Pearl - Hoemath ｜ The Sitdown

00:00:00.000 it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not young men have fallen faster

00:00:05.840 than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different world now like we don't

00:00:10.400 need men the way that they used to the future is female men and women are drifting further apart 1.00

00:00:19.680 and society is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate has broken out about the

00:00:25.040 value of marriage you've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd

00:00:29.920 that sometimes just goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants

00:00:35.120 and actually become men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's a machine designed to

00:00:40.560 extract the resources from you now many of the red pill have taken the position that it's bad

00:00:44.560 for men to get married hannah pearl davis or just pearly things one of the most controversial faces

00:00:52.880 In all of the internet, she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men. 0.86

00:00:57.180 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:02.360 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:04.480 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:08.100 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:10.980 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:13.660 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:18.600 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:21.720 You need no evidence.

00:01:22.880 when you guys say get married young a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for

00:01:26.560 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart i interviewed them on the other

00:01:31.200 side i didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old how much did you spend trying to get him back

00:01:36.880 the legal fees alone was about 200 000 before you know it you're homeless you're literally just

00:01:41.520 thrown out onto the street we absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women wives are taught to leave 1.00

00:01:46.240 their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers family is the foundation of society

00:01:51.040 every problem in society comes from single mother homes a lot of women will just chase this negative 1.00

00:01:56.080 rabbit hole of happiness endless happiness feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women 1.00

00:02:00.480 we tell women to date as many guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage 1.00

00:02:04.080 you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really 1.00

00:02:10.160 great boyfriend oh freeze your eggs have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's 0.87

00:02:14.800 anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail like if you have the 0.97

00:02:19.120 the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be

00:02:23.680 that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave 1.00

00:02:28.160 marriages because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the

00:02:33.080 children and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave

00:02:38.540 when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of

00:02:44.660 male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all

00:02:48.320 the power privilege patriarchal system that we have. Why doesn't our society care about men's 1.00

00:02:53.280 rights? I have no friends. No wife and no social life. Men are alone in this situation. Men are

00:02:59.340 homeless. Men are thinking about eating guns. I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they

00:03:04.780 didn't do anything wrong. How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die

00:03:10.340 to defend the country? The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure. Women 1.00

00:03:15.860 are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:18.120 The so-called deaths of despair

00:03:19.600 from suicide, overdose, or alcohol

00:03:21.760 three times higher

00:03:23.400 among men than among women.

00:03:25.220 Culture is telling men you are no good.

00:03:27.080 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:28.300 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:29.920 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:31.160 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:33.120 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:35.780 Everybody knows this is a huge problem

00:03:37.500 but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:39.340 Every single woman at the table

00:03:40.920 said they wanted a man to get 500k, 300k, 200k.

00:03:44.220 Am I crazy?

00:03:44.760 everything is really set up against you to fail as a man if men make less than women women don't 0.99

00:03:49.660 want to marry them so you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men women 1.00

00:03:55.160 i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a strong independent woman i'm

00:04:00.860 over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that don't stop i can't keep

00:04:05.540 having these same conversations the only simp here is you pearl you simp for no i think i think you 1.00

00:04:10.200 simp for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff but pearl is right about this 1.00

00:04:14.200 it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just hookup culture is going to 1.00

00:04:18.440 be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband the future 0.98

00:04:23.160 if everybody follows your path is there is no future we go into population decline and our

00:04:28.620 economy goes into decline civilization will crumble the american story does not end well

00:04:34.940 this is an existential crisis failing young men

00:04:38.040 all right what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily today we have a special

00:04:50.940 guest on the channel for the sit down but before we get to that that is our divorce documentary

00:04:56.660 trailer so if you guys do want to donate um the link is in the description we're like 20 bucks

00:05:01.680 away from 32 000 raised we're trying to raise a hundred thousand dollars to put this divorce 0.89

00:05:07.300 documentary together thank you to um the three anonymous donations we had yesterday of 20 50 and

00:05:13.520 25 dollars and 130 from peter we appreciate you guys so much thank you so much for donating to

00:05:19.620 this okay so today i have a special guest i'm very excited to have on i'm really a big fan of him

00:05:26.760 so today we have on a youtuber with 797 thousand subscribers welcome to the channel

00:05:36.840 homeath how are you how you doing good to be here thank you so much for coming um of course

00:05:43.840 long time and uh and waiting oh yeah yeah i've been watching you for years before i started

00:05:50.760 no way really oh yeah for sure oh cool what um what got you into the red pills to base like

00:05:57.880 what was your first viral video yeah okay it was it was actually is actually really a funny story

00:06:04.240 I had never really consumed any red pill content.

00:06:07.360 I never really watched or read any books or anything.

00:06:09.520 I knew about it, but I mainly just studied like psychology and consciousness and had

00:06:14.540 a lot of, you know, personal experience in dating.

00:06:18.240 And after COVID, I say this so much, people are so sick of hearing it.

00:06:21.880 After COVID ruined my life, it like ruined my everything I had going for me, particularly

00:06:26.400 hard.

00:06:27.300 I was just sitting around with nothing to do, going nowhere for a little while.

00:06:31.380 and i just made a cranky video on tiktok and it got four million views so i made a career out of

00:06:36.720 it no way it was it was a total fluke i was just like i happen to have all the skills to make this

00:06:42.780 into a successful career so it was just this 25 year old girl saying men with no hose where are

00:06:49.640 you and so i just made her a little chart and showed her where the men with no hose were and 1.00

00:06:54.300 i said the men you know with hose are up here paying attention to you and all the other hose

00:06:58.420 and the men without hoes are down here sending you messages on bumble and not receiving a response 0.99

00:07:03.540 and it blew up and i yeah made a whole thing out of it wait so what was um how did covid destroy

00:07:09.660 your life did you lose your job and like i lost i lost kind of everything i don't i don't want to

00:07:14.400 get into like too much detail you know i keep myself secret i don't want to get into too much

00:07:18.200 detail about exactly what i was doing but yeah i lost my income i lost my extracurriculars i lost

00:07:23.660 my social circle um all of that stress plus the george floyd stuff made my neighborhood a lot

00:07:31.280 more dangerous like i was in a really good neighborhood and it suddenly became really bad

00:07:35.060 like in one night so a lot of stressful things happened all at once and i kind of just couldn't

00:07:42.060 handle it and it spiraled and i did not start spiraling back up for three years after so wow

00:07:48.640 I don't know anybody that had the George Floyd stuff like directly affect because I remember when that happened, like I could hear the protests and stuff, but like, yeah, it wasn't.

00:08:00.020 So was it like there's rioting in your neighborhood and stuff?

00:08:03.380 Well, yeah, there were there was a little bit of opportunistic crime.

00:08:08.400 Like I had never seen a crime on my street before, but on that night, all of a sudden, cars were pulling up and trying to break into apartments.

00:08:15.820 and uh there was this guy who there was a bunch of people trying to break into one of those we

00:08:21.240 buy gold shops and this guy upstairs didn't know they were trying to do that and he thought they

00:08:27.060 were trying to go into his apartment so after the cops came and scared them off he went outside

00:08:31.880 shirtless with a kitchen knife and just stood there for 15 minutes panting like he was terrified

00:08:36.820 and I saw that from across the street so I knew they weren't trying to break into his home but

00:08:42.100 he had that experience like he thought that 15 people were trying to break into his home

00:08:46.000 so wow it got it got unstable and then after that night all of a sudden all the windows were smashed

00:08:52.840 and you know my car wasn't safe and everything like that it was like it just was overnight

00:08:56.980 wow were you able to move like or how long did you have to endure that um I tried to put my life

00:09:04.300 back together for like almost two years after that I made some uh some changes in everything

00:09:09.860 but I was in an area where they had lockdowns for, you know,

00:09:13.220 really long time and repeating and everything.

00:09:15.100 So they let us out and then I started planning my life again and then they

00:09:19.120 just locked us back down. It was like, Oh, again. Yeah. So it was, yeah,

00:09:23.120 it was basically two years of no social life, very little dating.

00:09:28.120 There was like one girl I met on hinge and she only wanted to come over once 1.00

00:09:31.440 because she was afraid of getting COVID and killing her parents.

00:09:33.900 So it was two years of nothing.

00:09:35.820 well i was curious because i saw a reply to one of my tweets that you had like a girlfriend or

00:09:42.040 something that told you not to do no well not to do the youtube stuff but like said it was a waste

00:09:47.720 of your time is that true am i misremembering this reply you might be misremembering a detail

00:09:54.780 of it because there was i had a girlfriend last year but she didn't tell me not to do the youtube

00:09:59.340 stuff okay there was somebody earlier in my life who told me not to do like anything that would

00:10:06.780 have brought me here i did have a bad girlfriend at one point who whenever i tried to develop my

00:10:11.740 skills she was like this isn't going anywhere it's not doing anything for me at this exact moment so

00:10:15.820 you need to stop maybe that was what i was referencing okay well like so how did you come

00:10:21.740 to your observations it was all through like personal experience and just like yeah society

00:10:27.340 go ahead yeah yeah it was it was just a lucky combination of personal experience and um you

00:10:33.660 know my my particular choice of studies i have a major in um in communications and i studied this

00:10:40.460 thing called integral theory i don't know if you see my levels videos but i'm really into

00:10:44.780 consciousness i'm really into understanding how the mind works and i've read um 48 laws of power

00:10:49.980 how to win friends and influence people i read scott adams win bigley is one of my favorite books

00:10:53.740 and the more that I read all that stuff I just started applying it to real life and you know

00:11:01.820 figuring out how the principles work in real time and that's just the skill set that I make the

00:11:08.680 videos with I just had to I got I was lucky enough to get a lot of experience along with the reading

00:11:15.060 I was doing in my spare time and how has your life changed since you started content creation

00:11:20.940 and you do it full time now i assume yeah yeah this is all i do i'm like there's no way you don't

00:11:25.600 here god no no no yeah no i haven't had a day off in seven months i basically don't leave the house

00:11:30.640 except to get groceries but you love it right you love it you love it right you seem like what's my

00:11:36.520 favorite job i've ever had yeah as far as a job i would love to be able to go take a hike or

00:11:41.260 something but uh there's no time quite yet but yeah how my life has changed is um i have money

00:11:47.120 for the first time ever i was making like a very pathetic amount of money per year on average from

00:11:53.760 college until then and now i might actually make up for it like things are going pretty well

00:11:59.280 um that is a big difference i'm doing something that i actually feel good about like you know

00:12:05.040 how you've had jobs that you do just because you have to and it's you know you don't have any sense

00:12:10.640 of like is this doing anything for anyone is it good for the world most of my jobs were like that

00:12:15.760 This one is not like that. I've gotten to do life coaching. I get a lot of people who,

00:12:21.400 I always want to do life coaching before HomeF got, you know, became lucky for me.

00:12:28.240 And I got the opportunity to prove that I can actually like bring people to breakthroughs

00:12:33.940 within an hour, like in an hour session. Every once in a while, it would only take 40 minutes

00:12:38.080 of the hour to get people to understand something new about themselves and start making new

00:12:42.420 decisions and it was like lots of opportunities to apply my skills so that's the the main two

00:12:48.660 things i can actually do something that is uh productive and worthwhile and tons of money

00:12:54.660 what are the most common realizations that people have because 40 minutes oh yeah yeah go ahead

00:13:01.860 yeah the the most common realizations that people have is a good question they're all very um they're

00:13:07.620 all very individual so there was one guy who couldn't figure out why he felt justified cheating

00:13:17.060 on everything like handing in stuff at his job and you know lying to his friends and i helped him

00:13:23.460 figure out what was the core of that uh we did that like right i think five minutes before the

00:13:28.100 hour was up he had the that click moment there was someone who had a lot of bad dating experience

00:13:35.940 was a young woman and she wanted to know how to the way that she phrased it was she wanted to

00:13:43.240 to know how to go forward after having all that bad experience and I just sort of like reframed her

00:13:48.620 to the way that you're going to feel about dating is going to be built of your past experiences and

00:13:54.820 you don't have good past experiences they're still in the future so you like you have to go make

00:13:59.020 different choices get different experiences and make those your past and then you'll remember it

00:14:03.360 differently. And just reframing that for her shifted the whole thing. There was a guy who

00:14:09.320 his girlfriend got a really desirable job. And he reacted to that by saying, I knew this job

00:14:18.280 was going to take you away from me. And I told him what he should have said was, I'm glad that

00:14:25.280 like, I'm so happy that you brought this job into our life. So it's not like he's going to change

00:14:31.600 the reality of her being less available but that would definitely change the emotional content of

00:14:37.440 the relationship to to not be like oh your job is stealing you from me which was probably part of

00:14:43.040 the reason that the relationship was experiencing trouble so it's usually stuff like that there was

00:14:47.600 one guy who had his marriage ruined by an old friend and um and he said he that he thought he

00:14:56.720 was a really good judge of character and couldn't believe that he missed it and so we went through

00:15:01.120 who she was and everything and i showed him the exact thing that he missed he was like oh that was

00:15:05.440 what that's like a resolution what he missed was that she was very beautiful and talked about

00:15:10.560 wanting to have a family but was always single she was a really good like she was really well

00:15:15.600 behaved didn't swear no tattoos or anything like that but just the fact that she said she wanted a 1.00

00:15:20.480 family and could easily get one and didn't have one it was like what's the reason okay yeah wow

00:15:28.400 that's cool yeah lots of stuff like that have you ever taken like art lessons

00:15:33.280 because your stuff is so well drawn it's like done very well it's it's not but thank you

00:15:38.800 it's it's better than i can do better than most youtubers can for sure for sure yeah uh i i've

00:15:44.640 never taken like formal art lessons unless you count high school i took art in high school for

00:15:49.120 sure but it's something i mostly just do in my spare time i've i've always um when i've had you

00:15:56.960 know long periods of time without a job or something sometimes i'll pass a day by drawing

00:16:00.800 apples or something okay okay cool um how have you been able to remain anonymous because it's

00:16:08.080 interesting you have such a um i think your voice is very recognizable and one thing i always get

00:16:14.640 in like when people meet me they always say i didn't know if it was you until you talked and

00:16:22.240 so i'm like i'm very surprised that nobody's heard your voice and like connected the dots

00:16:27.760 oh no well okay so that has happened but nobody's really made a big thing of it

00:16:31.440 okay it was um it was a a family member called me and said is this you and i was like yes but

00:16:38.000 and um and then a couple people who i used to know reached out to me digitally but i didn't respond

00:16:45.280 so that's that's been all so far oh that's like because you're kind of living the dream when you

00:16:50.560 think about it you get all the youtube money with none of the like problems the annoyance yeah yeah

00:16:57.120 i'm like that's awesome i really don't ever want to be recognized yeah yeah do you know what it

00:17:03.440 was cool for me at first until you start getting like the problems that come you know until you

00:17:08.320 get put on a dhs watch list and you're like i see did you yeah i did for what um do you know what i

00:17:18.240 I think I just got like they spent like eight hundred thousand dollars trying to stop me and like 10 other content creators in the space.

00:17:27.320 Oh, I think I might remember that.

00:17:29.080 Was it something to do with the FBI?

00:17:31.520 I don't really remember because I just kind of like, what am I going to do?

00:17:35.840 I just kept going.

00:17:36.960 Right.

00:17:37.600 Yeah.

00:17:38.200 Yeah.

00:17:38.380 That's wild that they would get involved with that.

00:17:42.920 Yeah.

00:17:43.100 It was something about like incel terror threats.

00:17:45.300 Was that right?

00:17:46.800 Yeah.

00:17:47.100 why do you think like what's your take on why they try to stop this content so hard

00:17:52.780 um my take on it is it's basically the best example of it is andrew tate the the dissatisfaction

00:18:01.180 that young men get from being rejected like men don't like being rejected it makes them angry

00:18:07.180 when men are angry sometimes they smash things people get very afraid of that the actual data

00:18:13.260 on incel violence is you know it's not so scary they don't really not really all that dangerous

00:18:20.540 but historically speaking when men in general lose access to women they do tend to either

00:18:29.740 they either become like a butler for their family or they join a terrorism group and that's that's

00:18:37.100 like historically speaking that's what happens in societies that this happens to but statistically

00:18:42.860 so far we haven't had a lot of like european or american or australian incel terror hives

00:18:50.620 breakout they're mostly just still trying to pretend that their video games are good and

00:18:56.060 and and hang on to the little that they have so i don't i don't know what they're thinking sometimes

00:19:03.100 i get stuck on this like does law enforcement know so much more than me that i cannot figure 0.98

00:19:09.420 out their moves or are they just like dumb is it just sometimes it just looks dumb like they're 0.97

00:19:13.740 wasting their time on well why don't they just solve the problem then and make prostitution legal 1.00

00:19:19.900 that that would that would do that would have something to do with it for sure i think that

00:19:23.660 would relieve quite a bit of the pressure um the problem with that is to answer your question

00:19:29.420 literally why don't they is that whoever campaigned on that would lose because america's still

00:19:35.500 got puritan leanings i bet a woman's the first one that's gonna campaign on that yeah she's the 1.00

00:19:42.980 only one who could yeah a woman could get prostitution through yeah do you think we'll 1.00

00:19:47.540 see like a female only fans politician in our lifetime yeah yeah i do too i think there i think 0.99

00:19:55.040 there might be one i'm not sure if she's on only fans but i made fun of this uh this girl this young

00:20:00.520 girl she's like really cute too i think she's like 26 her name is like abu gazala or something cat

00:20:05.780 abu gazala and she's just got all these pictures of herself wearing you know really skimpy clothes 0.85

00:20:12.380 and like sitting on a bar with her legs open her tongue out and stuff and then she ran for some 0.67

00:20:17.140 kind of office and won so now she's like in the government no way she won i heard about i believe 1.00

00:20:22.000 what's her name i want to look it up i believe she won i hope i didn't overshoot look if she

00:20:28.380 i'll just you know yeah i think it's kat kat and then abu gazala it's like a a b u g a z

00:20:38.460 no way you see her she's like it lives in dallas texas pakistani immigrant yeah okay 1.00

00:20:47.980 oh my gosh house campaign yeah no way uh i can't see if she won or not i don't know

00:20:57.900 know if she won oh wait wait at the time they announced that she would enter the democratic

00:21:05.700 which has been held now they're announced or is it still going i don't know i guess we'll go back

00:21:11.760 to that but it was a while ago i think that i think that it was the campaign was for the same

00:21:16.420 one as the presidential election did that's just oh my gosh that's crazy did you see a picture of

00:21:22.680 yeah she's like a mid yeah the hot women it's like mids we tend to go to like um political 1.00

00:21:31.340 areas you know yeah the hot the hot girls are going to playboy or you know that's a that's a 1.00

00:21:36.700 10 in the house the what that's that's a 10 in the house of representatives okay a 10 really

00:21:44.500 you think she's i mean who's who's hotter than her in in congress oh oh in congress hell yeah 1.00

00:21:50.160 yeah aoc used to be the one you know that's true yeah but she's kind of gotten big like the latinas 1.00

00:21:57.520 tend to right yeah she's getting older too isn't she yeah 30 something um yeah i remember when i

00:22:03.600 learned about cat i think i said something like uh i have met 300 of this girl you do not trust

00:22:09.680 them to make decisions is it political um oh it says the election hasn't happened yet it's for

00:22:17.040 2026 november 3rd all right but she's gotten over half a million dollars yeah i know no 0.99

00:22:26.880 yeah so i don't know if she's like technically on only fans but you know it's we're leaning that way

00:22:31.920 yeah does that kind of black pill you a bit like does it make you depressed about like how's your

00:22:38.560 outlook going you know how are you feeling about the future my outlook has been maxed out like i

00:22:45.360 I don't think I would call myself black pilled. I had this conversation with another, you know,

00:22:50.720 integral theory fan a little while ago. I think I would call myself clear pilled. I don't really

00:22:55.360 like to decide that things are going to be bad. I just like to be realistic. I just like to let

00:23:02.540 things be as they are. And a lot of bad things are happening and a lot of bad signs are coming.

00:23:07.780 And the worse it gets, the harder it is going to be to break out of the downward spiral.

00:23:12.680 so the way that like the way that my outlook responds to stuff like that is it's almost just

00:23:21.180 like that part on the roller coaster when you're a kid and you regret getting on it and you're like

00:23:27.280 this is too scary for me right now but you're already on it so you just kind of have to take

00:23:31.160 a deep breath like whatever happens is going to happen and you know people went to world war ii

00:23:35.800 and got their guts blown out and people have seen worse than i'm going to see at some point it's

00:23:41.040 just like you've got to make a decision and stick with it you're gonna flee America because things

00:23:46.160 might get bad I try not to let that spin out of control I try not to make predictions but in terms

00:23:52.960 of how bad things are getting I I see more and more ridiculous stuff happening every day it gets

00:23:58.440 more intense every day yeah I agree yeah I don't sorry go ahead I was just gonna say don't see it

00:24:05.560 turning around i don't see any any weighted to any fulcrum to turn it around yeah there's just

00:24:12.800 no incentive right like when women like because the way i think about it is if women if if everybody 0.99

00:24:20.620 makes eight dollars off of women and two dollars off of men who in their right mind is going to 0.99

00:24:24.660 pick two dollars except us i guess but not everyone's crazy right yeah i mean i just don't

00:24:33.620 have anything to say to women. Yeah. If I did, I guess I'd be richer faster. No, I know. I saw 1.00

00:24:39.780 your tweet recently, which was like, could you tell me the story about you at the party with

00:24:44.700 the 112 pound girl? Yeah. Yeah. This was Twitter is such a, such a minefield. Um, people really

00:24:53.520 hate when you don't make points the way that they want you to. Uh, it was just a long time ago. I

00:24:58.040 went to a party and I am, you know, people accuse me of being autistic all the time. I have that 1.00

00:25:02.460 sort of just say things as they are quality to me uh and i always i just always ruin the fun

00:25:10.140 by just pointing things out so i went downstairs and i had a beer and there was this girl with her 1.00

00:25:17.020 friends or some people she just met and she was asking people to guess how much she weighed and i

00:25:22.240 like held up my beer and butted in and i was like 112 pounds and she started crying and i said what 0.76

00:25:27.540 was that too much it's like no it's exactly 112 but I wanted to be less and she just wanted for

00:25:34.100 someone to look at her 112 pound body and say 108 that was what she wanted 112 is skinny it was 1.00

00:25:42.980 very skinny I think she was like five foot three she was she was she was cute and she was in great

00:25:47.740 shape but she just wanted that number that came out of my mouth to be lower than the number she

00:25:52.780 saw on the scale that morning and then and that was what gave her emotions that day and when doing

00:26:00.360 your content i when i listen to your content i actually think it's more palatable to women

00:26:06.520 than a lot of the red pill like i don't know if you'd consider yourself but i you're either red

00:26:12.740 polar adjacent right it's red pill adjacent for sure because it's like this is the truth about

00:26:17.220 women and sex and yeah do you find you get the same visceral reactions that like myron i do or

00:26:25.500 do you think that the reactions women have to you are a little bit tamer because you're very calm

00:26:29.880 when you do the videos yeah i i try not to be um i try to only be negative towards women when

00:26:38.360 they're being like bratty and rude and awful and spoiled i i try not to say things like like

00:26:44.280 sometimes some of those red pill guys, I won't name names or anything, but sometimes they just

00:26:48.500 go like, you're deluded. You're never going to get that. And it's like, she was being nice.

00:26:52.800 You know, I, I try not to go into that kind of territory, but, um, I think that women who watch 1.00

00:27:01.820 my content, which there's plenty of them, like there's a lot of women who, you know, get in 1.00

00:27:06.060 touch with me, send me messages, uh, you know, get life coaching for me when I did it. I think that

00:27:12.080 they they get the same thing out of it that the men get out of it it's just that it's a less

00:27:17.660 popular personality type in women to to enjoy learning the truth and enjoy self-reflecting

00:27:23.660 like there's just more men who first of all there's men who want to be vindicated they they watch my

00:27:29.320 stuff and they go yeah women do do that there's that's a lot of them but i think that there's 1.00

00:27:33.080 still more men who want to look deeper and challenge themselves than there are women but 0.68

00:27:39.080 there are some of them and my content does give them the opportunity to do that that's the most

00:27:44.080 common thing I hear from women is like you understand me so well that you explained me to 0.99

00:27:48.140 me and I'm like that's awesome I'm very good at this yeah the one thing too with like that I went

00:27:54.960 through when I started because women do say things on shows like they want to date a guy that's six 1.00

00:28:00.740 figures and all that stuff but they don't really and you go through this in your content a lot of

00:28:05.100 they're banging the bartender like yeah the musician whoever makes her feel good yeah so 1.00

00:28:10.940 it's like you know that that's one thing i i thought they meant it too when i first started

00:28:16.940 but like they don't yeah when you find out who these girls are actually dating 1.00

00:28:22.940 trust it's not yeah yeah it's not i know as they say i've been on both sides of that i i remember

00:28:29.500 i think i just saw you talking about this the other day that you were referring to these guys

00:28:33.420 as alphas. I don't know if I'd call myself an alpha necessarily, but the guys who are the cheated

00:28:39.620 with rather than the cheated on, when you're in that position, you just kind of never look at

00:28:43.500 women the same way again. That was, yeah, that was a formative experience. The way that I think 0.74

00:28:53.240 they look at it, it's just, it's endlessly interesting to compare the way that men think

00:29:00.020 to the way that women think like men tend to be objective and women tend to be relational in

00:29:03.640 their thinking. And when women say what they want from men, they're describing what they want the 0.95

00:29:10.840 men they like to do. And when men ask, what do you want from men? They're like, what about men do

00:29:17.540 you like? And they never meet. They never cross paths. Like the men are like, give me instructions

00:29:22.460 to make women be attracted to me. And the women say, here's what you should do for someone who's

00:29:27.020 already attracted to you and then they do it and it doesn't work you said that you were the one

00:29:33.280 that was cheated with I think I saw that tweet from you yeah so what was that experience like

00:29:39.320 did you know from the get-go or was it something you found out later I never knew beforehand I

00:29:47.180 never was aware beforehand it was always like in the middle or a month later or something like

00:29:53.280 sometimes they would seriously say in the middle of the whole thing and I'll go what am I supposed

00:29:56.880 to do now this is a awkward situation but um that actually happened 17 times no way 17 different

00:30:04.420 women told me that they had a boyfriend and three in three cases a husband oh my god wait so did you 1.00

00:30:10.480 meet them off of dating apps or where did you most of them yeah a few of them were like friends of

00:30:17.060 friends or met at an event in the city i think it was like four or five i'm surprised they told you

00:30:23.940 like was there something did you find out or like one of them I just touched her wedding ring

00:30:29.920 and I was like what is this and she's like oh it's a wedding ring I was like you're married

00:30:34.180 and she's like yeah like it was just like nothing I think that modern marriage is cosplay do you

00:30:41.960 agree or do you disagree yeah I saw you I saw you say that recently and I think that that is

00:30:46.700 overwhelmingly true I think that that is like that's a really strong overlay because if you

00:30:52.040 start with like what a marriage originally was it's like a contract assigning a woman to the

00:30:58.100 care of a man and it's like okay you she makes you babies and you have to feed her and if you 1.00

00:31:02.460 either one of you doesn't do the right thing we're going to be mad at you right so they apply

00:31:06.500 pressures on making the people stay together so that you have stability and then you know it

00:31:11.940 evolved into different things there's a dowry system and there's families intermarrying for 1.00

00:31:16.600 power and whatnot. And the way that technology, uh, from the dishwasher to the cell phone has

00:31:23.820 changed what is required of people. It has turned marriage into a fashion item. It's like a hat that

00:31:29.860 you buy and it does, it just doesn't have any of those, um, those bonds anymore. And so it just

00:31:40.000 lifts right out. Like as soon as you have a fight, well, I don't want to be married anymore. I

00:31:44.280 thought it was going to be exciting forever. And nobody puts any pressure on the couple to stay

00:31:49.860 together. So it's very unstable. Like you have to really make sure that this person likes you

00:31:55.820 or it's dangerous. Well, I said this to someone and he kind of pushed back on me and he said,

00:32:01.860 no. And then I asked him, well, why does the bride wear white?

00:32:05.380 yeah i was like he's like i got nothing yeah how how often is that accurate right it's like

00:32:16.020 two percent of the time right yeah like out of the two percent i feel like i have a video called

00:32:21.760 your virginity doesn't count if you're fat what's the point it's pretty good it's like nobody's 0.53

00:32:29.740 trying or nobody like nobody hot you know what i mean it's like yeah yeah yeah it's like uh 0.99

00:32:35.320 it's like a, like a donut that you found in a dumpster or something. No one wanted it anyway.

00:32:43.280 If you want to make a video about that, I would think that would be fun.

00:32:47.760 I'll make a note.

00:32:50.440 Okay. So I have a concept I want to get your opinion on. Life is never going to be fair for

00:32:57.380 men. So feminism is women advocating for their lives to be as unfair to, for them as it is for 1.00

00:33:04.500 men that is equality agree disagree what are your thoughts feminism is women advocating for them to

00:33:13.360 have the same level of difficulty as men well that's what you're saying yeah so like for example

00:33:19.180 i think we're going to see more women on alimony like being put on alimony and child support in 1.00

00:33:24.640 the future getting longer prison sentences because they keep fighting for life to be equally as

00:33:29.200 unfair to them I know they don't mean it right but yeah but is that really gonna happen though

00:33:35.960 like are we seeing are we trending towards it because in my in my impression which you know

00:33:41.340 I'm not really keeping up on it or anything but it seems to me like the the basic human reaction

00:33:48.920 to womanhood which is this is the nice one that we you know that never lies or does anything wrong 0.83

00:33:55.180 we keep her safe it seems like that still is giving them all the advantages and you know

00:33:59.580 not getting drafted and getting favored in court and you know i don't think it's going to go away

00:34:08.060 i think you might be right you might be right i think it's just people look at women and they

00:34:13.820 go oh lady she's pretty and nice protect her i think that's where it comes from i do think

00:34:18.140 we're gonna see we've kind of started to see an uptick in alimony but it'll never even kelly

00:34:23.340 Clarkson it's like she got like a one-time payment of 1.5 million and lost the house

00:34:28.620 and she went and had six months of alimony and everyone was freaking out but I do think we're

00:34:34.840 going to see a little bit more women being put on alimony yeah do you mean having to pay it yeah 1.00

00:34:41.180 yeah yeah I do think that that that's that's more likely to happen that's a lot more likely

00:34:48.300 to happen just due to the fact that more um people are getting married with a woman makes more

00:34:55.100 that's happening a lot more yeah like you see the you see like the um

00:35:02.660 i would see the lawyer personal trainer combo a lot in london i knew a guy that was his whole

00:35:11.120 strategy he just wanted a kid with a lawyer and so he was the personal trainer yeah well he looked

00:35:17.420 he was like um i don't know what he did for a living but he was like he was pretty built so

00:35:23.280 that was like his he would just go for like the 32 year old lawyers yeah and they would pay his

00:35:28.500 rent and he would just get like three like you mean like juggle three of them yeah just he would

00:35:36.380 just keep going for like that was like his thing i think he was like yeah like a capped man yeah

00:35:41.300 they're rare that's funny that's pretty rare yeah yeah yeah you have to be you have to be special

00:35:46.880 for that you have to be like a one of those yoga guys who stood on a mountain for three years on

00:35:51.520 one foot or something you gotta be have something impressive enough to to manage that how has um

00:35:58.280 this impacted your dating life like has dating been easier since you've had the channel and it's

00:36:04.700 been completely different so before covid my dating life was just dying due to age so my story

00:36:15.180 was that like in high school, I was really blue pilled all the way through college. I just didn't

00:36:19.200 understand what I was doing. And I had a girlfriend here and there, but it wasn't really anything to

00:36:23.920 write home about. At age 24, I started learning all the stuff that I teach now and it completely

00:36:30.520 transformed my dating life. And, uh, I had like just amazing successes and transformed who I was

00:36:36.980 and, you know, learned a lot about women. And I just was aging out. Like one day the app stopped

00:36:43.720 working. I thought that my wifi was out, but no, I just like became ugly in one day, I guess.

00:36:49.740 And, um, I was, I was just dwindling. It was like the amount of attention I would get. I started

00:36:55.980 noticing that the girl I was talking to at the bar would be interested in talking to me, but then 0.97

00:37:02.580 always more interested in talking to a younger guy. And I went, Oh, that's it. I've, I've got

00:37:07.000 gone too far. So when COVID happened, everything shut down and I was only seeing this one girl

00:37:13.700 who happened to live near me, um, and messaged me on Facebook and just basically didn't let me say

00:37:19.600 no. She was just like, look, you're right there. I'm coming over. And other than that, it wasn't

00:37:24.140 much for those two and a half years that I was still there. Then after that, I did pretty much

00:37:28.940 zero dating until home math started. And now it's only women who know me through home math. 1.00

00:37:34.400 Really? Yeah. I don't go out to date anymore. Has that been like better for the quality of women? 0.99

00:37:41.120 it's easier to find quality women it's definitely easier like they they come talk to me and i can 1.00

00:37:50.740 check them out and i can say you know look at their look at her instagram see what she looks 0.72

00:37:55.040 like uh face timer if i want to face reveal it's a lot easier than the like the apps were miserable

00:38:02.340 and going out is it's easier than the apps but it was just getting less and less fun with age

00:38:09.300 so it's what was the question was it is it easier as you said well I was just curious um I always

00:38:14.660 am curious when a guy gets a big following if it like come like I just was wondering if the

00:38:20.140 quality of women before and after was it like life-changing was it kind of the same as when 1.00

00:38:25.040 you were younger like you know it reminds me of when I was younger yeah I wouldn't call it life

00:38:30.120 changing but it's like the kind of girl who used to talk to me when I was 30 is talking to me again

00:38:36.280 now it's like oh this feels good okay did you like bald or something like what like age i don't see

00:38:43.720 guys age out too often so i'm just curious i don't know i i did my hairline changed uh at one point

00:38:52.440 and so i stopped like i had to change my hairstyle because i noticed there was a bald spot and i was

00:38:57.480 like oh i'm not i don't want to pretend i don't want to be that guy um and other than that i think

00:39:03.320 it's just kind of just the just the age on my face i don't know i'm not really sure like when

00:39:09.800 i look at pictures of me 15 years ago and pictures today i can see why it's uh it's significantly

00:39:15.240 different but um yeah i don't know i guess i'd have to ask them about it i'm just gauging their

00:39:22.200 reactions to me okay i was just um so do you not agree with the like the concept that there's like

00:39:29.240 no wall for men so wait a minute do i agree that do i think there is a wall for men yeah there's i 0.82

00:39:37.440 think there's two walls for men there's like a wall and then a hill there's there is a point at

00:39:44.020 which you are no longer at your peak sexual attractiveness for men it's average age 27 which

00:39:49.620 lines up perfectly for me i was just slaying 26 27 28 it was very easy compared to now especially

00:39:56.220 but then money influences men a lot too so the like and that's exactly what's happening to me

00:40:02.500 now suddenly i have money and everything's become easier money and status when women have money and 1.00

00:40:07.140 status it does not make them very much more attractive it makes them easier to date but it

00:40:11.820 doesn't make them more attractive in the same way so the ability of a man to gain money and status

00:40:20.020 can and often does compensate for the loss of looks okay okay i agree with you yeah um so i

00:40:30.040 was hoping you could do um you could homeath a couple of concepts for me and maybe illustrate

00:40:36.920 my thought process would you be willing to okay i can try i got my camera okay cool so um

00:40:43.400 um, basically, um, one journey, women journey, right? I, when I walked, when I came into this 0.71

00:40:53.420 space, I didn't really understand why men had such a bad view on marriage. I really, I thought it was

00:40:59.060 good. My parents were married. I went from a small school. We had 30 kids in my class, maybe, um, at

00:41:06.040 least at the time. Cause when I got into the space, it was like five, four or five years ago. So at

00:41:12.740 time like maybe two or three people from that class like divorce so i thought it was all good

00:41:18.420 i was like what's the big deal why why are these guys saying don't get married and then i started

00:41:23.540 interviewing men right yeah and i start interviewing the guys and they start telling me their divorce

00:41:31.140 stories and my first thought was not all women are like that and i thought well well it's just 1.00

00:41:36.500 you guys are just picking these super liberal women and then i started interviewing guys that 0.80

00:41:42.100 did not pick any of those things i'm talking extreme muslim extreme christian extreme i even

00:41:48.500 interviewed a guy from michael knowles's church you know like he sells the whole marriage i

00:41:52.820 interviewed a guy that was from his exact latin mass church and it was one of the worst divorce 0.71

00:41:59.140 stories i ever heard and i came to the conclusion that marriage is just a not a good deal for men

00:42:06.020 yeah that's how it feels for sure um what was it so you wanted me to illustrate it yeah if you can

00:42:12.980 it'd be kind of fun i mean the first the first thing that i would want to do with that would

00:42:18.820 be to make a graph about like how much we force people to stay married okay you like force

00:42:29.060 versus the quality of the marriage which i guess maybe i should have switched those

00:42:33.460 see if i can do it anyway quality of marriage um and i think that if you force them uh an extreme

00:42:42.740 amount i think i gotta i gotta switch this qual quality and force so if you have like uh you know

00:42:57.620 harems and uh uh what is it poly yeah um poly polygyny i can't remember what it was called

00:43:05.780 uh then i think that the quality of marriage is pretty low and if you if you have a certain

00:43:12.260 amount of force the quality gets higher um and then if you have none it gets low again so like

00:43:19.700 at zero it's low and at maximum it's also low but somewhere in here is like you can't marry the guy

00:43:27.940 if your dad doesn't want you to okay and you have to stay married if you get married you have to

00:43:33.860 have a good reason and if you cheat you lose everything like there has to be constraints

00:43:38.660 at some level of constraint i don't know what exactly the level is but at some level of you

00:43:44.420 get punished if you're bad in your marriage and you break the the your vows um i think that that

00:43:51.860 is not only happier for both husband and wife but also better for society i want to give the men an

00:44:00.020 opt-out clause because wait a minute what about i want to add in them can the men get an opt-out 0.89

00:44:05.860 clause not the women opt out for what hear me out have you ever seen like a woman in a marriage that 0.99

00:44:13.460 doesn't want to be there and she they're just like the devil they hold that man back so much 1.00

00:44:19.940 the attitude the nag it just oh i know so many men like this that's the other thing when you 1.00

00:44:25.940 get red-pilled you start to realize how disrespectful even normal wives are and 1.00

00:44:30.820 you're like why is she doing that you know did you ever see like everybody loves raymond

00:44:35.140 I didn't um but I can think of um other shows maybe that I saw that probably had similar

00:44:45.640 concepts you're going to get at yeah yeah that's that was the whole thing in the sitcoms in the

00:44:50.600 last you know few decades was oh my wife oh she's in charge and she hates me and everything's 0.99

00:44:55.280 terrible and uh and that's like that's just what people were writing about because that's what they

00:44:59.840 were experiencing and yeah I really don't know I don't know what you're supposed to do with that

00:45:05.580 other than just like impress your wife again but it can be very difficult to do you know you have

00:45:13.340 to like I mean Tom Brady just got divorced you know what I mean yeah yeah like what happens when

00:45:19.140 you get bored of Tom Brady how does how does he Tom Brady even harder you know it's you can't yeah

00:45:26.260 you just need to switch you just need someone new something that i've been um thinking about for a

00:45:31.700 while is how could could we redesign marriage contracts to fit the way that just like human 0.88

00:45:39.140 nature and the way that society has loosened up and i've heard of things like uh like four-year

00:45:46.740 marriage contracts so that's long enough to have a kid and raise it to the point where you don't 0.97

00:45:50.740 have to watch it every day uh or something like that and then that would help people avoid that

00:45:57.380 whole like my wife won't look at me in the eye thing that happens to like what is it half of men 0.55

00:46:03.060 it could be like um the draft where you get traded yeah yeah like like a government mediated wife

00:46:11.700 swapping yeah we're gonna have to get creative like a review system

00:46:20.740 Yeah, like star ratings.

00:46:24.120 Yeah, but I just came to the conclusion.

00:46:26.380 I was like, I don't know why a guy would do it.

00:46:30.320 I really don't.

00:46:32.100 Yeah, I mean, I know the answer as to why it's, you know, usually it's a guy who knows that he's not ever going to get anyone that good again.

00:46:41.460 So he has to do what she says.

00:46:44.600 Even though he knows he's going to burn everything, there's a 50% chance that he's going straight down the tubes.

00:46:49.960 Like it's not necessarily that they don't know what the risk is.

00:46:54.420 It's just that they go, okay, 50% chance I lose everything or a hundred percent chance I never find a woman like this again. 0.99

00:47:03.200 Yeah, no, I get it.

00:47:05.200 Yeah.

00:47:07.000 And so that's how you'd illustrate it though.

00:47:08.940 You do like a quality versus force.

00:47:11.980 Yeah, that was my first idea for that particular concept.

00:47:17.760 I would get, I would get out my colors and everything.

00:47:19.920 And I would say quality of marriage versus the amount of force applied to the marriage.

00:47:24.780 And then I forgot if you said anything else in there.

00:47:28.120 No, it's pretty, it's just a marriage isn't a good deal for men.

00:47:31.420 That's pretty much the end concept.

00:47:33.340 Yeah.

00:47:34.220 It doesn't seem like it.

00:47:35.480 The last girl I did wanted to get married really fast and I was considering it.

00:47:40.980 But it was absolutely terrifying.

00:47:44.000 It was like, you know, it was just the exact thing that I said.

00:47:47.460 like i'm getting older and this girl she was pretty cool and i was like is it is it worth it

00:47:52.020 is it worth it like i just got famous and i just got all this stuff going for me is it do i want

00:47:56.060 to sign up for 50 um so yeah it's terrifying i don't know how to deal with it well do you think

00:48:04.760 you would do it i was feeling like there was a good chance that i might i was feeling like there

00:48:13.140 was like me i was i was leaning towards like something it felt like 50 it felt like 50 going

00:48:21.720 through with it my next concept i was hoping you could illustrate no right all right is it's so i

00:48:30.480 used to have hope when i came into this industry i really thought conservatives were gonna win i

00:48:36.560 was like we're totally gonna win it's gonna get better and i actually think it's gonna get way 0.91

00:48:41.020 worse yeah yeah like i i predict um whores are gonna keep being whores um yeah only fans models 1.00

00:48:49.660 and political offices like we said earlier uh women are just gonna kill their kids in like 1.00

00:48:55.180 more creative ways so maybe plan b maybe abortion goes down a little bit but plan b's go up um

00:49:02.540 birth rate will be like zero um maybe crime will go down for a little bit now that we got trump in

00:49:09.500 office but like long term we'll just keep voting for dumb stuff yeah yeah so it's amazing how they

00:49:16.720 do that they'll have they ruin their states and then move to another state and then ruin that one

00:49:21.780 with the same vote yeah maybe texas will be next since everyone's going there it's pretty close

00:49:28.260 yeah um what was it yeah what was it that you wanted to illustrate yeah so just that it's not

00:49:34.040 gonna get better like abortion is still gonna go oh i see um if i was gonna draw it not getting

00:49:42.020 better i would that one's kind of complicated i'm kind of feeling like i want to have like

00:49:51.260 and there's nothing any anyone can do about it so any conservative saying like we just got to

00:49:57.900 fight the culture war they're not going to win the culture war you're not there's too many forces

00:50:03.880 going against it so i i kind of want to just draw like this is pearl i would make your hair red if

00:50:11.740 i had time okay so it's clearly you and then i would put like a ballot box here and then i think

00:50:19.680 i would put it turning into a big pipe that just goes into exactly the same place as the democrat

00:50:26.200 at one and then over here there's just like planned parenthood and uh and like open borders

00:50:34.360 rio grande

00:50:35.980 and the rio grande here with the you know sombreros coming across it and everything

00:50:44.580 um and they would be i would just draw the pipe like merging like a super mario pipe

00:50:50.720 going to the same place that's my first that's my first instinct it usually takes me

00:50:58.980 the longest to come up with the idea of the drawing and then not very long to draw it because

00:51:07.080 they're just scribbles but uh yeah yeah I like these this is fun yeah I'm having fun

00:51:15.760 so i had um oh that's cool you can draw that quick yeah well they're just scribbles

00:51:24.420 sometimes i just draw fruit on my lives and just do like an apple oh so go to the same place okay

00:51:34.480 the yeah it's a little um delayed when i see it here just so you know oh okay okay yes it's

00:51:41.520 we're going to change my set when I move but sometimes I can't see the screen at the same time

00:51:46.280 where are you moving same place uh where I said before the live but I haven't announced it yet

00:51:51.680 okay okay yet so um we'll keep it another another thing I'd want to illustrate in it is that

00:51:57.500 conservatives have to move on like abortion we've lost I had a pro-lifer I had Lila Rose on my show

00:52:04.020 and I told her that she was wasting her life it's pretty funny yeah yeah it really you just

00:52:11.500 performing for Jesus yeah because I'm like I have shown women abortion videos and if I could put

00:52:17.560 into words how much they don't care like I've shown I have shown videos of like limbs getting

00:52:23.840 ripped out like really disgusting horrible videos and they're like eh yeah but it's our body yeah

00:52:31.120 it's the it's the wrong guy's kid so it doesn't bother me yeah exactly um you know I think there's 0.80

00:52:38.900 bigger things like illegals the economy shithole like democrat city yeah you know the transitioning 0.99

00:52:47.400 a kid i just think abortion we should just give up yeah it's just some people's favorite issue

00:52:53.900 for whatever reason either they had an experience or they know a lot about it or they're making

00:52:58.780 money talking about it or something i i agree with you on that one the the abortion thing it's like

00:53:04.700 of all of the things that we have going on that are destructive do why would you really want

00:53:10.620 to spend your time and energy on that one like what the one i'm spending my money on is

00:53:15.020 trying to teach people how not to be just garbage to each other with basic you know empathy and and

00:53:22.540 um metacognitive skills that's going pretty good sorry i was like that sounds like even more of a

00:53:29.580 losing cause well some people some people learn it's like the thing about yeah go ahead sorry

00:53:37.480 oh yeah sorry sorry uh the thing about the metacognitive skills is you can teach a few

00:53:42.680 you can teach them to a few people it can make a big difference you don't have to get to everybody

00:53:46.200 yeah well and you're doing like individualized coaching that's a little different 0.64

00:53:50.760 yeah than like you know a whole but like if you were coaching women to like not being sluts or

00:53:57.340 something like that no yeah that's different that's um that's a tough one like sometimes

00:54:03.300 women do come to me with that question I've had to coach a few women like um you know I don't want 1.00

00:54:08.960 to get too specific or anything about what they've said I don't want to give away anything about who

00:54:13.480 they are but they'll say like this was my life what do I do and I just go kind of just bite a

00:54:17.500 leather strap like you're gonna have to um you're gonna have to accept a lot less of what you you

00:54:24.960 know want out of life because of of either you're gonna have to lie to these guys or you're gonna

00:54:32.140 have to accept something that isn't like what you've had in the past yeah she's gonna have to

00:54:37.060 lie yeah that's probably yeah probably usually the response you know it's even more messed up

00:54:45.800 i've interviewed people with like incurable stds they lie that's the only way they go forward i've

00:54:53.920 heard all about that yep we're gonna do that show friday if you guys are curious i'm gonna read the

00:54:59.360 super chats um honest question if i have zero chance at everything i'm black pilled in a pos

00:55:06.000 at what stage of alcoholism should i clock out early oh geez what do you think i mean

00:55:14.480 isn't it like a legal risk to answer that question i think the fact that you're answering the

00:55:19.360 question means that you do actually want help and you want someone to care that's what i would say

00:55:23.920 to this presumably a guy and this would be really weird if that was a woman i would say that the 1.00

00:55:29.060 fact that you're reaching out and especially the fact that you spent money on a super chat means

00:55:32.640 that you probably do want someone to care and listen and help and i do get it and i have been

00:55:37.820 there and uh there are still some days where i clearly remember having been there and um what i

00:55:44.820 usually say to people who are in places like that is that uh life is life can be sometimes like

00:55:51.780 be multiplicative instead of additive. And sometimes something can happen that's more

00:55:55.520 like a multiplication problem than an addition problem. You might not have to wait for things

00:56:00.240 to add up. You might have something that turns it around real quick.

00:56:04.920 Most conservative women are 304s playing to secure cash and prizes. Do you agree with that? 0.99

00:56:12.380 I don't know if I'd say most, but I would definitely agree that there's not a significant

00:56:18.200 difference between that kind of behavior in conservative and liberal women. It's just 1.00

00:56:23.500 the political opinions are just which group they want to belong to mostly. I don't know if it's

00:56:31.760 most. I think it's just the hottest guy. Which guys do they find hotter running it? And that's

00:56:37.840 who we pick. Yeah. And it's what they're comfortable with too. It's like girls who 0.88

00:56:41.800 grow up in the country, they like the guys who are holding the fish on Tinder and girls from 1.00

00:56:47.420 the city hate the guy holding the fish on tinder it's what they're it's what they view as their

00:56:51.520 own yeah um they want to know about rate my chat gpt ai girlfriend is she a keeper and what do you

00:56:59.680 think about that just do we have pictures i don't know what am i rating her on there's no rating

00:57:05.920 it's just the super chat so what do you think about a guy with an ai girlfriend should he i

00:57:10.980 think that you should not mention it anymore i think if that's what you're doing with your life

00:57:17.140 you keep that good and quiet okay um the minute polygamy becomes openly embraced the majority of

00:57:27.520 men make less than women and society starts eliminating the mechanisms men use to decompress 0.60

00:57:33.020 passport bros video games and corn there will be civil unrest um homeath for president i'd love to

00:57:40.100 show real life examples of female delusions from my dating app dms oh that would be great what do

00:57:45.760 send them to me yeah how did they send them oh i got a link tree go to my link tree send me your

00:57:51.640 examples okay um what did you think about the other part of his super chat uh the part about

00:57:58.680 as soon as guys lose that stuff there's going to be fire and blood in the streets

00:58:01.940 yeah is that basically it yeah i mean that's like that's what's holding them back you know

00:58:07.000 i talk to these guys i talk to these guys and i like i it's not i'm not saying i am one but i am

00:58:14.640 in a demographic that is at risk of that, like if my life wasn't going well right now, I'd be

00:58:20.260 feeling the same things they feel. And it's dismal. It is like, it is dismal. The only thing

00:58:26.080 that I could do to keep myself sane during the COVID years was to go outside and get exercise

00:58:32.540 and take walks and bike rides. And then they locked that up too. And I was just like, the

00:58:36.980 amount of pressure that you feel when you have nothing, when you're completely cut off from

00:58:41.200 everything and they take away the stuff that you like it's crazy there's no way that they're going

00:58:45.060 to be able to control that en masse so yeah he's spot on um ask him why the racism on x while

00:58:53.380 pretending the world racism isn't real and has a problem with anti xyz but ant but uses anti-white

00:59:01.380 oh calls people low iq and they don't agree oh sorry this guy's a hater yeah this is this is a

00:59:07.140 yeah this is antagonistic uh i do talk about race sometimes on x and i just am really really really

00:59:14.180 sick of the way that that conversation has been going and so i uh reframe it and some people

00:59:19.640 don't like the way i reframe it and that's what it sounds like oh okay um making abortion illegal 0.97

00:59:25.560 isn't to dissuade abortion and so we have legal recourse to subject them to capital punishment 0.98

00:59:30.980 and you know what eric it's impossible yeah i'm just i'm just putting i'm just saying we have zero

00:59:38.560 chance zero chance to what to change that law like they're not going to put women in jail that 1.00

00:59:45.180 have abortions oh no no way no there are some people who want to but how are you going to

00:59:49.440 manage that like people say uh repeal the 19th all the time and it's like why why are you spending

00:59:55.360 your breath on that is that going to happen is it realistic yeah i learned that i used to sell

00:59:59.600 t-shirts actually and it cost me so much money because I got demonetized and I can tell you

01:00:05.100 firsthand it was not worth it yeah it was not worth it it was a waste of breath and I wish I

01:00:12.140 never talked about it so yeah yeah sometimes you just gotta learn the hard way you know what I mean

01:00:19.480 yes I do yeah I hope I don't have to learn any more hard ways no read the guidelines I'll tell

01:00:25.040 you what you want to stay um had to change that oh i read that already um i think that's all the

01:00:34.060 supers oh you got the whole apple done look at that yeah it's got a nice crisp apple

01:00:40.100 little green little bob ross stuff over here uh yeah this this is what i do when i'm like

01:00:47.880 trying to decompress at night so there's my little ballot and then it's both going to the same one

01:00:54.920 yeah and then this is just like you know the the like blue hair spiky blue hair morbidly obese

01:01:03.340 um the flag with all this stuff on it and it just goes to the same place which is all the same

01:01:11.680 devil horns awful policies that destroy everything it's like the democrats do it

01:01:18.360 really fast and the republicans do it kind of fast i can't imagine um being in an area where

01:01:26.100 the floyd stuff like people were looting you must have been terrified i would have been it was it

01:01:30.900 was pretty uncomfortable i really wondered how bad it was going to get i was like when i saw them

01:01:36.440 try to break into that one place i was like hence about it and uh and then yeah after that day

01:01:43.060 um i started seeing crimes happen from my bedroom window like it used to be a safe neighborhood

01:01:51.840 and then i saw people get attacked and i saw windows get smashed and bags stolen out of them

01:01:56.800 from where i sleep and that never stopped for the whole time i was there did you ever

01:02:02.300 get like robbed or your car broken into or anything um i did get i guess you would call

01:02:09.580 assaulted a few times the you know the technical definition of assault is like when whenever

01:02:15.800 somebody makes a move that's like i'm gonna do something to you like that um accost me on the

01:02:23.020 street when i was just going to get ice cream like that there's a some crazy kind of stuff

01:02:27.100 and that was all things that had never happened before then and then they all started happening

01:02:31.520 after then. Well, I, what happened to me during that time? Oh, I think the, I did have people

01:02:40.560 asking why I didn't post a black square. Do you remember those? I remember them. Yeah. I remember

01:02:46.000 being really, um, actually upset about it because I knew that that was just like a brainwashing

01:02:52.860 thing when, when that was going on, I knew that this is like, this is another Trayvon Martin.

01:02:57.540 this is another Rodney King, this is another, it's just like the same playbook over and over.

01:03:03.440 They know how to make people upset and get them to run around and riot and do ridiculous things. 0.59

01:03:08.660 It's happening again. And that was, that was really actually a tough time for me because

01:03:15.860 something about, I can't know how to articulate it, but something about my elementary school

01:03:22.720 education, my teachers taught me properly what happens when people go crazy because they all

01:03:30.340 follow each other. They were talked about the Nazis, the Soviets, they talked about the witch 0.54

01:03:34.040 trials. It was just like, sometimes people all just get the same idea all at once. And it's a

01:03:39.240 bad idea, but they listen to each other because that's what they do is they listen to each other.

01:03:43.620 And I had always felt after my teachers taught me that I always felt like we're not going to do

01:03:50.720 that anymore we we just taught ourselves about it so we don't do that anymore but you just can't

01:03:55.700 train that out of people they just will do that forever well one gender but i'm not going to get 0.99

01:04:03.340 hate speech today yeah it is sort of led by sort of led by one oh we got a hundred dollars super

01:04:12.620 chat do all single women um do you think all single women 40 and older have ptsd great show

01:04:19.740 thank you pearl do i think they have ptsd no i mean i'm not sure really what they're getting at

01:04:27.900 with that to answer it literally no single women 40 and older ptsd like that is that what i think

01:04:33.820 that they went through maybe he means some sort of like like because there aren't a bunch of them

01:04:37.980 on antidepressants and stuff so maybe he means some sort of mental disorder maybe i mean though

01:04:43.660 So I don't know if I would, I think that the, the peak SSRI crew is like late twenties.

01:04:50.820 No way.

01:04:52.240 I, that's what I think.

01:04:53.660 I don't have any data on it, but just from what I've observed, it seems to me that it's

01:04:58.760 like when girls stop being girls and start becoming women and they maybe see like a couple 0.78

01:05:04.340 of crows feet or something and they go, Oh, that like that peak time is over.

01:05:07.580 And I don't have a boyfriend or a family or a husband or something that it seems like

01:05:11.960 that is when it's most likely to start what was crazy for me is when i would see trends seep into

01:05:20.620 my real life because it's one thing to see like tiktok girls on the internet but when i cover 1.00

01:05:26.280 antidepressant trends for two years and then a really good friend of mine gets on it do you

01:05:31.420 know what i mean it's like someone that i never thought would yeah um oh doug mpa one of my he

01:05:38.580 says antidepressant use including ssris generally increase with age in women with the highest rates

01:05:44.580 observed in women 60 and older oh okay yeah i mean i guess that guy was onto something then 0.99

01:05:50.660 um the other one says abortion rate um abortion chain abortion chain gangs okay well guys 0.99

01:06:01.620 um this one just wanted to say it um this was one pathetic uh 0.96

01:06:09.740 i said if you don't like accountability okay is this the same guy i subscribed to his youtube 0.93

01:06:17.720 just found his ex and found him an ex and saw what i said so i asked you don't like accountability

01:06:23.420 oh he's kind of upset okay well i'm sorry david i don't know what to tell you um i guess i guess

01:06:31.420 your tweets make some people mad my tweets are a little bit more spicy yeah it's twitter yeah yeah

01:06:40.220 um oh wow you're getting good you got the open borders

01:06:46.460 mm-hmm this like put the like a wily coyote sign with the like the crack in the wood like looney

01:06:54.860 tunes exclamation point sombrero guy planned parenthood building with devil horns it just

01:07:06.340 all goes to the same place i would have to think this one through to make it like

01:07:09.900 as impactful as my regular drawings but um i just did a really good one i can't put it on

01:07:17.060 if i was using obs i could show you i'll get it to you next time the next one i was gonna do

01:07:23.860 is there's no such thing as a good woman and and is that you just want to know if i agree

01:07:30.860 no i'm gonna i'll tell you the concept so oh you want me to illustrate it no i want to hold on so

01:07:37.360 i used to think um that i was somehow super moral because i'd never done any of the yacht stuff

01:07:47.460 right yeah i'd never been flown to dubai i'd never done the yacht stuff and i would think wow i'm so

01:07:52.560 moral. Yeah. And then I thought about it and I was like, well, I've never been invited.

01:07:58.000 Yeah. And I saw the same thing with the guys that said they wouldn't cheat. And I'm like, well,

01:08:05.340 nobody's trying to like, nobody's trying to get with you. Yeah. So of course you don't. Yeah.

01:08:10.900 Yeah. And I realized that the odds, like if I was Megan Fox level of beautiful,

01:08:17.480 i have no idea what i would do with that power i really don't because i've never you know like

01:08:23.620 that's you know she had the most top men all and for her to still fumble that is crazy but

01:08:30.760 what did she do what happened she's like a divorced and like i think she was with 1.00

01:08:35.960 machine gun kelly and they got divorced oh that's right okay yeah no i did hear about that

01:08:41.960 but even me judging her now it's like i don't know what i would do with that level of hotness

01:08:45.980 i don't know yeah i can't say because i've never been in that position and every time i would meet

01:08:51.420 women that were super feminine every time i would meet them there's always something they're making 1.00

01:08:56.140 up for like they'd be really overweight or they'd have kids you know what i mean like it would be

01:09:00.540 something yes and it made me think even more and then i would look at like the women that were like 1.00

01:09:05.420 strippers and bottle girls were like six strong sixes pluses and then i would see the engineers 1.00

01:09:11.500 and they'd be like fives, low sixes.

01:09:13.760 And I would just think this is all, there's no good women. 1.00

01:09:16.600 It's just the right circumstance or like me, you know, if something goes wrong in my life,

01:09:21.100 I can move home with my family where some women, you know, their only choice is being 1.00

01:09:26.240 a hooker. 1.00

01:09:27.480 So, yeah. 0.94

01:09:28.420 So I happen to have some pretty good illustrations for this one already.

01:09:32.160 I don't know if you were looking for them, but this one's from a video I'm making right

01:09:36.320 now. And it is how girls will say, like, just because I dress this way doesn't mean that I'm

01:09:44.380 like that. But the more you dress this way, the more attention you get, the more attention you

01:09:49.040 get, the more temptation, the more temptation, the more chances there are. So making this choice

01:09:53.420 is a chance of it happening. So the behavior that you choose is like directly correlated to the

01:10:03.760 outcomes that you're going to get. Um, so what that means is that a good woman is a woman who

01:10:10.400 makes choices who keep her away from these things. It's not someone who's going to resist temptation

01:10:14.940 because we, we are, we suck at that. Like I, I never had, um, you know, that level of attractiveness.

01:10:21.840 I say that I was an eight, but I like, when I say that, I mean like low, like locally, when I say

01:10:26.900 that I don't, I'm not saying I was a cover model or anything. I was just attractive enough that I

01:10:32.340 got up out of that not people's own area where you get ignored and plenty of women were interested 1.00

01:10:37.980 in me. That's my favorite phrase of yours, the not people's own. Yeah. I keep that handy. 0.92

01:10:43.360 That's so funny. I always have them handy. So what makes a person good and not just a woman, 1.00

01:10:51.420 but what makes a person good is like where you choose to put yourself. So you got to watch her

01:10:59.700 behavior. And it's like, how is she dressing? Modest or independent? Where does she hang out?

01:11:03.520 Church or club? What's her loyalty in the past? High or low? It's, it's not like who you are deep

01:11:12.760 down. This is, that's what people want to think about. What makes you good is that, that I'm just

01:11:17.040 a good person because I feel like I am. And I know what I would make all the right choices.

01:11:21.300 It's where you put yourself and how you grow around it. And you know, willpower has got

01:11:26.520 something to do with it and everybody's got different amounts of willpower but it's about

01:11:31.640 um where you habitually put yourself and how you develop through it and also whether or not you

01:11:40.280 grow up this is my made a new levels chart oh wow whether or not whether or not you grow up through

01:11:46.400 the uh through the lower levels like you have to be at you have to be able to at least do this when

01:11:51.400 you're facing temptation and uh not a lot of people do i know i didn't with my very moderate

01:11:57.700 level of you know of getting out of the not people zone i definitely fumbled that i would say

01:12:03.760 just spent it improperly well that's what because i thought about it and i was like well

01:12:12.980 if i was invited to like parties with a-level celebrities like some of these women are

01:12:18.460 i have no idea i like to think you know you like to think you wouldn't but you can't say that until

01:12:24.440 the opportunity you have to see what happens yeah exactly and so i realized i'm like i don't know

01:12:31.820 many beautiful women like i met a lot of girls that got to party with like chris brown in london 1.00

01:12:36.560 i don't know what that was like the number one he had some london shows i i guess you know and

01:12:42.760 i don't know a single girl that didn't go yeah some of these women i would say were younger 1.00

01:12:48.120 pure like more pure than me but chris brown called they're going yeah because why would you not go

01:12:56.740 right yeah what would be the equivalent for me i mean men don't get like invited to things like

01:13:01.420 that like a playboy party like playboy like party back in the day probably i did get invited to like

01:13:09.640 to go hang out and do Michael Sartain stuff with Michael Sartain and I didn't go but I don't know

01:13:16.100 if that's equivalent you know Michael Sartain yeah no I've been on his show oh cool great yeah

01:13:21.880 I went through I passed through Vegas and I was like I better not go do his girl stuff 0.99

01:13:28.180 I might still go I don't know I was like why not you're single right yeah yeah so what what's the

01:13:36.660 downside i don't know i've just kind of have never felt like that kind of um vibe is for me i did

01:13:45.620 want to meet him and see what goes on out there but there's always time i could i could always go

01:13:50.500 this summer or something i don't think like groups of girls are all that different like even if you

01:13:55.400 get like the models there's gonna be horror ones there's gonna be like normal one of course you

01:13:59.760 know so of course yeah they're all they're all just doing a look they're all just like dressing

01:14:04.980 apart and then they're all going to have their own personalities for sure do you think that

01:14:10.440 liberal women and conservative women are there's like a difference in quality yeah i think that 1.00

01:14:17.620 there are several different kinds of difference in quality i think that conservative women are 1.00

01:14:22.300 more likely to be well behaved like i think that liberal women run in groups where their 1.00

01:14:31.320 independence like they call it independence is promoted and it's bad behavior that's promoted

01:14:37.760 um conservative women are not exposed to like uh polyamory is smart and makes you cool okay 1.00

01:14:45.500 they don't they don't have those kinds of influences the liberal ones have those

01:14:49.560 influences and they're affected by them so like women being women what you expose them to will

01:14:58.100 affect their behavior and the liberals are exposed to much worse stuff only thing is i think 0.82

01:15:02.280 conservative women tend to be more bitchy yeah they're kind of um a little bit more 1.00

01:15:09.460 like hoa kind of i'm in charge around here yeah yeah i agree i don't know i have i haven't ever 0.90

01:15:18.600 lived in a place with a lot of them i've only ever been in blue areas dated liberal women 1.00

01:15:22.620 they get kind of like that though they if you if you cross one of their moral boundaries they kind

01:15:30.220 of um you know they they get they get screechy they start thought policing you out loud like

01:15:38.960 you know they get up they get upset and they come totally transform and they go what did you say

01:15:43.500 you know i call that a crash out i love oh yeah yeah yeah that's right i heard about that

01:15:49.800 yep they crash out what do you think about um i have a a pipeline for mids and hot women 1.00

01:15:59.660 if you so i always say that mids go to big cities and get humbled

01:16:07.120 so like they'll be the prettiest girl in like kentucky you know and then they go to miami and 0.97

01:16:13.760 then they just you just get past yeah yeah you're just in miami too yeah and then just go back to

01:16:20.480 the the kentucky and then marry someone from their hometown have you seen that i have seen that yeah

01:16:27.360 i have seen um when i was living in the city there were uh girls that would move from other places 1.00

01:16:34.240 and they would they would mention like they would say out loud they would go like i am less

01:16:38.920 attractive here people do not treat me like as nice as they did back where i was there was one

01:16:44.500 that came from i think detroit and she was like maybe i should just go back to detroit

01:16:49.200 so yeah i have noticed that what do you mean by a pipeline you mean like putting them in the places

01:16:56.420 that work better for them yeah like it's usually um an example is like if a girl's like a seven 1.00

01:17:03.820 plus she'll probably go to a big school so like for example alab there's like the alabama to 0.99

01:17:09.100 florida pipeline where you go to alabama as a school if you're seven plus then you go to miami

01:17:14.220 or maybe la then you get dug out there there's a couple women that do win they find a husband in 1.00

01:17:19.180 the city and graduate but obviously there's more losers than winners so um yeah then you know they

01:17:25.020 get dug out then boom um they go back and then usually it's like the hot girls are like within 1.00

01:17:31.820 the city like the most exciting part of the city and around here i'm like an hour away from the

01:17:37.260 city and i went 30 minutes close to the city and the whole bar i you not i went with um

01:17:44.540 doug mpa my co-host and it was a single mother club what yeah i was like i was like i can't even

01:17:55.580 make this up but it was like 30 and i realized i'm like so all the hot girls go to the city 0.96

01:18:00.380 And then like a bad decision takes them out of it.

01:18:04.580 So like for them, it's like single motherhood.

01:18:07.320 Now they're 30 minutes out and that's the best they can do, you know, an hour out, you

01:18:12.140 get even uglier.

01:18:12.920 So a lot of guys, like they might think they're unattractive, but if they just lived where 0.80

01:18:17.460 like the hot women are, like one would be bound to, you know. 1.00

01:18:21.340 Yep.

01:18:21.760 That's kind of what brings everyone to the cities.

01:18:23.980 Like that's kind of, I don't want to be a downer, but like it, it makes me feel like

01:18:28.800 that's why like that's kind of why that's the most black-pilled opinion i think i have that

01:18:35.220 people are always drawn to those high population density areas and those are the ones being ruined

01:18:39.580 the most by all this by all the social degradation um you kind of can't go like i have all these

01:18:46.420 friends who are trying to escape and live out in the middle of nowhere like uh in the rockies in

01:18:52.620 the empty quarter they're like we're gonna move out there we're gonna start a gym and and they

01:18:56.560 get out there and there's like five girls that are above a four and they're like there's no you 1.00

01:19:00.940 can't make this happen we're not going to all marry the same girl you know there isn't enough

01:19:06.240 because they all leave they all the all the girls who can get anything from anywhere leave those 1.00

01:19:12.520 remote areas so it's like impossible to move there unless you just want to die alone yeah and you can

01:19:19.780 kind of see how hot a girl is by how big of a city like she tends to pick yeah because if it's like 1.00

01:19:27.060 i i rate la vegas miami new york um scottsdale arizona is like the the most beautiful women

01:19:36.140 go there is there any city you think i missed i don't think so i'm trying to think like the first

01:19:44.300 time that i ever went to portland i thought that they had hot girls there but it was just a fluke

01:19:48.320 i just saw like sort of the same kind of girl too many times in one day um miami new york los angeles

01:19:55.440 those are the big ones no i don't think you missed anything not that i know of atlanta

01:20:02.800 no i don't i think it would be a tier two like because then that's like tier one tier two is like

01:20:08.560 chicago portland like big cities but like they're not really known for hot girls but just because

01:20:14.560 they're so big some of the hawkers yeah they'll be there yeah they'll be there i think new york and

01:20:19.840 new york and um i actually i don't know it might be miami i know that new york is where i would be

01:20:26.400 if it wasn't new york if you know what i mean like if it didn't have new york rules in play

01:20:31.680 that's where i would go yeah you got all the models there yeah exactly fashion there's also

01:20:40.160 more men per woman uh more women per men per man in new york you've got the other way around

01:20:47.520 on the west coast but new york is a good numbers game for men yeah i've heard the same thing about

01:20:54.800 atlanta yeah although yeah east coast and the west coast around there too much you might get aids

01:21:01.760 there's like an agent yeah yeah atlanta's a i don't know i haven't actually visited but i've

01:21:09.040 only heard rumors but yeah it doesn't sound like a destination yeah and then i have like tier two

01:21:15.280 cities which are like it's like tier one which are big cities um and then like mid-level cities

01:21:24.160 like philadelphia i've heard there's pretty girls boston which are like near a big city but they're 1.00

01:21:30.080 not quite usually the sevens go there especially they're used to being the hottest girl they might 0.99

01:21:35.600 might go to new york for a year and they can't take it exactly uh boston is where you find like

01:21:40.960 the uh the the upper mids who have really great jobs and they have really expensive rent

01:21:48.560 it's kind of um it's i don't know kind of a snottier city i think boston is it's like

01:21:56.420 they they are uh more socially conscious there if that's possible is it possible to be more

01:22:02.760 socially conscious than new yorkers what do you mean by socially conscious like aware of status

01:22:09.040 and aware of the importance of where you live and how you're dressed and you know what kind

01:22:13.460 of music you listen to and oh i'm listening to cello music i'm more refined you know a little

01:22:17.540 bit more like uh attached to the classiness of being in a city rather than just like i'm doing

01:22:25.440 it i'm in the big apple i don't know it seems like a different it seems like a different vibe

01:22:29.860 that was the biggest culture shock i had when i moved to england because i was there for three

01:22:34.560 years was the people dress so much nicer i would come back to america and people would be like why

01:22:40.800 are you dressed so fancy yeah i know it's ridiculous people just dress in bags here

01:22:46.020 yeah um conservative women weaponize the concept of masculinity to gaslight men to do their bidding 1.00

01:22:52.780 yeah um do you think the current degradation of the nuclear nuclear family family was

01:23:01.100 intentionally socially engineered from those in power for a specific purpose or a natural cycle

01:23:06.700 from in the levels um diagram from hm thanks um i think that it's both i think that people who

01:23:18.920 study history properly can see these things coming. And when you see them coming, you can

01:23:24.600 just nudge them. I don't think that you can take a thriving society and just say like, we're going

01:23:30.500 to make families fall apart. I'm just going to turn some knobs and make families fall apart

01:23:34.680 because you have the way that people move is like a river and you can't just go against it.

01:23:39.800 But when it starts going that way, I think you can influence it to go that way.

01:23:44.260 there's just too much going on in politics that seems like exactly what you would want to do at

01:23:53.260 exactly the right time to do it to make these things happen they there's i can't think of any

01:23:57.700 choices right now but people make choices like there's nothing that anyone can benefit from this

01:24:03.120 this is just going to make marriages fall apart and make there be more single mothers and fatherless 1.00

01:24:08.060 children and um i think they know what they're doing i think it's i think you can discern from

01:24:14.800 just pattern recognition that they do know what they're doing well someone benefits from the money

01:24:22.680 i think they're all just trying to make money yeah eight dollars power and control yeah i think it's

01:24:28.320 just eight dollars or two dollars you know because i think men yeah you guys kind of go through life

01:24:33.160 where you figure out much sooner like we can just say whatever and we don't get in trouble everyone

01:24:38.800 just says whatever she's a girl do you know what I mean like there's even stuff I've said where I'm

01:24:43.500 like if a guy said that his career would be over and I just said it and any examples uh not ones

01:24:50.800 that I'm trying to draw attention to right now all right all right not not ones that I'm trying

01:24:56.800 to but there's a couple instances where I could think of I'm like that was pretty dumb but yeah

01:25:02.380 and even i was i was introspect like i was trying to think about it i'm like do you know what it's

01:25:06.540 probably because men i did that because men have a consequence earlier where like if men just say

01:25:14.940 what they think there's an immediate consequence like they might lose their job they might lose

01:25:19.920 and so at some point i think the men just adapt the same way they become like cold hard players

01:25:25.240 yeah you know what i mean the men they just they just say do you know what screw you guys i'm gonna 0.72

01:25:30.260 make money and get by it because i like it's too hard to go the other way i have to deal with all 0.96

01:25:35.140 these women nagging i have to women you want to abort your kids i'll be an abortion doctor 1.00

01:25:40.580 i'll be a nutritionist and just lie to you and say you're not fat i'll do you know what i mean 0.86

01:25:45.380 like they just i do yeah that's go ahead i know i know i just know exactly what you mean it is

01:25:50.820 it is um it is way easier to go along i've never been able to do it it always makes me feel too bad

01:25:58.500 to go along with whatever you know i don't believe in or whatever i don't like

01:26:02.740 but um man it solves a lot of problems it really does like if people are making these choices like

01:26:09.620 opening up a casino it's just such a great way to get a huge amount of money from people who

01:26:16.180 are going to make bad choices anyway yeah like i just yeah i gotta open the door i mean people try

01:26:24.420 to take credit for these plans or whatever i'm sure some people had plans and like whatever but

01:26:32.340 to me i just think everyone's trying to make money they gave women bank accounts it was over

01:26:39.300 in the 80s apparently that's what they're saying now he's right that's why feminism didn't happen 0.99

01:26:44.180 until the industrial revolution that enabled the nudge and the tech revolution broke the damn it's

01:26:48.820 over yeah yeah the tech revolution was a big one um oh rachel thanks for watching rachel have you

01:27:01.320 done a collab with um the crucible um i don't think i've collaborated with them i chat with

01:27:07.060 them i think i'm just i chat to them in dms but i'd like to work with them oh cool they should

01:27:11.600 have you on um that'd be great i want to read you the modern woman life cycle and then um i think

01:27:18.240 doug mpa was gonna come say hi too he's a fan um but i want to read this to you and i want you to

01:27:25.760 see if you agree or disagree so the modern woman life cycle so modern women will go to a high 0.98

01:27:32.320 priced institution to get a degree that no one cares about to put themselves in a whole bunch of

01:27:36.800 debt that will burden them for the rest of their lives all they learn in school is how to be

01:27:41.360 disagreeable and how to use men number two modern women will get a job that is too stressful and 1.00

01:27:48.000 does not care about them in reality the job is not that hard or stressful but the women will 1.00

01:27:52.960 convince themselves that it is number three modern women will feel entitled to a certain type of

01:27:59.040 lifestyle when they begin their careers and will buy houses and cars they can't afford or spend

01:28:03.920 their money on travel while ignoring student debt modern women will wake up between the ages of 33 0.99

01:28:10.160 to 37 and rush to have a kids find a husband or both five modern women will hit their late 30s 1.00

01:28:16.800 early 40s and try to get pregnant by either a loser or ivf um modern women will start 1.00

01:28:25.200 antidepressants and become alcoholics and modern women will buy a dog or a cat and die alone 1.00

01:28:31.120 what do you think did i miss anything um yeah i mean just before college there's the disney cycle

01:28:38.080 okay that that primes them the disney disney to twilight pipeline okay uh which primes them

01:28:49.080 for the the expectations uh and then yeah the going to college and getting the the worthless

01:28:55.420 degree that they think taught them something and then getting the job that god that was one of the

01:29:01.160 most frustrating experiences of my life i used to work with this girl at a job where we had the exact

01:29:06.200 same job title and i got paid more than her i worked there longer than her and i had more

01:29:10.180 experience and then we both got laid off at the same time and a couple years later i matched her

01:29:15.280 on bumble and she was getting 120 000 a year to be a women's leadership coordinator or something 1.00

01:29:21.460 and i was driving uber and that was what the market had for me and for her

01:29:25.740 that was not fun that happened to me in reverse oh yeah yeah i was in sales they just i walked in

01:29:35.760 they took away another guy's territory and gave it to me wow i felt bad but it was like nothing i

01:29:42.960 you know i can't be like don't give me the yeah you can't you can't say right yeah yeah it does

01:29:50.000 happen a lot and that like that's one of those things that that's kind of like something that

01:29:54.400 i would mention on x that that guy was complaining about i just point out stuff like that and people

01:29:58.400 get upset about it it's like well is it true though um all right so uh yeah the disney twilight

01:30:06.560 pipeline college the job the uh what was before antidepressants and then and then the cat and then

01:30:11.920 it eats their eyeballs do you know about that uh wait what have you heard about how the cat eats

01:30:18.240 your eyeballs after you die oh it's just it's part of the meme it's part of the meme that you

01:30:25.040 when you dial on the cat eats your eyes because they're softer it's pretty it's just a gruesome

01:30:29.120 it's just a gruesome add-on joke oh okay i'm not gonna put that in there but i see where you're

01:30:35.440 going with it because it's gross yeah apparently there's a super chat i missed doug mpa could you

01:30:44.720 find it because there was a good amount this show so i i must have lost it g through says oh wait

01:30:50.880 here oh here i saw it i saw it hey i studied for almost um 10 years hey i'm curious i studied for

01:30:58.720 almost 10 years personalities having met over a thousand people close and random take the test

01:31:05.680 and i've come up with the conclusion personality and gender are two halves of the same coin

01:31:10.320 know your gender know your personality you think that's true not true i mean there is definitely

01:31:16.960 like personality variation within the sexes if that's what he's talking about or unless he's

01:31:22.720 talking about gender in the woke sense like if one of your 72 genders in which case no i would 0.62

01:31:28.480 not agree but yeah um there are things about men and women that are extremely consistent

01:31:36.560 that people just don't want to believe or deal with

01:31:40.720 like just entire ways of perceiving things like how men can look straight at something in the

01:31:44.560 the fridge and not see it because their eyes just work different really i didn't know that

01:31:50.400 yeah women women perceive um color more and they i think uh they're able to notice new things in 0.92

01:32:01.240 their visual field whereas men are looking for where the thing is supposed to be so men will

01:32:06.560 open the fridge and they'll look for where was the thing supposed to be and they look at it and

01:32:10.600 not there and they go where is it and then the wife will go it's directly next to it because 1.00

01:32:16.520 her eyes are scanning so yeah uh the vision works differently hearing works differently 0.96

01:32:22.040 senses work differently emotions work differently women are more sensitive to negative emotion more 1.00

01:32:26.520 neurotic this is probably why the lesbian divorce rates are so high because you know you get a bad 1.00

01:32:31.880 feeling and it's like well the bad feeling must be about whatever's in front of me right now

01:32:37.720 and then it's just two women spraying that at each other um so yeah i mean to see a personality is 1.00

01:32:45.480 hugely shaped by it but i think there's quite a bit of variation in personality within the sexes

01:32:52.200 also can you expand on that a little more like what do you think the biggest like variations are

01:32:57.880 in personality oh you're going with this drawing yeah yeah it's fun um the biggest variations in

01:33:04.680 personality are do you know about the big five yeah do you know any personality tests yes so

01:33:10.760 you have the big five um which is it's the only one that's like validated by mainstream science

01:33:17.720 which i don't even know what that means uh but those you know those five traits can predict a

01:33:24.360 lot about you and who you are and how you're likely to behave and you know there's a lot of

01:33:29.160 there's a lot of variation between them like people tend to only have high openness or high

01:33:34.280 conscientiousness uh for example and i think that women tend to be more open men tend to be more

01:33:39.960 conscientious uh women tend to be more neurotic um i'm not sure who tends to be more extroverted 1.00

01:33:46.600 but there are other personality tests that they are not scientifically validated whatever that

01:33:51.480 means but i think that there's still some validity to them there's the mbti which i think does a

01:33:58.840 really good job of telling you what kind of job you would enjoy doing and therefore be good at

01:34:03.560 at because you like doing it or be more likely to be good at because you like doing it and then

01:34:08.880 there's the enneagram that's a famous one it's more like a spiritual thing and that one is

01:34:18.820 associated with the seven deadly sins plus two more and that one is based on what your personality

01:34:28.760 type fears the most and so what you go towards the most oh that's interesting yeah it's very

01:34:35.260 interesting I spent a good amount of time learning that one I didn't like the type I got but I 0.56

01:34:40.560 learned a lot about myself through it that happened to me too I was like this test is bullshit not 0.69

01:34:47.340 that one but the other one what the Myers-Briggs the one um it was Jordan Peterson's test I took 0.96

01:34:54.620 long time ago and i was pissed in my response what did you get that you didn't like um i didn't like

01:35:02.460 i got low it called me lazy it was like it called me low and like i think it was conscientiousness

01:35:09.100 yeah and it said i was very i didn't mind some of them like it said i was really high in

01:35:14.380 extroversion like 98th percentile and i was like that makes sense i've always been like that but

01:35:20.140 the oh my gosh i was so i just remember being pissed because it said i was lazy and i'm like i

01:35:27.340 am not lazy no you don't look lazy bro it's far from lazy i can tell you that hey how's it going

01:35:34.540 you guys this is doug mpa he's um my co-host most days and he's a big fan he wanted to say yeah

01:35:40.860 hey oh man how you doing man i'm doing all right i'm talking to pearl which is pretty fun i knew

01:35:46.460 of pearl a few years before i started home math so it's like a little celebrity meeting it's fun

01:35:51.420 i uh first off i don't know what that guy was talking about i follow you on x and you're not

01:35:57.180 a racist at all i don't know what that guy's talking about the the new hashtag is called

01:36:02.560 black fatigue jesus yeah well people are just tired of it man you know i'm black and i'm tired

01:36:10.180 of it too i i don't see anything race i don't know what that guy's talking about yeah well when 0.88

01:36:14.440 When you talk about race, people will call you racist.

01:36:16.680 I don't say anything negative about groups of people.

01:36:20.460 They'll call white people racist, but not black people, unfortunately. 1.00

01:36:24.420 Because I hate the fact that white people, especially white men, are the root of all evil. 1.00

01:36:30.700 I can't stand that. 0.99

01:36:31.740 I have a lot of white male friends, successful, ambitious, competitive, but they can't say what's on their mind.

01:36:39.840 I'm tired of it, man.

01:36:40.660 I'm telling you, hashtag black fatigue.

01:36:42.040 um so look the first time i got that in england doug mba what's that i got that after i got called

01:36:49.320 a colonizer in england oh yeah these views do not reflect pearls at all these are doug mba's views

01:36:57.540 no i'm tired too sorry that's so funny you just went back to england to recolonize it

01:37:03.820 So my favorite one of yours was you have a drawing that have all the women on one side.

01:37:13.740 It's pink.

01:37:14.340 It has a bunch of pink women on one side and a bunch of blue on the other side. 1.00

01:37:18.500 It has all the arrows.

01:37:20.220 I have that save on YouTube and I've watched.

01:37:24.140 Yes, there it is.

01:37:25.620 There it is.

01:37:27.020 Can you explain this?

01:37:28.240 Because this is one of the greatest things I've ever seen.

01:37:31.200 you sum up the struggles of men so well with this can you go over that well i didn't invent

01:37:38.240 the concept you know this is something that i saw banging around the internet before i even

01:37:43.480 understood it because when i uh you know when online dating started happening i was really

01:37:49.820 successful on it and so i was like well i guess that probably is it and i like i guess i'm here

01:37:54.620 but um what i did with it and i made a new version too there's going to be a new version with like

01:37:59.940 words and it's going to look cleaner what i did with it was i separated it into when society is

01:38:04.820 working over here and when it's not and when pro have you seen this it takes a second to delay

01:38:13.820 it's hard to explain but it's because okay we have it set up go ahead if he keeps going i'll

01:38:18.880 see it in a second oh okay so yeah i'm on a delay so the left side i'll just point to it and stay

01:38:24.000 the left side uh that says men and women um over here closer to equal this is when society is

01:38:29.780 functioning. And what it shows is that these green lines are long-term stable connections.

01:38:35.700 That's the keeper relationship. And in stable societies where people actually hang out with

01:38:42.460 each other and get to know each other, people tend to get married to someone on their own level

01:38:47.100 and marriages happen a lot. There, of course, because humans are humans, you have these red 1.00

01:38:52.380 and orange lines, which are the sweeper and sleeper relationships where it's like the orange

01:38:57.160 one is an ongoing affair. And the red one is like a one night mistake. And we can never do this

01:39:01.380 again. And of course they happen, but also the stable relationships are there. When we do not

01:39:07.000 have a society that keeps us interacting with each other in a church or a school or a neighborhood or

01:39:14.400 what have you, we move over to the social breakdown one where when women are unfamiliar with men, 0.85

01:39:22.380 their standards are way way way higher when women know men they get attraction uh proximity attraction 1.00

01:39:28.620 but with men that they're unfamiliar with they're all very very very picky and where's my where's my

01:39:34.460 not people zone where'd he go that's my favorite areas yeah about about 80 to 90 percent of them

01:39:43.900 are in the not people zone where they just are like excuse me stop talking to me what is it what

01:39:49.100 What do you want? Do you have a, do I need to put my shopping cart back? No.

01:39:52.260 Could I have your number? Like, you know, it gets bad.

01:39:56.180 So what happens is that now we have TV people staying home,

01:40:02.580 cell phones, people are talking remotely. The dating apps,

01:40:06.260 they all have 1400 matches in their pocket at all times.

01:40:10.520 There's more and more guys in the not people zone.

01:40:13.840 And these guys have more and more options.

01:40:15.880 Like I remember being this guy for quite a few years and I have memories that are kind of, they're like sad and embarrassing now of meeting someone who was really a reasonable choice and just thinking of her as a, as an option among many.

01:40:33.060 And it's like, I could, I might like my, my, my life might've got better, might've gone better if I wasn't able to make that decision, if I didn't have that kind of opportunity.

01:40:42.720 So these guys make those bad choices.

01:40:45.600 these girls get their feelings hurt and then these guys you know want to burn it all down 0.98

01:40:50.020 and that all comes from just losing social integrity so one of the best quotes i've heard

01:40:56.940 and i don't remember who said it was women rewrote the social contract all the social 1.00

01:41:02.100 contract in the 20th century and men are so and the 21st century is going to be men responding to

01:41:09.780 it yeah what do you think about that i mean it goes in cycles i did uh i don't know if you know

01:41:15.900 what if alt hist but i had a talk with him about this a while back uh what if alt hist is um like

01:41:24.020 what if alternative history so i spoke with him about this and we have a you know cycle of a dead

01:41:32.160 civilization rebuilding hopefully getting a chance to learn and then here i have a communist with a

01:41:37.920 you know shirt that says i'm not sure if i'm allowed to swear free stuff and then um over

01:41:44.440 here we have feminism versus patriarchy and in the middle like you have to actually have balance 1.00

01:41:50.040 when men are too much in charge they make certain mistakes and it gets too rigid when women are too 0.94

01:41:55.600 much in charge they make certain mistakes and it gets too chaotic and i'm pretty sure that you would

01:42:02.860 rather have an extreme masculine order than an extreme feminine one because you just everyone

01:42:07.820 just dies you just go back to the stone age yeah um and we talked about how they are they're just

01:42:16.620 brainwashing to people to believe that all of history was just oppression of women and then 0.91

01:42:22.620 all of a sudden we got feminism and everything is good forever now whereas in reality it alternates

01:42:28.540 a lot. Well, I use this example. So, feminists have rewritten history because I hear women say, 1.00

01:42:35.420 well, back in the 50s and the 60s, men got to work. They got to work if women couldn't.

01:42:41.260 You know that before the 80s, 50% of our economy was agricultural and manufacturing. How do you

01:42:47.660 think the suburbs got built? See, women think that it was all like madmen and men were in suits and 1.00

01:42:54.460 offices know men work hard hard physically laborious jobs in factories 12 hours a day

01:43:02.140 five days a week for 30 years okay and women have fallen in love with this idea of working 1.00

01:43:10.940 and a lot of them they go out there they give their best years for childbearing years and their

01:43:16.620 best years for some jobs that can care less about them and then they went out by the time they're

01:43:21.500 35 yeah lawyers like they'll spend all that money and all that time getting to

01:43:26.000 be a lawyer to do it for a few years and go I don't like it we've been CEOs the

01:43:29.900 average male CEOs career is seven to nine years average female CEO is two to

01:43:34.400 three years but these women claw their way to the top and say yeah no thanks 1.00

01:43:37.880 that's why we have a healthcare crisis over 52% of medical students are women 0.99

01:43:44.140 and over half of them are going to leave the career field when they have a kid

01:43:48.740 by the time they hit 45 i call it the great experiment women want to try on being a man 0.99

01:43:54.820 but they don't really want to smoke yeah they want i i made a really good tweet about that

01:43:59.860 i think it might be in my book i'm about to release a tweet book um it was about how women 1.00

01:44:06.660 want to be like men because they imagine that men just have great lives they imagine that men just

01:44:11.460 get up and have like a turkish bathrobe handed to them and you know uh they they go to work and they

01:44:18.020 put their feet up on a desk and smoke a cigar they they imagine that men have all these privileges

01:44:22.980 with no responsibilities agreed yeah and so they reach for this imaginary life that none of us

01:44:28.980 actually have because again like this is why this is why dating relates so much to politics and

01:44:35.780 society it's because they're imagining themselves equal to the men that they want to date so they

01:44:42.820 only look at the top men and they go what did those guys have i should have that they don't

01:44:47.220 want to be equal to the bottom 80 of men because those guys are miserable so to answer your question

01:44:54.340 directly i would say that what we're looking at right now i think you said in the 21st century

01:45:00.100 we're looking at a pretty high likelihood of a male backlash um what if all this says this

01:45:06.420 too he has a video on it called the coming incel uprising i think um and yeah all the signs are

01:45:14.180 there you know men are just getting really sick of it and not participating anymore so

01:45:18.820 would you call them see because uprising means of that that there's going to be some kind of

01:45:23.620 action because here's the thing a lot of feminists think that um men hating women is the worst thing 1.00

01:45:30.580 that could happen and i don't think so i think apathy is i think i suppose so and that's why

01:45:37.460 i think this is headed because one of the best things i've heard was greg adams was on a podcast

01:45:43.220 and um he he was going off he was cooking right and uh the the producer was some 21 year old girl

01:45:50.580 and he's like well don't you have a daughter how dare you say all this stuff what do you say to

01:45:54.340 your daughter he said you know she's in her teens i don't say anything because anything i say to her

01:45:59.140 she's gonna do the the exact opposite yeah she's gonna have to make her mistakes and when she makes

01:46:04.340 enough mistakes she's gonna have to come to her dad and then she's she's gonna listen and that's

01:46:08.100 what's gonna happen with women women are gonna have them men are gonna have to disengage women 1.00

01:46:12.900 i'm gonna have to make enough mistakes and then come back and that's what happened yep yeah and

01:46:17.620 it's it's happened over and over again i keep forgetting to memorize or at least write down

01:46:24.020 where and when it happened but i believe that that happened in the arab world

01:46:27.380 and that is why islam is so viciously uh controlling of women because they had they 1.00

01:46:32.580 like this happened to them really really bad the women said we want to be lawyers and we

01:46:36.820 want to participate in everything and uh you know they got overrun by barbarians it's just exactly 1.00

01:46:41.700 the same thing that's happening here. They give up on everything. They get overrun. Everything

01:46:46.700 gets destroyed. They have a really bad time. And then they, whoever's left, whoever remains after

01:46:51.280 that, they say, well, we can never do that again. So now we're going to make a religion where you

01:46:56.060 have to wear a bag on your head all the time. And it survives to this day. So yeah, we'll see how

01:47:04.200 bad we have it. We've got a lot of modern conveniences to help us through it, but that

01:47:08.160 could be used against us too it's just too much to predict you know do you think that that there's

01:47:12.980 going to be like a tipping point where where women are going to have to start saying that the 1.00

01:47:19.200 great experiment isn't working maybe working all these hours and having ivf and stuff is going to

01:47:24.520 work what what is it going to take do you think the tipping point is going to be there's there's

01:47:29.440 going to be a critical mass of millennial women who wake up one day and realize there is no chance 1.00

01:47:35.360 There is, I am not finding the dream man. I'm not having kids. I'm 48. I have to stop dreaming

01:47:40.900 about IVF. There is, uh, there's no getting back the time that I lost. I think that there's,

01:47:48.240 I I'm just remembering all the women, my age that I dated when I was in my twenties and how I really

01:47:54.620 like, there were a lot of them that I just wanted to keep and they were playing these games and

01:47:59.020 they wanted to have fun. And they, you know, I'm just wondering what's going to happen in a few

01:48:04.680 years when there's absolutely no ability that they have left to pretend that they still have years

01:48:14.040 you know i think that's what's going to be a critical mass of of women who can no longer 1.00

01:48:19.800 lie to themselves okay so then once that happens what because my biggest thing with that is that

01:48:25.960 even if you said millennial women because that means that gen z would be after that do you think

01:48:34.040 i don't think that even when those women hit that they're not going to take much accountability and 0.72

01:48:39.960 then they're still not going to teach their daughters and their daughters after that

01:48:44.040 not to do what they did yeah i i don't think they're going to take accountability i think

01:48:48.200 that when they get to that point where they know that they're never going to get the dream

01:48:52.120 they're probably going to act out in some way they might politically organize and vote for the wrong

01:48:58.440 thing on purpose. They might withdraw from work. They might, there might be some kind of collective

01:49:04.660 because women are so good at collectivizing and now they have TikTok too. It could be like the 1.00

01:49:09.580 4B thing. Do you know 4B? Yeah. Yeah. It's in Korea. Yeah. They could, they could do that.

01:49:15.300 I know it's so ridiculous, but it's, it should be something like that. I think that when they get 0.65

01:49:21.500 to that age where they cannot still lie to themselves and say that there's time,

01:49:26.740 they're going to they'll probably blame it on men just like they're doing already and um come up 0.99

01:49:32.980 with some retaliation that will be just too much to tolerate. Pearl says that there's going to be

01:49:39.180 a large increase in female crime and I would agree with that because here's the thing uh one thing 1.00

01:49:46.000 let me know what you think about this the next 20-30 years especially when you see women in 1.00

01:49:50.960 positions of power uh acquiring more is this this automatic assumption that women are morally 1.00

01:49:58.560 superior because they're women that's gonna go away because women are gonna abuse power just 1.00

01:50:04.640 like men if not more so yeah right so you you're gonna see more women politicians making bad 1.00

01:50:10.960 decisions you can see more women doing fraud all this different stuff and it's really gonna hurt 0.98

01:50:18.480 society because once again we keep giving them the benefit of the doubt because they are women 0.98

01:50:23.600 yeah that is something that uh i was talking to pearl about that a little bit earlier

01:50:28.400 that is something that's built into the subconscious it's built into the human

01:50:31.280 subconscious when we look at women we just go oh pretty cute protect and that's like a visceral

01:50:37.280 it's like a deep bodily reaction the way that women have been have been behaving over the past 1.00

01:50:43.360 few years like the whole believe all women thing and all these all the ridiculous accusations and

01:50:48.400 everything came out that should have been enough to trip something but people just want to view

01:50:53.200 women as innocent but i think that there might be something that overcomes that there might there 1.00

01:50:58.960 might be some series of events that happens that overcomes even the urge to view women as blameless

01:51:05.920 why do you think because on on pro channel over here we always say that women can't stand each 1.00

01:51:11.200 other they really can you know that 50 of women polls say that they'd rather work for a male boss 0.89

01:51:16.640 than a female boss yeah right 80 of workplace bullying is women bullying other women you're 1.00

01:51:23.920 talking about the consciousness the brain why do why can't women stand each other oh man why 1.00

01:51:30.800 because i got a chart for that too because let's go because women know women because they are women 1.00

01:51:37.920 and they know the tricks that they have to play.

01:51:40.520 And so they know the tricks that other women are going to play. 1.00

01:51:43.280 So even when women are being nice to each other, 1.00

01:51:47.120 it can be mean or it can appear mean.

01:51:50.840 This chart, I don't know if it's still on a delay,

01:51:52.760 but it's called Who is a 10 Status Games?

01:51:55.300 It shows how men behave openly and form hierarchies.

01:51:59.840 And they just go, I'm the top dog.

01:52:01.860 My dad knows a congressman. 1.00

01:52:03.300 I'll kick your ass, you know. 1.00

01:52:04.560 But women have to say, oh, you're a 10. 1.00

01:52:07.640 no, you're a 10. No, everyone is, everyone's beautiful. And they, of course, they never say

01:52:12.300 that you're a 10 to the eights, nines, and tens, but they do have to say it back or else they

01:52:16.620 cannot be in the little handholding club where everybody is equal. So women have to play this 1.00

01:52:21.980 equality and fairness game. And that is because they can't, they just can't physically get in

01:52:29.900 fights with each other. They can't manage their conflicts physically like men can.

01:52:34.740 Jordan Peterson talks about this. I can't remember where, but he's got a good clip about how

01:52:39.140 when men are having social conflict, there's always a threat of you might get punched in the

01:52:44.840 face. That is lacking from the female psyche. They rely on other people to do that for them. 1.00

01:52:51.180 That's why they say the woman's weapon is poison. They do their violence in secret and they do it 1.00

01:52:55.980 with lies. This is a false accusation right here. He hurt me even though he didn't.

01:53:00.340 I would take that, but I would also caveat.

01:53:02.880 Remember, 75% of abuse towards elderly and children is women.

01:53:07.040 Yep.

01:53:07.440 75%.

01:53:08.060 This is physical, mental, emotional abuse.

01:53:11.640 And I honestly believe that the only reason why women aren't more abusive is because they don't have the physical strength of men. 1.00

01:53:19.360 If they did, we'd be screwed. 1.00

01:53:20.800 I wish women would be more abusive. 1.00

01:53:24.060 No, seriously. 0.77

01:53:25.260 Because I think if I got into a fight, I think I would win.

01:53:27.920 so i think you've been a good no aren't you like six foot yeah i hope you know i'd prefer to just

01:53:34.980 throw hands over the verbal stuff yeah i just yeah you know you should that'd be great get it

01:53:41.440 on video no but then they'll just press chart it'll never end i know that you can't you can't

01:53:47.460 handle things like a there's just so many living in a nanny state is so disgusting there's so many 0.57

01:53:53.300 conflicts i've had that should have been solved that way and i just knew i couldn't i just knew

01:53:57.740 i had to just go i'm gonna be a bigger man walk away but it doesn't it just doesn't work out like

01:54:02.980 it doesn't work well that way there are people who do things that should be taught lessons but

01:54:07.080 can't so i guess i have one last question would what is your let's say you have a man who's

01:54:15.540 26 years old no let's say he's 28 just graduated law school right so he has undergrad law school

01:54:24.800 and he's like, Oh man, help me with my path in life. What should I do? What would you recommend?

01:54:33.300 What would be your life advice for him? Well, in this case, what I do is I usually

01:54:38.240 hand out a questionnaire. I have a 15 question questionnaire and I ask, where are you from?

01:54:44.480 Where'd you grow up? What are your favorite things? Least favorite things? What are the biggest

01:54:48.180 good things and bad things that have happened to you in your life recently and ever, et cetera,

01:54:52.120 et cetera, et cetera. I have just comprehensive list of questions to get to know who this person

01:54:57.460 is and what they want. I have this, um, I'm not sure if you guys are aware, I have this service

01:55:02.840 called self max, and I have this map for it right here. And basically it uses AI to guide you

01:55:10.740 through, basically you tell the computer what you want, and then it guides you through how you

01:55:16.420 should think about it. And then what actions you're taking, what results you get back from it,

01:55:21.620 and then how you can learn from them. So it guides you in a cycle. So you keep

01:55:25.620 thinking about what you want and trying to go get it, seeing how it works, changing your course.

01:55:32.640 And it helps you grow and learn as a person. This is something that I made to go along with

01:55:39.760 the life coaching that I used to do. It's kind of replaced the life coaching. I haven't done

01:55:43.340 that in a while. I want to, but I haven't done it in a while. So it would be a really,

01:55:48.760 really long conversation you so you said he was 26 just got out of law school who wants to know

01:55:53.320 what to do 28 28 graduated law school okay and another caveat um he was he was in a college

01:56:02.440 town but he's moving to a tier one city so let's say he's moving yeah let's say he's moving to new

01:56:09.480 york city so so let's say he went to like a a university of like vermont like a you know a

01:56:16.040 a Burlington University of Vermont, kind of Burlington, or, you know, kind of a 50, 60,000

01:56:25.820 city that has a major university, and now he's moving to New York City? Okay. I would say the

01:56:32.760 first thing that you need to do is get a really good idea of why you're going to New York City

01:56:37.520 and what you want to find there. What do you want to come out of your life in the next five years,

01:56:43.700 in the next 10 years, in the next 20 years. Um, how much of that do you know, figure that out.

01:56:50.000 If you don't know it here, I would, I would, I have an exercise here. I called life storming.

01:56:54.540 It's like brainstorming, but for your whole life, I would say, here's an exercise to figure that

01:56:58.760 out. Once you know what it is that you're doing, figure out where it's going to come from, uh,

01:57:05.220 in the city, or if you have to leave the city, like I lived in New York city, once I had to

01:57:09.240 leave pretty quick because I could not find much of the stuff that I wanted there.

01:57:12.580 i would imagine yikes yeah so you gotta know if you want to be married if you want to have kids

01:57:21.480 if you want to live in the mountains if you want to live in a penthouse like you have to

01:57:24.860 know those things as early as possible and of course they can always change but you have to

01:57:30.780 know what you're going towards like don't just go to the city and cross your fingers

01:57:34.320 that would be my first piece of advice okay that's good advice yeah now would you

01:57:41.800 do you ask things in the context of like you need to have definitive answers or do you ask

01:57:48.200 yes or no questions to to kind of force him to to to start on that path of making in the session

01:57:55.020 i would just like walk them through what is it that you're feeling what is it that you want what's

01:58:00.620 getting in your way and and the best way to spend time in a session is i knock those things loose

01:58:05.200 so people just are not paying attention to how they're not thinking correctly and i can

01:58:09.100 just kind of untwist those wires and then they can go figure out what it is they want in their

01:58:16.600 own time but um yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't like sit with somebody until they say what they want

01:58:23.800 i would just give them the uh exercises and like do your journaling and make sure you write it down

01:58:29.480 make sure that you um know that you want to go towards it make sure that once you try it if you

01:58:35.180 don't like it or if it doesn't work you feel comfortable replacing it uh yeah it would be

01:58:40.140 more about the structure of it than actually getting to do it in the session yeah that's

01:58:45.300 awesome awesome i know that's awesome sorry the mic we had like a rainstorm mid this it was kind

01:58:51.900 of muting and unmuting because it's messing with the audio i didn't notice no way yeah cool

01:58:57.740 home at thank you i've been a big fan for years when she said that you were coming on the show

01:59:03.020 i couldn't wait because you're you found your own lane on youtube your work is fantastic man

01:59:10.060 thank you for doing what you're doing thank you appreciate that yeah and you're especially winning

01:59:15.480 because your face isn't even out there i know that's awesome i'm loving it see i'm a woman i

01:59:22.720 didn't think about the you know doug mpa says to me all the time he's like you know you're really

01:59:27.380 you're really brave for putting your face out there and i'm like doug mpa i didn't think about

01:59:30.900 it yeah what happens to you what's the worst that you got uh well i was demonetized for a year and

01:59:38.380 a half so i was basically unemployed um but why why does it have to do with your face oh you mean

01:59:44.780 like um well it's just it would be tough to get another job oh sure yeah because the whale attack

01:59:51.780 happened remember yeah oh i forgot that happened yeah the there was a woman who tried to attack me 1.00

01:59:59.060 the streets um there was i got screamed i get screamed out on occasion but not that's not too

02:00:05.540 much um yeah like one time i've gotten a few email threats so i don't know i don't know how much that

02:00:12.340 would become real no i met like in public like i was on the street in atlanta and somebody just

02:00:18.100 started screaming at me in the middle of the street it was so weird it's fun it's not how

02:00:22.660 you want to get recognized well i mean i'd say it's mostly like positive like and if it's negative

02:00:28.980 like sometimes there'll be people that'll pretend they're fans and they'll go online and be like i

02:00:33.460 saw pearl shoes so this or that you know what i mean but it's not like most people aren't going

02:00:38.180 to directly say so but the but it is like if i was to go back into the workforce which i did have to

02:00:47.860 think about at one point so yeah you know i was just like the employable thing yeah yeah yeah

02:00:55.140 that's so funny i'm just trying to stack enough money so that if i um if i ever have to i can

02:01:00.720 just like eat ramen noodles for 20 years yeah get a homestead out in the woods and yeah and cook

02:01:09.100 your cans of tuna and your cans of dog food like mad max hobo beans yeah exactly just know the

02:01:16.300 guidelines if they gave you a wrap make sure you're working with them to really know the

02:01:20.740 guidelines because everyone gave me a rap rap like a rap from youtube sometimes you get a direct

02:01:26.460 rap not oh it's like once your account hits a certain point you can directly communicate with

02:01:31.280 them okay so yeah i'll have to look into that yeah i haven't gotten any strikes or anything

02:01:35.940 though yeah it's you're pretty i i can't foresee that happening to you but yeah you know especially

02:01:42.320 with the current administration yeah yeah yeah i'm careful i'm a good boy sometimes most of the

02:01:48.460 time well thanks so much for coming on i had so much fun did you have fun yeah yeah i was it was

02:01:56.460 really fun talking to you i was i was looking forward to that for i i actually was wondering

02:02:00.820 if one day i would talk to pearl before i ever started home math and so i got to it was pretty

02:02:05.700 cool yeah uh we do show we do call-in shows so if you ever see a topic and you think it applies

02:02:12.080 feel free to call in on any topic we love having all right reoccurring guests so all right yeah

02:02:18.140 that sounds great like friday is hiv and herpes so if you know anyone with that call and tell the

02:02:23.480 story all right i'll get a panel together we won't ask you how you know just go ahead and share

02:02:31.260 stories yeah yeah okay well um where can the people find you and support your work so you

02:02:39.520 can find me you can just type in ho e underscore m a t h on any of the social medias that's youtube

02:02:47.580 tiktok instagram i am it is ho math on x and um i have a link tree which you can find it's the

02:02:58.140 it's the only link i have on any of these it's link ter dot ee slash h o e underscore m a t h

02:03:07.260 and i have all kinds of stuff you can buy merch and charts and coffee table book with all my fun

02:03:12.620 drawings and the self max service and lots and lots of i'm into lots of stuff and it's all great

02:03:18.300 so awesome well thank you so much for coming um thank you for having me everybody make sure you

02:03:24.940 go check out his work go don't be cheap go buy a chart or something you know what i mean yeah

02:03:30.700 as a thank you for coming um let me see if there's any super chats left just did i miss

02:03:35.820 any doug mpa were there more yeah i was dealing with the audio issue for a second well i was like

02:03:41.420 do i mute do i not mute yeah there's a couple okay um

02:03:48.300 that's not it's not refreshing on this one i don't know why

02:03:53.580 oh here we go all right we got oh let me refresh this

02:04:01.660 oh here we go okay um if we create greater stigma by showing the successful families i think they'll

02:04:07.980 They'll do what they always do, make it a trend and basically make dating average guys fashionable simply to gloat to the single moms with three baby daddies. 1.00

02:04:15.680 I don't see that happening at all.

02:04:17.420 I don't.

02:04:18.080 But, you know, do you see it happening?

02:04:20.320 If there was a way to do it, that's how it would work.

02:04:23.220 Like women are really strongly motivated to fit in and do the thing and, you know, be in the group.

02:04:28.320 uh if we could make it fashionable like if we could somehow praise families and mothers and

02:04:34.520 make it like uh uh you know popular to be a mom more women would do it i don't know how 0.99

02:04:42.680 nothing is more important to modern women than their own selfish desires dude yeah i think 1.00

02:04:48.060 nothing it'll be too lazy it's just that's my that's my my prediction but maybe i'm more

02:04:53.640 blackpilled than you you know yeah yeah i i don't know i mean i i see what you're saying i just don't

02:05:00.300 know what's going to happen yeah they believe all men have ashton hall mornings okay jethro the

02:05:07.200 gender doesn't matter you either extrovert or introvert is the main influence extrovert gets 1.00

02:05:12.520 charged up introverts gets charged down around people do you think that's true or not true

02:05:18.280 what about extrovert introvert or that it doesn't relate to gender sex uh

02:05:23.900 i would say both that's i just read what he said well what he said about introverts and extroverts

02:05:30.540 was true that is what that means but um yeah no i don't know if there's actually any difference

02:05:36.260 if there's any consistency of who of which sex is more or less i can't remember well don't we say

02:05:42.860 like 80 more words a day or something like that women yeah i think so you also have to be careful

02:05:49.660 of so i have a sibling who's an introvert so i and she's been an introvert her entire life so i

02:05:57.160 know what an actual introvert is but people are lazy especially women so women use introvertedness 1.00

02:06:02.420 as a mask to be lazy and not reciprocate what's necessary for dating or friendship

02:06:07.220 so guys be careful if a woman says oh oh i'm an introvert it means don't call me i'll call you

02:06:13.360 wait by the phone yeah and autistic too some of them say they're autistic when they mean i

02:06:18.760 lack social skills yeah exactly yeah i know they call everybody autistic these days yeah even when

02:06:25.620 you said it earlier even when you said it earlier i was like come on the real autistic guys do you 0.72

02:06:31.120 know what i mean they're the ones that can barely talk they call everyone yeah they're not the real

02:06:36.240 autistic guys are not communicating with people i think when they when they say autistic what they

02:06:40.940 mean is um just like doing more than me in a way that i find irritating you know people will look

02:06:50.260 at my charts and they'll say that they're autistic and it's like you just couldn't do that

02:06:53.300 yeah or or remember people want you to obey their rules socially or or like in in a space

02:07:06.060 or in a conversation so it's

02:07:08.080 it's a way for them to get you to

02:07:10.400 obey their rules okay so

02:07:12.040 I need you to communicate in a way that's safe

02:07:14.220 for me but not for you because I'm autistic

02:07:16.520 just laziness

02:07:17.520 it's laziness yep for sure

02:07:20.140 yeah for sure I agree

02:07:21.980 well thank you guys

02:07:23.860 so much for being on today I really enjoyed the

02:07:26.180 conversation feel free to call

02:07:28.200 at any time when we do shows we'd love to

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Pearl - July 11, 2025

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