Pearl - September 20, 2024


Are MOST WOMEN Naturally NURTURING？ OR Is SOCIETY LYING To Us？ ｜ Pearl Daily

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In this episode, I talk about the role of women in society and how they are being lied to, manipulated, and manipulated by the patriarchy. I also talk about why women are on antidepressants if they don t have children.

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00:00:00.000 I came across this account called Nuclear Caudillo and I saw a tweet that reminded me of a lesson
00:00:08.720 that I learned while I was in the UK. So it says, women get to decide who has sex, women get to 0.99
00:00:17.060 decide who gets to be in a relationship, and women get to decide who gets to be born. Women decide 1.00
00:00:24.740 how much time you get with your kids. It's a heavy burden, but hey, enjoy your sexual power.
00:00:30.220 You can't fool us forever. I guess what this reminded me of was the common phrase that I hear
00:00:36.760 from conservatives, trad cons, that women are being lied to, right? That women want to be mothers. 1.00
00:00:44.520 They want to be nurturing, but we're just lied to because of this society we're in.
00:00:49.940 What I found when I was in England is that was not necessarily the case. And oftentimes what you see
00:00:57.420 is plausible deniability is how women get away from things and they get power. And the issue is 1.00
00:01:04.820 simps are always the ones to give women plausible deniability. And that is the problem these days. 0.96
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00:02:34.480 and supercharge your masculinity. Don't be a simp. So when I first got to England, I would say I had 0.95
00:02:42.240 more of a traditional conservative perspective. I believed in traditionalism. I believed that
00:02:47.580 family was the answer. God was the answer to a lot of our problems. And it's not necessarily
00:02:53.940 that it isn't, but what I found out is that it wasn't that simple. So conservatives like to talk
00:03:03.540 a lot about how women are naturally nurturing. Women want to be mothers and wives. Society just 1.00
00:03:10.140 lied to us, and I always believed this to be true. I went on shows and shouted about how women are 0.99
00:03:15.900 being lied to. Women are naturally nurturing and want to be mothers, but society tells us no, 1.00
00:03:23.180 right? I mean, getting pregnant in high school seems to be life-ending. There was one young 1.00
00:03:28.620 woman at my high school who was a teen mom, and I remember everyone thinking her life was over.
00:03:34.280 This is what we're told, right?
00:03:36.540 Women want to be mothers, but feminism. 1.00
00:03:38.960 It's clear.
00:03:40.020 Women are on antidepressants if they don't have children. 1.00
00:03:42.860 Every other day, you see some old woman crying in her car 0.98
00:03:45.900 about how she regrets not having children.
00:03:48.960 Women want to be mothers, but society. 1.00
00:03:51.220 This is what I thought was true.
00:03:53.400 Unfortunately, reality came to crash my worldview.
00:03:56.480 As you guys know, I interviewed 1,000 women on the show,
00:03:59.920 the pregame in England.
00:04:01.340 I went to England to play volleyball,
00:04:03.040 and started a show interviewing women and men
00:04:06.340 about relationships on the side.
00:04:08.540 The interesting thing that happens
00:04:10.120 when you interview so many people
00:04:11.700 is you see patterns in women based on age. 1.00
00:04:15.020 You see women at 22 who do not care 1.00
00:04:17.700 about anyone but herself,
00:04:19.540 partying in the club every weekend,
00:04:21.260 being hit up on by celebrities, going to festivals,
00:04:24.980 or maybe she's chasing a spot at the top law firm.
00:04:28.500 It depends on the woman. 1.00
00:04:30.020 Regardless, none of her actions indicate
00:04:32.240 that she wants to be a wife or a mother,
00:04:34.060 but sometimes they will say that on a show, right?
00:04:37.440 The same woman at 32 may be dating a lot more seriously.
00:04:40.920 However, you can argue that's because she's out of time 0.99
00:04:43.700 and it wasn't what she truly wanted
00:04:45.740 because you can see what people truly want to do
00:04:48.840 when they have the most choice to do anything.
00:04:51.700 What we are seeing is that when we have the most choice,
00:04:54.980 women are not choosing to be naturally nurturing. 0.99
00:04:58.120 There is a saying that money does not change people,
00:05:00.460 but it reveals who they are.
00:05:02.160 I say it's the same thing with freedom.
00:05:04.340 You cannot see what people truly want to do
00:05:06.740 until they have the freedom to do anything.
00:05:09.240 A hundred years ago, in order to survive,
00:05:11.420 women had to find a man. 1.00
00:05:13.320 I mean, there have always been spinsters in history,
00:05:15.820 but we can agree that society makes it much easier
00:05:18.480 to be one today.
00:05:19.480 The last hundred years,
00:05:21.000 feminists have gained a crazy amount of power. 1.00
00:05:23.960 Women have the power to divorce. 1.00
00:05:25.820 This is what the tweet was saying.
00:05:27.540 Women have the power to take their children with them. 1.00
00:05:30.700 Women have the power to marry whoever they want. 1.00
00:05:33.420 Women are naturally nurturing and want to be mothers, right? 1.00
00:05:36.660 So by that logic, when we have the power to do anything,
00:05:40.360 why don't we do it? 0.80
00:05:41.740 Why are women the most likely ones to abuse children? 1.00
00:05:44.600 Why is the birth rate falling?
00:05:46.520 Why do we choose to send kids to daycare
00:05:48.900 instead of being with the children?
00:05:50.800 Why do single mother homes turn out so poorly? 1.00
00:05:53.540 Why do we choose to get married at 32 rather than 22?
00:05:56.840 We have dating apps where you could hypothetically
00:05:59.020 filter out men by race, age, religion, and ethnicity. Even overweight women get thousands 0.95
00:06:04.100 of matches, yet there is less marriages than ever before. Why is there a surplus of OnlyFans models 0.63
00:06:10.520 and why are finishing schools closing? We have the freedom to do anything, so why are we choosing
00:06:16.060 sex work? One surprise that I found in interviewing a thousand women was just how common sex work was. 1.00
00:06:22.340 Sometimes it is not that the women that you would expect. I would guess one out of five women under 0.98
00:06:27.920 the age of 35 that are a six in attractiveness or higher have engaged in some sort of sex work.
00:06:34.240 I know that sounds crazy to the average show, but being a sugar baby is being offered to young 0.81
00:06:39.280 women more and more. And if nobody knows, why wouldn't you consider it? If women are nurturing, 1.00
00:06:46.100 why are we the ones most likely to kill infants in the first year? Why do one third of women get 1.00
00:06:51.520 abortions by the time they're 45? Why do women fight so hard for birth control and the right 1.00
00:06:56.720 for abortion? I realize the answer is so simple, yet conservatives blame it on men not wanting to
00:07:02.460 get married. Conservatives have the answer in their face, but they don't see it. Conservatives
00:07:07.480 think that men are the ones that don't want to get married, but really it's women. Women do not 1.00
00:07:12.960 want to be wives and mothers because if they wanted to, we would see it based on their life 1.00
00:07:17.580 decisions. From what I see, most young men would still get married in the right circumstances.
00:07:22.200 men are cashing out earlier than women in terms of giving up power in the sexual 0.92
00:07:26.880 marketplace the average age of first marriage is rising and it is because
00:07:31.620 women are the real gatekeepers of women have the choice men do not women are not 0.99
00:07:37.440 naturally nurturing because if we were then our choices would reflect that
00:07:41.820 women are not innocent victims being lied to we're adults making decisions on
00:07:46.800 what we want to do again none of this means bad person none of this is
00:07:50.920 immoral. It is simply watching what people do rather than what they say. I am going to go over
00:07:57.020 a couple videos that reflect the conflict of trying to cope with what we want to be true
00:08:02.000 versus what is actually going on. Again, I say this to be clear. This is not a moral statement.
00:08:08.700 This is not what I wish to be true, but rather an accurate description of what I have found
00:08:14.100 after interviewing a thousand women.
00:08:16.680 So what made me think of this today
00:08:18.760 was I saw a video from The Daily Wire.
00:08:21.920 I grew up watching The Daily Wire
00:08:23.640 and I think that's why I talk about this concept so much
00:08:26.900 was because a lot of the ideas at one point
00:08:29.260 made me think that they were true, right?
00:08:31.780 Because you would always hear
00:08:32.620 that women are just being lied to. 1.00
00:08:34.820 And I came to realize that that's just a cop-out.
00:08:38.100 It's just a way for women to dodge accountability 1.00
00:08:42.820 and blame it on the media, the culture, and blame men in some way. That it's somehow everyone else's
00:08:50.380 fault that we make decisions that come with choices and trade-offs. And what I realized is
00:08:57.220 that conservatives are just as willing to bail women out as the liberals. It's not about party.
00:09:04.340 So I saw this video from Brett Cooper, and I used to say a lot of stuff like this, so I'm not trying
00:09:10.440 to judge it's just more kind of showing the flaws in their thinking or I guess the holes in the
00:09:16.380 argument fewer and fewer people are having children these days I mean the drop in people
00:09:19.840 dating and getting married obviously contributes to that the economy is a huge factor okay so this
00:09:24.540 is one what I would say is a lie right everyone's saying oh it's the economy it's the economy that's
00:09:31.880 why you know and this is just based off of the women that I interviewed right this could be
00:09:37.400 you can take this or leave it. But I kept hearing that money was the reason people weren't having
00:09:43.620 kids. And women would come on the show and they would say, it's money, right? I can't have more 1.00
00:09:48.780 children because of money. But I would look at their face and it would be frozen with Botox.
00:09:54.700 I would look at their nails and they would be done. I would look at their fashion and it would
00:10:00.880 be the latest trends. And a couple of times we had more traditional housewives that came on. 1.00
00:10:06.740 And what I found was the traditional housewives didn't have any of that stuff done because they wanted the children more than they wanted the lifestyle. 0.98
00:10:16.000 And that's not necessarily a bad thing.
00:10:18.500 And I think a lot of times when we say these things, people think we're putting morality onto it.
00:10:23.120 But I'm never trying to.
00:10:24.860 It's just some people are more selfish and some people are more selfless.
00:10:29.820 And so when we say, oh, it's the economy, I just don't really buy it anymore.
00:10:34.900 How motherhood hurts careers. 1.00
00:10:37.080 Like, the priorities and the biases are so blatantly obvious.
00:10:40.280 Okay, so then what happens is they start to blame the media.
00:10:43.900 But who is the media catered to?
00:10:46.440 Who makes the consumer buying decisions?
00:10:49.100 Who's the one writing these articles?
00:10:51.420 Which gender is it? 0.80
00:10:52.640 And again, this isn't morality.
00:10:54.320 This isn't to dog on them.
00:10:55.740 But it's just asking the question, is it really the media is lying to women?
00:11:01.680 Or is it this is how they feel? 0.76
00:11:04.160 These crotch goblins, as so many people call children, 0.99
00:11:06.680 are getting in the way of your girl bossing, 0.87
00:11:08.180 not the other way around.
00:11:09.160 These writers and these pop psychologists
00:11:10.800 could not fathom the idea that maybe, to many women,
00:11:14.400 your career is actually inhibiting motherhood. 1.00
00:11:16.520 Now, here's another headline,
00:11:17.940 why it's okay to choose a career over kids.
00:11:20.140 And obviously, if you don't have kids,
00:11:21.840 again, that's your personal prerogative,
00:11:23.400 but we need to talk about the cultural attitudes
00:11:24.980 and how aggressively all of them are.
00:11:26.780 Okay, but then this is the question,
00:11:28.760 who creates culture? 0.70
00:11:30.420 And this is something,
00:11:31.200 I just don't think you guys can come to a lot of these conclusions until you've done
00:11:36.440 a ton of interviews because it just changes your perspective. And one thing that I figured out was
00:11:42.640 that traditional mothers have a tendency to tell their daughters to go to school, get an education,
00:11:50.380 and not to be traditional. Not right, not wrong. I'm just saying I would interview women that 0.65
00:11:57.060 were second generation immigrants from traditional countries. And so often the daughter would say
00:12:03.820 that the mother told her not to pursue a man and to pursue a career first. So who created this
00:12:12.980 culture? Where does it come from? Maybe this is how women feel. And what happens is conservatives 1.00
00:12:21.160 say no we don't believe them and then not all by the way not all women but a lot a percentage of
00:12:29.980 women come out and say hey no we really do feel like this let's fight for abortion let's fight 0.52
00:12:36.880 for all of these let's fight to get jobs let's fight for all this stuff and pretend that we
00:12:43.020 really want to be married and in relationships but it's all just it's like fake well this has
00:12:49.500 been pushed. So that is the point in showing all of this. As it always does, you know, this started
00:12:53.160 with the academics and the journalists, and it trickled down to normal women, where now, in 2024, 0.96
00:12:58.060 you will often find discourse like this. This was on Reddit six months ago. Motherhood is a trap. 0.99
00:13:03.300 These men get to explore the country, make good money, and who knows, maybe they're having affairs,
00:13:07.220 while their wives are stuck with the children. Careers suffering. They have no life outside of
00:13:12.280 children. Motherhood is the biggest scam, and I'm so damn grateful I didn't fall for it. Well, that's 1.00
00:13:17.960 one way to look at it a commenter on this post said i was discussing this the other day it makes
00:13:22.120 zero sense for women to want kids it ruins your body there is a significant risk of death maiming 1.00
00:13:28.760 psychosis permanent injury etc let's not forget all the things that get played off as normal like
00:13:33.560 episiotomy bladder control issues etc again now partially is part of this cope i'm sure right
00:13:41.800 a lot of times when older women make bad decisions they give the wrong information to younger women
00:13:47.640 yes but if i'm being honest guys based on our actions not what we say but what we do
00:13:55.800 the abortion rate is a huge one one out of three women go and get one we might think that's wrong 1.00
00:14:00.760 right whatever it doesn't matter we can't change that then we look at single motherhood rate then 0.96
00:14:07.000 we look at the child abuse rate infanticide rate i i think this idea that women naturally want that 0.99
00:14:16.760 I just don't see any evidence for it. Now, I'm not saying I don't wish that to be true. I don't
00:14:21.860 hope that is true. But what I kept finding doing these interviews is that I just didn't have any
00:14:28.980 indication that that was a priority for 85%, maybe 80% of the people I interviewed. And the pushback
00:14:37.080 I would get, right, is not all women are like that. And that was always the one that I would get. 1.00
00:14:41.940 But again, statistics don't really lie.
00:14:46.580 What you find is regardless of the culture, the ethnicity, the race, where they are, maybe
00:14:53.260 some cultures and ethnicities and religions, it's happening at a slower rate, but it's
00:14:59.260 still the same trend.
00:15:00.980 And the trend is largely led by women.
00:15:04.640 I would hear way more women say they didn't want kids than men. 0.78
00:15:07.920 and that's the birth rate declining so less children more abortions more stds this idea
00:15:14.520 like everyone always blames it on the culture but who's in control of the culture who is this media
00:15:21.480 catered to and then the vast majority of women do 95 of the child-rearing household chores mental 1.00
00:15:27.400 load and then often work full-time too why would anyone do that to themselves and then people
00:15:31.820 replied to that person and said well these women just want to be martyrs they want to feel better 1.00
00:15:35.100 than all of us what i mean maybe women choose to do this because not everyone has your values 0.99
00:15:40.340 because not everyone is as angry as you because women are i'm sorry to break it to you we are
00:15:45.240 biologically designed and called to be mothers like yeah so again this is the this is what made
00:15:51.820 me think of it as i was listening to your video and i was thinking i'm like i just if women are 0.99
00:15:58.600 biologically called to be mothers and that's their natural inclination. I know we biologically can 0.69
00:16:05.720 have children. I know that's a thing, but then why do we kill these kids so often or abort them? 0.82
00:16:13.940 Why is the abuse rate for so much higher from women to men? And again, men still do it. Women 0.97
00:16:22.580 still do it i'm not trying to play the the gender card but it begs the question if that's natural
00:16:30.820 why are women the ones that kill the kid in the first year abuse the kid and why aren't they 1.00
00:16:36.500 having them right it just goes back to plausible deniability whether you like it or not and most
00:16:42.340 women no matter how hard they try to convince themselves other so again this is what i always
00:16:46.820 here, it's like the modern world has destroyed women. Okay. But for me anyways, it goes back to 1.00
00:16:52.900 how do you see what people want to do? So if you give someone a million dollars and he blows it
00:16:59.980 on hookers and drugs, I mean, that's what the guy has always wanted to do. He just never had
00:17:06.020 the opportunity. You know, when you say to women or feminists, whatever, Hey, you guys can do
00:17:11.560 whatever you want. If you want to go work, go work. If you want to put your kid in daycare,
00:17:15.360 go put your kid in daycare. If you want to go get married, go get married. If you want to get an
00:17:19.680 abortion, go get an abortion. If you want birth control, go get birth control. And then women, 1.00
00:17:27.860 90% have been on birth control. One out of three has an STD. One out of three, oh wait no, one out
00:17:33.260 of four has an STD. One out of three has an abortion by the time they're 45. I mean that,
00:17:37.640 it's revealing right it's revealing what they wanted to do that's that's the conclusion i came
00:17:46.280 to and i just kind of the way i thought about it was by blaming it on the modern world or feminism
00:17:53.240 or society, it just takes accountability off of grown adults that can make decisions.