Pearl - First Female Caller Ever ADMITS L

00:00:00.000 how how old was he uh at the time 30. there's a lady who called in so we're gonna what's going

00:00:06.160 on megan um so what's on the topic um i was kind of late in the jumping in but i was gonna go back

00:00:12.240 to how women i feel like only until they run out of resources do they have to mature from like an 1.00

00:00:19.360 evolution standpoint when they use their beauty as essentially a currency which is fine when

00:00:27.040 when they're young but until they actually run out of that so to speak leverage then is when they

00:00:32.340 have to mature from a evolution otherwise if you stay stagnant you don't ever have you're never

00:00:36.760 forced to change right um do you agree that traditionalism is not coming back I yeah I think

00:00:45.340 that it's going to take I often wonder what it would take for it to change but it seems far gone

00:00:52.040 and there doesn't seem to be I mean you could do like this take away social media or the dating

00:00:56.260 but it's so far-fetched of an idea i don't know what it would change for women to actually be

00:01:02.260 accountable and stuff like on says a zombie apocalypse again pa i brought you up in case

00:01:09.480 you had any questions yeah hey doug hey how's it going good so what do you think what uh why do

00:01:18.680 you think that men want traditionalism to to come what's why do you think that men have such well

00:01:24.560 on the right have such a hard time accepting that traditionalism won't come back why do men have

00:01:29.380 such a hard time accepting on the right that's a good question that's uh i think part of it is

00:01:35.220 kind of like what you you guys were just talking about how i just i just don't know i think that

00:01:40.020 these women piggybacked off of a some women used to be virtuous and they kind of piggyback off of 1.00

00:01:46.480 that idea and ran with it because it wasn't pardon how do women used to be virtuous like how 1.00

00:01:52.940 how well they would never talk about their husbands in a disrespectful way so to speak

00:01:59.200 so they were they just kind of stayed in their lane and knew what lines of respect i mean you

00:02:05.520 just cross some lines you don't get back and that was they did what they were supposed to do and it

00:02:10.200 was a good balance but when it's out of balance you have to have that polarity to keep a system

00:02:15.520 in place okay so so now so i can ask you once again what do you think these men are getting out

00:02:24.100 of telling men to try to find virtuous women or seek the traditional route when that doesn't

00:02:30.960 exist anymore is it a grift is it some kind of goal what do you think i think it's a distorted

00:02:36.100 i i don't know if there is a whole lot of i mean being a woman and knowing what women are capable 1.00

00:02:43.280 of i don't know if it is exists anymore i feel like it's a distorted view all right so

00:02:48.720 pearl asked earlier i'll ask you yeah what was something that you believed in the past

00:02:54.560 that you're like i just can't believe that i believe that about you know men women dating

00:03:02.400 relationships etc i would say that well i guess from a worldly viewpoint of like follow your heart

00:03:09.280 i think that women tend to justify that however that looks um are you saying you justified that 0.95

00:03:15.680 i have i don't i definitely have and it's not a that's a very big gray area of follow your heart

00:03:23.840 or what do you mean was he was he just was he really hot or what yeah right yeah that means

00:03:30.800 yeah yes i i uh did he not have a job like what was the catch um yeah it was just like it was

00:03:40.080 just a whole eye opener of what um i guess it boiled down to like kind of the the bad boys

00:03:48.080 type of syndrome but it's it boiled down to he just thought he was the most important person

00:03:53.040 so i therefore thought he was and he didn't bend over backwards for me so it's kind of like a

00:03:58.000 a perception of when it when a girl says they want a nice guy and the guy's like okay i did xyz i'm

00:04:03.720 being this person but then we see it as a too much if he's gonna waver here how is he gonna be

00:04:10.020 he's gonna be running from the zombie apocalypse too then with me you know like we see that you

00:04:15.380 got with a bad boy but then you expected him to to bend over backwards i've always wondered how

00:04:21.220 women reconcile those two things like how do you date a bad did you know this guy was a bad boy 1.00

00:04:27.140 from the jump and then you start expecting him to bend over backwards as a relationship went on or

00:04:32.460 what yeah i i mean he just didn't it wasn't when i look back on it you know it's not something that

00:04:39.640 was sustainable but i think he you know if you think you're the most important person then those

00:04:45.300 always had like that's why it works that dynamic of at least it's respectable i dropped a little

00:04:51.100 bit but i'm just like not following the story at all like i i don't i'm not being really clear so

00:04:56.560 he was like he was hot and he put himself first and that was yeah and so that was at least and

00:05:05.020 then you tried to change him like you trying to change him or um not trying to change him but just

00:05:11.680 looking back at my perception of what that was and like the reason I stayed was because I respected

00:05:17.600 him being firm in his ways so I mean I got out of that but not for any other reason other than

00:05:23.480 that's why that dynamic apparently works because at least he stood firm in what he said and i was

00:05:29.800 able to be okay he stands firm he's not going to waver he's not going to bend over backwards

00:05:34.360 to me and i guess that's why it worked for the time but then it didn't so you're saying was he

00:05:39.560 too selfish you're saying or like he drug problem no i just think it was was just not it didn't work

00:05:47.960 not for any other reason it was just interesting to see like the is it didn't work for the reason

00:05:52.600 of it wasn't sustainable you know but it's like what does that mean though i did it was sustainable

00:06:00.120 did you suck like he didn't have a whole lot to i guess in a very tangible way he didn't have a 0.88

00:06:05.800 whole lot to like he was that as moms and you know living at home and it's like we're old enough to 0.99

00:06:11.640 not be what was like what was it what was his job best buy oh so he worked he was hot and he worked

00:06:17.800 at best buy yeah but he was like didn't even have a car of his own you know was driving his mom's

00:06:23.320 but i was like what is it about this person that's keeping me like this guy no how how old was he uh

00:06:30.440 at the time 30. oh damn so he was 30 living at home with his mom and no car yeah so where is he 0.59

00:06:37.240 now did he get a car or i hope so i don't know where he went okay so you're just saying he like 0.90

00:06:43.480 didn't have money at all he just didn't have he didn't want the thing that kept yeah he just didn't

00:06:49.140 have a drive to be anything better but he didn't really have to be because everyone was like oh

00:06:52.400 he's you know this person what did he do to get you in the first place i know it was she's saying

00:06:58.400 it was the mindset like yeah yeah i mean that happens all the time though you see women date 1.00

00:07:02.880 broke men like there's no tomorrow we love them and they justify it yeah i just don't even no i 0.97

00:07:08.080 it's it makes sense it's the like he you said he he wouldn't take basically like yeah yeah

00:07:15.040 and then not agreeing with me and kind of just being like no i'm gonna do my own thing and i

00:07:18.560 was like you know i'm trying to say it on paper but oh but i love him well what is i love him

00:07:24.160 yeah yeah he worked at best buy and had the time to learn how to speak in yeah how long

00:07:29.920 other guys other guys are busy working yeah how long oh gosh probably six months of just like a

00:07:39.040 push and pull you know but if if he would have say conformed to what i wanted him to well that's

00:07:45.600 you know just in a very simple mindset come hang out with me this time if he would have conformed

00:07:50.560 to that and been like essentially doing everything i asked of him i wouldn't have respected him the

00:07:55.520 same way i wouldn't have kept me there so so there's follow your heart and what's one more

00:07:59.600 thing where you're like oh gosh i can't believe that when i was young nothing i don't i i'm just

00:08:04.240 drawing a blank okay i missed what i missed what you what what was said in the past for

00:08:09.680 that's all right that's all right well um what was it what was what how did the relationship end

00:08:17.360 did you guys was there a crash out or did it yeah and then you kind of just like zoom out

00:08:21.440 and look at it and you're like what was i thinking he didn't you know not that it needed to be like

00:08:26.880 a tangible asset to support me but it was like we were 30 you know it was like kind of where

00:08:33.280 we're all old enough to kind of go on our own yeah got it got it um doug and pig any more questions

00:08:40.720 for yeah i just um you know i i like i said earlier you know um this whole traditionalism

00:08:48.640 thing men had traditional values that were instilled upon them women did too women think 0.95

00:08:53.600 it's one-sided that traditional values were like pressed on them but it was for men too and i just

00:08:59.120 think that men need to enjoy their freedom just like women are like why would you willfully want 1.00

00:09:04.480 to impose traditional stuff on you when like women don't want it like i don't women don't want 1.00

00:09:10.720 traditionalism why do these guys keep trying to give them something they don't want i don't get it

00:09:17.280 why yeah it's kind of crazy how society like just has this inherent pressure on men to like

00:09:24.480 protect and serve by default and women i like look at it and i'm just like there's literally

00:09:28.960 nothing but existing that's expected of women well and gluck luck 9 000 but we don't even 1.00

00:09:35.280 got to do that anymore yeah all right thanks for calling in megan thank you

Pearl - March 06, 2026

First Female Caller Ever ADMITS L

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