Pearl - Happy Halloween my Ninjas 📱

00:00:00.000 what is going on my ninjas welcome to another episode of the just pearly things show why do

00:00:10.960 everything just pearly things all right now a few announcements um you may get some notifications

00:00:16.960 this week that are kind of random and it's because we're testing our app i do apologize if any of

00:00:22.560 them come out of the blue or whatever thank you guys so much for being here on top of that i'm

00:00:27.760 I'm making cookies currently.

00:00:31.900 You know, I don't have any candy, so I'm going to give these trick-or-treaters cookies if

00:00:35.260 they come.

00:00:37.020 So I will go to the kitchen.

00:00:39.920 There's a kitchen cam there.

00:00:41.120 See the cookies are...

00:00:42.740 I made these blondie things, but they just didn't really turn out that good, so I got

00:00:46.700 to wait 20 minutes for the...

00:00:51.260 20 minutes for the...

00:00:52.260 Oh, I actually got to set a timer. 1.00

00:00:54.400 15 minutes for the dough to cool but I want to talk about how women kind of 1.00

00:01:00.820 ruin everything right and I mean a lot of people think I'm trolling or I'm kid 1.00

00:01:08.260 thing but every day I just look around and I look at the women I look at my

00:01:13.780 peers and I just say are we sufferable or insufferable I mean sometimes I'll be

00:01:20.520 like mid-conversation, hold on, and I'm like, wow, did I do that insufferable thing?

00:01:28.040 Totally insufferable, right? 1.00

00:01:30.180 And I'll be like, wow, what hope do we have if I focus on female insufferability 1.00

00:01:34.980 and sometimes I still do it, right? 1.00

00:01:38.660 But there's a female insufferability epidemic in this country. 1.00

00:01:42.340 Women are increasingly having big egos. 1.00

00:01:46.400 And women in this country really are crackheads, right? 1.00

00:01:50.100 women are not talented. They have no skills. And I'll give you some examples. We have no skills 1.00

00:01:56.120 at being mothers because we raise terrible kids. On top of that, we keep ruining our kids emotionally.

00:02:02.660 Then if we continue, we ruin men's spaces. I went on the news today. GB News asked me to go on. You

00:02:12.280 can probably find the clip. And I found out there's basically laws for whistleblowers for men that use

00:02:19.720 derogatory language at work. How insufferable is that? Derogatory laws for women.

00:02:30.860 This is an insufferability epidemic. We're at pandemic levels and people, again, people think 1.00

00:02:39.540 I'm trolling and I can't put into words how much I mean it. Everywhere I go, it's just women have 1.00

00:02:45.700 to be naked. Women have to kill their kids. Women have to complain. I mean, it's never just women 1.00

00:02:51.900 are so cool and chill. You know, one thing I've noticed, the biggest thing between men and women 1.00

00:02:58.100 is men just have patience and women don't. We're such bitches when we're impatient. 0.99

00:03:05.440 What do I mean by ninja? You know what I mean. You know what I mean. This is some black guy. 0.99

00:03:10.880 it's like, what do you mean? You know what I mean. I'll say it. I'll say it. I don't give a fuck. 0.96

00:03:22.120 I mean, black people, they just want to own that word. And you know, I'm not even dying. I don't 1.00

00:03:26.860 really love saying the N word. It's kind of like, it's kind of trashy, right? Like I don't really,

00:03:35.460 but I have to say it because you guys won't let me, like, if it comes down to it, it's the

00:03:42.420 principle. I don't like not feeling included. I'm a woman. I like being included on things.

00:03:50.060 Also, if you are watching the show, just know we are a constant threat of demonetization. If I get

00:03:55.160 demonetized tomorrow, I'm cooked and this show is over. I'm not doing two years of this again. So

00:03:59.960 You go to justpearlythings.com slash donate, justpearlythings.com slash donate.

00:04:04.780 So I'm not completely cooked, right?

00:04:07.360 So I'm not completely cooked.

00:04:11.240 But I keep going through the list. 1.00

00:04:13.560 Now, what's the next thing that women ruin? 1.00

00:04:16.860 Halloween, right? 0.95

00:04:20.160 Women, it really, it's just, Pearl, I rock with you sometimes, if not most of the time. 1.00

00:04:27.300 Don't do this. 0.79

00:04:28.340 I'm going to do it, ninja.

00:04:30.580 I mean, what, you're going to threaten me? 0.96

00:04:32.920 You, lowly person, get out. 1.00

00:04:35.460 I need the softies to get out of here. 1.00

00:04:38.360 We don't want you here. 1.00

00:04:41.320 Please, if you're going to come here to nag me, oh, my God, what are you, women? 1.00

00:04:46.240 Get out of here. 1.00

00:04:48.220 Get out. 1.00

00:04:49.040 Get out.

00:04:53.480 Thank you.

00:04:59.960 it's just I'm a woman I shouldn't be like I should be softer than you 1.00

00:05:10.800 you know I mean it's just the principle it's a principle so what do women ruin can we talk 0.71

00:05:18.880 about how women put in the chat how you think women ruin Halloween I'm out let me let me cry 1.00

00:05:24.660 me a river. Oh no. Let me cry. So the first reason women ruin Halloween is that older women that are 1.00

00:05:37.300 no longer fun, these old women that used to be big fat slut whores, but now they've aged out of the 1.00

00:05:42.980 game, right? But back in their youth, they would go around naked. And you know, it's not like I'm 1.00

00:05:49.260 for women being naked, but sometimes I think we got to fix the birth rate. So like Halloween, 0.96

00:05:54.620 women are known for putting out. So if you're going to be naked and put out, I mean, at least 1.00

00:05:59.620 that's a value add to society, right? At least that's a, at least that's a value add, right?

00:06:07.240 But the women now, they want to get naked for their youth, right? And then they get old and 1.00

00:06:15.780 then they're Allie Beth Stuckey and they say Halloween is all degenerate and you need to

00:06:19.980 evangelize on Halloween. Ninja, we're trying to smash on Halloween. We're trying to get drunk

00:06:29.040 and throw it back. If you're going out, if that's your thing, right? And I'm not saying that like

00:06:37.180 you should or you shouldn't, right? But that's what people do. Halloween is, that's a day for

00:06:44.140 degeneracy. And I think, I think it makes sense. I mean you can bring your kids

00:06:48.520 around the neighborhood. The next reason, so the first reason is women nag all the 1.00

00:06:53.320 college kids and the young adults. Like the women will hoard to get what 1.00

00:06:57.960 they want in life so they'll have, they'll have met their husband on Halloween by 1.00

00:07:01.760 throwing it back and then tell the next generation that we can't throw it back

00:07:06.100 to get what we want in life. It's like my mother, my mother met my father and they

00:07:11.680 I had an unplanned pregnancy, right, when they first met and they gave that kid up for

00:07:15.960 adoption.

00:07:16.960 It was a whole thing.

00:07:17.960 But long story short, my mom told me to wait until marriage to have sex.

00:07:23.700 My father is the coolest man ever.

00:07:25.900 Any person would be lucky to have my dad.

00:07:27.880 My dad is a saint. 0.96

00:07:28.880 And I thought about it and I'm like, Mom, you got your husband by getting pregnant immediately. 0.99

00:07:36.060 And so I call my sister and I say, Mom's been telling us wrong.

00:07:39.800 She's been telling us wrong.

00:07:40.860 been saying to wait till marriage. Let's throw 1.00

00:07:42.860 it back. Download Tinder right

00:07:45.000 now.

00:07:47.220 Right now.

00:07:54.200 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:07:56.300 So the women 1.00

00:07:56.920 nag 1.00

00:07:57.520 Halloween's a pagan holiday. 1.00

00:08:00.820 Right? And look at, so their 1.00

00:08:02.480 argument is Halloween is a pagan holiday. 1.00

00:08:05.620 Well, maybe it is

00:08:06.680 a devil worship holiday. 1.00

00:08:08.760 But you're a woman. You're basically the devil. 1.00

00:08:10.860 and the way you behave is the devil. 1.00

00:08:12.360 So what are you nagging all the degenerates for? 0.98

00:08:14.380 We are degenerating tonight. 1.00

00:08:16.900 So that's the first way women ruin Halloween, 1.00

00:08:19.760 is the older women nag the younger women. 1.00

00:08:23.980 Now, the next way that women ruin Halloween, 1.00

00:08:28.460 women get naked and then complain at men 1.00

00:08:32.020 for looking at them while they're naked. 1.00

00:08:35.560 Now, I think if you're going to get naked, 0.85

00:08:38.000 you better throw it back.

00:08:38.980 I mean, you've got to pick one, right?

00:08:45.560 Which is it?

00:08:47.760 Which is it? 1.00

00:08:48.860 Are we whores or are we prudes? 1.00

00:08:51.780 But you can't dress like a whore and claim to be a prude. 1.00

00:08:55.700 Throw it back for somebody. 1.00

00:08:57.360 For the birth rate. 0.98

00:08:58.680 Let's pick up the birth rate.

00:09:00.340 I mean, that's when you know the birth rate's getting bad in this country, right?

00:09:06.560 It's when even conservatives are like,

00:09:08.280 do you know what? Maybe we can push hookups a little bit. Maybe we can, maybe you guys,

00:09:13.260 you know what? Hookup. Hookup. Yeah. Do you know what? Let's get some alcohol in here.

00:09:22.680 Let's get some alcohol in here. 1.00

00:09:30.320 Let's get some alcohol in here. You know? 1.00

00:09:38.280 The next way women ruin Halloween, the lack of creative costumes. 1.00

00:09:49.100 And actually, I'm a part of this this year. 1.00

00:09:51.000 I'm not going to say my costume, but it is just like every other bitch. 1.00

00:09:54.320 I mean, how many cats do we need? 1.00

00:09:56.540 We have a million cats, a million bunnies, a million angels, a million devils. 1.00

00:10:08.280 Where the men will come up with creative, fun stuff, we dress up as whores. 0.99

00:10:18.280 Do you know what I mean? 0.99

00:10:20.280 Yeah. 1.00

00:10:21.280 The next way women have ruined Halloween. 1.00

00:10:45.280 We don't have trick-or-treating because we just aren't really having kids. 1.00

00:10:48.240 I know I'm part of this problem.

00:10:49.220 but like, you know what I mean? Like we used to have all these kids running around being so cute.

00:10:55.180 Now everyone's whores in public. And it's kind of weird because you don't realize how 1.00

00:10:59.800 like being naked is so acceptable in public. Um, so Halloween used to be for kids and now it's for

00:11:08.680 horse. I mean, alright guys, I'm going to the kitchen. Alright guys, can you hear me? Can you

00:11:34.620 hear me okay let me let me put it in the chat i want to see how you guys like this kitchen cam

00:11:40.820 i don't know if i've done a good thing or a bad thing like would you guys enjoy it if i

00:11:47.840 every now and then like made dinner on camera i make dinner anyway i might as well make money

00:11:52.520 off it. You know what I mean? All right. All right. All right. Let's see in the chat.

00:12:07.720 all right now i got the chat up if you got

00:12:17.860 getting paid while i make dinner i know it is the dream so yeah today i have sugar cookies

00:12:28.260 i'm not saying these are the best cookies but i didn't have chocolate chips

00:12:32.100 and i wasn't gonna buy any you know what i mean

00:12:34.740 Here we go. 1.00

00:13:04.740 How else have women ruined Halloween? 1.00

00:13:26.760 You want me to invite Shiv again? 1.00

00:13:28.440 Like next month he'll be back.

00:13:34.740 I don't know.

00:14:04.740 All right, how long am I supposed to put these in the oven?

00:14:16.760 This is smaller.

00:14:21.880 Okay, almost done.

00:14:27.580 Commercial break, you know what I mean?

00:14:29.200 Commercial break while I bake.

00:14:32.500 Commercial break for the bake.

00:14:34.740 Okay, how long are we putting this in here for?

00:14:56.740 Done with that.

00:14:58.740 Going back.

00:15:18.700 All right, hold on.

00:15:19.760 I'm seeing how it says 9 to 11 minutes.

00:15:25.220 I've walked here.

00:15:26.300 It's been like 30 seconds.

00:15:27.520 I'm going to set it for 10 minutes from now.

00:15:44.460 All right.

00:15:45.340 So we're going to react to some videos that were submitted today. 1.00

00:15:49.940 Now, the next way that women ruin Halloween is women's scary opinions. 1.00

00:15:55.800 and observations. 1.00

00:15:59.280 Every day, women amaze me 1.00

00:16:02.360 on how bad we can get. 1.00

00:16:06.500 Like, you know, I mean, we've supported child murder.

00:16:09.660 We've supported abortion. 0.90

00:16:13.200 And now women are starting podcasts.

00:16:16.700 But it's not just about starting a podcast 1.00

00:16:19.040 because some women I do like in media. 0.97

00:16:21.900 I'm not completely anti-women in media. 1.00

00:16:24.900 But unfortunately, it's women with big egos in media. 1.00

00:16:30.220 And one of the people that has a very large ego is Lila Rose. 1.00

00:16:33.140 You can just tell she's one of those spoiled women 1.00

00:16:34.920 that has never been told no in her entire life, right? 0.98

00:16:39.800 And these, oh, this is Safari.

00:16:41.380 That's why this is weird.

00:16:42.380 I might have to switch browsers. 1.00

00:16:44.680 I think Chrome is better for StreamYards.

00:16:47.840 Do I have Chrome?

00:16:48.900 Oh, no, I have to download it.

00:16:50.540 Because every time I try to share my screen, I get an issue.

00:16:52.900 and I think it's, okay, do I have to go in the App Store?

00:16:56.660 I might have to download Chrome.

00:17:02.660 All right, Chrome download, Chrome.

00:17:11.360 Okay, why are all these weird apps?

00:17:12.820 I just want Chrome.

00:17:15.820 Open app for Chrome and Safari.

00:17:19.580 Oh no.

00:17:20.420 I don't remember the, okay, well, $20 super chat, thanks for telling, how much to say it,

00:17:29.540 with an R or no R, 100 bucks for no R, has to be $100 super chat, R500, yeah.

00:17:47.620 Okay, wait, hold on.

00:17:50.420 I'm going to have to get, all right, there is a way to share my screen and not have it be crazy.

00:18:00.520 So today we're going to be reacting to Lila Rose.

00:18:04.420 I think after I take these cookies out of the oven, after the cookies.

00:18:20.420 All right, I'm going to play the audio.

00:18:38.440 allow to share window but it only lets me share this window all right so we're

00:18:51.460 gonna do this one we're gonna see if this audio works because I know

00:18:58.300 sometimes it's had issues so can you guys put in the chat if you guys can see

00:19:04.640 this okay. Can you hear that okay? I'm going to check you guys in a second. Okay. Could

00:19:18.520 you hear it? Could you hear it? Yeah, it was okay. A member? Two new memberships! Oh,

00:19:28.380 you shouldn't have. You shouldn't have. No sound? Oh. Hmm. I wonder why that is. Hmm.

00:19:45.800 Huh. Someone said, shouldn't you be more organized? No. The show is free.

00:19:52.580 Do you want it to cost money? No? Okay. That's what I thought. That's what I thought, bitch.

00:19:58.380 That's what I thought. 1.00

00:20:07.620 Oh, here it is. Oh, yay! Yay! I think I can get into, hold on. I'm going to switch browsers

00:20:14.620 because that was a problem.

00:20:21.620 Yeah, you guys aren't getting that off me.

00:20:35.460 Okay, let me see.

00:20:36.700 Hold up.

00:20:37.120 Hold up.

00:20:51.620 there we go thank you 17 Pro Max hold on hold on hold on yes that's me give me a

00:21:05.180 second all right yes I'm in okay now we're gonna go to StreamYard and log in

00:21:13.000 there and log out of here hold on hold on hold on hold on so it's gonna help okay log in

00:21:30.840 thank you all right we're about to exit all right hold on guys i'm exiting out of this one

00:21:37.000 i gotta exit

00:21:43.000 All right, I'm back.

00:22:11.560 I'm back.

00:22:13.000 I'm back, I'm back, I'm back.

00:22:16.660 All right, now we're going to pull up the Lila Rose. 1.00

00:22:39.240 Okay, so one of the ways women are ruining Halloween 1.00

00:22:42.500 as our terrible opinions. 1.00

00:22:44.720 And women thinking they know 1.00

00:22:46.720 that we know anything about anything, 0.98

00:22:48.380 especially what men go through. 1.00

00:22:50.440 And Lala Rose is an insufferable feminist 1.00

00:22:52.480 who's completely a bitch, right? 1.00

00:22:54.940 But she doesn't think she's a bitch 1.00

00:22:56.500 because of the ego and arrogance. 1.00

00:22:59.060 We've got a super chat.

00:22:59.860 Thanks for doing what you do

00:23:00.760 and being a solid person.

00:23:01.800 Happy Halloween.

00:23:02.480 I casually keep up with you.

00:23:03.500 And it brightens my day.

00:23:05.020 Thank you.

00:23:06.140 Here's a down payment.

00:23:07.440 Thank you. 1.00

00:23:08.700 Why do women claim to be a voice for men, 1.00

00:23:10.200 only for profit? 1.00

00:23:11.000 Shouldn't it be free to help someone 0.57

00:23:12.100 genuinely wants a woman's perspective on an issue um you know it's annoying the show is free 0.98

00:23:19.700 the show is free 0.57

00:23:23.620 that's free right so i don't know what you want um matching ansi's thoughts okay but with that

00:23:33.500 attitude i might make the chat members only you know what i mean all right so this should work

00:23:40.140 now and play it and we're gonna see if this works um happy halloween pearl

00:23:49.100 it looks like you have the wrong mic picked up really there's echo

00:23:55.900 really

00:23:58.860 how about now how about now is it better

00:24:04.940 is it better

00:24:05.500 Oh. How about now? Testing. Testing, testing, right? No. I'm going to kill myself. Your mic

00:24:31.320 is across the room it sounds like no it can't be where i just came from i'm looking at it

00:24:37.800 oh you're totally right though

00:24:42.600 wow what is what is that

00:24:44.200 is it better test actually I think it should work now

00:24:57.880 Pass, pass, pass, pass.

00:25:11.880 Huh.

00:25:12.880 Huh, okay. It says it's working now. Well, hold on. All right. Now I got to go to the

00:25:40.500 kitchen can though, so we'll see, can you guys hear me over here, can you hear me here,

00:26:03.540 man I'm over here

00:26:09.940 alright let's see how the cookies turned out

00:26:30.580 alright

00:26:31.380 now

00:26:31.980 This is what we got going. I guess I could leave him in a little longer, but I don't know. I'm in the school is good enough. Good enough. All right, I'm going back.

00:26:45.980 All right.

00:27:15.980 Oh, audio input device, audio input, I think this is right, you know what it is, I think

00:27:44.380 I think it's the settings on StreamYard.

00:27:52.380 What?

00:28:06.380 Testing.

00:28:07.380 Oh, see that should work.

00:28:09.380 That should work.

00:28:12.380 Testing, testing, testing, testing, testing.

00:28:28.380 Hmm.

00:28:31.960 I'm gonna listen, because sometimes you guys gaslight me.

00:28:41.380 Pass the...

00:28:53.380 Pass the...

00:28:57.380 Pass the...

00:29:01.380 Yeah.

00:29:05.380 Testing, is that better?

00:29:35.380 You guys can hear me on this.

00:30:05.380 Okay, so it's this one, testing, okay, I think that should work, hmm, all right, I'm going

00:30:33.180 downstairs. The other one downstairs works, hold on.

00:31:03.180 .

00:31:33.180 All right, I'm back.

00:32:01.040 i'm back it'll hurt you'll hear it all right thank you for your patience everybody thank you

00:32:07.740 the brank show for helping me just sounds like you have the wrong mic input i promise there's

00:32:13.060 like five because i have so many i'll get it it's gonna it's gonna we're gonna have tech issues the

00:32:19.380 next month i'm just telling you guys um i'm not gonna sell you a dream of it's like i'm gonna

00:32:24.580 get better soon it's gonna be slow and gradual and i will learn over time no i'm not gonna hire

00:32:30.640 producer no no you know what i mean i know it just is and see this the negative nancy it's not going

00:32:40.400 to work out for you right according to who now we have a piano so

00:32:51.340 um let's see your show let's see your show show me your show you know what i mean show me yours

00:33:05.440 all right let's see um all right let me pull up the lila rose thing

00:33:10.140 all right for Halloween I'm dressing as a simp all right so conservative Christians um don't

00:33:23.600 understand what the problem is genetically women are supposed to mate and date with um the top men

00:33:30.300 in society right that is our hard wiring if we have power we're doing that we're sharing men and 1.00

00:33:35.380 we'll fight to do it. We'll crawl through the window. We'll crawl across the floor.

00:33:41.100 We'll go through the back door. We'll tell the man, back door, front door, whenever you want it,

00:33:46.240 wherever you want it. Why? Because we're meant to maiden date with the top men in society, right?

00:33:52.020 So whenever, and now women have all the power. We have all the political power, all the voting 1.00

00:33:55.480 power, all the everything power, right? All the power that we need, we have it. So what does that

00:34:02.480 mean for society, right? What does that mean? That means that women, women are going to date

00:34:12.780 with the top men and there's nothing that you can do about it. Nothing at all. We have hinge. We 0.99

00:34:18.220 have tinder. We have choice, right? And the only way that you can really, I mean, you have to ask

00:34:24.580 yourself a question. Should we force women to have sex with men they're not attracted to? 0.85

00:34:28.220 or should we give women choice now it's one or the other so what happens is conservatives tell

00:34:34.680 women to go against their biological hard hardwiring and I think that's why so many 0.57

00:34:39.240 virgin women I mean I don't know what it is with you virgin ladies but you guys really make the 1.00

00:34:43.520 men pay for taking your virginity these are the worst women I've seen in divorce court personally 1.00

00:34:47.540 I'm not against or saying there's no benefit to virgins but I mean I don't know man it doesn't 1.00

00:34:53.140 seem to have the same benefit it used to with the way you guys um cheat lie and steal just like the 0.93

00:34:58.640 rest of us sluts you know what I mean so anyways um basically these women are going out um 0.96

00:35:07.240 and the church says ladies go against all the power you have don't use it and go against your 1.00

00:35:14.120 biological hardwiring and date and marry an average guy and a lot of these women do it 0.95

00:35:18.720 And the issue is when you take away women's burden of performance, usually women perform better, but we're delusional. 0.99

00:35:25.380 So we'll think that we could have performed better on our own. 1.00

00:35:28.420 So you see these rich women saying, sounds awesome now, a white girl got it done. 0.88

00:35:32.020 Thank you. 0.66

00:35:33.180 Pearl, when you start your MMM deal with the whales that get out of pocket on the street, I don't know.

00:35:40.000 I would take a fight if the right person offered. 0.90

00:35:42.640 Why do women associate with guys like the quartering for resources, right? 1.00

00:35:46.020 so anyways um now when women figure out all the power they could have had because imagine you're 1.00

00:35:52.760 like some church girl like you're some Mormon blonde hottie and imagine that you have the 1.00

00:35:58.900 opportunity to mate and date with like Brad Pitt based on your not being fat in America and then 1.00

00:36:06.380 you didn't take it because the church told you not to I mean you're gonna make that man pay that 1.00

00:36:10.580 had your youth you know what I mean so um that's what's happening is women have the power and women 0.99

00:36:15.780 are not going to, we are going to mate and date with the top men in society. Whether the bottom 0.54

00:36:19.560 men like it or not, you get a used bitch. It just is what it is. Eat that L. Sometimes you have to 1.00

00:36:26.000 take L's in life and all of your wives have been used. So, I mean, it is what it is. But Christian

00:36:32.500 women gaslight for eternity and they say the men need to be better. Even though we are big fat 0.98

00:36:37.400 slut whore losers, right? We are losers in society. We've accomplished nothing. We've gotten 1.00

00:36:42.840 nothing done um and honestly we we mess up opportunities in love even though we have like

00:36:49.320 a slam dunk it's so easy for us to um fall in love and all that and we still find a way to mess it up 0.89

00:36:55.500 i'm spitting truths thank you young women will adhere like barnacles to the top men but eventually 0.99

00:37:00.900 they'll age out rejected there's a young woman assembly line after all these older gals are just 0.91

00:37:05.580 mean yeah exactly so um now the well i don't know see here's here's the problem i'll tell you what 0.99

00:37:12.720 Andrew it's been a minute since you've been in the game I'm kind of seeing a different trend with 0.54

00:37:16.880 Gen Z like the Gen Z women are a little bit different so here's the differences millennial

00:37:22.360 women like we met our husbands most of my brothers married millennial women and you know how they met 0.99

00:37:27.920 them at bars drinking and partying but I kind of see Gen Z women they get banged out by the time 1.00

00:37:34.280 they like finish because here's the thing we we date for love for like we don't care about money 1.00

00:37:39.820 until we hit a certain age or we get a certain amount of banged out right so we take enough 0.53

00:37:43.660 dick and then we're like let's just cut a deal right it's almost like you go back to arranged 0.98

00:37:47.340 marriages um you like back in the day you kind of you do an arranged marriage because you have 0.98

00:37:52.500 no feeling but young women fuck out their feelings right so i'm actually seeing young women with more 0.82

00:37:58.220 like beta bucks demeanor boyfriends that just look good like that's kind of the gen z boyfriend 1.00

00:38:03.980 some guy that lets her do whatever she wants she can cheat on him obviously and then um she does

00:38:10.500 whatever she wants but he looks good for instagram and then they still um bang the elf like i almost

00:38:19.020 see the alphas coming later for gen z matter maybe they get banged out by high school i don't really

00:38:23.320 know which it is but i just see more young women on beta bucks and i think it's because we get beta

00:38:28.780 bucks when our like our feelings go away from getting banged out you know that's when we go

00:38:32.840 for money um do you think is the biggest thing hold on um tell me how the audio is but you guys

00:38:40.300 tell me what you're and then now or they um do sugar dating so they're like way more likely to

00:38:46.440 have a sugar baby thing so um i'm an archaeologist and i found some coveted artifacts i found the

00:38:54.080 holy grail the ark of the government noah's ark and an american virgin um did you happy halloween 0.51

00:39:01.620 back our ninja happy halloween okay and um what's scary today actually what's scary is women's body 0.79

00:39:07.800 counts promiscuity um and insufferability i would say that's that's really what is scary 0.88

00:39:15.340 oh my god i couldn't do a monologue on that instead of how women uh i don't disagree pearl 0.81

00:39:22.480 you're quite correct instead of um women's insufferability we can talk about what's scarier 0.97

00:39:28.220 What is scarier than Halloween? 1.00

00:39:33.740 Women's debt. 1.00

00:39:35.700 Okay, let's do this shit. 1.00

00:39:38.620 Average American student loan debt. 1.00

00:39:42.220 Okay.

00:39:44.440 What is scarier than Halloween, than the spooky scaries?

00:39:51.640 What is scarier than ghosts?

00:39:58.220 and goblins. I would argue the average American woman. Yes. So the first thing that's scary 0.98

00:40:07.420 about the average American woman is that women are fat. In this country, there is an obesity 1.00

00:40:13.300 epidemic. The average woman is 170 pounds and like 5'5". That is scary. If you want a bitch

00:40:21.400 to throw it back, her rolls are going to throw it back right in your face. Right in your face. 1.00

00:40:28.220 The next thing is the STD epidemic. The average American woman has had an STD or

00:40:34.780 an abortion. A quarter of women have had an abortion, a third have had an STD at

00:40:39.720 some point in their life. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, HPV,

00:40:45.920 they're coming for you ninjas! That's what's scary, right? The average American 0.58

00:40:52.780 woman has student loan debts. The average American woman's spending habits are 1.00

00:41:00.820 scary. We make 80% of consumer buying decisions. We have $38,400 to $45,000 in 1.00

00:41:08.560 student loan debt and that doesn't include our credit card debt and our 1.00

00:41:12.040 other stupid spending habits. Women have spooky spending habits. What else is scary? The average 1.00

00:41:24.900 American woman in family court. She'll take your kids. She'll take your job. She'll take your family. 1.00

00:41:34.200 she'll take your house. That's scary. That's scary. You know what else is scarier than, 0.99

00:41:43.680 than put in the chat. What is scarier? What is scarier than, you know, vampires, ghosts,

00:41:53.340 goblins? What's scarier? The average American woman's promiscuousness. You know what I realized

00:42:00.380 when in my day, millennial women, everyone would say when we wanted to sound pure, under five. 0.90

00:42:06.320 You know it's getting bad when women are saying under 15, and about a quarter of women are on 0.78

00:42:12.100 OnlyFans under the age of 25 or some sort of sex work. What else is scary? Women without makeup

00:42:22.360 We're chopped, old, decrepit, plastic surgery, and we're still chopped, still chopped. 1.00

00:42:31.560 That's scarier, right? Autistic children. Your wife is going to be old and decrepit. 1.00

00:42:39.800 Your kid's probably going to be autistic. 0.99

00:42:44.060 False accusations. You think you're getting drunk and hooking up with Becky, 0.88

00:42:48.720 Stacy and Diane on Halloween. She takes her tits out, she throws it back, and then the next day 1.00

00:42:56.520 she regrets it. False accusation. 1.00

00:43:01.640 What else, what else is scarier than ghosts? 1.00

00:43:19.340 The average American woman's spitefulness. 1.00

00:43:23.860 Women will go all across town destroying your reputation, telling everybody, she'll get 1.00

00:43:29.180 your sister against you. My first wife took the engagement ring, then announced 100K credit 1.00

00:43:35.840 card debt. I paid it. Second wife, 40K student loan debt. I paid it. My 140 IQ only gets

00:43:41.720 me so far. Gluck gluck is a demonic spell. Yeah, gluck gluck 9,000. Dad'll do it. He's

00:43:48.700 like, I will never do it again. Then someone gluck glucks and he's like, well, I can be

00:43:53.020 talked into it. I could be talked into it. Yeah. It's like, you know, for what's the woman

00:44:01.160 equivalent of that? Um, I would never pay for a man, but then a guy with abs shows up and you 1.00

00:44:07.020 know, it throws down that and you're like, well, did you want me to buy you dinner King? You know

00:44:12.780 what I mean? Let me think, let me think. What is scarier than the average American woman,

00:44:28.860 or sorry, what is scarier than the ghosts and the goblins? Women's nudes scattered across 1.00

00:44:35.680 men's phones in the entire country. You get a nude. It's like Oprah, you get a nude, you 1.00

00:44:41.400 get a nude and then you get the the beta box husband my wife is special my wife 0.94

00:44:46.380 is special and the women are like Oprah you get a nude you get a nude and you 0.92

00:44:51.300 and you and you it is what it is right it is what it is 0.92

00:44:59.060 you need more effort to cook dinner well do you see what i mean i would actually rather

00:45:14.580 cook dinner than buy it i don't know i was just trying to i don't know it's just

00:45:18.760 what else is scarier than the ghosts and the goblins

00:45:23.600 what else is scarier 1.00

00:45:26.740 women's schedules right we our schedules are pure chaos we cannot stick to a routine to stay 1.00

00:45:37.380 or save our lives the whole family suffers our interests we're interested in being big fat slut 0.99

00:45:44.380 not whores, whores, right, what else is scary, our communication, when we communicate it's 0.99

00:45:58.620 just nagging, bitching, complaining, being annoying, it's like this is, this is the life 1.00

00:46:04.040 of a woman, be annoying, complain, bitch, nag, be annoying, complain, bitch, nag, complain, 1.00

00:46:10.420 complain, bitch, nag, be annoying. What else is scary? Women's gaslighting ability, women's ability 1.00

00:46:21.600 to gaslight. Women can, women will make you think, women will truly make you think that you are 0.99

00:46:29.480 wrong when you are completely right. Are driving, that's true. Hold on, hold on, hold on. 1.00

00:46:40.420 I have returned.

00:47:02.380 What else is scary?

00:47:03.480 What will look like in 20 years that you will still have to hit?

00:47:09.800 you will have to get Viagra. What else is scary? Politics, right? Women that can't

00:47:23.720 stop talking about politics or red pill stuff. That's me. 1.00

00:47:28.700 Now, lastly, we're going to react to this Lila Rose video. 1.00

00:47:44.460 Women's opinions are scary, so we'll watch this. 1.00

00:47:51.080 Ah! Ah! I'm scared! I'm scared! Oh my God! Insufferability, right? She's going to tell 1.00

00:48:02.080 us about God with a bunch of makeup and Botox. See, egalitarianism, that's scary. 1.00

00:48:19.080 That's the gaslighting, pretending men and women are the problem when it's just women.

00:48:49.080 yeah so it's again they're saying virginity can you guys hear okay one in the chat

00:48:55.080 you can't hear it okay let me try something try this now what is your idea of submission in a

00:49:00.680 marriage ladies welcome to the dating panel welcome to the lila russia i'm so glad to see

00:49:07.000 all of you guys so good to be here thanks for coming in so we're gonna start with miss lucy

00:49:12.040 here your name your age relationship status and then a little bit about your background

00:49:18.920 hey so i am lucy spots um i have a serious boyfriend i'm 23 years old and i'm a musician

00:49:26.760 and surfer from florida singer songwriter and speaker and it's amazing to be here so glad

00:49:31.960 you're here my name is tiana i am 31 years old i'm in the military wow she looks she looks young

00:49:38.680 to be honest she's cute though she's cute they're both cute very in the army national guard i'm also

00:49:45.560 a former Miss California USA and I'm in a courtship. I love that. My name is Mary. I am 32

00:49:52.380 years old. I left my career in journalism last year to follow the Lord and now I do a lot of

00:49:57.900 work in ministry. Yeah and see the church is just like keep these women single because they make 0.99

00:50:02.740 them think they're doing something when they're doing nothing. Nothing at all. And specifically 1.00

00:50:08.040 in the different young adult ministries in LA County and then I'm also working in freelance

00:50:12.880 media and i am single my name is sophia laurie and i'm 26 years old and i work for california

00:50:20.520 family council so a lot of standing for biblical values at the california state capitol and you

00:50:27.040 know i learned after posting boyfriends in high school and college that that's something i like

00:50:32.440 to keep more private but i can say i'm not married and whenever there is a ring on my finger one day 0.69

00:50:37.940 then I will be very public okay she's saying I'm fucking right I'm fucking so yeah I mean that was 0.63

00:50:45.780 okay about that all right all right very fair all right so let's start with we had a gentleman's 0.95

00:50:51.740 panel recently so you may have seen that or you may not have but one of the first things we asked

00:50:56.520 was about experiences in the last year with dating now for those that are in relationships

00:51:00.600 you can just date it back maybe the year prior since when you got into the relationship to know

00:51:05.440 to be able to answer this so the question is in the last year or year before you started in an 0.83

00:51:11.100 exclusive relationship here's the here's the problem women again dating that's not biblical

00:51:15.480 it's not biblical it would be arranged it's either we have a burden of performance between

00:51:20.880 men and women we got to compete which i'm actually kind of for i'm not i don't know if i'm with the

00:51:25.660 arranged marriages i think i think we should compete um and the men that compete and the

00:51:30.160 women that compete can date out of their league um if she asks for who you voted for before an

00:51:34.760 appetizer bounce yeah i know but have you been asked out to your face yes but not a lot

00:51:42.600 um probably one one time i've mainly been asked like through social media you know um i think 1.00

00:51:50.480 that's okay but here's the thing here's the problem in these church communities the women

00:51:55.200 blast all the guys that show interest and everybody knows and it becomes a huge deal 0.52

00:51:59.960 and then also the elders get involved so like nobody wants to do it you know i'm like the times

00:52:06.960 and culture that we're in right now when i have been asked in person it's turned out better

00:52:12.760 because what scares me is being with a woman and knowing she's interconnected to a society

00:52:18.060 that regards me as an enemy i can't get past the thought um yeah here's the thing um

00:52:23.340 here's the thing the the whole in-person over dating apps there's not really a difference

00:52:32.420 if anything the dating apps favor women and we still complain about them you know they just 0.73

00:52:36.260 seem to have more confidence but mostly it's been online mostly it's been through social media or

00:52:41.040 online i have um i actually was just asked out last week in person in person and it was so lovely

00:52:47.720 because we met at St. Michael's Abbey at a young adult event and he didn't get my number that day,

00:52:54.660 but he ended up driving over an hour to come to my parish where I was hosting a young adult event

00:52:59.080 in order to ask me out in person, which was incredibly courageous.

00:53:03.980 I'm going to go get water. I'll be right back. I'll be right back. I'm going to play the video, though.

00:53:09.900 And he definitely got a date. So it was refreshing, I would say. Very refreshing.

00:53:15.440 beautiful yeah i would say more so online like on instagram but i have been asked out in person

00:53:22.680 and it shows a lot of confidence like it's like okay you're probably gonna more than likely get

00:53:28.700 a day or at least a phone number yeah then just sliding into dms right so question for the ones

00:53:35.540 that have experience in person is it it sounds like it's infrequent though or is it more free

00:53:40.820 like like for your experience mary you just said it just happened last week was that like oh it

00:53:44.700 happened last week and it had been a year or it's you have that experience regularly so i was in a

00:53:49.720 relationship last year and but that person also actually asked me out in person so i've been very

00:53:54.960 blessed i would say to be asked out more frequently in person i also do think for me that is a bit of

00:54:00.500 a standard i've set i don't think i would actually go out with someone who just asks me out over

00:54:04.780 social media i really am a preference of in person okay so here's a follow-up question for this

00:54:12.160 because this is very much the reality of dating today it's apps it's online increasingly people

00:54:17.980 are having trouble meeting each other in person do you feel like when you are not being asked

00:54:23.480 out in person you're being asked out online do you get the sense that it's because they're afraid

00:54:27.920 of approaching you in person because they don't want you to reject them or feel weirded out or

00:54:32.740 is it because they don't live near you they're not in a way that they can actually see you in person

00:54:37.380 yeah i would say i think it's more so fear of rejection i think it's easier to be behind a

00:54:44.340 screen and ask someone out it's always got to be them you know it's never that we have made it so

00:54:51.020 difficult to ask us out that they're afraid of being rejected because of our insufferability

00:54:57.240 you know what i mean and then oh well now i can't get rejected if they don't respond versus in

00:55:02.440 person but yeah like you I think it's you see the confidence it just again you're more willing I'm

00:55:09.640 more willing to go out with someone that I've been asked in person but I think men are a little afraid

00:55:14.100 of rejection and I think there's a point where if it's but again you have all the power right you

00:55:17.820 guys these are all above average women in America maybe not her but at least these three say what 0.98

00:55:23.580 you want long hair no tattoos then above average in America um so you have all the choice so why 0.97

00:55:30.780 you go ask them out that's the thing women can't be adults can't be adults good christian godly 0.98

00:55:37.500 man then give them the date and maybe we can boost their confidence a little bit

00:55:42.380 yeah i definitely second that i think that there is a culture of fear i think from both

00:55:47.020 men and women from men the fear of rejection is super high and i think what men need to

00:55:53.420 understand is that women are looking for a courageous man and you're trying to find your

00:55:59.340 wife at the end of the day and you should be bold so now again this is at a place as a woman to tell 0.75

00:56:04.680 men how to act and behave it's just they don't there's no there there's no self-awareness with 0.99

00:56:12.380 us ladies to step forward for her even at that expense and because rejection happens on both

00:56:17.360 sides men and women both have to face the hypothetical mark put it in the chat in order

00:56:21.580 to find a husband or a wife i think it could be a mixture of both as to why men probably approach a

00:56:28.980 woman through social media or online but i also agree uh with mary as well it it definitely shows

00:56:36.000 a lot about a man's character and his intention um if he does take that courage to approach a woman

00:56:43.240 in person and i can translation chad can approach me in person madden is not that easy you know

00:56:49.300 because who nobody likes rejection um but it definitely does show that hey he's willing to

00:56:56.960 make the first step and when it came to the man that i'm in a courtship with right now he had the

00:57:03.560 courage to do so um he did tell me that you know afterwards it was it was nerve-wracking but i'm

00:57:08.880 glad i did and so i think that's something that should be encouraged i think that if a man is

00:57:17.060 going to use a platform like instagram or social ask her if she'll delete all her social media for

00:57:22.500 life if the man asks her to yeah so the birth rate will fall to zero mark the media to ask a

00:57:28.180 girl out that should be the very last resort um and if you don't live in the same state or um

00:57:33.940 town and you have to um pursue through like instagram or something like that i think that

00:57:39.940 it needs to be handled really carefully with i think we should just get me an only fans i think

00:57:45.140 that you guys should you guys should get an only fans woman because at least she'll be young and

00:57:50.340 hot and then they can be the simps and you can be the one banging her on camera that's at least chad

00:57:55.300 you know her answer to the hypothetical will reveal her honest evaluation of character yeah

00:58:02.100 then we'll find out women have no character you know what i mean a very respectful clear message

00:58:08.340 um you know saying hey i would like to get to know you and we don't live in the same place but can i 0.52

00:58:13.860 call you or can we you know i think calling voice members you know what yeah the the distance stuff

00:58:19.780 when you're younger is really common because gen z women are where where gen z women the most on 0.95

00:58:24.960 their phones right even me like i think i'd be more likely when i was younger to do a phone you

00:58:31.740 know like when you're younger you can talk to people from out of state but i think what happens 0.95

00:58:36.200 though is the i think women don't like spending time around men that much or want to be in

00:58:46.380 relationships so we use the distance as a crutch but women want long distance relationships so we 0.95

00:58:52.140 can be big bigger big fat slut horse you know i was like let's make it more human um is how i would 0.58

00:58:58.180 prefer like with um apps and things like that all right so what do you think is the biggest thing 0.99

00:59:04.300 today that men misunderstand about women and dating i would say because of social media and

00:59:12.460 the apps and kind of feeling like at any point there's an another person just one swipe away

00:59:18.380 whether it's on an app or just scrolling instagram stories or whatever it is that there's just a lack

00:59:24.440 of seriousness about dating especially in gen z and so i think sometimes men don't realize that

00:59:31.540 women want a man that's going to be clear and confident about their intentions that

00:59:36.640 will pick up the phone and even though you've maybe been dating for six months still call you 0.96

00:59:41.340 say hey i'd love to take you out this thursday here's where the reservation is here's what we're 1.00

00:59:45.020 doing yeah so i want a slave whenever you hear conservative women talk about whatever it's it's 0.99

00:59:50.460 never about what they can do these conservative women it's always slavery right i want yeah so 0.85

00:59:57.260 i think there's a lot of lack of clarity and so just reminding the men that we want clarity we

01:00:04.220 want them to be the leader in the relationship i think and and men want virgin right it's just

01:00:10.460 incredible the lack of self-awareness kind of battered down men for a while telling all this

01:00:17.100 toxic masculinity and saying these things instead of building them up to be men and leaders and so

01:00:22.460 reminding gen z men that we want leaders that we want men that are going to lead in the relationship

01:00:27.340 lead in that whole process yeah actually i was the very first thing that came to mind was also

01:00:32.940 directness i think men can often feel that they are being direct with women without realizing how

01:00:40.060 much women can overanalyze things and i think it's really um it's been really interesting for

01:00:47.100 me to hear different men talk about what they feel is like direct actions versus how i know

01:00:52.460 my girlfriends are receiving those actions what's an example we want virginity but we want loyalty

01:00:57.420 and humility even more well you're getting none of those so i hate to say it i love that um i think

01:01:05.100 one thing that i'm seeing a lot with men that i know and girlfriends that i know

01:01:09.740 is the amount of over analyzing nagging that's true mention that a man can give a woman without

01:01:17.020 maybe having the intention to actually date her and the confusion that that can provide or maybe

01:01:22.700 they are trying to pursue them and try to test the waters to see if that's something that they're

01:01:27.580 interested in pursuing but they are not giving clarity with their words and i think there's a

01:01:33.020 lot of women who no matter how you know it's on you as a woman to be available also you know because

01:01:41.020 a lot of times if you give men direct like more direct signs they'll approach you more

01:01:46.140 a smile uh touching of the arm you know oh you act we need the clarity to come from the verbal

01:01:53.420 as well we need you to actually specify and kind of put to ease any overthinking and anxiety that

01:01:59.020 we might be feeling so follow up on that what if they are thinking well i don't know if she's

01:02:05.100 interested so i have to test the waters and verbal clarity at this point would be premature

01:02:10.620 it would come on too strong yeah i think it comes down to the boundaries of the length of time that

01:02:17.980 that would take because at the end of the day that's a daughter of god and you have to be

01:02:21.260 respectful of her time and realize that you might again it's all me me me me we have to be respectful

01:02:27.420 of my time what about his time what about his time you know be misleading her in a way that could

01:02:38.780 honestly also there's almost 500 in here could you like the video do me a favor hit that like button

01:02:44.540 so the so the stream can at least be pushed out it's a free show so you know to get her hurt um

01:02:50.780 and so i think it goes back to intention and intention is definitely probably one of the

01:02:54.940 biggest green flags that i think any woman in the faith especially would really be looking for

01:03:00.380 i think that men oftentimes think that women are less interested than we actually are i think that

01:03:06.700 a lot of women you know single women are we want to be asked out and i mean a third of women say

01:03:12.460 they hate men that are gen z you know what i mean struggle with things like shyness as well and so

01:03:18.940 So some women can be very interested and act so not interested, you know, if you're introverted.

01:03:27.140 And so just don't necessarily take our, keep in mind that we are shy as well.

01:03:34.280 And that doesn't mean like disinterest all the time, if that makes sense. 0.98

01:03:38.460 When you're meeting, what if all chicks were like pearly?

01:03:40.760 Don't put me on a pedestal, man. 0.50

01:03:42.280 Being a guy for the first time, what would be the biggest red flags?

01:03:45.080 i think right off the bat i would assume that i can probably speak for everyone of not a man of

01:03:50.100 faith because especially when it chad doesn't have to be a faith comes to be who would you

01:03:54.980 lose your virginity to a man of faith when you need a man who can lead you and so if he doesn't

01:03:59.780 have his own faith life if he doesn't have his own personal relationship with god that's not

01:04:03.580 going to be something i am called to teach him and so that's automatically the other trend i see

01:04:09.120 with gen z is just the lack of ability to grow up like they're just it's like you're talking to a

01:04:13.980 child you know what i mean even though they're like 25. they just haven't had canon events

01:04:19.740 everything's delayed not gonna happen for me i would add to that a man who you know if he claims

01:04:25.740 to be religious if he talks about god and faith in a very canned way because i think you can really

01:04:31.500 tell the difference between a man who's like memorized the language versus a man who walks

01:04:36.620 with christ so then again she gets to determine it's all the women the women know who walks with

01:04:41.260 christ that's why we date criminals and drug dealers and knows him personally like you can

01:04:45.260 tell the difference for sure and just looking for fruit like if there's just you know i realized

01:04:50.780 that not everybody i mean these women usually are going for social media christian pastor men

01:04:56.140 i mean that's usually the archetype they're going for these black evangelists um

01:05:03.020 the pretty white boys i mean you guys know the type you know the type is going to have

01:05:07.020 have, you know, 100% fruit all the time. But if you could see, you know, buds here and there,

01:05:12.600 you know, of fruit and their life, then I think that's, those are definitely some green flags.

01:05:17.900 And then red flags, as they were saying, you know, just not having that authentic personal

01:05:23.380 relationship with the Lord. And am I able to witness and to see these things, evidence of

01:05:32.020 your relationship with the Lord, you know, through time and just me getting to know you through

01:05:35.900 conversation through how you treat people how you treat your family so i think those are yeah the

01:05:43.020 flags i think if he's not kind you can see how he's treating people around you and i think too

01:05:49.360 like is he opening the car door for you or if you're going to a coffee shop is he open

01:05:53.700 i don't really understand like can you not open the door yourself

01:05:57.080 not it's nice if the men do it but the entitlement you know what i mean

01:06:05.100 just attending the coffee shop door is he paying for the first date things like that i think they

01:06:10.700 should be doing that so if they're not right away it's a red flag another one for me is his friends

01:06:17.260 if he's hanging around a lot of worldly people that's a big red flag for me also a guy who's a

01:06:23.180 heavy drinker and i can't wait okay again he might be a heavy drinker but you guys are on social

01:06:28.940 media it's just the audacity who doesn't like dogs big red 1.00

01:06:32.360 women have a ton of dogs if you had the perfect guy in your life but he loved cats 1.00

01:06:39.600 oh um i don't know like i have a boyfriend i don't worry about it anyways

01:06:44.780 you're you're set so we were talking about being approached by men in public or in person i should

01:06:50.640 say because it might be like a private event or you know get together have you been approached

01:06:55.340 by a man before and you felt it was uncomfortable or unwanted yeah for sure especially as a musician

01:07:04.160 i think it's um a setting where guys can kind of come up and uh because you're putting yourself

01:07:10.280 out there a lot and so sometimes it can be a little uncomfortable but i think there's a difference

01:07:17.380 like because i don't want guys to hear this and be like well then we shouldn't ask girls out no

01:07:20.580 it's like if you're respectable if you approach a woman with respect like she's not going to be

01:07:26.140 creeped out like you know because you can also approach a woman in a way that feels very um you

01:07:31.000 know you're invading her space you're very pushy you don't take any no's for answers like that kind

01:07:36.100 of thing we don't like that and that can be a little you know intimidating and red flag i guess

01:07:41.720 i can that as well and just kind of reading her right how hot is he i mean how hot is he let's

01:07:48.620 just, I just want, I mean, at least, okay, at least I can be honest, right, I can tell you things I'm

01:07:54.320 attracted to, look, I love a man with abs, I just do, like, I love good forearms, I love good abs,

01:08:02.680 I mean, do you know what I mean, yes, I am superficial in some ways, just like men like 0.99

01:08:09.880 big tits i mean you guys can deny it but you love knockers you love ass we love abs and tall men 0.99

01:08:19.640 we don't really give enough about money we only care about money when we have to 0.99

01:08:26.840 but it's just they're being so dishonest men might think they actually care about this kind of 0.99

01:08:32.600 assessing her comfort level as well does is she giving off um body language or is she

01:08:39.880 making eye contact is she giving off something that is saying oh she's interested in me as well 1.00

01:08:46.020 and i have the okay to approach her or yeah that black girl is doing pookie on the side she kind 0.97

01:08:51.880 of standoffish and giving off hey i'm not interested i think it's important for a man to 1.00

01:08:56.960 pick up on that and to also respect that as well and if he proceeds with still asking her out even

01:09:04.300 after she's then he should you know be prepared for a no and take that you know take her no for

01:09:11.000 a no um but i definitely man this is what i mean that it's just insufferable it doesn't have to be

01:09:18.740 a big deal like if somebody asks you out and you're not into it just keep going move on do you

01:09:22.880 think there yeah there are ways to do to approach in a respectful way to where you're honoring have

01:09:29.300 you tiana been approached in a way that was disrespectful or you felt uncomfortable

01:09:33.120 definitely a big one for me is i would say if a guy comes up and says like what's your snap

01:09:41.580 without asking my name without like forming a conversation if he that's what i mean this is

01:09:46.920 just getting offended over everything insufferability right we just can't we just can't

01:09:52.540 be sufferable don't know what it is comes up and says what's your snap it's like i'm not gonna

01:09:59.620 yeah yeah all the time more so when i was younger okay um and it was how old are you

01:10:06.500 i'm 23 but that was mainly like a high school again infantilizing adults we're adults right

01:10:11.940 teenage problem okay is like if i was hanging out with my girlfriends groups of guys would come up

01:10:16.580 and they'd be all like what's your snap and it was almost like they dare each other um and that 0.99

01:10:21.860 all right let's see how you ladies are going to approach men let's see you do it let's see 1.00

01:10:25.940 that felt very like you didn't even ask for my name like come on treat me like a person because 1.00

01:10:31.540 they don't care about your name do you know what i mean like who can't in here you know

01:10:37.620 so i've def definitely had quite a few approaches when it came to like the first thing that they

01:10:45.060 would mention towards me would be like my outer exterior like oh you know you look good in this

01:10:50.340 or whatever because he doesn't know you he doesn't know you and it was automatically like

01:10:58.500 a turn off for me like because i've done modeling and stuff like that and um

01:11:07.940 this you know the the different types of things that have been like said sometimes

01:11:13.940 um disrespectful yes did did rub me the wrong way and it was immediately i mean

01:11:19.700 but they don't specifically say what was disrespectful and see they're talking about

01:11:23.300 it to other people meaning they're gonna embarrass him you know we like couldn't see myself you know

01:11:27.940 talking to them but then i've had very respectful approaches would i date rick james who's uh

01:11:34.420 probably i don't know who that is rich oh no no i wouldn't sorry no oh no no no where you know

01:11:44.980 they've noticed my love for god they've noticed um like a character my character or you know a glow 0.62

01:11:52.180 like there was just something that they she does modeling and is offended people find her attractive

01:11:58.260 they've noticed different on me that that they told me about and that's just something that

01:12:03.380 made them stand out to me did you know the average phone user from age 18 to 70 years old

01:12:14.980 it's hands down difference between creepy and compliment to like boil it down for your

01:12:21.720 experience tiana what is that difference between creepy and compliment if so now you're asking

01:12:26.160 them something none of them know anything about because none of them have approached women or men

01:12:30.160 if it seems like the compliment so if it seems like the compliment is more lust based as opposed

01:12:36.720 to see this is the insufferability of the church right everything's lust oh no not lust lust is the

01:12:42.500 basis of relationship a drunk look at people get married off drunk hookups all the time

01:12:47.280 uh really if you're waiting more than three dates these days i mean she just you guys

01:12:53.700 i would just keep moving keep it pushing you know like um oh you know you're you're a beautiful

01:13:01.940 woman or because there's different ways that you can compliment somebody to where it's genuine

01:13:08.300 it's not like you're in your flesh and you're just lusting over them and i think you can tell

01:13:13.920 the difference it's in the way that you feel it's it's in their interaction with you and i think as

01:13:20.240 women like we want to you know we want to be recognized but i date glenn dancing no oh my god

01:13:26.100 and seen like okay this person finds me attractive but we don't want to be lusted over we don't want

01:13:31.700 to be that's a good point they're ashamed of their own sexuality so they project it as a

01:13:35.560 condemnation of others yet we're the horn balls can we just keep it a buck I mean we're the ones

01:13:41.240 that want to get choked out approached in that manner I think in that way it can get really

01:13:45.740 creepy I guess my clarification to your question is do you mean just when being asked out on dates

01:13:52.960 or just approached by men at all that's a great distinction because they're different things

01:13:56.960 right and you were kind of talking about that Lucy like there's what's your snap and then there's

01:14:00.720 would you like to I'd love to get to know you better or what's your name and then like so I

01:14:05.220 say both though because they're they're both things that i know men who are trying to ask

01:14:10.420 women out sometimes feel like they're seen as creepy and then there's men that are maybe creeper

01:14:15.780 out be creepier you know what i mean not even asking you out but they're just making you know

01:14:20.980 unwanted overtures that are disrespectful like you know cat calling or something like that

01:14:26.740 yeah i've definitely experienced both i've definitely had times where i have been very

01:14:30.980 uncomfortable by men's approach in terms of just walking down the street and feeling like very

01:14:36.980 almost trapped in a way in terms of the encounter with a man and always thankfully in a you know

01:14:46.180 public place with daylight and thankfully nothing else happened but i think there are a lot of women

01:14:51.220 who have similar experience you don't remember the rick james chappelle skit no experiences of

01:14:56.420 being able to be put in a place of being very uncomfortable and very much feeling small and

01:15:01.240 that's like cat is that cat calling or what does that look like yo cat call me please i just need 1.00

01:15:06.020 to know i still got it what am i working out for nothing yes really just women are hell on earth 0.96

01:15:11.100 somewhat like that um sometimes just a man who's very pushy of i want your number give me your

01:15:16.560 number and it could be a really a completely random stranger and that has happened to me

01:15:21.900 um i've also experienced in parish settings where maybe someone who i wasn't interested in

01:15:30.780 did come up to me and approach me and the woman of my dreams must own a boat bulldog how convenient

01:15:36.320 breast interest and that was i would say what was a learning lesson for me where the lord was trying

01:15:42.640 to teach me he is dead on earth it's hell on earth yeah jesus did die how to say no and how

01:15:49.220 to really set my own boundaries and that's another thing men don't want women that have boundaries 1.00

01:15:54.600 they want women with no boundaries that will do whatever and crawl through broken glass to get

01:15:58.940 down thing that i don't think came naturally for me and has been something i've really had to grow

01:16:03.760 in is learning to set boundaries and the responsibility of us to be courageous enough

01:16:07.400 to set boundaries as women of god so just to clarify that so you're saying when a guy would

01:16:12.380 ask you out like in church let me determine this the rules of the relationship that it's just

01:16:18.240 control it's a power grab you were not interested in but he had the courage to ask you out in the

01:16:23.720 past would you agree to go out with him because you felt bad or when you say you had to learn

01:16:27.600 boundaries what does that mean i would say i wouldn't say this is always necessarily in an

01:16:33.180 asking out situation i would just say it would be people within parish settings who maybe made

01:16:38.120 you feel uncomfortable for whatever reason and learning because i you know i'm a hugger i love

01:16:43.640 greeting people and like really showing the hugging makes me uncomfortable warmth to most

01:16:49.320 people and i had to really learn how to set boundaries in even safe spaces like church

01:16:54.460 settings oh my god when i would say the holy spirit starts to highlight something that makes

01:17:01.240 your spirit off and then how do you handle if a guy how embarrassing that would be if you like

01:17:06.660 she hugs everyone else and you make her feel creepy so then she's like no to you out that

01:17:11.100 you're not interested in how do you handle that I always am very courteous to say thank you so much

01:17:19.580 for having the courage to ask me out and really affirming that what they did mattered um but I am

01:17:27.840 okay also saying no um I would say that most people I would likely go on a first date with

01:17:35.420 because I do think that you, if you have good character, there's potential. I just don't know

01:17:41.680 what it is. And I think that I like to also encourage the courage that it takes to ask

01:17:47.160 someone out. Would you rather get ghosted or that? One in the chat for ghosted, two in the chat for

01:17:52.720 that speech. Yeah. So, you know, I think if you're being asked out by a stranger, whether you're at

01:17:58.560 church and you haven't met this person before, or you're at a coffee shop, I think it's good for

01:18:03.020 the guys to kind of get straight to the point because sometimes when they come up and approach

01:18:07.100 you and hi nice to meet you my name so and so what's your name how do you know and then the

01:18:11.440 conversation kind of is going too long and you're sitting there like what what's going on here and

01:18:16.380 so i think if it's just a random guy comes up to you again you're out and about just get to the

01:18:21.300 point like hey i noticed you over there this is my it's here's the thing they say here's the thing

01:18:26.800 they say they want did you hear that the first half they said they want men to get to know them

01:18:31.580 and then in the second half they're like oh well get to the point so which is do you want the men

01:18:39.300 to try to get to know you first or get to the point which is name i would love to get your

01:18:44.560 number or take you out to coffee or go do something sometime and just straight to the 1.00

01:18:49.860 point i think because that's a good point um holy spirit is real but what christian women refer to 0.99

01:18:54.700 as the holy spirit is their ego as women we do have to have our guards up for safety reasons and 1.00

01:19:00.140 And so don't let it linger on so long that- 0.99

01:19:04.080 Again, safety.

01:19:04.780 So they're implying that men are unsafe

01:19:06.020 when women are the ones that are unsafe.

01:19:08.140 Women are the evil ones, not the men.

01:19:09.680 Men are so nice and protective. 0.83

01:19:11.740 The woman is now confused. 0.99

01:19:13.500 I mean, I've had one time out,

01:19:15.520 one of the apartment complexes I lived in,

01:19:17.540 I was taking my trash out

01:19:19.120 and I went to go put my trash in the dumpster.

01:19:22.400 And I don't think I even had shoes on.

01:19:24.780 I was just running out to go do that quick.

01:19:26.180 Didn't have my phone on me,

01:19:27.620 left my front door just unlocked

01:19:28.920 because I was going to be gone for 10 seconds and a guy at the trash can who was also throwing

01:19:32.840 out his trash approached me and it just got extremely uncomfortable very quickly it was

01:19:37.780 very how was it uncomfortable be specific are you dating anyone who are you living with all this

01:19:43.740 stuff okay what are you dating I mean that would be important to ask you and I was like what is

01:19:50.080 going on like my dad and I was so caught of guard I was like yeah six people live in my

01:19:58.740 apartment and he's like in the two bedroom i'm like yes six men like and they're like they're

01:20:03.140 all locked and loaded like can i be one this is getting weird like but genuinely it got to the

01:20:08.380 point where yeah so now just asking questions is just immediate they paint men as the predators

01:20:15.320 this is how they view men they view men as predators i love men he was like give me your

01:20:19.700 instagram and i was like oh i'm no that's okay if anything i'll i'll take your instagram if you

01:20:24.820 want to give me yours because then he doesn't know what my instagram is he can't look me up but i

01:20:28.580 at least have his name instead of giving it all time you are not hot enough to stalk i mean these

01:20:34.040 egos man you know thank you and if anything i used that moment to pull up my phone and i texted

01:20:39.000 a friend and i was like she's getting off on this power trip facetime me like asap this is an

01:20:44.940 emergency i've i felt so unsafe i didn't want him seeing what apartment i was going into put me on

01:20:50.620 this panel oh my roommate wasn't home and so it was extremely uncomfortable and he kept pushing

01:20:56.740 he kept pushing and eventually he's like I don't care if you're in a relationship or not like I can

01:21:02.060 still shoot my shot like just because there's a keeper doesn't mean I can't score and I'm sitting

01:21:06.800 here like what is going on and then he tried to claim he was an elder at a church to I he saw my

01:21:12.460 cross necklace he pointed it out and he was like yeah I'm an elder and I actually know that church

01:21:17.640 I talked to him they're like we don't know this man like and so men there's a lot of good men out

01:21:24.980 there yeah cap yeah but we have to deal with men like that sometimes yeah so it helps a lot i can

01:21:31.280 only think of one time where i was genuinely creeped out by a guy and that was just somebody 0.63

01:21:35.860 like back in the day it wasn't that abnormal for men to just grab you like grab your butt and stuff

01:21:40.740 i remember being a bar and a guy grabbed like and i remember being like you know but even that like

01:21:47.920 okay it was what a second in my life whatever i move on do you know what i mean like do you know

01:21:53.600 I mean like and I remember my guy friend was there and he said oh why didn't you say anything

01:22:01.620 about it and I'm like because I said I was kind of creeped out when I left and then I'm like well

01:22:05.840 I just whatever but when the good men are just we got to stop acting like all this is so

01:22:12.440 traumatizing I mean we gotta that's the problem is everyone says aww aww you know

01:22:20.900 clear straight to the point kind when they approach us so we don't have to put our guard

01:22:27.320 up for them as much I love the word date I am very pro using the word date and I can't speak

01:22:33.040 for every single woman but I think a lot of guys might want to go the angle of saying like

01:22:37.700 um maybe we could hang out sometime I like hangouts better than dates honestly less pressure

01:22:43.320 why do we got to do all that and um when i i kind of view it modern dating is just like

01:22:50.360 entertainment for women with single i was much more likely to say yes to a coffee date

01:22:56.420 because it's defined and i know what it is i know what his intentions are because he's saying

01:23:01.280 i would like to take you on a date okay actually i agree with that i agree with that um make it 0.71

01:23:07.420 clear that it's a sexual thing so women don't train your resources forever in time and attention

01:23:11.620 we'll do that gives me freedom to see it like that and to say afterwards if i wasn't interested

01:23:17.220 i could say hey thank you for taking me on this date um i didn't feel a strong enough

01:23:22.020 of a connection but thank you so much and it was a pleasure getting to know you and so it's defined

01:23:27.220 yeah i really second that are they traumatized or too cowardly to admit they want more because

01:23:31.940 they know other women will shame them yeah i know that i would probably had a real ninja 0.99

01:23:37.780 ask him out and they're they're you know vaginas are like wet but they have to tell everyone at 0.99

01:23:42.820 church he's creepy even though he's a real ninja say no to a hangout we're not in high school 0.99

01:23:47.060 yeah you don't ask me to all right pearl you're capping rick james was with elizabeth shill linda

01:23:52.180 blair and daisy duke back in the day okay i'm just looking at what he looks like okay and that's not

01:23:57.860 really my type um rick let me look up the rick james yeah i don't know man

01:24:17.060 now he's saying it's like any black guy will do right any black guy pearl will just date anyone

01:24:23.460 hang out if you're gonna take me out you're gonna tell me that you're taking me on a date

01:24:26.420 i yeah completely yeah i love that too this whole hey like i would love to hang out hey i hang out

01:24:34.460 with my siblings yeah i hang out with my roommates and my friends and i catch up with friends yeah 0.90

01:24:40.600 but you know what it is bitch let's just stop the cap be clear i would like to take you out on a 0.99

01:24:45.500 date because like you said then at the end of it there's not is he gonna text me are we gonna hang 1.00

01:24:50.920 out again it's like okay that was a date is this gonna go to a second date or not and i think it

01:24:56.840 just protects everyone's heart in the situation too yeah it's hard to say after a hangout um hey

01:25:04.520 thanks for hanging out but i'm not interested um they want to know it's a date so they can reject 0.67

01:25:12.360 you women well i'm not interested either you're like oh my gosh situations like that that have

01:25:18.120 happen in my past a lot of the times they'll say um oh i wasn't you know i didn't mean to like i

01:25:24.200 wasn't interested like that necessarily you know i was just trying to be friends and so then they

01:25:29.000 try to backpedal okay then the ego can't accept them maybe they did want to be friends this has

01:25:33.800 got to be the worst timeline pearl would date james evans from good time oh my god are you 0.53

01:25:40.520 just going to show me different black guys also is this going to be how it would all right james

01:25:46.120 evans let me get a young picture of this guy um okay out of out of the ones you've shown me

01:25:54.520 he would be the most my type i would say for like a black i have a black guy type and a white guy

01:25:59.720 type i go both ways um not that everyone knows that but out of the ones you've shown me on the

01:26:06.520 right yeah he would be okay but i don't really i'd have to i'm more of a vibe type of bit and i'm

01:26:12.040 thinking like sweetheart you know what i mean like and in that case scenario don't try to backpedal

01:26:19.800 say okay yes i was trying to get to know you and i was interested don't try to backpedal and say oh

01:26:25.560 i was just trying to be friends how about you not tell them what to do at all just say see this it

01:26:30.120 doesn't have to be a whole thing you could just say oh that's perfect i just wanted to be friends

01:26:35.080 too and it's because that puts us in a very awkward position where we're having to lead and

01:26:39.080 it's very uncomfortable for everybody so there's probably guys listening or women that love guys

01:26:45.400 you know we all love guys of course the men in our life but they're like they feel often they're in

01:26:50.520 maybe an impossible situation because they don't want to come on too strong because that you've all

01:26:57.720 had tough experiences with that and they're not sure what that fully looks like and they also

01:27:03.560 don't want to assume that you're interested because maybe you're not and so they're trying

01:27:07.000 to kind of test the waters in some way so that if you if their attraction is wanted by you then they

01:27:14.040 can make that step but they're trying to navigate how to know that you you're not going to know

01:27:18.920 just ask and then you get your answer interested so the question would be then how do you let a

01:27:25.400 guy know that you're interested we talked about the handkerchief chief i say chief they're like

01:27:29.880 it's chif lila whatever okay we're saying chief okay guys um dropping of the handkerchief what

01:27:34.840 are your guys's handkerchiefs i think it's very much just reaffirming that person if they took

01:27:41.960 you out on a date or you can tell them my handkerchief i'll tell you my handkerchief

01:27:49.320 could you help me with something do you know where you gotta you gotta ask a man a question

01:27:54.520 in a way that makes him feel very smart and you have to like flatter him so like if you're at the

01:27:59.960 gym it's got to be wow you are so I don't want to give away my I don't want to give away my game

01:28:08.060 you know you gotta it's gotta be like wow you are so fast how do you what's the best way I could

01:28:21.060 improve my four and then you get him talking and then love explaining things you know and then

01:28:27.160 you bat your eyes you smile you touch his arm he'll get it he'll get it he'll get it in like 1.00

01:28:32.860 five minutes because women don't really give men attention at all CLP 2500 1.00

01:28:37.660 wheat game all right all right what what what you put you put your game in the chat ladies

01:28:45.820 yeah if you do you have a girlfriend yeah I'll ask that one I just you know it's just my

01:28:53.640 experience is you got to ask them questions and be very impressed with whatever they say.

01:29:05.520 Really? Oh my gosh, that's how you do it? Smile, touch arm. Wow.

01:29:13.800 Wow. Do you live around here? Oh.

01:29:23.640 Okay, you put your game, you put your, okay, you put your pick-up lines for men in the

01:29:36.640 chat.

01:29:41.640 You have to ask questions.

01:29:46.640 hey okay okay okay it's bad it's bad why don't you why don't you get go ahead go

01:29:57.440 ahead go ahead we're gonna criticize mine let's see yours

01:30:06.940 hey baby all right I'll try this we'll test him in the chat hey baby you're a 1.00

01:30:13.900 disease and I'm the cure I don't know like I think that's too direct I don't think men like

01:30:20.300 super direct just because it's a little too masculine

01:30:26.580 okay are you on Instagram

01:30:30.120 I mean that's my if I'm I'll just ask him if they're on Instagram and then now the ball's in

01:30:38.940 your court. Do you know what I mean? I could ask number, but Instagram, you know, I get a little

01:30:44.200 more plausible deniability. But I won't do that to start. I'll make you teach me something and

01:30:54.100 then ask if you have Instagram. Oh, do you live around here? Oh, okay. Yeah, you're on Instagram.

01:30:57.320 Oh, oh, wow. How do you do that? And then you got to ask, what do you think the best way is

01:31:08.000 to do this?

01:31:10.580 Do you happen to know? 0.55

01:31:12.680 Men, they love it.

01:31:15.860 You're not giving me any better lines.

01:31:23.420 Well, the do you live around here

01:31:24.940 is making conversation,

01:31:26.440 but I would do that

01:31:27.460 before I ask for the Instagram.

01:31:35.040 Talk a little bit.

01:31:38.000 but go ahead you can put it and put it if you got better I got no ego I got he'll love you

01:31:53.380 forever do you know what I'm sorry but my experience men don't want to be cooked for

01:31:58.700 as much as you think and this is from someone that went out and learned it men almost prefer

01:32:05.120 because here's the thing they prefer the because they usually have a plan for the first few dates

01:32:15.540 and like a system and they want to stick with their routine so it's kind of annoying to them

01:32:20.160 to not would you have dated frank sinatra i don't know any of these people are but let me google

01:32:25.640 frank i think i've heard of that's like a singer right

01:32:28.900 let's see what he looked like um i think so he looks kind of chad

01:32:33.900 yeah if he's tall i don't know how tall he is

01:32:37.780 i don't know my experience the the cooking you you got to save a little later and they

01:32:56.080 you say i'm impressed he's got serious game

01:32:58.460 the other thing too you cannot crash out ever over anything and I have I'm not gonna pretend

01:33:06.080 I've never crashed out I've absolutely crashed out but it ends poorly yeah you can't crash out

01:33:11.660 agree with whatever they say don't ever just that's my I'll tell you what that's my biggest

01:33:16.480 thing is I sometimes because I kind of I do talk like this in real life and I have to learn to turn 0.98

01:33:22.160 it off and then I'll say like it's just hard because there's so much stupid stuff everywhere 0.74

01:33:29.560 so I'll want to like say it do you know what I mean so which some guys are into but some are not

01:33:36.140 um Pearl would you have dated Broadway Joe what is it today everyone's I mean it's hard because

01:33:42.320 I have to hear them talk but oh yeah that's the hottest one you've shown me Broadway Joe

01:33:48.920 oh yeah oh yeah i mean yes that's the best looking one

01:33:55.120 um because i'll tell you what in my experience the guys that want to talk about this stuff

01:34:08.460 unless they're in the space usually aren't the ones you want just my the and the guys that you

01:34:16.300 want usually find it annoying so which it kind of is you know but i just

01:34:23.980 and trying to get to know you like let them know it's been it's been so fun talking to you lately

01:34:30.360 i had a really great time with you the other night and just throw those little things or when

01:34:35.120 you see them if you've hung out a couple times and you're not sure what's going on there maybe

01:34:39.520 a little you look so cute or i love your outfit and just kind of give the man a little boost there

01:34:45.720 and encourage them in that way again i think when there's intentionality from the man and there's

01:34:51.120 clear distinction oh and you know it's one thing i got wrong when i was younger

01:34:55.060 how much men they they want leverage and like things that you would be embarrassed about doing

01:35:02.020 men find it they might brag to their friends but it's almost like a flex how much they can

01:35:06.420 embarrass you and you can do things that are kind of embarrassing do you know what i mean

01:35:10.580 yeah so

01:35:14.100 do i want chads obviously

01:35:18.780 men love compliments um they just don't want to feel like they're not genuine

01:35:25.940 so that's been my this is just my experience what's the type of guy i like athletes

01:35:33.080 i like athletic men pretty pretty obviously or men that can kind of speak it we become the men

01:35:39.280 we want to marry so usually like the things we become so like these women are podcasters they

01:35:44.140 probably want podcaster men so like I like men um I've never gone really the podcast or like 1.00

01:35:50.300 talking route although I see the appeal I'm not going to pretend some of these e-boys aren't hot

01:35:54.800 you know what I mean but um 1.00

01:35:58.020 no i prefer the athletic route

01:36:05.500 would i have they said stop would you have dated will the stilts let me see

01:36:12.780 i know i should stop um didn't he have aids i feel like i've seen this guy in an aids commercial

01:36:21.600 he's attractive he's attractive this is a date i know men are scared to do that sometimes but

01:36:30.800 i think that then gets rid of all this how does she feel how does i feel how do i feel how does

01:36:35.960 she feel what's going on here like we're adults and so we can get past that with intentionality

01:36:41.260 but if it's not completely there there are a couple compliments here or there yeah i echo that

01:36:47.000 for sure i think especially like prior to going out with the person if you're trying to express

01:36:51.960 interest with them i think that women you guys had me say smash or pass on a guy with aids you 0.97

01:36:56.460 are diabolical you are diabolical man often leave men guessing i have people that i've talked to 0.70

01:37:07.160 where they're like i looked at him and then he'll know and i'm like that's not true like that is 0.98

01:37:11.940 absolutely not true and you do need to do more than that i would say for me what that would look

01:37:16.880 like is you know maybe it's that i'm like looking back at that person more like making sure that

01:37:21.760 they like clearly see that my attention is going to them i also am a big fan of compliments and

01:37:26.800 being direct because i'm not afraid to show a little bit of my cards in the extent of interest

01:37:33.280 because i i do think that you have to risk it when it comes to love on both men and women both sides

01:37:39.920 of the spectrum you have to be willing to get rejected and hurt in order to be successful

01:37:45.360 i think um receiving very openly and excitedly um because i remember when me and my now boyfriend

01:37:53.680 went on our first date um you know i was immediately very interested and uh i would

01:38:00.560 be very excited and i would show it i was excited to be with him and i would smile and i would

01:38:05.600 and at the end of the date i immediately texted him and said thank you so much like let's it was

01:38:12.320 a pleasure meeting you so i was enthusiastic i was like happy i was happy to be there and i wasn't

01:38:18.080 afraid to show that and just texting him again immediately i'm sure he would have done it too

01:38:24.000 but i was like i'm not even gonna wait i'm so interested and i'm excited about this i'm gonna

01:38:27.600 text him right now and tell him that i had such a good time um and so just um yeah just being

01:38:32.960 receptive to the any initiative that he gives just receiving that very openly and excitedly

01:38:39.600 i think is good a good handkerchief to drop so back to the handkerchiefs in in terms of before

01:38:46.720 you've been asked out right so you're not sure yet that they're interested but you think they

01:38:50.000 might be and you're trying to indicate your interest how often are you dropping handkerchiefs

01:38:56.880 and this goes for the ladies in relationships how often were you doing the dropping of a

01:39:01.360 handkerchief before you got in the relationship as somebody who's shy i hate to say it but making

01:39:08.400 eye contact but you know it probably felt like 10 minutes but it was like you know so i'm so sorry

01:39:15.600 for that but um i think also if she's in your space you know when i date sherman hemsley what

01:39:24.160 are you oh my god what are you doing i'm gonna start i'm these have to be five dollars next i

01:39:32.000 will do it for two dollars because i mean this takes like 30 seconds so i'll take it no oh my

01:39:37.760 god no not that guy not him if a woman is for guys who are trying to tell if a girl likes him or not 0.52

01:39:44.480 if she's making it a point to come over to you if she's making a point to come say hello to you

01:39:51.120 if she's kind of you know in your vicinity a lot uh even a little bit i think that's a good 0.80

01:39:56.720 indicator that you guys asked me if i'd bang a gay guy why are you doing this to me why are you

01:40:02.000 doing this to me a lot of guys get criticized for not asking more women out when they're single

01:40:08.160 like in a year's time we had the guys panel and there are some people in the comments like

01:40:12.160 they only ask girls out like what like you know they're basically not putting themselves out there

01:40:16.960 enough so i guess what i'm asking in addition to um how you're dropping the handkerchief but it's

01:40:22.160 also how often were you doing it and you could be like well i just wasn't interested in a guy enough 1.00

01:40:26.880 for a year and that's obviously a valid answer but but that's what i mean the church women are 0.99

01:40:31.440 still hypergamous women are still hypergamous i mean that's it's either we arrange marriages or

01:40:36.480 we give people choice i don't know i think i'm a capitalist so i'm like you know burden of

01:40:41.040 performance let's go now that i know the rules i mean religious people confuse you on the rules so

01:40:49.280 they they set you back like a decade um but now that i know the rules i'm like it let's go let's

01:40:55.040 go let's go uh we get kicked out of um because we men get a kick out of watching women get

01:41:00.880 flustered that's why we troll so much yeah you guys do you do is the amount of times that you

01:41:07.520 actually feel enough interest to want to drop the handkerchief i wasn't dropping the hints that

01:41:13.040 often because there was a part of me that was kind of afraid of so it sounds so weird a part

01:41:19.520 of me was afraid of rejection even though even even if he was showing interest in me

01:41:24.400 i still wasn't prepared like i still wasn't ready to put my heart out there as well and

01:41:30.320 pearl he didn't have aids that's why he's a g i don't i don't know what to believe anymore guys

01:41:37.360 that may have been because of some things i didn't heal from or just you know some things

01:41:42.400 that i was like dealing with internally but let's just run the gravy train to the ground

01:41:46.960 so we can rebuild it we'll all be dead you know i think as of like as i've grown you know and

01:41:54.240 and and got more into the dating world and just learn more about myself and just become comfortable

01:42:00.400 with actually sharing you know being vulnerable being feminine and just sharing um my interests

01:42:07.760 back um it's definitely been more often i would say um just as often as he would show interests

01:42:16.320 you know like hey if he's like oh you know i'm really enjoying our time together and um i really

01:42:21.280 like you and i really want to move forward i would express the same thing back it's just crazy i've

01:42:25.920 been watching them for them for 30 minutes and they don't say anything they say nothing well um

01:42:31.760 again i think it comes down to just the mutual you know showing mutual interests i think that's um

01:42:40.320 you know a man should definitely lead in that area for sure but i don't think that there's

01:42:45.520 anything wrong with a woman expressing that you know to him just as often as he does

01:42:53.680 i wouldn't say that i dropped the handkerchief very often i would say i'm more intentional and

01:42:58.400 it's crazy because you probably should drop it the most out of this lineup i mean the girls to

01:43:02.320 your left are hotter i think you mog the girl to your right a little bit but i mean you should be

01:43:07.520 dropping it more than the other two when i do yeah so can you say roughly how often

01:43:15.520 in the past year maybe twice it's more than once though yeah i mean again i would say that's 0.99

01:43:23.280 terrible i mean ladies get on the dating apps look at we're too lazy to do anything else go 0.55

01:43:28.700 find your chad your chad light on the dating apps get this religious stuff out the door

01:43:33.640 just find a guy that's a good guy religion doesn't really mean anything um you know it's just

01:43:40.740 yeah i mean i'm all for dropping little hints or again building a man up and i'm honestly not even

01:43:50.780 opposed to a woman sometimes making that first hey i'd love to get coffee with you or let's go

01:43:56.440 get ice cream sometime or we should go on a walk i do think the man should then take over afterwards

01:44:01.940 and continue leading after that if a woman makes that first move but i don't think i drop that 0.59

01:44:08.980 handkerchief very often but if I am and when I am interested in someone I do make it very clear

01:44:16.700 with my intentions all right I doubt it okay all right guys um I really love you I love you all 1.00

01:44:24.180 you're amazing um happy Halloween the only thing scarier um than ghosts and goblins is women's 0.99

01:44:32.260 poor choices in life and the result that it has led to for society so anyways all right I love 1.00

01:44:38.900 you guys. Thanks for watching. Like the video.

01:44:40.820 I'll see you next time.

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Pearl - November 01, 2026

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