Pearl - July 11, 2026


Does Family Court Kidnap Children？


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00:00:00.000 Do you think you behave in a Christian value way? 0.97
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00:00:05.760 All right, thank you.
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00:00:07.340 Where in the Bible does it talk about sex change? 1.00
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00:00:16.440 It's right. 0.54
00:00:16.800 You can just keep going.
00:00:17.900 And usually men, it's like, number one, having kids, getting a family, being a protector
00:00:22.220 or provider. 0.99
00:00:23.200 And then women, it's like traveling and getting dick. 1.00
00:00:25.720 And then kids are like last. 1.00
00:00:27.120 Because I said, you can't go around saying, I don't give you money when I give you $75,000 a year tax-free.
00:00:34.340 I'm like, that's a full-time job.
00:00:36.240 I hope your generation starts appreciating and letting women be more meaningful. 0.61
00:00:43.540 What more meaning do we need?
00:00:45.900 What's up, guys? Welcome to my YouTube channel.
00:00:48.340 Today, we are asking the question, when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped?
00:00:54.060 Talking about child custody laws in the United States.
00:00:56.780 today we're on the Katy Trail in Dallas, Texas. But before we get started, guys, make sure you
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00:01:06.060 event that is in your city. Like the video and let's get started. So today we're talking about
00:01:11.540 when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped? So we're talking about family court today,
00:01:18.420 child custody. Oh, I don't know that was a topic right now, is it? What? That's a topic right now?
00:01:24.480 yeah oh i don't really know much about the topic okay so we're just kind of begging the question
00:01:30.160 if how is if a woman can take a man's kid in a divorce how is that different than kidnapping
00:01:36.580 where she can limit his access to four days a month so how should it be i don't i don't have
00:01:42.080 a kid so i don't even know yeah but if you did hypothetically right i mean obviously i would 1.00
00:01:46.660 want my person to have equal custody whatever that is that what you're saying yeah but women
00:01:51.800 get custody the majority of the time and standard is every other weekend so we're just kind of
00:01:56.480 begging the question how is that any different than kidnapping i don't know no i usually agree
00:02:02.900 with all the stuff you say so i'm not here to argue i'm not gonna be good content
00:02:05.840 that's crazy i met you though it's crazy i think i found you on facebook
00:02:10.140 how's it going sir would you like an intriguing prompt yeah so when is it legal for a child to
00:02:20.060 be kidnapped i feel like i recognize your voice you might yeah what's your name pearl yeah i do
00:02:26.120 yeah you're like uh i guess right wing trad woman i guess i guess yeah okay so when is it legal for
00:02:35.420 a child to be kidnapped yeah um probably if it's the kid's mother okay yeah um i mean usually uh
00:02:43.280 i think when it comes to divorce courts women get a lot of uh privilege over men a lot of the times
00:02:48.820 they kind of just get defaulted to the woman i mean that's what the law was for like forever now
00:02:55.180 like there's men's rights groups that have changed that but is that uh what this is like yeah it is
00:03:00.640 so as um do you know any fathers that are struggling with getting custody of their kids
00:03:05.080 not personally no but i mean there's probably countless of them out there and as a young guy
00:03:11.080 does that impact um your like want or desire to have a family and a kid of your own i mean somewhat
00:03:17.160 But I think that I also, you know, get the selection of who I marry and who I have a kid with.
00:03:22.180 So obviously, that's always the case that, you know, there could be some no-fault divorce.
00:03:27.400 But I think that I'm a practicing Christian.
00:03:29.920 I would also try and get with a girl that's a practicing Christian that has good moral character that hopefully wouldn't do that to me.
00:03:35.820 But, you know, that's always an issue. 0.99
00:03:38.480 Do you think Christian women have higher moral character? 1.00
00:03:42.240 Definitely. 1.00
00:03:42.920 I think Christian women are the only women that really have moral character. 0.99
00:03:46.580 I mean, I don't think you can have moral character outside of at least theology. 1.00
00:03:50.880 I think the secular worldview is just completely based on preferences.
00:03:54.780 So it's just whatever you want to do. 1.00
00:03:57.380 So do you think the hoe-to-church pipeline is something that's not real? 1.00
00:04:03.460 Because you know the reputation of like... 0.99
00:04:05.200 Yeah, well, I guess it kind of depends how you do it. 1.00
00:04:07.420 If you're like Nala Ray and you're going to be sucking dick one month 1.00
00:04:11.440 and then six months later you're starting your own ministry, that's terrible. 1.00
00:04:14.680 I mean, there definitely is women out there that have become reformed, but it needs to go from you being a hoe to you sitting in the back of the church, not opening your mouth for, I mean, 10 years. 0.96
00:04:25.860 And then, I mean, later on, if you want to go and tell other women that they shouldn't do what you did because you went through that experience, obviously you should listen. 1.00
00:04:34.440 But obviously women shouldn't be ministers in the first place. 0.99
00:04:37.280 They definitely shouldn't be expressing their opinion, trying to shame other people if they're a whore themselves. 1.00
00:04:41.840 so uh what incentive is there for good women to stay good and virtuous um the wrath of god I guess 0.99
00:04:50.260 I mean in society I mean there isn't really any incentive anymore I mean women are kind of just 0.78
00:04:55.680 allowed to do whatever they want there's no uh restraints anymore there's no shame how old are
00:05:01.080 you if you don't mind me asking I just turned 20 okay so is this a general like I guess what would
00:05:06.660 you say is the sentiment amount around yourself and your friends around getting married and having
00:05:11.100 a family do would you say most young men are planning for it and intending on it or no um
00:05:16.820 yeah most young men i would say are planning for that i mean they've done surveys on what
00:05:22.040 men prioritize versus what women prioritize and usually men it's like number one having kids 0.99
00:05:27.000 getting a family being a protector provider and then women it's like traveling and getting dick 0.99
00:05:32.560 and then kids are like last but um obviously there's still like some cucked guys out there 0.99
00:05:37.980 that, you know, subscribe to the whole feminist mantra,
00:05:41.500 they don't really want kids or want to get married.
00:05:43.980 I think, obviously, like, Gen Z men are the most right wing
00:05:47.800 that there's ever been, really, for a generation. 0.89
00:05:51.520 So that's definitely something that's on the come up.
00:05:53.780 But then on the opposite side of that, 1.00
00:05:55.840 Gen Z women are the most left wing we've ever seen. 1.00
00:05:58.620 So that's why there's such a divide.
00:05:59.980 So, I mean, there's a lot of men that are either unable to get a wife
00:06:05.080 or even just, like, a girlfriend or have sex,
00:06:07.460 So they're completely checking out.
00:06:09.180 So, I mean, I think most men are optimistic about having kids and having a wife.
00:06:13.820 But when it comes down to the actual details, then it becomes a lot harder.
00:06:19.600 And what have you found in the dating pool?
00:06:21.920 What have I found in the dating pool?
00:06:23.000 Yeah, like what have you been, what's been your experiences in the dating pool?
00:06:26.700 I mean, to be honest, I haven't been the most Christian when it comes to that.
00:06:33.420 I mean.
00:06:34.080 No, I'm not like, like what, are you seeing some of the trends in women?
00:06:37.200 Oh yeah, definitely. I mean, there's a lot of women out there that will not really even look for a serious relationship. 1.00
00:06:46.060 They're just looking for hookups. I mean, there's definitely still good women out there, but it's few and far. 1.00
00:06:53.140 Who do you think uses the other gender for sex more, men or women? 0.60
00:06:59.180 I mean, it depends on what you mean by more. 0.52
00:07:03.320 I mean, if you're looking at it on like a percentage basis, I would say that when a man is looking for a woman, he's mainly looking at her for, you know, attractiveness and like for sexual access. 0.98
00:07:15.900 Women, I would say, actually end up doing it more just on a numbers basis because they are the gatekeepers to sex. 0.93
00:07:24.020 But women also look at men for money, for protection, for other things. 0.98
00:07:28.640 So I guess there's two ways to look at that. 0.91
00:07:30.300 Well, I just meant, you know, there's this society, like, there's this idea that men
00:07:34.320 use women for sex, but if young women aren't looking for relationships, wouldn't they be 0.97
00:07:39.740 using men for sex? 0.99
00:07:41.240 Yeah, definitely, or, you know, for money, or just to get tricked out on. 0.99
00:07:45.120 Oh, have you seen women your age in, like, doing OnlyFans or sugar babying or any type 0.84
00:07:50.660 of sex work? 0.98
00:07:51.560 Have you seen that at all with women you know? 0.92
00:07:53.320 Yeah, there's, like, women I went to high school with that have OnlyFans accounts now.
00:07:56.380 Really?
00:07:56.780 Yeah. 1.00
00:07:57.040 Is it the most attractive women or the average women that tend to do it? 0.69
00:08:00.460 Or do you not see a pattern?
00:08:01.980 I mean, there's obviously some barrier of entry, but there's definitely, you know, very not entirely attractive women that do it. 1.00
00:08:10.840 I mean, very mid-girls. 0.98
00:08:12.000 I don't think there's any correlation really with how attractive you are and how promiscuous a woman is, to be honest. 0.78
00:08:20.060 I mean, obviously, like, if a woman's more attractive and she does sex work, that's going to be highlighted. 0.81
00:08:24.680 You're going to see that way more often. 1.00
00:08:25.780 then she's going to get a lot more engagement. 1.00
00:08:27.320 But there's plenty of unattractive women that do the same thing. 1.00
00:08:29.860 What's that been like graduating high school 1.00
00:08:32.120 and there's girls that are starting only?
00:08:34.100 I can't even imagine growing up in that.
00:08:36.160 It's so crazy.
00:08:38.420 There was this one girl I knew that was doing it while she was in high school.
00:08:42.520 And that was a whole thing.
00:08:44.440 But the only difference between a girl that, really these days,
00:08:49.200 a girl that has an OnlyFans account is she's getting paid for what she does. 1.00
00:08:52.820 I mean, there's plenty of women that will go out there 1.00
00:08:54.340 and just hook up with a guy, you know, at a bar or whatever, 1.00
00:08:57.600 just get, like, smashed in the toilet. 0.94
00:09:00.100 Or they're still posting promiscuous stuff online.
00:09:03.180 I mean, really the only difference is that one of them is financing it.
00:09:06.280 Yeah.
00:09:06.800 Yeah.
00:09:07.400 Awesome.
00:09:07.860 This is great.
00:09:08.440 Thank you so much.
00:09:09.120 Nice to meet you.
00:09:09.580 Appreciate it.
00:09:10.420 Yeah.
00:09:10.940 We're asking, when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped?
00:09:14.840 What's your name?
00:09:15.640 Pearl.
00:09:16.120 Nice to meet you.
00:09:17.080 Pearl?
00:09:17.660 Nice to meet you.
00:09:18.460 Yeah.
00:09:19.700 What's your name?
00:09:20.580 From online?
00:09:21.480 Yeah.
00:09:21.980 Yeah. 1.00
00:09:22.200 You're talking that shit about the dating and shit. 1.00
00:09:24.860 I'm at fucking Pearl Harbor. 1.00
00:09:26.320 Yeah. 0.99
00:09:28.020 What's your name?
00:09:29.260 A-A-Ron.
00:09:30.100 A-Ron, nice to meet you.
00:09:31.300 So today we're talking about when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped?
00:09:34.780 Okay.
00:09:35.840 Do you think it's ever legal?
00:09:40.820 I work with kids.
00:09:42.820 I work with a lot of kids. 0.99
00:09:45.520 And, um, kids are going through some shit. 0.99
00:09:51.140 Okay. 0.99
00:09:51.580 children go through shit rough shit right um i've never really thought about this so give me a second 0.98
00:09:59.600 to think about this but i work with kids what do you what's your job um i have a fitness program 0.99
00:10:04.720 okay so you like coach kids yeah okay so how is it have you seen um divorce impact children
00:10:12.180 or parents not being able to get along?
00:10:17.860 I'm the right person to be asking, okay?
00:10:22.640 I've seen it all.
00:10:23.740 I've seen a lot of everything.
00:10:25.800 And what I've noticed most is that a lot of times adults aren't really taking kids into consideration
00:10:39.340 in the scheme of things and so it affects the child the child knows it children are very smart
00:10:46.960 intelligent and they they can feel they don't have to know they can just that's how they move move
00:10:54.300 and so kids are very intelligent so whether you try to hide it from them or not they can pick it
00:11:01.940 up how early do you notice them being able to pick up on like parents not being able to get along
00:11:07.560 um i'll say about as early as six or seven they can tell the parents aren't getting along yeah
00:11:18.620 they can they can they can put a about you know five years old and under they just kind of
00:11:25.200 they're just absorbing things but about six seven they can
00:11:29.460 can you tell a difference between the kids that have their parents together
00:11:34.740 and the ones that maybe don't have full-time access to their dads?
00:11:40.580 Yeah.
00:11:43.200 And I was raised in a single-parent family,
00:11:46.140 and the single-parent mother creates an atmosphere,
00:11:55.420 an environment that makes the children feel like they're being taken care of.
00:12:04.740 at a good at a great degree that makes sense so they feel like they're being taken care of in a
00:12:09.620 single mother home the single parent mother creates the atmosphere okay um the children know
00:12:19.380 that there's something that's not right but the children aren't going to go against the mother
00:12:25.780 a lot of times so yes it affects them and when i get when i get a kid when i have a 30
00:12:32.260 child um classroom set and and i've just recently been able to point this out as a as a trainer as
00:12:41.820 a coach um you can tell when the kids are saddened they're saddened and you don't know why
00:12:49.640 and then over the years i've realized it probably has something to do you'll see the kids are upset
00:12:57.340 and then like maybe having behavioral issues is that not really behavioral issues they just
00:13:02.760 you can tell when a kid is yeah they don't hide it like kids emotions yeah and when they
00:13:08.060 they they're happy they're asking questions they're engaging they want to know more
00:13:13.000 there's a certain set of social behaviors that go with a happy kid and a certain set
00:13:17.460 of social behaviors that go with a kid that's not thriving internally yeah have you ever seen
00:13:24.480 like a nasty custody battle like in a kid being put in the middle of it no i'm mostly in the
00:13:32.040 after school programs i'm mostly in the schools school districts so
00:13:35.900 i try to create an atmosphere where none of that matters and then and then i leave right so i'm
00:13:47.820 there for one hour let's forget about our problems smile breathe laugh let's have some fun
00:13:55.400 and um and let's get stronger physically mentally emotionally when i talk this
00:14:01.580 language to a six-year-old they understand yeah a five-year-old uh about six they understand
00:14:08.540 mentally strong they understand physically weak they understand higher levels of conversation
00:14:14.800 so yeah how if a mother can issue a restraining order and limit a father's access to the kid
00:14:21.880 how is that any different than kidnapping
00:14:23.860 and you don't need evidence to issue a restraining order these are very complicated situations because
00:14:32.920 like I say the algorithm I look at the algorithm that's how I look at the parenting situation or
00:14:40.200 a kid situation every kid has an algorithm and that algorithm is is coming from the parents the
00:14:46.940 environment how they were raised so some kids know love some kids don't know some kids know
00:14:53.660 fun some kids don't know some kids know healthy some kids don't know so
00:14:58.020 the legal situation is just it's a completely set of algorithms that
00:15:06.540 i don't even know how what percentage of parents have to deal with that but
00:15:11.460 anytime that happens it's not good for the kid at all yeah yeah and you can see it because the
00:15:19.180 kid just seems really sad and off they know what's going on yeah they know they know word for word
00:15:24.640 they can have a conversation with if you sit down and talk with a five six year old seven year old
00:15:29.300 for sure what's going on with your parents and they'll go um i woke up in the middle of the night
00:15:36.300 and they were arguing the parents didn't know the kid was up the kid didn't come and make it
00:15:42.720 you know i'm saying so it's always something that the kid the kids are aware we're trying to act like
00:15:48.200 the kids are not intelligent the kids are so smart yeah and so when you're arguing like a lot of the
00:15:53.840 parents think it's not affecting the kids because maybe they're doing it behind closed doors but it
00:15:57.780 really is yes for sure and kids are intelligent you got to stop acting like the kids are not
00:16:04.440 intelligent and they're intelligent at an early age they come with intelligence so a lot of times
00:16:10.220 I see parents teachers coaches they try to they try to play the kids like they're dumb or that
00:16:15.680 like they're not intelligent like they're not physically active or they can't be physically 0.96
00:16:19.320 active and so they go oh don't hurt them but these kids are I don't have a problem getting them to
00:16:25.360 work out I don't have a problem to get them to drink water eat fruits and vegetables think
00:16:29.340 positive these are things that we talk about in my class and they pick it up but this might be the
00:16:34.920 first time they've heard about positive thinking and so if we're not teaching our kids positive
00:16:40.960 thinking before in puke before their uh before puberty then we've wasted so much time with these
00:16:50.240 kids they yeah so since do you ever see a difference in discipline because fathers are
00:16:56.040 generally the like they're the ones that discipline the kids more so than mothers
00:16:59.760 do you ever see a difference in like um uh kids that have been disciplined for like in single
00:17:06.180 mother homes versus kids with two parents i mean all the research suggests that um it's different
00:17:15.220 when your boots on the ground you know yeah i see a lot i mean it depends on the scenario i've been
00:17:21.400 in louisiana i've been in texas i've been in new york i've been i've been all over the country
00:17:25.260 and again it's the algorithm you can have a kid like LeBron James came from a single parent
00:17:32.060 family he's the best athlete in the world ever so it's again it's the algorithm God has a lot
00:17:40.440 to do with it I'm sure so but the research always suggests that kids that come from a
00:17:46.800 two-parent household are more of everything so what are things that kids notice that you don't
00:17:54.780 think most parents realize most kids don't notice no they do notice they do notice like you said
00:18:01.200 that kids are intelligent so what are some examples do you have maybe a story of something that you
00:18:06.860 saw or experienced when working with the kids so in my camps um skateboard fitness camp are we
00:18:13.960 recording this yeah okay um at the skateboard fitness camp all right we always we understand
00:18:21.500 the mind-body connection and so we always expect more and so when you expect more you get more
00:18:30.520 if you expect less you get less the kid knows the difference between a person that's trying
00:18:37.180 to manipulate them and a person that really cares about their well-being their performance
00:18:42.300 and they want to see them do yeah perform better and um and you know that's a tough job because
00:18:50.140 again when you're working with someone else's kids it's it's really a self-fulfilling thing
00:18:58.740 versus the parents may never acknowledge that you're working with their kids to make them
00:19:04.360 their kids better and the people around them may not recognize it but so you just have to be
00:19:11.880 internally um yeah strong for your own self awesome well thank you so much i appreciate
00:19:17.920 at the interview youtube right but so if you can file restraining orders without evidence
00:19:22.940 and limit a father's contact with his kids how is it any different than kidnapping
00:19:27.680 if you can file a restraining order you think it's easy to file a restraining order
00:19:33.060 well you don't need evidence to file them it's not because it's um i've actually had to do it
00:19:38.040 once when i was a young woman so okay right but you don't it's um because it's in family court
00:19:43.320 it's not based on evidence it's um probable cause so uh true yeah so you don't need evidence to file 1.00
00:19:50.400 them so you can you there might be the legal you know well it's okay there might be like women that
00:19:57.160 don't um that use it for good reasons right i'm not saying every woman that does but legally you
00:20:01.580 can file a restraint i work for some private catholic um i don't want to say names you don't
00:20:09.260 You don't have to say names.
00:20:10.100 Where women and men can come for help and legal aid.
00:20:14.220 So there are resources out there that people need to know about.
00:20:19.580 Okay.
00:20:20.400 Do you want to tell the people what they are?
00:20:22.400 No.
00:20:23.300 Okay.
00:20:23.780 Because they could be completely against, you know, I'm not putting names out there.
00:20:28.220 Okay.
00:20:29.340 That I'm not using people's names that could.
00:20:34.120 That's fine.
00:20:34.940 But I still don't get the statement because it's so broad.
00:20:38.800 Well, standard custody is every other weekend for fathers in this country.
00:20:44.360 So you're limited to four days a month with your kid.
00:20:49.580 When that is 50% your DNA, why don't you get 50% custody?
00:20:53.740 How is that different than kidnapping?
00:20:55.840 Because four days a month really isn't a dad.
00:20:57.400 So you're more concerned about custody for a good dad?
00:20:59.760 Yeah.
00:21:00.300 Okay.
00:21:01.180 Well, for a good dad, I agree with you.
00:21:03.440 There should be a better system now.
00:21:04.960 okay that may be the legal system in family court but if you're good parents and you're a good dad
00:21:11.140 that assuming you're a good mom okay then that can all be worked out privately I mean it doesn't
00:21:17.820 have to be that way I know people that try to keep the kids in the same house so they don't
00:21:22.840 have a little suitcase going back and forth between houses and the parent leaves well it
00:21:26.880 can't always necessarily be worked out because it's very dependent on the judge you get and
00:21:31.500 because of judicial yeah you know i can't say it yeah but i mean dallas county is not a great
00:21:37.480 place to be in family court yeah i know i know so the it's better to be in denton county or
00:21:42.540 tarrant county or if you know um flower mound um there's actually i know flower mound really well
00:21:47.820 there's a kid that a father that actually had his son transitioned and there was nothing he
00:21:51.700 could do about it okay so now we're talking about sex changes yeah how yeah so there's examples
00:21:57.820 That's a whole other dynamic.
00:22:00.340 This is Texas.
00:22:02.280 You should be in Austin talking about this.
00:22:04.100 So if you're talking about sex change, you're in the wrong place.
00:22:07.240 Well, you're welcome to do an interview yourself and conduct it, however.
00:22:10.640 So that's fine.
00:22:12.320 So, I mean, yeah, I'm against it because a child can't make that decision.
00:22:18.080 Yeah.
00:22:18.320 And I've actually gone through it with a friend with a 12-year-old little girl.
00:22:22.120 And it rips apart marriages.
00:22:23.800 It rips apart families.
00:22:24.780 and until a child's 18 years old and i think to you know to delay puberty and i mean god knows
00:22:31.980 what you're doing to them as far as their home hormones and their health i mean there's a lot
00:22:36.160 more involved than the legality of a parent being prevented from so i'm sorry this is a whole new
00:22:42.620 dynamic into the legal system right so but are you going to tell me next that there's six sexes
00:22:48.300 you know are you online with our well so no so the the question is how is that different than
00:22:53.840 kidnapping like you know if a dad if a dad doesn't have a say on if his kids transitioned or if he
00:23:00.060 gets access to his kids how is it transitioning has absolutely nothing to do with access to your 0.53
00:23:04.900 child well yes it does okay well if you're all if you're for sex change and mutilating a child's 0.94
00:23:12.660 genitals and right and putting hormones in their bodies before puberty that's disgusting yeah so 0.55
00:23:18.820 if the mother is for that and the father has no say it breaks marriages i understand yeah so how 0.97
00:23:24.500 is that different than father's against it well it needs to go through the court system which
00:23:29.320 there is no real precedence yet to my knowledge right well there was actually a case in flower
00:23:35.180 mound so again you're giving me an isolated case in flower mound which is denton county
00:23:40.000 which is a very conservative county which i can't imagine they're they're
00:23:45.080 well it did happen so and what was the result the kid was transition there's nothing the dad could
00:23:51.960 do i i interviewed him like a few weeks ago so i think a lot of it is illegal i think certain
00:23:59.120 hospitals are not allowed to perform that or be able to well they can the issue is they can legally
00:24:03.620 take him to california and that's yeah well but then then the argument is well i can't do that
00:24:09.460 because i could lose my job because they're saying corporations can't that's that's that's
00:24:13.820 no different than you know having an abortion morning after pill i mean it's all in the same
00:24:18.040 realm so you would say abortion is the same thing as kidnapping again you're putting words in my
00:24:25.280 mouth you're now talking about sex transitioning a child to a different sex okay when their little
00:24:32.400 brains are still growing you know i mean my child wanted to change his name another boy's name but
00:24:38.400 still wanted to change his name when he was six so when you're 12 and you haven't gone through
00:24:43.180 puberty yet you're not your brain is not formed enough to know what you want you could change
00:24:47.140 your mind in five years and then your parents have really messed up your life right right I'm
00:24:51.580 done with this conversation because it sounds like you're four you you agree that you should
00:24:56.860 if you wanted to be a boy you should be able to be a boy but you're an adult so you can make that
00:25:01.320 decision and put yourself through all you think that's what I'm saying I think that's what you're
00:25:08.160 four because you're calling it kidnapping meaning it's okay to kidnap a child to get a sex change
00:25:15.320 operation and mutilate their body and give them hormones if you think that's okay i think i didn't
00:25:22.900 say that well then you wouldn't have this broad weird sign and start bringing up you know do you
00:25:28.960 think you behave in a christian value way beyond okay yeah i can see all right thank you i appreciate
00:25:35.500 where in the bible does it talk about sex change you want to talk christian are you a christian
00:25:40.500 you know what are you agnostic are you a christian are you an atheist it's right you 0.95
00:25:45.660 can just keep going ma'am i've had so you are 100 pro sex change no yes you are i am 0.70
00:25:54.200 you're i mean go to austin okay that's where it's really accepted not here all right or maybe i mean
00:26:04.000 Talk to some people from California.
00:26:06.200 I don't know.
00:26:07.060 Yeah, you should Google me. 0.96
00:26:08.720 I have no desire because we're disgusting. 0.96
00:26:12.200 Keep going. 0.87
00:26:13.720 Keep going.
00:26:14.840 We're asking people when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped.
00:26:18.060 You got two minutes?
00:26:19.280 Two minutes.
00:26:20.240 Is that okay?
00:26:21.100 Yeah.
00:26:21.820 So we're asking when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped in the United States.
00:26:26.000 What do you guys think? 1.00
00:26:27.340 I guess when they grab immigrants. 1.00
00:26:31.500 When they grab immigrants? 1.00
00:26:32.620 Yeah. 1.00
00:26:33.040 What do you think?
00:26:33.640 When is it legal for a child to be kidnapped? Never.
00:26:36.860 So how is kidnapping different than taking custody away from fathers?
00:26:42.360 Oh, I agree with that. You're on my camp on that.
00:26:45.660 I think that sometimes you have a good father and a good father and the courts always lean towards the woman. 1.00
00:26:54.540 Why do you think that is? Do you think mothers? 0.96
00:26:56.360 Because mothers are probably more, it's just how human nature and society brings mothers together. 0.98
00:27:04.220 Mothers are much better, but I don't think it's always fair. 1.00
00:27:07.520 I mean, there's no question it's tilted towards women. 1.00
00:27:10.500 You could argue if it's right or wrong. I don't know. 0.99
00:27:13.120 What if I told you mothers are actually more likely to abuse biological children than fathers?
00:27:18.260 Would you believe that?
00:27:19.180 I'm not sure I do. I don't know. Have you got any data?
00:27:22.440 Well, so the men are more likely to physically abuse kids,
00:27:26.780 but if you include neglect, so many kids die because the mother was neglectful,
00:27:30.920 verbal abuse and if you take out if you take out if you take out the physical abuse from step
00:27:37.080 dads who the mother picks um the so a lot of times the abuse is the stepfather it's not the
00:27:42.280 biological father the woman actually leads an abuse so the kid kid is actually more likely to
00:27:47.320 be abused and so why do you think even with those statistics that the family court has to know 0.58
00:27:52.680 they still give mothers because it's the way society leads always thought that mothers are
00:27:58.200 better to raise kids it's just how society is drawn up it's not necessarily the case but i do
00:28:03.500 think there's often cases where where men make better parents and the courts don't look after
00:28:09.440 that so yeah i mean you're asking that's a very relevant question it's very difficult for the
00:28:14.100 courts to determine yeah that a of course they get so muddy you know with these cases that you
00:28:18.760 never everybody throws in something else but i agree with you i mean i don't really know
00:28:23.780 the right answer but you make a very very good point and i've been saying that a while that the
00:28:27.780 So there's very good fathers who don't get what they deserve.
00:28:30.720 And on that, I've got to walk.
00:28:32.140 One more question.
00:28:33.340 Do you know any fathers struggling to get custody of their kids?
00:28:36.660 And what was it like for them?
00:28:38.160 I don't know of any at present, but I've heard of people in the past.
00:28:41.640 And I've heard, I mean, I don't know personally,
00:28:43.580 but I've heard they've struggled enormously to go through the courts. 0.96
00:28:47.380 And I've heard of women, and I know cases of women
00:28:49.960 who have walked away from their kids completely.
00:28:52.840 And what else has happened is a father gets custody
00:28:55.560 and he's still paying alimony.
00:28:56.660 and then he's realized, not a child support
00:28:58.980 and it's like, how would you pay child support
00:29:00.800 if you're taking care of the kids?
00:29:01.880 So he took care of the kid and he still had to pay the woman.
00:29:04.600 And she wasn't even on child support.
00:29:06.340 That's correct. 1.00
00:29:06.720 Yeah, women want equality, right? 1.00
00:29:08.160 Where's the equality in child support?
00:29:09.520 I mean, but there's no, you know, that's a,
00:29:11.700 but that's rare, but it's a rare case.
00:29:14.460 Yeah, yeah.
00:29:15.320 Okay, well, thank you guys so much.
00:29:16.620 Nice to meet you.
00:29:17.360 Yeah, good to meet you.
00:29:18.900 Do you want to answer the question of the day?
00:29:20.460 What is it legal for a child to be kidnapped?
00:29:22.900 I feel like this is a trick question.
00:29:24.780 Kind of, a little bit, a little bit.
00:29:27.440 I'm not sure.
00:29:29.040 So how is kidnapping different than taking custody away from fathers?
00:29:35.240 How is it different? Is this being recorded?
00:29:37.380 Yeah.
00:29:39.080 I mean, it's probably case by case.
00:29:41.660 You know, that's why, you know, if you're talking about this by the case, I don't know if you are,
00:29:46.820 but it's important just to keep the context in mind.
00:29:49.280 Well, just thinking about how mothers get custody the majority of the time,
00:29:53.400 and every other weekend is standard in a lot of states,
00:29:56.660 So how is that different, limiting a father's access to his kid to four days a month?
00:30:01.320 That's not really a dad anymore.
00:30:02.920 Right.
00:30:03.300 So, like, why isn't that looked at as kidnapping?
00:30:06.400 I don't know if it's the same thing as kidnapping, because it's not 100%.
00:30:10.020 But I would agree with you that it doesn't seem fair by default.
00:30:13.520 I think that comes from the pretext of mothers, you know, are seen by default as being better caregivers,
00:30:18.940 and I don't think that's fair.
00:30:20.840 You know, something like 50-50.
00:30:22.160 Yeah.
00:30:22.540 Right?
00:30:23.080 Would definitely be, I don't think anyone can really fight that.
00:30:26.240 Yeah.
00:30:26.660 You know, as being unethical.
00:30:28.180 Unless, of course, you know, case-by-case basis, if the father's abusive, whatever.
00:30:31.880 But, you know, in general, I think that 50-50 should be the new folk. 0.98
00:30:35.040 Do you think that women are the nurturing gender? 0.98
00:30:38.620 You know, stereotypically, sure. 0.99
00:30:40.540 Yeah?
00:30:40.960 But I don't think, again, I don't think you can really...
00:30:43.300 I'm asking just your personal experience, either in your life or your friends.
00:30:48.100 Like, did you find that mothers were more nurturing than fathers?
00:30:51.380 Equal or fathers are more nurturing?
00:30:53.900 I don't know. I think on average it's about 50-50.
00:30:55.960 You'd say it's about even?
00:30:57.020 There's some guys who really are kind of misogynistic,
00:30:59.260 and then some guys who are really excited to be fathers
00:31:01.320 because they want to be fathers and not just because they want to be kids.
00:31:04.340 And then mothers, same way.
00:31:05.780 You get the same sort of mothership that we, you know, traditionally see,
00:31:08.800 and then there's some mothers who are just like, yeah, I don't want kids.
00:31:12.280 Is custody something that you think about when starting a family of your own?
00:31:15.980 Is that something that, does it make you, is it something that's crossed your mind?
00:31:21.360 Um, I don't really plan on having kids.
00:31:24.880 Okay.
00:31:25.420 But, like, I do have a dog.
00:31:27.460 And it's something that costs my mind.
00:31:28.940 Yeah, sure.
00:31:29.780 You know, I know that's not the same thing.
00:31:32.340 Okay, well, cool.
00:31:33.140 Thank you.
00:31:33.520 Thank you so much.
00:31:34.300 Appreciate it.
00:31:34.900 Thank you.
00:31:35.320 Thank you for doing that.
00:31:36.600 Yeah.
00:31:37.840 We're asking the question of the day, when is it legal for a child to be kidnapped?
00:31:41.960 What?
00:31:42.460 Never.
00:31:43.080 How is it different than taking custody away from fathers?
00:31:46.700 Well, being a divorced dad, I can tell you that it's not very different.
00:31:50.980 But I always had 50% custody.
00:31:53.200 So I always, you know, and I was adamant about that.
00:31:56.020 Like, I'm going to raise my kids as much as you are.
00:31:59.500 But they're grown now.
00:32:02.060 And so, you know, what I can say is that depriving fathers of their children is not only bad for the father,
00:32:09.840 because it hurts their mental health, it hurts their spiritual health, it hurts their well-being.
00:32:14.360 It's also bad for the kids.
00:32:16.280 Why aren't mothers that limit a father's access to their kids,
00:32:19.720 especially when they're good dads looked at as kidnappers?
00:32:24.360 I don't know. That's a great question.
00:32:26.280 I think it's one probably needs to be looked at.
00:32:29.540 Did you know that Amber Alerts, a lot of the time, are actually dads trying to get access to their kids?
00:32:35.680 I did not know that. No, but it's not surprising.
00:32:39.180 It's really not because, you know, I think sometimes mothers go to extremes
00:32:44.180 to try and prove a point without thinking about what the impact is on the kids.
00:32:48.440 Did you ever have limited time where you weren't, during the divorce, able to see your kids as much as you wanted?
00:32:54.520 No, I can't say that I did.
00:32:56.520 How did you get 50% custody?
00:32:58.660 Well, I had a really good lawyer, and it cost me.
00:33:03.380 It was not easy.
00:33:05.560 I would say it probably cost me $25,000 in total legal fees when it probably should only cost $10,000.
00:33:12.260 A normal divorce is $10,000, $15,000.
00:33:14.360 and I also had to have character witnesses go before the judge and talk about how I'm a good
00:33:21.200 person which I was like why doesn't she have to do that I was like why am I the only one who has
00:33:26.880 to do that I'm like this makes no sense but sure here here's my professors my co-workers my friends
00:33:33.200 talk to them would you say it's contingent on the judge that you get in the case absolutely
00:33:39.120 And when I got divorced, I'm originally from Illinois.
00:33:41.800 So I was up in Chicago, which is not father friendly.
00:33:46.820 I grew up in Oak Park.
00:33:48.620 Oh, okay.
00:33:49.100 I'm from Huntley.
00:33:50.140 Yeah, sure, sure.
00:33:51.180 So, I mean, you know, it's just you go into Cook County as a dad.
00:33:56.000 Good luck is all I can say.
00:33:59.260 Have you ever witnessed a father struggle to get custody of his kids?
00:34:03.420 Yeah.
00:34:03.720 And what did he go through?
00:34:05.660 What was that experience like for him?
00:34:07.080 Well, I mean, it was very damaging.
00:34:09.560 You know, I mean, there's a lot of mental stress around, you know, not having access to your own biological children.
00:34:18.020 And, you know, the dads that I have known who've gone through that have been limited in the amount of their own financial resources that they can spend.
00:34:27.300 Been limited in the number of financial resources they have available to access things like mental health care or, you know, divorced dads groups, those kinds of things.
00:34:36.160 And then and then thirdly, you know, that amount of time not being spent with the kids often also leads to other kind of negative behaviors, drinking, gambling, you know, you name it, lying, those kinds of things.
00:34:51.260 And so when it when a dad doesn't have that kind of access, it sometimes can lead into really bad behavior.
00:34:57.900 Have you ever seen a man like either throw his life away or contemplate suicide following a divorce?
00:35:03.360 I've never seen it exactly.
00:35:05.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:07.400 I've never seen it exactly.
00:35:09.360 But I'm sure it's happened.
00:35:12.000 Because, you know, I can tell you that even though I had my kids half the time,
00:35:16.680 the time when I didn't have them, I still miss them.
00:35:20.240 Do you think it's common for mothers to turn the children against fathers?
00:35:25.320 Yeah, probably.
00:35:26.480 You know, I was fortunate that my divorce was pretty amicable.
00:35:30.520 um and then hold on wait hold on did this answer hey dave let me call you back
00:35:36.700 yeah sorry i'm on the other line let me call you back sorry yeah no no that's fine i didn't
00:35:42.460 i like was not answering it and so um what was i saying i'm sorry oh your divorce was amicable
00:35:48.440 yeah it was amicable and so my ex-wife and i were very good at never saying anything negative about
00:35:54.420 the other in front of our kids now that does not apply to what she said to a bunch of other people
00:35:59.560 about me yeah and i definitely confronted her about that because i said you can't going around
00:36:04.320 can't go around saying i don't give you money when i give you 75 000 a year tax-free i'm like
00:36:10.480 that's a full-time job so don't pretend like you're poor and i don't give you anything you
00:36:15.620 know what i mean why do women say that that's so common i you know i don't know in her head was it
00:36:20.800 just not enough money i i i guess i don't i don't see how it's not yeah i mean for without taxes 0.98
00:36:27.620 too. That's like, you know, after tax, that's just 75 grand. So why, um, do women fare worse
00:36:36.220 financially after a divorce, even though we get more money, child support, alimony and often the 1.00
00:36:41.580 house? Yeah, I, that's a good question because yeah, she got the house. You know, I wanted my 1.00
00:36:49.300 kids to have some stability there. And, uh, and I definitely gave her more than enough money to 0.60
00:36:54.640 cover any expenses we ever had. If anything, I was the one who really struggled for the years
00:36:59.780 where I was paying child support. And it was a higher net worth now. I do. Yeah, I do. So you're
00:37:05.140 living the statistic. Yeah. Why do you think it is? Well, I'm also highly educated. I'm working
00:37:10.220 on my third postgraduate degree. And so I have a senior executive position. I get I get paid really
00:37:15.860 well. And so I might be a little bit of an outlier there. Like I'm not. Well, OK, maybe not.
00:37:24.640 You know, we did have some back and forth because I ended up getting remarried about six years after our divorce.
00:37:30.320 And then I went back to the table over the amount of money that I gave her.
00:37:33.560 But the law had also changed in Illinois.
00:37:37.020 It was no longer just a straight percentage.
00:37:38.920 It was now based off of how much do they actually cost and then divide that by custody.
00:37:43.760 And so my number came way down.
00:37:46.040 Do you think that child support is spent on the children?
00:37:48.840 No, no.
00:37:49.840 And there's no method of audit.
00:37:51.520 Yeah.
00:37:52.160 You know what I mean?
00:37:52.760 That was always my biggest concern.
00:37:54.340 And I was like, every time I see you, you're wearing a new outfit.
00:37:57.280 You have a new purse.
00:37:58.200 You have new shoes.
00:37:59.460 My kids wear clothes from Old Navy.
00:38:01.620 Like, you can't buy them nice things?
00:38:05.940 What the hell?
00:38:07.520 You know what I mean?
00:38:08.680 And so I think it just comes down to a factor of the man just has to kind of hand this over and just hope that his kids would be taken care of.
00:38:20.640 Now, you know, my kids were always fed, well-rested, you know, that, like, healthy.
00:38:26.000 So I never worried that she wasn't taking care of their basic needs.
00:38:29.760 But I know for a fact is there were trips, purchases, all kinds of stuff where I'm like, you don't make that much money.
00:38:36.560 Was it ever hard for you when the mother started to date again and there would be other men around the kids?
00:38:42.280 Or was that not really an issue for you?
00:38:44.280 I mean, because she got remarried a couple years ago.
00:38:48.000 Yeah.
00:38:48.180 Um, but you know, I'm fortunate that he's a really good guy. You know what I mean? He's not an
00:38:53.360 alcoholic. He doesn't gamble. He doesn't yell at my kids. Like, and like I said, my, I mean,
00:38:58.020 my, my daughter is getting ready to graduate college this next year. My son's going in as a
00:39:02.120 freshman. And so, you know, they're also kind of raised by this point, but I will say that it was
00:39:07.580 a concern and I'm sure it was reciprocal as well. I'm sure she was like, who is he introducing to
00:39:12.740 the kids? Now we had a rule. He had to be in a relationship for at least four or five months
00:39:17.260 before any kind of introduction to the kids was made, which I think is important because you get
00:39:22.040 these revolving doors of partners and kids get really confused. So what made you get remarried
00:39:28.220 after spending all the money and time on a divorce? Well, first of all, I promised myself
00:39:33.760 that was never going to happen again. I was like, I will be perfectly happy never being remarried.
00:39:39.240 I'll just live the bachelor life, you know, hopefully get in relationships, that kind of
00:39:43.380 it was really a relationship right where the woman was like you know my wife was like well
00:39:48.560 I don't want to just hang around for the rest of my life like I I want to get married and so uh 0.97
00:39:54.560 you know we we had some conversations was it a tough sell for her because of last time a little
00:40:00.480 bit yeah but she's also so different from my first wife and uh we have no plan you know I 0.99
00:40:06.720 I had gotten snipped when I after my second kid so there was no plans of any future kids or
00:40:12.060 anything like that so do you think if it wasn't for family court you would have been open to more
00:40:15.960 kids yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah most definitely because they talk about the birth rate going
00:40:21.440 down and one solution could be to fix family court it was after i got divorced that i went
00:40:26.280 and got snipped because i said i never want to pay child support again whereas i could i i can
00:40:30.760 easily afford four to five more kids but now i'm like nope that'll all just go to my kids do you
00:40:36.260 think that family court affects middle class men the most yeah i would say middle class and lower
00:40:41.100 class yeah yeah you know look the upper one percent they don't care they have enough money
00:40:46.220 that you know what i mean it's not people like me who are in the upper middle class i would say
00:40:51.740 it's still a struggle you know when i get impacted by inflation in those types of things and so it's
00:40:57.740 still a struggle yeah well thank you so much this is a great interview thank you yeah you bet um it's
00:41:03.020 pearl davis on youtube so we talk about family courts all right i'll look you up all right i'm
00:41:07.820 And I'm going to head back this way.
00:41:08.780 I'm trying to stay in the shade.
00:41:09.820 Okay, thank you.
00:41:10.400 All right, have a great day.
00:41:12.400 So we're asking, how is kidnapping different than a mother taking away custody from the dad?
00:41:20.440 What?
00:41:22.420 Yeah, kidnapping, you'll never see the kid again.
00:41:25.620 So you're trying to make it illegal?
00:41:28.940 That's the judge's problem, isn't it?
00:41:31.420 That's true.
00:41:32.140 It is a judge's problem.
00:41:33.580 Yeah.
00:41:33.740 They're the ones that should give it, you know, unless he's a nasty guy.
00:41:38.220 Yeah.
00:41:38.940 You know what I'm saying?
00:41:39.840 Yeah, I agree.
00:41:41.160 But why doesn't society look at mothers who don't let the father see the kids as kidnappers?
00:41:47.280 Oh, yeah. 0.55
00:41:48.340 But I also said, you know, then you can talk about, what about abortion now?
00:41:53.420 Yeah, some people have.
00:41:54.740 That's true.
00:41:55.220 Some people have.
00:41:56.360 You know, so I think the father has it, right?
00:41:58.280 But, you know, he should have the opportunity to have him a certain amount of time.
00:42:03.080 and where it benefits them.
00:42:04.680 But somebody, if they have that, somebody should follow up at the judge or the legal system
00:42:09.660 and say, hey, is it working out for the kid?
00:42:12.400 Yeah.
00:42:12.760 Not for the mom or the dad, but for the child.
00:42:15.540 Well, all the stats say it's not.
00:42:17.360 Because kids without, you know, if a dad raises a kid by himself,
00:42:21.720 it actually turns out the same as a two-parent home.
00:42:24.600 Where if the mother raises a kid, they're more likely to be drug dealers,
00:42:27.580 they're more likely to be criminals. 0.64
00:42:28.960 Is that right?
00:42:29.640 Yeah.
00:42:30.040 And it makes sense because men have structure and discipline and routine. 1.00
00:42:33.080 And kids need that, and women don't. 1.00
00:42:35.260 I'll tell you a story. 1.00
00:42:37.760 Okay.
00:42:38.100 Because, Benz, you brought that up.
00:42:39.940 We have a son who is a...
00:42:42.120 All our kids are super successful in business.
00:42:45.300 And my son, BNC was successful.
00:42:48.420 He bought a jet and bought a helicopter,
00:42:50.060 flew them all, and crashed and got killed.
00:42:53.380 His wife was a very liberal lady,
00:42:59.600 and she didn't like him flying or anything like that.
00:43:02.480 But he was a guy that says, you have to be self-supporting in this world.
00:43:09.640 Yeah.
00:43:10.080 And that was 20 years ago.
00:43:12.340 Now the kids are all older.
00:43:14.800 They're all socialists.
00:43:17.720 You know?
00:43:18.160 Wow.
00:43:18.460 Give me money.
00:43:19.500 Give me money.
00:43:20.200 Wow.
00:43:20.680 Where he was a multimillionaire and said, you earn it.
00:43:25.440 Wow.
00:43:25.900 He died in a plane crash?
00:43:26.600 Three years.
00:43:27.160 Huh?
00:43:27.440 He died in a plane crash?
00:43:28.720 Yeah.
00:43:29.140 Wow.
00:43:29.640 Isn't that something?
00:43:30.300 Yeah.
00:43:30.580 Be self-supporting.
00:43:32.240 Uh-huh.
00:43:32.480 on that so that's i think you're right i think kids i don't know why men do a better job i guess
00:43:39.660 they expect more out of kids i think um do you think that they say that women are the nurturing
00:43:45.140 gender they are they are nurturing they're too nurturing well if that were true then why are 1.00
00:43:51.840 women more violent towards their biological children than fathers are they think about it 0.75
00:43:57.380 they've aborted a third of the world population or an eighth of the world population well i can 1.00
00:44:01.000 see them doing that because it's too much work yeah that's so true and i believe when i die and 0.90
00:44:07.920 god says hey i got a special job for you're going back i go what am i gonna do he's gonna be a woman
00:44:13.880 i go no no i'm not gonna be a woman i i i get a lawyer i'm not going you're not going if you go 1.00
00:44:22.940 don't you think women are lazy yeah huh lazy yeah but they they don't have the rights 0.97
00:44:31.420 you know you don't allow them to be successful but now it's getting better that's okay it's 1.00
00:44:37.720 getting better but they they're carrying people and they want their kids to be not have worries
00:44:44.480 and not worry about things and stuff like that and then they don't worry when they grow up you
00:44:48.480 know what i think women um how women view children handbags you think so yeah i know you have kids 1.00
00:44:57.700 no kids no kids maybe soon though maybe someday no kids but uh like if you notice i think women 1.00
00:45:06.280 like the attention of the kid where dads love the kid because like they um women are more likely to 1.00
00:45:14.100 be neglectful towards the kids they're more likely to abuse the if you know if there's a baby 1.00
00:45:17.800 in the first year of life that's found in the dumpster the police don't even look for a father 0.60
00:45:22.840 it's always a mother and like women are more violent towards the elderly towards infants but 0.71
00:45:28.660 yet we have this idea maybe they're worn out what maybe they're worn out they're worn out by 0.95
00:45:33.300 everything what are we doing you know the ones dying at work you know but do you remember back
00:45:39.040 You know, 20 years ago, girls or ladies or couples had eight kids and nine kids.
00:45:44.560 Yeah, now you have one.
00:45:45.520 Oh, God.
00:45:46.020 Yeah.
00:45:46.600 You know, I go, that's crazy.
00:45:49.280 Yeah.
00:45:49.780 You know, it's crazy having them.
00:45:51.580 It hurts.
00:45:52.960 Yeah.
00:45:53.200 And you know exactly what it's going to be like the third, fourth, fifth.
00:45:56.080 Yeah.
00:45:56.640 And you go, no.
00:45:58.280 Yeah.
00:45:59.320 I like that.
00:46:00.500 Yeah.
00:46:01.260 So I hope your generation starts appreciating and letting women be more meaningful.
00:46:07.440 and what more meaning do we need but but what makes you happy oh yeah yeah whatever what makes
00:46:15.520 are women ever happy ask yourself i don't know there are more complainers yeah that's what i
00:46:25.560 mean about my wife we're both 85 yeah my wife but she's athletic too and and i says we live in an
00:46:33.360 apartment i go quit complaining about they're doing construction and it's gonna be better
00:46:37.580 No, they take away my this and that, you know, my workout.
00:46:41.340 I go, it's going to be better, you know.
00:46:43.880 Look at it, big picture. 0.99
00:46:45.700 But my wife is so responsible for kids, raising kids. 1.00
00:46:51.160 She will die to make sure that they're okay.
00:46:54.900 Not happy, but they're okay in the world.
00:46:58.320 That's pretty good, isn't it?
00:46:59.240 Yeah, it's pretty good.
00:47:00.160 But we're an old people.
00:47:02.540 Did you, how old are you?
00:47:04.520 85.
00:47:04.880 So you've kind of seen the decline culturally of this country in your lifetime.
00:47:11.280 Like when you were, yeah, it's, um, you've kind of seen social media come into place
00:47:15.700 and how that's changed society.
00:47:17.440 You've seen the birth rate fall.
00:47:19.100 Like what's it been like witnessing?
00:47:21.000 It's terrible.
00:47:21.740 Yeah.
00:47:22.020 But, but, but we are, we are a family that says, okay, it's terrible.
00:47:27.000 What are you doing about it?
00:47:28.320 You know what we're doing about it?
00:47:29.640 What can you do?
00:47:31.000 A lot of things.
00:47:31.960 Okay. 1.00
00:47:32.220 So we support four charities, major support, an Indian group, a retarded kid. 1.00
00:47:46.380 Are you from Dallas? 1.00
00:47:47.400 I'm from Chicago, by the way. 1.00
00:47:48.480 Well, if you don't know, but there's a school called Notre Dame of Dallas for kids that are all retarded. 0.99
00:47:55.420 We support that. 1.00
00:47:56.820 Now, how do we support?
00:47:57.760 We support our grade school and college, UT, Texas, and our high school with big money.
00:48:05.360 But this is what the deal is.
00:48:07.160 We're typical business people.
00:48:08.800 We're going to support you guys, but these are what we want to do.
00:48:12.000 We want you to help these kids learn what gets them up in the morning, what's their passion,
00:48:20.000 what they really want to accomplish in this life, and then help them light their fire, internal fire.
00:48:26.820 And we've got the Jesuits doing it.
00:48:28.360 Wow. 0.76
00:48:29.140 You know, the Jesuits are first.
00:48:31.560 The Jesuits are like this.
00:48:32.480 Give me the money. 0.59
00:48:34.180 Yeah, so we're working to get family court judges taken out that are bad, 0.81
00:48:38.600 that aren't giving dads access to kids.
00:48:41.140 Well, yeah, but who's going to do that? 0.99
00:48:43.140 The court's not going to do that.
00:48:44.780 Well, you have to.
00:48:45.400 The judge is not going to do that.
00:48:46.660 No, no, you have to FOIA request the judges.
00:48:49.720 So you have to file complaints, but nobody files complaints.
00:48:53.220 Yeah.
00:48:53.920 I would never be an attorney.
00:48:55.420 What?
00:48:55.640 I'd never be an attorney.
00:48:57.120 Yeah.