00:00:00.000So a whore is a sexually promiscuous woman. Historically, women were virgins on their1.00
00:00:05.420wedding day, and they had a traditional marriage. They had an arranged marriage with a dowry,0.99
00:00:09.660got married under 25, and were with one guy for life. That's how it used to be.
00:00:13.540Nowadays, women have multiple partners. So therefore, if you get married, you're going1.00
00:00:19.020from one guy to the next guy to the next guy, and then maybe you stop. So a lot of conservatives try
00:00:24.360to um placate and they say oh there's these exceptions uh but you know when i was young
00:00:32.840i i got banished i got in trouble once and i got banished to my grandma's house and i was the drunk
00:00:37.160driver for these old women right so yes sorry the dd not i wasn't drunk i was driving i was driving
00:00:42.360i was driving i was like underage but i got to hear these older women like talking about dating0.56
00:00:47.320after their husbands died so even if you're with your husband for life she's still on to the next0.93
00:00:51.400one after and so most women they're not yours it's just your turn so um therefore nowadays it's not
00:00:58.600one man for life because there's multiple men and even if they're with one guy for a long time
00:01:03.960there's usually a guy after a guy before so it's war management objectively i gotta be accurate so
00:01:09.400i mean i don't know if i would necessarily and whenever it comes to somebody's spouse dying i
00:01:14.200think that's a whole nother separate conversation because there are some especially that as they get
00:01:18.120older they're not necessarily being like oh i can't wait for you to die so in that way i can
00:01:22.520go on to the next guy you'd be surprised because well i mean i would say a majority of the time
00:01:27.560especially if they've been together for a long time then obviously at that point then they've
00:01:31.400had that relationship that companionship and that's something as humans we all are kind of
00:01:35.800looking for is that companionship yeah well there are women that their husbands die and they say i
00:01:39.720could never love again yeah so would you say that's the same and they're also i would say
00:01:46.840those women have passed away they don't exist anymore well yeah that's really that's a really
00:01:52.600sad way to look at the world it's sad but like again i don't care about looking good so you can
00:01:57.480look like a good person and say things that aren't true right but this is accurate what i'm what i'm0.98
00:02:01.880saying is accurate i mean the majority of women the point of getting married there's no point
00:02:06.520anymore and people aren't that's it's an outdated technology i mean not necessarily as far as not
00:02:11.480people getting married because holistically as well i mean whenever you look at that getting
00:02:15.800married as a whole is super expensive i mean you get some tax benefits as far as being married
00:02:21.720but it's also one of those things where i mean personally when i got i got engaged at 19 married
00:02:26.440at 20 been married for six years so it's one of those things where it's not like you get married
00:02:32.040and then you're like oh can't wait for the next one now some of them like you said i mean i'm sure
00:02:35.160some people are like that but at the end of the day the ones that are really in it for the true
00:02:40.040underlying foundations of marriage don't have that same end goal of hopping from guys right
00:02:45.660well you've been married six years not 50 not 40 not 30 and that's what i noticed when you're 26
00:02:50.240i know i know but my point is that's good for you right but the issue is i i've just dealt with so
00:02:57.180many conservative people that said the same thing you did and still left like i actually was making
00:03:02.240a documentary and one of the women she was in my trailer she had eight kids she homeschooled them
00:03:08.380and she said yeah yeah well see which kind of goes back to that's not traditional if that's
00:03:13.080too many kids because traditional is a lot of kids and yeah yeah yeah which is which is fine
00:03:17.500but yeah but um you know and she said i'm gonna be with my husband for life and it's almost like
00:03:24.360what i've noticed is the more they say they're gonna stay the more they leave i don't know what
00:03:28.860it is i think it's like um a freudian slip or something but i've i've dealt with so many women
00:03:34.580that come on these shows like and they tell me they're gonna stay that they leave so what's the
00:03:39.740would you say tour management both ways because the majority of the time if men have infidelity
00:03:45.180within the marriage they have a higher chance of the women staying with the men even if the man is
00:03:49.720the one that cheated well i don't like uh those surveys because it's who admits to it well isn't
00:03:55.100that almost all data that you collect from people it's who's willing to answer yeah partially that's
00:03:59.780why it's flawed so that's that's one thing that's why it's flawed and then there's other ways you
00:04:04.200can collect data that's not the only way based on like choices you can like look well yeah but
00:04:09.240the end of the day if you're talking about people and their anecdotal experience they still have to
00:04:12.360be willing to answer so it has to be somewhat useful because obviously things change from i0.99
00:04:17.720don't think it's useful at all with women because women lie all the time so so would you say what1.00
00:04:21.780you just said was a lie what so how then can we take what you're saying is truthful if women always1.00
00:04:26.880lie you don't have to well yeah that's why that's why i tell the camera don't even believe me go0.92
00:04:33.240to look at your real life and see if it matches that's what my real life doesn't match that's why
00:04:37.620I'm for now right for now right now at the moment that's the problem so like right now
00:04:42.720your life it's a problem that my life is going well no I'm saying it's not accurate I have to0.99
00:04:48.300be accurate so here's the issue because the women they like to come on these shows and they like to
00:04:53.100say I'm different I'm special and I'm not different or special and and so that can be I'm not saying
00:04:58.380this could apply this doesn't mean it's about you but it's just in general and they they point to
00:05:02.400life and say look at me my life is different i got married young and the issue is they mean that and
00:05:07.760i think when they say it they mean it but life is long things change and a lot of the people that
00:05:13.360come in and say that their marriage is going well end up divorced and they end up like even uh
00:05:19.520stephen crowder right he had a whole uh he got married what he is definitely special he is
00:05:24.960special but he got married he waited until marriage to have said they had a whole article it was a
00:05:29.680the whole thing and then his wife put him on 30k a month of child support the special woman that
00:05:34.780was a virgin she's a virgin on her wedding she did it the traditional way and i this can only
00:05:39.740happen so many times where i see this over and over again i think do you know what i think marriage
00:05:45.540is outdated because no one can seem to do it even the ones that really think they can and you think
00:05:50.260are different well also i think there also needs to be a line between like marriage of people that
00:05:55.280don't look at a religious aspect and people that do get married for the religious sanctity because
00:06:00.360obviously like when some people get married they do it for the love of the church and the love of
00:06:03.820the bond and everything else that's tied to that versus those that get married and are like oh i'm
00:06:08.240about to get you know tax break and everything else which i would in my experience they're worse1.00
00:06:12.780who's worse the religious women absolutely where they're way more vicious in divorce court for a1.00
00:06:18.180few reasons right number one they tend to be housewives more so legally um you actually can1.00
00:06:23.620ruin your husband more too they seem to have the time to plan it out like there's just no one i've1.00
00:06:28.660been doing because the the feminist women are busy working where the the stay-at-home moms they have1.00
00:06:34.820all day to plan how to ruin their husband's life so they just the worst divorces i've seen have1.00
00:06:40.340been from religious women and this is i know somebody that wrote a book on like divorce and
00:06:45.620they they would say the same thing housewives are the most vicious in court so and the other problem0.87
00:06:50.820too as you get with women they say things right at the time they might really believe that it's0.64
00:06:55.560about their marriage and they love god and all this stuff it doesn't mean they mean it because0.81
00:06:59.080their actions long term a lot of times most of the time don't line up so you you can separate them
00:07:03.960but and the other the other issue too is marriage is disappearing for the middle for from the middle
00:07:09.380class so it's just becoming a something for status so i go to these i've been to a bunch of
00:07:14.000the churches i've done interviews asking the religion the religious women if they obey their
00:07:18.140husbands and i'm telling you the answers are not different than feminists i've been to the most
00:07:23.200orthodox christian churches and they're not they're the same yeah i'll say i'm not in that
00:07:28.600circle so i mean i don't know exactly like the necessary details but i do have like a range of
00:07:33.000family members that do arch the true like traditional stay at home homeschool the kids
00:07:37.740type of thing and you know as far as i am aware obviously depending on what they share you know
00:07:43.200it's all good and everything but i guess also holistically with saying that it's whore management0.75
00:07:48.860right so when it comes to the whore management part are you saying it's only whore management0.60
00:07:54.740for the women or also whore management for the men we're not the same nobody's saying that they're
00:08:00.080same i'm just saying multiple like partners for men isn't the same as multiple partners for women
00:08:05.380it's just not not the same as in what like we're not the same men and women are not the same like
00:08:10.880an egalitarian point of view that like i thought you wanted equality so then shouldn't it be weight
00:08:14.960equally well i want consistency i want consistency consistency or equality um i want equality in one
00:08:24.880way but it's like it's because this is the only way forward traditionalism you can't do that today
00:08:31.440i mean it's just it's very difficult but you can do it and i say that just because if you're
00:08:36.080saying that whoever admits to it i've seen it firsthand i have family members that live that
00:08:39.600way i have people that want it that way how old are they late 30s i believe is how old they are
00:08:44.800yeah they're how many how many kids do they have three three kids how old's the youngest
00:08:49.920gonna be two i believe and how how long have they been married that i came in way after they
00:08:54.400got married i know they got married in their late early 20s yeah so they've been together for a long
00:08:59.200time yeah but here's the issue is the kids only the youngest kids only two and they might have
00:09:03.440more so are you saying that that doesn't count until they hit like 50 years yeah 40 or 50 yeah
00:09:08.640because and they're not going to that's why we don't go to 40 or 50 year anniversaries most
00:09:13.280people think they're above statistics and become them so most people have like they don't think
00:09:17.520they're going to be statistics they're optimistic you go into life hopeful and then you realize
00:09:21.600like everybody's a statistic well if you're constantly thinking and worrying like oh my
00:09:25.040goodness my husband's gonna leave me i've got like 10 years left i mean that's a pretty sad way to0.99
00:09:29.040live well i'm not living that's not what i said this is what women do you always put words that's
00:09:33.600not what i said that's not what i said at all i said look at i i have to be accurate i have to
00:09:39.600be become a stat so you're constantly worried about the stats but i don't worry it's because
00:09:44.080you're not married you're not a part of the stuff i know but i'm saying like okay this is again
00:09:48.960that's not what i said um i have to be accurate and when i see most people become statistics and
00:09:57.280that's accurate whether you like it or not like then how can the divorce rates going down though
00:10:01.440because people aren't getting married people aren't getting married or like people aren't
00:10:06.560the divorce rate rate is lower than it's been since the civil war the marriage rate sorry so
00:10:10.720why is that divorce marriage rate so why is so if people are becoming more selective then that's
00:10:16.240also probably because i'm going to put it like this like i'm not like a feminist and all that
00:10:20.160extra stuff but it also could be a combination of the issues with people being able to interact
00:10:26.080properly because the introduction of dating apps and everything else it makes it a lot harder to
00:10:30.880find people that you do want to get married to because unfortunately we've gotten into this
00:10:34.800mindset of one night stands and it's great or it's just people getting real it's really difficult
00:10:39.680sometimes for some people to interact properly people like they used to yeah i disagree i think
00:10:43.920dating app makes it easier for women um like i don't think it makes it hard it makes it harder
00:10:49.280for men because if you look at the data do you think men if they had an app where they matched
00:10:54.480with thousands of women interested in meeting them do you think they could figure it out figure out
00:11:00.160would how to communicate and how to make that work it's because i don't know i mean disingenuous1.00
00:11:07.840well it just kind of goes person by person so i mean can we be honest i mean women always lie0.56
00:11:13.200does that mean you're a liar too i mean that's it's interesting that i'm having conversation
00:11:16.800you're over here you know calling names it kind of makes your argument a little bit see but this1.00
00:11:20.800is what happens is women do like they do a behavior in front of you right because that's1.00
00:11:25.280clearly not an honest i think i've been very respectful they do they do they do a behavior1.00
00:11:29.440in front of you that's insufferable right like lying that's insufferable and then if you say
00:11:37.520and then if you say that's a lie right if you say that's a lie they then gaslight you to pretend it0.65
00:11:43.120didn't happen so they say well i'm not doing that it's like stop insulting me and i'm like well you
00:11:48.400just lied to me lied to you because i if i have to explain it that's just well you're the one that1.00
00:11:54.320brought it to the table so you should have to explain it i know that's how women are
00:11:58.640wanting explanation i mean that's pretty nice i mean i'm just saying i don't i don't just blindly
00:12:04.560follow what you say just because you're pearl i know yeah i know i can tell yeah yeah so i would
00:12:12.880say that dating apps makes it easier for women so because you get access to men out of your league
00:12:18.320and you get thousands of matches so you can literally like there's women in new york city
00:12:22.720that go on like three dates a day do you think a man could go on three dates a day i'm not
00:12:27.600disagreeing that the dating scene is harder for men that's not what i said that's not what i said
00:12:33.440i said you said dating apps makes it harder for women i said it makes it i said it makes it harder
00:12:38.640for people to communicate with each other and i said and i said it makes it easier for women i
00:12:45.520didn't say it was difficult i know this is the gaslighting okay all right well so is there
00:12:50.400Is there anything else we'd like to cover about marriage as whore management before we part ways?0.95
00:12:54.420I just think it's interesting that it's whore management and you say equality, but then you only want to aim the whore aspect on women.0.89
00:13:02.520That's just what I find interesting.0.97