Pearl - May 16, 2025


From Independent Woman to Homeless Single Mother

Topics
homeless single mothers prostitution homeless single mother experiences
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Donald Trump Brad Venmo Pearl
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31

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On today's episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about what it means to be a homeless single mother and how it affects their lives. They also talk about how women are the majority of single mothers in the homeless community and how they end up homeless because of the lack of support from society.

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00:00:00.000 It's time to date the ugly guy. Yep, it's that time. No, no, no, I can't do that. That's 1.00
00:00:04.800 prostitution. Modern women think that they can do it all by themselves. They put themselves in a 1.00
00:00:10.320 whole bunch of debt and they don't plan for the future. And you know what happens? They end up
00:00:15.360 homeless. Many of these homeless women are single mothers. 60% of homeless women have kids and 85%
00:00:22.040 of homeless families are headed by women. So let's look at some homeless single mothers. 1.00
00:00:30.880 Okay.
00:00:34.640 My GoFundMe is at $1,400. My cash app is at $200. My Venmo is at $1,60.
00:00:45.840 Then on top of that, you guys, today, like I told you guys, the campground said we can only stay here
00:00:51.040 for 14 days. But I was like, listen, we have a plan now. So maybe they'll work with us, right?
00:00:56.080 I hope not. Women's lives never go according to plan. You know what I mean? It's like not all, 1.00
00:01:06.960 by the way, not all. But in general, when has a woman's plan, like when have we ever followed 1.00
00:01:14.460 through on a plan? Like I plan to stay married the rest of my life and then we break that plan,
00:01:19.400 right? I plan to not be a single mother. Then they, you know, now this woman's a single mother. 0.92
00:01:26.040 So let's, let's keep, let's see if they take the plan. I wouldn't, but hey.
00:01:30.680 To the campsite and it's like at checkout or whatever. And we're like, hey, you know,
00:01:34.920 is there just any way we could just stay here, please? Three more nights, you know,
00:01:39.500 whatever we need to do, we'll do it. We'll put under a different name, you know, we'll go to a
00:01:43.160 different site, whatever the fuck we need to do. Can we please just do it for these last three nights 0.96
00:01:47.000 so we don't have to like go through all this shit? Just, just please, you know what I'm saying? 0.96
00:01:51.100 And we were also like, if not, it's totally fine. You know what I'm saying? And he looks at us and
00:01:56.080 he's like, I feel led. By the way, this is a Christian camp that we're staying at. He was
00:02:00.360 like, I feel led to pay for three more nights for you. Yeah. This is why you Christian 1.00
00:02:05.620 Christians. And I want to say you guys have the best intentions. You really go in
00:02:12.420 trying to save the world, but these hoes take advantage of you. They really do. You feel called 1.00
00:02:18.860 to bail out women for their bad decisions. And at some point you just got to be like, look,
00:02:22.980 it's sink or swim lady. It's yeah. I mean, you got to figure out, you know, cause then
00:02:29.140 you get these feeders and then they become everyone else's problem. But I hope she works
00:02:34.140 it out. I never have, I never have ill will towards anybody. I want to be clear just cause
00:02:39.920 I'm, you know, so-and-so black pilled just cause I'm black pilled. It doesn't mean I wish
00:02:48.760 or I hope the world's going a certain way. I just, I see where it's going. Right.
00:02:54.160 You guys, you guys, they already paid for fucking two nights for us. 1.00
00:03:00.760 What the fuck? The last three nights that we're here, we're able to just go work. Like that's 1.00
00:03:06.300 why we want to be here because we're able to work. Um, over the weekend is where our jobs
00:03:10.820 are the busiest and we're able to make a little extra cash to put into this and get the fuck 0.82
00:03:16.520 out of here. You guys, so we're going to stay here. I know we said we were going to leave 0.96
00:03:19.520 today, but it's just impossible for us. So we figured out something else and we're leaving
00:03:23.160 Monday for sure. For sure. You guys, Oh my goodness. I cannot believe that this shit is
00:03:28.100 happening. Our family is about to be on the fucking way. You guys are going to see our 1.00
00:03:32.620 journey. You guys are going to see us. Okay. I just want you to know, usually when women post 0.97
00:03:36.700 journeys, so in order for men to like build a following, they have to post results, right? Like
00:03:43.480 if, um, if they're selling how to like sleep with a bunch of hot chicks, they got to show
00:03:51.140 like, these are the hot chicks, right? If they're going to promote like a weight loss thing, 1.00
00:03:58.120 they got to show, Hey, these are my muscles, right? Women on the other hand, like we can 1.00
00:04:02.260 be fat personal trainers. Can you, can you imagine like a man paying another man to personal
00:04:08.260 train them? That's overweight. They just would never, they would never do it in a million years,
00:04:12.460 but women on the other hand, like we can be bad at things and build followings. Like, 1.00
00:04:17.300 Oh, my journey to cook where men, it's like, we require them to be a Michelin level chef 1.00
00:04:22.120 to have a follow. It's not fair, right? I'm just pointing out the trends of how these things happen.
00:04:29.320 So a lot of times though, these, um, weight loss journeys, the women just get fatter. And I'll tell 1.00
00:04:34.180 you why, when I was on Tik TOK, when I was younger, I swear to God, I had posts like this and then I did
00:04:42.240 get fatter and I didn't lose the weight till I stopped posting about it really. Um, and not that
00:04:48.760 I, you know, I wouldn't open like a fitness. I'm not that in shape, but yeah, how do I put this?
00:04:57.180 The journeys usually are journeys going nowhere, right? Like women don't get, when men make a change 1.00
00:05:03.840 in their life. I mean, I don't want to say they always like make the change, but they're, they're
00:05:12.100 much more likely to stick with it than women. We don't tend to do it. Do everything you guys are 1.00
00:05:18.840 going to see is give back to y'all. She's not giving back to anybody. And I hate, I hate that the world
00:05:25.820 has turned me this pessimistic. Um, because I think at one point I maybe was like some of you guys
00:05:30.660 watching that call me nihilistic and black pill. I think I was like you guys, you know what I mean?
00:05:38.500 But you know, life, you just get older, right? And you see how full of shit other people are. 1.00
00:05:43.860 You even see how full of shit like yourself is at certain points, you know? Cause sometimes like 1.00
00:05:49.760 people don't just lie to others. They lie to themselves. So, you know, I'll give you an example
00:05:55.920 when going back to the fitness thing when I was younger and I was, I thought I wanted to lose
00:06:00.320 weight. I really did. In my heart of hearts, I thought that that was all I wanted. Um, and
00:06:05.480 I did it because I would still every day get a large venti caramel latte that was like 300
00:06:11.240 calories. And sometimes I'd get two of them, right? That's like a meal. So I didn't actually
00:06:15.920 want it because my choice, like if I wanted it, I would have did it. And I think like, that's
00:06:21.240 the tough thing is people lie so much to like themselves that they also lie to others.
00:06:31.660 Okay. First thing we're doing, like we're going to get a disability and then everything's
00:06:34.620 going to be good. And then the first thing we're doing is a huge giveaway. We're going
00:06:37.480 to be doing so much shit. That's the stupidest plan I've ever heard of. You can't help others 1.00
00:06:45.020 if you don't help yourself, right? Like for example, Donald Trump became a billionaire before
00:06:49.960 he tried to help others. You know, a lot of times I think the Christians, they really
00:06:54.540 get the order wrong. Um, I really would advise getting the money and the power first and then
00:06:59.580 trying to help the other people. Cause if you try to help first, it doesn't matter. You're
00:07:04.100 a peasant, right? Like in, in society, in the world, cause we all start off as like nobodies.
00:07:09.480 I mean, unless you're like, um, Donald Trump's son or something, you know, but most, most of
00:07:15.080 you guys aren't, you know? So that's how I see it.
00:07:18.140 Y'all like, Oh my gosh, I cannot, I cannot believe this. I cannot believe this. You guys
00:07:26.080 Monday will be 11 weeks, 11 weeks in, in Monday is when we're leaving. Oh my gosh.
00:07:34.600 There are a few problems with the land and everything like that, where we're going to put
00:07:37.860 the trailer. But once we get there, we, we're going to figure that all out. I'm so, I'm so
00:07:43.060 excited. I'm so happy. I'm so, so happy. Oh my gosh. We all got to shower today and I
00:07:49.660 feel like rejuvenated and refreshed and so thankful. I love y'all. Yeah. Cooked. But Hey, I hope
00:07:58.820 she figures it out. I never, I always want to be clear. I never wish anybody ill will, but
00:08:05.160 I, I'm, I'm a pessimist, right? I'm a happy pet, you know, cause people always say I'm
00:08:09.360 doom and gloom, right? They'll say, Pearl, you're so doom and gloom. And I'm like, most
00:08:14.400 people think of me as a happy, upbeat person. I think, I mean, I don't know. I like to think,
00:08:20.800 but you know, I, I'm not going to sell hope to you guys. I can't do it.
00:08:28.680 Don't mind me. I just, I'm a hot mess and I've been puking all morning, but
00:08:31.700 I can't even start to talk. I feel so bad. I like every day.
00:08:41.260 Every day I just feel so guilty because I'm always so liver stimulated. I'm always stressing
00:08:45.460 out. Stressing out about finding a place to live, getting a job, finding a good running
00:08:50.020 car. I feel like it's time to date the ugly guy. Yep. It's that time. No, no, 0.99
00:08:58.640 no, I can't do that. That's prostitution. Well, that's your other choice. It's, it's 1.00
00:09:02.880 time. You either got to go date the ugly guy that you're not interested in or be a prostitute. 1.00
00:09:08.940 Time to gluck gluck. You know what I mean? I mean, you got to provide value somehow. It's 1.00
00:09:12.520 to one guy or multiple, but it's interesting. Women will pick multiple. They will. And 1.00
00:09:17.020 you know, men, they don't understand this. They're like, why would you not? Because men can
00:09:25.100 fathom banging an ugly chick. Do you know what I mean? Men can kind of get over that. They're 0.99
00:09:29.700 like, do you know what? I don't want to go out and find a new woman. I like, what if she's 1.00
00:09:36.040 worse? I'll just bang the, my ugly old wife. They can like fathom that, right? Their sex drive 1.00
00:09:42.960 is strong. But women, we just can't like fathom that. We can't. Um, and so with prostitution, 1.00
00:09:55.760 the woman can still at least like, she gets paid for the guy she doesn't like. Because 1.00
00:10:00.780 if she doesn't like you, she'll make you pay anyway in the divorce. So what's like, what's
00:10:04.600 the difference, right? At least the prostitute's coming up front. She's saying, look, I don't 0.96
00:10:09.060 like you at all. Pay me, pay me, right? The wife is saying, I love you. And I'm going
00:10:15.220 to spend here. I'm going to stay here forever until she gets the kid in the marriage. And 1.00
00:10:19.740 then she says, ha ha, nevermind. Pay me, pay me for all this sex I had with you. You know, 1.00
00:10:28.080 one's just on the back end. One's up front. What's the difference? You know what I mean?
00:10:32.320 So, but women prefer the prostitution because at least like the wife had to deal with your 1.00
00:10:41.780 bullshit for like seven years. And I know what you're thinking. Well, the women's bullshit is 1.00
00:10:46.060 way worse than our bullshit. And that's totally true guys, but we're delusional, right? We're not 1.00
00:10:51.300 logical people. So, you know, for example, we might mess up the bathroom. We might, um, give
00:10:59.140 up girls nights to be with you. We might get work part time, you know, and that's, you know,
00:11:06.000 women kind of see that as bullshit they have to do to be a wife and a mother. Now men have 1.00
00:11:10.600 way more bullshit. I mean, they have to deal with the nagging, listening to our problems. 1.00
00:11:16.100 Like they, men don't give a shit about the lack of appreciation, the belittling, the competing, 0.98
00:11:22.320 like I could go on and on and on and on and on and on and on. Um, but women like don't count 1.00
00:11:28.000 that. They're like, no, you know? And so women, the way women see it is they, we can still have 1.00
00:11:34.000 the freedom to do whatever we want, like gluck, gluck, go out with the girls club, whatever. 0.99
00:11:39.700 And we don't have to deal with the bullshit of a guy. And then we just have the sex like 1.00
00:11:45.880 transactionally, which a lot of women feel that way about their husbands. So I'm, this isn't
00:11:52.060 to say this is good or moral, right? This is just to show the female mindset. In a way, 1.00
00:11:58.280 um, it's kind of, they're different things completely. Um, but many women view it as the 1.00
00:12:07.680 same thing. I hate to break it to you. I, you know, I find myself being so mean to the kids
00:12:14.280 and I feel so bad because they don't deserve that. It's not their fault. It's not their
00:12:22.300 fault. I just feel so bad because I'm always stressing. I got to get out of them. I don't
00:12:32.200 want to.
00:12:34.280 Do you know what's so funny? We'll be mean to somebody and then need to be comforted for how
00:12:41.540 mean we were to somebody. Isn't that funny? Like, like, okay, we'll do the mean thing.
00:12:49.640 Like, let's say we yell and then we feel guilty that we yelled and then we need to be comforted
00:12:54.760 for the fact that we did a bad thing. We're just messed up people guys. You know, um, like
00:13:02.200 we can't deal with our emotions of being a bad person. Do you know what I mean? Like women,
00:13:07.060 when men are bad people, they kind of own it. They say, yep, I was a bad dad. Yeah, I was
00:13:12.780 a bad friend. I was women. We can't like, it's like our conscious won't allow us to accept
00:13:20.280 that we're not great people. Men will just eat it. They're like, yeah, I could have worked
00:13:25.200 harder. I could have been better. You know, I'm sorry. Women on the other hand. Yeah. So 1.00
00:13:35.780 it's the unfortunate thing about dating us. We'll like abuse you and then need us need
00:13:40.420 you guys to comfort us for abusing you. I'm laughing. It's not funny, but yeah, what the 0.99
00:13:46.540 hell?
00:13:46.840 I just want a better life for them. I feel like I can't give them that. I don't know. I
00:13:51.160 just feel so guilty all the time. My kids deserve their own bed. They deserve their own room with
00:13:59.540 their toys. I just hate that they don't have that right now. I'm trying so hard. It's just
00:14:08.000 hard when I don't have a vehicle.
00:14:08.940 You should apologize because I think listening to these takes years off my life. What's next?
00:14:36.480 All right. Mama for a homeless, sober, and trying to stay as positive as possible. 0.54
00:14:51.240 Looks like she's in somebody's living room, so she's making her life choices, someone else's 0.79
00:14:55.780 problem.
00:14:56.260 So I'm currently hiding in my bathroom at the hotel that we are staying in. Oh, it's
00:15:02.920 a hotel.
00:15:03.320 Right now. Long story short, we've been living in our hotels, trying to get housing. That
00:15:09.980 hasn't gone well for us. Still struggling on a waiting list. We were at a hotel almost
00:15:16.500 for a year. You know, paying on time and doing really great, feeling really good about ourselves.
00:15:24.420 Got some help from friends and family, which was very much appreciated. I was pregnant at
00:15:29.500 the time. I just had the baby almost four months ago. My husband's company shut down, so he was
00:15:36.140 out of work for a while. We didn't pay, you know, the hotel for a little bit. Did rack up
00:15:42.360 a little bit of a bill, and went to court, you know, explained the situation. It wasn't
00:15:49.180 because we didn't want to pay. It was just because we couldn't do it, and we had nowhere
00:15:52.780 else to go.
00:15:55.340 So last night we left, part of our court agreement, and we're at another hotel. Went through hell
00:16:02.540 last night, and now this hotel won't extend our stay because the past hotel talked shit. 0.99
00:16:12.920 Well, isn't it the consequences of my actions? Yeah, it's time to get a box. Men get a box. 1.00
00:16:21.180 They're like, all right, well, it's time to be on the bench. Society is not going to know
00:16:24.820 what to do with these single women. Look it. Half of kids are being born out of wedlock 1.00
00:16:30.140 today. I was having this discussion in a Twitter space. If you guys ever want to follow my Twitter,
00:16:36.620 it's pearly things with a Z. I do spaces all the time, and there's two schools of thought
00:16:43.120 that we had in this space. One is that the government is going to have to legalize prostitution 0.99
00:16:47.800 because they don't know what to do with these single women, or they're going to have to shame 1.00
00:16:51.760 you men into making it your problem. Yeah. So I don't know. That's why beta men are really
00:17:00.020 the backbone of society. They got to keep you guys convinced into taking bad deals because
00:17:06.700 otherwise society would crumble, and everyone would be single. There'd be single mothers 1.00
00:17:12.000 all over the place if Tyrone just kept Tyroning. You know what I mean? They got to convince
00:17:18.460 Tyrone to be... Who's like a typical dad? Brad? Now Brad sounds like a player. What could
00:17:26.900 be... Joe. Joe. They got to convince Tyrone to take the Joe deal, right? And there's certain
00:17:33.860 guys, they're just never going to accept that because they just naturally think what's in
00:17:37.700 it for me. I really think your ability as a man to get good deals is your ability to be
00:17:43.360 guilted. You know, the men with no consciences, they get the youngest, hottest chicks and the
00:17:48.120 best deals. I hate to say it, you know, but the ones that really are just not great people.
00:17:54.380 Sorry, guys. I have nowhere to go. And I have four kids. And... Well, then why did you have
00:18:01.260 those children? You know? I'm just heartbroken right now. Like, why can't we just ever catch
00:18:11.880 a break? Like, yeah, we made our mistakes. But like I said, it wasn't because we didn't
00:18:18.240 want to pay. It was just we didn't have the money to do it. And then, you know, when we
00:18:22.960 were getting that cash flow, we paid what we could. We were paying, you know, the court
00:18:27.140 agreement. We never went against that. And now this hotel doesn't want us here. And tomorrow
00:18:33.460 we have to leave at 11 and we have nowhere to go. And I'm just beside myself. And all
00:18:41.440 I want is just to be with my kids and my family. And I'm just really hoping housing calls back
00:18:49.100 sooner rather than later. But the kids are keeping me strong. So that is not their job.
00:18:56.420 That is not their job. It's time to give those kids to the dad. Yep. It's time. I'm thankful
00:19:03.600 for them. My beautiful baby boy who I'm so glad won't remember any of this struggle. But
00:19:10.960 if anybody has any help or advice or whatever, I'm going to start sharing my story. If anybody's
00:19:21.400 going through this, maybe I can be, you know, a lending ear and try to help them kind of get
00:19:29.460 through it the way that... Yeah. So men get comfort from solving their problems. Women get comfort 0.91
00:19:35.760 from talking to other women that have also made poor life choices. So that's why women kind 0.98
00:19:40.760 of drag each other down into like poor life choices. It's because we just get, we get comfort
00:19:46.640 from different things. Yeah, I am sitting sober and, you know, just trying to be positive as
00:19:53.120 I can. Yeah. So again, women will, and not all, not all, but many women will say, I got
00:19:59.620 to be positive. Where men will say that being positive doesn't matter. And it's time to make
00:20:03.740 a plan. A plan. Just need a break. Yeah. So she's using this kid for clout right now. 1.00
00:20:13.420 That's a cute baby. It's kind of working on me. I want to donate. Look at the little baby.
00:20:19.620 He's so cute. But yeah, women are like, she's obviously using the kid to get donations. 1.00
00:20:23.960 Yeah. Say hi. Yeah. See how it looks like a fresh babe. What is that? Like a year old? 0.67
00:20:31.340 You have to have dealt with the dad in the last two years. Give him a call. He's what
00:20:34.480 keeps me going. The other one. All right. The last one we got. Two days ago, I made a video
00:20:43.480 bawling my eyes out because me and my kids had to leave a hotel with yet again another place
00:20:49.240 to go. Two days later, my downstairs neighbor is making me and my kids dinner. I have so, I
00:21:02.480 have more. And my kids are home. It's good. I bet it is for me to play. And it's good. So
00:21:13.800 when I'm a sick girl, just know, God put me right where I need to be. Then I try to collect
00:21:22.460 that tea. For real though. Yeah. Notice in all of these things, it's never I solved my own
00:21:29.920 problems. It's all of it is going to other people to solve their problems.
00:21:34.040 I'm not able to. Two days ago, this was so far from my reality.
00:21:41.640 Yeah. Okay. Well, guys, let me know if you've had an experience with a homeless single mother 1.00
00:21:47.840 in the comments. Let me know what you guys think. Do you have any sympathy for these women?
00:21:53.560 I really don't. But hey, I could be the exception. Like the video on your way out and subscribe
00:21:58.460 to the channel and I'll see you guys next time.