Pearl - April 10, 2026


Guys, Most Modern Women Will Try To Ruin You


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Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

165.01715

Word count

1,106

Sentence count

36

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Hate speech

5

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00:00:00.000 see i had married her when i was 23 years old when i was younger and she was 10 years older
00:00:05.200 than me yeah she was a single mom and everything and i fell for that bro
00:00:12.800 welcome to the show urban um thank you for coming on what do you not give a about
00:00:20.720 man pearl first of all salute to y'all appreciate y'all a whole lot man pearl i do not care about
00:00:28.640 my ex-wife this is gonna be real about it now well what's interesting is that um i was having
00:00:40.240 a conversation with my sister right and she asked me a question she asked me if things were to be
00:00:48.080 different right would you go back to your ex-wife i said hell no why like wow why should i because 1.00
00:00:58.320 this woman had put me through living hell. I went through divorce with her. I went through 1.00
00:01:04.800 custody battles with her, child support, all kind of stuff, Pearl. So, no, it's not going to happen.
00:01:12.400 It's not going to happen. Why would she even ask you that question?
00:01:17.760 That's being a sister. That's being a sister. You know how this with some of your family members, 1.00
00:01:24.000 they just want the best for you right and so she figured that if she asked this question then you
00:01:30.320 know it could like rehash a what if scenario right well well and then don't forget a lot of
00:01:37.760 a lot of women in in the black community will sell their men out for for the sisterhood 0.98
00:01:43.280 facts like my sister you know um i'll be telling her about a woman that i'm kind of going out with
00:01:50.080 and she was like oh are you sure you're gonna be able to handle that it's like why would you even
00:01:54.320 say that to your brother like why you know what i'm saying like so so i have a question be urban
00:02:01.680 explain how explain to the audience how you as a man can go from marrying a woman to
00:02:10.080 you see her as she has not she's one of a kind she's an angel she's has that special sauce
00:02:18.320 and then what happens when all that's gone well to be honest with you brother she never had that
00:02:25.200 special sauce i'm just gonna be honest with you see i had married her when i was 23 years old
00:02:32.080 when i was younger and she was 10 years older than me yeah she was a single mom and everything
00:02:39.120 fell for that bro i fell for it i ain't lying now i can hold myself accountable for choosing
00:02:44.880 to be with her but other part of that was that she was being a predator for real i ain't lying
00:02:50.560 and so i'm not marrying that woman and i was married for her mary um did anyone
00:02:57.440 did anyone warn you and say hey bruh i wouldn't yeah god shoot
00:03:07.520 man hey check this out so the day of the wedding all hell had broke loose right
00:03:13.520 so i had ordered my tuxedo for the wedding right i had ordered my shoes and i ordered everything
00:03:20.700 i'm supposed to be getting my hair cut and all this stuff right so tell me why all these things
00:03:26.040 was falling out of place first of all the place where i got my tuxedo at right they not messing
00:03:31.620 up the tuxedo it's supposed to be an all-white tuxedo it got messed up it was a white white
00:03:37.320 tuxedo with black pants and white shoes right and so they had to fix it it was going to take
00:03:42.920 them over an hour to correct that then they have to re-alter it too the same day then one of my um
00:03:50.760 barbers that's supposed to be cutting my hair he ended up counseling an appointment he's like bro
00:03:55.720 i'm out of town i can't do it so i have to go across town to find another barber then to top
00:04:01.440 it off right to top it off my best friend right he was supposed to be my best man at my wedding
00:04:08.700 this dude in a counseling the day of the wedding and guess what the reason why because he said he
00:04:15.500 had feelings for her and he didn't want to see us get married and i didn't know nothing about this
00:04:20.300 period so so yeah i believe god was literally trying to save me but i was being a forehead i
00:04:28.700 was being young and hard-headed ended up spending 11 years with her i you know a story i heard the
00:04:34.780 other day which was similar like um that god intervened or god there was karma this guy got
00:04:42.140 cheated on and then six months later her sister tried to sleep with him oh wow
00:04:52.940 he was like that was karma were you military or something who me yeah when you were younger oh
00:05:00.140 oh okay he just did it all on his own yeah i did all on my own i did things that i shouldn't have
00:05:07.980 did and it is what it is yeah you paid the you paid the time you know you can't even how many
00:05:13.820 kids did she have and then how many kids did you and her have so she had one son that was young
00:05:20.860 and we ended up having three children together okay yes sir it was crazy about it is that
00:05:29.420 11 years later, I done finally got over everything
00:05:32.560 and I done surpassed the Red Pill Rage.
00:05:35.440 Y'all know what the Red Pill Rage is.
00:05:37.200 Oh, yeah, of course.
00:05:38.200 You were lied to, man.
00:05:40.000 You were just lied to.
00:05:41.580 Mm-hmm.
00:05:42.600 So I surpassed all that and here we go again with this.
00:05:47.880 So I'm like, no.
00:05:48.840 So would you ever get married again?
00:05:50.680 I'm actually married.
00:05:52.260 I'm married now.
00:05:53.200 Okay.
00:05:53.660 I'm actually married now.
00:05:54.360 But the difference is that I took the time out 0.98
00:05:57.460 to vet out this woman versus me
00:05:59.340 just choosing to be with a woman just because.
00:06:01.780 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:06:02.960 And I believe that's what we're messing up on
00:06:05.660 is that we don't take the time out to vet out
00:06:08.020 to make sure that they are compatible
00:06:10.100 with your particular lifestyle and your particular program. 0.78
00:06:13.820 Okay, so your first wife was black, right?
00:06:17.900 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:19.140 Is your second wife black? 1.00
00:06:20.660 Yeah. 1.00
00:06:21.500 Okay.
00:06:23.460 I don't know what you're thinking.
00:06:25.420 Yeah.
00:06:26.740 Because, yo, man, leave him behind, dude.
00:06:29.680 I'm on that train, dude.
00:06:31.100 Straight up.
00:06:33.680 Thanks for calling in, Urban.
00:06:36.000 Great call.
00:06:36.440 I appreciate you, Pearl.
00:06:37.440 Thank you.
00:06:38.840 Man, what a great call.
00:06:40.280 Wow.
00:06:40.940 Yeah, that was really good.