Pearl - Black People Will Always Fumble the Opportunity of a Lifetime

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network

00:00:13.500 um i haven't been live streaming as much for you guys because quite frankly

00:00:17.940 you guys don't you don't seem to like it as much um it seems like the the pre-recorded stuff you

00:00:25.220 guys like me reacting the coffee thought so i've been hearing you and i've been doing more of that

00:00:29.980 format. But today was actually, I wasn't supposed to do a show today. I had my night booked and it

00:00:40.580 takes a lot for me to book a night. I had my night booked to do a panel show and I was supposed to go

00:00:47.480 on this panel show and do a debate. Now I want to start talking about why I don't really do debates

00:00:56.840 and panel shows as much anymore and i want i want to talk about this is actually pretty rare and i

00:01:02.200 turn down so many panel shows debates like i wish i could put into words how often that i turn stuff

00:01:12.280 down and i don't turn things down to be rude i don't turn things down to to be um pretentious

00:01:21.080 or think i'm better than anybody but i generally think it's better to just create my own thing

00:01:26.840 Then go on all these other people's shows.

00:01:30.500 And under other people's shows, you have to worry about so much stuff.

00:01:36.520 You have to worry about the moderation.

00:01:43.020 You have to worry about the footage.

00:01:49.020 And it's actually to the point that I charge a couple grand in general to go on other people's shows.

00:01:54.960 because it's just not really worth my time financially to do that over recording stuff

00:02:03.240 for my own show. Now, I want to give you an idea of what a content creator is going to think.

00:02:10.600 If I spend, let's say, three hours on your show debating, talking, doing whatever,

00:02:17.080 i um yes you can switch the thumbnail to that that's good that's good guy behind the scenes

00:02:27.300 um i won't say the name but that's a good one they there i did this live quick now

00:02:35.400 the reason i do that again is i can get out at like in three hours

00:02:42.880 i can get up to 20 to 30 videos made or a live stream like this i you know i take my job

00:02:51.140 seriously i think the people that are subscribed to me i mean you guys support me i couldn't do

00:02:55.840 what i do without you to me it's really important that i make really good content for my audience

00:03:00.940 but on occasion i either offer an opportunity to people or i accept an invite

00:03:08.980 i accept an invite to a show

00:03:13.260 now recently there was a man who invited me on his show

00:03:20.660 now i'm not going to leak messages behind the scenes i don't i could if you unsend anything i

00:03:30.300 have them. But there was a guy who was putting on a show, right? And I don't really, I mean,

00:03:40.120 I guess you guys will find his channel. It's not really, I have all respect, you know, to him and

00:03:44.860 to do what he wants on his show. But, you know, I'm just to the point in my life that if something

00:03:50.940 happens publicly, I'm going to address it publicly and move on. You know, I used to just ignore

00:03:55.940 stuff. And to some degree I will, but I prefer, I prefer to talk about the topics and then just

00:04:05.240 move on with my life. So this was a young, a young, you know, a little channel. And normally,

00:04:11.920 again, I would never, I would never take a channel of a certain size. And this isn't to

00:04:16.980 be pretentious, but I want you to understand. I want you to under, oh, Doug MPA sent me something

00:04:24.840 to go on this topic that happened the other day. I want you to understand when small creators ask

00:04:31.580 bigger creators to do collabs or to do different events, whatever, this is not to say that I'm

00:04:39.680 better or smarter than you. If anything, I think that I'm not the smartest person ever. I'm not

00:04:45.340 the best YouTuber ever. There's better people. I meet smarter people than me every day. I meet

00:04:51.040 better youtubers more entertaining than me um but when somebody's not that they're not more

00:04:56.480 entertaining they don't have a big platform you kind of think as a bigger creator what do i get

00:05:00.800 out of this you know um and that's how youtubers think that's how um and you have to to pay the

00:05:08.480 bills to keep the lights on whatever so i'm going to give you a couple examples of times

00:05:15.280 i have offered black people opportunities and they've just squandered them

00:05:18.640 now again this isn't just to be um to be rude or mean but in general i i don't there's just a

00:05:28.680 pattern i've noticed over the years so many black people bite the hand that feeds them

00:05:34.600 um and for me this was i didn't see race at all if i'm being honest when i was younger i really

00:05:40.360 didn't and this isn't again a lot of people i'll say this stuff and they'll say you can't see the

00:05:46.300 world that way. And my response is I really didn't want to. You know, I didn't, I had, as so many of

00:05:53.200 my critics and detractors bring up, I had a black boyfriend. And, you know, I, that was fine. It was

00:06:00.040 a good experience for me. But there just comes a point where you can't not see this stuff. So for

00:06:11.640 those of you that don't know i'll tell you my story i um came from america and i went to london

00:06:17.320 and when i went to london i started a youtube show and i went to london to play volleyball

00:06:23.080 this rapidly became one of the biggest um shows in the country um i had a billion views on the

00:06:30.200 channel before i had to delete all my content um and for about a two-year period i was recognized

00:06:35.560 everywhere I went. I had one of the biggest shows in the United States. It was ranked.

00:06:40.940 I had 50 to 100 million views a month. And my show was kind of on top, right?

00:06:49.820 This all came crashing down when I got demonetized. Now, I had a co-host that I thought

00:06:57.100 I was just such good friends with. I thought we were the best of pals. I really did.

00:07:00.580 um and i don't think this co-host realized how much stuff i did behind the scenes and how much

00:07:06.840 i really gave up to be in the position i was in um dating became for a period very difficult for me

00:07:14.060 my personal life became very difficult that pretty much disappeared when i started content

00:07:19.040 because it was just so time consuming like i was working and i don't you know i i had to be in

00:07:28.260 charge of all the recruiters, getting people to come to the show. I had to pay all the staff.

00:07:33.980 I had things go missing. I had things taken from me. And this isn't, I was very lucky to be in

00:07:39.340 that position. So I'm not trying to, to rock, like to pretend that I'm some victim in this.

00:07:47.100 Although in this case, I kind of went a little bit. No, it was my own fault, but I'm a woman.

00:07:52.100 sometimes i just think you know but okay so now this guy i see him probably so i start a show

00:08:00.660 called a pregame and the pregame was a podcast and on tuesdays i said oh we can co-host it'll be this

00:08:05.780 fun thing and we were the best of pals i thought we were chilling i thought we were cool and then

00:08:11.780 one day i bring on a guest that he disagreed with now the way this co-host at the time would have

00:08:18.740 described the guest he would have said he was a a white supremacist this that you know the the

00:08:26.100 typical names that um black people call white people when they disagree with their ideas and

00:08:31.780 maybe he was to some degree i don't know but i'm the type i give people fair interviews no matter

00:08:36.900 what so i bring this guy on and he was great he was awesome i had a great interview with him i got

00:08:42.100 along and this pissed off the co-host you know i think he felt like pearl why didn't you why didn't

00:08:47.060 you check with me and i'm like who are you you're not paying the bills at my house

00:08:54.500 and long story short we were renegotiating pay and this guy wanted me to double his pay and this

00:09:02.180 this happened to me over and over again where he wanted to to do a different rate or his hires

00:09:09.700 i can't remember the exact logistics um and i was forced to kind of look at my tuesday show

00:09:15.780 and i was gonna say were you pay am i making more money on my show with you than my other shows and

00:09:21.380 the answer was no so then um i ended up saying you know if you want maybe we could do this network

00:09:31.460 type deal and mind you i don't think he realized how expensive the network like me running his

00:09:37.780 youtube channel was because i don't maybe he couldn't do math i don't know but it was a very

00:09:42.820 expensive ask of me to do this um i had to pay rent in a very expensive apartment i had to pay

00:09:52.020 probably i don't want to say the price of my equipment but it was really expensive i'd payroll

00:09:56.900 editors producer like i don't think a lot of times youtubers have no um concept of like cost

00:10:05.300 and so he ends up because of this disagreement saying that i offer people slave contracts

00:10:11.780 when he only worked i mean he got a few hundred bucks i can't remember what it was

00:10:17.300 and he only worked like three hours a week and he wanted more i'm like

00:10:24.500 and the contract i gave him i was spending ten thousand a month

00:10:28.900 um and he wanted me to spend more and i just said i can't spend more than that i'm sorry i can't

00:10:34.500 and it was it was just so sad to me because again i thought we were friends and then he makes

00:10:42.580 a video calling me a colonizer he put out people that were behind the scenes and he made them

00:10:48.480 people that aren't public facing people and by the way when you know his subscribers doubled

00:10:54.720 in the time that you know i really gave him the opportunity of a lifetime

00:10:59.340 and he squandered it

00:11:04.500 I gave him the opportunity to basically for free film as much content as he wanted and he just wanted more. I'm like, well, well, you know, and I think a lot of white people feel like this and it's not something we want to feel.

00:11:23.020 again i went to london not really caring or seeing any of this i really didn't i did not see race

00:11:29.980 going to london but and if this was one instance it would have been fine but then two other youtubers

00:11:40.060 i knew also turned on me when i had this guest they disagreed with on and it just seemed like

00:11:48.880 when I gave black people opportunities, they just kept

00:11:53.600 making me regret it, you know, and this isn't, again, I'd like to say I got nothing against

00:12:02.060 black people, but at some point we, you know, we recognize patterns. We really do.

00:12:07.900 so i'm gonna continue the other day another a small black content creator a nice you know

00:12:20.800 a youtuber or a tick tocker she wants to debate me and she comes into my inbox and she says

00:12:28.840 pearl i gotta find these messages pearl and to to oh here we go

00:12:34.180 um so she she says let's debate pearl and i said on what

00:12:43.040 you can pick the topic but i do feminine and remember this is a girl getting 400 views on

00:12:49.280 a video i'm like i don't really get much out of doing this but you know for love of the game

00:12:54.080 i'll give you a shot i'll allow you to

00:12:57.700 and i keep giving her all the tools to give me a pitch because like if you're gonna come to me

00:13:13.720 and ask to debate i really expect you to do all the work if you're if you're bringing nothing

00:13:19.240 else to the table i expect you to come with creative debate something interesting out of

00:13:23.920 box and she keeps throwing these topics at me and i just keep saying these are boring i need

00:13:28.160 i need you to be more interesting i've done this debate a million times and then now we're gonna

00:13:33.920 put uh hold on i'm gonna put the tick tock she makes in response oh wait doug mpa where is it

00:13:48.240 can you put it at the top of the doc i thought i thought i had it i don't know why i don't i need

00:13:53.280 need to refresh it and again this isn't I don't want to say this is only black people

00:14:02.480 but I just don't have the same experience with white people and black people they always come

00:14:07.800 at me and just say but Pearl what about white people what about I could talk about like white

00:14:12.300 people and their manipulation and their problems white people don't generally squander opportunities

00:14:18.680 now white women do do false accusations i would say that's really common

00:14:22.840 i think white women are the most verbally manipulative like they can look really innocent

00:14:27.640 and be total backstabber i think white women are like the worst in divorce court i talk about

00:14:36.920 traditional conservative white women all the time i mean i grew up around these crazy women um

00:14:42.600 um I have many videos covering this stuff

00:14:47.080 but at some point you just you notice a pattern

00:14:53.580 did you have the Instagram thing Doug MPA

00:15:00.040 oh

00:15:12.600 Yeah, got a new member, but anyways, oh, I think Doug MPA is getting it.

00:15:42.600 This girl makes a tick tock and I just knew with women, they always make tick tocks.

00:15:48.680 They always make tick tocks. This was something that, all right, this is her crashing out.

00:15:54.000 And it's just like, um, black women called me a pedophile.

00:16:01.940 They went around and said, I asked sexual questions to kids. I never did that.

00:16:07.660 um i had a debate on abortion where people could come up and debate abortion it was on a sign

00:16:16.560 and the way they phrase this is oh she was asking sexual questions to kids i'm like what the fuck

00:16:22.540 is wrong with you and women women do this stuff all the time i mean all right here's here's the

00:16:30.760 let me let me show the the screen bruh i know why do you think i i see women this way

00:16:41.000 it's exhausting another and you know what another thing white women do and i can talk about white

00:16:45.320 women and i wouldn't get offended white women will drag you to court black women don't have

00:16:49.160 money to take you to court white women will use their husband's money to drag you to court

00:16:53.640 and you know you could say this about white people and we would say this is true

00:17:00.760 We would say this is true.

00:17:05.260 But there's something.

00:17:06.760 Black people cannot have these conversations for some reasons.

00:17:12.680 Reason.

00:17:14.180 They just seem to get emotional and crash out.

00:17:17.280 And it's just, it's so tiring.

00:17:19.940 Like, you just don't get any professionalism.

00:17:22.660 Time to speak, I have been harassed in my DMs by a conservative pundit.

00:17:26.880 Do you see what she said?

00:17:27.720 She said, I was harassed in my DMs.

00:17:30.760 bruh like i don't think these these women see how unlikable they are

00:17:37.320 pearl anti-feminist pearl rifter pearl you know her you know very kindly i dm pearl asking her

00:17:43.080 if she wants to have a discussion she asked she's i said on what me about what i say about feminism

00:17:50.280 we know how the story goes she says about what again i kindly explained to her what a feminism

00:17:54.760 debate is again so what she kept saying is is feminism good or bad and i just don't think

00:18:01.000 that's a good question good or bad according to who you know i just i just don't think that's the

00:18:07.240 best it's the best question suddenly my character my

00:18:13.880 i am hilarious the united states education system needs work you can circle back when you

00:18:24.680 have a question you know and she showed the dms i'm gonna show the full ones because this is

00:18:29.880 bullshit oh this is i don't even like showing dms but i'm like this is bullshit

00:18:40.120 hold on how do i

00:18:44.440 how do i unzoom this

00:18:57.560 i don't want

00:19:02.920 the hard thing about these screens is like the sharing i don't why can't why do you have to

00:19:09.720 show on instagram all the things on the left i'm not trying to air out people that aren't involved

00:19:15.160 in this all right i'm just going to keep playing this girl i'm going to zoom in a little bit

00:19:24.120 oh wow oh do you notice how she crops out you know what we're gonna watch a video and then

00:19:40.580 i'll show you she crops out everything she said i'm so confused i'm lost so i reach out to my

00:19:46.280 good sis tilly i say hi tilly i don't know what's going on tilly why is she harassing me tilly tilly

00:19:50.880 says I don't know because she didn't act this way to me I think back to my previous yeah because you

00:19:55.540 were way more insufferable Tilly the reason I had Tilly on so basically this girl sees Tilly's

00:20:03.640 debate and she's like I want the same debate and I'm like why would I debate you on this I just

00:20:07.280 debated Tilly like why would I why would I she came in and her first thing was I'm gonna be

00:20:13.920 respectful she led with respect these women are so unlikable interactions I'm like oh yeah

00:20:21.140 girl calls me lazy girl calls me uneducated girl attacks my work ethic and here's the kicker here's

00:20:26.640 the part that seals the deal for me girl says that maybe maybe I'll amount to something if I

00:20:30.580 become more like Tilly oh yeah she had a way better attitude I know what you want to choose

00:20:37.640 about me to make me more like you and Tilly unfortunately it's not possible babe unfortunately

00:20:42.140 you notice it's like they go into victim mode eventually and this is the thing i gave her the

00:20:48.040 opportunity of a lifetime you could you could get clips you could you could dunk on me right

00:20:54.000 this is the opportunity of a lifetime these are all public videos like if you said why do you

00:21:00.800 think the way you think i could actually give videos of you know another example

00:21:08.120 and there was a youtuber

00:21:14.240 that would clip me out of any i'm gonna i'm gonna actually go back in a second but

00:21:20.320 when i know that we can't i can't change that i can't unfortunately you know no i just want the

00:21:25.340 attitude to change i just want to illuminate how much more difficult it is to be in this space to

00:21:32.800 the political space oh my god when when you're when you're you know you know you know honestly

00:21:39.840 it doesn't matter how intelligent i am how much i know you are kind of dumb and that's the problem

00:21:44.320 is you're just not as smart as you think you are care how composed i come off they will treat you

00:21:49.440 didn't come off composed like how they want to treat me but why do you want to beat her in the

00:21:56.080 first place she's a bad person she's an evil person yeah she's one of many evil people who

00:22:00.720 are currently educating and radicalizing our youngest generation fun fact even if i wanted

00:22:05.680 the more comfortable the more highbrow conversation and trust me i do i simply don't have the same

00:22:10.480 access to these conversations as my peers do i simply don't have oh my god

00:22:18.880 hold on okay you said and go to post three buttons and say go

00:22:23.920 no i'm trying to show the messages doug mpa without the

00:22:33.040 because on the left uh actually i think i can do it if i zoom enough

00:22:38.180 i think actually i don't really care about the last ones it's just me sending stuff

00:22:45.860 okay i'll do it i'll do it um let me see if i can zoom am i able to zoom

00:22:52.660 oh my god

00:22:54.660 actually let me finish her video

00:23:00.120 I'm so ADD sometimes

00:23:01.740 I have the luxury of discretion

00:23:05.200 I fear I'm so sorry guys

00:23:07.020 I just wanted to eliminate that these situations are recurring

00:23:09.400 it's not a one time thing

00:23:10.480 it takes that much more effort

00:23:11.820 that much more time

00:23:12.860 to have the platform

00:23:13.820 to have the conversations that my peers currently do

00:23:16.140 unfortunately

00:23:17.680 I would have given it to you so easily

00:23:20.080 if you could just be respectful and smart that's it a little crazy you're obviously running right

00:23:26.820 now and i think that that's so now it's so funny that these women think like i would have to know

00:23:32.340 who you are to be running you know what i mean like i would have to like know but

00:23:38.780 it's just you know tragic so until you can provide me with a good reason as to why you

00:23:47.280 have a casual conversation with Tilly, but I need to present you with some kind of thesis.

00:23:51.120 I'm gonna continue speaking. Hope that's cool. I've delved deeper into it. I didn't necessarily

00:23:56.240 prepare like this. Okay.

00:24:01.200 All right. So now she, all right. So summary of my world view, but I think overall that's

00:24:06.960 all right. I mean, I'm just, I'm just trying to, uh, she's taking this out of context.

00:24:13.040 she get tilly came in and she said these are the topics i want to discuss she said i'm going to be

00:24:18.000 respectful she led with that have a conversation i'm not going to attack you personally with you

00:24:23.760 this isn't gotcha type thing i i'm just trying to have a conversation this is officially the

00:24:29.200 second time this week i have been harassed yeah she says i've been harassed and it's like these

00:24:35.520 women have no idea like do you think if you have pictures like this on your instagram

00:24:42.480 oh yeah I'm really dying to have you on it's like okay now let me show you the full thing it's kind

00:24:50.680 of funny so so I say to Zena let she says let's debate Pearl on what you can pick the topic if

00:25:00.400 you want but I could do feminism I'm guessing you're anti-feminist I said what about feminism

00:25:05.240 do you agree with its principles is it a good or bad thing I need a better debate question good or

00:25:11.620 bad is irrelevant if you aren't a feminist explain why that i do the do the same the debate is

00:25:17.860 feminism that you united states education system needs work you can circle back when you think of

00:25:24.600 a better question that's so interesting because the topic seemed to make sense when you had a

00:25:30.600 debate with with tilly so what's different i said a woman nagging me you've really changed my mind

00:25:37.120 now because that's the thing instead of saying being polite she comes in and says oh but but

00:25:45.040 you had a debate with tilly it's like they could come and be you know bring more to the table and

00:25:53.280 say oh i'm sorry here's a better question i said you could try to be more creative but instead you

00:25:59.440 choose to nag just say you don't want to have a debate your excuses are hollow oh wow bullying

00:26:04.960 me into a debate you seem pleasant there's no way running is crazy i just want to see a little more

00:26:11.280 creativity from me but not tilly she had a better pitch you're coming in and saying do the exact

00:26:17.520 same debate you did with someone else and if you don't take it i'm gonna insult you women dude get

00:26:23.040 creative think of something new you're a woman if you find this insulting and then you're proving

00:26:28.080 your own allegations against your gender i'll give you a day to think of something but if you keep

00:26:32.720 nagging me, you're going to get blocked. The choice is yours. Creativity or laziness.

00:26:37.680 I'll give you a day. Is thinking that hard, Zena? Is grifting that hard? Let me copy someone else's

00:26:44.500 work and get mad you don't accept it. Do you think women shouldn't vote? Tilly had such a good pitch.

00:26:50.700 Proposing a feminism debate is copying work. You're literally pulling stuff from thin air.

00:26:55.560 You lack work ethics, Zena, but you can do it. I believe in you. Do you think women should vote?

00:27:00.660 try again this is officially running have a night day nice day you would actually be famous

00:27:07.460 you would actually have to be famous for me to run from a debate maybe if you were tilly

00:27:12.020 i understand the fear of public humiliation no one's ever heard of me but i'm entitled to debating

00:27:17.940 big youtubers if only you had tilly's work ethic maybe you could be something someday she had such

00:27:23.300 a good pitch i think there's another reason then that's what they always default to it's racism

00:27:28.500 and i'll just think like it couldn't possibly be that you were not likable you're not a likable

00:27:35.360 human that like you couldn't you just couldn't come up with anything and this is guys i i could

00:27:44.140 put so many examples um the only the only um show i did that i didn't get paid for was run by black

00:27:55.040 people I was I had a camera stolen from me black person and I'm not I'm really not

00:28:10.100 I'm really not trying to make this about I really wasn't trying to make this about race but I just

00:28:16.620 you know I lived in a pretty black area and I just think that black people gave me no choice

00:28:25.040 so we're going to move on to the next part of the story

00:28:31.600 now

00:28:34.740 this back to the youtube show i was in i was invited on so there's a small youtuber that

00:28:44.380 invited me onto his channel now to put the difference i have 2 million subscribers at

00:28:50.520 one point I had a billion views on my channel. He has 5,000 subscribers. 5,000. That's the

00:28:59.980 difference. But hey, I said he seems pretty motivated. He's always streaming. Whatever.

00:29:07.080 You know. Oh, someone said yes. And I thought, you know, this could be a cool opportunity. If

00:29:16.940 he does all the work for me of putting this panel show together and he lets me have some say in

00:29:23.100 debates and he can keep like he can moderate and keep things quiet. I'll actually go on his show

00:29:27.560 every single week. Now, mind you, this is kind of a golden ticket for this guy. I don't think

00:29:34.040 he realizes the opportunity he lost. I'm being honest here. I don't think he has any idea.

00:29:38.340 i know all the other big youtubers i could get so many people on

00:29:50.160 that you know want to do panels and debates but don't they need someone they can trust

00:29:56.600 they don't want to put in the work they don't want to put in like the work of

00:30:01.120 putting everybody together organize it's just you know shit for us to do we don't feel like doing it

00:30:08.340 by the way um i'm gonna share i'm gonna share the stream now

00:30:17.320 go go spam their chat and tell all their chat to come here i just think it would be funny

00:30:23.180 this is the channel so oh my god

00:30:29.360 all right i'm back

00:30:36.700 so so mind you if you have 5 000 subs when i had 5 000 subs i just don't have a lot of sympathy

00:30:48.500 for these people like if i was the girl and i had 500 views a video and a big youtuber with

00:30:54.700 two million subscribers said to think of a better topic i would just think of a better topic

00:30:58.720 and that's kind of how white people like i would say there were very opportunity driven we very

00:31:05.960 much we make the most of the opportunities we're given that i would say that's normal in white

00:31:11.240 culture the boss says jump you say how high they say work 80 hours a week i guess that's what i'm

00:31:17.640 doing this week and i'm just i just don't get that level of like work ethic anyway so this youtuber

00:31:29.000 i went on a show before and i kind of had the same moderation issues where he would just have

00:31:32.920 one guy take over the whole panel that wasn't even famous there was like way bigger people on

00:31:38.200 and i'm like what are you doing you know and it would be one thing if the person was making

00:31:42.360 coherent points but they weren't so anyways he comes to me and he says hey we can have you on

00:31:52.520 a panel and i'm like hey i'll come back on the show why not and maybe this could be a weekly

00:31:59.800 thing and i said i think a good topic let me i don't want to misquote so i'll go through the dms

00:32:18.440 no i'm not i'm not showing any i'm not showing any i'm just

00:32:21.640 i want to summarize i want to make sure i'm i'm not misquoting or miss summarizing

00:32:29.800 oh, he invited me on a live. I asked the topic. I said, I can't do this time. Then we were going

00:32:42.360 back and forth on time. I said, a panel is fine. I want a contentious topic that people will

00:32:49.300 disagree on. Oh, I have an idea, black fatigue. So this was my idea, but this is what I'm thinking

00:32:54.540 we're talking about so i come on this panel um how do we make that a question these topics are

00:33:00.460 doing well i can pull clips blah blah blah you can we do heavy debates every week tell me what

00:33:06.140 you want to tackle and we'll make it happen the main topics relationships black fatigue this is

00:33:15.740 what i'm dm'd from him and just in case anything you want send i have this on the record and i i

00:33:22.620 i mean this with all respect but i don't like being gaslit i really don't i don't like being

00:33:27.020 lied about i don't like it when people say i said things i didn't say or did things i didn't do

00:33:31.820 i don't like that and i used to ignore it but i'm just to the point that it's just

00:33:36.620 i'm i'm gonna defend myself okay so whatever we go back and forth on the time i even said

00:33:43.120 we got to talk about why black women keep fucking these fat women

00:33:45.820 anyway so i actually go on the show and this one guy's just over talking everybody and i'm like i

00:33:54.760 just can't if this is how it's going to be moderated i gotta go he begs me to come back

00:34:00.740 he begs me i say okay i say okay that's fine

00:34:06.940 and this is me after i come back and this is where we're going to get into the debate

00:34:12.460 and I'm going to react and I'm going to give you my thoughts. And then I'm going to bring up some

00:34:16.260 panelists to react. Ellie, are you, she's chewing my desk. Okay. All right. So let me

00:34:25.760 now, mind you, to be fair, the title was Vivica Fox and 50 cents. Maybe that was in the email,

00:34:34.840 but I'm thinking, okay, I came on here expecting to talk about black fatigue. That was what I,

00:34:40.660 that was what i'm here to do i came in with black fatigue stats i'm ready to go

00:34:46.020 now mind you imagine accusing me of race baiting when the topic is black fatigue

00:34:54.500 how could i even do that

00:35:09.140 why if you can't talk about race why would you make that the topic okay so

00:35:15.060 all right we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna watch i think it would be funny to steal their

00:35:20.660 viewers i do think it would be funny so you guys should tell them in the chat to come over here

00:35:26.820 okay

00:35:29.620 and like the video we got three we got almost 4 000 people watching across platforms

00:35:35.700 dealing with these men

00:35:43.060 question for pearl and then you can actually respond and then we go to the fellas i see you cj

00:35:49.380 pearl do most women know about how these men move out there because in my head it comes future nick

00:35:57.940 cannon uh cam newton like usually the guy that has already a track record and women still flock

00:36:06.420 to them this is a very visible i don't think this is like no women know but we hate that we love

00:36:11.700 them like i love him so much i hate it i hate you know we hate that we love the criminals

00:36:18.580 the players the rappers in this case the entertain the really unstable men we just love

00:36:23.620 and you could see this because when when women are young and hot that's when we that's who we pick

00:36:27.940 when we're old ugly and mind you this girl she's starting with the disrespect none of this is

00:36:32.900 called out okay none none of they're not checking this which whatever i'm kind of walking into the

00:36:38.100 lions down you see the face this woman's making none of this is going to be checked i'll get

00:36:42.500 checked but they won't get checked and you wonder why black women are so bad it's like

00:36:46.740 like the black men never hold them accountable for anything and if they crash out then i'm the

00:36:52.860 bad guy it's like all right and used up i mean that's when we go for the stable guys

00:36:57.620 and we do a very good job convincing them we love them so i don't know if any girl comes in and is

00:37:06.080 like i love the stable guys it's like at 20 did you did you uh usually not so um and we can't

00:37:14.440 some degree we cannot help that we are attracted to men that show um signs of dominance um i think

00:37:20.720 a lot of us would we wish we could turn it off but we can't it's just what we're attracted to

00:37:25.240 we're biologically hardwired to do that um unfortunately so we're biologically hardwired

00:37:32.600 so she's offended and i would assume it's because she dated a criminal i'm gonna assume i i think

00:37:39.280 i think there was someone there because women get offended by this when they're dating the

00:37:43.860 stable guy and they're like oh he can't know he can't know did you say you were biologically

00:37:49.120 hardware to uh want chaotic criminal dominant yeah dominant because you know you got to think

00:37:56.260 of like ted bundy you know he had he had women yeah yeah he had women writing him love letters

00:38:01.300 i didn't he he impregnated a woman he impregnated a woman while he was in prison for murdering women

00:38:08.000 this is a real luigi manny mangi i don't think that's a woman thing i think that's a uh a thing

00:38:14.500 that certain women do well you now she's going into the not all women are like that so i'm saying

00:38:21.860 women like criminals and by the way i started with a white example it was white women that

00:38:26.000 were crushing on ted bundy and luigi mangioni but i don't i don't like being disingenuous

00:38:32.160 i don't like when women gaslight and pretend they don't know something

00:38:36.460 now i don't know much about this woman but i just have a hard time believing that she doesn't know

00:38:43.220 women that have dated criminals i just don't believe it and it's because of the stats when

00:38:49.420 it comes to the black community and my personal experience right so this isn't just facts data

00:38:56.960 and statistics it's also just what i've experienced is that black women just tend to go for more thug

00:39:01.920 like guys you know they they they like the criminals um black men that i know that date

00:39:08.240 black women they've had a similar experience and i'm okay with people having different experiences

00:39:13.280 but i what i don't like is being disingenuous so anyways you are there's no there's no

00:39:23.040 not every woman does that there's different levels of dominance um however we are still

00:39:29.040 attracted to dominant men and that does come in the form of if a man can kill someone else

00:39:35.360 uh we know he could protect us biologically so that just is what it is so you find you you

00:39:41.760 equate dominance with you find a man that can dominate and harm a woman attractive that's one

00:39:49.840 way that men describe it or that's one way that men do it and women do select those men

00:39:56.240 so i try not to apply morality so she's trying to make it about me she's like pearl do you like

00:40:00.720 criminals do you and it's so tiring so i'm trying morality to this good or bad it doesn't matter

00:40:06.880 because women do pick criminals criminals are more men that have committed a violent crime

00:40:11.360 are actually more likely they are more they are more likely to reproduce than uh men that have it

00:40:18.240 so i just she's trying to be a right she's being a before i'm being a to her

00:40:23.680 i like it let's just keep it a buck let's just keep it a buck will they check this no

00:40:28.960 she's saying oh speak for yourself

00:40:34.880 i don't date criminals as far as as far as i know i i there's no one i've dated that is a criminal

00:40:42.960 record so it's just do you know what i mean i i don't know anything about this woman

00:40:53.680 didn't make this world you know i didn't make women write love letters has that been your

00:41:00.040 experience like are you attracted to criminals to be fair i i don't know many criminals so

00:41:05.420 that hasn't been my experience personally sounds like these are setups they are not debating they're

00:41:11.840 attacking your character well i mean i don't even i i didn't even mind a little bit of a setup

00:41:20.620 because i i did feel like i could i could cook i didn't think i would lose this is there another

00:41:26.620 super chat i missed or was it just that one black fathers were targeted for destruction

00:41:32.560 starting with the great society that in crowded ghettos are the main causes of what you see today

00:41:37.540 is there any other supers i missed oh there's another one when europeans first arrived in

00:41:46.240 sub-saharan africa there is no structure more permanent than a grass hut and only plates were

00:41:51.260 in lips nothing much has changed oh i didn't even see all these this is so inauthentic your audience

00:41:58.300 fishing no i actually think these are the most authentic streams i've done it's not like this

00:42:04.200 was a topic that i want to cover i mean it gives people ammo on me right i dated i people throw in

00:42:12.460 my face um who i like my ex-boyfriend all the time good guy nothing against him but people do

00:42:21.200 that and this just gives people ammo to like make fun of me right it's it makes it uncomfortable

00:42:27.840 sometimes in public i don't know what people have seen me say or clipped but i just couldn't

00:42:33.000 not talk about this because this this was just the most like um this was just a canon moment for me

00:42:45.420 this was a canon moment um these experiences that i talk about i never in a million years

00:42:52.340 thought my friends would do this to me and i can't unsee it now all right let me let me keep

00:43:00.440 going but but i mean i've interviewed a thousand people a good chunk of them did you know procreate

00:43:07.940 and date men with felonies that's not uncommon so especially especially in the especially in

00:43:13.860 the black community if we're going to be honest that's well yeah well and i don't know why you're

00:43:18.720 i don't know why you're pretending to not know what i'm talking about you can now this is what

00:43:23.320 started the whole fight now it doesn't seem like i'm i'm doing this to insult her attack her i all

00:43:29.220 i want her to do is be intellectually honest and be like look because let's say she doesn't know

00:43:36.400 in her personal life black women that date criminals

00:43:39.200 are we gonna pretend we're not like you didn't see all these rappers with a billion baby mamas

00:43:46.560 that black women love really i mean i don't really follow the rap scene but like we're not

00:43:55.420 going to talk about um what is it poosh i see king vaughn and i'm not saying i'm sure white

00:44:04.100 women dip in there too that would be very exciting for a white woman but let's not pretend that's

00:44:10.300 not more common in the black community than the white it just is good old jazz that's her whole

00:44:15.640 mo she does this on every show she's on pearl what's wrong with the blacks and i don't i just

00:44:22.300 don't like dishonesty like these tips but you can't gaslight me i don't know what you're

00:44:29.660 talking about i don't think you know anything about the black community but i will say now look

00:44:33.420 half this panel thinks this is funny okay about the white community oh it's a lot of white women

00:44:42.220 that find you know men who kill other women attractive those women that were but i won't

00:44:47.800 gaslight you about it i will gas and so that's the thing she says stuff about white women and white

00:44:54.440 people we can handle this i say you know they'll say but pearl but pearl let's talk about white

00:45:03.320 issues we can again i i talk about conservative christians all the time that i would say are

00:45:10.120 primarily white all the time but

00:45:22.200 you know i i actually think i'm nicer to black people because i'm honest

00:45:27.640 all these other white people will lie but they're thinking the same thing they see the crackheads

00:45:31.800 on the street i mean and i are there white crackheads yeah but let's let's let's be real

00:45:38.120 about the majority here you know i would say that's true that's true there are there are

00:45:42.600 white women that do that hold on hold on hold on real quick hey hold on i'm gonna say it again hold

00:45:48.040 on real quick i don't even know why she even brought up the black community you can't say

00:45:54.200 that now mind you he's not offended here he only gets offended when the women start nagging him

00:45:59.560 you're gonna see he's not offended in the beginning he's chill until she lands like you

00:46:04.280 like i want you to like right now we got strong person uh personalities on the panel please let

00:46:09.960 the person finish and then respond you can't say the person interrupted you and why you talking

00:46:14.440 over me while i'm talking if you already interrupted the person let her finish you the first person

00:46:19.080 that uh respond they can respond to her jazz you're the first person just let her land

00:46:23.560 i did literally no you didn't let her land jazz it's fine let's start now

00:46:28.680 okay well you asked me why i brought it up um the black community because you're black so you

00:46:35.800 you would know because like i don't have the whole panel's laughing look i mean it's a fair

00:46:44.120 assumption look i think that if people assumed i came from a rich white background or a wealthy

00:46:51.160 a middle upper class they would be right but you know is it fair to assume that black people

00:46:57.640 know black people and that they see black culture on tv and in the media

00:47:04.280 i mean i think that's a fair assumption i i really do

00:47:11.000 the same reason you brought up the white community because i'm one and she did the same thing

00:47:18.840 if you're done first of all that's very disrespectful

00:47:21.080 now mind you these two start crashing out and instead this is how monsters are made

00:47:29.820 because he could he could option a check these two but he doesn't he won't they want this sit

00:47:37.060 and it's no ilkin or i think that's how i say your name and it's no disrespect for you but

00:47:42.960 i'm just getting tired of men doing this like be a man and i i hate having to be a woman to say

00:47:50.280 that it's so out of order but it's just you know it's kind of like the dad that always rewards

00:47:57.880 the bratty sisters it's exhausting

00:48:01.260 it's exhaust it's exhausting you just think

00:48:06.780 could you punish the one that did the wrong thing

00:48:10.920 no it was begging me to come on the show

00:48:16.220 thank you hey friends we don't need that leaves jess can and delete letter and delete

00:48:21.940 go ahead go ahead like i said next go ahead jess for let let jess finish please let's go ahead

00:48:29.480 i will yeah go ahead

00:48:30.940 like i said we were speaking about uh relationships in general nobody said anything about black or

00:48:40.640 white until you brought it up. And for what reason, I don't know. It didn't add anything

00:48:46.820 to the conversation. First of all, I was speaking on, you're speaking on the nature of women

00:48:52.580 and how we are all naturally attracted to men who are criminals. And then you made a

00:48:58.300 point to say, excuse me, no, that is not the case at all for black women. Now, if you're

00:49:03.440 talking about people that are in poverty, people that live in certain situations and

00:49:08.980 Now again, it's gonna completely derail the conversation

00:49:13.700 Because she's gonna keep saying why do you keep talking about black? It's just like

00:49:19.200 It's again, this is tone policing

00:49:21.200 the black men have been arrested can you stop cutting her off hey one second one second one

00:49:26.880 second i got you i got you i got you i got you you don't have to ask i got you

00:49:34.720 my dad just make some make some notes for a letter that's my fault it's fine it's fine

00:49:40.880 why doesn't interrupt it it's just weird that you would even have to bring up a um a race of people

00:49:47.680 to even have the conversation which lets me know that you don't really have information on the

00:49:52.240 conversation you're just spewing points to try to get a rise out of people because that's all you

00:49:57.360 know as it pertains to why women choose the women they want or the kind of men that they date there

00:50:03.120 are so many different reasons for that you can't equate a person that has a felony to them being a

00:50:08.080 violent criminal that's not always the case because i agree there are some people that marry men and

00:50:13.840 women that have felonies in their background that doesn't necessarily mean that they are violent

00:50:19.360 and then to say that black women are the most prone to violent criminals steal their viewers

00:50:25.360 guys get in their chat say get pearl back within our community you don't know about our community

00:50:32.320 pearl and if we're going to talk about and she says i don't know about the community well

00:50:37.040 maybe i don't know as much as you but again i lived in a pretty black area for like two years

00:50:43.840 I mean, I know something.

00:50:46.300 I've been in entertainment for five.

00:50:48.100 It's a good, I mean.

00:50:51.240 What's happening, if we're going to make it about a race thing,

00:50:54.000 let's figure out what's going on in these white communities,

00:50:56.640 in these white homes, when you all are raising all the mass shooters,

00:51:00.120 y'all raising kids that are taking guns to shoot at other kids,

00:51:03.360 y'all going into public spaces.

00:51:05.360 And I'm sure you're going to talk about black on black crime or whatever,

00:51:08.800 but we can debunk all of that because that's through proximity.

00:51:11.680 the point is is that you didn't have to make it about black or white keep it general because it's

00:51:16.800 very disrespectful for you to try to pigeonhole black women when you don't know any of us at all

00:51:21.920 to make that assumption that that's what we are prone to none of these women on this stage myself

00:51:27.540 tyranny or even athena are dating any man that is of a criminal or that are violent so watch what

00:51:34.960 you say up here you got a really smart mouth and if you're going to have a conversation try to be

00:51:39.240 respectful and all this trying to get me to hurry up i'm gonna take my motherfucking time oh my god

00:51:44.040 she has the rave friends we don't need it when she lands she lands probably left all the chance

00:51:53.080 to reply everybody going to be quiet go ahead you done jess yeah i'm done i just don't i don't

00:51:58.920 understand why that was that was accepted like that that was wait wait one second one second

00:52:04.520 one second okay we shouldn't accept what she said to say that you should know as a black woman

00:52:12.520 because you all date criminals one second so my this is my opinion jess and correct me if i'm

00:52:18.280 wrong she punched you in the face you have the right to punch her back imagine the ratio of

00:52:24.280 vowels to consonants in this queen's name oh my god right is that fair if you felt that she

00:52:33.000 punch you in the face i have an opinion about this that i'm going to say later right but we

00:52:38.200 are letting you defend yourself we're not you're going to have two chance to land your plane and

00:52:43.720 burl you're going to have the chance to actually rebuttal what you said do you think that's fair

00:52:47.560 do you like what do you want to do can we go on just i would you make sure so everybody knows

00:52:51.720 where we at we we can move on okay go ahead behind you this could be a weekly thing how funny would

00:52:59.560 would it be to watch me do these type of debates once a week?

00:53:05.080 Imagine, this could be such a great show.

00:53:07.880 You guys see the vision here?

00:53:11.320 I give these YouTubers so much opportunity.

00:53:14.500 Pearl, and then we go back to the panel.

00:53:17.260 Okay, so you can tone police the simps and women that respond to shame,

00:53:21.540 but you're not going to tone police me.

00:53:23.420 So anyways, going back to the stats,

00:53:25.300 the reason that I said that was two reasons.

00:53:27.260 um the first is that i interviewed a thousand people um a good chunk of them were black women

00:53:33.300 and i just noticed that they had a propensity more likely than other races to date criminals

00:53:37.860 it's not really an insult as i could go into details about the types of men white women tend

00:53:43.060 to date that are irresponsible i've just noticed different trends in different communities and

00:53:47.040 it's kind of backed up by data because um 60 of black men have been arrested by the age of 25

00:53:53.600 so like if your dating pool is black guys six out of ten are going to have been arrested

00:54:00.080 why would i not think that it's more um

00:54:04.080 why would i not is it wouldn't that be a logical conclusion that she knows a black guy that's been

00:54:10.160 arrested yeah they said your blood pressure would go to unhealthy levels i don't know what's every

00:54:17.280 other week it seems low yeah i know they're not even arresting the black people black guys now

00:54:25.520 you know you know it's not to be rude but i think it's more common in that community than it is

00:54:33.520 other communities um in terms of mass shooters i think you said white people are the majority

00:54:39.920 of mass shooters um i would say that's that's true and i wouldn't crash out on you for saying that

00:54:46.560 so again if you want to get offended that is a choice and that is your choice and you have the

00:54:51.120 right to do that so so i want to touch on this and then i want cj and rig the ruler to pull up

00:54:57.200 and the reverse of the panel okay tyranny i see you too so coming from a world citizen

00:55:02.640 right because i live in portugal right now he's 2 a.m and and and pearl was in the uk for a while

00:55:08.240 too this is not a a black woman thing if you go to japan all those women love the yakuza until they

00:55:15.200 get older if you go to brazil all the who really cares what this guy has to say let me skip a

00:55:20.720 little bit big black woman in any oh my god he's just not entertaining i need better from you okay

00:55:28.000 if y'all like the conversation became racial it was pearl that actually did it okay no and we are

00:55:34.240 trying to figure out one second we are trying to figure out if this is baby i'm racial so what

00:55:41.200 But, and again, mind you, this is me with the prerequisite of thinking the topic is going

00:55:46.080 to be black fatigue.

00:55:48.720 I came in prepared.

00:55:50.620 On stats or not, the fucking cousins and fucking dogs, you can't statistically prove that shit.

00:55:58.120 Okay?

00:55:58.440 So what we're going to do is, CJ, what is the percentage of black men that are convicted

00:56:06.600 of a crime?

00:56:07.600 Not a racist, convicted of a crime.

00:56:10.000 before now they try to uh now they try to like push it like the white people are just out

00:56:16.300 arresting black people for no reason white people were done with this you know uh i think he i didn't

00:56:28.220 look up the conviction stat i got i just looked it up man arrested by age 25 not most but 49

00:56:34.500 percent of them are okay but that's irrelevant because the rest rest records like we need we

00:56:39.260 the convictions because you're not become a criminal because you were arrested you become

00:56:44.220 of black people have felonies what's the percentage 33 approximately 33 percent of

00:56:51.020 african-american adult males have a felony record which includes those who have been convicted of

00:56:56.540 crimes i'd have to dive in deeper to find like what age group but her stats were correct about

00:57:03.580 arrest um and and that might be something that people use like again inflammatory statements

00:57:10.780 obviously for content purposes but yeah it is 33 of adult males so i really wanted to say something

00:57:20.140 else so women want to control the uncontrollable but they want to they're going to test you

00:57:25.740 to see are you really uncontrollable so once so this poor guy i've been waiting all night

00:57:30.300 it's for a guy if they get that control over you they'll say this ain't the nigga i thought he was

00:57:37.680 he is controllable right so that's kind of why they like chaos you should have said that's why

00:57:43.260 they like criminals because even the law can't control them so once they get there

00:57:48.760 they're kind of miserable in the fact that they like the uncontrollable so they don't like being

00:57:54.700 on either side of the fence they don't like the fact that they that they like the uncontrollable

00:57:58.420 but then they try to wrestle the controller from you to see if you're uncontrollable it's a weird

00:58:03.240 dynamic and pearl is not wrong most black women like are more attracted to they have a higher

00:58:09.580 propensity to be attracted to to those men i don't know why y'all gotta it says spirit airlines

00:58:15.560 enters the chat yeah i i do i fly frontier and it's the i know what you're talking about

00:58:21.260 black power that's why that's where this racist come from like i told y'all before

00:58:27.700 it's the black woman i want to get it to get into this space can i finish can i finish can you cool

00:58:33.020 later now mind you like think about this she just called i don't even want to say it because i just

00:58:40.340 feel like that's so disrespectful these guys end up crashing out on me and she all i did was bring

00:58:47.320 up a stat and she called the black guy the double standards this is this is how the monsters are

00:58:57.960 created okay let them land no it's fine it's fine we're going to roll it isn't to mute yourself if

00:59:02.520 i meet you go ahead cj so yeah i think they want to get us into a war that we can't win so they can

00:59:09.080 go and be with the white man and that's a different topic but sorry the black women want to be in a war

00:59:17.560 i'm gonna ask about that later so they can okay

00:59:24.040 white guys are not gonna take black women and that's gonna be i'll get into that later but

00:59:29.880 white guys are the least black women are too fat i mean i'm just being honest like

00:59:35.640 white guys are not gonna do that maybe for like a one time if nobody knows

00:59:41.080 but i'm telling you i used to be big like i was like 40 pounds heavier

00:59:47.320 and white guys weren't really checking for me like that and black women were fat probably a

00:59:52.280 higher body fat percentage most of them than i did so it's like tyranny do you have a chance to

00:59:59.080 reply and then i'll get the best of the people that haven't talked especially be greek right

01:00:03.640 what did cj said that was wrong it's a battle of ideas one second tyranny remember this is the

01:00:10.200 battle of ideas you have an interrupted time to prove cj that what he said is wrong

01:00:16.840 no name calling for now later we can do it let's prove cj wrong why is he wrong that most black

01:00:23.400 women are attracted to this type of man um pearl no we're not it's not even what he said he said

01:00:29.640 they have a propensity like they're more likely to be most probably are let's just keep it a buck

01:00:36.360 let's just i mean when i was in london every other girl's ex was a rapper that was black

01:00:41.960 or a road they would call them road men i'm like

01:00:46.440 because they'll say it's just an american black woman problem i'm like that is not true i lived

01:00:50.760 in london it was the same there practice of them their men want us that's why they really hate us

01:00:55.560 because there was another wait hold on let me let me replay that let me replay that sorry

01:01:04.040 all right tyranny you have a chance to reply and then i'll get the best of the people that

01:01:13.000 haven't talked especially be greek right what did cj said that was wrong it's a battle of ideas one

01:01:19.800 second tyranny remember this is the battle of ideas you have an interrupted time to prove cj

01:01:26.040 that what he said is wrong no name calling for now later we can do it let's prove cj wrong why

01:01:33.800 easy wrong that most black women are attracted to this type of man um pearl no we're not attracted

01:01:40.680 to them their men want us that's why they really hate us because they can't there was another

01:01:44.840 question okay so our men want black women all right and look at black women if you're watching

01:01:56.840 the show i'm just gonna be real honest with you no other white people are gonna tell you this

01:02:03.800 um 54 of black women are obese that's really bad black women are 7 of the population 39 of the

01:02:17.660 abortions that's pretty bad when it comes to herpes about half of black women literally have

01:02:26.340 herpes and that that doesn't include gonorrhea hiv like that doesn't include but i know white

01:02:33.880 guys that think about this stuff they don't bang black women because they don't want to catch

01:02:37.440 anything like they might see a black a black girl that's a baddie but they don't know like obviously

01:02:42.320 if they're banging the criminals criminals aren't responsible people like do you think he's gonna

01:02:47.040 wrap it up when he doesn't care about the law like yeah like i'm just being 75 of black women

01:02:55.380 our baby moms now white women do lose our men to other races we do and i could i could i could really

01:03:02.580 talk about the the fallbacks of white women i really could i could go into a lot of detail

01:03:07.380 but it's not to black i mean there's the occasional like christian black girl that

01:03:11.140 are swooping you know where she's like like the candace owens of the war you know

01:03:16.020 you see that happen but that's just not like i'm in the field okay i go out every day i'm in city

01:03:21.780 like i see i see this stuff we lose our men um asian women usually take the white men that the

01:03:29.140 white women don't really want so they'll take like the nerdier guy because because it's it's

01:03:33.460 like it's kind of like when a white girl dates a black guy it's going to be more of like a malcolm

01:03:38.420 than a criminal because like that's very exciting it's like oh my god you know she's when the asian

01:03:43.780 girls go to white men even if he's a nerd that's gonna be like oh this is so exciting like when

01:03:50.340 you go to interracial i i don't think people need as um thug of people because it's already like

01:03:57.140 exciting and like bad you know because the families whatever okay the other thing is um

01:04:02.580 we lose our guys to um latina women because they're a little bit more feminine like when

01:04:08.740 i was growing up i didn't i didn't know how to cook and clean i do now but when i was a kid

01:04:12.980 like when i was younger hell no because i was playing volleyball for eight hours a day you

01:04:18.100 know what i mean like between like we're out like doing stuff so we're not really like doing the

01:04:24.100 domestic stuff so the men white women will lose their man their their men to the latinas but

01:04:31.060 black women yeah vietnamese girls yeah yeah look i am not saying we're like

01:04:36.900 you know all sunshine and rainbow i think we're the worst in divorce court like black women they

01:04:40.900 put their aggression up front they're like we'll fight you white women are like we're really nice

01:04:44.900 and then divorce we're like hey you know it's like that's what we do um especially the christian

01:04:50.260 women obviously like because the christian women that are white they have to call the men abusive

01:04:53.940 because they can't lose their reputation right they're like oh i i'm a godly woman they're like

01:04:59.860 well then you can't get a divorce and then they're like well he was abusive and then the white men

01:05:06.340 just eat that up black men know that people are these women are lying about abuse white men they

01:05:11.860 haven't really caught up yet they still believe women but black men a lot of times they were

01:05:15.860 beat by their moms or something so they're like they're like i don't i don't just believe these

01:05:20.820 women um but white white men their wives were like at work and like you know the kids are in daycare

01:05:28.180 so they don't even really know their wives that well so anyways i'm gonna keep going there was

01:05:35.140 another quest no no you have to be one second i do again you don't need one second half of black

01:05:42.500 women have herpes and this is what set them off now the reason i said that is because she said

01:05:50.980 that and this is maybe i misunderstood it but she said that black women are taking the white

01:05:55.940 men and i'm like that's just not true and it's because of the stats it's because of the high

01:06:00.340 abortion rate even bigger the obesity i think men if a girl's hot enough they'll risk herpes

01:06:05.140 but they're not gonna they're not gonna do a fat chick they are not gonna do a fat chick

01:06:11.780 they are just not gonna they might risk on aria a but they are not gonna do a fat woman they just

01:06:18.500 are not gonna do it so like i and when 80 of black women i think i think it's 80 are overweight like

01:06:26.900 you know it's crazy like like candace owens because if a white guy's into black women not

01:06:31.300 many are but there is the occasional all she did was have like no tattoos um no incurable stds i

01:06:39.540 think cannot be fat and she got married into 150 million dollars like do you guys know you would

01:06:46.100 have black women have such an opportunity with like there aren't many white men that are into

01:06:51.060 that before the ones that are you know it's kind of like and the black men have understood this

01:06:55.380 they're like i can get these blonde snow bunnies if i'm just good at football i'm gonna go be really

01:06:59.540 good at football let me go to that white like that that college campus you know they but white

01:07:06.660 but black women like if they want the white guys they got to start you know losing the weight but

01:07:11.220 they're just not they're not going that way i know candace owens in that degree she was smart

01:07:17.860 um because there is going to be a small percentage most people prefer their own race but there is

01:07:22.260 going to be a percentage that like do want to do interracial and you got to market yourself to them

01:07:30.020 failure of this panel to be sponsored by bail bond service tells you all the needs

01:07:34.420 all they need to know about their lack of business sense

01:07:39.620 now one second one second one second uh

01:07:45.060 the crash out and i just can't believe i was being lectured by a man with a hand tattoo named fatty

01:07:50.740 i'm like really this is who's gonna lecture me truly everybody one second one second one second

01:07:56.100 Now one second stop stop talking stop talking a pearl. Let me ask you something pearl. Are you trying to get the reaction of us?

01:08:08.660 It's a lot. They always think I'm trying to get a reaction. I'm trying to be charismatic, right?

01:08:13.460 I'm trying to keep it light and you know, it's a show

01:08:17.220 But in all honesty, I was told the topic was black fatigue. That was why I came on

01:08:21.860 why would you tell me that was the topic because that's not if i can't even bring up black stats

01:08:28.520 like well i'm asking you a serious question right because we had you on the panel once

01:08:33.480 and andrew wilson was with us right and andrew wilson all of a sudden starting to do

01:08:38.860 full bull remarks and i think they just they do this when someone's saying things that are smart

01:08:43.780 they're like are you trying to get a reaction i'm like no i'm just making sense i'm talking about

01:08:48.400 black brands and all that and i ask him hey brother i see your content all the time you

01:08:56.020 usually don't talk like this so my question is and be honest about it is there any of your

01:09:01.120 statements you're doing today today uh statements that are made to trigger the crowd that you have

01:09:07.580 right now i actually came here prepared because i thought the topic was black fatigue so i came

01:09:12.340 prepared with stats facts data and statistics i i can't but the topic is not black fatigue right

01:09:18.840 that's what we spoke about but is the topic black fatigue that's what you told me the topic was no

01:09:25.360 no no i'm asking one second please is the topic back for me so i invited hold on pearl i invited

01:09:30.260 you right and i told you already that the next topic would be back uh black fatigue we already

01:09:35.060 addressed it but what is the relevant part about making it about race when we hear about the

01:09:39.740 okay so he said this was the topic

01:09:42.160 and now he's saying why would you bring that up i'm like

01:09:47.580 is this a woman i'm talking to relationships why go straight it's that's twice that's going to

01:09:53.900 trigger people and now if they start saying stuff about white people now we're going to have a race

01:09:57.680 war we want to have the conversation as a traditional married woman i can tell you pearl

01:10:03.240 is not the girl she pretends to be oh i'm not traditional neither are you sam that's the thing

01:10:08.800 what i what i don't do is pretend to be something i'm not um you can't be traditional in this

01:10:14.600 society but were you a virgin on your wedding day and then they'll gaslight intentional about

01:10:20.220 the relationships but it is turning into race conversation instead of a relationship conversation

01:10:24.940 that's all we're addressing we want to have the conversation but it's becoming a race conversation

01:10:28.700 and we will have the race conversation hold on real quick big rick we want to have the black

01:10:35.300 and white conversation but when it's said when it's almost like it said to instigate or start

01:10:40.180 stir something up it seems like it's becoming racial you're saying something and again this

01:10:44.240 all started because i'm really trying to explain it she's she made it racial by saying well black

01:10:51.500 women are taking your men and i'm like no you guys have herpes we don't i'm trying to i'm trying to

01:10:58.440 you know i what well what i thought was that we were adults here and we could talk about facts

01:11:03.320 data and statistics without getting upset maybe we're not I don't know mind you the girl on the

01:11:20.100 left literally called CJ a coon like saying that word she she called him that I mentioned fact

01:11:30.380 stated statistics and i'm i'm they crash a conversation about criminals and you say

01:11:36.140 black woman after herpes like it's a very that's true she said that she actually brought it up

01:11:44.060 first and you guys are talking to me she brought you brought up the fact that black women like

01:11:49.900 criminals and then when she said what if she said that white women like men who smell like dogs

01:11:54.540 then it becomes racial you i don't mind that's okay i don't get offended one side's getting

01:11:59.580 offended okay as long as but and that's what happens that's how black people get powers they

01:12:04.140 get offended white people don't and then we always have to concede and i'm just to the point if you

01:12:08.780 get offended it's just not my problem it's not look just know that if that happens then it becomes a

01:12:13.900 racial conversation okay so what you can't you can't talk about no no but what happens is if we

01:12:21.580 have a racial conversation and it makes everybody else we first of all i don't care about how we

01:12:26.540 look and regardless to money and all them things i do care about how people respect themselves so

01:12:30.300 we should we should have be able to have a respectful conversation without making it

01:12:34.540 remind you i didn't call somebody i i didn't insult anybody lately racial nobody not being

01:12:41.900 okay well when she made it the other day with me

01:12:48.220 the girl at the bottom is like these black women make it racial with us all the time and that's

01:12:54.980 they do they do when i was doing my show black it would like be every other show

01:12:59.840 you're a privileged white girl i am so what one second i want to hear from her and see what she

01:13:08.100 thinks about what we say well what i if i'm being honest with you if i'm being honest i think you

01:13:14.760 guys are overreacting um i think the guys are white knighting a little bit for the women um i

01:13:19.080 don't think we need to get emotional because there's facts about race and if you can't handle

01:13:23.460 it i can go i don't mind yeah no but but the thing is we are not being emotional because

01:13:27.880 let me give you an example of one second please one second please i'm gonna get he says we're

01:13:33.000 not emotional but he starts yelling i'm gonna bounce i'm gonna bounce no no it's fine let me

01:13:39.260 say let me tell you one thing before you go before you go pearl so hey please one second

01:13:45.420 so so that's the thing right pearl if i was playing the same game that you are playing

01:13:49.980 i would say you know about these things because you are the one that dated the black bum a black

01:13:55.100 homeless man right i would literally come out of the woodwork because i know your story god forbid

01:14:01.980 and he's not black woman they're just that are just addicted to two black bombs you are addicted

01:14:07.180 to a black bomb because that was the person that you actually dated for a bunch of years right

01:14:15.260 he was not homeless

01:14:18.300 no he actually wasn't but that's what everyone says

01:14:21.580 you were sleeping on your house no no it's not the full i mean it doesn't matter but yes but that

01:14:26.940 but my point is this pearl we are treating you with respect you can definitely touch on race we

01:14:31.660 can literally do shows about trace put them and then he crashes out the table to you and you can

01:14:36.860 do whatever you want but if we are going to try to either get a clip of poor axe he was a nice guy

01:14:43.580 too he was a nice guy he was not actually poor guy he just gets he just gets dragged in maybe herpes

01:14:52.780 is caused by hair dyes straighteners full moments or something like that we know more about you than

01:14:59.020 you know about us so if you want to go there we can go there i take my gloves off and we can do

01:15:03.740 whatever he wants and if nobody can be offended because of black this and black that you are

01:15:08.540 going to talk about the time where you were fucking a black homeless man uh a fat motherfucker

01:15:14.940 that you were having in your house right fatty you're fat too it's like

01:15:21.900 oh my god absolutely you have no cities and no ass you are mad at me because i'd say that's true

01:15:28.380 i'm just flat as a board as white women are it's it just is what it is you know

01:15:32.300 and they they just and again this is where I'm going back to you that's why

01:15:39.020 you meant right that's why you meant right cuz I have more titties than you

01:15:42.980 again again I thought we were adults so that we could talk about oh we are we

01:15:47.600 are definitely adults let me ask you something what do you think what do you

01:15:50.480 think about black fatigue all right so I do appreciate you guys having me on I

01:15:55.400 really do can you say what you think about black fatigue before you go I

01:15:58.540 i really did want to do this um but apparently we can't do the facts data and statistics thank

01:16:04.220 you guys so much for having me on if you want to do that my channel if we came on your show

01:16:12.300 i should i should have then i decided just to stream so anyways this could have been this is

01:16:17.580 just another example i give a black person an opportunity i say hey if you can just manage

01:16:22.540 this panel i'll come on once a week we could do this weekly do you know what that would do for

01:16:26.620 the numbers the views and i just this is like an over and over again thing i i don't know why i

01:16:34.340 keep doing it it's like racism probably would benefit me like all right so um i did invite a

01:16:44.320 few of the panelists that didn't crash out to speak their piece so i'm gonna bring up doug mpa

01:16:49.660 and cj doug mpa is a our moderator and uh he co-hosts at times and we're gonna bring them

01:16:56.300 both up to you know we'll start our own panel here oh my goodness hey cj how's it going what's going

01:17:04.860 on what's going on hey what's going on y'all how's it how's it going doug mpa man you you know how it

01:17:15.400 is on these streets let me tell you guys like here's the thing i hate the fact that el con ali

01:17:23.580 works with fatty fatty's a he's in portugal what the hell does he have to say about black america

01:17:30.260 period like how did he get here how who let him in i don't get it like fatty is this this isn't

01:17:39.820 pearl's opinion this isn't cj's this is mine fatty can't speak on black america at all pearl has more

01:17:46.420 of an ability to speak on black america than fatty because she's american

01:17:54.580 who goes on his panels why and then pearl has two million subs she's the biggest person on there

01:18:01.620 they're interrupting her not letting her speak and then jazz is an absolute demon she's a demon

01:18:08.500 she's what's wrong with black america you see i've dealt with women like jazz my entire life

01:18:16.420 Jazz is the penultimate example of what's wrong with American black women. I say it on my channel. I'll say it here. This is not parole abuse. American black women are the scum of the earth. No, no men have it worse, have worse women to pick from than American black women, than American black men.

01:18:35.560 80% of black women

01:18:37.440 maybe 20% are decent

01:18:39.460 but 80% of black women

01:18:40.940 you could Thanos snap them out of here

01:18:43.260 like the freaking

01:18:44.580 Infinity War

01:18:46.940 and no one would

01:18:48.820 notice and the ones who did notice wouldn't care

01:18:51.700 now you made me say oh Doug MPA

01:18:55.620 he's going off he's going on his rent

01:18:59.360 you may say oh Doug MPA

01:19:03.400 what about your mom if your mom's

01:19:05.520 black you know what f her too how about that oh my god this is my guy is tripping all right so let

01:19:10.740 me go let me say this okay so oh sorry i'm done all right so i'm gonna start off by saying

01:19:19.300 batty and ilcon are my boys feel me so i love them boys over there those are my guys and i don't know

01:19:25.960 who the fuck the misfits are so don't even act like i do i do not but okay so i agree with what

01:19:32.660 most of what you were saying pearly um i think that women are convincing us what to be offended

01:19:42.060 by so i have a new little premise that we are around each other so much i think we are becoming

01:19:48.420 more like them and they might be coming more like us you know so they're teaching us what to be

01:19:54.800 who to be they're getting us to bow down to them like we're the women in these relationships and

01:19:59.780 they're the men wow that's a really good point that's what if you're around somebody if you're

01:20:08.960 sorry what'd you say about they want to start a war between black men and white men so they can

01:20:17.820 date the white men oh yeah can you expand on that is that was that what you're saying or did you

01:20:22.920 yeah that's what i was saying let me tell him like all right so i got that from my boy tommy

01:20:28.940 i know i don't know if y'all know tommy sotomayor is oh yeah oh gee let's go that's one of his

01:20:34.380 points so i believe that he's right i think black women are are trying to start a war because they

01:20:43.020 really want white men that's why they put all that weave in their hair and they want to be

01:20:49.020 white women that's why they talk so much crazy stuff about white women

01:20:52.140 and what else yeah they're trying to start a war so they can get white men but white men don't want

01:20:59.460 them like you said they don't want them they obese they got a lot of bad stats that's not

01:21:03.700 on their side that's why women especially black women hate stats women really hate stats in

01:21:08.740 general they don't like logic they don't like stats because you can't manipulate with when

01:21:13.360 using stats and logic so women don't even women don't like those things and turn on the ac now

01:21:19.980 that's the name of my channel let me so go follow your boys it's me and my boy arnold

01:21:23.740 yeah guys subscribe to his channel how many subscribers do you have oh we don't got that

01:21:28.220 many no i'm saying we could see how many we could get in a stream okay i got we got 239 right now

01:21:34.140 239 guys can we get into 300 this stream yeah i'm gonna put it in the chat yeah let's let's put it

01:21:41.100 in the chat well if you want to host a panel show once a week there's an opportunity that's opened

01:21:49.980 i don't want to step on nobody's toes so i'll come on your shoulder if you want me up here

01:21:55.740 yeah um okay so what did you think about um what like the original point was

01:22:06.060 are you from like a black area i'm from inglewood california yeah okay and did you see me and i

01:22:11.980 lived in memphis tennessee did you see black women dating criminals or was that just completely out

01:22:17.820 out of bounds like i said on the show i agree with your point that black women i think women

01:22:24.460 in general have a propensity to date like more violent people but i think black women have a

01:22:29.100 higher propensity i think they do it more more often i don't know yes i think so you're right

01:22:36.140 yeah well because i was just thinking it wasn't really to make it racial but i just didn't like

01:22:40.860 that she's pretending she didn't know when i'm like gaslighting that's what was annoying me i

01:22:45.740 was like well one i thought the topic was black fatigue that is what the guy told me so that's

01:22:54.300 i maybe the title that's something else but i'm like but the second thing i'm like in the dms

01:23:00.300 you said black fatigue you said we could do that so i'm like what but then the second thing

01:23:06.940 the only reason i brought it up was i just didn't i didn't like her pretending she didn't know and

01:23:11.660 i'm like come on oh yeah jess i don't know that you know no i don't know her but i'm like you

01:23:17.260 have a criminal in your past i don't you've you've dated one i just don't believe it so she's been

01:23:22.940 making her rounds on youtube i don't know if you um watch some of these shows on youtube but she's

01:23:27.500 been making her rounds and she's definitely a feminist um i think she hates men and you know

01:23:33.180 how women project how they feeling on onto men so she would say that men hate women because that's

01:23:39.340 how they that's how she felt about men and that's how most women do so these feminists they talk

01:23:43.420 about you hate women you hate women we talk we try to correct women they always talk about how

01:23:47.180 we hate them it's just projection because most women hate men or don't like men

01:23:52.300 yeah and so i have what i call the feminist conundrums the feminist conundrum is you want

01:23:58.540 a man but you hate men so how are you going to figure that out and then and then you don't want

01:24:03.820 a man to approach because because men are creepy and all this stuff but then women won't approach

01:24:09.340 um court or marry a man so now we're just staring at each other

01:24:13.220 the other thing too i think most black men would prefer to marry a black woman it's just like

01:24:20.260 the stats i was talking about like when i've dated interracially the most of the guys said they like

01:24:27.880 would have preferred to be with a black woman but it's like they just kept fumbling and so they're

01:24:32.360 like i gotta go elsewhere uh marvel at the top shelf white athletes marrying black women yeah

01:24:38.280 doesn't exist like it doesn't exist hey i miss kelsey almost married that woman yeah yeah she

01:24:46.380 fumbled like she could have that's what i mean and that's the like um because there are white

01:24:51.880 guys that have that fat like not i don't want to say fetish but like they're in that's their thing

01:24:55.880 you know but again it's just the obesity like that's the biggest here's one of the things

01:25:01.700 with black women that they don't understand a man will smash a black woman but like a man has to

01:25:07.780 think about his kids okay like you want to have a black wife and a half black child right see if a

01:25:18.260 black guy marries a white woman he's black and his kids are still black but you're a white guy

01:25:24.460 and you have a black wife your kid is black but you're white yeah and a lot of black guys are

01:25:30.600 like uh-uh this is not gonna happen yeah it's more important to dads that they the kids look

01:25:35.620 like them i think then like the moms i think the dads care more about that so what then i'm sorry

01:25:43.680 period though like men of all races you know white guys want their kids to look like them

01:25:48.220 asian guys want the kids to look like it's not just a white a white guy with a black woman thing

01:25:53.300 it's just men period go ahead cj i'm sorry so to both of your points yes most men want their kids

01:25:58.320 to look like them most men want to date the women that's that's related to them or attached to them

01:26:03.680 their race but most men still like beauty so like to pearl's point if these women weren't so obese

01:26:10.160 and overweight they would still have a better chance to get with white men but they don't want

01:26:15.600 to lose the weight they don't want to they don't want to follow any kind of they don't want to do

01:26:19.600 anything to get the man that they want and a lot a lot of black women there's like again there's

01:26:26.160 going to be a market of white guys that are looking for if you want to go for the white guys

01:26:30.160 all you gotta do is be thin that's like half the battle because there are white guys that every like

01:26:35.440 every if you have 10 people from every race every like there's gonna be one that has like a thing

01:26:40.640 for either asian black whatever it is and i'm like you just gotta find them and be thin but

01:26:45.680 they just can't i would argue that it's never been easier for a black woman to be attractive

01:26:52.560 all you have to do is have a single digit dress size right and take that disgusting blonde weave

01:27:00.240 off your head and you're good to go oh no tattoos and no septum piercing and you're in the tattoos

01:27:08.320 they don't even mind the tattoos like that no that's the men are forgiving the tattoos now

01:27:13.920 they don't mind tattoo most men don't mind tattoos like that they don't want them all over the place

01:27:18.240 couple tattoos maybe um i was at my dentist office the other day and this really pretty

01:27:24.720 light screen girl was a dental assistant and she had a big you know the treble the music treble

01:27:31.760 on the side of her neck oh i was like bro come on hey what's going on yeah and i just couldn't

01:27:43.280 believe the one girl called you that oh my goodness and they like hand wave it they're

01:27:53.680 like oh just don't interrupt and i say black women have herpes and they're like pearl why

01:27:58.400 are you being antagonistic i'm like this girl called her macoon they must be on their side

01:28:05.200 for sure that's one of their tactics the shame must be on their side shame insult guilt and the

01:28:10.000 need to be right correct so that was one of her shaman tactics but i don't fall for that i'm

01:28:15.760 i'm too um too good at this feel me pearly and we got 255 just to um update y'all feel me so

01:28:25.440 yeah keep going over to his channel and subscribing you guys let's try to get up to 300.

01:28:31.120 yeah i'm putting the channel in the chat please go there and subscribe please and we appreciate oh

01:28:38.160 Oh, yeah. Ilkhan's in the chat if you want to bring him up.

01:28:43.500 Yeah, I can.

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01:29:08.160 really appreciate it and go over to cj's channel and subscribe let's get him over to that is real

01:29:14.800 that was that his real page okay yeah that's real that's really okay i was like sometimes people

01:29:22.000 pretend to be people so i was like let me just make sure yeah that's okay but yeah follow me

01:29:28.400 turn on the ac now but so yeah you were right about that um melanin agreed with you too she

01:29:35.920 wasn't offended melanin is really smart girl over there yeah i tried to send her a link too

01:29:43.040 i actually i would have sent the other girl link but i just need the other girl

01:29:48.080 the crazy yeah oh no oh jazz no actually i was thinking he said no but i was like here i could

01:29:54.480 mute her so it wouldn't be too bad through jazz or tyranny uh i would have i would have had them

01:30:00.880 both on as long as i can mute oh because as long as it wouldn't be so bad if they didn't have like

01:30:05.600 the white knighting like you know because that's the problem that like when they crash out if i

01:30:09.360 could just mute you then it's like calm down and then you can come back on so it's like

01:30:14.480 the biggest problem so tyranny is not as bad as jazz because jazz always says um can i finish

01:30:20.800 um can i finish oh my goodness but she doesn't let people finish

01:30:28.640 he was on the panel he's like look conversations don't go like that in real life you don't see

01:30:33.440 real people talking and someone says um can i finish um can i finish she she's it's like a

01:30:39.040 power thing but that's not how real conversation works it is insane and the worst part is oh sorry

01:30:47.920 no go ahead go ahead somebody through that misery she's in a relationship oh no come on

01:30:55.360 is in hell that has to be a nightmare muhammad ali quote i want my children to

01:31:03.280 look like me i want my wife to look like me it's a natural thing for one to want their want their

01:31:08.400 children to look like them there's nothing wrong with that yeah and that was that was my thing

01:31:12.080 because she just kept saying that like that black women were going to take the white men i'm like

01:31:17.200 statistically there's no way yeah we got our issues but white men do a lot of my brother

01:31:24.960 in school i remember i showed him a friend of mine to date and she was athletic she was on the

01:31:30.320 volleyball team and he said she was too fat i would say she was like 24 or 5 body fat i don't

01:31:37.120 know if you guys know what that looks like but like like like i don't know maybe like 10 pounds

01:31:43.520 above like skinny but and that's just kind of especially like if you get to high earning

01:31:49.520 white guys they're not they don't do that

01:31:51.600 hello how you doing early i'm good how's it how's it going i'm trying to stay black and die

01:32:01.740 so let me let me make a proper introduction first okay of just the timelines of things

01:32:08.820 that's happened before you ever even got on the panel you were probably one of the most were one

01:32:13.820 of the most supported people by the black men i won't say black women i know black women try to

01:32:18.120 tell you apart i cannot deny that at all because of information you do share but white women try

01:32:22.980 to tell you apart women in general try to tell you apart you've been somebody a lot of people

01:32:27.360 have been supportive before you even came on a panel when you came on anton daniel's panel maybe

01:32:31.260 two three years ago black women would say oh pearly racist pearly racist men came out to your

01:32:36.560 defense big time i wanted a man that came out to your defense i say hey pearly is not racist i and

01:32:41.860 i don't support that y'all are mad because she's saying factual information the problem is and i

01:32:47.160 stand corrected as well too i told you we do the black fatigue show but on the next one because

01:32:51.320 that was already already done but i probably didn't tell you beforehand i apologize for that

01:32:56.200 but one thing i'll never that you know that men won't do or women won't do is when the conversation

01:33:01.960 just goes to race when we're having a conversation about women in general that's something that that

01:33:06.600 through the whole panel left that person who came on my panel was talking too much i agree with you

01:33:11.880 right we need to control that and we need to moderate a little bit better i don't agree with

01:33:15.320 that but if i sat on a muslim a muslim man and woman's table jewish man and woman's table asian

01:33:21.000 man woman's table they're not going to let no other race of man or woman come on that table

01:33:25.000 and just blatantly go there disrespectfully i didn't even say if you're wrong or not it's the

01:33:28.760 fact that especially when you're laughing it's one thing if i go i say hey pearl if i want to

01:33:33.480 speak about injustice i go hey pearl there's a lot of injustice that's happened in law enforcement

01:33:38.200 and uh uh i know i could say something like white men white men are are trafficking kids laughing

01:33:44.520 and why you date white men if i'm saying it in bad faith it can come off as if i'm blatantly just

01:33:49.000 trying to disrespect white men but if i'm having a conversation with you going back and forth and

01:33:52.760 i'm saying hey hey pearl i understand white men can be a certain way but you know in this country

01:33:57.560 millions of men or women and children are trafficked it's the way it's the intent of

01:34:01.480 going straight there when we had that black fatigue conversation about right but but the

01:34:05.560 challenge is you're telling me we're talking about black fatigue so i'm coming in thinking

01:34:10.120 that this is the topic did i tell you our messages yes you did did i tell you we're not talking about

01:34:15.720 that today with on the next one did i not tell you that no on instagram not tell no you said

01:34:22.680 the next topic is black fatigue no i said that hold on watch let me show you maybe we had a

01:34:28.920 misunderstanding you go through it but you said i thought we were talking and it could be a cultural

01:34:35.960 barrier i said i thought we were talking about black fatigue i said that's next one this was

01:34:41.140 already planned next one is black fatigue so you might have talked thought that was the next topic

01:34:45.540 right but right but i'm saying it's putting the show why would i think it's out of bounds to bring

01:34:51.740 up race issues when one of the topics is black fatigue because why would that be out about why

01:34:57.180 would that be out of bounds because we didn't even get to that topic yet so if i just started

01:35:01.060 If I just said, well, you know, white man known for supposedly being pedos or dealing with older women or trafficking, all those kind of things.

01:35:08.920 I'm going to get offended because I'm an adult.

01:35:10.580 And that's what I can't stand.

01:35:11.840 I cannot stand when I'm dealing with people that get offended over anything.

01:35:15.300 Why have a debate show?

01:35:16.460 Why host things if you're going to get offended over facts, data, and statistics?

01:35:20.880 You know, I'm not coming in.

01:35:21.860 You had a panelist literally call one of your other panelists a coon.

01:35:25.800 And it was a slap on the wrist.

01:35:27.040 But I talk about facts, data, and statistics, and I'm the bad guy.

01:35:29.760 like that that is blatantly disrespectful you didn't kick her off no no no so when rick big

01:35:34.580 rick said he believed that people be using the facts and statistics and you don't back that up

01:35:38.560 you you went along with them yep we can't we can't use that you you literally when he said that

01:35:42.740 well i it's a nuanced point i've talked about it on the channel your first your first instance has

01:35:48.980 got to be real life right you can't you can't you're going to be easily manipulated if anyone

01:35:53.200 can put a study in your face and say this but i could give you when we're talking about black

01:35:57.120 crime i could give you real life examples i could give you examples in the media and i could give

01:36:01.440 you facts data and statistics if you don't have all three i understand having a difference if you

01:36:06.320 if you're talking about if you're talking about tough skin why do you want to kick people off

01:36:09.600 when we bring them to make the show for you we're bringing people let me let me i'm at you because

01:36:15.760 we set up a panel for you like literally so we can build with you you're going to kick the person

01:36:20.400 who's literally the contrarian or going against what you're saying you're saying have a tough skin

01:36:25.120 but you want to do you want to be do you want an entertaining show or do you want it to be boring

01:36:30.640 and i'm not trying to be i'm not trying to be rude but i got to two million subscribers i had

01:36:35.200 debates six days a week when you have someone that's not that entertaining over talking everybody

01:36:39.280 it's going to ruin the show that person that person right now before you got on there we had

01:36:44.400 500 people watching like we are small we're we have 5 000 subscribers on my channel he has two

01:36:50.800 when we get to forty hundred thousand a hundred subscribers our channel is going to be completely

01:36:54.880 different but that guy let me let me finish that guy is opposite of what your message is and it'd

01:37:00.960 be a perfect setup for you two to talk and you to make content off of it and clip it you want to

01:37:05.520 kick the person off that's going to make a great show for you but instead of doing that you went

01:37:10.400 to race are you trying to tell pearl about youtube you stop i know they always do like

01:37:16.000 and i'm not trying to be rude but you have 5 000 subscribers but he butted in hey sir if you want

01:37:30.560 to have a conversation where there's not an echo chamber which pearl asked us not to have a approach

01:37:35.200 uh echo chamber we hate echo chambers too why would you kick off the person who's going against

01:37:40.480 what you're saying so we have an actual conversation because you can't have a

01:37:44.320 a conversation when someone's monologuing for 10 minutes you can't you can't do it away yeah and so

01:37:50.320 no i didn't even think this guy was disrespectful but i'm like we're never going to get to the point

01:37:54.120 he doesn't land planes like in in a good debate you got to go back and forth back and forth like

01:37:58.900 i and i i just have a good knack for this i did six shows with 10 people on it six days a week

01:38:04.120 for a year and two years at four days a week there's nobody that's done more panels than me

01:38:09.120 and i just said like if i'm giving you if i'm giving you if i'm giving you three hours of my

01:38:17.060 time which i don't have to give you um and i'm giving you advice on how to do it i would just

01:38:23.280 take it if i were you but or you know yeah one person filibustering you literally was saying

01:38:31.040 he's out of bounds it wasn't about him monologuing it was you saying he's out of bounds and he got

01:38:35.680 on your nerves and you wanted to kick them that's what happened but the person who's getting the

01:38:39.480 people who get on our nerves to make the content is the people we're not trying to kick off unless

01:38:43.580 they believe it's totally fine if you want to have non-entertaining panels it's totally fine

01:38:47.900 and that's that's just my opinion on it can i say this so it's like if if you want to do it when he's

01:38:54.600 monologuing 10 minutes it's that's fine you could do it on your show one more thing i'm just gonna

01:39:00.220 leave one more thing that was his first time ever on a panel he doesn't even know the way you're

01:39:05.480 supposed to behave on a panel that was his very first time so it was it was just a perfect storm

01:39:09.740 that was the very first time he's ever been on the panel on YouTube he you he monologues on he has a

01:39:14.700 show when I when I was a new YouTuber I would never have gone on a panel and over talked everybody I

01:39:20.020 just wouldn't do it I would not do it I was on Kevin Samuel's show and I was very timid I would

01:39:26.120 never go on a panel with 10 people as a new YouTube I just wouldn't so I would say it'll

01:39:31.020 kind of embody are great at are great at running channels i kind of agree with um pearl that um

01:39:38.480 the monologues are a little long-winded the guy was a little long-winded right and i agree with

01:39:44.220 i agree with pearl too it's his first time we don't like pearl we don't like monologues either

01:39:49.300 we have buttons for that but he that was his first time when i when when i talked to you i got on the

01:39:55.060 phone with him because of what you asked as well too i explained him how panels work he didn't do

01:39:59.360 again what you say oh it's great now let's keep going so i was trying to do my best to make sure

01:40:04.080 the show runs right and i make sure i keep my end of the bottom bargain as well too and to show that

01:40:08.720 we respect you as well and not to waste your time when you come there but if we're going to respect

01:40:13.520 the plat i'm not ever going to come on your platform and start going like it's one thing to

01:40:17.760 have a conversation with white men but if we are we if we come on the panels black women nothing

01:40:22.480 about black women black men uh black women and black men and we come on your panel and i start

01:40:26.400 talking about white men i wouldn't i would understand if they hey man why does man just

01:40:29.680 come here talking about race all of a sudden it went left so i just disagree with you i think

01:40:35.600 that black people get too offended by this stuff and i think that's why white people don't work

01:40:40.160 with you guys i think that's a lot of opportunity i think i think you missed a lot of i think black

01:40:44.800 people miss a lot of opportunities because this is a headache to me i'm like okay you guys can't

01:40:50.000 have this conversation i'll just leave i don't care and you know what about you know you know how

01:40:55.280 you still making you know how you're still making it about race we literally run political

01:40:59.040 conversation religious conversations and we have all those conversations you're right it's a place

01:41:03.840 in time you went left you went left man fatty is one of the he's we we brought andrew on there we've

01:41:11.760 hold on my brother hold on we have dusty on there okay yeah you can't doug mpa is my co-host you

01:41:17.120 can't you can't do that too about this but he's over talking me okay it's it's

01:41:20.560 it's you just it's like uh it's a thing go go ahead you can finish though no no let me say

01:41:28.100 something real fast the problem is women like jazz they want white people to sit there and be quiet

01:41:34.020 because almost every single panel that pearl has been on she's been expected well those days are

01:41:40.420 over lack fatigue is real if you bring up an established person who's done the work on youtube

01:41:46.340 who's grinded out here on your show,

01:41:49.280 they're going to speak up for themselves, okay?

01:41:52.160 Pearl has the right.

01:41:53.200 She's done all the work.

01:41:55.340 She's grinded up to 2 million subs.

01:41:57.240 She can say what she wants to say.

01:42:00.220 If anyone can't on that panel, it's her.

01:42:02.500 She's done the work.

01:42:04.280 But the expectation is because she's white

01:42:06.260 and she was privileged and all the stuff

01:42:08.060 that she's supposed to sit there

01:42:09.040 and take it from women like Jazz.

01:42:10.720 No.

01:42:11.540 Tyranny, no.

01:42:12.900 Jazz, no.

01:42:14.020 Those days are over.

01:42:15.400 We're tired of it.

01:42:16.340 People are tired of black women sitting there squawking like vultures.

01:42:20.960 We're tired of it.

01:42:23.080 So I would disagree with that point.

01:42:25.400 I mean, I think Pearl does have the right to say the stats.

01:42:28.800 And I don't think people should be offended about that.

01:42:31.420 And I agree with her that black people do get too easily offended.

01:42:34.940 But for you to say that she has the right to say anything because she has the numbers, it's definitely wrong, my brother.

01:42:39.720 It has to be tactful.

01:42:41.160 I understand that.

01:42:42.160 but once again you can't the expectation is for a girl like pearl just sit there and take it

01:42:48.520 what i'm saying is pearl has couth she has tact she's intelligent she's not going to say

01:42:55.200 anything out of pocket but she but you can come at her the wrong way too just do too many of us

01:43:01.920 especially do too many of our women see a white girl and she can't say certain things she can't

01:43:07.420 do certain things she she deserves a modicum of respect and pearl is going to give what she gets

01:43:13.120 that's it and mind you mind you white or black people say this stuff about white people all the

01:43:19.300 time my entire life black people have said out out of pocket things to white people when i did

01:43:24.840 my show i mean the first thing that black women say to me is you're a privileged white girl

01:43:28.400 and again and i didn't say anything i didn't insult them i didn't say anything mean you know

01:43:34.580 it was really just a response. She was pretending she didn't know that women like criminals when

01:43:39.080 six out of 10 black men have been arrested by the age of 25. I don't like going into debates

01:43:43.560 in bad faith. I don't like you pretending you don't know about something with the culture on

01:43:48.100 TV. Like, you know what I'm talking about? And the only reason that I brought up the herpes stat

01:43:53.740 was because she said that she, she brought up the race, the first, the interaction with the

01:43:58.740 second girl it was the first she she said that black men yeah that white men want black women

01:44:05.760 and i'm just like that's not true because i know white guys i know white guys i know i know white

01:44:11.300 guys that will not and if you let me actually finish instead of crashing out i would have

01:44:15.520 explained this it is a genuine concern from white men catching stds from black women i i swear this

01:44:22.520 is this is a thing because half of them have herpes they have really high gonorrhea stats

01:44:27.020 really high hiv stats white men this is a concern for white guys and this is so because she said

01:44:34.780 so that's equivalent that's warranted if a black woman says that white men like black women

01:44:39.100 that that's matched with black women 50 of black women have herpes that's true that's justified

01:44:45.900 you said she became racial you said she became racial right if she said that white man like

01:44:51.180 black women that weren't saying that black 50 of black which is out the blue like what what's the

01:44:55.660 the point of saying black women is it true oh of course it's true we use that stat i'm asking if

01:45:00.860 you weren't trying to make it so you can say it but i can't say it no it's not it's it's when it

01:45:05.820 said you said that after she said white men want black women how is that equipped how does it

01:45:11.020 warrant to for you to go oh black women got 50 percent okay i gotta be honest the way you're

01:45:17.020 talking it's just like like a woman because you're tone policing like men care about information

01:45:22.300 women care about how it's said so when you're saying oh you're saying it this way or saying

01:45:25.500 it that way that's like a female thing because if you go into male locker rooms no one's tone

01:45:30.220 policing and saying you can't see this you are but you could pretend you're not you know it's fine no

01:45:36.540 no so so so if you said if you said if you said a uh black man got a white guy she said she's

01:45:43.820 if i said white women like black men and i say oh all white people are racist like is that equivalent

01:45:48.700 does that match no because the fact the fact state and statistics and also real life experience don't

01:45:53.740 match up with that right because white people actually give black people opportunities all

01:45:58.300 the time so there's no other pearl what does that have to do when she said that white women

01:46:03.020 want uh white men want black uh black women what does that have to do with it's very it's very

01:46:07.740 herpes well you have to you just said that doesn't match does that match okay are you gonna go all

01:46:14.300 right so you do have to in order to get marriage and kids you do have to have sex i don't know if

01:46:19.660 if you know that so the herpes would be relevant because in order for the black men or the black

01:46:25.580 women to get the white men i don't know why i'm explaining this you know it's relevant

01:46:28.780 no i think sometimes you you are very informed about things you speak about and there's times

01:46:35.040 you you blatantly make things about race you do do that and you do you say things that don't match

01:46:40.220 up but you are very informed i can give you that i will give you your plight i will give you your

01:46:44.560 respects i will give support in the things that you say and you can be a much and i'm and he might

01:46:49.160 step in anyway you can be a much better content uh creator and bringing people together as well too

01:46:54.440 but for some reason pearl you like doing that when it's convenient and andrew does the same thing too

01:46:59.400 andrew's a very smart guy as well too when he feels convenient he'll do that when he did debate

01:47:03.640 did the debate with uh coach greg adams he didn't really make it racial like that because he knows

01:47:07.560 how to control himself but a lot of times when he get in spaces with people you do it as well too

01:47:11.720 you will find a way to bring race into it just just because you i do respect i i sorry i do

01:47:17.480 understand your opinion i just don't respect that you know how to do this better than me

01:47:21.480 i'm just being honest here i don't mean what do you mean by that i just don't think you're qualified

01:47:26.760 to give me advice on how to do this tell me how why because you got more viewers than me because

01:47:31.560 of your results what's the results i just thought i'm like been on this for two three years i haven't

01:47:36.120 went consistent every single day so how can you why why would you do this better than me you have

01:47:40.040 how many people you have watching right now okay how many people you have watching right now live

01:47:45.160 okay so again we could go back and forth as a view off or whatever i'm just i well

01:47:54.120 you can you can do as you wish um you did that pearl not me i'll try to i okay we're gonna this

01:48:00.040 is a crash who asked you to be on this panel i'm just gonna how was it i'm gonna okay okay we're

01:48:05.240 gonna i'm gonna mute you i'm gonna mute you the crash out yeah i love i love this is why i love

01:48:09.800 it here so i'm just gonna i'm just gonna put this here i'm just gonna put this here um

01:48:21.240 i think this is really demonstrating why um white people at times do not give opportunities to black

01:48:28.040 people because you guys just make it a lot more difficult to work with you and that's me being

01:48:33.720 really honest that's me um and i would say this is just increasing the difficulty and then i i would

01:48:40.120 just say you know what we just won't do it again it's fine it's totally fine yeah you know you can

01:48:44.920 we're supposed to be americans when a white american wants to has to work with a black

01:48:50.520 american and he asking them to be honest and righteous it becomes a problem when we're asking

01:48:54.600 you to just go treat people respectfully then that becomes a problem it sounds like

01:48:58.360 i was actually very respectful i did not call anybody a coon on the panel somebody else did

01:49:06.760 that and you did allow them but you're right maybe i was the problem for mentioning half

01:49:11.480 of black women have herpes even though it's true you do with jazz all day i don't know

01:49:16.200 that pearl crazy this is insanity and you know again i this is me i'm really trying to be nice

01:49:21.800 about this, but, um, yeah, I just, I, I think that's it. We just won't do it again and it's

01:49:29.340 okay. So yeah, I wish you luck. Um, and have fun with your next one. All right.

01:49:36.620 Yeah. I've been going to visit Batty in Portugal. All right.

01:49:45.420 Actually, that was very demonstrating of the whole, all the concepts I talked about.

01:49:51.800 guys i'm gonna say this right now pj i think you're muted i don't know how it's not on my end

01:49:57.320 i didn't know it was mine um it's been a great show um like i said i agree with you a lot of

01:50:03.000 the part that you said those are my boys over there i'm hungry i'm gonna get some food i hope

01:50:07.720 i'm invited again and i hope y'all come to our show one of these days and it's been fun man it's

01:50:14.120 being kind of y'all don't feel me i gotta i gotta play defensively i can't i can't lean too far on

01:50:20.760 either sides right now so i understand thanks for coming today go ahead i'm gonna say it

01:50:26.840 i started supporting pearl when she had like 14 15 000 subs guys i've been here the whole time

01:50:34.600 okay helping pearl behind the scenes cheering her on wishing for her success

01:50:40.280 Yes. Pearl has done the work to get to where she is now. She got demonetized. They tried to cancel

01:50:49.200 her and she's still here and she's still thriving. And I'll be danged if some dude that has 4,000

01:50:54.160 subs is going to come at Pearl crazy. Is he insane? I know. And I'm not even one to play

01:51:02.120 the clout card, but I'll do it for you. Freaking A. I just, this just, because do you know what

01:51:09.140 all he had to do is just say this was a misunderstanding let's try again

01:51:14.980 dude it's so crazy i'm such a forgiving gal like if you just came on and say do you know what

01:51:21.460 but i i just i'm not gonna be gaslit on my own show

01:51:26.180 it's i if you're offended by black i didn't make black women get herpes

01:51:29.940 and guys i put in the chat put a one if you think it's harder for pearl to deal with modern women

01:51:43.080 being a woman or me for dealing with black people while being black what do you think

01:51:49.080 we talk about this a lot like who yeah i see some ones yeah

01:51:57.360 it's unfortunate she misconstrued his passion for crashing out no that's a black people always say

01:52:06.320 they're like i'm being totally respectful as they're not respectful and look you know i'm

01:52:12.760 trying to like clue you guys in like white people want to work with black people we have nothing

01:52:22.740 against them but it's just it's just if you there's just certain decorum that if you can't do

01:52:30.660 we're just not gonna you know you like i just would never when i was a small youtuber

01:52:38.580 i just would never lecture a big youtuber on how to do things do you know what i mean like

01:52:43.620 i i had um there was a guy i slid into his dms he was like the director of video at the dw

01:52:48.740 and he he like managed all the daily wires youtube channels do you think i got where i got by telling

01:52:54.860 him how to do like oh you should do it this way or that way or that way no i just asked him a

01:53:00.300 million questions thanks for doug thanks joel appreciate it buddy yeah i just i don't get it

01:53:09.320 you guys i really don't in the beginning he was cool you know like it's just you know

01:53:15.800 i just once again you know i support pearl no matter what the way the guy was talking he probably

01:53:28.140 has herpes look it could have look it could happen to anyone i'm the first one to say that

01:53:33.200 some women just take analysis but if you're banging criminals you're kind of asking for it

01:53:36.680 and you know i don't have anything against that ilcon guy you know i wish him well i think he

01:53:44.020 to drop fatty because fatty's a little portuguese and he's a total tether but you know i'm hoping

01:53:49.700 that he figures it out and he gets his panels under control dude because women like that tyranny

01:53:54.740 and jazz it's just not gonna work it's just not well i don't i think you can you can still have

01:54:00.740 them on um it's just you have to like there has to be some ground rules for them like obviously

01:54:08.340 there has to be conflict but like you can't kick off your biggest guest after the other

01:54:13.860 girl called the guy you know what i mean it's just yeah well another one bites the dust

01:54:24.660 yeah well i will give you know what i will end the show by um talking about two black people

01:54:30.180 no three black people that actually did take an opportunity and did not screw me over i think

01:54:36.340 that's how i should end um so i'm gonna drop you down doug mpa while i tell these stories i'll bring

01:54:43.220 you back all right always good talking to you thanks doug mpa so um not concerned with whether

01:54:51.460 they fumble just pointing out they weren't crashing out well here's the thing you black people have

01:54:56.260 different versions of crashing out white people like black people will crash out but like they

01:55:03.140 don't think it's crashing out because black people's crash outs so much worse than white

01:55:06.820 people's crash outs i don't know if that makes sense like like white people are not used to

01:55:14.420 confrontation like that appreciate the opportunity thank you cj appreciate you um so like you guys

01:55:20.980 might have a crash out that's not a crash out for you guys but for us that's a crash out

01:55:25.780 so okay i want to give you guys three stories of black people that did not screw me over

01:55:30.660 and we're awesome so i so the first one was i had a producer at one point that just was not

01:55:39.140 working out he just was not um and there was this guy this kid he was african

01:55:46.420 and he ended up helping his friend um he basically was training the other guy and this guy in his

01:55:53.060 free time after work would just train the producer i had um on how to like do stuff and long story

01:56:00.500 short um this guy he ended up being my main producer when i was in london he did all the

01:56:09.620 production for my shows and he did a really great job for three years he did like awesome

01:56:15.220 um he fixed any tech problem by himself and when they all called me a colonizer he just was like

01:56:20.100 know that like you know he totally had my back throughout the whole thing and he's

01:56:24.020 he's a great person a great guy um so that's one and like he he was from an african country

01:56:34.100 and he said that he said that um he didn't understand why they're calling

01:56:41.860 me a colonizer because he grew up under colonization

01:56:44.740 yeah crashing out for a black person is destroying a waffle house anything less is just another day

01:56:51.280 um and a lot of a lot of black people i'll just i'll i'll add one more thing they think that

01:56:57.480 white people are being like mean or something when we laugh and smile a lot but we do that

01:57:02.100 to disarm you we're like hey i'm i'm in a good mood this is

01:57:07.580 um I'm lying about about the nice about the nice guy

01:57:15.960 now the next one um I'm trying to think so there's there's three stories I oh there was another one

01:57:27.620 who he's a guy that clipped for me he's done clips for me for like three years he's literally

01:57:33.660 from nigeria is my and this guy did clips for me for free before my channel even like went anywhere

01:57:42.020 um and when i was demonetized so this guy was such a pearl fan and he made a good he's probably

01:57:48.540 living like a king in nigeria right now really he's he runs on one of my biggest clips channels

01:57:55.480 and he makes a good amount of money either we do 20 80 splits with clippers which if you're

01:58:00.620 interested in dm me on instagram just pearly things official but he um he's my highest paid

01:58:09.060 clipper and he's been my well overseas one anyway but he's done really well really well for himself

01:58:15.600 um they know how to hustle yeah and then the last one um is one that i is um one that you guys know

01:58:25.200 pretty well he was in he was in my messages at like 15 000 subscribers um saying that i was

01:58:33.440 going to be a big he just knew i was going to blow up and for years he gave me questions he wrote me

01:58:38.800 um scripts at times he fact checks he moderated for me like all of my shows he moderated and then

01:58:45.680 like he's one of the few that never asked for anything from me at all and now um between this

01:58:51.520 in his day job he's making pretty good money i think ladies if you want to like um

01:58:58.560 if you want to marry rich you know just kidding he's looking for a bad latina he's done with

01:59:04.640 black women latinas apply but yeah doug mpa i mean he's been a supporter of the channel he he's

01:59:12.080 he's done great work he finds all the um clips for my reactions like i mean all the reactions

01:59:17.200 you see he finds them on tiktok so it's like more surprising for me um and he just does he does a

01:59:25.040 great job so it's not all black people and i could i could name specific black people that i've been

01:59:30.160 really close with and that have done great work for me and and these aren't even there's others

01:59:35.440 that i haven't named but the challenge is you when you get like i don't know even if it's just 10 to

01:59:41.840 20 guys it's enough that it's just a headache so anyways doug mp i'm gonna bring him back how do i

01:59:51.520 bring him back up hold on oh at the stage and yeah doug mpa how do you feel about being the other one

02:00:00.880 the the one that did not call me a colonizer yeah i remember the conversation i told you

02:00:07.920 you're going to be big one day and uh you're here so and once again they can't stop you pearly you

02:00:14.880 know they tried to demonetize you shattered your channel you know you've had to change you had to

02:00:20.080 get rid of your staff and start all over but you know women like you pearl is the hardest working

02:00:25.920 girl on youtube guys i keep telling you she won't be stopping she's always going to be here making

02:00:31.520 content for us and i'm just glad to be along for the ride so they said i'm hurt and that's true a

02:00:37.360 lot of black people hurt my feelings that's true you know i mean i would say i was very hurt when

02:00:44.320 they did that so my guy she wasn't trading insults she's making a counterpoint not a counter insult

02:00:49.360 you're a tone policing you can't be the draft you can't be this soft i know and i don't want to fight

02:00:55.840 you know because he just kind of wanted to go back and forth i don't want to fight i just want to say

02:01:00.880 then we just won't do it again it's fine because that's how um that's how white people do things

02:01:11.680 when she say dug mpa we just walk away we say never mind we're like men yeah too much yeah i

02:01:18.460 know so this narrative dialogue guy says why did you not let pearly thinks speak on her own against

02:01:25.540 ali she doesn't need your help to go against black folks she's already have guys look okay

02:01:32.660 i i've seen all the hard work that pearl's done and for someone like that to come at pearl

02:01:38.260 sideways i take it personal i'm not gonna lie i've been here from since the beginning and

02:01:43.140 pearl's gonna say what she's gonna say but everyone needs you know she doesn't need me

02:01:48.180 here but i'm gonna defend pearl no matter what if you were here from being with like i was and

02:01:53.220 seen everything she's put her blood sweat and tears and heart and soul in this and i'm not

02:01:57.940 gonna let anybody disrespect it on her own show sorry it's not happening no thanks doug i appreciate

02:02:05.060 i we appreciate your support um yeah doug does so much work behind the scenes guys it's like crazy

02:02:10.820 so we we love him on this channel he's he's the best um well that's all i got um anyways there

02:02:21.140 is an opportunity if someone i'll tell you what i do not feel like recruiting people to debate i

02:02:30.100 don't feel like doing it i don't i don't i can do it um but there is an opportunity for somebody

02:02:39.060 that wants to host a debate show and i will guest on like every other week or something

02:02:43.780 every other week i don't know so if someone in you know someone wants to do that i'm open

02:02:50.900 i'll still give a black person a chance even after all that

02:02:54.820 that's the crazy thing i i won't i actually won't discriminate but

02:03:02.020 yeah if you did a once a week show and um you got good panelists and we really worked together um

02:03:08.900 i could hook you up with big youtubers um otherwise i'm gonna finish my guitar book

02:03:15.780 i have two pages left so i'll have a little bit more time after these lessons i may just do it

02:03:20.340 myself but there is there is an opportunity because i don't want the responsibility of

02:03:27.940 recruiting the people but you do have to work with me if i and this is kind of what i was trying to

02:03:33.160 tell him if someone's disrespectful out of bounds someone calls someone a coon on the panel we got

02:03:37.080 to kick them um if someone like if someone's monologuing too hard we just gotta kick we gotta

02:03:47.020 i got you gotta work with me on who we're allowing and not allowing um this is not be tyrannical but

02:03:52.820 it's just i you need to take my feedback on how to run the show and honestly if it's someone's

02:03:58.380 first time on a panel their default position should be keep your eyes open your ears open and

02:04:04.740 your mouth shut right like the guy that was on his panel it was his first time well why wasn't

02:04:12.340 he sitting there waiting to be called on andrew andrew wilson he's gonna have the same thing he's

02:04:17.500 not gonna want to put it together that's i'm telling you this is an opportunity for you to

02:04:21.160 collab with big youtubers i'm i'm being really for real guys there is a lot of really

02:04:26.480 irresponsible people in youtube that just think they know everything and you can literally get

02:04:34.780 big youtubers if like if you're if you're coming up you gotta like the problem is people always

02:04:40.480 ask us for interviews that benefits you the way you can do is offer like connections debate like

02:04:48.300 debaters want to debate conservatives aren't really too hot and going in person because someone got

02:04:53.360 shot if you can um we don't really want to get screenshot because every time you message girls

02:04:59.960 about debating they just hold it on social media it's really annoying um so like if you're a

02:05:08.560 youtuber and you want big collabs and i know everybody i know the big people in this industry

02:05:13.540 this is a value add getting liberals to debate um yeah so this is a value add um if you ever want

02:05:23.020 the other thing if i'd recommend if you want big youtubers on their show if you can get something

02:05:28.120 like for me personally any show that let me freestyle i always said yes to

02:05:33.200 i always would say yes to like shows that would allow me to freestyle because that was just

02:05:39.360 something i liked so sometimes if you give youtube or something that they just enjoy

02:05:43.140 um but yeah if you guys want to support me i'm nervous talking about these issues i really am

02:05:51.400 I don't know if they're going to kick me off again so if you could go to the audacitynetwork.com

02:05:56.020 it's 10 bucks a month 80 bucks a year um in return you get my old content honestly there's not much

02:06:02.760 yet because I need to get more signups to make stuff really cool I need to justify like investing

02:06:08.940 a lot into that so uh really if you just want to support me in case they kick me off because I

02:06:13.880 don't know when I go after these people if they're going to crash out flag my channels I just don't

02:06:19.060 know um and it's something i worry about because in all honesty guys if this happens again i don't

02:06:25.700 know if i'll come back from it like i i don't know if um like it might it may be retiring if

02:06:32.660 because i you know at at some point you can't come back after getting kicked off so many times so

02:06:39.540 anyways i should yeah anyways i'm not saying guys here's the thing um you know with what happened to

02:06:47.300 you know to with the rise of nick f and what happened to you know charlie and stuff

02:06:53.700 we you're starting to see this whole black fatigue thing you know i've been telling pearl

02:06:59.140 for years like you don't have to sit in and take this abuse from black people especially if they

02:07:04.420 want your presence on there and pearl's doing a really good job now of pushing back on this

02:07:10.180 garbage you know what i'm saying pearl's knowledgeable intelligent has done the work

02:07:16.260 she doesn't have to sit there and take it from from people like jazz and anybody no she she's

02:07:22.660 going to be tactful she's going to be intelligent about it but the days of white people having to

02:07:26.740 sit there and take abuse from black people on panels it's over sorry bro i think you need to

02:07:34.100 get laid i'm a woman you know it's not hard for us okay um thank you doug i really appreciate it

02:07:43.780 um I know 20 bucks to say that hey I'll read it I'll read it look if you want to roast me or

02:07:52.600 whatever for 20 bucks um yeah um anyways that's all I got today I thought this was a great show

02:08:03.740 actually so yeah it was fun I'm glad we did it um I thought it was even better because we could see

02:08:09.500 in real time what happens with black people fumbling the opportunity of a lifetime in real

02:08:14.740 time so anyways um make sure you like the video please subscribe to the channel doug mp any final

02:08:22.180 thoughts um guys pearl has created her own link on youtube there there are many that have tried

02:08:30.740 to be like her but there's only one and you're gonna have people try to lecture her about youtube

02:08:35.580 Nope. If you're going to listen to anyone about YouTube, you are on the right channel.

02:08:41.420 Thank you. No, not a roast. I'm a black fan. Is it an offer? Like what the hell?

02:08:51.940 I don't have a discord link. I'll put the audacity network link. Really seriously guys,

02:08:57.380 if you can, I know it's annoying, but if you could just sign up for the either yearly or

02:09:05.140 monthly membership um i just i would feel a lot better if i could get our expenses covered on the

02:09:12.620 app just in case they ever kick me off i need to be able to pay i would hate to have to let them go

02:09:20.740 again like i i just want to be able to afford the expenses on the app so yeah the audacity network

02:09:28.500 dot com and then i yeah then we are able to fund other projects too the more people we get on

02:09:35.560 anyways guys um make sure you like the video please subscribe to the channel

02:09:40.080 thank you so much for watching and i'll see you next time

Pearl - November 17, 2025

Black People Will Always Fumble the Opportunity of a Lifetime

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