Pearl - October 24, 2026


Ethan Klein Cheats on His Wife!! We Believe Women here!!

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“BETA MALES Are the BIGGEST SIMPS… And They're RUINING Everything” @NickJFuentes @JustPearlyThings

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1 hour and 57 minutes

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16,831

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00:02:07.000 Okay, so today we're talking about Ethan Klein. Now, Ethan Klein was a super simp of the year,
00:02:13.740 so if you guys don't know, just to give you backstory, we are going to go into the in-depth,
00:02:17.720 the nitty-gritty of the story into the show. I'm also going to do a musical rendition dedicated to
00:02:24.000 Ethan Klein. But before we do that, I do want to give you guys a little bit of an overview of the
00:02:31.020 topic that we're talking about today. So Ethan Klein is another podcaster and one of my arch
00:02:35.920 nemesis. Now why is he my arch nemesis? Because I refuse to let things go. I am a woman and yes,
00:02:43.960 I do live in the past. On this show, I never claimed to be special or different, unlike these
00:02:51.380 other podcasters. These other podcasters come in and they say, I'm special, I'm different. I want
00:02:56.060 you guys to know that I'm not special or different, that a lot of the things that women struggle with,
00:03:00.940 I also struggle with. I'm cooked just like everyone's cooked, so I, you know, I'd like to
00:03:06.200 make that differential. So when I went into the YouTube space, I always thought that we would
00:03:11.900 attack the ideas not the people. I never really wanted to go into people's
00:03:15.200 personal life because I never really cared. What does it matter if you have an
00:03:20.020 OnlyFans or what does it matter if you cheated on your wife? I'm here to
00:03:23.420 discuss ideas, have a really good time. I just realized something, I just realized
00:03:30.800 something, hold on let me make sure my phone is not on do not disturb. I've been
00:03:36.500 gone a few days. They're dropping off my dog soon. I'm going to have to take a
00:03:43.880 commercial break because I didn't think about that. I was going to start this, man.
00:03:48.400 Ah, what have I done? What have I done? I started my show early. Oh my god, that's
00:03:56.600 why I was going to start it later. You put your dog in daycare, right? Because I
00:04:01.040 was I left the state so I have to put her in a watcher and they drop her off
00:04:06.860 when you get back so literally mid show I am gonna have to go get my dog like I
00:04:11.780 have to go outside and go get my dog I do apologize I do they're really good
00:04:18.040 dog people they'll drop her off right at your door but I kind of I'm gonna have 1.00
00:04:21.920 to sort of watch my phone oh man the mind of a woman this is why I wish I was 1.00
00:04:26.900 a man sometimes. You guys wouldn't, you guys never would have did that. Yeah. So, all right, let's, 0.99
00:04:34.240 let's talk about my beef with Ethan Klein. When I went into the industry, I always thought we
00:04:38.160 attacked ideas and not people. However, when I went into the industry, I never was, I never get
00:04:45.080 that favor returned. I go on, I would go on these shows in good faith, and Ethan Klein in particular,
00:04:50.740 I really liked his earlier interviews early in his career. I saw him interview Jordan Peterson,
00:04:55.980 and do all of these really cool, interesting debates.
00:05:02.540 He seemed like a really open-minded guy. 0.99
00:05:04.940 So I go on his show, and he just cooks my ass for three hours, 0.99
00:05:09.240 just personally attacking me. 1.00
00:05:10.500 He called me a low-value woman, expired, which I am, right? 1.00
00:05:14.980 That's kind of true.
00:05:17.260 You know, he, this was three years ago, though, 0.98
00:05:20.240 saying that any guy that dates me is a sim, you know,
00:05:23.940 just really personal, which is fine, right, but I'm trying to convey the ideas, and the ideas I'm
00:05:30.160 trying to talk about at the time were family court. I wanted to talk about men's terrible experiences
00:05:35.300 in marriage and family court and all the stuff I'd learned from the red pill, but he would not let me
00:05:41.420 talk. He would just play clips of me. It was a total set-up attack interview, and it was really
00:05:45.720 embarrassing. It was actually probably one of the most embarrassing moments of my career, so I
00:05:49.080 remember I remember it dearly and one of the things that the men like Ethan Klein do is they
00:05:55.860 totally try to discredit the red pill guys now for those of you that don't know in 2023 I had
00:06:00.420 one of the biggest YouTube shows in the United States had a billion views and I basically found
00:06:07.080 red pill content and I was so grateful for it because Myron Andrew Tate Justin Waller a lot
00:06:13.460 of these red pill guys give you information that everybody else lies about because they want to
00:06:18.140 look good and the red pill guys don't care about looking good they care about
00:06:22.640 being accurate and being honest regardless of the consequence well men
00:06:27.260 like Ethan Klein like to virtue signal to their wives so I go on the show he 0.97
00:06:31.540 says that he implies that no Pearl men don't like younger women right no Pearl 0.80
00:06:40.700 men the red pill guys are evil they're bad they're wrong because they openly
00:06:47.100 cheat on their girlfriends and wives. Who would do that? Who would do such thing?
00:06:53.660 Now, Ethan Klein goes on to have one of the biggest media careers. He has one of the biggest
00:06:57.760 podcasts in the United States. Bigger than mine. I got cooked, right? I got demonetized. I got sent
00:07:03.840 home. I had to fire everybody, get rid of my employees. Completely cooked. I mean, still,
00:07:08.820 to this day, I am at the mercy of YouTube. YouTube can cook me at any time, and it could happen
00:07:14.720 again. That's why if you want to donate to support me, go to justpearlythings.com
00:07:19.640 slash donate. That way we can hopefully be YouTube free in the next year. That's
00:07:26.520 one of my goals. So anyways, he goes on to virtue signal for years, going around
00:07:38.980 saying he would never cheat. He would never do that. And Pearl and all these
00:07:43.220 red pill guys are brainwashed, pick me is evil. And then come to find out, he's cheating with a 0.59
00:07:52.800 younger woman, a woman like 15 years younger than his wife, even though he's got kids. He had an
00:07:57.980 affair with a woman that worked on his podcast. If that's not a white pill that two men wanted to
00:08:06.480 bang Ethan Klein, I don't know what is. I saw that on Twitter. Sorry, two women, two women, two women.
00:08:13.220 So now, you know, Ethan, I would never want to talk about your personal life. 1.00
00:08:17.880 I don't really care.
00:08:18.880 I'm here to watch a show, to do a show.
00:08:23.280 But you cooked me three years ago, so I'm going to write a song.
00:08:30.560 I'm going to write a song dedicated to you.
00:08:34.640 Is this gloating?
00:08:36.180 Yes.
00:08:37.060 Is this rubbing it in your face?
00:08:39.200 Yes.
00:08:40.260 Because you deserve it.
00:08:41.580 Yes.
00:08:42.100 Yes.
00:08:43.220 All right, now I will put my, can people see me, yes, I will put you guys on my
00:09:06.260 phone also. This is kind of interesting because now I'm doing the
00:09:19.580 live on the shorts. Kind of interesting. Oh, there's two now. Not this one.
00:09:29.300 All right. Now I can see you guys' chats. Get my guitar. I'm going to do my musical rendition.
00:09:38.300 Ethan, Ethan Cline, Ethan Cline, just had the time. 1.00
00:10:00.220 Oh, Ethan said that the red pill guys are such hoes, Ethan said they're immoral and 1.00
00:10:16.680 they're just hoes. 1.00
00:10:25.460 And then a young woman offered him young new poonanny, and he couldn't say no. 1.00
00:10:36.320 And you know how it goes, Ethan is a hoe. 1.00
00:10:45.180 Hoes are gone a hoe. 1.00
00:10:51.860 I'm not saying it's right or it's wrong, 1.00
00:10:54.660 but we could have seen that coming all along.
00:10:57.800 That's why I don't like to talk about morality,
00:11:00.500 cause I'm not saying that I'm better.
00:11:02.580 I'm better, I have such a hard time holding the peck.
00:11:05.880 I'm not saying I'm better than anyone,
00:11:07.860 or anyone's better than me. 1.00
00:11:11.660 But hoes are gonna hoe, keep it on the low. 1.00
00:11:16.660 nobody has to know Ethan Klein knows then you got a short chopped bitch she 1.00
00:11:31.180 ain't really cute but she's gonna snitch I bet she ruined that marriage cuz 1.00
00:11:39.040 that's always how it goes. Yeah, the red pill we know. Hoes are gonna ho, everybody knows. 1.00
00:11:54.040 Hoes are gonna ho, everybody knows. I'm not saying that it's right or it's wrong, but 1.00
00:12:02.500 we keep on singing these songs. Now, Ethan, you're cooked. Oh, you're cooked. There is
00:12:16.380 no hope for you. You're cooked. Throwing other men, throwing other men and women under the
00:12:26.080 bus for five seconds of coonanny, I like Toys R Us. Throw another man, throw another, throw 1.00
00:12:36.200 another man under the bus. Throw another man under the bus. You're so sick. Oh my gosh, 0.99
00:12:46.660 this is so ass. Ah, this song is so ass today. Oh my God. I've been waiting my whole life 1.00
00:12:54.660 to write this song and it's ass. 1.00
00:12:57.880 No, it's ass, don't even try to glaze me. 1.00
00:13:01.440 Don't even try to glaze me, it's just ass today. 1.00
00:13:05.140 Sometimes my freestyles come to me 0.97
00:13:07.220 and sometimes they just don't, man.
00:13:10.300 Sometimes they don't.
00:13:16.740 Oh my God.
00:13:20.760 Let me try again, I'm gonna try again.
00:13:23.220 I'm gonna try again.
00:13:25.480 Maybe I'll take my clothes off.
00:13:26.880 It'll be better.
00:13:36.040 I'll sing a song to Hilah.
00:13:37.500 Oh Hilah.
00:13:41.500 Oh Hilah.
00:13:46.640 I'm so sorry for what you're going through.
00:13:53.220 I'm sure you did nothing wrong, it must have been all him, no it wasn't you. 1.00
00:14:04.520 I'm sure you weren't a bitch and I'm sure you didn't nag. 1.00
00:14:22.760 I'm sure you didn't get old, I'm sure your tits didn't sag. 1.00
00:14:27.360 I'm sure that it was all him and not you. 1.00
00:14:35.760 The whole damn world is gonna, 0.99
00:14:38.480 the whole damn world is gonna feel so bad, 0.99
00:14:42.860 but not on my show, we really don't do that. 0.96
00:14:47.140 Except for today, I'll make an exception for you.
00:14:52.140 You shouldn't prey on your enemy's downfall
00:14:59.600 But you know I will
00:15:01.160 I don't care
00:15:02.240 Cause I'm a woman and it calls
00:15:03.900 I don't really care
00:15:05.680 What they say
00:15:07.580 I got the news and I smiled today 1.00
00:15:11.440 Cause fuck you 1.00
00:15:13.000 Oh fuck you 1.00
00:15:19.600 I know that this is just you two 1.00
00:15:25.420 But your show was ass, you guys didn't have class 0.99
00:15:34.040 And you used to have something special and we really missed that 1.00
00:15:37.300 But that's what you get for listening to a bitch 1.00
00:15:40.740 Now your whole career and life is stitched 1.00
00:15:43.720 And you kind of deserve it
00:15:46.240 But only for now 0.99
00:15:48.820 I think you deserve like a year or two of hell,
00:15:52.700 but not what the family court's gonna give you.
00:15:55.420 Not with the, I'm gonna be honest,
00:15:56.720 even I would say you should still get to see your kids
00:15:59.720 and whatever, but you're cooked.
00:16:01.060 You're cooked, oh you're cooked.
00:16:07.800 I know I can't help but freakin' look.
00:16:12.420 You're cooked, oh man you're cooked.
00:16:18.820 i can't help but watch the train wreck i can't help but look man all right all right i'm going
00:16:26.340 downstairs yeah i don't pray for their downfall i might celebrate it though i'm going downstairs
00:16:36.500 i might come
00:16:41.060 i might come back upstairs to do this whiteboard but i don't know man
00:16:44.820 We're gonna, we're gonna go downstairs. Being that it's gonna take me a second
00:16:51.600 because I'll have to, the screen's gonna go black, just wait like five minutes,
00:16:56.040 all right?
00:17:14.820 .
00:17:44.820 .
00:18:14.820 .
00:18:44.820 all right guys I'm in the dog is coming in like 12 minutes
00:18:57.800 oh like 12 minutes
00:19:01.660 I'm so confused who is
00:19:14.820 Hold on, guys.
00:19:44.660 Just one second.
00:19:54.660 Alright, hold up.
00:19:56.660 Let me pull something up.
00:20:14.660 all right guys um let me just do another recap let me just do another recap
00:20:35.420 also i'm gonna set some ground rules because i think there's some
00:20:39.540 if you guys are disrespectful in the chat i am gonna bounce you
00:20:44.480 and really if i have to explain it to you then you just i don't think you're worthy of being in the
00:20:51.080 chat so anyways all right so today we're talking about ethan klein so again i used to watch ethan
00:21:01.400 before he got crazy now ethan klein is a youtuber experiencing let me show you one of the interviews
00:21:06.720 that i used to like i used to watch with him all right so can you guys hear me by the way is audio
00:21:13.440 okay um
00:21:15.920 those different feelings depending on the
00:21:25.580 the day yeah sometimes you guys hear it i can't hear it oh is my headphones not plugged in
00:21:34.140 Yeah, it's not, okay.
00:21:38.140 Okay, let me try this again.
00:21:40.160 Sometimes I'm more extroverted.
00:21:43.040 Some days I'm more reclusive.
00:21:45.240 You know, is it generally...
00:21:47.280 That's probably volatility, too.
00:21:48.920 It's like variation in mood.
00:21:50.680 Yeah, yeah.
00:21:51.480 So have you ever had periods of depression?
00:21:54.240 Yeah.
00:21:55.120 How long?
00:21:56.340 You don't have to tell me.
00:21:57.380 No, I can tell you.
00:21:57.980 It's okay.
00:21:58.800 In college, I'd say a couple years.
00:22:00.960 Oh, yeah, okay.
00:22:01.620 So that's a long time.
00:22:02.520 Well, so that would be an indication. Well, it could be an indication of many things, but that's often associated with higher levels of trait neuroticism because, you see, it isn't obvious how much negative emotion you should feel.
00:22:14.780 Like, let's say you wake up in the morning and you have an ache in your side. It's like, well, is that nothing or cancer? Well, you don't know. Like, you shouldn't jump to the whole cancer conclusion.
00:22:23.860 okay so he had a really chill podcast back in the day right he he you know he i used to watch him
00:22:32.180 all the time before he got crazy and this is kind of what happens to men i think men make a deal
00:22:37.820 with the devil not the way i view earth right earth is a simulation and earth is trying to see
00:22:45.860 if you love doing what's right in god more than you love that more than you want love money fame
00:22:52.460 attention. And in my opinion, what happened was over time, Ethan wanted money. He wanted fame
00:22:57.920 and he wanted love in his life. And he got married to this woman. And this is what happens
00:23:02.220 in marriage. Men become a shell of themselves. And over time, he just became a dick, right? He became, 0.61
00:23:07.700 um, he became,
00:23:10.400 let me show you.
00:23:22.460 you know something we never i never got to discuss are we talking about him or is that
00:23:33.500 are you just like giving a little preview no we can do it now i mean we're already in it
00:23:37.260 okay i never got to personally discuss the fact that because he was making fun of me i gotta go
00:23:42.860 get my dog i'll be back you guys watch watch i'll be back when i wasn't on the show you
00:23:49.580 you were watching that clip or something he was like making fun of how i look oh is that the video 0.89
00:23:56.080 he uploaded where he's like this nerd is making fun like this is your wife no wonder you're so
00:24:01.160 bitter kind of thing um so i never got to say the picture he was looking at i was like nine months
00:24:07.260 pregnant in that picture yeah but he still looked gorgeous doesn't even matter but it's like can you
00:24:12.660 guys call that what a beta to make fun of me in my nine month pregnant yeah dude everything they do
00:24:19.140 is beta insecurity the man anyway it's it's a long time ago but i've always kind of like never
00:24:25.660 got to say that it's like oh here it is world it's called uh thank you ab we've got the clip
00:24:32.600 of andrew roasting ethan klein's wife who uploaded this oh god this is a tape playboy 0.99
00:24:41.800 clip oh my god his own people posted this shit 0.99
00:24:45.800 first of all bro just what is he wearing that's what i'm saying like just stop where you're at 1.00
00:24:52.780 oh my you don't even need to speak any words freaking god i mean he looks like a human 0.71
00:25:00.000 trafficker true i guess he's dressing the part yeah yeah yeah by the way before i move on i'm 0.75
00:25:07.980 all over the place but facebook's parent meta lost 2.8 billion on its virtual reality division
00:25:13.620 during the quarter end in june substantial sum is the latest sign that ceo mark zuckerberg and
00:25:18.960 meta continues to spend heavily to pivot social media giant to the so-called metaverse it's not 0.91
00:25:24.440 happening zuck i don't see how the fuck he's going to convert all the old people that are left on 0.75
00:25:29.340 facebook the only people left are boomers how is they how are they getting in meta i don't know 0.98
00:25:35.620 so again you'll notice a lot of the time what happens to men is they become like the worst
00:25:42.040 versions of themselves in marriage they become fatter they become and they start to adopt the
00:25:47.900 communication patterns of their wife and start fighting on behalf of their wife so if the wife
00:25:52.120 gets pissed off a lot of times the wife will seem pleasant but i can tell based on their husband's 0.59
00:25:57.180 behavior how insufferable they are so he basically makes a deal with the devil he lies for money love
00:26:04.180 popularity and he took it and he got fame and he got a bunch of money um and you got to think about
00:26:09.540 on earth the devil is referred to as the prince of earth so of course on earth you're going to be 0.98
00:26:14.860 rewarded for lying uh cheating and stealing you know um so then he does the female insufferability
00:26:21.420 he's mocking people he's passive aggressive he goes personal he you know and he i'm part of this
00:26:27.300 is actually giving the wife women give themselves too much credit so when men start to date them
00:26:31.340 they start to give the wives way too much credit saying they can't do it without them 0.56
00:26:35.060 when let's be clear Ethan's the personality on the show Ethan's the funny one like Haida or
00:26:40.780 whatever she's not interesting uh look at I'm an interesting YouTube personality uh Christine
00:26:48.200 Gray she's good at what she does there's women that I will say are talented even in my woman
00:26:52.380 hating this but his og personality ethan's back in the day he seemed like this open-minded guy
00:27:02.380 who was just fun and like i remember going on his show and thinking that i that i was a fan of his 0.97
00:27:10.400 even though i disagreed with him because of his og content and then he was just such a dick to me 0.68
00:27:15.700 oh my god that was like the most embarrassing interview of my life i'm not even gonna i'm not 0.98
00:27:20.260 even, I'm not even going to cap. Um, and so what happens is the women, like men just for whatever 1.00
00:27:26.700 reason, love giving power to women. So they, they give women power through validation. So
00:27:34.220 he's constantly saying how amazing she is and how awesome. And you know, women, we have enough 0.94
00:27:39.240 validation. It's why I never really like it when people flatter me too much. Even when I love you
00:27:44.680 guys when i meet you in the wild oh my god there's nothing i hate more than when i get put on a
00:27:50.920 pedestal because trust me i got my issues man you know um can you imagine what it's like being
00:27:58.340 around me i can't help but give my opinion all the time this works on youtube but not in real life
00:28:03.400 i'll tell you um but 1.00
00:28:06.340 but yeah so he ends up going um he gives way too much validation and that gives the woman power
00:28:25.040 and whenever you give women power they're just not good with it again I as a woman I've always
00:28:30.240 struggled with my weight a little bit um and I've always like I could be a little thinner right 0.99
00:28:35.400 but I've witnessed women that were thin from a young age 0.98
00:28:39.520 and you know what? 0.99
00:28:40.920 Maybe I'm glad I didn't get some of those opportunities. 1.00
00:28:46.480 And that's the thing as women, 0.81
00:28:48.280 at some times you really should be glad 0.98
00:28:50.840 you didn't get certain opportunities
00:28:52.720 because I guarantee we mess it up 95% of the time.
00:28:56.500 You know what I mean?
00:28:57.280 Be glad you're not, 1.00
00:28:58.420 to all the mid women out there, 1.00
00:29:00.200 be glad you're not super hot. 1.00
00:29:02.360 Be glad you're not a 10
00:29:03.760 because tens have way too much choice.
00:29:07.100 I'm telling you.
00:29:08.820 Be glad you didn't get rich.
00:29:10.320 Be glad you didn't get famous.
00:29:13.000 But, you know, objectively, I can say
00:29:14.640 Ethan's the talent on the show. 0.51
00:29:15.900 It's not his wife.
00:29:17.460 It's not.
00:29:18.740 I guarantee he was the reason that ship was going.
00:29:22.980 So what happens is these guys get married
00:29:25.100 and, oh my God, stop it. 1.00
00:29:28.540 The only woman we should put on a pedestal is you, 1.00
00:29:30.680 not a left-wing feminist. 1.00
00:29:34.160 No, because you know what's going to happen. 1.00
00:29:35.840 If you put me on a pedestal, you guys are going to find out something I did.
00:29:40.060 Do you know what I mean?
00:29:41.780 I'm just being honest here.
00:29:43.360 Like, I live my life pretty moral, but I could think of some things that if they came out, I would be objectively embarrassed.
00:29:52.600 Objectively.
00:29:53.180 Do you know what I mean?
00:29:53.560 I would objectively be.
00:29:54.920 And then, do you know what would happen?
00:29:56.580 Then something would go viral.
00:29:58.500 They would play this clip of me talking now.
00:30:00.820 And then I'm just ultra-cooked.
00:30:02.680 I'm like, oh, my God. 0.98
00:30:03.760 That's why I prefer to be with the, I prefer to say I'm just a loser, unpopular. 0.76
00:30:08.240 I just, I don't want to be up there.
00:30:09.620 You know what I mean?
00:30:10.640 I shouldn't, you know.
00:30:12.400 Keep me down.
00:30:13.540 Keep me down. 1.00
00:30:15.740 Call me a bitch. 1.00
00:30:17.300 Call me a whore. 1.00
00:30:20.540 Call me a big fat slut whore. 1.00
00:30:25.640 Man, I'm just messing. 1.00
00:30:26.960 I'm just messing. 1.00
00:30:27.440 i'm just messing don't i'll ban you in the chat see women you can never win 1.00
00:30:37.520 so anyways these guys get married then they start attacking the red pill
00:30:44.340 and they start caping on women right and they also have an ego investment they want to believe
00:30:49.700 their wife is different i know i'm not different like as women we should like honestly it's really
00:30:56.680 better to just know that you're not different. I mean, oh my God. Some guys are just so hot.
00:31:04.380 Can we just talk about that for, can we talk about that for a second? Some men are so hot.
00:31:12.320 They're so attractive. Oh my God. It's like, you know, I feel like the men sometimes like
00:31:22.520 some that they just, oh my God. And I'm going to pretend I'm going to do the right thing all the
00:31:30.000 time with all these hot men out there. Oh my God. You know what I mean? It's just, it is what it is.
00:31:38.180 Do I have someone in mind? Obviously, but I'm not going to incriminate myself.
00:31:45.520 Oh, you want examples? Oh, here's the hook. Here's the hook.
00:31:52.520 here is the hook. 1.00
00:31:56.420 Let me just hang myself. 1.00
00:32:02.600 Man. 1.00
00:32:05.700 I need to go to confession.
00:32:08.320 But this is what I mean.
00:32:09.480 It's the people.
00:32:10.220 It's always the people,
00:32:11.260 and I'm going to tell you this in life, 1.00
00:32:12.780 that say shit like that. 0.99
00:32:14.620 You need to go to confession. 1.00
00:32:18.720 That need to go to confession the most.
00:32:20.620 that's that's been my observation because you know I still can feel things right
00:32:27.600 and I think guilt on some level like there are things that I absolutely feel guilty about you
00:32:34.740 know in my life but guilt in a way is a good thing it still means you can feel something
00:32:41.320 People that don't feel guilt anymore.
00:32:49.000 They're the ones that are cooked.
00:32:51.040 And the ones that are always accusing you of doing stuff.
00:32:54.000 And that's always the crazy thing.
00:32:55.900 That's always a crazy thing.
00:33:01.440 Whenever I feel guilty about something, I just got to look at the YouTubers always accusing me of doing stuff.
00:33:06.580 And be like, I'm not doing anything wrong.
00:33:09.440 Do you know what I mean?
00:33:10.820 You know what I mean? It just is what it is. Yeah.
00:33:20.060 So anyways, I'll continue. So this phenomenon you're going to notice actually is like right
00:33:27.480 here. I'm going to show you guys. It's there's all these clips circulating. My guy is getting
00:33:32.460 cooked to shreds what's the benefit of feeling guilty there's no benefit except maybe to deter
00:33:42.420 the behavior in the future but none really you kind of do have to overcome guilt I don't know
00:33:55.340 I don't have all the answers guys shocking I know the girl talking to a microphone doesn't have all
00:34:00.340 the answers. Is that shocking? Oh my god, this isn't loading. Why won't it go? Okay, let 0.99
00:34:23.340 me try another link guilt is the feeling inside where you know you've done something wrong I don't
00:34:32.100 think so because I felt guilty for when I haven't done anything wrong so I don't think so I actually
00:34:38.160 don't I don't necessarily agree with that because your mothers teach you to feel guilty over nothing
00:34:44.540 okay here we go all right so um this was the statement I am living in a nightmare I can't
00:34:52.620 wake up from. My husband has been having an affair. I have been fed lie after lie for months
00:34:58.580 and I'm tired of the lies. Here's the truth. So again, nobody stops and says to the woman,
00:35:03.140 bitch, why are you putting this on social media? Is this really the worst thing that could happen? 1.00
00:35:09.800 You know, you don't have cancer. That's the thing. This is the problem. The woman has sad emotion
00:35:14.400 and the whole world says, oh, they coddle you, give you sympathy. And that doesn't help you at all. 0.94
00:35:22.620 I could sense something was wrong. I tried to ask questions and share my concerns and hurt feelings, but I was met with dismissive answers and no actions.
00:35:31.560 Things that bothered me continue to bother me, and he did nothing about it.
00:35:34.780 So again, well, what bother you? Whenever they're vague, because again, how much did he cheat?
00:35:40.820 I really want to know what was the specific cheating?
00:35:47.180 What was the cheating? Like, why is everyone freaking out?
00:35:49.880 what specifically did he do how many times yeah I'm living in hell in my bedroom in Bel Air
00:35:57.180 yeah I know I mean what are we what are we talking about lady I trusted him I loved him
00:36:04.240 I stopped questioning him and I began to question myself my own instincts my own sanity now look
00:36:09.120 I've been cheated on before it does feel like hell on earth but really half the hell on earth
00:36:17.120 as hell you put yourself through. That's like my hindsight from, I mean, I'm a, I'm a modern woman
00:36:21.840 in 2026. Obviously I've dated hot men that cheated on me. I mean, what do you think? Obviously.
00:36:29.180 So, um, when I think about times I've overreached, cause I'm again, I'm not special. I'm not
00:36:38.260 different. It did not help me to have people cuddle me. That made it worse. People telling
00:36:44.780 you you're a victim I remember one time this was years ago so please don't when I tell this story
00:36:51.360 you don't know who this was okay this this is nobody public please I told my dad what happened
00:36:58.860 right obviously the worst thing you could do and I'm like crying and he's like okay well just move
00:37:03.320 on okay well I guess you guys aren't together anymore but you don't understand dad what do I
00:37:12.620 not understand you know what I think about the women in my life they coddle me and they say oh
00:37:17.300 and it's really hard to not do that but that doesn't help you it's like well I guess
00:37:24.080 I guess you just move on you know but as women we want to dramatize it and it doesn't help that
00:37:35.640 the whole world again I tell you guys the story I had a breakup when I was younger and I'm telling
00:37:39.840 you. It's hard. I understand. You get emotional. You know, you get really emotional. But really,
00:37:46.480 you get really brad. Actually, we got to reframe it as women. It's really being a brat. It's being, 1.00
00:37:51.900 it's making your problem the end of the world when it's really not.
00:37:56.220 It's really not. It's not at all the end of the world.
00:38:02.640 Men too, if I'm being honest, I mean, there's men that crash the F out when their wife cheats, 1.00
00:38:08.020 when the answer should be well she's a whore on to the next one you know what I mean like 0.97
00:38:13.440 you know and they say it's going through the stages of grief I don't think so 0.96
00:38:18.740 I don't think so at all I think it's just trying to infantilize people and you're having like a
00:38:27.180 I don't I'm kind of with Jesse Lee Peterson I don't think emotions are good
00:38:31.520 I really don't I'm kind of with him on that
00:38:33.880 emotional people are hell on earth if you keep them around you too long oh my god it's hell on earth
00:38:40.660 and yeah 0.57
00:38:45.340 women i know what i'm talking about okay yes you in the chat of course know what you're talking about
00:38:57.880 okay um anyways let me continue with this reading
00:39:01.340 I think he's right because then it's people coddling you you know so anyways I trusted him
00:39:08.680 I loved him I stopped questioning him and began to question myself my own instincts my own sanity
00:39:13.000 is there any self-awareness in this did you do anything to make him want to do that
00:39:17.740 how was it was he happy in his marriage eventually he was caught in a lie and I knew I was done the
00:39:24.020 lies continued it was just a kiss became it was emotional cheating and after I dragged these lies
00:39:28.640 from him, he finally admitted he'd been in an affair for six months, the extent of which I'm
00:39:32.780 not sure. I don't know. The betrayal was immeasurable. The person I loved and trusted for
00:39:37.380 20 years evaporated overnight. He was my safe place, my partner in marriage, parenting and
00:39:42.680 business, my own family, my only family on this side of the world. How do I even make sense of
00:39:47.280 this? I know what comes next. I would, I've never been here before. I was, I'm in survival mode,
00:39:54.240 trying to navigate separation, co-parenting and the unthinkable heartbreak. All I can do right
00:39:58.480 now is take care of myself and children one day at a time you're not crazy trust your instincts
00:40:03.360 trust yourself you're not being treated right get up and leave now look i understand it i'm not even 0.87
00:40:09.600 judging her but you just gotta that that is the most narcissistic thing naturally as women we're 0.54
00:40:16.180 just narcissistic there's worse things that could happen to you always
00:40:23.180 so let me continue
00:40:29.580 a 23 year old bro are you serious right now so this is him a 23 year old bro are you serious 1.00
00:40:45.020 right now a 23 year old public relations student lived in barcelona you're fucking 1.00
00:40:50.300 lady 1.00
00:40:52.240 just she fucking 1.00
00:40:54.660 destroyed her body 1.00
00:40:56.900 right two boys for you 1.00
00:40:59.320 and now you're gonna go fuck a 20th 1.00
00:41:01.280 year old shame on you pig 1.00
00:41:03.240 nice thank you there you go 1.00
00:41:04.980 what a pig bro what a pig 0.99
00:41:06.920 but see that's what 1.00
00:41:09.220 he's doing he's doing it for validation the claps
00:41:11.260 the applause
00:41:11.940 the the applause that's what he's doing it for
00:41:24.900 this is the girl i guess he cheated you have a little one-man submarine and it got stuck
00:41:37.580 i was exploring the wreck because she's a coward and i was doing it for her and there's a bug where
00:41:44.320 the we have a little one-man submarine and it got stuck very expensive to build by the way very hard
00:41:50.320 to build super annoying to replace and she was and also she was super far away and leviathan
00:41:57.080 infested waters he took me there because i was trying to help you but you didn't i didn't i 0.99
00:42:02.660 fucked her and now i have to swim i can't even basically i made her worst nightmare and the 0.99
00:42:10.160 game but i will say it was good exposure therapy yeah that's it now you know what it's like so 1.00
00:42:15.040 again he you know completes the red pill some chopped 20 something year old mid it's even worse
00:42:20.020 because this girl's so chopped oh my god it's even it's even worse that's so embarrassing 1.00
00:42:23.840 oh my god getting cheated on is bad but i've been cheated on with a hot bitch and i've been cheated 1.00
00:42:30.540 done with a chopped bitch and I'll tell you 1.00
00:42:32.480 chopped is way worse 1.00
00:42:34.160 oh my god
00:42:36.700 it's so much worse
00:42:37.880 man it's worse
00:42:42.680 tomorrow I would 1.00
00:42:52.320 fucking 1.00
00:42:52.980 I would talk about 1.00
00:42:55.120 if I got divorced 1.00
00:42:58.660 tomorrow I would fucking 1.00
00:43:00.120 i would talk about how rich i am and how successful and i would fuck so many bitches dude 1.00
00:43:09.360 all right if i got divorced tomorrow i would again i just hate men who have kids they fucking 1.00
00:43:17.320 again i just hate so again when people fixate on something a lot of times they're really tempted 0.99
00:43:23.520 with it so it's like an inner cope okay if a okay if a bloke cheats on pearl that's on him
00:43:34.960 pearl's the epitome of what i'd love in a woman don't you think it's just you guys can't help it
00:43:41.420 you love putting women on pedestals don't you think if that i was that great they wouldn't
00:43:46.540 cheat it don't you think i mean it's just man it's one thing to get cheated on your in your
00:43:52.160 30s or 40s but don't you think there's some sort of insufferability you have to have to be cheated 0.98
00:43:57.240 on in your 20s man all right men who have kids they fucking put their wife through childbirth 0.99
00:44:06.060 they deliver you two beautiful children and then you go and cheat on them bro 1.00
00:44:13.880 fuck that that is so sad it's so fucked up yeah and she probably believed in this like image of 1.00
00:44:20.960 of the perfect couple um and that they're happy and everything's okay and then now the whole world 1.00
00:44:26.060 is just like her world is collapsing and she has to deal with it in the public eye too that is really 0.74
00:44:32.400 to add on to what she said that is the most fucked up is when one person's relationship doesn't 0.98
00:44:36.800 know the extent that the other person is fucked up i mean because sometimes i feel like maybe 0.97
00:44:41.660 austin is mcbroom is a good example and his wife may kind of be in on some things together 0.95
00:44:45.500 but like even in my hometown i've seen it before where like a really religious girl is like really
00:44:49.740 loyal to a guy who she thinks is religious who's secretly like drinking on the side and doing a 0.91
00:44:53.920 bunch of fucked up shit like that so they're just a different person yeah they don't know the real 0.98
00:44:58.240 exactly yeah we relate to that but there's no way that would ever be unfaithful to you 1.00
00:45:06.000 in a trillion years you guys um were like if you were in this thank you i think the most value
00:45:13.600 think but i think the most valuable thing you do is tell men we are truly what we truly are
00:45:19.440 so they aren't blindsided yeah man i'm just sometimes sometimes i want to tell you guys
00:45:29.540 because i'm recently single so sometimes i want to tell date stories but they're always used against
00:45:38.520 me man and you want to respect the guy's privacy so i don't but man sometimes i'm like
00:45:48.380 no i can't i can't i can't you always have to do it like five years later if i tell you guys a story
00:45:56.860 it always has to be like years later because you don't want 0.99
00:46:05.200 you don't want people to know who it is you know what I mean it's just and nobody wants a girl like 0.99
00:46:13.020 to go on a date and then tell her stream about it do you know what I mean like that's 1.00
00:46:16.680 yeah I know I know so I don't
00:46:23.820 yeah you know it's just
00:46:25.180 oh I'll say it was a friend of mine
00:46:29.420 i know a lot okay so a lot of people ask me why i don't want to talk about because i i think i
00:46:35.880 saw something recently because people always ask me about my mom and my personal life and these
00:46:40.500 debates and like people i've dated like they want to know stuff and i'm kind of open like if you meet
00:46:46.500 me in person i'm kind of open about stuff but the issue is there's a few issues one when you go
00:46:53.960 online any stories they just use against you in debates so um and the other thing is
00:47:00.960 the other thing too is
00:47:04.640 i don't know you never want to start talking about a relationship either current or previous
00:47:14.920 in any negative way where they can identify them because it's not like i was per you know
00:47:21.060 there's stuff I don't want people knowing about me you know what I mean it's just you see what
00:47:25.100 I'm saying it's just my dad I do make an exception for because I'm only saying like I have nothing
00:47:33.240 negative to say about my father ever he's so cool so yeah I mean and he doesn't really mind he doesn't
00:47:41.560 care. So, so I don't know. There's a line, you know, I always try to cross it, but as
00:47:58.140 a YouTuber, it's tough because I'm a very open person, but I'll go on these shows. So
00:48:07.640 I could reasonably tell you guys things I've been through the lessons learned and where I messed up
00:48:13.760 but I don't the internet just will use it forever and I'll give you an example of a time this
00:48:19.860 happened I told a story do I want to retell this story this is this is I'll tell you what goes
00:48:26.940 through my head Pearl do you want to retell this story then you're bringing it back up
00:48:31.300 then you're bringing it back up then this man might have more problems well the problems are
00:48:37.240 already out there, Pearl. It's already out there. What's one more time? Oh my God.
00:48:51.360 Oh my God. Which, which way is right? Which way is right? And then, then, then my head goes,
00:48:56.680 honesty is honesty, right? Just be honest.
00:48:59.580 oh my god see this is what i mean this is as women this is what happens 1.00
00:49:08.100 the guy who cheated on you was their opinion their problem they just want to see you as good
00:49:12.920 people so bad and sometimes i'm a bad person you know i just you know i try not to be but
00:49:19.700 sometimes i slip up you know i just all right i'll tell this i'll tell this one i'll tell 0.99
00:49:25.520 fuck it fuck it all right so in 2020 I dated a guy during COVID right I dated a guy during COVID 0.99
00:49:35.280 we were in a very public relationship we all said a really public breakup and the lesson I learned 1.00
00:49:40.220 from this situation um was that I never wanted to be in a public relationship again okay I have seen
00:49:49.020 firsthand the issues that come with public relationships especially as women um I had to
00:49:56.540 learn I had to learn I need to turn off the chat for a second so I can tell the story it's sometimes 0.89
00:50:04.060 I read it it's distracting I had to learn that you know because you'll get into fights especially
00:50:10.840 when you're a young woman because you don't really have experience um you'll get into fights 0.99
00:50:14.820 over stupid stuff with the internet like at some point you embarrass him he embarrasses you 0.97
00:50:20.980 it's just oh there's so many problems that come with a public relationship and I experienced 0.98
00:50:28.280 this firsthand um and I was very embarrassed about the entire thing uh to be honest I was
00:50:33.980 embarrassed about how much I put online I was embarrassed um anyways so we would make skits
00:50:42.460 on TikTok and they were kind of, they were kind of harmless to start. Anyways, we ended
00:50:47.360 up breaking up. Um, and part of what happened when we dated was he was like a public figure.
00:50:55.300 So he was, uh, a TikTok, he was a big TikTok, very successful guy, uh, very good at his
00:51:00.820 job. And he showed me a lot of things in media, which I thought were cool. Um, so I got to
00:51:06.680 meet the D'Amelio's through this guy, which they probably don't want people knowing we 0.98
00:51:09.920 met now you know what I mean um I got to I did like he had this idea for this rap like whitest 0.82
00:51:15.920 girl on earth reacts to rap music um and long story short he had an issue which was like a
00:51:21.200 technical issue with paperwork where um basically my parents put him on our lease back in the day
00:51:28.840 because he needed to get an id uh long story short all we did was we let him stay with us
00:51:35.900 for like two weeks while he got his ID it wasn't that big of a deal in my life my parents like let
00:51:42.960 everybody stay with us it was probably my mother's idea just knowing knowing them you know but we I
00:51:49.780 mean I we had cousins live with us so it just wasn't we always had a really big house so it
00:51:54.320 just wasn't that big of a deal like we didn't really have anything he could see I don't know
00:51:57.920 so they helped him get this ID um and I guess when I was telling the story once I said he was 0.83
00:52:05.280 technically homeless and this word came to bite me in the ass he was staying in nice hotels when 0.55
00:52:10.960 we met but like on paper so me you know young pearl was like oh well my parents could help you 0.98
00:52:18.440 and they did and then he got an apartment it was fine and he was a successful guy he moved on with
00:52:23.960 his life uh but he wasn't you know the most i guess conventionally attractive you know at the
00:52:29.500 time i was a little chubby i was a little fat he was a little fat like we were just two fatties
00:52:34.760 together it was a fine it was a fine relationship i was young you know whatever and
00:52:41.120 it didn't work out for whatever reason but this youtuber totally for years has used this against
00:52:50.240 me and has told everyone this guy was homeless when he was worth millions of dollars off of
00:52:55.240 tiktok at the time i i don't know what he was doing before i met him but when i met him you
00:53:00.960 know, he was worth, like, he was doing well. So, and I really, I have nothing bad to say
00:53:12.760 about the guy. Everybody gives me shit for dating him, and I think they give him, it's 0.98
00:53:16.940 kind of a double homicide, right? Because they give me shit for dating him because he 1.00
00:53:21.600 wasn't attractive enough. Like, according to them, he was not a good looking enough 0.99
00:53:25.720 guy um i don't i don't agree with that like you know but that that's according and so they just
00:53:34.080 troll me with pictures of this guy saying he was ugly saying he was homeless and like this has
00:53:39.020 happened to me for years and then um to him they troll him with uh pictures of me and like saying
00:53:48.820 you know asking him to answer for things I've said I know you say so what I mean honestly now
00:53:55.980 I don't really give enough so now I don't really care you know now I don't care it's just um
00:54:04.760 like now because I have experience and I'm older but back then
00:54:10.420 you know I was kind of new online so how do I put this
00:54:14.780 this kind of traumatized me from talking about people like anyone I dated and you know I also 1.00
00:54:29.360 want to respect a guy's privacy you know I'm not trying to you know but this this bitch 1.00
00:54:36.460 rephrases this and keeps saying I dated a homeless guy she said this for years 1.00
00:54:40.420 because I use the word like technically homeless in an interview
00:54:46.100 and it's like you use one wrong word
00:54:50.840 one wrong word one one word wrong
00:54:56.700 yeah I know in the chat they're saying I was in it for the money I don't think so because I'm
00:55:05.020 really not that materialistic maybe i don't know
00:55:09.700 i don't know i
00:55:14.300 this was a long time ago though i kind of i kind of forget you know now except they tweet me his
00:55:25.640 picture all the time unfortunately so anyways i forgot where i'm going i get so off topic on my
00:55:33.280 shows oh my god what am i doing what am i doing homeless men in the chat please stand up send me
00:55:41.700 your send me your numbers send me your numbers god forbid i help the homeless god forbid it's 0.99
00:55:48.020 like a bitch wants to just you know she wants to live in a guy with a box out of love 1.00
00:55:53.680 out of love see and then then when i talk about my love life this happens right 0.99
00:56:04.280 strangers feel the need to tell me who i should date right and psychoanalyze me and you have to
00:56:12.120 understand this is kind of a this is kind of an uncomfortable situation for me and it happens
00:56:19.280 often, right? It happens really often. And to be fair, some of it's kind of deserved,
00:56:25.400 to be fair. Some of it's a little bit deserved. I did give women shit for being single at
00:56:35.760 30. And I thought very hard that I was not going to, that was not going to happen to 1.00
00:56:41.180 me and then it I fell in love for a little bit and then we broke up right before
00:56:49.740 do you see what I'm saying like and I'm like well life's kind of funny like that you know
00:56:58.800 so in a way I understand Ethan Klein in a way but it's very um it's very uncomfortable for me
00:57:09.480 Then people start trying to set me up with their friends.
00:57:13.280 And I don't really want to update the public.
00:57:18.100 I don't really want to update the public because what if, okay, what if the conversation went like this?
00:57:23.920 What if it went like this?
00:57:25.500 Oh, but Pearl, what about you?
00:57:27.540 Well, yes, stranger.
00:57:32.000 Well, yes, stranger.
00:57:33.760 You know what?
00:57:34.240 Do you want to know what I'm doing? 0.93
00:57:35.480 Do you want to know who I'm having sex with? 0.91
00:57:39.480 Would you like to know? Would you like to know who I'm having sex, who I'm thinking about having sex with, who I'm thinking about? Do you want to be interested? Do you want to be in it? Do you see what I'm saying? Like, do you see the problems I get into? 0.93
00:57:55.120 you like okay what if i say oh pearl you wanted kids i do want kids i'm very disappointed
00:58:02.280 that this last relation i really i'm a little bit sad that it didn't happen i thought it was
00:58:09.000 oh well why okay do you want to know my negative personality trade would you like to know 0.97
00:58:15.620 fuck it do you guys just want to know 0.99
00:58:17.980 do you guys want to yeah because really i've all i've wanted in life i just want to have a son 1.00
00:58:24.720 someday. That's my, that's my, do you want a list of my, can you not openly blatantly see some of my
00:58:31.640 negative traits? Is it not obvious to you? I mean, I mean, yeah, see, and now it's just awkward, like
00:58:41.560 it's a little bit, because then I'll tell you how it goes, right? I'll say this is a negative trait
00:58:46.500 to mind. Oftentimes the audience will disagree. They'll disagree. Then, and then part of me is
00:58:57.240 like, fuck it. Should I just live stream the whole thing? Should I just, should I just live stream 1.00
00:59:06.200 everything? All of it? Every time I go on a date? I literally could. I stream in my house. I could
00:59:14.320 be like, hey, do you want me to cook you dinner? I could stream on, you know. You guys would
00:59:19.580 love that. I think the men would hate it. Do you see what I'm saying? You guys would
00:59:23.180 love it. It would be so entertaining for you. The men, they would hate it. The men I like
00:59:28.260 anyways. I tend to like. Then they say, aren't you part of the problem? Obviously. Obviously.
00:59:44.320 but it just seems the more i want something the more it doesn't happen do you know what i mean
00:59:53.720 i think that's kind of how life goes i think that's like a simulation we're in
00:59:57.280 with god or i'm not that religious but
00:59:59.700 there it's a simulation because it's almost like when you really want love because i'll tell you
01:00:06.440 this this last i really thought it was going to happen this last time around you know what i mean
01:00:14.120 and i felt like because i wanted it so bad i wanted it so so bad and it almost seemed the
01:00:20.580 more i wanted it the less you know what i mean
01:00:24.320 uh if if he being accurate wasn't so demon i know i know i know
01:00:37.740 freeze my eggs are you gonna pay for it I don't know about all that I think I think if it's meant
01:00:48.200 to happen it'll happen but do you see the problems I get into because a lot of people I think in good
01:00:53.380 faith ask me why I don't want like why I don't talk about my mom or I don't why don't you talk
01:01:02.180 about what red-pilled you, okay, let's assume, let's assume, let's assume I have a bad relationship 0.87
01:01:08.300 with my mom. Let's assume it's terrible. Let's assume it's the worst ever, which it may be,
01:01:16.940 it may not be. Do you think I, even if we have a terrible relationship, want to go into like it
01:01:35.140 online? Do you see that? And then it will just be used against you. That's why I understand men so
01:01:44.200 well because let's say I open up and I say this is really what traumatized me
01:01:48.940 as a child. This is what I saw. Now I got to air out my parents and I get to go to
01:01:56.320 a debate and they get to use it to argue with me. Or you know let's say I say
01:02:03.820 hey I really tried this last time around. I'm a little bit tired. I need a little
01:02:11.380 bit of a break right now because I'm a little bit heartbroken. I'm a little bit sad. All right.
01:02:17.400 I don't really, I don't. And then they'll say, Oh, well, why are you set? What happened? Oh my
01:02:22.480 God. Oh my God. It never ends. It never ends, you know, and then, and that's,
01:02:41.380 And I don't feel bad for me.
01:02:44.880 I ask to be in this position.
01:02:46.340 I really love this job.
01:02:47.420 I'm going to be here forever.
01:02:49.660 I'm going to be here forever.
01:02:52.400 I do love this job.
01:03:00.600 But, you know, that's kind of what comes with it.
01:03:02.460 And I haven't found the best way to navigate it.
01:03:05.200 I really, I haven't found, I'm not perfect.
01:03:09.700 You know, sometimes I do it well.
01:03:11.000 sometimes I don't but how do you
01:03:13.080 navigate that because everyone wants to know
01:03:14.940 how I came up with these
01:03:16.520 things and honestly most of the
01:03:19.120 stuff
01:03:19.440 most of the stuff
01:03:25.340 you said saints don't have kids 1.00
01:03:41.500 Just stop giving a shit. 1.00
01:03:43.240 Well, then I have to be like psychopathic. 1.00
01:03:45.420 I don't know.
01:03:45.780 I'm not saying I haven't figured out the best way to navigate it, right?
01:03:51.620 I really haven't.
01:03:53.420 So.
01:03:54.560 I don't know, man.
01:03:55.720 I mean, it's.
01:03:57.040 Maybe I just live stream my love life.
01:04:00.820 Should I live stream?
01:04:02.040 One in the chat.
01:04:03.300 One in the chat.
01:04:04.200 Live stream.
01:04:04.660 We're going to do a poll.
01:04:06.620 How much?
01:04:07.820 How much?
01:04:11.000 and on top of that, the other thing too, is I did this bit with, um, Elijah where we're married and
01:04:19.360 we're not actually married, but there's a problem. I just don't care anymore because here's the
01:04:23.640 thing. I'll tell you my life arc a little, I'll open up a little bit. It's going to be used against
01:04:28.080 me, but I really did want to be married and have kids by 30. And I really thought that this last
01:04:34.060 relationship, I thought that's what it was going to be. Um, and then for whatever reason, I realized
01:04:40.280 it wasn't. Um, oh my God. See, and then, um, I just kind of stopped caring because in a way
01:04:56.320 the most embarrassing thing happened to me. Right. And that's why Ethan, I kind of understand what
01:05:01.780 he's going through. The most embarrassing thing happened to me that I thought would never happen,
01:05:05.620 which is, I really thought I'd be married by the, you know what I mean? Um, and then, so then I just
01:05:11.980 stopped caring and then I'm like, F it. I'll do a lavender marriage. You know what I mean? Just
01:05:17.020 messing around. But then people start to think I'm married. It's like, Oh no. Oh no. You know,
01:05:23.100 it just is what it is. It just, you know, sometimes in life you take L's. It's an L.
01:05:28.180 So that's why if Ethan Klein can get to the point that he doesn't care, he'll be so much cooler
01:05:33.900 because of it but he's going the other way around position so you're dating a girl and someone
01:05:39.900 expressed dating a girl happily married for 10 years well i'm talking about them okay if they're
01:05:44.540 not married yet so if someone expresses interest in the girl and then she goes and checks their
01:05:50.700 instagram profile first of all it's not a random first of all it's not just i'm a public figure
01:05:59.020 okay people don't expect me to respond to them and i don't ever respond to people i'm not talking
01:06:04.300 about responding and and and by the way the fact that we're happily married for 10 years makes it
01:06:09.660 that more ridiculous of a notion that that i'm interested in anyone else that i could be
01:06:15.660 interested in anyone else what do you mean because like we're we're we're like happily married
01:06:23.260 we have a great relationship i cherish you but i'm not talking about i'm just talking about the
01:06:28.620 act itself that i think it's a problem i've never done it and i would never do it i've totally
01:06:33.820 changed my answer i've totally done a 180. but you seem to disagree that's why it's sleazy it's
01:06:40.700 gross and anyone who does that shame on them it's just curiosity i just i don't get it no that
01:06:45.580 doesn't make sense but i'm a good faithful husband no but it's like ian said i'm a good yeah so again
01:06:51.900 we keep going i i i think the curiosity is a problem i i'll deal you know i'm 100 faithful
01:07:00.620 to you her position here is the hypothetical debate so i'm talking about it as if
01:07:10.140 not good not good not good so what he should have did
01:07:13.500 he should have just doubled down because apologizing is going to do nothing to women
01:07:24.380 so essentially Ethan's become a shell of himself right he used to be really really cool
01:07:29.320 he used to be so cool and then he became a shell of himself because he got married I'm sick of
01:07:35.740 hearing that marriage makes men better it makes men far worse far worse now he says I know a lot
01:07:42.380 of people are understandably looking for a comment from me but i ask that you please respect my
01:07:46.320 family's privacy and don't contact them looking for me or asking for their comments they have
01:07:50.220 nothing to do with this and sharing your outrage and disappointment so again he's groveling right
01:07:54.760 oh my god shoe on head says there's a few things streamers can't come back from
01:08:02.560 and cheating on their partner is one of them he just needs to leave shoe you admitted to some dude 0.99
01:08:08.840 walking you around with a dog collar 1.00
01:08:13.340 are you fucking kidding me bitch 1.00
01:08:19.780 i just hate this moral policing just okay one final comment i'm working with hyla to urgently 0.99
01:08:29.280 remove my ownership and financial stakes in any podcast teddy fresh teddy glow or any joint
01:08:33.980 venture i would profit from all of your support will go directly to hyla and the crew i
01:08:38.520 do this in hopes that people can still support them without the concern of enriching me I know
01:08:43.420 that the crew will make an awesome show no they won't that's the problem because Ethan's the x
01:08:47.040 factor and this is what happened no one's on your side as a man they're gonna make you the villain 0.93
01:08:51.280 no matter what you might as well fucking do the wrong thing anyway
01:08:53.700 So I want to talk about the life cycle of a man. 0.56
01:09:15.280 But before I do, and this is how we're going to see it,
01:09:17.880 because a lot of people think, how do I put it?
01:09:23.700 a lot of people think marriage makes people better right and i totally disagree with that
01:09:34.640 i think marriage actually makes most people worse actually men and women i'm going to be honest 0.74
01:09:39.040 because the woman have found a slave to do everything for them right so they have they 0.94
01:09:44.260 have become the laziest version of themselves and the man are looking for a woman to worship so 0.89
01:09:49.940 it's you know men want to take you on a date they don't want you to cook for them and I look at I'm
01:09:55.140 out in these streets right I'm telling you they prefer to take you on a date than to cook I'm so
01:10:00.680 telling you this I'm so telling you that's that they don't like men in general want like a woman
01:10:10.420 to worship and they want so bad female validation that they give up their self-respect so easily 0.99
01:10:15.720 um so what'll happen is this is the world of the devil right so I'm gonna read some AI bullshit 0.97
01:10:26.500 right about the devil and it kind of makes sense in the world today the way I come to my conclusions 0.64
01:10:31.920 honestly is just looking at what's in front of me and I'll look at a room and just look at what's
01:10:36.380 happened just it's kind of crazy what you can gather when you just look at what's in front of
01:10:40.640 your eyes look at how a conversation goes look at who people are looking at who speaks first you
01:10:46.680 know all right so in the bible satan is constantly portrayed as a tempter and a deceiver these roles
01:10:53.660 are central to his activity from the earliest accounts through the new testament again i'm not
01:10:59.520 religious but the bible makes sense a lot he is explicitly called the tempter when there's more
01:11:04.860 real ninjas in church i'll become religious again but i'm sorry it's just simps his approach is not
01:11:09.820 usually raw force, but suggestion aimed at human desires and weaknesses. The classic example is
01:11:16.300 the Garden of Eden. The serpent is described as more crafty than any other animal. He begins by
01:11:21.980 questioning God's commands. Did God really say that? And women do this constantly, right? Women
01:11:29.080 constantly do this. They say, oh, I didn't say that. Like they're constantly tempting you and 1.00
01:11:34.760 confusing you 24 7 and then they use flattery then flatly denies the consequence god has stated you 1.00
01:11:41.500 will surely die women hate consequences right and finally offers an attractive alternative eating 0.74
01:11:48.940 the fruit will open their eyes and make them like god knowing good and evil eve sees the tree as 0.94
01:11:54.720 good for food pleasing to the eye and desirable for wisdom she eats and adam does as well the
01:11:59.820 account shows a progression of doubt, distortion, denial, and desire. The same pattern in Temptation
01:12:05.500 of Jesus in the Wilderness. After a 40-day fast, Satan approaches with three offers.
01:12:12.140 Turd, stone into bread, appealing to physical hunger, throwing himself from the temple so angels
01:12:17.940 will rescue him, appealing to pride and a desire for dramatic proof. Worship Satan in exchange for
01:12:23.980 all of the kingdoms of the world in their glory. So I think this totally happens today, right?
01:12:28.920 because you it's like in the world I don't know I don't know what age you guys woke up but there
01:12:36.180 is an age where I'm just I'm gonna start saying this because this is just too pivotal in my story
01:12:44.140 this part I'm talking about there is an age where I realized like my mother was lying to me about a
01:12:49.020 lot of stuff and I just realized that everything she was saying was alive and it was when I really
01:12:54.600 got my father's side of the story and once you realize what's true there's a point where you
01:13:05.620 real you can lie to be liked by the group you can lie to be liked by your parents you can lie to be
01:13:12.960 like you can like lie and exchange but when you're honest I mean imagine the next family function 1.00
01:13:19.220 you go to go tell your whore cousin that she's dressed like a whore and why are you dressed like 1.00
01:13:23.440 that. And to not, that's not appropriate. Tell me how that goes for you. All of the men will white 1.00
01:13:27.560 night. They'll cape, right? And this is kind of earth. You have to lie if you want to make money.
01:13:41.100 And so God's kind of testing you to say, do you trust God, right? That he's going to take care of
01:13:46.580 you if you follow him. And I think it's especially difficult because we see some people that
01:13:51.700 definitely followed God and definitely have had their lives ruined. So maybe God doesn't have a
01:13:57.800 plan. I don't know. I can't, that's why I don't like religious people is they have too much pride
01:14:02.460 and ego. I don't really understand it. I don't get it, you know, because I'll look at like George 1.00
01:14:07.720 Floyd and the police officer that killed him, but was doing nothing wrong. I mean, he's been stabbed
01:14:14.960 a bajillion times in prison. So I don't know if God's looking out for that guy, you know, and
01:14:19.980 you'll see people like that that are honest, and they're just totally cooked. It doesn't seem like
01:14:25.580 God's there, you know. They're like the God saying, oh, you must not lose faith. And I don't know if
01:14:34.040 I'm that officer. I'm in jail for life and stabbed a million times. I don't know, man. All right, so
01:14:39.960 Jesus rejects each one by quoting scripture. The scene is read as a reversal of Adam and Eve's
01:14:45.560 failure and a model of resistance other passages describe him having him filling people's hearts
01:14:51.960 with lies or prowling like a roaring lion seeking to devour and that's what i think flattery is
01:14:58.440 um that's why i don't like flattery i don't like it when people tell me i'm awesome or whatever
01:15:03.320 because it's just you know a lot of times it's people that want something from you 0.90
01:15:08.760 and i think women do this they flatter you up front they tell you oh you're so pretty you're so
01:15:13.320 this you're so that and they think they're being nice but they're trying to get you they're trying
01:15:18.740 to get power from you is what i think christian writers frequently note that temptations tend to
01:15:24.320 track into categories in 1 john 2 16 the desires of the flesh the desires of the eyes and the pride
01:15:29.700 of life as a deceiver jesus calls him a murderer from the beginning who does not stand in truth 0.90
01:15:35.320 because there's no truth in him when he lies he speaks out of his own character for he is a liar 1.00
01:15:39.580 and the father of lies. And that totally is women. So when I hear about the devil, I just see a lot 1.00
01:15:44.960 of parallels with women, right? And it just seems like men have this light in them that is totally
01:15:51.760 boggled down by women. Because when I look at the men in my life, when women aren't around them, 1.00
01:15:57.460 they're so funny, so cool, so awesome. And then women just drag them down. And, you know, even 0.99
01:16:03.080 I hear men say they need words of affirmation from women. I'm like, what are you, women?
01:16:07.000 You want women to lie to you is what you're saying, right? 1.00
01:16:10.360 Why? 1.00
01:16:12.440 Revelation 12, 19 identifies him as the ancient serpent who is called the devil and Satan the deceiver of the world.
01:16:20.440 The key tactics are masquerading as good.
01:16:23.160 Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.
01:16:25.880 So I look at this situation, right, with Ethan and his wife.
01:16:30.320 Ethan is lying. 1.00
01:16:33.080 He knows his wife is a big fat slut whore. 1.00
01:16:35.360 I am sure she drove him to cheat in some way men like that that are that validation seeking from 1.00
01:16:40.560 women it takes a lot to drive him to cheat so he lied and his wife is disguising herself as a
01:16:50.500 masquerade of life and basically like the way I see it is that's the devil and Ethan on some level
01:16:58.380 he does have the light in him right this is kind of some spiritual kind of crazy stuff I don't know
01:17:04.020 this is just what I see. And if he rejects the lies, like
01:17:10.800 he can either be honest or lie. And if he's honest,
01:17:22.440 it would expose the devil, right? But he's going to lie.
01:17:28.840 And so when you lie to women, you're basically worshiping the devil. 0.97
01:17:32.680 So twisting or questioning God's word. 0.71
01:17:35.140 In Eden, he misrepresents the command.
01:17:37.220 With Jesus, he selectively quotes. 1.00
01:17:39.060 And women do that all the time. 0.62
01:17:40.300 We misrepresent what men say constantly. 0.76
01:17:43.700 We misrepresent the situation.
01:17:45.520 So I'm sure there's some lies in this situation.
01:17:48.380 He is described blinding minds.
01:17:50.560 He is described as the God of this world who blinds the minds of unbelievers so they cannot see the gospel.
01:17:56.320 And that's almost what you see on earth is everybody's blind.
01:18:01.900 everybody can't see what women are doing and i don't know it seems like a lot of people can't
01:18:13.020 see they're worshiping the devil making harmful choices that appear beneficial the awful offer
01:18:19.220 always looks like knowledge power satisfaction or advantage the cost is ruined separation from
01:18:24.820 god or destruction is hidden or denied and so that's what he wanted right they made it seem
01:18:30.500 like him appeasing his wife is going to lead to good but it leads to bad this is why the broader
01:18:35.480 tradition surrounding deals with the devil such bargains are treated as fraud satan is not
01:18:40.280 portrayed as a reliable contract partner who can deliver lasting good he's portrayed as a liar who
01:18:45.600 offer whose offers are designed to lead people into disobedience or destruction the bible's
01:18:50.820 repeated counsel is resistance rather than negotiation resist the devil and he will flee
01:18:55.520 from you and put the whole armor of God that you may be that you may be able to stand against the
01:19:03.060 schemes of the devil and when you look at the world today that's what it feels it's like constant
01:19:08.220 you have to be able to tune out even with the chat I have to tune you guys out some of you guys are 0.80
01:19:13.400 hell on earth um but you have to tune out the opinions of women and I've noticed whenever I'm
01:19:19.540 doing a really good job and I'm really on to something I get more criticism like I don't 1.00
01:19:24.480 watch anymore any of the hit pieces on me but I've noticed after a debate and I'll leave a debate
01:19:29.740 I'll know I made points on I'll know I made sense and I know on TikTok there's going to be more 0.89
01:19:36.300 compilations trying to say I look stupid or I said something stupid when I know I didn't I like I 0.99
01:19:43.060 know what I do I know when I say something stupid or that doesn't make sense okay you know um so I 0.99
01:19:49.960 don't know do I have light in me I don't know it's confusing because it doesn't it doesn't seem 0.98
01:19:54.820 like it because I'll self-reflect and I'll be like damn I did that I did that you know so I don't
01:19:59.340 know so I don't even like to think of people as good and evil in a way and this probably contradicts 0.85
01:20:05.140 what I said earlier but I just like to look at it as groups you know as a group women just tend to
01:20:10.280 worship evil stuff different Christian traditions emphasize various aspects of these texts but the
01:20:17.680 core biblical portrait is consistent. Satan operates primarily through deception and temptation aimed
01:20:23.920 at undermining trust in God and drawing people into sin. And I think the temptations on this
01:20:28.360 world are kind of like their love, their like wanting love too bad, wanting titles. I've
01:20:34.660 noticed that people tend to sin to be titles, wanting to be liked by people, wanting to be
01:20:39.120 popular. And I don't know, the more I listen to Jesse Lee Peterson, he makes a lot of sense. He
01:20:44.060 said something about god saying you have to stand alone and really the way the world's going you
01:20:49.620 totally do um yeah and so the life cycle of a man is i think men start off and kids kind of start
01:21:00.100 off as good right because when you talk to kids they're so innocent but the world totally ruins
01:21:06.280 them and it's a simulation it's a test to see how bad you want those things and if you love god more
01:21:12.920 so you start off men start off as a nobody but the thing is okay here's the thing about men
01:21:19.780 young men in particular they always start off cool right and they start off awesome and
01:21:24.940 they're cool they're not popular they don't have money but they are inherently better to hang out
01:21:31.160 with and cooler they have a cool personality they have good friends they maybe make no money and 0.91
01:21:36.940 don't have status but who cares life is good then they start becoming a real ninja and women start
01:21:41.940 to notice and they start getting money or status. Their confidence is coming. They're becoming more
01:21:47.340 of a whole person. Then they get a woman and as soon as they get a woman they tend to make a deal 0.98
01:21:51.460 with the devil. And the devil, the woman, she offers popularity. She offers love. She offers 0.90
01:21:55.880 you to be a higher status as a man. And so men start to think they're good people because they're
01:22:02.660 lying to the woman. They let her in emotionally. They give the woman leverage. They, I mean even
01:22:09.100 Ethan, Ethan, why the hell did you put the woman in charge of your business? 0.99
01:22:15.160 What are you doing, man? 1.00
01:22:17.280 Kids in the marriage, and they start to worship the woman,
01:22:20.960 and they give the woman praise and validation.
01:22:23.580 And I think that praise and validation is hell on earth.
01:22:26.220 That seems to be the downfall of, like, humanity,
01:22:29.520 because I've started to despise it.
01:22:36.180 I don't want to be told I'm awesome.
01:22:37.300 I don't want to be, I don't, I don't want, cause I've just noticed all these titles. I mean,
01:22:43.200 you're so amazing. You're so great right now for now. And that's why you kind of have to live in
01:22:50.040 the moment because if you're not watching yourself, if you're not living in the moment,
01:22:55.660 because every day you're different, you know what I mean? I don't know.
01:22:59.660 I don't know if I'm making sense. Maybe I'm just, maybe I'm getting too spiritual on your ass. I 0.99
01:23:03.700 know um so then the woman ruins the guy which in this case is ethan he adopts female insufferability 0.86
01:23:12.340 which i think i might do a whiteboard video on upstairs um maybe tomorrow actually i think we'll
01:23:17.780 continue this lesson tomorrow um is the guy aware i don't know because the brainwashing is so strong
01:23:24.560 and women are so good the devil is so good at deceiving you i mean i'm in debates sometimes
01:23:30.380 where they're yelling at me and I'll start to feel guilt like I'll start to feel guilty and feel like 1.00
01:23:36.420 maybe I said the wrong thing they're really good at making you question yourself and that's why I 0.93
01:23:43.260 don't know in my life the more I block women that are crazy and stop talking to them I do it for 1.00
01:23:47.840 money right by the way if you guys give me enough money I'll never do a debate again I do the debates 1.00
01:23:52.860 for money I hate debates I hate them I would love to just have a fun little show here but they make
01:23:58.680 more money i'm gonna be honest i do i absolutely so i don't know as men a lot of you've been
01:24:03.200 married and divorced do you guys know you're liars like do you know as you're doing it that
01:24:07.420 you're liars or is it that they're good at making you feel bad i don't know 0.97
01:24:12.680 so the woman ruins the all right so they give the woman too much praise and validation the woman 0.99
01:24:24.780 ruins the guy and the man adopts female insufferability the wife is emotionally torturing
01:24:29.360 him we're not aware we're not sure if he's aware but he starts to become a mouthpiece for her
01:24:34.160 my price how much money i need a month uh to not debate
01:24:42.720 for expensive
01:24:46.060 i would stream every day
01:24:50.340 20k month
01:24:55.500 because I pay an editor
01:24:56.980 the house is bigger, 20k
01:24:59.500 but then see, I don't even like saying that
01:25:03.600 because then people
01:25:04.460 like 10 of that's expenses
01:25:06.620 yeah
01:25:08.700 so you know
01:25:10.480 and I could afford rent, it'd be chill
01:25:12.600 you can pay me 20k a month
01:25:21.220 I don't believe that's real
01:25:28.460 but that would be
01:25:31.600 a 30k final answer
01:25:36.780 30k would be nice
01:25:37.740 but I would take a pay cut to not
01:25:42.440 i mean
01:25:45.680 that's what i want to get a certain amount of um subscribers that maybe
01:25:54.020 now i want 30k i said it would be nice i didn't ask for it i didn't ask for it
01:26:05.040 but i would stream every day if i had like 20k of income i knew was coming in i would never take
01:26:10.380 a debate again oh my god and then it would be heaven on earth here right it would it would be
01:26:16.940 heaven on earth because i could do my little show and then my whole show could just be dedicated
01:26:20.840 to making white guys look cool and giving their side of the story right and then it could just be 0.74
01:26:26.920 it could be fun and i could just block i could just block anybody that's crazy and not talk to 0.97
01:26:34.600 them and ignore them. Oh my God. See, I didn't want to give a number because now they're going 0.94
01:26:40.620 to nag me about it. Now they're going to nag me about it. It's, oh my God. Oh my God.
01:26:56.320 All right. Um, now, now, now they're going to, I shouldn't have said, I shouldn't have said it.
01:27:00.920 You know what I mean?
01:27:02.260 All right.
01:27:02.760 So let me go back to my steps. 0.98
01:27:06.960 So the man becomes a mouthpiece for the woman,
01:27:09.340 and he starts to throw other men and women under the bus like Ethan did to me.
01:27:13.720 So Ethan totally threw me under the bus even though I was being honest
01:27:18.800 and he was lying, right?
01:27:24.120 Even though, which, by the way, if you do want to fund me retiring from debates,
01:27:28.320 just pearlythings.com slash donate.
01:27:30.920 slash donate you go in there there's a few bugs in the website you might have to try the stripe
01:27:36.240 a few times we're working on it um anyways so
01:27:40.220 then um the guy gives the women way too much credit he says that he couldn't do the things
01:27:54.740 he does without her which she totally believes and the men you guys got to stop saying that to
01:27:59.380 your wives because they'll use that against you in court now the woman wants to believe the woman 1.00
01:28:04.440 wants to leave and has to make herself a victim so she's either such a bitch that he cheats 1.00
01:28:08.560 um she's a bitch or throws an abuse charge at him she throws a rape charge at him or she says 1.00
01:28:14.460 he's perfect uh but i just need to find myself and leave so she'll find a way to make herself 1.00
01:28:19.320 the hero and the victim at the same time somehow uh the men throw the men under the bus uh so
01:28:25.920 you're alone as a man because now his, like in Ethan's case, his entire crew, his entire
01:28:35.740 crew totally threw him under the bus. So all these people he was friends with, all these
01:28:45.260 people he helped, it counted for nothing. And you as a man are alone. He does one wrong
01:28:50.340 thing, a six month affair out of a 20 year marriage. That means 19 and a half years of
01:28:53.860 good behavior right and now he's going to be the villain and she gets to he gets to become a slave 0.98
01:29:01.020 to his ex-wife and the h3 is going to tank because he is the he's the prize right i hate the guy 0.99
01:29:07.440 right i hate him i think he's a complete dick but um i will say he's the talent it's not her 1.00
01:29:14.640 and then he'll be super um he'll be super uh begging and pleading in court and all this stuff 0.99
01:29:26.580 and then you know now the judge is going to know that she has power over him
01:29:30.320 the world is going to take the side of your wife no matter how awful she is because nobody wants
01:29:36.260 to see her sad and that's really everything that this is about nobody wants to see woman cannot be
01:29:42.620 sad no one loves women enough to be honest um your words are used against you um your reputation
01:29:50.660 like you have nothing in this world and it can be taken in an instant and everybody is afraid of it
01:29:55.500 being taken so i'm kind of i'm i'm kind of happy that i've had this career i'll kind of soon right
01:30:04.780 where this is a little bit embarrassing you know i didn't have kids and stuff because this ego
01:30:11.860 death it just needs to happen because once you have an ego death where you don't get something
01:30:16.060 you wanted life kind of opens up in a weird way because you stop caring about anything so
01:30:24.620 all right let me read super chats um loved your work in toy story five
01:30:35.580 who are you saying i look like my husband and i watched the couples therapy video today you guys
01:30:42.740 killed that yeah we're about to do another which by the way just so you know to do the couples
01:30:47.780 therapy oh my god they milk you dry i'm doing four therapy sessions on thursday next week
01:30:52.560 it's a thousand dollars so if anyone wants to donate i got two bills this week this is what i
01:30:58.400 mean they just add up in this industry a thousand dollars for therapy because i did four therapy
01:31:02.900 episodes we can release one a month a week this month and then i got another thousand dollar bill 0.99
01:31:08.940 from the lawyer from this bitch suing me i hate women i hate women i mean and you guys have a way 0.98
01:31:15.740 worse child support is so much worse but i think i've spent probably thirty thousand dollars ish 1.00
01:31:21.600 on this stupid court case what do you think about alex cooper marrying and now having a son after 1.00
01:31:27.580 many years saying this oppression of women and hating men she's going to cook her son and make 1.00
01:31:32.160 him a little super simp so she does hate men and she'll hate her son so may i talk one-on-one with 1.00
01:31:39.360 you uh five hundred dollars and if you hit on me i will take your money and end the session
01:31:46.740 so i will i'll talk 500 bucks
01:31:59.020 and it's not personal i just don't really like
01:32:12.420 it's just a little i don't really like doing it you know
01:32:16.660 with the therapy session i say let the therapist talk more and make the problems less extreme i'm
01:32:23.440 curious what the therapist will say pay $300 to get taught a safe word how much to hit on me a
01:32:32.160 thousand dollars and then I'll you can hit on me for an hour and I'll just that you know that's 1.00
01:32:37.280 like prostitution why would you sign up for that I mean if pearl hits on you you get your 500 bucks 1.00
01:32:44.900 back. Hey, you know what? Hey.
01:32:53.980 Hey, you know.
01:32:57.560 What's the best place to hit on me? Probably the gym. I spend a lot of time
01:33:00.900 in the gym. I'm trying to cut these last 20 pounds. I just love food so much.
01:33:06.680 But I will. I will prevail.
01:33:08.880 You're telling me there's a chance? Yeah, I date normal guys all the time.
01:33:12.320 i prefer them you know because here's the thing other famous guys like let's take elijah for
01:33:19.920 example because you know people kind of were shipping that i do they ship me with whatever
01:33:25.180 mail i do a podcast with
01:33:26.920 so i'm like what's up with the groipers do you guys stand on nothing you're shipping
01:33:33.260 me with your king i'm a coal burner man what are you guys doing
01:33:36.640 what are you doing
01:33:41.040 I know
01:33:53.340 what are you guys doing
01:33:55.320 you think I deserve your 0.98
01:33:56.800 I don't deserve your king 0.93
01:33:58.120 I don't deserve your king
01:34:00.220 he deserves better 0.87
01:34:01.760 younger hotter
01:34:04.480 like what are you doing 0.99
01:34:06.560 guys, but they shit me, right, it's such a hot, I know, I should have a toll, but, you know, 1.00
01:34:14.480 they shit me immediately, and then I'll have gropers in my DMs, and I'm like, what are you 1.00
01:34:18.620 doing, I'm supposed to pay a toll, where is my toll, if you got, so, all right, let me just break 0.99
01:34:29.420 down why a YouTuber is just trouble, like hooking up with one. Now, I'd like to say,
01:34:40.380 sorry to hear about me and, okay, I don't want to talk about it. Now, let's say, let's say,
01:34:50.860 there, all right, so let's say, and by the way, just because I'm saying this now, I'd like to say,
01:34:55.920 i made me a youtuber in the future that makes me change my mind do you know i mean so me saying
01:35:03.860 this now does not negate future pearl because you never know you never i'm just saying as of now
01:35:11.460 why i have not gone that route
01:35:14.260 i guess i don't want to say i haven't gone that route because i did the tick the tiktok i did
01:35:22.680 you know, to be fair. But when you date someone in your direct industry, so like, okay,
01:35:28.800 if I were to date somebody that is a musician, right? A musician or somebody in a, in a industry
01:35:40.000 that's not my direct industry. And there's two things that to me make somebody a YouTuber,
01:35:46.200 right it has to be their full-time job not a part-time thing if you are a part-time like whatever
01:35:53.160 i don't i don't think that's like a good
01:35:59.080 not good like you should still be proud of it but it's just not that's not your it's not the
01:36:07.780 same level of risk because they you have a full-time job do you know what i mean but two
01:36:12.320 people that 100% depend on YouTube income in the same industry, number one, you're going to be in
01:36:22.600 that industry forever. You forever will be in that industry. So if it doesn't work out, you will have
01:36:31.020 to see them. Now, my exes have this problem with me because you will probably see me somewhere
01:36:35.940 someday because I will be on the internet forever. So that's, but for me, I have to think about that.
01:36:41.580 I have to think about – on top of it, if it goes – like, what if you guys – because it's 2026.
01:37:07.300 We're hooking up before we're dating.
01:37:08.880 You know what I mean?
01:37:09.440 what if what if I hook up with them and then I get passed right now he can go across the industry
01:37:16.660 and tell everybody that's so embarrassing for me
01:37:20.740 that's so embarrassing
01:37:24.720 oh my god
01:37:29.040 yeah what if I get ghosted you think I don't get ghost I absolutely get ghosted I'm a mid
01:37:36.660 a gentleman
01:37:49.800 well you don't always know who's gonna
01:37:52.060 be a gentleman
01:37:53.840 you don't know that
01:37:55.220 you don't know
01:38:06.660 so it's just you have to understand the youtubers and think about their level of risk
01:38:13.240 i could go say i was right i'm not going to do that right but all these men
01:38:17.220 they hook up with me now in five years if i get cooked then you know when they start going for
01:38:24.640 the younger hot which i'm kind of aged out of e-boys anyway they go for women 10 years younger
01:38:28.920 but like you got to think about the level of risk for both parties that's such a high risk
01:38:36.060 if i were to go that route it would have to be somewhat like okay that's why travis kelsey
01:38:44.940 and taylor swift dated because if i were to date and i'm not in the league anyway i do
01:38:50.940 not attract professional athletes i'd like to say i'm not that hot
01:38:54.460 um but imagine i went there there's not really a downside or like a sports comment like someone
01:39:03.820 that does my job, but a different industry. If it's, there's a downside, I don't really care
01:39:11.000 because we don't have mutuals, right? You can't affect my money. And they'll say, well, if you
01:39:16.920 get married and have kids, because you guys always jump right to the married, right? You guys always
01:39:21.460 jump right to, oh, marry this guy. You understand there's steps before that. You understand, it's
01:39:28.860 2026 any guy that's not desperate right there's steps
01:39:34.480 it's not like i'm a megastar or a politician i've seen women less famous than me get cooked
01:39:44.080 okay so i'm not a megastar or a politician okay i'm not at all but you have to understand there's
01:39:52.360 like there's steps you know you you go on a date you go on a few dates you hook up hook up for a
01:39:58.720 little bit and then date you know and anybody that says there are not steps like this is really not
01:40:05.860 out there date okay they're not out there or you're just getting cooked my guy you're like
01:40:10.640 paying for dinners for you know
01:40:12.260 so anyways 0.99
01:40:37.160 yeah a lot of people shit me with other YouTubers 0.96
01:40:40.100 now look 0.99
01:40:40.860 I'm not against it, right?
01:40:43.600 I'm not even against.
01:40:48.580 But the risk level on the way there
01:40:51.460 is just a little higher than I like.
01:40:55.740 Why would someone marry me?
01:40:58.480 I could give some pros and cons.
01:41:00.460 I could give you a pro and a con list.
01:41:02.640 Should I go through it?
01:41:04.280 I don't know.
01:41:05.000 I'm kind of done talking about Ethan Klein.
01:41:07.820 I got nothing else on the guy.
01:41:10.860 i got nothing else on the guy
01:41:13.920 uh cooked right it's you're cooked stop apologizing remember you're the real ninja in this show
01:41:22.900 and you should make another channel and just tell them you know yeah pros and cons all right pro
01:41:29.160 i am conservative you don't have to make me you don't have to bang me into being conservative
01:41:36.220 right i'm kind of red pill some guys see that as a pro con right the con that comes with it
01:41:41.180 i do talk about this stuff a lot and it is annoying
01:41:46.300 i don't really i'm not like a normie while i get interested in other topics
01:41:51.980 and i really wish i was but i get bored with other conversations and it's really annoying to men
01:42:00.220 um okay pro right i'll always stand up for you as a man i always have your back right so if any
01:42:05.900 woman tries to cook you, I'll cook her right back. 1.00
01:42:07.900 I'll beat up a bitch for you. 1.00
01:42:10.360 Con. 1.00
01:42:12.380 Con.
01:42:16.840 If you have any
01:42:17.840 status, right, if you have any
01:42:19.740 status in your friend group,
01:42:23.560 if you,
01:42:24.080 if status is important to you at work, 1.00
01:42:27.340 the women 1.00
01:42:27.780 are going to cook your ass. 1.00
01:42:34.760 The women are going to 1.00
01:42:35.680 cook con i know i can go out in public normally i do get recognized but i i have a pretty normal
01:42:41.720 day-to-day life i don't get recognized that often pro right um i have you know i'm a realist so i
01:42:54.280 would i will expect a probable divorce right i'd like to stay married for life but i don't need to
01:42:59.460 destroy you i'm probably just gonna buy the studio and if it goes south i'll go here
01:43:03.840 some people would say that as a con right when it kind of is a con right who would plan for a 0.80
01:43:09.220 divorce I don't believe I'm above statistics anymore right so I don't have to steal your
01:43:15.640 house I have one my parents have I don't have to cook you pro I think you'll get high IQ kids
01:43:22.460 because my I'm I think I'm above average my dad's really smart you can have a tall son
01:43:28.380 my dream in life is I just want a son
01:43:30.820 I want a son in life
01:43:32.520 that's all I want, one son
01:43:33.900 so maybe we could do that
01:43:36.500 red hair if you're into that 0.97
01:43:42.480 light eyes if you're into that
01:43:44.360 turning 30 soon
01:43:46.820 kids might be autistic
01:43:48.060 so
01:43:51.000 pro i am honest con not about my body count two 0.74
01:44:02.380 two yeah you're the third baby i'll die on that 0.91
01:44:08.660 Pro, we can make the contract very equal, so you don't have to get cooked as a man,
01:44:22.840 we can alleviate risk. Pro, I'm a pretty hard worker, so I can cook, I can clean, I'm kind
01:44:29.680 of, I am a little bit disorganized. I could be neater, I could be neater. That's one thing
01:44:36.320 I really wish I could change.
01:44:37.340 I've gotten a lot better, but my work ethic is there.
01:44:39.660 I'm very coachable.
01:44:43.120 Con, I have to be coached, right?
01:44:52.420 Does being recognizable keep me isolated in dating?
01:44:56.760 I used to be, I'll be honest, when I first got famous,
01:44:59.380 that was a big reason I was single.
01:45:01.280 I was very scared to date.
01:45:02.900 I was very scared to, like, hook.
01:45:05.600 I was so scared.
01:45:06.840 I was terrified.
01:45:09.220 Yeah.
01:45:13.880 Pro, right?
01:45:17.500 Humble.
01:45:18.080 Con.
01:45:18.600 Hypergamous still.
01:45:19.900 Isn't that terrible?
01:45:20.540 That's a terrible combination.
01:45:22.680 The men say don't be hypergamous.
01:45:25.680 Pro.
01:45:26.160 I love athletic men with abs.
01:45:27.660 I do.
01:45:28.720 That's a weakness for me.
01:45:33.280 Con.
01:45:34.000 Don't want them to cheat.
01:45:35.040 Would rather they didn't.
01:45:39.660 Love what you do.
01:45:40.640 Thank you. 1.00
01:45:47.520 Tall, autistic son.
01:45:49.380 Super smart. 0.96
01:45:50.100 Have I called Elon?
01:45:51.880 Looking rough as hell, I know.
01:45:54.260 I know I should.
01:45:55.820 I should call Elon.
01:46:04.940 there's pros and cons here right there's pros and cons pro thin now con used to be fat con
01:46:11.640 could be thinner pro i think i'll be really thin in the next six months
01:46:16.540 pro health conscious con doesn't drink water
01:46:22.780 pro you don't have to go to my social events because i don't have a lot of friends
01:46:33.020 con i don't want to go to your social events either
01:46:37.140 i don't want to go to yours either it's going to annoy me if it's a really big time commitment
01:46:44.920 i'd rather you went on your own i don't want to be there
01:46:56.920 how do i see the dynamic have i have a family in youtube i just know this stream's either going to 1.00
01:47:02.440 be brought up to me in public or used against me later, but I'll, I'll fuck you. I don't care 1.00
01:47:06.900 anymore. Um, unfortunately con, I have a very big love for YouTube. I don't want to stop.
01:47:15.620 I really don't, I don't want to stop. I want to keep making money doing this con pro still
01:47:22.520 wants to be a mother, wants to do it all. Didn't think I did want to do it all, but I think I do
01:47:31.920 because I really like it but do you know what it is that's why I've honestly built the studio the
01:47:37.780 way I have is because I've made it so I could work from home and just bring the kid with no employees
01:47:45.040 so like there's no employees here because I think that's the hard part is once you have
01:47:50.580 high overhead it's like a rat race like you keep having to keep up the way I have it
01:47:55.680 But I do have some expenses that are high, but I can cut them really easily.
01:48:06.740 If, you know, the kid needs extra attention, I can go down.
01:48:09.520 So I've sort of built it in a way, because I had this idea.
01:48:13.260 I bought all the big equipment.
01:48:16.180 Con, no, I don't want you to co-host.
01:48:18.140 I'm going to be honest.
01:48:21.200 I think I'll get annoyed.
01:48:23.280 No, I'm really against nannies. 1.00
01:48:25.680 I'll just work less.
01:48:29.960 I'm really against nannies. 1.00
01:48:34.960 But I don't know, I feel like I could do this. 0.98
01:48:36.920 Like I don't, I don't think this is that big of a deal.
01:48:41.080 You know, con might embarrass you on the internet.
01:48:43.820 Pro, you can see my history, right? 0.95
01:48:45.900 So there's nothing worse, if your wife, right,
01:48:49.300 has a social media and she's never had it,
01:48:52.160 you have no idea what she'll do with it.
01:48:53.960 But you can see my pattern of behavior in what ways I will embarrass you. 0.98
01:49:02.420 Like, I might make a song about the Jews, right? 1.00
01:49:05.280 But I'll be kind of scared to talk about you. 1.00
01:49:08.240 And I'll talk about you very positively if I do.
01:49:10.760 We can set boundaries, you know.
01:49:16.620 Pros and cons.
01:49:18.960 Pro, my house isn't haunted.
01:49:20.800 Well, Terrence Pop came here to film and he said he thought it was.
01:49:23.380 so I don't know. Maybe it is. You know, right here, pro. I could be uglier. Con, I sound awful.
01:49:37.840 pro right i'm friendly con i will strike up conversations with random people
01:49:54.100 like in public all the time
01:49:57.960 pro i don't know if i could come pro
01:50:05.240 I still
01:50:07.720 compare Vaughn to some
01:50:09.240 ability because I have not as
01:50:11.500 banged out as my peers
01:50:13.160 still not sure if I can
01:50:15.740 fall in love again I might be cooked
01:50:17.200 I might just have to be arranged
01:50:18.540 please don't talk to me
01:50:25.600 about this in person guys
01:50:26.780 please it's going to make me feel
01:50:28.380 because this is what happens I talk to you guys
01:50:30.760 I don't know you guys so you come in person right
01:50:33.080 and then you'll be like so how is this how is this specific negative part of your personality
01:50:45.040 and it's very uncomfortable for me how much for my eggs
01:50:50.100 like how are we doing the insemination and how good looking are you
01:50:56.640 i can't reproduce a chopped child like i need i need receipts
01:51:01.700 um am i gonna do the dinners soon i would like to uh do you know what i could do
01:51:09.020 i would like to however i have to get this app going so i'm gonna guess february or march because
01:51:19.640 i need to spend a few months i had to take that project off oh actually andrew i owe you money i
01:51:25.640 need to pay you i do apologize i owe you money for a flight i paid everybody but you today i
01:51:30.640 forgot about you. Surrogate. Now that love might be over for me, maybe I will. Who am 0.56
01:51:46.160 I selling it to? I mean, honestly, you know, in a way, when you get cooked a little bit
01:51:56.800 in love you're like well maybe we can do an unconventional path
01:52:01.360 yeah let's see show me that you mog right i don't know 100k
01:52:09.120 100k 0.99
01:52:13.360 Depends, some men would get a discount, some men would be a million dollars, some men would
01:52:30.560 be 10,000, some men it would be free, right? 1.00
01:52:43.360 You're a 6'4 redhead. 1.00
01:52:49.580 I do have a thing for gingers. 1.00
01:52:52.040 I have a thing for ginger men and black guys. 1.00
01:52:55.120 What a diabolical combination. 1.00
01:53:03.620 What a diabolical.
01:53:06.340 But also, a dark-haired guy with blue eyes.
01:53:11.320 That's my problem.
01:53:12.160 them. So many men are good looking. I do not have a thing for a ginger black guy. There's so many men
01:53:20.360 that are good looking. Can we talk about this? Like, so many men, it's like, even if they're
01:53:25.060 chopped in some way, like, you'll hear them talk a little bit. You're like, wow, you're not that,
01:53:32.820 I'm starting to kind of like the way you look a little bit.
01:53:42.160 Oh, my God, okay.
01:54:08.280 If you look up Becky in the dictionary, it'll be a picture of you, but that's a compliment, 0.96
01:54:11.740 because I like plain Janes. 0.81
01:54:14.200 Thank you, I guess.
01:54:16.360 Love you.
01:54:17.000 Thanks for sticking to the facts.
01:54:18.360 Thanks.
01:54:41.740 hey this is all i got today i talked about myself way too much
01:54:50.420 this is going to be used against me later
01:54:53.540 yeah well you know on some level i do identify with ethan
01:55:09.000 kind of understand can't predict the future you know 100k for those scrambled eggs
01:55:22.800 okay man they are scrambled but that's a lot of work i would have to do the egg in vitro stuff 0.97
01:55:34.040 or have sex with a strange 0.97
01:55:36.060 guy and it's just 0.98
01:55:37.760 they ask me for a price 1.00
01:55:43.900 and then they bitch about the price 1.00
01:55:46.100 do you see 0.62
01:55:50.100 this dynamic
01:55:51.020 we can read books
01:55:55.960 of Zion together this does not
01:55:57.880 sound appealing to me
01:56:04.040 i'm gonna start going on members only i need to i need to put a money barrier to this chat
01:56:11.040 all right guys i do love you but i do have to go um thank you for the supers i do appreciate it
01:56:34.040 um i'm home i think until the 10th although there is one content creator i was debating
01:56:40.360 flying out to go debate um i may do it i may not in the next month or something but
01:56:49.900 anyways all right guys i love you thanks for watching even though i hate ethan klein um
01:56:59.960 i still think he should come back and be better than ever and just stop letting these women ruin
01:57:05.160 him so i love you thanks for watching like the video i'll see you next time 0.98