Pearl - Feminist Says Women Aren’t Responsible For Picking TERRIBLE Men!

00:00:00.000 So if anything, I'm the one that's feminist.

00:00:02.420 I'm the one that's pro-woman here. 1.00

00:00:03.800 Because I'm saying, ladies, you don't have to let a guy beat your ass. 1.00

00:00:08.180 Get out of there. 1.00

00:00:08.840 Call the cops. 1.00

00:00:09.980 Postpartum psychosis is an illness that only affects women.

00:00:15.580 Are you trying to say that this illness should not be admissible in court

00:00:18.480 just because it doesn't affect men?

00:00:20.180 Yes. 1.00

00:00:21.060 Giving an excuse to women that are committing murder. 1.00

00:00:23.920 Feminists never give excuses for men that commit rape, right?

00:00:27.180 It's not a man is still responsible, even if he has higher testosterone, even if he was pressure, whatever excuse they give, they give, they would never have it.

00:00:37.220 And I agree they shouldn't. 0.55

00:00:38.780 However, when it comes to women committing a crime, every excuse possible is always thrown in the book. 1.00

00:00:45.060 I want feminists to really actually be equal, equal prison time, equal sentencing and being responsible adults. 1.00

00:00:53.140 OK, so the most likely person to kill a kid is the mother. 0.83

00:00:56.300 So the reason I think this is a few reasons. 0.99

00:00:58.280 I start with women's words. 1.00

00:00:59.460 And women on TikTok right now are literally making videos talking about how they want to kill their kids. 0.99

00:01:05.740 So I do have to believe what women say with their mouths, and women are saying that on TikTok. 1.00

00:01:11.120 The second reason is that women are the most likely ones to abort the kids. 1.00

00:01:14.740 So the most dangerous place a woman can be is in the mother's womb.

00:01:17.280 On top of that, when there's infanticide and police do kill a child or find a kid that's dead within the first year of life, 0.99

00:01:25.280 I think there's nothing more evil than killing the innocent.

00:01:27.900 Serial killers didn't even, they don't even kill kids for the most part, male serial killers. 0.75

00:01:33.000 So women are the most likely ones to abuse, to kill kids even after birth. 0.94

00:01:39.360 On top of that, I still have to believe what women say, which is the Lindsay Clancy case. 1.00

00:01:43.820 Women are openly fighting for women to have the right to kill their kid after birth. 0.99

00:01:48.000 I understand that she was on drugs and maybe they make excuses for it, but that's not nurturing. 1.00

00:01:52.060 And then on top of that, women are also more likely to put their kids in positions to be abused. 0.88

00:01:58.340 Stepfathers are more likely to abuse kids at 8.5 times higher the rate. 1.00

00:02:02.380 That's a choice the woman makes. 0.95

00:02:04.080 So basically she's saying because I want something, I'm going to put my kid at a disadvantage. 1.00

00:02:09.160 That's terrible motherhood. 0.62

00:02:10.960 And then single motherhoods have the highest rates of physical abuse by far. 1.00

00:02:15.640 I would agree that women are the most likely to have an abortion since they're the only ones to be able to have an abortion.

00:02:22.060 I also would agree that in infancy that is true when it comes to mothers most likely being the perpetrators of their children's deaths. 0.78

00:02:30.060 As soon as you get into being teenagers, it is overwhelmingly the fathers actually.

00:02:36.240 And as we are aware, mothers spend much more time caretaking their children. 0.91

00:02:40.820 If we want to look at the ratio of caretaking to harm, it actually points in the other direction. 0.87

00:02:47.320 Okay, so the issue with those statistics is they include stepdads.

00:02:50.680 so that's incorrect i'm i'm i'm the issue is you include stepdads in the or um family members but

00:02:58.440 when it's biological parents the mother is more likely to kill the kid i mean you can maybe slice

00:03:02.800 the data in one way or another um but what does it say yeah go ahead all right so it's saying that

00:03:09.680 it's too broad and misleading the u.s international data uh so mothers are more common perpetrators

00:03:16.020 for infants but fathers and other males are more common and other males in other males yeah so

00:03:21.540 it includes yeah mothers committed just over half of parental homicides overall and about 71.7 percent

00:03:31.620 of parental homicides of children under one year but other research on u.s child homicide shows

00:03:37.460 fathers and other male perpetrators which i guess could be stepfathers dominate uh many older age

00:03:44.660 groups. Yeah. And like I said before, if you look at the ratio of strictly caretaking to harm,

00:03:49.900 it actually does end up pointing in the other direction. Yeah, but that's an excuse. Just

00:03:53.440 because you're with the kid more, it doesn't give you an excuse to kill it. That's actually how

00:03:56.840 statistics work though, isn't it? And the other issue is if your premise was right, then they've

00:04:01.140 taken data from the CDC the last 50 years. And you would see mothers have spent less time with

00:04:06.420 their kids in the last 50 years. We have left stay at home moms. And what you would see based 0.99

00:04:11.720 on that is fathers spend more time with their kids than they have in the past so is the argument

00:04:16.200 so mothers are spending less time with their children or that they're more like no if you're

00:04:20.040 if you're saying it's be if you're saying it's because of the proximity then you would see the

00:04:25.240 abuse rates no be similar to how much time that mothers are spending with their kids that's what

00:04:29.960 i'm saying it is that's why mothers no it's it's not mothers spend more time caretaking their

00:04:34.520 children and that's why they end up and the other factor because of infancy postpartum psychosis

00:04:40.600 directly overlaps with the period of infancy and i'm sure if we took out that percentage it would

00:04:46.180 be like way less but the issue is abuse has gone up as mothers have spent time less time with kids

00:04:52.040 what's where the cdc they've done 50 years of research on the cdc uh rachel wilson breaks it

00:04:58.300 down and she has a whole sub stack article on it i'm waiting to see that fact check come up because 0.99

00:05:02.340 we know women spend more time i can actually show it if you look up rachel wilson's sub stack on 0.94

00:05:06.460 child abuse that's where i got it from a sub she breaks it no well no it's but it's quoting

00:05:10.360 it's quoting data from the cdc though okay so yeah that's the so your premise can't be right

00:05:16.600 i disagree i think that well you can disagree but it's it's not correct okay yeah so it's saying

00:05:21.440 it's contradicted you're saying that the cdc comment so basically uh it's saying that it's

00:05:27.460 misleading because so you're incorrect let me see hang on because less mothers is missing if it

00:05:34.280 refers to continuous cdc research so it's inconclusive that thought yeah but if you look

00:05:40.620 up the abuse stats though kids are more abused now than they were in the past as mothers have

00:05:46.140 spent less time with kids because there's more um so you just said mothers have spent less time

00:05:50.720 with their kids and abuse rates have gone up so that means who's abusing their children if it's

00:05:54.640 what do you well the point are you trying to make like well i told you it's mothers and stepfathers

00:06:00.300 but biologically the father yeah stepfather is unfortunately still not the one that's response

00:06:05.360 like the mother's not responsible when a stepfather commits yes she is because you're

00:06:08.700 responsible for who you bring into your kid's life I think it's partially responsible but I

00:06:12.760 would I would say that's a separate category it's not attached to mothers otherwise them choosing

00:06:16.900 their fathers it's also the mother's fault then just because they chose the father that harmed 0.53

00:06:21.220 their child I totally agree so it's always the woman's fault in your mind the reason because you 0.97

00:06:25.460 the reason you have the reason to the reason is because you have the option to opt out

00:06:29.460 no you don't you're you're very misinformed about abuse clearly domestic violence things like that

00:06:34.660 you don't understand the what do i not understand there's something there's a process that happens

00:06:40.100 in which a person literally becomes physically addicted to a relationship and they cannot leave

00:06:44.980 it and not to mention coercive control taking away a woman's income these all of all these other

00:06:50.980 things prevent you act like right but what is what's stopping you from getting a job what laws

00:06:56.660 in place getting a job an abusive partner that prevents you from getting what's stopping you 0.98

00:07:00.500 from going to the police an abusive partner that convinces you that all cops are bastards that 0.95

00:07:05.380 convinces you right but you don't have to believe him so that's a choice you there's actually no 0.97

00:07:10.420 choice when it comes to you're groomed as children for abusive relationships and then as an adult

00:07:15.860 probably by the mothers yeah but because here's the thing i think i'm more feminist than a lot 1.00

00:07:20.820 lot of feminist women to be honest because i think i think that women are responsible for your

00:07:26.220 choices and you want to blame somebody else and i say blame yourself and i think that's the most 0.99

00:07:31.320 feminist thing i can say i think it's beautiful when people actually have the resources and the

00:07:36.060 knowledge to get out of relationships like that but i'm not going to blame what resources i'm not 1.00

00:07:40.120 going to blame the victim what in those situations like you are and you just think it's so easy to 0.97

00:07:46.120 what resources do you need there's there's so many like i said women's shelters in every city

00:07:51.400 um and there's a lot of free resources for women that are abuse you can get housing free

00:07:56.040 if you're in an abusive relationship if you live in a town with 200 people you probably don't have

00:08:00.600 a domestic violence shelter next to you pearl um no if you're a man you don't have a domestic 0.99

00:08:05.080 violence shelter next to you because they're all made for women and even though the majority of 0.69

00:08:08.920 violence is perpetrated by which sexed pearl which women because women murder and a quarter of women 0.87

00:08:15.000 have murdered their kid all right let's fact check that which sex which sex commits a majority of 0.97

00:08:21.720 violent crimes let's do murder and rape well if we include abortion for murder that's an eighth 0.99

00:08:27.160 of the world nobody with a logical brain is going to consider abortion murder unless you're a

00:08:31.240 fundamentalist christian or someone who's just trying to say it for clout i'm not religious

00:08:36.360 you really think it's abortion i'm not religious about what point then pearl i'm curious

00:08:40.920 the second conception do you know what we could even do three months i would actually make a deal

00:08:45.240 with the three months if i if i if i did made a deal no no if i made a deal with the pro

00:08:50.840 i'm all about we can come to a middle ground um morally i whatever but we i could make a deal with

00:08:55.800 the pro as pro-life with the pro choice and say hey let's stop arguing and just cut it at three

00:09:00.840 months and let's let's that's a deal totally even if we go off of that because abortion's free up to

00:09:06.200 six months in the uk um and it's a free up to six months women have still murdered more than men

00:09:11.720 even if we consider it like three to if we include the later term abortion once again i'm not going

00:09:16.280 to consider that murder i'm going to consider it ending a clump of cells in my body that is not

00:09:21.320 consciousness when would you consider it murder i think it depends on the situation i don't think

00:09:25.960 there's a hard number it's gotta it's gotta be on a fact i think i think laws aren't necessarily just

00:09:31.480 hard i think if they are women's but that's how it's there can be different circumstances in which

00:09:36.200 it could happen at a later date i think that's a reasonable compromise don't you uh no okay i think

00:09:43.240 three months is enough time you don't think if the what the woman's the mother's life is at risk that

00:09:48.120 there should ever be an abortion i think i want to encourage more women to be responsible adults 0.85

00:09:52.200 and be responsible for your honestly i think we should get out iud's at 14. i think i think i'm 0.82

00:09:57.720 more feminist than than women i think i'm more feminist than feminists today definition of 0.96

00:10:02.600 feminism is believing in equality so if we're going to go off what feminists say the definition 0.57

00:10:07.160 is i'm all about being equal right so if you're going to be equal then be equal be responsible 0.82

00:10:11.480 for your choices if you choose to be in an abusive relationship you made that choice nobody you got 0.96

00:10:16.360 hinged there's tinder you're an ignorant person would say you chose to be in an an abusive 0.94

00:10:21.560 relationship that's called manipulation responsible there's coercion and that's what i want to 1.00

00:10:26.680 I want to see more women. 1.00

00:10:28.580 I think you should educate yourself about this if you're going to be a good feminist. 1.00

00:10:31.620 And you're such a big. 0.99

00:10:32.120 I'm being such a great feminist. 0.97

00:10:33.180 You are such a big voice. 0.69

00:10:34.780 Honestly, you do have a big impact.

00:10:36.820 I'm genuinely serious.

00:10:37.940 If you educated just a little bit about the topic of domestic violence, because it does affect so many people.

00:10:43.520 I don't think it's a choice.

00:10:44.940 I don't think a man that's in an abusive situation chose it.

00:10:47.540 And I don't think a woman that's in an abusive situation chose it.

00:10:50.300 Legally, can you call the cops on someone abusing you?

00:10:55.320 Can you?

00:10:55.680 Yes.

00:10:56.280 Okay. 1.00

00:10:56.680 there's nothing stopping you ladies really put on your big girl put on your big girl pants 1.00

00:11:01.880 and call the cops as you look at feminists fought for all this freedom i'm saying here it is you 1.00

00:11:07.480 have feminism you guys won yeah alimony child support you got it you got you got wait let me 1.00

00:11:13.000 let me finish let me finish the cops are domestic let me let me let me let me let me let me finish 0.63

00:11:18.680 so i'm saying feminism won you got all this freedom you have the freedom to call the cops 1.00

00:11:22.600 you have the freedom to leave any situation you want and still have the government pay for it 0.52

00:11:26.200 there's a bunch of handouts um you have the freedom to get on birth control you have the

00:11:29.800 freedom to get an iud get an abortion and i'm saying use it and you're responsible for what

00:11:33.480 you choose but what you guys want to do or maybe not in general they want to say i made this choice

00:11:39.400 and i'm not responsible for it no you are pick one pick one good i don't think that people that

00:11:45.960 get in abusive situations chose that i think a lot of the time they ended up in a situation

00:11:51.960 outside of their control and someone is trying to take advantage of them and harm them and once

00:11:58.040 again my focus is on why do people in the first place feel entitled to control and abuse others

00:12:05.240 your focus seems to be on victims just not leaving i want to talk about abusers in the

00:12:11.400 first place and why they feel entitled to do that and personally i think a lot of the things that

00:12:16.200 you say and teach make men entitled to be abusive yeah so i actually think i'm more empowering

00:12:22.680 i'm empowering women because i'm saying yes you have the autonomy and the freedom to leave so

00:12:27.480 leave so if anything i i'm the one that's feminist i'm the one that's pro woman here i think because 0.99

00:12:32.360 i'm i'm saying i'm saying ladies you don't have to let a guy beat your ass get out of there call 1.00

00:12:37.080 the cops pro woman right here so two um you said it's outside of your control assuming that the 1.00

00:12:43.320 the person is over the age of 18 how okay I want to walk through the dating process nowadays for a 0.70

00:12:48.980 woman please teach me so as a woman you have dating apps and that's how people are meeting now if we

00:12:54.620 look at all the trends the number one way that people meet is online so um you download tinder 1.00

00:12:59.780 tinge all the data says women have thousands of matches even if you're fat old and ugly you have

00:13:04.720 a ton of choice as a girl and you still found a way to pick the one guy that's going to beat your 0.99

00:13:08.740 ass i think that's a skill issue i think it's laughable to think that you care about women 0.99

00:13:14.340 you claire you care about getting clout at the expense of women all right i know i'm not done 0.97

00:13:21.320 talking but why i know multiple women i know multiple women who went all the way until they

00:13:27.280 had a child with a man before he ever showed one ounce of abusive behavior at that point the woman

00:13:34.920 has a child with this man they don't have an income they're dependent on this man and your

00:13:40.600 your response is just leave without without acknowledging all of the tons of other things

00:13:47.960 influencing that woman's decision maybe they're they're the father of their children their dad is 0.98

00:13:54.920 a police officer i am using specific examples of women i know and so like i said before if you

00:14:02.680 actually care about women which i highly highly doubt you will spend an ounce of time educating

00:14:10.280 yourself about how you're very wrong about domestic violence again i think i'm more pro

00:14:14.200 woman than you because i i'm saying i'm saying but it's not i'm saying ladies ladies you're empowered

00:14:19.960 just leave like you're saying that we're saying that as laughability i'm saying i'm saying leave

00:14:26.920 the other thing is you have a lot of you can file a report against a police officer that happens all

00:14:31.720 the time police officers get fired in fact we've seen instances where there were riots to get

00:14:37.160 police officers fired that happens all the time second thing um clout so i just want to get clout

00:14:44.200 why why do you think that i don't know you seem kind of desperate for attention or something why

00:14:48.760 why because i because i have different beliefs i can't get into no i can't i can't get in i don't

00:14:53.240 know your personal history and i can't get into personal attacks so i'm not going to respond to 1.00

00:14:58.600 that question right but the what because here because here's my issue is feminists they they 1.00

00:15:03.560 say you can have freedom of thought as a woman and that you can think for yourself but whenever 1.00

00:15:07.320 a woman does it they say you're just doing it for clout because i don't know i don't think that's

00:15:11.080 true people disagree with me all the time and i don't think they're doing it for clout i think

00:15:14.920 it's very very obvious that you're addicted to clout or whatever it is like you're you're rage

00:15:20.600 bait it's fine it's not really good at the algorithm honestly i'll give you that i don't

00:15:24.680 agree with you i like why is it that when a woman doesn't agree with you it has to be for

00:15:29.080 clout it has to be rage like what like i said before it does in this specific instance it is 1.00

00:15:33.880 because i i want to empower women that are victims of abuse to get your ass out of yeah you guys come 0.96

00:15:39.320 on girl there's just leave don't let them here's the thing it takes work and time if you're a victim 0.98

00:15:45.400 you don't care you're gonna insulting you're trying to know it's insulting to convince women

00:15:49.240 that are victims it's trying it's insulting to convince women um that they're victims in this 0.99

00:15:55.160 when you are empowered we are in a feminist country feminism has won and you can call the 0.95

00:15:59.960 cops you can do whatever you want in this country it's a much more complicated situation than just

00:16:04.200 now you are you are now you are responsible for your choices you wanted equality you got it here

00:16:10.280 you go ladies uh there's no excuses now all right we're at 16 minutes so i think uh it seems like

00:16:16.280 that you guys have made your points. Unless there's new points to introduce, I suggest we get to our

00:16:19.900 closing statements on whoever wants to go first. Go ahead. Like I said before, women are the most

00:16:27.440 likely perpetrators of murder against their infant children. And that is because women spend more 1.00

00:16:34.400 time with their children, caretaking their children. The second thing is postpartum psychosis 0.99

00:16:40.020 is an illness that only affects women. Are you trying to say that this illness should not be

00:16:46.700 admissible in court just because it doesn't affect men? Yes. Okay. Of course you would say that.

00:16:52.220 All right. So like I said before, as soon as you look at the ratio of caretaking time to harm,

00:16:58.420 it actually points in the other direction towards fathers. Yeah. So just so the audience knows,

00:17:04.840 what they do to make it seem like fathers are abusive, because they're actually not abusive

00:17:08.820 at all. They're really nice, really giving, really

00:17:10.780 caring people. So what they do is they include

00:17:13.000 stepdads, which again, the woman is 0.90

00:17:14.800 responsible for. You are responsible for 1.00

00:17:16.920 as a woman, we're in a 1.00

00:17:18.900 feminist nation, and you are free, ladies. 1.00

00:17:21.380 And you are responsible for the behavior 1.00

00:17:22.900 of men. She's got to stop. 0.97

00:17:24.580 You did it to me, too. 1.00

00:17:26.640 So ladies, you 1.00

00:17:28.800 are free. So 0.99

00:17:30.520 you are free to pick non-abusive men,

00:17:32.780 and if you pick one, you get thousands

00:17:34.900 of matches on dating apps. 1.00

00:17:36.800 You can pick one that's not going to beat your ass, 0.99

00:17:38.820 And if you pick one that does, that's a skill issue. 1.00

00:17:41.760 Second thing is, I don't like infantilizing women. 1.00

00:17:44.700 So as an adult, you are responsible. 0.97

00:17:47.240 And also, there's no excuse for killing your kids, not postpartum depression, not drugs,

00:17:52.180 not watching the kid more. 0.99

00:17:54.500 I think it's ridiculous that we are giving an excuse to women that are committing murder. 1.00

00:18:00.420 Feminists never give excuses for men that commit rape, right? 0.99

00:18:03.640 It's not. 0.99

00:18:04.440 A man is still responsible, even if he has higher testosterone,

00:18:07.580 even if he was pressured. Whatever excuse they give, they would never have it. And I agree,

00:18:14.340 they shouldn't. However, when it comes to women committing a crime, every excuse possible is 1.00

00:18:20.260 always thrown in the book. I want feminists to really actually be equal. Equal prison time, 1.00

00:18:25.660 equal sentencing, and being responsible adults. I'll give you 20 seconds. You know what? I want

00:18:32.200 women to be equal too. So we need to start doing our job and committing way more murder and way 1.00

00:18:37.880 more rape because it's overwhelmingly committed by the male sex. A small percentage of the male 0.88

00:18:45.120 sex I'd like to acknowledge because men are fucking dope. Those people are not. And those 1.00

00:18:49.920 are the ones that should be focused on. And unfortunately, postpartum psychosis is something

00:18:54.920 where someone is not living in an accurate reality like the rest of us. It involves delusions and

00:19:01.240 hallucinations, they don't even know they are sick. That is the whole point. And that is why so many

00:19:06.620 women are identifying with this case. They're not excusing it. They see themselves in those shoes. 1.00

00:19:13.660 And I'm sorry that you don't understand how statistics work. But yes, the caretaking to harm

00:19:20.340 ratio is relevant. Maybe you should brush up on your statistics. You know what? I actually I think

00:19:25.540 she's flipped me i totally agree um there is you should be able to murder your kids and just blame 0.99

00:19:31.780 it on postpartum depression you guys but i i also i'm also saying guys if you cheat on your wives 0.99

00:19:37.480 it was your testosterone yeah your testosterone no she's saying blame it on your wife no it made 0.99

00:19:42.020 you do it it's just you can't help it um you had when your wife's a bitch and um nagging and doing 1.00

00:19:49.060 all that stuff it just drove you to do it you're not responsible it was your hormones fellas she's 1.00

00:19:53.720 feminist who loves to call women bitches and hoes 1.00

Pearl - September 11, 2026

Feminist Says Women Aren’t Responsible For Picking TERRIBLE Men!

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