Pearl - October 17, 2025
Clueless Feminists Deny Reality
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the challenges of choosing data or not, how to interpret data, and why it's important to have a data-based view of the world. We also discuss the role of data in our understanding of reality and how it affects the way we view it.
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how many hours a day are they doing chores i mean there's like there's air fryers now it's
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not that hard to cook you clean i totally i'm glad you brought that up because i do think that's
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you know what if the person's lying right what if the person's just making stuff up to be a victim
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what if and i'm not saying me but just in general that's the challenge you get with anecdotes i
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understand the discrepancy but i think over time you just start to see who tends to make stuff up
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and who doesn't and then that's that's that's and that's and that's something you got to make
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a judgment on as a person so well i i well i don't i don't really make judgments on data i think
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there's just there's there's good sources i think there's reliable and non-biased sources and that's
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where i try to stay right because numbers don't lie when we look at things like maternal mortality right
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like you can't lie on who died right like they're dead right so so and then when we suss that data
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out like nobody's lying i i would agree with you could you could you say that again wait i i just
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don't know what that is what mortality say that the maternal like women who women who die during
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pregnancy birth and i believe it includes 40 days after birth as well in the postpartum period i do i
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do agree that some data is better than others okay right so i'm not i'm not saying you don't take
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data right that's not i'm not saying that you never look at it you never consider it all i'm saying is
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for me personally if you give me a study and it says something that conflicts everything i've seen
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in real life um you can't shame me into believing it a lot of women i wouldn't want to shame you i'm
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not wait wait i'm not i'm not saying you i'm saying this is common is you know they insinuate you're dumb
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they insinuate you're you know you're lying or whatever but it's like you can't shame me into um
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not seeing what i've seen in real life and i personally would think that you're easily
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manipulated if someone can just shove a piece of paper in your face and you believe it right well
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i wouldn't i wouldn't believe anything that anybody shoved in my face right like i i would i would look
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at data and i would compare it with other data and i would compare it with other sources as well right
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so when we read if somebody were to send me a vlog or a blog post it's if it's an opinion piece and
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they say if they say something i'm going to want to know where that data came from right and so that's
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when we get in um to like primary secondary and tertiary the challenge the challenge you get it
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because i've done a lot of these debates and it always it always turns into this the liberals believe
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their data and the conservatives believe their data we get nowhere um and that's and that's kind
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of that's kind of what can you give me an example of of like conflicting data and then tell me about
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like i would say conservatives like the institute for family studies i think it is they like that
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source where liberals tend to not like it and why is that i don't know because i think it's got like a
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religious backing well yeah so like and the conservative the conservatives are not going to
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like the the sources that come from the schools right because the schools have more of like a
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left-leaning bias i you guys might disagree but you know that's how we see well i think that you're
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to be to be honest i think you're confusing left-leaning sources just with like educated non-biased sources
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and a religious institute would be biased for their agenda kind of like you're talking about with
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marriage but i believe like if we're gonna look at data i think that that education you know i don't
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think that's i mean if to be honest maybe you're right like maybe education is left-leaning at this
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point i like that might just be actually factual that right right-leaning people have completely
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abandoned like intellectual conversation and debate because they want to go on their feelings rather
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than facts and so it's interesting to me that the topic of choosing to use data or not is the topic
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i like i will not engage that way my feelings don't matter so again i noticed you said educated
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non-biased sources and to me the way i would interpret that is i get to determine what's a good
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source and a bad source and and it just again it just becomes a back and forth between no i think
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things i think things like peer-reviewed and double blind studies uh randomized studies i think things
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like those are what would make it make them more right because if if the people don't know they're in
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it and if we're looking at raw data and if we have sample size after sample size after sample size after
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sample size that is saying the same thing i think that if i still chose to believe my own world view i think
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that i would be um doing a disservice to myself let me give you an example okay so if let's neither of
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us are this person but i'm just gonna give you an example okay if you're a cop and every day you're
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arresting black people every single day you're you're getting stabbed by them you're shot by that
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whatever there's oh wait you said arrested or getting assaulted by them there's two different things that
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you just said so arresting okay look i i don't need you to explain it to me no i just i just want
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a clear question okay so if you're if you're a cop and this is the experience and then they throw a data
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data set in your face if i was the cop i would go with my experience because you know if you've worked
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in the field 20 years wait i don't know what the scenario you're giving me is no i don't hold on i
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don't know what scenario you're giving me is so you're saying that i'm a cop and my experience is
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that i arrest more black people than white people yeah and the data and then let's say a study comes
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out and it says you arrest more that more white people commit crimes and you're like that is not true
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well yeah i'm not trying to argue about that by the way we don't know yeah i mean i would just say
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that oh wow interesting like i wonder why that is right so then i might look at like the rest of the
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data of like the people on my force right now if i find out that i'm the only person arresting black
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people at the same rate and everybody else on my force is arresting people at the rate that that data
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tells me the crime is committed i would say like if i didn't want to be a racist i'd be like oh wow
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i should probably look at why like why i'm arresting more black people wow yeah that back in 2023
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i was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's issues the government spent who
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knows how much money trying to shut me up and honestly to some extent it worked i was demonetized
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on youtube i had three instagram accounts deleted seven tiktok accounts wiped out and i was forced
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to delete three years worth of work videos interviews everything the more honest i was
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wondered why women always seem to get their way well here's the truth men tend to care about the free
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that's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible this isn't just about me it's about the
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future of online speech with the audacity network me and my community will never have to worry about
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being silenced again i would just say that study is full of that's me personally so so i under i
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understand where you're coming from i do get it but that's just a difference in how we perceive
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information right maybe that cop is just better at finding black criminals i guess that's probably what
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he would say right it's just he's just he's just better at it then yeah i mean that's that's fine
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it's just a difference in world view which is fine um yeah okay so we can actually get into that i i just
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wanted to clarify that before we started so okay all right so one of the topics i think you suggested
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was traditional gender role benefit men more than women i'll hear you out give me the case okay sure uh okay
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um do you wanna so the reason i had asked you this these all these topics actually kind of blend
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together to be honest um i did suss them out the way we talked about them but they are they do kind of
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blend together and just so everybody else knows we talked about this topic and um sexism uh still
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shaping pink collar and blue collar jobs uh and i can't remember the other one what was the other one
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it's um women don't have it easier than oh yeah which i think they all tie together to be honest
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that's why i picked it is we could do this another day and go through the other ones but you're fine
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you're fine um yeah so basically um i think men gain more economic and social advantages from the gender
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roles than women um i'm gonna i'm going to say that that's going to be in wages and earnings um it's
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going to tie into the history that men have sort of had the norm of being the breadwinner and have
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had access to gain economic value far longer than women have women have um so that's like starting a
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race you know x amount of steps ahead um when we talk about like unpaid labor um done whether
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you are a stay-at-home parent or you work women typically are going to pick up
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more of the slack of that around the house um and things like that i've got data that i can
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like you know go through this i've just got some stuff that i wrote down um here as well sorry say
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the last one more time unpaid later so women do more chores essentially but yeah when we talk about
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um like outside of the uh there's outside of the work day so even women who work like a nine to five
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um and then when they compare um household labor i think women do on average between like 37 and 51
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more than men how many hours a day are they doing chores i mean there's like you know um well there's
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air fryers now it's not that hard to cook yeah well i think that that right there too right i mean
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people who have children right like i just literally went through a crisis for 45 minutes prior my dad's
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fishing me and my mother you know are wrangling you know my child um you know that just typically
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like falls on on the mother and men benefit from that right my my dad my dad's benefiting
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and anecdotal i know right um i'm i'm okay with the anecdotal you can give it to me yeah
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well i'm just saying you know tell me so what like what's the specific thing that like was super
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you know time because today i'm talking about my personal that i'm just saying like uh but here
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let me um i mean we could just give an example so like you know because i you know we're having one
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kid maybe two now not ten you know my grandma had 13 kids so i could see how that would be time consuming
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but we're not you know i'm like how many hours a day are we like cooking you know and cleaning yeah i
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mean kids don't kids don't make kids do you don't have children right no by the way pearl i have to
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say that for an anti-feminist you you sure would rock a feminist life i mean college educated no kids
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you're not married yet like right now you're in your prime like you got your bag you've got your thing
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like i wish i like i wish i was i wish i had rocked the feminist lifestyle like you did i i you know
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are you jealous i i like honestly yeah like i didn't have to wrangle my i didn't have to wrangle
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my kid tonight before this right like i mean you like i mean honestly like you know so i i think that
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uh you know getting pregnant young and and and holding that yes where a house is 1500 square feet
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so that's that's yeah mine's a little bit bigger than that but yeah i live in well here i pulled
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up the answer to your question so um like how many so because in this study how many i want to know how
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many hours a day are the women doing this unpaid labor it's an it it like i said it depends so the 37
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increase is gonna it talks about so 5.2 hours on average for men 8.8 for women this is
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a day this is a day this is a day let me pull up the chart here um you just seem really inefficient
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well so we'll know because omg i do if you have a child i do have to read these may roast you at
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times i want you to know it's not personal but i will read that you're welcome if they super chat
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you on tiktok and they roast me it's totally fine they are omg it's fine is she really complaining about
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life skills every man can do they can they just don't okay yeah i agree i agree that men can do
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these things they just don't okay so you're saying so men gain more economic and social gender roles
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from women they make more money how do you know they don't make more money to appease women's
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spending habits because women spend more than men um do you when you say women spend more what is
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where are you getting that information from well the first line of eyesight would be my eyes um i
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do have eyes and i see how women move in the world um women do make 80 percent of consumer buying
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decisions i think it's like 150 000 well yeah they're doing well yeah they're doing the shopping
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for that that's part of that unpaid labor that they're they're doing right so they are managing
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the household managing the bills right so when you say women are are doing it like i i i got you gotta
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stop interrupting me okay yeah you gotta you gotta let me finish you gotta let me finish okay so
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my first the first way i would i would have this opinion is my eyes so i have seen the difference
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between men and women's spending habits i noticed this in college women would go out to eat men would
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be more likely to eat in the cafeteria i noticed this post-college where women would invest in especially
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white women we love botox you know what i mean we love we love botox we love um shopping you know i
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don't really witness a lot of women um cooking to be honest maybe that's what the study is saying
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but that's just not what i've noticed i know i know you got okay sorry i was just i just i don't want
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to mute you i don't want to mute you but i will so um see this is why i can't be interrupted i get
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i'll be on a roll you know so anyways it first starts in college where i just notice a different you
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know women go out shopping that's like a hobby for us that's a hobby it's not a hobby for men um
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then on top of that there is evidence that supports this um it's also if i go around in the city i just
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see all the stuff that like is marketed to women you know restaurants um botox fake nails fake hair
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um dug mpa oh yeah then there's hold on i can't i can't i got look hold on one second one second i'm
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going to take you down for one second one second i can't read and listen so i'm trying to have a
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conversation with her you gotta you gotta let me go thank you i can't yeah please don't do that
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you can put it it's just you know okay thank you we're back um so yeah so you have i witness women
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traveling you see this on instagram um student debt women own the majority of so i would attribute in my
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eyes you know i grew up with a mother and a father my mother spent far more than my father relatives
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the women always spend more than the men so yeah go ahead you're welcome to rebuttal now okay can you
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show me some some data to back that up please in their lifetime than men if i do show you data that
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backs that up will you believe it or think i'm lying no i i i believe data but then i'm going to want
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to look at why i already know the answer to this i'm just wondering if you have it women spend why it
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costs three hundred thousand dollars more to be a woman than a man right yeah what is that like a
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cosmo blog or what yeah see i don't like this where you're going in in bad faith i try to i try
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to have a nice conversation with you okay okay where's the data from where's the problem this is
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always where it goes it's i don't believe pearl i think she's lying which is fine i just just show me
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the data then listen all right all right there we go