Pearl - July 01, 2025


Even LESBIANS Are Tired Of Modern Women's Antics


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12 minutes

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1,917

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159

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Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

14

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Hate speech

18

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Lesbian relationships are toxic AF. That's what I'm reacting to in this episode of my reaction series on why lesbian relationships are Toxic AF and why we need to do something about it. The divorce rate of lesbian marriages is 75% and lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic violence in the United States.

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today I'm reacting to lesbian relationships are toxic 1.00
00:00:06.040 AF. Many modern women get fed up with men and decide to date women. They think that dating a 0.84
00:00:12.820 woman is going to be so much better than dating men because men are the root of all evil. Women 1.00
00:00:18.980 are nurturing and more in touch with their feelings. So what could possibly go wrong?
00:00:24.160 Then they actually start dating women and figure out how toxic dating women can be.
00:00:29.080 The divorce rate of lesbian marriages is 75% and lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic
00:00:35.740 violence. Let's take a look at lesbians talking about DV in a relationship. 1.00
00:00:43.200 I never hear anybody talking about female on female domestic violence and I think it's probably a hell 1.00
00:00:49.720 of a lot more prevalent than people realize that it is. Almost 20 years ago now I was in an incredibly
00:00:56.140 abusive relationship and anytime that I had the thought of disclosing that to somebody
00:01:02.140 that thought wasn't interrupted by the thought like what are they going to say or your girlfriend hits
00:01:07.100 you. Like I couldn't imagine it being taken seriously. Yeah and imagine if women are feeling 0.70
00:01:12.360 like that what do men feel like and they get beat up by their girlfriend. But the truth is yeah she did
00:01:18.340 hit me and kick me and throw things at me and grab me and was like unhinged. One time I was trying to
00:01:24.980 de-escalate a situation by leaving because she would not stop and I was trying to take our very
00:01:31.000 small child on my hip and go to the garage to get in my vehicle and leave the situation and she came 1.00
00:01:36.140 behind me and kicked the back of my knee out. So I fell with her small child. And the truth is I never
00:01:43.860 hear any data or statistics or research about this and I can't say with any certainty. Women will die 1.00
00:01:49.880 before they let that data come out. They will. They'll die on the hill of not letting that come 0.99
00:01:53.820 out. That if I was sitting in an emergency room today with injuries that seemed very obviously
00:01:58.760 caused as a result of intimate partner violence I don't know that I would be any more inclined
00:02:05.960 to disclose today than I would have been when it happened to me 16 plus years ago. Because if you
00:02:13.720 never hear anybody talk about it you think who's going to even believe that this is a thing. But
00:02:19.580 it is and the fact that nobody talks about it is a really big problem. Yeah women are better at 1.00
00:02:25.000 complaining than men. We're not better at many things but we are better at complaining. So you 1.00
00:02:29.740 know the lesbians would be the first to complain about the DR or DV. Hey there. I don't know who this 1.00
00:02:37.800 is for but I'm gonna put it out there. So this is for all of my women loving women out there.
00:02:48.920 No she ain't trying to get her shit together. 1.00
00:02:53.480 She don't want to talk to you. 1.00
00:02:57.400 No she didn't have past trauma. She's just a shitty person. 1.00
00:03:02.200 Dang. You know it's bad when the women are saying the same thing. 1.00
00:03:10.360 No that wasn't just her friend she was trying to help. That was somebody that she was messing with.
00:03:21.800 No it ain't your fault. You are worthy of honesty and loyalty.
00:03:32.200 You know what? 1.00
00:03:37.960 Fuck her. 1.00
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00:05:19.560 Send this to a guy that's being gaslit today. Yep. Okay, so I want to talk about DV and lesbian 1.00
00:05:28.600 relationships. This may be a little heavy, but I would love for you guys to stick around and listen
00:05:35.960 to it. First, I want to start off by saying that recognizing that abuse is about...
00:05:41.160 Here's a tough thing because women lie about DV. So not all, not all, but so are they lying? Are 1.00
00:05:48.600 the women abusive? Is it that there's more false accusations or is it that there's more DV? Probably
00:05:55.640 both. Power and control, not gender. Abuse can happen in any relationship. In lesbian relationships, 1.00
00:06:05.480 abuse is often dismissed as two women just fighting. People will assume it's equal conflict, 0.92
00:06:11.960 even if it isn't. A lot of abusive women will frame it this way to downplay their behavior. A lot of times 1.00
00:06:18.360 in lesbian relationships, we create these really, really strong, deep emotional bonds that can be very
00:06:26.520 unhealthy, you know? And for me, I feel like it's more of that attachment and we often overlook or excuse
00:06:33.800 abuse. Now I want to speak about forms of abuse. Some women can easily identify the signs. However, 0.97
00:06:41.160 that doesn't apply to everyone. So I want to give you some. Okay, so let's start with physical abuse. 0.99
00:06:47.000 If she hits you, chokes you, or puts her hands on you, that is physical harm, okay? And I want to say
00:06:57.400 something to that. I have been the abuser. I have been abused and I have participated. Yeah, most
00:07:05.400 abusive relationships, both people are beating the shit out of each other. So next time a woman says 1.00
00:07:10.760 she was in an abusive relationship, just now she might have been beating him too. In reactive abuse.
00:07:15.480 And as someone that is going through therapy, okay? I want y'all to hear me. Someone may hurt you.
00:07:23.000 Someone may do certain things. You are valid for wanting to respond negatively to that, okay?
00:07:29.880 Like you feeling like, hey, I don't like that this person did this to me and I want to react. It's a
00:07:35.960 very normal thing. However, putting your hands on someone is not. It's not okay. It's not okay, okay?
00:07:45.160 And I want to say something. After you do that, you better be prepared to stand by your actions.
00:07:51.080 Because sometimes we let our emotions control us. And now you've been put in a situation that you
00:08:00.680 may can't get out of. There are a lot of women who have reacted and they can't take it back. 1.00
00:08:09.240 And like I said, you're valid in what you feel. I have been there. I have been there. However, keep your
00:08:16.440 hands to yourself. Keep your hands to yourself. If you have to put your hands on this person,
00:08:27.000 for whatever reason, y'all don't need to be together. Okay? That's not love. Nothing about
00:08:34.520 that is love. Okay? So another form of abuse is emotional abuse. So that could look like manipulation,
00:08:41.800 gaslighting, threats, or constant criticism. One thing I have seen in the community is nagging.
00:08:49.400 Okay? I need y'all to go look that up and really like, yeah, that's not okay. And that is a form of
00:08:57.480 abuse. Next one is smexual abuse. Okay? Y'all know what I'm trying to say here. Okay? So that would
00:09:06.520 look like coercion or any form of forced activity. You did not consent to it. You did not want that.
00:09:14.440 Okay? And just because you're in a relationship with someone does not mean that it cannot happen
00:09:20.520 to you. It happens a lot. It's very unfortunate as well. Okay? Another one is financial abuse.
00:09:29.080 Oh my gosh. So this could look like them holding over your head,
00:09:33.400 like them spending money or what they do for you consistently, like them leveraging that over you,
00:09:40.200 or finding ways to sabotage you. So you have to depend on them. And another one I see is social
00:09:47.960 isolation. And this is when someone has abused you so much that you become a shell of yourself.
00:09:55.080 And they isolate you from everybody, your family, your friends, from society.
00:10:03.480 And they isolate you so they can take advantage of you and harm you, drive you crazy.
00:10:09.400 With this, I want you to understand that acknowledging abuse in any relationship,
00:10:15.080 especially when it's to women can be extremely difficult.
00:10:19.640 Ah, women getting a taste of their own medicine. You hate to see it. Okay, let's see. 1.00
00:10:27.160 As I watched like lesbian content on TikTok, I realized a couple things. And one of them is that 1.00
00:10:34.760 we have double standards. I didn't know that you guys thought it was okay to put hands on women, 0.99
00:10:40.840 because we are women. Can somebody break that down for me? Because that's wild. 0.95
00:10:44.920 Yeah. So if men put hands on women, they're evil. But if women put hands on women, it's like mess. 1.00
00:10:51.240 I wish I wish somebody tried. Also, I'm calling people out their name, cussing at them. I personally 0.89
00:10:59.560 like set the boundary immediately. We don't do that. I feel like the minute that you cross that line
00:11:05.320 into disrespect, there's no coming back. If they did it one time, they're going to do it again.
00:11:11.080 So if they cuss you out one time, they're going to cuss you out again. Why normalize that? Why 1.00
00:11:15.320 think that that's okay? My life, I want there to be peace. I want there to be healthy communication.
00:11:21.080 I want there to be respect. And if you're cussing at somebody, there is no way you can tell me that
00:11:26.520 you feel respected. Or even once the argument is over and they apologize, you're going to tell me
00:11:31.640 the apologies and you forget those words. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. Women, women just think 1.00
00:11:37.080 they could say anything and you're supposed to just accept it. But really it's like, and they'll
00:11:42.760 be like, why are you mad? It's like, you just, you just, anyways, guys, let me know what you think
00:11:49.320 in the comments and let me know, have you ever been in an abusive relationship? If you have put your
00:11:53.320 story in the comments and we will pin the best one. Make sure you like the video on your way out
00:11:57.080 and subscribe to the channel. I'll see you next time.