Pearl - Fort Worth Playboy Joins Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity network thank

00:00:07.960 you guys so much for tuning in today um so i wanted to talk a little bit about solutions

00:00:13.860 because a lot of um a lot of people say that i'm black filled and a doomer which i think

00:00:18.940 is a little bit rude it's a little bit much but you know um i've decided to kind of do

00:00:24.860 a new series where I bring on different guests from Twitter or just, you know, other platforms

00:00:31.140 that I see that really are offering men solutions in the space. So we're going to get into today's

00:00:36.580 guest, but that's what I'll say to start. But first of all, I wanted to say thank you to the

00:00:42.680 donations to our divorce documentary. So as you guys know, I am trying to make a divorce documentary.

00:00:47.720 I tried to put it on last year, but then I got demonetized for two years,

00:00:51.540 um all because i compared women actually i'm not going to say it again because that's what

00:00:57.780 that's what got me um in trouble in the first place uh but i want to say thank you to the

00:01:02.640 donors in the last day um to the divorce documentary the gofundme link is in the

00:01:07.420 description michael um and we got a one thousand dollar um donation from anonymous so thank you

00:01:13.560 very much nathan uh boone thank you guys so much for donating we're at fifty four thousand two

00:01:19.140 $218 raised. We're really trying to get to $100,000. So anyways, thank you guys so much.

00:01:26.360 Okay. So back to what I was saying with men that offer solutions. So as you guys know,

00:01:34.220 I as a woman cannot coach men or instruct men on how to get laid. Look, it's just not something I

00:01:38.980 ever really want to go into. It's not something I know how to do. I provide cultural commentary

00:01:45.040 on this channel. But I really enjoy men that I know are out in the field practicing and offering

00:01:51.140 guys real solutions, not just, you know, never have a sexless marriage, follow the Bible. That

00:01:56.360 doesn't really work, you know, unfortunately. And I just love it when I'm on Twitter and I see guys

00:02:01.660 that are giving, like, there's something about, I can just tell when a guy is really in the field

00:02:08.680 and really working with clients because they just tell stories in a different way that's so

00:02:14.520 specific instead of like talking in the abstract so anyways i have been following fort worth playboy

00:02:22.200 on twitter for a while and he has a big following on twitter and he he is a dating and relationship

00:02:33.400 consultant um that works so we're gonna bring him up onto the show welcome fort worth playboy hi

00:02:40.600 how are you thank you so much for joining me thank you thank you for inviting me um so tell

00:02:49.080 me how did you get into um consulting men like where where did this start well in the beginning

00:02:55.880 i um you know i've been through a divorce and probably six months to a year after the divorce i

00:03:04.360 got into personal improvement you know from owning a small business and then that led to

00:03:10.520 chateau hartice which was a blog um about game and i pretty much studied that blog like an hour

00:03:18.520 i'm pretty good at what would you say um routine so for about two years every evening about for an

00:03:24.760 hour i started studying this blog reading every article um and applying it to you know dating and

00:03:33.400 and meeting women and it just worked and then my girlfriend now fiance she had a twitter handle

00:03:41.720 and i thought well i want to talk about this to other people and that's when i moved into that

00:03:47.960 and also you know i'm in fitness and we're we do personal training but at a certain point it's

00:03:54.520 really hard on your body so you're always looking for something over time that you can like not

00:03:59.480 physically be in front of clients you know so that's how i ended up coaching um and consulting

00:04:06.680 um clients well and you have a hundred thousand followers on twitter

00:04:11.560 i was about to say it in the intro and i was like oh shoot i forgot to google how many followers he

00:04:15.800 has i think it's like 96 97 yeah and for a couple for a couple years i was kind of stagnated there

00:04:23.640 like when um when biden was president they they weren't allowing many many people in our world

00:04:29.480 get a lot of followers as you've experienced yeah um so how many men have you coached at this point

00:04:36.040 like how long have you been doing it oh hundreds we have small group and you know i sell books

00:04:43.000 and products um and probably two or three a day go out and then they report back and say hey

00:04:50.280 i actually applied this and it works and i think that's what's the biggest surprises

00:04:55.080 that game works, you know, and you've experienced it yourself. Game works principally and it

00:05:03.640 makes you more attractive, basically. It's game, the definition of game is learn charisma. So guys

00:05:10.280 that are kind of struggling, they improve their personality if there's a better definition.

00:05:16.440 So when you have a guy that comes in and let's say he's pretty socially awkward,

00:05:20.300 about how long does it take for him to get pretty good with women or at game, just improve his

00:05:26.080 social skills? Because I think there's a lot of people who think that stuff can't really be

00:05:31.560 improved, that you're kind of, you just got to be yourself. Yeah, which would leave a lot of

00:05:36.980 people in bad shape. No, it's like anything else. You can make improvements, and it depends on the

00:05:44.680 individual. And let's say, you know, a guy reaches out to me, you know, we always kind of look at the

00:05:49.020 very basic, you know, is he overweight? If so, we get his weight down. How does he dress? What

00:05:55.900 is his hygiene? Believe it or not, these are the basics. Usually guys that reach out to me

00:06:00.420 are somewhat more advanced. But when you deal with very basic, they say, hey, I cannot seem

00:06:07.020 to get laid. We look at hygiene. How are they dressing? Get the weight down. A lot of this

00:06:13.480 helps there with their confidence and then usually it takes about six months you know and which is

00:06:20.680 really fast if you think about it because usually like for fitness you can start seeing improvement

00:06:25.220 in 12 weeks it's about six months you know to really be confident um with game but it's it's

00:06:33.460 faster than building a business what are the biggest mistakes that men make when it comes to

00:06:40.220 game like what do you what do you think it's interesting because really 99 of what i do

00:06:45.420 is tell people what not to do okay you know and and what we say is more less is more guys tend

00:06:53.840 to text too much they tend to use too many words they tend to stay on the app too long before

00:07:00.480 moving her off and get her phone number and get her in front of him because girls are good online

00:07:07.280 because they can just block him but men are better in person like you have to actually be in the room

00:07:14.120 with the guy to kind of get a real feel for him whereas guys are two-dimensional we'll work off

00:07:18.640 of a picture girls girls need to actually meet you and men are stronger in person so usually it's

00:07:25.760 getting guys to stop trying to like when we say you know online dating they actually think they're

00:07:31.000 supposed to date the girl online they don't realize that it's just lead generation get her

00:07:35.900 in front of you and then, you know, be attractive, which can be learned. Have you seen this increase

00:07:44.460 in long distance relationships? I feel like every other person I'm talking to is in a long

00:07:49.220 distance relationship. Have you seen that? I have not, but I tend to, I tend to, what would you say?

00:07:59.180 Dissuade people if I can, you know? I mean, there's very specific, let's say, you know,

00:08:04.320 your your boyfriend's in medical school it has a definitive end date and you have a plan to meet

00:08:10.180 him in three years and go forward with your relationship that's a separate issue but the

00:08:18.180 long distance relationship it's really tough it's really not a relationship you know your day-to-day

00:08:23.400 stuff um i don't think it's a good idea it's there's people that have been successful make

00:08:29.520 no mistake but it's really the minority it's it really puts you in a bad position yeah and for

00:08:35.660 every one successful outcome there's like 10 exactly yes yes you only hear about the good

00:08:42.220 ones you say that about men getting out of the friend zone too i see you put that all the time

00:08:46.520 on twitter that for every one guy that made his way out of the friend zone there's 10 that don't

00:08:50.760 yeah yeah it is true it's true i mean it your your time let's say like a long-term relationship

00:08:56.680 you're a long distance relationship or or you're in the friend zone your time would be better

00:09:01.860 invested in meeting new girls while this other thing plays out in the background you know like

00:09:08.500 the friend zone girl she may break up with a boyfriend a couple years down the road and the

00:09:13.920 timing is better but you should be seeing other women during that period does that make sense

00:09:19.560 yeah so so when you're asking a guy to like build his dating life from like the beginning

00:09:25.300 um like he meets with you um do you recommend they go in person online like where do you recommend

00:09:31.500 guys meet women nowadays it really it really comes down to the individual i mean that's why

00:09:36.500 it's coaching you know what i mean it's kind of like the principles are universal but the

00:09:41.620 application is individual so you know if they're in the city we can get them out if they have a

00:09:46.960 buddy they can go out with we get them out but we use multi-step lead generation which is all it is

00:09:53.500 You know, and if a guy is open to online, because what, 60 percent come from there right now as far as matches and people get married every day off of online dating.

00:10:05.860 So I never just shit on it. You know, I think it's a terrible idea.

00:10:09.580 But if the guy's open to it, we can get him matches while he's also saying hi to every girl, every attractive woman he sees every day over time that builds up.

00:10:20.700 you have to actually you know it's like i say you know say hi to every attractive person or

00:10:24.780 woman you see every day pretty soon you start seeing more attractive women yeah you know and

00:10:31.660 that's how it works i mean we use multiple lead generation depending on the person um that's in

00:10:38.860 front of me what do you say to the guys um that say they're afraid to approach women because they

00:10:44.300 don't want to get in trouble like i've seen that kind of growing group yeah go ahead you know and

00:10:49.740 This is my question, Pearl, because I get that every once in a while. I say, have you or anyone

00:10:57.660 you personally know ever been arrested and charged with a crime for speaking to a woman?

00:11:07.260 And I haven't had anybody positively identify themselves yet. I haven't seen it. And I'm

00:11:15.100 I'm still looking for evidence of people getting in trouble for speaking to somebody, and I haven't seen it.

00:11:22.880 I mean, there's guys that will get shot down.

00:11:25.060 I mean, there's girls that may be having a bad day, and they're kind of rude to the guy, and he takes it bad.

00:11:30.300 But as far as, like, truly getting in trouble for speaking to a girl in public, they're either going to ignore you or, you know, say, hey, I got a boyfriend, or they're just going to walk right past you, you know.

00:11:44.460 so i think it's um it's overblown yeah well because i haven't seen that um like legal trouble

00:11:52.560 i've just seen um women like blasting men you know with their phones and stuff have you seen

00:11:57.840 that at all or no oh yeah yeah yeah you'll see girls like yeah usually you know at least

00:12:03.280 they'll they'll say you know this guy hit on me when i went to starbucks and he's younger guy and

00:12:10.160 I'm, you know, let's say a girl was like 35 or 40 and she'll say, but, you know, I give

00:12:14.920 him points for trying, you know, that's, that's what I tend to see is, you know, he had the

00:12:22.020 guts, the balls to approach.

00:12:25.320 But I haven't, I don't, I don't get that much feedback as far as the hardcore negative.

00:12:30.420 Do you know what?

00:12:31.120 It's just that Facebook page that I've heard people in real life.

00:12:34.680 Yeah.

00:12:34.900 Yeah.

00:12:35.040 That's the, that's the number one.

00:12:36.520 I know a few guys that have been put on there and you know, it's crazy.

00:12:39.180 it's never the players like all the guys i know all the guys i know that go through like a lot

00:12:45.680 of women a year yeah uh they're not on those pages and i'll i'll look and see but it's like

00:12:51.000 the guys that are actually pretty nice that's very interesting yeah you you get your information

00:12:58.940 probably for different sources and i tend to like um stay in this one little world yeah you know and

00:13:06.200 you see, you see a lot of things. I see a lot of this one, this one world.

00:13:13.280 Sorry, what do you mean by this, this one world?

00:13:16.520 Well, everything, you know, you kind of like, you know,

00:13:20.020 I was trying to kind of get a grasp of what you dealt with as far as like

00:13:24.540 media. And I kind of consider it like, um, gender relations.

00:13:29.760 It's very large. It's a, you know, it's a very large, you know, group.

00:13:34.500 um i'm very tactical we're about becoming more attractive you know helping men become more

00:13:43.060 attractive and move women from complete stranger to naked and then in his bed everybody wins so

00:13:49.780 where can men find young attractive not fat women college campuses okay okay gyms i mean seriously

00:14:00.160 you if you want to meet you know and again there's gym game which is long game it's a long game um

00:14:06.800 but generally you cannot find a better place than a college campus because people are single they're

00:14:17.120 relatively younger and fitter um and they're open to suggestion

00:14:22.800 that being said you will not see me like cruising a college campus

00:14:26.800 no just i don't want anything misconstrued okay you know for the right group of guys

00:14:32.240 up to like you know late 20s it's it's probably ideal okay and what are you seeing in terms of

00:14:38.240 age gaps like in 2025 do you um do you find that like most women in college are open to men 10 20

00:14:45.840 years older um okay that's a good question the spread this is and this is what i've stuck with

00:14:52.560 over time um 20 of girls are like no thanks no way never 60 are under the right circumstances

00:15:05.760 and if their friends or family wouldn't find out you know it's like situational

00:15:13.600 and 20 just prefer older men and they know they prefer older men okay you know um that's what

00:15:21.680 i've seen consistently over time and usually the the you know we talked about um the 10-year age

00:15:29.040 gap being kind of like the starting place for being a gap anything less than that's kind of

00:15:33.760 normal but at 10 years and up you you have a bit of an age gap where i think people tend to do do

00:15:40.560 better in a lot of marriages that you see you'll say hey how long have you guys been you know what's

00:15:45.360 your spread between your ages and they'll say 10 years 10 10 or 15 years why do you think that is

00:15:51.280 like why not 20 years or so you know the guys i think 20 may know this is yeah yeah you're close

00:15:58.080 enough for familiarity yeah you actually kind of like you know still look you know in the same age

00:16:03.760 range um but he's had 10 years maybe 12 to get ahead you know and she's she's still fresh and

00:16:12.480 young and you know moving up in the world um it seems to be the sweet spot there's there it's not

00:16:19.520 too much and not too little yeah no i found the same thing for me personally i think 10 years is

00:16:24.720 great that's like yeah yeah yeah yeah it seems to work that everybody's yeah and i'm in the same

00:16:30.000 position yeah it's 10 years yeah um okay so you find that about 20 of women really like so how

00:16:39.760 can a guy tell the difference between a woman who's um dating an older guy because she likes

00:16:45.840 them or it's just transactional i can't okay i mean you you really i mean there's certain times

00:16:55.840 and it it depends on environment you know you know is it a sugar daddy that sort of thing

00:17:02.480 yeah um i think those tend to stay behind closed doors he's not going to take her out okay on the

00:17:10.240 town no there's no like ironclad rules here but generally you can't really tell you know and i've

00:17:17.200 been out and about where you're seeing that gap but it's very difficult because a lot of times

00:17:24.080 the girl may just enjoy you know she benefits from it his him having money but she also likes him

00:17:32.400 because she could choose anyone there's younger men with money yeah you know she chose him yeah

00:17:38.320 especially when they're like 21 they can date anybody yeah yeah and there's there's younger

00:17:44.320 guys you know 25 that that have money but she may choose that stability and um she knows where he's

00:17:50.880 at most of the time you know that there's other things going on in the background yeah um so i

00:17:59.120 wanted to talk about a couple concepts i've seen from you on the timeline um and this one i've

00:18:04.560 actually stolen from you i i haven't given you credit so i'll say that's fine i will give you

00:18:09.680 credit officially but you said that women are designed to be passed around yeah it's funny i

00:18:16.080 was like god i hope we don't do anything controversial i was like oh my god right away

00:18:24.000 i i think it's one of your best sayings to be honest because when you said it it actually like

00:18:30.320 something clicked in me we kind of are aren't we we just we do not yeah one day well yeah and like

00:18:37.920 they say it's not it's not she's not yours it's just your turn yeah and it's it's a play on that

00:18:44.000 but again i mean most girls at some point you know they start having sex at 15 16 17

00:18:50.000 and they're going to be with a number of men over time it doesn't you know this is all very

00:18:56.400 situational but um they really were you really are adaptable you know and and i think like um

00:19:05.040 rollo said like war brides like the french like when the germans came in they adapted to the

00:19:12.080 german soldiers being in their town they dated the germans yeah and then when the germans left

00:19:16.720 they went back to the frenchmen you know they're they're designed to survive does that make sense

00:19:23.040 no it totally makes sense um why do you just upsets guys a lot that's what i was about to say why do

00:19:28.560 you think this reality is so difficult for men to accept because um i i love your stuff on twitter

00:19:37.200 because you're always reminding people this is normal this is not yeah well i know it's it is

00:19:45.680 normal you know i mean that's that's what i'm dealing with you know i don't want people to

00:19:50.480 kind of freak out. And it's hard for them to digest in the first place, especially for younger

00:19:55.200 guys, you know, like under 30, under 35, you know, that, that jealousy of, you know, is very hardwired.

00:20:04.280 It can be extinguished over time, but, you know, I'm sure that there's a evolutionary, like,

00:20:10.920 purpose for it, like certainty of paternity, which is a big deal. But depending on the guy,

00:20:19.700 some guys don't really care either way and they don't care about a girl's history and and there's

00:20:24.500 more of those than you'll hear because they're not in this they don't they never say anything

00:20:29.220 it doesn't cross their mind yeah um i didn't think those guys existed but you meet them

00:20:35.620 and you're like oh my god he really does not care they do not care and i think really the vast

00:20:40.500 majority guys are like they're not asking you know yeah they don't it doesn't cross their mind

00:20:47.460 they're just like happy to have a girl that will like have sex with them and take care of the kids

00:20:53.220 you know they're they're happy yeah most guys are pretty simple um it's not it doesn't become

00:21:00.260 complicated sometimes we do make it complicated but um in general that's that's what you're going

00:21:06.820 to see is is the younger guys and i think a study came out the younger guys that have fewer partners

00:21:13.940 tend to be more concerned about how many partners the girls has had and as he increases the number

00:21:20.020 of women he's had sex with it kind of dissipates over time yeah and that's why i noticed the body

00:21:28.260 count conversation um it's mostly men complaining that don't get laid that like that's what they're

00:21:33.940 gonna have to accept yeah yeah and that's that's the main complaint because um it's not that men

00:21:41.220 with high like women want the men with the super high body counts so the women the men like in

00:21:46.660 general so the men that women are interested in anyways don't care as much i think you had a

00:21:51.860 picture of that one girl that dated all the celebrities and you said you said is are they

00:21:56.660 worried about her body count no no no yeah and i i hate to say it because i i do understand where

00:22:05.140 the men are coming from you know i'm not i'm not trying to belittle that but it's just what i see

00:22:10.820 with the people that are actually out there dating in the game it's not as big of a factor

00:22:15.940 as even i initially thought you know because i try to convey to guys i go i say whatever whatever

00:22:24.660 you decide you can deal with that's what's important yeah you know if if you want a virgin

00:22:31.460 you can have a virgin you're gonna have to work and you're gonna have to find her you may have to

00:22:36.260 leave the country but generally you know you have to decide what's right for you because there's a

00:22:42.820 whole spectrum yeah and the other thing they don't talk about is how weird some of these virgin girls

00:22:47.940 are oh yeah and they and they think it's cute weird i think in in um in concept they're like

00:22:55.380 oh i don't mind if she's weird i'm like oh you haven't met these church girls i'm like you are

00:22:59.780 not no no if a girl has a virginity at 25 there's there's going to be other issues yeah yeah and

00:23:07.540 bunny my you know my my fiance she's the one that kind of clued me into some of this stuff because

00:23:12.020 she gave me a lot she gives me a lot of insight into the female mind that i would never have had

00:23:17.300 by myself you know she's like a virgin at 25 there's something often and it's kind of like

00:23:23.620 they want a virgin who's also a porn star in bed we you know you're you're asking for two different

00:23:29.140 things well and it's usually women that won't give up control yeah like they're really they're really

00:23:34.740 controlling and they can't imagine like giving a guy that leverage you know yeah and i think i think

00:23:40.580 it's hard on on you know the small amount of like christian women that um you know i've been privy

00:23:48.340 to it's very hard for them to shift gears because for like 18 or 19 years they've been told sex is

00:23:54.340 bad yeah and now they go through the ceremony they're married and they're supposed to say sex

00:23:59.620 is they're supposed to start enjoying it all of a sudden it's there's like whiplash yeah so they're

00:24:06.020 everybody's kind of like put at a disadvantage um and i never thought about it until i kind of kind

00:24:11.460 of read that and you know found out you know um and heard those stories no i know a guy that

00:24:18.660 happened to he waited until marriage and then his wife wouldn't sleep with him yeah yeah i mean

00:24:26.740 you're supposed to go from zero to a hundred and it's just not natural that's asking a lot of

00:24:31.620 anyone yeah um i want to show this clip i think i mentioned we were gonna watch

00:24:40.660 um yeah and do you know why it was so interesting because your commentary

00:24:46.580 on this i don't think um okay so if you guys don't know i don't watch sports so i don't know

00:24:52.980 what sporty plays but this is a rich athlete that makes a lot of money soccer okay and um

00:24:58.980 so this is his girlfriend fiance well i don't know the girls involved with and this is a clip

00:25:04.100 that went viral of her saying this let's show it and so he was what i did like first

00:25:09.940 and then when i saw you i changed my view to you and then you had a very nice song

00:25:14.420 i do think it's fake but you don't i asked you this question before i asked like i think this is

00:25:20.120 this is faith first to make the news you think all right yeah so she's essentially saying that

00:25:28.740 she liked his friend first and guys got worked up every guy's got really mad but i'm like

00:25:34.720 and i i had the same thought as you that i i thought that's maybe she shouldn't say that

00:25:39.980 publicly that's kind of embarrassing but i think it's kind of normal um like at least where i'm

00:25:45.020 from i mean yeah yeah because okay let me let me read your response really quick or you said wait

00:25:53.340 hold on oh no okay share this tab instead okay girls were designed to be passed around men at

00:26:06.700 at his level are going to meet girls already in their social circle pre-approved girls and groupies

00:26:11.440 yeah girls aren't leaving that social circle fail with one guy and she goes to the next this is

00:26:17.020 normal because another thing they don't take into account is the guys at this level are going to see

00:26:21.920 her like if she didn't crash out during a breakup with the first guy then they'll assume she's like

00:26:27.860 stable so it's like less risky is what i've seen anyway this guy is literally athletic royalty in

00:26:33.380 country he's been a celebrity since he was walking the last thing he's thinking about is her

00:26:37.300 and don't confuse american morality and sexual weirdness with the more relaxed casual nature

00:26:42.020 of the netherlands and europe they don't give enough go ahead and that's that's it in a nutshell

00:26:48.180 i mean there's a lot going on there yeah in you know the very first is these girls it's kind of

00:26:56.020 like being in a band groupies are available to everyone in the band yeah she's not just with

00:27:01.380 the drummer she's also with the guitarist you know and then she may end up marrying the lead singer

00:27:06.980 and that's normal and there's certain groups and especially like with professional athletes

00:27:13.060 there's girls that marry one and then they divorce and they marry the other you know tied

00:27:19.300 in from the same team and that's normal and also in wealthier circles and that's where i got the

00:27:26.820 where the girls don't leave i mean those girls they're in a rarefied atmosphere they're not

00:27:32.820 leaving you know it's hard to get into those groups in the first place and a lot of times

00:27:38.420 they like may have went to school with these guys or there's a reason for them to like all have

00:27:43.460 common friends um and it's a very small country where they're from um so when she breaks up with

00:27:52.580 one she's already got her eyes on the other you know she knows where she's going they're not

00:27:57.860 leaving that group um and if you had a good experience there's a referral you know what i

00:28:02.980 mean oh yeah yeah yeah these these are girls that have been around them usually for years

00:28:08.020 yeah and the best and the best examples is they tend to in wealthier circles of athlete athletes

00:28:16.260 and that have grown up as professional athletes um they they all know each other and they've all

00:28:23.780 been around each other forever so you know it's it's like um when somebody when two two couples

00:28:31.540 break up and one of the husbands marries the new ex-wife of the the couple they're friends with

00:28:37.700 you know there's there's familiarity there i know people that have literally swapped like husband

00:28:43.140 and wife exactly exactly yeah and this is normal i mean and all she said was you know i liked him

00:28:50.420 and then i saw you and i liked you more yeah you know that's that's the bottom line and where

00:28:57.940 they're from they those two live together and they have a child together that's like two years old

00:29:05.460 and where they're from there's a lot more cohabitation and family planning then down the

00:29:12.980 road they get married here in the u.s we're all about dating engagement wedding house babies

00:29:24.660 that's the girl blueprint so they follow that in the u.s and there they have they live together

00:29:33.540 that they have kids together then down the road they get married so effectively they're married

00:29:38.100 for their for their culture what do you think about when guys say that this is disgusting

00:29:44.340 women like shouldn't be you know i got one right there that's gross and nothing against i i respect

00:29:50.260 guys right to feel this way but i'm like guys i just think we're kind of horrors you know i don't

00:29:55.620 know i mean i i leave it you know i'll leave it up to them it's you know if yeah

00:30:03.540 If it doesn't work for you, that's fine. You know, and that's that's understandable. And it's it's a visceral response and it's emotional, too. And nor should they try to extinguish it. I mean, I'm not saying either is right or wrong. It's just.

00:30:17.940 There's it's normal. She you know, she liked this other guy. She likes this guy enough to have his children, you know, and it's like a different way of speaking when you try to take away morality from it.

00:30:30.020 but it's very hard because there's a lot of like Christian conservatives and

00:30:33.120 they just can't like, like men, you know,

00:30:37.120 I understand women should be virgins, but we're not. So it's like,

00:30:40.280 what do you get?

00:30:43.060 Your boyfriend asked that pretty consistently.

00:30:46.140 Were you a virgin when you got married? It shuts everybody down.

00:30:49.280 Oh yeah. Yeah. He does. It's pretty funny.

00:30:53.080 You mentioned in these circles also,

00:30:55.180 so you've seen the phenomenon of affluent fives,

00:30:58.960 which is where wealthy men pick fives over more attractive women yes mentally most guys think

00:31:07.440 i get rich i'm going to get a beautiful woman well most men especially if it's coming from

00:31:13.840 older money or generational money like your parents had money and you're the second generation

00:31:19.200 or third or fourth um and i discovered this basically one day it hit me i was at

00:31:27.520 my gym and at about 9 9 30 the local affluent wives have dropped off the kids and they come

00:31:34.480 into the gym and they're all fit they're all very social very great wise great great women great

00:31:40.480 people um and fit but facially none of them are classically pretty yeah there are five

00:31:51.520 you know i mean they may even be somewhat unattractive facially but they're slim and

00:31:57.120 and in shape and healthy and their personalities are fantastic um and that's who affluent men

00:32:06.800 especially if they come from like family businesses tend to marry like the president

00:32:12.640 marrying like the models it's more of an anomaly yeah and when you like look at an affluent

00:32:21.280 neighborhood i'm not sure where you grew up i mean but like i live in an affluent neighborhood

00:32:26.560 simply because that's where the business is you know it works it's great but um you're going to

00:32:33.040 see this you know it's it's it's not a knockout beautiful women everywhere maybe in california

00:32:39.920 but not in like minneapolis in the wealthier enclaves you know across the u.s do you think

00:32:47.740 it's a risk mitigation for them or do you think it's just because they don't have the time

00:32:52.300 or something else it's going to be it's going to be a number of factors working together

00:32:59.760 a lot of times the the parents have already kind of like identified who they would prefer that he

00:33:06.700 married like if he brings a girl home his freshman year of college they'll be like she's nice but if

00:33:13.580 you talk to jennifer she's in town you know and that's how they make it happen that's so true

00:33:18.860 and they keep in they keep inviting jennifer to every party you know so that's how it happens

00:33:25.100 they already have an idea and and men because there's a certain social you know what i was

00:33:30.300 thinking that men don't really care as much about social class but the women in their lives do you're

00:33:35.980 not you're not gonna have some old like some ratchet girl coming back even if she's hot we're

00:33:41.580 not doing it it and also in those in those social groups a very beautiful woman upsets

00:33:52.300 the equilibrium you know true i didn't even think about that yeah i mean there's a lot of different

00:33:59.340 things going and like you said it's it's um what would you say um risk mitigation to a certain

00:34:07.180 extent you know but what i've seen i mean these these affluent fives are fantastic um moms

00:34:15.580 fantastic wives you know in the classic example and i and people get really upset it's like

00:34:21.340 jacqueline onassis you know kennedy onassis oh yeah first lady oh yeah she's not classically

00:34:27.820 pretty in the face but a classy woman you know she's an affluent five or jeff bezos's first wife

00:34:37.100 not a classically pretty woman but you know she got the job done would you put his last wife as a

00:34:45.020 five i don't know what to call his current wife yeah yeah no his current wife actually explain

00:34:51.340 that to me because i call i give her mid of the year because that was that was great she's she's

00:34:59.180 she was an entertainment yeah reporter so she's already in those circles she'd been married to a

00:35:05.980 celebrity already yeah and had dated a famous football player she's not leaving that circle

00:35:13.260 yeah it's true yeah well what would make a guy like bezos because you know she just kind of

00:35:19.740 looks like a walking red flag you know what i mean you know i'm just i she she knows i think she

00:35:26.860 should get some type of award for closing the deal she knows exactly what she's doing she could have

00:35:31.820 chose any man and she chose him yeah and she's pursued him and closed the deal i'm sure they

00:35:39.180 have a lot of fun yeah i gave her the greatest mid of all time she earned that whatever she's done

00:35:45.900 she earned it and and and she she probably knows men and how to attract men better than any other

00:35:55.580 woman on earth right now yeah no seriously who is the other one there's like one or two other ones

00:36:01.260 i did shows on where i just said oh taylor swift's another one mid of the year but doesn't she kind

00:36:11.740 like are you saying because she attracted this this football player so um yeah when average

00:36:18.220 looking women even past their prime land like a really high value guy i give them mid of the year

00:36:24.460 that's pretty funny yeah so it's like um where you just you know because from a look standpoint

00:36:30.060 taylor swift is like a five six i'd say um yeah oh yeah mid 30s so i'm like you know she's

00:36:36.940 competing with 20 year olds for this nfl this pro football player yeah and she won uh mid of the

00:36:43.500 year and it's the same thing with um the bezos's wife you know yeah i did give bezos's wife the

00:36:52.060 crown because uh you know she's a bit older two baby daddies i mean that's oh yeah a lot of yeah

00:36:57.900 a little rough around the edges yeah yeah so i'm like mid of the year is there anyone you'd nominate

00:37:03.180 for mid of the year no i didn't ever think about taylor being in there but that's pretty funny

00:37:09.900 that's pretty funny that's pretty good and she's just yeah she's she's slim tall kind of awkward

00:37:15.740 you know you know great entertainer makes a lot of people happy i think it's pretty funny

00:37:22.220 yeah you said um it actually reminds me of something that you said

00:37:25.500 um i used to have this idea that women if they made poor life choices that they would have

00:37:33.900 consequence i really thought they would um but it turns out when women are hot enough they have

00:37:40.060 no consequences not attractive women will always land on their feet okay so what made you think of

00:37:46.700 that tell me time watching women over what 40 or 50 years okay the only the only the only wild

00:37:55.500 card is alcoholism yeah drug abuse those tend to like derail even an unwanted pregnancy will not

00:38:06.700 derail an attractive woman men marry single moms divorced women every day you know you get a lot

00:38:14.620 lot of pushback on twitter and maybe in your world you see it a little bit but in general

00:38:21.700 you know once a guy has kids himself you don't really think about her having kids is actually

00:38:27.200 an advantage you know because she understands you know your weekends are taken up or you have to be

00:38:34.580 here um so it's it's different dynamics oh actually could you explain that more so some guys want

00:38:40.960 women with kids yeah it's not it's going to be a non-issue once you have kids yeah you're usually

00:38:47.200 trying to date a woman that doesn't have kids she's not going to understand like these little

00:38:54.540 balls of energy and you have to be you you know you're actually taking them to disneyland you've

00:39:00.920 got to be somewhere else you're not available to her like a guy without kids would be and she

00:39:07.920 doesn't understand their needs yeah no that's really I know a guy that um was looking for a

00:39:13.680 single mother because he wanted her to stay home and he thought he felt like a woman with no kids

00:39:18.940 wouldn't stay home because she'd want to work or do like go to events do whatever yeah so he like

00:39:23.760 married a single mom and then just like retired her immediately everybody wins yeah and I say

00:39:30.520 that you know I mean I can understand a guy that does not have children not wanting you know I

00:39:35.800 understand that because there's there's you know you're there's a lot of things going on there in

00:39:40.780 the background but once you have kids it really becomes a non-issue not for everyone i know guys

00:39:49.900 with kids that they just won't do it but in general um they understand your your uh your

00:39:57.080 challenges so when um women when men start dating women in your like system or program and they

00:40:06.040 actually um you know are dating multiple women have a rotation that kind of thing

00:40:11.000 what are things that you advise men to screen for

00:40:17.240 well if the girl's in the rotation you know it's a little bit looser does that make sense i mean

00:40:22.280 you know if you want to screen probably before you even start dating most girls don't make it

00:40:30.220 through one of the things that happens is when you date a lot of women you know like i say for

00:40:36.460 beginners it takes about three dates to close the deal for intermediate it takes two and then for

00:40:42.620 a guy who's advanced you're going to sleep with your old in the first night or you're probably

00:40:46.700 not going to sleep with her at all and it's not because your game is so much better it's because

00:40:52.980 you're better at picking women that fit you does that make sense yeah so it's you're not wasting

00:41:00.040 time with women that don't even like you exactly you can pick out what women don't like you so

00:41:06.980 not that you're that much more charming but if you know exactly girl likes a certain type you

00:41:12.680 find the women that actually like that type yeah and i i call it you have yes girls maybe girls and

00:41:19.120 no girls and you just pick more yes girls yeah you know and once you've been around yes girls

00:41:24.420 who are like hey you want to meet up for a drink yes how about eight o'clock at this bar yes hey

00:41:31.680 you want to go to my place yes you know i mean after a while you figure out who the yes girls

00:41:37.740 are and it just makes life easier for everyone um i forgot you had a tweet about telling women off

00:41:45.580 there's two types of guys when they do get the no or she's rude but there's some guys that tell

00:41:51.180 the women off and there's some guys that are just chill could you expand on that okay i don't know

00:41:58.460 yeah in general i think i did like a video on this just recently yeah in general girls girls

00:42:04.380 are going to ghost let's say you go out with her one time and then her ex-boyfriend shows back up

00:42:09.980 on her doorstep the next morning and he wants another shot it's usually an ex and so she ghosts

00:42:17.660 you you may not hear for from her for a couple weeks a month or two long enough for this thing

00:42:23.180 to run its course and fall apart again she reaches back out to you come back in start sleeping

00:42:32.380 together she will nine times out of ten go hey i'm really sorry about ghosting you but my ex-husband

00:42:40.800 showed back up we got two kids and i had to give it a shot and it just didn't work out

00:42:46.100 but the other group of guys will be like no i refuse to talk to her you know or i'm not taking

00:42:53.260 her back or she'll just do it again or like you said they'll tell her off you know don't ever

00:42:59.000 contact me again and those guys don't they have the satisfaction of ghosting her or telling her

00:43:07.420 off but they're not getting laid so you have to decide which one is important to you you know

00:43:15.860 and some guys just cannot deal and i totally respect their decision they can't deal with

00:43:21.200 the girl that leaves and comes back leaves and comes back even though you know if you're running

00:43:26.020 lot of women that's going to be pretty normal all right um wouldn't some guys say they don't

00:43:31.060 want to be like a woman's second choice and if like you know that's completely up to them yeah

00:43:37.780 the way i kind of well because the way i would see it is she doesn't know you that well yet

00:43:42.500 so oh yeah that's how he doesn't and i think they don't they don't realize that if i have an

00:43:47.780 emotional investment and like a history with something like obviously no no and that's why

00:43:52.260 why i try to convey to these guys when a girl does ghost you you know and it's 99 of the time

00:43:58.940 it has nothing to do with you it's usually for a guy she's already invested in yeah because you

00:44:04.460 are an unknown quality quantity you know she doesn't know enough about even if she slept with

00:44:10.060 you a couple times and she's definitely not going to keep you in her phone because if her ex-husband

00:44:16.280 finds out she's been dating he's gone again you know so girls would rather just ghost then you

00:44:23.960 know they don't like controversy or confrontation so they're gone and that's totally understandable

00:44:30.600 and for for guys like in my world you know if if you're going to run a lot of women you're going

00:44:36.760 to run a rotation they're going to see other men yeah you're providing a service to a certain extent

00:44:44.280 you have a purpose you know what i mean i have to convey this to somebody so people understand

00:44:52.520 between her relationships you're that guy you know she's taking this guy she's kind of vetting him

00:44:59.640 she's like he's boyfriend material you're not yeah so therefore you're providing a service but what

00:45:07.160 about the guys that are because you know what's crazy i think more men want serious relationships

00:45:12.680 and women do just that's just what i've seen i'm like it's because that's very interesting that's

00:45:18.840 the one um thing that i get is a lot of guys especially younger ones they want a wife they

00:45:24.520 want a girl they're like i want to be the serious guy you know yes but don't until they start getting

00:45:31.960 that food nanny then they're done they get laid once or twice they're like oh never mind yeah

00:45:39.160 they're satisfied oh god god sorry i well you got to remember though like for a girl without a guy

00:45:45.880 she's kind of like a boat without a rudder yeah you know i mean truly and y'all were built y'all

00:45:53.400 don't do well by yourselves yeah that's true bad decisions guys can go by themselves for long

00:46:01.240 periods of time they can explore they can travel they they can do all kinds of things without

00:46:05.320 companionship um but women don't do well for very long without a man in their life and they seem to

00:46:12.280 be happier you know do you know what it is now though the problem i've seen i don't know if

00:46:17.720 you've seen this is all the boyfriend stuff is kind of outsourced to beta male friends

00:46:22.840 or like fathers relatives brothers right like so all the stuff that a boyfriend or a husband would

00:46:28.920 do and so then you know she just gets you know now she only interesting now she only needs the

00:46:35.480 casual guy no i've never i haven't really seen that or put it together you know what i mean but

00:46:42.360 it does make sense i've just seen that with like my um my youngest sister she's like around she's

00:46:48.980 like gen z and her them and their friends they just don't seem like interested in dating and

00:46:54.100 everything seems to be delayed like their whole phases seem to come like five years later than

00:46:59.320 like millennial women and five years later than the people before you know what i mean that's

00:47:03.300 interesting have you seen something else i don't know i've seen the delay yeah in general but i

00:47:11.040 know i know there's probably people that are like throwing skewing the numbers you know the guys

00:47:18.100 that are pretty active and the girls that are active earlier on yeah but but the ones that are

00:47:25.060 inactive they seem healthier about it than they used to be you know people feel really awkward if

00:47:30.780 they hadn't lost their virginity by a certain age or you know and and now there's really no stigma

00:47:36.700 to taking your time coming out of that yeah but i don't i don't think like with this like where

00:47:44.700 they're projecting like 50% of women will be unmarried and childless at 40, you know,

00:47:51.120 in three years. It's going to take an awful lot in society to make that happen. Because generally

00:47:59.200 90% of people, men and women, will marry in their lifetime. 90%.

00:48:06.540 So what do you think is going to happen then? You think people will just get married later

00:48:11.460 and like have kids later yeah yeah it's just kind of like women having kids

00:48:15.800 like something what 86 87 percent of women have children even if you haven't had a 30

00:48:21.920 that that alarm goes off inside at about 32 to 35 you know and it's a very real thing you know

00:48:30.020 it's it's an urgency and so yeah wait till your fit wait till everybody kind of

00:48:36.980 goes through this life cycle and i bet the numbers will

00:48:40.740 come out to just where they're at it's delayed i just thought of a good question so how many

00:48:46.660 major heartbreaks do you think women go through before they find their the guy they want to marry

00:48:53.140 oh god it's okay if you don't have a good if you don't know it's okay but i was just i don't know

00:48:58.420 but usually we say you know when you say hey you know how many partners have you had they always

00:49:03.460 say three it's my boyfriend my college boyfriend it is one serious guy after college yeah and now

00:49:13.540 i'm here you know and that's the story i don't care everything else is like you know what would

00:49:20.420 you tell guys to expect like do you just say don't think about it like what do you like

00:49:25.940 enjoy the ride probably yeah yeah because it's gonna it's gonna upset them yeah there's a lot

00:49:34.660 of doesn't count sex one night stands travel it didn't last more than a couple days he he didn't

00:49:43.860 last you know or you know it there's so much i have a whole list of doesn't count sex but the

00:49:50.500 The sex that counts, according to women, is those things that last two years or more in a committed monogamous relationship.

00:49:59.200 And everything else doesn't count.

00:50:01.140 I agree.

00:50:02.240 Yeah, I know.

00:50:04.020 It's hardwired.

00:50:06.180 Pretty funny.

00:50:07.620 Which kind of goes back to one of your points, though.

00:50:09.860 Women are experts at keeping men they are sleeping with away from each other.

00:50:13.240 i always hear guys talk about i hate to go into the men today but i always they always say oh if

00:50:19.800 she was cheating i would know and i'm like i don't know there's men that have fought that have

00:50:23.000 raised kids that aren't theirs that have no idea that's true that's true and you have to look at

00:50:27.880 it yeah i mean when i when i convey that generally and this came up like when you meet a girl and

00:50:36.840 she's attractive there's a very good chance she's having sex with someone and you and maybe another

00:50:45.000 guy and how do we know this because i've been the other guy you know when you're in a rotation and

00:50:51.240 you ask any of these guys yeah they'll say yeah i mean she'd like put her boyfriend on mute and

00:50:59.080 tell me you know or they come in they're like where should i tell i'm at i'm at you know he's

00:51:03.160 looking for me so you're the other guy so you know that this stuff goes on um they're they're

00:51:11.320 experts because i would ask i would say do you think you know this potential boyfriend of yours

00:51:16.920 has any idea they're like no it's just not on their radar and it's not even a hard deception it's just

00:51:27.080 they hide it do you think this is something guys should like worry about or no absolutely nothing

00:51:36.080 it has nothing to do with you i mean you can't stop it yeah it's just there you just have to

00:51:41.180 kind of know that way you're not shocked and i hate to say this but it's kind of like the classic

00:51:46.320 it's kind of like this classic saying is assume she's a slut you'll seldom be disappointed yeah

00:51:55.120 and it really does take the edge off you know when you find out she like slept with your best

00:52:00.460 friend you're like well of course she did so you're not as shocked and that's what i say like

00:52:08.140 guys that are actually because i don't know if you'd consider yourself red but i would consider

00:52:13.820 you part of like um like guys that are in the red pill would you agree or no yeah game is part of

00:52:19.700 red yeah so you go game is i'm sorry red pill is strategic correct it's very big game is tactical

00:52:32.260 correct it's application you guys are so pragmatic i love talking to you guys like the other day

00:52:38.580 i was in this um i was on this twitter war because i see i said um that corn corn has saved more

00:52:48.100 marriages. Oh, I saw that. Yeah. And all these religious people are like, well, he can't. And

00:52:53.320 I'm like, well, is cheating better? And they're like, well, don't do that. And I'm like, can he

00:52:57.340 divorce? They're like, no. And I'm like, well, what's he going to do? Don't have sex ever. I'm

00:53:01.220 like, I don't, that's a tough sell. You know, I don't know. That is a tough, tough road. You're

00:53:08.500 asking for it, but somebody has to ask the question, right? Yeah. But I love talking to

00:53:14.220 guys because you guys are just so much more pragmatic you guys are just very like these

00:53:18.460 are so just assume they're all not all but i mean that's you know most yeah it's it's it's

00:53:26.780 probably likely it's more than most guys and that's okay i mean i don't want guys you know

00:53:33.580 losing their minds and they will yeah so going back to the screening question because i saw a

00:53:41.500 tweet that said to screen to make sure she has a high sex drive or a good sex drive i was just

00:53:47.020 curious if there's other things when guys so started dating they should screen for um like

00:53:51.740 any things they should run away you know run away as fast as you can yeah any things that are green

00:53:58.300 flags what do you have yeah i mean the red flags i mean we we've made lists which generally you

00:54:04.780 you know like an odd hair color an unnatural hair color septum piercings heavy tattoos they are

00:54:13.320 generally indicative of some type of mental trauma you know and things aren't going to go well that's

00:54:20.260 they're bright they're right in front of you um it's things like that will you have to know what

00:54:28.240 you're getting involved with does that make sense well it does i mean that's that's but some guys

00:54:36.720 are drawn to that they're like i want trouble you know i want i want tattoos because it makes

00:54:43.380 her seem more attainable oh i didn't realize that was the reasoning why guys i know it caught me

00:54:51.240 off guard too somebody sat me down and explained it i was like she's got a bear she's got a belly

00:54:55.800 she's got tattoos she looks like hell and they're like yeah but she's attainable

00:55:00.940 and i'm like that makes sense and you you mentioned also men you'd recommend men screen for

00:55:09.900 women that have high sex drives because if women are bragging about being celibate that's a bad

00:55:14.800 sign yeah right i mean you want your sex drives to match yeah you know ideally and there's a lot

00:55:24.300 of high sex drive guys in our world in high sex drive they think it's high sex drive but like

00:55:30.540 bunny says just because she's like really excited in the first 12 weeks and you have sex three times

00:55:36.480 at a weekend isn't high sex drive you know you want to see high sex drive over long periods of

00:55:42.860 time and there's and a lot of sex drive is genetic yeah it's almost like being a gifted athlete they

00:55:51.060 can they recover quickly they're multi-orgasmic they they have orgasm after orgasm after orgasm

00:55:57.700 they do not get tired they don't have a lot of like they're able to sleep with a number of men

00:56:04.720 it doesn't really affect them you know there's group there's women out there that can do that

00:56:09.120 um some guys don't believe it but oh they're there i believe it yeah they're fine i mean

00:56:16.000 literally you won't know um and there's i mean it's almost it's a genetic predisposition um and

00:56:24.560 and a healthy approach to sex and an openness to it and physically they can keep up and do it and

00:56:31.440 they also want to generally basically have sex every day no do you know what it was um you're

00:56:37.680 one of the few people i've seen talk about that that women can bang a bunch of dudes and be fine

00:56:42.960 because there's this idea that they'll be super broken after and the conservative guys eat that

00:56:47.840 up that's why they keep running to the church you know and um i'm like i i interviewed lily phillips

00:56:56.640 before she did all that stuff you know that is like i do i do yeah what do you mean like before

00:57:02.720 like what did she do before oh sorry she was just an only fans but before she did the 10th out

00:57:07.520 whatever oh okay okay but i was like i think she just i talked to her for a bit and i didn't really

00:57:14.560 get the sense she was broken i just think she really enjoys banging a lot of dudes i think this

00:57:19.600 is her i think it's her favorite hobby you know there are girls that fly to you know vegas and

00:57:26.960 do the escort thing they enjoy sex it doesn't affect them yeah you know like it does them

00:57:35.440 again a lot of it's genetic you know they enjoy they truly they physically enjoy it more than

00:57:42.460 other women you know across the mean but again you know it depends on the person and and like

00:57:50.620 bunny and i asked bunny about this too and she said a lot of times it's how the girl frames

00:57:56.340 what she's looking for let's say she goes through three horrible relationships that

00:58:01.420 she wanted to get married and each of them crumbled in on itself she's probably going to

00:58:07.200 be more impacted by that than a girl who just wanted to have fun and dated three guys for some

00:58:12.800 time you know she knew that it wouldn't come out and actually end in anything but if a girl has a

00:58:18.120 mindset of like i want this to be something significant and it goes to shit three times

00:58:23.940 she's going to be more effective wow do you know what i've never verbalized that but that's a really

00:58:30.680 good observation it's and that's from a girl because i could i wouldn't wrap yeah because

00:58:38.280 it's almost like the fun girls seem to get commitment anyways more to be honest what

00:58:43.720 actually red pilled me on the the women not having consequences was i looked up all five of like five

00:58:51.080 girls i knew in school that were just with everybody and all five were married with kids

00:58:54.920 absolutely and think about it too they're they're attractive enough to like attract men even younger

00:59:02.520 and they have good personalities and they tend to get what they want yeah it it works out for

00:59:09.960 everyone um so back to like kind of the system that you have for men um that you know work with

00:59:21.000 you you said she went through 6 000 men on her dating apps and she chose you to meet up with

00:59:28.040 there's a good damn good chance she'll f you if you don't talk her out of it well these guys i

00:59:35.640 mean just like the apps and i walked through like you know 50 percent were like height and weight

00:59:40.760 not what she was looking for and i kind of like broke it down to where it really comes down to

00:59:45.880 even out of 6 000 men there's just two of you yeah you know and when a girl goes all okay you

00:59:54.920 know a girl getting prepped for a date it takes a few hours she might leave work early she buys

01:00:00.920 new shoes she puts on a dress she takes a shower shaves everything puts on a dress does her hair

01:00:07.000 drives there pays for parking then walks in she's invested she's hoping you'll do well

01:00:15.880 You know, she's hoping you'll talk her into going home with, with yourself, you know.

01:00:22.300 And these guys, they actually push back.

01:00:24.600 I'm like, and this guy had a great analogy.

01:00:27.140 He said, if a girl wants to buy a car and drives down to the dealership, she doesn't want you to the sales.

01:00:33.220 She doesn't want the salesman to fail.

01:00:35.120 She wants to buy a car.

01:00:36.860 Yeah.

01:00:37.280 So when she comes out, she's already like next 5,000 people.

01:00:42.380 She's sitting down with you.

01:00:43.600 You're at the top of the list.

01:00:45.300 Well, what do you think when they say, oh, she's just trying to use me for food?

01:00:49.780 Or, yeah, or.

01:00:51.440 I get that daily.

01:00:52.920 Drinks only.

01:00:53.880 Or if she shows up late, you know, let's say she shows up like super late.

01:00:58.480 She's just disrespectful.

01:00:59.740 Like, what do you think?

01:01:00.740 All women are late.

01:01:02.080 All women are going to be late.

01:01:04.680 Are you late?

01:01:06.340 Yeah.

01:01:07.220 Okay.

01:01:08.540 All women are late.

01:01:10.080 That's okay.

01:01:10.780 That's normal.

01:01:13.620 Drinks only.

01:01:14.820 no dinner no first first eight dinners that's a general game rule dinner drinks only because

01:01:21.960 it's sexier it's in the evening you want to kind of stack the deck in your favor you know um so

01:01:28.520 drinks only and you tend to screen you're not taking her to dinner you're not taking her and

01:01:32.860 you're going to just go for a couple drinks you're going to maybe if things go well go to the next

01:01:36.700 place and i think girls you that will push for dinner guy guys that know game they'll just

01:01:44.600 yeah then problem solved again you're never if you don't ever pay for dinner then it's

01:01:51.680 yeah problem solved exactly exactly and if you say no you get the girls that actually want to

01:01:58.220 go out for a drink and meet a sexy man that's what you get so you have to be kind of like

01:02:04.680 specific about what you're looking for but unfortunately a lot of these guys and and i do

01:02:10.320 asked you know have you ever you know felt like you would have been using they're like no

01:02:15.520 no i think it's one of those like um urban urban mess a lot of this stuff kind of like

01:02:23.400 if i talk to this girl i'm going to get arrested it's it's never happened yeah it's only in your

01:02:30.120 head and if you take this girl out she's just using you it's never happened or it's happened

01:02:36.060 there's certain where you'll see girls like on tiktok like date six men in one night yeah but

01:02:41.500 generally if you have the basic rudimentary skills you'll screen them out and a lot of women go on um

01:02:50.860 go on first dates i would say um like if women date multiple men i i think it's just like first

01:02:57.260 dates i don't see women really drawing it out that long so what it's like how 50 bucks on

01:03:01.740 drinks you lost right right not again you could be you you know the more you do this the better

01:03:07.980 you scream to girls that are coming to meet you and have fun okay so what are five practical

01:03:15.740 things men can do like today to improve their dating life oh five you give me three if you

01:03:27.260 on i just okay i've started fresh breath okay clean fingernails these are things that actually

01:03:34.700 kill guys dirty hands and say hi to every woman you see that's true these are little things that

01:03:42.060 if you don't take care of breath breath will kill even the most handsome charismatic man if he has

01:03:48.700 bad breath it's going to go south so you can take care of breath take care of basic hygiene

01:03:56.300 um say hi to every girl you see and actually ask them out you'll be going out with a lot more women

01:04:03.340 um how would you tell men to ask women out like do you recommend just a simple approach or like

01:04:09.740 lines yeah yes and again i i always get guys they go you know how do i open this girl what do i say

01:04:19.100 you can say anything i go the last two or three girls you slept with do you remember what you

01:04:24.620 said to them the first time they're like no it doesn't matter yeah what matters is you spoke to

01:04:32.620 them and then moved it forward that's that's the ideal it's a little bit harder by text and again

01:04:39.500 a lot of this is like internal guys will be like sure i got i need to ask her out i need to ask

01:04:44.540 her out i need to ask her and then they'll like not ask her out yeah that's the bigger problem

01:04:49.820 then how do you do it well because you're kind of pushing that guys have a system oh well yeah

01:04:55.340 yeah i mean it's it's let's say we get them off the app it's opener two or three flirty banner

01:05:05.020 back and forth then hey i'm going here on this night at about eight o'clock why don't you come

01:05:11.100 with me you're already going does she want to come with you she'll either say yes great she'll say

01:05:18.380 maybe or and maybe means i can't that night but i can another night and you close that night or

01:05:27.180 she'll say no and then you just drop it and never ask her out again it's very simple does that make

01:05:33.340 sense no it makes perfect sense yeah and you can do the same thing in person it's probably actually

01:05:39.580 easier in person because at least you have the guts to do it it's surprising girls like will

01:05:45.020 give you points for having balls though no we do we do for being bold no we totally do because it's

01:05:53.180 like well at least you had the balls to ask yes yeah and then i have a system like you know

01:06:00.700 drinks you bounce to another place that's nearby drinks you pitch give her plausible deniability

01:06:06.060 to come to your place and i do recommend like knowing your logistics and knowing where you're

01:06:10.300 going to go so there's an entire book on like how to build your dating system so i actually do have

01:06:15.600 systems guys like systems and they like predictability um and then you just pitch like

01:06:21.860 hey you know i own a midget would you like to meet him or you know would you like to see my

01:06:26.320 art collection anything non-sexual that will get her back to your place for sex

01:06:32.340 because she needs plausible deniability a dog right i mean i'm not saying to buy

01:06:39.760 oh yeah i know a guy with a dog yes that's correct even if you don't have a dog you can

01:06:45.680 say hey would you like to meet my dog because the dog's never going to come up

01:06:51.280 that's funny you want to be my dog and there's no there's no dog

01:06:57.680 he didn't even have a dog you could have a stuffed animal that's a dog that is very funny yes

01:07:02.320 yeah but i mean anything will do i mean and you and girls appreciate that it just because you

01:07:10.720 can't go hey let's go up and bang it's it's bad form yeah what how many women do men tend to like

01:07:18.640 in their rotation like what's what's the sweet spot three and is there doing too much with a

01:07:26.160 girl you're seeing casually like if you want to communicate that a woman's casual or a woman's

01:07:31.680 long-term how often do you see them well we kind of like categorize them we have girlfriend

01:07:36.400 candidates candidates or fuck buddies or friends with benefits i always say prefer friends with

01:07:42.720 benefits girls don't like being called fuck buddies it's bad form um but like with girlfriend

01:07:48.780 candidates you can like go to dinner you can you know do things together socially because you're

01:07:54.740 kind of screening her for becoming your girlfriend someday but like with true casual you're just

01:08:00.320 hanging out for sex you always have sex when you meet up and we say once a week it seems to be the

01:08:09.440 sweet spot just once a week she can be miss tuesday and every tuesday you guys meet up and

01:08:15.360 she can come straight over you guys can meet for drinks and then go back to your place but

01:08:20.720 you don't do girl she doesn't sleep over there's no gifts there's no nothing that you would normally

01:08:29.080 do with like a girlfriend yeah when it's when guys do that that things get confusing and people get

01:08:35.640 hurt i knew a girl in milwaukee when i lived there who this guy had the second date introduced her to

01:08:44.360 his whole family and i guess that was his play like he did like they knew there was like rotating

01:08:51.320 women oh that is funny and i saw her like after like she found out this is just what he does

01:08:58.520 later yeah that is hilarious yes oh i felt kind of bad i'm like that is that's gutsy that's very

01:09:05.880 funny uh yeah i know like he took them on like um cruises on the like it was i don't know how to

01:09:13.240 describe it but there's like those dinners that are like on the river i know exactly what you're

01:09:17.800 talking about yeah he would take them on the river and then with his mom but he just wanted to get

01:09:23.480 dinner with his mom once a week and so he would just like well just bring her and the mom that is

01:09:29.640 funny but he had a system

01:09:37.240 said he had a system yeah that's true

01:09:39.640 oh yeah um okay so i forgot what we were talking about but yeah he did have a

01:09:49.080 oh the the casual versus long term right okay casual you have to remain you know you have to

01:09:55.480 keep guardrails up okay so it doesn't appear and like i said no sleepovers no gift giving no she's

01:10:05.000 she's this is how guys end up with a girlfriend okay she's just a friend with benefits she comes

01:10:11.620 over once a week they hook up she says hey i have this event will you go with me he says yeah i'll

01:10:18.400 go well they have a fucking blast and then pretty soon he's got a girlfriend and all the other girls

01:10:25.420 have to go away because they already sexually compatible then they go out and they're having

01:10:30.480 fun and they get along and it's over so that's how they end up with a girlfriend because they

01:10:37.900 treated her like a girlfriend yeah you have to keep guardrails up you have to say no you know

01:10:43.520 to the boyfriend girlfriend stuff and she may truly just need a date but it's not his role

01:10:48.780 if he wants to remain where he's at okay and how often do you recommend seeing a girl that

01:10:54.260 you want to see more long term uh usually usually like if you're already still running

01:11:00.200 rotation you're gonna be able to she's going to start butting these other girls out is what's

01:11:04.040 going to happen usually like two or three times a week and she'll want a weekend spot yeah that's

01:11:09.240 what happens yeah that's girls start eating up your time they know what they're doing that's

01:11:15.080 always what i say to women because occasionally i get dms from women and i say i always say you

01:11:20.360 can tell where you're at by how often he sees you if he doesn't see you on saturdays i got bad news

01:11:25.880 that's that's very good yeah and even like hardcore players they just don't go out with

01:11:31.320 anyone on the weekends yeah they consider it like amateur night you know tuesday and um monday

01:11:38.120 monday tuesday wednesday thursday they go out yeah every other week got bad news for you

01:11:44.520 once a month i got even worse news for you you're at the bottom of the rotation that's pretty funny

01:11:50.040 um so where what yeah what is there anything you've seen in the past like few years that has

01:12:03.960 like changed with technology um in terms of like not just like dating apps but

01:12:10.040 like is that the number one way your clients are meeting women instagram twitter no oh yeah okay

01:12:16.360 No, well, a lot of people do meet on Twitter, but none of my people, you know, it's all, you know, guys reach out to me, they either have a very specific girl, they don't want to fuck up, or they're looking for as much volume as possible, which is why we go to everything that they can actually handle lead wise.

01:12:37.120 and online is usually your best spot.

01:12:40.680 Does that make sense?

01:12:41.580 Because it's so vast.

01:12:44.780 But it's not your only route for lead generation.

01:12:49.440 It's kind of like if you own a business,

01:12:51.720 you're going to have multiple marketing polls

01:12:54.500 and different pools.

01:12:57.500 So that's how you look at it.

01:12:59.600 You look at it as lead generation.

01:13:02.560 So guys, we use whatever they're comfortable with

01:13:05.440 as much as possible.

01:13:07.840 usually guys do reach out to me about about 60 they have a specific girl they just don't want

01:13:13.200 to screw it up mess up yeah have you found um when when they don't want to screw it up with a

01:13:20.080 woman is it usually they don't want to screw up the date or like they're seeing a girl and

01:13:24.240 they don't want her to ghost they have in the past they they know the principles are

01:13:31.520 they're players to a certain extent yeah but they've kind of like fallen they and they do

01:13:37.760 the same thing that normal guys do they start kind of smothering her yeah and they literally run her

01:13:43.840 off yeah so they're like please help me not smother this girlfriend of mine so we just draw

01:13:51.760 them back a bit less is more yeah what what is seeing her too much in your experience like when

01:14:00.160 is it smothering you know that's situational pearl okay it really comes down because a lot

01:14:07.120 of times i guess it's when she doesn't initiate anything oh you know girls that are interested in

01:14:14.240 you will make things happen they'll show up on your doorstep they'll go hey let's go do this

01:14:19.120 or you want to come over and talk to my parents you know but it's when you're doing all the

01:14:23.520 initiating you're probably doing too much all right um if they have questions i'll bring them

01:14:29.360 bring it up advice for a bdsm type of relationship man it's not my specialty

01:14:37.600 i don't know and it's it's a true you know there's there's an entire world dedicated to it

01:14:43.520 but it's not mine are your clients usually rich or average men

01:14:50.320 i think it skews affluent i've noticed that the guys are even in their 20s

01:14:54.480 are very very um well employed i mean it's not it's not cheap you know i have books that are

01:15:03.120 like 30 bucks it can help you a lot but as far as like clients they tend to be pretty because

01:15:09.760 these are guys that are like willing to pay for coaching yeah to get what they it's kind of like

01:15:14.080 personal training people that are very smart will hire a coach to get them where they want to be

01:15:19.200 faster so that's you know that's who i you know what's funny is i do actually get a lot of like

01:15:27.280 attorneys and doctors okay i can see that because they probably work a lot so they don't really

01:15:33.200 have time for women when they're younger it's true yeah the attorneys seem to they have a lot

01:15:40.080 of charisma they're able to write write and speak and it's just they run into like tactical problems

01:15:49.200 do you think that money um like men have to have money in order to date absolutely not

01:15:56.360 no there's there's broadcast broke bartenders bodybuilders skateboarders banging a rotation

01:16:04.060 of like 20 year old sevens and eights on the mattress on the floor it's absolutely unnecessary

01:16:11.720 if anything they do better that's what i'm not thinking exactly they're not even thinking about

01:16:17.660 i've got guys they love the mattress on the floor game because they go god and when i was broke i

01:16:24.540 slayed and now they're wealthy and they they're like i hate this yeah because they got nothing

01:16:30.300 to lose there's nothing like i mean they have nothing but their personality you know so they've

01:16:37.500 got it but again yes and that's what i try to convey to guys you don't have to have money

01:16:42.300 to do any of this you know you can you can bang a girl in your car a mattress on the floor tends

01:16:49.100 to do it though um so they want to know how long you casually dated before finding your now fiance

01:16:58.300 maybe a couple years maybe two or three years maybe like seven seven years oh tell her i said

01:17:03.820 hi i love her i've listened to a lot of your videos with her oh good that's funny um that's

01:17:10.940 funny so apparently seven years okay um i was in my 30s when i got married the first time

01:17:18.860 and then then i was divorced like late 40s what do you think about um when men say they're going

01:17:28.300 their own way or that no one should get married in this market what are your thoughts on that

01:17:35.180 yeah the men go on their own way i mean they don't really contact me much and i used to see

01:17:39.100 him more you know on twitter i don't see him as much the last couple years yeah as as one guy

01:17:45.580 said because i asked he said well they all went their own way i was like that makes sense because

01:17:50.460 there's no fight like if you're going to be like why do you know yeah um and then what was your

01:17:58.460 second question pearl well that men shouldn't get married man that's a tough sell you know i mean

01:18:06.140 like I said, 90% of men do get married eventually. And 5% of that 10% are mentally or physically

01:18:19.500 debilitated or they're so impoverished they can't afford to get married. So 5% really

01:18:25.580 decide against it. And they seem to do fine. But in general, most men will eventually get married.

01:18:35.980 at some point and i don't i don't um discourage it because i know that most men will get married

01:18:44.940 you know i don't think i don't think that the divorce laws are like as equitable

01:18:49.580 yeah you know the state really does work for the moms from my experience but everybody has

01:18:57.420 their own experience you know um but the anti-marriage i think it's not realistic to tell

01:19:04.380 men don't get married because generally most are going to get married yeah most if anything i see

01:19:10.780 more men wanting to get married than women i can see that maybe maybe maybe it's not what you've

01:19:19.740 seen it's just what i've seen i think i see more men like wanting to get married but just like they

01:19:26.220 can't find a girl that's good enough quality but they do want marriage especially i've noticed

01:19:32.140 once divorced guys seem to be like the most willing to jump back in 75 of men yeah that are

01:19:40.560 divorced first time divorce will be remarried within five years yeah and it's like bunny pointed

01:19:47.800 out to me because you know we'd be talking to some girl who's dating this guy that's like in

01:19:52.480 his 40s and bunny'd say you know how many times he's been divorced she'd be like oh like four or

01:19:57.780 five times, she goes, well, you guys are going to get married, you know, because he's a marrying

01:20:02.020 guy. He's the marrying kind. So if a guy marries three or four times, he's going to get married

01:20:08.400 five times. They don't stop. And for a lot of guys, you got to remember like they've been married

01:20:15.740 and they get divorced. It's their identity. I'm a married dad. I don't like being out here being

01:20:23.340 a single weirdo you know it's there's a social strata to a certain extent but they like being

01:20:30.460 married it's less to worry about in general yeah so how does that reconcile um with it's not she's

01:20:39.580 not yours it's just your turn or that could fall there's there's plenty of there's well when you

01:20:47.740 when you pass away and your widow, she usually remarries.

01:20:52.160 Yeah, that's true.

01:20:52.860 It really is.

01:20:54.680 I don't mean to be too morbid, but that's pretty much the explanation.

01:20:59.440 What do you think of open relationships?

01:21:03.760 That's a rough one.

01:21:05.340 They might give me random ones in the chat.

01:21:07.600 So just hopefully you can go with it.

01:21:09.220 But yeah.

01:21:09.700 That's its own world.

01:21:11.440 I mean, people seem to find their own way with it.

01:21:15.900 but it it's it's its own world it's not anything that people have reached out to me about managing

01:21:23.580 yeah it's really um there's an area in dallas i don't want to say where but

01:21:30.380 apparently like swingers is huge there it's like a pretty affluent i think if i said the area you'd

01:21:37.340 know it it usually i think yeah i think it does tend to skew affluent i mean there's some suburbs

01:21:44.380 all around and again you know it's it's a world into itself yeah um all right guys in the chat

01:21:53.340 if you have any questions for no it's not austin i'm not putting it in i can't i can't let you guys

01:21:58.860 know where i venture because um if you guys have any other questions for them um put them in the

01:22:07.340 chat now but otherwise where can the people find you if they want to sign up for coaching

01:22:12.460 okay you can reach me at fortworth playboy spelled all the way out f-o-r-t-w-r-t-h

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01:22:28.800 of my products anything from how to build a harem to asshole you know chicks love jerks how to run

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01:22:42.700 on twitter 25 books wow yeah that's crazy okay go keep going sorry and then um on x.com i'm at fw

01:22:53.580 playboy x.com uh where are the best places to meet women in the dallas fort worth area

01:23:02.060 your boyfriend would know in fact i reached out to him one time when i had a guy coming

01:23:07.580 into dallas okay i reached out to nuke to give me the best spots i don't you got to realize

01:23:12.860 they're like an hour hour and a half away from that yeah it's we're not in the same town uh

01:23:18.620 what's your success rate i think it's 90 percent i would say it's between 80 and 90 percent if if i

01:23:30.060 don't know that they were successful it's because they dropped out or disappeared okay yeah uh well

01:23:36.460 guys i really recommend signing up for his stuff for his coaching um it's very pragmatic it's very

01:23:42.460 real life applicable as you guys know on this channel um we are about real life solutions not

01:23:48.460 how we wish the world would be or how it could be or should be this is how the world is and i really

01:23:53.820 like bringing on guys to help you navigate it so if you like his stuff check out his channel

01:23:58.540 thank you so much for coming on i appreciate it i've been a fan forever so

01:24:02.060 well thank you for the invite i appreciate it um and did you say your youtube channel um

01:24:10.460 hang on fort worth playboy on youtube f-o-r-t-w-r-o-r-t-h cool yeah him and bunny are pretty

01:24:20.460 funny on there so i've watched a lot of the videos so he's a lot of fun and i appreciate

01:24:25.100 your time and and uh you get me out here yeah thanks so much um all right guys well

01:24:32.460 thanks for coming on did you guys like that i hope you had fun

01:24:37.580 this is his twitter by the way if you guys are curious i'm gonna show you i've just been watching

01:24:45.100 him forever on twitter so i'm gonna start bringing on people so tomorrow i'm thinking guys i'm gonna

01:24:50.700 to go through this war with Allie Beth Stuckey. This is Twitter if you want. Fort Worth Playboy.

01:25:02.960 Let me go to my profile. I am going to go through this war with conservative media.

01:25:14.120 And I'm going to go into more depth into this tomorrow. I'm going to do an earlier show

01:25:18.520 because it is friday but basically ali beth stuckey

01:25:27.240 oh my gosh she's crashing out this is so funny oh this is so funny

01:25:36.120 yeah we're gonna react to this really quick before i close out i'm gonna do a show on this tomorrow

01:25:42.840 so tune in it'll be around two or three i'm on a loose schedule here so you guys will just have

01:25:49.320 to bear with me all right i am a woman after all that feminism has failed women second one are you

01:25:56.360 ready are you ready porn has weakened men

01:26:01.800 and you know charlie charlie was so good at talking about this and so good at talking so

01:26:16.260 courageously and sternly and clearly to the young men here's what we know about porn and why it is

01:26:22.380 so detrimental not only to men although it disproportionately affects men porn objectifies

01:26:27.740 women and children it commercializes sex but here's the thing women love being objectified

01:26:37.660 we love being objectified it's like we're begging to be objectified

01:26:42.300 do you know what i mean it's like ellie you got a pound of makeup as you're saying this

01:26:48.220 like do you not see the irony it's like a tight dress a pound of makeup whining about women being

01:26:54.380 objectified we love it which is a gift from god for a married couple between one man and one woman

01:27:01.580 and it glorifies violence women love we love when the men are violent

01:27:16.300 or like slap me harder do you know what i mean it's like

01:27:19.340 it creates addiction and shame it destroys marriages it ruins your perception of other

01:27:26.380 people it is the legal loophole for sex trafficking it is evil women love being sex trafficked we love

01:27:33.260 it we're like please sec you know in every way and it will destroy your life and this is what

01:27:41.100 i would want to say to men and i hope that you hear it from strong men in your life that men

01:27:46.860 we need you and we need your masculinity and we need your strength and we need your boldness and

01:27:53.760 we need your courage and we need those things to be harnessed for good we need you to be solid

01:27:59.160 pastors we need you to be strong leaders we need your voice we need you to bravely stand up for

01:28:06.280 the most vulnerable to stand up for women and children and for the unborn to raise a respectful

01:28:12.500 ruckus for the things that matter we need really strong men and porn makes you weak

01:28:23.380 nothing like a woman nagging another man's husband okay so anyways i'm gonna go through

01:28:28.980 this tomorrow probably around two o'clock and it's gonna be so funny because oh she's she's

01:28:35.140 oh she's crashing out why not tell women to be better this is not a good faith question this is

01:28:41.060 all I talk about. Oh my gosh. All of the time you're wasting complaining of God not giving

01:28:52.240 you 6,700 women. Oh my gosh. You respond to correction well, Allie. Cannot wait to learn

01:29:09.080 from you. Oh, it's two L's anyways. All right. So tomorrow around two, I'll go through this

01:29:23.320 cause I'm sure she's going to crash out more tomorrow. Um, anyways, guys, make sure you

01:29:31.620 like the video on your way out. Please subscribe to the channel. No, I'm telling you he's the real

01:29:35.380 deal i can tell i can tell i've been doing this long enough um i really can tell the difference

01:29:41.940 between the smoke smoke salesman or whatever it is because the guy you'll notice the guys that

01:29:49.780 really work in the field do not apply morality they're very specific um whereas the men that

01:29:58.060 are just like commentators they always have these very unrealistic expectations and solutions like

01:30:04.140 ban this ban that no it's not going to happen he's like yeah women are so i mean you don't

01:30:09.500 have to i'm just all i'm saying is i would recommend him anyways guys make sure you

01:30:15.660 like the video subscribe to the channel and i'll see you next time bye

Pearl - October 31, 2025

Fort Worth Playboy Joins Pearl Daily

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