Pearl - Gym Encounter Fail： Pearl REACTS to a Cougars Story

00:00:00.000 and then for the people who say well the right person is just going to come at the right time

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00:00:09.040 thing but now in the world of dating apps texting technology she's right meeting someone at work is 1.00

00:00:14.480 dead men approaching is dead online that's the way the world is going i don't make the rules i just

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00:02:01.460 Oh, what a day it's been so far. I was in a Walmart and this really nice looking guy came up to me.

00:02:11.060 um he was pretty young uh he's probably my son's age in his 30s and uh he says hey i love your son

00:02:19.280 i said oh thank you and he goes are you single and i was like yes i am and then they tried a

00:02:26.540 question how old are you and i'm like uh 55 you could just see the poor guy's face

00:02:34.360 he was so embarrassed because i'm probably his parents age right and he didn't know what to say

00:02:42.080 and i didn't know what to say to to let him off the hook i was like hey if we were to have sex

00:02:48.180 right now i probably wouldn't know if i was having an orgasm a cramp or a stroke so it's okay why

00:02:55.740 would you say that that's so awkward because i'm putting myself in the guy's shoe if i went up to

00:02:59.860 guy said hi are you single oh yeah you have such a nice smile and then he says hi i said how old

00:03:06.100 are you he said 55 i said oh and then if he said that same thing i would think he was weird as hell

00:03:11.540 i would i would wonder what the hell is he talking about so i haven't made a connection with a single

00:03:17.940 person in the last five months that wasn't assisted by dating apps and i've decided to quit dating

00:03:23.700 naps right so now I have to talk to people again which is giving me

00:03:28.320 incredible anxiety and I don't want to do it however I believe it is the way

00:03:34.020 forward so I just got to the gym and it's quite late on a Saturday it's

00:03:40.080 probably gonna be no one in there but I've actually forgotten my headphones so

00:03:44.020 I feel like the conditions are quite prime for chatting to somebody I don't

00:03:50.940 i don't want to though so i'm an idiot there's like three people in there and everyone else 0.83

00:03:57.560 has got their headphones in i spoke to nobody and two exercises and then i just felt a little

00:04:04.080 bit sad so i'm leaving you failed i appreciate everyone's feedback on why guys don't approach

00:04:11.520 girls anymore i have multiple points to bring up so for the people who use the excuse of like guys 0.97

00:04:17.960 won't go up to girls anymore because they're afraid of coming off as like rapey or weird like

00:04:22.120 that's not a thing if you're not right yeah it's a thing it's a thing but you've never had to think

00:04:28.320 about the men's point of view in your entire life women freak out or we'll call men creeps if they

00:04:34.300 approach them so now i mean we've had like two generations of this i wouldn't say it's that

00:04:39.560 typical for men to approach left and right anymore not like it used to be and you're not weird and

00:04:44.580 you go up to a girl like it's just not a thing but I understand where you guys are coming from

00:04:50.540 from other girls saying that they don't feel comfortable when guys do that but I think that

00:04:55.780 girls are just saying that when a guy genuinely is creepy and I hope all of you guys are not

00:05:00.660 generally creepy there are some creepy people and even if it's not true maybe most women won't do 1.00

00:05:07.020 that enough do it where it gets put on social media and then men you know they see that and 1.00

00:05:12.900 they don't want to they don't want to approach us anymore there whatever also some people are like

00:05:18.260 well i'm not gonna like find my wife like at a bar or whatever but then like what does that say about

00:05:24.180 like you like you know if you're the type of person who would be at a bar then why would another type

00:05:29.700 of person who would be at a bar not be you know possible love interest okay anyways after gathering

00:05:37.300 all of my data, here's what I've come to. Unfortunately, we are all dying alone. I'm

00:05:43.200 sorry, I don't make the rules. But both genders don't want to talk to each other. We don't want 1.00

00:05:49.300 to use dating apps anymore. We all want to stay in our comfort zone with the people that we know

00:05:54.400 when we're out. We don't really feel like making an effort to meet new people. And then for the

00:05:59.680 people who say, well, the right person is just going to come at the right time, blah, blah,

00:06:03.260 that is dead that was a thing our parents our grandparents yes that was a real thing but now

00:06:09.960 in the world of dating apps texting technology she's right meeting someone at work is dead

00:06:15.120 men don't want to risk their jobs they're not going to do it a man approaching is dead online

00:06:20.320 that's the way the world is going i don't make the rules i just tell you what they are okay

00:06:24.280 and apparently people who don't like talking to one another the chances that happening unfortunately

00:06:29.660 are slim to none now. Back then, people actually made an effort because there wasn't the technology

00:06:35.920 to just find the person online. If you missed your opportunity with the person you saw in person,

00:06:41.400 then that opportunity is gone. I don't know. It's definitely a real shame that this is where we're

00:06:45.640 all at. But at this rate, I can confidently say that do not be surprised when all of us are

00:06:53.480 middle-aged going to be really old and we're also good luck wow did she really say that to him

00:07:02.460 i personally think she was trying to present him with an opportunity to get laid she was so glad

00:07:09.560 to have some guy approach her she offered it to him on a platter i wonder what he did he ran away

00:07:17.240 yeah that was an incredibly poor attempt to approach a guy come on i thought you were a

00:07:24.360 strong independent yeah you've got to try harder than that is that all you got it actually is a

00:07:31.880 thing for women to call men creeps the line is so fine that men are not even sure what is considered

00:07:39.580 creepy any longer the only guidelines there are is if a guy is not over six foot makes six figures

00:07:47.120 and that's the problem too guys can use the exact same line and one you'll find attractive and one

00:07:53.400 you will not he's creepy you want to be approached and you don't want to die alone go approach men

00:07:59.920 yourself women pushed men away from approaching them do it yourself yeah he's right he is right 0.98

00:08:07.520 okay so let me do okay so yeah guys the world is changing and as women I that that's what I

00:08:15.160 predict I think more women will start approaching men because we just do not get the attention we 0.64

00:08:19.440 used to anymore. Men used to be much more forward and they can't be because of all this me too stuff

00:08:25.020 and so women are going to adapt. I think you're going to see more female breadwinners and you're 1.00

00:08:30.980 going to see more women in pursuit of men. So anyways let me know what you guys think. Like

00:08:34.680 the video on your way out. Subscribe to the channel and I'll talk to you next time.

Pearl - May 10, 2024

Gym Encounter Fail： Pearl REACTS to a Cougars Story

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