Pearl - August 20, 2025


Even Modern Virgins Don't Want Average Men

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In this episode, I talk about virgin women and why you should give the benefit of the doubt to women who are actually virgins. In the past, women have been told they should wait till they were virgins to marry, but are they actually virgin or are they just whores?

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00:00:00.000 and you're not gonna be weird at all it's like uh you're gonna be pretty weird so i'm not i'm not
00:00:07.120 what i'm not trying to do what i'm not trying to do is discourage women that wanna you know that
00:00:13.200 want to be pure till marriage but i gotta be honest a lot of these virgin virgin women they're 1.00
00:00:18.400 just not about it like if you cared about virginity and your husband you would never give him reason
00:00:26.400 to not believe you so you would find your husband you wouldn't go to college and you just find your
00:00:31.360 husband before you're 21 if you graduate at 18 that gives you three years i mean you can get that done
00:00:37.840 you know you you'd wanna you you want you'd be on the dating apps you'd be on hinge and it would just
00:00:44.560 be a hinge i hit you know you can filter for christian men and boom you can get it done but
00:00:51.280 they're not and that's just been my experience interact and maybe you guys have a different
00:00:56.000 experience i could be wrong right but there's something about when i point out it's really 0.97
00:01:03.360 annoying to me when i point out that conservative women are also whores that the female baseline is 1.00
00:01:10.400 just whoredom no your religion can't stop and these are the these are the the pushback i get is oh 0.99
00:01:17.440 but women are afraid of like looking bad right i'm like in 2025 no they're not 1.00
00:01:24.480 not spot on the average age of marriage for mormons used to be 19 or 21 but now it's just like
00:01:31.120 everyone else 27 our bishops expect us to be celibate into our late 20s yeah yeah and so they
00:01:38.080 basically say the churches they basically say you have to repress the one of the most exciting parts
00:01:46.480 of life like can we be honest that's you know in the old days that would be exciting you'd wait till
00:01:51.120 you're married you get married you'd have sex you'd have your first kiss like it would be
00:01:55.600 that's an exciting part of life right but now they say the conservatives that they say do you know what 0.73
00:02:01.920 repress that till you're 30 and you're not gonna be weird at all it's like uh you're gonna be pretty weird
00:02:10.560 pearl stop dissing the competition oh yeah okay look at
00:02:21.520 guys look at if there's girls i'm worried about like taking my man right i promise to god it's not
00:02:30.480 virgins i'm more worried about horrors than birds and i'm gonna be honest here because
00:02:34.560 because because one okay there's like two i mean how many do you actually know 0.94
00:02:48.480 and the second thing the second thing you guys don't even know if they're actually virgin like
00:02:54.240 you have to understand you guys get bamboozled because you are just so willing to give the benefit
00:02:59.760 of the doubt to women you're so willing to do it it's time to face the facts guys modern women care 0.97
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00:04:11.440 you're so you guys will fight you will say pearl let me die on the hill of giving these women the 1.00
00:04:17.440 benefit of the doubt you you're jealous you must pearl you must i'm gonna put a gun to your head 0.99
00:04:24.640 and give these women the benefit of the doubt and i say no moss no moss no moss if you were about it you 0.98
00:04:36.240 would be done by 21 i'll even give you 22 but you're not about it you like the clout from virginity
00:04:45.760 you don't like men that much you want to do whatever just like the rest of us you know what i mean i'm not
00:04:51.440 i'm not saying they're immoral for doing this but what i don't like is where i have to pretend this
00:04:58.080 is something it isn't i just don't get i don't understand it's like you guys you guys are begging
00:05:07.360 for women to take advantage of you you really are you're begging for it you're like please please 1.00
00:05:15.840 please please lie to me and this is what this is how you guys get got right because you give women 0.99
00:05:21.600 a standard we just can't live up to okay look at women women are whores that's our true nature 1.00
00:05:27.680 and we're in a society that allows us to be that and you're saying like please just just sell me on 0.97
00:05:34.640 this that you're a religious woman please lie to me please please please i just want to be lied to 0.87
00:05:39.360 okay okay don't look for women selling the v card to clean you out look for women who will happily
00:05:49.360 happily put out for you and know her place next to you um learned in real life yeah you know i i've seen
00:05:58.720 virgin women clean out men too um and you have to understand because by women waiting till marriage 1.00
00:06:05.920 whose program are the man and the woman on are they in his program or her program her program
00:06:14.240 hers so the men are set the the church is basically shame men into giving up all leverage that they have
00:06:21.760 the only leverage you have is who you make your wife who you make your girlfriend how long you make her 0.96
00:06:28.160 wait and um yeah that that's pretty much it and and cheating right and the church says you're
00:06:35.600 immoral for doing that but women you can take as long as you want to find your husband you can just 1.00
00:06:42.720 keep trying to do better if you date a guy and break up with him there's no shame it's totally fine
00:06:48.240 just go on to the next one look and i really do i believe that traditional marriage society functioned
00:06:56.640 better under it i really did believe do believe that but the challenge is we're in a modern society
00:07:04.640 and it's like we're looking on this menu right uh you know it's like it's like you sit down 0.98
00:07:12.960 and you're at a restaurant and the meals are like here you can have a whore you can have a virgin who 1.00
00:07:20.080 who says she's pure but you can't verify it um you could have you could have a virgin who's 28 okay 0.99
00:07:34.960 yeah do you see what i'm saying it's like i mean even i'm even skeptical to believe one's under 21.
00:07:41.680 you can gluck gluck your way through high school well let me i'll keep going i'm gonna keep going
00:07:48.080 i'm gonna turn on the ac so give me a second but i'm gonna play it are you ready for love
00:08:02.160 hi i'm hollis my name is ben miles mills how's it my name is jensen ama my name's nick hey i'm
00:08:07.760 scott i'm enrique my name is dakota i'm max rawlings hello i'm sam would you consider these guys chads
00:08:14.640 chads i'd say some of these guys are chads they're like mini yeah we're my name's finn mckeon
00:08:21.840 i'm 21 and i'm from leeds england i am a sales bro i did door to door for four years and i still
00:08:29.040 throw down some sales every single day i hate the sales bro stereotype um i am very anti i'm just
00:08:37.040 kidding i actually totally a sales bro that's that's literally what i do um that's how i make all my money
00:08:41.920 and let's see who i am round one is called love at first sight the rules are simple we'll have one
00:08:48.320 of our contestants come forward and introduce themselves if one of the other contestants think
00:08:52.720 they sound interesting they'll come up and chat between the curtain if they couple up we'll drop
00:08:57.360 the curtain and they get to move on to the next round we only have room though for seven couples 1.00
00:09:01.600 let's get started let's get started okay i'm riley i'm 24 i'm from houston texas and honestly i'm
00:09:20.960 down for any good adventure i just got scuba dive certified and i'm planning to go to australia this
00:09:25.840 summer so i'm super excited about that and then i just picked up skiing like two years ago and i
00:09:32.480 honestly love any themed party like those are like my favorite things to go to my favorite things to
00:09:37.680 plan and i'm looking for someone that wants to be my adventure buddy and it's someone that i can trust
00:09:43.360 in and is going to be there for me oh yeah so there's your virgin guys and i'm telling you i've met
00:09:51.120 them if they're if if they're any bit honest right where i'm like i can kind of believe it it's like
00:09:58.160 this archetype we kind of look alike i wanted to go first because i thought all of these amazing
00:10:08.880 people i'm with i got to know them before the show are literally amazing and i felt like i needed to
00:10:13.440 stand up and put myself out there first so i could like at least put myself out there and there was a
00:10:18.000 chance let's see the challenges there's no like sexual energy there men they want to be desired to
00:10:29.520 some degree right and there's just not a sexual you know he gives off like asexual vibes yeah
00:10:48.000 i think i probably shouldn't have gone up first
00:11:13.680 um but i mean i put myself out there i'm proud of what i put out there yeah and this is a girl
00:11:21.840 and a lot of people have been saying that she would benefit with an age gap relationship
00:11:26.320 she's not attractive enough to compete with her peers um she's not and the adventuring stuff 1.00
00:11:34.320 young guys they're just not gonna want to do that she would do much better with a guy like 10 15 years
00:11:40.720 older um but yeah i'll keep going kind of is not the best thing when no one stood up like it is a
00:11:48.960 little frustrating it feels like no one ever wants to like pick me not that i want to be a pick me girl
00:11:54.080 but it is nerve-wracking but it happened and it is what it is dating provo it can be really frustrating
00:12:00.000 yes the only way to describe provo dating is that it's see like this girl's got a little bit of sexual 0.99
00:12:05.840 energy so she could be fatter but i bet more men would pick her because yeah you know the trenches 1.00
00:12:12.720 the absolute trenches i think that it's okay not great it's not good it's really bad okay you said
00:12:22.640 i have a fresh hot box fund me money equals horse i better i bet she wouldn't need to be funded um 1.00
00:12:29.520 um yeah i mean i i she still i think they said she has family money yeah she's a fixer-upper yeah 0.99
00:12:39.520 i know she would do well in an age gap but you have to understand at that age people are kind of looking
00:12:44.720 for men your own age yeah she's she's not she's like a four you know
00:12:49.680 yeah i mean they couldn't even see her but the vibe that's that's the virgin woman archetype and 0.55
00:12:57.920 men are not lining up they are not bad it's it's bad they want to get serious really quick i feel
00:13:04.720 like everyone's looking to just like get married you know there are a lot of people out there a lot
00:13:10.400 of beautiful women um but i think a lot of people are really anxious to get married and so sometimes
00:13:15.040 i feel like they're trying to put on a show to impress there's such a bounty of people to choose
00:13:19.120 from but it gives you that illusion of there's always someone better next just been on lots of
00:13:25.200 first dates a lot of first dates a lot of first states promo culture is it's its own little bubble
00:13:32.640 it's quite different from everywhere else that i've been in the world i was kind of going around
00:13:37.520 different states came back yeah diana there's another woman in the chat agreeing with me because you've 0.98
00:13:43.680 seen i am not a 9.5 stop simping jesus oh my gosh and now it's gonna say you guys are gonna gaslight me
00:13:53.040 like the women are look i would be jealous of virgins guys if they got good outcomes it's not what 1.00
00:14:00.240 i've seen look at you have to understand in girl world you have to get into the female lens 1.00
00:14:05.760 in girl world we are envious of the women that lock down men with muscles that are funny that 1.00
00:14:13.600 have clout like that's what we like we do not like the faithful beta boyfriend like nobody is jealous
00:14:20.480 of that nobody i promise to god nobody is from from the female point of view i understand the 0.97
00:14:26.080 men are logical you guys like sure things women like to risk and compete right that's how we are
00:14:33.680 and when we look at the men that the virgin women land it's like never men that like other women are
00:14:40.560 jealous i'm just being honest here there's usually ones or two stacys in the church right that marry 0.66
00:14:47.280 young and do get like the chad but that like for every one of those there's like 10 women losers 1.00
00:14:54.880 and i'm just being honest and the other the other challenge you get is the virgin women are like the 0.98
00:15:00.240 most manipulative and i'm guys i wanted i was on the other end of this like i really wanted this
00:15:07.040 fantasy to be true but what happens is they're taught to manipulate sex to get what they want
00:15:13.920 because they want marriage right so they use sex to get what they want from a young age so the
00:15:18.160 relationship starts on her terms and that's usually like and so usually they just keep weaponizing sex 1.00
00:15:25.280 after the ring they just keep going oh my gosh i'm a five i'm a negative six i get i get it i get it i 0.61
00:15:33.680 get it i could be hotter you know i'm just i'm just being assert your dominance boys boner best friends 0.96
00:15:43.760 first all right i'll keep going to utah and realize that it still sucks 0.98
00:15:49.600 now who has a higher body count do you guys think this girl or the girl before
00:16:04.640 who has a higher body count be honest be honest because the thing is when women don't have experience 1.00
00:16:11.120 with men and they just like you just sit in your room and stay pure or whatever it's like you don't
00:16:18.400 know how to interact with men it's a skill um so hi y'all i'm maddie i'm 22 i'm from georgia go dogs
00:16:28.000 and fun fact about me is i can bench a plate so gym girl so i guess i want a gym boy
00:16:41.280 looking for in a guy shoot not ginger because i'm a natural ginger and i don't want to have all ginger
00:16:48.320 kids but that's about it i'm not picky i actually found out about this from my cousin she posted
00:16:55.680 about it and i'm like that is the funniest thing i've ever heard in the most utah thing
00:16:59.760 i've ever heard in my life and i haven't been in a relationship in five years so i'm like what the
00:17:04.640 heck yeah do you want me to know step forward yeah i would put this guy as one of the better looking
00:17:15.200 guys in this camp i think i have to look closer but like he looks tall he looks he's got muscle you
00:17:22.160 know i'd say he's a good looking dude who who and this is the female experience is men gaslight you 1.00
00:17:31.360 also and they say they want like they want pure hot virgins that were feminine and raised that way but 0.99
00:17:38.720 look in 2025 yeah that does not exist hi i'm number 15 uh but i'm actually 26 years old so don't have
00:17:48.480 to worry um my name is jensen i uh i'm a big surfer i just moved back here from hawaii but i was born and
00:17:56.320 raised here and i love your accent i thought it was super cute and i would just like to get to know you a
00:18:02.240 little bit better i was the second person to go up there and it was honestly terrifying pitching myself
00:18:08.080 because i didn't know exactly what to say but thankfully um jensen he came up okay so you said
00:18:14.880 you came from hawaii what were you doing out there um i was going to school i went to byu hawaii for five
00:18:20.160 years um and then i was just working i was a zip line tour guide for two and a half years and then i
00:18:24.480 was a fire knife dancer and a tree climber at the paulian cultural center shoot uh yeah um you said i
00:18:31.840 i want to know if we were to meet in like a rom-com what would our meet cute be shoot oh i fail on
00:18:40.480 bench a lot so i'd probably be like that thing would be on my chest and you'd come up and i believe you
00:18:45.440 sound strong i feel like you could save me from that no i would help though i would love to help i think
00:18:51.440 that's both our max bench press so that's good i stood up for maddie um because i heard her accent
00:18:58.720 and i thought it was the cutest thing i've like ever heard okay yeah you're right facially he's like
00:19:03.440 a five tall five so you know and so and she also sounded like a really fun person that was like
00:19:08.720 adventurous as well so i stood up and luckily no one else stood up because that would have been scary to
00:19:14.000 be a competition shoot how long have you been surfing oh i've been surfing for about three years now
00:19:18.720 and it's like my favorite past time have you ever surfed before no i haven't because the beaches
00:19:22.560 aren't good in georgia they're like gross and brown and disgusting so we don't get waves we'll have to
00:19:28.320 take you out to hawaii sometime then
00:19:33.600 who would i put as the chat of this group um maybe this one
00:19:58.880 it's hard i can't see their faces too close but i'm going to say the guy in this t-shirt
00:20:05.360 probably is the best face maybe that one with the hat i can't see in the back
00:20:11.440 oh i'll wait i'll wait but it'll be interesting to see which woman gets the chad 0.97
00:20:15.920 all right let's let's keep going made it thank you so much you won't forget this opportunity
00:20:28.640 he sounded tall when he went up like he did jump and clap like a girl i know
00:20:33.200 i felt like his voice was coming like down at me and i'm like okay so and then i don't know he
00:20:39.200 sounded like such a cool dude that i was really happy when we matched
00:20:44.480 you're so cute
00:20:55.440 can i give you a hug you're so cute nice to meet you
00:21:00.880 hi ladies 1.00
00:21:01.440 hey the next lady who wants to introduce themselves 1.00
00:21:20.160 all right let's see who we got
00:21:21.360 i love season two 23 and i told my grandma about it and she made me promise that if
00:21:32.800 they ever did another season i would apply hi boys i'm millie i'm 23 i'm from boston massachusetts
00:21:41.360 and i am fashionable and hilarious i got in there pretty quick because i was nervous i wanted to
00:21:51.920 like just jump in i work at an old folks home i do activities so i love to craft and play bingo
00:22:01.440 that's a good that's a good answer they're like oh that's cheap she's not around other guys that's a
00:22:08.480 good answer um all that fun stuff um old music i love to thrift i love vintage clothes okay it said
00:22:20.400 women used to grow up learning to sound cute modern women made it rare don't fall for cute voices keep 1.00
00:22:25.600 your money close all my axes sounded cute yeah you know and i'm not again i'm not trying to say that
00:22:32.960 virgin women aren't desirable they are obviously but what i'm saying is in 2025 usually something's wrong 1.00
00:22:44.080 with them that's all i'm saying unfortunately