In this episode, I talk about the lack of respect and decorum in the black community and why I think it's a problem. I also talk about why I don't think black women are as likable as white women.
00:00:00.200Good morning, everybody. Welcome to another episode of Pearl Davis Coffee Talks.
00:00:05.940So yesterday, I did a panel about black fatigue.
00:00:11.200And I felt myself literally getting fatigued as the panel went on.
00:00:17.300So we brought on, how many black people came on the show?
00:00:22.500Donovan, Doug MPA, I don't know, it was like five, maybe five black people.
00:00:28.720one latina woman half latina half white me um i mean that was ish the demographics of the panel
00:00:37.340and i think black people just have no idea how bad their basic decorum and attitude is
00:00:45.340it's definitely not all as on this panel um i would say half of the black people on the panel
00:00:53.900had really good decorum and basic respect but the other half you know we had a black woman come on
00:01:03.640and black women I really like black women and I think that's why um it's why I hang out with them
00:01:10.080I think the cool ones are so cool they're like chill you can hang out have fun so it's not like
00:01:16.680they don't have the ability to be likable in fact at times they can be more likable than white women
00:01:24.080I mean if you go to like men love fun women black women are fun you know if I go up and do street
00:01:29.720interviews I'm like ladies how's it going and the black women are like good and the white women are
00:01:35.580like go away you know but you know she comes on and it's just the same things it's bad faith so
00:01:45.040So every interpretation, if someone said something she disagreed with, she would just give the most uncharitable explanation of what they said.
00:02:01.960On the last panel I was on with black guys, and white people are just not like that.
00:02:07.040We had a white liberal-ish, like more left.
00:02:09.100Oh, there was one white guy that came, but he came late.
00:02:11.060And you can watch this show yesterday.
00:02:15.040and, you know, if he disagreed with anybody, I would say he still gave, like, you know,
00:02:22.460he might have used slight shaming tactics, but in general, he would, I would say he would give
00:02:29.760charitable, like, explanations. If we asked him to stop talking, he would just stop. He wouldn't
00:02:37.020over talk anybody, but, like, black people, it's like, they take over the panel, they talk the
00:02:42.880whole time it's my show a lot of the time and when i do panels with black people
00:02:47.820i can barely get a word in um because they just over talk everybody they interrupt um
00:02:58.360white people do interrupt at times but it's usually because we've been interrupted like
00:03:03.840five times white men white men white women that's a different story especially you christian white
00:03:10.160women um but the latinas there with a smile on her face like barely talk like typical latina you know
00:03:20.920except when they get angry but i just kind of wanted to go over a few basic decorums that i
00:03:28.120think women just especially black women we don't they don't realize how unlikable they are
00:03:32.800and the biggest one is good faith so i don't know the exact definition of good faith but i can give
00:03:42.800you like my understanding of what it means essentially it's not assuming the worst about
00:03:50.000somebody you know it's not attempting to make them look bad or catch them in a lie you know
00:03:56.060we would talk about how we don't believe essentially what we were trying to say on
00:04:02.480that panel is we don't believe data that comes from these invalid institutions and to question
00:04:08.240data it is something that's interesting to look at and at times we bring it up but like if there's
00:04:14.460a study that comes out from a reputable institution or a type 2 type 1 source that says the sky is
00:04:22.400black and every day I see that it's blue you know I'm you're not entitled to my belief and what a
00:04:29.000lot of times the academics do or people that they usually don't have a lot of like real world or
00:04:34.120real life accomplishments. So they want to feel smart in academia or like there, you know, like
00:04:40.460me, I've interviewed a thousand people. Myron's interviewed 4,000 people. We could tell you we
00:04:46.520have more insights than somebody that reads a study on a thousand people and like the trends,
00:04:53.280Like, we could tell you more insights than they can because we did the work.
00:04:58.100And I would trust Myron, even taking me out of it, Myron's analysis much more than someone who just sent out, like, a survey monkey survey, right?
00:05:10.800But what these people want to do is they won't do that hard work and they've just read things on the internet because they really, they always have the time, right?