Pearl - Brianna Chickenfry's Accusations： A Modern Woman's Tool For Manipulation ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here

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00:00:35.040 access through the membership to an uncensored show. You know there are some topics that I can't

00:00:41.280 quite touch on YouTube so we are going to be covering those especially with a certain person

00:00:47.900 named Nick. I'm not going to say his name but you know he's in the news and I just can't cover that

00:00:52.560 on YouTube so I will be covering it on my website. Okay so today is a special show. We are going to

00:01:00.800 be talking about Zach Bryan and Brianna Chicken Fry. So if you guys didn't know Brianna Chicken

00:01:07.140 Fry is a YouTuber, podcaster, and internet personality. So she is a part of Barstool.

00:01:16.140 she's very well known, very successful young woman. About a year ago she started dating Zach

00:01:22.940 Bryan and when she started dating Zach Bryan this did not come with no controversy. So Zach Bryan

00:01:31.100 is the hottest country singer right now. He seemingly came out of nowhere and is right up

00:01:37.500 there with Morgan Wallen, Luke Combs, all the big country stars. So he is a very wealthy celebrity.

00:01:44.300 now before they were dating apparently these two met at an awards show and when they met Brianna

00:01:51.320 had a boyfriend now Brianna claims nothing happened while she had a boyfriend but very

00:01:56.920 conveniently about a month later they were dating her she had dumped her ex-boyfriend and at the

00:02:02.820 time you know she was posting TikToks you know crying moving out of her ex-boyfriend's apartment

00:02:09.820 Now, Zach Bryan does have a history of dating women for about a year and breaking up with them.

00:02:15.480 Now, maybe this is abnormal for an average guy, but this is a celebrity.

00:02:22.280 And when you date a celebrity, it comes with the excess risk that you get dumped, pushed to the side.

00:02:29.840 You don't get commitment because, well, celebrity men have a lot of options in every city.

00:02:35.080 They have women throwing themselves at them.

00:02:36.920 So this isn't really unexpected.

00:02:39.820 Now, Brianna has a show with Dave Portnoy at Barstool.

00:02:48.300 And on the show, they go over celebrity gossip and whatever is going on in the news lately, right?

00:02:56.780 And they decided to put out an episode about Brianna Chicken Fry's breakup.

00:03:03.740 And I have never, I need to react to this video.

00:03:07.540 it's kind of long but we're gonna get through this together i have never seen simping so hard

00:03:14.900 now after the breakup is over with she's claiming the usual can can you guys tell me what the usual

00:03:21.860 is what do women say after a breakup do they say you know what it didn't work out i'm happy for our

00:03:30.500 time together even though you know we just we grew apart what you know what what do they say

00:03:37.780 when a celebrity dumps them please put it in the chat do they do they say give me a second i'm

00:03:44.340 pulling up you guys's chat do they say you know what thank you but we're not going to make this

00:03:49.700 a big deal let's just move on emotionally abused thank you you guys you

00:04:02.060 can you know there is a pattern of behavior that women tend to go through

00:04:07.760 through now I'm gonna I'm gonna show you guys what tends to happen when women date

00:04:20.660 men that are out of their league now what is a man that is out of your league

00:04:28.140 this is a guy that's significantly better looking than you significantly

00:04:37.760 maybe a higher social status. In this case, this is a celebrity. Now, most of the time,

00:04:46.940 the woman always has more options than the men. Now, as women, we don't really see guys we're 0.77

00:04:54.400 not attracted to. Unfortunately, I don't say this in the happiest way. I'm not trying to be mean,

00:05:00.560 but it takes us a little bit to find a guy we actually like. So let's put that in like,

00:05:06.440 I don't want to say real options for women, but the options that women today were considering.

00:05:11.800 It's only men that we like, right?

00:05:14.740 Now, don't get me wrong.

00:05:16.000 I mean, we can download a dating app and get a billion matches, but let's just say 10 of them we like out of them.

00:05:26.120 He will, you know, the amount of women that this guy likes is way more, except he's not like a normal guy.

00:05:33.140 He has access to them.

00:05:35.500 So when Brianna, you know, she's dating an average Joe over here.

00:05:39.940 Let's just, you know, at first she's with this guy.

00:05:42.300 Let's call him, I forgot his name, but let's call him Bob.

00:05:45.260 So she's with Bob.

00:05:46.580 Bob and her are happy.

00:05:48.560 Then she meets Zach.

00:05:51.560 Now, Zach, she looks at him and says, this is a celebrity.

00:05:55.280 This is exciting. 0.94

00:05:56.480 Let me dump this guy over here and get with this guy here. 1.00

00:06:00.160 Now, women will always try to make it, you know, better than it is. 1.00

00:06:04.140 so she'll say, oh, we didn't hook up, nothing happened till after, whatever, I don't believe

00:06:09.680 you.

00:06:10.180 So next, so the first thing that happens is she can't believe it's real.

00:06:17.420 She's very excited, she's dating a celebrity, she posted everywhere, yay, I can't believe

00:06:28.140 I'm with this guy that's out of my league. 0.59

00:06:31.700 Now, the second thing that's going to happen is she's going to get anxious and jealous. 0.99

00:06:36.280 This is where the fights come in, right?

00:06:39.500 You know, who are you following? 0.96

00:06:42.960 I can't believe, what was that girl you were talking to? 0.90

00:06:48.140 Jealousy, right? 0.99

00:06:49.900 So now she realized, now let's think about women in general. 1.00

00:06:56.020 None of us today are really raised to be wives.

00:06:58.700 You know, most wives today, how many obey their husband? 0.98

00:07:03.340 How many are told to look pretty? 0.98

00:07:05.160 I mean, look pretty, don't talk. 1.00

00:07:07.660 I mean, who's given, like, what percent of women know how to cook, run a house? 1.00

00:07:12.740 I would say that is not the norm, right? 1.00

00:07:16.020 That's not the average woman in America. 1.00

00:07:19.200 80% of us are overweight. 1.00

00:07:20.640 mate. So in order to get this guy that's out of her league, she's got to change her personality, 0.91

00:07:29.960 right? This is when women start saying things like, I lost myself. I gave up who I am for him 1.00

00:07:37.480 because she knows she's got to stop going to the bars at 2 a.m., right? She thinks,

00:07:45.120 I've been going to the bars forever.

00:07:46.820 I've got to stop.

00:07:48.560 Then she thinks, well, I want to do my show, but his shows are at the same time.

00:07:59.820 I want to do all my hobbies, but maybe he wants to do these things, and I know there's

00:08:08.420 going to be hot women there, and I basically have to change my personality, right? 0.98

00:08:13.760 I have all these annoying things that my ex that put up with anything dealt with, but

00:08:21.580 this guy, I know if I act like that, I'm going to get dumped.

00:08:25.840 So then your friends get worried, right?

00:08:28.120 Her friends come in and say, one, I'm not seeing my friend as much.

00:08:32.580 You know, women, we have our girl groups, and they'll look and say, oh, we never see

00:08:37.100 her anymore. 1.00

00:08:37.600 and you know single women like to keep each other single so they don't they definitely don't want to 0.98

00:08:44.820 see you happy and so what they'll do is they'll call everything he does abusive and terrible

00:08:51.400 they'll always take her side so if she comes in and complains about him they're all gonna

00:08:56.940 take her side right that's kind of how it's gonna go now depending on how deep into the relationship 1.00

00:09:06.120 she's going to need a crazy woman to back her up. 1.00

00:09:11.020 She can't just, you know, so when she starts picking up fights with him, 1.00

00:09:16.100 because that's an act, they start fighting because of the anxiety.

00:09:20.400 You know, it's very rare a woman can successfully date a celebrity 0.99

00:09:24.980 or a guy that's super, super good looking,

00:09:27.320 because you have to deal with the constant anxiety of women hitting on him 24-7. 0.60

00:09:34.000 Most women, I mean, they're not going to be able to take this. 1.00

00:09:39.460 Melania Trump has talked about how women will hit on Trump in front of her. 1.00

00:09:44.680 Can you keep it cool or are you going to start swinging? 1.00

00:09:49.080 Most women can't deal because she's going to have an anxiety that's higher than she's ever had.

00:09:54.940 She wasn't afraid of losing her average Joe Schmo. 0.79

00:09:58.240 out, but this new guy, she's going to, I mean, so anyway, so now her friends are worried. 0.60

00:10:07.640 She's got to find a crazy woman to back her up, which, and this is, I got to be respectful 0.99

00:10:13.100 on YouTube, not all women are crazy women, but I noticed when I was in school that there's 1.00

00:10:20.400 a surplus of crazy women that study psychology. 1.00

00:10:27.120 There's a surplus, right, because they don't have the work ethic to do the hard majors. 1.00

00:10:33.180 And I mean, if you're thinking that much about thinking, you're probably nuts. 0.82

00:10:38.880 Do you know what I mean? 1.00

00:10:40.980 If you're thinking that much about thinking, you're nuts, most likely. 0.99

00:10:46.880 I mean, an idle mind makes you go crazy, there's some phrase. 0.98

00:10:53.060 So during the changing your personality and ditching all your friends, you've got to take some footage.

00:11:00.300 So a lot of, you know, when you're in fights, she might record herself crying and really just building like a case against you.

00:11:09.660 Now, this footage can be used in family court.

00:11:13.020 And by the way, fellas, you're not safe if you're not.

00:11:15.760 This is why you've got to be careful what you text women and what she gets with you on video. 0.99

00:11:23.520 Because, I mean, I've gone through a lot of court documents, right?

00:11:28.120 Like, let's take Stephen Crowder.

00:11:31.000 When Stephen Crowder got divorced, his wife leaked an audio recording in his home,

00:11:36.260 making it seem like he was threatening her.

00:11:38.500 He wasn't.

00:11:39.100 It was completely out of context.

00:11:40.660 but I mean and this was a conservative Christian woman that was a virgin on her wedding day

00:11:47.420 right they were in all the news because they waited till marriage and did the whole thing

00:11:51.320 it was cool but even like if she's capable this is and I'm a podcaster right we're pretty 1.00

00:11:58.860 high risk to deal with because you know we you don't know what like women with microphones are 0.98

00:12:05.180 dangerous right so I understand it I'm not I don't hate the player I hate the 0.99

00:12:11.360 game now anyways so take footage for social media maybe family court but in

00:12:18.140 case this goes wrong she's gonna need to document the crazy things that you did 1.00

00:12:23.680 and don't get me wrong fellas I am sure that she did a bunch of crazy things 1.00

00:12:29.240 Many times what happens is the woman does crazy thing A, crazy thing B, crazy thing C, crazy thing D,

00:12:38.540 and then the guy does one crazy thing back, right?

00:12:41.520 Like she says she's nagging him for five days straight.

00:12:45.220 She does that.

00:12:45.980 And then he yells because he loses his temper, right?

00:12:49.020 But boom, she's recording all she's got is the yelling.

00:12:53.060 that's all so now she brings it to court or social media and you're the bad guy now

00:13:02.680 they break up now generally not always it's one of two things she can't deal with the anxiety so

00:13:11.220 again you know she's got to change her whole personality so the anxiety is super high right

00:13:18.300 and she just can't deal with that she's been living one way her whole life

00:13:22.420 that's why I say women are generally happy with guys that are betas and let

00:13:26.600 them do whatever they want because we're just too like set in our ways you know

00:13:30.820 it's just it is what it is I mean I'm not saying like those relationships

00:13:38.180 typically suck for the guys but it's like a win-win I don't want to say win-win

00:13:44.560 because they're not attracted to him. 1.00

00:13:46.140 But, you know, a lot of women can't handle being with a guy 1.00

00:13:50.340 that doesn't let her do whatever she wants. 1.00

00:13:53.920 Now, so typically one of two things will happen. 0.88

00:13:58.260 The anxiety is too much and she dumps him

00:14:00.520 because she misses her hobbies more than she likes him

00:14:04.440 or she misses her job more than she likes him

00:14:07.140 or she misses, I don't know, whatever it is,

00:14:11.360 more than she likes the guy.

00:14:13.260 okay or she can't deal with the cheating because these guys i mean

00:14:19.560 good luck finding a celebrity guy that can't cheat that won't cheat i'm not saying it doesn't happen

00:14:27.720 but ladies i mean i don't know why we go for nba players nfl player any sports athlete

00:14:35.900 country rock musician there's too many groupies they're too hot you just can't compete it just 0.99

00:14:42.740 is what it is. At some point, he's probably going to cave. There's too many hot women throwing sex 1.00

00:14:49.000 at him 24-7, even the best of them. So once they break up, now because she's resentful, because she 1.00

00:14:56.800 maybe missed out on some opportunities, she gave up, you know, she's resentful of the time that she

00:15:03.200 lost, you know, changing her personality and not doing the things she wanted to do. Obviously, this

00:15:10.400 is going to be sexual assault or abuse. She's going to get the therapist to back her up and 1.00

00:15:15.000 her friends. Now, you might think, but I didn't ask her to do any of this. You don't even have

00:15:21.500 to ask because it's so clear when a guy can and will dump you. We can sniff it out. We can tell

00:15:28.800 when we meet you if you're willing to walk away. It's how you guys talk to us, you know. So,

00:15:36.300 obviously now she doesn't want to be known as a bad girlfriend or that she took an L. 0.99

00:15:44.000 We are terrible at taking L's. We're just not the best at it, right? I mean, we can't just,

00:15:51.600 you know, take the L. Men are really great at taking L's. They will go through something

00:15:57.120 terrible, like Johnny Depp. He has had the biggest L's the last decade, but he's back and better.

00:16:04.300 that would destroy a woman so obviously abuse sexual assault and then last a tell-all book

00:16:11.660 i've seen this happen too many times um this may as well be the norm not the exception so

00:16:19.240 now we're gonna watch brianna go through these stages and what i'm gonna do is i'm gonna

00:16:27.340 as we go through I'm going to list the things that she's counting as abuse because clearly

00:16:36.020 if a woman is claiming abuse I expect it to be a serious accusation. So right in the chat I expect 1.00

00:16:45.620 these to be serious so I'm going to write them or maybe I'll put in a word doc but yeah so we're

00:16:51.340 going to react. Yeah, I mean, we can't take out as women. I don't know what it is. It's just. 1.00

00:17:10.160 Now, I want to say it's very easy for us to believe that we were abused. It's it's so easy

00:17:18.300 for us i can't even really blame brianna for this i really can't because

00:17:27.100 many times the police will back you up in saying that you were abused so she goes to her friends

00:17:35.420 and her friends say yes you were abused she tells them what happened yes now the friends generally

00:17:41.900 aren't going to ask questions like well what did you do what what you know generally they don't

00:17:49.100 think to ask that um she goes to her co-workers and they say oh that's terrible that's abusive

00:17:55.740 she goes to the school the counselors they say that's abusive now if you go to a million people

00:18:04.060 and they're all saying he's abusive he's abusive he's abusive can you blame her for believing it

00:18:09.820 now let's get the story yeah so this is the article that E! News is putting out

00:18:16.780 about a timeline of Brianna chicken fry la palinga and Zach Bryan's breakup

00:18:24.500 strained words come out come on out of a grown man's mouth when his mind's broke

00:18:31.660 but when a woman's heart breaks the words can get pretty pointed and the

00:18:36.260 public portion of Zach Bryan's breakup with Brianna De La Polina has already began on an

00:18:45.700 in auspicious note when she followed his October 22nd Instagram split with her own post noting that

00:18:53.960 she was really blindsided and needed to hop off social media to heal. So again he posts

00:19:01.300 on instagram that they broke up and she says i'm really blindsided and need to heal

00:19:08.480 now what is that already starting the victim narrative yes so i don't know what it is but

00:19:16.660 we just love being victims we really do i don't know why i don't know maybe it's her biology

00:19:22.120 i think it gives us attention so you know the picture of what happened between them has only

00:19:29.400 grown murkier sense with Brianna chicken fry her 2.1 TikTok followers hopping over to YouTube to

00:19:38.260 share her feelings before taking that step back when Brianna confirmed on her podcast in July

00:19:43.940 2023 that she was dating the country singer she said it was basically a must mention everyone on

00:19:50.960 the internet is FBI agents she said so they figured everything out and I was like I need to get ahead

00:19:56.140 ahead of it i need to say what's right what's real and what's true so i did it on my podcast

00:20:03.100 first now remember this was stage one we talked about

00:20:08.140 stage one which was she's really excited the first item of business tell her listeners that

00:20:13.900 both she and zach were in respective relationships when she met at the 2023 acm awards in may but

00:20:22.620 they were both single by the time he slid in her dms in late june now remember so this is may and

00:20:29.260 then june so july they're dating now mind you do you think either of them had any regard for their

00:20:38.540 ex's feelings during this none promise you did they did not care and i'm not saying they should

00:20:45.900 if they're done like it is what it is i mean you don't have a right to say what that person does

00:20:50.700 but I'm just pointing this out for later. It's fun. It's casual. Brianna said on the

00:20:58.060 revelationary podcast explaining she just wanted to address it because the whole internet 0.99

00:21:06.380 is freaking the F out and people are doing shit. The pair chugged along making their red carpet 0.99

00:21:14.500 debut as a couple when zach brought brianna to the 2024 grammys in february the 28 year old

00:21:20.980 won for the first time in four nominations for the best country duo and group performance with

00:21:30.700 casey musgraves for i remember everything in may brianna shared that they'd been in traumatizing

00:21:36.980 side-by-side car crash while on the road during zach's the quentin time tour and that the singer

00:21:42.660 needed stitches to close up a huge gash soon after he shared a sweet message for his girlfriend on

00:21:48.980 his instagram story writing you're my muse brianna and i don't understand how the hell you hold it 0.53

00:21:54.820 all together when people around you can't thank you forever no matter what he called her the most

00:22:00.260 loving and supportive woman on the planet months later however he must have forgotten to check with

00:22:05.940 her before he let the world know that they were no longer together and remember that's according

00:22:12.100 to her who knows what he would say maybe he says lady i've told you 10 times i don't want to be

00:22:18.340 with you right i don't that's what she says all right breakup speculation was in full bloom after

00:22:28.020 the internet noticed the cuppers couples fewer posts than usual from zach bryan and brianna

00:22:33.620 chicken fry and commenters did not keep their suspicions to themselves it was a bad week

00:22:40.340 brianna acknowledged on the october 2nd episode of barstool sports when co-host dave and josh

00:22:47.220 richards quizzed her about the split rumors it's crazy we don't post each other for a week it took

00:22:53.540 the internet by storm but he's going through a lot of personal stuff and i went home and just

00:22:58.260 separated we're together now everything's okay meanwhile zach was on dave's naughty list for

00:23:06.020 making a crack about taylor swift which he apologized for so remember

00:23:13.940 men with more of a gynocentric worldview will take taylor swift's side men that kind of see 0.63

00:23:22.340 through this bs know that taylor swift might be the problem just you know she might but the barstool

00:23:31.380 sports founder and self-proclaimed king of the swiftied allowed him one pass because he was

00:23:36.380 Brianna's boyfriend so look at they're together yada yada now looks wise 0.58

00:23:43.080 I don't know what she looks like under all this makeup um I don't know I'd put her at like a seven

00:23:51.300 six seven he I'd say in the normal world they'd kind of be looks maxed matched but because he's

00:23:59.540 famous i mean that just he's got too many choices before it was publicly known that brianna and zach

00:24:06.260 were no longer together she advised against dating famous people during a sit down on

00:24:11.380 hayley welch's talk to a podcast now she's saying don't date famous people right but again

00:24:19.220 you know men look at what we do versus what we say

00:24:21.860 you know she's dating one i said on the bffs podcast that i would never date anyone famous

00:24:30.900 ever so when men hear this they just roll their eyes brianna noted on the episode released october

00:24:36.180 22nd the same day the news broke literally never wanted to and then it just kind of happened

00:24:43.300 she didn't know why she changed her tune she admitted but brianna continued i wish it don't

00:24:48.260 date famous people on that note and remember this is her this is the anxiety she can't deal with the

00:24:54.100 anxiety i think it's a better i think it's better for the mental to not date someone famous it's a

00:25:00.260 lot in an october 21st instagram post brianna had shared a photo of a handwritten note detailing

00:25:10.500 some pretty intense feelings and eventually you'll find that life goes on even if you don't want it

00:25:16.500 to the days will pass and the world will move on while you ask it to stop the message read

00:25:22.100 you'll believe life is cruel for continuing on while your feet are stuck you'll find people and

00:25:28.740 moments blame to blame for you okay blah blah blah she puts some snappy stuff we don't care

00:25:35.460 um you know then she puts out this youtube video crying on the internet do you guys want to see a

00:25:44.020 a woman crying on the internet do we want to let's see let's pull let's let's pull it so this is the

00:25:53.440 youtube video crying online this was after he posts the instagram story she puts this up um i look

00:26:00.540 insane i have my crazy lady robe on um i'm on the bathroom floor something about a bathroom floor

00:26:05.700 gives me a lot of comfort so i've been sitting all on a bathroom floors the past couple of days

00:26:10.400 but um yeah I'm probably not going to post this for a little while but I just woke up to um

00:26:17.640 Zach posting on his Instagram that we broke up and um I had no idea that post was going up uh

00:26:26.280 he didn't text me he didn't call me um I just woke up to a bunch of texts being like are you okay and 0.74

00:26:31.140 I'm like did my fucking dad die um and yeah so I'm like completely blindsided by that um 0.89

00:26:40.000 um i also genuinely feel like i want us to keep notes she's saying she had no idea 0.99

00:26:46.560 like you see i was swallowing my faces i've been crying for like five days straight and um

00:26:54.020 sorry if this video is going to be a lot of jumping around but i um

00:27:01.320 i'm just i'm at the point where it's like how can you give someone everything and like love

00:27:12.620 them so unconditionally like through stuff that you shouldn't um because you just love them and

00:27:20.220 you want them like you see the good in them um like how guys ladies for the two women that watch

00:27:28.000 this show this is bad for us we have the worst marketing ever just as women because now you know 1.00

00:27:36.100 men were already kind of thinking I don't know the risks of marriage might be too much I don't know

00:27:41.440 this might be more work than it's worth now on top of that this stuff makes it more of a risk

00:27:50.120 to be in relationships with us because they'll think well I don't want to like I don't want this

00:27:57.120 you know you oh this is so embarrassing 0.99

00:28:02.340 um i don't give a fuck how can you like give every ounce of yourself to someone and then 0.99

00:28:13.040 like be discarded of in a few days um it's really really heartbreaking and um 0.99

00:28:25.160 I don't want to talk about details right now I don't want to talk about I don't want to talk

00:28:31.060 about it yet I will obviously but right now like I wanted to heal privately and I didn't even know

00:28:40.700 he was gonna post that and we broke up yesterday so um I wasn't ready okay so she just she just

00:28:50.760 contradicted herself first she said I was completely blindsided then like in the beginning

00:28:56.860 right she's acting as if she had no idea she knows what she's doing okay let's not and then

00:29:03.100 three minutes in or two minutes in she says well we did break up yesterday lady pick one 1.00

00:29:11.120 pick were you blind so you weren't blind I mean maybe you didn't want to publicly tell everyone 1.00

00:29:16.700 but I mean when you're single you're single now if you're broken up there's you can't you have

00:29:24.500 no say in what they do so if they want to tell people they're single uh it is what it is you

00:29:31.880 know you probably didn't take your ex's feelings into consideration when you were in a whole new

00:29:38.240 relationship a month later but I bet your ex took that L and just ate it I bet he didn't you know

00:29:45.280 do this right to do anything publicly and um now i'm just getting like a bajillion

00:29:53.360 freaking texts i'm sure like i wanted to just handle this as a human first and now it's um

00:30:01.760 it's not that so i'm just asking if you guys could please respect um jesus i look crazy

00:30:09.760 my privacy right now and like when i'm ready to talk about everything that happened i will

00:30:17.440 but right now i'm just like completely blindsided um and

00:30:24.080 yeah yeah and thank you for all the kind messages um i'm gonna be okay i'm gonna be fine

00:30:34.440 I'm just obviously really really hurt right now and I wanted to just like be

00:30:41.580 hurt for a week and like lay in bed you know and I just didn't want it to be

00:30:49.080 public so I'm just feeling blindsided yeah I love you guys a lot thank you

00:30:57.320 the kind of people and thank you now remember this is i might have to unflip this

00:31:10.120 all right hold on can you just put the camera there for one second thank you so now she's at

00:31:16.680 stage seven the breakup and remember um take footage for social media so stage six and seven

00:31:25.960 right now we're kind of you know going between um okay we're gonna keep going i mean genuinely

00:31:32.600 just everyone reaching out to me i'm not answering today so i'm not dead i'm just gonna go lay down

00:31:38.840 and i don't know watch love is blind that's probably not a good idea regardless everything

00:31:48.200 is gonna be okay i um i just don't want to talk about it so please don't make videos about this

00:31:53.720 and please don't like make videos about me just wait till i come back and talk about it can you

00:31:58.440 give me that yeah so again this is back to the victim right she's saying don't talk about it

00:32:06.360 as she's making a video talking about it you know it could have just been the instagram story

00:32:13.720 but now it's a whole yeah don't make videos about my video it's like lady make up your mind 0.99

00:32:23.720 okay so now we get simping now the reason we get simping is what happens is women go to men trying

00:32:34.760 to get sympathy or them to maybe beat up other men you know how many men get killed because 0.62

00:32:42.840 one woman said that guy did something to her so she goes and gets another guy to go you know do

00:32:50.520 something so dave portnoy um acted like a super simp and the reason hold on rap song he decided to

00:33:04.360 make a song destroying this guy's oh here it is so him and josh richards her co-host you know she

00:33:13.240 goes to them and says ah poor me victim victim victim right they only get her side of the story

00:33:19.240 not his. And they decide to use their platform to make a diss track. Now let's play it.

00:33:49.240 Pretty soon you gon' need a revival

00:33:52.240 I said trust me, caught your pants on fire 1.00

00:33:55.240 Tinder bubble riot, knew you was a liar 1.00

00:33:58.240 Yeah, you fucked up, it's about to get gory 1.00

00:34:01.240 Go and post it on your Instagram story 1.00

00:34:04.240 Yeah, you say you remember everything

00:34:07.240 I guess not cause you forgot about your wedding ring

00:34:10.240 This ain't a subtweet, I ain't coming subliminal

00:34:13.240 You're great at being country without the second syllable 0.95

00:34:16.240 my fist plus your face simple addition the way you did it wrong man it's sickening i'ma kick 1.00

00:34:22.060 your dick in to give you an adult circumcision think we in kentucky where i fry you like some 1.00

00:34:27.300 chicken but you're from okay well okay if you say so kind of ironic because soon you're getting this 1.00

00:34:33.140 ko now the way guys are gonna see this is okay we broke up we're done i don't want it to be this

00:34:39.120 whole thing can we move on so they don't tend to respond to this stuff because they just know

00:34:49.980 that defending themselves a waste of time you're she's I'm gonna be the villain I'll be the villain

00:34:56.540 let's just let it I know super simping can you believe this I don't understand Dave is so old

00:35:02.360 he's like 50 something you haven't seen this you haven't seen this film over there this film before

00:35:09.720 i mean dave of all people he's around celebrities he's got to know that getting cheated on is part

00:35:16.860 of dating celebrities i don't know what in what what world do you live in so what he should have

00:35:23.380 did is said look brie that guy was never gonna settle down okay you you should have just enjoyed

00:35:32.100 it while it lasted had fun at the grammys and took it for what it was so anyways let me let

00:35:40.300 me keep playing this song you're shorter than me so sorry if this a low blow i'm about to turn this 1.00

00:35:45.560 place to an oklahoma smoke show hey zb why you handing out these scds these girls is itchy in 1.00

00:35:51.960 their jeans asking what you mean they're asking doctors for their expertise all they say is that 1.00

00:35:56.640 gonna make you burn burn burn gonna need some antifreeze rest in peace if you ever try to mess

00:36:01.760 with me i'm coming at you with more arms than a centipede looking for pink skies but now you're 1.00

00:36:07.020 seeing stars there's something in the orange and it's you behind these bars bitch i would get back 1.00

00:36:12.100 my truck right now if you let me out of these handcuffs if you don't it's gonna be a mistake 0.98

00:36:15.820 sir i promise get back in your truck or go to jail i don't care which i'll go to jail i'm stuck 0.96

00:36:19.680 okay so they dropped this song and then now let's get into the meat the meat and potatoes of this

00:36:37.600 show all right so brianna chicken fry then you guys get the idea with the song i mean

00:36:46.220 i don't think we need more of that so this is what she says after okay

00:36:52.520 it's all social channels okay guys so this the beginning of this episode may be a little

00:37:00.000 confusing so let me explain it for you we recorded this episode last week and we didn't put it out

00:37:05.600 but i gave an explanation video in the beginning for the boys and i think for everyone to understand

00:37:11.160 we're gonna replay that video and then it's gonna cut back to this week's episode where we talk

00:37:15.940 about everything.

00:37:20.020 Hey guys, I've tried to record this so many times.

00:37:23.480 I sat down for like five hours in the podcast room

00:37:27.040 trying to record it.

00:37:28.080 I haven't slept yet.

00:37:29.040 I guess let's just get into it.

00:37:31.220 And if I do cry, I'm embarrassed too.

00:37:34.620 Like I didn't wanna do any of this yet.

00:37:38.420 I just wanted to deal with my breakup privately,

00:37:41.900 but that was robbed from me.

00:37:43.640 So here we are.

00:37:44.960 Okay.

00:37:45.940 dealing with your breakup privately was not robbed from you in any way, okay? I don't know how

00:37:52.880 we get away with these rationalizations. All he did was say they broke up. He didn't say,

00:37:58.680 this is what happened. All he did was put, we are no longer together.

00:38:04.780 And now this is causing World War III.

00:38:08.340 um so pretty much after all set like everything was done i was approached by his team and i was

00:38:19.020 offered um a lot of money like a big lump sum of money and a few options um basically i would have

00:38:28.680 gotten the money over the course of three years i would have had to sign all of my experiences

00:38:35.060 everything that I am away to this person they would have been monitoring everything that I do

00:38:41.560 and uh at the end of the three years I'll receive like that big lump sum of money like throughout

00:38:48.800 the years um I thought about it for a second and I think they tend to forget I started to forget

00:39:02.900 that i was someone i was established i was successful before him i'm gonna be someone

00:39:10.660 i'm gonna be established i'm gonna be successful okay so they basically said please shut up

00:39:17.380 please brie don't make this a big deal shut up please please god we'll give you money i'm rich

00:39:24.580 here's money shut up and she says oh but i can't is there anything else i could talk about other than 0.79

00:39:34.980 my breakup there's not like what about all the

00:39:44.340 no i want i i want no no i can't do that i am um maybe i'm not gonna be selling out stadiums and 0.61

00:39:53.620 and fucking making hundreds of millions of dollars. 0.80

00:39:56.860 That is like, I'm all right where I'm at 0.99

00:40:00.320 and I don't want blood money.

00:40:01.720 And I don't think you can pay people off that you hurt

00:40:07.340 for them to protect you.

00:40:10.000 I think that in itself,

00:40:12.960 offering millions of dollars

00:40:15.580 to this apparent beautiful relationship

00:40:17.740 to keep it a secret, speaks volumes.

00:40:23.620 Yeah, honestly, that's all I'm going to say on that. I did not accept any money. I will not accept any money. I think that's beneath me. I think that is fucked up. I am not previous people. I am me.

00:40:36.420 Oh, I forgot to add in this, make ominous claims that imply abuse, but don't say it, right?

00:40:46.840 Women, they often don't want to be questioned, so they don't want to say, I was abused, I was raped, or I was assaulted. 0.99

00:40:54.240 They don't want to say that.

00:40:55.640 So they'll say, well, it speaks volumes that he wants me to get money.

00:41:01.140 It speaks volumes.

00:41:02.520 well but but it's ominous it doesn't say exactly what happened right but i will not just

00:41:11.080 great guy i don't want to nitpick everything he's ever done i don't want to

00:41:15.800 talk about all of the bad shit and get into details i want to talk about the ending okay 0.80

00:41:21.640 do you know what's so funny i don't want to nitpick everything he ever he's ever done okay so 0.98

00:41:26.500 shh. So then don't shush. And I also want to blame myself a lot for this. Now when she says

00:41:37.200 blame myself, is she gonna say these are the things that I did wrong? Or is it gonna imply

00:41:46.340 she did nothing wrong? And the only flaw she has is giving too much and allowing people to treat 0.99

00:41:55.220 one way what do you guys think let me know in the chat what do you which one which one do you think

00:42:00.060 it's gonna be which is there any real critiques of yourself because half the reason this all

00:42:09.800 happened to me is because I let it and I think ah make it stop god make it stop

00:42:19.740 because i let it oh my goodness this is why it's so important for me and i think other girls and

00:42:26.800 women that experience the same thing it's like i kept showing up when i shouldn't have and i kept

00:42:34.580 like loving and giving when i should enough and that comes down to like that's a me problem

00:42:45.000 And I think a lot of people do that.

00:42:47.460 If you're not getting the love that you're giving,

00:42:51.680 you have to walk away.

00:42:52.920 And I genuinely think that this is such a blessing 0.88

00:42:56.140 because who fucking knows how long I would have stayed 1.00

00:42:58.880 and how long I would have dealt with this shit 1.00

00:43:00.200 and like just been a doormat to someone 1.00

00:43:03.480 with this big crazy life that just like

00:43:05.800 seemingly cannot take accountability for-

00:43:08.820 Oh my gosh.

00:43:11.540 The way you treated me.

00:43:12.640 I think this is a learning moment.

00:43:15.400 I think this is a lesson learned

00:43:17.200 and I learned a lot about myself in this relationship.

00:43:19.580 So I guess let's just get into the ending of our relationship.

00:43:23.160 I went through this two times.

00:43:26.600 So I obviously went on tour with him

00:43:29.260 and I like gave up myself to do that.

00:43:32.180 And like I said, willingly, we talked about it a lot

00:43:34.820 and it was like a sacrifice for our future.

00:43:36.880 And it was one year we could do it, it would be over.

00:43:40.080 And like, I was just willing to sacrifice

00:43:43.320 for someone that I loved.

00:43:44.100 I didn't think-

00:43:44.940 So remember, that's what I was saying.

00:43:47.180 That's the change your personality,

00:43:50.600 give up your hobbies.

00:43:51.600 I could have added into that,

00:43:52.720 but that's the stage she was at, 0.98

00:43:54.740 changing who she was, right?

00:43:56.880 That, I didn't think that it would end like this, obviously.

00:44:00.860 And throughout that, it came a point

00:44:04.000 where I had to plan my tour,

00:44:06.320 the tours that I've been doing for years.

00:44:08.560 And I started planning it and we planned it

00:44:12.920 according to his tour schedule.

00:44:14.720 So it was planned where I could be at everything of his

00:44:17.460 and he had a two month break.

00:44:19.700 I could go on my tour and we could just like relax

00:44:22.380 and take a break because the year was very grueling

00:44:26.060 on obviously him, but me too.

00:44:27.680 I'm living on a bus and traveling every single day

00:44:29.760 and I'm not with anyone that I know.

00:44:32.040 And it was really lonely.

00:44:34.340 So I was gonna get off his tour of the year,

00:44:38.720 get off the bus and I had a couple of days

00:44:40.600 and I'm gonna go on tour.

00:44:41.580 He drove me to New York City and dropped me off

00:44:46.000 and it was kind of abrupt.

00:44:47.540 It was like, he just like got in his car and left

00:44:49.320 and I'm like, he's like, I'm not ditching you.

00:44:50.720 I'm gonna come like on your tour in a couple of days.

00:44:52.420 I'll see you like, I love you.

00:44:54.540 That felt a little weird.

00:44:55.400 I was like, what the hell?

00:44:58.280 I knew he wasn't coming.

00:44:59.740 And that's okay because we talked about it

00:45:02.880 And it was basically that he had just had

00:45:07.520 the hardest year of his life.

00:45:08.700 He just wants to sit still.

00:45:10.140 He wants to be here in Massachusetts,

00:45:12.960 be at home and just be quiet.

00:45:15.580 And I'm like, you know what?

00:45:16.460 That makes total sense.

00:45:17.780 I'll go on my tour.

00:45:18.740 I'm excited.

00:45:19.580 I'm so excited to get back to me

00:45:20.740 and like do what I was doing.

00:45:22.120 It will be nice to have like this time off,

00:45:25.340 you know, away from each other

00:45:26.260 where I'm back doing my thing

00:45:27.600 and he can just relax, recollect himself

00:45:29.780 and get ready to go on the last leg of his tour.

00:45:32.560 And I set off on tour and him and I are fine.

00:45:35.300 And we're talking every day, obviously.

00:45:37.120 And I'm thriving.

00:45:39.240 I'm so happy.

00:45:40.080 I'm back on my element.

00:45:41.560 It's all over social media, obviously,

00:45:42.980 like I'm posting about it.

00:45:44.220 I'm so excited.

00:45:45.560 I'm back with my friends.

00:45:46.720 I'm like doing me.

00:45:47.840 And it's very evident that I'm happy.

00:45:50.880 And all of a sudden, there's this shift with him where-

00:45:56.040 Okay, so when we say,

00:45:57.780 when what happens with women like this is,

00:46:00.380 Again, we're not used to dating a guy that tells us no, that says, no, I'm not doing

00:46:05.240 that, no, I'm not going with you, no, no, no, no, no, no, that's annoying.

00:46:11.320 We're not really used to that.

00:46:12.660 We're kind of just used to doing whatever we want, right?

00:46:16.360 So when that starts to happen, you know, we'll say, well, it's me, you know, being me and

00:46:23.140 I'm happy.

00:46:23.780 well the thing is men like you know she's a social media person so I'm sure she was posting

00:46:31.640 more and even if we're not social media people men just don't like your personal relationship

00:46:38.260 on social media so if I had to guess she was doing something that he found annoying

00:46:43.960 and he starts to get distant not because she's happy but because she's doing something that he

00:46:52.680 finds annoying. Every guy, it's different, right? Maybe it's talking too much. Maybe it's posting

00:46:57.660 something. I don't know what it was for him, but that's my guess here. He suddenly goes to New York

00:47:04.340 City and throws a pop-up show and stops answering me and just completely is just 180 from,

00:47:13.740 babe, I can't make your tour because I really want to just be home and be here and be present

00:47:19.480 and relax to, okay, I'm not going to come to your tour,

00:47:23.440 but I'm going to go have a pop-up show in New York City.

00:47:26.360 I'm going to stay out all night for all these days

00:47:29.720 and not answer you.

00:47:30.760 And then I'm going to text you

00:47:32.880 when you're on your biggest tour that you've done

00:47:36.100 and say, actually, I can't do this anymore out of nowhere.

00:47:41.740 Well, I'm in Seattle.

00:47:43.020 I'm across the country.

00:47:44.440 And I'm like halfway.

00:47:46.640 It's hard to even look back on 0.85

00:47:47.900 because I'm halfway through my tour, and it's fucking awesome.

00:47:53.020 And, like, obviously every day I'm wishing he was there, 0.76

00:47:55.760 like how I showed up for him.

00:47:58.140 But I respected that he just wanted to be home

00:48:01.120 because I understood that he had a hard year.

00:48:02.940 Okay, so a lot of times guys, they don't tell us things

00:48:06.140 because, you know, what she's not saying is how she would react.

00:48:11.420 You know, she's painting the picture that every time he said

00:48:13.760 something she didn't like, she reacted perfectly.

00:48:16.860 so in this situation if he said you know what i don't want to go to your tour i want to go

00:48:21.340 do a pop-up show and party all night do you think most girlfriends are gonna say ah yes

00:48:29.100 go do it have fun hunt you know we don't know how she reacted right but then he just went out and

00:48:37.180 went crazy and through parties and um then tells me he can't do this anymore with me because he

00:48:43.500 needed me during these two weeks that we had planned for me to be on my tour he needed me there

00:48:48.060 but we had planned this according to his schedule so that i could go live my life and i sidebar i

00:48:53.080 just i genuinely think he just needs someone that can be that that can just be the girl and

00:49:01.200 no one should ever just be the girl and i was so close to just being the girl yeah so again this

00:49:08.580 goes back to most women tend to be happier when they have the leverage so when it's the girl that 0.97

00:49:16.820 has more power than the guy because she's saying I was about to give up me in order to be with him 1.00

00:49:22.560 and you know in order to have kids and a family which I mean no one's really doing that anyways

00:49:30.900 birth rates going down whatever um you got somebody's got to give up something and

00:49:38.840 so she almost kind of she almost got the dream which is

00:49:44.940 to get with a guy better than you in every way every woman wants a guy better than her in every 0.64

00:49:51.980 way she almost pulled that off you know but she couldn't give up the things that she liked 0.99

00:50:00.700 the thing she couldn't give up her dreams for his that's not right or wrong but 0.98

00:50:06.120 that's why I say most women can't handle being with the being with the type of guys that we want 1.00

00:50:14.460 but I'm on tour and I'm like holy shit I kind of forgot like who I am and what I built and 0.98

00:50:20.680 all of these fans that are here and all these shows I'm still touring the fucking west coast 0.91

00:50:24.260 I'm flying all over and I'm doing so well I'm so happy I'm finally like feeling like myself again

00:50:29.420 and I I just get the I can't do this anymore I need you and it was like like what we what

00:50:38.600 where is this coming from why are you breaking up with me when I'm across the country on my tour

00:50:43.680 and what the fuck so I'm on my tour and my tour documentary is out you can slowly watch the 0.99

00:50:49.440 light fade from my fucking eyes it's really sad to watch but you would have never known that um 0.99

00:50:53.820 he would have never known that no one there knew that because I put them first and that tour first 0.99

00:50:59.480 and I wasn't gonna let wasn't gonna let for a second him take that away from me or my team or

00:51:04.640 my friends and I have three more shows left or two more shows left and I'm a mess like I can't even 0.59

00:51:10.280 I can't even talk I'm I'm just in my hotel room like what the fuck I'm like do I fly back do I

00:51:16.820 like try to talk to him what what is happening it was just so out of nowhere and for why I don't

00:51:22.320 know had that thrown on me while i was on tour was awful and um i got through it sometimes you

00:51:28.440 get dumped at the worst places it just it's an l big l and a lot of times you know guys don't want

00:51:37.100 us you know i mean you shouldn't get texted or call it you know it should be in person but should

00:51:42.640 what i mean do you think she dumped every single guy that she's been with before or broken up with

00:51:49.360 in person super politely like do you think she's always been the good guy no um so sometimes when

00:51:55.360 the men have the power they're they act like one could say a villain but you know that's the trade

00:52:03.520 off of getting with a guy that has more options than you i got through the tour like barely and

00:52:10.000 i flew home and also guys like this video you know this is ridiculous the like is free or go

00:52:16.240 Go to theaudacitynetwork.com, monthly, yearly membership.

00:52:20.780 It helps us fund our documentary, so help a woman out.

00:52:23.940 Thank you.

00:52:24.960 No way this is like, like, no way this is happening, right?

00:52:28.020 Like, I'm going to go home, and it's going to be like, no, like, no, this isn't what's happening.

00:52:31.880 And I get home from three weeks on the road of nonstop travel, and it's pretty much like, hey, it's time to move out.

00:52:39.960 I'm like, what?

00:52:40.720 Can we, like, talk about this?

00:52:43.560 Not even that I want to figure it out.

00:52:45.640 like can i have a can we have a conversation about what's happening because i'm lost bro i am like

00:52:52.080 are we on two different planets right now did we not just buy like did we not just build a life

00:52:58.660 together in my like where i grew up did we not just talk about constantly every day getting

00:53:04.000 married and kids do we not make video diaries for our children every day i go away for yeah so when

00:53:11.380 When I hear this and I'm hearing did we make video diaries for children, men just they 0.99

00:53:19.040 don't want everything recorded.

00:53:22.460 They really so generally when she says did we make video diaries?

00:53:28.200 To me what I'm hearing is I made video diaries.

00:53:33.760 And he didn't like that.

00:53:36.620 weeks to to give myself a little bit of something and i come home and it's pack your bags i was

00:53:45.700 gutted like gutted i i'm sure her last boyfriend was gutted when she dumped him for a celebrity

00:53:52.820 right drove back to boston the next morning and still getting nothing it's just like i accepted

00:54:01.180 it i had to cancel surviving barstool because i had to look for a place to live and i had to

00:54:06.340 um i don't know try to comprehend everything that was going on and i don't think a reality show

00:54:11.480 would have been the best for me which sucks because i really wanted to do that like and i

00:54:15.140 was really excited for that and i feel like there were so many things that i like really wanted to

00:54:18.420 do i was excited for and i just like i was made to like hate so many things about myself that

00:54:23.860 like i once loved and like i just like again remember she said she everything i'm saying is

00:54:32.000 right okay changed her personality step three changed her personality and and this is what

00:54:39.060 happened we repeat you know what happens if we date guys that let us do whatever we want and

00:54:44.900 then we dump them and then we date a guy that doesn't and then we go through these steps right

00:54:49.940 until we no longer qualify like we hit I don't know 30 35 and then we no longer can get the

00:54:58.720 guys out of our league and then um yeah and then we just make money off of the tell-all books

00:55:06.800 to just do everything with him in the back of my mind and i don't think that's how any

00:55:10.320 relationship should ever be like of course you think about your significant other but

00:55:14.240 you shouldn't think about like is this going to upset them or is this gonna

00:55:17.760 like cause a fight when it's things that shouldn't upset people and okay so this caused a fight

00:55:25.440 over things that shouldn't upset people so what happens is women will say okay tell me when things 0.65

00:55:32.000 bother you and then a guy will tell you when something bothers him and then she'll say well

00:55:39.000 you shouldn't be upset over that well you know make up our mind ladies which is it drove home

00:55:46.400 and i like came to terms with it and i just like surrounded myself with friends and family and like

00:55:51.340 fucking cried to them um and I think like three or four days went by and I get a call from him like 0.96

00:55:58.120 it was all a mistake and like I need you right now like he's going through his own shit and 0.99

00:56:04.520 he's like I like I need you I need you to come back like I'll come to you like I'm sorry and 0.88

00:56:09.480 like I foolishly was like okay like you okay I'll fucking come back um I'm embarrassed of that 0.85

00:56:19.820 but like i said when you love somebody right um but that's also why i say this is like partially

00:56:26.340 my fault because i let myself be treated that way and i don't know why yeah that's the only

00:56:32.800 thing you did wrong i'm sure like i don't know why i just was in this like crazy cycle

00:56:38.560 with this guy and um i came back and like he still never apologized for what he did to me and i kept

00:56:46.720 asking you like I'm gonna apologize I just can't do it right now he never did

00:56:50.200 he never he never apologized for like doing what he did to me when I was on

00:56:54.220 tour and then like sending me home and then the guys in the chat said booty

00:56:57.520 call come back well it just you know it's an L it's an L like there's nothing

00:57:07.540 from it so I guess I'm like staying with him to like hopefully get some sort of

00:57:10.360 closure and then we went in to Boston for my live show and a lot of horrible

00:57:15.400 shit happened that night i don't want to get into details right now i don't know if i ever want to 0.70

00:57:18.780 get into details um a lot of horrible shit happened that night and the next day um it kind of ended 0.98

00:57:26.720 yeah did you hear that again that's the ominous a lot of horrible shit happened that night i don't 0.96

00:57:32.760 want to get into details well then why did you bring it up i mean you know i'd rather she just 0.67

00:57:40.360 says you know what i'm gonna talk i'm gonna spill everything because i would rather she just said

00:57:46.920 you know what i don't give an f i'm saying everything bad he ever did rather than what

00:57:50.940 she's doing now which is i'm gonna say everything or imply everything and also try to virtue signal

00:58:00.080 i don't like that say what you said sis i mean at this point get the write that tell all book

00:58:07.380 you're already in this deep you know us wanting to work through it me willing to work through it

00:58:14.440 and forgiving and um like him telling me like i can't lose you i need you and me being like okay

00:58:24.080 all right all right let's do this like we can get through this and then the next morning we wake up

00:58:29.020 and i'm like getting a cold shoulder like what the fuck is going on like it was always so hot 0.93

00:58:33.980 cold like i didn't know what version i was gonna get ever and it's just cold shoulder and he's like 0.87

00:58:40.220 i'm going back to oklahoma and i'm like okay i've been telling you to go back to oklahoma all year

00:58:45.260 like i want i i want to go back to oklahoma too i miss it and um he goes back to oklahoma and i

00:58:51.500 don't know where we stand at this point because he won't give me anything i'm asking like are we

00:58:53.980 okay what's going on and he's just like i need to go back to oklahoma i'm like okay cool but

00:58:58.380 us and um he's just i'm going back i'm like okay i ask i ask i go can i have a hug before you go

00:59:07.360 this seems like it's going to be the last time we're going to see each other and he goes you're

00:59:10.620 being so fucking dramatic didn't give me a hug okay so that's the last time i saw him i knew 0.92

00:59:15.800 that was going to be the last time i saw him um he yeah they said he hit it again and bounced 0.97

00:59:20.880 i mean you know some guy look at when you when you guys that are out of their out of our league

00:59:30.180 right the guys that get i mean they treat you like you're expendable want to know why

00:59:34.320 because you are because there's another her in every single city i mean it's not it's not going 0.78

00:59:42.140 to be difficult for him to replace her so will he treat her a bit like trash yes but ladies let's 1.00

00:59:49.560 not act innocent how did she treat her ex-boyfriend that she dumped and left for a celebrity what

00:59:56.020 would he say right oklahoma and i still never like i never had a breakup conversation i never had

01:00:03.440 like a phone call about what's going on i just had like argumentative words and i we didn't have

01:00:08.680 a sit down like all i wanted was like a kinder goodbye um i'm well aware people break up and

01:00:14.060 things happen but people break up and things happen in like a normal way but this just was

01:00:18.580 like discard leave yeah because again guys see it as a cost-benefit analysis they're like what

01:00:25.980 would I get out of a closure conversation what do I get out of this nope this is done

01:00:30.880 I don't think a conversation will help move on bye me cry and um I talked to him about it a lot

01:00:42.320 like talk about like we finally like I guess had a breakup conversation over text um and it was

01:00:47.300 the same day that he made his raya and that day we have like our talk and we talk about how moving

01:00:54.620 forward publicly is going to be on me and on my terms and when i want to say it and i was like i

01:00:57.900 just need like um just give me a week so that i can deal with this before i have to deal with it

01:01:02.780 online in front of everyone and i um get a bunch of dms that night of like girl your man's on raya 0.97

01:01:09.500 i'm like what so i'm like what the fuck obviously it's like dude you are the guy right now like you 0.95

01:01:16.500 are so famous everyone is going to remember the same thing happened to her a year ago 0.97

01:01:22.180 where everyone online was saying uh brianna's with zach bryan post that do you not have any

01:01:30.180 like remorse or regard like that you claim to for my feelings when you know we broke up that day

01:01:36.020 you make a raya obviously it's going to be the first thing online like obviously one that's 0.99

01:01:40.100 humiliating too he wanted he wanted you know some he wanted some ass do you think okay let me get 0.99

01:01:49.140 this straight you think you think a guy at that level is gonna wait more than okay a guy that 0.99

01:01:55.620 gets hot blonde women i mean i've been to country concerts it's a bunch of 120 pound attractive 0.99

01:02:02.900 blonde blue-eyed long-haired women waiting for him in every city you think he's gonna say you 0.96

01:02:08.900 you know what no let me turn that down for my ex's feelings that i'm no longer with and don't

01:02:14.940 plan on being with i mean it makes perfect sense of course he's going to download raya 0.98

01:02:19.720 that's hurtful three it's like what the fuck i don't think you need raya i think you need therapy 0.97

01:02:24.300 it's fucking beyond me that he did that and when i called him yep that's where so if they did stay 0.99

01:02:28.840 together it would be step five therapy i mean i it's like clockwork really you make a dating 0.97

01:02:35.880 profile you know he says to me i didn't make a dating profile i reactivated it i'm like okay um

01:02:41.240 if one plus one equals two like it's the same thing um so that was like tell my mom my dad my

01:02:48.360 sisters my cousins my best friends everyone in my life forward and heal from this okay healing

01:02:55.880 yeah the seven eight i should have added the healing journey because that's where they go to

01:03:00.120 so now these simps back her up so now dave is in a position

01:03:06.520 dave knows how celebrity men act so in all honesty he should have had a conversation with her 1.00

01:03:14.040 and said you know what you signed up for this you dumb you dumb chick i mean what did you expect 1.00

01:03:22.200 uh maybe in a nicer way not the pearl way but yeah let me 1.00

01:03:26.600 me Brianna was offered and I'm trying to think the best way to lay out this whole thing we'll

01:03:31.820 get into all the subjects we did before but a lot's changed from the last episode Brianna

01:03:34.940 was offered basically a payout to sign an NDA uh to not talk about the breakup things that happened

01:03:41.900 and it was a constant over the last week of back and forth I think in Brianna's mind should I take 0.82

01:03:47.480 the money and it's a shit time 12 million bucks is what it ended up being take it down for one

01:03:53.540 second I am going to I don't want to keep getting up I think that would lower the quality of the 0.64

01:04:00.100 show so what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna make a google doc and I'm gonna write in all of the

01:04:07.180 abuse that she faced and we're gonna make a list so list of Brianna's terrible abuse

01:04:16.020 because she's going around on the internet saying not in this stuff but later she says

01:04:23.120 she was emotionally abused and I want to make sure that I'm getting this right

01:04:26.420 that's a serious claim so she was first offered one offered 12 million dollars 0.99

01:04:34.360 to shut up okay what else he broke up with her and then slept with her again 0.87

01:04:47.040 again does it sounds like an l for sure but not abuse um he 0.90

01:04:53.360 dumped her over text i think was over text again not nice but you know was an l um

01:05:06.560 uh let me know in the chat if i'm missing anything but we're gonna keep going

01:05:11.360 that is life-changing money and i think for the better half of the week if you talk to brie and

01:05:19.640 obviously i'll let brie say this in all words uh one hour she'd be like i'm not taking it

01:05:23.500 that i'm not taking it the next hour too much money have to take it like how can i pass up 12

01:05:28.140 million like what happened like my career i don't know there's people have turned on me since this

01:05:32.140 relationship it's been kind of a stalwart my career and i was going back and forth with her a lot

01:05:35.960 and even i was flip-flopping like i was like i think it was a moral battle it was a moral battle

01:05:40.180 and I kept calling Dave I kept calling everyone because I'm like no one has the answer to this

01:05:43.880 I'm like what the fuck do I do and of course I mean from the get-go from the beginning from 0.99

01:05:46.520 last week's episode I was like fuck you I don't want your money but then I look at my family who 0.99

01:05:49.820 obviously doesn't have money and comes from nothing they're like take the money take the 0.99

01:05:51.820 money and I'm like I feel so stupid if I don't take this money and like you said the career thing

01:05:55.140 but then I'm not going to be able to sleep at night if I take this dude's money and we'll get

01:05:58.180 we'll get into why I didn't take the money but yeah it was a back and forth and I was I was

01:06:00.760 just I was like take the money I can't me and Dave me and Dave even texting it was like it was

01:06:06.480 like we can't tell brie not to like obviously you know we want to go to war but we can't tell

01:06:11.140 brie not to take this money like this is this is huge and josh and i made the diss track after we

01:06:17.300 recorded nothing from brie like no no information in the diss track that we made was from brie it's

01:06:23.020 all readily available already kind of out there stuff so this was nothing yes correct nothing to

01:06:28.500 do with her um and again i was going back and forth because i've my perspective and i don't

01:06:35.160 to toot my own horn this is the the brie show and josh's horn we were gonna eat that this track for

01:06:39.000 a while like i just thought we're gonna make it we spent all day doing it i'm like this is just

01:06:42.360 never going to see the light of day so yeah and again i didn't want to and i still didn't i think

01:06:46.760 the last conversation i had with brie yes this is the simp who made the track guys like you know what

01:06:53.080 i kind of don't think you should take it i think this sends a message you're like what you're about

01:06:58.280 and money's money you've never been about money but i also don't want to be the person to be like

01:07:01.800 don't take it because you in three years you turned down 12 million or whatever it is and i

01:07:06.440 don't want to be in that spot so i understood it was only it was a very personal decision

01:07:09.640 that only brie could make and right up till what was it the election day i thought we were done i

01:07:16.600 was and i guess can i say it now we haven't really planned this is a chat says breakup by text is

01:07:21.960 cowardly totally but abusive i don't think so free form thing yeah but my plan at the end of

01:07:30.600 of the year was to be done with bffs um just because i'm getting older like nearing 50 talking

01:07:36.540 about teenage drama a little out of my wheelhouse so we've known this for months and we're like

01:07:40.100 what's the best way to announce it and it was like it was kind of in the same direction you

01:07:45.760 were talking about dave where it's like the pod's kind of gonna have to come to an end like how can

01:07:49.600 we do this and not talk about it like that wouldn't be us doing our due diligence to the

01:07:52.680 fans and the people that have supported the show for three years right and i think brie you probably

01:07:55.660 thought about that right like it's because she could have said look it just didn't work out

01:07:59.600 love him great guy didn't work out awesome podcast and it's obviously different josh has gone through

01:08:04.840 it extreme in the beginning nothing like what brie is because zach's such a huge star me a tiny bit

01:08:09.760 but nothing like this so it's a personal decision josh and i certainly can't tell brie what to do

01:08:14.900 or how to think or what decision but it's really hard to go along with this pod and pretend this

01:08:19.420 didn't happen yeah um well this episode is gonna be really hard for me and that's why i've put it

01:08:26.620 off for so long because of course like the diss track was silly it was funny and that is what it

01:08:32.000 is but it's so much deeper than that and like this episode isn't I honestly feel like I might cry so

01:08:38.220 this might get awkward but um especially in the Minahan studio I know it's like what the what the

01:08:42.860 am I this is crazy game time we love getting out to live events with this concert football game

01:08:47.360 comedy show and we all the point of I'm not the people before and I was someone before you and

01:08:54.680 you made the women before me believe that they had no okay so he made his exes sign ndas 0.98

01:08:59.580 he didn't make them he paid them right 1.00

01:09:02.380 now she just wants to be a hero so bad so bad your choice and to take money from you sign their

01:09:11.500 their experiences away sign what they went through away you get to go skip off and sing your little 0.99

01:09:16.700 fucking songs on stage like you're a good good dude you get to treat people around you like 1.00

01:09:21.000 shit sorry i'm not them i don't want your money i don't want in two years to buy a fucking house 1.00

01:09:26.880 and think oh this is the money from the dude that literally fucking destroyed me and broke me for a 1.00

01:09:32.020 year fuck that okay so she said he he broke me he destroyed me okay what did he do brie 0.99

01:09:38.700 that's a serious accusation what did he do i need i need actual i know and she's making money off 0.99

01:09:46.600 breakup it's like okay you i don't want your money and i i'm this isn't me getting on this

01:09:51.240 isn't like a drama thing for me this isn't me not signing the nda or not taking the money because i

01:09:54.840 want to get on here and expose who he is and his secrets and all that i didn't sign the nda

01:09:59.320 i didn't take the money because i'm not signing away my experiences and what i went through

01:10:03.080 to protect someone okay that's a rationalization i don't want to tell his secrets but i won't sign

01:10:09.160 away what i went through okay and i'm a lot stronger than a weak man and i'm not you

01:10:17.240 your money you that's where i'm at and that's why i didn't take the money it didn't have anything

01:10:21.320 all because of an instagram story this is so ridiculous with the podcast or with anything i

01:10:28.520 literally for the last i it feels like it's been months but i don't know when this like maybe two

01:10:33.160 weeks i have been so back and forth because the second it happened the second it happened i told

01:10:38.280 his team i have all the texts and everything the second we broke up the second he posted that text

01:10:41.880 i said you i don't want your money like i don't want a settlement i don't like i don't know who

01:10:45.880 you think i am but that's not me and then it was a back and forth the back and forth his team would

01:10:49.320 call me they'd they gave me all these options they gave me they started low then they went up to 10

01:10:53.880 million then they went up to 12 million then they wanted to give me a house then they wanted to give

01:10:56.520 me a new york apartment then they wanted to do all these things to make me i mean that in itself 12

01:11:02.360 million dollars to not talk about this relationship that you posted on instagram that was so beautiful

01:11:07.080 and you had so much love for me what the are you hiding dude what are you scared of like and also

01:11:10.920 everything that's already on the internet is enough but i mean i went through literal narcissistic

01:11:16.440 emotional abuse for a year there it is always he was a narcissist when women call their ex's

01:11:27.080 narcissist it just means i loved him a lot i swear if she doesn't call you a narcissist after she

01:11:33.480 didn't like you that much it's just he made me believe everything was my fault he he was a great

01:11:37.560 guy she didn't like you sorry fellas isolated me for my whole entire life he wouldn't let me be who

01:11:43.000 i wanted to be he made me hate every again he wouldn't let me be who i wanted to be again that's

01:11:47.800 step three he made me hate everything i loved about myself that i loved about myself so again

01:11:56.360 that's all the annoying stuff that guys don't really like but the women like right so you know 1.00

01:12:03.080 like there's stuff that you know women we like we're loud at brunch and screaming about random

01:12:11.480 stuff and gossiping we like that stuff the men not as much right me down and that made me feel

01:12:19.320 like he was all i had left and he just kept repeatedly beating me down and beating me down

01:12:23.240 even to the point of like yesterday or like when i gave you guys the call when i'm i'm finally

01:12:28.440 standing up for myself and being like no you i don't want to sign this it's my fault i'm the 0.99

01:12:33.240 bad guy this is like you guys are idiots barstool is the worst what i do is diminishing and call 0.99

01:12:39.560 brie sent me a text he he's called us all retard he hates my guts i ended up getting into i ended 0.99

01:12:44.680 up like more in the middle of this than i kind of was anticipating and which is funny because i

01:12:50.360 texted david was like you want to do the des track on zach and then now dave is the one that

01:12:54.200 zach is like well yeah because i was like i was i feel like i have pretty good life experience

01:13:02.040 through bars whatever older so i i was trying to act as i guess breeze friend and like legal advice

01:13:09.080 when i don't have any real legal advice but like i was knowing what was going on the negotiations

01:13:12.760 to a degree um and it was going back and forth with the money we'll get to but like at one point

01:13:18.440 austin sent me a text and the text and i wasn't involved at any point on this but it was something

01:13:26.760 to the effect you guys kept being brought into it for some reason i'm like this between me and zach

01:13:31.560 like i you guys kept being brought into it okay hun you brought the internet into it i'm like what 0.83

01:13:37.720 the is going on and honestly their team is stupid because if i didn't have enough time to take 0.92

01:13:42.040 myself out of the situation and really think about this i would have signed that nba but they stalled 0.99

01:13:45.880 and they they up because right so it was i could have been stupid yeah it was going super slow

01:13:50.200 like the back and forth and when we thought brie was gonna take the money i'm like get the money

01:13:53.640 in your account i don't care about legal i can they told her at one point they can't wire five

01:13:57.080 million bucks or something like brie i can why are you five million bucks in 10 minutes that's

01:13:59.800 they're lying so i'm behind the scenes at some point and we talked when josh and i distracted

01:14:04.360 like they're gonna try to push this to the election they're gonna like delay delay delay

01:14:07.400 because getting the news cycle but austin sent me a text and we josh and i were not involved in this

01:14:11.720 brie really had revealed very little i was talking to them and my lawyers that's it i was trying to

01:14:15.960 i was playing always like i always did by their rules by their playbook i was trying to make zach

01:14:19.240 happy so austin sends me a text they're trying to squeeze brie because of josh josh and you right

01:14:26.600 wasn't that what you pretty much said austin yeah basically they were saying that they were going to

01:14:29.400 squeeze brie in order to stop you guys from saying anything or releasing the distract like we can't

01:14:32.200 get to you so we'll get to you through brie and they found out about the distract that josh and

01:14:35.240 i made because of some weird connection between like warner music or something like an engineer

01:14:38.600 um regardless i think anyone who knows me pretty well like we can make our own decisions

01:14:43.560 i'm not gonna have someone tell me like you i have to shut up like i don't even know anything 0.98

01:14:48.520 you guys are idiots also like me like me i would call dave and talk about this like 0.99

01:14:52.520 not not even about like what really was going on just be like this is a decision i need to make is 0.99

01:14:55.240 it like money or what should i what should i do but dave didn't know anything and i tried to explain

01:14:58.120 to them like dave it's dave porten or do you guys not this is his shtick this is his thing if you

01:15:02.280 try to attack him everything is going to get worse and they just try to pin dave on me and i'm like 0.92

01:15:05.880 like what the fuck is going on so yeah it was a weird strategy for them to think poking the bear 0.84

01:15:09.160 was going to come out okay so her friends made a diss track now imagine if she had an std imagine 0.99

01:15:16.600 okay because they said that i think he got leaked for having an std which i mean 0.95

01:15:21.880 it's a celebrity he's having sex with girls in every city is that shocking not really but let's

01:15:30.160 the tables were turned and he made a diss track about her stds how would the public react it's

01:15:37.440 totally fine for them to do it to him what if his friends made a diss track back about hers

01:15:44.320 or other personal information even that got leaked to the public how would the public

01:15:50.400 perceive that for them um yeah i i keep going back to who the is running this guy's

01:15:55.200 because they need to be gone not that i want to give zach advice on his life but

01:15:58.400 get rid of whoever's running your oh i had some words with his manager after austin sent

01:16:02.880 me that must have been thursday at 4 32 p.m because at 4 33 i don't even know how you had

01:16:07.600 i got the lawyer's number how did you have that yeah chris i can read the text it's it's kind of

01:16:11.200 funny i have it i have you have that what you said chris chris must have given it how did you

01:16:15.120 yeah so chris gave i don't know how chris had the lawyer's number because he chris is like my

01:16:18.800 manager so my manager don't care you didn't take the money let's see next she said no to the money

01:16:24.800 where is the other abuse let's fast forward a little bit okay now this ad is ending okay

01:16:33.200 fighting breaking gang back do you think if he didn't post that message and wasn't caught on raya

01:16:37.760 there's a chance you're still with him now i think 100 if it was like so i guess let me reverse it

01:16:45.040 a little bit to explain yeah i think we should have a recap basically kind of what you did in

01:16:47.760 the last episode just so everyone has what we're all about this yeah yeah i'll get a i'll do like

01:16:51.440 a little more insight to the relationship so obviously i ignored a lot of red flags hit the

01:16:55.920 like button hit the hit that and by the way have we heard anything she did wrong anything nothing

01:17:02.240 anything but when people tell me they love me or when like i just believe people because i don't

01:17:06.720 want i don't assume people are bad i believed too much not like in day port on a huge red flag yeah

01:17:11.840 um um well so our relationship started and i also want to make it very clear

01:17:16.960 our people think that he was with his ex-girlfriend when we started dating he and it's out there for

01:17:20.960 you guys things that you have used against me before he was with multiple other girls the std

01:17:24.480 girls after his past relationship okay so these are the girls apparently he gave someone an s

01:17:32.000 what did he give her trick is that a bad one uh okay

01:17:42.960 then i was after that so i there was and i could attest to this i was at the concert the first night

01:17:50.880 brie and zach even met like so i do know i just shook his hand they just said hello what did we

01:17:56.240 say hi to him for three and a half seconds and then we went and hung out with my my boyfriend

01:17:59.520 at the time there's a lot of allegations of that still which i know you've cleared that like okay

01:18:03.600 these are men they give women the benefit of the doubt through everything if she says

01:18:08.240 oh but we didn't we didn't do anything again i look at your actions so okay you might say

01:18:15.360 we just met there didn't cheat didn't talk whatever but in may you guys met in july

01:18:21.760 your boyfriend and girlfriend i mean who buys it in the i don't buy it and just because you

01:18:28.160 guys want to believe women at all costs uh you guys are kids not you in the chat i love you guys 0.98

01:18:33.520 but if barstool wants to believe women at all costs i don't care what what evidence do i have

01:18:39.440 that this is an honest and trustworthy person i'm just going based off of her word prove it 0.66

01:18:44.080 prove it you guys made the timeline go fucking check your own facts if you want to use everything 0.96

01:18:48.820 against me my whole life is on the internet i've been honest open about i'm an open fucking book 0.97

01:18:51.900 go check it so that like our we first hung out when i went on this road trip with him this is

01:18:56.240 the first time we like talked like in person and we were texting a little bit before that and then

01:19:00.580 was like i need to go on a road trip from philly to oklahoma do you want to come i'm like yeah

01:19:04.020 it i'm just gonna have a relationship i'm super sad i didn't think i'm gonna end up dating this

01:19:07.460 dude i'm like this is a funny story i'm sitting on a bench with grace and she's like yeah go do

01:19:10.980 it like who cares who wouldn't you wouldn't shut the up yes you would so i'm like this is gonna 0.58

01:19:14.660 be crazy i'm going out with zach bryan on a road trip we go i mean it's immediate after love bombing

01:19:19.460 which is like okay i really am just like oh we really hit it off and he's like we're soulmates

01:19:22.260 whatever after that i mean he got me after that weekend we spent three days together i think two

01:19:28.340 or three days later he got me tattooed on his arm that's when i should have that's that's right away

01:19:32.340 by the way and i'm pretty sure i brought this up in the past now again are celebrities impulsive

01:19:37.300 people do they kind of play by a different set of rules don't really okay that's when you shouldn't

01:19:46.740 you know but she did the same thing she also got the matching tattoo so that's something

01:19:51.540 they did together okay i know i know guys i know tattoos for one in a relationship i

01:19:57.780 think is pretty crazy secondly doing it but like y'all haven't even started dating yet nope i have

01:20:02.260 to get some tattoos removed but i'm just a girl and i was like i love this dude this is you're 25

01:20:07.300 you're not a girl that's not gonna work with me you're you're a grown woman i mean people

01:20:11.700 my grandma had like seven kids by the time she was 25. let's not leave to him like i didn't he's 1.00

01:20:17.060 telling me constantly women are always trying to ruin my life online and like people just want 1.00

01:20:20.260 money from me like yada yada i'm believing when he says this because he's giving me no other reason

01:20:23.860 Okay. So let me go back to this list. We can show this list. That's fine. So we also have got matching tattoos said he loved her very fast or no said they were soulmates soulmates really fast.

01:20:44.480 but I want to say like women we care about words men care about actions so I mean to a guy saying

01:20:52.420 that is one thing but living it out is a different thing it doesn't really matter what you say it's

01:20:57.800 like what what you do you know um anyways believe it like he's a narrative he likes to control

01:21:06.400 narratives he manipulated the out of me like I truly thought he was this great dude because

01:21:09.940 in the first four months of our relationship he was that's who he showed me that's what like

01:21:12.800 I thought that's who I fell in love with I fell in love with this person that doesn't exist this

01:21:15.680 person that he showed me who he was so after the four months of the love bombing the like affirmate

01:21:19.520 like just being the loviest best dude ever it's just like all of a sudden a switch and he's making 0.88

01:21:23.520 excuses blaming it on shit he's going there was always another excuse as to why he was treating 0.92

01:21:26.780 me so poorly and why I'm crying myself to sleep every night why he's screaming at me like and then 0.98

01:21:29.600 you wake up it's the apology it's the um I'm gonna be better like I need you in my life but

01:21:33.360 if you've been through this I don't know like I don't expect people to understand emotional abuse

01:21:36.940 if you haven't been through it and I hope you never have to go through it but if you've been

01:21:40.240 you know what i'm talking about and it was just this constant cycle of like build you up beat you

01:21:44.320 down apologize over and over and over so i like was just rewired to be like when we fought he's

01:21:50.000 gonna apologize and it's gonna be okay and i'm gonna feel better because he like you like crave

01:21:53.600 that validation from the person because you're like holding on to this person that you thought

01:21:56.480 they were in the beginning and it was just this crazy awful cycle so fast forward like i also i

01:22:00.560 broke up with him last october because i still knew who i was before i lost myself and i wished

01:22:04.080 to god so again i am so good you guys can't even again what did i say changes her personality that's

01:22:11.440 when she says things like she lost herself so that's step three i just stuck with my guns last

01:22:16.320 october but i lost myself throughout this whole relationship it's very evident you can see it

01:22:20.160 throughout social media i don't even recognize my yeah it says she was manipulating him she didn't

01:22:24.720 let him speak his mind you know because you'll notice he said she said he was always the one

01:22:28.480 apologizing so what tends to happen is women have a tendency to overreact so that's how we control 0.99

01:22:36.080 men it's how it's how the ladies could censor youtube it's either uh oh i can't say it here 1.00

01:22:43.740 you sign up for the post show but they the the way they control is we have no power we can't do 0.99

01:22:51.380 anything physically so the way what we have a tendency to do is get very angry as a way to

01:22:58.280 control and then the men come back and validate the emotions by saying sorry you know um so we

01:23:06.160 don't know what she was doing anymore like i lost 15 pounds i didn't have to lose in the relationship

01:23:10.400 i didn't sleep like i was completely isolated from my family from my friends from work like

01:23:14.500 he just took me out of my life it was awful and i he just took me out of my life so she was going

01:23:20.340 she's saying it was awful because she had to let me let me write down this abuse

01:23:24.960 she went she left her family and life to go on tour with a rock star

01:23:34.980 I feel so bad oh my gosh how did you deal with this abuse they did because I was just like

01:23:46.260 stuck and I loved the dude and it was I don't know I kind of blame myself I'm like why did I

01:23:49.720 stay there's no answer i don't know why i stayed it it's crazy and then you hear that from victims

01:23:53.800 a lot i mean because ostensibly oh dave oh make it stop i'm listening it's like yeah why why would

01:24:02.860 you say stay so awful but that's emotional abuse i mean you you mentioned a few things so i the

01:24:08.260 first salvo that i shot at zach was when i was actually on the name show and i'm like told two

01:24:13.260 quick stories like i never liked zach um here's a little story and i told the golden globe story

01:24:17.460 which a lot of people are asking about okay i'm sure these are very serious that unfollowed us

01:24:22.260 unfollowed you for a second and i sort of had that story wrong yeah and you clarified it i thought it

01:24:27.700 was because you were on the red carpet and said jay lordy was hot like a famous actor and he got

01:24:32.300 mad he was unhappy with the dress you were wearing and then you told more which i never dreamed like

01:24:40.280 he's controlling your social media as a team all do you want to like speak to that because to me

01:24:43.400 was like a crazy red flag yeah well that that that was crazy um that was the first time like

01:24:49.960 he had really tried to control what i wore or like what i posted um so i went to the golden

01:24:55.000 globes and i posted like a carousel of pictures and all right i need my do we is this a dress you

01:25:07.480 would be okay with your girlfriend posting can i get a thumbs up or thumbs down producer

01:25:13.400 or would you be cool with this one he's all right with it all right what do you guys think in the

01:25:19.320 chat is this your girl can post this so i want you guys to put this in perspective you guys

01:25:28.760 hit on women by going up to them introducing yourself maybe downloading a dating app messaging

01:25:34.280 them on instagram how do we hit on men we put ourselves in rooms with men to hit on us generally

01:25:43.400 so on instagram when you're posting a picture like this no boyfriend no nothing essentially

01:25:52.060 what it is is it's marketing to other men many men will see it as marketing to other men the

01:25:57.480 boobs are out it's like a see-through i mean it's not terrible right but again some guys they'll say 0.99

01:26:06.060 it's not so bad but this guy you know he's like bitch i can replace you in every city i don't 1.00

01:26:12.600 i don't you know anyways um he didn't like my dress he said he didn't want to like oh my gosh 0.95

01:26:22.060 someone that like presents themselves that way and he unfollowed me he unfollowed everyone and

01:26:27.860 i when i flew home like i flew home after the golden globes he ruined my night everything good 0.93

01:26:32.860 so you know she's going to an event without him her boobs are out this is where other high level

01:26:40.020 men are gonna be right i mean this is this is my guess as to why he would freak out right anything

01:26:46.740 good i did for me he made sure to ruin it for me he ruined my birthday he ruined my tour he ruined

01:26:52.420 the golden globes anything rihanna did for brianna he had to ruin it so the golden globes night was

01:26:57.860 going so great and i'm like sending him pictures and he's like happy in the beginning and then all

01:27:01.300 of a sudden it turns to like i can't believe you're wearing this blah blah blah ruins the

01:27:04.020 night i'm crying to grace the whole fucking night and um he unfollows me because of the dress he 0.98

01:27:08.980 tells me all the instagram pictures that i have that i have to delete and i'm like okay yeah i 0.88

01:27:13.700 guess like he makes me believe that like i okay so the abuse continues asks or tells her to delete

01:27:27.140 instagram pictures he thinks are inappropriate now

01:27:34.340 you know

01:27:38.360 again you could say that's controlling but abuse i don't know

01:27:49.020 change my image to like keep up with his or something so like i was twisted in the head

01:27:54.980 like okay yeah he doesn't want he doesn't want to be with a girl that i don't know 0.97

01:27:58.440 has cleavage so let me fucking whatever but do you know what the crazy it wasn't like the thing 0.98

01:28:03.620 is I don't like we will probably show a photo in the podcast obviously of this dress but it wasn't 0.98

01:28:08.060 like it was like some like no super unmodest like it was like horror I loved it I love the golden

01:28:14.340 globe yeah the golden I mean I won't even lie to you I think it looks really pretty on her but I 0.95

01:28:19.780 mean these I feel like these are like like it's about to be your nipple I you know it's like it's 0.96

01:28:27.820 like a high level Hollywood event that people go to and show out in crazy outfits you know what I 0.92

01:28:33.380 what I mean like I'm not that's not me I'm not I don't think so you'd be okay with the Instagram

01:28:51.800 post I'm kind of surprised the the boobs out it's not too much for you kind of there with like my

01:29:00.560 pulls in my coochie out like that has never been me and he was trying to paint me as this but the

01:29:03.940 cherry on the top of all of that was he reposted that picture of me on his story and was like you

01:29:09.740 are so beautiful while freaking out behind the scenes while freaking out behind the scenes

01:29:13.360 because guys don't want to argue publicly guys want to make sure everything's okay we can go

01:29:21.260 sort this out i mean i think there's nothing worse you can do to a guy than argue in public

01:29:26.980 i mean that's the most embarrassing embarrassing thing to a man following all of us and unfollowing

01:29:32.620 me so like oh man it was just such a tug of war like with my emotions in my head like that was

01:29:39.340 obviously crazy and um god i don't know there's so much i what do we want to talk about well did

01:29:45.100 that continue at all brie like was there was there a continuation of the the post controlling and

01:29:49.480 like like did you have to start reviewing posts by this guy was this no no no no uh well no i

01:29:53.800 started that's what i mean by i lost myself like i everything i did in the back of my head i had

01:29:59.640 is that gonna be mad right exactly see this is what i'm saying she had to change her personality 0.99

01:30:05.080 number three in order to be with a guy that's better than her this woman's solution is just 0.99

01:30:11.800 gonna be to get with a guy that lets you do whatever you want i'm not saying it's right or

01:30:16.040 wrong i'm just saying i mean men that don't have like think think about this could you blame zach

01:30:23.880 brian i can't if i'm zach brian and i mean my woman's attractive right but there's an equally

01:30:32.120 attractive woman if not more attractive in every city that's willing to do whatever i want

01:30:38.280 what am i gonna put up with anything for do you know what i mean guys it's like what do you what

01:30:44.120 would be why would you put up with anything when you could just i'm thinking of the incentives here

01:30:52.280 they're gonna be reaction to this like i have to make sure everything i do

01:30:55.560 isn't gonna cause eggshells like eggshells which is nuts again and maybe you hear time time but

01:31:02.440 it's like why zach would you go down a path with a woman who has like a blossoming career you know

01:31:10.840 who she is and then suddenly be like drop it you mentioned and i didn't know this when we negotiated

01:31:15.320 your last and this is all i found out post when we negotiated like your renewal that he wanted

01:31:20.520 to pay you more than we were going to pay you just not to work yeah he offered to double what

01:31:26.520 you offered me so that i would quit okay so let me let me just let me just write down this alleged 1.00

01:31:32.920 abuse offered her double her salary to just quit and be his girlfriend 1.00

01:31:48.760 there's a lot of women that are going to sign up for this abuse i'll tell you what 1.00

01:31:53.640 and this was what month was this i go by hair colors this was probably like no when did i

01:32:00.600 november maybe i don't know and um then even then i was like no i i love my job i love what i do i

01:32:07.400 love who i am like you're not gonna take everything away from me like i said i would come on the road

01:32:12.200 with you because i can still do my job and i can still be me and i can still do my podcast but he

01:32:17.320 he just didn't want me to do it and he always made it he twisted it in my head where he would make me

01:32:21.880 be like you're better than this you're better than barstool you're you're destined for so much more

01:32:26.600 like he would twist it where it was like he made me believe yeah that maybe i should leave barstool

01:32:31.400 like but no like i love my job and i love what i do and like people have always loved me and

01:32:36.680 people started to hate me because i became this version of him through dating him

01:32:42.760 okay so

01:32:46.120 and and this is the challenge we get because their audience is more catered to women right they're 1.00

01:32:51.480 big on tick tock that's like a female app so the things that women sell like call her daddy right 0.84

01:32:58.280 we celebrate each other for things that men don't like and so you know in order to

01:33:06.920 be with these high level guys you know i i don't think that 1.00

01:33:11.720 she could do that and have this podcast um

01:33:15.240 um that's the challenge she's gonna have there's so many different yeah they said he was the 0.93

01:33:22.700 serious she was not she's also untrustworthy in that she can shape her body to others drop her 0.99

01:33:28.500 guy when she finds a new one still shopping is there's a lot of they were and it made oh yeah 0.68

01:33:34.000 that makes perfect sense zach bryan thought oh no ma'am you met me with your ex-boyfriend now

01:33:40.980 gonna send you to the golden globes to find your next boyfriend yeah this podcast obviously difficult

01:33:46.820 because like we'd see the follow and follow people want to know or things like cheating scandals

01:33:51.460 and you ate quite a bit of like for him and we talked about the distract like the noah khan which

01:33:57.060 was a huge story at like fenway night two you're there everyone's like uh zach's supposed to be 0.92

01:34:02.820 there he got too drunk and you were like no he's not supposed to be here like you guys are crazy

01:34:07.140 on the internet in hindsight the internet was right like you said the internet's always almost

01:34:11.140 right a lot of things so it i don't know how to deal with that like how did you constantly kind

01:34:15.540 of carrying his water especially on like a gossip show like this yeah i mean i ate so much for that

01:34:20.740 dude and like as i would for anyone that i loved or cared about like i i loved him i was going to

01:34:32.180 protect him i was i even though i should enough but i i don't know what else other to say than

01:34:37.060 like when i care about you like i'm i'm gonna be loyal to you and i'm gonna protect you oh my god

01:34:44.660 she said she said i care about you i'm gonna be loyal to you okay i think you love him like a week

01:34:53.700 ago this isn't i mean you're spilling all his stuff on the internet now i did that over and

01:35:02.260 and over and over and it's embarrassing to look back on because he i don't think he ever defended

01:35:07.220 me and the only thing i ever like all i ever got for was kind of for like protecting him and

01:35:13.300 defending him and like my life up for him and it's just like i don't know it's sad that i did

01:35:18.180 so much for him but it was never reciprocated i like and i also i want it to be known that

01:35:24.020 i understand people break up and like that's okay i this isn't a breakup like i went through a

01:35:29.700 traumatic year of emotional abuse and oh you know if that's abuse but dang it you

01:35:38.260 sign me up you know what i mean if that's abuse i mean who could go for a little bit of abuse so

01:35:46.860 let me get this straight the abuse is getting offered 12 million dollars to not talk you know

01:35:54.360 a hook up after a breakup i mean come on guys that that's a common thing um getting dumped

01:36:02.080 over text i mean how many of you guys have had that happen for free for 12 million

01:36:07.540 you can you can dump me over pigeon for all i care you could send me like a carrier pigeon 0.88

01:36:15.700 it's fine we could call it even you know what i mean said they were soulmates really fast

01:36:23.240 getting matching tattoos leaving her family to go live on tour we're a rock star delete telling

01:36:31.540 deleting instagram pictures that are inappropriate and doubling offering to double her salary just

01:36:39.180 to quit and be a girlfriend i don't know could you i mean could you one in the chat if you could

01:36:49.240 live with that abuse one in the chat two in the chat if it's too much one in the chat if you could

01:36:55.960 you could go through that experience and you could make it i got broken up with over the phone

01:37:03.080 he left never saw me again posted it on instagram made a raya and like publicly humiliated me then 0.96

01:37:11.160 called me to say it's all my fault like this isn't me being like i was i dated a douchebag that like 0.68

01:37:17.400 cheated on me at the bar no this is something so that was exactly what you said 0.72

01:37:24.920 i mean publicly humiliated you because he put on instagram that you guys broke up which you did

01:37:37.720 much deeper than that young god says i'll take 100k

01:37:41.080 i mean i think i do it for like 50 bucks i mean going on tour that's pretty fun

01:37:50.380 you know it's like a once in a lifetime experience i don't know could you get what do you think what

01:37:58.960 do you think could you could you live one in the chat if you could do it if people want to say the 0.82

01:38:04.060 diss track was immature me talking about it was immature you know what's fucking immature the way 1.00

01:38:09.560 you treated me the fucking shit that you say the shit that you do that unfollows this that like 1.00

01:38:15.100 everything you did was immature this is simply a reaction to the way that you treat people 1.00

01:38:19.840 do you think all this is do you think if he doesn't post the breakup without telling you

01:38:24.880 if he's not on raya like instantly or even before it just yeah because no one's making a raya count

01:38:29.940 in 12 hours and if you are that's an even worse type of and to be on it to be on it that quick

01:38:34.880 and to post that and then for me the next day to already be like a breakup song it's like this

01:38:41.200 guy's a sociopath like yeah what is going on here first of all he's trying to again control

01:38:45.920 the narrative riot stuff gets leaked so then he posts the story about okay i mean it kind of makes

01:38:52.640 sense of if look in this 24 hours she wasn't dming her ex or whatever ex situations i don't 0.98

01:39:04.800 don't you know breaking up with Bree so no one thinks he's like a cheating scumbag don't forget 0.83

01:39:11.340 the legends never die truck picture directly after the breakout post yeah don't forget that 0.91

01:39:16.140 that was crazy just can't sleep on that that made me laugh but keep going Josh no I I I honestly I

01:39:22.380 don't even know where I was gonna go from there I think the thing about this guy is it's just like

01:39:25.560 you just see this continuous pattern of lies in in like deceit yeah and also again I'm putting

01:39:32.880 I'm not her but if this would happen to me and I felt like you know you put me through a lot of

01:39:38.640 for a year and not only that I've eaten your the Noah Khan whatever the stories may be 0.99

01:39:43.900 and then this is how you end it like with zero respect or no respect all I wanted was like you

01:39:50.560 to sit down I want have the decency like I have sat down people that I loved and been like I'm

01:39:56.460 not I can't do this anymore I have to break up with you because I did this when I was 22 sat

01:40:00.840 someone down and did that at four years he didn't even have the decency to sit me down and be like

01:40:04.380 say tell me I'm not in love with you anymore like I'm unhappy none of that I still love you I need

01:40:09.220 you again but why why oftentimes it's because of how you would react I need to work on myself I'm 0.99

01:40:19.740 fuck you you're so emotional goes to Oklahoma there's like there's no like you don't even have 0.99

01:40:24.100 the decency to sit me down and be like provide any closure a human just a human that's all I was 1.00

01:40:29.500 asking for throughout the whole entire relationship was communication some ounce of 0.97

01:40:33.420 respect towards me and then like you don't just get to dump and shit on people for a year give 0.92

01:40:38.040 them millions of dollars and walk away like i'm the hero she's gonna be taken care of for life 0.97

01:40:42.020 i'm gonna be taken care of for life regardless because i'm me like the he just always needs the

01:40:46.380 control i wouldn't bet on that like he oh that that was his final shot at still controlling me

01:40:55.660 controlling my life with with that money and with him being able to walk away like i did a good 0.92

01:40:59.660 thing you know i gave her all this money who cares about everything i did she's gonna have cash in

01:41:03.020 the bank do you think that's like because all right we painted a picture of an awful guy and

01:41:08.380 you've said the pictures i think you you texted me that like he literally had a team watching 0.86

01:41:12.140 your social media like to make sure it was i guess zach approved dickhead to me that's still like

01:41:19.900 12 million bucks to just have that okay so if he his brand is worth a lot of money

01:41:26.020 and he's with you and you're representing his brand

01:41:29.000 can you understand why he would be very vigilant about your social media or yeah almost still

01:41:38.060 seems insane to me is it because he's that is there something we're missing that he's hiding 0.99

01:41:42.760 that we don't know or is it just he's that he's that sensitive to being outed as a dick which i 0.99

01:41:47.580 think a lot of people sort of already knew maybe not to this extreme but like i mean that's a 0.98

01:41:52.640 shit ton of money there's um there's a lot there's a lot and like i said in the beginning of this um

01:42:00.380 like i i don't want to get on like i don't want to get on here and spew like everything about oh my 0.94

01:42:07.580 god just do it with your chest do it with your chest i mean don't do it and then say you're not 0.98

01:42:16.300 doing it you're you're just do it and all the secrets and all of his personal shit like I 0.98

01:42:23.460 didn't sign that NDA because I didn't want to sign away my experiences he's gonna have to deal with 0.97

01:42:27.500 who he is behind a closed door I don't have to deal with that anymore and it's not it's not my

01:42:31.960 job to sit here and like fucking expose the dude but I have every right to talk about everything 0.97

01:42:35.420 he ever did to me and the shit that he put me through and a lot of other girls through and 0.99

01:42:39.760 yeah it's just like fuck you I don't know I mean he's clearly done a lot there's a lot that I'm 0.99

01:42:44.020 not saying there's a lot that he did there it is the ominous remarks there's a there's a lot 0.99

01:42:49.300 well what is it well I don't want to say well then why did you that I'm not saying and it's

01:42:56.900 almost like because one I don't even it's so hard I don't even want it out there and I don't want to

01:43:02.420 relive it like I genuinely just like want this to rest well the diss track we'll keep it going for

01:43:08.280 a little bit if we can yeah I mean even the diss track like I'm still like I feel bad you guys are

01:43:12.220 making fun of the way he looks and stuff i'm like everything else is great but like but i'm like why

01:43:16.540 do i feel bad that i don't feel bad at all i know but still i'm like i feel bad i actually feel good

01:43:21.820 if his feelings are hurt and i'm like why do i still feel like that you see what i'm trying to

01:43:24.700 like yeah but even him it's like why would your feelings be like why would you be doing all the

01:43:28.860 stuff why oh simping okay you know i think i commented below this i won't it's like a half

01:43:35.740 hour left on this i don't really want to go through it so i put these notes last time these

01:43:41.340 were what i had he bought her a house for them to live in he offered her 12 million dollars he did

01:43:47.500 not like her dressing immodest and posting thirst traps on social media she is mad because he did

01:43:53.340 a show stay it out all night did not go on tour with her partied all night and broke up with her

01:43:57.980 when she went on tour for two weeks he offered to pay her to not work she says she is loyal while

01:44:03.660 she does a two-hour podcast airing out all their dirty laundry her friends made a diss track that

01:44:08.940 got millions of views about him she put out private screenshots about her he yelled at her

01:44:14.380 drunk friends he moved a dog she met him while dating her ex-boyfriend and totally did not cheat

01:44:21.180 he threatened to take back a car after she exposed personal information about their relationship

01:44:27.660 mind you it was a car that he bought her um anyways so what is my lesson from this

01:44:34.380 if you date a rock star and you have rock star problems I don't feel bad for you in the slightest

01:44:43.140 um I have zero sympathy and if that was abuse there is many women that would happily sign right

01:44:50.180 up I think this is a slap in the face to real victims of abuse um pretty much everyone I've

01:44:56.700 Met's been lying so far, but I'm sure there's real ones out there. And yeah, I think it's a

01:45:05.100 slap in the face to actual victims. I'm really tired of hearing about emotional abuse. And I

01:45:11.440 think that Dave Portnoy is a simp. Sorry, Dave. Anyways, we're going to do a post show because

01:45:20.040 there's some things I can't cover on YouTube, unfortunately. So if you go onto the website

01:45:24.820 and you can sign up to the monthly or yearly membership we are going to talk about um a story

01:45:30.540 that has to do with um a certain someone that i can't talk about on youtube but you can go on the

01:45:36.940 audacity network and then i'm going to react to one other video and i will see you guys after the

01:45:41.580 show on the network so i'll see you later

Pearl - November 11, 2024

Brianna Chickenfry's Accusations： A Modern Woman's Tool For Manipulation ｜ Pearl Daily

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