Pearl - Conservatives Do Not Want Men Leaving The Plantation

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network

00:00:08.680 thank you guys for being here with me i love i love talking to you guys and having a good time

00:00:14.340 so we're going to start the show

00:00:17.260 there's so many women out there 1.00

00:00:22.980 that say they're one thing when they're really enough

00:00:28.760 I don't need to tell you

00:00:34.420 What she's doing with another brother

00:00:40.620 And you might think I have found this chick and she's so different 1.00

00:00:47.760 But you don't know what she was doing before you met

00:00:53.180 And one day you're going to find out and never forget, never, never forget.

00:01:05.100 Stop simping, start pimping.

00:01:11.460 I'm tired of all this blind simping. 1.00

00:01:17.120 Stop telling girls that they're so great. 1.00

00:01:20.540 stop telling ladies that they're worth the wait stop simping start pimping stop simping 0.88

00:01:36.120 what up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:01:42.440 network um i just took my dog out so she might bark and i might have to have her leave the room 0.52

00:01:50.540 she's chilling now but sometimes all right so I start the show by telling you guys random stuff

00:01:57.340 about my life um I think I'm getting kind of close to my front splits it's kind of exciting

00:02:02.060 I'm kind of autistic I'll tell you how I do my day every day I do piano lessons and guitar lessons

00:02:08.820 and I've done this every day pretty much for the last like year and a half that I'm home if I travel

00:02:13.720 I don't um and my goal is I want to be a really good pianist um although I've only been playing

00:02:20.040 piano for a year um i've like known a little bit like but like traditional lessons um for a year

00:02:28.680 um and i'm almost through book two if anyone cares um

00:02:36.680 this one and that's always how i start my day and then i usually go to the gym

00:02:44.200 and my thought is if i want to be a woman that does media in her 30s i got to be in shape

00:02:50.920 you can be a little chunky in your 20s but in your 30s uh ladies you know so i've really focused a

00:02:58.440 lot of my nutrition this year sort of um and it's really because that's been my achilles heel um this

00:03:06.360 last month i really haven't been the best because i've been traveling and more and i mean just

00:03:12.200 giving excuses right i just you know made poor choices this month so i gotta i gotta get back

00:03:17.960 into it. So I signed up for a half marathon in three months. Um, but when it comes to nutrition,

00:03:25.360 I found, um, I have found that chat GPT really has been life-saving for me because it tells me

00:03:37.080 why everything's good and bad that I eat. And, um, it, it, I don't know. I remember things better

00:03:43.060 when I know why I'm doing them and so if you just say eat protein but I don't know why I'm eating

00:03:48.200 protein I like won't remember it I don't care I don't maybe like I've always found I'm a little

00:03:54.880 bit retarded but I work really hard for a woman right not really for a man but I'm a little bit

00:04:00.820 dumb so like every time I've had a boss I always got a recommend letter of recommendation I never 0.98

00:04:07.180 I never got fired well there was one time but it was a job I didn't care about okay that one 0.97

00:04:11.680 didn't count because i didn't care about that job so but in general if i like tried at a job i always

00:04:16.560 did well um but i'll tell you the story of how i got fired um if you want but i didn't care it was

00:04:24.320 like a temporary job i was only supposed to do it for a month i know you got fired but i didn't

00:04:30.240 anyways so what what'll happen is i work a lot harder than most women i can't probably not most

00:04:38.080 men right maybe a good chunk of black men if i'm being honest um but no no this isn't a put down

00:04:45.520 it's just to know your strengths and your weaknesses i'm a hard worker like when i was um

00:04:51.920 when i was uh volleyball when i played volleyball i was on the worst team there's three teams it

00:04:56.560 went black red white team and i was on white and i didn't even get to play on white when i started

00:05:01.680 when i was like 14. i was like a bench warmer on white and every year i moved up so the next year

00:05:08.560 i started on like 15 white then i went on to 16 red and i remember when i made red that was like

00:05:14.640 one of the proudest i ever was because i was on the white team for two years and i was like i want

00:05:19.440 to get off this white team and then i made it um 17 i was on red and then 18 i made it to the top

00:05:25.280 team and it was it was cool because i was on the bottom team and my dad always told me um a canon

00:05:31.040 event for me was you know my dad telling me that you are going to beat people in life because you

00:05:37.400 work hard and i do right i know i do for a woman for a woman so i always have a working list of

00:05:50.020 like goals i'm working on and recently uh because i was so involved in sports there's just a lot of

00:05:55.600 life skills i kind of missed out on you kind of have to understand my upbringing now my upbringing

00:06:00.460 was i went to catholic school i went to catholic school my entire life um and i went to a catholic

00:06:06.540 school for high school that was 30 minutes away um 35 and in traffic it was 45 minutes

00:06:13.100 and my volleyball was 45 minutes from my my my school and i also played basketball so i did two

00:06:21.020 sports so in the winters i would have i would go after school at three o'clock my basketball

00:06:26.220 practice would be 3.30 to like 5.30, let's say. And then I would have to get to Sky High, which

00:06:32.440 was the volleyball club I played at, by 7.45. It was like 7-ish. And then I would have a 7 to 9

00:06:39.580 practice. So then I got back at like 10 o'clock at night. I'd have to do homework.

00:06:45.300 I did skip my, my mom let me skip my first period a lot because she said that, I don't know, I was

00:06:51.080 like a good kid in high school. I'm not saying I didn't do anything. Like I threw one party when I

00:06:55.480 was 18 but in general i was a good kid like i i really i don't know this is why 0.98

00:07:02.240 like i'm not gonna pretend i'm a saint but i just know these other bitches are gonna have 1.00

00:07:10.860 crazier stuff come out because i work too hard and you just can't you know the little demon 0.94

00:07:16.320 time i've had in my life i just haven't had the full amount of time to like to you know demon time

00:07:23.960 you know what i like because the way i think is i don't want to waste my life

00:07:28.360 um not like i really want to be able to play an instrument fluently or whatever you want to say

00:07:34.520 like i'm just addicted to learning i think

00:07:40.200 i'm addicted like to learning so i just always want to learn

00:07:53.800 um so anyways there was a lot of I think growing up um when I was a kid I was raised by nannies

00:08:01.180 so I I really my primary caretaker till I was 10 was like rotating nannies um I had

00:08:08.200 they're from all over the world um and I don't know maybe I was lazy but for some reason or it

00:08:14.080 was just who I was as a person or the sports I don't know but there was life skills like I skipped

00:08:21.020 over i did not learn i did not learn how to cook i did not learn how to clean um

00:08:29.500 and um i really the last few years i've learned it as an adult and it's so fun it's so freeing

00:08:42.620 did i get in trouble for the party okay i'll tell you the story of the party i threw

00:08:46.540 i think some people have heard it but there's always new people on the channel so i'll tell

00:08:51.580 i'll tell you i'll tell you what i did all right so i want you guys to understand the amount of

00:08:57.260 freedom i had as a high schooler when i got older i did ask my father i said dad

00:09:04.540 why um why did you give me so much freedom as a kid like when i was a kid i never had a curfew

00:09:11.260 um i could kind of come and go whenever i probably because my dad was starting a software company

00:09:16.220 so he was gone a lot he went to india for weeks at a time like my dad is the hardest worker i've

00:09:21.180 ever met i look up to him so much he is really awesome learn how to clean there's more that 0.98

00:09:26.860 goes into it okay it's a system you gotta dust for look shut up okay shut up shut up shut up 0.98

00:09:36.140 sorry okay i don't i don't need you to i don't need you to nag me here i get it you're better than me 0.99

00:09:41.260 hold on oh my gosh i gotta play my there's a a package here so let me i gotta let me play my

00:09:52.260 divorce documentary trailer because i need to sign for this uh what's in it for men okay hold

00:09:59.660 on oh remind me to tell you guys the story when i get back so i'll probably forget

00:10:03.640 all right now we're gonna go back full screen this clip going viral online of a dozen women 1.00

00:10:12.840 being asked the following question do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are

00:10:20.960 useless this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women 0.92

00:10:28.320 are not young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years 0.62

00:10:33.620 It's a different world now.

00:10:34.680 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:10:36.700 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:10:37.960 The future is female. 1.00

00:10:41.040 Men and women are drifting further apart, 0.67

00:10:44.500 and society is crumbling because of it.

00:10:47.580 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:10:50.780 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:10:53.500 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:10:56.940 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:11:01.000 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:11:03.800 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:11:06.800 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married. 0.99

00:11:11.760 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:11:15.400 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:11:19.060 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:11:21.920 Because if me and you were in a business contract,

00:11:24.140 you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:11:27.080 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:11:29.140 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:11:32.840 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:11:35.720 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:11:38.400 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:11:43.380 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:11:46.560 You need no evidence.

00:11:47.700 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:11:51.300 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:11:54.760 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:11:57.260 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:11:59.580 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:12:01.760 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:12:04.080 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:12:05.540 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:12:07.420 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:12:09.840 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 0.99

00:12:11.780 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:12:14.120 Family is a foundation of society.

00:12:15.860 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:12:18.800 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:12:23.300 Feminism's biggest failure is in lives to women. 1.00

00:12:25.220 we tell women to date as many guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage 1.00

00:12:28.900 you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really 1.00

00:12:34.980 great boyfriend oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's 0.87

00:12:39.540 anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail right like if you have the 0.97

00:12:43.860 mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be

00:12:48.340 that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to 1.00

00:12:52.580 leave marriages because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing

00:12:57.380 is the children and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings

00:13:02.980 leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age

00:13:09.220 of male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all

00:13:12.980 the power privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about men's 1.00

00:13:17.940 rights i have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this situation men are

00:13:24.100 homeless men are thinking about eating guns i've seen so many men on on the brink of suicide and

00:13:29.380 they didn't do anything wrong how are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and

00:13:34.880 die to defend the country the men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure 0.98

00:13:39.800 women are helplessly dependent upon that the so-called deaths of despair from suicide overdose 1.00

00:13:45.860 to alcohol three times higher among men than among women culture is telling men you are no good you

00:13:51.860 got to get your act together i think men have failed themselves what kind of a man are you

00:13:55.780 what kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble so are women everybody knows 0.99

00:14:00.980 this is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said they wanted 0.97

00:14:06.180 a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really set up against you to fail as a man

00:14:11.860 if men make less than women women don't want to marry them so you know who wants more economically 1.00

00:14:17.060 and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be

00:14:23.620 a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the

00:14:28.500 men that don't stop i can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you 1.00

00:14:33.300 pearl you simply no i think i think you said for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff 1.00

00:14:37.620 but pearl is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet 0.99

00:14:41.540 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending

00:14:44.300 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:14:47.340 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:14:51.600 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:14:55.540 Civilization will crumble.

00:14:57.260 The American story does not end well.

00:14:59.800 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:15:08.960 What up, guys?

00:15:10.020 so the time has come where we are finally doing this divorce documentary. It's by far the biggest

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00:15:23.100 you could potentially save an innocent man from losing hundreds of thousands in child support

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00:15:32.820 divorce proceedings well for twenty thousand dollars we'll include it in the documentary

00:15:39.300 a video message to your ex-wife and if we raise five hundred thousand dollars we actually can

00:15:44.820 finish this documentary if we raise a million dollars we can make it a netflix level documentary

00:15:51.620 if you want to invest a significant amount in this hit up just pearly things at gmail.com

00:15:56.900 for advertisements and profit sharing. All right. What up guys? What up? What up? What up? What up?

00:16:16.820 All right. So I had to get, if you see, this is a little bit of a mess right now. I know I was

00:16:22.140 saying i was cleaning is kind of okay but you know the we're building a music studio so they

00:16:29.500 have to come back we're waiting on some equipment um 20k for a video massive hey hey just let me

00:16:39.340 look we found out that i underestimated the expenses of this documentary so

00:16:45.020 we have it like 80 covered but i think i need to raise another 50k so

00:16:52.140 i'm just saying you know just pearlythings at gmail.com if you want it to be you

00:17:02.720 you know there's always more stuff you don't think about you know what i mean

00:17:09.020 doc thank you thank you i appreciate it 20 bucks

00:17:20.420 it's hoping for 20k you know but it's all right it's all right you guys are hard working men 0.91

00:17:26.680 you're like stop begging me for money bitch okay back to the party story so you wanted to hear 1.00

00:17:31.820 about the party yet so when i was in high school i was a pretty good kid um i'm not gonna say i 0.98

00:17:37.440 never did anything like um but this is the one thing i did so the level of freedom um i asked

00:17:45.200 my dad i said dad why did you give us so much freedom as a kid and he said if you don't learn

00:17:50.800 to make decisions as a kid you are never you're going to go into a world and never have made a

00:17:55.600 single decision in your life and not know how to make decisions so that was something really

00:17:59.120 important to my parents and when i was a kid volleyball i did travel volleyball i made it

00:18:04.560 to the top team at my club so when i was 16 i was home alone for an entire month in the summer

00:18:15.200 an entire month I was by myself alone I did nothing with this freedom I just you know all

00:18:23.680 my friends at the time were saying oh make sure you you know you should throw a party whatever I

00:18:28.580 didn't do it but the second summer I was home alone because I graduated high school when I was

00:18:34.140 17 so I was 17 it was my final my final final last hurrah after I graduated high school

00:18:39.880 and I decided I was going to have a party but it wasn't going to be a rager it was just going to

00:18:45.080 i grew up in a 10 bedroom mansion right it was like a 10 000 square foot house i grew up in a

00:18:49.720 giant house um and i decided i was gonna throw a party but it was gonna be a small party and

00:18:56.040 this was like a three day it was like a weekend four day bender and day one i just had three

00:19:00.920 people over it was like my best friend my two best friends and then our like male friend

00:19:07.560 and we drank and we partied and it was fun but it was just four people and it was fine

00:19:15.080 then the next day there was 10 people we we partied and it was fine

00:19:22.520 and mind you i think in my entire high school i drank like one other time before i went to college

00:19:32.120 i just never um i remember doing it at country thunder you guys better not use this against me

00:19:38.620 later. Um, that was the one festival I've ever gone to is Country Thunder. And, um,

00:19:45.260 what was the other one? Country Thunder.

00:20:02.040 I think that was the first time I drank and that was the first summer,

00:20:04.800 but I did that with my mom so it was supervised so the first time I drank was with my mother

00:20:10.160 I don't know is that bad is that bad parenting I don't know like I don't know I don't know

00:20:18.640 so anyways the next summer um I get to

00:20:25.060 i get the house to myself and i end up having 20 people over and this 20 people we went pretty hard

00:20:37.220 we drank we we like drank like we all we didn't have any beer we drank hard liquor okay this was

00:20:45.820 a rager. But it was only 20 people, right? In a 10,000 square foot house, that's really not that

00:20:58.660 bad. And the next day I made sure I cleaned up and the mess was good. And I left and I met my

00:21:05.780 family on vacation. Now, a few days later, my parents came home first and then I came home

00:21:11.960 after and my parents sat me down and said do you have something to tell me and i'm like no what do

00:21:18.600 i have to tell you and they said there is um a bag of beer in the trash and i said now i'm a little

00:21:26.360 bit confused i'm like they must be messing with me because i didn't drink beer at the party we did

00:21:35.400 not drink beer. I mean, reckless. I'm just saying I had two months of freedom to do whatever I

00:21:48.760 wanted. These two summers. I threw one like three days I drank. I had a party with 20 people. Do you

00:21:55.740 know what I could have done? My siblings did way worse. They did way worse. That's two people per

00:22:02.320 bedroom. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. I'm just saying, I don't think that's that crazy. Okay.

00:22:08.760 It was wrong. It was wrong. It was the wrong thing to do, but I don't think it's insane. I really

00:22:13.600 don't. Could have done. That's what I'm saying. I'm not that high risk when it comes. I don't

00:22:22.640 like getting in trouble, you know? And what happened was, so there was one guy who had

00:22:31.320 house set for us before uh i'm gonna call him i need to change names so people people go and find

00:22:37.480 these people so i'm gonna call him john his name was not john but i'm gonna call him john and john

00:22:42.200 was kind of he was like my best friend in high school i actually had a crush on him he did not

00:22:47.160 like me i was friend zoned he he then he friend zoned me and then banged my best friend he was 0.53

00:22:53.960 not into me right um so we just became friends we were pals whatever and um nothing romantic ever

00:23:03.320 happened and so we end up going um yeah he was john yeah he was kind of a chad he was he banged

00:23:11.000 two of my best friend he dated one forever i think they're still together i know john

00:23:17.320 came back to the house and threw a party after i left

00:23:23.960 um and invited people and left a mess and got me in trouble and because he came back

00:23:30.200 him and like three other guys i was friends with and they lied to my face about it i couldn't

00:23:38.740 believe it i know they threw a party without me there

00:23:42.880 at my house yep and then my dad because he found the bag of beer i got caught they went through my 1.00

00:23:58.660 phone found out about all the parties i mean it wasn't that bad but and i'll tell you fuck it i'll 1.00

00:24:04.680 oh my god should i tell you guys about oh my fuck it i say fuck it i'm gonna i'm 1.00

00:24:10.160 this is going to get clipped on twitter over sharing clipped um do i really care i don't care 0.99

00:24:17.960 anymore now mind you i had never i'm not a weed smoker okay but i'm not going to pretend i've

00:24:26.380 never smoked weed like can we just be real for a second it's never been a regular part of my

00:24:32.360 lifestyle but you know this was the first time i ever tried it

00:24:39.160 this was the first time i ever tried it and i hated it and i still hate it to this day 0.91

00:24:45.320 but the john guy was a big pothead like he was the pothead um

00:24:52.920 i mean this wasn't the best week of my life but this was pretty exciting like my whole

00:24:56.360 life was just volleyball basketball volleyball so this was pretty exciting for me

00:25:02.360 well i was 16 or 17 when this happened

00:25:07.400 and um they i so there's the weed here and they took a picture of me like

00:25:17.680 like i didn't like it i thought it was disgusting and so this picture the john guy sent to our

00:25:25.640 friend group it never got out maybe it'll circulate on twitter someday but they thought

00:25:31.420 it was funny because i looked so disgusted by it like i was like uh now when they went through my

00:25:38.660 phone i i texted someone hey delete the picture of me with the weed so my dad goes through my

00:25:49.280 phone and um i think this is the most disappointed i've ever seen my father

00:25:53.380 um he was so disappointed that i smoked weed he thought i was a pothead but i'd only smoked it

00:26:08.620 one time well i'm not gonna pretend i never did it again but i just never liked it like what

00:26:13.400 would happen would be like every two or three years someone would ask me and i'd say f it you

00:26:18.980 it's been forever maybe i'll like it this and i never have liked it

00:26:27.060 and i always get like um accusations of being a pothead like apparently i have a pothead look

00:26:36.340 but i don't like weed i just don't it's just not my thing i enjoy alcohol and i probably

00:26:43.060 would drink it regularly but i'm too much of a health nut i i wish um do i like i've never done

00:26:51.620 coke i've been offered coke a lot of times but that was just a little bit too hard of a drug for

00:26:57.620 me again i'm just not like people you know i went to amsterdam when i was 18 and like

00:27:05.060 i could have did a lot of drugs there and i it's just not my thing

00:27:16.820 no the drinks i like are the sugariest worst drinks for you i like um like i like pure sugar

00:27:25.620 cocktail drinks that are like 400 calories each that's what i like like what do i like to eat

00:27:31.780 what do i let myself eat or what do i like to eat i like pure sugar drinks i like straight carbs

00:27:38.740 and i'm forced to live in a world where i have to be i have to date i have to date

00:27:45.620 pookie and ray ray if i choose to eat like that

00:27:56.740 now i think so you know sober is the best i don't agree with that

00:28:01.780 i don't agree that sober is the best i think alcohol is a tool there are times when you are

00:28:09.620 so socially awkward as a person that you need a little bit of a tool to help you relax i don't

00:28:16.580 think it's a bad thing to have a drink or two you know like on a date like you might on a first date

00:28:24.260 you might be hooking i mean there's nervousness there's awkwardness whatever right

00:28:31.780 um if you're just not like an outgoing person it can ruin your life but like um

00:28:41.460 you know

00:29:01.780 so anyways I ended up so the first I went to country thunder with my mom when I was 16

00:29:18.120 and then the year after I got Lollapalooza and country thunder tickets and they made me sell

00:29:23.880 them and I never went to festivals after because um again it always came down to I didn't want to

00:29:30.600 get fat and i always just felt like going to these festivals would send me back and um even when i

00:29:36.000 was fat i didn't want to get fatter um and or i would want to do my music lessons like i don't

00:29:43.500 know maybe i'll start raging when i get through my music lessons um and when i um get when i

00:29:50.060 because i always had these goals i wanted to get a really good body i wanted to have a youtube

00:29:54.060 channel um i wanted to learn music i want to do the splits now

00:30:01.400 and i want basic like i would say i have basic cooking and cleaning skills but i want i want

00:30:08.800 there's a level of where i'm going to get to where i'll be happy and i always felt like once

00:30:13.800 i'm done with all that i can i can rage

00:30:15.840 lalapalooza sucks well back then everyone loved it but i never i just never spent a lot of time

00:30:25.260 going i almost went uh me and lily are actually feuding thoughts on lily got it she's cool i

00:30:36.760 actually like her i think she's a good sport i um i mean she's a woman right so that's going 0.99

00:30:42.920 to come with its deficiencies as it does for all of us but yeah she's a good sport um

00:30:48.160 pearl would you cook for me give me 20 grand 0.99

00:30:52.240 20 grand please drink responsibly guys i'm 29 like if i'm not drinking responsibly at this age

00:31:03.560 i'm cooked i'm done

00:31:05.440 um she had no idea the thoughts that sent uh well i don't know i just want to get my splits

00:31:14.040 um today i'll show you my twitter as we start the show

00:31:16.660 uh let's see

00:31:20.100 okay

00:31:27.720 i did have to cook lily um see again when women do this right sorry lily it's got to be you today 1.00

00:31:43.460 um she's using her kid to signal status and build her reputation like you got to think about what 1.00

00:31:50.040 is the point of this post having a child is nice um and it's using your kid for marketing because

00:31:56.420 we all know social media is a funnel for simps and high status men to hit on you so that's

00:32:02.500 essentially what you have going on there um people you know it's the same thing

00:32:08.580 they're doing what sarah stock did using marriage to build their brand and when she does some 0.99

00:32:14.420 horseshit or he does some stuff it's gonna bite them in the ass and i don't feel bad for you 0.99

00:32:20.980 oh did elijah um 1.00

00:32:31.220 okay this post i thought

00:32:35.380 explained the sarah stock situation really well don't let let oh my god i can't talk uh all right

00:32:42.660 don't let anyone reframe the sarah stock situation as a puritan scandal or what have you

00:32:48.500 Schaefer sleeping with an employee isn't relevant. The problem is that he paid some grifting whore to lie to his and her audiences about being trad, using religion as her arguments, even as she cheated on her fiance, lied to him about everything and ruined his life, knowingly contracted an invalid wedding, got the Pope to bless it anyway, and posted an image of her and her haunted womb staring down the Pope as she smugly stands next to the man she cuckolded for the better part of the year. 0.98

00:33:16.580 the problem isn't that you have people attacking you for things you already repented of or what 0.98

00:33:21.420 have you it's that you were selling a product and lied to every person who ever supported you in

00:33:25.960 order to do it that's fraud and you would have never come clean or revealed it on your own

00:33:30.180 yeah and that's why people are pissed like and i and i try to make this clear i'm not judging her

00:33:35.540 um but i just can't you know it's like the fraud just ran so deep

00:33:46.580 I am a little bit excited. Look, you can't, when my enemies have their downfall, um,

00:33:53.940 you know, I just, whatever, shut up. All right. Today I ran, this is my ugly selfie from the gym. 0.98

00:34:02.500 I don't know if I should have put this in the background, but whatever. I only ran a mile and

00:34:08.760 a half total today. So it was kind of slow, but I took that at 15 minutes because I wanted to walk

00:34:15.440 the rest. All right, let's see. This is the guy who got cocked. All right, so today I want to talk

00:34:26.440 about how nobody has men's best interests at heart. Now, what you have is you have high status

00:34:35.440 men and low status men. Now, I would say high status men are all the influencers and commentators.

00:34:41.160 They get to, you know, mingle with world leaders.

00:34:43.680 They have a lot of influence.

00:34:45.060 They have a good amount of power.

00:34:47.880 On top of that, you know, well, business owners, men that make over a certain amount a year,

00:34:54.320 I would say would be high status men, high earning, high status.

00:35:01.220 But they do not think about the average man and how the average man is affected by marriage.

00:35:09.720 so in my experience so i've interviewed people for our divorce documentary um i tried it the

00:35:15.160 first time around i tried to make my divorce documentary and these crazy people stopped it

00:35:19.720 um i got de-platformed all this stuff so i had to redo it but when i was making it the first time

00:35:25.880 i was getting all this footage right and i was interviewing people and i found that the people

00:35:31.160 that got it the worst were not the rich men in family court because a lot of times the rich men

00:35:36.520 i mean they can afford a lawyer they can afford to fight although some maybe got unlucky and got

00:35:41.960 a terrible judge the guys that got it the worst were men that were in the middle class

00:35:47.640 um they can't afford to pay lawyers they can't afford to fight for their kids and so um a lot

00:35:54.360 of high status men the only reason matt walsh can do what he does is because of the average

00:36:01.960 men right the average men work in the factory that's building his microphone the average men

00:36:08.840 um do the construction on the road so he gets to work

00:36:14.200 the average men do the plumbing in his building it's not the men um he would not be able to do

00:36:21.080 his job without the men that allow him to be there but he still is telling average men to take

00:36:27.000 make decisions as a high status man sometimes marriage makes sense for men in high status

00:36:34.200 positions you know sometimes it can be done you know in all of history we've had dowries and so

00:36:39.400 marriage was done to acquire resources you know you married a rich and then you got 0.99

00:36:43.640 her daddy's money sometimes it's genetics right but average men um the issue with matt walsh is

00:36:52.280 it doesn't matter how bad the chessboard is he keeps telling average men keep sacrificing for

00:36:59.560 keep sacrificing for me and my kids i have a wife i have a family but average men most of them aren't

00:37:07.480 going to get it i would say half of men are not going to be able to reproduce so he's saying

00:37:12.120 sacrifice for society because it benefits my children all right so today the matt wall show

00:37:21.320 a sex scandal among conservative influencers perfectly illustrates why many young men are

00:37:25.640 reluctant to get married and have children but they still should even in spite of the risks and

00:37:29.960 i'll make that argument today also tragedy strikes the nation as the washington post delays off

00:37:35.400 hundreds of useless journalists bill gates tries to explain his appearance in the epstein files

00:37:40.360 and a woke school board member brings a school board meeting to a halt so that she can lecture 0.88

00:37:44.600 someone for using the term homeless apparently unhoused is the preferred term although nobody

00:37:49.400 can explain why all of that and more today on the matt wall show now mind you when you go down

00:38:02.680 look at these comments so let me let me keep going and then we can talk about it later okay

00:38:17.400 Then the Elijah Schaefer scandal surfaced, revealing that Schaefer, a conservative commentator who is married and has children, was apparently having an affair with Sarah Stock, who's a conservative commentator, and who at the time was dating the man that she would eventually marry.

00:38:38.320 This has been interesting timing because it's a story that perfectly illustrates the counter argument.

00:38:44.620 The reason why so many young people are so reluctant to get married and have children in the first place.

00:38:51.120 Now, as to the specifics of the scandal, I'll go into a few of the details in a moment.

00:38:55.800 Not because this is a drama channel, but because it's the kind of thing we must contend with,

00:39:00.640 that we want to make the case for marriage and family life.

00:39:05.220 Now, if I were to try to do a monologue right now on that.

00:39:07.580 the way the the challenge with using your relationship to build your brand it's just

00:39:13.500 never a good idea it is not a good idea because um who are they going to attack first

00:39:25.260 like let's say you got an enemy as a guy

00:39:29.900 he's gonna hit on your wife now he knows where to find her you know like i'm like what are you 0.99

00:39:33.740 doing you guys are dumb topic all the comments would be well what about this you see this scandal 0.99

00:39:39.820 over here this is exactly why we don't want to get married so let's just um let's lean into that as 0.99

00:39:45.420 much as i hate that phrase uh you know i think that those of us on the pro-family side oftentimes

00:39:53.340 it's it's true to say haven't done a good enough job of acknowledging and accounting for

00:39:59.820 the enormous risks and downside to marriage that young people are confronting at increasing rates

00:40:06.140 no matter how hard they try to find a compatible moral christian spouse this is the catch-22 our

00:40:11.500 culture is decaying in order to stop the decay we need people to form stable and loving so he's

00:40:16.860 saying stop the decay of our culture now again he's not looking out for you he's looking out

00:40:24.300 for himself because he doesn't want to live in this culture right families but it's harder to

00:40:32.060 form stable living families while the culture is decaying now people in the red red pill and so 1.00

00:40:38.220 called manosphere spaces have been making this point for a long time and have taken a lot of

00:40:45.100 heat for it i've had plenty of arguments with people on that side about this entire shows on

00:40:51.500 netflix have been written about how awful their opinions are and how they've created this man

00:40:56.460 a sphere that traffics in dangerous misogyny and so on but you know the truth is when the writers

00:41:01.180 room at netflix uh is so enraged about your views that they start putting you in their shows

00:41:07.340 then it means that you're on to something now let's let's talk about this issue from

00:41:13.660 the perspective of a young man it's anyone who accuses me of only blaming the woman in this

00:41:18.140 story keep in mind that we talked about this yesterday and i spent yeah because the man

00:41:23.420 elijah's goaded a little bit for banging all these e-girls like if you look at elijah's alleged 0.98

00:41:27.900 roster okay now i don't know if these are true or untrue but i'm just saying this is alleged

00:41:37.420 and the fact that this is alleged is pretty goaded okay sorry emily you're on the list

00:41:43.180 true or untrue i don't know but i'm not really gonna believe you she's pretty hot okay young

00:41:48.620 emily like she's pretty hot pretty hot okay then we got um sarah stock pretty hot um savannah 0.80

00:42:06.540 hernandez i think was the other one pretty hot all right especially young

00:42:16.940 you just can't you can't tell me that these women are not hot like that's a little bit impressive 1.00

00:42:22.540 now you might say yeah they're mid they're mid yeah i mean yeah we're in conservative media but

00:42:27.500 um how many of you got like five mids on your roster

00:42:35.820 Elijah Schaefer. It's alleged, right? Sarah Stock, that came out. He did, in fact, do that.

00:42:42.140 But these are alleged. And there's so many more just like them.

00:42:46.180 20 minutes discussing why Schaefer was wrong to cheat on his wife and how married men should behave so that they don't commit those sins.

00:42:56.480 So we've talked about that. Today, we're going to flip it around and focus on the other side, because here's what the story demonstrates.

00:43:05.820 It's not always enough to say that you should date a woman who goes to church, who says that she opposes abortion, who says that she's never slept with anyone outside of marriage, spends every day talking about conservative principles for a living, and who will, in her case, literally stand by your side in front of the Pope as he blesses both of you.

00:43:26.940 A woman can do all those things and convince you that she means every word of what she's saying, 1.00

00:43:32.220 that she'll be a fantastic mother to your children,

00:43:34.520 and then you find out one day that, in fact, she was lying to you the whole time.

00:43:38.420 She was actually having an affair with her boss behind your back. 1.00

00:43:40.920 She was grinning as the Pope blessed your relationship while she was thinking about her other boyfriend.

00:43:47.540 And here's the thing.

00:43:48.740 If you don't learn the truth soon enough, then she could, not too far in the future,

00:43:54.200 walk away with half of your assets, including your house, along with alimony for life.

00:43:59.980 He just made the case.

00:44:01.280 All right, don't get married now. 0.77

00:44:02.680 This is not some fantastical hypothetical scenario.

00:44:04.960 It's what apparently happened to the man who was engaged to Sarah Stock.

00:44:10.660 And look, they're going to make the case and nobody is thinking about the guy who was engaged to Sarah Stock.

00:44:15.960 Everyone's thinking about Sarah and Elijah.

00:44:18.240 But the real victim is the guy that married the broad. 0.99

00:44:20.900 Briefly, perhaps briefly, went by the name Sarah Setka.

00:44:28.620 Sarah is a relative newcomer in the whole trad woman conservative influencer space. 0.99

00:44:34.640 And she put out posts like this one when she got engaged.

00:44:37.540 This is from August of 2025.

00:44:40.660 She writes, I want... 0.97

00:44:42.000 That's incredible.

00:44:43.020 I want to double check.

00:44:44.060 All these people, Matt Walsh, ring e-girls.

00:44:50.900 i like how he look at this he covered this story before

00:45:00.820 and none of them i was the only person that said hey this is a red flag that she's posting her

00:45:10.560 ring on the internet all of the conservatives covered this story there's never any humility

00:45:15.960 when i'm proven right ever

00:45:18.300 never any humility they all what uh all right whatever along with a picture of her engagement

00:45:29.920 rang and as you can see there charlie kirk who was actually an honest and wholesome person

00:45:34.800 responded congrats marriage is amazing lots of people responded that way um makes sense to

00:45:41.960 respond someone got engaged it's a happy thing you say congratulations then there's this post

00:45:45.880 from Sarah Stock, which she wrote in November of 2024. Quote, the idea that women are waiting

00:45:51.680 until marriage, who are waiting until marriage are doing it to manipulate men into marrying them so 0.96

00:45:55.900 they can leave and take all their money is kind of schizo, in my opinion. And you probably have a 1.00

00:46:00.360 0.01% chance of that happening. Anyone who's going to be a forever bachelor and never procreate

00:46:05.560 because they're not willing to take that risk, especially with a woman they love and trust,

00:46:09.480 is NGMI, not going to make it. Waiting until marriage also has statistically better results 1.00

00:46:15.160 for the marriage. And six months later, in April 2025, Stock announced that she had converted to

00:46:21.240 Catholicism. Stock wrote, quote, I'm officially Catholic. And then she wrote,

00:46:26.300 Ave Christus Rex, meaning Hail Christ the King. And then here's the thing. Had they not made a

00:46:34.920 big spectacle of their religion, that's why people are pissed, because you didn't have to make a big

00:46:39.500 spectacle of your relationship and your religion you didn't have to do that nobody put a gun to

00:46:45.500 your head it's just incredible her photo with her husband receiving the pope's blessing

00:46:53.900 bruh was elijah at the wedding that's my question bruh there's never any humilities nobody's

00:47:03.500 apologize to me now i'm not prepared to say as many have that her conversion was a scam and she

00:47:15.040 never meant anything she said it was all a big ruse i can't say i can't see inside her soul

00:47:20.660 isn't that incredible that's how cucked and simpy conservatives are you got bamboozled and lied to

00:47:29.260 and you cannot even say that you got bamboozled and lied to lied to it's just incredible the 0.68

00:47:35.460 simping never ends it never ends I was like we have Nick defending them now really and I kept 1.00

00:47:44.660 telling you know I was I was talking to Nick the other day I hope he's okay with me talking about

00:47:48.420 this but I'm like Nick I'm like Nick you guys you're gonna nag us about gossiping when these 0.96

00:47:55.680 people through their fucking religion and relationship in our faces and called everybody 0.99

00:48:01.120 whores you didn't have to do that none of you guys had to do that and and that's what i kept trying 1.00

00:48:10.000 to say i'm like look we're not mad because nobody cares if if she banged her boss water is wet the 0.89

00:48:16.080 sky is blue we're mad because you guys took the money and you were never and we're mad because

00:48:25.680 lot of men see themselves in that guy um yeah so god can figure that out it's perfectly possible

00:48:38.240 for a person to profess oh and he kept saying like big deal and i'm like uh big really big deal oh my

00:48:46.320 god it was just incredible and i was like i i kept telling him i'm like you're black pilling me 0.96

00:48:54.320 I'm getting black-pilled 0.97

00:48:56.440 I'm getting black-pilled even further 0.85

00:49:01.440 but that's the thing 0.96

00:49:16.680 they sacrifice men to slaughter 0.59

00:49:18.660 that's what the church does 0.92

00:49:20.600 they sacrifice him

00:49:21.960 to save society and their brands not nick he's i mean he's in a tough situation i do feel for him

00:49:29.640 but i was so disappointed i'm like this white knighting it just has to stop

00:49:35.900 i i feel a little bad you know i don't think he wants to be involved but

00:49:42.040 when i was like i saw his tweet and it was like

00:49:45.260 It was like, their faith in conversion is genuine.

00:49:53.420 I'm like, you have got to be kidding me.

00:50:04.720 You have got to be kidding me.

00:50:06.320 A certain belief and hold that belief and yet act contrary to it.

00:50:11.480 And we all do that to some extent because we are all sinners.

00:50:15.260 And yet it's also clear that Sarah was also putting together a carefully crafted image.

00:50:23.620 Before she was engaged, she appeared on a podcast in which she claimed that she would abstain from sex until marriage,

00:50:30.240 in contrast to some other women on the panel who openly admitted that they were extremely promiscuous.

00:50:35.500 Watch.

00:50:36.820 You're also religious, correct?

00:50:38.480 Yeah, I'm a Christian.

00:50:39.420 Are you waiting until marriage?

00:50:40.660 Yeah.

00:50:41.420 Have you always waited until marriage?

00:50:42.760 Yeah, diabolical. 0.99

00:50:45.260 tits out jesus cross diabolical incredible you both are virgins is that correct yeah yes 1.00

00:50:57.500 no shame just yeah okay what's your body count it's eight four i can give like a roundabout

00:51:07.820 like 120 120 okay four four eight zero zero zero whoa that's a lot of purchase

00:51:21.880 surrounded by purity here feel it rubbing up on me um

00:51:26.840 now the point of showing you this uh all this stuff is not to gawk at the destruction of a

00:51:35.480 marriage or to gossip about lurid details, of which there are plenty in this case. We could

00:51:40.740 fill a whole show full of those details if we wanted to. We won't. Instead, I'll simply say

00:51:45.520 that Milo Yiannopoulos has alleged, with a substantial amount of evidence, that Sarah was

00:51:51.380 in fact sleeping with her boss, Elijah Schaefer, who runs a small conservative media company called

00:51:55.400 Rift TV, up to the moment that she became engaged to another man named Will. So in other words,

00:52:00.500 the allegation is that Sarah was cheating on her boyfriend and future fiancé with her boss,

00:52:04.520 who was a married man at the time with children his wife is now divorcing him apparently and i

00:52:10.140 don't understand why christians don't get angry they're using your religion for money and clout

00:52:16.380 and attention this is not about god and you know you just watch this over and over and over i mean 0.99

00:52:26.220 why do you guys think i feel this way nobody's nobody's a a bigger trash talker than someone

00:52:31.680 who got fooled and i bought all this stuff the first half of my 20s but i'm like these people

00:52:37.180 do not have your best interests at heart they don't they don't even like even the advice they

00:52:44.300 give women it's like wait till marriage when you're not a virgin good luck good luck with that 0.84

00:52:50.740 even if you are over a certain age you just got to put out and the allegation is backed by an

00:52:57.040 audio recording, which Yiannopoulos obtained, though it's not clear how. No reason to play

00:53:02.380 that here. You can listen to that if you want to online. There are other allegations, even darker

00:53:07.680 and more depraved, that have been made and which I certainly can't substantiate. In response to all

00:53:12.340 these allegations, Sarah didn't issue any kind of specific targeted denial. She didn't dispute the

00:53:18.200 accuracy of the claims being made exactly. Instead, she posted the following message to her account

00:53:23.880 on X. It says, quote, a lot of what has been said about me is completely untrue. That being said,

00:53:28.900 there are mistakes, unwise decisions I've made that I deeply regret. I have sinned. I apologize

00:53:32.660 to everyone who has been scammed. What a wimp. What a wimp. You got to eat it. 0.98

00:53:37.500 By this, please pray logging off now. Shortly afterwards, Sarah deleted her account entirely

00:53:42.800 and deleted, I think, her other social media accounts as well. Now, if you follow this scandal

00:53:48.400 social media you'll see that most people as expected are talking about it with a sick kind

00:53:54.800 of glee and satisfaction but we should never find satisfaction in the sins of others i actually

00:54:01.040 it's anger it's not glee it's anger i mean we're happy that people got exposed because

00:54:09.280 they do this all the time they lecture all of us on how to lit like i was even thinking i'm like 0.95

00:54:15.040 Like, the fucking audacity. 0.98

00:54:17.120 You are going to lecture me about gossiping? 1.00

00:54:25.400 But you won't lecture your friend for cucking her husband? 1.00

00:54:30.980 Go to hell. 1.00

00:54:32.200 I'm like, fuck. 1.00

00:54:33.340 And I was telling him, I'm like, guys are going to leave the church because of this. 1.00

00:54:37.280 Like, the smartest, most intelligent men do not stay in the church, I'm telling you.

00:54:41.840 They don't.

00:54:42.440 all men that i know worth a damn over a certain age they are not religious even if they're super

00:54:49.960 moral under a certain age but when you're a young man you're naive right when they get older

00:54:54.880 they leave because they've just seen it too many times too many men get cucked and um

00:55:00.320 you know the response i get is no that's not happening i'm like look 0.93

00:55:06.840 too many men were screwed during a divorce where they just believed the woman

00:55:11.980 and they get lectured by some guy doing the same stuff that they're doing, right? 0.78

00:55:16.620 It's just incredible.

00:55:18.340 Especially when there are real victims involved, spouses and children.

00:55:23.020 So the point is not to gloat.

00:55:25.180 I have no reason to anyway.

00:55:26.520 I have nothing personally against anybody involved in this scandal.

00:55:29.460 The point is that this story is not the exception.

00:55:32.780 It's not happening out of nowhere.

00:55:34.500 There's nothing aberrant about it.

00:55:36.420 As we talked about yesterday, Elijah Schaefer, Elijah Schaefer's behavior is all too common among some men.

00:55:42.940 And Sarah Stock is all too representative of how some women, though certainly not all, think and behave these days.

00:55:49.880 These types of women, they don't see men as potential husbands. 1.00

00:55:53.260 And look, if I go to Walsh's wife, like Walsh, your wife and her bio says her only purpose is to troll Matt Walsh. 0.99

00:56:03.980 who the fuck would want a wife that's their adversary it's not to support you it's to troll 1.00

00:56:10.200 you and um it's because you don't have the balls to tell her to stop so we're being lectured by a 1.00

00:56:18.740 guy who really doesn't have a marriage anybody would want and he's telling you to get married 0.99

00:56:24.140 they don't have your best interests at heart they don't

00:56:28.040 she might be joking but you don't you wouldn't troll your boss every day

00:56:34.860 it's because she doesn't respect her husband it's obvious husbands to whom they will devote 0.88

00:56:39.920 themselves or for whom they will be a loyal and loving helpmate they see men as tools they can

00:56:46.260 use dishonestly for a specific purpose i consider the fact that as of the most recent data roughly

00:56:52.240 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women that's according to research from the american 0.98

00:56:57.020 Sociological Association, but plenty of other sources agree on that point. In fact, the number

00:57:01.420 rises to between 80 and 90 percent when you only look at highly educated women. Here's a quote from 0.95

00:57:07.880 the American Sociological Association to give you an idea of how they framed the data. Quote,

00:57:12.000 study author Michael Rosenfeld, an associate professor of sociology at Stanford University,

00:57:16.520 found that women initiated 69 percent of all divorces compared to 31 percent of men.

00:57:20.880 In contrast, there was not a statistically significant difference between the percentage

00:57:24.560 of breakups initiated by unmarried women and men. Women seem to have a predominant role

00:57:29.120 in initiating divorces in the U.S. as far back as there is data from a variety of sources back

00:57:33.660 to the 1940s, Rosenfeld said. I think that marriage as an institution has been a little

00:57:38.220 bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality. So that's how left-wing 0.91

00:57:44.100 academics present the data. They blame marriage for being a little bit slow to catch up with

00:57:48.840 expectations. They don't blame men for cheating on their spouses because according to the data,

00:57:53.560 that's not what's actually driving the high rates of divorces initiated by women but they also know 1.00

00:58:00.460 they can't blame women because every academic without exception is forced to embrace feminism 1.00

00:58:04.760 as a religion so they settle on blaming the institution of marriage itself which ironically

00:58:09.460 enough is exactly here's the the problem none of you can have a traditional marriage because a 1.00

00:58:14.340 traditional marriage you have to have enforcement and in 2026 the only enforcement you have is 0.99

00:58:20.980 fucking another bitch that's the only consequence she can have you don't have a traditional marriage 1.00

00:58:29.860 you're just playing pretend and that's what people are sick of we are sick of the commentators 1.00

00:58:34.500 lecturing us where they go while they go home and are nagged to death by their wives we're sick of 0.99

00:58:39.300 the commentators lecturing us while they they do not run their household and it's very obvious you

00:58:45.540 know matt walsh has been on the record saying he can't smoke in his own house well why not if you 1.00

00:58:50.940 run it you don't we're sick of being lectured like it's such bullshit you guys are lying you are 0.99

00:58:57.680 lying none of like no i have not seen a conservative commentator that has the demeanor that he tells 1.00

00:59:03.820 his wife to shut the fuck up why do you think people gravitate towards andrew tate because 1.00

00:59:08.880 we're sick of these simp ass dudes who did the same exact thing as everybody else they got married 1.00

00:59:14.380 late to a woman that wasn't a virgin probably was ran through and then lectures all of us it's like 1.00

00:59:20.320 fuck you. Yeah, the same conclusion that many anti-feminist red pillars come to just by a 1.00

00:59:32.140 different route. And he doesn't even know he doesn't even know what the red pill is.

00:59:36.840 And what he's pushing is going to lead men to suicide. If they take his advice, you are not

00:59:44.100 going to be there on the other side. You are not going to be responsible if they end up committing

00:59:49.340 suicide. If I push a product, if I push a drug that kills people, I get held responsible for

00:59:58.800 pushing it. I could get sued, but he cannot be held responsible for pushing marriage, 0.91

01:00:03.760 even with the absurd family court we have today.

01:00:08.720 and yet if you ask women they'll tell you exactly exactly why they're getting divorced 1.00

01:00:20.780 uh if you take a look at the data what it tells you is that the primary reasons that women give

01:00:27.560 for divorcing their husbands include that they feel they aren't getting enough attention

01:00:31.640 their husband is holding back their career that they quote grew apart

01:00:36.500 in other words the woman got bored and like sarah stock apparently they wanted to try something new 0.87

01:00:44.240 and they convinced themselves that there's nothing wrong with you know giving another man a try

01:00:49.100 and there's nothing stopping these women from walking into a courtroom telling the judge they're 1.00

01:00:54.220 bored and taking 50 of their husband's assets along with alimony even in conservative states

01:01:00.920 they can get away with that they can seize your home they can seize your retirement account

01:01:06.080 They don't even have to lie about what they're doing.

01:01:08.520 That's where the law is right now.

01:01:11.080 Among other reasons, this is a major problem because marriage is directly 0.56

01:01:15.440 tied to the continued existence of civilization.

01:01:18.160 Plenty of data shows, as you might imagine, that marriage is directly

01:01:21.680 linked to fertility rates, which seems pretty obvious.

01:01:25.240 If we want to reverse population decline, then encouraging young people 1.00

01:01:29.400 to get married is the way to do it.

01:01:31.200 But it could be a tough sell for young men.

01:01:33.800 to help you as long as the law remains so archaic and so obviously rigged against them

01:01:38.480 so why haven't any conservative states abolished no-fault divorce or at the very least why haven't

01:01:44.640 more states abolished the idea that women are entitled to 50 of their husband's assets even if

01:01:48.660 they've been cheating on him the entire time as far as i can tell in the vast majority of states

01:01:54.980 whether they're community property states or not a woman can cheat on her husband and still receive 0.89

01:01:59.040 half his assets. There are exceptions, including Texas, but this is the norm, and that needs to

01:02:04.580 change. In most cases, women should get zero dollars if they initiate a divorce. In most 1.00

01:02:11.500 cases, they should get nothing. In fact, in many cases, they should be fined for wasting the man's

01:02:16.880 time. It's not a punitive solution. It's one we obviously need because the current system is

01:02:23.040 pathological in how it destroys the lives of innocent young men. In fact, we should really

01:02:28.920 be discussing criminal penalties for adultery. There'd be nothing unusual historically about...

01:02:34.340 That's always what they want to do. It's government overreach. I don't think cheating

01:02:38.580 should be illegal. It should, and it's completely impractical. How would you enforce cheating?

01:02:44.280 What is cheating? Look, if anyone wants to leave, I know I used to say that divorce should be

01:02:50.780 illegal, but I disagree. Maybe the barrier of entry should be higher, but if someone wants to

01:02:57.200 leave, just let him go. Dispensing prison time or fines or even corporal punishment for adulterers,

01:03:06.300 what's unusual is having no such penalties in place at all. We are one of the few societies

01:03:10.440 in history to not treat adultery as a criminal matter. And I see no evidence that our approach

01:03:15.920 is in any way superior or brings about better results at all. It's tempting to think that

01:03:22.580 reversing this entire system is impossible, but it's not. And more to the point, there's reason

01:03:27.600 to believe that in general, conservative women in general are much less of a danger on this front. 0.97

01:03:33.860 Take a look at this data from the U.S. General Social Survey, which was republished by the

01:03:38.960 Substack Age of Infovores. It shows that the average number of children that are being born

01:03:44.680 to left-wing families in the United States is declining significantly and significantly more

01:03:49.160 rapidly than the number of children who are being born to conservative things okay what they'll do

01:03:53.860 is they'll say in like it's rising um here let me see so it goes from 1.8 to 2.6

01:04:05.900 in the matter of 15 years

01:04:10.220 like if you have a woman she's gonna be liberal anyway so it doesn't even really matter like if 0.58

01:04:18.260 you see the data on um on the children um like the the women are bound to be liberal anyway 1.00

01:04:30.960 um and then who really cares it's like what from 1.8 to 2.6 so one kid to two

01:04:40.660 okay families in other words left-wing birth rates are falling far faster than conservative

01:04:47.920 birthrights conservatives are yeah they they just want to gaslight you um usually these have small

01:04:54.620 samples like there's usually a catch um i don't know what this one is i'd have to look into it but

01:05:01.360 usually if um the data doesn't really

01:05:05.440 like it's there's usually a catch to it presumably involved in more stable and

01:05:13.760 fulfilling marriages the kind that aren't ended early due to an affair or a deceptive spouse or

01:05:19.440 anything like that so when you hear about falling birth rates and the collapse of civilization

01:05:24.060 you should know that the people who want to destroy civilization are going to destroy themselves

01:05:30.080 first and while that's not right but if you have kids you can't like i just saw an article on

01:05:35.200 twitter that said like look at this um they did an article on nick fuentes's sister which is kind

01:05:45.360 of fucked up but regardless um he has a liberal sister i guess so you could literally have a kid 0.93

01:05:52.460 that's nick fuentes and your daughter will still be liberal like it's incredible unnecessarily an 0.99

01:05:59.820 ideal state of affairs. It's, you know, better than the alternative. And when you zoom out even

01:06:05.580 wider, there's some other interesting data. Like, okay, the white non-Hispanic went up 0.45%.

01:06:12.700 Like, do you see this? Okay. That doesn't really change the overall trends.

01:06:21.380 And what they'll do is they'll say the number, which will sound really big when they say it,

01:06:25.900 even though it's like a small percentage.

01:06:28.980 So the latest statistics on birth rates,

01:06:32.040 according to preliminary 2025 birth rate data compiled by the CDC,

01:06:35.840 which looks at the mother's ethnicity, 0.57

01:06:38.400 white non-Hispanic birth rates have actually increased.

01:06:42.040 This is selling you guys hope.

01:06:45.200 The trends are going how they're going and they want to sell you hope.

01:06:48.380 For the past year and now account for more than 50% of all known births.

01:06:53.080 Meanwhile, births from virtually every other race and ethnicity

01:06:55.640 have declined sharply, which is a big change from recent years.

01:06:59.820 And that includes Hispanic births, Asian births, Black births, Pacific Islander births.

01:07:05.980 The implication of this data is that foreigners aren't replacing the Native American population

01:07:09.680 to nearly the extent that they were under the Biden administration.

01:07:13.860 Closing the border and deporting illegal aliens has had a direct effect.

01:07:17.900 It's reversed the demographic change that Democrats have been trying to engineer.

01:07:22.840 Imagine what these numbers would look like if conservative states decided to actually do something to encourage even more marriages. 0.99

01:07:30.060 That doesn't mean providing more welfare or handouts.

01:07:32.880 There's plenty of evidence that, you know, from the Nordic countries, which have a lower fertility rate than we do, that more welfare doesn't produce more children.

01:07:42.280 And more welfare definitely isn't guaranteed to provide more stable family units, as the civil rights era demonstrated in this country.

01:07:48.740 what's needed is a rethinking of divorce law and the contracts that young men are being asked to

01:07:54.560 enter into and now with all that said how could i after acknowledging these serious pitfalls

01:08:03.560 oh here still promote marriage and family life here it comes what's the upside

01:08:09.400 went through all the downsides pretty grim here it comes how could it possibly be worth it

01:08:15.620 given all of that that's the question and it's a fair one i saw a recent clip of andrew tate

01:08:22.600 posing this exact conundrum as he has many they want men cocked times here's just the latest 1.00

01:08:29.140 example watch how big of an idiot is a guy that doesn't get a prenup how big of an idiot is a guy 1.00

01:08:34.980 who gets married oh my girl is over there my boy yeah waiting on that well i'm sorry but are you 1.00

01:08:42.220 are you suggesting that marriage is out of the picture what do you gain

01:08:48.940 non-emotional like there's men who get married and they go it's important because i love her

01:08:52.380 if you want to make emotional decisions if you want to enter the world of emotional 0.97

01:08:55.740 decisions with women if you want to roll in the mud with a pig and lose then that's fine 1.00

01:09:00.140 as a man it's your job to be logical and i'm sitting here saying i'm not anti-marriage just 0.98

01:09:04.300 show me what i get you're asking me to agree to give away half my stuff if i argue with anyone

01:09:10.220 at any point in the future forever.

01:09:12.240 You agree, I'm sitting here,

01:09:13.840 I'm going to pay a whole bunch of money

01:09:14.900 so her uncle can eat a lobster dinner

01:09:16.520 and I'm going to be publicly humiliated

01:09:19.340 all over the internet.

01:09:20.320 Yeah, it usually just shows a lack of choice

01:09:22.780 for men that want to get married

01:09:24.320 because if you had a ton of choice,

01:09:28.060 you really wouldn't be incentivized to do it.

01:09:31.200 Like, why would you want to give a woman leverage? 1.00

01:09:35.480 If you had three hot chicks, you were banging. 1.00

01:09:37.460 when her ex-boyfriend who's silly laughs i'm walking her down the aisle in a white dress 0.97

01:09:47.420 okay cool so what do i get and and the answer is well you get away yeah that's why 0.97

01:09:54.340 that's like why do you think tate doesn't want to he's got three hot chicks i already have a wife 1.00

01:10:02.720 i already have her you get you get you get a couple of years of happiness yeah but okay

01:10:07.460 do words matter or actions if you act like you're married what's the difference

01:10:12.740 you need a title a risk of divorce risk of losing your money and maybe some kids yeah well i got

01:10:26.000 kids anyway? So it's a, you know, it's a fair, it's a fair logical question, but the premise

01:10:33.740 behind it is not fair. You know, I've already acknowledged that those of us on the pro-marriage

01:10:39.080 side can sometimes be too quick to discount the possibility that a young man gets married and

01:10:45.460 winds up humiliated, betrayed, and broke because of it. You know, we, we, we sometimes talk about

01:10:53.180 marriage as though the divorce rate were zero percent. On the other side, though, people like

01:10:59.480 Tate talk about marriage as though the divorce rate were a hundred percent, as if no couple in

01:11:05.820 history has ever managed to stay faithful and monogamous till death do they part. He treats

01:11:10.520 the potential downsides of marriage as guaranteed and the upsides as if they don't exist at all,

01:11:14.940 but they do. And in fact, on second thought, the question, what will I get out of it or what do I

01:11:21.000 get out of it is not entirely fair. I can't say what you will get out of marriage. Oh my God.

01:11:30.440 Because I can't look into your future. I can't control for every possible factor. I can't force

01:11:35.380 you to choose the right spouse, nor can I force you or your spouse to do all the things in a

01:11:40.440 marriage that are necessary to keep. And this is the ego. He thinks he is so sure that his marriage

01:11:47.160 is going to work out but you're only in your 30s maybe early 40s we don't know what the future's

01:11:54.360 like for you but they think they know everything they have these huge egos all of them commentators

01:11:59.920 but stable and we're the worst breeds of human happy most of the time when a marriage falls apart

01:12:06.400 it can be that there's one clear bad guy who did something destructive and and and was and you know

01:12:12.260 betrayed the marriage that can happen usually when a marriage falls apart it's because you've

01:12:17.640 got two people and neither of them were doing the things necessary to keep it together and so i can't

01:12:23.440 control for that but i can say they always find a way to blame the man even like in this you know 0.99

01:12:31.220 they're talking about how the cop like he should have just known that she was gonna fuck him 0.99

01:12:35.360 it's like how how would he know that she was fucking her boss you know what i mean like you 0.99

01:12:40.420 wouldn't really think that are you fucking brett cooper no right so he's not gonna assume they're 0.99

01:12:47.300 banging what you can get out of marriage and what a great many men billions throughout history 0.98

01:12:54.440 including myself 15 years in with six kids have gotten out again ego look at me look at what i

01:13:01.660 did it worked for me your wife was old and you got him through ibf can we just like be real here 0.99

01:13:10.400 two twins in her 30s do you think i'm stupid it's larping 0.98

01:13:15.620 larping so what you can get is the love fidelity and lifelong companionship of a woman who you 0.99

01:13:25.880 love and who is devoted to you you can get that without marriage and to whom you are devoted in

01:13:31.000 return what you can get what billions of men have been by the way men aren't getting that

01:13:36.340 That's not true. Men are not getting devoted wives.

01:13:40.320 Our children you love and who love you.

01:13:43.120 You can have kids outside of marriage.

01:13:46.720 The only thing you get in marriage is you get less leverage.

01:13:53.500 Carry on your legacy, your bloodline, and your family name.

01:13:56.620 You can have a family that is stable and whole,

01:13:59.620 one that gives you a sure sense of purpose every single day of your life,

01:14:03.080 a family you live with and share your life with and serve and lead and raise okay so you can get

01:14:09.800 love meaning purpose and legacy that's what you can get it's not an emotional argument because

01:14:17.320 those are not emotions those are real things those are nothing less than the greatest things life

01:14:23.480 has to offer so what can you get out of it i don't know the greatest things in life is what you can 0.97

01:14:27.640 get you can get that without marriage stupid argument there's nothing greater nothing that 0.74

01:14:35.560 can bring you more joy or make your life more worth living so what you get or can get in a word is 0.96

01:14:45.000 basically everything but it should also be said that as men our concern should not be only what

01:14:53.800 we get what do i get is a fair question and if the answer were nothing then you shouldn't do it

01:15:01.640 but it's a fair question it should not be the only question you know tate says he has kids

01:15:08.160 anyway so he doesn't need marriage but okay well what would his kids get out of him being married

01:15:13.520 to their mother nothing the kids wouldn't even know you can get a ring you don't have to get

01:15:18.340 married with the state well they would get a stable household with a father who's present

01:15:23.080 every day, leading, guiding, and teaching them.

01:15:25.160 You can get that without marriage. 0.98

01:15:29.120 Now, it's true that you can have kids without getting married.

01:15:31.240 Plenty of people have done that.

01:15:32.240 But all of the studies, all of the research, all of our experience as human beings show us that children are in a far better position with far better outcomes when their father is married to their mother and present in the home, providing not just financial support, but a daily example of how to live.

01:15:48.820 Right, but you don't know what the data is going to say in 20 years.

01:15:51.720 we have no idea like the data just came out that men that wait till their 30s to get married

01:15:57.160 um like have longer marriages so you can't really predict how the data is going to compare with

01:16:04.860 people that just were in long-term relationships all of the evidence i would rather i would rather

01:16:18.040 never get a ring with a guy that's not a simp then have to marry a simp that would be like 1.00

01:16:24.920 that's the way women view that is like hell on earth but we don't know it it's subconscious 1.00

01:16:29.160 i know it but it shows this that's what your kids get well what do they get out of you sleeping with

01:16:37.680 other women and refusing to be a stable presence in the home what possible benefit why does he act 0.76

01:16:42.800 like that's the only other alternative there's so many men in the red pill that have been married

01:16:47.240 for years sometimes the wives bring in the other women you know sometimes it makes their marriage 0.87

01:16:52.340 better he said that husbands serve their wives he thinks of he thinks being of service to her

01:16:57.440 is some sort of advantage you know does that bring to them what do they always guilt tripping 1.00

01:17:07.480 men about what they do with their dick isn't that kind of gay again if you want to live a 1.00

01:17:12.840 meaningful life as a man if you want to be a great marriage benefits women and children 1.00

01:17:17.180 and it's your burden of performance as a woman to convince the guy to get married 0.98

01:17:22.180 and if the guy has the mindset of he's looking for marriage usually it's a lack of choice

01:17:27.980 just generally speaking because if he was successful women would be trying to lock 0.97

01:17:34.580 him down for marriage um like if he was sexually successful most men aren't like that's kind of

01:17:42.580 the default um that's why more men want to get married than women is because most men are

01:17:47.880 operating out of scarcity like i would say like half a man aren't going to reproduce you need to

01:17:52.140 be motivated by more than just a quest for what you get there has to also be a sense of obligation

01:17:57.880 and duty yeah now it's guilt but again they want you to sacrifice your life for their children

01:18:03.780 because he if he gets divorced he'll have money to fight it you won't that's what's driven every

01:18:10.500 great man in history you know tate talks a lot about escaping the matrix but the question what

01:18:17.380 do i get all by itself will not lead you out of the matrix but deeper into it i mean in many ways

01:18:23.700 what do i get the single-minded quest for pleasure and personal gain is the matrix

01:18:29.400 so the matrix is if you want out of it you need to ask not just what you get but also what are

01:18:37.940 your duties what are your obligations yeah now but what are women's duties and obligations 1.00

01:18:42.740 they don't have any and until women have them then the chessboard isn't fair 1.00

01:18:48.160 obligations what's your purpose what should you do oh my god should is the dumbest question ever 0.97

01:18:57.000 what what should it be well this is what it is 0.96

01:19:01.020 so now if we zoom out even further who else stands to gain from you getting married and having

01:19:08.860 children uh having children with your with your wife who you're married to society right

01:19:13.920 is that where he's going well i mean everyone does civilization itself yeah so he's again

01:19:18.960 he's saying low status men sacrifice for high status men sacrifice your life for mine and when

01:19:27.580 the low status men say, you know what? Fuck you. No, he nags you and tells you it's your duty. 1.00

01:19:35.740 You can't pretend to care about the future of Western civilization while making a choice

01:19:39.720 and promoting a choice to not get married, not have children, that if everyone made it would

01:19:48.400 result in the extinction of the very thing you claim to want to preserve. Everyone is going to

01:19:53.820 make it. Everybody is going to make that choice. That's the future. I'm the only one being honest

01:19:59.660 about it. And they chastise me. They call me black pillar. They call me a doomer. But it's like

01:20:04.700 all of the trends predict this is where it's going. Imagine if I was in the 80s and I went

01:20:09.660 on all the shows saying traditionalism is coming back and now we're alive today. You'd be like,

01:20:14.260 fuck you, Pearl. You know. I'm not saying that your primary motivation for getting married 1.00

01:20:21.960 should be the preservation of Western civilization

01:20:24.460 or the continuation of your bloodline.

01:20:27.880 Like, no human being is going to be

01:20:30.200 foremost personally motivated by that.

01:20:35.600 But these are benefits,

01:20:37.360 and they're really important ones.

01:20:40.220 Why should we get married and have kids? 1.00

01:20:42.260 Well, if we don't, civilization collapses,

01:20:45.480 the human race goes extinct,

01:20:46.760 and nothing matters because nothing will exist anymore.

01:20:49.620 That seems like a relevant point.

01:20:51.960 It's not irrelevant. And it's one that the anti-marriage side of the argument never addresses.

01:20:59.720 You know, if every man, this is the thing, when you hear these, you know, commentators and influencers making this point,

01:21:10.020 and they're pointing to things like this scandal we're talking about. 0.99

01:21:13.040 The red pill tells men to make decisions for themselves, not society, not these stupid commentators. 0.99

01:21:19.780 But if you look at the real red pill writings, it says, make decisions for you because everyone else in society is going to tell you to make decisions for them. 0.99

01:21:28.780 They want you on the plantation.

01:21:30.800 This is why you don't, you don't get married.

01:21:33.120 Well, if every man followed your advice, human society would disintegrate.

01:21:40.780 And that strikes me as a pretty serious flaw in the plan.

01:21:44.300 I mean, it strikes me that a plan must be bad if full adoption of your plan would bring about the annihilation of the human race.

01:21:53.620 Then give men what they want. 1.00

01:21:55.940 No child support, no alimony, 50-50 custody.

01:22:00.740 If you're not giving men what they want, then you can't be mad that they're not doing what you want.

01:22:08.980 You have to give them something in return.

01:22:11.100 Otherwise, that's slavery.

01:22:12.180 so it seems like that can't be a good plan it's like we could talk about what the better plan is

01:22:21.000 but it can't be that it can't be the thing where if too many of us do it everything collapses and

01:22:26.680 everyone dies and there's no more humans left and yet yes there are still risks there are risks i've

01:22:34.700 already acknowledged risk that you can't protect yourself from with a hundred percent certainty

01:22:40.460 but you can account for these risks to a very hey well what about the 10 percent of men

01:22:47.540 that get royally fucked in this what about the 10 percent of men that get on lifelong alimony are 1.00

01:22:54.340 you gonna pay it no so maybe you should shut the fuck up oh my god i hate these commentators 1.00

01:23:01.280 it's just like i have interviewed these men 1.00

01:23:04.260 and i i've seen death in their eyes i've seen it and for you to minimize it and tell them to do it 0.97

01:23:14.360 in any way go fuck yourself significant extent we could put laws in place to account for them 0.98

01:23:19.980 like we just talked about just married and in lieu of of those laws and i know but if the laws are 0.99

01:23:26.260 not in place here are the trends more women are getting into political power more women are 1.00

01:23:30.840 becoming judges. More women are making money. The trends do not indicate women are giving up power

01:23:36.160 anytime soon. They're not. And I am not here to sell hope. I'm not. I want to be accurate. And all

01:23:51.560 of us should be striving to be accurate. Also, in addition to calling for these kinds of policy

01:23:58.300 changes, you can account for them personally. You know, it is possible that a truly sociopathic,

01:24:06.580 devious con artist could scam you into getting married to them while expertly disguising their 0.88

01:24:12.940 true nature. That could happen, but in the vast majority of cases, there are extremely obvious

01:24:19.540 red flags that someone is untrustworthy and disloyal. Flags you can pick up long before

01:24:27.720 marriage if you're paying attention.

01:24:31.260 Things like

01:24:32.040 if she's spending a lot of personal time with

01:24:33.900 her male boss or any other man

01:24:35.800 for one thing.

01:24:38.700 As soon as you're dating

01:24:40.080 this woman,

01:24:43.360 she should

01:24:44.080 no longer be

01:24:45.860 maintaining any kind of

01:24:48.100 intimate personal relationships

01:24:49.780 with other men.

01:24:52.180 Or spending any one-on-one time with

01:24:54.000 other men at all.

01:24:54.720 and and if she's doing that that's a problem and if you express that it's a problem to her and

01:25:00.040 she's not willing to give that up for you leave now he's gonna say you should have known well

01:25:06.080 brett cooper saw you at work she says you guys were friends were you banging her should her 1.00

01:25:11.620 husband dump her she's an influencer that that's that's your red that's all you need you're gone 1.00

01:25:17.780 if she seems to enjoy the attention of men who are not you brett cooper does

01:25:24.320 it's not black and white obviously like don't touch influencers with a 10-foot pole

01:25:31.820 but you're not going to get a girl with 100 green flags every girl is a calculated risk 1.00

01:25:38.440 while you're in a relationship with her that's a red flag now he's going to blame the guy

01:25:43.860 if she's an e-girl begging for attention online all the time that's a red flag these are all 1.00

01:25:50.660 things that are fairly obvious you are the problem for getting cheated on fuck you yes and and you 0.99

01:25:57.320 can identify them and suss them out if you keep your eyes open in most cases okay which is why a 0.98

01:26:06.480 lot of a lot of cases like this when something happens and someone ends up you know man ends up

01:26:11.500 married to woman and she betrays him you know you'll find it since we're always since we're

01:26:16.080 talking about anecdotes like you'll find very often that the man is shocked and appalled but

01:26:20.180 a lot of people around him are like, yeah, I'm not that surprised by that. It's terrible. I'm

01:26:24.860 not that surprised because like even, you know, the people on the outside could tell kind of what

01:26:29.620 this woman's all about. And if they could tell, then you also could have told.

01:26:37.080 Really? And yet, and yet risks. You guys, I was the only one who said anything. I was none of you.

01:26:46.500 so now you're oh you've got to be kidding me you covered this story

01:26:51.620 matt you covered this story when she got engaged and you did not think it was a red flag 0.99

01:26:57.320 so how dare you come back and say it was his fault fucking really 0.99

01:27:01.500 i'm the one who said it was a red flag and i got freaking crucified for it 1.00

01:27:09.580 holy fuck these influencers are just so full of shit oh my god i'm crashing out 1.00

01:27:16.500 no i'm swearing today this is pissing me off because i had articles written about me 1.00

01:27:25.480 that people were so mean to me for no reason and i got all the heat for it and now you're 0.79

01:27:33.960 going to take credit later holy shit what a rain even in spite of that i acknowledge that but but 0.95

01:27:41.020 here's the thing. There are also risks on the other side, risks to rejecting marriage and family 0.93

01:27:49.520 life. And I don't just mean the risk of civilizational collapse. Andrew Tate says

01:27:54.540 he doesn't need marriage because he can get any woman he wants and have a bunch of kids and

01:27:58.140 financially provide for all of them. And that may be true in his case. I still believe he and his

01:28:03.520 children would be better off if he were married. But how many men who take that advice will end

01:28:10.560 up with a life that even vaguely resembles that? 0.1% less? I mean, the reality is that the vast

01:28:18.520 majority of men who don't get married will not end up with a harem of attractive women. 0.98

01:28:23.580 They'll end up alone, lonely, no wife, no children, and little in the way of financial

01:28:28.180 success anyway. Okay, so now he's saying do it because you're not going to get a bunch of

01:28:32.580 hotties. No, there's going to be so many single women, Matt. They might not get a bunch of young 1.00

01:28:37.080 women but i mean they could probably get sex from some old 50 year old broads i mean that can't be 1.00

01:28:42.740 that hard because most people are not financially successful most people who reject marriage will 0.87

01:28:51.820 die broke and alone anyway that's not true the reason that the reason that stat exists is because

01:29:00.580 it includes um people that are really irresponsible so like it includes alcoholics and stuff

01:29:10.100 it's not merely a risk for many it's the outcome they're actively choosing

01:29:14.420 and they choose it because they fear that if they do get married they might end up broken alone

01:29:20.100 and they might but choosing a bad fate that is almost certain because you fear a bad fate that

01:29:26.100 it's merely possible is you want to talk about logic illogical now does that mean

01:29:36.420 that a young man or woman should rush blindly and recklessly into marriage no there are risks

01:29:40.820 involved again knowledge should change laws and put policies in place to reduce those risks and

01:29:46.100 offer greater protections against them but anything worth doing involves risk and if

01:29:52.420 starting a family isn't worth doing then what is for almost every man fatherhood and marriage are

01:30:01.460 a vocation given by god to lead provide for and love his own family and you should let anything

01:30:08.100 now he's using jesus to guilt you into marriage what pieces of these people i cannot stand 0.95

01:30:18.640 I used to think they were just ignorant, like they didn't know. 0.84

01:30:21.560 I would go into this stuff so good faith, but I'm like bitter now. 0.92

01:30:24.700 I think I've turned bitter because I know you know what's going on.

01:30:29.800 So what is wrong with you?

01:30:32.500 Anything or anyone scare you away from it.

01:30:36.320 Now, you can avoid the Sarah Stocks of the world by abandoning the very idea of marriage. 0.98

01:30:42.080 And if you're a woman, you can avoid the Elijah Shafers by doing the same. 1.00

01:30:44.980 But years from now, when you're on your deathbed, surrounded by no one, with no one to mourn you and no one to carry on your legacy and bloodline or even place flowers on your grave, will you feel relieved that at least you were never divorced?

01:31:02.420 Will you be happy about the chance you didn't take? 0.99

01:31:06.560 Fuck yeah. 1.00

01:31:07.580 I mean, there's a lot of, like, what is wrong with these people? 1.00

01:31:11.800 Matt veterans are committing suicide because of these policies some men don't make it to old age 1.00

01:31:21.740 because of these policies what a fucking prick oh my god this is making me so mad 0.99

01:31:28.540 god it's making me so mad because look I'm not a perfect person I'm not I don't always cover 0.99

01:31:36.100 these issues perfectly but i go in trying to figure out what's true and what's untrue and

01:31:43.280 the longer i am the longer i'm in this industry i used to think people just didn't know but now i 0.97

01:31:48.220 just think they're fucking liars and i know i'm not going to stop saying the f word today i'm 0.99

01:31:53.860 dropping it i'm dropping it over and over again these liars 1.00

01:32:01.080 because you're afraid of or will you wish that you had given yourself to someone

01:32:10.240 and created a family that would outlive you

01:32:13.640 because what was any of it for if not for that now let's get to our five headlines 1.00

01:32:22.440 what a fucker okay oh i'm getting angry 0.99

01:32:30.020 oh i'm getting angry all right let me read the supers um thank you for the documentary super 0.99

01:32:37.700 chat if you guys didn't know i'm raising money for a divorce documentary um i tried to make it

01:32:42.000 a few years ago and the feminists really um they took me down they got me demonetized for you 1.00

01:32:48.180 two years it was a whole thing we are trying to raise 20k or not 20k 50k because um we have it

01:32:57.040 mostly covered but i miscalculated one person's salary so over like six to eight months

01:33:06.560 that's kind of what it's going to cost so you know

01:33:12.560 um anyways if you want to donate there's a link in the description

01:33:15.920 or um you can email me just pearly things at gmail.com look i'm not i don't even think i'm

01:33:21.440 I'm going to make money off of this film I just want to get it done because I just think someone

01:33:29.340 needs to cover this because there's just too many people that are dishonest like that's why I got

01:33:33.720 into this industry because I was so so curious and I loved learning I love learning I love learning

01:33:40.340 about the I'm so passionate about it but it gets really freaking frustrating when I know I have 0.99

01:33:48.100 been watching you for years you are a liar you are a liar um what am i sorry i'm getting i'm 0.99

01:33:56.620 crashing out today maybe i'm gonna get my period soon or something um when are you going on with 1.00

01:34:02.360 the jlp crew again you're one of the few celebs who are jlp fans shout out jake rattlese oh i love

01:34:08.740 jesse oh my god um he's great um next time i'm in la i usually go on when i'm out there

01:34:18.040 if he has to talk that much about it i actually i wanted to do a weekly segment with him

01:34:24.280 where i cover red pill stuff with him i you guys should spam his chat next time he's live

01:34:31.720 and tell him to do that because i think i think we bounce really well um like virtually because

01:34:37.480 i'm in dallas um if he has to talk that much about it it's obviously not worth doing

01:34:41.560 um new member thank you mr moss the memberships really do help because it's like reoccurring

01:34:48.760 income on the channel you're quite the catch another time in a place shoulda woulda coulda

01:34:53.000 um sympathize don't get pilled on beautiful mare don't get black pilled on marriage too late

01:34:57.880 i'm living stone 20 super chat will they pay me to get married like in israel i don't know

01:35:04.300 all right i'm gonna let doug mpa on i think

01:35:09.300 i know and god i was just getting so pissed i was getting so pissed i was oh my gosh

01:35:25.800 i'm gonna bet i'm gonna bitch some more i'm a nick fan this is nothing against nick but he's 1.00

01:35:31.140 god he was pissing me off on twitter i'm like nobody's mad because she slept with her boss 0.91

01:35:38.380 nobody cares we're mad because you were frauding your audience just enjoying the stream and chat

01:35:45.500 no simp thank you thank you what up doug mpa i'm so glad you covered this this has been one of your

01:35:59.580 best shows in a while really and yes and your crash out is perfectly valid so go ahead and crash

01:36:05.100 out go for it i needed to crack well i'm just getting so irritated because i i work so incredibly

01:36:11.800 hard to be as accurate as possible we do these essay videos on why the statistics are misleading

01:36:18.120 you know what i mean like and they keep quoting these statistics to lie to their audience

01:36:23.360 and then i i get all the flack because i want to be accurate before i quote something right 1.00

01:36:29.560 and then they they bitch at me and it's just like these people are such fucking liars 0.99

01:36:36.340 and also he knows what he's doing like he cannot plead ignorance i've been watching him for like 1.00

01:36:42.680 two or three years yeah and also probably you know what's at stake when it comes to this

01:36:49.280 like matt waltz he's saying just jump off the cliff but you've seen what's at the bottom of

01:36:55.580 of jumping off that cliff you are an expert in this you've seen what's happened so for someone

01:37:01.860 like matt walsh with his level of reach with his platform just be saying marry these hosts

01:37:07.660 why don't you say that to terrence pop yep tell that to a man who got his dog killed in marriage

01:37:14.340 yep and had his friend commit suicide why don't you tell that to him 1.00

01:37:19.620 yeah yeah stupid prick and do you know what i'm the worst person to be saying this because 0.99

01:37:25.840 you know but god like why are these people so out of touch and i think i'm out of touch 0.99

01:37:34.500 you know what i mean like i think i live a way like an out of touch life in many ways but

01:37:40.860 like don't these people claim to come from the middle class do you not know like how difficult

01:37:47.820 it is for the working average American to come out of like a marriage debt or like a big child

01:37:55.360 support payment yep I am the worst person to be saying that it should be someone else but 0.81

01:38:02.220 you guys for being such liars yeah and you know what I was talking to Nick the other day and I'm 0.83

01:38:09.640 like Nick this is going to make people leave Catholicism and then and then he's like he's 0.98

01:38:15.220 like no um the smartest like and i said the smartest people are gonna leave and he's like

01:38:20.260 no they'll stay and i'm like what are you you're like under 30. you don't know how this pans out

01:38:26.060 like in 20 years pretty much every guy that could that i know that are the most moral people i've 0.99

01:38:31.500 ever met they're not in fucking church because of this bullshit because it's blackpilling 1.00

01:38:34.700 you get tired of watching it's just over and over again these whores come in they ruin a guy's life 1.00

01:38:41.760 and then the person in charge defends them and it's like over and over and over and you just 0.94

01:38:47.340 stop going and probably remember um guys if something happens in the marriage and it's

01:38:55.340 it's the guy's fault it's the guy's fault if something happens in the marriage and it's the

01:39:00.160 woman's fault it's the guy's fault right we have a picture of sarah stock and her husband in front 1.00

01:39:05.660 of the pope while she's being a whore at the same time right now that's like the picture of 2026 0.99

01:39:13.020 right now you know because what 2024 was when that um that female uh secret service agent was 0.99

01:39:23.900 hiding behind trump remember that photo that that picture is kind of like that that is gonna

01:39:30.380 to that picture to me is going to sum up all of 2026 that is in the running for right now

01:39:36.580 incredible guys as a man life is going to be difficult don't ever doubt that but how difficult

01:39:46.440 do you want your life to be in response to feminism you have the right to ask what is in

01:39:51.620 it for me what what is the rest of my life going to look like and remember feminism freed up women 0.64

01:39:57.620 from having to be barefoot and pregnant,

01:40:00.860 but it's freed you up to be able to decide

01:40:03.400 what you want your life to look like.

01:40:06.140 Men, we are creatures of action.

01:40:07.780 We are going to act,

01:40:08.660 but what do you want your time and effort to be put into,

01:40:12.880 and where do you want your life to head towards?

01:40:14.360 You have the right to ask yourself that question, guys.

01:40:17.520 Does Matt know that divorced men who lost 50%

01:40:20.600 are counted as single,

01:40:22.020 and because single, never married men

01:40:24.380 only have to spend time on, wait, only have to spend on themselves mostly. Yeah.

01:40:33.120 You know, it was incredible. I was like, I just got a notification. This is the type of gas

01:40:39.260 lighting that just drives, that would just drive me nuts. Hold on. So I put the same thing.

01:40:45.940 Conservative women will always use the marriage, family, and children to build their brand and 1.00

01:40:49.800 brand and signal status to the

01:40:51.840 group. She says, I'm not conservative,

01:40:54.080 Pearl. I'm a white racist 0.99

01:40:55.880 nationalist. 0.96

01:40:58.120 Single mom.

01:41:00.060 I'm just like,

01:41:02.260 I'm just like,

01:41:04.080 the whole point

01:41:04.860 is that you're using your kid to build your

01:41:07.780 brand.

01:41:09.720 It's not even worth responding to

01:41:11.720 Lily Gattis because she got demonetized

01:41:13.740 with no other plan because she's a woman. 1.00

01:41:16.160 So that problem will take care of itself

01:41:17.960 in a couple of months.

01:41:18.740 i like her but it's just like i get so sick of female gaslighting 1.00

01:41:23.480 female gaslighting it just never ends and i remember so every once in a while i think this

01:41:31.680 is when we first start working together officially you said oh yeah you know um

01:41:36.980 every so often you have to question you know the red pill the migtail movement is it being 1.00

01:41:44.140 effective where's where's it going and i just keep saying modern women are going to keep being 1.00

01:41:49.400 modern women you're always going to have a job always it's only going to get worse there's going 1.00

01:41:54.120 to be more sarah stocks there's going to be more simping from from trad cons you're it's only going

01:42:00.680 to get worse and you're only going to have a bigger and bigger platform pearly yeah well

01:42:06.420 I'm done

01:42:08.600 for the day

01:42:09.320 of course we're now

01:42:12.520 alright thanks for coming Doug

01:42:14.520 MPF yeah great show

01:42:16.680 today Pearl great show you guys

01:42:18.060 thanks for everyone for joining in the chat

01:42:20.640 always get to see all the regulars make sure

01:42:22.520 to like the videos subscribe and donate

01:42:24.540 to the divorce documentary I'm putting

01:42:26.360 the link in the chat thanks Pearlie

01:42:28.280 thanks

01:42:36.420 Anyways, guys, I got to go.

01:42:49.140 I'm tired.

01:42:51.400 I'm exhausted.

01:42:59.940 Anyways, like the video, subscribe to the channel.

01:43:04.260 Thank you so much for watching.

01:43:05.720 I appreciate you, and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - February 06, 2026

Conservatives Do Not Want Men Leaving The Plantation

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