Pearl - Even Doctors Lie to Moms for a Paycheck

00:00:00.000 women shouldn't give up their career paths because i think that and you know it's crazy men can give 1.00

00:00:08.480 up their career for a couple years and then come back and come back better stronger than ever

00:00:13.840 earning more like you'll see like men go through like a second wave after their kids are older 0.77

00:00:19.200 women it's really not the same they get burnt out and bitter my pediatrician said to me when

00:00:25.440 my daughter was born and i had a lot of postpartum anxiety about being away from her he said it's

00:00:32.160 your job every day to put a little bit more space between you and her so that when she see even the

00:00:39.760 medical system lies to us they tell us what they want we want to hear they need our money right

00:00:44.560 the doctor's like this he's like this this woman is crying about being away from her daughter but

00:00:49.760 but she clearly wants to work.

00:00:51.480 What does she want to hear so I can get more money?

00:00:56.640 And then he says, you know what?

00:00:58.160 Your daughter needs space from you at eight months old.

00:01:02.940 She totally does. 0.79

00:01:04.320 Your daughter is going to look back and say, yes, that's what I needed.

00:01:08.780 Space and you to be your own person.

Pearl - April 12, 2025