Pearl - Channel Updates｜ Where I Disagree With Kevin Samuels About High Value Men ｜ Coffee talk

00:00:00.480 What up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talk. So I'm going to do a show tomorrow. I want to give you guys a few updates just for the channel in general before we get to the topic.

00:00:11.580 So first of all, we have two major projects we've kind of been undertaking the last few months. It's kind of why my content's been like, you know, some weeks I'll post like 10 times and some weeks I'll post like two.

00:00:23.900 because we've been working on um a divorce documentary so we put down the down payment

00:00:31.960 we have a team we're actually finally doing it um which is so exciting because they kicked me off

00:00:37.700 for two years um and I just made so many mistakes the first time around I didn't know what I was

00:00:43.820 doing so the second time around we have this great team we're working with um and yeah I think that

00:00:51.200 we're gonna get the shooting done this month and then in the next like six months it should be done

00:00:57.740 I don't know when I'm gonna release it I was thinking it'd be fun to wait till Valentine's

00:01:03.600 Day I don't know if that's too long but I'm like what's another I just think it'd be funny to

00:01:08.640 release a divorce documentary on Valentine's Day like imagine it's like make a commercial

00:01:14.620 and then it says valentine's day so second thing is um basically i made an app like two years ago

00:01:23.240 in case i got kicked off but um the company i made the app with they just didn't have the

00:01:29.640 capabilities i wanted and um they just kept increasing the cost to the point that i'm like

00:01:36.720 okay i don't want to keep paying more and more and more so we're gonna have to migrate everybody 0.69

00:01:42.540 that's on the app to a new app um i'm sorry i think i've kind of neglected my app people and

00:01:47.820 i do apologize um but it just didn't really make sense to just keep with the same app if that makes

00:01:57.160 sense because long term i need something lower cost and it'll be cool because the new app i'm

00:02:02.020 going to be able to like easily write blogs um easily send out emails and everything's just

00:02:07.780 going to be more like integrated um the app that we have now it's just too like separate is the

00:02:14.260 best way to put it where it's not like easy to use so um that'll be done probably in the next month

00:02:20.400 um so those are kind of two major projects we've been working on um so this month the content

00:02:29.480 schedule is going to be kind of all over the place but i was thinking in the future we're

00:02:35.760 going to do Tuesday, Thursday, Friday shows. I'm calling, and I think probably six to eight,

00:02:43.420 three days a week. Anyways, it's going to be three days a week call-in show. It's going to

00:02:46.940 be more consistent. So it's been a little inconsistent because we're trying to get

00:02:50.540 that stuff done. It's also going to let people easily donate. I'm going to start debating a

00:02:57.400 little bit more again. I hate arguing with these broads, but it's got to be done. You know what I 1.00

00:03:02.680 mean. Okay. So a couple of thoughts I've been having this coffee talk is going to be a little

00:03:10.920 all over the place. So first of all, um, me and Doug MPA were kind of having a debate about this

00:03:18.100 where he's more in the camp and this is the show tomorrow, six to eight Tuesday

00:03:24.240 of you need to be six six six six six feet six figures um six inches essentially in order to

00:03:33.500 get in the door with women um and I think when I got into the space I believed that to be true 1.00

00:03:39.000 right I believe that that's what you needed as a man in order to get women um now it doesn't hurt 0.97

00:03:44.500 right we could say that women's standards are high but I have to say when I looked into it a 1.00

00:03:51.300 little bit more. Um, I think that's kind of a shit test that women use to see if you believe it. 1.00

00:03:59.640 Um, I think when women say like, it's easy to like rage bait and, um, but when women say, 1.00

00:04:06.100 oh, I want a multimillionaire or whatever. Um, they're banging men with none of those things. 1.00

00:04:13.700 I noticed this when I was on my show where initially I'm like, oh, that's crazy. You want,

00:04:17.760 you have these high standards um but then like i don't know my security guard would take the bitch 1.00

00:04:23.520 he didn't have six figures um he was you know like or the other another like stat like a recruiter 0.99

00:04:34.160 of mine would bang a bitch and it's like i think women just say that i don't think they really 1.00

00:04:39.500 believe it and i think women we kind of um test your like social bravery to see if you're afraid 0.99

00:04:46.800 of us and see how like um accommodating you are to our feelings like an example

00:04:54.320 nuke said this to me the other day is um women like they say oh do you like it's like a test 1.00

00:05:04.400 right do you bring all your girls here and then he responds and says only the pretty ones like you 0.94

00:05:10.000 and that's showing to the woman that i'm not afraid of you you know and i think that's why

00:05:14.240 we like men with like a good mouthpiece or whatever and from what i've seen i think men

00:05:19.600 with good like mouthpieces and that are very charming outperform men that have all the sixes um

00:05:29.920 now obviously women give a lot more grace to men with all the sixes right uh but i don't

00:05:36.320 don't really think any of that is a replacement for not having charm. Just my experience.

00:05:48.880 And I don't know if other women have had the same experience at other men, but put it in the

00:05:53.200 comments. And if you have really strong feelings, call in six to eight. I think tomorrow I'm going

00:05:59.640 a monologue from six to seven now kevin samuels would also talk about like high value men right

00:06:07.420 i'm gonna talk about this tomorrow but i never liked that category like he would basically the

00:06:13.420 women would call in and he would they would say oh well i have this guy and he would be like is he

00:06:17.560 this is he that um but the women it's like i don't know how to put it in girl world right 0.99

00:06:25.240 a guy that's fun is cooler to be with. Um, I'm not saying this makes sense, but we rate a guy

00:06:32.420 that's fun is higher than a guy with the sixes. Like a guy could be six, six, six, but if we view

00:06:38.960 him as like dorky or a loser or whatever, like, and I'm not saying it's right, but we rate him

00:06:45.280 lower. Um, so I know women aren't attracted to most men based on looks, but I think women pick 1.00

00:06:54.280 for more than just looks um and I've seen like guys that aren't as and even like okay I've

00:07:04.160 noticed this girls might initially reject a guy but if he just keeps going um and he's charming

00:07:11.640 a lot of times he can over like I saw this this girl like rejected a guy and he's like what is it

00:07:17.800 my face and she like started laughing and I could tell he became like more attracted to her

00:07:24.880 attractive to her because he like subconsciously was saying I'm smart I can understand you anyways

00:07:31.100 I don't know put you guys put your experiences in the comments because

00:07:35.800 really I don't think having the sixes is a replacement for understanding female nature 0.61

00:07:43.820 it's just not and I think a lot of guys hate this because they work their whole lives

00:07:49.020 to get to a certain point and be like um a certain caliber um

00:07:56.060 and it doesn't mean anything to women I think that's got to be pretty 0.90

00:08:00.520 like I'd be pretty pissed you know so I I think it's kind of a cope and that's why I didn't really

00:08:06.320 like Kevin Samuels's high value men because I know plenty of guys that make a ton of money

00:08:11.860 that struggle with women while the bartender even like a not that attractive bartender is banging 1.00

00:08:18.380 these broads for free because he's fun right and a lot of times the traits that men get when they 0.94

00:08:24.440 make money just aren't like what women like so um like a lot of times guys that make a lot of money 1.00

00:08:31.220 they're boring like they just do the same thing every day now again um i'm not saying it's like

00:08:38.020 i try not on this channel to um apply morality because i'm not saying it's good that we feel

00:08:44.560 this way but on some level women can't really help how we feel we can help how we act right 1.00

00:08:50.560 but we we still feel a certain way you know um and i've seen men like tom brady had all the

00:09:01.820 six, six, sixes, but that jujitsu instructor made Giselle feel something, you know, like it's not,

00:09:10.080 um, it's just not a replacement. My opinion, take it or leave it. And let me know in the comments.

00:09:16.520 Second thing, um, it doesn't hurt. Right. But I think the guy with charm will outperform

00:09:23.860 the guy with the sixes who doesn't have charm so um okay next thing I was thinking about

00:09:31.300 how children okay I had a working mother growing up um and my mom worked a lot of hours and 1.00

00:09:42.940 basically I grew up with nannies so every two years I had a rotating nanny um that would come 1.00

00:09:48.960 in and watch me. And to be honest, some of the reason that I kind of pushed back about mothers

00:09:55.320 not staying home is because this was some of my worst memories as a child. Like you kind of have

00:10:00.060 two things that happen when you have nannies or daycare workers. You either love them or hate

00:10:04.640 them, or maybe it's in the middle. But my experience, I either really liked the nanny or

00:10:12.760 really didn't. And if I really liked the nanny, it was heaven on earth for like two years. 1.00

00:10:17.280 but after we had it was called Au Pair in America after the two years the nannies would go home 0.99

00:10:23.040 and now um like I remember as a kid just crying because these nannies like left you know um 0.99

00:10:34.480 and just being so sad like I remember it almost is like your first breakup is like the nanny

00:10:40.980 because it's like you see this mother figure every day and then she bounces and you're like

00:10:45.380 well I missed no no like come back you know um the other experiences you hate them I remember

00:10:53.300 being like 10 or 12 around that age and I had this nanny I just started in travel sports so

00:10:59.300 the nanny would drive me to places and I hated this nanny oh I remember thinking I don't know

00:11:04.680 if I was smarter than her probably not but I remember thinking I was smarter than this nanny 0.99

00:11:09.340 and i was like 10 or 12. um not saying i was an angel to be with around that age

00:11:15.500 um maybe third maybe i was a little older i don't know my childhood blends um

00:11:22.300 and like

00:11:29.260 i remember my mom extended her a second year and i was so pissed i'd like never been more pissed in

00:11:35.100 my life because I'm like I have to deal with this nanny you know so being that I grew up with a

00:11:42.240 working mother and I'm very into fitness I think there's things um in children that you can see

00:11:51.640 their moms like we're not there a ton for me personally I think that it was my lack of life

00:11:58.860 skills okay that I've talked about this a lot when I got older I had to teach myself how to cook

00:12:04.780 how to clean I didn't know how to do any of that stuff part of this was because I did travel sports

00:12:08.700 but when you think about it if you have a super involved mom from like zero to ten 0.99

00:12:13.200 you should kind of know how to do all that stuff before you get to that age then you get to high

00:12:18.620 school the extracurriculars um it wasn't till I started having like a normal job again that I had

00:12:25.880 the time to go back and like learn that stuff or I didn't prioritize it I don't I'm not trying to

00:12:31.020 make excuses it's just how I this is a free-flowing conversation I'm not saying I'm right I'm just

00:12:36.840 I'm spitballing so I think it was evident that I had a working mother um because of that I also

00:12:46.440 struggled with food and obesity um I think a lot of the obesity problem is people not knowing how

00:12:52.600 to cook now this isn't a hundred percent because some of my siblings did not struggle with obesity

00:12:58.620 So it was probably a lack of willpower or whatever on my part too.

00:13:03.880 So not the only thing.

00:13:08.300 But I think that you can kind of tell with children if they have a mother that's staying home or a parent that's like paying attention.

00:13:17.340 And there's certain behaviors that they have.

00:13:23.980 Now, I went to the gym the other day and there was a kid there.

00:13:26.700 and I kind of felt bad for this kid because some of the women at my gym just come naked like it's 1.00

00:13:32.120 like I'm like oh no this but she's playing volleyball and I love volleyball and I'm like

00:13:37.960 oh do you want to learn how to serve and so I'm teaching this kid how to serve

00:13:40.660 and kids really are sponges like I don't know um

00:13:46.360 it seems like kind of like my dog I can always tell if I've been doing a shitty job with my dog

00:13:55.180 because she starts acting up I think it's kind of the same thing with kids because when you talk to

00:14:00.820 a kid they're so excited to like this kid like it was almost like I was giving them like gold

00:14:07.760 information she was so excited to learn and um I think it's kind of like that um with children and

00:14:17.720 even women um now you can't force a woman to learn but it kind of speaks to the man's leadership

00:14:23.420 if he allows his woman and still stays with a woman,

00:14:28.100 even if she acts terrible.

00:14:29.700 I understand the system's stacked against you,

00:14:32.380 but I think there's something attractive about men

00:14:35.880 that just won't allow it.

00:14:37.020 They would rather be in a shed like by themselves

00:14:39.920 than be in a house with a woman that won't listen. 1.00

00:14:43.580 You know, there's something attractive about it.

00:14:48.920 Now, men always push back and they say,

00:14:51.000 well, you don't know what it's like.

00:14:52.000 you don't know like the the need we have and it's like well I understand I probably won't ever

00:14:59.380 understand it because I've never been in that position however I do think it says something

00:15:05.500 about the man like just because a guy's a good leader at work it doesn't mean he's a good leader

00:15:09.320 women um so any continuing on that thought with the kids I think um just like there's signs like

00:15:21.060 I can tell Brett Cooper doesn't listen to her husband because of her behavior. I can tell

00:15:24.680 Candace Owens doesn't because of her behavior. Um, it's the same thing with kids. Like there's 1.00

00:15:29.520 just behaviors. Um, they don't know how to do certain things. They're more like rambunctious.

00:15:36.780 Um, they don't listen. And I'm curious, they have temper tantrums. A lot of times if they're,

00:15:44.000 they don't have a parent paying attention to them. And I'm curious if any of you guys, um,

00:15:49.160 have noticed that like there's just certain behaviors for children and women where they're 1.00

00:15:59.640 not listening and the order has got to be god men women children and the man has to be strong enough

00:16:10.760 right he's got to be strong enough and not weak to the woman um because if he's weak to the women

00:16:18.880 the woman um and i would say weakness is staying because you don't know you can't you can't beat a 1.00

00:16:26.080 anymore right so like staying um after she's disrespectful um and not valuing your self-respect

00:16:36.520 above all um that's like being weak and you can see it in the women um and by

00:16:48.600 like as a part of that you can also see it in the children. So I want to know what behaviors

00:16:57.920 have you guys noticed? This can be for wives or children. Do you agree with me on the high value

00:17:04.160 man thing? Do you guys agree that the game being charming is more important or do you think I'm

00:17:10.160 wrong. And let me know in the comments if you think you can tell when a family's out of order

00:17:20.860 and how you can tell. I don't think I'm right or wrong in these conversations. This is like a

00:17:26.060 this is a real safe space. A lot of times you guys' comments help me think of the next coffee

00:17:31.460 thought or you show me something I missed. So please put it in the comments, like the video,

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Pearl - April 06, 2026

Channel Updates｜ Where I Disagree With Kevin Samuels About High Value Men ｜ Coffee talk

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