Pearl - Arrogant Women Instantly REGRETTED Divorcing Men？

00:00:00.000 fact that the quietness and the emptiness in your home when you don't have your spouse or your

00:00:04.240 children is deafening you have to really get comfortable with being alone and it's very

00:00:09.760 uncomfortable or or here this could be a better one i made a mistake i would never hear these

00:00:15.360 women say that they up what up guys welcome to the just hurley things youtube channel and welcome to

00:00:20.800 my reaction series today i'm going to be reacting to woman instantly regrets divorcing her husband

00:00:26.880 Women hitting the wall. 0.99

00:00:28.840 And, um, I wasn't prepared for that.

00:00:33.000 I wasn't prepared for feeling that way, even when you're not together.

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00:02:12.400 Welcome back, family.

00:02:14.240 Today, we will review some more crying divorced women 1.00

00:02:16.860 who just cannot seem to understand that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

00:02:21.380 What's the one thing you wish everyone around you knew about getting divorced?

00:02:25.160 Everyone always prepares you that whenever you're going through a divorce, losing...

00:02:30.920 Who filed? Who filed, lady? 0.98

00:02:33.400 You go through a grieving process, grieving for the loss of your marriage,

00:02:39.440 the loss of your hopes and dreams together.

00:02:42.100 um but one thing that they really don't prepare you for is the loss of a friend the loss of your

00:02:49.020 best friend i mean what did you think was gonna happen it's like women ruin their whole families 1.00

00:02:54.360 they're confused when they lose their husband the person that you always wanted to tell

00:03:00.640 you know tell your day and to tell you know your small wins and your small victories

00:03:05.780 and um i don't i wasn't prepared for that i wasn't prepared for feeling that way even when

00:03:16.360 you're not together and haven't been together um just having that desire to have them as a friend

00:03:24.480 again just another day and another modern woman making an impulse decision to divorce her husband 0.98

00:03:30.600 without really thinking about the consequences.

00:03:33.220 And I've seen this.

00:03:34.440 I have interviewed over a thousand people on my show

00:03:37.220 and I have had so many chicks 0.99

00:03:39.480 who divorced their husbands for damn near no reason. 0.94

00:03:42.180 I outgrew him.

00:03:43.000 I have heard that so many times.

00:03:44.320 Oh, let me just ruin my family,

00:03:46.100 put my kids at every statistical disadvantage

00:03:48.280 because I outgrew him.

00:03:50.420 And really what's happening is social media

00:03:52.380 has ruined relationships.

00:03:53.780 Women see men on social media. 1.00

00:03:55.780 They think the grass is greener on the other side.

00:03:58.180 And it's not.

00:03:58.940 And a lot of times it's lonely with a bunch of cats.

00:04:01.340 And that's why Kevin Samuels would say to, bye dog, die alone.

00:04:04.960 I bet that she was convinced that leaving her husband was a good idea

00:04:08.540 by listening to some divorced guru woman on the internet 1.00

00:04:11.740 talking about how divorce is wonderful.

00:04:14.620 Most women go to the internet not for learning, 1.00

00:04:17.160 but to find someone that will validate the idea that they already had in their mind.

00:04:22.080 Because deep down, they are not doing the right thing.

00:04:25.780 Check it out.

00:04:26.280 Is there anyone out there in TikTok land that can tell me what you're supposed to do with your life when you've been in a relationship for 20 plus years with the same person?

00:04:37.760 You have children, you have, you know, built a life.

00:04:41.240 Stay. Stay. That's what they're going to say. Stay.

00:04:44.340 And then all of a sudden that life is no longer.

00:04:47.060 Why? Tell me why. Why is it no longer? Who filed?

00:04:49.960 What are you supposed to do with your life? Like, I work, I'm a registered nurse, so I have a career, I guess. I have nurses, we've been telling you guys about the nurses.

00:05:02.960 hobbies i have like i don't know a house i have all the things that i guess you need

00:05:12.040 to live the life but i i don't know how i don't like do you do you date other people like do you

00:05:22.060 do you sort of like i just don't know i want to focus on myself i want to be happy but see she

00:05:28.460 she's talking about what she wants and that's what women do women just never think about what 1.00

00:05:32.800 their kids want, what their husband wants. It's always me, me, me. What I want. I want to, I just,

00:05:38.760 I want, I want, I want to heal from this. That's another thing. I'm so tired of hearing about

00:05:44.140 healing. I'm so tired of hearing about healing. What do you guys need to heal from? You know,

00:05:49.640 healing used to be like an injury, maybe war that used to be trauma. Now it's, all right, all right,

00:05:55.480 whole process that I've been in. But I also want to live life. Like I also want to have fun.

00:06:00.700 I don't want it to be all about being miserable and feeling sad and just going through the motions of life because my relationship, my marriage broke down.

00:06:11.880 I just don't want to do that anymore.

00:06:13.980 I want to be happy.

00:06:15.380 I want to move on and I want to just...

00:06:18.700 If you weren't happy in your marriage, you're not going to be happy outside of it.

00:06:22.080 You're either a happy person or you're not.

00:06:23.940 Find joy in life again.

00:06:25.400 I know that most of you just wanted to jump on your screens when you heard the infamous phrase,

00:06:30.240 I just want to be happy. Trust me, me too. It's the same story over and over and over again and

00:06:36.600 again and again. It's all about me, me, me, me, without even knowing what they really want. But

00:06:42.840 then they get shocked when the ex-husband move on with his life like in our next clip.

00:06:47.680 My husband fell in love with my best friend. Now ex-husband, ex-best friend, but they fell in love.

00:06:52.320 it's now been four years and i wanted to share a very important lesson that i learned the people

00:06:57.060 that are meant to be in your life will be in your life nothing will stop them from simply being in

00:07:03.380 your life if it's so easy for women we have no friends the more i see this stuff i'm like we

00:07:09.440 have zero friends yeah and to leave then they were never truly meant to be with you long term

00:07:15.580 anyways also i see people begging people to stay in their life you really want someone in your life

00:07:21.100 that you have to beg for no thank you and if you're really fighting for someone to stay don't

00:07:26.640 you value and respect yourself enough to just let them go i know that divorce is really hard and i

00:07:31.720 know that sitting in the loneliness is really hard but it's way better than begging and pleading for

00:07:36.780 someone to see your worth and your value you are worth so much more than that and i hope you see

00:07:41.460 that so from one heartbreak to another i see you and i love you it's amazing how these women will

00:07:47.400 always try to play it cool as if they are not jealous hurt and bitter when they see their

00:07:52.660 husbands moving on but you can see the anger and disappointment through her just in case you want 0.93

00:07:58.480 more affirmation on how her life is miserable i went through her page and here is one of her

00:08:03.880 latest video where she admit on how miserable her life really is so there are some crucial things

00:08:10.100 that people don't talk about after you go through it sometimes these women talk i'm like what are 0.80

00:08:14.260 try to make a hallmark movie see like the music in the background playing and everything the fact

00:08:18.740 that the quietness and the emptiness in your home when you don't have your spouse or your children

00:08:23.460 is deafening you have to really get comfortable with being alone and it's very uncomfortable

00:08:29.220 you could or or here this could be a better one i made a mistake i would never hear these women 1.00

00:08:35.140 say that they up it's always i up because i was young i was not like men in general some of you

00:08:42.020 guys act like women i won't even lie to you you'll be like oh i messed up because of the it's no but

00:08:48.820 in general in general women it's like it's never i just i messed up i was wrong i'm sorry it's like

00:08:55.060 this rationalization like you don't think if it's been four years and your house is empty something's

00:09:00.340 maybe not going right i don't know realize that you are now the center stage of all conversation

00:09:04.900 in your friend group because you're now living this wild and fun life because you're no longer

00:09:09.620 attached to anybody and i don't know about you but i spent a lot of my time crying and eating pizza

00:09:15.060 and drinking wine in the bathtub oh but live your best life girl single is glamorized in today's 1.00

00:09:21.500 society and people are saying yes good for being single and you should really tattoos nose ring

00:09:26.620 enjoy it it's so freeing when really you lost your purpose because you've been supporting this person

00:09:31.660 for x amount of years and supporting their aspirations and and their goals and their

00:09:36.260 dreams and their desires and you lost yourself along the way so now you yeah it's beautiful you

00:09:40.420 get to find yourself and but it's hard to sit in that and be like oh who the am i so maybe be a

00:09:45.620 little bit more gentle on the single people in your life all these strong independent happy single

00:09:51.740 living my best life women you see on the internet have the same sad story behind close doors they 1.00

00:09:58.140 are all crying miserable lonely depressed bitter and angry women my thing is if you didn't want to 0.97

00:10:11.480 be with him that's fine i mean i don't advocate for it but okay that that was your choice deal 0.81

00:10:16.180 with your choice but my question is why do you care if you moved he moved on you you didn't want

00:10:20.940 him so if you didn't want him why are you mad when he wants someone else it doesn't make any

00:10:25.480 to lead more women astray so that they can all be miserable because we know that misery loves 1.00

00:10:31.840 company and it's sad that so many young women keep falling for their lies i have a bonus clip 0.52

00:10:37.740 for you that shows the consequences of how i love him james sexton he's great government

00:10:42.660 incentivizing women to divorce their husbands i do divorces for people that you know a woman

00:10:48.500 walks out with two three hundred million dollars he was an analyst at goldman sachs who built a

00:10:53.660 hedge fund and then sold it and then used his trading algorithm to build it up to 500 million

00:10:58.900 dollars she was hot that'll do it slept with him for a while and then stopped and started sleeping 1.00

00:11:08.620 with other people and playing tennis and having botox and she's going to get half like that's 0.98

00:11:15.060 incredible like you know what he had to do to get that and it's so funny women will take all the 1.00

00:11:21.500 credit. Like if you ask that woman, she built a man. That's another thing I'm tired of. Ladies, 1.00

00:11:26.640 ladies, ladies, cooking, cleaning, and being supportive is not the same thing as building a 1.00

00:11:32.680 man. I mean, did you mentor him? No. Did you invest in his business first? No. Did you pay

00:11:39.620 for his education? No. Okay. So shut up. I mean, you cook. I mean, so can some chick for $12 an 1.00

00:11:46.520 hour like it's not you know it's not that hard anyways yeah i'll that guy for 200 million dollars

00:11:54.920 are you kidding me like that's insane that's incredible fellas as long as these family laws 0.99

00:12:00.280 are still in place you're gonna that's the thing they want men to be traditional but they always

00:12:04.520 want the men to do it first they don't want society to do it first and the unfortunate thing 0.98

00:12:09.960 is men can't be traditional in this society it doesn't work they literally cannot do it because 0.62

00:12:15.880 as long as you have a law, as long as you have a divorce law as an incentive structure that pays

00:12:21.540 women to leave, I mean, how can men be traditional and count on them staying? So, um, let me know what 1.00

00:12:26.900 you guys think in the comments. Leave a comment below, like the video on your way out, make sure

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Pearl - January 23, 2024

Arrogant Women Instantly REGRETTED Divorcing Men？

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