Pearl - June 26, 2024


Coffee Thoughts： I am Moving to America, the Future of the Channel, and what’s coming next


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

152.41808

Word count

1,434

Sentence count

44

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about my recent decision to move back to the U.S.A. and why I m leaving my job in the UK and moving back home. I also talk about how it s been difficult being away from my family for the past few years and how I ve dealt with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.240 Hi guys, I know it's been a minute, so I wanted to give you guys an update on what is going
00:00:07.740 on in my life, because I know I haven't streamed a little bit, and you're probably wondering
00:00:11.920 where has Pearl been?
00:00:14.260 So, a couple of years ago, when I was maybe 20, 21, I got into a fight with my parents.
00:00:25.700 and because of this fight I really avoided for about two years
00:00:32.220 um family events so like they had a trip I didn't go on um
00:00:38.100 like I mean I went home for Christmas but I I just sort of I don't know I thought I was right
00:00:47.000 at the time. And yeah, I just didn't go. And after two years, I decided I was going to move
00:00:58.100 home. Um, it was during COVID and I wasn't happy in my sales copier job. And they said,
00:01:03.240 you can just, you know, come home. And before I went home, I actually lived in a van for
00:01:10.100 a month. I just wanted to like drive throughout the U S. So I lived in a van. Um, I would
00:01:16.480 like sleep in Walmart parking lots and just like drive to different parts of the country. I went
00:01:21.800 to like Tennessee, North, South Carolina. Um, and on this trip, I stayed with one of my friends.
00:01:28.660 She was a nurse from my church and I ended up bringing COVID home and giving it to my dad.
00:01:37.000 and my dad actually almost died but not from covid um he got covid and my dad's just a workaholic so
00:01:48.360 he just kept working and then he had like low salt or something and the doctor said that if
00:01:54.900 we didn't bring him in when we did like it's very likely he would have passed away
00:01:58.460 and when that happened I realized that I was mad over a situation um where I thought I was right
00:02:08.340 they thought they were right whatever and instead of just taking that situation and moving on
00:02:15.260 I could have um not had the last you know now my dad's still alive right thank god
00:02:25.720 But had he passed away, I wouldn't have had the last two years with my dad.
00:02:30.820 And I knew that if I'd missed my last family trip with my father and my mom and my siblings, like all together, I would have, I don't know, I would have regretted it forever.
00:02:45.120 I probably never would have forgave myself for being mad that long.
00:02:48.460 um and after that I really tried to make it a priority to go to all family events and I didn't
00:02:59.080 realize until I got older how unique it is that my family still gets together as much as we do
00:03:06.140 like we all go to a wedding together sometimes we'll go on like a two-week trip maybe not everyone
00:03:11.900 can make it but i didn't realize how rare that was until i got older um and i've learned to really
00:03:19.580 value it more than i did maybe when i was younger you know because when you're born with something
00:03:24.540 you don't always whatever anyways um so three years ago i ended up moving to england to play
00:03:32.140 volleyball and i love volleyball i don't regret that decision but it's been really difficult
00:03:41.340 being here because you know I miss I miss my family um and I like haven't gone to the fourth
00:03:48.820 of July in a couple years I haven't gone to uh Thanksgiving because Thanksgiving is so close to
00:03:55.460 Christmas you're not gonna fly twice um so and I think I've kind of expressed that the last
00:04:03.840 three years because I started my panel show when I was in England and I would have men and women
00:04:10.180 come in and talk about relationships and that show just kind of it it kept me stuck in England
00:04:15.240 because you know um I found a great producer here I found great recruiters uh you know the panel show
00:04:24.980 was doing well I just it seemed like too much of a hassle to move um so then fast forward you know
00:04:31.760 eight months ago I get demonetized and people don't know all the costs that come with doing
00:04:37.140 a panel show, but you can't really afford it. And I was, to be honest, I was sick of
00:04:45.800 doing, you guys know, I was so sick of doing the panel shows. By the end, I had talked
00:04:49.840 to enough sex workers for a lifetime. I don't like people, I like debating. I don't like
00:04:55.580 arguing. I just, I'm not, I don't like people being rude. Let's debate the topic, you know.
00:05:01.700 so anyways you know long story short i am moving to america because i want to be closer to my family
00:05:13.380 um and yeah i just you know i i'm tired of i don't really like the city
00:05:23.500 london it's it's so crowded everyone lives on top of each other
00:05:28.720 and I don't hate British culture like I think there's some good stuff about it but I just don't
00:05:33.860 think it's me I miss the big roads I miss driving so I'm moving home and I'm moving back with my
00:05:46.540 family and at some point I might go to a different city in the U.S. but I'm really excited for this
00:05:53.340 you know. I'm still going to have an office in London. So if you guys need outsourcing,
00:05:59.840 if you need clips, editing, any of that stuff. And lastly, I guess the question is what type
00:06:07.180 of content do I want to do next? And guys, if I'm being honest, I don't know. And I want to tell
00:06:14.980 you, I guess, maybe get your feedback and tell you the pros and cons. My problem is I get so
00:06:21.240 many ideas that I often can't do one really well. And I say, I want to do that and that. And I think
00:06:28.160 you guys have seen this because, you know, I've been talking about this divorce documentary for
00:06:31.740 so long and it's not done. Why? Because I had Pearl Daly. Um, I was going on all these shows
00:06:38.500 in America. Um, I've started dating someone new. So I've spent more, you know, time on that. Um,
00:06:48.580 I what else did I do oh Pearl Daily one-on-one interviews and all of that stuff I realized I
00:06:58.720 can't do a million things well and my show and maybe my talent I guess was the best when I did
00:07:05.100 four panel shows a week and that was my main focus and the problem I had with that is
00:07:11.840 i just don't like arguing i like debating i love debating ideas but when women get offended 1.00
00:07:19.540 and it's just it's so exhausting
00:07:23.680 arguing about the same thing over and over again so i could go into more one-on-one interviews
00:07:32.920 which i really enjoy um i really enjoy pearl daily the call-in show with the piano in the
00:07:39.520 beginning I really liked that and I've even thought about vlog style content where say maybe
00:07:46.600 I could go to like an Amish neighborhood and talk to them about culture relationships what they how
00:07:53.000 they view the world you know because you guys have seen city life god you guys have seen enough of
00:07:59.660 these city chicks let's see if the country chicks are any different um trying to think 1.00
00:08:08.760 even like i was thinking it'd be cool to go to like rural alabama and just interview people there
00:08:15.460 you know and i'm not i'm not sure i wish i had a better like answer for you guys right now i don't
00:08:24.960 um but the timeline is likely going to be august i'm going to get you guys a date
00:08:31.460 um i think it's going to take me another two weeks to finish everything i have in england
00:08:37.320 and two weeks after that
00:08:39.920 to probably set up the studio in Chicago
00:08:43.880 and, you know, plan the next show.
00:08:51.980 Yeah, so if you guys want to support me in this,
00:08:54.260 go to theaudacitynetwork.com
00:08:56.080 and just sign up for my monthly membership.
00:08:59.340 Yearly is super helpful.
00:09:01.360 And if you guys have any thoughts,
00:09:02.500 you know, I read the comments, you know,
00:09:04.600 more than I should.
00:09:05.480 So let me know in the comments.
00:09:07.320 and yeah that's my my coffee thought with a kombucha today like the video on your way out
00:09:15.800 subscribe and if you have any other questions let me know i'll answer it in the next coffee
00:09:20.100 thought thank you guys so much for supporting me love you guys and i'll talk to you later