Pearl - June 13, 2025
Crackheads Are Better Than Modern Women (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage. We ve got the trad con vs the red pill. This men s rights crowd that sometimes goes too far the other way. You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men. Marriage is a bond, and it s a sacred bond. It s a machine designed to extract resources from you. Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it s bad for men to get married. Hannah Pearl Davis or JustPearlyThings is one of the most controversial faces in all of the internet. She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave. What could go wrong there?
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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We've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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We tell them to put off family into marriage.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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And that's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave
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when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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They think, well, men have all the rights.
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
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What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get...
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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civilization will crumble. The American story does not end well. This is an existential crisis
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failing young men. What up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the
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this community and I got to make sure nobody's trying to be kill me to be honest, like in a
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respectful way, the internet's a weird place. Okay. So today we have an interesting topic for
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you. So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. Last week I did a show about addictions
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and I really asked you guys the question. I'm going to take this off for now.
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What is an addiction that's worse than female body count?
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And we came up with a lot of things. You know, we talked about student loan debt.
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I mean, do you want to pay off $300,000 of student loan debt or 30 bodies? You know,
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at some point the body, they're like, the bodies aren't so bad. I'll take it. Um, being addicted
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to social media. So, you know, it's like, if you come home from work and every day your wife is
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saying, do this Tik TOK trend with me, dah, dah, dah, dah, dah, dah, dah. Or you have a wife that
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used to be a hoe, but doesn't talk about it. You know, men start to get pragmatic. They
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weigh these things out. Um, we talked about crazy witchcraft religions where the men might
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think, Hmm, do I want an ex hoe or a woman that believes that she can cast a spell on
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me if this goes south. But then somebody came up with a really great answer of a worse
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habit than body count. And this person said drug addiction. It made me think
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maybe there's a scenario that a woman being addicted to drugs, I don't want to say is a good
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thing. I would never say that out loud, but maybe it's not the worst thing in the world. Case in
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point. Imagine if you're a man and you have a kid with, you know, the Lila roses, the naggers of
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the world. And every day you can come home from work and you're just nagged constantly. Clean up
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this, do this, do that. Nag, nag, nag, nag, nag. Or, and now you have this tradcon woman
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that's nagging you every day that you got pregnant. Or, you know, you get a liberal ho.
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and she's trying to transition your kids in those scenarios wouldn't it be better
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for her to be a drug addict so she could leave and you could raise your child right
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now i know it sounds crazy but just let me cook for a second okay let me cook
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um for one second so children from single father homes have better outcomes than children
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from single mother homes. Most women want to have a child, but most women don't want to be a mom.
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Crime statistics and my own anecdotal evidence has shown me that men are really the more nurturing
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sex. If a woman wants to smoke meth and leave her kids with the father, why not? And another thing,
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we all know that the family court system is rigged against men. Women get the child in all
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circumstances unless she's a drug addict or a convicted criminal you know guys if you are
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fortunate enough for your baby mama to get hooked on crack consider it a blessing
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it would be one of the few times where you might have an advantage in family court now i know this
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sounds strange but i honestly believe that the kids are better off with their fathers in all
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circumstances. It's, it's sad, right? It's kind of sad that it would take the mother being a
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crackhead for a man to get custody of his kid most of the time. But so this has me asking the
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question, would you rather have a kid with a fake trad con that's going to beat you over the head
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with the Bible with her fake Christian feminism? Would you rather have a kid with a purple blue
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haired feminist who likes real feminism. And she'll transition your kid and call you a
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misogynist on the way out. Or would you rather have a kid with a crackhead and that'll just
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leave you alone? And I think if I was a man, that's what I would choose. And to be honest,
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guys, I came up with this and this guy might call into the show today. It was because I was out
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and my fans come up to me and tell me their custody stories all the time and this guy came
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up to me and he's telling me about being a single dad and how the woman has basically been gone for
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years and it's just been him and I was listening to his life he showed me pictures of his kid
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and I just thought you sound a lot better than the last like 10 guys I've interviewed
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that sounds pretty nice she just left you alone and didn't bother you forever
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and I asked him I'm like was your kid healthy and he said yeah he's a healthy boy
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and I thought well this sounds pretty good pretty good
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so we have to take into account though to be fair the dangers that drug abuse the mothers that are
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on drugs can have during pregnancy. So the National Survey on Drug Use and Health for
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2017 estimated that 194,000 expectant mothers between 15 and 44 used illicit substances in
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the month before the survey. This number included the estimate 12,000 women who abused tranquilizers
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of all things. 161,000 women who took the marijuana, 261,000, um, women who drank alcohol,
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32,000 women who abused pain relief medicine, 334,000 women who smoked tobacco and cigarettes
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and 8,000 women who took coat, who were on Coke. Yeah. Um, babies born to addicted mothers can have
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the following issues. Substances like illicit drugs, opioids, alcohol, and nicotine has been
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linked to long-term behavioral, psychological, and emotional problems. This is particularly if
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the child was exposed to those substances prenatally. These problems might affect their
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achievement, behavior, cognition, language, physical problems, attention problems,
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delays in speech and difficulties in school um they could have a learning disability that would
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be an L right you get a retarded kid I don't know if I could say that I denounce I denounce I denounce
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I didn't mean that I didn't mean it I didn't mean it learning disabilities low IQ memory issues poor
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judgment poor reasoning skills however if you do get a healthy kid is it really the worst thing in
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the world this is one of the few ways i see men having children as opposed to the children
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belonging to the state or another woman fathers get soul so here's a video of fathers getting
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sole custody because of drug the mother having drug problems before you start all right so we're
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gonna watch the beginning and then i'm gonna skip ahead there any agreement no your honor not at
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this time is this a custody dispute yes it is well no not really i mean it's i have a learning
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disability pearl okay look not all learning disabilities are the same but there are some
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that would change your life a lot as a parent that's all i'll say
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there are some that would be very some right you know you could have trouble reading
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but others would be more difficult that's what i'll say i didn't mean it i didn't mean it um
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yeah i'm just i'm gonna i'm gonna i'm gonna change the topic i need to stay monetized
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possession and conservatorship but not in this project it's my understanding she has not
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ask for custody okay um you may proceed miss sorrells thank you your honor
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mr purdy we state your name for the record uh trey tyler purdy and what is the name of the
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child we're here for today wayland carroll purdy and when was wayland born 10 10 2018
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and you you and wayland currently resides with you correct yes ma'am and that's in liberty
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yes ma'am and the mother is kelsey ray hall correct yes ma'am at the time of wayland's
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birth or about the time of wayland's birth you signed an acknowledgement of eternity correct
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yes ma'am all right and miss kelsey done that also with you yes ma'am thank you your honor
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we would offer as states exhibit one the acknowledgement of eternity and does anyone
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have any objection to me admitting that as states exhibit one no objection mr purdy how long has
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whalen lived with you yes ma'am for about uh two and a half years now thank you who makes the um
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day-to-day decisions for wayland me and who makes the important decisions about residency and school
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for wayland me all right um when was the last time that miss paul saw wayland i believe in the
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beginning of august and that was for a visitation visit yes ma'am i had dropped him off with her
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mother his grandma okay and that visit lasted for a weekend or a week uh i believe it was right at
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a week okay thank you mr burry today um do you have any safety concerns with wayland visiting
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miss hall yes ma'am okay and what are those uh there's been times in the past that she was not
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very uh responsible with his well-being or the environment that she has had him in
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and also the fact that uh you know if an emergency were to happen there's no vehicle to get him
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anywhere or anything of that sort okay in fact mr um purding wayland was placed in your care
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at the direction of child protective services correct yes ma'am thank you and that was back
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when the 2000 in 2022 correct yes ma'am okay are you here today seeking um to have the court name
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you as sole managing conservator of wayland yes ma'am okay so he's i'm gonna skip ahead
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to the part where she cries i that's what we want to see right okay so he's going for custody of the
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kid because she's a crackhead essentially additional you'd like to say um you may say it
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miss dennis feel free to interrupt with legal objections i know this is a little unorthodox
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um miss hall you may proceed i know that i've made bad decisions in the past but i am a good mom
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and i do love my kids yeah so women when women's backs are against the wall because usually are
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bad decisions that's when we start crying but as jesse lee peterson says when she's crying she's
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lying so yeah more than anything and i know it seems like people make bad decisions but i'm six
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months sober and i'm trying my best yeah trying is not doing my best right i'm trying is um i
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I attempted to not be a terrible mother, but that doesn't mean she isn't a terrible mother, you see.
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My son loves me, and he misses me, and I know he does.
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So, Kelsey, I wish you would just stop doing the drugs, ma'am.
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He's probably thinking, oh, this is a terrible situation.
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But my argument is he's in a way better situation than most fathers.
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because now if he can get custody at least it's smooth sailing or maybe i'm wrong right i don't
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know and i'm i'm sorry that i've made bad decisions in the past but six months is a good
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good thing and i'm trying and people around me yeah six months is a good thing but we need a
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better thing to protect the kid right i can see that i'm trying
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everybody's everyone done i think they're all done with her shit no there's like not an ounce
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of sympathy can drug test but i don't want to lose custody of my son that's all i have to say
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thank you um does anyone have anything further no ma'am no ma'am um would you all like to make
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closings um miss dennis i guess we'll start with you um your honor mr purdy is just asking that he
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um due to the circumstances in the past decisions that miss hall has made um that the child be
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protected and that we have some supervised visits um she has a long history and here's the every
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father that I've asked that's a single dad and whose ex-wife was like a crackhead they've all
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said that if she got her act together they're totally open to the like the
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they're open to the child being a part of the like the mother being a part of the kid's life
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because they see the value in the mother right in the mother being there and they they would
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never want to restrict a kid having access to the mother. So it's a history of drug use and
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other criminal behavior. Um, this is so funny. Oh my gosh. Look at her. It's like when women
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have consequence, she's about to crash out. You see, this is the most popular part of the video.
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she's gonna crash out soon requesting that she just do direct testing rj says he dated a crackhead
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single mom you better call in he's clean then obviously we'll let her see the child we just
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want to protect him and um not keep her from him but uh protect him keep him where he is
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and make good decisions for him uh that's what mr purdy's asking today
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and can you clarify that because there's a lot of different ways that could be ruled
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upon well yes yes ma'am i apologize so what we're asking for is that um she completed drug test
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the uh at least uh you know it looks like somebody filed a proposed order in this case
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obviously it's a default. Was that drafted by you, Ms. Dennis? Yes, but we didn't have the drug
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testing in there. You're sorry, I made a mistake. Yes, but it does have supervised visits
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with an agency of Mrs. Hall's choice if she chooses Visiting Angels or somewhere else.
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We would like to have random drug testing at least once a quarter to make sure that she is
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continuing to stay sober and and drug free um we would like to supervise visits um
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mr whalen is going to provide the health and dental to make sure that that that it's taken
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care of crash out coming and what do we think 10 seconds she's getting close look at her
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she's close to the crash out right now we're not asking for child support he would like to be
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reimbursed for the costs of the insurance that he's having to pay just for Waylon,
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And that she has supervised visits at, you know, once, at least twice a month,
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but supervised by a supervisor for a couple of hours.
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Cause I just had him for, I knew it was coming.
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but he was supposed to be with your mother the whole time or your sister
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trey agreed to let me have him and i'm sorry that i'm making this a big deal but trey was
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dropping him off with me we met at Walmart and he knew that and then he let me have him before that
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also right after I got out of jail since we're bringing it up right after I got out of jail I
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got Waylon and Trey brought him to me not my mom he let Waylon come spend the weekend with me
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so how is this fair that I have to have supervised visits now when it just
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I've had him since I got out I told you it was coming
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yeah isn't it the consequences of your own actions
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yep I don't feel bad at all don't do drugs kids
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we all had dare in high school shouldn't have done drugs
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you lost like okay a woman losing custody of her kids
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this is like losing a game where you were up 30 to zero right like the other team gave you a 30
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point lead and you just had to not blow the 30 point lead and then you just blow it this is like
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But the parties have both agreed that child support, the testimony was that they would set it at zero with medical support being paid for by Mr. Purdy through a private source.
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Are you asking for reimbursement for that or no?
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The love of my child wasn't enough for me to get clean.
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But when it comes close to the pain I feel about losing my son, but sorry, but nothing
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comes close to the pain I feel about losing my son.
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Actually, it's more accurate to say I left him.
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It would be even more honest to say I let him go.
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what kind of mother would let anybody or anything separate her from her child a mother addicted to
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drugs I was that mother and I knew that I was a drug addict the moment I looked into my son's
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eyes and realized that my love for him was not enough to get me clean that is the terrifying
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and dark reality of addiction love isn't enough to make anyone stop using drugs ask the mother
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of any addict if there was there wouldn't be such an epidemic sweeping our country taking nearly
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200 people a day. Early on in my addiction, child protective services were called and I lost my son.
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I tried to figure out how in the world I could ever let that happen. I understood that he was
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removed from my care because I was on drugs. However, I couldn't accept that the drugs were
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actually the problem. Then I went to great lengths to try and get him back. I did everything I could
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think of except get clean. I did everything I could think of except get clean. My God. I spent
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hours trying to figure out how to pass the drug test while still getting high. I looked for
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loopholes in the system. I lied to everybody and said I was clean. I begged to see him and I raged
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at the family that was protecting him from me. But then one day I watched a woman walk into the
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dope house where I was living, dragging three small children behind her. It was in the middle
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of the night and their eyes were gritty from lack of sleep. She arranged them on the floor with a
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blanket and told them to close their eyes and go to sleep. She asked our dealer for more dope,
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pulled out her works and loaded up a shot and got really high right in front of the kids.
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It should have shocked me, but it didn't. I remember thinking, is this what you're fighting
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for? For the ability to bring your kids into this madness, into a place that was filled with the
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worst that life has to offer. No, I would do anything to keep him safe, even if it meant
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keeping him safe from myself. So I walked away from that fight and I started a new one. I began
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fighting for my life. I asked to get help, get into treatment and start a new life without the
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use of drugs. And then I got my son back by staying clean and doing the right thing one day
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at a time. I know I won't be the perfect mom, but I will be a present mom. I'm already making
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mistakes, but they are forgivable ones. I let him sleep with me at night so I can watch him while
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he sleeps and feel his heartbeat while I put his hand on my chest. I love the way he smiles still
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like the baby. I used to hold him and never put him down, but now it's mixed with my sweet,
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my little boy's sweat. I have a hard time telling him no, because I want him to be happy.
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i don't know anything about war but thank you for letting me know love wasn't enough to get me
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clean but the love i had for my child gives me the strength i need to make it through the day
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every day even when he drives me crazy um okay her mom left her dad for a crack dealer
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so you got this woman he has like nine and my biological father whom is amazing um
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see she's saying her dad amazing you know we were going to be a family again and everything was
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be great and that turned into my mom just really needed money and needed a place for me and my
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older brother to live so we moved in with dad everything was great and then she left us that
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like i don't know middle of the night one night my dad was at work he'd come home at 11 30 and
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woke us up was like where's your mom i don't know what do you mean she was out smoking crack with my
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stepdad oh wow yeah and then so she ends up marrying this guy that she's smoking crack with
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has two kids okay that makes sense as to why you kind of stepped in and raised them now 14
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years old and the first child comes along um i hadn't had i been drunk yet i think so i think
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i'd already used alcohol for my first time by the time he was born okay or shortly after one
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one or the other in your team but i and yeah so so in this case the oldest daughter and you know
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what i knew two girls or women young women who and their teenagers not because their moms were
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addicted to drugs or anything but their moms just didn't want to be parents so two women i know
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ended up having to raise like their younger siblings yeah neither of the women ended up
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wanting to have kids because like by the time they were i don't know if any of you have met a woman
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like that but by the time they got to their like 20s they were just so happy to not have the
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responsibility of like a family because their moms wanted to do whatever and it really messes up
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like women when that happens to them because it wasn't their responsibility um so like i'm trying
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to take care of them but then i started drinking alcohol and when i would go to my mom's because
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after my mom had left me in the middle of the night i stayed at my dad's i was like i'm not
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living with you anymore it had been nothing but a nightmare living with my mom growing up she didn't
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know which direction she was going in and i say that because i both my parents did the best they
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could with what they had i feel like and i don't think that parents get enough credit on that and
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like i don't blame my mom for what i did in my life and i've done a lot of work around my mother
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in the 12-step program like making amends to my mom was really hard but I had to like I now know
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the difference in the relationship that I chose to put her in like I put her in that role if I put
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her in I want her to be my friend role you know and we're hanging out snorting pills tonight but
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then tomorrow I wake up and my relationship has ended and I need my mom she doesn't know how to
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juggle that. Does that make sense? Yeah. So again, I do think if the mom's a crackhead and involved
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in the kid's life, we don't want that. I'm talking about the ones that just F off.
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I mean, I would imagine that most parents get put in that situation and don't know how to juggle it.
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And especially if you're a drug addict, you're going to be... Yeah. Someone in the chat. I know
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a woman who raised her sister. She never had her own kids. She was done before she started. Yeah.
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have a friend like that and growing up she didn't have any life she couldn't go to football games
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she couldn't like whenever i wanted to spend time with her we like luckily my parents let her bring
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her brothers but yeah her mom and it wasn't her dad worked her mom just wanted to do whatever
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like go out be the friend one day and then when you can't be the mom you're gonna become the enemy
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so she really became just my drug using friend is where she wound up yeah
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toxic habits get passed down okay mom leaves her son to go get drugs
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hello she went to the store yeah police department
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why did you make me laugh he said somehow this single mom won't go to jail don't worry
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You do? Where's the phone? You have a phone in here?
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Okay. So your mom left you, went to the Big Apple store?
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people been breaking into our house but people been breaking into your house
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over there real quick. Do you have an ID? Yes, sir. What's across the street? Right here.
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Can you come over here real quick? I can't find my freaking ID. The police is here. What
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she was over with you um yeah but yeah for a second she only came over here for a second
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where do you live at i'm i live on the south side i don't even live on the east side i'm out here
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visiting with some friends so where were you at i had a friend's house real quick where's a friend
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right across the street i don't know right right out there yeah literally well we're trying to
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figure all this out because we got we got a five-year-old kid left home alone oh he was only
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for a couple seconds they're yeah they're lying well well we don't know that's what we're just
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trying to figure out i'm sorry i mean we don't understand what you're saying
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i understand i understand i understand i i told him already oh yeah put that bitch in jail
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all right mother left her child to go do into the fox 13 newsroom this morning we have a
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disturbing case of a mother who left her child abandoned to go do drugs. This is in from the
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Tooele Police Department. They say the 23-year-old woman was arrested on Saturday and faces charges
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of child abandonment after leaving her baby at Mountain West Medical Center in Tooele,
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as we said, so she could go and do drugs. Now, hospital staff said they were looking for her
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for about seven hours after she refused to sign a form that said she was leaving against medical
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advice and an officer later found her at a friend's house on upland drive into willa where
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she admitted to smoking fentanyl she also said that quote she did not relinquish her rights to
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the hospital but that she had planned on returning to the medical center later on to be with her baby
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now according to police the woman had multiple warrants for her arrest that existed before the
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weekend and that she has a long history of substance abuse of course a disturbing case we've
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chosen to remove the mother's name because of safety issues and because of safety to that
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child. But of course, I bet if it was a man, it would be a public stick with Fox 13. It would be
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a public record. I bet you. All right. Girl lived with a mother addicted to heroin. And we're going
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to put a link in the chat. So if you guys have a story, I'm either a mother, you know, addicted
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to something, or if you're a single dad, you dated someone addicted to it. I'll go over the call
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rules but just start thinking of your stories there's a link in the chat
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my baby girl tori brinkman has always been a survivor
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and that was just the beginning of her struggle
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for the first 10 years of her life she lived with a mother
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addicted to heroin their history together shows how
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savage the grip of addiction can be today tori is a remarkably composed
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14 year old telling her story her way what do you remember about those early years and your mom she
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never ate she'd have maybe a coke a day no water um and then go back right back to bed and she'd
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never take care of me never feed me i had to feed myself i consider myself as a parent and my mom
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the kid do you think your mom sold drugs yeah i know she did she got in trouble for that uh yeah
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um one time i think i was around seven or eight she actually made me do a drug deal for her
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a drug deal like what did she ask you to do she puts some either heroin or cocaine in a
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napkin or something and she said run up to that house go get the money and give this to them
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tori says she never got any health care growing up none until i was 10. never went to the dentist
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i had never been to the dentist before what about pediatrician doctor no nothing her mom told tori
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not to tell anyone about the things she saw in their home but Tori would call her grandparents
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when they ran out of food three years ago Lillian and Richard were awarded legal custody when she
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first came to live with us permanently she was blaming herself maybe if I was better mom wouldn't
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have done the drugs and it wasn't just Tori's mom abusing heroin in their home it was also her uncle
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the closest person tori had to a father figure what happened to your uncle uh he passed away
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november 20th 2015 from a drug overdose heroin that must have been super hard for you yeah
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because i mean he basically took care of me instead of my mom like if my mom was asleep
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he'd take care of me and so it was just it was it was sad
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At 14 years old, Tori has seen enough pain for a lifetime, making her spirit and attitude
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Because I want to spread awareness of how drugs have not only affected my life, but
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have probably affected a lot of other kids' lives, and I want to just, like, help people.
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Tori's mother knows that she's sharing this story. She's been sober now.
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She can make it to, like, 20. Me and Doug MPA were talking about this. Make it to 20
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and not do drugs or start an OnlyFans. That'll be a win for her.
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Now, I'm not saying crackheads are better. I'd like to—I'm going to preface.
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Tori tells us that she's proud of her mother and the two of them see each other every week.
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And Lester with nearly a million people in the U.S. saying that they.
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OK, so my question, my question, I'm not saying that crackheads are better, right?
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I'm not saying that you should go and get a crackhead pregnant.
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All I'm saying is what's worse, a crackhead who has the kid and then you never see again.
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or a modern woman who drags you to court for years. So call in. Did your mom or a person's
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mom you know have a drug problem? If you got a woman pregnant who was a drug user, what did you
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do? And why do you think that women are not shamed as much as fathers for leaving their kids behind?
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he'll get on in a second but so again i want to reiterate i'm not talking about the crackheads
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that keep custody that they're better choices but hey how's it going is it the worst thing
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A modern woman who drags you to court for years or a crackhead who Fs off after the kid's born?
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I mean, any way that a man could raise children by himself instead of a modern woman is a win.
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You know, what's the worst you have to deal with with a woman?
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first off a lot of crackheads crackhead women they started off really pretty how do you think
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they got all the drugs so you probably had kids with a decent looking woman so your kids are
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going to turn out attractive right and then all you have to deal with is her trying to come back
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in what every six or seven years maybe yeah and all you gotta do is give her some drug money right
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won't you go away or get find her a new drug dealer boyfriend or something i guess i'm echoing
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so let me go out and come back in oh i can hear you okay maybe oh okay so people are saying that
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i'm echoing hold on let me check the youtube yeah let me go up and come back okay
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i could hear you fine the whole time uh the chat's gonna have to tell us so you said the woman at
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least is gonna be attractive i mean yeah a lot of crackhead women they get their drugs off their
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looks right yeah or they start out that way at least they have to be attractive enough because
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a lot of these crackhead women for damn sure aren't paying for it you know what i'm saying
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I mean, they're not paying for it with money, at least.
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You know, and then, guys, you got to pick a struggle.
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First off, you know, over here, Pearl would never tell you.
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Pearl thinks that marriage is a bad deal and having kids with a modern woman is a risk, but she's not telling you not to do either one.
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You just need to mitigate risk and understand the consequences of doing so.
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man i think that the battles of having an absent mom who's loving drugs over her kids for a man
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is not the worst scenario in the world all i'm saying is this is a strategy you could use
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i'm not saying it's the best one right but all i'm saying is the guys that have had this situation
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it seems a lot better than the guys that married trad con women yeah you know the ones who
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who who are a virtuous woman like uh andrew wilson says and then all of a sudden they get
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married and choose not to be virtuous and then you know deny the man sex you know nag him all
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the time use the bible to beat him over the head and then divorces him and takes half of his stuff
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and then still change because these track cons they can do all the stuff to a man and still
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claim to be traditional as a single mom who divorced her husband looking for a stepfather
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then you have the liberal um purple-haired demons who are gonna remember um feminist women
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they want everything you have but then to still call you the enemy and part of the
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the patriarchy at the same time and you want to raise a kid with either of those two women
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no i don't think so man no way new crackheads are the wave fellas
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come up with this for us she told me the title of this song i'm like wait what
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no okay because this is like the third guy where he they told me their situation
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and i just thought you know the some the worst divorces i ever heard
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were from christian women where the crack had women like half the time they don't even want
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their kids they want to go do crack you know what i mean they don't want they're like here
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take the kid so i can go do my crack now that might be frustrating as a father you might think
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my kid deserves a mother but i would argue that no mother is better than a bad manipulative
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condescending um bitchy naggy um fake abuse charge giving narcissistic feminist
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you might as well have you might as well just have a crackhead and if you think about it
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crackheads are probably the most honest women will go sex workers and crack and crackheads
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are the most honest women out there because what do i always say parole i say nothing is more
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important to modern women than their own selfish desires but crackheads and sex workers aren't even
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trying to hide that crackheads are like you know what i'm selfish i want to do my drugs over my
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kids instead they're trying to mask it and this female empowerment and and feminism or this this
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fake tradcon garbage you understand completely okay let's bring up you're gonna bring on shiv
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i think he'd have a good take on this yeah zoobly are you there yep it's shiv oh what's up man
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let us know what's going on oh man i would rather have a crackhead
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hear me out hear me out as long as she's not doing crack during the pregnancy
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like let's say she develops this after and the kid's born I get 100% custody of the kid I probably
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can eat a judge will at least see that I don't have to give half my money maybe I give her like
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three grand a month so she could buy crack um and then I can raise the kids and we all know single
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fathers do just as good as two-parent households so it's kind of a win-win right yeah that's what
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that's what I said if you could get a healthy kid the guy I met the other day he I asked him I'm
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did did he have any defects is he slow like how how is the kid doing he said he came out healthy
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i'm like if you can get past that hurdle like i don't know what would your strategy be if you got
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a crackhead pregnant to like keep her somewhat sober ooh that's a good question i mean let me on
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z i will make your point okay daniel you can come on next click click the zoom in the chat go ahead
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i i feel like you would just because the crackheads do want to quit so i just put her in like
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the most extensive expensive like rehab program for nine months and then after be like i'm not
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do they really though do they really i feel like they do because they always have that moment like
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of realization like they always have like one day a month where they go oh you know what maybe
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i should get off this so you just have to catch it early and then put them in rehab um i'm trying
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think what else you could do oh can they legally keep an adult there that's a good question i mean
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couldn't you do this couldn't you like go find like a friend of yours that like has a lot of
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tattoos and looks like a drug dealer and then just like have him sell her the crack but it's
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like fake crack it's a bum crack and like you know you just like make her think she's going
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to a dealer but you're in on it we're thinking outside of the box here i like this yeah she's
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really just like lighting up like sugar and injecting it in her veins can you i wonder how
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much because you you you see scarface haven't you shiv yeah with i wonder how much it cost
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tony montana to be with his wife who was a straight up co uh freaking coke head the whole
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how much how much does it cost for a a man with money to maintain his drug addict wife
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it's whatever your income is that plus another 20 so you're like it's whatever he made it was
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somehow more like she she had to be the most expensive woman on earth right i would imagine
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i think a crack had to be pretty cheap a crackhead would be but no see a crackhead would be cheap
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but she was into like the cocaine and starface oh yeah yeah all the guys expensive cracks cheap
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who cares about that all the guys i've talked to said they could put her on child support some do
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some don't and obviously she's never gonna pay it right but still you know the fact that
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she could be legally obligated to pay you that never happens ever yeah i mean you know what's
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funny look those kids in those videos they sounded really smart right like am i crazy
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they grow up very self-sufficient yeah those kids sounded smart like i i meet a lot of 5 10 and 15
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year olds they're dumb as a box of rocks and those kids sounded really intelligent those kids sound
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like they're ready to go to harvard so like i don't know i feel like i if i had a modern woman
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my kid would be like you know doesn't even know like their abcs at like yeah the kid the modern
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woman would be teaching the manipulation tactics so you know they would know they're 100 genders
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right yeah like no gender fluid they are and they would be nagging you too do you want to let in um
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daniel is he in the raiding room apparently he wanted to to make the whole oh yeah yeah
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i don't know if he was pro or against but let's just bring him on the panel we could keep we can
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we'll panel show this one yeah i'll bring daniel daniel looney on let's go
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daniel are you there yes i am hey daniel how's it going it's going well what do you have to say
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on the topic do you know from personal experience have you had a kid with a crackhead
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did you know one no i had one with someone that is traditional okay
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i like when stories start like that let's go let's get into it okay i grew up in
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in oklahoma and i joined the army at 17 years old
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um my parents adopted him but my little brother john is just the same as my brother right my older
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brother right um I went to Afghanistan for two and a half years okay for my now ex-wife
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i'm the villain but at the same time after 20 years here is my shadow box
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oh i think the zoom background is kind of yeah yeah yeah we can't see through the
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background but it's fine yeah as an e8 ig superintendent i'm the most beta male ever
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i'm competent on my job i can do this but my ex-wife when i retired stole a hundred and twenty
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thousand dollars from my bank account that was joint before she filed separation okay yes
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I had to spend more than $40,000 defending myself for laundry detergent
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and not getting to see my kids on fucking Father's Day
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and i will not lie that happened at the same time
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that uh the war in afghanistan ended that i fought for 16 years and spent more than two years
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in country for it completely broke me how could it not
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we've had a couple of veterans on here say that a combat veteran say that it was easier to deal
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with a combat situation than their own ex-wife yeah you don't know which which which place is
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real war right absolutely like it it doesn't make sense
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and while i live in very rural arkansas i do not understand the racism i do not understand the um
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And I'm very right-wing. I grew up in Oklahoma.
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how old is your youngest kid like how many more years do you have of this
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uh my youngest is 11. okay so there's seven are you in a lot of child support yes
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like no like more than a grand a month two grand um it's 700 now 700 okay but i look but my house
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payment is a thousand yeah no seven hundreds a lot i think the average is like two in in rural
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arkansas not like yeah where it's actually born of arkansas yeah so that's so you would have you
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would have preferred a kid with a crackhead huh daniel sold me i'm marrying a crackhead
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yeah i'm telling you if you could find a woman that would just leave and leave you with the kids
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that's the idea i mean you know crackhead isn't the only way to go you see the stories where
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what other women would want to leave oh yeah the modern women are addicted to adderall it's meth
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it's like about so you might as well get a crackhead you know what i mean let's freaking
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eat pray love women i went on a work ship and met a guy i thought was my soul mate so i came
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home from my workshop and broke up with my husband or you know i i left my husband and lived in in
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in austria for two years yeah it could happen you could buy the ticket and be like you know what
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honey go find yourself for 18 years worse right a travel nurse no i said it gets even
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worse okay keep going okay because me moving back here and giving up my six-figure job
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to work for a 13 hour an hour job for six more days a year right
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one women's health l's that's what we're gonna call it where these women they they believe in
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some kind of weird woo-woo with their health or they forget or they don't want to go to the doctor
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to get treatment or they don't want to take their kids to the doctor to get treatment oh yeah we're
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gonna do a whole show on that yeah like they think then they think that they'll pay the doctor and
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then be thinking the doctor's lying to them yeah well you're good my greatest thing is is
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f the state of arkansas there are going to be down at least 300 grand because it broke me
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and i'm 100 permanent and total ptsd from dealing with this yeah how can you not well like i can
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I say life is never going to be fair for men.
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Feminism is women advocating for their lives
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So the only way for things to be equal is women are advocating for their lives to be just as difficult for them as it is for men.
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And you're seeing more and more women, not enough, but solely having to suffer from the system.
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Every single Mary J. Blythe is paying her ex $55,000 in alimony.
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all these women are having to pay child support they're advocating for themselves to suffer under
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the same system and it's great now now it's not going to be a dent until i'm off this planet but
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we're literally starting to see progress though i don't think we're seeing progress
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yeah i don't know if i think it's going to get better but you're making the case for the crack
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heads though i really are like if you could go back if you could go back okay and you had to
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pick gun to your head had to pick your kids are healthy but you you you got pregnant the woman
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you got pregnant or a woman addicted to drugs that who would choose the drugs over the kids
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out of crack well we're glad i'm not making this up i literally they made my ex-wife stephanie
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change he says her name in the hospital after a level five episiotomy before she was done
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and i was in the military so i got the 60 days whatever right the day i had to go back to work
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12 hour shifts right she's crying i don't know how to change the baby's diaper
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and so that's about right so basically i'd rather be in afghanistan with a crackhead
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well well i'm done i look at like the dating market right
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i do that and i'm like okay fine i'll be a nurse i want to help people
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so i have to pay alimony i already have a degree um but i need all of the math and science courses
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again so for like two or three years i do all of the prerequisites working a 40-hour job driving
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to go to an accelerated nursing program that if you already have a bachelor of science
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um you get it in three semesters 20 plus hours right get a full rn right
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okay the second semester in i fail out of one course i say fail because you have to have an 82
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percent i got an 80.5 right in one class um i gave up my six figure job i'm doing this
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the local judge is one of the four percent of all judges that um does not have zoom calls
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for like child support so i'm overpaying i gotta take student loans out
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to do it i failed the one course so now it's going to be like three or four
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and i haven't been in debt in 10 years because i've done everything right as the most beta male
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ever i'm competent you went to afghanistan took bullets if you're beta what the fuck am i behind
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a computer that's what i'm saying i was about to say that too well what i mean by that is is
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i'm not the high school quarterback i'm not the funny guy
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at every situation i'm the type of friend that um your friends you're making six figures
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in arkansas that's like making 10 trillion dollars in california and new york
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um but like i i don't understand it it's it has completely broken me i will not lie
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well like the like the well the complete and utter i have told three star generals to go
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fornicate themselves and got away with it well we're glad that you're still fighting man and
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you know and i was right to the end for for like my kids but like the dating market now
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well uh well we're glad to hear your story you keep fighting man we actually have a whole panel
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of callers yeah absolutely and thank you thank you so much for your service yeah and e8 man
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we're talking to a real life superhero yeah and e8's no joke so thank you for me for my service
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yes i have yeah hey what's up buddy welcome back how much uh yeah so when it comes
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security cameras remember him yes yeah i do welcome back so modern woman or crackhead
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who are you picking uh if down to my head crackhead for similar reasons as other gentlemen was
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and i'll have the kids and all that stuff i was earlier today found this youtuber from russia
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that was he's in the red spill red pill space in russia but he went a little bit darker closer to
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dark dark dark red or dark black pill i would say even okay so there's uh he found for him
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and a whole bunch of other men a type of woman that will not cause all the headaches that we
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have today okay who's that so i will actually i need a list here okay it's a uh pros and cons
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i'll start with the pros and end with cons of the crackhead or a different type of woman
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oh totally different okay go ahead it's called they call them improved women
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There's no headaches, meaning that she'll never
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say no to sex, which is rare, almost impossible.
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She will not become like one of those 304s who
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There is no limits on which holes you want to use.
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except for one when you buy her a ticket to get to you.
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Well, I'm actually going to show you some pictures of those women in a second.
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before you you continue you you're you're from the caucus region right i am okay are you there
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now or or no i'm in south dakota okay because like you you have a cheat code man you you have
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a whole other culture and a whole other part of the world where you can find women that you
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you don't have to subject yourself to these american people in that region are fucked as
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well so trust are you oh okay hold on how how same exact issue no are you serious we talked about
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this it's worldwide 304 horror man oh come on but he's got this list where are these women
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so there's only two downsides though okay okay she'll never cook and she'll never clean
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are these hookers yeah i mean for me personally i do not care for those two things because i do
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that myself i don't know if i can show you my app here i i don't know if we want to show hook or
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something yeah no yeah anyway the answer is simple they switched to sex dolls yeah i i kind of
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figured that's where you were going but I don't know I can never do the whole sex doll thing man
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like I just there isn't going to be a time in my lifetime where sex dolls will be will not have
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stigma to them it yeah and I can even see the utility of it but I just couldn't do it there's
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no circumstance where imagine if you met a guy in your industry accomplished who has everything
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going for him he says hey man let's all hang out at my house and he you know he has a little get
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together at his house and then he he rips out he he introduces you to his sex doll you'd be like
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wait what uh actually they have parties wait what in south dakota no uh that's russia i'm talking
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about oh i haven't met anyone in person in u.s yet but i have met a few people who are
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using sex dolls uh here in the u.s in different states i met them online how sad is that
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this is sad so so you the the country in the area you're from uh-huh is it is a bunch of modern
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women like how did that so how did that happen i've never been to russia or ukraine any of those
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countries but i was born on race till i was 12 in kazakhstan in kazakhstan it's a muslim religion
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mostly right now it is still a bunch of 304s over there yes oh please just take like two
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please explain this to me how i'm curious i'm flabbergasted myself trust me i wish i knew the
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good answer to this question but i do not have one it's just i think it's with the introduction of
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instagram and in russia there is a term for women who use instagram those are insta holes
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that's awesome yes yeah that makes me sad though i always thought that that you know the that was
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one of the areas where you can find a more traditional woman but you just you just crushed
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my dreams man yeah they don't exist i mean are there any women that you can have well kind of
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but still the if you're in somewhere like former yossasar countries you're kind of because
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all of those countries have feminine laws and they came from yossasar so it is what it is
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it's just with more information yes we get more information that's a positive for us guys
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and all that stuff we are able to use red pill as an exchange of notes and
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get better at things but at the same time women get bad information as well such as like how to
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get more money out of the husband here's like one of them you would think if you have a house or in
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a condo that you bought and you own it outright before you got married and if she leaves you
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that's your pre-marital asset and then you can keep it but no she will beg you and nag you to
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do like a renovation of a bathroom for example and that will constitute now marital asset you
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don't even have to do that and say it's like washington oregon and california all she all
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you have to do is marry her and she lives there yeah and then when she's divorced it it's her
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property because it was actually about this because i got married in california and i got
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the worst in south dakota south dakota is not smart man smart man yep well i was just lucky
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i didn't know the difference of the laws when i got to it it was fairly easy i mean most of
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my probably looked it up afterwards and freaking kicked herself yeah i mean divorce you in nevada
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or california you would have been screwed man well on paper i was broke so
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okay so we got another vote for crack head over modern woman
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we're gonna we're gonna move on to the next caller all right see you thanks for calling
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and calling anytime okay yep hi buddy man i was hoping that the stands you know kazakhstan
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uzbekistan tajikistan one of those would have been a good place to find a decent woman i guess i was
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lied to man i don't know how you could have thought that with all the international women
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I moderated every episode of the pre-game show.
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We should have had you on the show instead of Sarah.
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hey donnie how's it going well uh i'm getting uh in better shape recently so uh i'm uh feeling
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good i got a birthday coming up but uh i'll stay on topic cool crackhead or modern woman what are
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you picking well first off all right hold on hold on first off happy birthday and second off make
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sure to get yourself something on your birthday man because if you don't take care of you no one
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else will and it definitely is any girlfriend you have or for any wife ain't gonna give you
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a decent present so make sure to buy something for yourself okay yeah it's on the 18th same
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birthday as superman but uh cool get to the point buddy go ahead this is gonna piss you off pearl
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but i actually gotta go with the modern woman all right and i'll tell you why okay okay listen
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you ever heard that that malcolm x quote where he was talking about how white conservatives were
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like wolves but white liberals are like foxes smiling in your face obviously that's meant to
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show how deceitful white liberals and you can apply it to conservative women modern women but
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then the thing is that fox it's really a coin toss like but like a progressive politician or a
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conservative woman they might smile in your face and promise you something but not deliver
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but with a crackhead you got guaranteed failure you look up the the stats on child abuse
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five to 15 times more likely infanticide like worst case scenario more likely to murder children
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more likely to burn the house down more likely to have the worst complete fucking disaster
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yes we all know how bad the modern woman and the conserved woman is but with a drug addict
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you're basically guaranteed for a worst case disaster and real quick i'm gonna give a story
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good well i got i got two quick stories uh i know one a friend of mine had a crackhead for
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a mother he was working busting his ass saving money his crackhead mother stole twenty thousand
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dollars from him oh my god put your money in the bank not in your mattress that's some dumb
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mr crab shit if you keep your money in the bank like i mean if you keep your money in the mattress
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put your money in the bank it's insured but on a personal level i have a cousin she's a fat obese
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land well for no no he's probably like 5 10 400 pounds her mother was a drug addict my her father
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was my uncle one of my loser uncles and she she's a train wreck uh she attracts the she has no
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problem getting men but the men she gets are like either losers or violent ass abusers
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and any good man that comes into her life she just ends up cheating on them and she takes no
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responsibility so in a way she's kind of a modern woman but she was raised by the crackhead so she
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didn't have a good example so yes yes like with i mean oh i'll sum it up a modern woman can
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encompass any type of woman and you're taking a coin toss with anyone i mean i mean for heaven's
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sake i mean pearl technically you're a modern woman i mean you're a good modern woman but
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technically you're a modern woman too and that's true you've done a lot you've done a lot to talk
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with men so i mean you're kind of proof not all women are bad well i appreciate the disagreement
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and i understand where you're coming from so you pick modern woman over crackhead
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i think a lot of modern women are terrible and i've seen a lot of crackheads gone wild maybe
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there's some good crackheads out there too but i've never i didn't say good i said you could
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go to court and get the kids well actually no no like you even even crackheads be winning these
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uh custody battles oh yeah did your friend gotta be a crackhead your crack did the lose on most
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days so wait but uh thanks for having me your friend wait wait no i had a question your friend
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that was raised by a crackhead did the dad fight for custody or did he just bounce
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i don't know him that well uh so i i can't be sure we don't talk about it anymore but i just
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know the the crackhead story about his mom stealing worries but uh thanks for having me
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it was nice talking with you again uh doug pearly bye-bye thanks for calling in calling anytime
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all right sorry if you guys see me looking this way i read the chat sometimes
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um all right we got crackhead two modern women one shiv are you after hearing that
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have you swayed at all or are you still team crackhead ship had to had to drop off because
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he had a business meeting yeah okay no worries so but we have factory up next factory you're on mute
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factory factory going once factory going twice and we're gonna have to bring up
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uh our good friend here i think you know who i'm talking about
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jacob says pearl reed did you see the story about emily kistler the influencer who used
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her three-year-old for cloud on tiktok and then he tragically downed and she drowned and she
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doesn't want the police report release no i haven't can you send that to me on twitter
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pearly things with a z thank you to the chat on the website
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um if you guys unlimited super chats on the website
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sorry who's that what's the name of the one that's in gabe are you there i'm here doug
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gabe how's it going buddy pretty good uh off topic uh rest in peace to brian wilson from
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the beach boys and after some tough love from uh donovan sharp recently i um decided to start
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going to the gym for um the time being well yeah that's great what are you doing at the gym
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elliptical swimming i got some back problems that have to get checked out first before i start
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lifting weights it's probably going to be a while before that happens but you know it's better than
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nothing yeah try to get your i'm sorry pearl what did you say try to get your 10 000 steps a day
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you you ever it tracks it on your phone so you don't even yeah yeah yeah i'm sure i can find
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some and and gabe here's the thing you you gotta drink more water man oh i drink water non-stop
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non-stop try to drink 96 ounces of water a day and you'll see the weight start to come off
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i even in like the leftist communities in the bay area they are very anti-drug and don't like
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support drug use at all but having dealt with them my entire life i don't think i would choose them
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it would be a huge gamble picking like the crackheads but at least with the crackheads
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i'd like to think that you would have an idea of what you're getting yourself into
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you know i don't know honestly i mean like you gotta pick gun to your head gotta pick
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you know what i've grown up around crackheads too and so you know what i'll i'll go with the
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crackhead honestly because yeah you know i mean i don't know it would be a tough it would be a
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tough decision to make but yes crackhead i've seen instances of the very few cases of women that yes
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like everyone you know says in this space you know that will lose custody of you know kids or
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whatever that, you know, were, you know, in fact, crackheads, some classmates of
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mines in high school that went down the wrong path and whatnot, and either lost
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kids or whatever, had kids out of wedlock.
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I mean, it was a big shit fest 20 years ago when I was in high school in the
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so all right crackhead for the this show we had crackheads for the win really
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doug mpa well what about you you're dating right now if you had the opportunity
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well first off you know i don't i don't want kids but second off i i had to agree with
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the e8 that was on here give me the kids you know um i'll take any circumstance where i can avoid a
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modern woman because i always say one of the worst part the worst parts about having a kid in the
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united states that you have to have a kid with one of these modern women if you can avoid her being
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there you win so yeah and it's almost one last opinion i have one last opinion i've seen and
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i've seen a couple instances of modern women that drove that were not necessarily crackheads
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themselves but drove their kids to being crackheads and then ended up losing their kids like
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their kids ended up passing away from drug addiction because they were modern women or
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their moms were crackheads because they were modern women and insufferable parents basically
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because the way i'm thinking if you get a girl pregnant there's a good chance she might abort
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the kid anyway so you can get a modern woman pregnant and one out of three women are killing
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their kids so there's no even guarantee that either gets the kid to term
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but at least one is likely going to go away after the birth crack it dustin says crackheads are
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yeah ladies this is what we've driven men to do
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are you there i am can you hear me we can how's it going factory i i'm doing where i'm doing well
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thank you very much i've been wanting to actually talk to you for quite a while there pearl nice
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I actually haven't really, I didn't catch what the actual topic was.
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Could you just reiterate it to me and I'll actually give you an opinion.
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So, so if you have a kid, we're talking about if you have a child, right?
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If you have a child with a modern woman, she, she's probably going to be a fake trad con
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who's going to sell you virtue at the beginning
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and then divorce you and take half your crap
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Or you're going to end up with some blue-haired feminist
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who's going to call you a misogynist the whole time
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and then probably transition your kid later on in life.
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Okay, I'm going to throw another option in there.
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There is actually, okay, just to give you a bit of background,
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I got involved in what would become the men's movement in 1992.
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And we've all, I've been in, well, Karen's in Allison's living room.
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He doesn't like me much, but he did that a few years ago.
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But what I will tell you is that there's a paucity of very good women out there.
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i agree um but what i will say is there are some women that actually really have resisted
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the crap that's been going on in the world and they really are i wouldn't say i mean if you're
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to go back to 1800 and ask if they're good women they'd absolutely not they'd say absolutely not
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but in in this day and age it's about as good as you can expect and there are some women that
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really do actually respect men and like them still i mean not many but there are some so you're
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rolling the dice you're you're crazy to get into that slot machine let's put it that way i mean
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it's uh yeah i mean i like to go to vegas as much as the next guy no i just went gun to your head
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modern woman or crackhead you gotta pick one uh well i'll tell you i mean a crackhead is probably
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more redeemable to be honest i do have one question for you though if they said if you
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could actually you could you could go just one second i just try to read the super chats
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they say you sound like the viral yeti do you know who that is
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i do not okay i don't know i just gotta make sure okay go ahead sorry
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um back in the day a long a long time ago uh back in the before times um i i developed
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kind of a web design i wanted to make it look like a like a pdf done like a magazine
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etc to take the posts that people were saying at the time their articles people were writing at
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time and kind of make them kind of solidified in time and they started in october of 2009 and
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went for one more year for one year after that so october to i think november of 2010 and in that
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time uh the term manosphere correct but became something the term i can tell you exactly where
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the term red pill became popular actually um that was actually that was the question gotta get to
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the question what's the question you were going to ask pearl a question i'm just yeah i'm just
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asking if you're interested in having this magazine to peruse it's uh 12 issues and it was
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done at the exact time that the minister uh came into existence and it encapsulates the time that
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the uh the term the red pill became a thing um i can tell you all sorts of different stuff about
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that but this will actually show you exactly where all of these terms all all the stuff that
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people are talking about right now today um or it's old hat to me we were talking about an old
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in like 05 06 but uh was solidified like 2009 2010 and then became kind of it became known as
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in that issue but it's uh sure yeah if you're interested i'd be more than happy to send you
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i am on x yeah oh i know i can't change it if you message me on twitter i check my dms there
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so it's it's open if you just say you're the that you called in i'll see it
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yeah i mean i'd be more than happy to send that to you because i think that like i've watched
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you probably three or four other content i've been watching i've been watching you since you
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went to the the thing in la or sorry uh vegas the the pickup artist thing i thought that was hilarious
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yeah and and i have a very similar story about that but i'm not getting into that right now but
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like i will actually i would like to send you this i would like you to see
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the reason why i did this was because i thought that there was um a lot of things being said that
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were going to be concrete and important in the future.
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And that's exactly what this magazine is about.
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So I'd like to send you a link so you can actually have it
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And you'll find that a lot of the issues that we're talking about today
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Sure. Yeah. If you send it on Twitter, I'll see it.
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okay i will absolutely send it in and in the meantime i gotta say like
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we kind of dunk on women quite a bit but they fucking deserve
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what do you have a channel or something no i got nothing i'm just a guy oh okay okay i wasn't sure
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but i'd be more than happy to send you the link and uh
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uh aleppa is coming in guys hit that like button please subscribe if you haven't already
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hit that super chat button and join pearl's website for 9.99 a month
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you're on mute aleppa going once aleppa going twice you are going back into the waiting room
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well okay so we have two more regulars we're going to give him four minutes a piece okay so
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we're going to do uh i'll fight you naked is up next oh my gosh
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you're on mute i'll fight you naked are you there you're on mute sorry it skips around
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when uh there's something funny that happens when when you put me on like it the screen flips
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around and then i can't find the button but i'm cool you hear me yep how's it going i'll fight
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you naked uh pretty good i'm glad i don't have to worry about any of this stuff i've been with the
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same girl for uh got 16 years now so but um i just as a thought exercise i went through it and
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i'd have to say if the goal is just to get a get a you know have a child and that you can take care
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of and you kind of know things are going to go south with the with the woman you'd have to go
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for crackhead just because of practicality um and that's not really a slam on women it's just you
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have all the cards with a crackhead because anything you want you just get them some crack
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and when they're pregnant uh you can just go full-on black snake moan and chain them to a
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radiator for the duration so they don't accidentally smoke the baby out and then and then if they go
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to the police who's going to believe a crackhead yeah and no one's going to be looking for him
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you can control their diet you know make sure they're eating all organic fish oil and everything
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all that stuff you just gotta you know make sure they can't get in touch with anybody and what are
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they gonna do a crackhead's gonna run to the police and rat you out and you're like i don't
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know what she's talking about man she's on a bender but but and then at the end of it like
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Maybe going through the experience of pregnancy and having a baby sober and going through withdrawals, maybe she turns around, turns over a new leaf.
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And if not, you can always just slip a little bit of fentanyl in the crack.
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And you've got a tragic story and you're literally...
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so just from a completely machiavellian standpoint you have to go with the crackhead
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okay all right see you later thanks i thought he was gonna have a butt i thought he's gonna have a
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hey they said not less drugs more drugs i'm sorry go ahead they said in the chat not less drugs more
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you said try you again in the chat so i brought you back in you're still not here they said crack
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heads for the win huge l for women there you are hi sorry what was your name uh alipa
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that's why it's on the computer anyway okay all right thanks for calling in
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a leepa am i saying it right yeah crackhead or modern women who are you picking
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uh well i was i'm new to your channel right so i'm not really seeing much of your stuff but
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i think it's a very interesting question as well considering but yeah crackhead or
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modern woman you say yeah which one are you picking you gotta have a kid with one a modern
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Did you catch the beginning of the show or no?
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I've just seen you live and was like, hey, let's see what's happening.
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So let's say you're going to have a kid, right?
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And it's either, okay, if you choose a modern woman,
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you're going to get either a fake tradcon who says that she's traditionally
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conservative, she's going to sell you on virtue until you get married,
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she's not going to be virtuous she's going to use the bible to smack you over the head to try
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to get you to do what she says you you're going to be sexless and then she's going to divorce you
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and take half your stuff or odds are in the west you're going to get the trad con or you're going
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to get some liberal feminist who's going to talk about misogyny and a patriarchy and you marry her
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and you're still going to get divorced and she might trans your kid later on down the line or
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Or you can have a kid with a crackhead and she'll choose the drugs over the kid and she'll leave you and the kid alone.
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I mean, I've kind of put personal experience with this, you know what I'm saying?
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I'd say crackheads are more than women because, I mean, that's kind of the reality.
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but if it's to really choose of course i'd say that's probably say modern moon okay so you wait
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so you said you dated both like actually yeah oh for real okay so could you tell me the two
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experiences like compare and contrast them uh oh well one bit crack one didn't
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there's some lifestyle stuff you know some lifestyle stuff some financial stuff differences
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things like that ideals kind of morality as well did you did you have kids with both of them or no
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did you kids with either no i had kids with a non-crack head one oh okay do you are you happy
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with the choice or would you because you know if you had kids with the crack head you probably
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you probably would have i don't know what your custody situation is now i don't know what your
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custody situation but you'd probably have full custody you just have to go to court and say
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your honor she's on crack right and then you'd have the kids so you know would that be more
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favorable to your situation now or no no definitely not no oh okay you're happy with the non-crackhead
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choice yeah i understand yeah yeah definitely definitely okay we got another did you go ahead
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did you have a general question for pearl at all no even like i just seen i just seen the title and
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i thought to myself that's quite interesting because like i need to go on here like i think
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they're kind of synonymous you've seen crackheads are better than modern i just thought to myself
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i think they're kind of the same thing so so what was your experience dating a woman like that was
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a full-blown drug addict how long did you date the story's quite interesting yeah wait a minute
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i guess interesting you the the crackhead then when i met her i didn't know she was a crackhead at
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first so um it took about three three four months or something like that for that to be figured out
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and then i was like whoa and then that kind of finished you know so yeah right away
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was the sex good enough where you were like okay she's on crack
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i think the thing is that when i met her i think she when i met her i think she'd stopped using
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and then like for three months just wasn't using wasn't using wasn't using at all and then just one
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night i kind of figured it out i've kind of you know seen something i shouldn't have seen i was
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like oh no way there's no chance to get that too far you know what i'm saying so did you find her
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stash or something no man i was it was like partying and uh we were trying to have me and
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her we were going somewhere going to my pal's house things like that uh and then ended up in
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a house i was steaming obviously i was uh drunk steaming i'm scottish so you probably don't
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don't understand me quite well but uh aye so ended up getting steven man and fucking she was
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in a gaff in a house uh and then she was just there using crack i was like oh you had to do
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the b1 you know had to run she she looked a little too familiar with the crack pipe like how do you
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know how to do oh yeah oh 100 i was like wait a minute that doesn't make any sense
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so it was over right after that night or did you have a conversation about it
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oh no there was no conversation i was just like bro i'm telling you a family and i'm out
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did you tell her family oh yeah because i was close to her family as well so i was like you
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know something like i think shame's like the best object to make somebody change her so
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what did they say oh i don't know that's too deep okay respect respect that's too deep but yeah
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so thanks anyway that was me that was me that's it i just right that was it all right thanks for
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call it in oh you're welcome modern woman modern woman plus one
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all the way from scotland because that's a scottish accent yeah what's the what's the
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the only reason why i can understand scottish people is because the train spot is one of my
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favorite movies like i know that movie you're not going to know it pearl because you're way too young
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but like to change by it's one of the greatest movies ever i've watched that movie enough times
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where i could understand a scottish person talking all right we're gonna let in paul
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paul i'm here what's going on paul how are you oh hang on real quick i need to amuse this
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i'm here so who you pick in modern woman or crackhead 100 the crackhead
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you have to go with the crackhead um and this is the funny part about this is i had this
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conversation probably 10 15 years ago with a friend of mine uh he was like i want to have
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like a child but i don't like know any women uh how do how do i go about doing this and i wanted
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to be like you know i don't want to adopt some like little black baby or whatever like i want
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my own child from me and i was like did you just go like impregnate you know a drug user and
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and then when you're sitting in front of a judge you know you're gonna get the kid you're gonna
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to get the kid so definitely go with the crack go with the crack girl so did your friend take the
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advice he did he absolutely did um if she didn't end up being a crack woman i think it was more
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along the lines of like heroin or something but he did no way did he get the the the baby is
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slightly autistic um but uh his son is slightly autistic uh but yeah he he did is the kid is the
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kid functioning like like yeah no i mean well i mean i mean he's not like a mute or anything but
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you know it's like whatever you know he likes to the kid's obsessed with legos and you know okay
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yeah nothing yeah he's just he's autistic i mean that's obviously not ideal but you know i mean he
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got he got the kid he wanted that is the happy ending wait so did the crackhead like f off did
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she ever try to get the kid um they she did she went to rehab and then they ended up going to
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court but then she like flunked a drug test and the judge was just like no you know you can fuck
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off uh and then she's not allowed to see the kid or or him or anything like that wow i can't believe
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that you actually that someone actually had that idea so that's hilarious the crowd i know and
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that's why i i that's why i had to call in i absolutely had to call in because of uh of that
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but yeah i mean uh it it is possible but you know when you think about it though um you know
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crackhead versus modern women there's not even a whole lot of difference between them and i'm
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talking about modern western women um like i'm right now i'm going through a divorce with a
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nurse and i swear it's almost worse than like going through a divorce with like a stripper
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you know uh they're like antidepressants and every other manner of medication like i don't know
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your modern woman is damn near a crackhead oh okay so why what made you what made you marry
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the nurse instead of taking your own advice and going crackhead what oh well you know um
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you know i wouldn't take it back because i got two cute little babies out of it and um
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you know uh you know i i don't really know if i could go back and talk to my younger self uh
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i don't know that i would do anything differently just because i got two great like little kids out
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of the whole deal and i wouldn't have had them otherwise i'm guessing that that means the
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divorce isn't too terrible like you get to see them well it's a disillusion okay is what we're
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doing so i'm trying to keep things hopefully she doesn't end up looking at this this stream but
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you know i'm trying to keep things like you know amicable and whatever and just to for the sake of
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kids but you know um i i don't even really know whatever i'm so over it with women
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you know i i don't i don't ever want to deal with one for another for the rest of my life
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uh but at least i got two cute little kids out of the deal so did you ever see that story that
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there's this asian girl who who is a nurse and at a hospital in la and she was um going into the
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room with all the narcotics and literally like shooting up and she freaking overdosed
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and they had to she's already in the hospital but she was stealing narcotics and she overdosed in
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the hospital because they they the the judge were coming up missing so they installed a camera in
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there and then they they were filming in there and then the thing was the first or second night with
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the camera she took too much and she nodded out and she she od'd in the same room with all the
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narcotics in it so a lot of these nurses they have access to all the good stuff so the the honestly
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the the stories that just my soon-to-be ex-wife that she's come home with over the years are
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are pretty astounding you know um and and it's it's probably best that like not a lot of people
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like hear them because you'd probably and she's you know she's not like a a drug user or anything
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like that but yeah a lot of them are and that's in hospitals everywhere uh these these nurses
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but like i said they're they're they're they're worse than strippers and i don't know pearl you
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probably have like these statistics on it but i think nurses are one of the highest divorce rates
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out there 100 true yeah i've heard go ahead oh yeah no i was just gonna turn it over to you
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but yeah that's one of the highest divorce races out there and i have no idea really why
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other than maybe like i don't know women just aren't geared for this type of work or something
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i have no idea why though well i'd imagine they're probably hooking up with the doctors right
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and they probably get some hot patients in there too they're like people from all walks of life
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got to go to the er right well i think that nursing is so well because here's the thing
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okay um they increase the amount of spaces in optometry school and other parts of medicine
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where they they've kind of cheapened the profession so now they have optoma oh and pharmacy so there
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was a time where there weren't um walgreens and freaking cbs everywhere so pharmacists used to
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make a lot of money optometrists they used to have optometry all over anyway whatever
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so but now you see them everywhere well they're trying to stop medical schools from increasing
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the amount of medical school spaces because they don't want to achieve the profession where doctors
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it'll make a lot of money but the increase for medical care has come along so nurses have to do
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more they their their job has kind of been masculinized a little bit instead of just
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having bed-sized manner and feeding people um medicine and stuff so nurses work long hours
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you know then you have this nurses are heroes we're saving everybody which perfectly plays into
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that that um the the nurturing that women are supposed to give to their families they give to
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their jobs now cso so nurses work long hours so that there's a myth that nurses are superheroes
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it's just toxic all sorts of toxic now unlike back in the 40s and the 50s where nurses were
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literally just bedside manner take your medicine and just be nice and you have a you can go on
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tick tock right now and you see older nurses they complain about the the gen z nurses because too
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many gen z's are graduating nursing school and expect not to take care of patients or hate
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hating or they hate taking care of patients yeah and these women are like what do you what do you
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think was gonna i hate patients i shouldn't have to that's your job understand what i'm saying
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Your average nurse is going to tell you that the families are worse than the patients because half, you know, I mean, depending on what they're who they're nursing, you know, who the patient is half the time, like the patient's like knocked out.
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But you have this family bitching at you day in and day out and everything else.
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But, yeah, I mean, and to your point about the AMA, you know, yeah, they capped off, you know, medical license or doctor's licenses a long time ago.
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That was sort of like the start of the whole downfall and the raising of medical – of the price of health care is you can only – they'll only allow so many doctors.
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So that means that the doctors that have these licenses, they just get paid out the ass.
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were you know that used to not be a really a thing but uh yeah i mean nurses are like well i
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mean i go back to my original point you know there's just sort of like they're like strippers
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you know that don't get naked they're they're they're they're not stable people generally
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um even the men you know they're they're just not um they're not uh i don't know they're just
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not right and uh i don't know if it's something about the profession and i don't know if it's
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um if it's about the people that tend towards that profession i have no idea but yeah if uh
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for anybody out there listening uh like if you like start dating somebody and they're like i'm
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gonna become a nurse or i'm gonna go into medical school or i'm gonna become a nurse practitioner
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like run fast and far you know and uh and yeah and just and just don't just don't don't put
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yourself through it yeah okay okay well we're coming up on two hours here we're gonna wrap
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the show up but thank you for calling in paul call in anytime okay yeah big fan pearls keep
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keep up the good work lady thanks for calling in i can't believe your friend took that advice
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that's hilarious that's a good story ladies the crackheads won this is not looking good for us
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today it wasn't even close it's like a 7-2 lead um robert is taking it crackheads or take or
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heroin or just druggies say druggies yeah all right thanks for calling in robert m says ask
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if he shuts doors with his hips okay i don't know what that means but okay um all right doug mpa any
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final thoughts today yeah well i'm just gonna reiterate so just general messages guys if you
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could find a find a way to just avoid having some shrew horrible woman be the mother of your children
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who's just ruining your life and your child's life and you can get her to go away take that shot guys
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yeah that would be preferable and i'm i'm not telling you guys to do it or not do it all i'm
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saying is this is an option and apparently worked out for this guy's friend so if you're okay with
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a slightly autistic child this could be for you okay well thank you so much for contributing as
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always doug mpa guys make sure you like the video on your way out and subscribe to the