Pearl - November 06, 2026


Childless Women Are MOCKING Marriageā€¦

Double Standards Male Feminist Makes EXCUSES for Cornell Accuser Friendship Expert Gets GHOSTED by Her Friend of 20 YEARS @JustPearlyThings

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00:00:00.000 Now there's a big cope online and I just totally disagree with this where they say women one day
00:00:04.800 will you know look back and regret all their opportunities and I just don't see it because
00:00:09.660 even when I look at older women they still I know women in their 50s and 60s and I'll talk to them
00:00:14.820 about dating and like their general complaint is they don't want to make time for it and so I really 0.98
00:00:19.740 think women don't want to be wives mothers and don't want to have kids and when you listen to 0.99
00:00:23.900 women talk that don't have kids I think women just don't want it you know um so here and I just 1.00
00:00:29.020 uttered the words oh i wish i could take a nap right now but i can't because grace's lesbian 1.00
00:00:33.960 bachelorette is tonight and tomorrow morning i have to be dressed up as the poop fairy in a
00:00:39.020 halloween dog parade costume contest that i am judging and so therefore tonight and right now 0.98
00:00:45.140 is the only opportunity i'll have to edit my new york fashion week tiktok what the fuck 0.99
00:00:49.760 single childless teacher in your 20s they will skin you a lot and by they i mean the students 0.98
00:00:56.840 i'm just kidding but i did want to make this video because i think about the different spaces
00:01:00.920 we exist in as like a 20 something year old and in my 20 something year old space i'm like
00:01:07.320 most people are single i fear the people that aren't i do not envy them like i literally saw
00:01:14.220 an article earlier this year or last year i have no concept of time but it was like how having a
00:01:18.920 boyfriend makes you a loser like i don't even know it's just like if you're in your 20s you know
00:01:22.860 like the culture right now is like it's not even the culture it's just women don't like men 0.98
00:01:27.340 i mean that that's what it is at its core at its core women do not like men very much and that's
00:01:32.280 why women keep saying this stuff that's why women keep doing what we're doing like women do not like
00:01:36.780 men you stay single like what the dating pool is insane it's just like it's hey i'd rather 0.90
00:01:43.260 probably just be single i i want to be single until i feel like a man can better my life and
00:01:49.480 i just don't feel like they can quite yet so i'm just still single and the crazy thing is when i
00:01:54.360 told they can't because she still gets easy girl money right so because she gets easy money and
00:02:00.120 isn't a lot of debt and it hasn't caught up to her yet she doesn't need a man women do need men but
00:02:04.840 they don't need them until the second half of life so if there's a regret it's later and it's really
00:02:10.280 more it's not the man and himself it's just what he can do to literally any adult any girl when i
00:02:17.400 I say adult I don't mean like me because I feel like I'm like a pre-adult I don't know I don't
00:02:21.720 feel like an actual adult quite yet I'm talking like 40s 50s whatever when I talk to grown women
00:02:28.000 and I tell them I'm single they'll be like keep it that way mind you have you married my yeah and 0.95
00:02:33.980 again again so I think people interpret this as women hate young women and want to sabotage them 0.62
00:02:40.420 I don't think that's it I think old women don't like their husbands and so they tell the women
00:02:45.420 how they feel women never hold back how we feel we just put it out there they're usually married 1.00
00:02:51.420 me and all my girlfriends were on the beach for labor day weekend and it was like a girl's trip
00:02:55.600 whatever i'm fine we see this beautiful like 50 year old woman on the beach oh my god you look so 0.74
00:03:00.640 amazing and she said something to us about like not having kids and not being married her husband
00:03:04.740 was right there by the way like it's just like a known fact it's like you get praised for being
00:03:09.800 single and women with kids will be like don't have kids like it just kind of is what it is at least
00:03:14.880 in my life that's what i always like received until i get around all of my teenage students
00:03:20.380 and i remember there is this like bubble that you live in when you were a teenager where it's just
00:03:25.240 like you need to be married you need to have kids by in your 20s i remember growing up and thinking
00:03:31.080 i want my first kid i want to have my first kid when i'm like 23 latest 28 but i also remember
00:03:37.460 being in high school and thinking one day i will grow up and all of the boys around me will also
00:03:43.500 grow up and everyone will act like an adult and it'll be so great and no i'm not saying all men
00:03:49.400 but i'm just saying it's so draining enough some of the experiences where it's just like okay i'm
00:03:54.180 like not doing this anymore like what value does this bring to my life none i hate to sound like
00:03:59.880 a scorned woman i'm really not it's just i love being by myself i love being able to travel when
00:04:05.880 i want i like being able to go out when i want i like being able to do whatever i want when i want
00:04:09.920 that's why I don't even have a pet dog I don't even want to be in charge of a pet I don't want 0.79
00:04:14.580 anything yeah and I believe women when they say this women do like freedom until it catches up 0.99
00:04:20.240 to us because our lack of routine I think is what kills us if I'm being honest I think it's our lack 0.99
00:04:24.760 of like routine and doing the same thing over and over again uh because it causes chaos long term
00:04:32.940 when you think about it I've even noticed it in myself um this is something I myself have you
00:04:37.620 know work to overcome and get better at uh but we you know for example you buy a bunch of clothes
00:04:43.400 off of amazon now you're stressed every day trying to make a decision of what you wear
00:04:47.080 your house gets messier faster it's like a hamster wheel you know or anyone like tying itself to me
00:04:53.240 because i just want to enjoy being in my 20s now the reason i'm making this video today we started
00:04:57.900 our unit in my ninth grade honors class and it's like romeo and juliet and so the first day i like
00:05:02.540 to just talk about this idea of love okay our game plan was like we did writer's notebook I made them
00:05:07.940 jot down everything they associated with the word love we did that for like three minutes and then
00:05:12.100 their written response part was like what makes love genuine what's the difference between liking
00:05:16.900 something or someone and loving something or someone and when we got done with that one of
00:05:20.940 my kids looked at me and said mystery said you ever been in love loaded question my girl and
00:05:27.080 and this is what also kind of makes me laugh is I'm like I think that like the younger like ninth
00:05:31.700 grade usually i feel like they kind of look at me as like an actual adult who i don't know has 0.64
00:05:38.260 everything yeah and again because women mentally are not adults and we keep going married i'm
00:05:42.380 child free and i just turned 40 a few months ago if you had asked me this in my 20s i would have 0.80
00:05:47.540 been like this is a disaster she's living her worst life if you are in your 20s or 30s and
00:05:52.540 you're seeing this um i'm here to tell you what your future looks like if you don't find your
00:05:56.780 person you don't have kids of your own first thing is that you have a lot of free time to do
00:06:01.540 whatever you want so right now it's a tuesday i decided to come and meet a few girlfriends for
00:06:06.700 afternoon cocktails right after work the only and this idea that women would rather be raising kids 1.00
00:06:11.660 no i'm telling you that's what women are acting like they do that's why they hate their kids 1.00
00:06:15.400 because women would rather do anything else than raise their kids rather get cocktails after work 1.00
00:06:21.020 we'd rather literally do anything i'm responsible for outside of my job is um my chihuahua i have 1.00
00:06:28.860 a chihuahua. I'm allowed to adopt as many chihuahuas as I want. I've been thinking about
00:06:32.020 getting him a girlfriend, but if I wanted to, I could get him five girlfriends. I also have
00:06:36.220 unlimited cats. I have this beautiful cat and I can get her as many cats as I want. I could
00:06:40.000 literally stock my apartment full of animals if I wanted. I also travel the world. I have been to
00:06:45.600 five continents this year alone. Every time I'm like, oh, what am I going to do with some free
00:06:51.400 time? I pick a new spot to go and see. I think the most important thing to know about what your
00:06:58.320 life would look like is that you're actually incredibly fulfilled and if you build a tribe
00:07:04.480 of like your good friends and build you would rather be around other women than men they just 0.92
00:07:09.900 want the dick from the men the community you're going to have so much support i literally have 0.55
00:07:15.720 more support now with my friends here at this point yeah i'm 35 single and childless and i will 0.99
00:07:24.960 never forget a conversation I had almost 10 years ago now with one of my professors she was married
00:07:31.880 chose to not have kids she never wanted kids and I'd had a conversation with her also like we were
00:07:37.860 just kind of talking about our personal lives and I had said like I kind of know that I also don't
00:07:42.060 want kids but I sometimes wonder if I'll grow up and regret it because I was still young at the
00:07:46.340 time and she goes you know Misha maternal instincts are something that will turn on for you with age
00:07:53.640 like that is evolutionary. But she goes, my maternal instincts goes towards my students.
00:07:59.860 I genuinely love and care for my students. Women love students too much. We love banging them. 1.00
00:08:04.900 And all of my maternal energy goes towards the younger generation and like being the best
00:08:11.640 professor I can possibly be and changing their lives. It has stuck with me till this day,
00:08:16.760 because I think that we need to broaden what we view as maternal. Helping other people and
00:08:23.960 helping humanity is maternal. It does not require you to have children. Yeah, basically women don't
00:08:30.920 want to have kids with average men. I'm 75 single and child free and here's something nobody tells
00:08:35.240 you. Your life doesn't have to look like everybody else's. For a long time, I thought my life was
00:08:41.260 supposed to follow a certain path. I had to get married. I had to have kids. I checked off all
00:08:45.860 those boxes but you know what that's not everyone's story one of the best things I learned is to stop
00:08:50.940 comparing my timelines with everyone else's you know we all have different journeys and I've
00:08:55.860 learned that love and support and connection can come from so many places family isn't just about
00:09:01.620 biology sometimes it's the people who should I actually agree with this I don't I actually
00:09:06.280 totally agree with family isn't about biology because that's why mothers oh I just you know
00:09:11.860 what i just clocked that manipulation tactic they say family is everything because mothers are
00:09:17.540 insufferable and they want you to think your family is everything so you have to keep dealing
00:09:22.320 with your insufferable mother and if you don't think that then you have power wow to be there
00:09:27.820 for i'm a genius sometimes for me to celebrate you know my wins and my losses it could be my
00:09:32.880 neighbors or friends the older i get the more i realize that the family you choose can be every
00:09:37.880 bit as meaningful as the family you're born in so stop comparing milestones and timelines of others
00:09:43.100 to find happiness it can be found in little moments like i i find i actually agree with this
00:09:48.180 that in walking my little dog cali i wake up and genuinely like the life i've created so i actually
00:09:53.100 agree with this yeah but i don't look at she looks happy i'm telling you our friendship because women
00:09:58.000 don't um women don't regret it at all they just don't like it i didn't end our friendship because 0.75
00:10:03.840 you have kids i ended the friendship because i went to your wedding i bought you a gift and i 0.99
00:10:08.080 was there for you i went to your baby shower i bought you a gift and i was there for you
00:10:11.840 i went to your birthday and i bought you a gift and i was there for you i showed up at your kids
00:10:15.680 birthday parties and i showed up and got them gifts but when it comes to my birthday i didn't 0.51
00:10:21.120 even get a text when you ended a friendship over a birthday i cannot women over party on birthdays
00:10:28.160 just so they can freak out comes to something that i don't do it exactly how they want celebrating
00:10:32.800 you never showed up it has to do with the fact that i was always there for you and i wasn't
00:10:38.380 getting the same reciprocation yeah but you shouldn't do things to expect things in return
00:10:42.360 all right so a couple days ago i posted a video about how i don't think there's a single thing
00:10:46.660 that marriage does that benefits women and it's really interesting because the comment trend
00:10:51.740 of the people that are adverse to that opinion or thought are constantly trying to point out
00:10:58.100 what the benefits are. And probably the most common theme is they point out, well, companionship
00:11:05.280 and love and support and building a family. And it's like, wow, your patriarchal conditioning is
00:11:13.500 so deep that you think marriage creates those things rather than simply a partner. You know,
00:11:20.440 one of the things that I love- Yeah, again, marriage doesn't benefit women. And this is
00:11:23.260 what they're saying because women want to share men and be side chicks to the top men. They want 0.98
00:11:28.100 the top men to ourselves, but if we don't qualify, we'd rather have that. So knowing that monogamy
00:11:32.940 does benefit more men than it does women in a sexual context. It's just women, you know, make 1.00
00:11:38.500 men pay for giving them their youth. So look at this top comment. I wish I never got married. 1.00
00:11:43.840 Is that nobody refers to their significant other as a boyfriend or a girlfriend or a spouse or a
00:11:50.780 husband or a wife, the overarching term for every single potential title there could be
00:11:57.620 that just encapsulates all of we're building something together is partner. Because it is,
00:12:04.420 it's a partnership. It's like that person could be married, but I would never know because they're
00:12:08.160 always saying this is my partner. They could just be boyfriend, girlfriend, or boyfriend,
00:12:11.880 boyfriend, or girlfriend, girlfriend, or whatever the dynamic is. I wouldn't know because they're
00:12:15.400 always saying this is my partner. And what I love about that is that it doesn't matter
00:12:19.600 because it is just partnership it doesn't you don't need a government to give you a certificate
00:12:26.180 of your legally binding contract to be building the love compassion loyalty family all the things
00:12:32.460 that you want to create in a partnership so i don't still i still don't see that as benefit
00:12:37.440 to marriage now one of the other comments was um because i had already covered you know
00:12:42.740 medical power of attorney you can do that on your own you don't need marriage to do that
00:12:47.220 adding somebody as a beneficiary to a will. You can do that. You don't need marriage to do that.
00:12:52.620 One of the other things that was a trend in the comment section was, well, what about taxes? 1.00
00:12:56.540 There's tax benefits. There's not actually, depending on your status as a woman. If you're 1.00
00:13:02.160 making around the same as your husband, let's say you both make $85,000 a year, you're both
00:13:07.780 going to pay the same if you were to file separately as you would. So women, half the 1.00
00:13:12.380 reason they don't think their husband's money goes further is because they don't count their 1.00
00:13:16.680 husband's money and they have no idea how much their husbands pay for it. If you were to file
00:13:21.140 jointly now, if he's making 95,000 and you're making 85,000 and you file jointly, there's a
00:13:27.700 tax savings of around $3,000, but is the $3,000 worth it to lock in your freedom? That's my
00:13:35.200 question. The benefit of filing taxes jointly originated back when women couldn't work so 1.00
00:13:41.480 that a man could basically claim his wife as a dependent because she look at this comment and 1.00
00:13:46.160 this is liked by the creator a man's entire existence is based off the free labor of women 0.92
00:13:50.500 so women really see it as if they're doing so much and have no idea how insufferable and useless most 1.00
00:13:57.220 women are um that's why they kept the women isolated and tied to the home no because they 1.00
00:14:01.700 couldn't do anything else if someone had to cook food for me iron my clothes and saddle the bulk 1.00
00:14:05.880 of child care so i could focus on my career i would get married but marriage doesn't benefit 0.98
00:14:09.680 women yeah because they think their careers i'm back are going somewhere but these are all useless
00:14:13.440 careers um i guess this is maybe part one or part three uh it's a maybe it's a little follow-up
00:14:18.800 series here so i made two viral videos talking about marriage and how it is a business and how
00:14:23.840 it's not worth it for women that went extremely viral and i'm feeling the need now to follow it
00:14:28.240 up with the truth about having children because a lot of stuff in those videos and so much feedback
00:14:34.320 i got was maybe not necessarily the marriage but what happens to the man after you have kids
00:14:38.320 and we don't tell women the truth we do not tell women the truth so you if you are a young woman
00:14:43.240 in her teens or her early 20s who has not had children yet please please please please please
00:14:48.020 listen to me and if you are an older woman in her 30s 40s or 50s who had them and is going to agree
00:14:53.160 with everything I say please like remember this is almost 200,000 likes on this comment and share
00:14:58.280 this video so here goes choosing to be child free was one of the greatest decisions of my life I 1.00
00:15:02.560 believe him I truth about women don't like their kids they're killing their kids having children 1.00
00:15:07.200 Well, let's start with what they told us right from the get-go, what having a baby meant for 1.00
00:15:12.500 a woman. It was everything. Everything was wrapped into you becoming a mother. And when you had a
00:15:19.360 child or when you got pregnant with that child, it was immediately the most amazing thing that
00:15:23.560 was ever going to happen to you. And you were going to feel it right from conception. And you
00:15:27.400 were going to have this unbreakable bond, which was going to carry you through everything. And
00:15:30.860 the second that you had that child, your home was just going to be filled with so much love
00:15:34.160 you're hot we're just gonna burst and it was gonna be love love love love love truly that's what i
00:15:39.600 thought having a child was going to be in this fairy tale that they sell you all over tv in
00:15:45.920 the media in disney marriage babies marriage babies marriage babies but let me tell you what
00:15:50.480 happens to you after the novelty of the baby stages and yeah because here's what happened
00:15:57.040 women watch tv and we think that having a kid is easy and it's just going to be fun and we 0.53
00:16:03.280 We watch TikToks and then we have one and we hate it because we have no love to give. 0.99
00:16:07.780 We hate our kids.
00:16:08.540 And then seeing the announcements and the gender reveals and the baby showers and what are we going to name it?
00:16:13.520 And the cutesy nets.
00:16:14.460 Like, let me tell you what happens when you take that baby home and you start into motherhood.
00:16:20.680 Okay.
00:16:22.000 First of all, it's going to gut you and destroy you in a way you can't imagine.
00:16:26.040 and for the first few months maybe even years of it you're you're going to have this identity loss
00:16:34.060 not really know who you are and also be now trying to be in all these different identities you're a
00:16:39.400 career woman possibly you are a wife you're a stay-at-home mom you're in this new world that
00:16:44.640 nobody tells you the truth about because it's so scary and it's so fucking lonely and it's terrifying 0.69
00:16:49.300 and there's no village anymore for women to get together and express themselves and that's what 0.99
00:16:54.040 part of my generation the gen xers missed out on the boomers and the generations before us where 0.84
00:16:58.620 it was really still that that stay-at-home mom's club where you just sat around all day with your 0.98
00:17:02.480 you know i think women have too many villages now there's like a gym village a book club village a 0.95
00:17:07.980 grocery store village like the problem is there's too many villages women can just rotate through 1.00
00:17:12.600 and be insufferable babies and you did that shit and you bitched about your travel village an online 1.00
00:17:17.500 village an in-person village i mean you name it there's a village husbands which gave you 1.00
00:17:22.980 the strength to go home to deal with the husband now that you took all of that away from women
00:17:27.120 so you have to have this baby and then you still have to maintain an identity of this new identity
00:17:32.720 that you're in whether you're a career woman stay-at-home mom wife whatever it is and there's 0.99
00:17:36.960 no women around you to really support you because all women are going in 85 different directions
00:17:40.120 with so much on their plate that they don't have the time to dedicate to being a village for other 1.00
00:17:44.180 women so you don't have a village and even if you have a very supportive village like you have
00:17:49.980 parents this or that if you're trying to keep up with the joneses now and run that big career even 1.00
00:17:54.340 with a village it's going to be yeah this is an insufferability and lack of eight and single lack
00:18:00.060 of gratitude epidemic anyways all right guys um i love you thank you so much for watching if you
00:18:06.080 can like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel ring that notification bell and let
00:18:10.440 me know if you think i'm wrong do you see older women regretting it i see them doubling down but
00:18:14.720 hey i'm open to other observations i'll see you next time