Pearl - Greedy Ex-Wife Gets OWNED In Court

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we are going to be reacting to women 1.00

00:00:04.940 expecting her ex-husband to pay for her and her new boyfriend to stay in the marital home.

00:00:11.540 Most men that get married will end up getting divorced. When this happens, they will find

00:00:15.880 themselves in divorce court. The system is so biased against men that women feel emboldened to

00:00:21.420 be able to get away with anything and everything. This is the case where a man's ex-wife moves her 1.00

00:00:27.320 boyfriend into the marital home. She gets pregnant by the new boyfriend and expects the ex-husband to 0.98

00:00:32.560 pay for all of it. She expects my client to support her, her boyfriend and their new child. She

00:00:39.180 demands money. She demands gas in her car. She demands groceries. She demands diapers. And in 1.00

00:00:45.580 fact, he believes that her boyfriend is working out of the marital home using the internet he's paying

00:00:52.440 for. This person that she claimed in her responsive declaration was only a friend and whom now she

00:00:57.880 is five months pregnant by. I don't receive any support through the state. Look at this lawyer's

00:01:06.740 face. She's so done. For my other child that lives in the home who's 10 from a previous marriage or I

00:01:14.600 live in a family relationship and I don't receive any kind of support for my significant other who

00:01:21.000 I am pregnant with right now. That's sad. That's all. Okay. Um, sir, is there anything else you'd

00:01:26.120 like to say? Besides, that's just a very greedy lady. No, ma'am. 1.00

00:01:33.640 This is our motion and we are asking that, um, for a number of options. Okay. So this is the attorney for

00:01:39.880 the state, the mom, the dad, the attorney for the dad. Okay. We are asking that the court adopt our

00:01:46.520 parenting plan. Although we would like to modify that request with regard to the residential schedule.

00:01:53.640 Um, the parties since August have been doing an, uh, 50, 50 week on week off schedule,

00:01:59.320 exchanging, exchanging on Sundays at 5 PM. And that seems to be working and the children seem to be

00:02:05.320 doing well under that schedule. So, um, my client is asking that the court adopt that schedule as

00:02:11.320 part of the parenting plan versus what the local rule schedule was that we put in there initially.

00:02:16.440 Ms. Lowe, are you in agreement with that change to the visitation schedule? Are you objecting to

00:02:23.080 the proposal made? Yes, your honor. I agree. That's the, um, schedule that we've been maintaining

00:02:30.760 since we agreed upon separation and it seems to be the healthiest for the children and working out the

00:02:36.680 best. So I agree with the petitioners amendment to, um, not go with their original parenting plan,

00:02:44.120 but follow with the week on week off that we've been doing. Okay. So, and I'm just going to make

00:02:51.240 sure, and again, I know I'm kind of pinch hitting here, so I want to make sure right now we're still on

00:02:58.120 motions for temporary orders, correct? Yes. This is the first hearing on this case, your honor.

00:03:03.080 Oh, okay. So we are also asking that my client wants to return to the family home and I can get 0.99

00:03:08.920 into that argument in a minute. Uh, we addressed in the motion, our request regarding temporary use

00:03:14.440 and possession of the vehicles and property in their current possession, um, payment of bills.

00:03:21.560 Um, I think that was it, uh, and child support. Uh, we, she and her

00:03:27.720 responsive pleadings requested spousal support, although she did not make a specific request as

00:03:32.680 to an amount, um, your honor as to the, the how the marital home, my client did not agree to moving

00:03:39.960 out despite mom's assertions that he did. Uh, the text messages do not reflect that he was in agreement

00:03:47.320 with this option. And in fact, he never agreed to any of it. Uh, she demanded he moved out.

00:03:54.280 She barked orders. She told him exactly how it was going to be. And that's what he was stuck with,

00:03:58.600 or at least he felt that he was stuck with. He has a separate property interest in the home,

00:04:04.600 um, from a, uh, an inheritance that was constituted the down payment. And your honor,

00:04:11.480 the fact is it's my client who can afford the home. She can't to stay, she can't afford to stay in the home

00:04:16.120 on her own. She's not working. And that is by choice. Um, and she has since moved her boyfriend 0.95

00:04:25.800 in, uh, this person that she claimed in her responsive declaration was only a friend

00:04:31.400 and who now she is five months pregnant by that's, that's hell. By the way, that's hell to men paying

00:04:39.960 your hard earned money, going towards another man that is banging your wife while you pay for it. 0.99

00:04:47.560 That's hell. That's death. Look at how pissed that guy looks. He looks pissed for a reason. 0.99

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00:05:22.760 serious men aloud. So her representation to the court that this individual was just a support

00:05:28.760 friend and just a good friend. No, it wasn't. Um, which validates my client's accounting of the

00:05:36.440 facts in this case, the situation mom is currently in is of her own doing because of her choices. 0.99

00:05:44.040 That does not relieve her of the responsibility now to support herself and to equally support her

00:05:49.080 children. She expects my client to support her, her boyfriend and their new child. Um,

00:06:00.440 and so where, where is her boyfriend's obligation? That's what we have to ask. Um, why should my client

00:06:08.120 be paying for the, for a house to live for him to live in rent free? He's not paying rent. Um, and my

00:06:16.120 client is not only the outspouse, but the expectations that she places on him in the text messages are

00:06:22.280 untenable and unfair. She demands money. She demands, um, gas in her car. She demands groceries. She demands 1.00

00:06:29.960 diapers. He doesn't mind those things, but he is also paying for her housing. He's paying the utilities.

00:06:36.200 And in fact, he believes that her boyfriend is working out of the marital home.

00:06:41.480 Oh my God. That is death. Can you guys admit? Oh, you poor man.

00:06:48.360 Oh, I would be like, I'm just thinking of the female equivalent. If I was paying for a guy's house, 1.00

00:06:52.840 oh, he's banging a chick 20 years younger. Oh,

00:06:58.120 Oh, I'm pissed. You know, using the internet he's paying for. So my client is continuing to pay for the

00:07:06.200 internet and the utilities to make sure that they're paid. And so his credit doesn't get affected and to

00:07:10.520 make sure his children are safe, but he is seriously being taken advantage of here. Um,

00:07:18.280 that being said, there is absolutely no reason she cannot be working on. Oh, and as the court is

00:07:24.200 aware, we just agreed to a 50, 50 residential schedule. So that means that she, there's no

00:07:28.840 reason she can't be working on her off weeks from the children. Uh, I'd like to point out for the court

00:07:34.600 that she did not file a proposed parenting plan. She did not file a financial declaration. We have no idea

00:07:40.200 what her expenses are, what her income is. If she has any, um, she needs to get a job. If her 1.00

00:07:46.760 boyfriend isn't working, he needs to be, if he isn't working, then he needs to, if he is working,

00:07:51.720 then he needs to pay rent. Um, thereby reducing my client's obligation. He can choose to pay rent to my

00:07:59.000 client or he can find his own place. My client is paying for everything right now and has been since

00:08:05.080 this whole thing occurred, um, where she just picked up and left with no notice for a month and three

00:08:13.080 weeks and then just expects him to be out of the house, expects it to be in perfect shape,

00:08:19.160 perfect condition upon her return. Um, my client wanted me to address the flea situation.

00:08:27.960 There's a flea situation?

00:08:29.720 And the messiness of the house, the house is not as messy as she tries to represent.

00:08:36.680 And here this guy is trying to take care of these kids and take care of kittens that she initially 0.82

00:08:42.680 brought in. She decided to foster a bunch of flea ridden kittens and she brought them in the house. 1.00

00:08:48.360 The flea issue started because of her and then she tried to blame it on him. And now she's trying

00:08:53.720 to use this declaration in this act, this court process to say that it's him. It's his fault. It's his

00:08:59.480 neglect, which is not the case. She also made some serious allegations about sexual assault and then

00:09:06.680 talked to my client subsequently, wherein she informed him that, well, the last time they were

00:09:12.520 together, she just didn't want to. Never once did she say no. Never once did she ask him to stop.

00:09:19.560 She never yelled. She never screamed. She never cried. She never called the police. She never sought

00:09:24.360 a restraining order. Even now in response to our motion, she's not even seeking any kind of

00:09:30.040 protection order or restraining order against my client. She has no fear. You can't consent to

00:09:36.520 something and then turn around and claim it to be an assault just because it wasn't something you

00:09:40.600 wanted. Oh, I love this girl. If you guys ever contact info, put it in the comments. I want her 0.87

00:09:48.040 on the show. At the time. This girl's badass. If you didn't want it at the time, you need to speak up. 0.90

00:09:53.880 You need to fight back. She didn't. So she can't come now to the court and say that my client is an

00:09:59.720 abuser and he, that he sexually assaulted her. Um, to mention the fact that they was not in the middle of

00:10:05.560 a fight. It was not, it did not occur in out of rage or extreme emotions. It just occurred.

00:10:13.800 They're a married couple. Um, as to her again, as to requests for her spousal support, she makes no

00:10:19.800 specific requests. She provides no financial documents. We have no idea what the status is

00:10:24.520 of her boyfriend. And she is simply claiming that because they were married and during the marriage,

00:10:28.840 she got to be the stay at home mom. She should continue to live that life of luxury 0.97

00:10:34.680 after it was her decision to end the marriage, um, and not have to support herself or equally

00:10:39.800 support the children. So we are asking that our, uh, our motion be granted your honor.

00:10:45.800 Right. Ms. Lowe, I have also received your response. I did not receive a proposed parenting

00:10:51.960 plan from you, but I have received your response to the petitioner's proposed parenting plan.

00:10:57.960 What would you like the court to know? Um, while your honor, there's many

00:11:03.160 discrepancies in the petitioner's responses. I would just like the court to know that

00:11:10.440 we had a mutual agreement when I wanted to get divorced, that he would move out of the house.

00:11:16.120 There was abuse in the relationship. That's why I left the home, marital home during the time so

00:11:21.960 that he could move out. Does this look like a guy that's going to beat your ass? Can we just... 1.00

00:11:26.520 Okay. And it was safe. So when I returned, I have text messages showing that he knew I was at the

00:11:37.880 airport, I was on my way home. He, um, was preparing one of the vehicles for me. And originally he had

00:11:45.720 said I could live in the marital home for a year. And then after I got back, everything

00:11:51.480 changed. I am also two months pregnant, not five months pregnant. Um, in regards to the sexual assault,

00:12:00.360 I did cry. I did say no. I don't feel like it's necessarily appropriate for court, especially with

00:12:07.960 me with no counsel, but I can't afford counsel at this time. I've done everything in my ability so far

00:12:15.320 of filing TANF and filing for child support. Um, I have thrown out many suggestions to the petitioner,

00:12:29.400 such as splitting the mortgage on the marital home or him not paying the mortgage at all. And

00:12:35.880 me just continuing to raise the children in the marital home. I've been a stay-at-home mom since the

00:12:40.920 birth of both of our children. So for those reasons, that's why. You sometimes stay-at-home

00:12:49.160 mothers, they say it's the hardest job in the world. There's a good chunk that are just lazy, 1.00

00:12:56.600 if we're going to be honest here. I asked to stay and that was our agreement and he was moved out

00:13:03.640 when I came back. So, um, I'm sorry, Your Honor. And you, uh, there's a, another adult living in the

00:13:11.320 house with you at this time? There is. I don't receive any support, um, through the state for

00:13:19.800 my other child that lives in the home who's 10 from a previous marriage or, I mean, relationship,

00:13:25.160 and I don't receive any kind of support for my significant other who I am pregnant with right now.

00:13:32.040 And is your significant other who's living in the marital house with you paying any of the expenses

00:13:40.360 for the home? No, Your Honor. But I have offered to start paying expenses in the home. I've never

00:13:47.720 asked the petitioner to pay the mortgage. It was his conclusion that he was going to keep doing it. He

00:13:55.000 said he didn't want the power to go out on the children. But my only request was to stay in the

00:14:00.520 marital home and raise my children. I'm very flexible. You see how she says my children?

00:14:06.760 The children do belong to the women though. They do in this country and everything else. But because 0.99

00:14:11.560 this is a, like a first hearing, we haven't gotten that far and I can't afford counsel at this time. So

00:14:19.720 I'm just kind of. And then the period of time that you left Washington was about a month and a half. Is

00:14:31.240 that right? Yes, Your Honor. And the children stayed in the home with Mr. Lowe? Yes, Your Honor.

00:14:38.120 So what I'm going to do going through the petitioner's proposed temporary parenting plan,

00:14:45.960 give you my ruling. And then Ms. Petrie, if you would be so kind as to make any changes per my order.

00:14:54.120 I'll open it up for questions too. Jump in if anyone has questions as I go through this.

00:15:00.040 So number one, in general, I'll adopt the petitioner's proposed plan with some changes.

00:15:05.800 After review of the record, while I do think there is some evidence of

00:15:15.000 probably more like 3B problems on mother's part, I am going to reserve for now on 3A and B limiting

00:15:22.760 factors. We'll reserve those for the final order. Decision making at this time, excuse me, for school

00:15:33.400 educational health care will be joint. I will adopt dispute resolution and custodian section 6 and 7

00:15:42.600 as written. The parenting time schedule, I will adopt with the oral agreement that the parties have made

00:15:49.960 here on the record today. That will include numbers 9 and 10 for summer schedule and holiday schedule.

00:16:01.560 I don't see it directly in here, but I am going to order that Mr. Lowe remain in the marital home

00:16:11.080 at this time. I do not believe it's appropriate for this court to order that Mr. Lowe pay expenses

00:16:19.240 of this home while a new significant other is in the home. I also don't believe without further

00:16:32.600 investigation that it's appropriate that the children at this time be expected to reside with

00:16:38.200 a significant other that the court knows nothing about. So Mr. Lowe is to return to the home. Ms. Lowe

00:16:44.920 is to vacate. Mr. Lowe will be responsible for payment of the, and I believe you had that listed in your

00:16:54.840 original motion, all of the expenses related to the home. Yes, which includes the mortgage, utilities,

00:17:03.400 insurance, property taxes, vehicle. All of that will be the responsibility of a petitioner. As I

00:17:12.040 understand it, this is a five-year marriage. I'm not ordering support at this time. Excuse me, I'm not

00:17:17.800 ordering any sort of alimony or marital payments to Ms. Lowe at this time in a temporary order. I will adopt

00:17:28.280 11, 12, 13, 14 as proposed by petitioner. I'm going over to the temporary family law order that petitioner

00:17:46.280 proposed. So I will adopt in its entirety then the temporary family law order, which does require that

00:17:56.840 the petitioner or allow the petitioner to return to the home and stay in the family home. Respondent

00:18:02.920 must move out of the family home within 30 days of today's date. Your Honor, will the court address

00:18:08.600 child support today? I was just going to turn to you and ask the state if based on my rulings

00:18:16.600 on the temporary orders, if there were any changes to the state's proposals for child support.

00:18:22.600 There's not. The kids are receiving TANF benefits and that I know that is a little more complicated

00:18:31.080 because the statute prohibits a residential credit when the children are receiving TANF benefits.

00:18:39.880 Our proposed worksheets were filed November 13th. We used the father's actual income based on his

00:18:45.320 September 29th wage stub, which he filed with the court. The mother has no employment security history,

00:18:51.720 so we imputed her at minimum wage 32 hours per week. I do note that that results in a transfer payment 1.00

00:18:58.840 $1,787 a month from father to essentially to the state of Washington so long as mom remains on TANF.

00:19:10.200 I do recognize, given your ruling, that that may seem somewhat unequitable, but I'm not aware of

00:19:16.600 an exception under the law, at least not in regards to a residential credit.

00:19:23.560 I do believe a residential credit would be appropriate, considering that they are going to be

00:19:27.640 doing 50-50 and it is for two children. I also would request that she be imputed at 40 hours a week. 1.00

00:19:36.040 There's absolutely no reason she can't work full-time. My client certainly does and he gets by.

00:19:40.360 And just briefly in reply, Your Honor, the statute, which I don't have in front of me right now,

00:19:48.600 specifically says that a residential credit cannot be granted when a parent is receiving TANF.

00:19:54.520 TANF is evidence that there's insufficient funds in the household to support the children.

00:20:01.400 And then in terms of the mother's income, we followed the imputation statute, which indicates when

00:20:07.160 there's no employment history and a parent is receiving TANF benefits, they're to be imputed at 0.51

00:20:12.040 minimum wage 32 hours per week. Here's what I'm going to do on this, because I don't have...

00:20:18.680 I'm just looking through my papers diligently. Sometimes things get attached to the back of them.

00:20:25.000 We did not send over a proposed order. I was... Okay.

00:20:28.520 I was unsure where primary parent would land. Understood.

00:20:31.960 Let's do this because... Let's set this case to December 5 for presentation of the orders I've

00:20:43.240 already ruled on unless they get signed ahead of time. Okay. That sounds like death to a man.

00:20:52.920 That really sounds like court archives. I'm going to subscribe to this. That's hilarious.

00:20:57.160 Yes. The boyfriend will leave her once he realizes he has to find a place to live and no more free 0.66

00:21:02.520 rent. Two jobless homeless people having a baby and wanting to depend on the ex. God help us all.

00:21:07.560 Thank you, judge. I like the judge. She gave the man back his home, his kids, and put her in her

00:21:11.960 boyfriend's freeloading butts on the curb. Lady, you want to be a stay-at-home mom, do it on your new 1.00

00:21:16.520 man's dive. Also, she was the one who filed for divorce and left him. If the dad is taking care of

00:21:21.160 the kids 50% of the time, why is he paying any child support at all? Free house, free utilities,

00:21:26.360 free vehicle, 50-50 parenting, and she still wants more. Our system is broken beyond repair.

00:21:31.720 Father has a home, a job, and a willingness to care for the kids. The mom has no job and no desire 0.96

00:21:36.120 for a job and a deadbeat dad. Gee, I wonder who's better for the kid. He hired a great lawyer worth

00:21:40.760 every penny. Yeah, she was hilarious. Well, how do you guys think her conversation with her boyfriend's

00:21:46.440 going to go? So funny. Let me know what you guys think in the comments for this video. And if you have

00:21:52.360 any more court reactions you want me to do, send them to me on Twitter, PearlyThings with a Z,

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Pearl - July 06, 2025

Greedy Ex-Wife Gets OWNED In Court

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