Pearl - December 16, 2024
Ben Shapiro joins the SIMP olympics
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Summary
In this episode of Pearl Daily, we discuss the controversial topic of genetic fraud, the dangers of cosmetic surgery, and the impact it can have on mental health. Join us in this episode where we discuss: 1. Is genetic fraud a real thing? 2. Is cosmetic surgery a scam? 3. Is there a link between genetic fraud and body dysmorphia? 4. Can genetic fraud be proven?
Transcript
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and go good afternoon good evening no mercy oh shoot I'm like guys I'm like guys I hear
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something oh now it's gone okay is it good all right good afternoon good evening ladies and
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gentlemen welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the audacity network I am your
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host Pearl and welcome to the show. So the first topic we are going to cover today is going to be
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the trend of genetic fraud. Now we have seen a trend of filters, catfishing, and now we have
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seen women going to extreme lengths to get plastic surgery to the point that they are risking their
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lives. As you guys know, a BBL is actually quite an invasive and can be dangerous procedure, but
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women fly across the world to countries they've never been to to get a cheap bbl and it will be
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interesting to see the effects of things so there are studies that have found that people who get
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plastic surgery may have higher rates of mental health conditions than the general population
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this was chat gtp it says anxiety and depression patients who pursue breast and facial surgery may
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have baseline, a higher baseline anxiety and depression. Depression may be more common in
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patients who have abnoplasty procedures, body dysmorphia. Patients who pursue breast augmentation
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and rhinoplasty may have an increased incidence of body dysmorphia and people with body dysmorphia
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may become fixated on flaws, which can lead to anxiety, depression, and social withdrawal
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personality disorders. Up to 25% of people who seek cosmetic surgery may have narcissistic
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personality disorder, which is characterized by a need for admiration and lack of empathy
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and rates of mental illness. Rates of anxiety, depression, and personality disorder may be higher
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than people seeking cosmetic surgery than in the general population. However, these rates can
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depend on the mental health how the mental health diagnosis was made i was also curious to see what
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are the most common procedures what can we look for and allegedly it is breast augmentation
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liposuction eyelid surgery facelift tummy tuck breast reduction rhinoplasty botox injections
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and chemical peels as well as laser skin resurfacing and what's interesting is these
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procedures are becoming more and more available to the middle class it used to be something that
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celebrities and only upper class people would get but you're starting to see them become affordable
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and you're able to get them in a day for example a fox cat eye lift is something that can be done
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in a day at a normal med spa as well as filler botox can be done at med spas and this is just
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a trend that we're starting to see now I posted a tweet that was a woman who had a before
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and after a nose job so this is the picture of her before as you can see she has a very
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you know a very large noggin is it on yeah okay and now the after is completely different
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i want to know from the chat what does this give her what would you say by the way glenn is guest
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hosting today as um he's a guest producing today as well if you guys remember my friend glenn welcome
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to the show glenn yo what do you think this gives her in terms of looks all right can we go back
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again all right this is the original here's the schnoz let's go in yeah so that's her before
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that's her after i mean what does it take her from that she's like a six and then here i mean
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that's a nice profile i'm gonna say she moved up a whole seven she went to seven seven point five
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yeah the nose uh a point and a half who would have thought so i asked the question on twitter
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is this genetic fraud because we're getting to the point where women can get so much surgery
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that they don't even look like their original self so you know this looks like completely
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different features than this this completely changed her face I wouldn't be surprised if she
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got I know a chin implant is something they also get now this guy Daniel Ward I believe he's calling
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into the show later posts his work that he's done I see your point but as a facial plastic surgeon
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i can say tell you it transforms the confidence of so many people disclose before marriage seems
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seems like a fine idea so it's interesting because the surgeons will tell you it makes
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them more confident where the trends and you know the online you know what's on google will say
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it causes insecurity and body dysmorphia i don't know which is true
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i i think it's going to depend i don't know i think like i think it's like you got body
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dysmorphia anyways you already find yourself ugly that you have to fix it so like you're gonna always
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gonna find something else to fix yeah i think that's the question like does it ever end and
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how much will it cost the men to upkeep it that's the thing like because like fake boobs you have to
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replace every 20 years that's not that big i mean it's not that bad you you know you replace cars
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more than you put place boobs yeah so that's not the end of the world um there's revisions for
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nose jobs um you know botox is something you get a couple times a year i i had a friend of mine that
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i know does a lot of that stuff and she gave me her costs it was like 10k a year who i want i
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can't say who okay i can pull up those kind of money away i could i could throw the numbers i
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mean she she looks good um for i mean she's like a bit um she's like in her 40s and i'd say she
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looks younger she's in her 40s yeah she gets um hair color cut and blow dry lip fillers 300 pounds
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under eye pillow filler 250 pounds nose filler 400 pounds botox 320 pounds um but we're counting
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hair as like as well i just asked all of our expenses okay so i think i forgot what i calculated
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this total to be i did it a different show and it was chemical face peel micro needling face peel
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it was roughly 10 000 a year when i calculated it out and that was pounds so it's like
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you know over a decade that's a lot of yeah that's a lot of money so i think that's more
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of the question and what will the kids look like well they're not going to look like her
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yeah so here i have a couple more so i have um now luckily social media it just um women just
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post everything on tick tock so we can see everything that's happening just by going on
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tick tock yep they're telling themselves yeah so this was her nose before it's even worse in this
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picture look at that side profile i know snazzy you smell what i'm sniffing you're sniffing what
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i'm smelling yeah that's way wow no i mean she really did change another that i think that was
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worth it for her i mean yeah for sure uh let me see the next one um okay here's the next one
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i had a big nose it was crippled with anxiety this december i'm in love with my son profile
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i mean dude that was yeah that's it let's see the next one she knows what you're cooking over
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oh wow i think she got other stuff done yeah she let's watch that again i think she got lip filler
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too okay let's see the lips all right yeah the bottom lip oh yeah that top lip that top lip got
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some feeling didn't so the question do men really like natural um we'd like to think that it's
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natural okay just don't you know don't tell us that it's not natural yeah so you're saying to lie
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y'all lie as it is oh so you're saying that these these ladies should just lie and not tell be like
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oh the kid's ugly i don't know just sound like hey you know what i wasn't always this pretty
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it took a lot of work to get here and then show us your baby pictures and then we'll determine
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if we want to get you pregnant born with so this is i never fucking liked you this is another one so
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let's see anyway this is her i i don't know i almost think her nose kind of fit her before
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the nose i was born with i never fucking liked you oh yeah it doesn't really
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i guess okay girls who have gotten a nose job you have i just thought that i had because in
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a before phone um i can't see the i thought she had a picture in there i don't think she does
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that's the same no for this girl yeah you guys are you guys are lying oh come on fellas um
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i didn't realize call her daddy host alex cooper oh my gosh this is what call her daddy looked like
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on the left so different from her past to what she looks like today and according to this new
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blind item she allegedly needs to find a new plastic surgeon because the threads in her face
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tore everything oh so get this they're getting eye lifts now and they thread they put like
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threads in their eyes and like pull it up what yeah they thread your eyes i don't we can maybe
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youtube a procedure i don't really understand it but they're saying her threads broke like they
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were under her skin and they broke everything in this video is alleged not confirmation of validity
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of allegations you would think the podcaster who just signed that massive huge deal could afford
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to not let the threads in her face tear she needs to find a better plastic surgeon and again this
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allegedly alex cooper and call her daddy and a thread lift and according to the american society
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to find out i bet you it's on tick tock let's go videos oh my it's making me sign in okay
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we can do a youtube video a thread lift youtube so okay how like i get it ladies like a lot of
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you okay here we go okay here we go so they're drawing lines her eyes aren't even
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PDO thread is a type of dissolvable suture that's actually made even from a
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sugar and it dissolves underneath your skin over time and everywhere where a
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thread is placed does create a little bit of collagen and a little bit of
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fibrosis so that over time as you do more threads the tissues can stay more
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lifted so here today we're actually going to be doing PDO threads on our
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lovely patient Charlene on the facial sagging here so the style of numbing
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that we do here is more of a tumescent numbing where we're putting numbing
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under the skin it'll be more effective and last which is laughing gas so that
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she's not in pain depending on how many threads quality of your of your scalp
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skin and also your age so we're making the entry point to place the thread
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first so there's different techniques for placing threads this cannula is a
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a non-threaded cannula so there's nothing in there that's important because if i want to
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reposition the cannula so that i have the best position of the thread i can if you have i don't
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like this oh gosh okay well it's you know veneers they like a lot of people have those they shave
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their teeth down and then put stuff over yeah um you know i mean the thing is though some women get
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this stuff done and it completely changes their life it it takes them from you know cinderella
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cleaning up poop pants to cinderella in in a gown yeah so we can't really okay let me send the link
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to the plastic surgeon so i'm really curious i got questions yeah i want to know how common this
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stuff is well they have to be pretty common right like they they they stay i know but i'm curious
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what percent of women he thinks this link you sent me can you email it because the text it's
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like being it won't let me send it yeah unless uh i'll email it to you right now okay from my email
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okay guys we're gonna move on to the next story to kill time because i think i gotta send it to
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him so what do you bring to the table in a relationship um
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so does it ruin it for you as a guy if you find out a woman has had plastic surgery no i don't
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care you don't care don't care don't care don't care just i just i don't need to know how you're
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beautiful or why you're beautiful i just want you beautiful okay like me really so if you found out
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she had like thirty thousand dollar in plastic surgery to look how she looks doesn't make a
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difference i don't care you do not care do not care that's what zero i don't think men care as
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much as they zero f givens yeah okay let me send this guy the link tell me when he gets on really
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so if you found out she had back okay so the next thing that we're gonna go over
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is women are also finding out that having children is difficult yeah so apparently women
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we just thought that we could have kids and it just wouldn't be that hard but now there's a
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woman on tiktok who is saying that all of her friends that have had children it's not that
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they regret having kids doctor's here oh he is oh wow that was quick the doctor okay guys we'll go
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back okay guys so today we're having um we're having dr dr what is the sound is that me or you
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no it's not me or you i think that's um the doctors oh okay the okay so today we're having
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on dr daniel ward now he is a plastic surgeon and um he actually replied to my tweet today
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he was the one i showed earlier where he spoke about um how it increases women's confidence
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getting some of these surgeries which i could definitely see right um like the woman on the
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the first woman that we showed had that big noggin it goes down and she looks like a completely
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different person yeah um so do you want to bring them up yep i'm bringing them up right now
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right here okay also guys if you have a question comment or concern let's see if
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the website's working today I don't think it is the website's down mmm still
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down all right I'm just trying to get move this over here to this other screen
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there he is okay and you can't see him yet can you i can't i don't think you have the tv on oh
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yeah his camera's not on or his mic's not in his mic oh his mic's not let me know his mic and camera
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both not on i'm in the zoom but like he said he can't hear us can you still not all right
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when do yeah he said he still can't hear us all right
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um should be able to mute because i'm telling me i'm asking him to start video and
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yeah it says asking him to there we go oh now he's on yeah and then
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oh i think he said he'll try to disconnect and reconnect
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can you hear us oh his mic is still muted pearl um i can tell him but the
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Yeah, but you don't show my screen when it's messed up.
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okay let's see sorry guys give us a second
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but we could okay so his audio your audio is pretty rough i could hear him breaking up trying
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to get you know yeah i don't think our audio are you sure our it says we're moving yeah our audio
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is on i think it might be are you in a bad location it's i think yeah i think it's on
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is on your side set uh tell him to set his mic to his computer mic
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um dr war can you hear us he said his mic seems to be working he just can't hear us
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okay try that what's the settings on because if he can't hear us i'm wondering it says our audio
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is moving though yeah our audio is fine so it's got to be on his end i'm thinking
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if you could hear us um could you hop out and then try to hop back in
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do maybe you can just try audio only um ask to unmute
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okay can you hear me now yes oh that's way better perfect you fixed it you guys you fixed it
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hi welcome to the show um doctor it is great to be here do you um do you prefer daniel or dr ward
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if if my mother was alive she would need to call me dr ward but everybody else can call me dan
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okay so you have a plastic um surgery clinic out in utah it looks like yeah so i'm in salt lake
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city which forbes magazine named the venus city in america a few years ago because of the high
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concentration of plastic surgeons. And I do facial plastic. So rhinoplasty, facelift, eyelids,
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and then some non-surgical things as well. I own a med spa. And so I was watching earlier when you
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guys had the clip-on of those PDO threads. And I've got some strong opinions about that,
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but we can talk about that if you want to or when you want to. Yeah. So my first question really is
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what percent of women do you think have plastic surgery in the United States? Just anecdotally,
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because I'm sure you have an eye for it walking around. You can kind of tell.
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You know, that's an interesting question because I'm certainly in a highly selective
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area in the sense of like the people that I see, I probably have a skewed view
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because the people I see like don't have any problem with it. You know, in terms of the total
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you know like how many out of 100 women have had plastic surgery i don't know maybe 10 i don't
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think it's that high um but but those numbers are increasing um you know over the past 25 years uh
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with with the advent of non-surgical aesthetics you know things like fillers things like botox
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people are more and more able to get these procedures they're more and more interested in
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them. And so as a result, they're like, oh my gosh, like, okay, well maybe I do want some cheek
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filler to make my, you know, to make my cheeks look better, make my eyes look better. Oh, and
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oh, but I can't get like a full facelift effect. So, oh, I guess I better do my facelift. So I
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think the incidence is increasing overall. And also, you know, it's safer than it's ever been
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before. In terms of education of surgeons, it's better than it has ever been before. And safety
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of like anesthesia and stuff like that is better than it's ever been before.
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What are the most common procedures that you see?
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So the most common procedures, like overall, if you look at overall, I think breast augmentation, liposuction are probably the top two.
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Tummy tucks are pretty, you know, common mommy makeover sort of things.
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In the face, rhinoplasty, noses is super common.
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And that might be a little bit skewed because as people get older, their eyelids droop,
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and they may need to actually have that surgery to help improve their vision.
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And then facelift and necklift, you know, that's kind of more of a select population.
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People, you know, like over 45 are more likely to get those sorts of things.
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But people that are pretty young are getting them as well.
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So one of the procedures that I really love to do is getting rid of double chins.
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You know, these people who, you know, they might weigh 100 pounds, but they feel like they've got a double chin.
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It's because this is the way the muscles are positioned.
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So tucking that up in there helps kind of hide that double chin, which is something that totally kills somebody's confidence if they feel like they've got a double chin.
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And how expensive do the procedures tend to run?
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Like, because I think a lot of men, maybe when they're dating a woman, they kind of want to know how much does she cost?
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you know like how like how much it does what is her maintenance fee so you know if she if she does
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lip filler what's that going to cost over a decade if she does botox what's that going to
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over a decade yeah what are they what are they giving you you know how much do i got to put you
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on retainer yeah let me give you the cost over um over a year and then we can extrapolate out
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to 10 years if we want to so over a year um so Botox Botox you get that about every three or
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four months and that's probably going to be in the 700 to a thousand dollar range maybe a little bit
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less but you know so you might be on the high end what it might be like three to four thousand per
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year for Botox for um for filler that's probably once a year maybe maybe every six months if
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somebody's like a rapid metabolizer for filler in the lips and that's going to be you know probably
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close to 700 to a thousand dollars. I'm a little bit more expensive. We charge like 900 bucks for
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lips. So, um, you know, if they're getting that done, say once a year or every nine months or so
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on average, it's probably close to about $900. Um, I would say per, uh, per year for lips for
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other procedures, you know, like a rhinoplasty, like a facelift, those procedures can be, you
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know, $20,000 or $30,000. So they are kind of expensive. And I guess, you know, one perspective
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that I'd love to hear your thoughts about this, but one perspective is that that kind of surprises
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a lot of men is that we think as men that women are doing it for us. Like, oh, they want to look
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good for us. And that's rarely the case. They want to do it because they want to feel more
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confident. And that's, I mean, that's true for male patients too, because about 20 to 30% of
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patients are men who get it. And it's all about confidence. It's the same, you know, this is a
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silly analogy, but it's the same reason why people update the clothing that they wear. You know,
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like, why aren't you wearing the same shirt that you were wearing eight years ago? Well,
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it's kind of out of style. It doesn't look as good anymore. I know that's a little bit of an
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extreme example, and I'm not trying to diminish the risks of surgery, but it really is kind of
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about confidence. What do you say are the risks that come with surgery? Like, why do we see some
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women look so weird and some you can't even tell they've had it? The reason they look weird
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in some cases is because they either don't have a surgeon who either knows what they're doing.
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I think that's probably a little less likely. I think it's more likely that they've got a surgeon
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who doesn't tell them when enough is enough. So what do I mean by that? Well, here's kind of a
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As we age, this line right here, the medial labial or the nasolabial fold gets deeper.
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We may want some filler in there to help kind of counteract that.
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The problem is that we get so focused on that one thing that we start filling it, we start
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And then before we know it, like there's nothing there and it's like a big lump.
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They look like a monkey because they're like, you know, kind of puffed out like this.
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they're focusing more on that one spot, that one little line, instead of taking a look at the whole
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face as the whole. And I personally am very kind of offended by that because the face is, in my
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opinion, kind of a sacred structure. It's like who we are, it's our identity. And if we're now
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changing their identity, I think we haven't helped them. I think we've made it worse.
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Because what looks worse than, I mean, I don't think any of us necessarily want to look old or
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tired or aged. But what looks worse than that is if you look old, aged, and tired, and then you've
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got like this crazy looking filler in your face and you just look weird. So to answer your question,
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I think it's the main reason. There's lots of reasons possibly why. I think the main reason
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though is that we lose sight of the patient as a whole and of the face as a whole, and we don't do
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a good job of giving a nice comprehensive treatment for them. And is there an age that women stop
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getting it and just say, I'm just going to be old? Or does it pretty much, will that expense be there
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forever? You know, you'd be surprised. There's people who are like 85 years old who come in
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and they get a little Botox, they get a little filler. They might, it's, it would be rare to do
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like some sort of surgical procedure on somebody that age because they probably aren't healthy
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enough. But there are people who are, you know, as you know, like age is just a number. There are
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some people who you know they're 84 years old they might be healthier than a 54 year old
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and so they might you know be be fine to do it um but you know you'd be surprised and there's a lot
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of people who are like oh i'm just going to age gracefully and then they typically say that when
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they're in their 20s or early 30s then they get like 35 42 45 50 and they start to notice those
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little lines and they don't like them and i'm convinced from a psychological standpoint they
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don't like it because it's taking away from the identity that they have with themselves
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their identity is not to have that tired aged look their identity is to like look vibrant and
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healthy and that's what most people want they just want to feel more confident and what has the
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impact of filters been on women psychologically i don't know if you have a opinion on this but
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like instagram filters like do you have women that come in that say they want to look like
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their instagram filter men and women yes and i don't think that they they don't necessarily come
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in and say oh i love this filter i want to look like that i think most people are you know that
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they're more sophisticated than that the thing is it's i think it's a much deeper psychological
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thing i think that we when we're using these filters we start to think that that's how we look
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yeah we start to think that that's like reality and then when we actually see reality it's like a
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sudden shock and we feel we feel really shocked that we look so bad like oh my gosh I got to do
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something it's it's a really weird phenomenon and I I'm convinced that we as humans for whatever
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reason we think that's how we should look and so we get surgery or some sort of aesthetic procedure
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to make us look that way and have you ever had um clients that you've told no or maybe you've
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done a procedure but you really like you sort of felt like they either they're going to go to you
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or someone else but like you could just see psychologically they were just going to keep going
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yeah there are people like that and i think um they're they're few and far between i mean i think
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it's kind of fun to talk about it's kind of fun to joke about you know like oh the crazy plastic
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surgery basically so vain and we see the you know the crazy pictures of of celebrities who've had
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bad things happen to them um that that can happen of course i think that is few and far between
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though in actuality they just for the most part people just want to look refreshed rejuvenated
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they want to look normal they don't want to look weird and i think it's our job as the surgeons to
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help help that and if there is somebody who does i've only had a handful of cases where they're like
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have some sort of extreme request like for example one of them was she wanted these lips that were
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just like absolutely like no human could ever have lips that big um they were already really
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beg if she wanted to like do all this fat injections and put implants in I was like you
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know what I can't help you and part of that is because I I don't want to expose people to risk
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because the more extreme the surgery is the greater the risk but also like you know kind of
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every patient is kind of like your portfolio I don't want somebody walking like oh Dr. Ward did
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these lips yeah and then think that everybody every lip pair of lips that I do looks like that
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and what do you what is the average age women tend to start doing this stuff
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so for for a surgical procedure like rhinoplasty it's not unusual like 15 is probably the youngest
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um they're typically grown by then and a lot of people just they they know that they've got a big
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nose and they they want to get it taken care of so it better fits their facial profile that's
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fairly rare you know probably less than five percent maybe even lower than that in terms of
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doing other procedures like injectables and things like that um that that can start you know 18 19 20
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i don't do any injectables on patients who are younger than than 18 or whatever but there are
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college kids who come in and sometimes this is crazy sometimes the college kids will come in
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with like their mother and the college kids you look at them you're like okay you don't need you
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you don't need lip filler and she and her mom both want the lip filler and the mom you know
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maybe the mom's like say 50 the mom really could use it it would make her look better you know she
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maybe has some lines if she needs a little bit more fullness to make her lips look a little bit
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more hydrated she wants like a tiny little amount whereas like whatever the 20 year old daughter
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wants like this you know huge amount it's like totally reverse of what it should be
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And I think the reason is, you know, like the daughter's not doing it because she's looking old.
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She's doing it because she wants those big, luscious lips.
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And I don't think, you know, we can be kind of critical of society for doing it right now.
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I think it's just kind of a stage that it's kind of going through with, you know, with lips in particular.
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But other things, like there's kind of, I hate to use the word fad, but kind of like a fad or a phase.
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And if you track, you know, it's the same thing.
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if you looked at, you know, like magazine covers of models from like the 1920s, every decade up to
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now, you'd see a change in kind of style or what appearance looks good. The same thing, you know,
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I think like 10 years ago, really big lips were more popular. Now, I think people think like,
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those do look weird. Nobody wants lips that looks like that or very few people do. And so now they
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may want fuller lips or lips that look more hydrated, but they don't want like really big,
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juicy lips and what about the filler migration stuff we've seen where like people they're saying
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they don't dissolve like they thought they did yeah so you know filler the most common filler
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is made out of hyaluronic acid hyaluronic acid is a naturally occurring compound in the body
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it's in our joints you know one of the types of cartilage we have is hyaline cartilage
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it's because there's a lot of hyaluronic acid um with with these fillers um they the first one is
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approved in 2003 that's kind of an over-the-counter the first of this generation was approved in 2003
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it's called restylane and um the thinking has always been that because this occurs naturally
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in the body there's also an enzyme that occurs naturally in the body that breaks that down
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And we certainly see a decrease in the effectiveness of the filler.
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There's been recent, maybe like the last two, three years, discussion about maybe that doesn't go away like we thought that it did.
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And I've got some personal experience with patients who have had it.
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You know, I've had some patients who have had it put in their nose.
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I've done the rhinoplasty on three of the local filler reps who sell the spot.
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And each one of them before I did their rhinoplasty said, hey, I haven't had any filler here for like two or three years.
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We had it dissolved, you know, blah, blah, blah.
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Every single one of them, I went in there, and they all had filler in their nose.
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So I'm convinced that it probably does stay there longer than we think.
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It is a foreign substance we're injecting in.
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It seems to be well-tolerated for the most part.
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There's not a lot of reactivity that our body or our immune system has to it.
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it's just not very likely and there are recent studies that have shown that maybe it doesn't
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go away like we thought that it did and so i've had i've had a rash of people over the last you
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know year two years who have come in and they want it to be dissolved like oh my gosh i've heard this
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stays stays in there longer i want to have dissolved inject this enzyme into me that that
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will dissolve it well the problem is is if we put that enzyme in then we've kind of eaten away some
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of the natural hyaluronic acid that's occurring as well and some of those changes seem to be
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permanent so i think i think the rule of thumb that to keep in mind is that anything that we
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do to our bodies has an effect yeah and despite what we as physicians think like we like to claim
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that we know everything and that we you know are knowledgeable about everything we're not like we
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we know some things but we don't know everything one of the things that that we don't know is what
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happens with this filler i think we can safely say there doesn't seem to be any short-term or
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relatively long-term effects from it but i don't think that we can accurately say that we know
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exactly what happens to it once it's in in the body that's a very honest answer because um
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i i i think as a patient too it's kind of your responsibility to look into it like it is the
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the doctor's responsibility to inform you, but everything you do is going to have risks. There's
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just choices and trade-offs, you know? Absolutely. That is so true. And that's what I tell my
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patients. I tell them almost exactly how you said that is, I don't think my job as your surgeon or
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as your doctor is to say what to do. It is my job to know everything that I possibly can know about
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it, to tell you the risks, to tell you the benefits, allow you to make a decision what's
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best for you. And I think that's right. But I think a lot of patients don't want to believe
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that. And a lot of physicians don't want to be honest with that in the sense of explaining
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exactly the reality of what might happen. Yeah. I mean, because some stuff, especially if it's
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new, I'd imagine it takes time for studies to come out. What do you think of the threading
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that we showed earlier? You don't seem like you were a fan, no?
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so i'm not so you know i i do facelifts and if you take it if you take a second and think about
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what we do with facelifts so we we surgically open up the face we peel the skin back we go
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underneath this tough tough fascia layer that is mass and we lift that stuff up we put sutures in
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there we do all this trauma and we do all that trauma and it does stay there but it does sag
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with time. For literally decades, people have been trying to do stuff with like sutures and
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bigger sutures and stronger sutures. And we've done it both surgically and non-surgically.
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And I have to tell you, if you're relying on a suture, whether it's a threaded suture or a barbed
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suture or just a regular suture, it's not going to hold up those tissues of the face.
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so i don't think the threads lift and in fact i would challenge anyone to to look for a before
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and after of a thread i have yet to see a thread before and after picture that is more than just
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like a before and after and like a before and then immediately after immediately after you put
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the thread in they're laying there you put it in like oh my gosh like the face is lifted up
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show me like a one-week post-op show me a three-month post-op or a one-year post-op
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after they've done that. And you can't find them. I've looked. They're not on social media. You
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won't find them anywhere. I've had a couple of people when I'm kind of being sassy and said
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something like that on social media. And people have said like, oh, well, here's a before and
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after, you know, like these nurses that put them in or whatever. And the lighting is all off. It's
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not an honest picture because it's not a true apples to apples comparison. It's like the head's
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in a different position or there's different lighting. So having said all that negative
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thing about threads, I'll say one more negative thing and then I'll say some good things about
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threads the other negative thing is that if you are going to do a surgical procedure the threads
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are going to make it more complicated because there's more scar tissue there's a foreign body
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there so that's kind of bad in addition there's there are decent numbers of people who have
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infections or wound healing complications with these things and as a surgeon i'm the one that
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cleans that up and i see these devastated patients who thought they were getting like a little bit
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of a facelift and they thought they were getting like a discount facelift. And instead they've got
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like an infection in an area of necrosis where part of their skin has died. Like, so those are
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kind of the nightmare cases. So those are the bad things about threads. Having said that, I do think
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the threads work in one way and one way only. When you put those threads in, they are dissolving,
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they go away. And because they are dissolving, it stimulates your body to produce more collagen.
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So I think it does do something in the sense of it adds volume.
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We've known for a very long time that if we add volume to like an area here, like on the cheek, it almost gives like a pseudo lift of that area because you're adding volume here that helps decrease how much jowl we have showing here.
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But I guess I'm kind of a little bothered because I think a lot of the marketing around them isn't really honest.
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And that kind of bothers me. And it bothers me also because I think that it's a matter of, I don't think people are having that honest discussion with their patients. They're just like taking their money, you know, running their credit card or whatever, and then putting the thread in and then saying goodbye. And that kind of just, I just don't think that's very ethical.
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Do you think that there will be complications with these implants that people are getting in
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their face? Like the cheek? I think there's chin? Yeah. So cheek implants and chin implants have
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been around for literally decades, probably 50 to 70 years. I don't know when the first one was put
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in, but it's been a very long time. So unlike filler and unlike threads, we have a very good
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track record and we know some of those problems that can occur. I put a chin implant, I probably
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do like three to four of those a week they are really popular really common it helps people get
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better balance patients like once they figure this out they they can't stop looking at like
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movie stars and models and they see like oh my gosh like how does this model or whatever have
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this killer jawline well it's probably because they have an implant and you can see this with
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certain actors actresses you know like look at say like tom cruise look at him when he was young
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look at him now look at his jawline he's clearly had like a chin implant mandibular angle
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implants, that's how he's kind of maintained that jawline. That's a male example. There's loads of
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other models and actresses who have had that done as well. So a chin implant is almost like,
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I kind of refer to it sometimes as like the movie star or model's secret weapon to kind of get that
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really elegant, nice look. An implant on the chin is super well tolerated. The infection risk is
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almost 0%. It just looks good. It's a simple procedure. To do it, it takes me like 15 minutes
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if we're putting it in. It doesn't really take a lot of time. There's other areas where we put
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implants like the cheeks, like the mandibular angle, that they work just like a chin implant
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does. But because we have to put them through the mouth where there's saliva and more bacteria,
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there's a higher infection rate. So we don't do those nearly as often as we used to because we
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now have filler that works actually pretty well. So I can, instead of going in surgically and
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putting an implant here on the angle of the mandible here, or right here on the cheek,
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we can just go in with a needle and put some filler in there. It's not going to last forever
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like the implant would, but if you put the filler in right on top of the bone, it's probably going
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to last 12, 18 months. You don't have to undergo surgery. It's at a fraction of the cost. Now,
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certainly the long-term, if you're doing that your whole life, it's going to be cheaper just
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put the implant in but there's other there's other ways to add that volume besides an implant
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and so what do you think of the topic today genetic fraud do you think that if women don't
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disclose their surgeries it's fraudulent to men if they choose to marry and have kids with them
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that is a such an interesting question isn't it um you know yeah you don't wanna like i don't
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know if you saw the first woman that was a honker oh i have this like i think she went from like a
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six to a we said eight that's like a no we gave her a 7.5 let's be generous we're not being too
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much we're not going that far all right you know i i would have given her but i'm a woman who cares
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so here's what i think um yes i think if you if if you had you know some some really dramatic
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facial um structure that was changed i think it only makes sense to be honest about that
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um you know there's probably a the right time and place in a relationship to have that conversation
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i don't think that's the sort of thing you necessarily need to have like first second
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third date you know like if things are getting serious and there might be procreation that's
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evolved like yeah that's probably a good discussion to have but i guess i'd take it back a little bit
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more and say like, you know, listen, if, if a, if a relationship isn't built on some element of
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trust anyway, where, where one partner doesn't feel comfortable saying that, I don't think that's
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a relationship that's going to be successful anyway. So yes, I mean, I think that it should
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be disclosed, but not like, oh my gosh, like, should I tell them? Should I not tell them? I
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think it just should be, you should tell them just because you want an honest, open relationship
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where you can be open with each other and you want to have long-term success.
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Have you seen the case where the man in China sued?
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I mean, I hate to kind of sound like whatever relativistic or something,
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I think that for us, that would be really weird.
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I think that we would think that most of our relationships should be based on a more open, honest discussion.
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I'm not an expert on Chinese cultural issues or whatever, but I suspect that part of that might have been that there was just less of that, less value placed on that kind of open discussion.
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So in a case like that, it might kind of make sense, where I was kind of misled by this.
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This is, I'm a big believer, you know, if we simplified enough, we, none of us want to admit
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the relationships are a transaction, but they really are. They're purely, you know, marriage
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is just a transaction. And, um, if you're not honest about it, you know, that's, you know,
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who wants to enter into a business partnership with a partner who can't be on, who can't be
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honest with you. Yeah. Okay. Well, I was just really curious what you had to say. Thank you
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so much for calling in. Well, I love you guys. You do such great work. Your comments are always
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like so fun and it's it's been a privilege to talk to you thank you have me on again it'd be fun to
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talk yeah we definitely will i appreciate it take care bye bye bye okay guys um that was so fun we
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have um i never thought um we should have asked answered his question what was this question
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remember he said like you know he want to know what you thought about oh the confidence one
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yeah um what do you think about that well i think our confidence comes from getting attention from
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them like that's what i i would say if like like he said like you know they do it because they want
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to look more attractive well how do you know you look attractive by the attention yeah well where
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did the attention come from yeah well they could say well from women too well yeah because the
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women are looking at oh this is hotter than me yeah but in the woman hierarchy you know what's
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interesting okay i'm gonna show you a picture right now okay and i'm gonna tell you and one
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woman if i asked one one of these women i want to know which one is more attractive to you
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oh what was their names guys it was the two waitresses show what is it are you talking about
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um two broke girls yeah two broke girls yeah yeah so we have two broke girls here
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and i want to know and guys in the chat you can put it too who's more attractive to you
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the burnet women would say the blonde well the women are dumb yeah because women rank like
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skinny first where men rank curvy first like they rank the boobs in the butt yeah we like boobs yeah
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yeah i know obviously but like we we don't realize how much like boobs add yeah i know i know i know
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let me tell you i know i know i know i know so um yeah so if i ask women like i i showed this to a
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woman i know like two or three women and they all said the blonde and when i grew up watching this
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i i would have guessed the blonde was more attractive yeah you ladies are not really good
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at um judging your beauty i guess but you know it's it's not your beauty it's your booty
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yeah well but that's what i mean so if you show men and women the same girl like women
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are gonna rank it on different things like we hold the face card higher and we hold skinny
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higher yeah the skinny skinny is part of it you know would you rather have a girl a little chubby
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but huge boob huge butt or skinny oh no i'm taking i could deal with a little chubby you know what
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i'm saying we get you on the kanye west workout plan get you them sit-ups right you know yeah
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you'll just feed her last or something you'll be like you'll be like i'll cook it's fine i'm gonna
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give you your rations your rations for the day i used to say that i i was like guys you can date
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chubby guys just feed them less yeah or like make like make their food gross and then they'll eat
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it but they'll still eat less of it take them to the gym yeah drop them off at the gym yeah um
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okay but you know i forgot what you the original why i brought that up i don't know but you know
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oh but the confidence the confidence because if women ask women well who's attractive they're
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gonna either lie that's how we get the fat acceptance or if they're honest they're gonna
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pick things that men don't find attractive yeah yeah like you guys like oh my elbow looks hideous
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like nobody's looking at your elbow um okay i also didn't realize how much signaling
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likes like clothes how much men rank the attractiveness higher oh yeah we see more skin
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yeah you guys you could get to a 10. okay um but here's the question like we didn't ask i wanted
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to put in the chat i want to know how much a lifetime like the lifetime cost of titties lives
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because you know you got to go back in there do some work later on right well i could i could
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calculate this so boob job cost average it's every 20 years so the average cost of a boob job
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it says it's five grand so that's not too bad that's five uh it's probably if you get them
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redone three times so 10 20 30 like that's 60 years of boobs it's 50 60 years of boobs yeah 15
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grand i mean some people it's 15 they have to go back in so it could be 20 that's not too bad
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yeah like i think the guys just want to know how expensive yeah we want to know like how much are
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your titties going to cost over yeah so he said 3 000 a year i think was it two grand he said a
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for botox um i think so yeah which and does the woman is she gainfully employed can she afford
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this herself no that's why she married you you know what i'm saying these are expenses that you
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have to add to your but your budget now yeah i mean i don't know so okay i want to show the next
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clip i i am going to cover ben but i'm going to cover him at the end the sympademic so glenn did
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you know that japan you know the birth rate is going really low there yeah yeah they're at 1.2
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yeah aren't they like starting like like recruit people no they're doing a four-day work week to
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solve its birth rate crisis so the tokyo metropolitan government plans to introduce
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a four-day work week to ease the burden on families some analysts believe it will have
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little impact on declining birth rates unless accompanied by fundamental changes to Japanese
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workplace culture. For these policies to meaningly impact fertility rates and support
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greater gender equality in Japan, they must be accompanied by workplace cultural changes
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that normalize and encourage men's active participation in family life. Such a change
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will not happen on its own and will likely require regulation aimed directly at labor market
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practices last week tokyo governor announced that starting in april city employees will be allowed
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to take three days off each week we'll keep reviewing our work styles flexibility so that
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nobody has to give up their careers due to life events such as childbirth and child care
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so i don't think this is going to help at all no this is stupid yeah i don't think because all
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gonna do like okay you had 10 hours to work now you're working 14 hours a day to make up those
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hours that you're off yeah and i'm just i think people will work anyway on those days if they
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have to get stuff done yeah yeah no i mean i hear like over in japan they are really overworked
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like people yeah they are they're like slaves out there almost it's bad i went there when i was young
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and i was like 10 and my mom i went there by myself and yeah i know well actually i think i
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they were studying for like the school coming up i mean and and we and that's why they smart
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yeah that's why they're smart um yeah i just don't see this really helping i i think what
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they're wrestling with is they don't realize that women don't want to be mothers as much as they
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thought yeah everyone thinks that we're these nurturing and there's some gun to our head
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making us not want to be moms but we just rather do other things it's not good nor bad but like
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I'm trying to be honest about what's happening you know remember when that video went viral of
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that woman saying she would rather go to concerts than be a mother like she thought she'd be married
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but now she gets to sleep in that was probably the most honest video I've heard about what's
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going on because genuinely that's what women are putting above motherhood it's you know it's it's
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just like events like they'd rather go to a concert than go on a date you know they you know
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we'd rather go do these fun things rather than start a family and they feel left out if they
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don't do it so i mean i get it like maybe it's a maybe it's a cool job right you know i'm not
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saying it's right or wrong i'm just saying this is like kids kids like everybody thinks that
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everybody's supposed to be a parent trust me i think you should have a license to be a parent
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not everybody should be able to have kids yeah that's true you know we don't need
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necessarily more kids we just need less dumb kids yeah um and the other thing we don't talk about is
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the infant mortality rate most of your like a third of your kids didn't make it to five well
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hold on are we talking about infant mortality rate as in like you know health issues or because
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moms like to delete things i actually don't know from the 1800s that'd be a good question
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because the i know the infant mortality rate in the 1800s was around like 33
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oh but what how many of those moms oh my kid got the flu i don't know that's that's really
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similar to the abortion rate i never thought about that that's what i was see tinfoil hat
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everybody get your tinfoil hats okay so next on the agenda we're going to be reacting to
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a compilation on tick tock that is pop culture moments that i can't believe are real oh here we
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go no audio wow i love that wow wait can i wait can i just want to feel it oh that's
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wow i love that i was waiting for you to smile at some of the comments
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and then you're going to have people who are going to say oh you know like she's just write
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songs about her ex-boyfriends and i think frankly that's a very sexist angle to take no one says
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that about ed sheeran no one says about bruno mars they're all writing songs because they're more
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talented than you taylor way more talented way more talented um but uh you know that guys you
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and bruno mars are not the same no you're not even on the same category you're not you're not the same
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nowhere near the same level but you know that guy only touched uh scarlett johansson's boobs because
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he's gay right yeah okay yeah songs about their exes their current girlfriends their love life
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and no one raises a red flag there if you could use makeup or your phone one last time which one
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would you pick makeup or your phone is this what you think girls have trouble choosing yeah yeah
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yeah they do we love our phone and makeup i don't know why we play pretend really go anywhere
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without your cell phone yes how long can you go without looking at many hours many hours
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do you believe that no i don't not at all i don't think not in for a little bit that's true i have
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to do it but you know when i'm at a dinner table i like to be present and talking i can't ladies
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learn ladies boys learn oh right now we got our have you seen the new boys and girls i felt like
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this was a compilation of entitled female celebrities well i think that she only times
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that she doesn't look at her phone is when she's walking side to side her doing an interview let me
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see the next one this is the other one what are what are cultural moments that you thought are
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are that you think about regularly what's the gay version of tinder uh grinder grinder i mean i
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don't know what's your spirit animal tupac shakur she is not an elite ployer why do you think i'm
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more famous than you um because you don't show your whole personality
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i know it ain't i know it ain't the stallion you know it's your girl if you look at the pictures
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isn't me and jimin it's we're identical no it's true is that a man nina thanks
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stay back to your career bye sure let me show you now
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let me get the next one and then is this camera yeah we're live oh oh this one was so funny let
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see the next one is this camera yeah we're live oh oh no i ain't seen nothing i ain't seen nothing
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matter of fact i'm blind in my left eye and 43 blind in my right eye i don't see much of nothing
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a matter of fact i can't even see you sir do you know that there was um an illegal
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gambling operation going on just down the street from where you live no
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what were you doing inside just drinking coffee not gambling no i don't know what what this is a
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coffee shop there's no gambling they stole 21 cars can you believe that what 21 cars what they gave me
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a car 21 cars what they gonna do how they gonna drive 21 cars at once right that's crazy they
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got to be ashamed of they self. I've been telling these folks, man, you need to get your life
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together. 21 cars? Where you going to park all them cars at? You can't do it. They saying I drove a
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getaway car, but I'm legally blind, so how I'm going to drive a car? So did you know what happened
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to the 73-year-old victim then? I don't know what happened. I just know what the police said.
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So you can't see at all? Huh? You can see though, right? I'm legally blind. I can see barely.
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i just thought those were funny um i liked the first one whoever made that video
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uh you notice one thing that they all hadn't like most of them they were all
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in common except the one i don't know what you're talking about i think the creator was a little
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oh i thought this was funny okay guys so this woman got arrested she was drunk right
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and she gets arrested for drunk driving and she can't stop hitting on the cop oh yeah yeah yeah
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she like he keeps trying to get her to do the test and she just keeps
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you're really attractive by the way okay well i appreciate it but i'm just trying to check
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your eyes just make sure you're safe to drive so put your arms to your side keep your hands in your
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pocket right here it's way over here you're not even looking at it I know because you're gorgeous
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so I can't right here I'm sorry okay you know maybe if she was attractive it might work well
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you're fine okay all right real simple all right let's put my finger a little lower that way you
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now you don't have to look at me you're able to see it yeah but am i supposed to follow the tip
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of my finger with your eyes in your eyes don't move your head real simple i wish i what does he
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look like damn damn it why are you looking at me you shouldn't be looking at me yes you have a
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very nice thing she wants the d i'm sorry it is weird it is weird that you asked me to follow
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your fingers and all i see is you i can't like you think she got the ticket i mean like i think
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he was charmed i think he found it funny i mean like think about it how could you not find that
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funny well i would find it offensive she ugly okay now if the hot girl said that i've been like oh
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then i'll find it and i will give it into it you guys don't find it flattering even if
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unattractive women no really no you know a little bit no you know okay when i was when i did um
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interviews at carnival i i hired um security because there's just too many
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there's too many crazy people at like carnival when you're doing interviews like to not have
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security and i was too famous at that point yeah there's too many people that don't like me that
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knew me i was not going i was not going there by myself and it was two of the guys that came were
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really big that the company like security yeah and the fat women all would approach them yeah
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they were so big i'm like where do you guys get this confidence because i know i'm better looking
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than you because they're morbidly obese and i would never like like where do you guys get this
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maybe it's because it works it probably works if they're doing it maybe there has to be a guy
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security guards are not like banging the superstars all the time so you know there's
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always a guy that's gonna do it i'm just okay i find it offensive when ugly women try to flirt
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because it's like why you know you know reality like we we don't even we're not in the same
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playing field how dare you yeah you know there was a woman that lied about her sister dying
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what so this video went viral and it says you finally told your family that your twin sister
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passed away five years ago and they took down every single family photo photo that had her in
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because her parents were like chinese and her i think she
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wait a minute so they never showed up to family dinner at the same time
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yeah i think i mean you could do that if if you both live
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away like i i don't think it would be hard to do i mean there has to be like something like
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you guys end up having to be at like what about grandma she in the hospital i didn't tell my
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she's explaining why can you explain this is her explaining it grandparents and my extended family
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that my sister passed away it's my dad's decision this past july my grandma passed away and on her
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deathbed my dad told her that my sister passed away and that she's waiting for her on the other
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side. I think it's because he didn't want to withhold this information, but he also didn't
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want to cause them any heartbreak and got to that they're 92, something happens. So after he told
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my grandma, obviously my aunts, uncles, they all knew, but my grandpa who is still alive still
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doesn't know. And my aunts apparently have made the decision to take down every single photo that
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contained my sister. So imagine my surprise when I took my kids to go visit my grandpa and I look
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on the walls and none of our photos are there. If you see me going from crying to one video and
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being happy on the next, it could be because I am posting something that was pre-recorded.
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I do feel sad occasionally when things trigger me, but I will go back to normal. And some people
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mention that they hear my aunt and grandpa, you know, talking in the background because
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they didn't know what I was feeling and they were just seeing my kids for the first time
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and they were just interacting with the kids yeah so apparently in chinese culture it's they hide
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bad news so they probably thought oh they're like 90 let's just not tell them they're so old
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and they just kept living i'm not saying it's right i'm just saying that's probably the thought
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process that's weird that is really weird i know i know i mean imagine playing like
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the your sister or you know your twin i know i couldn't imagine i mean i don't look enough like
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any of my sisters to pull that off but yeah i mean you know for me none of my brothers are as
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good looking as me so it just wouldn't work um yeah i just thought that was crazy um okay so
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there is an interesting trend that is going on on tiktok so the trend on tiktok is women older
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women not having boyfriends so as you guys know as us ladies tend to date a smaller and smaller
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percentage of men and our standards are getting higher and higher every year less men have set
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will give out relationships the cost of commitment is higher than ever and the repercussions of this
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is we are just not getting into relationships like we used to and you see these ladies on tick
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tock saying how the f am i 19 and i still haven't had a boyfriend and i'm a virgin what's wrong with
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me now we all know virgin i mean virgin could meet anything these days yeah that just means
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you know she's done anal but that's about it yeah so we don't but it's interesting because if you
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look through the comments it's a ton of women like up to 29 32 years old saying they've never
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had a boyfriend yeah yeah i'm going to show you more there's so many of these on tick tock
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she's looking at the camera that's just she just loves how old do you think she is she doesn't look
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too old like she's like 25 26 look at her eyes then this one let's talk about how i got my first
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boyfriend at the age of 22 while we make some homemade pasta having a boyfriend is something
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that i've always wanted but i always knew that i wasn't just gonna settle like i wasn't just
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gonna date somebody to date somebody I knew that it had to be because like I
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truly was interested in them and truly like could see an actual future with
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them or at least was interested in seeing if that was a possibility I
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waited to get into a serious relationship with someone until I felt
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that they were the caliber of man that I was looking for until the person that
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was in front of me was somebody that i could say like no i'm attracted to you i i find you
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um enjoyable to be around like so much fun to be around and and i could so the women that say
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they've never had a boyfriend what's their body count okay so like look what's the age let's say
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25 right um her body count is probably about 12 teen so right around that 12 13. she doesn't have
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now so they don't have boyfriends they have harems it's like it's the reverse they got this
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guy that does the foodie dates this guy you know is the sugar daddy you know like and and she giving
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a little bit of something all of them you know to keep them entertained you'd be surprised a lot of
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guys do a lot for nothing seems yeah there it's enough it's a sympademic that's the point of the
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show i'm like no no you would be surprised a lot there are men fighting to give their resources
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time attention and energy for nothing i i i i'm speechless fellas have more respect you would be
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but i'm sure they're not virgins i'm sure they're giving up something as you said well at least to
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some of them so yeah yeah of course of course not all something yeah yeah like they're not all
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virgins like the ones like i'm 25 never been had a boyfriend girl you had 37 of them just in the
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last video what's her name lily uh lily phillips she just had 101 boyfriends yeah i had i after
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doing the show there was many women that said they were virgins there was one that i believed
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one really yeah how ugly was she no she's really cute really she's really pretty but i think she
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liked the like attention of being able to like i don't know there's some women it's like they like
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the attention of the pure you know the purity but they still won't set like a lot of times they
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think their virginity like is i don't i'm not saying this about her specifically but i've seen
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a trend where they think that's the only thing they have to bring yeah does that make they don't
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think they need anything else um let me pull this up again let's see a future like i could see a
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future with you i think not being in a relationship for so long taught me so many so many things that
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i needed to learn and i'm grateful to have had that experience and learned those things that i
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needed to in that time when i was single and it honestly is weird it's kind of weird like the
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shift between not dating someone for your whole life and then dating someone is like oh they're
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like kind of rules to this and like you know decorum in a relationship that i've never had
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to like follow or think about before yeah you can't just like play with the waiter
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when you're on a date with your boyfriend yeah it's good and i'm stretching and i'm growing in
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different ways ways that i can't alone and so that's a really exciting thing is like oh my
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gosh look at all these ways that i'm becoming a better person because of the influence of this
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man in my life and because of the influence of this person that I've chosen to like put my time
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towards getting to know him more and getting to experience things together instead of alone and
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like just making our relationship a priority over some of the other things that I may have done
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if I wasn't in a relationship and the sacrifice but also everything that I'm gaining from that
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sacrifice is making me a better person and making me a better version of myself and so that's the
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piece of being in a relationship that I'm really, really excited about. It's that opportunity to
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grow in ways that I haven't been able to and haven't been able to access because I've never
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been in a situation. And it's funny. And I would love to talk to my friends and be like, how are
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you seeing me like grow and improve and become a better person because of my relationship? And
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how are, what can you see in me that I can't? Can I offer a perspective? I think that she's
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insecure in her relationship because she's rationalizing it to the internet she's like
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yeah so i should not have done this yeah let me just like boost this relationship she has to
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like when people signal super hard that their relationship is great it usually isn't yeah
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she feels trapped yeah go back go back so if i could see a future with this person then i need
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the people who have been with me through my whole life to be able to say like yes this is something
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that's good yes this is something that i could see for you um and you help like you help each
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other become better um and that's one of the main things that i've looked for in a relationship is
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that feeling of like oh this person makes me a better person i make him a better person like
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we're growing together and we're becoming better together and that's what you want to look for
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don't settle for somebody who makes you a worse person don't settle for someone who doesn't make
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you feel the way you need to feel because i was told so many times like it'll come like it'll come
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just like kids just like go on dates just with this person like over and over again like it'll
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it'll come and it never came and i'm glad that i didn't decide to get into a relationship with
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people who didn't make me feel the way that my boyfriend does no matter what i wonder if they're
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still together this was october we're in december oh they're still i just wanted to see if they're
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but even when i see the relationship stuff on tick tock i always think that they're still
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signaling what they can do for a future partner well yeah like i mean why are you putting it out
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there yeah because if they're putting like this is what i can do in a relationship it's like showing
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the next guy yeah what you it's like marketing well like one she did a really horrible job
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marketing this you know why um that whole damn time she did not make one pasta noodle okay she
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was just playing with the damn dough just sitting there playing with her food and um yeah i don't i
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don't think she could cook she couldn't cook at all let's see the next one when my age is getting
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too serious to me for never having been in a relationship and the next one i've never had a
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boyfriend before i'll say i've never even held hands but i bet you they may not have never held
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hands or you know did some other things but you know they did a lot of other things yeah i know
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well they they also um like the top comment is i'm 29 and i've never experienced this either
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i know i know but it's all it's just a trend of us dating the same guys so they accept less and
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less from those guys yeah so here let's see this is 31 never had a boyfriend i've never had a
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boyfriend i still live at home with my parents and i used to be so embarrassed so ashamed and
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And just totally felt like something was completely wrong with me.
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Like, why am I one of the only people that struggle with this?
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But over the year, I have realized that I'm not alone.
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And what I've done to make myself feel better about this is I've changed my mindset around being single.
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Around living at home with my parents at the age of 31.
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And instead of feeling sorry for myself and pitying myself, which is what I've done a lot in the past.
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i instead have changed my mindset to be like things will happen when they're meant to happen
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and i have not that's the worst idea you know if i was like coaching her i'd say okay
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download a dating app and i'd be like look it's time it's time to start going on dates
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and figure this out because if that's what you want but i think it's just a rationalization
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because she like i don't think she wants one i think she needs to ask her parents like
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a serious question like dad why why am i not like what would you say is my worst quality
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and just have the dad be honest with you yeah listen you're lazy you're lazy you're lazy at
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your job you're lazy at home you're lazy at getting a man like maybe dad will be honest yeah
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let's see not met my right person yet because i'm not ready for him and i have not met my partner
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yet because i have been working on myself to get to a position where they have also been working
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on themselves so if you're also single but what does working on yourself mean like it's always
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nothing nothing wait a minute she's working on herself while he's like so he could work on
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himself and then that's why she hasn't found him because she's too busy working on herself
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yeah i don't know if you're still living with your parents and you're figuring your life out
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or maybe you're happy doing that don't feel like you're behind in life because you absolutely aren't
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we're all on our own timelines and i just want you to know that it's okay to feel sad and to
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feel lonely and to feel like you're behind yeah so all this is is women accepting less and less
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attention and it really is a cult because this woman at 31 could download a dating app and get
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thousands of matches I'm sorry but one of them is bound to be good enough to date I'm gonna put her
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back up on the screen um she's still gonna get thousands of matches can we get a better image
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of her because there might just be a looks thing like look I'm not saying she's overly attractive
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i'm saying i'm saying she's attractive enough there's no reason like download a dating app go
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on dates but yeah the thing is no she can't attract the guy that she wants that's the thing
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it's not like she can't get a guy she can't get the guy that she wants yeah well then it might be
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time to adjust what you want oh you know women can't do that yeah so uh or die alone i don't
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know it's it's cats yeah cats okay let me see the okay so next on the agenda we're going to be
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talking about what we've all been waiting for the simp olympics so so ben shapiro has decided that
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he is going to join the simpery not only is charlie kirk candace owens all of the trad cons
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loving simping for women's behavior but now ben shapiro is joining the race so i want to first
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bring up the clip of ben shapiro talking about the actually first i'm going to bring over the
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original clip that trad cons are simping over so as you guys know there's a woman named lily phillips
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now lily phillips recently had sex with a hundred men in a day and you know all of the traditional
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conservatives believe that she is secretly broken and did not enjoy this experience at all
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because of this clip right here where she goes okay 40 minute mark
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how do you think lily found it i think you know i've not had the chance to speak to her too much
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she's been in there all day um and we've just like chucked her in the shower and like she's
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exhausted she's like the first thing she said was like i needed nando's i was like
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you've earned her nando's she's took it like a charm she's done yeah so well and every time i
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said are you okay do you need a breather she's like no no bring the next guy in seeing a hundred
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guys come to have sex with lily in one day was that like something that that part didn't feel
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too intense it was more um checking and on what does it smell like checking and on lily felt
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intense yeah hello hi hi lily offered to show me the aftermath of their stunt
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at least you know this is a hundred minute a day there's a lot of coordination
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i'm not saying it's overly um difficult but i'm just putting the perspective that's a long day
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i mean yeah think about it that's a long that's a long day
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like brace yourself brace yourself oh my god really then walked us through the process that
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she had repeated a hundred times that day come on in make yourself at home take your shoes off
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i've got some um hangers here if you want to put your coat up nice come on in where you travel
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from and say oh lovely yeah oh it's so nice to meet you i'll get you on the bed make yourself
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comfortable take off your trousers and we're gonna have a fun time and i'll give them the phone
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camera just say i'm guessing you don't want your face in it yeah and if they don't it'll be pov
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phone camera yeah i'll start usually with a job and then i say like is there anything you like
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don't like any certain position you want to do yeah and then yeah we kind of got straight into
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did you do the with the condom on or no no i didn't condom off okay and then but then like
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once they're having so it's like yeah yeah it does smell a lot like a lot like i mean
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and there's a rose that's nice and how are you feeling surprisingly down she's sore
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is not too not really sore okay what it's more just tired my eyes sting like nothing else why
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because of all the coming in you know completely sad you come on facebook not in my eyes and they
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just went right at the eyes i think like it might have been an accident but no i mean i've definitely
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seen some spunk today jesus and it just took definitely a lot longer than i thought it was
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gonna be i think it was when it was only like 40 and i was like i'm not even halfway yet yeah and
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40 is still a lot of people like imagine 40 people and be like i'm not even halfway like done
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when was the last time you ate um i had a i think i had a yum yum yum is that what they
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called a little pastry is that what they call when they like clean up themselves like never mind no
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no i think i had a sandwich and that was kind of and then the rest come
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it's not for the weak girls if i'm honest it was hard
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I don't know if I'd recommend it why not I think if you're a different type of
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girl it's very like it's kind of like being a in a sense of like it's just a
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different feeling I don't know how to explain it like it's not like just
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having so some yeah yeah just one in one out like it feels intense like more
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intense than you thought it might is that like the moment when you know that
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you're you know when I talked to you last like I was not nervous it was like
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day before I was like I'm so nervous but it was good it was more I guess the
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interactions weren't like I'd have to stop them early and like you'd have to
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stand on business and be like I'm so sorry you got to go and like the awkward
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interaction of like you feeling pressure to have to meet them calm if like you
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haven't spent enough time with them and feeling like they didn't like you didn't
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them a good time because like they only got two minutes and that and that's what's that's what's
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making you feel emotional is that maybe you think you didn't give some guys a good enough time today
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yeah yeah and it's hard i think having the interactions with them when they're like
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what you're not gonna make me finish i've come all this way like kind of like guilt tripping
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me a little bit i felt bad like some people just travel so far like i didn't want to give
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them a time and like come away from this and be like oh that's yeah i think sometimes like
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feeling so like robotic like by the i think like the 30th you know like when we're getting on a bit
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i've got like a routine of like how we're gonna do this and like it just sometimes you'd like
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disassociate and be like you know like it's not like normal at all in my head right now i can
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think of like five six guys ten guys i remember and that's it but it's just i don't know it's just
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weird isn't it like if i didn't if i didn't have the videos i wouldn't have known i've done 100
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you know but yeah i think that was kind of the hard part is like conversing with them and like
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like when they'd kind of be like oh like we've only had two minutes or three minutes and you
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said five on the message did someone say that to you yeah and obviously just makes feel so bad
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do you think you should feel bad about that i guess when you've promised something to people
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who support you it's kind of hard to okay so she's saying she felt bad because she didn't
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make them finish i don't buy that she's that upset i just don't well i think it's a performance you
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have to think about the incentives here there is an incentive for her to cry after and make this big
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dramatic scene so everybody's talking about it well think about it this way though if she told
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those guys they had five minutes right because i heard that she charged them like a thousand dollars
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a pop so the guy's not getting he's not paying he's not getting what he paid for i was supposed
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to get another two and a half minutes and a bust now i don't even get the bust or the extra two and
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a half minutes it's bad marketing bad you know she she doesn't feel like she satisfied her customers
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this needs now the other thing that all the conservatives are simping about is they're now
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saying that she filmed 25 things after this by the way she's also doing an event where she's
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doing a thousand in a day yeah so this isn't really gonna end right and one of the things
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that conservatives said is they said oh her parents are the ones facilitating this well
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i don't understand where they're getting this from because i'm watching this documentary
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and she says she doesn't tell her parents what she's doing because she knows they'd rather have
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her doing something else let me show you guys that there's also my fantasy and this is also
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something that i'm really enjoying and want to do and have wanted to do before i was even in the
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industry our filming was interrupted briefly by a phone call from lily's mother apparently she
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You've obviously spoken to your parents about this, right?
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but I'm not on the phone to them every day going,
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or, you know, I just got DP'd, um, 17 guys today.
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this and that they don't need to know the logistics of course i do feel a little bit
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like embarrassed being like mom and dad i'm 100 guys why i guess because it's not really what my
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parents would have chose wanted me to do okay so i don't know where the conservative maybe they're
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helping now i don't know but in the documentary she says this is not what they would have chosen
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for me to do this is not what they would have wanted now if your daughter's already doing corn
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and she says hey can you help me manage my finances
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i wouldn't but i could see the rationalization worth well she's already ruined herself she can't
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go get employed so might as well you know i'm not saying i would do it but i could see the
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And so, you know, obviously, if you watch this show, you know that this is all an act,
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this is all a performance, and there is a corn star to Jesus pipeline where the ladies
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They had sex with a bunch of guys on camera because they enjoyed it and liked it.
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as a get out of jail free card they got to say oh I was groomed oh I didn't really consent
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oh it was the men's fault oh I didn't really want to do that and Ben Shapiro has joined in
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on this simpery that's going on on Twitter so first I want to read the comments from tradcon
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twitter so there's a woman that's cupid's daughter's matchmaking and you know find your
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dream girl whatever the documentary about lily phillips who is being raped by a hundred men for
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using only fans is just disgusting it's heartbreaking to see her and i can't understand
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how there are a hundred men lining up to rape a woman one after another and no one is talking
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about it from this point of view everyone's calling her a whore but it is only one woman and
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101 men then who are the perverts the cameraman in the documentary even gags when entering the
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room where this girl is being abused it's a horrifying scene that documentary ends up
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unintentionally being anti-porn and anti-prostitution piece what's interesting is normally
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they blame the pimps and they blame they're blaming the tricks yeah yeah that's what they
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used to do now even when it's deregulated only fans there's no owner right like they would blame
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the porn companies and say they're evil now it's deregulated and they are still blaming
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everyone but everybody but the ones doing it i'm sitting here i'm like this this lady that
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wrote this not know the definition of grape i don't think so i mean they changed the definition
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because how can you be graped when you invited all 100 to do this thing
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yeah um she obviously she obviously can't okay i really hope that one day the women who defend
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the regulation of prostitution and our pro and our pro porn wake up to the human rights violation
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in that industry and i hope that the disgusting pimping platform only fans disappear soon which
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is owned by a woman sorry it's owned by a woman google owner of only fans no way are you serious
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it's a woman i'm googling this yeah uh because they can't allow this this is not even about
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making money or female empowerment this is a suicidal attempt i am very sorry for her through
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her eyes everybody can notice that she has some sort of depression and extremely low self-esteem
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she has specifically the fact that she didn't have anybody in her family telling her to stop
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or reconsider because they could literally end up killing her and I heard her mom is conscious
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about this and manages her finances if that's right that's another reason to explain her low
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self-esteem your own mom is literally selling you as her daughter making a profit of you being
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raped by a hundred men you don't even know the only thing I can think of think about is praying
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for her soul and also the souls of every single man that engaged to repent when jesus had raised
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himself up and saw no one but woman he said to her women what are those accusers of you who has
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condemned you she said no one lord and jesus said neither do i condemn you go and sin no more it
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community notes it and said lily was not raped as the op state she wanted to have sex with the men
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and consented to it she in fact is wanting to break a world record of having sex with a thousand men
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in 24 hours yeah so the ceo is a woman yeah the owner is still the dude um what's his name tim
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oh it's the ceo yeah the ceo of only fans is a woman
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here's another one from natalie beisner i can't get over this i haven't been touched so deeply
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by anything in a while and i'm sorry i can't behind i can't get behind the idea that only she's to
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blame only she is to blame pearl like no what the oh my gosh watching this documentary feels like
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everything gather around an alcoholic for a reverse intervention you know what i have i have
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a relative I have a relative who is a bad alcoholic and my whole life I have watched
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everybody deal with that woman's bad decisions my whole life I've I've watched I have a big family
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right really big so you know there's bound to be one and I would say it's completely her fault
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she always tries to quit doesn't it makes it everyone else's problem that's exactly um okay
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I can't get behind the idea that only she's to blame watching this documentary feels like
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for reverse intervention where they just pour booze
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In that situation, you would call everyone pretty sick
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and messed up. You'd be right. She's really sick.
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these men all a hundred of them are sick don't get me wrong i think the guys are gross too i mean
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the guys are really grody you know the guys are pretty grody yeah i don't yeah but it's five
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minutes of their life she's doing it for hours uh less than that two minutes those guys got gypped
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so next on the agenda we have ben shapiro entering the simpidemic so ben shapiro posted this tiktok
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and i just i just need the simping and conservatism to stop please god make it stop
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please can you can you ben you're you hold liberals accountable all the time all the time
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can you hold her accountable can you just say this was your fault and i don't feel bad
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no because ben wanted to be 101 let me see so there's a video going around of a person named
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lily phillips who's an only performer which means that she has on camera for money effectively and
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apparently she did a video where she had 101 men inside of 24 hours and then there was another
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video that showed her actually lamenting this talking about how hard it was for her how brutal
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and the question is just why because obviously the problem here wasn't just the physical it was
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something else and that was that she actually was disgusted with herself as she should be we as a
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society have lost the language to discuss this sort of stuff instead we believe that because
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consent is the only value well if she consented what's the problem the answer is pretty girl
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cries i just believe her that might as well be conservatism ben would get eaten alive if he was
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dating today oh he would get eaten alive yeah and he should get you know i mean for this take like
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like ben ben ben they do it not they do it because they like it she had two parents she
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was from an upper class household and they said they didn't want her to do it
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yeah i'm i'm wondering like why don't they call them like demons they should yeah like
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like what about jezebels little jezebel yeah like you dirty little jezebel and you know what's crazy
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look I want to bring up him commenting on me oh yeah let's hear this now I'm not it actually
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wasn't too bad but I'm just saying do not take this red pill and well folks there's something
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called the red pill movement it's sort of a far right move is is he as charitable to the red pill
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as he is to a literal prostitute that focuses in on saying the unsable and now many of the
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red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married a fascinating debate has
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broken which i don't say i don't say it's bad i said it's a bad deal but i i don't say do it don't
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do not about the value every guy's got to decide for himself every guy i'm not gonna i'm gonna just
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do the take of marriage it's really interesting so there are a bunch of people on the so-called
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red-pilled right who have now suggested that marriage is bad for men that men should not get
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married now the case that they're making is not the liberal feminist case that basically men are
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useless and terrible and a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle i never say should or
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shouldn't this just annoys me i never say should or should i say you know this could go bad or
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anything like that the case that they are making is that the stakes of marriage have been changed
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by things like no fault divorce custody arrangements the child support payments and all
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the rest spousal support that basically the legal regimen has made it not a bargain for men to get
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married now i agree with with the critique of all of those policies i think no fault divorce is a
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disaster area i think that the child custody arrangements that basically always go to mom no
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matter what that is it that is a serious problem when you shift the incentive structure there's a
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reason why the majority of divorces the vast majority of divorces are now initiated by women
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that that is not because in the past women were wildly abused and today they are wildly liberated
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what that really is when you shift the incentive structure and it turns out that all the risk
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is now taken by men women aren't going to be the ones who actually activate and push that divorce
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button however the red pills have taken it one step further and now they're telling young men
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you should not get married it's too dangerous to get married don't get married all right why would
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men not want to get married could it possibly be like it's right in front of them do they just
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pretend they don't see it like he's covering women yeah that are having sex with a thousand
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men in a day and he's like saying it's you you guys are the problem yeah there are many problems
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consent is not the only value human beings human sexuality they do this like these are sacred
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things when overly intellectual morality statements yeah and i i get it you guys can
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go down the that whatever but i'm like can you just can we just talk like normal that's a whore
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jezebel uh can we just you profane them when you treat them animalistically what you are doing is
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making less of the human being and that's what she is feeling that is why she is sad because she
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knows she's profaned herself but she doesn't have the language to express it hold it right there
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can you go back a little bit he's he actually he says he knows that she profaned herself well if
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she consented what's the problem the answer is there are many problems consent is not the only
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value human being i don't even know what profane means i gotta be honest uh it's like bad word
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profanity you know something bad human sexuality the human soul these are sacred things when you
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profane them when you treat them animalistically what you are doing is making less of the human
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being and that's what she is feeling that is why she is sad because she knows she's profaned herself
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but she doesn't have the language to express it no you see he does say he knows that she profaned
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herself so at least he's saying that she did this to herself i mean that's the bare minimum but
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yeah but he's still there's a video going around of a person named lily phillips who's an only
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performer which means that she has on camera for money effectively and apparently she did a video
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where she had 101 men inside of 24 hours and then there was another video that showed her actually
01:47:16.740
lamenting this talking about how hard it was for her how brutal and the question is just why because
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obviously the problem here wasn't like why do you care why is it okay why does he care he cares so
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much about why a porn star is doing this but he doesn't think about why are men not wanting to
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get married and like actually see it from their perspective oh no that he can't do that that's
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that's foolish that's what so let's go through some of these so i get foolish these arguments
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because they become very popular on the right so let's start with pearl davis so pearl davis
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is an anti-feminist who has become pretty popular a lot of people label her sort of a female andrew
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tate although without the checkered past thank you and here's pearl david can i be a can i be
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a christianity speaker now please can i can i get it i did i did the bare minimum
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i did the bare minimum i didn't have only fans talking about marriage the trad cons daily wire
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conservatives were are saying that pearl's just a doom and gloomer who lies about stats
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just focuses on the negatives never the positives and all the men complaining
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are just crybabies and so one day he comes home and he finds out that his
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wife had called the police on him and told them that the first time they
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hooked up ten years ago he he had quote unquote raped her and the truth of the
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matter is, when a man has children, they're not his kids. A man has no way to have children and
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those kids be actually his. They're always hers because the courts give women custody 90% of the
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time and rich men are really the only ones that have the money to fight it and the time. So I ask
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the Daily Wire, Jeremy Boeing, Matt Walsh, is this just crybabies? Are they just, are they just,
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they're crybaby weak men who don't man up and want to risk that so you know it's interesting
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because instead of demanding that the laws change and demanding women face repercussions for doing
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this stuff you guys demand that men need to step up and take part in a system that discriminates
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against them you say oh find a girl that prays she won't do it but and i had this thought too
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until i found a muslim girl that did the same thing i found a christian girl that did the same
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thing i found a catholic girl it's happening all over whether you want to believe it or not
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it is happening i don't care about your religion i don't care about your church this happens
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those are correct arguments and nobody is disregarding the pain of men who have been
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wrongfully victimized under these circumstances where the incentive structure is completely
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stacked against them that is true however the benefits of marriage are still unbelievable
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it does matter who you marry what are there is what are they been friends between the person
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that you marry that it's happening with christians and muslims and it's all the same that's
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statistically untrue there are things that you can do to mitigate against the risk of divorce
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and the person that you marry is the chief mitigation the truth is that in the jewish
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community we always have a backup plan in the sense that how'd it go for crowder
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it's just still your company if you're someone at your company calls them an abuser it's your
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responsibility to offer a retraction and they never did because the case is not finished yet
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right that's probably that's probably what they're they're going to do it's it's so ridiculous and
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and i people always get on me they're like why won't you let this go and i'm like because it
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was wrong yeah and you guys have a video i i actually think either candace or they took it
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down but if you're going to delete it then offer a retraction like i don't yeah i'm not going to
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forget guys if the daily wire is watching this i will not forget i will bring this up for eternity
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so you guys should offer a retraction and so should you candace owens because you guys were
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wrong so i will i will be tweeting about it forever and you say pearl let it go never never
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never because too many of you called me crazy and said i was wrong and i was right
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thank you and it was wrong it was it was like i watched him forever
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and i just couldn't believe they were all doing that yeah you know here's the thing why are all
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these trads like running to the defense of this chick when they should be like see see that that
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those tears those are the tears of when you finally realize you're a whore that's right
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ladies when you get those tears those are tears of whoredom you don't want those tears right
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stay away from them don't be dumb don't be like lily be smart be like pearl
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i'm not even saying be like me there's better room i swear please but i mean you don't got
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a hundred you didn't get 101 bodies in one day no i didn't do that i'm just i'm there's better
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women then look you can look up to someone better but all I'm saying is oh someone wanted to know
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what happened with Crowder so Crowder basically got um they had a business disagreement the Daily
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Wire and Stephen Crowder and Daily Wire thought it was appropriate to report that and I quote
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Stephen Crowder is a monster and insinuate that he was abusing his wife and he wasn't and it came
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it came out that his wife was getting 30 000 a month in child support and alimony
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and she had testified in court that he was not abusive and instead of i don't know shaming the
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woman for divorcing her husband they all called him abusive and then all the women the conservative
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women followed the woman on twitter candace owens then decided um that she was she invited his wife
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to come on his show to trash him she reported that he was a monster um i think it was either
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ben shapiro or jeremy boeing one of them donated money um because one of crowder's ex-employees
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basically um said that he was abusive too and it was all bs it was all disproven and instead of i
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don't know apologizing issuing a retraction they just they just thought i'd forget and everyone
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when this all came out everyone said that i was crazy for saying he wasn't abusive and the clip
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was out of context then a year later i was right and it was just really um disappointing as a
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viewer to watch like all of these personalities that i like loved like literally five years before
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i had been i'd been such a fan of the daily wire and it was just difficult for me because i realized
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they're lying because they're lying they know about the marriage issues and they're still pushing
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marriage but what like are they going to be responsible when men commit suicide because
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they sign up no no no no it's not their fault it's going to be the man's fault and that's
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what and the thing is I've actually messaged with men that I mean they never say directly
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they got married because the daily wire but they say it was because they were consuming
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that sort of content or I mean it's their own choice I'm not trying to put it on them
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but it influenced their decision and it's it's you know it's the same thing with the plastic
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surgery guy that came on you you guys you know how I said that's an honest answer because he
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said you know you can't know if there's going to be side effects in 20 years choices and trade-offs
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it's the same thing with marriage if you're going in and you're saying hey it's a roll of the dice
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these are the laws in your state it might happen to you that's honest what's dishonest is saying
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hey your life is only going to be good if you get married you are only a good person if you get
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married and then they all use their marriages to like virtue signal and it's so obvious um
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well and see the thing is like you know they never explain how marriage makes your life better
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well what they'll do is they'll say they'll use stats to say that
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men make more money when they're married they have to yeah i know i know i know but they they'll
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use stats to say like they attribute every positive thing like women pick men that make
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more money women pick men that tend to be happier right you're going to be happier if you're getting
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women but they attribute every positive thing a man does to women and it's just i don't know it
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just bothered me because and then when i watched the crowder thing happen and i could i just
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couldn't believe that like these people that i'd watched for years were turning on this guy that
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was their friend like a year ago why can't they ever just say this woman is a bad bad woman this
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is a disgusting you know poor excuse of a woman she's an embarrassment to no they can't why even
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like if i go to the hillary crowder page like let me look at this up hillary crowder uh oh and it
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was found out you know boeing was texting with crowder's wife why like jeremy yeah in the court
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documents it said that he had texted with and i tweeted at him i'm like hey why were you texting
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us so what i think happened was the wife um and there's evidence that it did happen she conspired
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a like she was for years ruining his reputation and she had a plan to like get out and basically
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she'd been saying to all these people that she was abused blah blah blah so then when she reported
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it or like she sent them the clip as her like evidence they're all ready because they've heard
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all this stuff for you know what i mean yeah um i don't know if that makes sense but but i'm like
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jeremy boring why are you talking to i don't know the text never came out but like are you guys
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friends before they got married they might i mean but why why would those be in the court documents
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is my question like why would they texting a married woman jeremy yeah i'm not gonna like
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accuse him of that because i don't know me but um i'm just playing with him because he's boring so
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instead of making a little interesting yeah but the like who follows hillary the followers you
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know like brett cooper like brett cooper why are you following her like that's a divorced woman
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she she wrongfully called him an abuser why are you like sydney watts like all these people lauren
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chen um like no one can say hey that's a bad woman stay away from her like what kind of woman does
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that like that's an evil thing to do like this the sisterhood yes liz wheeler ben ben like that's
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bullshit like i just think and ever since then i just could never like i just could never see it
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the same i don't know it just really bothered me well simping ain't easy apparently um no actually
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it's really easy yeah it's really easy um let's see i want to see if there's any other videos but
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i think that was the the simpery okay so let's talk about this ben thing yeah um i would think
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like you know how angry ben gets when somebody talks about israel yeah you would i would love
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to see him get that angry at a woman who is defiling herself with a hundred dudes
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just you know like you want to just like stop it woman you're a whore no it's always kid gloves
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always and i don't like i don't know it's just sad to see i used to really like the daily wire
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and it's just sad to see where they went no i could see why guys that are not married you know
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are doing it because they're virtuous signaling to all the other whores out there like hey ladies
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you know i i forgive i don't judge but what has been doing it for i don't know i mean they would
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get eaten alive in today's dating market there's no way yeah i don't i don't understand it oh yeah
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i wanted to show you this for your trend of i wanted to show you the girls gone bible saying
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something stupid oh god they always say something i know i know i know so you're telling me think
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about the guy friends you had if you called them today or at two o'clock in the morning and you
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said i want to hang out you think they wouldn't come okay but i mean that's just the truth trust
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me i like i have guy friends but i am aware of the fact that like oh yeah yeah yeah i mean i'm i
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i truly i don't have any guy friends it's the weirdest thing i like my friends are all women
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you're making me look so bad but i will tell you that i do feel so connected to men like i feel so
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calm okay let's move on let's move on well okay well i i did have a question here it said uh are
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you guys boy crazy nah nah no way no no no this is the thing me and ari love love man we are and
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like i i pretend to be this tough guy like i love love so much do you want to know the honest to god
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truth i don't know if i'm gonna sound a little too much when i say this but um
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one was a whore you heard that she's like you know i got guy friends i can know i got a lot
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of guy friends they sound like they're in their 30s they sound the way they talk they sound like
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they're like 17. yeah yeah yeah um wow and they they gone bible after the whole phase
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yeah i want to also show you some clips of men of men marketing marriage super well
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things in my house that i can't touch let's start in the bathroom where there's stuff
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everywhere that i can't touch like these towels here this towel here and this towel here none of
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them can be used although they are located conveniently next to the tub and the shower
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Next we have these jars of Q-tips, bath bombs, and soaps.
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So if I want a Q-tip, I'll have to get the ones under my counter.
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I was thinking this was a place for my shower gel.
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Don't get me started on the never-ending amount of candles we have all around the house.
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Like this one. Like this one. And this one. And these.
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That's up in the kitchen where we have these jars.
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This is what women mean when they say they make a house at home
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they put all this BS that you can't that we don't use and you can't it's like it's like what what's
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the point yeah it's like on then it's the people with big families always use them for clout tomorrow
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I'm gonna talk about that woman on Twitter I'll give you a preview there's a woman on Twitter
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Morgan Ariel who's now crying that people are hitting on her 14 year old daughter but why is
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she on the internet yeah like aren't you then you're a bad parent like don't put your kids on
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the internet if you can't like there's create like newsflash it's twitter there's literal porn on
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twitter like what that's why like that's why on twitter i'm like why do these people post their
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kids when there's literal porn stars on here yeah like i don't understand like like if you cared
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about your kids why don't you keep them from that stuff like they see and it's kind of cute right
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it's like a cute kit but wait a minute why are all the little girls like twerking did you see that
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i mean that one was all right that was pretty cool yeah i mean it's choices and trade-off but don't
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complain about like people coming for your kids if you put them on the internet we i wanted to
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show you other bad marketing for marriage so let me know what you think of this one we you've just
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changed my life in every way know that your sister hallie and my mom have been trying to set us up
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for years but i wasn't ready back then and you know it wasn't up until like two years ago that
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i even really knew who i was i've learned so much about myself and i had such a wall around my heart
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for so long and with you the walls came crashing down and we've just became closer and closer and
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i just feel like you're literally an angel sent to me i feel like i'm so grateful to have been
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patient to find my one and only and you're my everything and i can't wait to make you feel
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like the luckiest guy in the world for the rest of your life i love you not yet
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oh guys that's the most cringiest thing you could put on you know what why like why i if you if you
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rejected your husband first shut up about it please god like just shut up i don't okay look
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if you friend zoned your husband first and that was how you guys met it's not cute it's not cute
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at all other other men will make fun of him so if you like him or you made him wait and you didn't
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always make other men wait don't tell them that either i would be so mad do you not remember one
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night in paris ladies it's time ladies ladies ladies ladies it's time to lie ladies ladies
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ladies you know if okay lying would be better than this i'm not saying lying is good or moral
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But it's better than that humiliation ritual that you put him through.
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You know, there's many things that men lie to us about.
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Men say that we look great when we obviously don't.
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yeah and i don't understand why sometimes we can't give them that same courtesy
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like you know what she should have said she said look i know i curved you and i put you in the
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friend zone and i tried with tyrone and i tried chad on that one night in paris video that leaked
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out um after kim kardashians but you know what life has taught me is that i need a good guy that's
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you know it's gonna be there and i need to stop chasing all the ones that just are not
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yeah all these other guys they pumped and dumped and you stayed and played so might as well get
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married yeah so they're not doing a great job marketing marriage i mean like that's literally
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what she did was literally like the friends episode where like ross and rachel um like if
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we're over once we hit 30 we'll get married if we're still single like it's bad and it's you
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know like work for it a little bit like make them work for it a bit why do they just hand out their
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commitment but see this guy did come up i mean he did kind of get the drizzle drizzle life that's
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true oh gosh i wanted to show the cat fishing look at this this is an ad that came up whoa whoa
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whoa that's a lot of dough yeah look at this a lot of rolls look at this
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isn't that crazy look how much better that looks um holy isn't that crazy are you serious right now
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tummy controlling booty lifting so freaking good what about the back fat betty brand new
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why they took my favorite hilera leggings yeah like go scroll back a little bit
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just no no that's not far back a little bit oh no god not you'd have to put us through that again
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right there right there all right you see like that turn then when she turns her side
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yeah that that roll right there that's just spilling out like it's screaming it's gross but
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why i don't know they're they all they're all logging off they're like stop torturing us
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okay well i think that's all my topics for today um i really wanted to ben sheer
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ben all right let's talk about oh let's make before we go let's make a simp olympics
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okay google slides so i want to make a slide a powerpoint
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What he does is he does the get married anyway speeches.
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Well, actually, he should come out and say something against her.
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he's the least he's yeah i think he's he used to be kind of simpy in his takes but i think he's
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woken up recently yeah the simp the simplest one is michael knolls yeah he's got to be number one
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he's number one he i have to give him an award i did like him when i like you met him too yeah
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i still like he's a he's a nice guy but i can't just you can be a nice guy and be a simp yeah
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all nice guys are simps all simps are nice guys yeah i don't know if he's actually a simp like
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oh I think they all go together if you don't put them
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places because he begged his wife to marry him and he keeps telling to get men to get married
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regardless of the risk and he led with his wallet yeah so that's gonna be second matt walsh is gonna
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be a simp because he now i'm gonna tell you he's still on it because he would always he said he
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wasn't allowed to smoke in his house and i just thought that was pretty like what you're what
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you're gonna let your wife tell you you can't smoke in your house that's true i would never
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would never this is my house i'll smoke way out please yeah then we got michael knolls as the
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number one draft pick because obviously the nala situation oh yeah he's still he's still in the i'm
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also i'm gonna add in charlie kirk because he's kind of simpy too what about um steve harvey you
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gotta throw steve harvey in there okay who's worse steve harvey or my or michael knolls steve harvey
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i gotta say he's gotta be number one yeah yeah okay fine well congratulations michael if you see
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this um okay we got charlie kirk what about will smith he's gonna go okay this is of conservatism
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okay just conservative i mean i'm gonna add steve harvey for fun gotcha just to be the number one
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just because he's so much worse he really is he really is but we could do that maybe tomorrow
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a simp like a simp like a simp scale like yeah so we got we're gonna put we're gonna go a little
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off they can see this now right no oh they can't oh yeah share it all right so guys i've been making
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I think he's just... I mean, did you watch him in
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he's waking up you can see it that's why i would give him the benefit of doubt a little bit and
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lower him i won't okay i won't sorry man i tried i'll tell you why i won't because his wife spurged
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out at me on twitter why is your wife arguing with me get your wife in control yeah like that's like
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why is your she like spurged out and said i was gonna die alone because i pointed out
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that all of them are under the age of 45 these guys because i couldn't figure out why they kept
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lying about the marriage stuff and then i realized that they're all under the age of 45 and i tweeted
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that and she took it as a personal attack and wrote me i could probably find the essay it's
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out there somewhere but no hard feelings you know don't worry mad i'll put it aside no hard feelings
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but um i gotta add you like you're on the same level as these guys you you might be able to
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break out of the symptoms someday but right now he's just a little bit lower just a little give
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him a hair i'm actually gonna go higher because ben shapiro's wife's never done that damn you
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should have had your woman check you should have just had your checkmate anyways um i can't but
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brett cooper can't be a simp you know i actually i think brett cooper may stay married i'm optimistic
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about her i don't know why call me uh maybe maybe i'm partial because i'm a fan i don't know um but
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let me know what you guys think in the comments put down who would you put on the hierarchy of
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symptom if i make a hierarchy now is it just conservatives or we're just doing any man period
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i want to hear you guys's draft like final draft picks for conservatives and then also just a
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regular because it'd be interesting i i don't know i got to see who were in play i want and cite your
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sources why are they simpy uh tom brady well we could do a hierarchy of the worst trad women
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oh that would be funny so you got lauren southerns yeah like she's the worst then you could have like
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the lauren chen candace owens where they're still married they had the kids but they
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but they won't take their husband's like last name or you know ali beth stuck like you know
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candace wants to run for to be president yeah i know i'm like do you want to raise the kids no
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that's what a nanny's for uh i i i think she does them now she works from home but
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nala's husband got to get on that list oh he's got to be number one he's like he's tied with um
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yeah like brett right now i would say she's on track i would put her as the top of the trad
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right now now hear me out for for a conservative commentator we're already not that traditional
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but she's got to be at the top because right now she could have a kid under the age of 25.
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if she does it you're more traditional if you have the kids young so if like right now she
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just got canned from the daily wire if she wanted she could go do the complete traditional life
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have the kids walk away from the media while the kids are young i doubt she'll completely do that
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it's a lot of money tough i'm not saying she should i'm not saying she should but if we're
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going to push traditionalism i'm going to put her she's more traditional than candace owens
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candace owens got married at 30. ali beth stocky did not have a kid tell her late 20s lauren chen
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didn't have a kid till 29 i don't care if you guys got married young if you didn't have a kid
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until late doesn't count yeah doesn't count well she she at least is in the best position to be
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the most trad the most trad of current yeah I'm like it's no one's really that trad there's no
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such thing as traditional there's no but I'm just saying if we're gonna I have it on the board over
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there I didn't pull it out today but I have a like traditional is closer to an arranged marriage
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brett cooper married her husband who was like down the street from her they met like in tennessee but
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they grew up next to each other that's closer towards a range yeah she could have three plus
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kids at this point she got married at 22 yeah yeah she's like she bowed out early right yeah
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like and by the way i'm not saying good or bad but i'm saying hypothetically she would
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she has the opportunity to be at the top of my chart yeah no no she could she definitely does
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i love rachel wilson oh yeah but i can't she can't be at the top she just can't the
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i'm not trying to rag on her but you know she's divorced i can't you can't it can't be a second
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husband and well i mean no actually no think about it if if if you had in every intention
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to get married young and have kids young and be that trad wife then and shit happened like
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i love i i love rachel i love her to death but i can't give her that it's it's like it's choices
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did you get married did you stay married well she stayed married just to she remarried someone
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no it doesn't count you can't i i'm not i'm not saying like um again i know i love her but i'm
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not going to give her my my chart has got to be based on is there going to be anybody it can't
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be there's going to be no one that's a problem but i'm saying brett is the only one that because
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my my chart for traditional would be young marriage below 25 kids below 25 i'm not even
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saying i could have said below 22 25 would have been late for my grandma but i'm giving you ladies
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till 25 to pop out a kid i think what you're going to end up finding is that i've been saying
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for a while there's no such thing as traditional conservative oh do you want to see the i i
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collected data on all of them do you want to see the chart i made yeah i wanted to and then everyone
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was getting mad at me we don't do better not don't share don't share till i say like there's
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like there's like um no such thing as traditional now you can so i pulled um the the percentage is
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15 got married below 25 really and that was just a number of kids
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uh there's only eight women out of 78 that had kids below 25 wow oh that was 15 sorry 31 got
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married age of first marriage but that doesn't include like i didn't i that's why i haven't
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like released these officially yet because i haven't calculated which of those got divorced
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um but yeah you could like pull up i have number of kids on here
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like it's really rare the tops you're gonna get is four
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but even uh i think matt walsh maybe was the top doesn't he have like six
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yes but he had two twins in her 30s i think that's ivf that doesn't make sense you're just
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that's not statistically likely i mean jesus does miracles like no but like i looked it up and
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twins are likely in your 30s if it's your thirds like if it's your like your third or more kid
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but it's twice it happened to you it's a i just don't what if like twins run in both of their
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families it's possible i just wouldn't if i had to bet if i had to like spend money yeah and like
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put money on it and by the way i only i only took people like if someone's family was really hard
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to find i would just skip them so it wasn't like a lot of people were accusing me of like
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digging like like trying to expose them or whatever but it's it's stuff they post their
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families online yeah so i'm like why it's publicly available um like there was one marjorie taylor
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green i couldn't find her kids anywhere i just let it go um like for the number of kids stat but her
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husband was on here i think lila rose is 36 age of first marriage was 30 first child was 31
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being uh liz wheeler 35 uh age of first marriage was 28 first child was 30 number of kids too
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i also have the net worth of their husbands damn yeah so i i looked up the ones i could find um
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so like for example and if I couldn't find it I just gave them an average average salary so like
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Gina Botempo she I couldn't find her husband anywhere I just put 40k because I was like okay
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I'm so I'm being like charitable the other way right um let's see here Caitlin Bennett her
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husband it's uh i think six zeros is two million i think yeah two million dollars two point carrie
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lake 2.5 um cat temp is five million kellyann conway 20 million kimberly gilfold uh 350 million
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kimberly gif was funny yeah it's not like i'm not you know
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i'm not like i'm not trying to attack anybody but i'm like let's be honest about what we choose here
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yeah so it's like it's traditionalism if you have like the average was i'd have to calculate it and
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some of these are blank but the average was over five million dollars really yeah i mean like look
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at the number do you see this chart no i don't have the screen up oh yeah yeah put it up put it
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up um like if you look at the numbers here it's like look how many zeros yeah there's a lot of
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zeros yeah like um and then i i tried to i even i'll say how many of them are like let's go by
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generation yeah so that's the thing too because the millennials you don't know if they're going
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to get divorced yet yeah but like i wanted to see if there's any gen xers and these were tougher to
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find there aren't as many gen x youtubers um but oh no sorry not gen x i meant gen z
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so like these are the gen z ones but they're still really you're still coming up yeah
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uh not really i mean it's up to 27 yeah but i'm saying like they're like but they hypothetically
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like 24 amala um no kids brett cooper's 23 uh i think she might not have been oh her net worth
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of her husband online says 5 million but what what is uh that's her husband what's her net worth
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you don't you're just going off for her husband their husband's net worth yeah yeah because i'm
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like that's what's that's what like i'm trying to prove that you know that's something we select
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for when they act like not all women are like that but yeah but I'm proving like it's they're
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the same and so when I fully released this Kimberly yeah now they're separated but they
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weren't when I did this okay I know I know I know they're separated Kimberly Guilfold but
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that's recent I made this like a couple weeks ago so yeah and I just felt like this was really
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helpful to so now when you know lauren shen says not all women are like that i'll say why didn't
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you have kids at 22 i was in college i was on my journey it's not wrong you know riley gains 24
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married no kids um we'll see if she does it she's got she's got a year to be in my trad category
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otherwise you're just not trad it's okay doesn't mean you're a bad person it's all right i mean
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you know isn't she the one that did the the conservative beer magazine or calendar yeah
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well but and she's um i don't even think she really claims traditional i don't think she
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that's something she really we need to just like just acknowledge that there's no such thing as
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traditional conservative women anymore yeah like you know the last traditional conservative age
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group of women are my grandmother's age and she's in her 90s i agree my grandma's in her 90s i think
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even the 70s are still pretty modern like women that are 70 when i interview women i would notice
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like that was the age that i would get answers like obeying your husband and that sort of thing
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if you go to 70s they were a lot of them were separated so like my thing is like oh if you're
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looking for a trad then the trad woman then go to a senior center they're there they're just in
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wheelchairs they might forget your name i actually want to do interviews there one way
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gotta be careful going there that and and to keep it more honest i also included commentators
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wives if i could find them so the male commentators wives so that way they can't say like it's there's
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you know like matt walsh's wife she's not openly a public figure yeah i i what i found she got
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married at 29 all the kids were in her 30s maybe maybe it was off by a year or two but i'm pretty
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sure that's so she was like hitting the wall and she's like oh matt matt'll do yeah i mean it's not
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it's not bad or good it's just like they say i think it worked out i think they'll stay together
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but yeah you know anyways um that's it so guys i am going to be back tomorrow three central these
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out yeah of course thank you for having me you know we had so much fun um do you want to tell
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