Pearl - Fathers Create Joy While Mothers DESTROY!

00:00:00.160 Mary you must be the dumbest woman alive that is some stupid to say what up guys welcome to 1.00

00:00:06.400 my reaction series today we are reacting to the women that love their fathers there is this 1.00

00:00:12.480 narrative that women are just really great takers and mothers but when it really comes down to it

00:00:17.760 most women destroy their children rather than do anything productive with them so today we are 0.97

00:00:24.000 going to react to women who love their dads my dad and he's single-handedly the reason why my 1.00

00:00:29.760 expectations for men are so high that i'm repulsed by most of them okay so there are a lot of simp

00:00:35.600 dads i would say simp dads are actually they're funding a lot of this problem um simp men who

00:00:41.360 white men in partake who give um their daughters everything and just do everything for them and

00:00:45.760 require nothing two years ago my best friend randy passed away and before she'd passed she

00:00:50.400 had recently gotten these high top dior shoes that she was obsessed with and so my mom thought it'd

00:00:56.480 would be really sweet to get them for me so I could wear them to her service. So the shoes come

00:01:00.760 in the morning before Randy's service and they were huge. My mom didn't realize that they were

00:01:07.300 men's shoes and so she didn't size accordingly. But within five minutes of us realizing these

00:01:13.640 shoes weren't going to work, this man had bought a flight to Rodeo Drive to go get me the shoes

00:01:19.180 because there was no Dior store in Arizona at the time. He booked this flight like he was going to

00:01:23.060 fucking supermarket or something so he flies there that day and gets the shoes and then there's no 0.97

00:01:29.860 flights home that night so he drives home through the night so i can have them in the morning for 0.99

00:01:34.980 her service and the most insane part of the story to me is not the fact that he flew and spent

00:01:39.780 thousands of dollars to get me a pair of shoes but it's the fact that he's never brought it up again

00:01:45.060 yeah now okay two things one men do nice things and never throw it in your face women do nice

00:01:50.660 things and always throw it in your face number two now she's gonna expect um really not expectable

00:01:57.700 behavior for her level of hotness um from someone who's never gonna give it to her and a lot of

00:02:02.180 times this leaves us single the only time he brings up that day is because he brought my

00:02:06.900 little sister with him and she had had this shirley temple in a restaurant there that she had loved

00:02:12.660 and he took a picture of her drinking it and he shows people that picture saying this is the best

00:02:16.340 really temple that goose has ever had when you're looking for a partner keep this little story in

00:02:19.540 the back of your head would this person go above and beyond to make me feel better to fix one little

00:02:25.380 thing when they can't fix the big thing without expecting me to do anything in return so think

00:02:30.420 about it think does my partner want to do that for me would they do that for my kids if the answer is

00:02:36.340 no reevaluate this is my okay we're going to continue um that's that's a little bit too much

00:02:43.540 that's very nice of him to do right but expecting that is kind of a lot today the teacher told us

00:02:49.700 what would be the equivalent of a something a woman what would be the equivalent of a guy

00:02:54.100 saying that about something his mother did for him put it in the comments like something that

00:02:58.580 the mother went above and beyond for him that was kind of absurdly above and beyond do mothers even

00:03:03.700 go above and beyond for their sons i don't think so right about something we love more than

00:03:07.540 ourselves i was stumped so i asked around and heard others writing about their sports friends

00:03:11.780 or a passion they have. The first thing that came to my mind was God, but that was too obvious.

00:03:16.640 In the rubric, it had said, our writing must be something tangible, something we could lose,

00:03:21.080 something we cherish deeply and wouldn't be whole without. My mind directed me to my father,

00:03:25.640 the one man who has always been there for me, no matter the circumstance, no matter how far gone,

00:03:30.280 how disobedient, disrespectful, or dishonest, he has never left my side. For as long as I can

00:03:34.920 remember, it's always been my dad and I. When I was little, I swore I would beat him in an arm

00:03:38.700 wrestle and that was my only goal i still can't say i've fulfilled that goal but i can say i've

00:03:42.880 created new ones to be as intelligent patient and selfless as he is to become a replica of his

00:03:47.920 character most of all to make him proud i've heard many compliments in my life my favorite one stands

00:03:52.800 to be you are so much like your father what an honorable thing to be told my reason that's so

00:03:57.840 cute and my inspiration when i look at the person i'm becoming i see so much of him in me and the

00:04:03.020 way i treat people perform and present myself to others it is a direct reflection of the amazing

00:04:07.480 man i get to call dad he's the loudest person at every sporting event and the quietest when

00:04:11.560 listening to you speak oh my gosh you know what that reminds me of my dad to this day oh my gosh

00:04:16.040 i might cry thinking about this i started playing basketball and like sports because my dad um he was

00:04:21.960 my coach and my favorite childhood memories were literally my father coaching me and he could still

00:04:29.320 tell you about like every basketball game he could tell you the score like fifth grade champion he

00:04:35.480 He coached my sister to get like a sixth, I don't know, some sixth grade tournament medal.

00:04:41.360 And he talks about it to this day.

00:04:43.060 It's so cute.

00:04:44.380 He's held me through every hardship.

00:04:45.700 That's the thing.

00:04:46.400 Fathers get joy out of their kids. 1.00

00:04:48.240 Mothers use their kids for their own benefit.

00:04:51.360 Took me for ice cream to celebrate all of my biggest accomplishments.

00:04:54.260 My father is my first love.

00:04:55.840 And without a doubt will be my biggest heartbreak the day I have to say goodbye to him.

00:04:59.420 Who will hold me then?

00:05:00.520 My heart hurts for those who didn't get to grow up with their hero like I did.

00:05:03.660 I don't know what I would do without my dad, or more specifically, a dad, a present one who has been involved and loved me since day one.

00:05:10.500 When I'm older and have a family of my own, I will tell them stories about you.

00:05:13.820 I will tell them how their grandpa made me laugh until I cried, taught me to never give up, and how he loved me in a way that made me believe I could survive anything.

00:05:20.500 If I one day even become half the man my father is, I will probably be able to say I did something right.

00:05:25.680 So as I finish my paper, I'm asked about something I love more than myself.

00:05:29.060 What other answer could I have chosen than the very one who made me who I am today?

00:05:32.600 and i won't waste this page on a score or even a close friend because those things are temporary

00:05:37.320 but my father's love is permanent i will carry it everywhere i go and display the man he is in

00:05:41.920 everything i do so dear dad i wonder if you knew the only thing i wish to accomplish in this world

00:05:47.220 is to become just like you oh oh we have another one can't put no words how much i love you you're

00:05:54.360 one of the only people that no matter how many arguments we've had no matter how long we go

00:05:57.600 without talking even though we have to be aware that anything women put on the internet is

00:06:01.440 performative to be fair to be fair but these are kind of cute these are cute and i'm gonna enjoy

00:06:05.220 i'm gonna enjoy them as if they're real no matter how many tears we've caused each other i could

00:06:09.480 never dream of having a different dad from reading me bedtime stories to picking me up when i get my

00:06:13.760 heart broken you've always been there you understand me in a way no one else does you're

00:06:17.540 my best friend and my biggest heartbreak will be the day i have to say goodbye to you who's gonna

00:06:21.420 pick me up then you've inspired me to be the person i am today your kind heart your empathy

00:06:25.260 for others your patience and understanding i've learned more from you growing up than any textbook

00:06:29.520 could ever teach me you've shown me what it means to love without conditions to forgive without

00:06:33.160 keeping score to stand tall even when the world feels heavy you've taught me that strength isn't

00:06:37.620 ever about falling it's about getting back up again and again even when it hurts like hell

00:06:41.680 when i look at the person i'm becoming i see so much of you in me the way i treat people the way

00:06:46.560 i find humor in the hardest moments the way i care deeply even when it hurts i carry pieces of you 1.00

00:06:51.520 everywhere i go do you know what there is this girl on twitter today um mary morgan what an idiot 1.00

00:06:57.260 this woman. I'm going to rant about this because it's kind of relevant. I wasn't even planning on 1.00

00:07:03.100 doing this, but it's kind of relevant to the reaction I'm doing. So Mary Morgan, she says,

00:07:08.960 lots of, let's clear things up. Men do not have parental instincts the way that childless women 0.99

00:07:15.400 have maternal instincts. We observe this even in the way little girls play versus boys play. 0.69

00:07:22.140 Men first experience paternal instincts once they have their own children. And typically,

00:07:26.480 these paternal instincts are only felt for their own children and no one else's just not true i

00:07:32.160 mean how many coaches become father-like figures for their students or they're like um the i don't 1.00

00:07:38.080 know what do you call it the athletes men are not nurturers men don't gush do you know how stupid 0.99

00:07:43.120 this sounds like i just can't men don't gush over kids in public yes that's performative 0.99

00:07:49.200 men don't have baby fever yes because men understand that it's a responsibility where women

00:07:54.720 use it to build their brand right if a man wants to possess a child for any reason other than it 1.00

00:07:59.260 being a product of his own lineage he is a predator mary you must be the fucking dumbest 1.00

00:08:05.200 woman alive that is some stupid shit to say um and you'd be talking about the feminist radical 1.00

00:08:10.760 gender abolitionist position to protest any of the above points this is this should explain why 1.00

00:08:16.800 a dad simulator game marketed to most childless men gives gives people the creeps to those denying

00:08:23.060 biology here would you hire a male babysitter would you meet that kid's kindergarten teacher 1.00

00:08:28.580 and it's a dude how do you feel about that mary women are the ones banging students not fathers 0.93

00:08:33.560 not the men right what do most women have that men don't are we beginning to understand each

00:08:38.860 other now men aren't women none of this is a knock against men it's just true it's like women will 0.69

00:08:43.200 say things that are offensive and completely a knock events against men and then pretend they 0.61

00:08:48.320 didn't right so i said she goes this is dumb because i said i would trust a male babysitter 1.00

00:08:54.140 over a female one and she goes that um she's saying that's stupid i'm like look women are 1.00

00:08:59.520 the ones more likely to be neglectful and abuse children so your comment was actually the one 1.00

00:09:06.080 that was stupid so i'm so excited to see you become a grandpa because i know you're gonna be 1.00

00:09:11.400 a damn good one and one day when i have a family of my own i'll tell them stories about you i'll 1.00

00:09:16.060 tell them how their grandpa made me laugh until I cried, how he taught me to never give up, and how 0.99

00:09:19.780 he loved me in a way that made me believe I could survive anything. Dad, I don't say it enough, but

00:09:24.460 I am so grateful for you, for your sacrifices, for your guidance, for the love you give so

00:09:28.900 selflessly. If I grow up to be even half the person you are, I'll know I've done something

00:09:33.720 right. You're my safe place, my teacher, my protector, and my hero, and no matter where

00:09:37.780 light takes me, I'll always be proud to call you my dad. All right, let's see who's next, this guy.

00:09:46.060 Which my dad is my dad in every lifetime over again.

00:09:49.800 Aww.

00:09:50.680 What is that?

00:09:52.080 You don't have to do that, baby girl.

00:09:54.560 Thank you, though.

00:09:58.700 Open it.

00:10:01.540 Whoa, pop.

00:10:03.460 Fireworks.

00:10:04.080 Yay.

00:10:04.780 Cool.

00:10:05.960 Do these tonight.

00:10:06.800 Absolutely.

00:10:08.620 Scratch up.

00:10:09.440 $30 scratch up.

00:10:10.800 Yes.

00:10:11.500 Like, you see what I mean?

00:10:13.340 They just get such joy out of their kids.

00:10:15.160 It's the cutest thing.

00:10:15.840 with some money you want some money i got dinner tonight thank you thank you nice car baby i

00:10:25.280 appreciate that i love you thank you for the car baby your awesome daughter candles i love my candles

00:10:41.840 absolutely i just took my finger in smells good though no way abby are you serious

00:11:00.400 and happy father again men just get such joy from their children and women

00:11:05.920 destroy their children men get joy women destroy i agree with jesse lee peterson women don't have

00:11:11.440 love to give so let me know what you guys think in the comments like the video subscribe to the

00:11:15.280 channel and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 04, 2026

Fathers Create Joy While Mothers DESTROY!

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