Pearl - Ghosting Is A Diabolical Strat

00:00:00.000 okay you don't think it's diabolical in 10 years to ghost the girl nope oh my god come on it just

00:00:07.280 seems like um ghosting is the way forward and women invented this women have been ghosting men for 0.99

00:00:13.600 50 years women have been in the business of ghosting so i'm gonna have doug mpa come in 1.00

00:00:18.720 on this segment because he has strong feelings about ghosting we'll just kind of go back and

00:00:22.160 forth for a little bit now personally um when is it diabolical to ghost somebody is one question i

00:00:29.440 to have? My answer, I think one date, not diabolical. First month, eh, who cares? First

00:00:37.360 three months, it really inconsiderate, not diabolical. But I hear people are getting ghosted

00:00:43.900 from three-year, two-year relationships, you know? Ghosting proves the inability to be direct

00:00:50.020 and honest. That's true. That's true. But anyways, let's, I'm going to bring up Doug MPA.

00:00:56.140 oh no chad's ghost all the time chad's love ghosting you should always text my dad well

00:01:02.200 that was the hurtful part i'm like dad we talk all the time i'm like that we talk all the time

00:01:07.620 hey how's it going i'm just kidding i love this topic first off guys my microphone was messed up

00:01:15.460 because you do this google did this update and you have to turn off this thing where it wants

00:01:20.600 to auto adjust your microphone so if you are in google chrome you have to change a setting that

00:01:26.400 is automatically checked to adjust your microphone for best quality or something like that so look

00:01:31.740 that up because it was messy my microphone last couple of days anyway i love this topic because

00:01:36.580 guys um men people keep trying to hold men to like this morally higher standard and i always say

00:01:43.740 we tried that we tried to be the bigger people we tried to have duty and integrity and honesty

00:01:51.220 stuff like that towards women and they call that misogyny and patriarchy guys now you should be

00:01:58.280 you should be honest and have integrity but you should be that to people who deserve it and a lot

00:02:05.060 of women don't they just don't and also women guys we got ghosted all the time when we were younger

00:02:11.740 right if if you got ghosted or a woman didn't want to talk to you anymore you did anything but move 0.96

00:02:18.620 on you were seen as a creep or a you know or like an asshole or something you just had to move on 0.95

00:02:24.960 but women can't take L's guys they can't do it you owe them an explanation you owe them closure 1.00

00:02:32.140 guys women feel entitled to your money your time your resources and closure guys don't give them 1.00

00:02:39.760 any of it any of it ghost sees women and think about this but doug what about the people that

00:02:46.020 say what about the people that say uh you just don't know how to communicate you're just you're

00:02:50.640 just not being a real man right a real man would tell her those are the kind of people you ghost

00:02:56.360 and stop talking to you that was a funny response yeah and here's the thing so i have friends at my

00:03:04.620 day job and they're like oh yeah you know i can't get ahead because of nepotism and cronyism and

00:03:10.240 stuff i say look nepotism and cronyism is good you want to know why because all of us want to

00:03:16.540 get into the position where we can hire well maybe not your family because a lot of times

00:03:21.280 your family will screw you over in business but you want to be able to hire all your friends

00:03:25.960 wouldn't it be great for you to get some executive positions somewhere and hire all your friends

00:03:31.220 so nepotism cronyism is really only bad depending on what side of the desk you're sitting on if

00:03:38.500 you're sitting on the hiring side well then cronyism is great and that's the same thing

00:03:42.660 with ghosting ghosting is only bad if you're getting ghosted but guys ghost it's great it

00:03:48.120 feels great especially if you're in the position to be able to ghost women you have to be in a

00:03:53.780 position to be able to ghost women in the first place and also pro said earlier that you have to

00:03:59.800 crack but you have to smash for women to get upset about getting ghosted that's not true it's not as 1.00

00:04:06.080 women get older especially if they're these career boss babes if they take away from their the stupid 1.00

00:04:11.740 single lives to try and date and you ghost them they get all sorts of upset i guarantee you most 1.00

00:04:16.680 of the guys in that are we dating the same guy group only about half of them really smashed the 1.00

00:04:23.560 rest went out on a couple of dates and decided this girl is too crazy to even put my dick in 1.00

00:04:28.900 and stop talking to her and you'll still get put in those groups women will still get upset 1.00

00:04:33.080 with whether you crack or not tell me about um when a woman's too crazy to even crack 1.00

00:04:39.240 or like when it's not even worth it uh so first off rabid duck aj and i were brothers in real

00:04:46.980 life and that's why we sound the same but we are not the same person um so honestly okay

00:04:52.500 your two biggest superpowers as a man is being able to determine who your girlfriend fiance and

00:04:58.700 wife is if you choose to be in a relationship or to be able to walk away any girl that tries to take 1.00

00:05:05.180 either of those two things away from you is too crazy to crack does that make sense i think so

00:05:10.380 explain it in a different way though so so if a woman tries to keep you from being able to walk 0.96

00:05:16.700 away so she tries to emotionally extort you like you know um if you leave me i'm gonna hurt myself 0.94

00:05:23.020 or you know oh my god what the fuck keep going or just stuff like that women that try to take away 1.00

00:05:29.500 your ability to be able to walk away like you know a woman that would try to shame you into 0.99

00:05:33.340 staying with her or insult you into staying with her or or contact your family and stuff and then

00:05:38.780 any woman that says where are uh where is this going too fast like what are we are you know are 1.00

00:05:45.580 we too you know uh where's his head where's it going they're trying to take away what is

00:05:52.220 diabolical to ghost there's no such thing because two years 10 years 10 years not diabolical any way

00:05:59.580 that a guy has ghosted a woman has ghosted even worse okay but not everybody's doing the ghosting

00:06:05.260 most women oh a five or above have ghosted multiple men in their lives okay okay so you

00:06:12.860 don't think okay you don't think it's diabolical in 10 years to ghost the girl nope oh my god come

00:06:19.340 on no no no that's crazy especially some imagine a guy is going through 10 years of emotional and

00:06:29.100 verbal just just beating from his wife from his wife or ex-wife or girlfriend he's just

00:06:35.020 decides to just walk away yeah i don't know i think after a certain time it's a little bit

00:06:40.940 but diabolical like i don't know are you saying on both sides or just for women no both sides like

00:06:48.720 um over six months i'd say kind of diabolical are you serious yeah come on guys put in the chat

00:06:57.780 if you've been ghosted the average okay when you were younger how long did it take for a girl to 0.98

00:07:04.480 ghost you on average when you were young guys if you were to say that you never got ghosted as a

00:07:09.420 young man you're lying because me you know i had a girl ghost me after three and a half months

00:07:14.480 four months long distance i was dumb enough to try a long distance relationship one time i got

00:07:20.160 ghost after seven months eight months that's kind of diabolical no it's not it's life yeah well

00:07:26.880 that's distance though distance like i feel like like distance isn't not really the same like but

00:07:34.320 seven months in person diabolical yeah i just you know women want things to be fair women want men 0.84

00:07:41.600 to have honesty and integrity but only for stuff that puts them in an advantageous position

00:07:49.600 and here's the thing women the the solution to ghosting and the standards that we would 0.99

00:07:54.640 have to implement only men would do it women won't you think that women would ever not ghost 1.00

00:07:59.920 who would be more like okay if they were to pass a law to not ghost who would be the the bigger

00:08:06.560 group of offenders men or women oh women women are immoral all the time yeah but so you have to get 1.00

00:08:13.360 over holding well i'm not saying you but i'm saying throw you holding men to this higher moral

00:08:18.400 if a man chooses to hold himself to a higher moral standard well then that's fine but like you don't

00:08:23.520 have to guys that time is over yeah i guess it would just like for me personally i think over

00:08:30.600 six months is not like personally i i would at least send a text first month but for maybe

00:08:38.760 after a month two months but like i don't know six months a year five i that's just a little long

00:08:47.100 for me and then what if you're one of the okay men we're smart enough where there are women where

00:08:53.220 you know that they can't even handle regular life and their emotions and regular situations

00:08:58.320 how they're going to handle you saying that you don't want to be with them anymore

00:09:01.660 avoid a lot of times avoiding that conversation and here's the thing women know how to shame 1.00

00:09:09.080 insult and guilt you into backing down if you have a conversation with a woman they can use shame 1.00

00:09:15.860 insult and guilt to stop you from leaving actions are more important than words so a lot of times a

00:09:22.100 guy will say oh yeah i'm leaving but he doesn't really want to leave the best way to show a woman

00:09:26.860 that you don't want to deal with her anymore or you want to leave just leave it says if you're

00:09:31.800 gonna end the relationship at least have the guts to tell them the guts look at that shame insults 1.00

00:09:37.980 and guilt right there the guts where are women having the guts to not ghost men oh well women

00:09:45.140 don't yeah but i just for me personally i think over six months is diabolical that's that's gonna

00:09:51.560 be my line but guys call in call in join the convo agree disagree there's no right or wrong

00:09:57.520 answer here right you know i mean that's just that's just for me personally you know go ahead

00:10:02.960 you have to earn your you have to earn the status and the ability to be desirable enough to be able

00:10:09.720 to ghost women women so he this guy agrees with you women can't handle rejection pearl wants us 1.00

00:10:16.400 to reject so we wake up with slash tired i'm good ghosting is a tool women used it and men 1.00

00:10:21.180 certainly are going to use it too 100 true 100 i can understand that you know but i still think

00:10:30.080 six months is diabolical but that's me like that's me like personally you know yeah i guess it could

00:10:37.460 be contextual i could be swayed in the right situation if she's just like batshit crazy right 0.90

00:10:43.220 i could be swayed but you know um that's my have some respect and protect your dignity ghoster i

00:10:51.140 agree 100 you see it every day with the most guys call in um just because women are bad doesn't mean 1.00

00:10:57.940 men should be michael call in give your give your we could we could fight it out i for me six months

00:11:04.180 is diabolical but i don't feel that strongly about it do you know what i mean like i'm not

00:11:09.380 i wouldn't really lose sleep i'd just be like oh wow that's you know that's you could you could

00:11:16.760 maybe sway me to get up to a year over a year diabolical um yeah yeah i'm all about ghosting

00:11:23.980 i'll say it again guys ghost all day long ghost because women that's the only way women will learn 1.00

00:11:32.100 it's funny because women ghost men when they're young but then they feel like men when you get 0.60

00:11:37.460 the tools to be able to live out the male dating strategy women want to shame you out of using all 1.00

00:11:43.560 the tools and options that you've earned the link is in the chat guys so it's in the youtube chat

00:11:48.660 you just click it at the top i broke up with a woman and lost thousands in court because she was 1.00

00:11:53.180 upset i'm good with ghosting see and you know to me that's not an unreasonable standard you know i

00:11:58.760 just i'll i'll stick to it for me personally six months diabolical um you don't enable yeah don't

00:12:07.640 enable abusers just by sticking around to get verbally abused again i can be swayed in certain

00:12:14.440 situations i can be swayed um because sms text would be a better alternative you were good but

00:12:21.960 i found a better one that's funny because here's the thing i wonder what is the likelihood i think

00:12:29.240 that women remember the guys that ghost them more than the guys that give them an explanation

00:12:36.680 because a woman will always wonder you'll always be on her mind in some capacity if she liked you

00:12:42.520 and you ghosted it and never told you why never told her why you ghosted

Pearl - March 15, 2026

Ghosting Is A Diabolical Strat

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