Pearl - February 13, 2026


HIDING KIDS FROM THEIR FATHER: She Said That??


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

182.31319

Word Count

1,250

Sentence Count

42

Misogynist Sentences

13

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss parental alienation and why it s okay to keep a child away from the other parent. This is not about revenge or getting back at someone. It s about setting boundaries and being a better parent to your children.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 I wanted to control how we interacted and be completely in control of you and when you didn't
00:00:05.720 do that I got pissed off. What up guys welcome to my reaction series. On this channel we have
00:00:10.780 spoken about parental alienation where women intentionally distance children from their
00:00:16.640 fathers. Now we're gonna watch this woman actually openly admitting on camera that it's okay to keep
00:00:23.420 a child away from the other parent. I don't know how many times I have to say this but this is my
00:00:29.220 last time making this clear for some of you who don't quite understand when a mother starts
00:00:34.580 setting boundaries and distancing herself from her child's father please stop calling that woman
00:00:41.660 bitter not about revenge or it absolutely is about revenge you could just let the dad be a dad you
00:00:49.140 know you don't have to be best friends with him but you know children deserve fathers so
00:00:54.000 that makes or getting back at someone it's just sometimes as a mother who's tired of going to
00:01:00.960 there the same thing over and over and over and over again she's finally putting her fucking foot
00:01:07.800 down and standing up for herself and setting boundaries like why is it never okay for a single
00:01:14.540 mother to want to live in peace want to gain her sanity back and have the mindset and the ability
00:01:21.300 to be able to protect her child and herself.
00:01:25.140 A lot of times, like, for example,
00:01:27.040 a lot of women say it's okay to distance the kids from the dad because he cheated.
00:01:30.840 Well, just because he cheated doesn't mean he's a bad, you know,
00:01:33.720 he could be a bad husband.
00:01:34.900 There's plenty of people that are terrible, terrible partners.
00:01:38.180 They lie, they cheat, they're selfish,
00:01:40.500 but that doesn't mean they're bad mothers and fathers.
00:01:43.040 Y'all really need to stop judging a mother's decision
00:01:46.520 because for a long time she tried to be the bigger person and let them in but that other parent was
00:01:54.000 being inconsistent showing up when they wanted to show up doing what they wanted to do okay but
00:01:58.680 you know doing what you want to do and being inconsistent again that's not abuse you know
00:02:03.160 that's annoying that's inconsiderate but it's not abusive walking over the boundaries that
00:02:09.080 we tried to set right i don't know how many times the ability to be able to protect her child
00:02:16.120 and herself. It's okay for a single mother to want to live in peace, want to gain her sanity back
00:02:22.900 and have the mindset and the ability to be able to protect her child and herself. Y'all really
00:02:30.660 need to stop judging a mother's decision because for a long time she tried to be the bigger person
00:02:38.000 and let them in, but that other parent was being inconsistent. That translation, I wanted to control
00:02:43.780 how we interacted and be completely in control of you. And when you didn't do that, I got pissed
00:02:49.940 off. Showing up when they wanted to show up, doing what they wanted to do, walking over the
00:02:55.180 boundaries that we tried to set. And at some point, a person is tired of giving chance after
00:03:00.280 chance after chance. Yeah. And a lot of times women that speak like this, they're very narcissistic
00:03:04.540 because they think that only they have been giving the chances when many times the man has
00:03:11.440 also given her many chances. You know, is she perfect? At some point, a mother has to choose
00:03:18.240 her sanity. At some point, a mother has to choose herself. At some point, a mother has to choose
00:03:25.440 her child. I want to hear the dads. What is the dad's point of view? I'm choosing awareness over
00:03:32.240 anxiety here. And although co-parenting is healthy, can be very beautiful. Every situation
00:03:40.200 is different not every situation allows for healthy co-parenting at some point a mother has
00:03:48.260 to stop wishing that things would change hoping a miracle will happen and when she stops doing that
00:03:55.780 she will learn to create the life that she wants for herself and for her children translation i'm
00:04:02.160 gonna rob from the husband and then pretend i'm independent and i did it for myself i'm gonna
00:04:08.020 to take child support and alimony if I can. They don't have to grow up in a dysfunctional
00:04:13.560 environment or have dysfunctional parents trying to operate and create something beautiful co-parent
00:04:20.380 situation when in reality, it's never going to be that. It's always going to be a one-sided street.
00:04:25.800 So again, I am perfect. He is imperfect. Choosing peace and boundaries is better
00:04:31.320 over being toxic. Then I guess you can continue to keep calling us bitter.
00:04:36.140 I hope that the judge sees this okay you're the only person to taking care of that baby day in
00:04:42.460 and day out you can't afford stress remove anything that causes intentional stress including
00:04:46.220 the father yeah you see if they get stressed out by the father's behavior they act like that's
00:04:51.140 abuse when really it just means that you are dealing with a potentially unreasonable person
00:04:57.440 it might be you the unreasonable one but you know let's take her at her word that does not mean
00:05:02.100 that it's okay to alienate the kid. Abusive men take their kids, abuse their kids. They just do
00:05:07.800 it behind closed doors and less directly. This is the thing. All the women are going to support
00:05:12.260 each other. There's going to be no logic. An inconsistent parent is worse than an absent one.
00:05:17.140 They're all going to support terrible behavior. And as women, you really got to watch for this
00:05:22.080 because the entire world, the lawyers are going to tell you you're doing the right thing.
00:05:26.940 The media, your friends, everybody's going to tell you you're doing the right thing.
00:05:30.640 it's no wonder women are off the rails there's no enforcement no guidance and the law allows us to
00:05:37.420 do every terrible thing i tried so hard but he only wanted to be a weekend parent exactly you
00:05:43.680 know weekend parent was he working all that and then my oldest child said he was over it he doesn't
00:05:50.000 even want anything to do with his dad i did all i could do these babies don't stay babies forever
00:05:54.380 yeah but how does he know you know no woman should have to put up with a man's toxic behavior
00:06:00.020 well you made a kid with him you see it like it's that was a poor choice on your part i've created
00:06:05.420 boundaries with the law unfortunately let's see my daughter is seven and this year i decided to
00:06:10.460 keep her away from him and his family i'm not bitter they are protect your peace this is a
00:06:15.680 these are terrible people awful people and you because you got to think about it you know you
00:06:21.260 got to be able to put stuff aside when you don't like your boss you put that aside to get a job
00:06:27.060 and to make money but for some reason women can't put that aside in order for their children to have
00:06:33.780 a good relationship with the dads and the way they speak about themselves it's as if they're perfect
00:06:39.860 so anyways guys let me know what you think of the comments make sure you like the video um let's see
00:06:44.580 does she say anything else i don't know nothing else make sure you like the video subscribe to
00:06:49.940 to the channel and I'll see you next time.