Pearl - September 20, 2024Are MOST WOMEN Naturally NURTURING？ OR Is SOCIETY LYING To Us？ ｜ Pearl Daily
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In this episode, I talk about the role of women in society and how they are being lied to, manipulated, and manipulated by the patriarchy. I also talk about why women are on antidepressants if they don t have children.
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I came across this account called Nuclear Caudillo and I saw a tweet that reminded me of a lesson
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that I learned while I was in the UK. So it says, women get to decide who has sex, women get to
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decide who gets to be in a relationship, and women get to decide who gets to be born. Women decide
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how much time you get with your kids. It's a heavy burden, but hey, enjoy your sexual power.
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You can't fool us forever. I guess what this reminded me of was the common phrase that I hear
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from conservatives, trad cons, that women are being lied to, right? That women want to be mothers.
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They want to be nurturing, but we're just lied to because of this society we're in.
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What I found when I was in England is that was not necessarily the case. And oftentimes what you see
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is plausible deniability is how women get away from things and they get power. And the issue is
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simps are always the ones to give women plausible deniability. And that is the problem these days.
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and supercharge your masculinity. Don't be a simp. So when I first got to England, I would say I had
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more of a traditional conservative perspective. I believed in traditionalism. I believed that
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family was the answer. God was the answer to a lot of our problems. And it's not necessarily
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that it isn't, but what I found out is that it wasn't that simple. So conservatives like to talk
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a lot about how women are naturally nurturing. Women want to be mothers and wives. Society just
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lied to us, and I always believed this to be true. I went on shows and shouted about how women are
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being lied to. Women are naturally nurturing and want to be mothers, but society tells us no,
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right? I mean, getting pregnant in high school seems to be life-ending. There was one young
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woman at my high school who was a teen mom, and I remember everyone thinking her life was over.
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Women are on antidepressants if they don't have children.
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Every other day, you see some old woman crying in her car
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Unfortunately, reality came to crash my worldview.
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As you guys know, I interviewed 1,000 women on the show,
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being hit up on by celebrities, going to festivals,
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or maybe she's chasing a spot at the top law firm.
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but sometimes they will say that on a show, right?
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The same woman at 32 may be dating a lot more seriously.
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However, you can argue that's because she's out of time
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because you can see what people truly want to do
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What we are seeing is that when we have the most choice,
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women are not choosing to be naturally nurturing.
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There is a saying that money does not change people,
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I mean, there have always been spinsters in history,
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but we can agree that society makes it much easier
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Women have the power to take their children with them.
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Women have the power to marry whoever they want.
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Women are naturally nurturing and want to be mothers, right?
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So by that logic, when we have the power to do anything,
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Why are women the most likely ones to abuse children?
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Why do we choose to get married at 32 rather than 22?
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We have dating apps where you could hypothetically
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filter out men by race, age, religion, and ethnicity. Even overweight women get thousands
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of matches, yet there is less marriages than ever before. Why is there a surplus of OnlyFans models
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and why are finishing schools closing? We have the freedom to do anything, so why are we choosing
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sex work? One surprise that I found in interviewing a thousand women was just how common sex work was.
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Sometimes it is not that the women that you would expect. I would guess one out of five women under
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the age of 35 that are a six in attractiveness or higher have engaged in some sort of sex work.
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I know that sounds crazy to the average show, but being a sugar baby is being offered to young
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women more and more. And if nobody knows, why wouldn't you consider it? If women are nurturing,
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why are we the ones most likely to kill infants in the first year? Why do one third of women get
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abortions by the time they're 45? Why do women fight so hard for birth control and the right
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for abortion? I realize the answer is so simple, yet conservatives blame it on men not wanting to
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get married. Conservatives have the answer in their face, but they don't see it. Conservatives
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think that men are the ones that don't want to get married, but really it's women. Women do not
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want to be wives and mothers because if they wanted to, we would see it based on their life
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decisions. From what I see, most young men would still get married in the right circumstances.
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men are cashing out earlier than women in terms of giving up power in the sexual
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marketplace the average age of first marriage is rising and it is because
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women are the real gatekeepers of women have the choice men do not women are not
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naturally nurturing because if we were then our choices would reflect that
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women are not innocent victims being lied to we're adults making decisions on
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what we want to do again none of this means bad person none of this is
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immoral. It is simply watching what people do rather than what they say. I am going to go over
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a couple videos that reflect the conflict of trying to cope with what we want to be true
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versus what is actually going on. Again, I say this to be clear. This is not a moral statement.
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This is not what I wish to be true, but rather an accurate description of what I have found
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and I think that's why I talk about this concept so much
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And I came to realize that that's just a cop-out.
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It's just a way for women to dodge accountability
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and blame it on the media, the culture, and blame men in some way. That it's somehow everyone else's
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fault that we make decisions that come with choices and trade-offs. And what I realized is
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that conservatives are just as willing to bail women out as the liberals. It's not about party.
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So I saw this video from Brett Cooper, and I used to say a lot of stuff like this, so I'm not trying
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to judge it's just more kind of showing the flaws in their thinking or I guess the holes in the
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argument fewer and fewer people are having children these days I mean the drop in people
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dating and getting married obviously contributes to that the economy is a huge factor okay so this
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is one what I would say is a lie right everyone's saying oh it's the economy it's the economy that's
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why you know and this is just based off of the women that I interviewed right this could be
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you can take this or leave it. But I kept hearing that money was the reason people weren't having
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kids. And women would come on the show and they would say, it's money, right? I can't have more
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children because of money. But I would look at their face and it would be frozen with Botox.
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I would look at their nails and they would be done. I would look at their fashion and it would
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be the latest trends. And a couple of times we had more traditional housewives that came on.
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And what I found was the traditional housewives didn't have any of that stuff done because they wanted the children more than they wanted the lifestyle.
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And I think a lot of times when we say these things, people think we're putting morality onto it.
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It's just some people are more selfish and some people are more selfless.
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And so when we say, oh, it's the economy, I just don't really buy it anymore.
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Like, the priorities and the biases are so blatantly obvious.
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Okay, so then what happens is they start to blame the media.
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But it's just asking the question, is it really the media is lying to women?
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These crotch goblins, as so many people call children,
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could not fathom the idea that maybe, to many women,
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but we need to talk about the cultural attitudes
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I just don't think you guys can come to a lot of these conclusions until you've done
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a ton of interviews because it just changes your perspective. And one thing that I figured out was
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that traditional mothers have a tendency to tell their daughters to go to school, get an education,
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and not to be traditional. Not right, not wrong. I'm just saying I would interview women that
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were second generation immigrants from traditional countries. And so often the daughter would say
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that the mother told her not to pursue a man and to pursue a career first. So who created this
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culture? Where does it come from? Maybe this is how women feel. And what happens is conservatives
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say no we don't believe them and then not all by the way not all women but a lot a percentage of
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women come out and say hey no we really do feel like this let's fight for abortion let's fight
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for all of these let's fight to get jobs let's fight for all this stuff and pretend that we
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really want to be married and in relationships but it's all just it's like fake well this has
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been pushed. So that is the point in showing all of this. As it always does, you know, this started
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with the academics and the journalists, and it trickled down to normal women, where now, in 2024,
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you will often find discourse like this. This was on Reddit six months ago. Motherhood is a trap.
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These men get to explore the country, make good money, and who knows, maybe they're having affairs,
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while their wives are stuck with the children. Careers suffering. They have no life outside of
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children. Motherhood is the biggest scam, and I'm so damn grateful I didn't fall for it. Well, that's
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one way to look at it a commenter on this post said i was discussing this the other day it makes
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zero sense for women to want kids it ruins your body there is a significant risk of death maiming
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psychosis permanent injury etc let's not forget all the things that get played off as normal like
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episiotomy bladder control issues etc again now partially is part of this cope i'm sure right
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a lot of times when older women make bad decisions they give the wrong information to younger women
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yes but if i'm being honest guys based on our actions not what we say but what we do
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the abortion rate is a huge one one out of three women go and get one we might think that's wrong
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right whatever it doesn't matter we can't change that then we look at single motherhood rate then
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we look at the child abuse rate infanticide rate i i think this idea that women naturally want that
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I just don't see any evidence for it. Now, I'm not saying I don't wish that to be true. I don't
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hope that is true. But what I kept finding doing these interviews is that I just didn't have any
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indication that that was a priority for 85%, maybe 80% of the people I interviewed. And the pushback
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I would get, right, is not all women are like that. And that was always the one that I would get.
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What you find is regardless of the culture, the ethnicity, the race, where they are, maybe
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some cultures and ethnicities and religions, it's happening at a slower rate, but it's
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I would hear way more women say they didn't want kids than men.
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and that's the birth rate declining so less children more abortions more stds this idea
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like everyone always blames it on the culture but who's in control of the culture who is this media
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catered to and then the vast majority of women do 95 of the child-rearing household chores mental
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load and then often work full-time too why would anyone do that to themselves and then people
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replied to that person and said well these women just want to be martyrs they want to feel better
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than all of us what i mean maybe women choose to do this because not everyone has your values
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because not everyone is as angry as you because women are i'm sorry to break it to you we are
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biologically designed and called to be mothers like yeah so again this is the this is what made
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me think of it as i was listening to your video and i was thinking i'm like i just if women are
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biologically called to be mothers and that's their natural inclination. I know we biologically can
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have children. I know that's a thing, but then why do we kill these kids so often or abort them?
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Why is the abuse rate for so much higher from women to men? And again, men still do it. Women
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still do it i'm not trying to play the the gender card but it begs the question if that's natural
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why are women the ones that kill the kid in the first year abuse the kid and why aren't they
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having them right it just goes back to plausible deniability whether you like it or not and most
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women no matter how hard they try to convince themselves other so again this is what i always
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here, it's like the modern world has destroyed women. Okay. But for me anyways, it goes back to
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how do you see what people want to do? So if you give someone a million dollars and he blows it
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on hookers and drugs, I mean, that's what the guy has always wanted to do. He just never had
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the opportunity. You know, when you say to women or feminists, whatever, Hey, you guys can do
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whatever you want. If you want to go work, go work. If you want to put your kid in daycare,
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go put your kid in daycare. If you want to go get married, go get married. If you want to get an
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abortion, go get an abortion. If you want birth control, go get birth control. And then women,
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90% have been on birth control. One out of three has an STD. One out of three, oh wait no, one out
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of four has an STD. One out of three has an abortion by the time they're 45. I mean that,
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it's revealing right it's revealing what they wanted to do that's that's the conclusion i came
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to and i just kind of the way i thought about it was by blaming it on the modern world or feminism
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or society, it just takes accountability off of grown adults that can make decisions.