00:32:35.380explained the sarah stock situation really well don't let let oh my god i can't talk uh all right
00:32:42.660don't let anyone reframe the sarah stock situation as a puritan scandal or what have you
00:32:48.500Schaefer sleeping with an employee isn't relevant. The problem is that he paid some grifting whore to lie to his and her audiences about being trad, using religion as her arguments, even as she cheated on her fiance, lied to him about everything and ruined his life, knowingly contracted an invalid wedding, got the Pope to bless it anyway, and posted an image of her and her haunted womb staring down the Pope as she smugly stands next to the man she cuckolded for the better part of the year.
00:33:16.580the problem isn't that you have people attacking you for things you already repented of or what
00:33:21.420have you it's that you were selling a product and lied to every person who ever supported you in
00:33:25.960order to do it that's fraud and you would have never come clean or revealed it on your own
00:33:30.180yeah and that's why people are pissed like and i and i try to make this clear i'm not judging her
00:33:35.540um but i just can't you know it's like the fraud just ran so deep
00:33:46.580I am a little bit excited. Look, you can't, when my enemies have their downfall, um,
00:33:53.940you know, I just, whatever, shut up. All right. Today I ran, this is my ugly selfie from the gym.
00:34:02.500I don't know if I should have put this in the background, but whatever. I only ran a mile and
00:34:08.760a half total today. So it was kind of slow, but I took that at 15 minutes because I wanted to walk
00:34:15.440the rest. All right, let's see. This is the guy who got cocked. All right, so today I want to talk
00:34:26.440about how nobody has men's best interests at heart. Now, what you have is you have high status
00:34:35.440men and low status men. Now, I would say high status men are all the influencers and commentators.
00:34:41.160They get to, you know, mingle with world leaders.
00:34:47.880On top of that, you know, well, business owners, men that make over a certain amount a year,
00:34:54.320I would say would be high status men, high earning, high status.
00:35:01.220But they do not think about the average man and how the average man is affected by marriage.
00:35:09.720so in my experience so i've interviewed people for our divorce documentary um i tried it the
00:35:15.160first time around i tried to make my divorce documentary and these crazy people stopped it
00:35:19.720um i got de-platformed all this stuff so i had to redo it but when i was making it the first time
00:35:25.880i was getting all this footage right and i was interviewing people and i found that the people
00:35:31.160that got it the worst were not the rich men in family court because a lot of times the rich men
00:35:36.520i mean they can afford a lawyer they can afford to fight although some maybe got unlucky and got
00:35:41.960a terrible judge the guys that got it the worst were men that were in the middle class
00:35:47.640um they can't afford to pay lawyers they can't afford to fight for their kids and so um a lot
00:35:54.360of high status men the only reason matt walsh can do what he does is because of the average
00:36:01.960men right the average men work in the factory that's building his microphone the average men
00:36:08.840um do the construction on the road so he gets to work
00:36:14.200the average men do the plumbing in his building it's not the men um he would not be able to do
00:36:21.080his job without the men that allow him to be there but he still is telling average men to take
00:36:27.000make decisions as a high status man sometimes marriage makes sense for men in high status
00:36:34.200positions you know sometimes it can be done you know in all of history we've had dowries and so
00:36:39.400marriage was done to acquire resources you know you married a rich and then you got
00:36:43.640her daddy's money sometimes it's genetics right but average men um the issue with matt walsh is
00:36:52.280it doesn't matter how bad the chessboard is he keeps telling average men keep sacrificing for
00:36:59.560keep sacrificing for me and my kids i have a wife i have a family but average men most of them aren't
00:37:07.480going to get it i would say half of men are not going to be able to reproduce so he's saying
00:37:12.120sacrifice for society because it benefits my children all right so today the matt wall show
00:37:21.320a sex scandal among conservative influencers perfectly illustrates why many young men are
00:37:25.640reluctant to get married and have children but they still should even in spite of the risks and
00:37:29.960i'll make that argument today also tragedy strikes the nation as the washington post delays off
00:37:35.400hundreds of useless journalists bill gates tries to explain his appearance in the epstein files
00:37:40.360and a woke school board member brings a school board meeting to a halt so that she can lecture
00:37:44.600someone for using the term homeless apparently unhoused is the preferred term although nobody
00:37:49.400can explain why all of that and more today on the matt wall show now mind you when you go down
00:38:02.680look at these comments so let me let me keep going and then we can talk about it later okay
00:38:17.400Then the Elijah Schaefer scandal surfaced, revealing that Schaefer, a conservative commentator who is married and has children, was apparently having an affair with Sarah Stock, who's a conservative commentator, and who at the time was dating the man that she would eventually marry.
00:38:38.320This has been interesting timing because it's a story that perfectly illustrates the counter argument.
00:38:44.620The reason why so many young people are so reluctant to get married and have children in the first place.
00:38:51.120Now, as to the specifics of the scandal, I'll go into a few of the details in a moment.
00:38:55.800Not because this is a drama channel, but because it's the kind of thing we must contend with,
00:39:00.640that we want to make the case for marriage and family life.
00:39:05.220Now, if I were to try to do a monologue right now on that.
00:39:07.580the way the the challenge with using your relationship to build your brand it's just
00:39:13.500never a good idea it is not a good idea because um who are they going to attack first
00:39:25.260like let's say you got an enemy as a guy
00:39:29.900he's gonna hit on your wife now he knows where to find her you know like i'm like what are you
00:39:33.740doing you guys are dumb topic all the comments would be well what about this you see this scandal
00:39:39.820over here this is exactly why we don't want to get married so let's just um let's lean into that as
00:39:45.420much as i hate that phrase uh you know i think that those of us on the pro-family side oftentimes
00:39:53.340it's it's true to say haven't done a good enough job of acknowledging and accounting for
00:39:59.820the enormous risks and downside to marriage that young people are confronting at increasing rates
00:40:06.140no matter how hard they try to find a compatible moral christian spouse this is the catch-22 our
00:40:11.500culture is decaying in order to stop the decay we need people to form stable and loving so he's
00:40:16.860saying stop the decay of our culture now again he's not looking out for you he's looking out
00:40:24.300for himself because he doesn't want to live in this culture right families but it's harder to
00:40:32.060form stable living families while the culture is decaying now people in the red red pill and so
00:40:38.220called manosphere spaces have been making this point for a long time and have taken a lot of
00:40:45.100heat for it i've had plenty of arguments with people on that side about this entire shows on
00:40:51.500netflix have been written about how awful their opinions are and how they've created this man
00:40:56.460a sphere that traffics in dangerous misogyny and so on but you know the truth is when the writers
00:41:01.180room at netflix uh is so enraged about your views that they start putting you in their shows
00:41:07.340then it means that you're on to something now let's let's talk about this issue from
00:41:13.660the perspective of a young man it's anyone who accuses me of only blaming the woman in this
00:41:18.140story keep in mind that we talked about this yesterday and i spent yeah because the man
00:41:23.420elijah's goaded a little bit for banging all these e-girls like if you look at elijah's alleged
00:41:27.900roster okay now i don't know if these are true or untrue but i'm just saying this is alleged
00:41:37.420and the fact that this is alleged is pretty goaded okay sorry emily you're on the list
00:41:43.180true or untrue i don't know but i'm not really gonna believe you she's pretty hot okay young
00:41:48.620emily like she's pretty hot pretty hot okay then we got um sarah stock pretty hot um savannah
00:42:06.540hernandez i think was the other one pretty hot all right especially young
00:42:16.940you just can't you can't tell me that these women are not hot like that's a little bit impressive
00:42:22.540now you might say yeah they're mid they're mid yeah i mean yeah we're in conservative media but
00:42:27.500um how many of you got like five mids on your roster
00:42:35.820Elijah Schaefer. It's alleged, right? Sarah Stock, that came out. He did, in fact, do that.
00:42:42.140But these are alleged. And there's so many more just like them.
00:42:46.18020 minutes discussing why Schaefer was wrong to cheat on his wife and how married men should behave so that they don't commit those sins.
00:42:56.480So we've talked about that. Today, we're going to flip it around and focus on the other side, because here's what the story demonstrates.
00:43:05.820It's not always enough to say that you should date a woman who goes to church, who says that she opposes abortion, who says that she's never slept with anyone outside of marriage, spends every day talking about conservative principles for a living, and who will, in her case, literally stand by your side in front of the Pope as he blesses both of you.
00:43:26.940A woman can do all those things and convince you that she means every word of what she's saying,
00:43:32.220that she'll be a fantastic mother to your children,
00:43:34.520and then you find out one day that, in fact, she was lying to you the whole time.
00:43:38.420She was actually having an affair with her boss behind your back.
00:43:40.920She was grinning as the Pope blessed your relationship while she was thinking about her other boyfriend.
01:06:45.200The trends are going how they're going and they want to sell you hope.
01:06:48.380For the past year and now account for more than 50% of all known births.
01:06:53.080Meanwhile, births from virtually every other race and ethnicity
01:06:55.640have declined sharply, which is a big change from recent years.
01:06:59.820And that includes Hispanic births, Asian births, Black births, Pacific Islander births.
01:07:05.980The implication of this data is that foreigners aren't replacing the Native American population
01:07:09.680to nearly the extent that they were under the Biden administration.
01:07:13.860Closing the border and deporting illegal aliens has had a direct effect.
01:07:17.900It's reversed the demographic change that Democrats have been trying to engineer.
01:07:22.840Imagine what these numbers would look like if conservative states decided to actually do something to encourage even more marriages.
01:07:30.060That doesn't mean providing more welfare or handouts.
01:07:32.880There's plenty of evidence that, you know, from the Nordic countries, which have a lower fertility rate than we do, that more welfare doesn't produce more children.
01:07:42.280And more welfare definitely isn't guaranteed to provide more stable family units, as the civil rights era demonstrated in this country.
01:07:48.740what's needed is a rethinking of divorce law and the contracts that young men are being asked to
01:07:54.560enter into and now with all that said how could i after acknowledging these serious pitfalls
01:08:03.560oh here still promote marriage and family life here it comes what's the upside
01:08:09.400went through all the downsides pretty grim here it comes how could it possibly be worth it
01:08:15.620given all of that that's the question and it's a fair one i saw a recent clip of andrew tate
01:08:22.600posing this exact conundrum as he has many they want men cocked times here's just the latest
01:08:29.140example watch how big of an idiot is a guy that doesn't get a prenup how big of an idiot is a guy
01:08:34.980who gets married oh my girl is over there my boy yeah waiting on that well i'm sorry but are you
01:08:42.220are you suggesting that marriage is out of the picture what do you gain
01:08:48.940non-emotional like there's men who get married and they go it's important because i love her
01:08:52.380if you want to make emotional decisions if you want to enter the world of emotional
01:08:55.740decisions with women if you want to roll in the mud with a pig and lose then that's fine
01:09:00.140as a man it's your job to be logical and i'm sitting here saying i'm not anti-marriage just
01:09:04.300show me what i get you're asking me to agree to give away half my stuff if i argue with anyone
01:15:32.240But all of the studies, all of the research, all of our experience as human beings show us that children are in a far better position with far better outcomes when their father is married to their mother and present in the home, providing not just financial support, but a daily example of how to live.
01:15:48.820Right, but you don't know what the data is going to say in 20 years.
01:15:51.720we have no idea like the data just came out that men that wait till their 30s to get married
01:15:57.160um like have longer marriages so you can't really predict how the data is going to compare with
01:16:04.860people that just were in long-term relationships all of the evidence i would rather i would rather
01:16:18.040never get a ring with a guy that's not a simp then have to marry a simp that would be like
01:16:24.920that's the way women view that is like hell on earth but we don't know it it's subconscious
01:16:29.160i know it but it shows this that's what your kids get well what do they get out of you sleeping with
01:16:37.680other women and refusing to be a stable presence in the home what possible benefit why does he act
01:16:42.800like that's the only other alternative there's so many men in the red pill that have been married
01:16:47.240for years sometimes the wives bring in the other women you know sometimes it makes their marriage
01:16:52.340better he said that husbands serve their wives he thinks of he thinks being of service to her
01:16:57.440is some sort of advantage you know does that bring to them what do they always guilt tripping
01:17:07.480men about what they do with their dick isn't that kind of gay again if you want to live a
01:17:12.840meaningful life as a man if you want to be a great marriage benefits women and children
01:17:17.180and it's your burden of performance as a woman to convince the guy to get married
01:17:22.180and if the guy has the mindset of he's looking for marriage usually it's a lack of choice
01:17:27.980just generally speaking because if he was successful women would be trying to lock
01:17:34.580him down for marriage um like if he was sexually successful most men aren't like that's kind of
01:17:42.580the default um that's why more men want to get married than women is because most men are
01:17:47.880operating out of scarcity like i would say like half a man aren't going to reproduce you need to
01:17:52.140be motivated by more than just a quest for what you get there has to also be a sense of obligation
01:17:57.880and duty yeah now it's guilt but again they want you to sacrifice your life for their children
01:18:03.780because he if he gets divorced he'll have money to fight it you won't that's what's driven every
01:18:10.500great man in history you know tate talks a lot about escaping the matrix but the question what
01:18:17.380do i get all by itself will not lead you out of the matrix but deeper into it i mean in many ways
01:18:23.700what do i get the single-minded quest for pleasure and personal gain is the matrix
01:18:29.400so the matrix is if you want out of it you need to ask not just what you get but also what are
01:18:37.940your duties what are your obligations yeah now but what are women's duties and obligations
01:18:42.740they don't have any and until women have them then the chessboard isn't fair
01:18:48.160obligations what's your purpose what should you do oh my god should is the dumbest question ever
01:18:57.000what what should it be well this is what it is
01:19:01.020so now if we zoom out even further who else stands to gain from you getting married and having
01:19:08.860children uh having children with your with your wife who you're married to society right
01:19:13.920is that where he's going well i mean everyone does civilization itself yeah so he's again
01:19:18.960he's saying low status men sacrifice for high status men sacrifice your life for mine and when
01:19:27.580the low status men say, you know what? Fuck you. No, he nags you and tells you it's your duty.
01:19:35.740You can't pretend to care about the future of Western civilization while making a choice
01:19:39.720and promoting a choice to not get married, not have children, that if everyone made it would
01:19:48.400result in the extinction of the very thing you claim to want to preserve. Everyone is going to
01:19:53.820make it. Everybody is going to make that choice. That's the future. I'm the only one being honest
01:19:59.660about it. And they chastise me. They call me black pillar. They call me a doomer. But it's like
01:20:04.700all of the trends predict this is where it's going. Imagine if I was in the 80s and I went
01:20:09.660on all the shows saying traditionalism is coming back and now we're alive today. You'd be like,
01:20:14.260fuck you, Pearl. You know. I'm not saying that your primary motivation for getting married
01:20:21.960should be the preservation of Western civilization
01:20:24.460or the continuation of your bloodline.
01:20:51.960It's not irrelevant. And it's one that the anti-marriage side of the argument never addresses.
01:20:59.720You know, if every man, this is the thing, when you hear these, you know, commentators and influencers making this point,
01:21:10.020and they're pointing to things like this scandal we're talking about.
01:21:13.040The red pill tells men to make decisions for themselves, not society, not these stupid commentators.
01:21:19.780But if you look at the real red pill writings, it says, make decisions for you because everyone else in society is going to tell you to make decisions for them.
01:30:32.500Anything or anyone scare you away from it.
01:30:36.320Now, you can avoid the Sarah Stocks of the world by abandoning the very idea of marriage.
01:30:42.080And if you're a woman, you can avoid the Elijah Shafers by doing the same.
01:30:44.980But years from now, when you're on your deathbed, surrounded by no one, with no one to mourn you and no one to carry on your legacy and bloodline or even place flowers on your grave, will you feel relieved that at least you were never divorced?
01:31:02.420Will you be happy about the chance you didn't take?