00:00:00.480What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talk. So I'm going to do a show tomorrow. I want to give you guys a few updates just for the channel in general before we get to the topic.
00:00:11.580So first of all, we have two major projects we've kind of been undertaking the last few months. It's kind of why my content's been like, you know, some weeks I'll post like 10 times and some weeks I'll post like two.
00:00:23.900because we've been working on um a divorce documentary so we put down the down payment
00:00:31.960we have a team we're actually finally doing it um which is so exciting because they kicked me off
00:00:37.700for two years um and I just made so many mistakes the first time around I didn't know what I was
00:00:43.820doing so the second time around we have this great team we're working with um and yeah I think that
00:00:51.200we're gonna get the shooting done this month and then in the next like six months it should be done
00:00:57.740I don't know when I'm gonna release it I was thinking it'd be fun to wait till Valentine's
00:01:03.600Day I don't know if that's too long but I'm like what's another I just think it'd be funny to
00:01:08.640release a divorce documentary on Valentine's Day like imagine it's like make a commercial
00:01:14.620and then it says valentine's day so second thing is um basically i made an app like two years ago
00:01:23.240in case i got kicked off but um the company i made the app with they just didn't have the
00:01:29.640capabilities i wanted and um they just kept increasing the cost to the point that i'm like
00:01:36.720okay i don't want to keep paying more and more and more so we're gonna have to migrate everybody
00:01:42.540that's on the app to a new app um i'm sorry i think i've kind of neglected my app people and
00:01:47.820i do apologize um but it just didn't really make sense to just keep with the same app if that makes
00:01:57.160sense because long term i need something lower cost and it'll be cool because the new app i'm
00:02:02.020going to be able to like easily write blogs um easily send out emails and everything's just
00:02:07.780going to be more like integrated um the app that we have now it's just too like separate is the
00:02:14.260best way to put it where it's not like easy to use so um that'll be done probably in the next month
00:02:20.400um so those are kind of two major projects we've been working on um so this month the content
00:02:29.480schedule is going to be kind of all over the place but i was thinking in the future we're
00:02:35.760going to do Tuesday, Thursday, Friday shows. I'm calling, and I think probably six to eight,
00:02:43.420three days a week. Anyways, it's going to be three days a week call-in show. It's going to
00:02:46.940be more consistent. So it's been a little inconsistent because we're trying to get
00:02:50.540that stuff done. It's also going to let people easily donate. I'm going to start debating a
00:02:57.400little bit more again. I hate arguing with these broads, but it's got to be done. You know what I
00:03:02.680mean. Okay. So a couple of thoughts I've been having this coffee talk is going to be a little
00:03:10.920all over the place. So first of all, um, me and Doug MPA were kind of having a debate about this
00:03:18.100where he's more in the camp and this is the show tomorrow, six to eight Tuesday
00:03:24.240of you need to be six six six six six feet six figures um six inches essentially in order to
00:03:33.500get in the door with women um and I think when I got into the space I believed that to be true
00:03:39.000right I believe that that's what you needed as a man in order to get women um now it doesn't hurt
00:03:44.500right we could say that women's standards are high but I have to say when I looked into it a
00:03:51.300little bit more. Um, I think that's kind of a shit test that women use to see if you believe it.
00:03:59.640Um, I think when women say like, it's easy to like rage bait and, um, but when women say,
00:04:06.100oh, I want a multimillionaire or whatever. Um, they're banging men with none of those things.
00:04:13.700I noticed this when I was on my show where initially I'm like, oh, that's crazy. You want,
00:04:17.760you have these high standards um but then like i don't know my security guard would take the bitch
00:04:23.520he didn't have six figures um he was you know like or the other another like stat like a recruiter
00:04:34.160of mine would bang a bitch and it's like i think women just say that i don't think they really
00:04:39.500believe it and i think women we kind of um test your like social bravery to see if you're afraid
00:04:46.800of us and see how like um accommodating you are to our feelings like an example
00:04:54.320nuke said this to me the other day is um women like they say oh do you like it's like a test
00:05:04.400right do you bring all your girls here and then he responds and says only the pretty ones like you
00:05:10.000and that's showing to the woman that i'm not afraid of you you know and i think that's why
00:05:14.240we like men with like a good mouthpiece or whatever and from what i've seen i think men
00:05:19.600with good like mouthpieces and that are very charming outperform men that have all the sixes um
00:05:29.920now obviously women give a lot more grace to men with all the sixes right uh but i don't
00:05:36.320don't really think any of that is a replacement for not having charm. Just my experience.
00:05:48.880And I don't know if other women have had the same experience at other men, but put it in the
00:05:53.200comments. And if you have really strong feelings, call in six to eight. I think tomorrow I'm going
00:05:59.640a monologue from six to seven now kevin samuels would also talk about like high value men right
00:06:07.420i'm gonna talk about this tomorrow but i never liked that category like he would basically the
00:06:13.420women would call in and he would they would say oh well i have this guy and he would be like is he
00:06:17.560this is he that um but the women it's like i don't know how to put it in girl world right
00:06:25.240a guy that's fun is cooler to be with. Um, I'm not saying this makes sense, but we rate a guy
00:06:32.420that's fun is higher than a guy with the sixes. Like a guy could be six, six, six, but if we view
00:06:38.960him as like dorky or a loser or whatever, like, and I'm not saying it's right, but we rate him
00:06:45.280lower. Um, so I know women aren't attracted to most men based on looks, but I think women pick
00:06:54.280for more than just looks um and I've seen like guys that aren't as and even like okay I've
00:07:04.160noticed this girls might initially reject a guy but if he just keeps going um and he's charming
00:07:11.640a lot of times he can over like I saw this this girl like rejected a guy and he's like what is it
00:07:17.800my face and she like started laughing and I could tell he became like more attracted to her
00:07:24.880attractive to her because he like subconsciously was saying I'm smart I can understand you anyways
00:07:31.100I don't know put you guys put your experiences in the comments because
00:07:35.800really I don't think having the sixes is a replacement for understanding female nature
00:07:43.820it's just not and I think a lot of guys hate this because they work their whole lives
00:07:49.020to get to a certain point and be like um a certain caliber um
00:07:56.060and it doesn't mean anything to women I think that's got to be pretty
00:08:00.520like I'd be pretty pissed you know so I I think it's kind of a cope and that's why I didn't really
00:08:06.320like Kevin Samuels's high value men because I know plenty of guys that make a ton of money
00:08:11.860that struggle with women while the bartender even like a not that attractive bartender is banging
00:08:18.380these broads for free because he's fun right and a lot of times the traits that men get when they
00:08:24.440make money just aren't like what women like so um like a lot of times guys that make a lot of money
00:08:31.220they're boring like they just do the same thing every day now again um i'm not saying it's like
00:08:38.020i try not on this channel to um apply morality because i'm not saying it's good that we feel
00:08:44.560this way but on some level women can't really help how we feel we can help how we act right
00:08:50.560but we we still feel a certain way you know um and i've seen men like tom brady had all the
00:09:01.820six, six, sixes, but that jujitsu instructor made Giselle feel something, you know, like it's not,
00:09:10.080um, it's just not a replacement. My opinion, take it or leave it. And let me know in the comments.
00:09:16.520Second thing, um, it doesn't hurt. Right. But I think the guy with charm will outperform
00:09:23.860the guy with the sixes who doesn't have charm so um okay next thing I was thinking about
00:09:31.300how children okay I had a working mother growing up um and my mom worked a lot of hours and
00:09:42.940basically I grew up with nannies so every two years I had a rotating nanny um that would come
00:09:48.960in and watch me. And to be honest, some of the reason that I kind of pushed back about mothers
00:09:55.320not staying home is because this was some of my worst memories as a child. Like you kind of have
00:10:00.060two things that happen when you have nannies or daycare workers. You either love them or hate
00:10:04.640them, or maybe it's in the middle. But my experience, I either really liked the nanny or
00:10:12.760really didn't. And if I really liked the nanny, it was heaven on earth for like two years.
00:10:17.280but after we had it was called Au Pair in America after the two years the nannies would go home
00:10:23.040and now um like I remember as a kid just crying because these nannies like left you know um
00:10:34.480and just being so sad like I remember it almost is like your first breakup is like the nanny
00:10:40.980because it's like you see this mother figure every day and then she bounces and you're like
00:10:45.380well I missed no no like come back you know um the other experiences you hate them I remember
00:10:53.300being like 10 or 12 around that age and I had this nanny I just started in travel sports so
00:10:59.300the nanny would drive me to places and I hated this nanny oh I remember thinking I don't know
00:11:04.680if I was smarter than her probably not but I remember thinking I was smarter than this nanny
00:11:09.340and i was like 10 or 12. um not saying i was an angel to be with around that age
00:11:15.500um maybe third maybe i was a little older i don't know my childhood blends um