Pearl - Are We Dating The Same Guy Is a Terrorist Organization TBH

00:00:00.000 Take the L, take the L, we're dating the same guy, say oh well, take the L.

00:00:30.000 You thought you were in a relationship with him. 1.00

00:00:36.400 Turns out you weren't the only bitch that was getting on his skin. 0.99

00:00:48.980 And I know that it's disappointing. 0.99

00:00:54.560 And I know that you're kind of mad. 0.99

00:01:00.000 But instead of going on the Facebook page, just say, shit, that is my bad. 1.00

00:01:11.080 Take the L. Take the L. 0.99

00:01:17.120 Just go along and make sure you say, oh, well.

00:01:22.120 Take the L. Take the L.

00:01:26.280 Just go along and say, oh well

00:01:31.580 Now I know it's hard

00:01:35.640 You thought that Chad Tyrone would commit to you

00:01:40.160 But this is real life

00:01:44.100 This isn't what you see on YouTube

00:01:48.080 And I hate to have to be the one to say it

00:01:54.440 i know that maybe i'm just playing take the l take the l

00:02:05.400 just come on and say oh well

00:02:10.940 there's been times when you've gotten dinner out of a guy

00:02:19.440 and when he asked you to come home with him and you said no he wanted to cry

00:02:33.240 but instead of bitching on youtube and on facebook the guy just let you off the hook

00:02:44.100 take the L, take the L, just go around and say, oh, well, take the L, take the L.

00:03:00.700 thank you everybody thank you thank you encore encore oh stop it oh stop it

00:03:16.780 no i mean we want a piano version you guys want a piano version

00:03:22.960 i guess we're doing a piano version

00:03:27.260 A slow rendition. The art of attrition. The owl. You, you thought that you were the only one.

00:03:47.520 you thought he was the one it turns it out it turns out you're the third girl

00:03:58.760 this week and the future is not looking bleak take the L take the L just come

00:04:13.860 Just come around and say, oh well. Take the L. Take the L. Just come around and say, oh well.

00:04:28.860 You can look back and think he had a tell You can look back and think that was an L

00:04:38.860 But say oh well, take the L Stop bitching on Facebook, it's really sad 0.98

00:04:46.860 Just say I was dumb and that was my bad 0.96

00:04:50.860 Imagine if a man wrote a Facebook post about 1.00

00:04:54.860 Spending money on a bitch that didn't put out 1.00

00:04:57.860 You'd say, well, take the L. Take the L. Just come around and say, oh well. Take the L. 1.00

00:05:14.300 Take the L. Just come around and say, oh well, take the L. Thank you, everybody. I know.

00:05:25.860 I know, I know, I know.

00:05:28.260 I know, Laila.

00:05:29.140 We're coming over here.

00:05:33.820 Thank you, everybody.

00:05:37.080 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:05:39.820 I know.

00:05:40.420 Oh, man.

00:05:41.160 I worked out today.

00:05:43.100 Some days, if I look kind of homeless, it's just usually because I worked out and, you

00:05:48.560 know, just is what it is.

00:05:52.220 The song, all right.

00:05:55.260 So I know it was an amazing song.

00:05:59.400 It was amazing.

00:06:00.180 I know.

00:06:00.940 Thank you.

00:06:02.960 Thank you guys for tuning in.

00:06:05.480 Today we are talking about the Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook page.

00:06:09.720 But before we start, I think I'm going to go through Twitter together.

00:06:13.400 And we're just going to talk about the trending stories and then get into the topics.

00:06:16.900 That'll write with you one in the chat if that's okay with you.

00:06:21.160 I like to go through my Twitter, just say what I was thinking when I was tweeting,

00:06:24.860 in whatever chilling out so if anyone cares um not that anyone does but we can pretend um

00:06:33.260 i think my plating is getting pretty good i was looking through my old plates that i would post

00:06:37.500 on twitter for what i eat and i'm to the phase where i'm prioritizing um protein

00:06:44.220 and um really focusing on my meat and i was like you know what i think for this next phase before i

00:06:57.080 i can eat what i want but i gotta start with a chicken breast and salmon and it's crazy i feel

00:07:02.960 so much better so anyways this was my plate yesterday um apparently 67 of gen z would choose

00:07:11.720 a good night's rest over having sex and it's kind of relatable do you know what I mean I'm like

00:07:16.720 I mean I love a good gluck gluck but it's like good sleep sometimes it's a little bit better

00:07:26.460 you know what I mean okay um clavicular got um I guess he had a near-death experience

00:07:36.160 where he literally almost died because of the drugs he's been taking on stream and i'm a fan

00:07:44.420 of clavicular but you've got to be honest guys um these people are weird and you have to understand

00:07:50.140 that a lot of the people um that are on these shows are just not normal like i would find um

00:07:57.180 i would find better role models than us you know we're kind of like the worst

00:08:01.980 people in society. And apparently after he almost died from drugs, I just got home. That was brutal.

00:08:10.900 All of the substances are just to cope, trying to feel neurotypical while being in public. But

00:08:16.240 obviously that isn't a real solution. That was the worst part of tonight was my face descending

00:08:22.220 from the life support mask. So I guess his face descended.

00:08:27.060 when am i touring well there's a lot of record companies that have been begging me to tour

00:08:34.920 um and i'm like you know i i'm super busy i have all these plans you guys don't want me to you

00:08:42.920 don't want me to tour so let's just take that off oh my gosh um i blame i do you know what's crazy 0.91

00:08:50.340 this girl is on the cover of sports illustrated and this is what i mean when women we live in 1.00

00:08:55.600 such a fake world like she thinks she's accomplished something being this fat and on the 0.98

00:08:59.820 cover and i i ate my words because i blamed black men for this okay i blamed black men i said that 0.98

00:09:06.400 this has got to be a black man thing and um it turns out that she has a white boyfriend 0.87

00:09:14.900 so i don't know i'm gonna have to find him but she kind of had a

00:09:20.080 a white boyfriend who actually sort of mogged and i was like wow

00:09:24.440 i ate my words the white guys were doing the the white guys were keeping this one's self-esteem

00:09:30.580 alive i am always blaming you guys i today i ate the words you know now nuke nuke had the funniest

00:09:39.880 tweet about her what are we doing man well i'm doing sports illustrated what have you done and 0.97

00:09:45.780 he says not being fat this isn't fair like he roasted the shit out of her and yet she 0.97

00:09:53.580 ratioed him life isn't fair life is not fair that was hilarious 0.99

00:09:57.700 then he was they're clowning and then they're talking about how i turned down a million dollars

00:10:11.740 for us uh do it only fans it was a couple years ago adam 22 said he would pay me a million dollars

00:10:18.380 to do a threesome on stream and i'm just thinking that is not enough money to adam 22.

00:10:25.420 we all know um jason love is more my speed you know what i mean 0.82

00:10:31.180 i'm just messing i'm like look i don't i don't need the money i don't oh my gosh here is a woman

00:10:37.660 coping oh my gosh look at this cope i always say it's about women especially as women get older

00:10:43.420 there's sort of this concept around women that they should become less sexual as they get older

00:10:51.020 but the reality is is that women as we get older our our libidos get more intensified to a certain 0.71

00:10:58.060 age than men's so it's sort of like this i think women just have easier sex when we get older

00:11:05.180 because um when we're young you don't have to put out you can get on a boat and put out with 1.00

00:11:10.420 nothing when we get older it's gluck gluck or get the fuck out made up thing right that women as we 1.00

00:11:19.300 get older are supposed to be right like died out like we're not even yeah we're not sexual yeah 0.95

00:11:24.980 when it's it's it's literally the the opposite yeah so somewhere down the line men didn't really

00:11:31.020 want yeah because when women get older there's a few things that happen there's less to lose

00:11:34.680 less eyes on you because a young woman everyone wants to know who she is like there's eyes on her 0.99

00:11:39.960 everywhere everyone's asking who she's banging whatever when women are old there's not as much 0.98

00:11:44.840 of a spotlight so they can do more women to be very like does anyone care who a grandma 1.00

00:11:49.400 fucks nobody nobody gives a fuck sexy as they got older i think so they kind of made it so like oh 1.00

00:12:01.800 no like if you're no longer you know mating for us right right then you should just go over here 1.00

00:12:11.560 so true when in reality it's like women into their 40s sometimes 50s are like very much 1.00

00:12:20.200 desperate right so they're gonna throw it at anybody um apparently stay-at-home boyfriends

00:12:27.160 as of early 2026 women hold more payroll jobs than men in the u.s turning the stay-at-home 0.99

00:12:32.840 boyfriend into a trend i think what my gut feeling on this i just can't imagine women

00:12:39.240 i can't imagine women working harder than men and there has to be a catch to this story what

00:12:44.440 i think it is is more men are like because if i look at my brother my little brother he's gen z

00:12:49.320 and um i'm i'm the youngest millennial but my little brother's gen z and a lot of his friends

00:12:54.680 do like work that's not on the books you know so like they wouldn't be on payroll but they make

00:13:01.860 money in other ways so milfs in their 40s do some of the best work in the bedroom they have to 0.98

00:13:08.620 when the girl's in her 20s she doesn't have to do shit 0.96

00:13:13.300 yeah here's a headline for you the stay-at-home boyfriend is now an economic trend 1.00

00:13:20.540 as more women than men go to work.

00:13:24.340 And the reason they found is that fewer young men, Maggie,

00:13:27.480 are entering the workforce than their fathers, their parents were.

00:13:31.460 Is this a trend that you are noticing personally?

00:13:33.920 And what do you think about this?

00:13:36.720 Yes, well, on the Internet, we call those men neat.

00:13:39.960 So they're not in education, employment, or training.

00:13:43.720 I think a lot of men feel really comfortable sitting online all day long.

00:13:48.520 that's a very comforting space for them and if they're being financially supported whether by

00:13:54.040 parents or a girlfriend god knows why that woman chose them then of course they can continue a 0.95

00:14:00.440 six-pack i mean women pick a six-pack or a criminal history that that's that'll get women in the door

00:14:07.400 to do that i think that's very disturbing i would not have a stay-at-home boyfriend personally

00:14:12.600 here's a headline for you the state okay i would not have a um stay-at-home boyfriend personally

00:14:19.320 that's a lie right she would

00:14:23.400 if he was good if he was chad whoever her chad is um yeah

00:14:29.800 all right so today we're talking about the are we dating the same guy um groups and today i

00:14:37.960 want to talk about the question, why don't women leave positive reviews for men? So are we dating

00:14:43.560 the same guy? Facebook page is a global network of private Facebook pages with over 10 million women

00:14:50.060 designed to share information about men. This was made to avoid toxic, dangerous, or dishonest

00:14:57.900 partners. Members post men's photos to check for red flags, warn others, and verify

00:15:04.620 if men are secretly seeing multiple people simultaneously the purpose of the group is to

00:15:12.540 protect empower and support women in the modern dating landscape often highlighting cases of

00:15:18.240 cheating abuse or dishonesty how it works users post a man's name or picture and other women who

00:15:25.520 have dated or matched with him to share their experience generally these groups require members

00:15:30.980 to be women, empathize not sharing content outside the group, and restrict commenting

00:15:36.680 on a man's looks without providing substantive and personal experience. 0.79

00:15:42.540 While many see these groups as a necessary tool, others argue they can lead to harassment

00:15:48.500 of the spread of unverified information.

00:15:54.320 Now, on its surface, this sounds okay.

00:15:56.680 um you know when these groups came out it kind of reminded me of the locker room in college

00:16:01.340 like basically um if a girl was talking to a guy in college it would just come out in the locker

00:16:08.320 room and then everybody you know then the girls look through their phones and then

00:16:11.940 some of the girls might say oh i got a message from him you know and then it's like nick right

00:16:16.560 um but the issue is you're actually giving women and exes in particular

00:16:25.300 um the right to anonymously trash you without verifying their story now this does happen

00:16:32.600 behind the scenes all the time but there's something about not you know like if i hear 0.99

00:16:37.100 a story um from a girl on my volleyball team i know if the bitch is crazy i know if the 0.99

00:16:43.920 bitch has got issues you know like there's some sort of um verifiable evidence or like 0.98

00:16:51.100 you can kind of trust or not trust the source, but now we can anonymously leave stories and we 1.00

00:16:58.000 have to think about it. Ladies, if this was, I mean, would you like guys reviewing your gluck

00:17:02.540 gluck? How would that make you feel? Right. How would that make you feel if you gluck glucked and

00:17:08.120 now everyone gets to, you know, now the gluck gluck is, is being reviewed and, you know, 0.92

00:17:13.520 do we really want that what if you had a bad day what if your poonanny stank one day

00:17:21.740 what if it was just one day you know your ph balance was off you ate the wrong food some 1.00

00:17:27.620 bullshit and now you're smelling and now everybody gets to in that kind of embarrassing but women 0.94

00:17:32.300 have no um we have no qualms about embarrassing men um if anything if anything it actually leads 1.00

00:17:41.120 to mass hysteria now what i've noticed so i actually joined like five of the pages right

00:17:48.200 i'm in i'm lurking you know what i mean so i'm in like five of these pages and one of the reasons

00:17:54.240 i joined is because i have a friend who's an absolute demon now i've said this before but

00:18:00.040 there are certain men um that get posted in these groups that i don't necessarily feel that bad for

00:18:05.920 um like for example if you're spreading like if you gave 10 girls gonorrhea

00:18:14.100 do we feel that bad that you get posted like if you got aids and you spread it to some women like

00:18:23.540 i don't do i don't have any i mean you did that to my yourself my guy you know what i mean it's

00:18:30.180 like uh if you have three girlfriends at the same time um i don't feel that bad for you do

00:18:40.180 you know what i mean is that is that unfair

00:18:43.580 is that unfair of me like if if you're an absolute demon i don't feel the absolute

00:18:54.520 world like it's kind of like what did you expect you banged her sister 0.85

00:19:01.160 but the issue is when i have a friend that's an absolute demon

00:19:06.520 um i've seen him take home three girls in a day i've seen him have three girlfriends at once

00:19:14.680 i i've seen him run absolute madness and and i said to him i'm like you have to be in these pages

00:19:19.960 I mean this guy has a cheating system

00:19:23.260 A system for cheating

00:19:26.620 Like he walked me through

00:19:28.340 Like I'm like what do you do if she says this

00:19:30.800 He has every answer

00:19:32.800 He has two iCloud accounts

00:19:35.400 He's a dude that has no social media 1.00

00:19:39.000 Because he doesn't want his bitches to find each other 1.00

00:19:41.540 I know and that's what you think 1.00

00:19:46.240 You think demon time

00:19:47.320 They get what they deserve

00:19:48.520 Like, what did you think would happen?

00:19:52.380 He was nowhere in any of these groups.

00:19:58.540 And I'm like, sir, if anybody deserves to be in these groups, it's you.

00:20:10.960 It's you.

00:20:11.860 Like, you deserve to be in this group's time.

00:20:14.960 and i would find that like my friends that um that were actually good guys kept getting posts

00:20:23.900 like i have one and to be fair i'm not that close with these guys maybe they have a second

00:20:29.280 personality but these are just people i've known over the years one person is a jet he was like a

00:20:34.720 fitness buff um very successful um guy in the finance industry and his ex-girlfriend of seven

00:20:44.460 years ago posted him did he cheat no but he was coercive and controlling according to her and i'm

00:20:51.500 like my guy you're so nice you're like a nice dude very helpful like

00:20:58.800 like i understand he kind of was he kind of is a giga chad right but there's giga chads with

00:21:08.280 demon time on we gotta stop pretending like all giga chads are built the same some giga chads

00:21:13.620 really are not on demon time i'm just being honest here this was not a demon time like

00:21:18.580 he had the looks of the giga chad but like he's just not a demon time type of guy

00:21:24.920 and i'm like why is the yet like why is the demon time guy

00:21:33.260 not in the groups and the not demon time guy gets like it it wasn't like he cheated like this girl

00:21:40.560 cheated on him. Anyways, another guy that got put in these groups, I know that his thing is he likes

00:21:52.700 to take women on karaoke dates. And apparently he ghosted a girl and she didn't, she didn't take

00:21:59.920 that too well. But his second date for women is karaoke. And this bitch put that she ghosted him 0.73

00:22:06.160 Or he ghosted her. 1.00

00:22:07.120 And I'm like, bitch. 0.99

00:22:10.460 If you're going to include the ghosting, why don't you also include the karaoke? 0.99

00:22:19.840 I begged my ex for years to take me to karaoke.

00:22:27.300 Years.

00:22:30.180 Never took me to karaoke.

00:22:31.660 And you got it on the second date on Great Ball.

00:22:34.920 ungrateful so my question

00:22:37.720 ladies it's like

00:22:44.360 if we're gonna put in the negatives about men right he ghosted I mean he could have sent you a text he 0.98

00:22:57.280 could have said he's not interested I mean that's that's fair that's fair enough he could have right

00:23:01.880 women do it to men all the time but if we're gonna be talk about being respectful sure you

00:23:07.100 could argue that but it's like if you're gonna include the ghosting you better you better you

00:23:11.460 sure as hell better include the karaoke um and this isn't just um about the date like you could

00:23:22.760 put that he paid for the women don't care about money so i don't really think women care if you 0.96

00:23:26.480 pay. I'm going to be honest. Um, I do go alone, but sometimes you just want to jam out. You want 0.97

00:23:32.760 to like rap, you want to do a rap battle with your man, you know, but men, men, um, they're

00:23:42.960 not really, most men aren't into karaoke. You could put that he has a clean house. Not all men have

00:23:48.560 that, right? You could put, um, there's so many positives. If a guy's good and bad, like I was

00:23:55.640 going through these pages and I'm like one why is there no positive reviews what like you could put 0.98

00:24:03.320 the spot he likes to take his bitches to you could put the um you could put his routine you know so

00:24:15.000 you can get an idea of what you're signing up for but all of this stuff it's like abusive coercive 0.90

00:24:20.360 controlling i'm like ladies this is terrible just because these are not accurate like we need to

00:24:27.640 have more accuracy involved yeah see the guys and i'll take you to karaoke but i'm not singing well

00:24:38.680 then why go do you know i mean i mean the whole point of karaoke is so we can do like a back and

00:24:44.440 forth we could do it's like um high school musical i'm just saying yeah dancing right

00:24:52.200 a lot of guys they're not into dancing and if the guy takes you know it's like we should have

00:24:56.680 a pros and a con like if we're gonna women are gonna complain no matter what but it's

00:25:01.000 It's like, ladies, where are the pros?

00:25:04.380 Nothing was good about this guy.

00:25:06.140 Nothing.

00:25:21.040 Not a single thing.

00:25:31.640 Just a lack of appreciation.

00:25:34.440 So little appreciation.

00:25:37.580 Where are the reviews on what men taught you? 0.97

00:25:40.280 So many times men build women. 0.92

00:25:41.880 You know, women always say that they built a man, but really men build women. 0.97

00:25:49.120 Men will teach you how to dance. 0.98

00:25:50.740 They'll teach you how to cook.

00:25:52.140 They'll teach you how to, like, do Bitcoin, trade stocks, have a budget,

00:25:56.920 Gluck, Gluck, 9,000.

00:26:01.000 men build women women don't build men so so many times a man has taught a woman

00:26:10.600 everything she needs to know to get the next and better guy

00:26:13.740 a lot of times men are doing assists in hypergamy right and they just never include that in the

00:26:24.120 reviews. I know men that have taught women how to fix cars. I know men that have taught

00:26:35.200 women music. You know, did he hang your TV? Did he fix your monitor, fix your AC? They

00:26:48.780 They never include that in the review.

00:26:51.100 Just a lack of gratitude.

00:26:55.140 Where are the positive reviews? 0.99

00:26:57.060 Men offer therapy sessions.

00:26:58.720 They'll talk about their trauma.

00:27:01.220 How many times have men given women advice on how to handle a situation?

00:27:06.160 With their friends, with their family.

00:27:09.240 And women just put that he was abusive and controlled.

00:27:12.000 No appreciation.

00:27:13.660 None. 1.00

00:27:18.780 So, really, my question for the men, yeah, Pearl needs to make a dating app and force 1.00

00:27:32.140 these women to give positive reviews. 0.99

00:27:34.020 so my question is why don't women offer positive reviews when it comes to dating 1.00

00:27:52.740 I'm going to put the link in the description Doug MPA is going to come on here

00:27:56.380 trying to think if there's anything I missed any story I'm going to tell when it comes to this

00:28:02.000 topic i'll just lurk in these pages guys and it's oh actually i have one more monologue i'm gonna

00:28:08.320 add before you guys can come up women it's actually embarrassing to date too low of a level of a guy 0.97

00:28:17.340 i want you to understand uh the problem with women is we take these l's right you know catching an 0.99

00:28:24.180 std that's an l um just like a man you know paying for a five-star restaurant and not getting laid 1.00

00:28:29.960 that's embarrassing he's not going to tell everybody about that because that's humiliating

00:28:35.120 embarrassing but tell everybody why aren't we humiliated about um i don't know getting cheated 0.99

00:28:43.780 on catching something getting ghosted that's humiliating being put in the fuck zone 0.98

00:28:50.380 yet 0.97

00:28:52.820 it's like we want do we want to be publicly humiliated is that the the aim here so 1.00

00:29:01.000 anyways um we're gonna bring up doug mpa thanks for coming on um why don't women leave positive 0.99

00:29:07.340 reviews doug mpa uh well so it's women are drama machines right and remember the negative drama 0.99

00:29:19.580 themselves better than the positivity and here's the thing remember the goal is the female friendly

00:29:26.180 version of the story what is the female friendly version of the story pearl where she's the hero

00:29:33.020 and the victim at the same time that's exactly what's going on that's why uh negative reviews

00:29:40.700 lead to the female friendly version of the story period and i also want to talk about so guys

00:29:49.380 not only talk about

00:29:51.720 women can't take L's period

00:29:54.280 we talked about this on the show previously 1.00

00:29:56.380 before what women 1.00

00:29:58.220 on this T app

00:29:59.980 and are we dating the same guys

00:30:02.400 all these women

00:30:04.120 would ghost guys do 1.00

00:30:06.460 all sorts of madness when they were

00:30:08.460 young and they were hot

00:30:09.600 ghost guys do everything but 1.00

00:30:11.980 most women on these apps 0.99

00:30:13.980 or in these groups are between the ages of

00:30:16.220 35 to 50

00:30:17.540 and they hate when guys can do to them what they used to do to men they want to take away every

00:30:24.320 tool that you've earned you have a decent income you keep yourself in shape you know you you put

00:30:30.920 yourself in a position where you can do madness to women and they hate you for it so they'll post

00:30:36.980 you in these groups to try to take that power away from you when guys had to suck up all this

00:30:44.200 when we were young think of how many times you got ghosted by a woman you took a woman out on a date 0.58

00:30:50.560 and she she ate for free and then didn't call you back all the madness but women hate when men do

00:30:56.640 the exact same thing to you and i'm like aren't you guys embarrassed i mean some of these stories

00:31:05.420 i'm reading in the app in the in the group i'm like i think i would die i think i would serve

00:31:12.640 jail time before i told that story if that happened to me like i think do you know what i

00:31:19.680 mean it's like i think men when you guys take an l you don't really tell anybody about it because

00:31:23.920 it's humiliating yeah but women we we tell everybody the l and it's like uh why are we doing

00:31:32.480 that yeah and here's the thing and even if it does get out to taking i mean think about some

00:31:38.160 some of these celebrities who found out that their wife did some craziness or their girlfriend

00:31:43.560 or something there's so many guys who've gone through a similar experience like we pity the

00:31:48.460 guy but it's not the end of the world you know what i'm saying i mean taking l's is so relatable

00:31:53.520 as a guy i mean there is some that are just craziness but still you know um so even if it

00:31:58.780 does get out here's the thing taking an l if you're a guy that does anything when you're taking

00:32:04.800 an L besides move on. Women call you crazy, abusive, all this stuff, but women are empowered 1.00

00:32:10.920 to not take L's and to do something about taking an L. Don't just sit there and take this L from 1.00

00:32:17.060 this guy. Do something about it. Yeah. Guys, you can call in the links in the description. If you've

00:32:23.740 ever been posted on that page, feel free to tell your story. When you call in, please don't tell

00:32:30.460 me how much you love the show nervous i don't care don't have time figure out your audio issues you 1.00

00:32:35.540 don't need to have your camera on um but come on and i'm going to ask you why um why don't women 0.97

00:32:42.720 leave positive reviews and then answer the question and then if you have a story that relates to the 0.99

00:32:47.680 question maybe you were posted uh feel free to tell it and then sometimes if we're vibing i let

00:32:53.040 people stay on the panel don't be nervous um if you mess up or whatever i may kick you i may boot

00:33:00.320 you it's not personal we just try to keep the show going um so if we're vibing i'll keep you if not

00:33:06.480 just call in another day you know what i mean it's no big deal um but yeah so make sure the link is

00:33:14.560 pinned in the youtube chat if you're on twitter you just got to go to my youtube channel and then

00:33:18.720 find the link it's on stream yards did you hear the story about this sicuno uh streamer guy he

00:33:25.920 has 3.8 million subscribers on youtube he's really popular on twitch whatever and he's one of those

00:33:31.520 nerdy kind of guys where he started off as a streamer got really popular and he had this

00:33:38.720 really pretty girlfriend but then it turned out that he was banging a bunch of women on the side

00:33:44.080 So she dropped a Google Doc with all this information about him, 0.90

00:33:48.620 just rinsed him out to everybody.

00:33:51.420 What was in the Google Doc?

00:33:53.300 I don't know.

00:33:54.480 I just saw a video about it last night.

00:33:57.280 Wait, let's react to it.

00:33:58.940 What is it?

00:34:00.020 You put it in the private chat?

00:34:01.600 Yeah, yeah.

00:34:02.020 Let me find it real fast.

00:34:06.760 One second.

00:34:07.940 So how do you think this, while I'm looking for that,

00:34:11.600 How do you think that these groups have affected the current dating market?

00:34:16.080 Oh, God, it makes everybody afraid to put anything in writing.

00:34:21.440 Any text, just assume any text you send is being shared with the group chat.

00:34:27.940 Just assume.

00:34:29.840 Yeah.

00:34:33.180 Yeah, because here's the thing, guys. 0.81

00:34:35.160 Remember, women never take dating advice from women. 0.54

00:34:40.160 women will try to tell guys okay there's so many different things about this one a woman 0.64

00:34:46.140 will tell you like your mom your mom will tell you as a young man what to do you know approaching 0.64

00:34:57.300 a woman and how to cheat a woman in dating but she'll tell you to do everything that was the

00:35:02.460 opposite of what your dad did to get her you know what i'm saying two women will be like you say

00:35:10.060 oh to your female friends how do you approach a woman they say well just be confident bro what 0.98

00:35:15.600 does that mean women will talk to guys about things well they'll lie to you number one and 0.95

00:35:21.980 number two these women will it's something that they're never going to do women are deathly afraid 1.00

00:35:27.920 of approaching men they just won't do it some of the richest most powerful women will not approach 1.00

00:35:33.540 a man ever period well what if i get rejected what if it doesn't go well what if i oh they

00:35:40.340 won't take that risk but they'll tell you oh be confident bro just be confident just catch the vibe

00:35:48.180 what does that even mean

00:35:51.780 oh

00:35:54.740 uh

00:36:03.540 Sean, welcome to the show. Tell me, why don't women leave men positive reviews? And have you 1.00

00:36:09.880 been affected by are we dating the same guy? Yeah, I mean, I would say the ones who leave

00:36:15.200 positive reviews are usually the ones that are basically on the not.com. You can think of it

00:36:19.820 that way. What? It's basically where you register that you're engaged and you're getting married.

00:36:26.040 You can think of it that way, right? That's like a public display of a positive review.

00:36:30.060 uh but in general i just think like most women do not like most men at least here in the u.s so

00:36:36.780 in their minds they think if they complain similar to how they complain about products

00:36:40.960 on google reviews or amazon they think they're going to get more attention because the market

00:36:45.240 tends to reward that behavior right it's usually a lot of customer a lot of major companies social

00:36:50.100 media you know managers are always looking through it and so they're always responding to

00:36:55.120 people who complain about you know this karen complain here or they think the same thing will

00:37:00.540 happen in dating but it does yes it trains their brain to think that it's the same thing will

00:37:06.840 happen or at a bare minimum someone will you know try to placate them and play therapist to oh you

00:37:12.880 know i'm so sad this happened and we're gonna do better it trains their brain to think that's

00:37:17.460 gonna be the outcome but the reality is like if anything it emboldens more women to want to date

00:37:22.340 that guy. Because a lot of women kind of think, hey, if she wanted to date that guy, there must 0.92

00:37:27.240 be something to it, whether it went good or went bad. You know what I mean? Yeah. So have you ever

00:37:32.520 been posted on one of those pages? Yeah, I've been posted on one of those pages. And it's usually

00:37:38.360 like, you know, it's not like saying any, I did anything bad. It's just like general complaints

00:37:43.440 about, oh, he didn't show up on time or this, that, and the other. So I think they just come

00:37:48.480 up with any reason to complain to be honest and you definitely see it more so in some metropolitan

00:37:53.660 areas more than others like a new york city you're gonna see a lot more or in la but to be

00:37:58.420 honest in like texas you don't really see the same level of posting so i think part of it is just the 1.00

00:38:04.320 more feminist you know very dark blue the map goes politically i think that's where you see the 1.00

00:38:10.120 majority of the complaints that's sort of my take on it how many out of your guy friends how many

00:38:14.980 have been posted on the page uh mostly the really attractive ones like the ones no one wants to deal

00:38:23.200 with or like they go on like a pity date or you know i'm kind of bored and or i want someone to

00:38:27.600 buy me drinks that evening before i go off to the guy who only sees me to hook up like those guys

00:38:33.680 will never get posted on there so it's only going to be the guys who make an impression whether

00:38:38.100 they're very attractive or they're just very charismatic like they're good communicators they

00:38:41.980 make people laugh it's going to be the ones who ultimately leave an emotional impression if that

00:38:46.700 makes sense whether it's based on physical attraction or charisma or something else 1.00

00:38:51.180 the main area where it could have major effects is business if a female hiring manager goes to 1.00

00:38:55.580 those pages to search um have you seen that happen to anyone you know female hiring manager goes to

00:39:02.140 search no i don't think someone's job i only like guys that are like a true 10 out of 10 i knew one

00:39:09.180 guy who was like that and he just had a lot of like i think he just brought the crazy out of a

00:39:13.660 lot of women who would show up to like one guy one girl showed up to his actual drill site like out

00:39:18.940 in the middle of nowhere like midland texas what is he was hooking up with this girl in like and

00:39:24.940 you know there's a lot of single moms out in midland uh so like that and when he was working

00:39:28.700 out in bakersfield as well and they would like many times you'd have like a few of them who would

00:39:33.180 show up to the rig site somehow i don't know if they were gps tracking him they put like an apple

00:39:37.660 tag or something like that but they showed up and immediately they had to like kick her out

00:39:41.440 because it's basically like a construction site you can think of it that way and i've known a few

00:39:45.060 other friends where that's happened too so i think it's the guys that are just very attractive who

00:39:49.500 just like really bring out the crazy of a lot of women i think if anything it's just more validating

00:39:55.080 that like those are the kind of guys that women do want to date and that's what they tend to go 0.94

00:39:59.460 for at the end of the day they don't go for the the boring nice guy this that and the other right

00:40:03.360 There's not a, are you dating a nice guy?

00:40:05.960 Are you dating a comfortable guy? 0.99

00:40:07.740 Like none of that shit exists. 0.99

00:40:09.040 So like at the end of the day, right? 0.99

00:40:10.960 It's like what Trump used to say is all press is good press.

00:40:13.860 Yeah.

00:40:14.520 I think there's a lot of truth to it. 0.99

00:40:16.300 You know, the kind of guys that girls tend to date as they get older are usually the ones that are just boring and stable and reliable.

00:40:23.740 And it's usually the guys they're not that attracted to, but they kind of know those guys can never leave them.

00:40:28.980 You know what I mean?

00:40:29.620 so that the guys that are like they're usually pissed about or you see the guys that you know

00:40:33.760 were cheating or this that and the other but those are the guys they have the most attraction for

00:40:37.520 at the end of the day if they dated those guys and they got screwed over but they didn't really

00:40:40.620 care much about that guy they wouldn't be posting yeah so you have to ask yourself like if you're

00:40:45.200 posting you're posting because it left an emotional yeah uh mark welcome to the show 1.00

00:40:50.980 why don't women leave positive reviews and have you been affected by those pages

00:40:57.480 hello i have not been affected but i think the reason they don't post good reviews is because 0.73

00:41:04.140 i think they're ungrateful also women don't like it that other women will steal their man

00:41:11.000 so why would they talk about the man who's good 0.97

00:41:13.220 do you know anything to do with it yeah do you know anybody that's posted on been posted on it

00:41:21.560 no no i don't okay all right thanks for calling in mark good yeah i have so i can give so i've

00:41:32.600 been put on one of those pages and so i i confronted the girl about it leah's got to play

00:41:38.440 yeah so yeah so so i confronted the girl about it and the the gap the gaslighting because

00:41:45.880 someone close to me said hey doug and pa is this you it was like a person that i knew and said hey

00:41:54.920 you know this you're in this facebook group and then like one of my co-workers came up to me

00:42:01.480 at work at my day job and said hey bro look at you you're in these pages what happened

00:42:08.200 i'm like bro and so i confronted the this girl you know i reached out to her and act like everything

00:42:15.720 was fine hey you know how's it going blah blah blah she's like oh let's reconnect so we're

00:42:19.400 talking talking talking and then a couple days later i said did you put me in a basement group 0.96

00:42:24.360 she's like oh whoa oh the gaslighting well you have to understand that you know us women we have

00:42:32.120 to feel safe and we don't want to get hurt out here i said but at what cost though so your your

00:42:39.080 quote-unquote safety comes at the cost of my privacy like what the heck is going on and just

00:42:45.240 the constant gaslight well you have to understand you have to understand you i said i don't have to

00:42:51.400 understand anything this isn't right because all i did was just ghost the girl and guys you know

00:42:58.920 what i mean i'm mr ghost i'm i'm i'm ghost face from screen women guys you have to earn the right

00:43:08.920 to be able to ghost women ghost them you don't owe them anything here's the thing women feel

00:43:14.440 entitled to your time your money your resources and closure don't give them any of it guys

00:43:22.440 women as they get older they feel entitled to some kind of closure when it comes to men 0.69

00:43:27.400 or or women think that they can control outcomes and one thing you learn from being a man is you 0.69

00:43:33.640 cannot control outcomes you can't take that out you can't yeah so so once again all the gas like 0.91

00:43:42.920 these women honestly think that they're just protecting themselves and and and she's in there 0.74

00:43:48.600 to say well you know uh i forgot that you were even in there i'm like what so i'm sitting here

00:43:54.520 having people confront me in my real life and this is literally an afterthought to you

00:44:01.640 art welcome to the show um why don't women leave men positive reviews i i bet you played a song

00:44:08.600 for a girl you know what i mean he's got a little part in his group chat um did did you have a

00:44:13.800 review left on you was that included art all right five four three two figure it out guys um

00:44:29.320 yeah i'm not gonna go back and forth with these audio issues um

00:44:35.240 yeah it's like because i even saw this guy this mr beast video um

00:44:40.920 um where this guy had all of his ex-girlfriends come on the show and they're all comparing their

00:44:47.140 stories and he he played all of them love songs right and i'm like if anything you guys should

00:44:54.920 be happy he perfected his craft for you i'm just gonna get back to i'm gonna say this multiple

00:45:02.880 times on the sheet guys you have to earn your way to be able to damage these women in a way

00:45:09.020 like they feel it necessary to to like sean said you have to admit some kind of impact on a girl

00:45:15.740 for her to put you in one of these pages and like they just don't want you to be able to use

00:45:24.680 the tools necessary to live your dating strategy but they hate it like i knew a girl in new york

00:45:33.360 who was dating a guy and then found his post on the website of another girl trashing him

00:45:39.600 and she still continued to date him so i don't think it actually deters other women from wanting

00:45:45.420 to date that guy if anything i think it drives them to do it even more i know a guy that got

00:45:50.720 messages like he got dms from the post like like in the comments the girls thought he was hot that

00:45:59.260 got dms that figures and that's what i just think i just think as women like ladies ladies hold on

00:46:08.460 i'm gonna drop you guys while i rant for a second i'll bring you back up ladies it's like

00:46:16.620 i i want i just want the reviews to be a little more accurate

00:46:21.100 i want a comprehensive like i understand the reviews shouldn't exist but if they're gonna

00:46:25.500 exist anyway could you do like a one to two how are they in bed you know um do they kick you out

00:46:31.900 the next day or are you gonna get breakfast out of this right um you know i know another guy he 1.00

00:46:37.620 buys his bitches mcdonald's the next day always like where's the appreciation that's great after 0.97

00:46:43.360 care is he gonna slow ghost or just ghost you out of the blue you know just good to know what 0.98

00:46:48.600 to expect with some people is he funny or is he boring like what's the you know because if we are

00:46:54.880 little bit more accurate when we're in different air we know ladies we we have different eras of

00:46:58.960 our life where we like different types of guys you know so we can get the you know the better

00:47:04.480 fit for the different you know when you're 18 and you want to go to raves or whatever

00:47:08.400 you can get the rave guy then when you're a little older um you can get the gym guy

00:47:16.240 right then when you're a little older you can get the accountant you know what i mean um

00:47:22.320 when you're a single mother you can find the single dads like does he date women without

00:47:26.480 kids you know what i mean it's like but we just have no accuracy here no accuracy and i just um

00:47:35.600 mcdonald's or an aftercare never something i thought it's here in the same sense you know

00:47:40.480 because i just have met a lot of guys over the years and because of my work like you guys tell

00:47:45.760 me they're dating stories all the time and i just think there's a general lack of appreciation

00:47:51.280 um like yes you got ghosted but he made you a steak dinner before he ghosted you

00:47:58.400 you know what i mean it's like yes he did not call you back uh but

00:48:06.560 he fed you steak i mean he could have got you chicken that's a lot cheaper

00:48:18.000 i just

00:48:20.400 you know i i just want us to do better you know we just never be able to seem to be able to really

00:48:29.240 we just never seem to be able to do it you know all right guys welcome back you know i i agree

00:48:36.940 with pearl uh because like if you look at reviews on like glassdoor.com on companies and uh things

00:48:42.780 like that or like the ceo you'll all you can tell which ones are the men and which ones are the

00:48:46.780 women because like the men will usually even though it's supposed to be anonymous like the

00:48:51.060 men will usually say pros and then they'll say cons so they'll try to give a very holistic

00:48:55.380 description of like how it was dealing with that company but even in general when i'm talking to

00:48:59.780 my guy friends yeah they'll say their exes were crazy but they'll talk about like the good things

00:49:03.640 and different things like that things they miss but a lot of women they just go straight negative

00:49:07.820 so i think it's just their mind gets really fixated or something like that that they they

00:49:12.380 just they're very binary if that makes sense all right art welcome back you said you got your audio

00:49:18.720 fixed yeah can you hear me oh perfect yeah so tell me um were you posted on the pages and if so did

00:49:27.060 they include i'm sure you sang them some sort of love song or gave them some perform i've never 0.96

00:49:32.880 met a man with a guitar that didn't use it to get bitches so i'm just going to assume yeah 0.98

00:49:37.340 Ain't that the truest shit I ever heard. 1.00

00:49:43.680 Have I been posted on the website? 0.99

00:49:45.840 You know, here and there, I'd say it's more so I've had friends who have done it. 0.99

00:49:51.740 Some of them are the biggest fucking chads you'll ever know, you know? 0.98

00:49:54.980 And sometimes it's even deserved, but it doesn't really seem to affect them at all. 0.99

00:49:59.500 I remember I started dating a girl that I had met at a bar.

00:50:03.200 And it was a bar I'd go to a lot, so I had a bit of a reputation there.

00:50:05.880 and uh i remember a couple weeks into dating started getting all these messages you know 0.98

00:50:12.640 art's gonna do this art's gonna do that art's a piece of shit and uh ignored every single one 0.89

00:50:19.140 it almost seemed to make them want it more so i don't know i think they kind of have a backfire 0.81

00:50:24.100 effect in my opinion so maybe maybe i should offer a service where like i'll post whatever

00:50:31.480 you want in the group i'll put your i'll put you guys's picture and i'll whatever whatever the guy

00:50:40.120 wants to say i could say abusive but the best sex i've ever had and then they'll be like sign me up 0.67

00:50:47.720 like hotcakes yeah yeah i could i could do the marketing that should be a service 1.00

00:50:54.520 that should be i had a i had a close female friend and what she would do is if the date 0.98

00:50:59.640 wasn't going so well she sent me a text along the lines of like where are you i need you now 0.99

00:51:04.920 or something like that yeah doug mpa i gotta get my dog really quick so i'm gonna let you

00:51:10.760 run the panel for a second i'm gonna bring back up mark okay sound good give me wait where is

00:51:17.640 where is the tab going on um so look at the four guys i'm how do you think that these apps

00:51:28.680 have affected dating for for men because a lot of things say women do things they want things but

00:51:36.600 but they know not what they're asking for because i think that we're we're literally in the staring

00:51:43.160 contest women said don't approach us we're not now women complain that that men aren't approaching 0.94

00:51:51.080 they want women they want men to take them out on dates and court them and stuff but then they do

00:51:59.000 these groups so now men are going to date less i understand i'm saying like how do you think that

00:52:05.520 the dating market has been affected by stuff like this not a weird take i think it's actually a 1.00

00:52:14.180 positive oh here we go it filters out the pieces of shit wait how so the women who are too crazy 0.99

00:52:25.600 to give you the benefit of the doubt we're gonna jump to conclusions do you really want to interact 1.00

00:52:29.360 with them when you know women lie yes and she's gonna listen to other women without meeting you

00:52:38.520 she's going to jump to conclusions do you really want to interact with her okay so the my biggest

00:52:45.520 counter to what you're saying is is women's need for validation by other women that's all women 0.85

00:52:53.440 even if they're crazy or not some women get drunk off of validation i mean there's a lot of women

00:52:59.600 out here who they're so concerned with validation from other women that they might as well be 1.00

00:53:04.280 lesbians dude honestly i'm not joking around the the need for so back and over they may want a

00:53:11.220 good man deep inside but the need for validation and to tell a story about men to get validation

00:53:18.040 for from other women is stronger than their need for a man okay so let me ask you this do you want 0.53

00:53:25.980 to date a woman like that or would you rather not waste your time because it's not worth the effort 1.00

00:53:30.320 tiptoeing around her bullshit well so here's the thing women are very impressionable whether 1.00

00:53:36.720 they're sane or not so so it it doesn't it really depends on how much social media they consume 1.00

00:53:45.880 even the most sensible woman look that's why tiktok is mostly women women i always say 0.99

00:53:53.920 modern women yes they're whores single mothers all this stuff but the biggest problem 1.00

00:53:59.660 with modern women is that they can't keep their mouth shut and they overshare on social media 1.00

00:54:04.060 and in their personal life and to their friends and okay it and these facebook groups are the 1.00

00:54:10.620 are one of the ultimate examples of that so you can have sensible women who what do they say in

00:54:17.100 the red pill one of the best you can do for your a woman that you want to do or get serious with

00:54:22.860 have her cut off her friends because her friends are keeping her single these groups are another

00:54:28.220 example that women keeping each other single okay let me ask you this question 0.99

00:54:35.260 you know this happens you want to about it or you want to make it work for you 0.81

00:54:40.140 you know what passports how about that i don't know those women are going to talk amongst themselves

00:54:46.700 either women or mctow okay women don't even bother women talk you're not going to stop them so a you 0.99

00:54:54.540 can bitch about it that they're not saying the you want them sing about you or you can think 1.00

00:54:58.220 about it like hey how do i beat them at their own game clavicular that's how you beat them at your 0.99

00:55:06.460 how would you beat them mark figure out what it takes to turn a woman on and her brains out 0.66

00:55:13.100 so no matter what you did she remembers you her brains out good so she tells other women 0.99

00:55:19.500 yeah he's this this but damn damn i want him again you can learn that as a man you can learn that 0.99

00:55:27.660 i did i grew up in denial about my sexuality that's the way i was raised i figured out hey 0.98

00:55:37.020 this ain't working so let me admit that i don't know what i don't know let me learn from those

00:55:42.620 who do know i had to humble myself i learned um i'm fresh and fit they said this for the right man

00:55:49.820 a woman will break all her rules i was like there's no way let me test this i tested it

00:55:55.900 i figured out how to raise up a woman as a beautiful woman and it got to the point where 0.99

00:56:00.380 she's telling me she would rather i go other women besides her and she gets to be in my life 1.00

00:56:05.420 then i go other women anyway and she doesn't get to be in my life like this actually works 1.00

00:56:11.100 If you've got the sauce, if you put in the time to own your shit 1.00

00:56:14.500 and learn how to have the sauce, you get better outcomes. 0.99

00:56:18.200 You get more of the outcomes you want.

00:56:20.920 Yes, I can counteract that by saying once you get to the point

00:56:24.440 where you're successful, competitive, and ambitious,

00:56:26.960 it's like freaking Kevin Samuel said.

00:56:30.440 You get to the point, especially in your 30s and 40s, bro,

00:56:34.340 where raising up women and all this stuff, you don't have time for it, dude. 0.99

00:56:38.740 You don't have time.

00:56:39.780 a lot of that's why you see a lot of guys some of the most successful guys you see out there

00:56:46.740 are alone because they're because they're worried about their purpose and work a lot of women

00:56:52.000 nowadays in these groups if you're successful competitive ambitious honestly you better off

00:56:57.880 paying for it in 2026 you are learning learning all this riz game dude honestly okay let me

00:57:04.840 transactional anyway just pay for it hold on if she feels entitled to your time and she's upset

00:57:10.920 at you you can't give her the time she wants because you're busy being successful do you

00:57:15.060 really want to deal with that is this like i said no really worth it come on let's it's not 0.99

00:57:20.960 yeah okay doug's agreeing with you okay yeah so she's gonna talk shit about you because she feels 0.73

00:57:26.440 entitled do you really want to give her more of your time or would you rather interact with another 0.99

00:57:30.640 woman who understands you're busy getting shit done you're busy being a winner and it's a 0.99

00:57:35.140 privilege for her to spend time with you she's not entitled you're not entitled to sex with her you 1.00

00:57:39.900 both are getting a privilege give it a few years and she'll be just like that other girl i'll put 0.73

00:57:45.460 it yeah but especially if she's on tiktok dude because here's the thing if you don't validate 1.00

00:57:51.920 her enough she'll always go to the cesspool of tiktok and validation from women okay so she 1.00

00:58:00.360 decides that instead of talking to you to get validation from you she's gonna go listen to 0.85

00:58:05.580 toxic women do you really want to keep her no of course not okay so why are we even talking about 1.00

00:58:12.720 she's gonna make the choice she wants she just filtered herself out she just showed you that a 0.98

00:58:19.380 she's not really worth your time is the sex really worth it i think what doug's trying to say is that

00:58:25.540 like he he agrees with what you're saying right but he's simply saying that it's no longer even

00:58:30.220 worth all this effort to build yourself up and all this stuff thinking you're going to get a

00:58:34.100 relationship that's going to last the long term i just don't think that's in the cards anymore i

00:58:38.360 think social media has polluted things that over time even if you find a quote-unquote good girl

00:58:43.000 she'll go sour too she'll start getting entitled too it's just a matter of time some of the most

00:58:47.860 entitled women are married yeah when pro was talking to andrew wilson he said um andrew

00:58:56.000 wilson said that men religious men will what they get out of marriage is a virtuous woman and pearl

00:59:03.100 said like where are the virtuous women number one right and then number two what's gonna keep women

00:59:10.280 virtuous nothing nothing's gonna keep women virtuous nothing period not in 2026 if you don't 0.94

00:59:17.920 want to put an accountability you don't find a virtuous woman you build her you raise her up if 0.95

00:59:23.320 the father did a good job okay you found a fucking unicorn chances are you're not gonna find one 0.94

00:59:28.780 if she's not worth the effort for you to hold her accountable till she becomes virtuous why are you 0.98

00:59:34.660 why are you wasting your time just walk away yeah i think doug agrees with you that's why yeah get

00:59:39.420 a passport go to a country where the fathers do raise the women well instead of this show i think

00:59:44.180 what he's saying though is you're putting the work on society or the father is when it's your

00:59:48.260 job to make her virtuous and if she doesn't blow you the balance i think that we're not entitled

00:59:53.620 to an outcome you get the outcome you work for if you don't want to work for that outcome don't

00:59:58.660 complain that you don't have it just admit juice ain't worth the squeeze you don't want to do what

01:00:03.780 my only counter to that is you you can say that on things that like like your career you that's

01:00:11.380 mainly based on you the problem with relationships is like is that there's another person in there

01:00:18.260 you could put all the work you want into a woman and if she's actively fighting against you well

01:00:24.560 it's not just work harder bro no i know but he's saying that like that's on you because you didn't

01:00:30.800 walk away oh yeah yeah but he's saying like it's either listen to me or get out and if like you

01:00:38.280 don't i think he's saying like if you don't kick her when she doesn't listen that's on you yeah 0.99

01:00:43.100 i agree with that i agree yeah but but how many women are you actually gonna find that are actually

01:00:47.900 going to go along with you on a long enough time frame and aren't going to like because by the time

01:00:51.980 you're meeting a lot of these women right it's not like they're 18 okay you're like 27 they're 32

01:00:56.740 they're 33 they've been trained by so many different men with all these sort of psychological

01:01:01.700 reward systems of being attracted to toxic guys and this and women bro and women yeah and all of

01:01:07.780 this stuff the idea you're gonna suddenly change her by you know holding frame and all this other

01:01:12.880 bs like i mean come on i'm gonna okay pearl's been on she's been all this i'm gonna counter

01:01:18.000 i'm gonna counter um the best woman i know over a long enough time frame actually had a terrible

01:01:24.640 childhood and she was found at like 32 30 ish not not saying but it was because her husband

01:01:32.320 basically said if you want to be my wife you have no social media you're staying home with the kid

01:01:37.760 like you're gonna listen or get out and like i think that's his point is like guys with that 0.91

01:01:43.920 mind if there's any women that can be changed that's the only way you'll get them um but that's 0.84

01:01:49.440 just my observation that's the only here's what i'm trying to do my main thing just real fat my

01:01:54.240 main thing is guys you you get okay in your 30s and 40s you get to the years that are gonna affect

01:02:03.920 the rest of your life dude you know i'm saying and it used to be that a woman used to recognize 1.00

01:02:09.200 that if if you win she wins right but you have women uh one of the tenets of female empowerment 1.00

01:02:16.880 is to actively be in competition with your man actively hamstring him active make him set aside 0.89

01:02:24.800 his his competitiveness his decisive decision making ambition said he has to set that aside

01:02:31.840 he can be that out in the world but not in his own home guys okay let me have to be able to be

01:02:37.840 that person in every aspect of your life and if you can't be that with a woman leave her behind

01:02:42.960 period okay let me ask you this how is that mentality working for those women who cares

01:02:50.240 honestly i've been on dates with those women lately and if you were to ask them they'd say

01:02:55.200 they're perfectly happy they'd rather be alone and doing whatever it is that they want to do 1.00

01:02:59.760 with the money they're making than be married to a guy they have to listen to that's mediocre that's

01:03:04.400 how they all feel let me assure you that okay do you see how they're in denial they're all coping

01:03:09.360 which is why they're still secretly they're not they're not coping like they're they seriously

01:03:14.560 mean it is that any guy who steps into their life has to compete with all the things they get being

01:03:20.720 in a single person 100 they are not willing to compromise their existing life they've created

01:03:26.880 with their own money getting to make their own decisions that they've been doing for

01:03:29.680 over a decade at this point for any average guy i assure you this let him let him finish

01:03:35.120 because i kind of want to hear where he's going go ahead mark all right so they've got that

01:03:40.000 mentality how's that working out for them are they happier than the woman who does it differently

01:03:45.600 a woman who decides you know what i'm going to submit to my man and try the traditional thing

01:03:49.360 if you actually look at the end of the day which one of those women is actually more fulfilled

01:03:53.920 actually has more joy in her life there's a reason we all from the outside look in we see how that

01:04:00.080 doesn't work they're coping they're coping they're in denial they're coping but they won't admit it

01:04:07.120 to themselves because they don't want to admit to themselves that they chose wrong okay just

01:04:12.240 walk away they're in denial well the only counter i'll say is i think they're happier in the long

01:04:19.200 term but nobody's happier than a at coachella yeah yeah okay let me let me finish so um the

01:04:33.440 because the one thing is like yes the the traditional like mother was happier in the

01:04:39.280 long term right she's happier with her husband like now she has better kids than all the other 1.00

01:04:43.920 kid like she won in the long term but like uh the other like the more modern mothers were like 1.00

01:04:49.220 traveling for work going to all these fun events and when they were doing that they were having

01:04:53.440 more fun than the traditional mother sitting at home with the kid do you know what i'm saying

01:04:56.940 like it's just like long term versus short term does that make sense yeah yeah how'd the families

01:05:02.400 turn out do the children appreciate their mother traveling or they resent her for being absent oh

01:05:07.600 completely like resent resentful versus the that's what i'm saying the long run versus short

01:05:13.220 but it's not like um i mean i just knowing the the family i'm talking about i don't think the

01:05:19.540 kids really appreciated it till they were older and they saw not everyone had that

01:05:23.320 you know what i mean yeah yeah so it's it relationships are complicated you are not

01:05:31.580 entitled to the relationship you want you have to work for it you're not entitled to the partner

01:05:36.220 you want you're not entitled to the job you want you're not entitled to having the house you want

01:05:40.080 you're not entitled to having the sex you want you got to work for it you got to learn what it

01:05:43.700 takes to get what you want basically you have to decide is this person i'm talking to are they

01:05:48.780 worth the effort to get what i want because i'm gonna have to hold myself accountable and i'm

01:05:54.260 gonna have to figure out how to hold them hold them accountable in a way that they don't resent

01:05:58.320 me yeah like because because training a girl is a lot of work like it's so funny they always say

01:06:05.060 that like women build men but men really build women that's it all the time men build like men

01:06:10.800 and it's um it's like a burden like i don't know if you've ever had an employee unless they're

01:06:18.300 trained before like if you're starting from scratch it takes a lot of work to train someone

01:06:22.480 with no experience yeah and here's the flip side women said they have to train a man how to have

01:06:28.000 good sex with them because he doesn't know her yet right it takes work let's just be 100 it takes 1.00

01:06:33.800 work to get the results you want. It takes work from both sides. The woman has to figure out how 0.95

01:06:38.820 to share her feelings with him without being a nagging bitch. He has to figure out how to hold 1.00

01:06:44.040 her accountable without her resenting him, without her thinking he's controlling. Both sides have to

01:06:49.520 learn. There is no workaround to putting in the work to learn. Yeah, that's true. Imagine a thousand

01:06:56.680 years ago, men actually saying, we have to learn how to deal with the girl's feelings. I mean,

01:07:02.540 that's a crazy concept for all this biblical talk 100 years ago yeah even 100 years ago right so for

01:07:08.140 all this biblical talk now we're talking about how men have succeeded so much ground to the craziness 0.75

01:07:12.860 that comes with women that we're talking about dealing with their feelings because this is what 0.98

01:07:16.780 we've been like infiltrated in our minds that men are supposed to basically adapt to women's 0.86

01:07:22.540 craziness over the years are they talking about what you're talking about let me finish let me

01:07:29.580 finished so um because the thing is there was writings even like a hundred years ago that like

01:07:35.980 that were talking about these same things i don't think women are that different adam couldn't

01:07:39.740 control eve you know here's what i want to say about women's feelings women are going to have

01:07:47.180 their feelings emotions whether you like it or not you either about it that you don't know

01:07:51.740 how to influence it so her emotions are working for the relationship or you just face yourself

01:07:57.740 hold on hold on or you look in the relationship you look in the mirror and you say i don't know

01:08:03.820 what i don't know so i'm gonna learn how to interact with her how to understand her emotions 0.96

01:08:10.700 okay there's no shortcut either you do it or you bitch that her emotions run the relationship how's 0.86

01:08:16.380 that working out for in the society today how do you know i think back in the day men just simply 0.95

01:08:22.140 did not give a they were smart enough to say we're not gonna let these women i think i think he's

01:08:26.620 cook mark mark mark how old are you i'm 34. yeah okay i thought so so so here's the thing they're

01:08:35.500 not saying what you're saying in nigeria bro they're not saying what you're saying in russia

01:08:40.620 50 of the world doesn't have to do what you're talking about doug it's the same 0.74

01:08:50.380 let's use an example let's use an example where the men do not want to learn female psychology 0.88

01:08:55.820 and they russia nigeria freaking okay india okay let's use an example let's talk about 0.65

01:09:03.580 hold on let's talk about the middle east yeah 74 percent russia and the woman does what the man 0.97

01:09:11.260 wants or his family will kill her for disobeying is that man having the relationship he wants 0.69

01:09:17.740 is he getting the sex he wants i'm pretty sure he is yeah i don't think he is i'm pretty sure 0.99

01:09:22.860 he has peace in his household with his mother yeah i know peace is better than sex bro 0.97

01:09:28.700 how are you going to have peace with the woman who resents you because you control her you ain't

01:09:32.460 going to have women are going to present you period in 2026 let me assure you in those types 0.99

01:09:36.860 of households the women do not step out of line 100 that makes sense like physically they know

01:09:42.300 not to step out of line your consequences okay you have to understand the feelings of women get 0.98

01:09:47.500 the fuck out of here oh no i said you have to understand you have to validate i said you have

01:09:56.420 to understand it because it's they're going to have them whether you like it or not you can be 1.00

01:10:00.940 that toxic asshole who beats the fuck at her because she feels a certain type of way and then 1.00

01:10:04.980 she resents you or you can figure out you know what that's not gonna get me the sex i want that's 1.00

01:10:11.300 not gonna get her in the mood where she wants to fuck my brains out because i'm in the mood 0.99

01:10:15.640 you you got it like if you've traveled you would know that in certain cultures in certain countries 0.99

01:10:21.800 women are kind of told from a very young age that their feelings do not fucking matter 0.98

01:10:26.440 100 nobody gives a shit i promise if you go to india 100 years ago that is what all of those 0.98

01:10:31.340 women think but how do you know you weren't alive you were not alive 100 years ago you guys are

01:10:36.960 speaking about things you didn't even even experience you weren't there you have no idea

01:10:41.600 pearl here's the thing about it i'll tell you why cutting me off let me finish the

01:10:45.980 russia like you just said russia is so different 74 divorce rate like i lived in london i would

01:10:54.080 meet the kids of these so-called like families that were traditional and all the traditional

01:10:59.080 quote-unquote traditional moms they were they did not like their husbands and that's his point like 1.00

01:11:04.140 whenever you force someone to do something they resent you for it but we know that women women

01:11:08.920 aren't going to like their husbands even if you do what they say so you're screwed okay so why 0.87

01:11:15.240 why try to understand a woman if she's not gonna she she's not gonna like you if you try to 0.98

01:11:19.640 understand her okay no no we've established you're better off being toxic and doing the opposite of 0.91

01:11:26.280 what women want so what's the point of trying to understand it okay when freaking understanding a

01:11:30.360 woman will get resentment from her hold on i disagree understanding her will not get you 0.97

01:11:36.120 resentment trying to control her will get your resentment invalidating her emotions will get 0.88

01:11:41.880 you resentment so you can invalidate her argue with her for how she feels and she's going to

01:11:46.840 resent you or you can say you know what i'm going to put in the work to understand her psychology

01:11:53.000 either her emotions are working against you because you don't want to do the work or you

01:11:57.080 just said you know what i'm not going to be lazy i'm going to surrender my need to be right i'm

01:12:02.440 gonna learn to see from her point of view doug you know how crazy sorry go ahead and then from

01:12:09.160 learning to understand her point of view you can understand what is it that she finds attractive 0.99

01:12:14.200 how do i learn to create chemistry if you tell her that you're entitled to have sex with her she's 1.00

01:12:20.440 gonna resent you so you have a woman here we can ask her right now for her opinion if she's in a 1.00

01:12:25.480 relationship and the man feels entitled to have sex with her does she appreciate that or is that a 1.00

01:12:30.120 turn off oh no you appreciate it like that's why women do the test of like um like like when we get 1.00

01:12:38.360 naked in front of guys and then say oh no i don't want to have sex it's like a way to test if they 0.90

01:12:42.200 have um abundance guys don't know it's not like conscious though um no no because it's like

01:12:51.000 something you can feel as a woman if a guy understands female nature he doesn't it's

01:12:55.400 something you feel so i i agree i think he's cooking if i'm being honest i think people don't

01:13:01.720 like interacting with people who are entitled people who who want a certain outcome but they

01:13:07.160 don't want to put in the work and then they try to control other people we resent them

01:13:11.960 and we prefer people who own up to the fact that they're not entitled and they decide i'm gonna

01:13:17.240 learn we respect people like that it goes into relationships also where i think a lot of guys

01:13:23.880 screw up is that we're so used to only interacting with guys our entire life we think that interacting

01:13:29.400 with girls are going to be the same thing we think that hey our friendships with our guys or work

01:13:33.480 relationships they're going to last a very long time as long as we do x y and z as long as we

01:13:38.200 know how to do this that and the other the reality is i think most guys need to accept in today's day

01:13:43.080 and age that whatever relationship you have with a woman will not last your entire life it'll last

01:13:47.800 as long as it will last and you need to know when to simply just walk away and it's not worth it

01:13:52.760 you should listen to mark right now he's saying you got to learn the judo and the psychology and

01:13:56.360 all this other stuff so many guys are used to thinking that way and this is all i know but

01:14:01.400 there's like um i i recently was reading like um robert glover and like some of ryan stone's work

01:14:09.480 and some of the tools that they give men um in order to understand female nature i don't think i

01:14:17.080 i don't know it well enough to like articulate it that well but when i was reading it i was thinking

01:14:22.440 that that was very helpful for men when you could say oh she's doing this because it means this

01:14:29.160 um like for example if she says i'm not having sex we're not having sex tonight it means you

01:14:35.640 are that's helpful to know right so there's things like that where men there's like men

01:14:40.840 that have made like autistic level guides that i just can't see a downside in learning

01:14:45.800 like what's the downside in learning that you know what i'm saying is learning like learn what you

01:14:51.240 you need to learn but don't have this expectation that if you read all the red pill books it this

01:14:55.460 relationship is going to last till the end of the time like it will eventually burn out and that's

01:14:59.740 okay just that's what that's what he's that's what he's saying though is he's saying like

01:15:04.660 you're not entitled to an outcome and so entitled to an out like i think i think that's why i think

01:15:11.980 i think he's cooking you guys what i'm saying is this you only have 100 of time and effort at any

01:15:17.580 given time. There's a reason why when a guy gets divorced, his wealth goes up, right? Most time

01:15:24.580 dealing with women in the way that Mark's talking about, it's opportunity cost, okay? It's time 1.00

01:15:32.140 that you could spend building yourself. You have to make the active decision. I'm going to take

01:15:37.880 time away from my purpose and what I'm doing to have a woman in my life. And what I'm saying is

01:15:43.100 in 2026 that'll cost you too much especially for where for for the benefit you have to be aware

01:15:50.460 if you get if you're putting in the work towards understanding women like mark says it's opportunity

01:15:56.860 costs that you could be putting towards other things and that opportunity cost could be it

01:16:02.240 could be beneficial in ways that could benefit you in all aspects of life not just women

01:16:07.700 one more thing women women if you you put okay when men win everyone wins and when women win

01:16:18.040 they win for themselves and for women want in 2026 women want a successful competitive ambitious man

01:16:25.600 to set everything that his purpose and everything aside to help them achieve their own selfish

01:16:31.700 goals understanding women and putting in all this work for a woman is helping her achieve her goals

01:16:37.520 not yours yeah but not necessarily though because it takes care of the sexual like because the way

01:16:43.360 i understand it like once guys get to a certain level i've just seen it because i've seen these

01:16:47.440 boot camps they put in like a certain amount of hours and then um they don't have to deal with

01:16:52.640 the problem anymore like not like they used to like it's not as hard for them later you know

01:16:57.440 what i mean so it's like if their sexual problem is solved then you don't think that's like a

01:17:02.320 benefit for the rest of their life like if they learn that young i understand you have to like

01:17:08.480 pick and choose but i just don't see a downside into learning that here's what i want to say

01:17:12.800 is the juice worth the squeeze as a man are you going to have to make compromises to allocate

01:17:20.320 opportunity cost to building a relationship yes if that's what you want nothing in the world that

01:17:25.520 is worthwhile having comes easy you have to work for it so you have to decide yes i agree is this

01:17:30.720 relationship worth it is having this particular woman in my life worth it if not walk away you

01:17:36.960 lost nothing okay yeah we're all gonna go extinct if that happens you've never been married before

01:17:44.400 dude i can tell bro i don't know if you've never had like a long-term relationship where you put

01:17:52.240 time and effort effort most men the woman that they get with leaves off in a better position

01:18:00.400 than when she met him and he has to spend years building his life back up dude so you are 0.98

01:18:05.000 completely wrong on that you you do lose a long-term relationship i kicked her out of my

01:18:10.060 house on christmas because she disrespected me okay i told her don't do this i i said don't do

01:18:17.780 this she did it anyway i kicked her out on christmas i established boundaries okay mark 1.00

01:18:25.180 how many women do you know she demonstrated she wasn't worth the time continuing to be in my life 1.00

01:18:31.040 she didn't appreciate how i am a positive to her i'm a bigger positive to her than she is to me

01:18:37.300 yes and if you would have been married or had kids you would have lost big time okay i get it but

01:18:43.440 there are men who they divorce they decide i'm not gonna sit here and cry about it and they

01:18:50.200 rebuild and then they go on to win again because but what does rebuilding mean they lost and had

01:18:56.480 to rebuild what they lost so once again you're wrong hold on no i'm not wrong remember i said

01:19:01.900 you are not entitled to an outcome yeah i never said you were i think he's cooking i don't know

01:19:08.260 Why do you guys still think he's cooking?

01:19:10.020 So, Mark, why don't you?

01:19:12.340 And then you finally win again.

01:19:14.180 That victory is so much sweeter because you understand what it's like to lose.

01:19:18.340 You understand how much work you have to put in to win,

01:19:20.640 which is why when you see people or women, 1.00

01:19:23.640 they don't put up with any shit people have to put in to lose. 0.99

01:19:25.840 And then they leave you and you're stuck. 1.00

01:19:27.740 But you won, bro. 0.99

01:19:28.940 Get the fuck out of here. 1.00

01:19:29.480 Okay, why are you so afraid of losing? 1.00

01:19:31.960 I don't think you say how gynocentric what you're saying is.

01:19:34.760 You're saying men need to win a card. 0.96

01:19:35.300 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

01:19:36.560 I understand women. 1.00

01:19:37.640 Women. 1.00

01:19:39.000 Go ahead. 1.00

01:19:39.740 Finish what you're saying.

01:19:40.760 Okay.

01:19:41.260 You either learn to understand them to get the outcomes you want, 1.00

01:19:44.900 or you continue to be a whiny bitch who doesn't understand them and doesn't 1.00

01:19:48.240 get the outcomes you want. 1.00

01:19:49.060 The choice is yours.

01:19:50.520 Understand them,

01:19:51.540 learn to work with them to get the outcome you want, 1.00

01:19:54.100 or refuse to learn and continue to be a whiny bitch who doesn't have the 1.00

01:19:57.640 time. 1.00

01:19:57.940 The choice is yours.

01:19:58.900 You got to look in the mirror and decide,

01:20:00.500 is the juice worth the squeeze?

01:20:01.740 How badly do you want the outcome you want?

01:20:03.680 How much work are you willing to put in to get it?

01:20:06.620 you're not guaranteed an outcome you are not guaranteed and i was jumping i know you got

01:20:12.620 thoughts on this yeah am i am i crazy i thought he was kind of cooking doug mpa thinks he's not

01:20:19.820 cooking at all insanity yeah he thinks insanity uh i know carlos speak for the latino community i

01:20:26.980 think what he's saying it's like i don't think you should ever put yourself above your partner

01:20:33.520 like to try to be like that alpha or whatever that is like you should be like equal with your

01:20:38.800 partner bro okay you know that doesn't work the man has to be the head of the household

01:20:49.760 i think you got people from michael knoll's channel coming over

01:20:52.800 i will say this to what carlo is saying your value as a human being yeah it's equal but in the

01:20:59.120 the relationship, the man is supposed to be the head. Why? Because our emotions are not

01:21:04.060 manipulated the same way women's are. Men tend to emotionally regulate better than women, 0.52

01:21:11.140 which is why men in times of stress tend to make better decisions, right? We've got an example of 0.97

01:21:17.020 this. Plane is crashed. You want a male pilot or a female pilot, right? Okay. That's why the man

01:21:21.960 should be the head. So when shit hits the fan, he is better positioned to make good outcomes. 0.99

01:21:27.500 And yeah, like the comment says, not only in times of stress, because of the way men 0.99

01:21:32.200 look at the world, we are more likely to accept the reality of the situation.

01:21:37.500 And even if the only choices we have are shitty choices, we tend to look at them and decide,

01:21:42.460 okay, that's the least shitty choice.

01:21:44.420 I got to choose it. 0.99

01:21:45.680 Whereas if you watch women, they tend to get trapped in, oh, it's a shitty choice. 0.93

01:21:50.500 It makes me feel so bad.

01:21:51.460 I don't want to do it.

01:21:52.140 And they tend to get stuck and become inactive when men will see it as like, hey, I got to do this because we got to get through the other side.

01:21:59.980 That's why the man needs to be the head. You're not supposed to be equal in authority.

01:22:04.220 Your value as human beings. Yes, that is equal.

01:22:08.100 Mark, I think I think I figured out where where our lines are crossed.

01:22:12.700 okay um when it comes to achievements in life because i think a man's purpose and his impact 0.56

01:22:20.980 on the world is first above all else yes above women i agree right your rhetoric seems like

01:22:30.800 women should be the overall goal because here's the thing you listen listen listen listen if 0.97

01:22:37.000 you're achieving if you're making an impact on the world bitch about women all you want 1.00

01:22:41.460 Because you are making a permanent, lasting impact with your success. 0.97

01:22:46.520 And period.

01:22:48.220 Making observations about women and having a betting system is not bitching. 0.84

01:22:54.400 My platform is put your purpose and your impact and your occupation and your earning potential above women. 0.70

01:23:01.440 I can concede. 1.00

01:23:02.620 If you want the outcome with women, do what Mark says. 1.00

01:23:06.520 Okay, I'm fine with that. 1.00

01:23:08.200 I can concede that.

01:23:09.220 But I would just say your purpose comes first.

01:23:13.320 Don't let what you're talking about with Mark ever go past your purpose as a man and your success as a man.

01:23:20.540 If we can make that compromise, I'm perfectly fine.

01:23:23.180 Doug, it's not a compromise.

01:23:24.720 I agree with you.

01:23:25.660 Remember, I said, is the juice worth the squeeze?

01:23:27.700 Is it worth having her in your life?

01:23:30.060 Is she worth the opportunity cost?

01:23:33.780 Are you?

01:23:34.940 Let's listen to this. 1.00

01:23:36.260 Half the world's population has a vagina. 1.00

01:23:38.080 Why does it have to be her? 1.00

01:23:39.220 because they're the closest to us that's why 1.00

01:23:42.420 half the world population has a vagina okay he's saying he's saying if she doesn't act 0.98

01:23:51.620 like right you can just get a new one yeah yeah if it's not worth the effort why would you invest 0.99

01:23:57.900 the effort right like doug is saying there are things in life purpose that are more important

01:24:03.060 to a man than getting laid yes okay okay okay now we're good is this woman worth the effort

01:24:08.460 is she worth the effort you're gonna have to put in the work to learn her to learn and understand 0.50

01:24:12.780 her psychology if she's not worth the effort don't waste your time just walk away you got

01:24:17.580 more important things to do okay mark let's say guys said they don't want to put in the effort

01:24:23.500 to deal with this kind of crazy they want to come with the girl who already acts right where would

01:24:27.420 they go to find this nowhere if you give them a teleportation device what pearl said because 0.98

01:24:33.340 you're starting from the perspective i don't want to put in the work well then don't that you

01:24:36.860 you don't get the outcome you want like he's shortcut to doing the work yeah i i think he's

01:24:41.220 saying like if you want a relationship you have to put in the time to understand and build her

01:24:45.900 like that's it otherwise you're not going to get one in 2026 because nobody's going to come 0.75

01:24:51.140 programmed sorry i've met i disagree with you on the other countries thing i've met the women 1.00

01:24:56.380 from these countries they're the same same story same abusiveness same attitude like i don't see 0.89

01:25:02.760 difference i grew up with people who are from the soviet union ukrainian russian romanian okay 1.00

01:25:09.080 so i've seen the culture of these immigrants who've come here if they don't put in the work 0.93

01:25:14.200 they don't get the outcome and then they cope and and try to use religion 0.98

01:25:18.360 to manipulate people into compliance and then it creates resentment it doesn't work 0.89

01:25:23.880 okay let me give a perspective let's say you do have to do work no matter what woman don't 0.99

01:25:27.800 you think there are some women that are less work than others like does anyone not think that 1.00

01:25:31.560 there are women around the world that are easier to deal with than black american women right 0.99

01:25:35.320 100 yeah i just want to get that out there the squeeze is the juice worth the squeeze if you see 0.98

01:25:43.320 that the women in your environment are not worth the squeeze and you want a woman in your life

01:25:47.560 you're going to have to look elsewhere right is the juice worth the squeeze is it worth the effort

01:25:52.360 yeah i think i just want to squeeze as little as possible and not have to deal with that

01:25:56.600 it makes sense it makes sense we want to find the most efficient way to get what we want right

01:26:01.320 look at us men we want to achieve purpose right business professional whatever we are looking for

01:26:06.680 the most efficient way to achieve it why because we know we have limited opportunity costs we have

01:26:12.040 limited time that's why we don't want to waste our time on that which doesn't work this is why

01:26:16.600 if you look at us men we have this ability to humble ourselves i want this somebody else got

01:26:22.040 it let me go show him that i'm willing to learn let me trade my humility to show him respect for

01:26:29.320 the work he did and learned from him to save me time and if you watch we men we respect another

01:26:35.800 man who has the humility to say i don't know what i don't know but you have experience i want to

01:26:39.640 learn we respect men like that and we're willing to teach him but when another man comes and he is

01:26:44.600 feels entitled to us teaching him we don't respect that we don't want to teach him if he feels

01:26:49.960 entitled to an outcome like yeah i know oh you got the humility yeah let me take you under my

01:26:55.080 wing let me be you're meant to let me let me get the reward of seeing you be successful

01:27:01.560 right so there's no shortcut to doing the work so so everything you're saying about men will

01:27:06.680 want to put in the the work and the outcome is good but the problem is is you're talking about

01:27:11.640 male entitlement women are a thousand times more entitled in this dating thing and remember

01:27:17.880 reciprocity is key to almost any relationship right so you so let's say you you have a man

01:27:25.740 because remember kevin samuel's whole platform was built on men who who built themselves up to

01:27:31.680 the point where they're ready to do what mark says they're ready to to put the time into a

01:27:37.920 relationship but kevin samuel's got popular because there's so many women who aren't willing 0.66

01:27:42.380 to reciprocate the need for want for outcomes so what if you have a guy who's willing to put

01:27:48.220 in the time the outcome but the women around him the women accessible to him aren't willing

01:27:54.660 to reciprocate that need for wanting to achieve outcomes there there is a social infrastructure

01:28:00.860 in place of women from from looks rating one to looks rating 10 to not reciprocate the need and

01:28:08.120 the work for outcomes with a man i agree i can't change it

01:28:16.280 yeah i'm grateful she doesn't want to reciprocate walk away it's not worth your time yeah i think

01:28:21.160 his point is just like there's no way around it and you can't change women right i think i thought 0.67

01:28:27.800 he was cooking we'll just be on your purpose guys women are secondary no matter what what it is

01:28:34.120 so yeah i don't think he's disagreeing that the purpose came first at least from 0.95

01:28:41.400 what i understood let me ask you this mark what would you tell a 17 year old today who's saying

01:28:47.820 hey i'm in shape you know i work hard but the women they don't respect me they're not no sean

01:28:52.380 25 years old law school graduate sure 25 year old law school graduate still doesn't get any

01:28:58.720 interest from women he says i've worked hard i got good grades i'm respectful i'm nice i stay 0.98

01:29:03.520 in shape and women still don't give a shit about me they'd rather go to miami and deal with those 0.96

01:29:07.600 guys and that's the vast majority of women and the other majority of women that aren't going in 0.99

01:29:12.120 that direction are the ones who would rather simply not date or they'd rather date older men

01:29:16.840 or they do whatever here's what i would say you're not going to change what they do

01:29:21.400 you have to accept that you can't change what they do they're going to do what they do

01:29:26.900 it is what it is now what kind of men are they chasing figure out how to demonstrate those

01:29:34.800 qualities so that instead of chasing other men they're chasing you it is what it is you're not

01:29:40.480 going to change it you can sit here and get mad about or say you know what the game is rigged

01:29:44.980 against me but damn it i want to win anyway so i'm going to figure this out we love a good underdog 0.99

01:29:50.300 story this is why the men who put in the work to win they don't put up with shit from those who 0.99

01:29:55.440 don't want to put in the work that's why they keep winning and they won't apologize for it 0.94

01:29:59.280 they put in the work they figured it out they figured out what it takes to be attractive to 0.61

01:30:03.620 women so women are coming to them so women are sliding into their dms and they're not going to

01:30:07.340 apologize but they're just going to keep winning you can complain that you're not please point to

01:30:13.040 me a man who's winning even tom brady's divorced but you said earlier that you have to understand

01:30:17.480 their feelings and their emotions and all this stuff and you just can see it that women are

01:30:21.200 going to miami you think the men that women are banging in miami are understanding their feelings 0.99

01:30:27.680 like you said earlier bro some of them yes some of them get the fuck out of the men who got game 0.90

01:30:35.580 yeah i agree you can't have game without understanding female psychology he's correct

01:30:41.040 i've seen i've seen the boot camps like i've i've just i've seen too much like they they do teach

01:30:47.720 this stuff um takes a lot of time though so i understand if you don't it takes time but it's

01:30:54.320 like i don't think you can discount that there's men that figure out female nature and figure out

01:30:59.740 how to make it work for them okay mark what would you say to tom brady he got divorced with giselle

01:31:07.020 bunchen because he didn't understand her emotions and all her complaining and this guy wins this

01:31:11.280 guy's winning at life and you know now that he's divorced he probably gets whatever women he wants

01:31:14.960 in miami but what would you tell him did you would you tell him you didn't understand her

01:31:19.140 emotions and her psychology well but but you know a blue pill does a mindset like it doesn't matter

01:31:24.900 your accomplishments if you're blue pilled that's true like so like you're saying like oh he's so

01:31:31.180 great like that doesn't mean he knew anything about female nature he dated leonardo dicaprio's

01:31:35.360 ex he clearly i just don't think that understanding i'm sorry i'm saying like if he was dating 0.91

01:31:41.000 leonardo dicaprio's ex-girlfriend like your bitch was on a lot a yacht last year

01:31:47.160 you had a great understanding you want to know what i would say to tom brady i would ask him 0.98

01:31:55.520 what's the outcome you want and what are you doing to get it i don't know what he's trying 0.73

01:31:59.460 to accomplish in life i can't say shit because i don't know what he wants what advice can i give 0.77

01:32:04.280 to him if i don't know what he wants to accomplish plus his roster now includes alex earl 0.95

01:32:10.220 and Sidney Sweeney.

01:32:11.880 I think he's doing fine.

01:32:13.960 That's true.

01:32:14.900 Also, don't forget that Tom Brady,

01:32:19.240 the reason why Giselle said they got divorced

01:32:23.000 is she said, I don't want you to get on that plane 1.00

01:32:25.920 to play that last season of football

01:32:28.800 after he won the Super Bowl with the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. 0.99

01:32:32.280 He said, screw you. 0.99

01:32:34.220 I'm getting on that plane. 1.00

01:32:35.580 She probably said, if you get on that plane,

01:32:37.380 I'm not going to be here when you get back.

01:32:38.900 and he got on that plane anyway.

01:32:41.460 That's what I'm saying.

01:32:43.060 Get on the plane.

01:32:44.880 Don't sit there and try to understand her feelings

01:32:47.800 as to why she doesn't want you to pursue your purpose.

01:32:49.880 Get on the plane and go play another season of football.

01:32:52.960 That's what I'm saying.

01:32:53.480 Hold on.

01:32:53.960 Hold on.

01:32:55.440 He had to understand why she's doing it,

01:32:57.420 and he saw through it, maybe.

01:32:59.020 I don't know.

01:32:59.700 Notice, I understand what she was doing.

01:33:02.080 She was trying to control him.

01:33:03.360 She was trying to be the alpha in the relationship. 1.00

01:33:05.540 He said, fuck this shit. 1.00

01:33:06.520 I'm not doing that. 1.00

01:33:07.240 i'm gonna do what i want i'm gonna go pursue my purpose and that's what i'm saying okay he

01:33:13.180 guaranteed an outcome he is proof you are not entitled to an outcome no matter where you are

01:33:18.480 in life you're not entitled to an outcome he said some high level i understand exactly what you're

01:33:24.420 saying you can be good with women and still not get the outcome you want yeah i'm not denying that

01:33:30.940 but his point is you can't his point is you can't like you just can't get around learning to be

01:33:37.880 attractive to women if you want to be in a relationship let's look at fresh and fit they're 0.94

01:33:42.340 in miami they had to fucking learn what it takes to win and now they're winning and they're not 0.90

01:33:47.320 going to apologize for it they put in the work but they're putting that effort towards their 0.98

01:33:52.900 success independent of women we got into this because because you're talking about

01:33:58.360 I never said you have to compromise. I never said you give up your success to be successful with women. You have to consider the opportunity cost. Is the juice worth the squeeze? They decided it was worth the squeeze to learn how to be successful in multiple things. And they decided that they're going to hold themselves accountable to be successful in the areas they want to be successful in.

01:34:18.780 They said, we don't know about finance, we're going to learn it. We don't know about streaming, we're going to learn it. We don't know enough about how to be successful with women, we're going to learn it. They decided that the juice was worth the squeeze, they want it badly enough, and they're going to figure out how to do it, and they're going to manage it so they get the results they want.

01:34:37.340 I'm not saying surrender your purpose.

01:34:39.300 What I'm saying is, is it worth the effort to have the relationship you want?

01:34:42.640 If yes, put in the work.

01:34:44.040 If it's not worth the effort for you to have the relationship you want, then admit that

01:34:47.320 you don't want to put in the work and just accept the fact you're not going to have the

01:34:50.880 relationship you want.

01:34:51.600 You are not entitled to an outcome.

01:34:53.280 You want to be successful in business?

01:34:54.880 Got to put in the work.

01:34:55.900 You want to be successful when you're going to school?

01:34:58.100 You've got to put in the work.

01:34:59.680 Yes.

01:35:00.200 Yes.

01:35:00.820 Chase, Chase, would you like to speak for black men on this topic?

01:35:06.340 I just want to say, good evening, Pearl. Good evening, everybody else. Thanks for having me on. I believe God just came on. So, Mark, if I'm understanding you correctly, you say that a way to improve the chances of a relationship succeeding is to understand the emotions of your girlfriend or wife, correct?

01:35:26.280 Yes.

01:35:26.600 Okay, so I'm slightly following you there. So would you agree that if you're going to take that path, she has to be very effective with matching her words to her emotions. So the more effective she is with that, the better it will help you achieve that goal. Would you agree?

01:35:45.880 yes but don't expect it women oftentimes don't know what they're feeling they just know they're 0.99

01:35:53.240 feeling it but they don't know how to express it and oftentimes they don't even understand why as 0.83

01:35:58.160 a man you have to be like hey she's feeling a certain type of way she probably doesn't understand

01:36:02.760 why i'm gonna have to figure this out otherwise it's gonna be hell i'm gonna be like why the 0.94

01:36:08.420 fuck you feeling so it makes no sense she's gonna resent you because you're invalidating her 0.97

01:36:12.520 emotions she's not going to like that as a man you'd say she's feeling a certain type of way it 1.00

01:36:17.240 is what it is let me try to figure it out if she's not worth the effort okay so actually i can slightly

01:36:24.760 get that so you you do know that you're now tiptoeing around the realm of having to be a

01:36:30.200 mind reader because you're only as effective as the words she tells you it's like instructions

01:36:35.160 for putting an ikea table together the more thorough and accurate is the better you can

01:36:39.720 succeed at building the table. But if you have to read between the lines and guess and blue means

01:36:45.420 red and red means Tuesday, you are talking about being a mind reader. So if women are chaotically 1.00

01:36:52.080 emotional, generally speaking, not all women, but if they are chaotically emotional and their

01:36:56.480 emotions change like the clouds, it's almost like you're trying to make an instruction manual

01:37:00.900 to her, but you're having to erase and tear off the page each day because if she used the word

01:37:06.980 apple and that means happy on tuesday the word apple is going to mean something else on wednesday

01:37:11.860 and so if it's linked to her emotions you can't do anything until she knows herself

01:37:17.700 and can communicate in a manner to which you can understand yeah is the juice worth the squeeze

01:37:24.980 you're not going to get around it you're not going to get around it no matter how much you don't like

01:37:29.540 it look at the men who are successful they put in the work to try to figure this out and that's

01:37:34.420 that's where they're having success. I know it sounds fucked up. Yes, I agree. For most women, 0.99

01:37:41.220 it's not worth the fucking effort. I agree. I agree. You're not entitled to an outcome. 1.00

01:37:46.600 Don't expect her to come perfect. Don't expect her to be completely self-aware of why she's

01:37:52.020 feeling what she's feeling. You just have to realize it is what it is. I have to accept the

01:37:57.100 reality of it and let me figure out how to work with my reality to get the outcome I want or

01:38:01.880 just walk away if you don't want to put the word there's no there's no getting around it

01:38:06.740 well that's what i mean is i i can get part of what you're saying but the guy can only do so

01:38:12.960 much if she's poor at communication no matter how much effort you want to put into it you can't

01:38:18.580 understand someone if their basic language is ever changing yeah yeah yeah yeah if she's a woman

01:38:24.700 pretty much is the juice worth the squeeze if it's not worth the squeeze okay just accept it 0.51

01:38:29.960 Okay, so with you saying that, what would you recommend on that? Because you're talking about a woman that if any person will agree, and I think Pearl will agree with this, in any relationship you're in, you have to be efficient at communicating. You have to be efficient at matching your words to your emotions. And if you're not good at that, no matter how patient the person may be, they could be Gandhi. If they can't understand where you're coming from, even if you don't agree with them, you can't support them because you don't even understand what they're saying.

01:38:58.160 And I know that he's saying that, is it worth the squeeze, but how do you get over that hump?

01:39:04.100 Let me find it.

01:39:05.880 Go ahead.

01:39:06.840 You can answer his question.

01:39:08.540 If she can't be honest, you got to call her out on it.

01:39:12.140 You got to tell, hey, I'm willing to help you, but you don't want to be honest.

01:39:16.340 I'm not going to waste my time with somebody who's dishonest, and you got to walk away.

01:39:20.140 If it's not worth the effort, walk away.

01:39:22.120 You got to call her out and say, hey, I see you're feeling this, but you're saying this.

01:39:25.600 Your words don't match your actions. 1.00

01:39:27.080 That's bullshit. I'm not gonna put up with it. I'm gonna walk away. You gotta hold her accountable. Understand 1.00

01:39:33.140 You don't need that relationship

01:39:37.720 Well, that's the thing I mean is so I get what you're saying

01:39:40.520 That's what we gonna think I'm not so much disagreeing with you

01:39:43.180 I'm more of challenging you because

01:39:45.180 Even if you look at the people in chat and most of the guys are single or most of the guys in the relationship

01:39:49.800 Even if they would bless her with the patience and the time you could only do so much if she's poor at communication

01:39:56.760 or can't match the right words to her emotions, you can give her 30 years, it's not going to

01:40:01.780 improve. If she's communicating at a seventh grade level, and you're a sophomore in college,

01:40:07.800 you can give her 30 years of patience. If she can't evolve to be able to get her words to the

01:40:12.560 emotions, it wouldn't even be the squeeze. So I get what you're saying. And I think what a lot

01:40:18.440 of the gentlemen in the chats are saying is that it's ridiculous to sit there and learn someone's

01:40:24.020 emotions. I slightly agree with you because emotions is nothing but a pattern. Think of it

01:40:28.100 like a profile. If you're into true crime, you're pretty much being a profiler, but you need a

01:40:33.260 baseline of communication. And if she is not efficient with a baseline of communication,

01:40:38.620 you could give her 30 years and give her an infinity stone to control time. She's never

01:40:43.980 going to reach that point. So that's what I'm saying is instead of saying, is it worth the

01:40:48.620 three, give examples of how a guy would be able to get a female to improve her words to her

01:40:55.240 emotions. Because you have to have patience and you can't really teach patience. You kind of have 0.97

01:40:59.380 to learn it for yourself. But if the guy already has patience and you're sitting there on the side

01:41:03.760 of the shore waiting for her to say her words, and she said, the sky is blue, and you write down

01:41:08.520 blue means this. If it's by emotions and she didn't match the words right, blue is going to

01:41:13.200 mean something else tomorrow. Blue is going to mean something else next week. Blue is going to

01:41:17.420 me something else next month you're only going to wait on that shore for so long so how would 1.00

01:41:21.660 a woman work on her proficiencies to her words to her emotion that's what a lot of people don't 0.99

01:41:27.180 talk about they don't talk about that part you have to hold her accountable when you can tell

01:41:32.220 she's in some kind of mood let me tell honey how you do how are you doing and she says oh i'm fine

01:41:36.220 you gotta call her out on her bush like no you just lied i know you're not you just said fine

01:41:41.740 you lied you gotta call her out there's no work around there is no shortcut efficient communication

01:41:50.060 is a skill that you learn you learn to have efficient communication if you see that that

01:41:56.380 other person refuses to learn walk away you can't make them learn you can't make her learn if she 0.92

01:42:03.980 decides that learning how to have efficient communication isn't worth her effort why would 0.97

01:42:08.940 you stay with her she doesn't respect herself enough to put in the work to get the outcome she 1.00

01:42:15.740 wants to to communicate efficiently look how much women complain about men don't know how to

01:42:20.700 communicate and then men turn around actually we're more self-aware than you give us credit 0.99

01:42:25.900 for we see through your bullshit you don't want to hold yourself accountable you expect us to be 0.99

01:42:30.780 mind readers and we've told you over and over we are not mind readers if you don't tell us what 1.00

01:42:36.220 you want don't expect us to give you what you want don't expect us to try to rearrange our schedule 0.93

01:42:41.420 to put in the time to give you what you want if you can't be honest with yourself if a woman 0.92

01:42:45.740 doesn't want to be honest with herself walk away you can't make her you can try to hold her

01:42:52.060 accountable it might work it might not you are not guaranteed an outcome you are not guaranteed that

01:42:57.900 she wants to put in the work to to communicate efficiently you're not guaranteed an outcome 0.98

01:43:02.860 you can try to have the good dick where she decides the sex is worth it so she's going to 1.00

01:43:09.540 try to learn you can try that that works sometimes but at the end of the day if she doesn't want to 0.98

01:43:14.020 put in the work you can't fix it you can't fix people you can hold them accountable if they let

01:43:20.420 you well that's what i mean i'm not saying so much to fix people everybody has to have a baseline

01:43:25.760 of communication if you're dealing with a 35 year old that has a job she learned how to communicate

01:43:30.880 that i know people laughed at that but she learned how to communicate to get that job 0.98

01:43:33.860 if you're her 29th body she learned how to communicate to do that if she's got two cars

01:43:39.140 she's wanting to communicate to do that if she has a degree she's learned to communicate to do

01:43:42.560 that you have to have a baseline to it and it's like like i said before if her communication 0.68

01:43:48.180 was that bad she should be sitting on the side of the road homeless with no accomplishments and 0.98

01:43:53.960 no materialistic of work i think every person would agree with that but if she has a house 0.97

01:43:58.060 an apartment a car a degree she's gone to dubai she has a circle of friends 1.00

01:44:02.780 that takes a tremendous amount of communication you'd be surprised how bad a people women can be 1.00

01:44:07.260 and still being terrible communicators they're gonna say okay so you can about the fact that 1.00

01:44:15.420 simps aren't holding her accountable she can continue to be a shitty communicator or you 0.96

01:44:20.060 can say you know what the simps have made her that way i'm not gonna be a simp and it's not worth the 0.71

01:44:25.900 effort you can you can be upset about how much work it's going to take or you can just walk away

01:44:33.580 you're not guaranteed an outcome i mean you're not guaranteed anything in life

01:44:38.220 yes in general any person will say that but that's the reason why you work towards something

01:44:42.460 because you want to play the odds in your favor and i like to i agree with your method to a degree

01:44:47.260 so i'm not saying you're entirely wrong i agree with it to a degree i just think that it's less

01:44:51.340 to the baton being in the guy's hand and it has to be to on the woman's hand like if it's your

01:44:55.900 girlfriend or wife because even if you possess the patience or even if you possess the steeled wisdom

01:45:02.280 if she can't communicate you can't teach that that's something she should have learned from

01:45:06.440 her mother her father her close circle of friends her sister and if she's 34 35 or 36 or even close

01:45:12.500 to 40 and she hasn't even communicated at a baseline level for a relationship you might as

01:45:18.300 just give up on nearly every female that may be 40 and is not in a relationship because there is a

01:45:23.660 point of no return there is there is a code snap where if you haven't learned it by now you're

01:45:28.060 probably not yeah yeah i'm saying that bottom line is this the the the guys that get the objective

01:45:36.780 outcomes with girls they don't give a about a woman's emotions dude period the guys that get

01:45:41.980 objective success the puas the guys in miami banging a bunch of chicks they don't give a

01:45:47.900 about a woman's emotions period they just don't but we're supposed to understand

01:45:53.900 but a lot of those guys do they put in a lot of time in order to understand female nature i've 0.98

01:45:58.460 seen you don't have to understand a woman's emotions a woman's nature though you don't have

01:46:03.580 to sit there baby what's wrong today that's so not true like i'm telling you that it's like

01:46:10.540 it's autistic the level they like like my one one guy i'm thinking of like he's really good at 0.54

01:46:16.220 cheating right so that's like his thing and he like i i asked him i'm like what do you say

01:46:22.620 when she like says oh can i see your phone or can i like x y and z he has autistic level answers for

01:46:29.500 each of these things and he can also autistically tell you like what she's actually saying when she

01:46:35.740 says that i mean look i'm i'm butchering it because i'm not the one who did it right but

01:46:40.060 i know what he's talking about i've seen it i've seen the guys that go in on this stuff and it's

01:46:45.020 like to be a player you you absolutely have to understand their emotions to some degree yeah

01:46:51.500 but that doesn't involve holding her hand and being dr phil and saying honey what's going on

01:46:57.820 with you today you you don't have if you're a successful ambitious man you don't have time to

01:47:02.060 do that i know but i don't i don't think that's what he said like that's not what i heard when

01:47:07.260 he was talking that you're like gonna be dr phil with her but it's like i think sometimes it's

01:47:12.060 helpful to know if she says this she means this like what's the downside of knowing that especially

01:47:17.580 when there's guys that have like you know like autistically done all the work for you

01:47:23.900 you know i'm gonna put it like this you can't have a relationship with somebody you don't

01:47:28.620 understand how they think well okay so two things the first thing is i do agree with what he had

01:47:36.780 just said i could see where the confusion is now if you look at talking dating relationship marriage

01:47:44.620 i could see where relationship and marriage where you would come in mark where you're sitting there

01:47:48.060 saying that hey you need to learn her emotions you need to try to understand how she's feeling

01:47:53.100 and she's reacting off her emotion but if you're anything under the realm of relationship where

01:47:57.500 it's just dating hooking up one night stand friends with benefits you don't really need to

01:48:01.980 know her emotions because you're not taking it serious well you're not taking it serious enough

01:48:06.220 to be around don't worry he had long-term relationships he would just always have more 0.96

01:48:10.620 than one let's put it this way let's put it this way you don't understand female psychology you're 0.97

01:48:16.780 weird and awkward to be around they think you're a creep are you gonna get laid yeah are you 0.70

01:48:22.140 mixing female psychology with uh socializing because if you're very if you're very social

01:48:28.060 and friendly and charismatic that's not really female psychology so you can be charming no it

01:48:33.580 is psychology because they like that they like a man who knows how to be socially competent

01:48:39.420 that's why if you look at the pickup artist they have this term that they call social proof

01:48:43.740 these are men who said hey look women like a man that other people like so let me learn how to be 1.00

01:48:49.660 a person that other people like to be around so that women who I want to fuck so they can see me 0.99

01:48:56.060 hanging out with other people that other people think I'm cool, especially that other women think 1.00

01:49:00.880 I'm cool. These are men who understood psychology and emotions. They understood that when a woman

01:49:06.040 sees a man that other women find cool to hang out with, it makes her feel more okay interacting with

01:49:13.400 him. But if she sees this is a man that other women think are weird, there must be something

01:49:17.380 wrong with him i don't even want to talk to him it's her emotions it's her psychology you ain't

01:49:22.340 changing it the pickup artist figured this out and they said okay let me make it work for me

01:49:27.140 instead of against me let me learn how not to be the weird awkward creep that nobody wants to be

01:49:31.700 around let me learn how to be social charismatic that people want to be around let me learn how

01:49:36.660 to be fun to be around so that the women i want to they think i'm fun to be around also

01:49:41.380 they figured out hey i can't fight her emotions but the pickup artistry it's just like those

01:49:48.580 hallmark romance movies where where the pickup rc they teach you how to get like sex but the hard

01:49:56.100 part it's like those hallmark movies where the girl falls in love it kisses the guy but then

01:50:01.300 the movie ends right when she kisses the the guy right what i'm saying is like is like you're

01:50:09.620 talking about because earlier your context was having having a relationship and a long-term

01:50:16.740 outcome with a woman right right i don't i don't think anyone would argue with the initial pick

01:50:24.260 you have to put in the work there but like the the cost really comes at dealing with the woman

01:50:29.060 long term i know but there's guys that too like that's what ryan stone does he has like having

01:50:35.540 any outcome involving women requires you putting in the work to understand them

01:50:41.460 whether it's just dating just hooking up or relationship it doesn't matter which of those

01:50:47.540 outcomes you want there is no work around to learning to understand what it takes to get that

01:50:53.540 yeah and that's my if all you want to do is just hook up you have to have some level of 0.87

01:50:59.700 understanding of her psychology if you don't know how to turn her on don't expect to get laid yes

01:51:06.260 yes yes okay that's never been a point of contention mark you still have the biggest

01:51:11.620 problem emotions you have to know how to create that emotion of desire where she wants to get

01:51:17.620 naked with you if you don't know how to create that desire that emotion in her don't be surprised

01:51:22.980 that you don't get it you're not guaranteed an outcome if you listen the chat put it the best

01:51:28.580 she said learn to understand what attracts women is different than trying to communicate with a

01:51:34.340 woman or understanding her emotions and that's my biggest problem for what you're saying you're like

01:51:39.540 hold her hand and dr fill it bro and just don't do that he's saying you can walk away if she's

01:51:45.460 too bad like that's what he keeps saying he said that's so many i'm sorry i feel like me and doug

01:51:51.140 doug and pa i feel like me and you are listening to two different people because i feel like i

01:51:55.700 understand you're not you're not here what he's saying you haven't tried what he's saying i have

01:52:01.940 hold on hold on i've been married i've had multiple relationships understand her bro it'll work bro

01:52:09.380 just understand her it's a different point of view than you that have also done it you know it's like 0.90

01:52:17.620 you've never tried to have a serious relationship a heterosexual a heterosexual i had to kick her

01:52:24.180 i have i've been married i've done this i can tell you what mark's talking about this understand her

01:52:29.780 bro it's a bad way to go about no no no no you have to understand her and you have to hold her

01:52:36.020 accountable if she's being dishonest especially with herself there is no workaround you want to

01:52:41.780 get laid with the woman you got to understand how she's feeling if you can't make her feel a certain

01:52:47.380 type of way where she wants to get naked with you she's not going to get naked with you if you don't 0.99

01:52:51.220 don't know how to make her feel a certain type of way that she helped me out with you she's not

01:52:55.120 gonna date you you have to understand how to make a certain type of way you know sorry go ahead okay

01:53:01.780 you got it you got this yeah i was gonna say there was a famous quote if anyone watched the 0.98

01:53:06.360 movie jack reacher with tom cruise there was a famous line where that hooker sits down with him

01:53:11.320 uh or like that girl sits down with him and he she's basically like uh basically saying like

01:53:15.660 she wants to get out of there with him and he basically says no thank you i can't afford you

01:53:20.020 and she says i'm not a hooker and she says exactly that's why i can't afford you and

01:53:25.660 basically what he's trying to say is the most expensive women are the ones you don't pay for

01:53:30.960 yeah what he actually said i paid to leave what he actually said was and i really can't afford you

01:53:40.080 yeah and mark is saying well go for it dude go for those women no no i'm not saying go for it

01:53:48.120 What I'm saying is you got to sit there and decide, is it worth the effort?

01:53:53.200 You got to decide.

01:53:54.100 But you can't say that the guys who decide that the effort isn't worth it are just bitching and moaning and complaining. 0.67

01:53:59.920 Men are cost-

01:54:00.420 That's what you're doing right here right now.

01:54:02.460 Yeah, because you can say that women aren't worth the squeeze and you can't shame a guy by saying he's just bitching and moaning and complaining about talking about the cost of women. 0.51

01:54:12.520 I can't because that's what you're doing. 1.00

01:54:14.920 The reason you're bitching right now- 1.00

01:54:16.460 saying women are too expensive and you're saying i'm bitching and moaning and complaining okay

01:54:19.840 there bro that's great wait mark maybe maybe you can tell us keep doctor filling it bro keep going

01:54:24.760 well i don't think that's what he's saying though he keeps because he's he's sorry i just i feel

01:54:29.560 like we're listening to two different combos he keeps saying that if it's not worth the squeeze

01:54:33.880 then walk away yeah and if it's not worth the speeds i can say it's not worth the squeeze and

01:54:37.820 i'm not bitching and moaning and complaining i'm saying that the cost benefit isn't worth it he's

01:54:41.840 saying depends on the outcome you want like if you want a different outcome you have to understand

01:54:45.800 the buyer better like to me that makes perfect sense like and if you don't want that outcome

01:54:50.680 it's fine walk away you know maybe i don't know i don't know maybe i'm just i'm misunderstanding

01:54:57.640 him i don't know but i i feel like i understand what he's saying i can get what you're i can get

01:55:04.120 what you're saying if it's anything below a relationship like how you said understanding

01:55:09.240 the buyer so anything that's under a relationship i can i can feel where you're coming from with

01:55:14.360 that. But when it's a relationship or above and it's dealing with emotion, that's where it becomes

01:55:19.280 more complex, especially if the person isn't good at communicating. So I could see that phrase

01:55:24.900 applying to a one night stand, friends with benefits, situationship, a summer fling, a cuddle

01:55:31.680 buddy, anything that is a rental car, so to speak. But when you reach that point where you're making

01:55:36.280 payments or you've paid off the car, that's where I'm struggling with understanding his saying. If

01:55:44.200 it's anything if it's anything relationship or above i get what mark is saying where you've

01:55:48.180 committed i get what mark mark is saying but anything below that but i'm saying you have to

01:55:53.040 understand them you want to put it doesn't matter you have to understand them but i'm saying when

01:55:58.780 it's below that and i'm at a nightclub or i'm at a bar i don't have the time to understand the

01:56:03.900 base foundation of our emotions but i can use a cheat sheet and use materialistic things okay

01:56:08.600 the bar oh sorry go ahead sorry i just thought of i thought of something like for example when i was

01:56:15.000 growing up i don't think i think at times my mom would manipulate my father through crying right

01:56:20.360 and i remember one time my mom was crying and i'm like dad she's just like he was trying to go 0.99

01:56:25.740 comfort her and i'm like dad like leave this bitch alone you know what i mean like she's like 1.00

01:56:30.460 what are you doing like she's just doing that to manipulate you and like that information would 1.00

01:56:36.400 have been helpful for him 10 years ago you know would have saved him 10 years of you know trying

01:56:40.520 to help her out when she cried you know like i just don't see a downside in trying to understand

01:56:45.620 like the person you're dating better okay here's what i'm going to say dating or relationship

01:56:51.700 a lot of the rules are the same you gotta know what she finds attractive so you can turn her on 0.99

01:56:57.160 and you gotta see through her bullshit or she's gonna bullshit test you until she resents you 0.98

01:57:02.580 if i if i take if i take pearl's example uh her experience with her father and her mother 0.99

01:57:09.420 they were married and they were together so her crying had effect on him now if they never met

01:57:16.720 and they bumped into each other at a bar or at a party and she tried that same tactic it wouldn't

01:57:21.240 hold the same weight onto him because they have no emotional connection so that's what i'm saying

01:57:25.500 is that at a certain point when it's a relationship or marriage i can see where mark's coming from i

01:57:30.880 actually see a lot where he's coming from but anything below that if any of these guys that's

01:57:34.560 in the chat is at a party or at a club and they see a girl crying or they start talking to a girl

01:57:38.800 and she starts crying they'll slowly ghost her or drift away because there's no emotional case

01:57:44.720 there's no reason for me to need to worry or learn why she's fully climbing and even if i took the

01:57:49.040 time to say why are you crying if i don't care i'll be right back and i'll just ghost her she's

01:57:53.040 a rental car i have no investment in her why would i try to learn her emotions in the middle of a

01:57:58.160 part okay okay yes i agree you're not responsible for her emotions you are not responsible for how

01:58:04.400 she feels is that what you said earlier though no no no i said you have to understand i never

01:58:12.160 said you're responsible for it you have to understand she's gonna feel what she feels

01:58:16.560 whether you like it or not you can either not know how to manipulate her emotions so it's working

01:58:22.640 for you so you're getting the outcomes you want or somebody else is going to be manipulating her

01:58:27.040 emotions and you're not getting what you want you slipped manipulating there you didn't say

01:58:30.960 manipulate earlier bro okay yes you're sliding stuff in there man i listen very carefully now

01:58:37.920 let's use a different word influence influence for the outcome you want how's that different

01:58:42.560 than manipulate mark mark let me give action let me give you a hypothetical like let's say you're

01:58:48.160 in a relationship with your your old girl right let's say it hasn't gone south yet and let's say

01:58:52.000 you're married and you you live together and you share a mortgage you both your names are on the

01:58:56.400 house you have kids with this girl and she starts acting up what do you do you got to call her out

01:59:01.760 on it no work around okay she still acts crazy just like she was with you what do you do she 0.69

01:59:07.760 doesn't listen to her out on it you hold her accountable i know it sucks i know she's probably 0.99

01:59:12.480 going to rape you in divorce court you got to decide is it worth me being treated like 0.96

01:59:17.040 because i'm afraid of divorce court or is divorce court easier than me hating myself because i 0.99

01:59:23.200 continue to put up with this you're not guaranteed an outcome i know it costs us a lot when we men

01:59:29.920 lose it is what is i can't but you said we don't lose earlier remember that you said that we don't

01:59:34.480 lose you said it i said you're not guaranteed an outcome you're not you said we don't lose earlier

01:59:40.960 you just said guys lose now yes you're cooked man hold on you're not guaranteed to win you're

01:59:48.400 gonna encounter else what was the stream yesterday that pro saw you got to take the l that goes for 1.00

01:59:53.760 men and women it happens if she's acting up before you get in a relationship walk away she's acting

02:00:00.640 up in the relationship you got to decide am i gonna walk away or am i gonna try to hold her

02:00:05.120 accountable to fears that you have the option to walk away no matter what you don't have to put up

02:00:10.080 with her bad behavior you got to decide is there enough here for me to try to work through this

02:00:15.360 or not enough, I'm going to walk away. You are not obligated to stay. Society tells you you have

02:00:20.800 to stay. No, you don't. You don't have to put up with their bad behavior. You have the option to

02:00:25.000 walk away. That's why men control access to relationship. She wants to act stupid. Walk 1.00

02:00:30.840 away. Hold her accountable. Call her out or walk away. The biblical thing is you kick her out of

02:00:36.040 the damn house. Make her suffer for being a bitch. She doesn't want to appreciate you being a good 1.00

02:00:42.080 man kick her out let her figure out how good she has this and maybe she decides you know what i'm

02:00:47.520 gonna own my and not act up she decides not to leave her you can't change her you are not

02:00:55.600 obligated to stay you can always walk away i've told my own dad to walk away

02:01:03.120 yeah think about that well i come from a religious religious background where they say no divorce no 0.99

02:01:10.480 divorce so men and women end up in marriages where they're not working on their shit they 0.97

02:01:14.720 both hate each other they resent each other but because it looks correct to society they stay 1.00

02:01:19.420 and the children pick up on that shit i'm i said fuck no it doesn't work i told my own dad 1.00

02:01:24.800 walk away divorce her she doesn't respect you you gotta stop okay hold on i'm sorry i gotta 1.00

02:01:29.900 cook you for a second um chase i'm dropping you for a second um sean i'm so excited you called

02:01:37.160 in because i'm really curious your take on this mr communication king of communication wait per

02:01:45.000 i'm trying to figure out where it's at right now pearl because they was going back and forth shout

02:01:49.680 out to doug yeah okay what did you hear what did you hear a lot but but it sounded like you were

02:01:56.640 saying they were talking past each other like they were basically almost saying the same thing

02:02:00.560 i i i thought mark was cooking um i'll tell you what i understood doug mpa thinks he's full of

02:02:07.040 no offense mark doug mpa is on the other end he's saying he he's like he's bro get out of here sean's

02:02:14.720 on that end and i was like are we listening to the same convo um i was so entertained by this

02:02:20.480 conversation it's completely off topic so but i let it keep going um wait doug doug what did doug

02:02:27.280 thing okay so so mark um doug mp i'm gonna let you go first actually tell me why you think mark

02:02:35.840 um is cooked dunzo um please refrain from the personal attacks um don't do that just say

02:02:42.960 why his argument is bad and then mark i'm gonna let you go after and then sean will give your take

02:02:47.680 okay okay so okay we should have mark restate his thesis first okay can you sum it up in like 30

02:02:56.560 seconds and then i'll say my interpretation so reset your thesis okay you're not entitled to

02:03:03.280 any outcome you get the outcomes you want to work for regardless of what it is in your life if you

02:03:08.080 want to get a good relationship you got to put in the work you want to have a good woman you're

02:03:12.080 gonna have to put in the work that's it there's no work around to putting in the work to get the

02:03:16.800 outcome you want okay so what he's leaving out is he said that you have to understand a woman's

02:03:24.960 emotions right and you have to put a put work towards understanding a woman understanding her

02:03:32.340 emotions if she's upset you have to ask her why she's upset you have to do all these things to

02:03:39.820 women to understand them to get their out to get the outcomes you want and i'm like bro what are

02:03:45.940 you talking about now we do agree that a man's purpose should be first i just said look a cost 1.00

02:03:52.940 benefit analysis a lot of times modern women are so entitled they want a man's time and effort to

02:04:02.060 be put towards them and not their purpose understanding women guys that get the most

02:04:07.820 objective outcomes in the sexual marketplace don't have to doctor fill it and understand

02:04:12.620 women's emotions even if you know what to say to a woman based upon how she's feeling it doesn't

02:04:18.220 involve you having to understand understand her emotions and put in all this work if you put in 1.00

02:04:24.380 into your purpose women women will follow so this whole thing where you have to doctor fill it and 1.00

02:04:29.660 understand where she's coming from you have to the the juice is worth the squeezing and stuff it's 1.00

02:04:35.580 just no like if you've ever had a serious relationship or been married you understand 0.56

02:04:40.460 that what mark is saying is not the best way to go it's just not understanding women and

02:04:45.340 and their emotions all this stuff good luck with that okay mark um is there anything that you

02:04:50.860 wanted to add before we let sean go um yeah that men don't lose when it comes to interacting with

02:04:56.620 women i said yes okay here's what i want to say if you're not going to doctor fill her emotions 0.96

02:05:02.060 she's going to do it with her crazy girlfriends and she's they're going to convince her to break 1.00

02:05:05.580 up with you because you ain't so you let them doctor fill her or you figure out how to doctor

02:05:11.500 fill her so it works for you okay um is there anything else you wanted to add before we let

02:05:18.220 sean go uh mark and then i'll let doug have one more final ad if there's any mark is that it

02:05:24.940 yeah that's it okay um doug mpa is there anything else i i just you know sean help me out dude

02:05:33.500 help me out okay go for it Sean okay Sean now I before Sean goes I think Sean's gonna agree with

02:05:43.200 Mark I really think he's gonna agree with him but I could be wrong I don't know so Sean go ahead

02:05:50.520 all right cool so I don't know what happened in the first round but I think that these guys

02:05:55.720 I would actually agree with both of them and not I'm not being diplomatic I'm actually being honest

02:06:01.300 mark was cooking and doug was cooking because i do believe just let's go off his last point when

02:06:07.000 he said you have to doctor fill the situation i have to control everything like at the end of the

02:06:12.980 day and i also have to realize that i don't have control of everything also there is free will

02:06:18.140 but i'm at least gonna be the person who propagandize my girl i'm gonna be at least

02:06:23.400 the person who creates the architect that she steps into i design everything i'm god on this

02:06:28.720 planet. And so net net, I create the laws and establish them. The part will probably differ

02:06:33.900 is just, Hey, when they violate, then they get tossed out of the garden to eat. And that's all

02:06:38.440 it is. But I did everything else that I needed to do to set up the construct because I can never

02:06:43.900 step into a female's construct ever. What do you think about managing her emotions? Do you agree 1.00

02:06:50.580 that? I think that's what you're disagreeing about is Doug MPA saying, no, that's a waste

02:06:58.700 time you can't manage your emotions and mark saying no you have to uh what do you what do

02:07:04.300 you think this is what i'm trying to say and i think doug also will probably agree about managing

02:07:08.700 her emotions you don't have to manage your emotions like a simp that's what doug probably

02:07:13.740 hates because most guys do that so it comes to they're not really managing her emotions from a

02:07:19.660 power position they're doing it from a reactionary position meaning like you said when your father

02:07:25.340 you know she was crying or whatever right he would just kowtow and do whatever she said

02:07:30.700 from what i heard what mark said is he'll try to control the situation and redirect that energy

02:07:35.580 into a situation that benefits him that's an alpha move or that is an architect move

02:07:41.580 so all humans have it i led marines they were trained in united states marine corps to be

02:07:46.140 killers i still had to manage their emotions and understand the psychologies of my troops

02:07:50.940 you just deal with humans but i think doug just has a real hell no policy zero tolerance to

02:07:58.380 men dealing with women's emotions and a gynocentric construct which is usually like

02:08:03.980 let me appease you let me go do what you want me to do i'm going to add that because when you're

02:08:10.060 managing the emotions of your marines that you commanded there's tangible benefits and outcomes 1.00

02:08:15.100 for all parties involved women are selfish by nature so you can manage a woman's 1.00

02:08:22.780 emotions with no tangible benefits to yourself that's what i'm saying women want successful 0.98

02:08:27.820 competitive ambitious men to set what they want aside to help them achieve their own selfish 0.93

02:08:32.460 goals period i know i do agree that a good amount of women are like that so you have to really stay

02:08:40.220 away from those women who do that. There's a lot because you know why? Supply and demand. Most guys 0.99

02:08:46.680 give that over to them because they're just usually, again, from the gynocytic construct, 0.97

02:08:52.360 pedestalizing the women. But Doug, you are a person that mostly when you come across those

02:08:57.840 women, what do you do? Try to cut them out your life and you learn from the situations you already

02:09:02.240 had in your life. Now, you're probably going to get a future girl, but she won't have those 0.98

02:09:07.980 characteristics am i right or am i wrong you're gonna find a girl that's similar to the ex

02:09:14.540 what ask that one more time i'm sorry cut out first i said are you gonna find a girl

02:09:19.980 that's similar to your ex or a different one because again exactly and she'll treat you 0.74

02:09:25.820 different right depending on her and you and what you work out but you just know the flags

02:09:31.260 and the indicators but also she can crash out too that's always an option i'm going into my

02:09:36.540 my next relationship knowing that i'm not gonna benefit from a woman's emotions period i'm just

02:09:43.440 not like i have to benefit you saying from her emotions like honestly what could how can a man 0.99

02:09:49.440 benefit from a woman's emotions in 2022 what's she gonna do love you get the fuck out of here dude 1.00

02:09:55.060 hold on what's he gonna do care for you and nurture you women are not nurturers they don't 1.00

02:09:59.600 love you for real period hold on doug are you benefiting when she wants to fuck you because 1.00

02:10:04.840 you know how to build attraction and desire women can fuck guys if they're not emotionally 1.00

02:10:08.660 attracted to you they do it all the time yes so no but don't but don't you benefit when she wants to 1.00

02:10:15.980 you have to know how to manage her emotions to make her feel that way to get the sex you want 0.96

02:10:22.820 women sleep with guys for freaking material things cost benefit all the time bro yeah but you said 0.97

02:10:28.740 that you prefer genuine desire sex like no no no no no no i never said that not today you've said 0.98

02:10:35.760 it before though like no i've never said i prefer genuine desire sex i said most guys will never get

02:10:42.920 genuine yeah yeah yeah never get it i never said i prefer that i pretty much you prefer transactional

02:10:49.900 i mean most stuff with women is trans i'm the one saying get a woman who needs who needs who 0.97

02:10:56.780 needs a green card i need a green card sex is the closest sex a man will get to genuine desire sex 0.98

02:11:03.340 period you have to have something that'll change your life and if you have that she will you 0.94

02:11:09.260 like you've never been before i swear you told me that once that you like once you've experienced

02:11:14.460 that it's hard to go back then maybe maybe it was someone else you know what's funny um i don't know

02:11:19.980 if the most guys will hate to have to do this audit but guys have you ever gotten genuine

02:11:26.140 desire sex in your life i have and if so has it been more than five or six times yeah

02:11:38.300 just think about it i had to learn how to create wanted it i had to put in the work

02:11:46.540 i didn't know because i didn't know then i learned how to do it and i got it

02:11:50.220 well i will also say that are you still getting it are you still getting it or how long did it last

02:11:58.380 i don't remember i've been out of the market for a while i've been working pursuing other things 1.00

02:12:05.240 so i have had so so the fact that you've been single would you say that you bitch and moan 0.81

02:12:12.580 and complain because you're single you don't want to deal with women right now or what 0.72

02:12:15.640 no i said i'm pursuing other pursuits i've come to terms that i can't do that if i want to keep

02:12:23.140 putting in the amount of time i want to for something else so then you and i agree that

02:12:28.840 once again a lot of times when dealing with women it'll take away from things like you have to want

02:12:36.040 to take away from other things to have a relationship i've never disagreed with that

02:12:40.900 the biggest difference between your purpose and your career your job is it's singularly your

02:12:47.140 effort when you're dealing with a woman a lot of guys are sleeping next to their worst enemy bro

02:12:53.140 hold on your purpose and your efforts still involves other people you still have to learn

02:12:58.280 how to interact with the other people you have to learn what kind of impact or influence you're

02:13:03.580 having on the other people because other people are gatekeepers there are certain promotions

02:13:08.580 you're not going to get unless you make a good impression yeah so even in your purpose you still

02:13:15.020 have to understand how you're influencing other people what kind of impression you're giving them

02:13:19.000 what kind of emotions they're feeling about you so but i just want to say that that your your

02:13:25.580 current life what you do right now is exactly what i'm telling guys to do and great keep doing that

02:13:31.380 mark keep doing that keep doing what duggy and pa says focus on yourself focus on your purpose

02:13:37.180 keep doing that i feel like we're listening to two different convos but i'm gonna actually wrap

02:13:41.920 it up this is a good back and forth um eddie you guys can give your final words on the topic

02:13:48.000 um sean you just got here so i'll let you go first oh dang all right shout outs to both of them i

02:13:55.260 think they both had a good conversation shout outs to youtube pearl what i would say also is

02:13:59.900 dr ryan taraband actually did a video he was talking about the girl being the prize or what

02:14:05.300 we like to call a diamond and let me finish before you start shaking your head mark all right let me

02:14:11.360 land a plane all right we just got up in the air so net net what he was saying right now you're

02:14:16.740 gonna start shaking your head like this what he was saying was that men are the diamond mine

02:14:21.480 owners we own the mind see the diamond is pretty when you've lost it up and everybody focuses on

02:14:27.940 that but nobody focuses on who actually owns the mind and for me i was saying i'm the champion i

02:14:34.840 collect many prizes females is just one of them so you could be the prize all you want nobody's

02:14:40.760 going to john jones for the belt he's a champion back to back he held multiple different types of

02:14:47.660 championships and trophies and you know belts so at the end of the day i am the winner i am the

02:14:53.820 champion as the man and yes i must master human emotion and psychology but at the end of the day

02:15:00.120 I must master my own life as Doug said and I'm sure Mark would agree that's the most important

02:15:05.460 thing I'll end on this somebody asked me well what if a girl doesn't have a burning desire

02:15:10.660 I believe in the free market I don't give a damn because even the girl who has burning desire

02:15:16.300 wants me because I built myself up to be a 666 and other things so at the end of the day 0.56

02:15:22.760 the common denominator is me shout outs to Pearl shout outs to the audience and the white nation

02:15:29.380 coming back in the white show um okay mark i'm gonna let you give your final words

02:15:38.740 and then doug mpa after him why do men want to do the 666 because women like it other men respect

02:15:46.980 it so even then you're demonstrating by some of the things we choose to pursue in our professional

02:15:52.020 life that you're still trying to make an impact on other people there are some men who decide yeah

02:15:56.580 yeah, I'm not doing that. There are other men who say, yes, I'm going to do that because that's

02:16:00.220 going to help me get the outcome I want, professionally or personally. There's no

02:16:05.240 shortcut to putting in the work, to mastering your own psychology and understanding human

02:16:09.900 psychology. Whatever outcome you want in life, at some point or other, human psychology is involved.

02:16:16.300 You don't get to escape it. You got to just put in the work.

02:16:20.500 Cool. Thanks, Mark. Doug MPA, final thoughts?

02:16:25.600 pearly said that the reason why cancer hasn't been cured is because all the scientists researching

02:16:30.680 cancer are married that's true the the scientists trying to cure cancer are at home trying to

02:16:38.620 understand their wife's emotions instead of curing cancer so what i'm saying is is spend time curing

02:16:46.180 cancer a lot of guys are sleeping next to their worst enemy each day a woman will actively try to

02:16:53.620 stop her man from doing his hobbies, his life, all that stuff. So while you're trying to understand

02:16:58.900 her, she has an active agenda to get what she wants out of a man, period. So guys, be a cost 0.99

02:17:07.600 benefit calculator, right? Make sure that you have the bandwidth to be able to deal with women. 1.00

02:17:13.920 There's a reason why when a man gets divorced, his net worth increases and a guy is usually more 0.81

02:17:19.000 successful at the divorce right put the time aside to to to date but understand a lot of the

02:17:26.280 times especially if you're successful and ambitious a lot of the women that you you're with when you

02:17:30.860 leave them behind they will you you will leave them in an infinitely better position than when

02:17:35.440 you met them right and just plan accordingly be on your purpose first women's second and if you

02:17:42.360 meet a guy who's successful and ambitious who's been married and tried what mark said

02:17:46.480 they'll tell you exactly what i'm saying one last thing the guys who get objective success in the

02:17:54.000 sexual dating market understand women but but they don't placate to their emotions they don't

02:17:59.780 pander they don't do any of that stuff that's not necessary to understand women that's all i'm saying

02:18:03.900 okay thanks doug mpa appreciate you okay yeah um i kind of just thought the convo was interesting

02:18:13.400 so it's a little off topic but i hope you guys don't mind i let it keep going um

02:18:22.440 i agree with him that you have to understand female psychology you know i i agree with him

02:18:29.880 i don't know it was kind of weird because i was like i feel like we're listening to two different

02:18:33.560 convos you know because i'm like i've made perfect sense and maybe maybe i'm crazy but

02:18:44.600 it's like um oh sorry oh my god

02:18:53.880 because like the way i think about it is women 0.67

02:18:57.240 test you on the first date and we just test you for eternity so you just gotta learn

02:19:03.560 anyways um i'm getting tired so take it or leave it to tomorrow

02:19:12.440 i was thinking if you guys have any say on the show topic tomorrow i was debating covering

02:19:16.280 either katie perry um covering how you have 48 hours to hit as a man so you got 48 hours um

02:19:25.400 really because we're just never gonna you if we don't you immediately that's just my opinion

02:19:29.880 like you got from like now in 2026 you're like competing with concerts you're competing with

02:19:37.960 every other guy in our dm you got 48 hours my guys first message to hit i yeah guys that wait

02:19:47.100 longer you're gonna be waiting a long time you are not first choice and some men don't mind

02:19:53.760 they're like i'll take a second to whatever you know so if you guys like that topic put

02:19:59.760 in the comments let's see oh um how women liking bad men isn't necessarily bad because women don't

02:20:10.120 like men that have validation seeking behavior and that's actually normal um because we don't

02:20:17.140 want a guy that avoids conflict who's not honest about what he wants um who's not assertive and

02:20:24.440 that's why like we always we always phrase it as bad but it's not necessarily bad that women don't

02:20:29.180 want wimps right so one of those if you like any of those topics put your favorite out of the three

02:20:35.860 those are the ones um i'm either gonna go live tomorrow or friday i felt like i'm kind of testing

02:20:43.680 the schedule i want to do and i kind of like the idea of tuesday wednesday thursday weeknights but

02:20:50.940 i think sometimes it's a little bit better um when i wait a day in between like today i think

02:20:57.960 was a little less organized than yesterday. Do you know what I mean? I'm like, so what I'm going

02:21:08.480 to do is I'm going to write it and however long it takes me to write it, then I'm going to do the

02:21:12.360 show. So it takes me all day today, then I'll do it all day tomorrow, then I'll do it tomorrow.

02:21:17.700 If it takes me a little longer, then I'll do it Friday. I don't understand. People always say

02:21:24.180 this. They're like, what's wrong with your eyes? I'm like, I don't know. I was born this way with

02:21:27.400 my guys like people always say they're like are you tired i'm like no i actually get eight hours

02:21:36.200 of sleep pretty much ever i'm an influence i'm a youtuber i haven't an alarm in years i don't say

02:21:40.120 this to brag i'm just being on i really haven't had an alarm like i don't remember the last time

02:21:45.940 i had an alarm where like i had to leave and go to work like it's been that long this is probably

02:21:51.040 the most spoiled thing ever to say but i'm like i'm not tired i just look that way i just you know

02:21:57.460 what i mean bad boys you like that one yeah it's living yeah like um i think that one will take me

02:22:09.100 that if i do that topic i'll probably wait till friday because i was reading um dr glover's work

02:22:16.940 and some of brian stone's work and it just articulated why like certain men are unattractive

02:22:23.220 to us in a way that was so insightful that i i i was like i could talk about this for three hours

02:22:30.500 because it just made so much stuff in my life make sense because that's essentially like um

02:22:38.680 guys that are quote unquote bad are honest well not all i'm gonna be honest i know

02:22:46.920 some that lie to high heavens but but it's like they almost even men that lie it's like

02:22:53.240 on a subconscious level it's like they have the boldness to lie to you right

02:22:59.800 in a way it's like easy to tell the truth you gotta live with guilt if you lie i'm not saying

02:23:03.960 to do it but it's kind of like you you seen um what's it called anna delvey it's that girl she

02:23:12.520 like scammed all of um she got invited to like a billionaire party and got into high society in new 0.59

02:23:18.440 york and like stayed at all these rich hotels by lying and saying she was a heiress and you know 1.00

02:23:24.840 what i mean like people she's kind of become an internet celebrity even though she's obviously a 1.00

02:23:29.160 loser because everyone's so enamored with her because in a way it took courage to lie like

02:23:37.320 you know what i mean if you're gonna scam all in new york city you could say it's a bad right you 0.95

02:23:41.880 You could say it's immoral, but in a way, like, that did take courage to do the wrong thing, you know?

02:23:58.260 Let's see.

02:24:01.360 That's why when that guy was talking about obligatory sex, I knew exactly what he was saying. 1.00

02:24:08.360 Any woman that has sex out of obligation knows how it feels.

02:24:11.880 i have to have i think that maybe is the one i'm gonna do for friday i'm just i'm a little

02:24:18.640 nervous to do it because i don't understand i'll i'll read the material tomorrow and i've been

02:24:25.040 reading it but sometimes i get nervous to do certain topics because i'm like there's so many

02:24:31.740 guys that are better at like ryan stone's like a genius so is a robert glove like psych hacks

02:24:38.420 they're so good at articulating the stuff. I get kind of nervous. I'm like, I want to do a good

02:24:42.860 job. I think I could do it though. I think I could do it. So anyways. All right, guys. Thanks for

02:24:49.900 watching. Um, I'll do a simp song to open on Thursday or Friday. It'll be around this time.

02:24:57.160 Um, six to eight, like the video, subscribe. Thanks for watching. I'll see you next time.

Pearl - April 16, 2026

Are We Dating The Same Guy Is a Terrorist Organization TBH

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