Pearl - May 17, 2026
Crowder Gets Red Pilled!!!
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Length
2 hours and 2 minutes
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155.91136
Harmful content
Misogyny
203
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88
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178
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Summary
On today's episode, we talk about a wedding that went viral on social media, a woman who was caught on camera with another woman, and a story about women in politics using their relationship to build their political brand.
Transcript
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Everybody has to know how they're going to hold.
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You know, it's like, I can do it when it's this, but I'm having trouble with the rotating,
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hoes are gonna hold keep it on the low hoes are gonna hold nobody has to know
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hoes are gonna hold everybody knows nobody has to nobody has to know
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I don't want to tell you, and I don't want to sell you, but everybody's gotta know, hoes are gonna hoe.
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yes thank you thank you my dog is kind of begging for attention today oh my god i am so sorry
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oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god i need to switch the camera i need to switch the camera
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oh my god okay no just mind your bit mind your business um
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yeah i mean i'm kind of it's improving right it's not great but it's improving
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i kind of i've learned piano for like a year and a half now i'm getting better but it's just so slow
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um okay so today we're gonna go on twitter for a little bit
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and um all right so amy did we're gonna talk about this little story blowing up before we
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get into the main topic it's kind of a chill stream today um so amy dangerfield is a right
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wing e-girl and she recently went viral this year uh for amy dangerfield uh
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yeah here we go now um nick fuentes i love nick but sometimes this takes her a little
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still still too blue-pilled for me but you know what i mean
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yeah so okay she she has her wedding right and it's um this is a right-wing e-girl i think she
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was on camera making out with like another uh another uh what do you call it xena or something
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like sneeko's old girlfriend or something and now basically all her whoring is coming out like it's
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of going on twitter because i think i think she warred with nick fuentes like her and nick
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are now in a war and you really don't want the groypers after you because they're really good
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at slut shaming it's a lot of them no offense to the gripers i love you guys but a lot of you are
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sexless um and sexless men do resent pretty women they feel like they should be having sex with they
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do to some extent like they're like why do you have to why can't you just you know and i think
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it's because deep down they know they gotta marry them after i mean it's like it's hale
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as old as time right they get mad at chad because after now anyways
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so um okay so this is their wedding and you know nick obviously this is someone in his
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little movement not little uh big movement um and i think he's defending the wedding but this
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is a terrible sign when women that are involved in politics use their relationship to build their
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brand it's just not a good sign because it's showing that they are with the man based on
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her actions to build their political brand right you know she's nearing 30 at the time i mean i am
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too but it's a tough one for us because we get a lot of heat if we you know don't cross that finish
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line on time you know um so which is you know fair as we should right but this is a bad bad sign
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and i so i kind of saw this coming i'm like okay she's associating her wedding with a political
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movement that kind of indicates, you know, she's with the guy, not for the man, um, but for the
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brand. Right. And I think it's difficult. I don't think women always realize this consciously. It's
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like a subconscious thing. Cause I'll tell you, um, there is a post not clarity for women dating
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clouded men. There is a post not clarity where after a certain amount of time, you know, the
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women look over and they're like, oh, wow, I just liked him because of the cloud, right? Or the
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attention I get from the relationship. So bad sign, but Nick, he's not that red-pilled yet.
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he's a little red pill but maybe on the jq stuff but on women this is about i saw this coming right
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your wedding day seems so performative and cringe imo i saw it hey she's a fan of the show i like
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amy i don't know her husband but he's a groiper so that's based this is a movement this is a
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community this is part of people's lives yeah nick you gotta eat those words look at i mean come on
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nick i just i thought you know it's okay he'll get better over time
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do women like the man or the husband or the husband or the brand building well what does
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she use the husband for to make him look cool or to make her look cool weddings make the woman look
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cool you know they believe in it and if that's you know what she says i think he's hot but
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more importantly he's the most christ-like man i've ever met bad uh knows his scripture better
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than anyone ever ever accounted it and it actually applies it to his life this is true wisdom i can
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submit to yeah that's like bad look that's too performative right because again it's kind of
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like if you have to say this about him people like women that are submissive just do it right
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they just you know i mean they just submit now and none of us ladies um are gonna look
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if you think you're just gonna meet a man and just be submissive immediately
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you have a lifetime of bad habits that so one you have to convince a guy to fix you because um odds
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are something's wrong with you oh pearl but i'm this perfect woman there's nothing wrong with me
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not all women are like that so first you got to convince a guy to do that work because
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fixing us is the equivalent of training an employee from scratch
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you kind of got to train the woman um and redo her right
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and you have to you know when you train an employee up sometimes they up and leave you
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so you gotta like um you can get you know some women were pre-trained from another man right
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so that that you know you can get a but then you know the employee isn't like tailored to what you
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want so hey aaron you want to call in if you're bored we can react together you know i'm always
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here i'm streaming but pearl but pearl are you doing it for the money are you asking your
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audience for money yes yes god damn it super chat you know what i mean help a bitch out
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if you're bored you're welcome to you're always welcome you know there's like a panel of regulars
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um i don't think you're a regular but you come in from time to time if they ever pull up i just
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kind of add them to the show unless i'm like cooking but today's kind of a chill show so
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i mean i had a bad month last month i'll be here a lot this month i'll tell you what
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last month i was gone a lot for the film in this doc and then i went through my
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i gotta stop not that any of you care about this this is not your problem but i'm gonna talk about
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i went through my expenses and i was like oh no because i took two weeks off to film this doc
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that's like something you don't really think about as a youtuber so um it's never fun to
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see your money go down right but you have your baseline expenses that don't really
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change um from running a show you know like rent um etc so then if you want to invest in like
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another project um you can raise the money but then you have to think about the time you're like
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taking away from the show to go do that you know working on my truck next week should call that
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calm down well i'll be here like every night i mean you know what i mean after after last month
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i'm you know i'm every night i'll be here do you know what i mean i will be here
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here online begging i you know i'm the equivalent of me right now it's like i'm that uh that black
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guy on the side of the road on the side of the road that's like give me money give me money yeah
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that's me this month i'm not like that every month but this month yep i'm gonna be transparent here
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some months are better than anyway so my point is this was a bad sign um
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and I don't remember where I had it, but I don't really need to cite my sources. You can look up
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the tweets if you feel like it. Um, I did say that, yo girl, I would not use your relationship
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to build your brand. And it was because I've heard some rumors about her, right?
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They're coming out now. Now I personally am not a crazy woman. I know. I mean,
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You know, it's easy to say that I'm insane.
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You know, I mean, I could understand the volatility of, like, the e-girls or whatever.
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But can we, like, can we at least admit that I'm – nothing that crazy has come out about me.
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I'm finding out my enemies sleep with cat pee on their floor.
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Well, I became a little crazy cause I'm a woman, but just the fact that I'm not on
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antidepressants half, just the fact that I'm not on any head men's, it has to put me in the top
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half. Like, I don't, I don't know what the crazy barometer is, but I have to be in the top half.
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so amy dangerfield i swear i told a mutual friend to tell her to stop drawing so much attention to
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her relationship i i swear because she i mean i don't really have a problem with her she seems
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well-meaning to me um i don't really i don't really think it's a big deal that some girl had
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a few hookups and a boyfriend you know i mean she's an adult like you know what i mean like
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we're not it's one thing if women are in high school right or even college right and they're
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young um but do i mean come on i think we can just assume women over 25 have some dirt
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they've done something so i'm not really here to be like you're a whore she's a whore you know i
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mean we're all hoars right and i'm i get really tired of the purity signaling just admit it you
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know what i'm just so i'm like look girl i'm telling you if anything happens that's the first
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thing they're going to attack okay that's the first what they want and also if you're involved
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in these influencer circles guys i i avoid these women like the plague if i'm being honest um i
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avoid since i got famous women are just kind of a flight it's very difficult for me to have a
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female friendship because there's just like too much money in and saying every bad thing i've
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done or said, no, look, I'm not here. I'm not here to, I, the reason I'm saying this is because
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we're talking about Amy and I can relate to women, to her in a lot of ways. Like
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I struggle with gossiping. I do gossip. Okay. I do. I wish I didn't, but there's times when I do.
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So I've said things that I wish to God I did not say.
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And there are times where people have repeated back to me something I said in the past and I thought, oh, did I say that?
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you know and i've told you know look and there's stuff i struggle with but i don't really think
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women are kind of evil because um for example i have um a relative i talk about this relative
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often. He struggles with, um, being an ass. Like he really just can be an ass and a dick sometimes,
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but I know him very well. He's a relative of mine. Right. Um, and honestly, I love him so much. Um,
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one of my relatives that even if he's an ass, like I don't judge, I kind of talked about this,
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my coffee talk earlier i just don't judge him because i know that's a flaw of his but i know
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he has so many redeeming qualities like i know this is the first guy that's going to help me if
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i need to move if i have a problem like um there's some i guess money in my family a little bit
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and a different relative asked if this relative i would trust this person to make decisions when
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it comes to a possible like money someday I said yes now this person has flaws right they struggle
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with like the truth at times they start like but I just know that but women are particularly evil
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because they publicly right draw attention to the women's like flaws so you know it's something that
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i know this person is embarrassed they are embarrassed about like the fact they can be an
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ass i know that they don't want to be an ass but sometimes it's just their struggle the same way
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i don't want to pig out on 5 000 calories but there are times when i can eat five and that
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is my struggle i don't want to be a gossiper but i do gossip and i wish i didn't and there's times
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where i have like really really regretted saying something right there are like i don't want to say
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demons but there's things that people struggle with right um women all of our struggles is
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whoring to some degree and women that say they have no inclination to whore at all i just don't believe
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Okay, I'm going to get you a bone for this week.
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oh and so maybe amy dangerfield or whatever's struggle was whoring a little bit
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it's you know it's obvious she's not proud of this and maybe her husband knows and he forgave
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her right or whatever this stuff's coming out but um you know it's kind of like me it is you know
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the gossiping is something i struggle with and it's kind of like me if i'm actively working to
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be better and the people around you know if you're really trying or I'll give you another example
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when I um was learning guitar I was learning pentatonic minor scales and I got so I'm really
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good friends with my guitar teacher such a good person but I was struggling so much with crashing
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out and just getting so frustrated when I was learning this because I just was I just could
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not get it it felt like I was doing it forever and I was just getting so mad and at times like
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I think I, I know I gave him an attitude and I really, I really regretted it after, but during
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it, I was just so mad, you know, you know, so, um, I apologized after I got through that chapter.
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I was like look I'm sorry I was so frustrated and I can admit I did that right but it's just
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something nefarious right it's something kind of evil about when there's something that like
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if my teacher went out and just was telling everybody how I crashed out all the time you
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know what I mean when they knew that's not like I was remorseful I would be kind of pissed right
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that's kind of a bit like especially if you know somebody's embarrassed about that it's just um
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are we following here like it's just a different level of evil that women do right when somebody's
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embarrassed about something there's nothing like a woman who will just go out and tell everybody
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and to me it actually says more about the woman you know telling everybody
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then i think it actually says about the person um committing the sin right because
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you know let's say amy dangerfield whored out before marriage or whatever that things are coming
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out that kind of that's between her and her husband and like her ex or whatever
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so um i kind of want to just demonstrate so there's this girl amy dangerfield now amy
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dangerfield um i think she tried to be friends with me a while back and i avoided this woman
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her and pixie i just avoided them like the plague
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i avoided them like the plague i'm gonna read super chats in a second
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um because they just seemed like batshit crazy to me
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he has told me to avoid e-girls and that is like the best advice he's ever given me
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to avoid these women because they will um they will drag you down and that's the best advice
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I've ever had is to avoid women on the internet hypocritical hypocritical I'm on the internet
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I love it here um but yeah so here we go Islamic Republic of Iran is a terrorist regime you won't
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defend Nick against Dan because you cracked Amy Dangerfield who's on Dan campaign
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I've heard that rumor the person I heard it from
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scale of one to ten on credibility 6.5 could be true could be not true I've heard this for years
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sneko what in the parasocial are you talking about bro
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where's the beardson one oh here we go this was looking for so you're saying i want to change the
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subject here a little bit you're saying that amy you say this in the chat i don't know that amy
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had sex with sneeko is that true what's the deal with that that's true so she fucks sneak out so
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you know that video that's going viral where she's making out with vena that was either immediately
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after or immediately before she had a threesome with xena and sneaker sneaker and xena yeah damn
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so how do you know that like did she tell you that because she told me she told me and then
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also it went like she told me and she's like don't tell anyone i was like girl i swear and
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then the next day it went a little like some other people were already talking about it on twitter
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this girl on here i mean she's not i i told amy i was like oh my god people are talking about this
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she's like it's you you i literally told you yesterday it has to be you and then i found out
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she told basically everyone in our friend group like well before me like it was not me i was not
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i'm so glad i was not a part of that friend group
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do you know what i never moved to miami because i'm like i gotta stay away from these crazy people
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you know what i mean i'm like i gotta stay weak i'm like now i'm leaky as now
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and we have and we do appreciate gasoline the matrix has attacked me now bitch but i wasn't
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before well we do appreciate the lease now this is i'm learning so much you're thank you my
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thought you can i say this you're my favorite jewish person now i used to be jerry seinfeld
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now it's you you're my favorite girl what is this i try that's what i try i'm like i want to be the
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you got handers to the nazis that's what i wanted my first i'm not a nazi i'm kidding i'm kidding
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jesus calm down i i don't hey look you call me a lot of things nazi i'm getting flashbacks okay
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does that make you feel any better but i wonder like why do men
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should men be rewarding this i mean i guess maybe the truth comes out eventually
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um i'm kind of curious religious people i don't know gossip is always something i struggle with
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when is something gossip i don't know it it seems like she could have just went to the husband
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now that the husband's got her like it didn't really need we didn't all need to be involved
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it does thank you i know i appreciate that i do thank you um bro you can't just believe random
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things man you can't just believe i won't lie i kind of do believe it because i just don't think
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think sneaker is the type of guy to like air women out publicly i don't but regardless my point is
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stay away from me girls man we are crazy yeah you can't
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all right so let's get into crowder um that's really what i'm here to do today is um
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We're going to react to Crowder telling young men how to avoid ex-feminists.
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So for those of you that don't know, I became a Candace Owens hater as soon as she turned
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on Steven Crowder and called him emotionally abusive because I just thought, in what world
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do you as a woman think you can tell a guy what to do?
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And it pissed me off even more because I'm like, Candace, it's been years.
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So that to me says that she's got the ego a size of a ginormous thing and she just can't be wrong.
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I have this eternal struggle where it's like I want my husband to be the provider, make all the money, pay all the bills, do the adulting things, fix everything around the house,
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take care of my car take the trash out make all the plans handle our finances so basically do
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everything while i just lie around and like only do things when i feel like doing them if someone
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has a conversion story it can't just be a wish list it has to be a how they are going to prevent
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other people from making the same mistakes that's the accountability we get a lot of questions from
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you guys and we get a lot of questions from women and a lot of questions from men and i know there's
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There's feminism and then people sort of point to the red pill community and that's kind of a weird, the manosphere where you have people like Andrew Tate, Iron Gaines, and they share nothing in common with people like Andrew Wilson.
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But I will say this, what you do see as a trend, if we, let's just eliminate the outliers.
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I think the extreme views or the view that you should sleep with as many women as possible, you know, in that manosphere is an outlier.
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But let's just get rid of the blue haired feminists.
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it's better than waiting till marriage and you're you're you did you tried your world
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for you and it didn't work you got to humble yourself
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get some hoes my guy you know let's get rid of the outliers on the on the
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far-right menosphere, as people refer to it. I don't know how else to refer to it.
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The dynamic that we see that is consistent is young men who want to get married, right? This
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is really only for people who want to get married, and this is really only directed at people who
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want to have a more traditional marriage. That is hard to come by these days. And a lot of men who
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have been traditional their whole lives and have now worked and achieved some degree of success,
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we get a lot of questions regarding this they say yeah but how do i know that the women who are
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closer to my age who now say that they want to be a stay-at-home wife or a mom or they want a
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more traditional relationship when they live their whole life progressively in a feminist way
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how do i know that they're being genuine and so a lot they're not like it's very it's very obvious
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they're not being genuine because actions speak louder than words right they're not they're lying
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easy of guys aren't willing to take that risk and they're checking out because you see a trend this
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is becoming increasingly common now it could just be because of social media i think you probably
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would have seen women saying this from the 60s all the way up until now where they do college
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glorified years of alcoholism finding themselves traveling boss babe and then they say well
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actually uh now i do want a more traditional life how can a man who's taking that risk
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identify if someone is being genuine and you as a woman how do you know that you're coming at it
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from a genuine place well i have a litmus test for you well your mistake would be assuming a
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woman's genuine about anything ever make her prove she's genuine prove it
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how can you tell what are her actions say you know but first I'm going to show you a montage
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of women who were at one point feminist and I would argue most of them when you watch us still
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are but saying actually i do want to be a wife now i do so women are lying to you this is why
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yeah lying want to be a mom i don't want to be boss babe feminist but what i want you to do
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as these people have the revelation i want you to just with this montage
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count how many times you hear an ask or a demand let's watch
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do you want to know one of the saddest realizations i recently had was that as a liberal woman it is
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really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the
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relationship in today's day and age who is not a conservative do i wish i had the ability to be
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at home and to be able to take on the traditional woman's role in a home
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absolutely ask do i give off more masks they're lying
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they're saying i want to stay home for like chad you know feeling energy yeah am i a good
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housekeeper no have i ever been a good housekeeper no i have this eternal struggle where it's like i
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want my husband to be the provider ask make all the money ask pay the bills do the adulting things
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fix everything around the house take care of my car take the trash out make all the plans handle
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our finances so basically do everything while i just lie around and like only do things when i
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feel like doing them a guy is asking you like what your goals are and you're talking about how you
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want to continue to go back to school and you want to do this and you want to do that they're not
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hearing that you want to you know they're not hearing that you want to nurture your family
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i don't believe in feminism i think that if men are willing to do more and do more then
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they should make more that's the first argument everybody's like men shouldn't make more money
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than women i don't want to be a carpenter get up for me i want your seat so women only want
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traditional relationships when it benefits them so when they're saying oh i want um a guy that
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like think about it they don't talk about any of the downsides of a traditional relationship like
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listening to everything he says that's kind of annoying right honey i want to get ice cream we're
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not eating ice cream oh before you could just do it right um so there's no reason we should get rid
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of those pieces of chivalry all for feminism me and all my liberal friends want to be traditional
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housewives well not all of us but most of us yeah again um the traditional has to come with
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obedience okay do you enjoy building legos while being interviewed i don't think i've ever done a
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lego set um here are a few bucks for coffee and everything bagel i'm an on the road trafficker
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and your streams give me get me through a thousand mile all-nighter runs oh my god that makes me so
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happy keep up the good work wow anyway am i keeping this economy going am i going to take credit for
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your work no no thank you i appreciate you helping us get i don't know whatever you
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transport on time you can come on a lego show and gossip and no one will hear it
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what's the lego show oh that was my favorite super chat in a while
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oh but the problem is we don't like republican men but like i'm not talking about traditional
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gender roles because i'm not cooking i'm not cleaning i'm not doing his laundry
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but men don't care about cooking and cleaning they care about obedience some men do care about
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cooking and cleaning i didn't understand this till later like this is a lesson i wish someone gave me
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at 20. um like okay men care about cooking and cleaning if that's what they want but some men
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like to cook some men eat out all the time um so
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So again, like what he's saying actually puts the woman in power for asking what, for telling him what to do.
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Instead, you know, obedience in a traditional relationship is going to be her asking him what he wants.
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so he doesn't get it yet but he's getting close i also don't like to be told what to do i can
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make my own decisions and i like making my own money ask can somebody help so i don't really
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know what to do because i don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man but am i
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asking to have my cake and eat it too i want leadership but don't just like they want a guy
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with abs we barely eat or cook anyway that's true boss me around you know like lead me
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lead me when i'm in the mood to be led i thought it was like a given that hey i'm a nurse
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of course like i'm a nurturer and i'm gonna take care of my family but okay number one
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nurses are known to be the biggest whores that does not mean you're a nurturer that does not
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that does not nurturing again um nurturing comes from men men are nurturing nurturing
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to kids is listening to what the dad says that's it if you don't do that you're a terrible mother
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sorry sorry um because men are gonna give the kids what they want so
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and mothers are gonna do what's good for themselves so
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in the meantime while you know we don't have kids
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is it is it not attractive that i have a career going for me or does that mean i would not prefer
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uh is it not attractive that i have a career going for me men don't want lazy women um
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a guy like crowder isn't gonna care if you got nothing going on but
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like in the early stages of dating usually men aren't going to want to take over your bills like
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immediately right so they do want to see you're responsible as a person because so you're not a
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liability if you go into their life so men are different um some men are different in what they
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want um see this guy here this a young chad i'm okay with a woman who is sleepy but loyal
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i don't know i i think men give way too much grace on women being lazy i think there's not but you
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know unless she's going to share the money what's the benefit of a career
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well i just meant how soon do you want her to start asking you for money is the question
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i mean that's that's that's the question it's not i'm more of like a pragmatic oh go from the
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parents house the to the the boyfriend or the husband's well that's just not usually how it
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works in 2026 you meet on a dating app yeah you date on the dating app like you do situationships
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first then you get into a relationship like that's kind of the order it tends to go in now
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so you do like men don't want a mountain of debt coming forward so you do have to pay
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for your lifestyle until you meet the guy are we are we following are we following
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yeah a more traditional woman role in a household no i would love that ones that bust their ass and
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make enough money to support a stay-at-home mom, wife, whatever,
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are the Republican men because they will exploit the shit out of themselves for money.
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hey Nick what are you looking for your motivation to live I know no I I just
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watched Apollo's show and he used one of the jokes I gave him so I wanted to send
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him a tip but I can't find my wallet wait shouldn't he be sending you the tip
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since it's your joke Josh you don't understand the finance of comedy yeah
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why don't you just use the rumble wallet the what rumble wallet it's enough okay
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And hopefully that kind of illustrates the point.
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We make them available every show, 11 a.m. weekdays.
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Because I also understand, as Christians, we believe that people can be redeemed.
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you see the same rash of former porn stars who once they start aging out or once they become
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less popular all of a sudden starting up ministries it doesn't what ministry should i start i didn't
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do porn i didn't do porn but i'm getting close to the age what should i start
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what what choice what church should i who who'll have me
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should i should i mean that it can't be genuine um but they needn't be given a platform
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it doesn't mean that these women in those cases most of them are not but these women can't be
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genuine and maybe they're their conversion but they yeah what's my cult name if i started a cult
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you know just give me some options you know they needn't be granted a marriage certificate
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it here's how i think you might want to approach both from a male perspective and a female
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perspective in self-examination assuming that you are a man who wants a marriage who wants a family
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a traditional one and assuming that you are a woman who wants those things now
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look for listen for asks and me meaning someone saying yeah i uh went to college
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and i did all these things but then i realized that i don't really want to be working and i
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actually would really like to be a mom and actually that does sound better right being at
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home and taking care of a family um that would be that that would be preferable now so i was wrong
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in what i thought i wanted those are all asks and usually it's married with but whatever women
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want to do of course they can just do that versus i made mistakes following the feminist lie
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i bought into it uh that is the worst look crowder
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that's bullshit because saying you bought into the feminist lie it's bullshit
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look i was selfish and i did what i wanted would be far more accountability taking
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bought into the blame it like i just are clavicular's girlfriends whatever bullshit
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story they tell their future husbands are they um
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would it be accountability to say hey you know shiny object syndrome i was dating the cool guy
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at the time it was fun it was what i wanted but it had consequences and now it's on the internet
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forever um i regret it now like that would be a more honest um you know
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you want the cult of pearl sonality that's funny
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yeah because remember buying into the lie or whatever um
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you have to ask what negative trait about yourself
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made you believe, quote unquote, believe the lie in the first place.
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It's kind of like men that in a way blame women for everything. It's like, well,
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there had to be a negative trait about you that allowed a woman like that into your life. You
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know, you probably gave in way too much and you were just weak as a man, weak for women because
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you, you know, you haven't gotten a lot of women before. So you folded.
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women it's like well like it's way easy for me to say
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um you know i was tricked into feminism that's why i went to college that's why i played volleyball
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for all those years instead of getting married right um but i think you know if i'm going to
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used me as an example. It's like, well, it was what I wanted to do. And I wanted to waste my
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time doing stupid stuff rather than get married. Even though I didn't think that's what I wanted
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at the time, right? I didn't think so. But then I looked back and I'm like, well, that's what I
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chose to do. I guess I didn't want it as much as I thought.
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And it's far easier to say feminism tricked me than accept a negative personality trait.
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Like that would mean, yeah, accepting accountability, right?
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Like that's, it's way easier to just say, well, feminism tricked me into going to college.
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i mean it's just silly so they say pearl what about you well i was selfish that's true
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and um you know you can lie to other people right but you can't really lie to yourself
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so here you go and in buying into it i did irreparable damage and i want to right those
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wrongs and advise young women to not do the same i know i would believe it more if they shut up
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forever. Yeah, feminism only tricked you because you wanted to do those things.
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want to make sure that we teach our children that everything is a trade-off I want to make sure that
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if we have a daughter she knows that you know if you don't start focusing on this very young
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when you have that biological window and start planning for your life you may find yourself
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very likely find yourself in the situation with regrets like I but here's the thing you can't
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control kids you can't you can raise them right you can give them the right information but what
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they do with it is up to you and if you force them to get married young or do something they
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don't want to do they'll resent you for it forever yeah so i did do not do it the way that i did you
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can choose to be a professional during your your fertile your formative years or you can choose to
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pursue a priority of a family and then you could go be a professional after that but you do have
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to make a choice as to your priorities it's a trade-off on the flip side men don't get a trade-off
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just so you know here's the advice to young men hey do you want to get married you better work
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and if you never want to get married you still have to work uh well there's some men finding
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their way around it these days you can get you uh you can marry an only fans girl and take half
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there are some options like there are if you want to live off women um now a lot of people come back
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at me and they say but pearl but pearl that's like not natural for a man to like you know then
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the woman's gonna cheat at work but you know the woman's gonna cheat anyway oh but pearl not all
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women cheat well women cheat a lot so like you might as well get a bag out of it i knew a guy
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in London, um, the way he viewed it is he would date these high earning women. Right. And the way
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he viewed it, it's like, if they cheated at work, he didn't care. Cause they were kind of too ugly
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for him anyway. If they proved themselves to be loyal, um, then he would stick around, but he
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would live with them, get the rent. And then if they became too insufferable, then he would just
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leave. And in a way like, okay, if a woman's giving her paycheck to the guy,
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it's almost better because then the kid doesn't have to be tortured by the mother
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the father gets to make all financial decisions now i know nobody's going to be with me on this
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they're going to say but pearl but pearl like she's going to be thinking she's better and
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disrespecting and then like well fine now he's got the leverage in family court he can put her
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on alimony i don't think look at i'm not saying to do that all i'm saying is in a way because
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the laws aren't gendered. If the women work and the husband stays home, he can take half
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her shit. You know what I mean? Where if you have her stay home, I mean, honestly, no matter
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how you spin it, legally, that is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Legally, like
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that is the worst. There's no better way to give a woman leverage than to stay home. Oh,
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but Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl, um, Pearl, you know, she's going to disrespect him. Well,
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the women are all disrespecting him. Oh, but Pearl, she's going to cheat at work.
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They're doing that anyway. Get your bag. Like that he could manage your career. Right. And
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then if again if she leaves he can take half i'm just saying that's the way the law is the women
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set up those laws women set those laws up so now the man can take the leverage i don't know i saw
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a couple guys with this dynamic and everyone was like everyone was clouding the guy saying he
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wasn't a real man and i think it's because men want their money to matter to women oh she'll
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disrespect him later i'm like i don't know some of these guys have just mastered female psychology
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maybe i haven't been around long enough to see how it plays out so i guess i guess we'll see
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how it goes in the future but i'm like in a way if if she like he says look at i'm really hot
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the only way we're gonna do this is if you give me your paycheck and i'll just i'll make all the
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choices what to do with it if you want to leave totally fine um but then she can he can go to
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court. Anyways. Just an idea. I mean, you guys can take this or leave it, right? Oh, but I found
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that special girl. Are most men going to find a special girl? She's too busy to cheat. Yeah,
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the clown world. It takes less than five minutes. Yeah, I know.
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hey i mean look i'm not saying to do that i'm just saying it's an option and i've seen
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yeah i thought i found the special girl she cheated right and so but the way this guy viewed
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it was okay if she leaves that's fine i'll just save money and then i'll meet my wife
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and then if i meet a woman that proves to me to be loyal like i mean now i have a wife
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anyways so look for is this person now selfishly for lack of a better word describing what they
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want is it a wish list and the wish list has just changed from i want to be independent i want to
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have my own money i want to do it my own way i don't want to be tied down to a man to you know
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what now i'm ready to settle down that sound i'm with dame dave ramsey if you're married there's
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no his or her money you're now a team and it belongs to both well that means it belongs to
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her because we all know women spend more so that's like it's not a fair comparison
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that's not a fair because then she's just going to spend more than you and now you're enslaved
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even if a man gets money from her what will happen in the divorce well he'll be sad um
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but i'm just saying legally the laws um are not gendered so you could apply the laws now i
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i think there's been an increase in alimony i think more men should take child support and
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alimony because a lot of men will shame men for doing it but he honestly if you feel guilty about
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it? If you feel guilty about it, it's okay. Because if you really feel bad, you can save
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her money for later. You know what I mean? Like take that two grand, 500 for the kid,
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500 for you. You can even give her half back later. It's kind of like savings for a kid.
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i'm not saying she deserves that but you know sounds good for me or is it someone just like
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anyone else who's made a serious mistake take a drug addict take someone who for example maybe
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was preaching what they now know to be a false religion you have those people those conversion
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stories saying hey hey let me warn you don't do what i did it doesn't end well and it is all wrong
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that's important because you know what else men hear and i'm telling you
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pearl's gonna have some gorgeous babies look i'm mid my kids are gonna be mid
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i just like to be accurate on this channel this women this is for the women you know what men
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hear when they go yeah well then i do eventually want to be like a stay-at-home mom but before then
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i want to i want to work a job and by the way that's that makes sense you can plan your life
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that way. A lot of people get married before they have kids. They both work. But establishing that
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as a prerequisite is to tell the man, yeah, then I'll prioritize kids. I'm going to prioritize
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myself and then children. At no point will it be support for you. And men are going, I'm kind of
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okay by myself. I would really only bring someone on if they're a teammate and not just a teammate
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to the kids but yeah a teammate i mean but it can't be a teammate that's egalitarian it's got
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to be a subordinate a teammate that a team we're equal but a teammate to me you comment below if
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that helps you and makes sense if someone has a conversion story it can't just be a wish list
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it has to be a how they are going to prevent other people from making the same mistakes
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that's the accountability oh you're still here and you're still watching this on
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all right oh my gosh youtube you've someone said a midwest six is a west virginia 10 well
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i guess i better get to west virginia i need to i want that attention i'm just kidding i'm just
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messing okay crowder keeps taking the red pill institutions don't determine uh a lot of what
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takes place in culture but many americans you know politics is kind of a team sport how people
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view it or they view it as something that is just dirty no matter what so they often don't pay
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attention to it but they are constantly affected by and they are constantly inundated with whatever
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the culture deems acceptable or whatever the culture deems necessary to propagandize people
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with which we have seen we've seen one specific worldview being thrust upon the american public
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someone said someone's five could be someone's 10. No, it couldn't. The only reason you see a
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woman that's a five as a 10 is because you're simping, right? If you had a lot of choice as a
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man, you wouldn't, I mean, if you're banging a 10, you would see the five as a five, but you can't
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bang the 10. And the other day I got into an argument with someone, disagreement, not argument,
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it. But it was like, I'm like, men always over inflate the girls they're hooking up with. And
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he's like, yeah, but you're not, you don't look for women. So you don't know what a 10 is like
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in the market. And I'm like, but why would a 10 be with the average guy? Like eight to 10. I'm
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like, there's scales for this. Eight to 10 facial symmetry. Most men do not have access to.
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They don't have access to them. They'll never have access to them. They're super rare. Most
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people rate four to six. It's okay. Men are the biggest pushers of body positivity because they
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just don't tell women they're average. There's nobody that'll fight harder to say a woman's not
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that, then the guy banging her or that banged her. There is no girl above an 8, 9, or 10.
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Angelina Jolie in her prime was absolutely an 8, 9, or 10.
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Pearl, I have to disagree. I've seen women who I know are not as good looking, but I'm more
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physically attracted to them well probably because the hot girl had very bad behaviors right but um
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you know it takes time for you to see the the good behaviors you know what i mean all right so
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it's the 1960s that's how they've achieved power over our institutions it really began you can go
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back to the 30s 40s but 1960s was that tipping point came to fruition in the 70s jessica alba
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but that's an eight to 10. And most of you will never have access to a woman that hot. Sorry.
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I don't make the rules. They're pretty rare and they get flown out to a big city by the time
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they're like 25. So yeah, you are not dating an eight to 10. Ratings are, no, ratings are pretty
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objective sydney sweetie um her body i would put eight to ten range but her face six
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cute right but her face isn't like crazy you know thanks to marxism thanks to feminism
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maybe she's a seven i'm trying to debate she could be a seven um because
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sometimes women are more attractive but if you see them on tv with all the celebrities they look
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a little less so i don't know but my my gut says six
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basically body like eight to ten uh boobs ten that girl has great tits so and by the way feminism
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cannot exist without marxism we're not talking about a woman who wants to go be a nurse nope
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that was never a problem we're talking about the idea that men and women are fundamentally
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interchangeable and there's no ideal scenario in which to rear uh in which to rear children
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that's what we're talking about when we're talking about feminism and it does follow in marxism we
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now have marriage rates and we now have a fundamentally different american society because
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the central building block is not families now for those of you who who may not be aware of the
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history and you can go through all the feminists rachel wilson is very good on this you can go
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through even sort of pseudo existentialists, Simone de Beauvoir, Judith Butler, all of them
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either expressed subversely or blatantly the need to destroy the American nuclear family.
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So this comes from 1970. Yeah. So again, they'll blame some big people when it's just really
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women's selfish desires. And what they'll do is they'll
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what they'll do is they'll blame these giant institutions or whatever saying they're like
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they had this plan to brainwash women blah blah blah it's like no women just did what they wanted
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and then they were like okay we can make money off this American feminist Kate Millett said that
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the complete destruction of traditional marriage in the nuclear family is the revolutionary or
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utopian goal of feminism noted feminists often cited by the way I'm using the ones who are cited
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by those on the left if you go to their blogs if you go to their websites uh Shulamith Firestone
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wrote yeah unless revolution uproots the basic social organization the biological family
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the uh viculum through which the psychology of power can always be smuggled the tapeworm of
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exploitation will never be annihilated wow and you have another feminist linda gordon said the
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nuclear family must be destroyed and we must find a different way of a woman said that right again
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the women women women women women living together and think about that it must be destroyed the
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biological family must find a different way of living together that's hard and it wasn't super
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palatable. And so it changes to, well, did we say a different way? We mentioned 500 likes on YouTube
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or 500 viewers. If you could like the video, maybe we could get to six or 700. It'd be cool
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to break a thousand. I haven't done that in a while. Wouldn't that be kind of cool? Say it
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takes a village. And what do we have now? It doesn't take a village. It takes a mother. I
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asked a housewife this. Does it take a village to raise a child? It was a woman I know cared
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about her kids she said no it takes a mother paying attention that's it well people aren't
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getting married anymore here's the thing women don't like men that much and that's what men are
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kind of coping with figuring out there's like some idea that women are going to be sad when
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they're alone um they might be sad when they get sick or whatever but I don't know my experience
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again when I um my grandma I got sent I think I talked about this in a coffee talk earlier
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when I was in high school I got grounded so I got sent to stay with my grandma and there's a lot of
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widowed women and I'm telling you um that I was like overhearing that we're friends and stuff
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I mean, they were, they sounded like, just like the women my age talking about boys and whatever.
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I mean, they keep getting dicked down even after their husband dies.
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So they could, they could stay for life, but then they're going to whore out after, you know?
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So I want to ask you a few fundamental questions here before I make the case for you and give you some historical data.
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uh do you believe that okay this is going to be controversial i don't really care about
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because a lot of youtubers and like commentators i think that they talk about history because they
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want to control you right they want to say well this happened in history so that's what we should
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do now and to that i would say well if i'm a business owner i have to make uh decisions based
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on the information that's here now if somebody came to me and said well this happened 100 years
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ago i would look at this person um like they're crazy you know so i don't know i just think we
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spend way too much time on history and we should talk about like what are pragmatic steps now
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certainly christian western civilization right the united states says we want to conserve that's what
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we mean by conservatism do you mean for that to exist uh do you believe that marriage or at least
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maybe we're not talking about and like conserve what like time period in history because a lot
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of it's dependent on technology um i mean now i mean you can live stream with your kids if you
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want that can be your job you know what i mean i'm not gonna do that i'm just saying it's an option
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before you know you'd have to be a farmer that was pretty much your only choice
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you know date marriage but uh the covenant between husband and wife is important do you
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believe that that is central to raising children and creating a stable family and ultimately yeah
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crowder um i'm sorry but women just lie like all women will do is they'll learn your answers and
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lie to you so even the fact that you think that asking a woman a question is going to get you
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anything kind of how do i put it it's kind of um saying you don't understand women and setting up
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your audience to be bamboozled you know what i mean um just watch what she does if you tell her
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an order see if she listens do this does she do it no well there's your answer sorry fellas those
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of the building blocks to create a stable community do you believe that that central
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building block the nuclear family is an incredibly effective safeguard against uh government overreach
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of course uh reliance on government and being indoctrinated by the leftist elites
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now i will tell you that last objectively is true but how billy someone said billionaires marry
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fives not tens well billionaires aren't on the top of the sexual marketplace for women
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Men look at superior men, but women's logic is like a hamster wheel.
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So women rate like athletes, entertainers at the top of the female.
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Like they rate who's cool and billionaires are kind of cool, but it's not like the top
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Now you understand the catastrophe that we are facing and it couldn't have been engineered
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more effectively over the long game, which is what the left has played. You've probably seen
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this out there, this table that shows marriage. Can you guys bring it up? People being married
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by 30. So it was on Twitter. Someone posted, I'm sorry, I can't give credit, but it was shared
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everywhere, but it didn't actually have a source. Well, we confirmed it. It is legitimate. So in
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1975, most women in this country, 91% were married by the age 30. 2025, that's down to 25 point
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something percent. Men, 1975, 81% were married. It's always been a smaller percentage of the
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population. Today, or 2025, 16 and a half percent. So we've gone respectively from 91 and 81 down to
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25 and 16 look behind you that's the tipping point yeah do you do you does anyone honestly think
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that you will not have a not just fundamentally different society an unrecognizable society
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when you compare it's too late it's done look i go out in the real world and everywhere i go
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I just observe what I see. When I go to the gym, I don't see couples. I see women going to the gym,
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hiring a personal trainer. I see a bunch of personal trainers and a bunch of women
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being trained by them or the men leading the workout classes and the women going.
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When I look at things being built, I see townhouses being built and apartments being built.
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society where the vast majority of people under the age of 30 are married and having families
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and then the vast majority are not getting married or having children that's the difference
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that has taken place in really 40 50 years those are two intact just imagine how different it is
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in your neighborhood even whether you're renting or owning you go out what are you what are you
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going to see nine times out of ten you're going to see a married woman probably with some kids
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and probably a father who's there and in the house and those kids are going to have a mommy
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and daddy it's done expect it yeah so i have to work 50 years to be someone's maybe
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would you elaborate from your conclusion from today's um video women are not marrying because
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they do not want to be in relationships in relationships in absence or disparity of
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canon events paul elon says says men pair bond well you got to look at what okay so if you're
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fat person and you have a friend that says they want to lose weight but they don't go to the gym
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and they don't work out they don't want to lose weight if women say they want to be in a relationship
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but refuse to lower their standards and they don't want to be in a relationship like okay because
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if you're looking to buy a product right you start to do some research and i can tell someone
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serious about buying a product when they say i want this type of person i want xyz i can't afford
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that so I'm going to go with this. You would hear that type of talk from women when they're young if
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they really wanted to be in a relationship. So a canon event for most women is going to be getting
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ghosted by a guy that they want and they realize, you know, you realize you're out of this, you're
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not in this guy's lead. You're not cool enough, good enough, good looking enough, feminine enough,
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etc. And if you really want to be married and be in a relationship, you make, you look at your
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budget and see what you can afford. And women just aren't doing that. And they're gaslighting
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men and saying that the men aren't good enough. But if you look at women's actions, like women
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don't like being around men that much. Women don't want to be in relationships. Women like
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the attention from men, but we don't really enjoy men's presence. To be fair, we don't really enjoy
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anyone's presence because we hate each other. We hate ourselves and we just get annoyed for no
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reason. Like it's just, I think there should actually be outhouses for women. I think that
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would, I think that would actually solve all the problems. There is an outhouse. Every time we're
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emotional, we have to go into the outhouse and deal with it. So women don't like men that much
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and women don't want to be in relationships. I'm not blackpilled. I'm honest. And a lot of
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conservatives aren't going to be honest with you when you go to work the water cooler conversation
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is mostly going to center around families and those events and perhaps little league
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today there is not that commonality the conversations if you are one of those you'd
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be an outlier it's actually more difficult to find people to connect with if you are a young
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married parent that is do you know what you said pearl you're going to give your boyfriend some
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idea I don't think I'd mind the outhouse really because you know I feel like it'd be good for me
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I have a little bit of phone addiction it would cause me to like meditating is something that I
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just have not I don't have the willpower right now to get myself to do it on my own so like if I was
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forced into the outhouse and then I could meditate like I mean I just like I don't know how long I'd
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be in there for so I think I might go crazy if it's like a super long time
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how long do you think is acceptable for the outhouse what do you guys think like
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if you could put women in an outhouse how long would you put them there
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okay you turn three days okay well what what are the three days look like in the outhouse
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could we could we I mean let's just talk specific so if I go to the outhouse for three days like
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do I get my phone at all like can I get my phone a little bit
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could I get my laptop can I do things or do I just have to sit in like silence
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it depends on if she was good or bad well I'm saying obviously the outhouse is
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punishment. Okay. No phone. I mean, this would be illegal. I wouldn't recommend doing it because
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that is, that's very illegal, but I'm just, you know, for shit, let's just play with this idea
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for a little bit. Learn to bake, read a book. Okay. I could do, could it be something we build
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up to? I think like me going from my current life to three hours in an outhouse. Could we start with
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like 45 minutes? Phone and laptop. Okay. All right. All right. No phone and laptop. I could
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get a book though. Like I just want something to do. Oh my God. I have to say, okay, you could
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give me the Bible. That at least would be all right. Could you put a piano in there? What about
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a piano. Could there be a piano in the outhouse? Okay, I could get with this five minutes of
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meditation and reflection. That's fine. Piano is okay. Books are okay. Okay, that's fine. I could
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do that? Gluckluck5000 gets me, gets paroled. Well, I could get on that. Silence, silence
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is so hard for me. I need to, I need to, I do think a lot, but I really have a hard
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time doing stuff without stuff running in the background it once it's on my list of things in
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my life i will conquer i will conquer this i'm just not there yet i kind of wanted to learn music
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theory first pearl learn meditation before music theory look i i can't help what i want to do and
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i want i want to learn my music theory before my meditation and i want to get my splits
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what is the intent emotional self-regulation and reflection that is how to decide what is
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okay and not okay in the outhouse yeah sometimes when i have a crash out i realize it's like my
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phone because like i'll realize like i'll be getting upset about something and i'm like
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it's these it's these stupid comments or i'm like getting upset about like
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and I'll be like and then I'll put down my phone I'll go for a walk and I'm like oh I was upset
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for no reason any person that pretends especially a woman that they don't get upset over nothing I
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just can't I can't I can't deal with you you're what you're different than all women ever
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music theory has no end no I know what the end is actually three guitar books three piano books
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and then i'm done no i'm not gonna go that intense i'm not look and stuff look if i
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i know myself and i'm like uh i know what i want to learn the music theory for
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i want basic no oh trust i hate music theory dude i that is not
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yeah so anyways is he negging me am i being negged right now
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you can have two sheets of toilet paper a day ah
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okay well i'll continue i'm getting off track i'm never gonna finish this video not a small change
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that is the biggest change that america has seen and it is what has been the catalyst or really
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removed as guards at the gates that's allowed the rest of this change so let's look at some
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other potential correlations you just heard those quotes from feminists and you could even go back
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to of course marx um we see that you saw that chart yeah it changes dramatically right really
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from the 70s when it starts going down okay no fault divorce right before the 1970s divorce was
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difficult divorce was discouraged when you had a majority i mean are we going to apologize i don't
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know if crowder did this personally but are you conservatives going to apologize for telling us
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the pendulum was going to swing back it's not swimming back at all you guys have been in media
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your whole life hasn't swung back in the slightest of the citizenry married and centering their life
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around being married and raising children guess what they were likely to discourage divorce they
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were likely to support your marriage. 30 minutes in the outhouse and I have to write an essay on
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what I did wrong. I could do that. Do you want to stop getting upset with your so easily? The way
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to do it is by being honest with yourself about why you're getting upset without blaming the
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external input. Can I have an example? I think I can kind of do that. I kind of have noticed that
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where a lot of times when you're upset, you don't know why. It's not like a conscious thought of
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why am I upset. He's kind of right. When you can articulate why you're upset, then you can start
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going through the options say well option a b c well first is this even a problem i can solve
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that's the first option but if it is then option a b c d t you know i did but i'm just curious what
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you mean by without blaming the external input because sometimes it is external things you know
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like i was upset because oh okay i can understand instead of saying because music theory was so hard
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because i am so stupid because i am not picking this up and the solution is to give things
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thrower slower i don't i'm not like an angry person like i'll never yell or anything
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but i'm just i've never been a yeller um but sometimes i get
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you'd have to ask the people's closest to me but i just get frustrated like i'll get really
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frustrated but i'm not a i don't want to say i never yell but it's like pretty rare it's not
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a comment without blaming the commenter for their comment oh okay so it's more because
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i am insecure about that thing and that's why it bothered me
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um i'll be your girlfriend pearl i got quality references and no social media
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for now don't don't don't you had more people you could rely on you had a larger circle
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of those who may be older and wiser no fault 1969 huge screw up from reagan it was pushed though to
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be clear uh really was early pushed by people like hugh hefner or kinsey because they didn't
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want men to be punished for cheating and then it got co-opted by feminists well divorces went up 50
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exactly yeah so i'm right yeah because a lot of times for me
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um i think the the comments that hurt are things that are true right
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and things you don't want to admit so when they say it it's like
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what were some of the hit pieces that hurt my feelings oh okay
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like um people used to make fun of me for my ex-boyfriend they would really bother me
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it would really bother me. But, you know, I had to look back and say, do you know what? I fell
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in love. It didn't work out. And I was like embarrassed that it didn't work out. Right.
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And so, you know, cause I didn't really want to take that L in front of everybody even,
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and I did. And so when people would criticize me for it, it was embarrassing, but it's easier to
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just say, yeah, it didn't work. Right. Is that where we're going with it? I'm insecure because
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I wanted it to work out and it didn't at the time, you know, so, right, right, am I following?
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So. Oh, and I would say, and I was a failure in that relationship because I was controlling. I was controlling. Yeah, yeah. I was controlling and so it failed. Yeah.
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you don't realize how many little things you're very controlling of
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like you don't realize how little you ask the guy for his opinion
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you know what i mean you don't realize it it's not something like
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so even if you're uh like i would say i'm a laid-back person but
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when you've been in control your whole life of everything like what you eat where you go what you
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do there is no way you're gonna enter into a relationship and not be controlling it's impossible
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it's i i have a very hard time believing that the only way you probably can do that is if your
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mother was obedient to your father and they taught you to be obedient to him until you go to the
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boyfriends um but if you didn't do that which is most of us there's changing you gotta you gotta
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change so you know anyways okay it just it's skyrocketed after that the history of that is
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pornographers because before no fault divorce basically there are three faults either infidelity
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that was a fault primary one uh physical abuse was a fault and if those weren't uh the reasons listed
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abandonment was a fault meaning what we now use as breakdown in communications growing apart
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uh finding it difficult to get along that was filed under the general umbrella of abandonment
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quit so if a guy cheated you've been told guys used to cheat with their secretaries and leave
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them with nothing if a guy cheated he paid that's why hugh hefner people like that said well we
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actually we understand man as a sexual animal so if we have no fault divorce the man can cheat and
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not be punished that then got mutated into you know what no fault divorce is just going to be
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we will punish the primary earner regardless of context anyone can leave at any time and you
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split it up i can't believe they didn't see that coming though you say mutated but i can't believe
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they didn't see it coming they didn't expect women to use this they called it no fault right
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how many faults well none they were primarily thinking again no this wasn't men you know
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manipulating that women wanted to get divorced so they appeased women it wasn't being manipulated
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women just don't like men as much as we thought no fault on the cheating right and then it became
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uh no fault at all at all at all at all including if you just quit because you're bored and you're
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okay so again here that guy lost out major i'm just gonna explain something no we didn't right
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all women even me right we have our issues i'm not some special woman do you know what i'm saying
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like i'm not some special woman that doesn't have problems um can you donate without signing up you
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can go to the gofundme um next week we're gonna have the app uh but yeah it's there's no like
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losing out because i ain't like all women it's just different problems you know what i mean
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it's just not a good mindset to have you know what i mean um okay marriage and we see the rates
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of divorce and who files for divorce uh most often anywhere from 60 to 70 of the time it's women
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let's look at something else um antidepressant use up dramatically 97 these are the numbers
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that we have because it don't go back that far reliably now i don't really like this um women
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are more depressed. Women, I don't think are more depressed because they're on antidepressants. I
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think women have always been kind of crazy. I don't just, I'm telling you here, my grandma
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and her friends, I think they're all kind of crazy, but women are too lazy to be introspective
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and to, um, women are too lazy to regulate our emotions. So we just take a pill. It's kind of
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like it was like to me antidepressants is just women's natural inclination and a quick quick fix
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so um so um it's kind of like ozempic so women eat too much and the quick fix was a diet drug
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I bet that same trend, I bet we only have since the 90s.
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we're going to be putting all of these graphs together.
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Correlation doesn't equal causation, I get that.
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maybe you start to recognize this pattern here and all of these of course have been pushed by the
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left as progress uh antidepressant use a big reason by the way is of course uh the most likely
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to use them young liberal women and a big part of that is young liberal women who are atheists
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they're more likely to use antidepressants liberal women have abandoned god more than any other group
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and you see that in psychiatric drug use i'm not saying there's never an appropriate circumstance
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for them i am saying that the usage therein has gone up i think we really just got to start
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blaming women more it's not women being liberal right oh liberalism is a disease
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uh I don't you married a conservative trad wife
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they're not better it's the woman the like I don't know what it is I think women we just
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have extra demons in us like maybe men have the demon to oh i wonder if men have demons in them
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to worship women and that's like men that fall to worshiping satan like satans and women and god are
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supposed to worship men or god and then if they worship satan and they worship the woman and then
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it ruins their life i don't know that that's uh that's just a thought but it's definitely just
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the being a woman-ness like I hate it when people say well it's not you know it's not just because
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they're women and I'm like no it is because we're women maybe you know I'm arguing with myself here
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sometimes I go back and forth on my thoughts is that being unaccountable to women is that being
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unaccountable by saying well they're just bitches because they're women
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Many worship women are cowards who lack the courage to hold women accountable.
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But what's the difference between not lacking the courage and not having the time?
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Because I feel like sometimes men, it's not that some men don't, it's not that they don't
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have the courage, but they just want to get other things done.
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Coincidentally, I should note, pro-depressant use is also up as well.
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So to have you doing something that is forcing you to be like in your body, leading with
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your body and what's like the end goal of the samurai training no one knows uh also uh the use
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of pro-psychotic drugs you don't get to ask those questions what's wrong with you mom are you so
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scared come on come on come on gals life's out there you don't need a pill or a screen to feel
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so crazy not having time as a cop out bad behavior must be called out
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would you say that only applies to the women in his life though do you know i mean like
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is it really worth a guy's time to correct women at work and like you know what i mean
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no just no because this has been the women with college degrees women with bachelor so
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in 1975 it's about 20 20 percent uh now i believe it's 40 something 47 percent um and you see a
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correlation there that's a separate graph where the more women who get college degrees bachelor's
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degrees the less likely they are to be married now why a couple of reasons as to why uh it's not
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that degree in and of itself is bad it's that that degree is being pursued during a time where women
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understanding that those were their most fertile fertile years they were deciding to pursue families
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women used to pursue families and then often once the kids were raised and old enough that's when
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they would frequently go to college if you look at women in the labor force it's been consistently
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high this idea that they were only allowed to be pregnant and barefoot well it's not true they just
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often went into careers later should they so choose to do so so it's a oh okay not a hard
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and fast rule, but if you have authority over a person, then it's your responsibility to hold
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them accountable for bad behavior. Okay. I agree with that. I agree with that. Yeah. If it's his
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wife or daughter, that, that is his responsibility. Timing equation. And then it also results in
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stat after stat shows us that women, not all, not all, not all, not all, I have to say it,
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don't want to hitch themselves to a spouse who makes less than them. So you've now reduced the
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pool of suitors now that'd be fine i don't know but again that's like taking women's pull
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but when women are young and hot they just want a guy with abs so i think a lot of women would
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marry i think you're going to see an increase in lower earning men or lower status men earning
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with abs marrying women when we're happier they're more miserable than ever so they're getting their
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degree they're not having families they find it harder to find a man because they spend their
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time pursuing a profession they tend to be making more in those instances than the men who they
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would consider to be mates and so they're discounted they're disqualified and so women
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are lonelier and more miserable and men are checking out yeah again i don't think
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i just don't think you can blame women being lonely and miserable on marriage i think women
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have always been lonely and miserable people like i think that's just the female state
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i think that's just women like women are just not good people and they've always been bad people
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i mean because i know there was some verse about women in biblical times and they said like
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this one guy said i think solomon or something that he's met one good man and never met a good
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woman so if you've never met a good woman like isn't it just women
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like i think i mean i think if we're really honest as women um just are being like by ourselves or
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with people like if anything i almost think that more community can be worse for women
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i know that i am far more um likely to gossip and stuff if i'm dealing with other women and
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it's something I sometimes try to avoid because I just don't want to, like, there's a reason I
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would avoid those female influencer circles. I'm selective with the female women I deal with
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because, I don't know, I just think that's like a temptation I don't really want.
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we can't say women are bad without mentioning the atrocities that men committed over the
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centuries i literally can see this this is tone policing you can't say that i can and i'll say it
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again see and i don't like um everyone falls short and pride is the killer
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um yeah but women fall short more i don't like i don't like when we say everyone because it
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acts like it's the same and i just don't think it's the same is rachel wilson a woman you did
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i do interact with rachel and rachel rachel honestly has held my trust over the years
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so i mean my experience i mean i i never know sometimes women won't break your trust for a
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decade and then they crash out um but so i i can't speak for her future right i'll never
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speak for a woman's future but yeah she's been good to me so is um andrew you know
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why do you call me good jesus answered no one is good except god alone
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Part of this is Title IX enforcement since 1972.
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It led to a huge surge in women's college enrollment.
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Go to school, get a degree, all the while, no nuclear family.
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to destroy the nuclear family then they implemented the strategy yeah yeah go to school
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be a boss babe that's going to fulfill you more yeah you're a slave they called it slave labor
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if you were a stay-at-home wife or mom and this brings us to women in the workforce 75 is about
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46 hey it's a far cry from no women were allowed to work yeah now it's 57 which isn't as big of an
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increase it's the time at which they are working because again if you look back women were working
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later and often jobs that allowed for more flexibility again second wave feminism uh if
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we want to use those terms i almost feel like those terms they should it's just feminism
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yeah they stigmatized domestic life they told women that you were a slave
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if you were staying at home so you go you pursue a bachelor's degree you go into the workforce and
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oh my gosh now there's no guy for you and you can't start a family you're not a slave to that
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college debt which hey there's always a guy for you some guy will always do it pearl that's not
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true that is true if if some guy won't then lose weight but the guys you want won't lie you know
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the biggest cope i ever hear oh but the guys that she wants won't want her look at women can get the
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guy they want they won't be happy women will want a guy get the guy then won't like that guy like
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the unhappiness is consistent the unhappy like that's the consistency women can get that guy and
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And you might say, well, what does this have to do with the progressive left?
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Well, 1975, I believe the average price was around $38,000.
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You know what I think that is causing the housing crisis?
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It's really just that women keep buying houses they can't afford.
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It's kind of like the reason college went up,
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because women just started taking out loans for colleges they can't afford.
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And they could just keep increasing the credit limit on colleges.
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And I think it's just the same thing happening with housing.
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um you know perfect does not mean flawless use mature and complete in
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now it's 403 000 that's a thousand percent increase not accounting for inflation uh let's
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look at and if you look at that graph you see some notable spikes it consistently goes up
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but if you get more granular you will see there were some notable policies that led to it uh you
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look at the overhaul of the community reinvestment act under clinton right this is where people talk
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about barney frank uh then of course you look at the subprime loan market right that increased the
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housing prices dramatically because anyone could get a home regardless of money down then you look
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at the bailouts afterwards like these people got a home they didn't put money down on with
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incredibly low interest rates it should be foreclosed upon but instead those people were
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kept in the houses so people who had saved while banks were no longer taking the risk
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couldn't afford the down payment boom boom prices go up let alone covet we have had an engineered
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society as far as the housing market why to look out for the underprivileged to look out for the
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single moms the leftist creation to be clear let's look at student debt that's a big one
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1975 overall it was eight billion dollars uh today it's 1.6 trillion dollars and a lot of
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people say oh this is the problem because republicans no you guys need to know this we've
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talked about it quite a bit in depth go check out those previous segments link in the description
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11 a.m eastern we always provide them you can see university prices tuitions going up as government
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aid increase so tuition outpaced inflation by over 300 percent the markets that outpaced inflation
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by a number that defies reason and occurs nowhere in nature.
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You will find the industries that have been subject
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to the most amount of government meddling out of all.
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is schools are incentivized to make school unaffordable.
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Because Uncle Sam makes up the gap. So you actually want to charge a price that nobody can
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pay. Otherwise, Uncle Sam doesn't give you that grant, doesn't give you that scholarship.
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If you don't say, ah, tuition's 50K for a student to say, well, I can't afford that. Well, guess
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what? You're UT, A&M is going to do that. Guess who's going to make up the 40K? Uncle Sam.
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So you're actually precluded from conducting a school in most instances if you make it affordable
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and you don't rely on grants and subsidies it's unbelievable and when you add all this up all of
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this right let's subsidize school let's subsidize housing let's send women okay what's going to
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happen is just women want to be single mothers um because they don't want to they want the kid
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without having to be obedient to the father and from a logical point of view this makes perfect
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sense i mean why would you live life on someone else's terms when you could live life on your
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terms now i understand you guys are men so you'll think well women you'll be thinner have um more
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money if you just listen to us like you will have your life will be better in 10 years and women we
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just don't care right and the long-term effects is going to be negative right but um the right
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here right now you know if a woman you know wants to marry your high school boyfriend or be in a
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yacht in miami she's going to pick the yacht in miami just is what it is eat that out and into
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school tell them that they should pursue college immediately and they should pursue a career
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throughout their fertile years and also let's create no-fault divorce so we make this a con
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you got to think about it too if you go to college um it's going to be way easier to meet a guy so
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that's uh okay if she's not going to college what is she doing during that time are you are you as
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the father finding her husband are you arranging it and if you're not well what is she going to do
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you know track that's a no-win situation for a primary earner all of these policies
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spearheaded and championed by the left do we see a correlation when we put it all together here
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and the marriage rate women are terrible that's it women are evil terrible
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yeah uh people tend to choose the mark's cooking today uh tend to choose the path of
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least resistance being hot on a yacht is easier than marriage completely like if you think about
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it just makes sense like I don't like it when we're shocked this happened do you want to party
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in Miami where men pay for your lifestyle completely you don't have to pay anything you
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get to do whatever you want you to eat whatever you want and have complete and total freedom now
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women will get fat and like you know or maybe do coke one or two they'll either get fat or do coke
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so they're gonna make a poor choice that'll catch up later but that's later
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prepare a dowry instead of a college degree yes but something has to fill up the time and it's
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like easy to say okay women get married well what steps how are you gonna do it how are you gonna
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find the guy um that that's step one like it's easy to just say oh get married don't go to college
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okay well what's step one she turns 18 have you been like what skills does she have because
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you know to some degree um like being married is a skill
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being obedient is a skill okay let's let's pretend she's got no skills now what
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and bring back third place as well yeah but most men are at home
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marry the college guy look at most of the women i knew in school didn't have college boyfriends
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um my whole friend group only one or two at a high school boy like it's not um
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most women are home too yes yes so again that you could say okay bring back third spaces but
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you go and nobody's there. Um, I don't know. So, yeah, I mean, I say,
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but there's gotta be step one, step two, and it's gotta be realistic.
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Do high schoolers not date each other anymore? No. Um, I mean, they might do a hookup, right?
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they might hook up um but like a relationship is a responsibility it's like considering another
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person the young women would rather just hook up every now and then than be in a relationship
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so again being in a relationship is a skill let's add it up all right let's look at these
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uh-huh uh-huh most men to be fair they don't have like you know if you have a woman in your life
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what's her role what do you expect most guys don't have an answer to this question
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what like i saw clavicula's girlfriend getting frustrated uh because he was like cooking her
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for not she was saying that she never um her outfit was too slutty and she never cooks him
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breakfast and i don't know maybe it was just for the internet whatever but i was thinking about
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how it's very rare to have men that give women instructions on what they want them to do
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you know and men they want the women to naturally want to do it and it's like yeah women aren't
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going to do that so you either have standards for your life as a man and you tell them and
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to see if she obeys or you know you don't so ah seems like we're seeing a pretty consistent right
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there that intersect that tipping point and it's one we can't come back from we need another tipping
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point do it the opposite way do it the opposite way and people say this is so scary how could we
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do this how could we encourage young people not get married young at all costs but how could we
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tell them hey it's what's most fulfilling in life uh it's actually a very important metric or
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indicator as far as economic outcome for both you and the child as far as mental health as far as
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personal happiness as far as drug abuse yeah as far as financial stability which might mean you
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need to plan on working as a team with someone where one of you goes to college while one of
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you stays home when you pursue it later you know traditional male female dynamics because if we
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don't try and create another tipping point in this country and if we don't reform divorce laws
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if we don't make the marital contract something that makes sense to people by the way who would
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love to be monogamous and find a life partner i will tell you this i as a conservative christian
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believe that the nuclear family and the covenant of marriage is central it's a bedrock to the
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foundation of america without it we don't have a country yeah and it's difficult for me on a
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logistical level to advocate that a successful young man sign that contract as it exists.
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We have a problem. We have a problem. There's a separation between a biblical covenant,
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what a marriage is and what the state has made it. And we've got a reverse course.
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Yeah. And it kind of like you were talking about the housing market. There were several moments
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along the way that really increased the prices. It seems like there was this tipping point in the
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late sixties, early seventies, when no fault divorce, you're pushing women into colleges
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through title nine all of those things and kind of this the other thing too i would imagine that
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the houses are getting more expensive because the houses suck like they're probably bigger
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and they have way too much like useless stuff in them being built now but women want to look cool
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like i'd imagine i don't know anything about houses but i'd imagine they add things that
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make women look cool and not things that are pragmatic if that makes sense so feminist
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revolution happened that really set the track and then multiple things after that just keep pushing
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the marriage rate down over and over and over yeah our policies throughout history on this have been
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horrible and we've talked about this not just with women they're going to blame the policies
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but they're not going to blame what women want and are choosing but with men not all men need
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to go to college and have four hundred thousand dollars in college debt that they now have to go
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into the workforce and work a job that they hate just to try to pay off and be under that shackle
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as well yeah so i grew up in a giant house like giant like 10 bedroom like literally the biggest
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house you could have been very cool right i just i i don't want to sound ungrateful but i would
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prefer to have a smaller house because god it was so much work to keep up with um that personally
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i would not want a giant house you know what i mean but certainly not women exchanging and it
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is an exchange you are exchanging your most fertile years not just for four years yeah but
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for the debt afterwards for the career after that because why did i go to college in the first place
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if i'm not going to pursue a career for the possibility even i'll see these celebrity houses
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and it's just for a few people and i'm like why would you want a house that big do you know i'll
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think this i'll see these celebrity like giant houses and i'm like you'd have to pay somebody
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to manage that hat like that seems like so much work um giant houses give women something to do
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clean it i'd rather learn music theory you know what i mean that now you probably will have less
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chance of finding a husband because i'm focused on this i don't want to settle down right now
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and then at 30. i know but here's here's the thing like
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again we have to be pragmatic in the instructions right don't be focused on that well again women
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have to eat right what are you doing instead i actually don't think it's bad for women to learn
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to be a responsible adult i think there's too much coddling women um okay well like what do
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women do in the meantime most parents uh anyways that comes along and where do they get like there
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has to be instructions you know what i mean how can you possibly have a decent-sized family
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if everybody's waiting into their 30s all of the problems that we've discussed with
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women don't want a decent-sized family and the other thing too is
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i don't i think a lot of times when there's really big families it's just because the women
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want big families for status it's got to be in the it's it's better for a woman to serve a man
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with no kids than a woman to like run the charge and have a bunch i don't know if that makes sense
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because then you know if we have a lot of kids but they're all the women's kids i'll be they're
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just going to grow up to be like terrible people so we gotta the number one thing we got to figure
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out before the birth rate is giving men authority over their children that's more important than the
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birth rate massively i think a a geriatric pregnancy is 35 or 34. it's not people don't
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understand like it is really really rough yeah now do the timing how long do you want to be
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married before you have kids now do all that how do we expect society to have any other result than
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what we see today right it's it's terrible and people left sees this as a victory people need
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to get over the well feminism and women you guys don't it's not that we don't like women we love
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women we want for the kids to serve her i mean do we love women i don't there's too many dumb
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women out there sorry i i just i don't think that's honest um music bow and arrow singing
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okay but you realize that costs money to like learn you have to pay for rent
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anyways society to flourish and it isn't working the way we're doing it get over yourselves on
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men women it's it's both in some cases it's men lying to women and women being terrible people
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but the feminism thing has got to end it's got to go away culture's got to change because there
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There is pathways that you, you know, I know it's the most fertile years, but you go to
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four years of college, six, if you're getting a master's or something like that, you come
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out at 24 years old, you work a couple of years, you meet somebody in school, you meet
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somebody in your job space, in your, in your neighborhood or whatever, then you fall in
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What the problem is, the biggest problem is culture, right?
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Every, you turn on the radio, unless it's a country, even country music these days is
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celebrating singlehood, celebrating girl bosses.
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Even single motherhood is like, yeah, just push that.
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Celebrating, I chose fishing over my girlfriend.
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Or whatever Brad Paisley song is on at the time.
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I mean, there are mistakes, and we've shown those,
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But those have all been pushed, and that is the culture.
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Because some conservatives out there have been saying, like,
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oh, yeah, you know, was it so-and-so has money troubles on Apple TV?
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like we got to be honest that kids take time and you are going to put things to the side
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if you have children i don't like this idea where we're saying oh you can do it all
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it's kind of a feminist messaging yes you're going to have to put aside your own desires if
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you have a kid it's going to take up time um now i would argue you know they're fulfilling
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right but and it'll make you a better person because you have to care about someone other
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than yourself, but I like to be accurate. Um, if you're an unhappy person and you have a kid,
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they're not going to fix your unhappiness. Get to experience by having this baby. Do you mean
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the life of dorm rooms and glorified alcoholism and working as an intern, if you're lucky,
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maybe making a decent salary at a job? Well, yeah. I mean, what they're giving up is the
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ability to like part, like when else are women going to be able to live rent free in a major
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city and live like like you're saying give up you have to understand you're telling women to
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give up the opportunity to live like a queen when you're a peasant you're going to get this
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opportunity to be a queen from 18 to 25. give it up for an average man's kid most women aren't
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going to do that the idea that foregoing that for the joy and miracle of creating and raising life
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it's asking again you're looking at from a male lens men get joy from their kids women don't
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women down unfortunately oh shit working as an intern if you're lucky maybe making a decent
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salary at a job the idea that foregoing that for the joy and miracle of creating and raising life
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it's asinine on its face when I say it like that but that's what people believe and all of us have
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been affected by it to some degree how does it end i i won't watch it i was like after episode
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two it's like i can't do this well hopefully you know i hope yeah nothing external can make you
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happy happiness is an internal choice yes correct it ends in a uh a story of wow look at how rough
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this was but look how worth it it was they'll always give some moments of that but it's it's
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always like 90 oh it's miserable and the baby throws up on you and the baby is screaming and
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you have no because women complain about everything so it doesn't surprise me that
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we complain about that too friends and you lose your women don't like anything so it doesn't
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surprise me that we don't like that either but it's really nice because you share an ice cream
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with it on a park bench or some it's like how about you talk about the meaning of life and
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finding purpose if feminism and don't have a meaning of life it's got to be through a man
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and unfortunately women hate most men so and if leftism if marxism and they are inextricably tied
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by the way the same like self-worship it's worshiping yourself back then are the same
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marxist pretty natural for women so hey that's why black lives matter had destroying the nuclear
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family the destruction of the nuclear family in its charter if feminism helped women we wouldn't
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have women today it does help women it gives women total power and control and the ability
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to live like queens of the past um you could say there's consequences for that later right down the
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line but women are pretty happy when they're 18 to 25 living like a hot girl in the city sorry
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um they're not unhappy uh 25 to 35 the consequences start coming in right but yeah fatter sicker
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and more unhappy than ever there you go those are the results oh yeah when when they're old right
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but it's it's about the now so anyways all right guys um i love you thanks for watching i'm gonna
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be streaming a lot this month because I gotta, I gotta get my butt in gear. You know what I mean?
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So I appreciate you watching. Um, this is my dream job, really.
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I love doing this. I love it. I've, I've always felt like I'm an introspective person
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and curious. So the fact that I get to, you know, be curious with you guys,
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I really appreciate it. Um, red pill for me was very freeing and it explained a lot of things in
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my life. So if I can explain a few things to you, there are men better than me that explain this
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better. Um, Terrence Popp, Rolo Tomasi, um, nuclear Caudillo, um, Aaron Clary, uh, all of them
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literally utmost respect. So, you know, Paul Elam, another one really great. So I'm just happy to be
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here. Um, thank you for watching, like the video and I'll see you next time.