Pearl - October 17, 2025


Clueless Feminists Deny Reality


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17 minutes

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187.12082

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3,331

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3


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00:00:00.000 how many hours a day are they doing chores i mean there's like there's air fryers now it's
00:00:05.360 not that hard to cook you clean i totally i'm glad you brought that up because i do think that's
00:00:11.200 you know what if the person's lying right what if the person's just making stuff up to be a victim
00:00:15.680 what if and i'm not saying me but just in general that's the challenge you get with anecdotes i
00:00:20.240 understand the discrepancy but i think over time you just start to see who tends to make stuff up
00:00:26.960 and who doesn't and then that's that's that's and that's and that's something you got to make
00:00:31.760 a judgment on as a person so well i i well i don't i don't really make judgments on data i think
00:00:37.600 there's just there's there's good sources i think there's reliable and non-biased sources and that's
00:00:42.640 where i try to stay right because numbers don't lie when we look at things like maternal mortality right
00:00:47.600 like you can't lie on who died right like they're dead right so so and then when we suss that data
00:00:54.800 out like nobody's lying i i would agree with you could you could you say that again wait i i just
00:01:00.000 don't know what that is what mortality say that the maternal like women who women who die during
00:01:05.200 pregnancy birth and i believe it includes 40 days after birth as well in the postpartum period i do i
00:01:10.320 do agree that some data is better than others okay right so i'm not i'm not saying you don't take
00:01:15.520 data right that's not i'm not saying that you never look at it you never consider it all i'm saying is
00:01:21.440 for me personally if you give me a study and it says something that conflicts everything i've seen
00:01:27.680 in real life um you can't shame me into believing it a lot of women i wouldn't want to shame you i'm
00:01:34.160 not wait wait i'm not i'm not saying you i'm saying this is common is you know they insinuate you're dumb
00:01:40.240 they insinuate you're you know you're lying or whatever but it's like you can't shame me into um
00:01:46.960 not seeing what i've seen in real life and i personally would think that you're easily
00:01:52.000 manipulated if someone can just shove a piece of paper in your face and you believe it right well
00:01:57.440 i wouldn't i wouldn't believe anything that anybody shoved in my face right like i i would i would look
00:02:02.320 at data and i would compare it with other data and i would compare it with other sources as well right
00:02:08.240 so when we read if somebody were to send me a vlog or a blog post it's if it's an opinion piece and
00:02:16.080 they say if they say something i'm going to want to know where that data came from right and so that's
00:02:21.440 when we get in um to like primary secondary and tertiary the challenge the challenge you get it
00:02:27.680 because i've done a lot of these debates and it always it always turns into this the liberals believe
00:02:33.280 their data and the conservatives believe their data we get nowhere um and that's and that's kind
00:02:38.720 of that's kind of what can you give me an example of of like conflicting data and then tell me about
00:02:45.360 like i would say conservatives like the institute for family studies i think it is they like that
00:02:52.080 source where liberals tend to not like it and why is that i don't know because i think it's got like a
00:02:57.200 religious backing well yeah so like and the conservative the conservatives are not going to
00:03:01.920 like the the sources that come from the schools right because the schools have more of like a
00:03:06.720 left-leaning bias i you guys might disagree but you know that's how we see well i think that you're
00:03:12.800 to be to be honest i think you're confusing left-leaning sources just with like educated non-biased sources
00:03:20.000 and a religious institute would be biased for their agenda kind of like you're talking about with
00:03:24.560 marriage but i believe like if we're gonna look at data i think that that education you know i don't
00:03:32.400 think that's i mean if to be honest maybe you're right like maybe education is left-leaning at this
00:03:38.080 point i like that might just be actually factual that right right-leaning people have completely
00:03:43.360 abandoned like intellectual conversation and debate because they want to go on their feelings rather
00:03:48.560 than facts and so it's interesting to me that the topic of choosing to use data or not is the topic
00:03:56.240 i like i will not engage that way my feelings don't matter so again i noticed you said educated
00:04:03.680 non-biased sources and to me the way i would interpret that is i get to determine what's a good
00:04:09.920 source and a bad source and and it just again it just becomes a back and forth between no i think
00:04:15.920 things i think things like peer-reviewed and double blind studies uh randomized studies i think things
00:04:24.240 like those are what would make it make them more right because if if the people don't know they're in
00:04:29.120 it and if we're looking at raw data and if we have sample size after sample size after sample size after
00:04:33.680 sample size that is saying the same thing i think that if i still chose to believe my own world view i think
00:04:41.360 that i would be um doing a disservice to myself let me give you an example okay so if let's neither of
00:04:49.040 us are this person but i'm just gonna give you an example okay if you're a cop and every day you're
00:04:55.680 arresting black people every single day you're you're getting stabbed by them you're shot by that
00:05:01.520 whatever there's oh wait you said arrested or getting assaulted by them there's two different things that
00:05:05.840 you just said so arresting okay look i i don't need you to explain it to me no i just i just want
00:05:12.800 a clear question okay so if you're if you're a cop and this is the experience and then they throw a data
00:05:21.920 data set in your face if i was the cop i would go with my experience because you know if you've worked
00:05:27.520 in the field 20 years wait i don't know what the scenario you're giving me is no i don't hold on i
00:05:33.520 don't know what scenario you're giving me is so you're saying that i'm a cop and my experience is
00:05:38.560 that i arrest more black people than white people yeah and the data and then let's say a study comes
00:05:44.000 out and it says you arrest more that more white people commit crimes and you're like that is not true
00:05:50.000 well yeah i'm not trying to argue about that by the way we don't know yeah i mean i would just say
00:05:58.640 that oh wow interesting like i wonder why that is right so then i might look at like the rest of the
00:06:04.400 data of like the people on my force right now if i find out that i'm the only person arresting black
00:06:10.960 people at the same rate and everybody else on my force is arresting people at the rate that that data
00:06:15.760 tells me the crime is committed i would say like if i didn't want to be a racist i'd be like oh wow
00:06:22.320 i should probably look at why like why i'm arresting more black people wow yeah that back in 2023
00:06:29.760 i was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's issues the government spent who
00:06:34.880 knows how much money trying to shut me up and honestly to some extent it worked i was demonetized
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00:07:22.400 censorship now let's talk bigger picture why don't we have true free speech in america anymore
00:07:29.040 welcome to the female economy where women make 80 of consumer buying decisions have you ever
00:07:34.560 wondered why women always seem to get their way well here's the truth men tend to care about the free
00:07:41.280 flow of ideas men can separate an idea from the person who said it but women on the other hand
00:07:46.880 have learned that they can control what gets said by controlling what gets funded platforms like youtube
00:07:52.880 have one goal they want to make money and if that means catering to the majority female audience they will
00:07:58.320 that's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible this isn't just about me it's about the
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00:08:08.960 being silenced again i would just say that study is full of that's me personally so so i under i
00:08:16.080 understand where you're coming from i do get it but that's just a difference in how we perceive
00:08:20.960 information right maybe that cop is just better at finding black criminals i guess that's probably what
00:08:27.520 he would say right it's just he's just he's just better at it then yeah i mean that's that's fine
00:08:32.480 it's just a difference in world view which is fine um yeah okay so we can actually get into that i i just
00:08:38.160 wanted to clarify that before we started so okay all right so one of the topics i think you suggested
00:08:44.400 was traditional gender role benefit men more than women i'll hear you out give me the case okay sure uh okay
00:08:53.440 um do you wanna so the reason i had asked you this these all these topics actually kind of blend
00:09:01.920 together to be honest um i did suss them out the way we talked about them but they are they do kind of
00:09:07.520 blend together and just so everybody else knows we talked about this topic and um sexism uh still
00:09:14.640 shaping pink collar and blue collar jobs uh and i can't remember the other one what was the other one
00:09:20.960 it's um women don't have it easier than oh yeah which i think they all tie together to be honest
00:09:27.680 that's why i picked it is we could do this another day and go through the other ones but you're fine
00:09:32.080 you're fine um yeah so basically um i think men gain more economic and social advantages from the gender
00:09:39.120 roles than women um i'm gonna i'm going to say that that's going to be in wages and earnings um it's
00:09:47.360 going to tie into the history that men have sort of had the norm of being the breadwinner and have
00:09:52.080 had access to gain economic value far longer than women have women have um so that's like starting a
00:09:59.840 race you know x amount of steps ahead um when we talk about like unpaid labor um done whether
00:10:09.760 you are a stay-at-home parent or you work women typically are going to pick up
00:10:14.240 more of the slack of that around the house um and things like that i've got data that i can
00:10:19.200 like you know go through this i've just got some stuff that i wrote down um here as well sorry say
00:10:23.920 the last one more time unpaid later so women do more chores essentially but yeah when we talk about
00:10:30.080 um like outside of the uh there's outside of the work day so even women who work like a nine to five
00:10:36.720 um and then when they compare um household labor i think women do on average between like 37 and 51
00:10:44.640 more than men how many hours a day are they doing chores i mean there's like you know um well there's
00:10:51.520 air fryers now it's not that hard to cook yeah well i think that that right there too right i mean
00:10:57.680 people who have children right like i just literally went through a crisis for 45 minutes prior my dad's
00:11:03.600 fishing me and my mother you know are wrangling you know my child um you know that just typically
00:11:10.320 like falls on on the mother and men benefit from that right my my dad my dad's benefiting
00:11:17.600 and anecdotal i know right um i'm i'm okay with the anecdotal you can give it to me yeah
00:11:23.520 well i'm just saying you know tell me so what like what's the specific thing that like was super
00:11:28.720 you know time because today i'm talking about my personal that i'm just saying like uh but here
00:11:34.720 let me um i mean we could just give an example so like you know because i you know we're having one
00:11:40.640 kid maybe two now not ten you know my grandma had 13 kids so i could see how that would be time consuming
00:11:46.240 but we're not you know i'm like how many hours a day are we like cooking you know and cleaning yeah i
00:11:51.360 mean kids don't kids don't make kids do you don't have children right no by the way pearl i have to
00:11:58.400 say that for an anti-feminist you you sure would rock a feminist life i mean college educated no kids
00:12:06.240 you're not married yet like right now you're in your prime like you got your bag you've got your thing
00:12:11.600 like i wish i like i wish i was i wish i had rocked the feminist lifestyle like you did i i you know
00:12:17.360 are you jealous i i like honestly yeah like i didn't have to wrangle my i didn't have to wrangle
00:12:22.480 my kid tonight before this right like i mean you like i mean honestly like you know so i i think that
00:12:29.040 uh you know getting pregnant young and and and holding that yes where a house is 1500 square feet
00:12:37.040 so that's that's yeah mine's a little bit bigger than that but yeah i live in well here i pulled
00:12:44.880 up the answer to your question so um like how many so because in this study how many i want to know how
00:12:52.160 many hours a day are the women doing this unpaid labor it's an it it like i said it depends so the 37
00:12:57.920 increase is gonna it talks about so 5.2 hours on average for men 8.8 for women this is
00:13:07.440 a day this is a day this is a day let me pull up the chart here um you just seem really inefficient
00:13:13.360 well so we'll know because omg i do if you have a child i do have to read these may roast you at
00:13:22.480 times i want you to know it's not personal but i will read that you're welcome if they super chat
00:13:26.640 you on tiktok and they roast me it's totally fine they are omg it's fine is she really complaining about
00:13:32.240 life skills every man can do they can they just don't okay yeah i agree i agree that men can do
00:13:40.400 these things they just don't okay so you're saying so men gain more economic and social gender roles
00:13:47.520 from women they make more money how do you know they don't make more money to appease women's
00:13:56.720 spending habits because women spend more than men um do you when you say women spend more what is
00:14:03.600 where are you getting that information from well the first line of eyesight would be my eyes um i
00:14:09.600 do have eyes and i see how women move in the world um women do make 80 percent of consumer buying
00:14:16.080 decisions i think it's like 150 000 well yeah they're doing well yeah they're doing the shopping
00:14:22.880 for that that's part of that unpaid labor that they're they're doing right so they are managing
00:14:27.600 the household managing the bills right so when you say women are are doing it like i i i got you gotta
00:14:34.240 stop interrupting me okay yeah you gotta you gotta let me finish you gotta let me finish okay so
00:14:41.120 my first the first way i would i would have this opinion is my eyes so i have seen the difference
00:14:50.160 between men and women's spending habits i noticed this in college women would go out to eat men would
00:14:55.360 be more likely to eat in the cafeteria i noticed this post-college where women would invest in especially
00:15:01.360 white women we love botox you know what i mean we love we love botox we love um shopping you know i
00:15:09.600 don't really witness a lot of women um cooking to be honest maybe that's what the study is saying
00:15:15.280 but that's just not what i've noticed i know i know you got okay sorry i was just i just i don't want
00:15:21.200 to mute you i don't want to mute you but i will so um see this is why i can't be interrupted i get
00:15:30.080 i'll be on a roll you know so anyways it first starts in college where i just notice a different you
00:15:36.080 know women go out shopping that's like a hobby for us that's a hobby it's not a hobby for men um
00:15:45.520 then on top of that there is evidence that supports this um it's also if i go around in the city i just
00:15:52.800 see all the stuff that like is marketed to women you know restaurants um botox fake nails fake hair
00:16:00.800 um dug mpa oh yeah then there's hold on i can't i can't i got look hold on one second one second i'm
00:16:12.320 going to take you down for one second one second i can't read and listen so i'm trying to have a
00:16:19.520 conversation with her you gotta you gotta let me go thank you i can't yeah please don't do that
00:16:27.280 you can put it it's just you know okay thank you we're back um so yeah so you have i witness women
00:16:36.560 traveling you see this on instagram um student debt women own the majority of so i would attribute in my
00:16:47.120 eyes you know i grew up with a mother and a father my mother spent far more than my father relatives
00:16:53.280 the women always spend more than the men so yeah go ahead you're welcome to rebuttal now okay can you
00:17:01.440 show me some some data to back that up please in their lifetime than men if i do show you data that
00:17:09.520 backs that up will you believe it or think i'm lying no i i i believe data but then i'm going to want
00:17:15.600 to look at why i already know the answer to this i'm just wondering if you have it women spend why it
00:17:21.040 costs three hundred thousand dollars more to be a woman than a man right yeah what is that like a
00:17:26.720 cosmo blog or what yeah see i don't like this where you're going in in bad faith i try to i try
00:17:34.000 to have a nice conversation with you okay okay where's the data from where's the problem this is
00:17:39.200 always where it goes it's i don't believe pearl i think she's lying which is fine i just just show me
00:17:44.400 the data then listen all right all right there we go