Pearl - Even Modern Virgins Don't Want Average Men

00:00:00.000 and you're not gonna be weird at all it's like uh you're gonna be pretty weird so i'm not i'm not

00:00:07.120 what i'm not trying to do what i'm not trying to do is discourage women that wanna you know that

00:00:13.200 want to be pure till marriage but i gotta be honest a lot of these virgin virgin women they're 1.00

00:00:18.400 just not about it like if you cared about virginity and your husband you would never give him reason

00:00:26.400 to not believe you so you would find your husband you wouldn't go to college and you just find your

00:00:31.360 husband before you're 21 if you graduate at 18 that gives you three years i mean you can get that done

00:00:37.840 you know you you'd wanna you you want you'd be on the dating apps you'd be on hinge and it would just

00:00:44.560 be a hinge i hit you know you can filter for christian men and boom you can get it done but

00:00:51.280 they're not and that's just been my experience interact and maybe you guys have a different

00:00:56.000 experience i could be wrong right but there's something about when i point out it's really 0.97

00:01:03.360 annoying to me when i point out that conservative women are also whores that the female baseline is 1.00

00:01:10.400 just whoredom no your religion can't stop and these are the these are the the pushback i get is oh 0.99

00:01:17.440 but women are afraid of like looking bad right i'm like in 2025 no they're not 1.00

00:01:24.480 not spot on the average age of marriage for mormons used to be 19 or 21 but now it's just like

00:01:31.120 everyone else 27 our bishops expect us to be celibate into our late 20s yeah yeah and so they

00:01:38.080 basically say the churches they basically say you have to repress the one of the most exciting parts

00:01:46.480 of life like can we be honest that's you know in the old days that would be exciting you'd wait till

00:01:51.120 you're married you get married you'd have sex you'd have your first kiss like it would be

00:01:55.600 that's an exciting part of life right but now they say the conservatives that they say do you know what 0.73

00:02:01.920 repress that till you're 30 and you're not gonna be weird at all it's like uh you're gonna be pretty weird

00:02:10.560 pearl stop dissing the competition oh yeah okay look at

00:02:21.520 guys look at if there's girls i'm worried about like taking my man right i promise to god it's not

00:02:30.480 virgins i'm more worried about horrors than birds and i'm gonna be honest here because

00:02:34.560 because because one okay there's like two i mean how many do you actually know 0.94

00:02:48.480 and the second thing the second thing you guys don't even know if they're actually virgin like

00:02:54.240 you have to understand you guys get bamboozled because you are just so willing to give the benefit

00:02:59.760 of the doubt to women you're so willing to do it it's time to face the facts guys modern women care 0.97

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00:04:11.440 you're so you guys will fight you will say pearl let me die on the hill of giving these women the 1.00

00:04:17.440 benefit of the doubt you you're jealous you must pearl you must i'm gonna put a gun to your head 0.99

00:04:24.640 and give these women the benefit of the doubt and i say no moss no moss no moss if you were about it you 0.98

00:04:36.240 would be done by 21 i'll even give you 22 but you're not about it you like the clout from virginity

00:04:45.760 you don't like men that much you want to do whatever just like the rest of us you know what i mean i'm not

00:04:51.440 i'm not saying they're immoral for doing this but what i don't like is where i have to pretend this

00:04:58.080 is something it isn't i just don't get i don't understand it's like you guys you guys are begging

00:05:07.360 for women to take advantage of you you really are you're begging for it you're like please please 1.00

00:05:15.840 please please lie to me and this is what this is how you guys get got right because you give women 0.99

00:05:21.600 a standard we just can't live up to okay look at women women are whores that's our true nature 1.00

00:05:27.680 and we're in a society that allows us to be that and you're saying like please just just sell me on 0.97

00:05:34.640 this that you're a religious woman please lie to me please please please i just want to be lied to 0.87

00:05:39.360 okay okay don't look for women selling the v card to clean you out look for women who will happily

00:05:49.360 happily put out for you and know her place next to you um learned in real life yeah you know i i've seen

00:05:58.720 virgin women clean out men too um and you have to understand because by women waiting till marriage 1.00

00:06:05.920 whose program are the man and the woman on are they in his program or her program her program

00:06:14.240 hers so the men are set the the church is basically shame men into giving up all leverage that they have

00:06:21.760 the only leverage you have is who you make your wife who you make your girlfriend how long you make her 0.96

00:06:28.160 wait and um yeah that that's pretty much it and and cheating right and the church says you're

00:06:35.600 immoral for doing that but women you can take as long as you want to find your husband you can just 1.00

00:06:42.720 keep trying to do better if you date a guy and break up with him there's no shame it's totally fine

00:06:48.240 just go on to the next one look and i really do i believe that traditional marriage society functioned

00:06:56.640 better under it i really did believe do believe that but the challenge is we're in a modern society

00:07:04.640 and it's like we're looking on this menu right uh you know it's like it's like you sit down 0.98

00:07:12.960 and you're at a restaurant and the meals are like here you can have a whore you can have a virgin who 1.00

00:07:20.080 who says she's pure but you can't verify it um you could have you could have a virgin who's 28 okay 0.99

00:07:34.960 yeah do you see what i'm saying it's like i mean even i'm even skeptical to believe one's under 21.

00:07:41.680 you can gluck gluck your way through high school well let me i'll keep going i'm gonna keep going

00:07:48.080 i'm gonna turn on the ac so give me a second but i'm gonna play it are you ready for love

00:08:02.160 hi i'm hollis my name is ben miles mills how's it my name is jensen ama my name's nick hey i'm

00:08:07.760 scott i'm enrique my name is dakota i'm max rawlings hello i'm sam would you consider these guys chads

00:08:14.640 chads i'd say some of these guys are chads they're like mini yeah we're my name's finn mckeon

00:08:21.840 i'm 21 and i'm from leeds england i am a sales bro i did door to door for four years and i still

00:08:29.040 throw down some sales every single day i hate the sales bro stereotype um i am very anti i'm just

00:08:37.040 kidding i actually totally a sales bro that's that's literally what i do um that's how i make all my money

00:08:41.920 and let's see who i am round one is called love at first sight the rules are simple we'll have one

00:08:48.320 of our contestants come forward and introduce themselves if one of the other contestants think

00:08:52.720 they sound interesting they'll come up and chat between the curtain if they couple up we'll drop

00:08:57.360 the curtain and they get to move on to the next round we only have room though for seven couples 1.00

00:09:01.600 let's get started let's get started okay i'm riley i'm 24 i'm from houston texas and honestly i'm

00:09:20.960 down for any good adventure i just got scuba dive certified and i'm planning to go to australia this

00:09:25.840 summer so i'm super excited about that and then i just picked up skiing like two years ago and i

00:09:32.480 honestly love any themed party like those are like my favorite things to go to my favorite things to

00:09:37.680 plan and i'm looking for someone that wants to be my adventure buddy and it's someone that i can trust

00:09:43.360 in and is going to be there for me oh yeah so there's your virgin guys and i'm telling you i've met

00:09:51.120 them if they're if if they're any bit honest right where i'm like i can kind of believe it it's like

00:09:58.160 this archetype we kind of look alike i wanted to go first because i thought all of these amazing

00:10:08.880 people i'm with i got to know them before the show are literally amazing and i felt like i needed to

00:10:13.440 stand up and put myself out there first so i could like at least put myself out there and there was a

00:10:18.000 chance let's see the challenges there's no like sexual energy there men they want to be desired to

00:10:29.520 some degree right and there's just not a sexual you know he gives off like asexual vibes yeah

00:10:48.000 i think i probably shouldn't have gone up first

00:11:13.680 um but i mean i put myself out there i'm proud of what i put out there yeah and this is a girl

00:11:21.840 and a lot of people have been saying that she would benefit with an age gap relationship

00:11:26.320 she's not attractive enough to compete with her peers um she's not and the adventuring stuff 1.00

00:11:34.320 young guys they're just not gonna want to do that she would do much better with a guy like 10 15 years

00:11:40.720 older um but yeah i'll keep going kind of is not the best thing when no one stood up like it is a

00:11:48.960 little frustrating it feels like no one ever wants to like pick me not that i want to be a pick me girl

00:11:54.080 but it is nerve-wracking but it happened and it is what it is dating provo it can be really frustrating

00:12:00.000 yes the only way to describe provo dating is that it's see like this girl's got a little bit of sexual 0.99

00:12:05.840 energy so she could be fatter but i bet more men would pick her because yeah you know the trenches 1.00

00:12:12.720 the absolute trenches i think that it's okay not great it's not good it's really bad okay you said

00:12:22.640 i have a fresh hot box fund me money equals horse i better i bet she wouldn't need to be funded um 1.00

00:12:29.520 um yeah i mean i i she still i think they said she has family money yeah she's a fixer-upper yeah 0.99

00:12:39.520 i know she would do well in an age gap but you have to understand at that age people are kind of looking

00:12:44.720 for men your own age yeah she's she's not she's like a four you know

00:12:49.680 yeah i mean they couldn't even see her but the vibe that's that's the virgin woman archetype and 0.55

00:12:57.920 men are not lining up they are not bad it's it's bad they want to get serious really quick i feel

00:13:04.720 like everyone's looking to just like get married you know there are a lot of people out there a lot

00:13:10.400 of beautiful women um but i think a lot of people are really anxious to get married and so sometimes

00:13:15.040 i feel like they're trying to put on a show to impress there's such a bounty of people to choose

00:13:19.120 from but it gives you that illusion of there's always someone better next just been on lots of

00:13:25.200 first dates a lot of first dates a lot of first states promo culture is it's its own little bubble

00:13:32.640 it's quite different from everywhere else that i've been in the world i was kind of going around

00:13:37.520 different states came back yeah diana there's another woman in the chat agreeing with me because you've 0.98

00:13:43.680 seen i am not a 9.5 stop simping jesus oh my gosh and now it's gonna say you guys are gonna gaslight me

00:13:53.040 like the women are look i would be jealous of virgins guys if they got good outcomes it's not what 1.00

00:14:00.240 i've seen look at you have to understand in girl world you have to get into the female lens 1.00

00:14:05.760 in girl world we are envious of the women that lock down men with muscles that are funny that 1.00

00:14:13.600 have clout like that's what we like we do not like the faithful beta boyfriend like nobody is jealous

00:14:20.480 of that nobody i promise to god nobody is from from the female point of view i understand the 0.97

00:14:26.080 men are logical you guys like sure things women like to risk and compete right that's how we are

00:14:33.680 and when we look at the men that the virgin women land it's like never men that like other women are

00:14:40.560 jealous i'm just being honest here there's usually ones or two stacys in the church right that marry 0.66

00:14:47.280 young and do get like the chad but that like for every one of those there's like 10 women losers 1.00

00:14:54.880 and i'm just being honest and the other the other challenge you get is the virgin women are like the 0.98

00:15:00.240 most manipulative and i'm guys i wanted i was on the other end of this like i really wanted this

00:15:07.040 fantasy to be true but what happens is they're taught to manipulate sex to get what they want

00:15:13.920 because they want marriage right so they use sex to get what they want from a young age so the

00:15:18.160 relationship starts on her terms and that's usually like and so usually they just keep weaponizing sex 1.00

00:15:25.280 after the ring they just keep going oh my gosh i'm a five i'm a negative six i get i get it i get it i 0.61

00:15:33.680 get it i could be hotter you know i'm just i'm just being assert your dominance boys boner best friends 0.96

00:15:43.760 first all right i'll keep going to utah and realize that it still sucks 0.98

00:15:49.600 now who has a higher body count do you guys think this girl or the girl before

00:16:04.640 who has a higher body count be honest be honest because the thing is when women don't have experience 1.00

00:16:11.120 with men and they just like you just sit in your room and stay pure or whatever it's like you don't

00:16:18.400 know how to interact with men it's a skill um so hi y'all i'm maddie i'm 22 i'm from georgia go dogs

00:16:28.000 and fun fact about me is i can bench a plate so gym girl so i guess i want a gym boy

00:16:41.280 looking for in a guy shoot not ginger because i'm a natural ginger and i don't want to have all ginger

00:16:48.320 kids but that's about it i'm not picky i actually found out about this from my cousin she posted

00:16:55.680 about it and i'm like that is the funniest thing i've ever heard in the most utah thing

00:16:59.760 i've ever heard in my life and i haven't been in a relationship in five years so i'm like what the

00:17:04.640 heck yeah do you want me to know step forward yeah i would put this guy as one of the better looking

00:17:15.200 guys in this camp i think i have to look closer but like he looks tall he looks he's got muscle you

00:17:22.160 know i'd say he's a good looking dude who who and this is the female experience is men gaslight you 1.00

00:17:31.360 also and they say they want like they want pure hot virgins that were feminine and raised that way but 0.99

00:17:38.720 look in 2025 yeah that does not exist hi i'm number 15 uh but i'm actually 26 years old so don't have

00:17:48.480 to worry um my name is jensen i uh i'm a big surfer i just moved back here from hawaii but i was born and

00:17:56.320 raised here and i love your accent i thought it was super cute and i would just like to get to know you a

00:18:02.240 little bit better i was the second person to go up there and it was honestly terrifying pitching myself

00:18:08.080 because i didn't know exactly what to say but thankfully um jensen he came up okay so you said

00:18:14.880 you came from hawaii what were you doing out there um i was going to school i went to byu hawaii for five

00:18:20.160 years um and then i was just working i was a zip line tour guide for two and a half years and then i

00:18:24.480 was a fire knife dancer and a tree climber at the paulian cultural center shoot uh yeah um you said i

00:18:31.840 i want to know if we were to meet in like a rom-com what would our meet cute be shoot oh i fail on

00:18:40.480 bench a lot so i'd probably be like that thing would be on my chest and you'd come up and i believe you

00:18:45.440 sound strong i feel like you could save me from that no i would help though i would love to help i think

00:18:51.440 that's both our max bench press so that's good i stood up for maddie um because i heard her accent

00:18:58.720 and i thought it was the cutest thing i've like ever heard okay yeah you're right facially he's like

00:19:03.440 a five tall five so you know and so and she also sounded like a really fun person that was like

00:19:08.720 adventurous as well so i stood up and luckily no one else stood up because that would have been scary to

00:19:14.000 be a competition shoot how long have you been surfing oh i've been surfing for about three years now

00:19:18.720 and it's like my favorite past time have you ever surfed before no i haven't because the beaches

00:19:22.560 aren't good in georgia they're like gross and brown and disgusting so we don't get waves we'll have to

00:19:28.320 take you out to hawaii sometime then

00:19:33.600 who would i put as the chat of this group um maybe this one

00:19:58.880 it's hard i can't see their faces too close but i'm going to say the guy in this t-shirt

00:20:05.360 probably is the best face maybe that one with the hat i can't see in the back

00:20:11.440 oh i'll wait i'll wait but it'll be interesting to see which woman gets the chad 0.97

00:20:15.920 all right let's let's keep going made it thank you so much you won't forget this opportunity

00:20:28.640 he sounded tall when he went up like he did jump and clap like a girl i know

00:20:33.200 i felt like his voice was coming like down at me and i'm like okay so and then i don't know he

00:20:39.200 sounded like such a cool dude that i was really happy when we matched

00:20:44.480 you're so cute

00:20:55.440 can i give you a hug you're so cute nice to meet you

00:21:00.880 hi ladies 1.00

00:21:01.440 hey the next lady who wants to introduce themselves 1.00

00:21:20.160 all right let's see who we got

00:21:21.360 i love season two 23 and i told my grandma about it and she made me promise that if

00:21:32.800 they ever did another season i would apply hi boys i'm millie i'm 23 i'm from boston massachusetts

00:21:41.360 and i am fashionable and hilarious i got in there pretty quick because i was nervous i wanted to

00:21:51.920 like just jump in i work at an old folks home i do activities so i love to craft and play bingo

00:22:01.440 that's a good that's a good answer they're like oh that's cheap she's not around other guys that's a

00:22:08.480 good answer um all that fun stuff um old music i love to thrift i love vintage clothes okay it said

00:22:20.400 women used to grow up learning to sound cute modern women made it rare don't fall for cute voices keep 1.00

00:22:25.600 your money close all my axes sounded cute yeah you know and i'm not again i'm not trying to say that

00:22:32.960 virgin women aren't desirable they are obviously but what i'm saying is in 2025 usually something's wrong 1.00

00:22:44.080 with them that's all i'm saying unfortunately

Pearl - August 20, 2025

Even Modern Virgins Don't Want Average Men

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