Pearl - February 06, 2025


Coffee Thoughts 💭 Men Will Die On the Hill of A Woman That Hates Them


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13 minutes

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1,848

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177

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Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

20

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13

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Why men have to learn to listen to their wives and learn the hard way. Why women will not listen to men and why men will die on the hill of simping. Why men should have the balls to say no to their wife.

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00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to another Pearl Coffee Talk, except today I do not have coffee.
00:00:08.400 Today we are going to be talking about why men have to learn the hard way.
00:00:15.920 If you guys want, we're trying to get to 3,500 members on the website, theaudacitynetwork.com,
00:00:24.460 because these women try to ruin my life and they demonetize me, and that's how many members I need to be YouTube free. 1.00
00:00:32.260 If you want, no pressure.
00:00:34.760 Now, how many times have you guys been to a wedding, on a date, hung out with a married couple,
00:00:45.120 and you thought to yourself, this is a terrible idea.
00:00:50.160 You know, when the guy is a cool guy, and the woman just drags him down, like she's this domineering bit. 1.00
00:01:01.560 I mean, we've all been around the couple.
00:01:04.000 Now, a couple of years ago, I had this cousin, and he was dating this woman who was such a red flag. 0.99
00:01:13.760 Like, she was some liberal chick out in Washington. 0.98
00:01:21.560 She, it was just so apparent that she was batshit crazy. 0.57
00:01:29.600 And when they broke up, everybody was like, thank you, Jesus.
00:01:38.180 Jesus, Lord, we are so grateful that this finally came to an end.
00:01:44.660 And he asked, why did nobody tell me?
00:01:48.760 And I actually want to answer this question and say, men have to learn the hard way because they will not listen.
00:01:57.800 When men want to simp, they will die on the hill of simping. 0.85
00:02:02.760 So, a couple of things we got to understand on a societal perspective.
00:02:09.960 Most men grew up with domineering mothers. 1.00
00:02:13.340 For at least two generations, we have had women that don't listen to their husbands. 1.00
00:02:17.920 They're very self-centered.
00:02:19.820 And they like to act like they're more pure, like boomer women. 1.00
00:02:24.440 They act like they were different than millennial women. 1.00
00:02:28.460 You guys, one, you guys raised us.
00:02:30.900 I'm at the youngest millennial.
00:02:33.380 So, you guys raised us.
00:02:34.860 And two, you guys made it through the 60s.
00:02:38.220 You were a part of the generations that started this BS. 0.83
00:02:43.420 So, I mean, most of our grandparents, like I think about my grandparents.
00:02:49.640 I had one grandparents that stayed together and the other were separated.
00:02:53.540 Okay, they didn't divorce on paper, but they were separated.
00:02:58.000 So, that's the first thing.
00:03:01.560 Most men grew up with domineering mothers and their whole life, they were taught, make women happy.
00:03:09.560 They were taught, if mom's mad, I have to placate to her emotions. 0.91
00:03:14.480 Most men don't have the balls to say no to their wife or they don't want a divorce, so they just try to deal with what they got. 0.55
00:03:21.820 But, so, many men are also taught to believe women, even if their stories make no sense. 0.96
00:03:31.260 Now, I'm not a man, so I can't tell you if this is like, if they're doing it consciously.
00:03:40.280 Honestly, but, I mean, who all has seen a guy get cheated on?
00:03:47.660 And the wife's story for why she wasn't cheating makes no sense.
00:03:52.640 And you know it makes no sense.
00:03:54.920 Like, she'll be like, oh, I was just at my ex's house at three in the morning because he, I needed to drop something off.
00:04:04.420 And everybody knows it's BS, but he wants to believe it.
00:04:14.020 And there's nothing that you can do to convince him otherwise.
00:04:18.660 And the thing is, these guys will throw other men under the bus until they're red-pilled.
00:04:25.860 So, like, a woman accuses a guy of abuse in a community.
00:04:31.220 The simps are the ones that just believe her and go beat up the other guy. 0.97
00:04:36.480 No evidence, nothing.
00:04:38.100 I mean, there are men that have died because they believed a woman.
00:04:42.940 Okay.
00:04:44.820 The other thing is, many men, deep down, know that they fear a confrontation.
00:04:53.540 And they know how evil women can be with words, and they let it matter. 1.00
00:04:57.540 Like, they care what women have to say. 1.00
00:04:59.800 And they would literally rather marry a whore than have the conflict. 0.99
00:05:09.820 Like, okay, imagine this is the situation. 1.00
00:05:12.700 There's a guy, he's engaged to a harlot, and he's about to get married.
00:05:17.680 And he knows this is a bad idea.
00:05:19.740 But he doesn't want to, one, be looked down as a failure from everyone.
00:05:26.100 And he also doesn't want to do the confrontation with his wife.
00:05:37.060 You know, there's this guy I knew.
00:05:39.260 And he got married, he was in a sexless marriage from the honeymoon.
00:05:44.140 And I said, look, you got to get out now.
00:05:46.120 You got to divorce this woman. 0.98
00:05:47.840 Listen, this is not going to get better.
00:05:52.800 This is only going to get worse.
00:05:54.880 It's only going to go downhill.
00:05:59.340 Last I heard, this man got her pregnant. 0.99
00:06:02.440 And I asked him, I'm like, is it better?
00:06:05.580 It wasn't better.
00:06:12.020 Now he's stuck for 18 years.
00:06:13.900 He could have ended his suffering.
00:06:15.940 And that's really my point.
00:06:17.860 A lot of guys, they have to learn the hard way.
00:06:20.880 Another guy, I like to say, you know, I don't ever like to say who these stories are from.
00:06:32.740 So I always say, like, guy friend or whatever.
00:06:35.040 But sometimes it's relatives, uncles.
00:06:37.540 But I never, I always want to be vague, right?
00:06:39.820 But there's someone I know that got married.
00:06:42.440 And his wife's mother is divorced.
00:06:45.260 And he knows me.
00:06:48.220 He knows who I am. 0.98
00:06:50.880 He's aware, you know, that his fiance's mother is divorced and kind of nuts.
00:06:58.520 He refused to even look into divorce laws in his state before getting married.
00:07:05.900 Because he didn't want to piss her off.
00:07:11.280 You can't help some of these, like some of these guys, they are dying to sacrifice their sanity.
00:07:18.880 For a woman.
00:07:22.640 And they like torture.
00:07:25.220 And they'll live their whole life.
00:07:28.420 Another guy I know.
00:07:30.420 His wife, he hates going to all these events. 0.99
00:07:34.740 His wife always, on the weekends, is filling his calendar up with shit he doesn't want to go to. 0.99
00:07:41.260 Do you know what I say? 0.99
00:07:42.100 I say, hey.
00:07:46.040 Tell her no.
00:07:50.560 And he literally, it's not in him.
00:07:53.440 And I explained to him.
00:07:55.740 He said, no, that's family.
00:07:57.420 I got to stay married.
00:07:58.500 And I'm like, look.
00:08:01.940 She doesn't. 0.99
00:08:02.740 Your family's the most likely one to literally murder you. 0.55
00:08:09.620 And your significant other.
00:08:13.540 I'm not saying it's going to go that route.
00:08:15.300 But this could literally cost you your life.
00:08:18.400 I don't think the facts really line up with...
00:08:21.200 And, you know, you see this, too, in commentators.
00:08:26.760 You see these guys before they get divorced, right?
00:08:29.280 Like Stephen Crowder.
00:08:31.520 Crowder, if you're watching this.
00:08:33.020 I love ya.
00:08:36.920 You know, I'm a fan.
00:08:38.540 However, before he got married the first time, and as far as I know, he is not remarried. 0.95
00:08:46.740 But before he got married, he was such an arrogant. 0.94
00:08:49.480 Like, he called all the men that complain about marriage whiny. 0.95
00:08:53.560 He went around basically scoffing at other men that had complaints about marriage.
00:09:06.440 Then it wasn't until he got red-pilled that he maybe came back with some humility.
00:09:15.940 And so somebody asked me the question.
00:09:17.760 They said, Pearl, in your personal life, if you know a woman, that's a harlot. 1.00
00:09:22.060 And I've been in this situation many times where I see a woman. 0.99
00:09:25.780 She is going to destroy a man. 0.99
00:09:27.400 It's going to happen.
00:09:28.080 It's not if, it's when.
00:09:30.400 And you look at the man and you think, does he want us to tell him?
00:09:35.060 And the answer is usually no.
00:09:36.940 The man on some level knows there's some inconsistencies with her stories.
00:09:42.500 There's something off.
00:09:43.720 But he will die on the hill of sacrificing his life for a woman that doesn't care about him or want him.
00:09:54.380 And there's nothing you can do.
00:09:56.700 And they said, Pearl, do you think it's your duty to warn him?
00:09:59.680 And I said, look, if he, okay, this is, this is how it would go.
00:10:02.920 This is how it would go.
00:10:03.880 Now, let's say I have a friend who's a woman, a nice woman to me, but a terrible wife, terrible girlfriend. 0.95
00:10:12.340 And I thought, and now she brings in a guy who seems like a good guy.
00:10:18.420 Now, what are my options here?
00:10:20.220 If I tell him, he will then tell her and she will torture me. 0.93
00:10:29.840 Not today.
00:10:30.760 It's the same reason why you guys, like, you'll have a guy friend that cheats on every girlfriend he has.
00:10:37.600 What are you going to do?
00:10:38.560 Tell the girlfriend and then now your friend's mad at you?
00:10:42.140 Yeah, not today.
00:10:45.160 The second option is that he doesn't listen, which he's not going to listen anyway.
00:10:50.440 You know, if you're really close, like it's your brother or like someone very close to you and you tell them that this is going nowhere, this is a bad idea.
00:11:00.760 They're going to do it anyway.
00:11:04.440 And even if he doesn't tell the girl, this makes it awkward for me.
00:11:09.920 Now, now it's awkward because, you know, I think your girlfriend's a harlot or your fiance or what, maybe the mother of your kids one day.
00:11:16.920 And, you know, it's why I go back to, they need to learn the hard way.
00:11:24.080 They have to.
00:11:26.540 That's the only way men learn lessons. 0.98
00:11:28.860 And you see this, you know, when they're younger, they go after a girl.
00:11:31.560 That's like two points above their league.
00:11:35.220 And they get destroyed.
00:11:36.640 They get, they get brutalized.
00:11:38.340 And then they slowly go down until they find a girl that appreciates them.
00:11:44.240 Where she's reaching a bit.
00:11:45.940 Maybe this is just my opinion.
00:11:52.400 I would say it.
00:11:54.980 If I already had a close relationship with the guy or if he asked me.
00:12:00.940 If the guy comes to you, one, he's probably already noticing things.
00:12:08.800 And you're pretty sure he's not going to just throw you under the bus.
00:12:13.300 And he's not, he's actually doing his, he's showing he's doing his due diligence.
00:12:24.460 And attempting some prevention.
00:12:28.980 Where on the other hand, which most blue pill guys, they'll just die on the hill of simping. 0.98
00:12:34.460 They will.
00:12:35.160 They will die on the hill of, they think there's some virtue in being in a relationship.
00:12:43.300 Where they get nothing out of it.
00:12:47.500 Nothing.
00:12:51.500 And you cannot convince them otherwise.
00:12:54.280 It's impossible.
00:12:56.060 So, you know, let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:12:59.160 Maybe I'm wrong.
00:13:01.240 But that's my take on it.
00:13:03.640 Men have to learn the hard way.
00:13:07.560 And saying it's the wrong thing to do to not warn him. 1.00
00:13:12.680 Is stupid. 1.00
00:13:13.800 Because I've been in situations where I have. 1.00
00:13:17.360 Where I've warned a girl about a guy that's a cheater or vice versa.
00:13:21.200 And unless they're coming to you asking.
00:13:23.500 It's just going to go south.
00:13:32.420 Like, it's.
00:13:36.360 They're just going to throw you under the bus. 0.90
00:13:38.120 They literally want to not know.
00:13:41.240 Anyways, let me know in the comments what you think.
00:13:43.320 Like the video.
00:13:44.180 Subscribe.
00:13:44.580 And I'll see you guys.
00:13:47.920 Oh, my next full show is going to be Friday.
00:13:51.200 Because I get back Thursday night.
00:13:53.180 Back to Illinois.
00:13:54.240 So, I'll see you guys on Friday.
00:13:56.200 Okay.