600 most people are not gonna marry the best sex they ever had most people don't end up with

01:43:09.020 their first choice okay men settle for us all the time pretty much everyone they settle for

01:43:16.980 someone older than they want they wanted someone 22 and they're like fuck it i'll take 30 through

01:43:22.280 32 good enough they wanted a virgin they said you don't fuck it i'll take like 30 bodies

01:43:29.620 good enough i'll take it um that's it for me what so yeah i agree yeah yeah but the women can't say

01:43:40.340 you know what i wanted chad but i'll take gavin the starving musician

01:43:49.140 i wanted chad but i'll take brad or i'll take eugene we can't do it for some reason

01:43:58.660 for some reason and it's just it's like yeah um so we gotta learn to take owls

01:44:05.300 and we gotta we gotta learn to just pretend and lie better we should do a show called

01:44:11.780 how to lie better how about this no no the best the lies the lies that you should learn

01:44:20.660 as a man as a and a woman so the lies you should learn as a woman are like you're the best i ever

01:44:26.820 had um you're the man of my dreams wait doug mpa could you could you ask me my body count really

01:44:36.040 quick could you ask me so uh pearl what's your body count one

01:44:42.060 well okay two well how about this a lot of guys because one of the problems with these groups is

01:44:54.700 women won't even tell the truth they'll tell their truth you know what i'm saying guys talk

01:45:01.660 the truth women will tell the truth through their feelings which is their truth and and that's a big

01:45:06.620 problem right there ladies don't talk about your truth don't feel entitled to tell a man your truth

01:45:14.060 keep that to yourself how about that cool well um thanks for tuning in you got any final thoughts

01:45:24.700 Well, I said already, like I said, these women, they're just making dating harder.

01:45:31.400 Now we're in the great staring contest because now less and less men are going to want to date

01:45:35.700 and women are not stepping up to the plate.

01:45:38.580 They're just not.

01:45:39.840 And I'm sorry, they're not going to be able to break the stereotype that women that hit

01:45:43.060 on men are hyper-masculine and have all these problems.

01:45:50.100 So now we're still staring at each other.

01:45:51.400 well my um my final thought is we should start to lie better

01:45:56.520 they're saying they're guessing my body count in the chat well i'm a virgin so

01:46:02.020 i'm at it's actually zero so yeah fuck all of you and that's what i'm going with um but anyways um

01:46:13.880 yeah we got to learn to lie better um we got to learn to men give us the courtesy of lying to us

01:46:21.160 and women we should try to do the same thing make sure you like the video please subscribe

01:46:25.540 to the channel and ring that notification bell thank you guys for watching and I'll see you

01:46:29.320 tomorrow

Pearl - August 01, 2025

Are ＂Dating The Same Guy＂ Groups Good or Bad？ (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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