Pearl - May 04, 2026


Fathers Create Joy While Mothers DESTROY!


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

206.58

Word count

2,336

Sentence count

54

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Toxicity

21

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Hate speech

18

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In this episode, we are reacting to the women who love their fathers and the ones who don t. My dad is the single most important person in my life and he's singlehandedly the reason why my expectations for men are so high that I'm repulsed by most of them.

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00:00:00.160 Mary you must be the dumbest woman alive that is some stupid to say what up guys welcome to 1.00
00:00:06.400 my reaction series today we are reacting to the women that love their fathers there is this 1.00
00:00:12.480 narrative that women are just really great takers and mothers but when it really comes down to it
00:00:17.760 most women destroy their children rather than do anything productive with them so today we are 0.97
00:00:24.000 going to react to women who love their dads my dad and he's single-handedly the reason why my 1.00
00:00:29.760 expectations for men are so high that i'm repulsed by most of them okay so there are a lot of simp
00:00:35.600 dads i would say simp dads are actually they're funding a lot of this problem um simp men who
00:00:41.360 white men in partake who give um their daughters everything and just do everything for them and
00:00:45.760 require nothing two years ago my best friend randy passed away and before she'd passed she
00:00:50.400 had recently gotten these high top dior shoes that she was obsessed with and so my mom thought it'd
00:00:56.480 would be really sweet to get them for me so I could wear them to her service. So the shoes come
00:01:00.760 in the morning before Randy's service and they were huge. My mom didn't realize that they were
00:01:07.300 men's shoes and so she didn't size accordingly. But within five minutes of us realizing these
00:01:13.640 shoes weren't going to work, this man had bought a flight to Rodeo Drive to go get me the shoes
00:01:19.180 because there was no Dior store in Arizona at the time. He booked this flight like he was going to
00:01:23.060 fucking supermarket or something so he flies there that day and gets the shoes and then there's no 0.97
00:01:29.860 flights home that night so he drives home through the night so i can have them in the morning for 0.99
00:01:34.980 her service and the most insane part of the story to me is not the fact that he flew and spent
00:01:39.780 thousands of dollars to get me a pair of shoes but it's the fact that he's never brought it up again
00:01:45.060 yeah now okay two things one men do nice things and never throw it in your face women do nice
00:01:50.660 things and always throw it in your face number two now she's gonna expect um really not expectable
00:01:57.700 behavior for her level of hotness um from someone who's never gonna give it to her and a lot of
00:02:02.180 times this leaves us single the only time he brings up that day is because he brought my
00:02:06.900 little sister with him and she had had this shirley temple in a restaurant there that she had loved
00:02:12.660 and he took a picture of her drinking it and he shows people that picture saying this is the best
00:02:16.340 really temple that goose has ever had when you're looking for a partner keep this little story in
00:02:19.540 the back of your head would this person go above and beyond to make me feel better to fix one little
00:02:25.380 thing when they can't fix the big thing without expecting me to do anything in return so think
00:02:30.420 about it think does my partner want to do that for me would they do that for my kids if the answer is
00:02:36.340 no reevaluate this is my okay we're going to continue um that's that's a little bit too much
00:02:43.540 that's very nice of him to do right but expecting that is kind of a lot today the teacher told us
00:02:49.700 what would be the equivalent of a something a woman what would be the equivalent of a guy
00:02:54.100 saying that about something his mother did for him put it in the comments like something that
00:02:58.580 the mother went above and beyond for him that was kind of absurdly above and beyond do mothers even
00:03:03.700 go above and beyond for their sons i don't think so right about something we love more than
00:03:07.540 ourselves i was stumped so i asked around and heard others writing about their sports friends
00:03:11.780 or a passion they have. The first thing that came to my mind was God, but that was too obvious.
00:03:16.640 In the rubric, it had said, our writing must be something tangible, something we could lose,
00:03:21.080 something we cherish deeply and wouldn't be whole without. My mind directed me to my father,
00:03:25.640 the one man who has always been there for me, no matter the circumstance, no matter how far gone,
00:03:30.280 how disobedient, disrespectful, or dishonest, he has never left my side. For as long as I can
00:03:34.920 remember, it's always been my dad and I. When I was little, I swore I would beat him in an arm
00:03:38.700 wrestle and that was my only goal i still can't say i've fulfilled that goal but i can say i've
00:03:42.880 created new ones to be as intelligent patient and selfless as he is to become a replica of his
00:03:47.920 character most of all to make him proud i've heard many compliments in my life my favorite one stands
00:03:52.800 to be you are so much like your father what an honorable thing to be told my reason that's so
00:03:57.840 cute and my inspiration when i look at the person i'm becoming i see so much of him in me and the
00:04:03.020 way i treat people perform and present myself to others it is a direct reflection of the amazing
00:04:07.480 man i get to call dad he's the loudest person at every sporting event and the quietest when
00:04:11.560 listening to you speak oh my gosh you know what that reminds me of my dad to this day oh my gosh
00:04:16.040 i might cry thinking about this i started playing basketball and like sports because my dad um he was
00:04:21.960 my coach and my favorite childhood memories were literally my father coaching me and he could still
00:04:29.320 tell you about like every basketball game he could tell you the score like fifth grade champion he
00:04:35.480 He coached my sister to get like a sixth, I don't know, some sixth grade tournament medal.
00:04:41.360 And he talks about it to this day.
00:04:43.060 It's so cute.
00:04:44.380 He's held me through every hardship.
00:04:45.700 That's the thing.
00:04:46.400 Fathers get joy out of their kids. 1.00
00:04:48.240 Mothers use their kids for their own benefit.
00:04:51.360 Took me for ice cream to celebrate all of my biggest accomplishments.
00:04:54.260 My father is my first love.
00:04:55.840 And without a doubt will be my biggest heartbreak the day I have to say goodbye to him.
00:04:59.420 Who will hold me then?
00:05:00.520 My heart hurts for those who didn't get to grow up with their hero like I did.
00:05:03.660 I don't know what I would do without my dad, or more specifically, a dad, a present one who has been involved and loved me since day one.
00:05:10.500 When I'm older and have a family of my own, I will tell them stories about you.
00:05:13.820 I will tell them how their grandpa made me laugh until I cried, taught me to never give up, and how he loved me in a way that made me believe I could survive anything.
00:05:20.500 If I one day even become half the man my father is, I will probably be able to say I did something right.
00:05:25.680 So as I finish my paper, I'm asked about something I love more than myself.
00:05:29.060 What other answer could I have chosen than the very one who made me who I am today?
00:05:32.600 and i won't waste this page on a score or even a close friend because those things are temporary
00:05:37.320 but my father's love is permanent i will carry it everywhere i go and display the man he is in
00:05:41.920 everything i do so dear dad i wonder if you knew the only thing i wish to accomplish in this world
00:05:47.220 is to become just like you oh oh we have another one can't put no words how much i love you you're
00:05:54.360 one of the only people that no matter how many arguments we've had no matter how long we go
00:05:57.600 without talking even though we have to be aware that anything women put on the internet is
00:06:01.440 performative to be fair to be fair but these are kind of cute these are cute and i'm gonna enjoy
00:06:05.220 i'm gonna enjoy them as if they're real no matter how many tears we've caused each other i could
00:06:09.480 never dream of having a different dad from reading me bedtime stories to picking me up when i get my
00:06:13.760 heart broken you've always been there you understand me in a way no one else does you're
00:06:17.540 my best friend and my biggest heartbreak will be the day i have to say goodbye to you who's gonna
00:06:21.420 pick me up then you've inspired me to be the person i am today your kind heart your empathy
00:06:25.260 for others your patience and understanding i've learned more from you growing up than any textbook
00:06:29.520 could ever teach me you've shown me what it means to love without conditions to forgive without
00:06:33.160 keeping score to stand tall even when the world feels heavy you've taught me that strength isn't
00:06:37.620 ever about falling it's about getting back up again and again even when it hurts like hell
00:06:41.680 when i look at the person i'm becoming i see so much of you in me the way i treat people the way
00:06:46.560 i find humor in the hardest moments the way i care deeply even when it hurts i carry pieces of you 1.00
00:06:51.520 everywhere i go do you know what there is this girl on twitter today um mary morgan what an idiot 1.00
00:06:57.260 this woman. I'm going to rant about this because it's kind of relevant. I wasn't even planning on 1.00
00:07:03.100 doing this, but it's kind of relevant to the reaction I'm doing. So Mary Morgan, she says,
00:07:08.960 lots of, let's clear things up. Men do not have parental instincts the way that childless women 0.99
00:07:15.400 have maternal instincts. We observe this even in the way little girls play versus boys play. 0.69
00:07:22.140 Men first experience paternal instincts once they have their own children. And typically,
00:07:26.480 these paternal instincts are only felt for their own children and no one else's just not true i
00:07:32.160 mean how many coaches become father-like figures for their students or they're like um the i don't 1.00
00:07:38.080 know what do you call it the athletes men are not nurturers men don't gush do you know how stupid 0.99
00:07:43.120 this sounds like i just can't men don't gush over kids in public yes that's performative 0.99
00:07:49.200 men don't have baby fever yes because men understand that it's a responsibility where women
00:07:54.720 use it to build their brand right if a man wants to possess a child for any reason other than it 1.00
00:07:59.260 being a product of his own lineage he is a predator mary you must be the fucking dumbest 1.00
00:08:05.200 woman alive that is some stupid shit to say um and you'd be talking about the feminist radical 1.00
00:08:10.760 gender abolitionist position to protest any of the above points this is this should explain why 1.00
00:08:16.800 a dad simulator game marketed to most childless men gives gives people the creeps to those denying
00:08:23.060 biology here would you hire a male babysitter would you meet that kid's kindergarten teacher 1.00
00:08:28.580 and it's a dude how do you feel about that mary women are the ones banging students not fathers 0.93
00:08:33.560 not the men right what do most women have that men don't are we beginning to understand each
00:08:38.860 other now men aren't women none of this is a knock against men it's just true it's like women will 0.69
00:08:43.200 say things that are offensive and completely a knock events against men and then pretend they 0.61
00:08:48.320 didn't right so i said she goes this is dumb because i said i would trust a male babysitter 1.00
00:08:54.140 over a female one and she goes that um she's saying that's stupid i'm like look women are 1.00
00:08:59.520 the ones more likely to be neglectful and abuse children so your comment was actually the one 1.00
00:09:06.080 that was stupid so i'm so excited to see you become a grandpa because i know you're gonna be 1.00
00:09:11.400 a damn good one and one day when i have a family of my own i'll tell them stories about you i'll 1.00
00:09:16.060 tell them how their grandpa made me laugh until I cried, how he taught me to never give up, and how 0.99
00:09:19.780 he loved me in a way that made me believe I could survive anything. Dad, I don't say it enough, but
00:09:24.460 I am so grateful for you, for your sacrifices, for your guidance, for the love you give so
00:09:28.900 selflessly. If I grow up to be even half the person you are, I'll know I've done something
00:09:33.720 right. You're my safe place, my teacher, my protector, and my hero, and no matter where
00:09:37.780 light takes me, I'll always be proud to call you my dad. All right, let's see who's next, this guy.
00:09:46.060 Which my dad is my dad in every lifetime over again.
00:09:49.800 Aww.
00:09:50.680 What is that?
00:09:52.080 You don't have to do that, baby girl.
00:09:54.560 Thank you, though.
00:09:58.700 Open it.
00:10:01.540 Whoa, pop.
00:10:03.460 Fireworks.
00:10:04.080 Yay.
00:10:04.780 Cool.
00:10:05.960 Do these tonight.
00:10:06.800 Absolutely.
00:10:08.620 Scratch up.
00:10:09.440 $30 scratch up.
00:10:10.800 Yes.
00:10:11.500 Like, you see what I mean?
00:10:13.340 They just get such joy out of their kids.
00:10:15.160 It's the cutest thing.
00:10:15.840 with some money you want some money i got dinner tonight thank you thank you nice car baby i
00:10:25.280 appreciate that i love you thank you for the car baby your awesome daughter candles i love my candles
00:10:41.840 absolutely i just took my finger in smells good though no way abby are you serious
00:11:00.400 and happy father again men just get such joy from their children and women
00:11:05.920 destroy their children men get joy women destroy i agree with jesse lee peterson women don't have
00:11:11.440 love to give so let me know what you guys think in the comments like the video subscribe to the
00:11:15.280 channel and i'll see you next time