Pearl - November 24, 2025


Black People Have No Idea How Disrespectful They Are


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Length

9 minutes

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166.56602

Word count

1,655

Sentence count

32

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

13

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, I talk about the lack of respect and decorum in the black community and why I think it's a problem. I also talk about why I don't think black women are as likable as white women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.200 Good morning, everybody. Welcome to another episode of Pearl Davis Coffee Talks.
00:00:05.940 So yesterday, I did a panel about black fatigue.
00:00:11.200 And I felt myself literally getting fatigued as the panel went on.
00:00:17.300 So we brought on, how many black people came on the show?
00:00:22.500 Donovan, Doug MPA, I don't know, it was like five, maybe five black people.
00:00:28.720 one latina woman half latina half white me um i mean that was ish the demographics of the panel
00:00:37.340 and i think black people just have no idea how bad their basic decorum and attitude is 0.94
00:00:45.340 it's definitely not all as on this panel um i would say half of the black people on the panel 0.90
00:00:53.900 had really good decorum and basic respect but the other half you know we had a black woman come on 1.00
00:01:03.640 and black women I really like black women and I think that's why um it's why I hang out with them 1.00
00:01:10.080 I think the cool ones are so cool they're like chill you can hang out have fun so it's not like
00:01:16.680 they don't have the ability to be likable in fact at times they can be more likable than white women 1.00
00:01:24.080 I mean if you go to like men love fun women black women are fun you know if I go up and do street 0.72
00:01:29.720 interviews I'm like ladies how's it going and the black women are like good and the white women are 0.92
00:01:35.580 like go away you know but you know she comes on and it's just the same things it's bad faith so
00:01:45.040 So every interpretation, if someone said something she disagreed with, she would just give the most uncharitable explanation of what they said.
00:01:57.860 The most uncharitable. 0.93
00:01:59.580 And a lot of black guys do this. 0.98
00:02:01.960 On the last panel I was on with black guys, and white people are just not like that. 0.88
00:02:07.040 We had a white liberal-ish, like more left.
00:02:09.100 Oh, there was one white guy that came, but he came late.
00:02:11.060 And you can watch this show yesterday.
00:02:15.040 and, you know, if he disagreed with anybody, I would say he still gave, like, you know,
00:02:22.460 he might have used slight shaming tactics, but in general, he would, I would say he would give
00:02:29.760 charitable, like, explanations. If we asked him to stop talking, he would just stop. He wouldn't
00:02:37.020 over talk anybody, but, like, black people, it's like, they take over the panel, they talk the 1.00
00:02:42.880 whole time it's my show a lot of the time and when i do panels with black people 0.97
00:02:47.820 i can barely get a word in um because they just over talk everybody they interrupt um
00:02:58.360 white people do interrupt at times but it's usually because we've been interrupted like
00:03:03.840 five times white men white men white women that's a different story especially you christian white 0.94
00:03:10.160 women um but the latinas there with a smile on her face like barely talk like typical latina you know 1.00
00:03:20.920 except when they get angry but i just kind of wanted to go over a few basic decorums that i 0.99
00:03:28.120 think women just especially black women we don't they don't realize how unlikable they are 1.00
00:03:32.800 and the biggest one is good faith so i don't know the exact definition of good faith but i can give
00:03:42.800 you like my understanding of what it means essentially it's not assuming the worst about
00:03:50.000 somebody you know it's not attempting to make them look bad or catch them in a lie you know
00:03:56.060 we would talk about how we don't believe essentially what we were trying to say on
00:04:02.480 that panel is we don't believe data that comes from these invalid institutions and to question
00:04:08.240 data it is something that's interesting to look at and at times we bring it up but like if there's
00:04:14.460 a study that comes out from a reputable institution or a type 2 type 1 source that says the sky is
00:04:22.400 black and every day I see that it's blue you know I'm you're not entitled to my belief and what a 1.00
00:04:29.000 lot of times the academics do or people that they usually don't have a lot of like real world or
00:04:34.120 real life accomplishments. So they want to feel smart in academia or like there, you know, like
00:04:40.460 me, I've interviewed a thousand people. Myron's interviewed 4,000 people. We could tell you we
00:04:46.520 have more insights than somebody that reads a study on a thousand people and like the trends,
00:04:53.280 Like, we could tell you more insights than they can because we did the work.
00:04:58.100 And I would trust Myron, even taking me out of it, Myron's analysis much more than someone who just sent out, like, a survey monkey survey, right?
00:05:07.240 Because we've, like, lived it.
00:05:10.800 But what these people want to do is they won't do that hard work and they've just read things on the internet because they really, they always have the time, right?
00:05:18.920 They don't have jobs.
00:05:19.900 Like, academics don't have real jobs.
00:05:21.860 um people that do debates for a living don't really have real jobs um
00:05:26.580 and um and a little hypocritical there but just you know bear with me um because they're they
00:05:35.360 just want to be right so they don't really care about what's true it's like i gotta be right they
00:05:40.040 can never admit they're wrong they have big egos um and you know interacting with people like you
00:05:46.300 guys is just really um not not just black people but the academics like academic white people
00:05:52.120 you know it's like it's kind of the same pattern as like lila rose the christian white woman not
00:05:56.800 a real job um just likes to read the bible and tell you what it said like they feel really
00:06:02.560 important because they read things and tell you what they said but the real people that know like
00:06:07.840 if i watch elite attorney stream he's gonna have way more insights that i would respect than
00:06:14.480 somebody that just reads studies all day you know um because anyways so the black woman comes on 1.00
00:06:24.060 and you know she comes on she interrupts people she won't submit to the rules that's that's the 0.99
00:06:30.900 crazy thing if i'm the host and i want to give somebody more talking time because they're more
00:06:36.040 entertaining than you that is my right um and i can do that and when i go on a pierce morgan panel
00:06:42.080 a lot of times I am over talked but it's not my show so I just you know I smile and I wait
00:06:48.200 and I submit to the rules of the show but there's such a lack of submission from black women and 1.00
00:06:53.880 and white women too um and I just think I think you guys just have no idea how unlikable you are
00:07:04.280 the nagging the tone like white women and black women will have a conversation about the 1.00
00:07:10.980 conversation so they'll be like well the conversation should be had this way instead of
00:07:15.760 just having the conversation and they just derail everything by having a conversation about the
00:07:21.520 conversation oh you can't like and you see black men adopt like the panel i did two weeks ago they
00:07:27.660 adopt the same ideology so the black men will say oh pearl you can't say that and i'm like i'll 0.55
00:07:34.140 think I'm talking to women. And it's not all because I would say, um, 50% of the black people
00:07:40.940 on the panel yesterday were totally perfect. Like, um, I mean, there's basic disagreements,
00:07:48.080 right? But the other half were awesome. I mean, they brought up their points. They said they're
00:07:52.960 different, you know, worldviews and it was great. But then a black woman comes in and they fatigue 1.00
00:07:58.140 me further. And then they complain that I'm fatigued. And I'm like, you know, the behavior 0.79
00:08:05.140 here is what's making me more fatigued. But I love you guys, you know, black people are kind of like, 1.00
00:08:11.680 um, they're kind of like the way women feel about men where it's like, oh, I'm so fatigued. But you 0.95
00:08:19.500 know, on some level, I'm like, guys, we can have the chillest panels and have so much fun. If you
00:08:25.720 could just like be normal be chill but they can never do it anyways guys so now i only do panels
00:08:32.760 where i have a mute button with women because my personality is just not i'm not gonna shout i'm 0.99
00:08:39.800 not gonna over talk you i'm gonna be polite um and if you're that type of person like like if
00:08:46.180 you watch destiny on a panel liberal white men do this at times too so it's not just about race but
00:08:51.520 like um if he goes on a panel he's so unlikable and he over talks everybody and he thinks he's
00:09:01.400 smart because he's like red things but um like imagine if you could just mute him when he's
00:09:07.620 being annoying like how much better of a panel that would be and let like people that are
00:09:11.760 intelligent talk that's so every Sunday night I'm going to do these panel shows and that's kind of
00:09:16.600 the way I'm going to do it if you're super unlikable and annoying I'm just going to mute you 1.00
00:09:21.140 if you're really rude and i am charitable it's not like i ever do it the first time but when
00:09:26.960 you're on the third or fourth time of being annoying and unlikable you're just gonna get
00:09:31.260 mute you're because i just can't i'm really trying to have an entertaining panel so
00:09:36.900 anyways guys let me know what you think of the comments um maybe you disagree watch the panel
00:09:43.060 from yesterday and the week before they're both black fatigue panels and let me know your thoughts
00:09:49.000 So if you disagree, you know, you can disagree, put it in the comments, but do it in a likable
00:09:53.580 way, like the video and I'll see you next time.