Pearl - Dailywire Has Declared War On The Redpill

00:00:00.000 Now, one of these influencers is a woman named Pearl Davis, who has garnered a relatively large

00:00:03.920 following on YouTube and various social media platforms. She's in her mid-20s, single and

00:00:08.340 childless, and yet full of opinions about modern marriage and family life, a subject that she has

00:00:13.600 no personal insight into whatsoever. But I'll see guys that take you guys' advice,

00:00:19.680 and sometimes, you know, it ruins their life. What would men do if they begged you for advice?

00:00:24.980 Again, I'm not in the business of telling men what to do, you know. But I think you kind of are.

00:00:29.340 Well, what percent of women do you think are marriageable?

00:00:31.760 I think you're screwing the issue.

00:00:33.240 I mean, again, I know you don't like to use personal examples. You kind of make these broad

00:00:37.800 brush generalizations. But, you know, there absolutely are statistically many people getting

00:00:43.280 married. There are millions of married people in this country. So I don't know where you're going

00:00:47.840 with the point.

00:00:48.880 Now, a couple of the things that I want to make sure I mention. If you're a young person here

00:00:52.520 and you say, boy, you know, what do I want to do for my life? Honestly, you should get married as

00:00:58.100 young as possible and have as many kids as possible. Period. Reject the siren song of

00:01:06.240 modernity.

00:01:07.220 Yeah, get married and have a ton of kids. I mean, get married when you're too young,

00:01:10.880 have more kids than you can afford, take a job you're not qualified for, live boldly,

00:01:14.900 stop getting high, stop doing anything that blurs your vision or makes time go faster.

00:01:19.780 You're going to die before you know it.

00:01:21.060 So I was on X the other day when I noticed a post about me made by Brad Wilcox,

00:01:25.900 a dishonest marriage propagandist with a stupid haircut who works at the heavily biased Institute

00:01:31.500 for Family Studies. The post read, no, the divorce rate is not 75%, pearly things. It's not even 50%,

00:01:38.640 as Matt Walsh notes here. And there's a screen cap of the Walsh video. Wilcox continues,

00:01:43.660 it's about 40% according to the latest Family Studies estimate. Wow, he really called me out,

00:01:49.380 didn't he? Except I have never claimed that the divorce rate was 75%, as Matt Walsh specifies in

00:01:55.440 the exact same video. Would you ever sign a contract that fails 75% of the time where your business

00:02:00.520 partner is paid to break the contract? Why would you encourage men to sign that contract until the

00:02:05.140 terms are fixed? Now, you may be surprised to learn that marriages fail at a rate of 75%.

00:02:10.100 Either Brad Wilcox didn't actually watch the video, or he's being deliberately dishonest in

00:02:15.980 an attempt to deceive the public, which as a full-time marriage hustler would not be the first

00:02:20.820 time. In fact, deceiving is what he does to young men almost every single day of his life.

00:02:26.020 Anyways, Brad Wilcox was dead wrong about his facts, as per usual, and so I was tempted to just

00:02:31.700 brush it off. But the post intrigued me. Sure, Brad Wilcox was insufferably smug. That's nothing new.

00:02:37.300 You get used to it. Tradcon advocates can't help themselves. They have to pretend like they've got

00:02:41.680 life all figured out. Then you find out they're secretly gay or addicted to cuck porn, or you catch

00:02:46.800 them sneaking off to Vegas to have some transformer prostitute to mess around with. But what intrigued

00:02:52.840 me about this post is that Matt Walsh's video, Attacking Me and Others Who Recommended Caution to

00:02:58.600 Young Men About Marriage, it originally came out two years ago. I looked and I saw that Matt Walsh

00:03:03.940 recently reposted the video to his YouTube channel for some reason. I assume it's in response to my

00:03:09.800 recent essay video called How Conservatives Trick You Into Marrying Modern Women, which I tore tradcons a

00:03:15.980 new one, exposed their motives for deceiving young men, and unpacked some of the misleading statistics

00:03:20.900 and arguments they used to do so. Or maybe it has nothing to do with me at all. Maybe Matt is just

00:03:26.040 regurgitating old content because he knows he peaked after the one-trick pony move of repeatedly asking

00:03:32.460 mentally ill libtards what a woman is. Or maybe Matt's wife's boyfriend won't let him use the

00:03:37.940 computer unsupervised anymore. I don't know. But Brad Wilcox's post and Matt Walsh's video did get

00:03:43.900 me thinking about the business of marriage pimping and convincing young men to walk blindly into the

00:03:49.820 worst deal they could ever take in their lives. Wilcox is referencing an ex-post I made in 2023,

00:03:56.180 shaming the Daily Wire's leading idiot Jeremy Boring for pushing men towards marriage. Despite the

00:04:00.800 potentially devastating consequences to their lives, finances, and mental health, instead of

00:04:05.400 campaigning vigorously for divorce court reform. This was part of a blizzard of tweets that were

00:04:11.320 sent back and forth between the Daily Wire staff and me and others over the course of several days

00:04:15.800 that, quite frankly, had the simps of the Daily Wire taking a huge L. Matt Walsh then attempted to

00:04:20.960 leap to the rescue to do a characteristically condescending video without much substance on the

00:04:25.900 subject. He picked one tweet out of several dozen of mine where I said, the virtue signaling needs to

00:04:31.800 stop. For an organization that talks about facts, let's ask the question, would you ever sign a

00:04:37.400 contract that fails 75% of the time and where your business partner is paid to break the contract?

00:04:42.920 Why would you encourage men to sign that contract until the terms are fixed? Would you ever sign a

00:04:48.580 contract that fails 75% of the time where your business partner is paid to break the contract? This

00:04:53.980 debate on social media brought out the rest of the marriage skeptical crowd on the right. A bunch of

00:04:58.200 these red pill influencers decided to hop on an emergency Zoom call and spend two hours talking

00:05:04.320 about me and the rest of the Daily Wire crew and our reckless promotion of society's most fundamental

00:05:09.360 institution. Note that I did not say marriages end in divorce 75% of the time. I said they fail 75%

00:05:17.260 of the time. That figure is based on rough estimates provided to me by attorney Andrew Branca of the

00:05:23.280 numbers of marriages where people stay together despite one or both of them being miserable.

00:05:27.900 Matt Walsh clarifies this in his video before the three minute mark. It's not 50-50. That only

00:05:32.360 accounts for divorces. Another 25% on the negative side for miserable men trapped and cheaper to keep

00:05:38.580 her marriages unwilling to risk financial destruction and loss of their children. 75% chance of a devastatingly

00:05:45.080 bad outcome is just a bad plan. No sane person would enter into a commercial contract on such terms.

00:05:51.400 Which makes me wonder if Brad Wilcox's employers at UVA know that he is bad at basic research.

00:05:57.920 Now 75% of marriages either ending in divorce or unhappiness is an extremely crude figure that I used

00:06:04.720 in one tweet amongst dozens over the course of a pretty intense multi-day debate. In reality it's

00:06:10.100 interesting though. It's pretty difficult to form a clear idea of how many marriages that stay together

00:06:15.020 are happy or miserable. First of all you cannot trust self-reporting. People trapped in loveless

00:06:20.960 marriages are prone to lie to keep up appearances. And even if they are asked privately and anonymously

00:06:27.400 they also might be lying to themselves. After all happy in your marriage well relative to what?

00:06:33.980 Lying dead in a ditch?

00:06:34.980 Religious people like Matt Walsh and Brad Wilcox are also likely to exaggerate the health of their

00:06:54.320 marriages because they've got that extra pressure to show off how wonderful their lives are in order

00:07:01.500 to make converts. And if they admitted trouble well they might face the stigma of their own church

00:07:08.020 congregation. So you can't go by first-hand testimonials. Instead you've got to look at

00:07:12.800 external signs of unhappiness which is not easy to do. Sexlessness in marriage is one option.

00:07:18.820 According to a 2022 data aggregation from sources like the General Social Survey and the Kinsney

00:07:24.820 Institute about one-third of long-term marriages are sexless. But this number does fluctuate from study

00:07:30.780 to study. Some sexlessness is a function of age. Sometimes a married person who reports no sex in

00:07:36.240 the past year at the time of the survey can resume sex with their spouse afterwards. Another

00:07:40.820 comprehensive study of 18,000 adults published in 2017 in the academic journal Archives of Sexual

00:07:47.200 Behavior estimated that sexlessness in marriage is about 16%. As far as I can tell from various studies

00:07:53.880 on the subject, 16% rests closer to those having zero sexual encounters per year. Whereas the larger

00:08:00.500 number, 33%, is a better representation of couples who have 10 sexual encounters or less per year.

00:08:07.220 That's less than one a month. But regardless of whether you call it one-third or one-sixth,

00:08:11.840 after subtracting the 40 to 45% of marriages that end up in divorce, it already places the number of

00:08:17.920 modern marriages that are happy in the minority. Not all marriages are sexless because of age,

00:08:22.480 of course. Viagra is a thing. And most of these studies set age limits as to not let physical

00:08:28.220 infirmity skew the data. Instead, sometimes sexlessness results from young or middle-aged wives

00:08:34.260 sexually rejecting their husband, which has disastrous effects on a man's mental health and

00:08:39.800 self-esteem. I am in the midst of a 24-year sexless relationship with a woman that I'm deeply, deeply

00:08:47.840 in love with. The crux of the question is whether she can't address this issue or she won't. That's not a

00:08:56.280 question I can answer, brother. When you've asked her that question, what does she say? It's not that we have

00:09:00.220 not discussed this, but she continually asks for space and she needs time. Yeah, you gave her a quarter century.

00:09:05.500 Yeah. She's probably going to leave you. Um, if it's been 10 though, she probably already left.

00:09:16.280 It's pretty cruel when you think about it. Men don't ask for much in marriage and yet they strive

00:09:20.760 to provide quite a bit. But the lack of reciprocity from modern women in relationships should not come

00:09:27.300 as a surprise to anyone who's been watching this channel. Other wives grow morbidly obese and repulsive

00:09:32.140 after marriage resulting in sexlessness. If you got married and gained weight after, I want you to

00:09:37.020 raise your hand. I need a count of hands, please.

00:09:52.180 Perhaps you might even hear the stitches tear on the wedding dress on the way back down the aisle.

00:09:57.300 Sometimes women wield sex like a weapon using it to coerce their husbands or torment them.

00:10:01.680 There's a lot of ugly ways sexlessness can emerge in a marriage. And I think it's fair to call those

00:10:06.340 toxic ones, whatever percentage that may compromise utter failures. Another external sign of a marriage

00:10:12.540 failing one might look for is the percentage of couples who go to marriage counselors or God forbid

00:10:17.540 the left-wing crazies who call themselves sex therapists. According to a 2023 study of 1,106 U.S.

00:10:25.820 adults, 37% of couples have sought counseling at some point. Other studies place the stat

00:10:31.520 even higher at 40 or 50%. But I don't find them credible since they were either conducted by

00:10:36.960 marriage counselors or specialists closely affiliated with them. Essentially, they're

00:10:41.520 advertising and trying to normalize the practice. And also, for the sake of fairness, we'll go with

00:10:46.320 the lower figure of 37%. Meanwhile, in 2020, Kinsey Institute data revealed that 5 to 10% of couples

00:10:53.180 have gone to some kind of sex therapy. The number potentially adds up to nearly half again, 42 to

00:11:00.380 47%. The problem with using counseling or therapy as an indicator for troubled marriages is that if

00:11:06.460 you're already in counseling or sex therapy, you're pretty much divorced already. But a 2018 article by

00:11:12.460 divorce attorney Peter Van Alen indicates that 38% of people who seek such help wind up divorced. That

00:11:19.580 leaves the remaining 26 to 29% of all married couples who had sought counseling had stayed together.

00:11:26.220 And there is a problem that we don't know. We don't know if the counseling helped them turn the

00:11:30.060 corner and be happy or how many of those married couples just gritted their teeth and endured an

00:11:35.340 unhappy union. But one thing is clear. The fact that nearly one third of people who stayed married

00:11:40.360 needed counseling in the first place indicates that even if as a man you manage to avoid divorce,

00:11:45.860 there's still a big chance your marriage is not going to be a happy one. And let's face it,

00:11:51.220 which spouse is the one usually that demands counseling? Usually it's the wife. Another

00:11:56.160 external sign of an unhappy marriage might be how often couples argue. A 2022 YouGov poll asked people

00:12:03.720 how often they have serious arguments with their partner. 8% reported having serious arguments daily.

00:12:09.820 30% argued at least once a week and 28% argued at least once a month. 32% argued at least

00:12:15.860 once a year and 2% claimed they never argued. The last group is otherwise known as bold-faced liars.

00:12:23.020 Now, none of this is definitive, but it helps you understand attorney Branca's rough estimate that

00:12:27.900 only 25% of marriages are happy ones, while the remaining 75% end up in divorce or some kind of

00:12:34.100 cheaper-to-keeper daily health. And as always with these statistics, I encourage young men to be

00:12:38.740 cautious when approaching the idea of marriage rather than pushing you into it like a shameless

00:12:43.080 marriage propagandist like Matt Walsh and Brad Wilcox do. If anything, their position just shows

00:12:48.300 they don't really give a damn about you or what might happen to you. They're perfectly happy to

00:12:52.680 sacrifice you for their ideal. Walsh and Wilcox are the same sort of conservatives who a couple

00:12:58.100 generations ago would have happily sent young men off to Vietnam to die while they sat comfortably at

00:13:03.360 home. But at any rate, if you do meet a decent girl and you want to roll the dice, for the love

00:13:07.260 of God, please get a prenup and get it well in advance of the wedding and have witnesses or text

00:13:12.340 evidence to as much of these discussions as humanly possible. So she can't later claim to a judge that

00:13:18.520 she felt coerced. So no, contrary to Brad Wilcox's ignorant statement or outright lie, I did not claim

00:13:23.980 the divorce rate was 75%. Interestingly, Wilcox cites a divorce rate of 40%. In my previous video on the

00:13:31.060 subject, I ran with an estimate of 40 to 45%. It used to be 50 to 55%. In the first two decades following

00:13:39.260 the introduction of no fault divorce. And of course, the marriage rate has been cut in half since then.

00:13:44.460 Meanwhile, Matt Walsh in his video ignores plenty of credible estimates and good work done on divorce

00:13:50.140 rate to simply use the raw census data to claim the divorce rate is 35%. Probably our best guess is based on

00:13:57.300 U.S. census data, which according to the most recent figures says that about 35% of American

00:14:02.820 adults who have been married have been divorced. I've covered how trad cons sometimes like to low

00:14:07.600 ball the divorce rate in my video, how conservatives trick you into marrying modern women. Sometimes

00:14:12.480 they even have the nerve to drop it below 30%. In the same video, I debunked the claim the Daily Wire

00:14:17.660 likes to make that being religious reduces your chance of divorce to single digits. That is yet another lie.

00:14:23.440 In his video, Matt Walsh deliberately misconstrues another tweet of mine, in which I pointed out how

00:14:28.720 Walsh, Ben Shapiro, and Michael Knowles are still in their 30s at this time, which is a pretty young

00:14:33.560 age to be preaching to the public about the keys to a happy marriage. In one of her tweets, she wrote,

00:14:38.760 quote, the trad cons push marriage because they aren't old enough to know better. They don't know the

00:14:42.580 reality of what they're pushing. This is accompanied by a picture of myself, Ben Shapiro, Michael Knowles.

00:14:46.740 We aren't old enough to know better and don't know the reality of what we're pushing. Yet a woman who is

00:14:51.240 younger than us and single does know better and does understand this reality. Which Walsh goes on

00:14:56.400 to do multiple times in the same video. My point was that these three young guys might not even know

00:15:02.080 what they're advocating for until the ugly divorce happens to one of them. I personally don't find it

00:15:07.960 so easy to hand wave the absolute horror stories I've heard of men having to live their lives

00:15:12.820 devastated in divorce court. And need I point out what happened to Steven Crowder, about whom the Daily

00:15:18.340 Wire at the time maliciously pushed the falsehoods made up by Crowder's wife. There is literally

00:15:23.960 nothing Walsh, Shapiro, or Knowles could say to convince me that one day they won't find themselves

00:15:28.520 in Crowder's position. And if they do tell you otherwise, they're either lying or delusional.

00:15:33.380 Trad wives are all sundresses, ride or die, and cherry pie all day until they are trying to get

00:15:39.500 alimony, child custody, and child support in divorce court. Then they might as well be head shaved,

00:15:44.620 tatted up, purple haired feminists along with the rest of modern women.

00:15:48.240 And so I want to help you a bit.

00:15:50.240 And really, I want to help your wife because you essentially just used your platform. Millions of

00:15:54.700 people have access to your platform. She doesn't have the same to insult her. You picked the wrong

00:16:00.540 woman. Okay. So here's what I would like to do. I would like to invite Hillary Crowder onto my

00:16:06.180 platform because she doesn't have one. And because her ex-husband apparently just used his to insult

00:16:12.660 her to say that he picked the wrong woman. I find that to be really despicable. So Hillary Crowder,

00:16:18.120 if you are watching, you are more than welcome to come on my show and to talk about what's actually

00:16:23.460 going on. I have been interested in the Steven Crowder saga pertaining to his divorce because

00:16:29.060 he literally inserted me into his divorce a couple of days ago. And his wife and family are now speaking

00:16:36.000 out regarding that video in which he told people publicly that his wife was leaving him. You remember

00:16:42.540 this? He chose wrong. And he essentially made it sound as if he did not want his marriage to end,

00:16:48.740 but his wife simply wanted to leave. Well, she has responded by giving video. And I want to prep you.

00:16:55.620 I want you to know this is horrific video. It is very difficult to watch. It's especially difficult

00:16:59.460 to watch because in this footage, she is eight months pregnant. And the video essentially reveals

00:17:05.540 just how emotionally abusive he has been. And she is alleging that he has been emotionally abusive to her.

00:17:10.340 But all Walsh could muster was to sarcastically repeat what I had said in unflattering tones.

00:17:15.340 By the way, Matt, this is lazy without substance and you depend on it way too much in your videos.

00:17:20.840 Matt focuses on how I posted their ages rather than what this might signify.

00:17:25.560 He then takes great delight in saying how a woman in her 20s who's single, I'm not,

00:17:29.940 but thanks, Matt. Now, one of these influencers is a woman named Pearl Davis,

00:17:33.220 who has garnered a relatively large following on YouTube and various social media platforms.

00:17:37.140 She's in her mid-20s, single and childless, and yet full of opinions about modern marriage

00:17:42.280 and family life, a subject that she has no personal insight into whatsoever.

00:17:47.000 An unmarried doesn't know much about marriage as a Bible thumper in his 30s,

00:17:51.300 who has so far not yet felt the sting of divorce. Here's the thing, Matt. You don't have to jump

00:17:57.600 onto the manure pile to know that it stinks or to stretch the metaphor that around 75% of them do.

00:18:04.140 One can look at the statistics, one can listen to the horror stories, and one can advocate for

00:18:10.060 caution and reform. And that's exactly what I've advocated for. Not that it stopped Matt Walsh at

00:18:15.540 the beginning of his video claiming that like the feminists, people on my side of the debate

00:18:19.560 quote unquote hate marriage.

00:18:21.280 Some right-wing influencers with legions of young, mostly male fans have decided that men

00:18:27.420 should abandon marriage and family life and go their own way. And these influencers,

00:18:32.560 many of whom consider themselves a part of the so-called red pill movement, pretend to despise

00:18:37.920 feminists and yet have essentially arrived at the same conclusion as feminists, which is that

00:18:42.340 we should give up on the family.

00:18:43.960 No, I advocate caution. And the men in my space are majority conservative and would like to get

00:18:49.540 married, but realistically are weary of modern results. But saying quote unquote red pillars are

00:18:55.500 just like the feminists was an over-frequent shaming and scare tactic Daily Wire was repeating over and

00:19:01.120 over at the time. I wonder what the corporate boardroom meeting at the fake Tradcon headquarters

00:19:06.480 was like when they thought of that one and what the email from Jeremy Boring to all of his little

00:19:11.300 employees said that looked like. Anyways, there's so many differences between men weary of marriage

00:19:16.640 and feminists that the comparison is utterly absurd and barely worth criticizing. But that's some of the

00:19:22.680 quality work you can expect from the Daily Wire, I guess. More two-dimensional, socially irrelevant

00:19:28.120 garbage. It is, however, illuminating that in the comments on the Matt Walsh repost of the video,

00:19:33.480 along with every single other Daily Wire video on the subject line in the past three years,

00:19:38.060 has been full of men agreeing with me and people like me. Top comments consistently every single

00:19:44.140 time. Among their own audience, it just goes to show how when push comes to shove, Daily Wire are

00:19:49.180 perfectly happy to portray their own supporters. By the way, guys, how's Brett Cooper doing? Oh yeah,

00:19:54.260 that's right. The final tweet of mine that Walsh brings up in his video is the one that featured

00:19:59.580 before and after photos of Pierce Brosnan and his wife, Keeley. Essentially, the wife of an ultra

00:20:05.280 handsome rich movie star went from being a hot chick in their early relationship to being pretty fat.

00:20:11.820 And don't tell me that Pierce Boersman doesn't have the money to hire a trainer or a dietician,

00:20:17.000 if his wife was even remotely inclined to stay good looking for him. So I simply asked the question,

00:20:22.900 quote, does this count for men as a successful marriage? Would this be a W for men everywhere?

00:20:29.440 Again, men ask for very little in marriage, peace, affection, respect, loyalty, and if possible for

00:20:35.300 their wife to try to look her best. And it's pretty easy to not let things slide so far that you become

00:20:40.660 a blimp. It's possible that Pierce Brosnan's wife just doesn't give a shit enough to try. But I don't

00:20:46.200 know, maybe she has a medical condition. Maybe he has a secret chubby chaser fetish. Maybe they have

00:20:51.600 embraced left-wing, healthy-at-any-size propaganda. All I did in a single tweet was to ask a question.

00:20:57.880 Instead, Matt Walsh characterized it as, quote, apparently, even if the two are happy and remain

00:21:02.940 married for two decades, they still might fall into that 75% divorce rate because they both have

00:21:08.980 not remained in supermodel conditions. Like, he always is white knighting for these hoes. Always.

00:21:14.040 Anyways, you notice how most of a Matt Walsh video is just him repeating a straw man version of an

00:21:19.420 argument rather than coming up with anything of his own. How much does he earn a year again? And

00:21:24.160 indeed, he has to say not both because Pierce Brosnan still looks pretty damn good despite being

00:21:31.780 10 years older than his wife. And also, Matt, that's not what I said. And you also presume they're happy.

00:21:37.280 You have no way of knowing that more than I do. All I ask, if being the former James Bond and having

00:21:42.960 your pick of the litter, you choose a wife who doesn't stay in shape, would that be a sign of a

00:21:47.820 successful marriage, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that most men wouldn't be very pleased by

00:21:53.600 the wedding dress tearing on the way back down the aisle. In fact, when you think about it,

00:21:57.780 letting yourself go once you've nabbed your man and gotten your ring seems pretty disrespectful to

00:22:02.440 your man. But again, all I did was ask a question, a valid one. And interestingly, in the past few

00:22:07.660 weeks, it's come out that Brosnan's wife, Keely, has started a weight loss journey, which suggests that

00:22:13.580 perhaps Pierce Brosnan wasn't pleased when she got fat. And it begs the question, why didn't she start

00:22:19.300 this earlier in their two decades long marriage? Anyways, Matt Walsh's grade school attempt at a

00:22:24.520 rebuttal to my position pretty much consisted of his reading those three tweets, not exactly quality

00:22:31.240 work there, Matt. Then he goes on to give sage advice on marriage. He starts with a grandiose

00:22:36.660 declaration that we're all individuals and to ignore statistics. I am saying that you shouldn't

00:22:42.420 on the other extreme, see yourself as passive debris floating helplessly on the tide of statistical

00:22:49.300 likelihoods because you are an individual. Your marriage is an individual thing and its chances of

00:22:55.460 failure are not set by society at large. Yes, Matt, we are all individuals and statistics are made up

00:23:03.140 of a collection of individuals. They mean something when you're trying to evaluate the odds of a poor

00:23:08.160 outcome. But Matt's brilliant advice is to ignore the probabilities and just don't make the choices

00:23:14.020 that lead to divorce. He then absurdly compares divorce to obesity. The obesity rate in the United

00:23:20.040 States is over 40 percent. Does that mean that your own chances of becoming obese are 40 percent? No,

00:23:26.420 it doesn't. Your chances might be five percent. They might be practically zero or they might be quite a

00:23:31.840 bit higher than 40 percent. That's because obesity is the result of behavior and choices. If you do not

00:23:38.220 engage in the behavior or make the choices that lead to obesity, you will not become obese. The fact that

00:23:44.020 40 percent of people around you are fat does not mean that you automatically have a 40 percent

00:23:49.920 obesity risk. You make bad choices which make you fat, so don't make those choices. Of course, that ignores the

00:23:55.820 fact that only one person controls what they put in their mouth. Well, there are two people in a marriage

00:24:00.560 and women are the ones who leave the majority of the time. Matt then pivots to a car accident

00:24:05.980 analogy. Again, he says if you're a safe driver, you reduce your risks of having an accident.

00:24:11.560 Again, ignoring the fact that there are idiots on the road who will just run into you no matter how

00:24:17.400 safe you drive. Now, imagine if the other drivers on the road were legally entitled to half of your house

00:24:23.140 and a monthly stipend if they ran into you. Something tells me that the accident rate would be much higher

00:24:29.340 than it already is. This is the state of modern marriage for men. And such is Matt's brilliant

00:24:35.320 advice that if you don't want to get divorced, don't make decisions that lead to divorce.

00:24:39.920 Implicit in this advice is the idea that if your wife leaves you and skins you alive in divorce court,

00:24:45.640 it's your own damn fault anyway. Matt Walsh has the convenience of turning up his nose at men whose

00:24:51.260 wives leave them and destroy them financially. That is, until one day he has it done to himself.

00:24:57.020 Matt then launches into a rambling list of how to significantly reduce your chances of divorce.

00:25:02.340 So I hope you're listening, folks. One, be religious. I've already discussed how this does

00:25:07.480 not significantly reduce your chances of divorce in my video, How Conservatives Trick You Into Marrying

00:25:12.900 Modern Women. Essentially, unless you're a religious fanatic who attends church every day,

00:25:17.880 it's really not going to move the needle. Second, agree with your wife that you don't,

00:25:22.200 quote unquote, believe in divorce. And maybe she'll say it to you. It doesn't mean she won't

00:25:27.120 turn on a dime and take advantage of the legal system and wield it like a bludgeon against you.

00:25:32.520 By the way, ruling out divorce as an option doesn't mean your marriage is a success, Matt.

00:25:36.920 Staying trapped in an unhappy marriage because you don't believe in divorce would fall into the 75%

00:25:41.760 of failed marriages. In fact, now I'm wondering. Matt Walsh obviously doesn't believe in divorce.

00:25:46.820 Presumably, neither does his wife. So what side of the 75% does he fall on?

00:25:51.720 You can continue to date, even or especially as your lives get busier and you start having kids

00:25:56.160 and so on. You can make a strong effort to be patient with and grateful to each other.

00:25:59.640 Third, Matt says you should do a date night once in a while. For years now, I've exhaustingly

00:26:04.540 covered how date nights aren't really about pair bonding. They're demands a wife makes for extra

00:26:09.980 pampering and entertainment with the veiled threat that if you don't do date nights,

00:26:14.160 she's going to be more and more unpleasant to live with.

00:26:17.880 Fourth, Matt says you should be patient and honest. Well, that's nothing. I mean,

00:26:21.500 who's out here saying a good marriage strategy is to be grumpy and to lie? But bear in mind,

00:26:26.040 folks, this is low IQ advice on marriage from a man who is encouraging you to leap into it regardless

00:26:31.600 of potential risk. Five, Matt says you should take care of your body and appearance. What,

00:26:36.080 like Pierce Brosman's wife did? You just finished shaming the idea that a wife turning fat

00:26:41.760 might indicate a marital discord. You hypocrite. You did your strawmanning sarcastic voice and

00:26:47.360 everything. You know, the thing that you do for 80% of your videos as a piss poor argument.

00:26:53.580 Anyways, bear in mind that these two things are highlighted by Matt in the exact same video.

00:26:58.200 And that's it. That's Matt's brilliant advice as you walk into a horrible deal.

00:27:02.280 In this light, it's hardly surprising that the conservative movement at large does not trust

00:27:06.960 or respect the Daily Wire. They call it the fake TradCon headquarters. People have all sorts of

00:27:11.980 suspicions about special interests, controlled oppositions, and a rigid, cutthroat, money-grubbing

00:27:17.420 business ethic or lack thereof. There certainly have been way too many scandals over business

00:27:22.500 contracts at the Daily Wire to ignore. And these are the people asking you as men to trust their

00:27:28.140 advice. Throw caution into the wind and just man up and get married. Well, folks, this is very much

00:27:33.860 an instance where you'd be very wise to examine the source. Buyer beware. Don't risk the destruction

00:27:39.340 of your life and finances just because some cuck losers at the Daily Wire insisted it was a good

00:27:44.240 idea. Thanks for watching. And if you liked this video, leave a comment and let me know your experience.

Pearl - November 12, 2025

Dailywire Has Declared War On The Redpill

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