Pearl - September 23, 2024FEMINISM Isn't The Problem! It's Women's LACK Of ACCOUNTABILITY! ｜ Pearl Daily
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In this episode, I talk about the role of marriage in a society that has essentially turned its back on the concept of marriage, and why I think most men under the age of 35 in the right circumstances would be willing to get married.
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basically i used to watch the daily wire all the time i used to like love their stuff
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and then i started doing real world interviews and i just thought they were either ignorant
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or lying and i i didn't know not brett brett's like 20 something right but the older guys when
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it came to marriage and family i just thought they cannot be this ignorant on the family court system
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if they're over the age of say 35 there's no way you've made it to this old and don't see what's
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going on but over and over again I just kept so I felt I felt like I was correcting them just saying
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hey guys marriage is not a great deal for men and it would be weird because they would just respond
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with this like morality argument so me saying that was in some way immoral and I wanted to bring up
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and then I end up being reacted to by all of these guys.
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So I wanted to, I'm actually glad I can re-react to this.
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to essentially now mean, I would say anti-woman.
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They would say pro-man, but I think it's far beyond pro-man.
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I think it's decidedly anti-woman in many ways.
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I think some of them are bad actors who are peddling.
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But then you also see people like Pearly Things who,
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I kind of get the sense that maybe she's just a naive person
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being kind of dragged along out of half desire to be famous
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let me go see you interview a thousand people and anyways sorry i need to i need to not get
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triggered relate to the other half you can also relate but i do think it's this interesting
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question that that uh is harder to talk about and what is the role of men and women what is
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the role of marriage in a society that has essentially turned its back on the concept
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of marriage that is legally encoded anti anti-man policies and then abolish the definition of
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marriage. Abolish the definition. It's not anti-men. They've abolished difference. They've
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abolished the difference between men. The distinction itself. You know, I just went on
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the whatever podcast for my, I think it's now my like 28th. And so this is where you get the
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cognitive dissident. So he goes on whatever. Okay. And on whatever they put attractive women on that
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podcast. He goes on all the time. You see what the market is offering. This isn't, this isn't
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great for the guys. And you see the decisions that women as a collective are making. And it's
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not really indicating that they want to be wives and mothers. And yet we're still saying that the
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red pill is scaring men into not getting married. It's not. And I'm telling you guys, most men under
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the age of 35 in the right circumstances would get married. I would say from my interviews,
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most guys that are young would still give it a good go. They'll say, you know what? If I find
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the right girl, she's hot enough, good looking enough, but I'll still give it a good go. It's
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women that do not want to get married and have children. I found more men that wanted to be
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fathers than women that wanted to be mothers. And I didn't come to this conclusion. Remember,
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I had a very similar worldview to them to start, but it was like I couldn't ignore what was in front of me.
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I couldn't interview woman after woman after woman that didn't know how to cook, didn't want to serve a man,
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didn't want to obey her husband, and think to myself, wow, they're really making choices to want to do that.
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But I might also burn in hell for eternity, and I thought about it for a moment, and then I thought, no, okay, I won't do it.
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And so I went on, and I still have a rule, never give the audience what they want.
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yeah exactly never like i was i went on a great michael knows about the treaty of augsburg
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so i go on there and i just felt it's not these girls fault you see that do you see this is
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exactly this is exactly what i'm saying it is never our fault ever ever ever ever and it drives me
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crazy because and in the beginning right you kind of have empathy but again then i would just
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interview woman man woman it's like do you feel bad for a guy that's broke at 35.
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so why do we feel bad for like women if they're freezing their eggs at 35 like i mean you probably
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made some bad decisions to get there but then you got michael noles coming in saying this isn't your
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fault what are you talking about it's okay you know not everyone can be great at everything
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sometimes you just take the L so I go on there and I just felt it's not these
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girls fault all of them have some weird family situation none of that we live in
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a culture that teaches them a ton of lies they don't they don't they haven't
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but if a man turns 18 and has some weird family situation and commits a crime we
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would all say that's your fault but it's always the get out of jail free card
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every single time it drives me crazy no education even if they went to good
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schools they have no education and the thing is you never know if they believe
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this stuff because they really believe it and they just don't know or because
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every content creator knows you need you make more money with a bigger female
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audience women make eight out of ten consumer buying decisions everybody's
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dollar except mine go to the audacity network comm that's the audacity
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network comm and sign up for our monthly or yearly memberships to support our
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documentaries uh shows producers and guests thank you they don't so i i felt okay let's just talk
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about what's really going on here and they're victims of feminism and the red pill guys see
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again okay so now that he's saying they're victims of feminism so they're victims not they're making
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their adults making decisions and i have to point this out because i actually think it's important
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for us women to know this. Because there's men that will lie to you and men that will be honest
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with you. And personally, I would prefer someone that's honest over somebody that's hiding the
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truth from me, whether intentionally or unintentionally, to shield my feelings.
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And that's kind of what you're going to get here. Because it's not their fault. It's not you're an
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adult you made that decision and these are the consequences it's it's not your fault as her
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victims of feminism the irony about the red pill guys I sympathize with them a lot a lot of ways
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the family courts are totally stacked against you and he's saying he doesn't even know what the red
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pill is red pill is the study of human behavior and it came from forums online of men trying to
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figure out solutions to their problems so they might say at 27 women find God
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foods the culture promotes divorce and abolish the definition of marriage and
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blah blah blah but the the red pill guys are feminists their their sense of men
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and women is basically just it's just that men and women are interchangeable
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yes and go around screw around you owe nothing to women if it's good for women
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it's good for men and that's just a lie you know the fundamental unit of
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society is actually not and so what these guys will do is and I don't know their personal stuff
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but they in their eyes women are these angelic creatures that always want marriage family and
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relationships but the experience of men that date women between 18 to 25 let's say and are selected
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for short term, so like flings, that sort of thing, is that many women do not want that and
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they want to be promiscuous. And so he'll still find a way to blame it on the men when oftentimes
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that like if you go to a high-end celebrity show, right? If you go to like Drake, Justin Bieber,
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any guy that's super sought after, you will see hundreds, thousands of women
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throwing bras at them being super sexually forward right and it's not just one woman it's not a
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couple it's significant enough that they can fill a stadium with women that want to do that
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and are doing that right I'm not saying it's all but it's significant enough so are those women
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really victims right is it they just wanted marriage and relationships and they just wanted
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to be wives? And is it Drake's fault if he, or whatever celebrity it is? And I'm using a
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celebrity as an example, but there's still a top guy at the college, right? Or a top guy
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at work that the women go after. So how is it his fault if the women are asking to sleep around?
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And the thing is, they blame men for it, but most men don't even have the option to sleep around.
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it's i mean according to statistics it's maybe 10 percent of men but 80 percent of women maybe
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20 percent 30 percent if you're generous for the men so who's responsible right the individual
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right i love individual rights it's good to be an individual the unit the fundamental unit of
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society is the family it's men and women together who have a love that becomes so real that you'll
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make more people to have to have an atom you have to have a proton and an electron and this is
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another thing people don't aren't aware that arranged marriages was the way for most history
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so it never really was about love romantic love um was the downfall of marriage i mean birth
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control contribute like it wasn't just one thing but before romantic love happened it was two
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families got together and they exchanged goods and then they said it depends on the culture right
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sometimes the bride would give money sometimes the groom would give money but they would come
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up with some sort of arrangement they would say your son's 18 my daughter's 18 our families get
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along let's do this thing there wasn't really love that came later right all right so it's like a man
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is a proton like very important but essentially nothing until it's you have adam you need to have
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an eve that's where i thought he was going that's where i thought he was going to go for the steve
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thing and yeah that's why not steve i've always uh two protons and adam does not make i dare say
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i've always with the red pill you know and i've and i've been in many uh altercations with with
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the red i've run afoul the red pill crowd many times talking about these issues and the question
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i've always had for them that they've never answered and i'd love to hear an answer from
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any of them is that you know because i agree with 95 of their criticisms uh as you point
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out the family courts and it's how it's stacked against men and so on and so forth but
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what's the other option like okay we agree with all that so then men should just so the way they
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view men as a collective and i get a lot of flack for saying that i don't like to tell men what to
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do the way i see it is men have so many women in their lives telling them what to do they have their
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mom telling them what to do they have their wife or their girlfriend telling them what to do
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I mean, who the hell am I? If you guys want to go get married to some big old chick named Shirley,
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who am I to tell you not to? It's your life. You got one life to live. If you want to go have 10
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kids and Daily Wire, I mean, go ahead. I mean, if you got, don't, don't make your decision because
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of some random chick woman on the internet. I'm just, I'm just a random woman, but they view men
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as a collective, and they view everybody as a movement. So they think, oh, we should all make
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these decisions together. But I don't know you people. I mean, they don't know you. So wouldn't
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you think that every man should look at his circumstances and decide for himself? I mean,
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different men have different options. The options of an engineer in Oklahoma is going to be different
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than a a bartender in mexico i don't know you guys so a lot of times they view men as a
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collective be alone and and give up on their on their bloodline and die and their bloodline is
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extinguished like what you are suggesting is despair you you are telling men men are already
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feeling despair they're feeling meaninglessness they're feeling lost they're feeling alone
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uh they're feeling like everything's stacked against them and so your answer to them is
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yeah well just that that's the be in despair and then die well and the question is what what is
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different when you're married and when you're not married what's different when you're living
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together and when you're married what's the difference the difference is that when she gets
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married then she has leverage granted i i think they always have leverage a few kids she has
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leverage but that's why you hear a lot of men say after marriage the woman changes or after children
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the woman changes because you get to see who she truly is because now she has leverage that it's
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much more difficult for you to leave and my point is that that's just that's just not an okay answer
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that can't be the answer and have lots and lots of sex well but that's that's sterile that's what
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you said although not as much as a married man but this is but this is what you were saying is
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that that's how it turns to the anti-woman because it's not about the despair the way that you find
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meaning is then by disparaging the people who have victimized you right in any victim victimizer
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sort of narrative, when there is no actual victim and victimizer and it has to be sort of
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put together artificially, then the person who self-perceives as the victim is very likely to
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then strike out at the person who they perceive as the victimizer. And so for a lot of the red
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pill men who perceive the woman, the great woman, as the victimizer, the idea is that you lash out
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at women by having lots of sex with random girls and basically treating them like trash.
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And it's okay because they said that it's okay with them. But I've never understood the argument
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that it relieves you of responsibility. So the reason he thinks this is because he thinks that
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those women wanted relationships. So he's thinking, well, you just hooked up with them
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and then you didn't talk to them again. Well, they wanted you to talk to them. Do you know
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how many guys I've heard say that they would hook up with women and the women didn't want
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relationships? But most men have never been in that position, right? I mean, it's like 10%,
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20 percent of men statistically or they get married before they ever are which is fine i'm
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not i'm not saying one's right one's wrong but it's not uncommon for treating a woman well just
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because the woman has consented to be treated badly but but this he's right about the despair
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this is permeating the right it permeates the politics of the right this the idea is basically
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it's all over they think of people basically been like you and me as sitting on an ice flow kind of
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floating out with as the ice you know melts away because we're sitting around thinking about civil
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debate and you know constitutional governance and they think that's all over now and and they're all
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their despair is permeates the right and i listen i listen to a lot of these young guys and they're
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talking about bringing back monarchy they're talking about you know they're yeah they're
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king i know you look what i didn't say anything i didn't say anything yeah you know but you had
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monarchy it's not that great you know it actually isn't you you know if you think if you think our
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elections are bad when you see the beheadings you know because that's how most of the kings
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that's fine i'm not saying we need an imam or a sheikh what is a no marriage thing i feel like
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i'm pretty in there oh yeah oh yeah no it's a big thing i'm missing like i feel like i totally missed
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this yeah that's their whole position they think that what men are what men are anti-marriage
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well yeah that's why they shouldn't be you know but it's he's right this is true all the guys that
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pop up in our twitter feed but tell me i'm actually missing this i didn't know the marriage
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thing because i'm very pro-marriage pearl pearl made that argument yes okay men literally men
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should not get married i never they would always mischaracterize what i said i said it's objectively
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an unfavorable deal to men but if you find a hot chick and you want to sorry a hot woman and you
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want to go do it go do it but most women aren't opting for that you guys get the idea so again
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they view it as that the women want to be married and they want to be in
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relationships and that's what they want but their actions do not indicate that.