Pearl - Feminists Are Calling TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE a FETISH

00:00:00.000 to tell the princess trad wife i don't talk to the waitress staff influencers about dom and sub

00:00:08.820 relationships get them involved in the kink scene introduce them to because i'm glad people are 0.99

00:00:14.560 talking about this because get you a caller bitches this is what i it's what i've always 1.00

00:00:18.600 thought that these like super conservative traditional women they have a thing for 1.00

00:00:26.520 submission but they don't because there's just like no sexuality education if you're in if you 0.90

00:00:33.120 have those views so they think it's just like oh this is a woman's natural state is to be submissive

00:00:39.000 because i really like this this makes me really happy this and they just they can't connect it

00:00:44.840 and so they just assume that all other women feel the exact same way but it's just i think it's like

00:00:50.540 a kink thing they're never gonna make that connection because they believe that that's

00:00:55.940 just how women like this is how women are naturally when it's just it's activating something in your 1.00

00:01:01.300 brain but you don't know what it's activating but you should explore it a little bit in a way that 1.00

00:01:06.640 doesn't damage other women and spread this false narrative like i saw this video of this woman 0.83

00:01:12.520 super traditional conservative talking about how you i'd all be super into primal play oh my gosh 0.99

00:01:20.800 The second I heard collar, I knew far right Christians have been practicing unhealthy BDSM 0.67

00:01:26.020 for centuries. When you get married, your body belongs to your husband and your husband's body 0.99

00:01:31.540 belongs to you. And you should not deny physical relations with that. And I was like, CNC, free

00:01:39.920 use, consensual non consent. That's that's it. And you're just like trying to tie it to the Bible.

00:01:45.060 But you're into that. And you don't understand that that's not advice you should give to everyone.

00:01:50.180 That's not something that you should be saying to just normal people.

00:01:54.180 That is a you situation.

00:01:57.180 All right, let me let me keep going. 1.00

00:01:59.180 Is it bad that now the kinks women, because when you think about it, conservative women never say yes to sex with their husbands. 1.00

00:02:07.180 So in a way, the liberal women, the kinky ones are actually more conservative in a way than conservative women. 1.00

00:02:15.180 I'm going to say something so ultra woke, I think it's gonna make people mad. 1.00

00:02:18.180 ad. And I'm not saying I'm 100% right, but I'm saying it's an idea to present and discuss.

00:02:22.940 And that is that I think that women that are obsessed with the concept of traditional child 0.99

00:02:28.400 rearing, traditional motherhood, they are living out their fetish in lifetime and they are forcing 0.98

00:02:33.880 other people to partake in it. Those other people being their own children and the community around

00:02:39.140 them. Now, why do I say this? This seems extreme, right? Well, 99% of the lifestyle of traditional

00:02:47.340 motherhood and the throwback to traditional ways of raising children is wanting that dominance of 1.00

00:02:54.800 the male in the household women do not have their power in that situation that's why they constantly 1.00

00:02:59.900 talk about submitting to their husbands their husbands are the leader they are the homemaker 0.50

00:03:04.500 they are the ones that raise the children they take care of their husbands it is reminiscent to 0.55

00:03:09.100 me of the movie secretary when he says we cannot do this 24 7 7 days a week and she says why not 1.00

00:03:16.940 a lot of people have the dominant submissive lifestyle in the bedroom but they leave it in 1.00

00:03:22.600 the bedroom i think that a lot of these women that cannot shut their mouth about it cannot 0.98

00:03:27.440 get off social media about it cannot stop talking about it it's because they hate it they're bringing 0.99

00:03:33.760 here's the thing like obedience is not a in it's not a easy thing like it's very difficult

00:03:39.560 um and it's something that kind of has to be trained uh to a degree in every woman and yeah

00:03:45.600 it's not fun it's kind of like working really hard you know when you're doing it it's not great but

00:03:49.740 over time you see the benefits into their daily life this feeling of being taken care of of being

00:03:55.220 the center of this household but not the one in charge they are giving up full control they are

00:04:00.260 giving full submission 24 7 however oftentimes with this kind of immersion into the lifestyle

00:04:09.300 you have to be fully immersed as much as you possibly can and what that means is that keeping

00:04:14.640 that power dynamic means going into the time that we most associate with it and so people live in

00:04:20.280 this old time structure which is why a lot of people go to very very traditional religion

00:04:24.420 or why they will reject vaccination for their children but notice they have vaccines done

00:04:30.040 from when they wore kids they'll talk about you know living on the homestead um maybe killing

00:04:36.280 their own chickens um all these things right and it's because it allows further delusion into this

00:04:42.400 lifestyle that they have it's harder i don't think it's that i mean i do think there's something

00:04:47.160 about the old way we used to live but i don't know i do you know it's kind of weird i'm in a

00:04:52.600 place where i understand what the liberals and the conservatives are saying because the liberals are

00:04:56.460 like look the old way doesn't work and you guys are not in traditionalism and i totally agree with

00:05:01.580 that it's kind of like a lie that's sold um however the conservatives are saying well it was kind of

00:05:08.060 better the way it was before which it was for the family unit uh but for women it wasn't when

00:05:13.780 you think about it um because now women can do whatever they want and that's better for young 0.97

00:05:18.640 women but then when they get old all the consequences catch up to them so young women

00:05:23.760 are like why do you guys want this like it's way better this way yeah so i have that lifestyle when

00:05:29.420 you know you're also like you're you're submitting you know to your husband and all this stuff

00:05:35.300 but also you have the fastest access and ease of living as a woman as ever so now you have to kind

00:05:42.240 of give that all up at the same time but the reason why it's so rich is because first off 0.77

00:05:46.640 other people are harmed by it because a lot of women suddenly do not have the means of liberation

00:05:51.980 because you've taught them that this is what they should be living like instead of all right um 1.00

00:05:56.080 all right let's continue me talking to trad wives who don't realize it's a kink i defer to my 0.85

00:06:02.760 husband i allow him to make all the decisions over my life and control the finances and that's

00:06:08.260 so great i'm a submissive to something about releasing all my autonomy and letting them have

00:06:13.440 control over my body it just switches my brain off i love it no i'm nothing like you oh don't

00:06:21.220 you release all your career decisions your financial future treat him like he's higher

00:06:26.740 than you on the hierarchy isn't that what you do i do do that but he doesn't dominate me he

00:06:32.740 is a good man i just he doesn't dominate yeah that's he's i'm only submissive when i feel like

00:06:38.520 oh my place oh yeah a little fun isn't it a little kinky stay no more no it's not kinky because again 1.00

00:06:45.000 it's actually conservative women are more controlling because they have to control the 1.00

00:06:48.700 outcome of sex a non-controlling woman gives up you know a lot of whores let's a lot of whores 1.00

00:06:54.800 are just obedient and we're not ready to have that conversation we are not ready to have that 1.00

00:07:00.960 conversation a lot of prudes have a stick up their ass stop there's nothing like that i'm sorry i'm 0.98

00:07:06.220 sorry i don't mean to be crass but do you have with your master i mean the husband yes whenever 0.98

00:07:10.800 he likes your master but it's in a nice loving way yeah like me and my bdsm partner no we don't

00:07:17.780 get off on it like you okay but do you enjoy that he calls all the shots does it make you feel

00:07:23.340 a certain way yes it is a lifestyle choice for me you know what i never realized it but you and i 0.51

00:07:31.680 are wearing different shirts but they're the same color is being a trad wife just a kink okay i'm

00:07:37.080 gonna be real honest with you guys i love trad wife tiktok content i love the pretty dresses i

00:07:42.020 love the bread making i love the farm living it's all great but lately i've been seeing a bunch more

00:07:46.960 videos of women who call themselves trad wives and wear day collars or who talk extensively about how

00:07:52.320 they never make final decisions and they leave 100% of that up to their husbands. So is this

00:07:57.320 deep conservative values or is this just a kink? Here is my take from someone who is well-versed

00:08:02.460 in kink and is not a trad wife. I think some of these women, specifically the ones posting about 0.68

00:08:07.180 day collars, I don't think it's kinky because again, they called the shot on when the sex 1.00

00:08:12.820 happened. So I think most of the women are more controlling, naturally very submissive in the 1.00

00:08:17.320 bedroom. I think it's likely that they have kinky brain wiring and that right now they're channeling 1.00

00:08:21.880 a lot of that unmet need into the dynamic of their relationships instead of into a dynamic 0.91

00:08:26.380 in the bedroom. At the same time, I would say I'm exposed to kink content like this channel. 0.97

00:08:31.360 Oh my gosh, because I came from a conservative background. And okay, I'm not that into the kink 1.00

00:08:36.580 stuff, but I'm more familiar with it now. Like I know more about it. I'm not in those scenes.

00:08:42.560 I would never do such a thing. But I kind of see where they're coming from because I think

00:08:50.460 submissive and dominant a sub dom is basically like the guy or the girl tells the other one what

00:08:56.880 to do and it's like a sexual thing um and women do get off on that but in conservative circles

00:09:03.540 the woman is telling the man what to do because the man always wants to bang immediately and the 1.00

00:09:07.140 woman doesn't it's probably likely that they wouldn't call it a kink and they wouldn't label

00:09:10.580 themselves that way so technically if they don't call it a kink and it's not related to bedroom

00:09:15.120 activities then i suppose it's not really a kink but i think it comes from the same place as a

00:09:19.680 submission kink probably would. And go to that saying, but kink or no kink, as long as it's

00:09:24.220 mutually respectful and consensual, everyone should do whatever they like. And I'm not judging.

00:09:29.000 If you are a trad wife or you know a trad wife, let me know what you think.

00:09:32.960 All right. Someone said, I'm a trad wife and I wear a day collar. Yes, I'm submissive to my

00:09:36.480 husband. For me, it's both my beliefs and a bedroom thing. I asked my husband for this

00:09:40.380 lifestyle and he agreed. My relationship and dynamic are 100% consensual. Another guy says,

00:09:46.140 any wife that calls it a day collar knows was what it is it's a kink trad values or their wedding

00:09:51.300 rings um are the collars and they'd never be called collars a day collar is nothing but a kink 0.99

00:09:56.180 because that implies there's a night collar that is more a traditional kink so does the trad wife

00:10:01.420 then go put on her leather dog collar at the end of the day that's what having a day collar implies

00:10:06.800 so it's a kink anyways all right guys let me know what you think in the comments of now that kink

00:10:12.960 talk and um trad wife talk have met what is what is your thoughts let me know in the comments like

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Pearl - October 21, 2026

Feminists Are Calling TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE a FETISH

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