Pearl - Christian Women See Themselves in Porn Stars

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:00:07.740 network uh today um there's some people fixing my ac in this house so if you see anybody

00:00:15.780 in the background that might be it i'm just letting you know now today we're talking about

00:00:23.660 how christian women see themselves in porn stars

00:00:28.140 Christian women a lot of times need to go to hell

00:00:37.940 Because they just can't take the L

00:00:43.740 We all talk about black fatigue

00:00:49.340 And how we're sick and tired of the fucking weed

00:00:55.140 There's something we don't talk about enough

00:01:00.500 How a lot of these Christian guys are cupped

00:01:06.100 You already know what's the deal

00:01:11.300 They worship women based on how they feel

00:01:19.840 Gluck, gluck, 9,000

00:01:22.220 Fuck, fuck, 9,000

00:01:24.960 Christian women, most of the time, did it all.

00:01:30.700 Fluck, fluck, 9,000.

00:01:33.260 Fuck, fuck, 9,000.

00:01:35.820 That was Eve after the fall.

00:01:39.580 She did it all after the fall.

00:01:44.820 Adam's standing tall after the fall.

00:01:50.420 Now Christian men, they can't say no to their wives.

00:01:54.960 And they want to put her in an environment where she thrives

00:01:59.580 And Adam really should have told Eve no

00:02:04.040 But now he's fucking her on the low

00:02:09.200 That's where we gotta go

00:02:20.780 Take the L

00:02:22.020 Take the L

00:02:24.500 all right guys all right what's up guys let me let me switch over

00:02:41.740 welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network

00:02:47.760 again i may have to do a pause on the stream if they need me to like tell me what's going on with

00:02:57.300 this ac okay so i grew up in a conservative catholic area all right i grew up in a conservative

00:03:08.520 catholic area and so it just amazed me um i guess the things that christian women would do publicly

00:03:17.740 and still claim that they were representatives of their church now i guess there may be some

00:03:25.540 disagreement in conservatism um catholicism you know christian you know what sin can you

00:03:36.200 be doing publicly and still claim to represent a religion

00:03:40.600 do you know what i mean so the other day um i think laura loomer and candace owens are going

00:03:49.760 at it so laura loomer and candace owens um they're beefing right and candace owens claims to be a

00:03:58.420 catholic now i grew up catholic i i don't think i'm the best representative of the catholic church

00:04:03.800 probably gluck glucked a little too hard once or twice you know what i mean i mean

00:04:07.740 let's just keep it a buck, right? And in my opinion, I think you need to be a superior

00:04:17.960 moral standard to represent a church. Now, maybe, maybe this is like, you can't do nothing. Hold

00:04:25.500 on. No, okay. I need to, I need to untangle this. You can't do absolutely nothing. Like

00:04:33.620 you can't be banging the whole football team and then claim, oh, I'm Christian, right?

00:04:42.540 I think the whole point of representing.

00:04:55.020 Sorry, when I rolled back, this thing got stuck.

00:04:58.640 you know like for example if a guy was actively robbing people on the weekends

00:05:06.820 and saying he was a catholic i would think that the catholics should be offended

00:05:13.040 by this guy you know robbing people on the weekends but women um anything goes with them

00:05:19.400 and if they fall into sin um they always use the term falling right i fell into sin it's like no

00:05:26.640 the same way the guy made a choice he didn't fall into robbing you know those

00:05:30.660 at a cousin he would rob people um he would he liked drugs and so he'd rob people in order to

00:05:37.300 get drugs um not proud of it woman enough to say right i had a cousin that did this

00:05:41.800 and he didn't slip and fall it was a choice the same way women don't slip and fall onto

00:05:46.000 poo nanny or dick but candace owens um

00:05:49.660 it just you know she's spreading all these rumors about laura loomer and all these people right

00:05:58.900 and let me let me see i'm just like looking at her page

00:06:04.240 and i'm like

00:06:07.360 how can you spread all these rumors about people and have like a cross in the background of your

00:06:23.920 youtube show i find that offensive and i'm not even like a good catholic do you know what i mean

00:06:30.020 i'm a bad catholic um like i just find it a little bit offensive i i find it like here

00:06:41.700 so you're using jesus to build your brand while using the same platform to gossip publicly

00:06:51.700 is this a crazy question i'm like okay don't you have to practice it a little bit

00:07:00.980 And they'll say, well, that's her job.

00:07:02.700 And I'm like.

00:07:08.860 I mean, there are people like if I took a job being a prostitute.

00:07:21.020 I mean, do I get to get out of jail free card?

00:07:23.360 I don't think so.

00:07:30.020 How am I a bad Catholic?

00:07:34.120 Look, I have a potty mouth, okay?

00:07:38.840 I could go on.

00:07:45.000 I ain't waiting for marriage anytime soon.

00:07:47.000 I'll tell you, I'm not even going to sell anybody that dream.

00:07:49.700 You know what I mean?

00:07:50.700 It's like, you want me to try?

00:07:53.740 As a woman, it's like once you've lost your V-card, yeah, let any girl try to sell that.

00:08:00.020 um at a higher price that's just ridiculous that is just ridiculous

00:08:07.500 it doesn't mean i'm not catholic well

00:08:11.660 i just think i'd have to do better you know what i mean because i'm not trying to make that sale

00:08:19.060 oh my god

00:08:22.140 you want me to re-wait yeah right yeah right sorry again ac people can you not hear me

00:08:37.580 so i have found christian women to be the most manipulative women on the face of the planet

00:08:46.680 I find them a standard deviation worse than normal women.

00:08:51.820 I think they gossip about other people more.

00:08:54.600 I think they're more controlling.

00:08:56.600 I actually think they use religion as a way to exert control over their husbands and the world.

00:09:02.100 They love nagging people.

00:09:03.840 They can never just let people be, right?

00:09:09.320 I mean, I believe Jesus is God, but come on.

00:09:12.560 We need some standard here.

00:09:16.680 And so what happens is a lot of these women, they want a get out of jail free card and that is why they go to God.

00:09:23.280 So what happens is women, our sexual peak is like 18 years old.

00:09:27.680 Now, unfortunately for women, that is when you're really young and people do make dumber choices when they're young, right?

00:09:34.660 With less previous choices, I guess, to choose from.

00:09:37.560 And some of the women use that as a get out of jail free card.

00:09:39.960 so what happens is women make these terrible choices when it comes to men we whore out we

00:09:50.140 absolutely are complete whores when we're young and women um that you know because women whore

00:09:57.760 to advance in life if the women that don't get what they want out of the whoring like whether

00:10:02.680 it's a relationship marriage there's winners and losers in life and the losers out of these women

00:10:09.960 what they do is they find god and it's always at the convenient the most convenient time it's like

00:10:22.660 after you caught an std after you gained 50 pounds they never find god when they're young

00:10:30.460 hot and like ready to go it's always they found god at the most convenient time possible

00:10:37.200 and so these women what they do is they used to get attention and social currency just for being

00:10:42.880 hot if a young woman walks into a room all eyes are on her the eyes start going to the next crop

00:10:48.580 of young women and these women they can't take it they can't just age gracefully and just take that

00:10:53.960 out so what they do is they need to do an attention seeking performance and they find

00:11:02.660 God, and they tell this story about how they found God that has no accountability for their

00:11:07.840 choices and blames everybody else. And then they swap out the attention they used to get for being

00:11:14.780 hot. They get new attention for being, um, former porn stars or whatever. So today we're reacting

00:11:23.280 to Allie Beth Stuckey, she had Brittany De La Mora, who also came on my show, on her

00:11:32.840 podcast. And she just gave her another softball interview. And we're going to react to conservative

00:11:44.220 women's manipulation tactics. So what happens is women like Allie Beth Stuckey, Allie Beth

00:11:50.020 Stucky openly admits to having a hoe face. And again, she wants to be redeemed not by doing any

00:11:56.060 work, not by stepping out of the spotlight. Christian women, they want the clout and the

00:12:01.080 currency, the social currency of being religious without doing any of the work. So you don't see

00:12:05.700 her having like a modest appearance, right? You don't see her not wearing any makeup, you know.

00:12:11.460 And by the way, this is going to take you time to do every day. That's an hour away from your kids.

00:12:18.360 the podcast i would say two hours of filming and then on top of that you're gonna get um

00:12:29.000 if she's writing her own material which i would expect that's gonna take all day

00:12:33.880 so this is not a stay-at-home mother this is not a woman that's paying attention to her kids

00:12:39.160 i'm not even saying she's wrong for doing this but i'm saying pick a lane

00:12:42.840 Pick a lane, pick a lane, stay in the lane.

00:12:57.680 Okay. Brittany DeLaMora worked in the porn industry for over six years,

00:13:02.880 but God radically transformed her life.

00:13:05.760 And now she helps women in the porn industry get out and live redeemed.

00:13:11.120 her story is absolutely so again the way they say that she helps women in the porn industry get out

00:13:19.360 it's like are you really helping you're just giving them a get out of jail free card that's

00:13:27.860 really it absolutely incredible and is so encouraging to us when we remember that god

00:13:33.660 is a god of redemption he makes beauty out of ashes you are going to be so edified by the

00:13:40.180 testimony that she shares today. So without further ado, here is Brittany.

00:13:53.520 Brittany, thanks so much for taking the time to join us. Could you first just tell us who

00:13:57.700 you are and what you do? So yes, my name is Brittany Dallamora and I was in the adult film

00:14:02.940 industry for seven years of my life. Now my husband and I run an organization called

00:14:08.300 lovealwaysministries.com and just launched jesuslovespornstars.org. And what we're doing

00:14:14.420 is going into adult conventions, ministering the gospel. We just went to one in January and

00:14:19.920 got to pray over so many consumers and adult industry workers, and we help people find freedom

00:14:25.480 from pornography. Wow. Well, I can't wait to get into more of what that work looks like. What a

00:14:30.320 unique ministry that God has called you to. I first want to hear your testimony. We'll get to

00:14:35.800 how you became a Christian, but let's back all the way up and just talk a little bit about your

00:14:39.920 childhood because that has something to do with the kind of headspace that you were in when you

00:14:45.900 got into the adult film industry. So let's back all the way up.

00:14:49.940 Yes. So going back to childhood, I just grew up in a very chaotic household. It wasn't a Christian

00:14:54.460 home. We didn't know God. He wasn't encouraged. Get out of jail free card. Again, I don't want

00:14:58.760 to hear it. I don't want to hear it. You chose to whore out because you wanted to. It wasn't

00:15:03.760 Because of your parents, it was you.

00:15:06.520 I really believe because God is love.

00:15:10.020 Without God, there's just no love in a household, you know?

00:15:12.520 And so it was very chaotic.

00:15:14.100 A lot of verbal abuse, a lot of physical, emotional abuse.

00:15:19.280 I just really grew up with a lot of insecurities and a lot of self-hatred because you internalize

00:15:25.900 the words that are spoken over you.

00:15:28.200 And so I just felt like, I just remember like at 10 years old, like going to bed with like

00:15:33.740 roll of toilet paper like just crying myself to sleep and just like asking like why am I even

00:15:38.600 alive like what is the point of life like just having these questions of no purpose no identity

00:15:44.540 and was I just born to to feel pain my entire life and and that's genuinely how I felt um

00:15:50.820 and so I made all of my decisions based on that place of brokenness and you say that there was

00:15:57.120 verbal abuse and gosh what pain you must have been feeling as a 10 year old to be able to

00:16:03.060 just cry yourself to sleep at night what were some of the things that you were hearing in your home

00:16:08.740 you're a loser i hate you i wish i never had you i mean the list goes on and on things that i could

00:16:14.660 never say on your podcast yeah gosh i'm so sorry and were your parents together were they made

00:16:19.700 this is such a song like imagine if you had a pedophile on here and this was the kind of

00:16:24.580 interview they were giving like again

00:16:33.780 it's just i mean this is performative christianity they were together but they

00:16:37.700 were separated okay so if that makes sense yeah and i'm sure that kind of led to the

00:16:42.020 insecurity and instability you felt as a child yeah and get out of jail free card a lot of

00:16:47.380 people that had insecure childhoods and didn't become do gang bangs on camera

00:16:54.580 You know, they didn't two girls, one cup it or whatever the hell that video is.

00:16:58.860 So tell me more about growing up and then that fateful trip that you took when you were

00:17:03.740 a teenager.

00:17:04.740 Yeah.

00:17:05.740 So when I got to probably about middle school, high school, I just, my search for validation

00:17:11.240 began and I thought like, I just need to have a boyfriend.

00:17:13.980 I need somebody in my life.

00:17:15.380 And so dated a couple guys here and there.

00:17:18.000 And then in high school, I just started to pursue this guy that I was attracted to.

00:17:23.600 eventually we started dating and we I lost my virginity to him and then his brother called

00:17:29.800 me and told me that he had cheated on me with three different women and I was crushed because

00:17:35.320 of course in my six and okay you didn't cheat we all bitch we all been cheated on we've

00:17:41.480 all been cheated on ninjas look at so all of this is gonna um elaborate to I was the victim

00:17:52.360 them. I did nothing wrong. That's really what it's going to come down to.

00:17:59.680 15-year-old little heart, I thought, well, this is the guy that I'm going to spend the

00:18:04.120 rest of my life with. And after that, I had told my friends, I'm heartbroken. I felt not

00:18:11.860 only rejected at home, but now rejected by the guy that I just gave everything to. And

00:18:16.600 so they're like, well, let's just go to Mexico and party.

00:18:18.800 now again you gave everything to did you give him obedience you know that's a problem women that have

00:18:24.400 nothing else to offer they only look at sex as something to offer how is that different than a

00:18:30.800 whore who just gives you sex how is it different respect obedience no clearly not because you're

00:18:41.440 talking about it on this podcast you're talking about this guy from middle school can you imagine

00:18:45.600 your your wife you're giving you've promised her the world and she's still talking about her ex from

00:18:51.600 like freshman year of high school bro because we live so close to the tijuana border so we went out

00:18:58.080 and in mexico by the way at that time you could get into any club with a valid high school id

00:19:02.560 you're supposed to be 18 but you show your high school id and they would let you in and you lived

00:19:06.320 in san diego so it was just a drive down exactly yeah i lived probably 10 15 minutes from the

00:19:12.320 the border of that. Um, and so we go to a club, I get drunk and your parents didn't have, they

00:19:19.260 didn't care. No, they did actually. My mom was very, very strict. Um, she, I think I had told

00:19:26.740 her I was going to spend the night at a friend's house that night. And then that friend's parents

00:19:30.720 were not strict and they're like, Oh yeah, go ahead, go have fun. You know? Um, so we went to

00:19:36.160 a club. It was the first time that I had ever gotten drunk and I went outside to get some food

00:19:40.900 And I see another club across the way and I recognize the name of the club because there

00:19:46.480 was some guys in my high school class that would talk about how beautiful the women were.

00:19:50.420 So out of curiosity, like, what do these women have that they're always praising these women?

00:19:54.460 Like, I'm just going to go.

00:19:55.260 Again, it's never, it's, oh, I was just curious.

00:19:58.340 It's like, no, I was horny and on the prowl, bitches.

00:20:01.980 It's just incredible.

00:20:05.000 Hold on, let me.

00:20:07.340 What up, Doug MPI?

00:20:08.620 I figured you might as well react.

00:20:10.900 it's it's this woman again have you seen that clip where um it's going around on x where um

00:20:20.160 they're like oh yeah i don't know why britney de la moore went on pearl's show because she got

00:20:24.780 cooked and now now everyone is resharing that clip where you told her that you haven't seen

00:20:30.020 her take accountability and she's she's trying to make herself sound like a victim it just got

00:20:35.080 we shared all over the all over x like a couple i think about a week ago yeah i saw defiant baptist

00:20:42.120 yeah yep yeah he's i can show that if you want uh let me see where you find it

00:20:50.680 and i know i have done this videos keep going yeah it's just guys this is the template going

00:20:59.720 forward right here the the horde of church pipeline you know pearl is the first to say it

00:21:06.680 and we're seeing more and more of it this is a template whore out

00:21:12.680 and then make your money and then find your simp at church

00:21:18.600 what do you think is more important people's actions or their words uh their their actions

00:21:24.760 the condition of their heart so do you understand why i would be a little bit skeptical if you're

00:21:30.200 telling me after you were baptized you were still doing porn yes because i believe that sanctification

00:21:38.840 is a problem and i didn't really understand the knowledge of the scripture i didn't fully

00:21:43.560 understand what i was doing the moment that i began to understand and to have a relationship

00:21:49.000 with god everything changed i've been out of the porn industry for 13 years i've never looked back

00:21:54.680 I've you know really truly rebuilt my life on the foundation of Christ just keep going it's like

00:22:00.980 the monologue yeah they say not they say so much with saying nothing at all and I would still say

00:22:08.160 that we're an adult Brittany I don't you know I'm not even that religious but I don't need a book to

00:22:14.780 tell me it's wrong to have sex on camera I don't so I I really think this whole like oh I didn't

00:22:22.320 understand i didn't know it's a process i mean that might work on like the simps you interview

00:22:27.840 with but it's not going to work on me how would one know the scripture if they were never taught

00:22:32.800 the scripture you went to cal you need okay it's just incredible you need scripture to tell you not

00:22:39.760 not to get naked on camera apparently

00:22:43.760 catholic school you went to catholic church so you were okay now she's let me see the other one

00:22:57.520 okay so again it just goes from monetizing porn to monetizing god and and that's really where

00:23:06.800 have an issue with it it just doesn't seem genuine to me yeah but as when i question this like a

00:23:14.240 normal person is going to right a normal person that never did any of this stuff is just going to

00:23:19.920 think that you're full i'm being honest um and then you get the shaming language as soon as you

00:23:27.360 question a story that's really questionable britney like you said you did porn after you

00:23:33.200 were baptized you know it's but i had no understanding yeah but yeah but i had no

00:23:40.320 understanding shut the up bro gotta learn to give people grace i literally had no understanding

00:23:51.680 moment that i read that i was living in sin that i was gonna get cast down uh into a sick bed along

00:23:58.960 with everybody who is committing immorality with me. I quit the porn industry. I quit. I never looked

00:24:04.880 back. The fruit of my life is helping people. I have helped thousands of addicts get set free.

00:24:11.120 I've helped women leave the porn industry to follow Jesus. Like I'm helped. You're giving

00:24:16.220 yourself way too much credit, way too much credit. I mean, how much help do you need? If you want to

00:24:22.560 leave the porn industry, you're going to leave it. People do what they want to do. I mean, women

00:24:27.480 that want to divorce their husbands do they really need a lot of help doing that here's the thing

00:24:33.020 guys no one women don't do anything without some kind of reward and women like her they were

00:24:41.060 addicted to attention from men the money and the lifestyle or they were addicted to the toxic

00:24:48.080 with behavior of certain men and now she's addicted to to to proselytizing in this new

00:24:57.560 attention that she's getting for being a christian they're always addicted to something and they

00:25:03.880 don't do anything for free period being people so i mean and then i prioritize being a wife and

00:25:11.060 a mother so when you think oh i'm getting rich off speaking engagements and things like that

00:25:16.460 I only travel a handful of times of year. I'm not getting rich off the church because I choose

00:25:23.000 to value my husband and my children and to prioritize my family.

00:25:27.600 Okay. Let's talk about that. You said you prioritize being a wife and a mother.

00:25:32.940 So are you aware that every time you step into the public sphere,

00:25:38.900 there are men that struggle with lust? You're aware of that, right?

00:25:42.560 yes are you aware that by being in the public sphere men are going to want to google your work

00:25:49.920 and there's also going to be men who are going to find freedom those are the men i need you to

00:25:55.060 answer the question first it's both and it's yes yes yes yes and are you aware that by being in

00:26:04.480 the public sphere you are drawing more attention to yourself and that is putting your family in

00:26:11.060 position to be sent more and more of your videos are you aware of that yes okay and you choose to

00:26:18.020 do it anyway correct it's not that oh i just women are incredible it's like hey maybe your kids will

00:26:29.220 get sent less of your videos if you weren't in the public spotlight and she's like uh but i love this

00:26:39.460 but i can't no go choose to do it anyway this is a conversation that my husband and i have

00:26:47.460 prayed about and both felt convicted that this is something that i need to do to serve god

00:26:53.860 okay well you have to understand how a normal person is going to view this

00:26:59.220 normal people with normal jobs that have never been tempted to do to do that stuff right

00:27:04.820 Right. They're going to view it as you don't really care about your family because you're

00:27:11.500 putting them in a position to be made fun of by further drawing attention to yourself.

00:27:16.180 I would completely believe you if you were not making money off of this story. But the

00:27:22.500 challenge I have is and she's lying. She says she's not making money while her and her husband

00:27:26.860 sell a course. I'm like getting back to purity or some bullshit. Her whole ministry. If you

00:27:34.800 think that her she has a ministry ministries make money especially in america

00:27:43.760 making his pennies come on pearl like i'm really doing this out of service like

00:27:48.720 i'm going to porn shows not making a dollar so that i can share the love of jesus with

00:27:54.720 thousands of people who watch corn and with hundreds of creators like i am passionate about

00:28:01.040 helping people find freedom it's not about that they're just so used to what is it with the lila

00:28:06.480 rose and ali best stocky and like the christian women just monologue and they monologue so long

00:28:14.880 and they say nothing like it's almost like they get to a point where they just can't have a normal

00:28:21.120 conversation like you're supposed to stop the there's a thing where um uh

00:28:28.960 I know you've never seen any of the Star Wars movies,

00:28:33.240 but the last Star Wars movie,

00:28:35.960 the episode 8 and 9,

00:28:41.560 they kind of painted themselves into a corner

00:28:43.940 so that they didn't know what to do.

00:28:45.380 So they just threw a bunch of action scenes together at you

00:28:50.040 and just hoped that you didn't think about it too much.

00:28:53.320 And that's what whores do when they're talking.

00:28:55.700 they just the they throw actually the that's what the left does too but certain people to keep you

00:29:03.060 from asking questions and making them make sense they just throw a bunch of stuff at you all at

00:29:07.780 once the dollar i have been doing this i have taken on so many speaking i wanted to mute her here

00:29:17.380 i wanted to yeah including this one where i'm not getting paid for this okay so i'm gonna repeat

00:29:24.100 i'm going to repeat the average person is still going to view it as this is not a priority to you

00:29:31.460 yeah because you know your kids are going to be sent your videos someday

00:29:36.180 and you're on social media yeah but it's it's going to happen eventually they're going to get

00:29:41.380 old enough um people say that bra the delusion and that is that could be a consequence of my

00:29:50.900 sin and that women like this should never have kids they should get their tubes tied we got to

00:29:55.060 stop encouraging whores to have children if it's on camera you're cooked um especially if you got

00:30:02.420 you guys you have to understand there's people that put nudes on the internet and there's people

00:30:05.780 that have sex on camera that's a whole different level um if you're the level of deranged to put

00:30:15.060 but to have sex on camera, you need to get your tubes tied. You have committed to a life of being

00:30:22.320 by yourself. That's how it should be, but it won't be. Yep. I agree.

00:30:28.100 That is one of the biggest arguments that I make with women who want to have children and are in

00:30:34.480 the porn industry. I want to be a pioneer and show them this is not the path that you should

00:30:40.120 take and i understand that people aren't going to understand why i do what i do it's it's hard to

00:30:45.800 understand the things of god when you're not spending time with god and most of our bro do

00:30:50.440 you see that subtle disrespect when you're like essentially i am better than you because i spend

00:30:57.400 time with god although i although she sucked a bunch of dicks on camera bruh of of america most

00:31:04.520 of your listeners probably aren't really spending time with jesus right there that's a shaming

00:31:11.160 tactic i'm not trying to shame anybody reality essentially saying you're essentially saying

00:31:17.960 that and you have to understand how this is going to be viewed from an average person

00:31:23.080 the the person that you know had sex on camera that got gang banged on screen is telling me how

00:31:29.720 i'm not holy enough uh you know the number one reason people leave the church is hypocrisy

00:31:37.000 so i would argue it does more harm than good and if anything what you're showing these of girls is

00:31:43.480 they can do whatever they want make a bunch of money and even keep working after you convert

00:31:50.520 and get a get out of jail free card actually uh my dear friend melinda i have shared her story but

00:31:56.040 But she's off living a very quiet life, married with children.

00:31:59.200 But that's the conviction that she has.

00:32:02.360 Oh, my God.

00:32:03.300 These Jezebels.

00:32:07.180 These women are demons on earth.

00:32:08.920 To the bar.

00:32:10.420 And the bouncer was like, you can't come in.

00:32:13.080 And I said, well, I'm not going to drink.

00:32:14.740 Like, I just want to dance.

00:32:15.860 Because I thought they weren't going to let me in because I was drunk.

00:32:19.480 She talks 13 minutes for about.

00:32:23.740 okay we're going to skip through her brokenness to here okay drop out of that class and then

00:32:30.620 things just start feeling overwhelming and so hard and i'm just like you know what i miss that

00:32:34.540 validation so i went back to the strip club um well i applied for a job at the strip club in

00:32:40.240 santa barbara and got hired that day and i was still going to college at that point taking a

00:32:45.880 few other classes and a couple producers came into the club one night and they were tipping me quite

00:32:52.360 bit of money and just telling me that dog did you say i'm sharing her poor name for research

00:33:03.320 this person in the chat was like was she a whore really she's like that's a nice lady

00:33:12.360 i was beautiful that i was destined to be a star they said we make romance movies if you're

00:33:17.960 ever interested give us a call i knew that they were talking about pornography but at that time

00:33:24.360 i was already taking my clothes off for money and i was already promiscuous so i just kind

00:33:28.600 of thought like you know they're promising me that i'm going to be famous why can't she just say

00:33:33.800 i enjoyed it oh you know getting on the stage getting naked shaking my titties in the air

00:33:40.520 just felt so good and i just couldn't stop i couldn't stop it's like maybe if enough people

00:33:46.520 know my name if enough people like recognize me then maybe somehow like that's gonna fill that

00:33:51.880 void in my heart like i'll learn to love myself or at least hate myself less and so it was like

00:33:57.160 that promise of fame that i was like okay i'll do it so i went to la the next day and i they put me

00:34:05.160 in hair and makeup and continued affirming me and got me connected with an agency and um the agent

00:34:12.440 and basically said, it's porn or school, you can't do both. And so I dropped out of school

00:34:17.120 and I made porn my full time career and things took off for me very quickly.

00:34:27.400 Quick pause to tell you, leaves the club, like safely just gets in the car with her

00:34:35.880 friends and then goes back home. And then like, you were just able to leave without

00:34:40.920 a problem. Yeah. And then after that night, did you, did that plant a seed in you that I want to

00:34:47.700 do that again? Or did that not really come into your mind until later? You know, I was going

00:34:52.340 through old journals and this is wild. I, I don't even remember writing this, but I was writing

00:34:58.280 like, how am I going to pay my way through college? And some of the things that I listed in

00:35:04.080 my journal were stripping prostitution because I had met a woman in that mental institution when

00:35:11.300 I had anorexia that was there you see but so instead of saying I was lazy and these are the

00:35:18.380 only like it would have been so much better I mean when you talk about a mistake that you've owned

00:35:23.180 you associate a negative trait about yourself you say you know what I was a lazy fat slut and I

00:35:29.500 gluck glucked and fucked fucked because it was fun and I didn't think there'd be any consequences

00:35:34.020 and I wanted easy money and I did it and then there were consequences and I wish I didn't do

00:35:39.920 it I'm not because it wasn't fun but because of the consequence it's kind of like I mean who who

00:35:45.200 hasn't drank too much and then you get hung over right I mean this is the equivalent when you're

00:35:50.780 drinking alcohol you're not doing it because you were pressured you're not doing you're doing it

00:35:56.140 because it's time to rip shots baby and you have a lot of fun but then you know the high comes down

00:36:02.920 and then it's terrible right and then you wake up the next day and you have to you you have this

00:36:09.440 terrible headache and now you regret it because of the consequence and that's an honest way to

00:36:15.420 look at it that's how her life went i mean she got a bunch of fame um having sex on camera i mean

00:36:21.420 fellas in the chat was the first time you had sex on camera the first time you made a sex tape

00:36:27.880 whose idea was it was it the men or the women love having sex on camera yeah are you kidding

00:36:34.060 me on titanic rose got the naked you know jack was like let me paint you and she was like please

00:36:40.760 you know what i mean yeah can we can we do some breaking news real fast do you mind if i put a

00:36:48.480 story in the private chat sure you're gonna love it you're gonna love it where's the private chat

00:36:54.300 where is it one second one second one or i'll put it in uh yeah it's like why don't we just

00:37:00.800 admit we do these things for fun or for money um i don't know is she a hoe for money or the love of

00:37:06.880 the game could be i put it in the private chat and i put look at that okay this is literally breaking

00:37:12.640 today dhs big wig put on leave after ex-boyfriend accuses glitzy terror official of a sugar baby

00:37:27.620 scheme oh i saw this i didn't really get it so she's a you can read it so a department of

00:37:36.680 homeland security counter terror official was suspended during an investigation into the claims

00:37:40.680 that she built her sugar daddy out of tens of thousands of dollars

00:37:45.180 after her jilted ex-lover claimed her behavior posed a national security risk.

00:37:53.160 Julia Varvero, 29, was placed on leave after her ex-boyfriend filed a claim with DHS

00:38:00.220 alleging she swindled him out of $40,000 he spent during their three-month relationship.

00:38:06.360 That's not that bad. I'm just saying, like, that could be worse.

00:38:09.660 try divorce my man my ninja julia ball varvero is on administrative leave as a result of

00:38:18.540 investigation and she is no longer serving in her capacity as deputy assistant secretary at ths

00:38:24.980 um varvero

00:38:28.960 uh a varvero a distinguished graduate of saint john's university homeland security

00:38:36.880 says the complaint is no more than a jilted ex-boyfriend who's trying to get back uh the ex

00:38:43.360 a decades older divorce business executive known as robert b claimed he poured thousands

00:38:51.720 into the relationship until realizing he was a little more than a bankroll to well what did

00:38:57.420 you think it was i mean i'm kind of on the dude i'm kind of on the girl's side

00:39:03.360 i did not i did not want a sugar daddy prostitution relationship after spending

00:39:09.820 30 to 40 can vacations cartier jewelry expensive handbags and shopping this guy's just mad he got

00:39:16.000 dumped he thought that it was real they had something real she had something that he'd

00:39:24.020 never seen before then the love was so genuine yeah right you were a trick my guy

00:39:29.620 the money went towards a high-flying life of travel fine dining and luxury shopping sprees

00:39:37.320 which started when the pair they met on a dating app the couple traveled the country staying at

00:39:44.380 the finest hotels and even made a trip to italy switzerland and aruba with robert b footing the

00:39:49.440 bill the whole time everywhere we went she'd always order the most expensive thing on the menu

00:39:54.040 he kept going huh like the wagyu premier cut of japanese beef um he told the male gripping that

00:40:02.720 he dropped 1400 on their first date and got nothing more than a kit bruh varvero supposedly

00:40:09.560 turned her nose up at the hotel he booked for the aruba getaway and guilted him into switching to a

00:40:14.380 better report but not before slipping into the hotel's cartier store to pick up a souvenir she

00:40:19.820 was like, this is nice, but it's not the Ritz, explaining he caved and got them a room and

00:40:24.640 upgraded hotel to the tune of 1,700 more per night. Then they headed to the Europe. Robert B.

00:40:31.940 said Varvero goaded him into buying her a 3,500 Bottega handbag and a $1,000 camera ski gear and

00:40:39.980 new coat. She also then allegedly began pressuring him for rent during the DHS shutdown,

00:40:44.760 and that he finally was giving her a credit card he claimed i'm not used to having to ask like this

00:40:53.280 for a single credit card or help i run especially being furloughed she texted robert any past

00:40:58.140 relationship would have jumped and cared for me which is what i like i was like you know that's

00:41:02.900 not happening because i like i see how you shop he said that got me the cold shoulder the

00:41:08.760 relationship fell apart there but he but not before he introduced varvero to his daughter

00:41:14.040 who called her a Long Island gold digger and asked her dad,

00:41:17.000 what are you doing, according to a DM.

00:41:20.220 Barbero, however, dismissed the entire mess

00:41:22.580 as the work of her weird, jilted ex.

00:41:25.520 This is just a mad ex-boyfriend putting together crap,

00:41:28.580 and it's really weird, she said.

00:41:30.200 I thought it was a great relationship until it just didn't work,

00:41:33.020 and that was it.

00:41:33.920 If we made a story about every failed short-term relationship in D.C.,

00:41:37.540 the town would implode.

00:41:40.360 Bruh.

00:41:40.800 and she's sorry i gotta mute my phone i apologize for that and and she was deputy assistant

00:41:48.280 secretary guys they make pretty good money

00:41:50.880 well why wouldn't like why would she not if she could get more money

00:41:56.700 oh yeah and look at her neck look at her neck what's around her neck

00:42:02.160 let's go i almost feel bad for she got a weird ninja she got a weird you know i almost feel bad

00:42:12.320 for her okay i know i know i should take the i'm usually team guy um but you're dating a girl 20

00:42:20.160 plus years younger who looks like that what did you expect yeah i mean that was just stupid on

00:42:27.200 your part to not expect it to be transactional. Just know what you're in for, right? And ask

00:42:33.320 yourself, is the Poonani worth the money you're spending? And if it's not, then move on. But

00:42:38.120 if you voluntarily gave that money away and you're mad that she took it and ran, I just,

00:42:44.520 I can't really, I mean, there's certain men that kind of, you deserve to lose that money.

00:42:50.580 well well well so here's the thing though you know he has all the right to you know to say his to say

00:43:00.320 his truth to her boss yeah he does but we're all gonna laugh yeah well well well because here's

00:43:07.760 the thing he's gonna feel better about getting tricked if she has consequences so i i'm sure

00:43:14.480 he's fine with letting this get out because she lost her job as assistant deputy secretary

00:43:20.960 of uh of homeland security she lost a a multi-six-figure job

00:43:28.960 because she was with this guy and turned him uh into a trick so so honestly like he may have lost

00:43:36.800 forty thousand dollars but she lost a lot worse okay what do you think of this okay so the new

00:43:42.320 New York dating game is tough. Hey, Lauren, excited for tonight. Are we good for eight

00:43:46.220 o'clock at Ted's? I'm not good for tonight. I had a lovely time these last few dates getting to know

00:43:51.780 you. I really appreciate the book you bought me on our second date. This is hard to say,

00:43:56.260 but I've been seeing someone else and I want to explore where that goes. You are a great guy and

00:43:59.760 I'm probably making a mistake. I'm sending you a Venmo request for the $250 dinner that you owe.

00:44:05.720 you are trash so then she comes back wait hold on she comes back and she pays it oh okay yeah

00:44:18.480 she says wait check your venmo i sent you back the two women in new york are making money they

00:44:24.640 have to make or getting a sugar daddy or something they don't need money i hope that helps like i

00:44:29.340 said you're an amazing guy who deserves the perfect girl i feel like we would have worked

00:44:32.860 together. We just felt more like the right people connecting at the wrong time. Sorry about that

00:44:41.060 text yesterday was toxic and you did not deserve that. I get it. I could have handled the situation

00:44:46.320 better. If it makes you feel any better, my date the other night was terrible. I kind of wish it

00:44:50.080 would have been you. I feel like I ruined things between us. If you are open to it, I'd like to

00:44:54.380 try. Oh no, come on. I don't deserve it, but I realizing that I made a mistake with you. Okay.

00:45:00.640 would you would you fold or would you not fold no i wouldn't fold you wouldn't fold you know you

00:45:06.800 know how i am come on i don't believe you because you didn't ask a question what do you mean how

00:45:14.240 hot was she and how good was the sex no i'm petty enough we're like because i'll tell you so you

00:45:23.840 know aj's rants and reactions and i were twins right and i've okay so i'm the more laid-back

00:45:33.120 one and he's the more talkative extroverted one right so we've had women approach one of us

00:45:42.720 and then then meet the other one and like the other person's personality better

00:45:48.000 so you know maybe like a more a more laid back guy so they're like oh you know i i started by

00:45:53.700 talking to your brother but you know i like your personality better or the other way around they'll

00:45:57.880 meet me on laid back but then my brother's you know like really really extroverted and kind of

00:46:02.900 assertive so they'll they'll meet me and they figure i'm not their style then they'll try to

00:46:08.820 approach my brother and we had a pact if a girl approaches you that's it like the other one's

00:46:14.920 off limits so we made it i've made it a point to never be second choice to anybody ever how would

00:46:23.720 you wouldn't you be first choice if she met you and would prefer you no so like like just because

00:46:29.900 she didn't know you before yeah but if she met my brother and they were kind of like getting to know

00:46:35.480 each other like on a romantic level and she said oh yeah you know you're more my style no you you

00:46:43.860 chose you know you chose the wrong one sorry damn cold yeah you know how petty i am pearly come on

00:46:52.520 now i'm the most petty person you've ever met i just think that if she was attractive enough

00:46:58.900 you would probably string it out for a few months i think most guys would no say that but like

00:47:04.840 i don't know i i've seen men fold even even the best men fold for nines you know well you know

00:47:11.240 what how about this how about this how about this if i were in my 20s if i were younger

00:47:20.280 and she were like hot enough you know i could say but now that i'm in my 40s ain't happening

00:47:28.680 okay let's keep her her parents had put her in there because she was a teenage prostitute

00:47:33.640 when she just got that text so do you think what do you think about him asking for his money back

00:47:44.360 uh he had a covert contract so he i don't like i think it i understand it but

00:47:55.480 i'm just not about like giving people things in order to get something in return

00:47:59.960 so like i just think it's the cost of doing business to be honest yeah i would tell the

00:48:07.120 guys i used to mentor guys like don't date unless you have disposable time and money set aside

00:48:12.540 like then he should have just split it then like he wasn't kind of being honest with himself

00:48:18.900 about that he didn't want to pay for well but here's the thing though like he paid and then

00:48:24.640 she she's probably seen really receptive at the time and then she's going to come back and say

00:48:30.320 you know they probably kissed and hugged and stuff after the day he thought everything was good and

00:48:35.440 then she hits him with that text message because a lot a lot of guys if they get the vibe that it's

00:48:40.080 not going anywhere they'll split so the vibe was probably good after the date and then she's going

00:48:44.880 to hit him with the okey-doke right but that means you're like paying hoping to get sex in return and

00:48:52.080 it's just not a good then don't do that you know what i mean but that's what guys do though well

00:48:57.360 then don't do dinner yeah i agree and do something cheaper you know what i mean so here's the thing

00:49:04.480 pearly if if a guy asks you out to dinner he's paying for dinner with the hopes of getting sex

00:49:12.640 at that time or somewhere in the near future and if a woman says that that's the understanding

00:49:19.120 personally i'll just split so we can just get to know each other and i don't have to feel like

00:49:25.640 i don't want to i don't like people nobody likes feeling entitled to wait wait wait wait wait wait

00:49:30.660 you know i i'm sorry give me two more minutes on this what this whole i don't want to feel like

00:49:38.160 i'm obligated that's how it was up until like modern day women knew if i went out with a guy

00:49:45.520 he expect all of society would teach women don't take something from a man unless you're going to

00:49:51.680 give something back it's only in the modern day that women have imposed this that reality is

00:49:57.600 different well on the first date you don't know if you'll like him or not i have to get to know

00:50:03.120 you and then decide like now the burden of performance is on you it's can you make me feel

00:50:07.760 like sleeping with you yeah i agree so it's like it's like well you failed like it's not my fault

00:50:13.840 yeah so for me so i would rather have it where a woman doesn't go on a date unless the guy

00:50:23.520 is attractive enough minimum to consider having sex with i would never go on a date with someone

00:50:29.860 that i don't find attractive enough to have sex with i just okay but the like that like i think

00:50:37.880 and i think that's most women to be honest because we fill our time with so much useless shit

00:50:42.020 most women are like open um you could say maybe but like now the burden of performance is on you

00:50:49.420 you got to make me wanna okay one more thing on this before so i talked about this before

00:50:56.400 one of the worst parts about modern day and this whole not wanting to feel like you owe the guy

00:51:02.080 is that stupid guys how many days have you been on with a woman you take her to to dinner and the

00:51:08.160 bill comes and she does this fake reach for her purse garbage like she's gonna pay for

00:51:13.280 for the dinner you're supposed to say don't worry i'll take care of it and then that removes her

00:51:19.880 from the well you said you would take care of it so i don't have to feel guilty about you paying for

00:51:24.840 for dinner some guys split it's 2026 so stupid dude some guys do i've had dudes ass to split

00:51:34.420 before and did that change your your opinion of the date be honest not really

00:51:45.700 really so like it was going really really well you showed up with your you know

00:51:51.060 all dolled up and stuff and then it went well and then he said hey let's split it

00:51:56.580 no i think it wasn't going well see exactly i was before that like i didn't really care

00:52:02.580 like women don't really view money the same as men because we don't like you don't have

00:52:09.540 a financial responsibility in a relationship women just throw money away men have to save

00:52:17.240 and facilitate a life between a man and a woman women don't i just i think the first date i

00:52:23.200 wouldn't do dinner for a first date like i just because there's a few reasons like i think the

00:52:28.400 first date is to figure out do we like each other to could I have sex with you I can't do that on a

00:52:33.500 full stomach well so I think I think dinner is the worst first day like no the movies are the

00:52:40.640 the first worst the worst first date no I put I put dinner and also these movies you can like

00:52:48.780 kind of break the touch barrier we can hold hands or something um but like we could cuddle a little

00:52:55.780 bit if it's one of those theaters, you know what I mean? Like, like, there's no, you can't break

00:53:00.760 the touch barrier. One, I'm full. Who wants to have sex on an empty stomach? You mean a full

00:53:07.320 stomach? Yeah, sorry. Full stomach. Yeah. And three, what if I, like, if we get drinks, I just

00:53:16.820 think it's drinks or nothing. I don't know why anybody does anything but drinks. It's just my

00:53:20.980 opinion because one as a guy you're competing with all of the distractions in our life really

00:53:27.160 from our first conversation you got 48 hours to hit in 2026 you got 48 hours to make me like you

00:53:33.820 before women attraction it has an expiration date so if you can't if you can't get that done sorry

00:53:41.880 we're moved on to it might not even be another ninja it just might be the next event the next

00:53:47.340 whatever like we're our brains just we don't focus on anything why would we focus on you

00:53:52.940 so and like and if you take us me to like we're looking for reasons to not like you

00:53:59.100 so you take us to dinner you and now we're going to talk at dinner you've given me four hours or

00:54:05.340 two hours or whatever it is depending on like the type of restaurant you go to probably not four

00:54:09.980 probably two one to three maybe but to find things to not like you why would you do that to yourself

00:54:16.700 gets and then and then now i don't want to drink andy like if i drink then your inhibitions go

00:54:23.420 down you're in a better mood i feel passionately about this because i just i've never liked a guy

00:54:29.020 on a dinner date and i don't think it was the guy i think it was the environment i just i think it's

00:54:33.180 like impossible to make a girl like you in that environment that's my two cents well so the only

00:54:40.620 really how it changes because you're right you wanna okay when you're online dating and so like

00:54:50.780 50 of people meet um online you've been talking for a week or two so i would say that dinner huh

00:55:00.860 what yeah a week or two yeah you give these two weeks to find something wrong with you

00:55:08.300 oh so well you you keep the conversation short you know and then by the time you meet up for

00:55:15.660 like dinner or something like that that's when you determine if you if you want to see the person

00:55:19.660 again or not you completely no i mean i i think if we don't meet within 48 hours of matching i'm

00:55:26.460 i'm probably never like i'm probably never going to meet with you like i don't like yeah but you're

00:55:36.140 You're also on a different table.

00:55:37.860 Like most people have to, you know, work during the week.

00:55:42.480 No, no.

00:55:43.540 I deal with PUAs.

00:55:45.220 They say the same thing.

00:55:46.480 These are guys that go through like 100 women a year.

00:55:49.440 During the week is the best day to have dates is what they say.

00:55:53.640 The like Monday through Thursday because you're not competing with the weekend like events.

00:56:00.240 I mean, like what else is and if they're doing nine to five,

00:56:05.480 like you're a hard worker you got you got two jobs you know what i mean most have one

00:56:10.040 what are you doing after five o'clock nothing you hopefully yeah yeah yeah yeah you got me i agree

00:56:21.240 you got me hey most puas don't work either that is true that is true that is your statement i have

00:56:28.520 ever heard these ninjas do not have jobs your job's actually helping other guys get laid yeah

00:56:36.680 laser go pp says pookie ain't got no job either

00:56:45.320 like i just

00:56:48.200 i don't know i i'm you guys let me know the chat if you guys have had really great dinner

00:56:53.320 day to like experiences where first date you get laid after dinner is that is that normal i don't

00:57:01.320 know the the best scenario for a guy and guys in the chat let me know if this is how i'm pretty

00:57:09.240 sure you know if you're young and you are decently attractive as a guy especially like college age

00:57:14.360 or when you first get got your first apartment you ever have those nights where you're chilling

00:57:19.000 at home playing xbox or playstation and your friend's like yo man we're going to some party

00:57:24.200 we're going to do something you're like no guys i'm good like no no seriously come on you're like

00:57:28.120 ah dang all right so you you literally go to some place in your sweatpants with maybe a hat on or

00:57:34.200 something like that you meet some chick then all of a sudden you're getting laid yeah she was

00:57:43.320 ovulating right time yeah that's the other thing you know um you got to check her health app you

00:57:50.360 know because sometimes it's not you it's just you know the time of the month because we're horny

00:57:56.040 like five days of the month we can go back to the reaction i just wanted to pick your brain a little

00:58:02.440 bit was trying to introduce me to her pimp and glorifying the lifestyle like we have a beautiful

00:58:08.600 home together and you know he buys me everything i want and just like glorifying it right and so

00:58:15.560 in my mind i'm like oh well great that's a great career choice you know and so i actually wrote

00:58:21.400 that in my journal as probably a 17 year old little girl wow teenager wow so it was in your

00:58:27.480 head that that was a possibility that that would be a good way to make money yeah um talk to me

00:58:31.720 about your eating disorder that you had when you were still in high school correct did that happen

00:58:37.240 after that night, after your boyfriend cheated on you? And what was kind of going through your

00:58:42.500 mind then? It did happen afterwards. I don't think I actually correlated the two. I used to

00:58:50.380 idolize celebrities as a teenager. We all did when we were teenage girls. And was a huge fan

00:58:56.980 of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen. And remember seeing them losing all this weight. Terrace Hilton,

00:59:02.540 Christina Aguilera like Misha Barton tiniest tiniest people yeah women never grow up I mean

00:59:08.720 that's what they're most excited about is the celebrities women never grow up obsessed with

00:59:14.500 all of them and my friend and I decided like hey let's go on a diet and like we just wanted to

00:59:19.760 lose 10 pounds and so we lose 10 pounds and then from there like I just became obsessed with it

00:59:25.620 because because my home was so controlling it became the one thing about my life that I had

00:59:30.980 control over and at that age also we were in summer school at this point and there was a guy

00:59:37.140 that's like oh you guys are trying to lose weight like my brother sells coke cocaine so we had bought

00:59:42.340 cocaine a few times and like that helped us to not be hungry and I just became very obsessed

00:59:48.440 with being very thin to the point that my mom was like what is wrong with like something's wrong

00:59:53.680 like you are losing a lot of weight you know you're not eating and I was doing coke

00:59:58.880 yeah that's how you get really thin so that's when she she had gone through my room while i

01:00:04.620 was at school and found a journal i've always journaled with like my weight like i would put

01:00:09.680 my weight at the beginning of the day and the end of the day and um she put me in a mental hospital

01:00:14.920 for you know to try to help me is she trying to say that she did nothing to get put in the mental

01:00:22.700 hospital the eating disorder the parental dynamic is so interesting there because in a way your mom

01:00:29.340 did care you said that she was strict but then also that emotional abuse that really shaped you

01:00:35.340 growing up so it just sounded like a very complex and difficult relationship yes it definitely was

01:00:41.660 yeah and things have gotten so much better by the grace of god i mean she babysits my kids and i

01:00:46.940 mean she's wonderful yeah while you're you know doing this because you're obviously not watching

01:00:51.340 them so i can't wait so she talks all this about her mom on the podcast and then lets her mom watch

01:00:58.460 her kids did i catch that yep you got it so either the mom wasn't that bad bruh to talk

01:01:09.740 about the redemption of all of this so you went to that rehab or that institution and then after

01:01:15.820 that is when you went to school and you got into pornography after becoming a stripper and kind of

01:01:24.380 getting scouted by these producers so you said that after that after you started things started

01:01:30.540 moving very quickly what do you mean by that i mean i started getting booked almost every literally

01:01:37.100 every single day i worked 70 something days in a row before i caught gonorrhea and then wasn't

01:01:43.580 able to work for like a week and um yeah like stds run rampant in the industry they say that

01:01:50.380 they don't but they do at the time when i was in the industry you would get tested every 28 days

01:01:56.620 i believe they've changed their testing protocols at this point but i mean just because you test like

01:02:02.060 you may work with somebody that just slept with somebody at a bar the night before and now for

01:02:06.540 the next 28 days or 27 days till their test they're now i know sterling came on my show and he was

01:02:12.220 like oh porn stars have lower std rates i'm like bullshit there is no fucking way yeah tell that to

01:02:20.040 the um a lot of studios you know a lot of cornstar studios had to move to vegas because

01:02:28.020 they had um mr marcus the the cornstar he had um he had something and he gave it to a whole

01:02:37.740 bunch of people because he would

01:02:39.800 take his test and fold over

01:02:41.880 the part that was positive

01:02:43.100 and he gave a bunch of women an

01:02:45.720 STD and they passed a law

01:02:47.660 where you have to wear condoms

01:02:50.000 and corn in California

01:02:51.940 so

01:02:53.280 everyone packed it and moved to Vegas

01:02:55.260 what was the name of the guy?

01:02:57.360 Mr. Marcus

01:02:58.420 Mr. Marcus

01:03:01.880 oh he was giving everyone

01:03:05.580 syphilis

01:03:06.380 it says prosecutors say a veteran corn actor known as mr marcus has been sentenced in los

01:03:14.360 angeles to 30 days in jail for knowingly exposing at least two co-stars to syphilis

01:03:20.740 the 42-year-old actor whose real name was sentenced tuesday after pleading no contest

01:03:25.940 to one count of exposing another to a communicable disease it's crazy that's curable i'm looking at

01:03:34.200 the why would he spread that when it's curable listen it says on july 13th of 2012 spencer

01:03:40.060 received a penicillus shot after testing positive for syphilis during a routine energy screening

01:03:44.760 before he was to make a film following a second screening july 21st prosecutor said spencer

01:03:50.300 continued to test positive for syphilis and altered the original form by obscuring the result on a

01:03:57.900 photocopy a photocopy so he got a bad strain that just wasn't going away huh yeah they say

01:04:05.440 he then returned to work with participating in two adult movies two actresses who work

01:04:11.260 with spencer filed police reports after a producer discovered the altered form

01:04:15.720 and because of him now california you have to wear condoms in adult movies

01:04:24.760 crazy right writing that around so crazy so um that was my first ever std i'd never had

01:04:38.420 unprotected sex before the industry and my agent was like oh it's just a shot in the butt you'll

01:04:42.660 be fine you know like everybody gets it very just normalized it you know like jarring or were you

01:04:49.540 like, okay, if this is the price of fame and money, I guess it's fine. At first, it scared

01:04:56.020 the living daylights out of me. I didn't even know. I was like, is this permanent? What is this?

01:05:00.040 Am I going to die? I've had so much Botox. Their faces are so fucking frozen, bro.

01:05:07.000 I knew nothing about it. And he just really just normalized it. Hey, it's just like getting a cold.

01:05:12.700 It's a shot in the butt. Literally, you're going to get a shot and it's going to go away and you're

01:05:18.040 going to be fine everybody gets it and he really normalized it and I was like oh okay like I guess

01:05:23.800 you know yeah so I went and got the medication and it went away and I was able to work again but

01:05:30.680 um I mean I was nominated for like best new starlet within just a matter of months of being

01:05:35.780 in the industry so like things really when I say things took off like the fame that they promised

01:05:41.960 me i mean i never like looked at myself and they promised me the fame you got bitch

01:05:47.560 it's just like how are you tricked into this i don't know am i crazy i just i think it's

01:05:56.820 like the easiest thing to avoid doing porn it's so easy to just not do it like i got offered a

01:06:05.020 million dollars for a sex scene i didn't even think about it like it wasn't even like it wasn't

01:06:11.360 even hard for like it wasn't even a thought and i think that's higher paid than most what is the

01:06:16.780 average average sexy they're like pearl like it's like do you know what's so crazy hey you know

01:06:26.040 what's so crazy the average um they'll use this logic against me well those they're they'll say

01:06:32.280 um the only reason i didn't have sex on camera is because i had a catholic upbringing and i knew

01:06:36.980 but then simultaneously say that I don't know God now

01:06:41.300 to rationalize anything they don't

01:06:43.780 when I don't do their behavior.

01:06:46.760 So, like, how did I say no when I don't know God?

01:06:51.500 You know what I mean?

01:06:52.400 It says the average yearly income

01:06:54.920 for a female adult performer,

01:06:57.840 these are in the actual industry,

01:07:00.180 is about $58,000 a year.

01:07:03.920 Get a million dollars?

01:07:05.120 could have i could have just spent two hours and got a million dollars yeah but then

01:07:12.560 yeah i know i need more than that to bang adam 22. considered myself famous but the attention

01:07:19.520 that i was getting was what i had been craving all those years yeah and were you still doing

01:07:24.480 drugs at this you know what it's not even they're saying pearl has morals guys i don't know if it's

01:07:29.760 morals i'm gonna be honest i think i just would feel uncomfortable having sex on camera

01:07:37.760 like i think i just i'm too awkward for it i just would not i don't want that many people to see me

01:07:44.240 like that you know what i mean but but remember guys check out pearl's reaction video where she

01:07:49.680 talks about shannon elizabeth and say she dash but what about um what about just topless scenes

01:07:58.480 because you know it's so empowering it will be so empowering and for you to take the narrative

01:08:03.520 back over your body and produce you know and connect with your fans and

01:08:08.020 all the cope that these women are using to do an only fan how much we talking

01:08:16.300 i just couldn't do it i don't know although would i do it it's like

01:08:27.380 or had you stopped that after rehab? So I stopped, but then I was on set with a director who come to

01:08:36.140 find out was just somebody who's really cruel to women. And he told me that I was fat and that if

01:08:41.260 I ever wanted to make it in the industry that I needed to lose weight, I was only like 105 pounds

01:08:46.580 at that time. I mean, a lot thinner than I am even today. And that really triggered something

01:08:53.640 in me because what he didn't know was that I had just gotten out of not only a mental

01:08:57.580 institution, but then I did an extensive outpatient treatment for anorexia and I was not fully

01:09:03.600 healed. It's just, you know, and so he triggered, it triggered me. And so I saw a woman, I was

01:09:11.960 living at that point in a model house. So model houses, basically agents will, they have like

01:09:18.340 very large houses and they'll rent each rooms out because a lot of the women in the porn industry

01:09:22.860 will come in from out of town, shoot for like a month and then go back home to their family.

01:09:28.020 And so I was staying in a model house and I asked a girl, hey, by any chance, can you get some Coke?

01:09:34.020 You know, and she was like super suspicious, like why? Who told you? And I'm like, no, no, no. It's

01:09:37.600 just, I just want to lose a little weight. And she goes, oh yeah, I can get you some. And then

01:09:41.220 she gave me cocaine. And then from that point forward, I mean, I'd only been in the industry

01:09:45.260 for maybe a month or two at that point. I started using drugs every day after that.

01:09:50.160 was it just cocaine oh no i mean it transitioned from cocaine we have a drug addict we're letting

01:09:56.900 like do you guys see how crazy of a person this is that we're letting in onto the stage this is

01:10:04.000 a coked out drug addict who was put in a mental hospital and did porn and the church says right

01:10:12.680 this way i'm not saying you can't let her in the church but maybe like we have um a second room in

01:10:20.360 the church where we put all these like crazy people and keep them away from the general public

01:10:27.160 you know and then maybe with good behavior they can come back into the general public but

01:10:33.080 we're in a woman's world which is the devil's world which means we put the worst people ever

01:10:37.080 on stage. So into Norco's and to Oxycontin and then to heroin and then to crystal meth for a

01:10:45.220 little bit. I mean, it was Adderall. I mean, I, I would use just anything I could get my hands on.

01:10:51.120 Looking back, were you trying to numb any pain or guilt or was it just that it started to make

01:10:59.540 you feel good, started to make you lose weight and it spiraled from there or maybe both?

01:11:03.380 it was both Anna it started with the weight loss but what I realized was oh wow drugs makes doing

01:11:09.340 this kind of work easy yeah you know because I I wasn't much of a woman of conviction there

01:11:16.600 were very few things that I had convictions over in that industry um and the drugs just kind of

01:11:23.360 like numbed it like there were some things that made me made me feel gross okay so she'll say I

01:11:28.320 didn't know and then simultaneously say she had convictions pick a lane pick a lane stay made me

01:11:37.500 what's the female friendly version the hero hero and the victim at the same time and she's

01:11:43.740 practiced this multiple times like how many times has she told this story since 2012 or how many

01:11:50.380 times probably more than she can count that's why when you started asking her her questions

01:11:56.200 and this clips, it all start falling apart.

01:11:59.140 I want to see Jason

01:12:00.380 and Christiana.

01:12:02.300 I want to ambush them

01:12:04.540 because

01:12:06.440 I need that's one that I want to get

01:12:08.100 because

01:12:10.480 when they say, oh, we're helping all these people

01:12:12.600 and I'm like, look,

01:12:14.500 you guys came to my school

01:12:15.860 and I gluck gluck just like the rest of them.

01:12:18.300 You know what I mean? It's like

01:12:19.580 you didn't help anybody. I was there.

01:12:23.500 I was there.

01:12:26.200 I feel yucky and using drugs just kind of like was like, oh, whatever, like it just it numbs everything. And so, yeah, and drugs give you this false sense of happiness, you know, so it was like, I mean, I talked to people, I just was when I was at the porn show just a month ago, ministering, I had my old makeup artist do my makeup and she's like, I had no idea you were on drugs.

01:12:55.660 like you were the most friendly most kind person but it was like it was a mask you know it was the

01:13:01.980 drugs that were just like making me feel happy but it's a false sense of happiness

01:13:12.300 okay y'all if there's how prevalent is drug use in the porn industry

01:13:16.380 i only know two women when i was in the industry that did not use drugs

01:13:21.180 um i have lost so many people that were co-workers of mine even in just recent years some of the

01:13:29.260 most well-known women in that industry have just recently died of overdoses and suicide

01:13:35.700 i hear a lot of people say you know why should we really care about porn these are grown-ups

01:13:42.820 consenting to making videos for people to consensually consume sure we might be personally

01:13:50.000 against it, but why does it matter? Like, is that an accurate picture of pornography, just grownups

01:13:55.660 consenting to having a good time? Yes and no. I think it might start off that way. But I mean,

01:14:02.320 I have women reaching out to me all the time that are so broken and feel so stuck. So why should we

01:14:07.640 care? Because there's people in the end. Women feel broken regardless. Women always feel broken.

01:14:12.940 It's because we're kind of messed up people. Okay. Real jester mask saying is tricking women

01:14:19.900 into free will yeah history they're actually hurting and most of them won't ever admit it

01:14:27.900 to the public because you have to put on a persona right so like i had a stage name

01:14:32.460 and when i would post on my social media as my stage name i'm not going to post a photo saying

01:14:37.920 i am so depressed i feel like ending my life today that's always what they do they have fun

01:14:41.860 along the way and it's like they feel guilty about the fun and so what they'll do is they'll

01:14:46.940 say oh i like women we feel a lot of things at the same time so we feel guilty and then we do

01:14:53.120 it anyway so that almost makes it worse um you know just all you gotta do is say you did it and

01:15:00.820 it was wrong and that's it yep and nothing else in fact every time you say that just do a dramatic

01:15:08.520 pause okay like i'm i'm not gonna show that side i'm gonna put on a smile and say hey

01:15:16.860 guess what guys, look who I get to work with today. You know, look at what new purse I bought

01:15:21.660 today, you know, and, and there's so much brokenness in the industry that people would never

01:15:26.880 admit on unless they're at their breaking point. I've talked to other people. This was a man who

01:15:34.880 had been in the porn industry and he talks about how, you know, it started one way where he was

01:15:39.940 doing porn with women and, you know, he's straight attracted to women, but then it just caught,

01:15:45.560 got more and more intense and more and more aggressive and then it was gay porn because

01:15:50.780 more money he was also getting a bunch of accolades oh now i gotta listen to gay guys talk

01:15:58.560 dude so there's that whole gay for pay thing i'm sorry man you bang a dude you're gay for the rest

01:16:05.540 of your life i don't care what anybody says yeah if you ever cross swords with a dude okay what do

01:16:12.440 you think if they were like kids and did gay stuff like like under the age like underage

01:16:18.980 do you think that makes them gay because i met a guy recently who said that he um was in a

01:16:24.640 consensual gay relationship when he was like it's really gross but like but like on like five years

01:16:30.260 old and the guy was like seven or ten like they were both under eight i i'd never heard of this

01:16:36.220 but he said like when he told his story it's more common than you think so do you think that makes

01:16:41.860 him gay for life uh was he black no he's white oh um i would say because let me i don't think

01:16:53.620 he's gay but he has shit parents yeah that's what i said i was like who's watching you guys

01:16:58.960 the chat's saying yes i wouldn't have faulted you if you said yes i don't know

01:17:04.660 blades like did you ever feel that okay this is spiraling into more and more intense more

01:17:11.540 and more scientists discovered women can't say it's my fault I know violent content that is kind

01:17:17.740 of scaring me uh yes so three years in like okay so up to three years like I had some very hard

01:17:28.220 nose on things that like I was like I will not do I've never even done that in my personal life I

01:17:32.780 will not do that. Um, but when it came to some aggressive scenes, like spanking and like smacking

01:17:41.660 and spitting and pulling hair, like I w I would agree to those scenes if they would pay me more

01:17:48.600 money. And though I hated it and it felt uncomfortable, sadly, some of it also felt

01:17:53.960 normal to me because of my upbringing. Yeah. There is this big problem and we've talked about

01:17:59.940 like the dangers of Pornhub and everything, but also just like the popularity of adolescent content

01:18:07.780 or like pretending to be adolescent. And that of course changes the taste of the people consuming

01:18:14.000 it. Like when you were in the industry, did you see that as a big problem? Yes. So when I say that

01:18:19.660 I was not a woman of conviction, but there were very few things, that was one of the things. So

01:18:23.900 when I first started off in the industry, the reason why I was getting books so much is because

01:18:28.580 i was 18 years old and i looked like a little girl and they would put me in pigtails all right

01:18:34.260 hold on doug i need you to entertain these people for a second dogs barking all right so guys let's

01:18:41.460 talk about corn for a second right i hate the fact that the red pill shames men for watching adult

01:18:49.380 stuff guys if you're young and you're on your grind i would rather have you putting in work

01:18:56.660 putting in long hours doing a trade and then rubbing one out then freaking wasting time on

01:19:02.820 some especially if you're in your 20s guys if you're if you're in your 20s and you don't have

01:19:09.620 something you know extraordinary about you when it comes to looks and stuff you got a long way to go

01:19:16.020 but once you hit your 30s life gets better i'm telling you so people automatically appoint any

01:19:24.820 kind of you know they think that any any kind of of consumption of porn is some kind of addiction

01:19:31.940 i don't think so women want to try and shame anything that a man can do to take the power

01:19:37.060 away from them right guys corn is okay to watch and it would take a lot in fact guys in the chat

01:19:46.740 how much corn do you think a man would have to watch to be called the addict how many hours a day

01:19:54.820 And think about this. When you're thinking about the calculation, put that opposite dealing with women. So let's say a guy is watching porn a certain amount of hours a day, opposite to how many hours guys deal with stupid-ass women each day. Honestly.

01:20:14.680 guys i think once again if you're young and you're on your grind

01:20:20.660 you know go to school learn your trade you know put in the hours rub one out and keep it moving

01:20:31.580 there's oh yeah men should watch men should watch corn okay and then do what

01:20:38.720 i see five hours or seven hours is probably fanatic 24 7 yeah three four

01:20:47.120 yeah okay

01:20:50.240 um yeah i'm sorry guys in your 20s especially now more than ever you have to stay focused

01:21:01.460 on becoming a man of means you don't even have to become rich but you have to be

01:21:08.700 put yourself in the best position where you can live life on your own terms

01:21:12.580 whatever that looks like and there's more distractions now more than ever

01:21:16.800 social media 304s

01:21:20.380 people trying to make their

01:21:24.520 problem your problem guys just rub one out

01:21:28.160 men shouldn't watch porn ever okay no I don't believe in that at all

01:21:32.600 I just never have sorry what do you think about it

01:21:36.020 But do you think, well, do you believe in this whole thing where men shouldn't watch porn ever?

01:21:42.740 No, it's either we're going to require the, they either get a sex slave forced by the parents or whatever.

01:21:51.380 Like the women, they're forced to have sex with men they don't like at 18 and be with them for life.

01:21:56.380 Then we can get rid of porn.

01:21:57.820 But if we're not going to do that, we want to give women choice, then porn it is, right?

01:22:03.920 Yep, I agree.

01:22:04.500 forced love or not that's really what it comes down to free choice chad no free choice everyone

01:22:12.160 gets one you know that's it and it's so funny because everyone's like oh well i we want to go

01:22:19.900 back to the good old days and i'm like well are you gonna do an arranged marriage for your daughter

01:22:23.640 no i want her to have okay well like well did you see andrew wilson on on trigonometry

01:22:33.200 uh he cooked and he was talking about how men have obligations for for the draft um and you know the

01:22:42.240 woman that the guy on chicken arm she said well you know women risk their bodies during childbirth

01:22:48.960 he's it's not the same it is the same no it's not because when men are compelled in the draft

01:22:56.000 women are not compelled to give birth the only way to equal that out would be to compel women

01:23:02.460 to have children and that's never going to happen he cooked on trigonometry it was great

01:23:07.160 and costume jewelry and we could switch to that because i just can't listen to this bitch anymore

01:23:13.740 it's true you know oh i can i can get the clip at least yeah let's pull it put the clip in the chat

01:23:23.080 I'm like I can't listen to her anymore

01:23:25.840 I just can't

01:23:28.320 Oh my god

01:23:29.280 Yeah she's just awful man

01:23:30.780 Pearl is on

01:23:33.020 I don't see anyone else calling out

01:23:36.000 These tradcon hookers

01:23:37.940 Like Pearl is

01:23:38.860 Why are you all alone

01:23:41.640 In this fight Pearl

01:23:42.600 Wilson's kind of on it

01:23:47.660 I don't think I'm alone

01:23:48.820 But yeah it's pretty much me and Andrew Wilson

01:23:51.580 no he and myron right myron's definitely on the train yeah uh i see a reaction to it let me see

01:24:02.240 if i can find the actual uh uh oh yeah here it is okay it's in the private chat yeah i'm putting

01:24:13.520 the perfect set right now the thing is just like it's really hard it's really difficult

01:24:28.080 would people think of things like what's the argument against this if this is an immutable

01:24:32.400 character how could you argue that women shouldn't be able to vote or that men shouldn't be able to

01:24:36.320 votes like well at our founding they couldn't women could not vote well at your founding as

01:24:43.360 you've said yourself you had slavery right so things do change over time sure but the thing

01:24:48.160 is is like sometimes in a good direction sure it's sometimes in a bad direction absolutely so

01:24:51.920 the thing is is like the the idea that they had there was that most men couldn't vote there was

01:24:56.800 no universal suffrage for men including slaves right for the most part for men um and well you

01:25:04.480 real fast because most people weren't allowed now women i'm black and i would gladly give up

01:25:11.280 my right to vote if it meant women couldn't vote what about if black people couldn't vote

01:25:21.840 uh i think that black there's enough i i i don't know because i feel i i think if white women can

01:25:32.320 vote black people should be should be able to vote ain't no way with black women

01:25:43.600 and even like the ninjas come on yeah oh man are there more i mean you're black do you think

01:25:50.640 there's more malcolms or ninjas when you talk to 10 black guys oh i mean come on now

01:25:56.960 there's a ninja infestation right now yeah we're okay with the malcolms malcolms are welcome

01:26:03.600 the carltons yeah we could do um we could do an honorary voting for like now like

01:26:09.040 and we'll put you in charge of it you could be the ninja rejecter

01:26:15.120 i have to sign off on black people voting i'd take that job you your brother and you could pick

01:26:21.200 who would you pick as your third like it has to be um oh yeah sean it could yeah you you two and

01:26:27.280 sean it could be like american idol but so american idol and they come in and tell you why they

01:26:32.480 deserve to vote and um the tribunal that'd be great yeah and the three of you um oh you know

01:26:40.560 working for a white guy of course then you can oh my god and it would be so funny because sean

01:26:50.000 would just have the straightest face and ask them like can't you see no so like you would be like

01:26:57.920 are you kidding man i'm like sean would do a thing where he's like now we decided that you can't vote

01:27:09.600 now i know you feel some type of way about this right now but when you go home and you think

01:27:16.080 about it and all your emotions have kind of gone away i think that you'll be able to see that our

01:27:20.960 decision was so i can picture he'd be the he'd be the last person that the person talked to you

01:27:26.400 after the decision was made that's so true the arguments against women voting are pretty simple

01:27:34.240 and it was it's the idea is land holdership and force right can women utilize force in order to

01:27:39.840 to maintain land the answer is no generally that takes men so the biggest like the if you're looking

01:27:46.980 at feminism for instance you had the anti-suffragettes and then the suffragettes but the

01:27:51.340 anti-suffragettes arguments were way better the argument was pretty simple it just worked like

01:27:55.800 this the you cannot erode or get rid of the patriarchy because you always have to appeal

01:28:01.040 to it for your rights and that's a fundamental truth and since that's a fundamental truth

01:28:06.240 i've never seen a great reason why women should be able to vote because they can vote to send

01:28:11.840 men to war that they themselves do not have to go fight they are not beholden to the draft

01:28:17.100 only men are okay and they can say well give you a scale of one to ten how much do you think that

01:28:23.200 they're going to simp in their response to what andrew wilson's saying a scale of one to ten

01:28:27.080 and twelve i know these i'm stupid they're like they have fear that's the thing we can sense when

01:28:35.040 men have fear. And we abuse it. So yeah, that's what these guys are going to do.

01:28:43.580 You're not beholden to the draft, perhaps because you're too old for it. But you were beholden to

01:28:47.500 the draft when you were not too old for it. So your time could have come.

01:28:50.680 Could you not flip this argument the other way around and say women are able to vote,

01:28:54.460 men are able to vote on things that affect women that don't affect men?

01:28:59.120 Like?

01:29:00.120 Well, all kinds of things. For example, their right to vote. I mean, among other things. But,

01:29:03.820 you know, things to do with sexual health, abortion, all kinds of things, right?

01:29:08.840 Well, I don't understand. Abortion does have to do with men.

01:29:11.640 Okay, fine. I mean, it does, but it has more to do with women because it affects them more directly.

01:29:17.780 But lots of other things. I mean,

01:29:19.640 Andrew's not buying that.

01:29:21.760 Men could pass a law that women have to wear a headscarf, for example, right?

01:29:26.360 See, that's inherently believing that men are, like, evil.

01:29:30.080 And at this rate, is a headscarf the worst idea?

01:29:33.240 Like, the only reason men would pass that law is because this has just gotten ridiculous.

01:29:37.560 Women are naked everywhere.

01:29:39.360 This is just too much naked.

01:29:43.300 Our votes affect each other.

01:29:45.820 That's not an argument to deny the other sex the vote.

01:29:49.100 Oh, I don't understand.

01:29:51.120 Like, your argument is women can vote to send men to war.

01:29:55.080 My argument is, it's called forced doctrine.

01:29:58.100 My argument reduces to this.

01:29:59.620 if you always have to appeal to one sex for your rights right then why are you why are you being

01:30:08.080 imbued with the responsibility of that at all because women have to appeal to men for their

01:30:12.800 rights and anytime men want to take rights away from women they can't like that and there's not

01:30:17.340 the only thing is i don't like that argument because most men cannot take rights away from

01:30:22.280 women. It's a select few. I think we know what group select few that really have the power to

01:30:33.240 do that. But like, I mean, the guy fixed him at AC, does he have that right, the right to take

01:30:37.920 power away from women? No, he hits a woman he's put in jail, you know,

01:30:43.520 about it. And if you want proof of that, let me show you half the world.

01:30:47.720 Anytime collectively, men say women have no rights, they don't have any.

01:30:52.280 and that's that right collectively but men are do not organize like men are more individualistic

01:30:58.960 so they think for themselves and they don't like being part of a group so they're never going to

01:31:04.300 organize well that depends though because we couldn't have a military if men didn't gather

01:31:13.400 in groups we couldn't have had so many men overthrow government if they didn't gather in

01:31:20.280 groups it's just we literally have this block on gathering groups against things that would harm

01:31:27.800 women would you rather live in the city or the uh country like a small town a small town i know

01:31:35.000 that's the answer most men men like like to be by themselves more than women they don't like well

01:31:41.960 but also small towns do have community though one of the reasons why you you go to small towns

01:31:47.240 is because of community that like cities don't have right but who are the people that usually

01:31:53.600 are in the community parts like who's at home who's at the school board or like doing whatever

01:31:59.120 it's usually women um like i don't know why it's like it's not really an argument women are more

01:32:04.720 social than men oh yeah yeah yeah i agree but like there are circumstances well okay

01:32:11.200 thing men will get to like get together yeah it's just when when men do gather like it's before

01:32:18.540 men gather to topple governments or like the military they've been playing a volunteer armies

01:32:24.980 where the men's weren't men were getting paid but but they gathered to defend something they're

01:32:30.440 just just blocked with women for some reason and they have no idea why yeah it's not gonna happen

01:32:36.140 not a damn thing that they can do about it so the idea that they can erode the patriarchy or

01:32:43.040 remove the patriarchy or in some way um get away from the patriarchy to be strong independent women

01:32:49.700 is nonsense they're just always appealing to the benevolence of men right but still on an

01:32:54.280 individual level women have more power because women can like men don't have the power to just

01:32:59.280 throw a woman in jail with the false accusation only men really have that power 100 true oh my

01:33:05.040 god andrew moggs the out of these guys this guy's so ugly oh my god look at that look at that side

01:33:11.400 profile are they english yeah yeah because like how many they said that england was one of the

01:33:18.820 worst places in inbreeding in like the 16 17 1800s and you can tell by the by the people living there

01:33:27.760 That just looks like inbred

01:33:29.900 features. The guy

01:33:31.020 in the green?

01:33:34.400 Ugh. Yeah.

01:33:36.020 So ugly. Always.

01:33:38.200 And so... Andrew Moggs.

01:33:40.480 They could say what they want. Andrew's

01:33:41.960 got a good, like, side profile.

01:33:44.660 He's got, like, a perfect side profile

01:33:46.020 if we're being honest. I don't even understand

01:33:48.160 what the purpose is of

01:33:50.020 the vote for women. What is it?

01:33:52.020 We can literally, via force,

01:33:54.120 take it whenever we want anyway.

01:33:55.780 what is the point here well i would imagine the point is to include the voice of half the

01:34:01.120 population which is naturally set on different priorities to those of men and since we live in

01:34:05.820 a society which is half female it would be worthwhile to include their perspective in

01:34:10.560 if we want to include their perspective let's do like a quarter vote or something i'm i'm up for

01:34:15.540 compromise you know what i mean or if women pay taxes then they can vote like if they have no debt

01:34:21.940 no college debt or some bullshit like that look at I'm not even saying I can't compromise and say

01:34:28.540 that women should have no say in anything what I'm saying is this has gotten ridiculous

01:34:34.240 this has gotten absolutely ridiculous and to say that we have an equal say is just ridiculous

01:34:42.980 what would be what would be a compromise you would propose Doug MPA where the people say

01:34:49.880 taking away women's vote that's too far but what's somewhere in the middle that we can meet

01:34:54.760 married women can vote when their husbands vote it has to be the same so a married family can

01:35:04.320 cast two votes up the same way that's not a compromise it's not it's not a comp you're

01:35:11.220 compromising with the left mpa wait what you're compromising with single women the left oh

01:35:19.860 um this isn't that that's like a compromise that can serve it like

01:35:24.340 like that no this is a compromise with the single women that say look at um we're not

01:35:32.200 going to pass taking away our vote what what can you give us in the middle

01:35:35.840 because dang um this is where men like my dad says he loses like he would say this is just

01:35:44.580 a stupid even though it's hilarious it's like a dumb conversation and you need to come up with

01:35:49.120 like if you ask my dad what to do about abortion he says three months that's a compromise give

01:35:53.920 him four like then we can stop arguing about it now we're done with the discussion i mean

01:36:00.240 so like how i'm saying what would be the equivalent of that for um for voting uh

01:36:06.560 uh oh dang that's a good one i would say

01:36:16.960 i'd say dang this is tough i've never been asked this question before where a woman on the left

01:36:24.240 can vote i would say home ownership but that doesn't disqualify any kind of leftist liberal

01:36:31.520 crazy person i would say education but education on the left makes him even worse when it comes to

01:36:37.360 voting i'd say net tax like i'd say net taxpayers can vote like if you're either have an insane

01:36:46.240 amount of debt or like you're on government assistance would be is where my mind's going so

01:36:52.320 like if some lady is killing it doing real estate and she you know she's not committing any crimes

01:36:59.680 she's living life like the man she is has no debt whatever okay okay so how about this pay

01:37:09.520 taxes you can have a say go ahead um she's not single no she's single but she's not claiming uh

01:37:17.200 a child tax credit um she she isn't default on any debt okay uh those would be the big two so

01:37:29.100 single and not claiming a child tax credit

01:37:33.960 and isn't defaulted on any debt?

01:37:37.400 Maybe military women?

01:37:39.940 Oh, yeah, okay.

01:37:41.060 Military women can vote.

01:37:42.460 Like, women enlisted.

01:37:45.220 I actually think the draft would take care of it.

01:37:47.640 I'd give up that shit so fast.

01:37:52.300 The, yeah, okay.

01:37:53.800 We make decisions.

01:37:54.720 Why does voting not do that?

01:37:56.040 Because it affects them as much as it affects us.

01:37:57.960 Let me ask you a question

01:38:00.500 Are you aware that in the United States

01:38:02.680 We abolished alcohol

01:38:04.080 For a period of time

01:38:05.740 I've seen some movies about how that went

01:38:07.360 Who got that amendment passed?

01:38:10.760 I don't know

01:38:11.320 If you want to have an argument

01:38:14.520 About our disagreements

01:38:16.100 With how women choose to vote

01:38:17.700 No, no, no, they couldn't vote

01:38:19.700 Oh, I see

01:38:21.580 They couldn't vote

01:38:24.040 But they still got that amendment passed

01:38:26.560 The idea that women did not have influence or do not have influence or don't have moral influence on society because they can't vote is stupid.

01:38:36.040 So what's wrong with formalizing that in the form of a vote?

01:38:39.260 Well, I just told you the very idea that women, well, like, let's start with this.

01:38:46.260 Do you want women to be able to get drafted in the military?

01:38:51.980 I personally don't, no.

01:38:54.180 Why?

01:38:55.640 Why?

01:38:56.560 because i've never really thought about it but it's just an instinctive reaction actually

01:39:03.100 uh i'd have to think about the exact reason but um i i just don't think combat is what men do i

01:39:09.420 guess it's a very simplistic way of saying it and there'll be there'll be women who can kick

01:39:13.500 your ass and and there are women sure like that right uh but not generally uh what i i am not

01:39:20.140 against women serving in the military if that's what they choose to do what about the draft though

01:39:24.680 But I don't think they should be compelled to, no.

01:39:27.640 But men should?

01:39:29.920 I think in some circumstances, yes.

01:39:31.860 Like when the survival of the country is at stake.

01:39:33.620 So women get a privilege men don't get?

01:39:36.220 Sure.

01:39:37.620 Men get certain privileges.

01:39:39.040 So why do they have equal rights?

01:39:40.460 No, what privileges?

01:39:41.620 Name a single privilege men get that women don't have access to.

01:39:45.160 You mean legislative?

01:39:46.600 Anything.

01:39:47.440 Like literally anything.

01:39:48.040 In life?

01:39:49.080 Yeah, any aspect, whether it be governmental, social.

01:39:52.500 Women have all the privilege.

01:39:53.500 all the privilege oh yeah hey when the titanic goes down who gets on the lifeboat yeah yeah but

01:39:58.700 that's a very narrow context or who dies in childbirth right like i mean come on there's

01:40:03.040 we're different and almost no women die in childbirth anymore oh some still do sure but i

01:40:09.200 mean some people die just like i mean there's probably more women that die in childbirth in

01:40:13.300 america than people who die on the titanic yeah is childbirth avoidable you just don't have don't

01:40:19.560 have sex right no but what i'm saying is there are outcomes that are better for men in life and for

01:40:26.280 women and that's a fundamental difference between men and women yeah i understand but i'm talking

01:40:31.320 about privilege what what are any can you give me any privilege at all that men have uh that women

01:40:39.560 don't whereas i can give you tons of privileges that women have that men don't that's what i'm

01:40:44.520 asking um privilege well i mean the privilege concept outside the legislative framework is a

01:40:51.440 difficult one even inside of it i'm asking for both either any in fact we got to get rid of this

01:40:57.360 ugly guy what is he doing here it's really this guy's the guy's carrot this guy said like two

01:41:03.060 words so they bring it up a little later but 649 women who died from maternal causes in 2024 and

01:41:13.700 4,700

01:41:17.060 men died

01:41:18.960 in the workplace in 2024.

01:41:25.260 I'm going to look up one more thing.

01:41:27.000 How many women died from BBLs in

01:41:29.040 2024? That's a

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01:41:41.200 is one in 3,000.

01:41:43.700 One in 3,000, and nobody talks about that.

01:41:53.240 I don't have the data on all this stuff,

01:41:55.220 but I would assume there are contexts

01:41:57.160 in which men are more likely to be employed

01:41:59.100 for a certain thing

01:41:59.980 because they're more likely to be perceived

01:42:01.480 as authoritative, as leaders, things like that.

01:42:04.160 Although that has changed

01:42:05.420 with the kind of woke agenda over the last 10 years.

01:42:07.660 And it works both ways.

01:42:08.980 Like, for instance, preschool teachers,

01:42:11.040 I would assume that people would vastly prefer

01:42:13.480 that their kid go to a woman right right so it seems like that privilege is right across and

01:42:18.620 they shouldn't let's bring the men but men are so much better like you ever meet like a male

01:42:23.440 camp counselor there's nobody that loves their job more than a male like the joy they get from

01:42:30.660 those women just don't how about this like like looking like good parents in front of the kids

01:42:36.880 but women just don't get joy from children men it's like i remember i met this camp he was like

01:42:42.020 tell me about his job and i'm like that is the most excited i've ever heard someone tell like

01:42:48.280 he loves these fucking kids yeah or or like um uh peewee football and peewee baseball coaches

01:42:57.280 oh they love it oh yeah yep board so like what what is the why is it that women get all of the

01:43:05.900 equality right uh but also get all the privilege that doesn't seem right to me that seems like

01:43:12.000 it's backwards so like what i'm still waiting to hear from anybody ever what are these what are

01:43:18.560 these um privileges men have over women versus what women have over men so if you can go and

01:43:26.200 you can be drafted you can be sent off to war right um and women can't but they can vote to

01:43:32.480 send you off to war, how is that not something which fundamentally needs to be addressed

01:43:36.100 immediately? That seems to me like it's completely lopsided and it's giving one class of people a

01:43:42.000 significant privilege over another. So if we allowed women to be drafted, you'd be happy

01:43:46.980 with them having them? Well, see, now we come into pragmatic problems, though. The reason that you

01:43:51.360 said earlier, I'm against women being drafted is because they can't really serve in combat roles,

01:43:56.900 only in support roles, which draftees and men would have to serve in combat. There'd be a way

01:44:00.700 where women could vote on, like, lower government stuff?

01:44:05.740 Like, I don't know.

01:44:06.780 Maybe they could have a vote in, like, the town mayor

01:44:10.480 and, like, maybe their state politics, but not federal.

01:44:14.860 Would that be a compromise?

01:44:16.000 What do you think of that?

01:44:17.820 No.

01:44:20.200 Because the same tomfoolery goes on in state.

01:44:25.920 Because remember, states have states in it, too.

01:44:28.680 guys put in the chat if you can think of a compromise i know i know it's easy to say

01:44:33.620 women shouldn't vote but we're in 2026 okay so like the only way you're going to get something

01:44:38.440 passed is you're going to have to like compromise on some stuff right so again i told you with

01:44:43.940 abortion i think it should be illegal they think it should be legal up to birth basically three

01:44:48.720 months 3.5 whatever for let's never argue about it again and just make that the standard

01:44:54.560 let's how would you do that with voting

01:44:57.860 that roles the reason women don't do well in combat roles is because well driving tanks is

01:45:05.340 hard work it takes muscles and you gotta you know run the shells and you have to carry hundreds of

01:45:10.780 pounds of equipment with you and you have to do all of this type of thing and generally speaking

01:45:14.760 women aren't equipped for it which is why we've never had a female navy seal to date even though

01:45:19.340 they've been trying for like 25 years we still haven't had a single one they can't do the job

01:45:23.660 now what people always do is point out liars right well some women can do it that's true

01:45:30.700 some can't but in general they can't i guess but when you vote for a government you don't vote

01:45:38.080 whether to go for war or not it's the government makes the decision there's plenty of people who

01:45:42.360 voted for donald trump and are absolutely disgusted that he's started a war okay

01:45:49.640 you're just weak man

01:45:52.700 I was watching a video about how

01:45:58.180 this guy he was in the UK he's talking about how

01:46:01.880 there are UK women trying to use

01:46:06.040 do you like Trump as a qualifier in dating

01:46:09.940 in the UK he's like what's that

01:46:14.200 have to do with anything like we don't even live in the US

01:46:17.840 and you're disqualifying, you came in

01:46:19.900 for what?

01:46:21.780 I thought the government was for it.

01:46:23.940 I'm sorry, go ahead.

01:46:26.160 It's just like how

01:46:27.260 UK black women talk like

01:46:29.760 American black women.

01:46:31.460 Oh, we had all these struggles in the past.

01:46:33.920 You would think that Jim Crow

01:46:35.620 and slavery happened over there. It didn't happen,

01:46:37.900 but they just adopted this

01:46:39.440 whole thing with American black women.

01:46:42.660 Oh, for those of you

01:46:43.880 watching,

01:46:44.400 um we i'm just a tentative i forgot i was going to announce this at the beginning of the show

01:46:51.040 uh we might be doing a dinner soon where you can actually get a ticket and there's going to be like

01:46:57.760 10 people selected for a dinner um in the next few shows i'm going to put the link for it where

01:47:04.300 you can apply it's going to be in los angeles so tentative thing tentative of course we are

01:47:11.780 agreed on that right government's force like ultimately that's what it reduces to so if you

01:47:16.420 say you're voting you're voting for force and you're voting for force use why does the united

01:47:20.500 states have a massive military well because we're going to use it that's why we're going to use it

01:47:26.100 why do we have a draft well because we're going to use that too and have used it so the thing is

01:47:31.380 is that a lot of what we're voting on is force we want to we're trying to protect our nation

01:47:36.260 from uh all foreign threats right that's why we have this massive military that's why we have a

01:47:40.980 a draft. That's why we have the potential

01:47:43.000 for mass combat. That's why we entered

01:47:45.040 into World War II. That's why we

01:47:46.920 entered and there was a draft then.

01:47:50.140 And we're going to

01:47:50.960 institute a draft at some point again, likely.

01:47:53.180 It's more likely than not. At some point

01:47:55.140 we're going to do it.

01:47:57.200 So the thing is, why do women get exempt

01:47:58.940 from that? And if it's the case that

01:48:00.920 you don't want them exempt from that, why is it that

01:48:02.840 they don't go right to the front lines then and battle it out?

01:48:05.460 Like draftees have at least

01:48:06.940 the potential.

01:48:09.080 I'm going to have to ban you on my...

01:48:10.980 from my chat alien girl what kind of simp question is that he's mean to the women that

01:48:19.140 put their tits out on whatever get i know and half of them are sex sex workers and only fans

01:48:26.360 but he's so mean oh no not being mean get out of here too well that's a fundamental privilege

01:48:35.100 that is not being addressed right and yet women have the vote doesn't seem like they care too

01:48:40.240 much about men's rights even though we're supposed to care about theirs seems like put you in time

01:48:45.280 out get out of here with that shit get out of here they have a lot of privilege it's not fair

01:48:49.980 i think a lot of women care about men's rights actually look there's oh my god let me do a

01:48:58.980 street interview do you care about men's rights what's that they'll be like men do have problems

01:49:05.240 but what about women there's this there's a vocal minority which say that they don't and they hate

01:49:12.500 men and we look we know those type of women let's be honest a lot of women care about men's rights

01:49:16.720 they do give us give me like three of the most prominent ones you can think of who care about

01:49:21.480 men's rights uh well i'm trying to think now but i mean feminists on the show who are feminists

01:49:28.500 like louise perry for example they're different type of feminists to the idiots that you'd be

01:49:32.340 spending your time arguing with but the people who have a very sensible view of these things

01:49:36.660 yeah lots of people like that say my name by the way coming back not not to change i know they

01:49:42.240 thought of me and they didn't want to say it a good compromise for women to keep voting rights

01:49:46.480 is upon divorce they are not entitled to any monetary benefits and child custody

01:49:51.800 oh they get to keep their rights as long as they agree to that i think most men would say that's

01:49:58.360 fine right you would you say yes to this deal you'd have to right women to keep it is a prime

01:50:04.780 versus they're not entitled to any monetary evidence yeah but what about the women then

01:50:09.640 i mean think about the black community oh less than 28 percent of black women will ever get

01:50:16.400 married so what you know so you'd have to have a baby mama clause yeah yep but coming back to

01:50:24.320 point i mean uh one of the things that doesn't make a lot of sense to me is uh for example yes

01:50:29.840 it's true uh men serve in combat roles and women don't but women bear children and men don't and

01:50:36.400 there's a huge disadvantage i'm not even doing that so you know in all sorts of societal outcomes

01:50:41.760 from a materialistic career perspective to spending the time to bear the child and then to

01:50:46.720 nurture that child right so uh what like what well that's backwards no no hold on yeah the

01:50:53.840 the gender pay gap discussion which is kind of stupid in a lot of areas is actually a reflection

01:51:00.560 of the fact that there is a motherhood gap in lifetime earnings which is if you're a woman

01:51:04.720 who bears children and take more time off and then you take time off then over the course of your

01:51:09.280 life less over time yeah you will learn less so that would be one disadvantage that i could give

01:51:14.080 you where women contributed differently but now we have daycare so you don't even have to take time

01:51:18.640 off so i've been going back after like two weeks they popped that i mean candace owens is flying

01:51:25.680 everywhere like a month after she gave birth she was just these kids am i right so you might say

01:51:32.640 well men get drafted women carry children it's not a disadvantage so oh no oh they have to stay at

01:51:39.440 home oh i don't raise their kids oh ah but what where's the disadvantage again the man's oh no

01:51:45.600 the men get drafted where's the disadvantage you've got what is sam do you know what's crazy

01:51:51.680 he'd be the first one like killed in war like he just would i can't imagine he would make it that

01:51:57.360 far no no he'd be in jail he wouldn't even go yeah he wouldn't answer the call crazy yeah okay

01:52:06.960 they get shot in the face and women earn less money over the course of their lives and have

01:52:10.800 to carry a thing that is a risk to their life potentially what what they have instead is they

01:52:15.600 now bbls are a risk to their lives and they still do those there's a higher risk of death from a bbl

01:52:22.480 than childbirth now don't have to pay for daycare and they can depend on somebody else's income

01:52:27.520 which is taking care of them oh that's terrible oh my god you get to stay at home and you don't

01:52:32.560 have to do anything except raise your kid wow and by the way they're putting their kids on a bus

01:52:36.720 almost every morning to go to a public school they don't even have them for eight hours out

01:52:40.420 of the day most of the time so like how is this the most incredibly difficult okay another idea

01:52:46.240 is um josh cash censored show kidding but i think it's a great idea house and senator men only

01:52:52.760 create a third legislative branch which deals with domestic issues make buildings pink lol

01:52:58.880 yeah like we make up some problems to make women feel included like some oh what what would you

01:53:05.660 forgive so what political issues would you give to women to like waste their time on to leave

01:53:13.520 busy yeah to like leave men to the important stuff what would you uh well i'm thinking animal rights

01:53:22.640 i think that's a great thing for them good luck ladies keep fighting yeah but the biggest problem

01:53:27.920 with that is that they would pass stuff to to to make meat less available though yeah okay i like

01:53:34.120 steak okay well yeah go back to the drawing board i would say like the environment but then they try

01:53:43.160 to restrict natural gas and gasoline so i i wouldn't say that i would say school board and

01:53:50.640 school issues but then they're gonna let trans people all up in we give them decorations like

01:53:57.560 how the city city decorations or something you know like how like what kind of trees we plant

01:54:08.180 in the city oh ladies and let's fight to the death yeah i would say like you know uh what's

01:54:17.280 the department i said like parks and recreation where they could just focus on what the parks

01:54:23.020 look like and you know doing the contracts for the guys you know for for pedro and then well to

01:54:30.300 to mow the grass in all the public areas and stuff women can't make decisions even on animals

01:54:36.140 and environmental no i know that but we need like we need us to fill up our time

01:54:41.980 i think that's really what just keeps happening is men just kind of want to be left alone and

01:54:45.660 they're like what can we do with the women let's put them in corporate america and then now they're

01:54:49.980 causing too many problems and it just keeps going job ever or uh in some way requires them to have

01:54:56.940 that that's they're the ones who are privileged you know there's an old comedian who made this

01:55:01.020 joke and i agree with any job you can do in your pajamas can't be that hard bill bill bird yeah

01:55:05.100 i'm a comedian of ours but okay he can't be that hard he was joking though um knowing bill and now

01:55:10.620 that he's married with kids i think his perspective has changed somewhat um but i guess you know i'm

01:55:15.260 married with kids right you're my you i mean you watched your wife carry the baby or babies inside

01:55:20.460 her for nine months like that's a big deal sure so i guess that to me would be one

01:55:28.460 an example it wasn't back in the day my grandma just popped that out

01:55:32.940 yeah my mom's mom had eight kids my grandma had 13.

01:55:37.260 dang 13 versus the hype dad's the 12th of 13 kids they're crazy wow pathetical risk of once

01:55:48.440 and then my dad just mogged all his siblings and everything in life to get drafted in a two-income

01:55:55.360 household it's a privilege that women get to stay at home it's a privilege but we're not talking

01:56:00.500 about staying at home we're talking about carrying the child yeah but and then the child has to be

01:56:04.880 raised and most women in america then go back to work yeah at a disadvantage as we just that's not

01:56:09.100 a disadvantage though right they don't have to have children you have to go out for a draft

01:56:13.500 well women do have to have children for our society to well they're not so well i mean they

01:56:20.900 are i mean they're definitely my wife yeah but what's the birth rate we're under we're under

01:56:25.640 replacement levels i know but what you're talking about side argument what i'm saying is in a

01:56:31.660 society that wants to reproduce men have to go to war and women have to bear the children that's

01:56:37.340 true and so why isn't why don't we just say well the men go to war the women have children that's

01:56:43.020 why they both when are they going to start having the children part of this i mean my wife's doing

01:56:48.220 it yeah but your wife's doing it so shouldn't you're not you're not fighting war are you men

01:56:54.860 well here's but nor am i is there the potential for that through the draft well like just the

01:57:00.060 potential for them to have children you say they're not well i could say you're not being

01:57:03.100 drafted same thing no you can't it's not there no but it's not just the draft it's running the

01:57:08.720 entire infrastructure of society god this guy's such a simp all right we're going to come back

01:57:14.360 to this i think we're going to finish it um tomorrow or something yeah because it only gets

01:57:20.820 worse subpoena the entire caller daddy subscriber list and anyone found on the subscriber list

01:57:26.120 gets their votes right that would take care of it well you see all the videos about how the

01:57:32.280 caller her daddy podcast is supposedly going downhill i guess yeah i mean it's about women

01:57:38.980 hate each other um he said that the caller daddy podcast going downhill i kicked him on accident

01:57:43.780 for a second if you can hear it um yeah i mean they're bound women we go in cycles i i'm telling

01:57:50.020 you i noticed this when i was a volleyball player like it would be like all the girls would hate on

01:57:56.100 one of the girls for like six to eight months and then swap and it's the next girl now they're

01:58:01.280 complaining like we just pick people to fixate on and hate instead of fixating on fixing ourselves

01:58:07.220 because that would be yeah so all right doug mpa um what are what are your final thoughts today

01:58:16.800 you're you're on a one-woman war against these church you know these

01:58:21.560 horde of church pipeline women and keep it up i think you know people are starting to open their

01:58:27.700 eyes a little bit i don't think it's going to change anytime soon but um you're the only person

01:58:32.900 shining light on this and just keep going okay thanks doug all right guys okay so just a little

01:58:39.560 update um i'm going to be gone filming for this documentary if you want to offer support there's

01:58:47.600 gofundme link in the subscription um we finally got a donor so we're doing like the bulk of the

01:58:52.960 filming in the next two weeks um so expect no streams i'm gonna do coffee thoughts while i'm

01:58:59.200 there but i'm not gonna be streaming so kind of sad no streams i know i'm also running a

01:59:07.760 half marathon this weekend so i feel pretty unprepared so i might kill myself but we'll see

01:59:13.840 um but yeah we're doing the documentary

01:59:23.200 and then i'm trying to think what else we're probably going to do

01:59:30.440 the dinner in like a month so if you guys want to sign up i'll get the link i'll probably put

01:59:38.960 the link in the next coffee thought i do if you guys want to apply to do that

01:59:44.180 oh and then we're going to do some more essay videos so anyways all right guys um hopefully

01:59:52.400 my ac i think i think they fixed it so i'm gonna go check on it like the video thanks

01:59:57.000 for coming in and i'll see you next time

Pearl - April 23, 2026

Christian Women See Themselves in Porn Stars

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