Pearl - FEMINISM Isn't The Problem! It's Women's LACK Of ACCOUNTABILITY! ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 basically i used to watch the daily wire all the time i used to like love their stuff 0.91

00:00:04.560 and then i started doing real world interviews and i just thought they were either ignorant

00:00:11.360 or lying and i i didn't know not brett brett's like 20 something right but the older guys when 0.94

00:00:17.360 it came to marriage and family i just thought they cannot be this ignorant on the family court system

00:00:26.080 if they're over the age of say 35 there's no way you've made it to this old and don't see what's

00:00:34.180 going on but over and over again I just kept so I felt I felt like I was correcting them just saying

00:00:41.260 hey guys marriage is not a great deal for men and it would be weird because they would just respond 0.99

00:00:47.540 with this like morality argument so me saying that was in some way immoral and I wanted to bring up

00:00:54.320 some of the Daily Wire reactions to me.

00:00:57.200 It was so funny.

00:00:58.340 It's like I watched them in high school

00:01:00.000 and then I end up being reacted to by all of these guys.

00:01:05.260 I'm like, how did I end up here?

00:01:06.620 And I have a better understanding now

00:01:09.040 of a lot of these concepts.

00:01:10.560 So I wanted to, I'm actually glad I can re-react to this.

00:01:13.600 It's interesting how the meaning of red pill

00:01:15.000 has evolved over the last five years

00:01:17.640 to essentially now mean, I would say anti-woman.

00:01:20.940 They would say pro-man, but I think it's far beyond pro-man.

00:01:23.860 I think it's decidedly anti-woman in many ways.

00:01:26.280 And you see people who,

00:01:27.400 I think some of them are bad actors who are peddling.

00:01:30.380 But then you also see people like Pearly Things who,

00:01:33.440 I don't know Pearl.

00:01:34.460 I don't know if she's a bad actor or not.

00:01:35.920 I kind of get the sense that maybe she's just a naive person

00:01:38.880 being kind of dragged along out of half desire to be famous

00:01:42.140 and half probably hasn't read a book.

00:01:44.360 And half of that I can read.

00:01:45.200 I interviewed a thousand people.

00:01:47.080 I want you guys to go do that.

00:01:49.380 That's what I thought.

00:01:50.620 I was like, you gotta,

00:01:51.360 let me go see you interview a thousand people and anyways sorry i need to i need to not get

00:01:57.300 triggered relate to the other half you can also relate but i do think it's this interesting

00:02:02.160 question that that uh is harder to talk about and what is the role of men and women what is

00:02:07.140 the role of marriage in a society that has essentially turned its back on the concept

00:02:12.360 of marriage that is legally encoded anti anti-man policies and then abolish the definition of

00:02:20.360 marriage. Abolish the definition. It's not anti-men. They've abolished difference. They've

00:02:25.340 abolished the difference between men. The distinction itself. You know, I just went on

00:02:28.220 the whatever podcast for my, I think it's now my like 28th. And so this is where you get the

00:02:33.760 cognitive dissident. So he goes on whatever. Okay. And on whatever they put attractive women on that

00:02:40.880 podcast. He goes on all the time. You see what the market is offering. This isn't, this isn't

00:02:45.860 great for the guys. And you see the decisions that women as a collective are making. And it's

00:02:51.620 not really indicating that they want to be wives and mothers. And yet we're still saying that the

00:02:58.620 red pill is scaring men into not getting married. It's not. And I'm telling you guys, most men under

00:03:05.280 the age of 35 in the right circumstances would get married. I would say from my interviews,

00:03:11.820 most guys that are young would still give it a good go. They'll say, you know what? If I find

00:03:18.040 the right girl, she's hot enough, good looking enough, but I'll still give it a good go. It's 1.00

00:03:23.960 women that do not want to get married and have children. I found more men that wanted to be 1.00

00:03:30.700 fathers than women that wanted to be mothers. And I didn't come to this conclusion. Remember,

00:03:36.460 I had a very similar worldview to them to start, but it was like I couldn't ignore what was in front of me.

00:03:44.600 I couldn't interview woman after woman after woman that didn't know how to cook, didn't want to serve a man, 1.00

00:03:51.180 didn't want to obey her husband, and think to myself, wow, they're really making choices to want to do that. 0.97

00:03:57.300 But I might also burn in hell for eternity, and I thought about it for a moment, and then I thought, no, okay, I won't do it.

00:04:02.700 And so I went on, and I still have a rule, never give the audience what they want.

00:04:05.300 yeah exactly never like i was i went on a great michael knows about the treaty of augsburg

00:04:12.020 so i go on there and i just felt it's not these girls fault you see that do you see this is

00:04:17.460 exactly this is exactly what i'm saying it is never our fault ever ever ever ever and it drives me

00:04:27.220 crazy because and in the beginning right you kind of have empathy but again then i would just

00:04:34.180 interview woman man woman it's like do you feel bad for a guy that's broke at 35.

00:04:41.540 so why do we feel bad for like women if they're freezing their eggs at 35 like i mean you probably 1.00

00:04:47.140 made some bad decisions to get there but then you got michael noles coming in saying this isn't your

00:04:52.580 fault what are you talking about it's okay you know not everyone can be great at everything

00:04:57.940 sometimes you just take the L so I go on there and I just felt it's not these

00:05:03.820 girls fault all of them have some weird family situation none of that we live in

00:05:08.440 a culture that teaches them a ton of lies they don't they don't they haven't

00:05:11.440 but if a man turns 18 and has some weird family situation and commits a crime we

00:05:17.180 would all say that's your fault but it's always the get out of jail free card

00:05:21.460 every single time it drives me crazy no education even if they went to good

00:05:24.780 schools they have no education and the thing is you never know if they believe

00:05:27.700 this stuff because they really believe it and they just don't know or because

00:05:33.640 every content creator knows you need you make more money with a bigger female 1.00

00:05:38.200 audience women make eight out of ten consumer buying decisions everybody's

00:05:43.640 dollar except mine go to the audacity network comm that's the audacity

00:05:48.280 network comm and sign up for our monthly or yearly memberships to support our

00:05:54.520 documentaries uh shows producers and guests thank you they don't so i i felt okay let's just talk

00:06:01.800 about what's really going on here and they're victims of feminism and the red pill guys see 1.00

00:06:06.680 again okay so now that he's saying they're victims of feminism so they're victims not they're making 0.51

00:06:15.320 their adults making decisions and i have to point this out because i actually think it's important

00:06:21.240 for us women to know this. Because there's men that will lie to you and men that will be honest

00:06:27.540 with you. And personally, I would prefer someone that's honest over somebody that's hiding the

00:06:33.720 truth from me, whether intentionally or unintentionally, to shield my feelings.

00:06:40.280 And that's kind of what you're going to get here. Because it's not their fault. It's not you're an

00:06:46.020 adult you made that decision and these are the consequences it's it's not your fault as her

00:06:52.900 victims of feminism the irony about the red pill guys I sympathize with them a lot a lot of ways

00:06:57.740 the family courts are totally stacked against you and he's saying he doesn't even know what the red

00:07:03.120 pill is red pill is the study of human behavior and it came from forums online of men trying to

00:07:09.700 figure out solutions to their problems so they might say at 27 women find God 0.99

00:07:14.680 foods the culture promotes divorce and abolish the definition of marriage and

00:07:18.160 blah blah blah but the the red pill guys are feminists their their sense of men 1.00

00:07:24.280 and women is basically just it's just that men and women are interchangeable

00:07:28.300 yes and go around screw around you owe nothing to women if it's good for women 1.00

00:07:32.620 it's good for men and that's just a lie you know the fundamental unit of 0.98

00:07:37.120 society is actually not and so what these guys will do is and I don't know their personal stuff

00:07:44.580 but they in their eyes women are these angelic creatures that always want marriage family and 1.00

00:07:50.720 relationships but the experience of men that date women between 18 to 25 let's say and are selected

00:08:01.240 for short term, so like flings, that sort of thing, is that many women do not want that and 1.00

00:08:07.920 they want to be promiscuous. And so he'll still find a way to blame it on the men when oftentimes

00:08:14.940 that like if you go to a high-end celebrity show, right? If you go to like Drake, Justin Bieber,

00:08:22.560 any guy that's super sought after, you will see hundreds, thousands of women 1.00

00:08:28.880 throwing bras at them being super sexually forward right and it's not just one woman it's not a 0.98

00:08:37.300 couple it's significant enough that they can fill a stadium with women that want to do that 1.00

00:08:43.680 and are doing that right I'm not saying it's all but it's significant enough so are those women

00:08:49.660 really victims right is it they just wanted marriage and relationships and they just wanted

00:08:55.620 to be wives? And is it Drake's fault if he, or whatever celebrity it is? And I'm using a

00:09:02.200 celebrity as an example, but there's still a top guy at the college, right? Or a top guy

00:09:07.840 at work that the women go after. So how is it his fault if the women are asking to sleep around? 1.00

00:09:18.280 And the thing is, they blame men for it, but most men don't even have the option to sleep around. 0.51

00:09:24.600 it's i mean according to statistics it's maybe 10 percent of men but 80 percent of women maybe

00:09:31.220 20 percent 30 percent if you're generous for the men so who's responsible right the individual

00:09:37.580 right i love individual rights it's good to be an individual the unit the fundamental unit of

00:09:42.320 society is the family it's men and women together who have a love that becomes so real that you'll

00:09:47.520 make more people to have to have an atom you have to have a proton and an electron and this is

00:09:52.160 another thing people don't aren't aware that arranged marriages was the way for most history

00:09:58.320 so it never really was about love romantic love um was the downfall of marriage i mean birth

00:10:07.060 control contribute like it wasn't just one thing but before romantic love happened it was two

00:10:15.540 families got together and they exchanged goods and then they said it depends on the culture right

00:10:21.520 sometimes the bride would give money sometimes the groom would give money but they would come

00:10:27.220 up with some sort of arrangement they would say your son's 18 my daughter's 18 our families get

00:10:33.060 along let's do this thing there wasn't really love that came later right all right so it's like a man

00:10:40.820 is a proton like very important but essentially nothing until it's you have adam you need to have

00:10:46.460 an eve that's where i thought he was going that's where i thought he was going to go for the steve

00:10:51.140 thing and yeah that's why not steve i've always uh two protons and adam does not make i dare say

00:10:59.220 i've always with the red pill you know and i've and i've been in many uh altercations with with

00:11:04.020 the red i've run afoul the red pill crowd many times talking about these issues and the question

00:11:08.580 i've always had for them that they've never answered and i'd love to hear an answer from

00:11:11.700 any of them is that you know because i agree with 95 of their criticisms uh as you point

00:11:17.140 out the family courts and it's how it's stacked against men and so on and so forth but

00:11:21.140 what's the other option like okay we agree with all that so then men should just so the way they

00:11:27.800 view men as a collective and i get a lot of flack for saying that i don't like to tell men what to

00:11:36.960 do the way i see it is men have so many women in their lives telling them what to do they have their

00:11:44.560 mom telling them what to do they have their wife or their girlfriend telling them what to do

00:11:50.240 I mean, who the hell am I? If you guys want to go get married to some big old chick named Shirley, 1.00

00:11:58.740 who am I to tell you not to? It's your life. You got one life to live. If you want to go have 10

00:12:03.520 kids and Daily Wire, I mean, go ahead. I mean, if you got, don't, don't make your decision because

00:12:10.040 of some random chick woman on the internet. I'm just, I'm just a random woman, but they view men 0.74

00:12:15.620 as a collective, and they view everybody as a movement. So they think, oh, we should all make

00:12:21.540 these decisions together. But I don't know you people. I mean, they don't know you. So wouldn't

00:12:26.840 you think that every man should look at his circumstances and decide for himself? I mean,

00:12:31.740 different men have different options. The options of an engineer in Oklahoma is going to be different

00:12:40.060 than a a bartender in mexico i don't know you guys so a lot of times they view men as a

00:12:48.220 collective be alone and and give up on their on their bloodline and die and their bloodline is

00:12:54.300 extinguished like what you are suggesting is despair you you are telling men men are already

00:12:59.900 feeling despair they're feeling meaninglessness they're feeling lost they're feeling alone

00:13:04.540 uh they're feeling like everything's stacked against them and so your answer to them is

00:13:08.060 yeah well just that that's the be in despair and then die well and the question is what what is

00:13:13.660 different when you're married and when you're not married what's different when you're living

00:13:18.620 together and when you're married what's the difference the difference is that when she gets

00:13:23.660 married then she has leverage granted i i think they always have leverage a few kids she has 1.00

00:13:29.020 leverage but that's why you hear a lot of men say after marriage the woman changes or after children

00:13:37.180 the woman changes because you get to see who she truly is because now she has leverage that it's 1.00

00:13:44.400 much more difficult for you to leave and my point is that that's just that's just not an okay answer

00:13:49.960 that can't be the answer and have lots and lots of sex well but that's that's sterile that's what 1.00

00:13:53.900 you said although not as much as a married man but this is but this is what you were saying is

00:13:57.580 that that's how it turns to the anti-woman because it's not about the despair the way that you find

00:14:01.700 meaning is then by disparaging the people who have victimized you right in any victim victimizer

00:14:06.680 sort of narrative, when there is no actual victim and victimizer and it has to be sort of

00:14:13.120 put together artificially, then the person who self-perceives as the victim is very likely to

00:14:18.140 then strike out at the person who they perceive as the victimizer. And so for a lot of the red 0.69

00:14:22.100 pill men who perceive the woman, the great woman, as the victimizer, the idea is that you lash out 1.00

00:14:27.280 at women by having lots of sex with random girls and basically treating them like trash. 0.99

00:14:32.060 And it's okay because they said that it's okay with them. But I've never understood the argument 1.00

00:14:35.580 that it relieves you of responsibility. So the reason he thinks this is because he thinks that

00:14:40.280 those women wanted relationships. So he's thinking, well, you just hooked up with them

00:14:46.620 and then you didn't talk to them again. Well, they wanted you to talk to them. Do you know

00:14:50.460 how many guys I've heard say that they would hook up with women and the women didn't want 0.98

00:14:57.240 relationships? But most men have never been in that position, right? I mean, it's like 10%,

00:15:03.080 20 percent of men statistically or they get married before they ever are which is fine i'm

00:15:08.120 not i'm not saying one's right one's wrong but it's not uncommon for treating a woman well just

00:15:14.200 because the woman has consented to be treated badly but but this he's right about the despair

00:15:18.040 this is permeating the right it permeates the politics of the right this the idea is basically

00:15:22.760 it's all over they think of people basically been like you and me as sitting on an ice flow kind of

00:15:28.040 floating out with as the ice you know melts away because we're sitting around thinking about civil

00:15:33.240 debate and you know constitutional governance and they think that's all over now and and they're all

00:15:39.320 their despair is permeates the right and i listen i listen to a lot of these young guys and they're

00:15:44.520 talking about bringing back monarchy they're talking about you know they're yeah they're

00:15:47.800 king i know you look what i didn't say anything i didn't say anything yeah you know but you had

00:15:52.760 monarchy it's not that great you know it actually isn't you you know if you think if you think our

00:15:56.920 elections are bad when you see the beheadings you know because that's how most of the kings

00:16:01.240 that's fine i'm not saying we need an imam or a sheikh what is a no marriage thing i feel like

00:16:09.400 i'm pretty in there oh yeah oh yeah no it's a big thing i'm missing like i feel like i totally missed

00:16:13.320 this yeah that's their whole position they think that what men are what men are anti-marriage

00:16:19.160 well yeah that's why they shouldn't be you know but it's he's right this is true all the guys that

00:16:23.800 pop up in our twitter feed but tell me i'm actually missing this i didn't know the marriage

00:16:27.480 thing because i'm very pro-marriage pearl pearl made that argument yes okay men literally men

00:16:31.640 should not get married i never they would always mischaracterize what i said i said it's objectively

00:16:38.520 an unfavorable deal to men but if you find a hot chick and you want to sorry a hot woman and you 1.00

00:16:45.720 want to go do it go do it but most women aren't opting for that you guys get the idea so again 0.98

00:16:52.840 they view it as that the women want to be married and they want to be in 0.99

00:16:58.340 relationships and that's what they want but their actions do not indicate that.

Pearl - September 23, 2024

FEMINISM Isn't The Problem! It's Women's LACK Of ACCOUNTABILITY! ｜ Pearl Daily

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