Pearl - Even Christian Women Love to Die on the Hill of 304s

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network um today

00:00:08.960 i want to have a talk with the christian men the christian men on this app it's probably like two

00:00:17.280 of you i can't imagine you'd really be drawn to my show but hey there might be one or two 0.97

00:00:30.720 You guys have to start telling your wives to shut up. 1.00

00:00:37.340 It has to be done. 0.99

00:00:39.340 I beg of you.

00:00:41.480 Because if you don't, your wife is going to turn into Allie Beth Stuckey. 1.00

00:00:45.260 Okay, so this week we have Allie Beth Stuckey nagging again. 1.00

00:00:49.820 As you guys know, I'm an expert on the life cycle of trad, e-girls, quote unquote, trad.

00:00:54.720 these are women that claim to be traditional and do a lot of the marketing to say they are 1.00

00:00:59.780 religious and traditional but their actions never match uh because they will still shame male

00:01:05.240 sexuality tell men what to do um and die on the hill of 304s now as you guys know um the church

00:01:13.140 will tell women to wait till marriage and on its surface that's not a bad idea at least in the old 1.00

00:01:19.320 world, it kind of made sense. But in the old world, women were arranged a husband. So it was 0.73

00:01:27.200 traditional dating because it was an arranged marriage. Now we have modern dating, which gives

00:01:33.240 women choice and women are always going to bang chads, including religious women. So women always 1.00

00:01:39.200 want the best of both worlds. So they want the stability of an arranged marriage or a stable

00:01:43.740 husband, and they want to be able to bang chads too. So what we do is we bang a bunch of chads 0.99

00:01:49.000 when we're young and then say, oh, now I'm ready to get right with God conveniently when our looks

00:01:54.760 are fading. It's like they didn't bang Chad for like one year at 19 and then decide it's always

00:02:00.400 like five, seven, eight years. So today we are going to react to Allie Beth Stuckey on YouTube.

00:02:09.200 Thank you, Allie, for keeping me employed forever.

00:02:14.800 Because of women like you and the audacity, I will forever be employed. 1.00

00:02:24.020 Now, again, Allie Beth Stuckey claims to be a traditional wife while also working. 1.00

00:02:29.920 And I actually know the amount of work that it goes into doing this kind of media empire.

00:02:35.060 and there's just no way you're you're spending your creative energy on your children no way

00:02:40.220 don't let them fool you all right let's let's get going also if anyone is curious some I went 0.96

00:02:45.600 running today and I took an L you see my hands fell on my ass so if a YouTube video comes out 0.84

00:02:52.600 just know yeah that was me Trevor and Ashley Sheets went viral this week because of a post 0.99

00:02:59.300 that trevor put on x about part of his wife's testimony saying that she was formerly promiscuous

00:03:05.420 before she became a christian he was a virgin they got married both as new creations in christ 0.89

00:03:12.140 and this post went viral got lots of backlash not only from non-believers but also from professing

00:03:19.800 christians and conservatives saying that this was disrespectful rude people calling his wife 0.99

00:03:25.000 all sorts of names just because that was me i called this wife a whore 1.00

00:03:29.160 i mean if you do sex work you're a whore you're a whore for life um that was me 1.00

00:03:34.140 i did it and i would do it again i would do it again but hey it takes a whore to know a whore 1.00

00:03:42.140 okay we're all whores ali's a whore don't let her don't let her tell you otherwise i'm a 30 foe 1.00

00:03:47.760 we're all hoes okay if you didn't wait till marriage and get married at a young age um 1.00

00:03:52.620 all the women that get married at an older age they just gluck gluck 9 000 don't let them fool 1.00

00:03:57.040 you all of us takes one to know one all right but there's different types of whores right 1.00

00:04:04.440 there's whores for the right guy you know there's um whores and then there's whores that do it on 1.00

00:04:12.260 camera and for me i don't think it was ever difficult to not have sex on camera and this 1.00

00:04:18.880 is coming from someone who got offered a million dollars to not have sex on camera so you're 0.80

00:04:25.040 essentially platforming um but the bottom feeders of society that have no self-control and are

00:04:30.880 incredibly lazy okay is of common christian vulnerability and sharing a person's testimony

00:04:44.400 and the power of the gospel well i was completely taken aback by this backlash and i wanted to give

00:04:50.800 ashley the opportunity on relatable to share her testimony for herself so ashley is here today to

00:04:56.880 talk about how she came out of the new age and darkness and all kinds of demonic oppression 0.91

00:05:02.640 into the light of christ it is a powerful story here on relatable today it's brought to you by

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00:06:00.340 Hey, y'all. Welcome to Relatable. We've got a special guest episode today. I wanted to make

00:06:05.120 sure that you heard this testimony as soon as possible. We have Ashley Sheets and she has gone

00:06:10.780 viral because her husband has gone viral because of an ex post about his relationship with his wife

00:06:16.960 regaining sexual purity after having a past of promiscuity and marrying a virgin. Ashley has

00:06:25.000 a storied past before she knew Christ that included. Look at, and a lot of times these women, 0.99

00:06:30.580 And it's always, like, convenient that, oh, I didn't know Christ.

00:06:35.580 Well, you grew up in a Christian society.

00:06:38.640 You didn't have any opportunities to, I mean, I understand we're in, like, kind of a secular world, right?

00:06:49.120 But it's not that difficult to find God if you want to.

00:06:52.780 You know, even in the gayborhood, there's a church here.

00:06:57.580 You know.

00:06:58.240 did demonic activity and the new age, even maybe forms of witchcraft and, um, lots of sexual

00:07:07.780 immorality that she has been very open about. And her husband, Trevor was a virgin when they

00:07:13.280 got married and he posted this on X and got so much backlash and 34 million views. He said,

00:07:22.280 my wife was formerly promiscuous. I was a virgin. She was then radically born again,

00:07:26.220 committed to church, evangelized constantly, Puritan books in her bedroom, prayer journals,

00:07:30.380 grief over past sexual sin, etc. We got to know each other for well over a year, dated for four

00:07:35.420 months, engaged for two and a half and didn't sin sexually with one another. Our first kiss with

00:07:39.960 each other was at the altar on our wedding day. We've been married for over five years now, he

00:07:44.280 says, and she's been the most wonderful and godly wife, mother to our three children, and homemaker

00:07:47.800 you could imagine. She's more pure than most virgins. His biblical purity has less to do with

00:07:51.600 past sins, though they matter, and more to do with one's current posture of the heart and daily

00:07:55.760 decisions to honor the lord matthew 5 8 were far too quick to forget the story of the woman labeled

00:08:00.800 as a known sinner likely a prostitute in luke 7 36 through 50 who was washing jesus's feet with her 0.89

00:08:06.800 tears while kissing them too the pharisees were shocked that jesus let a public sinner do this 0.95

00:08:12.080 jesus responded with a parable about debts being forgiven and ended with this powerful conclusion

00:08:17.440 her many sins have been forgiven that's why she loved much but the one who is forgiven

00:08:22.320 little loves little super powerful he also quotes first corinthians 1 which is one of my favorite

00:08:29.520 passages and second corinthians 5 17 if anyone is in christ they are a new creation um he also

00:08:36.720 goes on to say everyone seems to highlight the benefits of virginity it certainly is a blessing

00:08:40.960 but we forget to highlight the benefits of being forgiven much as well my wife knows the depths of

00:08:46.160 jesus's forgiveness a woman or man's past sexual sin matters but what matters far more when it

00:08:51.280 comes to deciding who to marry is if the person is truly born again if their repentance is real

00:08:56.720 if they truly have a heart for christ if they truly follow jesus and obey his commands so i

00:09:02.080 read this post on x and i saw that it had thousands and thousands of replies and usually when a post

00:09:09.280 has thousands of replies it's like some kind of engagement bait where people are trying to stoke

00:09:14.480 outrage or say something ridiculous so a bunch of people respond or a question and a lot of people

00:09:19.680 a lot of people answered so i immediately wanted to read the post it had to have been something

00:09:25.100 ridiculous something that i was really going to disagree with because that's the other reason why 0.88

00:09:29.960 a post would have that many replies is if they said something really dumb really bad really 0.99

00:09:34.700 controversial it's so it's so crazy she doesn't understand men at all that she has no idea why 0.86

00:09:40.500 everyone's raging. It's just incredible. I can tell when a woman has put in, um, time 1.00

00:09:48.920 into learning what it takes to be a wife. I can tell. Um, Allie Beth Stuckey, I grew up around

00:09:56.360 women like this. They nag their bitches. Um, they tell men what to do and they're not feminine in 1.00

00:10:05.520 any way, shape or form. And they put all their energy into, you know, her projects instead of

00:10:17.540 the kids and the wife or the husband. They don't listen to anybody. And it's just very obvious.

00:10:27.140 She's never taken a second to really think about what's important to men by how she talks.

00:10:32.640 it's very obvious that the way she speaks you know her husband doesn't correct her

00:10:38.380 and she's not open to correction from her husband it's like very obvious um i kind of want to listen

00:10:45.940 to the sarah stock clip okay isabella if you watch this i am friends with isabella

00:10:50.860 i got nothing against her but apparently there's a audio that says she hooked up with elijah shaffer

00:10:59.200 what

00:11:01.500 have you met them

00:11:07.940 yeah

00:11:09.260 I'm like on good terms with them

00:11:11.900 but like they were randomly

00:11:14.220 be fixing with me for no reason

00:11:16.280 and then they kind of like ended up like apologizing

00:11:18.800 because it was like

00:11:20.540 completely unwarranted

00:11:22.280 and fully like one sided

00:11:24.460 right

00:11:25.380 and so they ended up like apologizing

00:11:28.120 and then pretending to like be like my bestie and stuff it's actually kind of weird because

00:11:31.840 um well we're friends with like trey who's kind of friends with him which i don't know if you

00:11:37.620 know who that is but no trey was gonna come hang out with like me and at that time he's like my

00:11:43.620 fiance because we're friends with him and then trey was gonna come and then like he like brought

00:11:48.440 josiah with him and so like josiah's like been to my house basically oh yeah is he a weirdo what's

00:11:56.220 I don't really like his vibe, like, he's kind of... 1.00

00:12:01.300 Wow, Sarah Sock is a bitch. 1.00

00:12:03.080 She was basically, like, acknowledging, like, oh yeah, I mean, it's about, like, it's totally grifty, like, we don't really, like, take it seriously, like, we're just trying to make a bit of money and just, like, have fun, like, I don't think women should be in politics anyway. 1.00

00:12:13.960 Yeah.

00:12:14.420 Like, kind of, and I'm just like, yeah, that's okay.

00:12:17.220 Um, it's just kind of, like, slop content, I don't know.

00:12:19.520 Like, not that that's, like, a reason I hate somebody, I just don't really like his vibe. 0.94

00:12:22.660 And, I mean, it's kind of funny, though, because he was kind of, like, shit-talking Elijah even. 0.85

00:12:26.220 oh really yeah he was even saying someone um i think he was trying to say something about like 0.93

00:12:36.380 like making some joke about like well don't have any freedom because i'm married now or

00:12:40.960 something like that then he was like unless you're like unless you have like an elijah

00:12:44.800 shaper version of marriage or something yeah 0.99

00:12:47.460 and then he was like laughing and basically like yeah he just doesn't even give a shit 0.99

00:12:54.880 yeah that's crazy i mean that guy like damn she is so fake infuses i don't know anything about 0.98

00:13:04.020 these people by the way except that i know that elijah has been with isabel and josiah 0.97

00:13:10.020 josiah knows i think he like encouraged it so like i know that they like swing and all that

00:13:15.920 kind of stuff but i'm just like i don't know if i believe i don't know how you could um 0.97

00:13:21.240 still be friends with like a guy that like fucked your wife basically you know what i mean 0.93

00:13:26.600 yeah no that's like really weird isn't that strange uh yeah i always found that weird and 0.98

00:13:32.360 i kind of just wonder if they like have something on each other too oh yeah yeah i mean josiah was

00:13:37.820 the producer yeah but but it's even more than that it's like they're not they're like in contact

00:13:46.520 all the time calling each other they're like they have a friendship which is like

00:13:56.920 whatever i don't know if i believe swinging i could have maybe believed like

00:14:05.080 a long time ago i don't know if i would believe they do like swinging

00:14:08.760 I don't really care.

00:14:15.660 I don't really care, but I'm nosy.

00:14:28.260 I feel like the way straight men talk about gay people, 0.96

00:14:32.560 it's like they're kind of disgusted by the gay men.

00:14:36.700 And I just remember him, like, saying, oh, like, it doesn't, like, it makes sense to me.

00:14:40.680 Like, he's, like, not, like, grossed out by that at all.

00:14:44.300 He just thinks that it's, like, normal.

00:14:45.860 And to me, that's, like, okay, there's, like, something weird about that.

00:14:50.440 Nasty, and he won't accept any accountability, and he denies everything. 0.89

00:14:55.800 How can you reason with a man like that? 0.99

00:14:58.080 Like, it's just impossible.

00:15:00.220 I've had so many good faith conversations with him where I've sat him down.

00:15:04.200 Obviously, like.

00:15:04.980 who is the guy and everyone likes to think that i don't know anything and that elijah hides his 0.97

00:15:10.460 shit well but he doesn't but like do you think do you think that he can look off the two kids 0.94

00:15:15.940 no that's like and it sounds like so bad this is gonna sound horrible but to me it's surprising 0.99

00:15:24.400 he would want to that sounds so bad but i'm surprised no yeah she's a bitter side chick 1.00

00:15:32.360 okay I'm gonna go back

00:15:33.960 I'm going back to Allie Bestuckie 0.94

00:15:36.860 bitter baby mama

00:15:38.520 side chick 1.00

00:15:39.420 I'm 50% if I believe

00:15:42.620 that Isabella's I mean I'd have to

00:15:44.240 we're pals

00:15:45.520 but

00:15:46.860 I mean I gotta go on the

00:15:50.620 evidence I don't really think

00:15:52.800 I don't get swinger vibes from them

00:15:54.580 is it possible she

00:15:58.500 banged Elijah like the rest of the e-girls 1.00

00:16:00.800 before it wouldn't really that wouldn't really shock me nor would i really care the problem

00:16:06.600 in conservative media is they kind of over dramatize hooking up

00:16:12.620 i mean it's not that big of a deal do you know what i mean like it's a big of a deal if you're

00:16:20.340 married and you got kids or something but like okay let's say she hooked up with him when she 1.00

00:16:25.200 was 20 i don't really care you know i mean whatever and i was like okay that is you know

00:16:32.720 standard christian testimony that is standard christian theology i i don't understand what's 1.00

00:16:38.320 controversial about this it must just be i know because you're an idiot i know you don't understand 1.00

00:16:43.260 because you're stupid and i can't help you with that i cannot and you know what you know it's 1.00

00:16:49.280 crazy i don't think i'm the smartest tool in the shed and for me to say that to you it's like 1.00

00:16:54.680 incredible it it is like incredible that you don't understand why people are upset yeah a bunch of

00:17:04.380 secular progressives who are angry what they do they're now it's gonna they're basically she's

00:17:10.420 gonna signal i am better than you can you imagine like a woman with that much makeup and botox 0.99

00:17:17.620 virtue signaling. You can't tell me anything about anything ever.

00:17:26.820 About a Christian testimony. The demons are screeching. That could be the only explanation 1.00

00:17:31.980 for this being considered controversial. I read it. I didn't find anything controversial in it

00:17:36.540 whatsoever. But then I was so surprised to see conservative Christians responding negatively

00:17:44.000 to this. I saw Robbie Starbuck, for example, and these are not personal attacks on these people.

00:17:49.140 I was just surprised to see their response. He said, dude, dot, dot, dot, delete this. And then

00:17:54.420 I saw my friends at Daily Wire also disagree with how this person worded this testimony. For

00:18:01.180 example, here's Michael Knowles, Sat One. Purity ultimately has more to do with one's present

00:18:06.940 state. As long as we're oriented toward God, as long as our desire is turned toward God,

00:18:11.500 and we're moving in that direction that's what god really wants that's what delights god

00:18:14.740 and if we're moving in the opposite direction or we're despairing or giving up or whatever

00:18:18.080 that's a big problem but okay but you know this is my issue with you trad cons

00:18:24.400 you guys all need to make it a show like if you're moving towards god just move towards god and shut 0.99

00:18:31.960 the fuck up shut up i don't want to hear about it i don't need the jesus crosses just get become a 0.99

00:18:38.920 better person? Why must you globalize? I should be able to tell that you're religious without 1.00

00:18:44.480 you telling me about it. All of that said, I agree with so many of the points he's making. And yet

00:18:49.020 this is something wrong with this post, right? You shouldn't call your wife a whore on social 1.00

00:18:55.520 media. I think you don't need to talk about your past sins all the time. Sometimes that can be 1.00

00:19:02.080 powerful testimony, but sometimes it's a little awkward and weird. Sometimes it can be humiliating.

00:19:07.040 sometimes it can serve selfish purposes. Okay so he goes on you can you know find his whole

00:19:13.320 monologue for the entire context on this but he also said this on X. I saw a lot of people saying

00:19:18.160 that that okay fine well and good but you're humiliating your wife and you are lacking

00:19:23.980 discretion and Michael even says right there sometimes it's fine but a lot of times it's not

00:19:28.960 well as far as I know these people don't talk about this all the time. I went through Trevor's

00:19:33.600 tweets i had never seen him tweet before but i don't see him talking about his wife's storied

00:19:39.160 past or her promiscuity a lot he felt compelled to share her testimony she's felt felt compelled

00:19:44.780 to share her testimony publicly and so they decided to do that and i thought that it was 0.99

00:19:50.600 beautiful and to see so many of course he thought it was beautiful because you'll defend whores at 1.00

00:19:55.280 costs professing christians and conservatives not i'm not just talking about michael knowles 0.88

00:20:06.680 but a lot of people with a lot more intense negative reactions i mean i a lot of i saw a 0.99

00:20:12.040 lot of theo bros out there saying wow you're calling your wife a whore on the internet 0.98

00:20:16.420 that's the one i saw over and over again oh this is so and she thinks she knows better than all 1.00

00:20:21.960 the men. Isn't that incredible? She thinks she knows better. How stupid are you? I just,

00:20:33.540 why don't you as a man should be awesome enough that you don't have to bring up your wife 0.99

00:20:37.660 ever on social media. You should be cool enough that you don't have to bring her up at all.

00:20:47.440 You don't need your wife to build your brand. It usually just signals that 1.00

00:20:51.880 your lower status out there who are going to think i'm using their words who think that you

00:20:56.620 have to marry a i can't believe you just called your wife that and i'm like whoa whoa he did not

00:21:02.000 call his wife that you called his wife that you called another man's wife that you called a new

00:21:07.260 creation that like you called a person who has been redeemed by christ who has been sanctified

00:21:12.500 and made new and is pure as the driven snow because of christ but see she's shaming me because

00:21:18.560 like I have to believe it I have to believe that she's pure 1.00

00:21:26.780 like shut the fuck up bitch you don't know anything you're a podcaster I know what you 1.00

00:21:35.780 guys do in a day I do it it's not hard and so for you to nag you know people that have way more 1.00

00:21:44.660 real life experience than you shut up shut up shut up shut up poor that is on you that is not 0.99

00:21:54.820 on her husband okay and so just the hyper patriarchy bros who call themselves christians 0.99

00:22:03.300 out there who just want to take any opportunity not only to denigrate women but to denigrate the 0.97

00:22:08.660 work of the gospel. It's just, it's just insane. It's like this very obvious tenet of Christianity 1.00

00:22:15.820 that you have become a new creation is now like, oh, well, maybe that's just a, maybe it's a little

00:22:20.900 nuanced. And then of course you do have people which, okay, who say, yeah, all that's well and

00:22:26.480 good, but still like we shouldn't be promoting this kind of thing. Virginity matters and all

00:22:31.920 of that. Again, I would say Trevor said that. Trevor didn't say anything against virginity.

00:22:35.840 he didn't say that that doesn't matter yeah but he didn't he's stupid like i literally think 0.99

00:22:39.840 do you guys see why i get so frustrated with the christian but it just seems like 0.99

00:22:44.820 they're slow sometimes it literally seems like they're slow

00:22:47.460 and i got nothing against real religious people but the people that use it to build their brand

00:22:55.920 it's like

00:22:56.840 you're celebrating it this is not i mean this is not something we should be celebrating 0.92

00:23:07.180 okay you're gonna celebrate the whore to jesus pipeline why don't you celebrate the girl that 0.99

00:23:13.680 never became a whore say that sexual sin doesn't matter he just said that his wife has been made 1.00

00:23:22.940 knew and that is true that is true like think let's hold multiple thoughts you don't know 1.00

00:23:29.560 you're actually it's so crazy how condescending she's talking because she's the idiot how do you 1.00

00:23:34.360 know okay because she had kids that doesn't mean anything it's easy to do a get out of jail free 1.00

00:23:40.420 card when your looks are fading that's easy to go marry an ugly guy easy having kids not difficult

00:23:47.600 um you would have to know her personally to really defend her character 1.00

00:23:53.620 oh yeah and you don't but you're gonna die on the hill of whores 1.00

00:23:59.160 just incredible it's incredible because the same people that judge me for making the life 1.00

00:24:05.460 decisions i've made are always involved in like so much worse shit it's like it was just never 0.83

00:24:12.500 hard for me to not do cam work. It's in our minds at the same time. I believe in some of you out 0.82

00:24:18.020 there. I really do. I mean, sometimes you make me want to lose my belief in you, but I'm really

00:24:23.260 trying to hang on. Okay. We've got some more negative reactions in just a second. Let me

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00:24:41.380 the women are incredible okay it's out there that even if you are not a christian like there is an

00:24:48.580 understanding of the testimony that christians give when we say okay this is how we were

00:24:54.260 when we were dead in our sin and this is who we are now right but let your actions speak for yourself

00:25:00.260 right just do it just do it a dry creek ranger has a video titled to date or not to date is the

00:25:09.960 question that explains the real problem well if you send it to doug mpa he's on instagram

00:25:16.780 you we maybe can we can react to it next show by grace through faith and because i am a new

00:25:24.380 creature and a new creation. The old has passed. The new has come. I have a new identity. I am a

00:25:30.620 new person because of Christ. That is what I read from this post. And then you have someone like

00:25:35.600 Dr. Kevin Young. This is coming from the progressive side. He's a very progressive guy.

00:25:39.480 He says, he posted a screenshot and was like, just highlighted the first line. My wife was

00:25:45.100 formerly promiscuous. I was a virgin. Dr. Kevin Young says, nothing after this line matters.

00:25:49.320 There's no reason ever under any circumstances in any universe where it is appropriate for a man 1.00

00:25:53.660 to make this statement about his wife, true or not, with or without her permission. This is her

00:25:57.880 story, not theirs. This is what is wrong with evangelicalism. Look, this is just a misunderstanding

00:26:05.560 of marriage, of the situation, of what went on here, of this person's consent to her sharing

00:26:12.060 her testimony. There are so many assumptions going on that he is like pimping out his wife's

00:26:18.460 story for money that is okay i think you're the slow one actually and it's incredible high status 1.00

00:26:28.520 women because she's high status in society they have no idea how out of touch and stupid they are 1.00

00:26:32.840 because their whole life they just live in a bubble um 1.00

00:26:36.760 it's really just incredible

00:26:47.600 it's incredible i'm like wait not what is happening here because you can see if you go

00:26:53.800 to her social media how often okay oh that's what i was gonna say i had blanked i i fell on my face

00:26:59.400 today okay they're they're trying to build a christian brand it's very obvious youtube is

00:27:08.680 monetizable online brands attention is monetizable so whether you like it or not when you're posting

00:27:15.420 on the internet you're making money off of god and it's like and it's just incredible because

00:27:25.080 do you know what i feel i feel as though although i'm no saint i've lived a more christian life than

00:27:32.780 half of these influencers i swear to god like okay i'll hear these influencers stories right

00:27:41.280 And they'll be like, yeah, I did hard drugs.

00:27:43.700 And I'm like, that wasn't hard for me to avoid.

00:27:48.480 They're like, yeah, I was banging married women and I was cheating on my wife all the time. 1.00

00:27:53.220 And I'm like, like, these choices were not that difficult to avoid.

00:28:03.540 Like, do we have any normal people?

00:28:05.620 Like, why are we putting in the front the most deranged?

00:28:08.300 Oh, I did cam work.

00:28:09.680 Da, da, da, da, da, da, da.

00:28:11.280 And I'm like, like, it wasn't, I didn't need God to not make that choice.

00:28:20.160 Like, I did not need Jesus.

00:28:22.420 Like, why are we putting these deranged people in the front? 0.62

00:28:26.120 Like, they're deranged, you know? 0.93

00:28:31.020 Yeah, I cuss. 0.96

00:28:32.100 That's true.

00:28:33.720 But I don't sell my poonanny for $5.99.

00:28:37.220 You know what I mean?

00:28:37.800 It's like, there's levels to this.

00:28:39.620 And then the Christians come in and say, we're all the same. 0.99

00:28:42.480 And I'm like, look, I think there's levels, right?

00:28:47.780 I think there's levels to degeneracy, you know?

00:28:51.900 I don't know.

00:28:52.820 And I think I could just logically conclude that with my eyes.

00:28:55.880 And they're like, you're the same as Ted Bundy.

00:28:59.200 I'm like, I don't know.

00:29:01.660 I mean, that's what they tell you.

00:29:03.240 But the way I've seen the Bible stretched and interpreted over the years, like, it seems like they could stretch the Bible into saying anything.

00:29:13.060 Like, it seems like damn near they can make the Bible say, let's bang on camera.

00:29:18.400 Like, at this rate, that's what's going to be next.

00:29:22.180 Yeah, every sin is redeemable, but, like, some are worse than others.

00:29:33.240 do you know what i mean it's like some are worse than others and she has shared this story

00:29:39.640 publicly now there are a lot of christians who are supporting them like my friend samuel say

00:29:44.680 he says professing christians who are offended by this are telling on them like i had someone

00:29:48.300 be like oh pearl you wouldn't go to church and i'm like all right one that's true that's true

00:29:54.580 i don't go to church but like you've made poorer life choices than me like just because you go to

00:30:03.060 church, it doesn't undo the fact that like you used to do drugs, right? It's like, it doesn't,

00:30:09.780 it doesn't undo the fact that you used to

00:30:14.700 bang married men or married women. Do you know what I'm saying? I'm like, 0.96

00:30:21.720 i'm not saying i'm a saint but like

00:30:32.040 themselves jesus is going to marry a formerly promiscuous bride the church hello some of you

00:30:40.280 are acting like you won't be a part of the wedding mic drop samuel continued quoting proverbs 18 22

00:30:47.020 and saying he who finds a wife finds favor with the lord he advised users to take their advice

00:30:51.900 twitter users x users take their advice from god over fools on social media owen stram also defended

00:31:00.700 ashley and trevor um and also pointed out that ashley shared her testimony publicly

00:31:08.860 on an online platform in 2020 so this is certainly not the first time again that her testimony

00:31:15.980 has circulated she's gotten all kinds of insults she's been denigrated in all kinds of ways just

00:31:23.460 because not only her vulnerability but because her husband along with her but on his account

00:31:29.660 also why do we keep why do we keep putting on a pedestal over sharing everything look i'm an

00:31:37.900 oversharer okay i'm an overshare this is problem i i'm i tell you guys way too much like sometimes

00:31:44.460 i'll meet a fan and they're like well how's your bread making going and how's your diet going and

00:31:49.340 i'm like oh i say too much on stream i really do i see too much on stream

00:31:58.460 but let's not pretend that's a good thing, right? I think I have the perspective to be like,

00:32:19.180 we got to dial this back. That's not a good trait. That's a bad trait overshare. We got to

00:32:27.780 We got to share less as a society.

00:32:33.860 Church is seen as not judging women, saving safe haven.

00:32:37.660 That's why men are leaving it in general or hoarding and varieties that keep them accountable. 0.99

00:32:42.840 Yeah.

00:32:43.720 So shared her story.

00:32:45.300 And yeah, that's going to seem scandalous to the world because most people can't understand that level of honesty and transparency and the lack of shame that you have once you are in Christ.

00:32:56.820 i for one thought it was a beautiful testimony i think ashley's testimony points to the because 0.98

00:33:03.060 you're an idiot right i mean just because you have a lot of followers it doesn't make you smart 0.99

00:33:07.760 so yeah i mean you're gonna think that you know race and redemption and the opportunity that 1.00

00:33:15.100 each and every one of us has in christ and i'm so thankful for her courage um she posted becoming

00:33:21.980 a christian in general opens you up to ridicule slander and shame and now she gets to be the victim

00:33:30.300 and she's saying oh um everyone's bullying me because i'm a christian and i'm like

00:33:35.740 nobody would bully you if you tweeted a bible verse but you need one of these sweatshirts

00:33:40.780 she belongs to the streets yeah um it's because you're using your conversion story for money

00:33:50.060 and clout and attention but it is worth and status worth it for the sake of the gospel

00:33:57.420 jesus is worthy blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you she's quoting

00:34:02.980 matthew 5 11 and falsely say all kinds of evil against you but going to any church or subscribing

00:34:09.540 to any religion does not absolve you of the wrong things you did previously in life that's not how

00:34:13.740 the world works correcting your behavior with or without religion does because of me so that i don't

00:34:19.700 i don't have the big e i don't have a big ego to know how the world works like i don't know

00:34:25.700 um yeah so i don't know it's her perspective but i know when something sounds like

00:34:31.140 on all of this praise god ashley is here today to share her testimony with us coming out of the

00:34:38.260 darkness of abuse and the new age and promiscuity and into the light of christ without further ado

00:34:45.780 here's our friend Ashley sheets Ashley thank you so much for taking the time to join us so first I

00:34:56.260 just want to hear from you what was your reaction when you saw your husband's post go viral and then

00:35:01.620 get so much backlash thank you so much for having me I was I was surprised you know when Trevor told

00:35:10.020 me that he made this post and it's really doing well i was like okay like he's he's done great

00:35:17.620 posts before and that have gained traction before so i didn't really think of anything of it but

00:35:24.260 then it just kept getting more and more traction and it's reaching millions of views and it was

00:35:33.140 shocking but i wasn't embarrassed at all by it because again i've been sharing my testimony

00:35:40.020 for years it was more of a praise god praise god that my testimony is being seen by millions of

00:35:50.740 people millions of unsaved yeah so that's quote i am better than you because i dunked my head in

00:35:58.340 holy water and you didn't you're you were a cam girl again it just wasn't that hard for me to not

00:36:06.420 to can work and I got offered a million dollars okay it wasn't overly difficult people and the

00:36:21.220 gospel is being magnified in that I'm zero shame I and my husband knows I do not mind him at all

00:36:29.700 sharing any aspects of my testimony he's a wise godly man i trust what he does and he is um discreet

00:36:38.740 when he needs to be and uh i had i had no issues with it and even though there's been a lot of

00:36:45.940 backlash again i i always praise god when i'm reviled and persecuted for righteousness sake as

00:36:54.900 jesus talks about in the beatitudes it's yeah it is a blessing it's hard but it's it's still a

00:37:00.660 blessing allie parts of fire to read stories of women around the world who have been courageous

00:37:12.100 for christ for years on x but then also like professing christians people in the conservative

00:37:17.540 world saying this is embarrassing how could you throw your wife under the bus like that 1.00

00:37:22.260 was that hard to see it might have even okay i don't really care about him throwing her under

00:37:26.660 the bus um i think she threw herself under the bus because she's been talking about this publicly

00:37:33.700 for years have been people that you were family like why don't you just to prove that you're about

00:37:39.940 it why don't you guys not get any money or attention or anything from the story and just

00:37:44.980 just become a Christian. Yes. Yes. It's been hard to see, you know, other people you've looked up

00:37:55.700 to in the past that like, yeah, this is absolutely horrible. And, you know, calling me derogatory

00:38:00.400 words, which Trevor never said that. Sure. Sure. The word was promiscuous and you can relate it

00:38:08.300 to that horrible word but like imagine um you're nagging because he said promiscuous and we 0.99

00:38:16.280 assumed whore like what else do you want you were a cam girl um ali claims the label of christianity 0.99

00:38:22.960 but she is a works-based believer and sadly she'll realize the hard way that jesus is not 0.99

00:38:28.680 bought off by being good enough well okay yeah still he never called me that and it's in and of

00:38:36.760 itself that word is derogatory. So, uh, yeah, it was, it was, it's hard again, but it's been

00:38:47.100 a blessing. Yeah. So we've seen all of the public backlash, but has there been

00:38:52.120 anything privately, either bad or good that has surprised you messages that you've received

00:38:57.620 conversations that you've been able to have? Um, so of course it's been, I'd say

00:39:06.340 more backlash than anything of course it's reached over 34 million people yeah i'm totally

00:39:13.480 gonna expect that because ali as you know the way is narrow in the christian walk and this is a dark

00:39:21.540 dark world why would i expect to be praised and admired by over 34 million people when jesus

00:39:30.860 himself was now okay now she's comparing herself to jesus which is incredible you're not

00:39:36.220 jesus right again you're not being persecuted because you became a christian you're being 1.00

00:39:41.680 persecuted because you're still a whore who loves attention and it's clearly clout chasing you know 1.00

00:39:46.900 it just is what it is hated for his message and uh it was shocking in the sense yeah he wants to 0.99

00:39:57.420 be praised and admired. You know, as a human, it's hard to be persecuted and even attacked for

00:40:06.240 my looks and all, just all the worst words that you could think. But I have also reached-

00:40:14.220 Talk around and find out, get off the internet. It's not that hard.

00:40:17.100 Seved such beautiful messages from people saying, I am so happy that I found you and that God led

00:40:25.860 me to you and your testimony because i have a similar past and i never thought i could experience

00:40:33.320 the blessings that you've experienced now with you know having a godly husband and

00:40:39.360 um just people messaging me that they're just been crying from reading my testimony and have

00:40:47.000 been blessed by that and even that just cancels out like all the bad you know and um

00:40:55.740 You know, you probably know the scripture.

00:40:58.420 I can't think of it off the top of my head, but how heaven just rejoices when one sinner 0.91

00:41:04.140 repents over all the righteous people, you know?

00:41:09.740 Totally.

00:41:10.580 And praise God for that.

00:41:11.860 And there will be stories like that that you never even see until you get to the other

00:41:15.760 side of glory.

00:41:16.640 There will be someone you meet in eternity in heaven who will say, you don't know.

00:41:20.600 Like what egos do they just assume they're getting into heaven?

00:41:23.660 just incredible this never ends this is a married mother spending her day instead of 1.00

00:41:30.060 watching her kid defending a 30 foe me but i heard your testimony through this crazy viral post and

00:41:36.840 when it seems like god is doing one thing he's actually doing a million things and

00:41:41.200 so often we can't we can't actually see what those things are and i know that you're not

00:41:46.320 fishing for compliments but you are really really beautiful not only just beautiful in your mid

00:41:52.140 stop it you're both mids i'd actually rate her higher than ally because ally just 1.00

00:41:58.240 i don't know her face moves weird she's got too much work done but yeah i mean fours fives face 1.00

00:42:08.140 but just beautiful because i really see the light of christ and the peace of him shining through

00:42:13.960 you a lot of people would be i mean like do you hear this this all sounds like witchcraft i see

00:42:19.000 the peace the light of christ shining through like there's too many women words used in christianity 0.97

00:42:25.320 i want it to be male dominated men broken over what they're seeing on the internet about them

00:42:32.120 as you said it's really hard but you have peace because of christ and so i just want to hear your

00:42:36.880 testimony it is incredible you've shared it in the past you're so open about it um take us back to

00:42:43.200 the very beginning because the hardship that you went through in your life really starts when you

00:42:48.660 were little right yes yes so i never grew up in a religious household at all i don't care i never 0.98

00:42:57.140 knew you don't need religion to tell you not to fuck on camera it's not that hard jesus was and 0.71

00:43:02.880 i grew up um in a family a broken family really my mom and my dad were never married and i don't 0.98

00:43:09.960 care pack they split excuses up when i was about three years old so i have you know it can never

00:43:15.320 be their choices it's always oh it was my family it was this and it's like well i know women in 1.00

00:43:20.240 those exact situations who just didn't want to do cam work like it wasn't hard point this out

00:43:28.520 please pearl over the righteous people i don't get the could you retype whatever you're trying

00:43:34.860 to say over the righteous people okay you gotta say it in a different way i don't get it

00:43:39.160 no memory of them ever even really being together and both my dad and my mom are they don't have

00:43:47.260 any religion so i never grew up with like like you don't need god to not do cam work

00:43:55.120 it's called milking it for all it's worth she has talent for sure 0.98

00:44:06.500 no she sees the three three out of ten i think she's higher than a religious um or you know 0.82

00:44:14.760 virtues to really practice it's just all about living your life now and you figure it out as you

00:44:21.200 go but i actually i have always had a sense maybe this is just the lord's hand over my life

00:44:30.160 always had a sense that this world is not it okay so you always had a sense 0.96

00:44:37.800 so how do you always have a sense and yet still be a whore do you know what i mean like pick pick 1.00

00:44:43.080 a struggle we either knew or you didn't know never really believed that i'm just going to live 0.87

00:44:48.460 this life and die i wanted to seek truth but i never believed in god either i had no

00:44:58.400 um again like i said i never really dove into researching different religions when i was

00:45:07.000 younger right but when i was about 15 i ended up wandering into a barnes and noble section

00:45:14.120 and was really drawn into the spirituality section really just new age mysticism and self-help

00:45:21.140 all about you all about lifting you up all about enlightenment and it's just such a focus on you

00:45:28.780 so of course I was drawn into that so I ended up gathering like so many books reading them

00:45:35.320 front to back all the time thinking I was just this amazing spiritual guru I got really into

00:45:43.220 yoga and different religions of course every religion she was trying to quote a verse about

00:45:50.380 angels rejoicing when a sinner repents but she added over the righteous people

00:45:59.260 i'm sorry i'm slow i don't get it but jesus again never went into christianity

00:46:05.180 never did you have like a natural distaste for christianity or was it just not one that

00:46:10.460 you had considered i did i did and i never even knew who jesus was and i've talked about how

00:46:16.860 can be you grew up in a christian country 1.00

00:46:21.420 and you never knew who jesus was like i'm not as stupid as your simps 0.98

00:46:27.980 this was my sister before because she was with me at the time i remember when i was a 0.98

00:46:33.420 teenager and we were walking through um like a senior living home because my grandma lived there

00:46:40.860 and there was like a christian sign on the door um just about how jesus saves and i remember

00:46:47.500 just saying jesus isn't here jesus can't save you i'm like i don't even know who jesus was and i'm

00:46:52.940 just saying that yeah and when i look back on it it's like it's so much demonic influence in the

00:47:01.820 world that just keeps you from seeing the light of christ yeah it when i look back on those

00:47:07.500 memories it just it makes me smile now because it just shows you the realness of jesus you bring up

00:47:15.340 every other religion in the world and no one bats an eye but you start talking about jesus

00:47:20.460 and everyone is like why would you start saying that name you know makes a difference in how

00:47:31.100 what the new age hinduism you considered yourself a very spiritual person this is when you were a

00:47:38.460 teenager you said about like 15 16 and then you started turning to partying psychedelics things

00:47:44.140 like that right yes yes um that path led me down to what the verse line says being a promiscuous

00:47:51.900 woman and i became heavily addicted to drugs and psychedelics and i do you see like i hear this

00:47:59.180 And I'm like, look, again, I'm not a saint, but it just wasn't hard for me to not get addicted to drugs and psychedelics and like new age mystics.

00:48:08.960 It just wasn't. It didn't really cross my mind, you know.

00:48:15.180 So, like, why are you putting these crazy people in front of me?

00:48:20.020 I thought these psychedelics and these drugs were leading me into enlightenment.

00:48:24.600 Like all, I was just seeking such a crazy experience, I guess, with being spiritual.

00:48:31.280 I thought this was leading me closer to knowing whatever truth was out there.

00:48:37.920 And, um, and yes, I saw worth and satisfaction and men and all these different religions

00:48:46.960 and, um, these books that just puff you up so much.

00:48:51.780 and i ended up being with just the wrong crowd of people they were all into drugs it was the

00:49:00.680 wrong crowd you were part of the crowd like how are you gonna thinking and telling me as well

00:49:06.880 that you have to take these drugs you know to become enlightened and so they it was them you

00:49:13.860 had to take the drugs you didn't want to willingly and excitedly i've seen young women in drugs

00:49:19.360 young women will suck for drugs you know you would experience this wonderful experience with 1.00

00:49:26.320 god or source or whatever you want to call it that's what new age mystics will call oh oh or 0.99

00:49:32.300 the universe okay i can't forget that right the universe you want this experience with the

00:49:37.820 universe and again i became really addicted to these drugs i was taking them almost every day

00:49:46.860 oh my bad hold on guys

00:49:50.840 like she could have spent the hour talking about god and things that god teaches but instead they've

00:50:02.140 spent the hour talking about whoring and drugs how many people listen to this and said oh i want 0.98

00:50:07.740 to whore and do drugs mind you and then say sorry after you i'm under age i was living with my mom 0.91

00:50:13.580 at the time my mom and my dad were split up and my dad was actually a police officer at the time

00:50:18.760 as well but I since I was living with my mom I was able to get away with a lot I love my mom

00:50:25.420 but she she just wasn't she was a bit naive in the sense that she believed everything I said 0.68

00:50:33.040 And I was a horrible liar. And I like to talk about my testimony from the point or making clear that this is not like a sob story of, oh, see how Jesus saved this poor victim.

00:50:53.280 I was an absolute culprit. And this is my testimony on how a gracious, loving, merciful God

00:51:03.440 took a culprit from the pit. And I had very, oh my God, long dreadlocks. I considered myself

00:51:13.020 just this enlightened hippie. Free spirit. Yeah. Yes. Spiritual, very, yeah. These long dreadlocks.

00:51:22.280 i cut all my dreadlocks off i thought this was going to be like a new beginning right

00:51:28.040 and of course it would it wasn't because it was with my own strength i thought i was going to be

00:51:34.840 able to have this new life and what do we think happened a few months later i ended up going to

00:51:41.960 another festival and getting back into drugs finding a new boyfriend and the same pattern

00:51:48.520 continued and was this just to get my timeline was this the you had a boyfriend who was 50

00:51:56.760 when you were um a teenager correct you've talked about that go ahead yes i i didn't i wouldn't

00:52:04.520 consider him a boyfriend okay um he was he had his own made religion this guy was very manipulative

00:52:16.040 in my life very brain it was yeah he manipulated you he brainwashed you it was him now it's

00:52:22.860 incredible washing i was abused by him many times but i felt like i couldn't get out oh now you were

00:52:32.600 abused haven't heard that one before here we go and this was an angry man and any um person who

00:52:40.560 tried to help me escape from him he was angry and would yell and like i was his possession

00:52:48.640 in a sense and i never wanted to be with this man it was just it was a it was just a horrible

00:52:55.840 situation he was basically like a cult leader he was uh he was absolutely a cult leader yeah no

00:53:02.880 down yeah he's he still has it to this day i wow uh we looked at it not too long ago

00:53:10.480 to see if it was still a thing and yeah still has this whole main religion probably still

00:53:15.280 deceiving people and uh immense hatred for jesus immense thank you for the super super chat phil

00:53:25.600 appreciate you my god hatred for christianity yeah wow and you talk about also within this period

00:53:32.720 both before and after your near-death experience before and after the dreadlocks be like experiencing

00:53:40.640 demonic activity what is the incentive for women to be good if they see all the women that are bad 0.99

00:53:47.360 and then become good get the most attention and credibility in christianity and feeling like a

00:53:54.400 sense of demonic oppression can you talk more about that because a lot of people they don't

00:53:58.560 believe that or they just don't really even know what that means yes definitely um i was very

00:54:06.080 suicidal in this season of my life as well so on the outward you know i appear like i'm this

00:54:13.360 spiritual a happy hippie everything's free spirit and love and yet on the inside i was extremely

00:54:22.320 um having dark thoughts i was self-harming as well i was cutting myself i still have i don't care

00:54:29.620 scars to this day and i like why doesn't she focus on the people she embarrassed and hurt when she 1.00

00:54:35.520 was making those choices do you see how she's telling the story it's poor me poor me poor me

00:54:40.780 it's not i like she'll say i was the culprit but then whenever she tells the story it's as if she's

00:54:46.700 victim i was abused i was cutting myself shut the up why don't you talk about all the people that 0.96

00:54:52.620 were because whores never go down alone they always embarrass their family and i consider that 1.00

00:54:59.180 such a demonic influence as well from just everything i was also reading and um consuming 0.95

00:55:07.180 i remember i was listening to like dark screamo heavy metal music and then i would self-harm

00:55:15.820 and I um I yes I was suicidal I was just didn't um see any joy real joy in life I was also having

00:55:32.140 like dark nightmares all the time yeah blah blah Jason said Ashley I've seen this so many times

00:55:40.860 and if you continue this path, you are going to die. That is your destiny if you continue down

00:55:48.500 this path. And so the whole, like, I'm going to pull myself up on my own spirituality didn't work.

00:55:56.860 What led you to Christ? Yes. So, um, yes, I ended up going back into festivals in the month of

00:56:08.500 but this time is for real oh my god i believe and then i moved out with another boyfriend who i met

00:56:16.020 at this festival to oregon for a month and i actually had a yoga retreat planned for the

00:56:26.980 entire month of october so i had to leave oregon and because i was gonna be gone the whole month

00:56:34.020 to be trained to be a certified yoga teacher so i left to guatemala and um actually the

00:56:41.540 day before i left to guatemala i remember just praying on my knees i was feeling this

00:56:49.700 was never suicidal a person who was suicidal will never talk about it feeling really just lost and

00:56:55.860 hopeless and i remember a video that i came across before going to guatemala just a random youtube

00:57:06.100 video and it was talking about how chakras and eastern meditation and this false spirituality

00:57:15.700 is all hiding jesus from you and that really so what happens is these women they don't want to 1.00

00:57:22.660 to do the work of apologizing to the people they hurt and becoming a new person with choices so

00:57:28.900 they'd rather just do the get out of jail free card and like put on a jesus cross that's like

00:57:33.380 easier freak my heart um i feel like that was just the holy spirit starting to lead me to jesus

00:57:39.860 and after that video i was on my knees just praying to the god i didn't know at the time i

00:57:44.980 i was just praying i don't know who you are or what you are but i please just show me the truth

00:57:53.300 i just want to know the truth i don't care whatever it takes i just want to know the truth

00:57:59.140 and then i went on this yoga retreat for an entire month it was i didn't have cell phone connection

00:58:06.980 it was just me every single day practicing yoga and i ended up getting certified after that month

00:58:14.980 and when i came back home in god's providence i came across another youtube video and it was

00:58:24.980 this is from me searching too so that first video was in my head about jesus so this started leading

00:58:35.780 i can't watch this anymore let me keep going she finds god okay can we skip now my library

00:58:42.500 of new age books that night my family thought i was absolutely bonkers but i've lost my mind

00:58:50.740 and i threw it all in the trash um threw out all these like new age spiritual idols

00:58:56.740 in the trash i got really into hinduism so i have this hindu false god on my arm i it's 0.90

00:59:03.940 been a decade you couldn't get rid of it and i threw it all away it was just me in my bible

00:59:10.660 in a bare room and i read through that bible okay so here's my point i'm just going to make

00:59:17.540 a few points because i just i can't listen to this woman any longer number one um church just 0.92

00:59:24.900 tends to attract the lowest iq people don't know why i can't say how because we i don't know how

00:59:33.140 people keep falling for this over and over and over again and i am not going to go to church

00:59:38.180 and get lectured by a former drug addict. When you've made certain choices in life, you have

00:59:44.400 given up the right to lecture anyone about anything ever, unless you do something incredible.

00:59:49.940 And that's not preaching and it's not finding God. Anybody can do that. So I could be lectured

00:59:54.640 by a drug addict. If he went from drug addict to then, I don't know, saving civilization,

00:59:59.720 making some cancer cure, then you can lecture me. But you want to lecture me about the Bible

01:00:06.360 when you were addicted to drugs, mysticism, and cam work. Shut up. I don't care. 1.00

01:00:13.640 Anyways, guys, I love you. Thanks for watching. I'm going to do a quicker show tonight because

01:00:18.240 I'm kind of tired. I don't know why. Anyways, guys, like the video, subscribe to the channel,

01:00:24.540 and I'm going to see you next time. I'll see you.

Pearl - March 27, 2026

Even Christian Women Love to Die on the Hill of 304s

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