Pearl - April 14, 2024


＂Christian Women Get Offended And Control Men＂ Pearl Reacts To Allie Beth Stuckey's Views On Women


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00:00:00.000 like what they sound like, what they think like, and they're extremely crass, extremely crude.
00:00:06.960 There, see that there, that is, go back to the whiteboard. Step three, right there. Step three,
00:00:14.460 Christian women get offended and tell the men how to talk. There it is. They're very crass and crude.
00:00:21.980 I really wish my handwriting was better. Sorry, guys. You can bring it back. They're very crass
00:00:27.440 and crude. The men. Don't talk. Don't talk like men. Talk like women. Men, when they're in a
00:00:34.660 locker room together, they talk crass and crude. I think if you're, you know, you want to be on
00:00:39.820 the internet, it's time to put on the big girl pants. People are not nice here. Don't cry about
00:00:46.220 it. Just live with it. Really rude. And they participate and peddle in the worst kind of
00:00:52.560 identity politics. And then when the polls come around, you know, after an election and they see,
00:00:59.460 well, the majority of women are leaning left or they're voting Democrat, they cry about that.
00:01:06.080 And they say, well, see, they're driving all of society's problems.
00:01:10.080 See, now a more, in my opinion, it's just my opinion, a more Christian response would be,
00:01:15.780 Why are the suburban house moms, the suburban Christian wives, not listening to their husbands on who to vote for?
00:01:27.900 Shouldn't that be the number one talking point?
00:01:34.240 Why does it matter what the women think when you're supposed to defer to your husband's authority?
00:01:41.540 And see, again, that is step four.
00:01:46.320 Oh, wait, no, not step four.
00:01:47.260 Step five.
00:01:50.240 Oh, wait, no, no, no, no.
00:01:51.320 Sorry.
00:01:51.900 Step six.
00:01:52.740 Oh, no, no, it's step three.
00:01:55.920 Step three.
00:01:57.840 Christian women get offended and tell men how to talk.
00:02:01.260 That's back to step three.
00:02:05.380 And then she says she's trying to appeal to the simps to tell the men how to talk.
00:02:10.420 they are doing the exact opposite of attracting women to their ideas so this has kind of been a
00:02:18.640 conversation about women hitting their wall for a while and the wall is basically the point at which
00:02:25.780 women and apparently this doesn't really exist for men the women reach the point where they are
00:02:31.620 no longer getting more attractive or gaining more value in the eyes of a potential mate and are kind
00:02:40.160 on the back end so they're on the downhill their looks are getting worse the attraction
00:02:48.320 or attractiveness that they have to a guy is getting less and less and they are no longer
00:02:55.440 seen as kind of the cream of the crop they've passed their prime and there are some disagreements
00:03:01.600 about what this age is some of people say it's 26 some people say it's 30 some people say it's 35
00:03:08.320 some people say um it's 40 and so there are some conversations some kind of interesting some not
00:03:16.800 interesting at all and just downright objectifying and great there we are the same words that
00:03:24.240 feminists use objectifying degrading blah blah blah cry me a river yeah again so that's back
00:03:32.720 to step three christian women love telling men how to talk they love imagine think of the red pill
00:03:39.840 as a locker room think of this guys chatting in the locker room and then the tradcon feminists
00:03:48.560 come in and say don't don't say it like that is it true or is it not true that's what we got to
00:03:55.120 focus on is the information correct instead of crying about how it makes us feel happening online
00:04:01.520 And this was reignited over the last week or so because of some comments that conservative Charlie Kirk made.
00:04:11.960 And I'm going to talk about not only what he said, but I'm going to give context to what he said,
00:04:17.000 because I think that that's missing in a lot of these conversations.
00:04:21.360 And my response won't really be to as much what he said specifically,
00:04:25.620 but to just the conversation and the topic as a whole that I think is actually really important
00:04:31.600 for my audience in particular that I know is made up of mostly women. There's plenty of related
00:04:38.020 bros out there, but mostly women. Most of you are married. A lot of you are moms, but many of you are
00:04:44.660 not. And it's hard enough out there. And I just want to make sure that we are on the same page
00:04:53.420 as Christian women when it comes to your value, your calling, and your responsibility. And we
00:04:59.880 can drown out some of the unhelpful chatter, but also maybe take some difficult truths and
00:05:08.440 apply them where needed. So first, let's talk about what Charlie Kirk said. He runs Turning
00:05:14.440 Point USA. And I consider Charlie a friend. He has been on the podcast many times. We have spoken
00:05:21.560 together. I speak at Turning Point events several times a year. He is truly one of the smartest and
00:05:28.540 most articulate guys out there. You should go listen to the whatever podcast that Charlie was
00:05:34.120 on. He did such a great job of sharing the gospel and defending the faith. But recently he was at
00:05:39.080 an event and he was answering questions. It ended up kind of going viral, generating a lot of
00:05:47.060 I get to young women on X. Here's one. We've basically told a great generation of young women
00:05:54.000 don't get married, don't have kids, go get a corporate job. And it's created mass political
00:05:59.760 hysteria. And then in their early 30s, they get really upset because they say, you know,
00:06:05.140 the boys don't want to date me anymore because they're not at their prime. And people get mad
00:06:08.900 when I say that was just true. If you're in your early 30s, I'm sorry. It's like you're not as
00:06:12.340 attractive in the dating pool as you were in the early 20s. But again, you have your corporate job
00:06:15.900 cats so I thought you you know all right all right I got a lot to say to that
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00:06:42.840 because they share ac.com of female brains and he encouraged people to make sure that their loved
00:06:53.860 ones are not on birth control and look what it's about birth control that it really screwed
00:06:59.040 yeah all right he also had some other comments about birth control that it really screws up
00:07:04.900 female brains and he encouraged people to make sure that their loved ones are not on birth control
00:07:11.660 And look, like, I agree with a lot of what Charlie Kirk said.
00:07:15.960 And actually, in context, I probably agree with all of it in a sense, in a sense.
00:07:21.940 So let me explain exactly what I mean by that.
00:07:26.100 Let's break down his comments a little bit.
00:07:28.300 So this generation of women, I would say generations of women have been fed this idea that it is
00:07:35.160 more important for you to make money and to be independent and to live on your own in your 20s
00:07:41.840 and your 30s and then you're going to find a guy who wants to marry you you're going to settle down
00:07:47.360 you're going to be able to have kids and you can spend the next 10 to 20 years doing it all or
00:07:52.840 balancing both and that is a lie that has absolutely caused mass hysteria that is a lie
00:08:01.800 that has caused a lot of disappointment and devastation
00:08:04.600 when women reach the age of 30.
00:08:06.880 Okay, so I wanted to point out something.
00:08:09.700 When women make choices,
00:08:11.600 it is always that we have been lied to,
00:08:14.600 not that we wanted to.
00:08:19.740 That is the problem.
00:08:22.100 When you constantly, even in speech patterns,
00:08:25.060 give women get-out-of-jail-free cards,
00:08:28.720 then don't be surprised
00:08:31.300 when you see the next generation of women
00:08:33.220 taking get-out-of-jail-free cards.
00:08:36.760 It's always they've been lied to.
00:08:39.240 Women are never responsible for their own sin.
00:08:41.960 Women don't have agency.
00:08:44.020 You know, I know women, you know,
00:08:47.940 I think Ali Bestucki got married relatively early in life.
00:08:51.340 I think.
00:08:51.720 I think she got married like mid, early 20s.
00:08:53.560 I could be wrong.
00:08:55.620 She heard the same lies everyone else did.
00:08:58.200 She chose a different path.
00:08:59.240 Well, women have agency, women make choices, and they realize if they have purposely put
00:09:06.680 their career first and put off commitment, put off marriage, put off dating, put off
00:09:12.620 having kids, only to realize then that the guys around them at 35 years old are not dating
00:09:19.900 35 year olds, but they are dating the 27 year old who is not deciding to put her career
00:09:25.560 first, or the 35-year-old realizes that, oh, my chances now of getting pregnant are a lot lower
00:09:33.060 than they were 10 years ago. Did I mess this all up? And now possibly I'm being told that I have
00:09:39.680 to harvest my eggs, I have to freeze them, and I have to go through IVF. That's a lot on someone's
00:09:45.120 body. And of course, we won't get into the ethics of all of that right now, as we've talked about
00:09:49.840 many, many times the problems with IVF, but that is the dilemma that a lot of women are facing.
00:09:55.660 So that is what Charlie is speaking to. Now, if I were to take this out of context and like just
00:10:04.380 respond to the part where he said, you know, well, you said that you were fine with your corporate
00:10:10.120 job and you're a cat. So that's okay. Like I want to address that to you because he is speaking to
00:10:17.760 a certain kind of woman that I just described? No. It applies to all women. It applies to women
00:10:26.120 in church and out of church. I mean, sorry guys, if women in church had such a great reputation,
00:10:34.420 there'd be men lining up to date church women. There's just not. In fact, many men see it as a
00:10:40.200 red flag women that are religious because the quality is so much lower who intentionally chose
00:10:48.040 her crew something's buzzing i don't know if it's um does the chat hear the buzzing
00:10:59.560 what there's buzzing in my ear i don't know if the chat can let me see
00:11:06.840 um can you guys hear buzzing it's in my ear i can hear it
00:11:29.480 yeah it's still buzzing it's like really loud actually it's only in my left one though weirdly
00:11:34.360 oversettling down, over getting married and having kids. But if I am speaking to you,
00:11:42.060 I know that last comment doesn't apply to you or to most of you. I would venture to guess
00:11:49.960 that the vast majority of you listening to this show that are in your late 20s or your 30s and
00:11:56.340 you are unmarried and you don't have kids, that you are not in this situation because you want to
00:12:01.740 be. You are not in this situation, most likely, because you imbibed feminist propaganda and you
00:12:08.680 put your career first and you became this girl boss who had her... Okay, but again, it doesn't
00:12:15.280 matter what people say. It matters what we do. And that's the problem. You know, Christian women
00:12:21.960 can say something, but, you know, look at what we do. Blinders on and wasn't interested in a
00:12:29.000 relationship or interested in having kids. If you're listening to this podcast, my guess is
00:12:34.180 that you are single because... Oh, that's better. Oh, that's so much better. That is the circumstance.
00:12:40.880 That is the situation that God has placed you in. And it is not for lack of trying. It is not
00:12:46.640 for lack of preparing. It is not for lack of praying that you are right now in this season
00:12:53.520 enough singleness and so hearing something like um you're 30 and you're past your prime
00:13:00.580 and you're not as attractive to men that is um understandably extremely offensive
00:13:08.440 it shouldn't be offensive it's true
00:13:13.460 it's true and again that's back to three christian women get offended see that step three
00:13:22.160 Offense is a tool they use to control people. Yep. Step three. Thank you.
00:13:29.680 Extremely hurtful. Now, some of it is just plain true in that, yes, we become less fertile over
00:13:38.000 the age of 35. That is just true. And unfortunately, I mean, it is true that a lot of men in their
00:13:46.300 30s are looking to date women in their 20s. That is just, I think, a fact of reality that many
00:13:56.480 women have to reckon with. But listen, this is also true, that God has written every single
00:14:03.200 day of your life before any of them came to be. And see, that's what I've noticed.
00:14:10.080 if Christian women have a poor outcome it's never blamed on their behavior but they blame it on
00:14:18.540 God's plan I am not saying God doesn't have a plan but I genuinely do not believe
00:14:28.000 that God wanted Nala to put her butthole on OnlyFans I really don't I don't and you know
00:14:35.660 that choice will have a repercussion. But what I've noticed is that whenever there's a negative
00:14:41.220 outcome, the Christians never tell women that it's based on their behavior. It's always, it's based,
00:14:51.820 it's because of God. But if a man has a poor outcome, it's always because of his behavior.
00:14:57.740 that God is completely sovereign. Romans 8 28 is still true that God works everything together
00:15:05.700 for the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose. It is also true that God
00:15:13.280 sees you, that God hears you, that he has not forgotten about you, that he knows even better
00:15:19.600 than you do the desires of your heart. And he knows what today holds, what tomorrow holds,
00:15:26.540 what the future holds and he has done more difficult things than bringing a woman a husband
00:15:33.780 at the age of 35 that is not too hard for him that is not too difficult for him that is not
00:15:40.480 yeah but the facts don't match up with what you're saying ally
00:15:43.400 if a woman's 35 and unmarried it's likely that she will never get married
00:15:48.480 once a woman hits 30 and is not in a relationship it's more likely that she won't have kids than
00:15:57.760 she will and selling these dreams i'm not in the business of it might appeal better to your
00:16:05.280 female audience i'm sure you get far less hate than me but i gotta be honest and i i that's
00:16:15.980 That's why I do this.
00:16:18.860 You know, I'm just a fan of speaking in reality, being honest.
00:16:24.380 Too much of an obstacle for him to overcome.
00:16:29.220 And I know that Charlie Kirk, by the way.
00:16:31.580 Kevin Samuels, what I liked about him is he had real actionable advice.
00:16:36.640 And it's so much better than anything that the Tradcons will give you.
00:16:39.680 He said, if you're 35 and single, the Tradcons will tell you, pray for a husband.
00:16:45.980 go to churches. Churches don't generally have men you'll be attracted to because men that can think
00:16:51.040 for themselves don't generally go to church because of, look at the whiteboard, masculine
00:16:56.040 men can't usually deal with all that. Nope, nope, nope, nope. So Kevin Samuel said, lower your
00:17:06.780 standards, hire a matchmaker, get a personal trainer. If you're 35, it's going to require
00:17:13.140 time, money, and effort in order to get what you want. That's way more helpful than,
00:17:20.560 you know, I'll show you. I would agree with that. And so before we take offense to his comments,
00:17:25.600 we have to understand the context of what he's talking about in critiquing feminism,
00:17:29.940 critiquing the propagandistic lies that a lot of young women have heard, and the consequence
00:17:34.340 of those lies. And the particular kind of woman that he's talking about, again, that has
00:17:40.380 intentionally chosen to put off marriage and children and all of that it was a choice
00:17:53.180 it's always a choice guys but when i am speaking to you christian woman and all the christian
00:17:58.700 women that i know in my life who are wonderful who uh would make and hopefully will make
00:18:06.060 wonderful wives and moms like i know that those comments are hurtful to you in your particular
00:18:13.420 situation and i just want to remind you of god's goodness and of god's total power and total
00:18:21.740 control and total sovereignty that the culture that we're in the culture wars that um are being
00:18:30.140 waged right now the dating scene the horror that's on dating apps the seeming uh lack of choices out
00:18:39.560 there for when it comes to she's been out of the game women have more choice than we know what to
00:18:47.280 do with there's not a lack of choices and that's the thing a lot of these trad cons just have and
00:18:53.780 i'll admit when i first got into this space i had no idea i had no idea what was going on
00:18:59.060 out there.
00:19:02.100 King, did this not change your perspective
00:19:05.060 interviewing a thousand women
00:19:06.800 listening to this stuff?
00:19:10.100 Not really.
00:19:11.960 Oh, you came into it.
00:19:14.580 Look, it changed mine, guys.
00:19:17.600 I think it just made me a bit more cynical.
00:19:24.020 Yeah, women have more choice
00:19:27.220 than we know what to do with.
00:19:29.060 then that you would actually want to date and to marry. None of these things are inhibitions to
00:19:40.000 God. Remember Job 42.2, no purpose of God's can be thwarted. Now, I also want to say that
00:19:50.100 you are not guaranteed. None of us, you know, before we are married is guaranteed marriage.
00:19:59.060 no one is guaranteed children. Even if we desire these things, our desire is not an indication
00:20:07.240 that God will fulfill that desire how we want him to. And so understand that, that life is filled
00:20:18.260 with unmet and unfulfilled desires, even really good desires. It is a great desire to be married,
00:20:27.340 to want to be married. It is a great desire to want to have kids. But we reject this kind of
00:20:33.760 prosperity gospel that says, well, because I want it and because... I actually agree with her right
00:20:39.940 there. Finally, me and Allie are on the same page.