Pearl - Homeless Single Moms Continue to Take The L

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're going to be reacting to homeless single

00:00:06.000 mothers. Gen X women lied to their daughters. These were women that married men early, 1.00

00:00:11.680 usually in their early 20s, had children inside of marriage and lived partnered with men. Don't

00:00:18.820 be like me. These women told their daughters, live your life, be free. You don't need a husband. 0.72

00:00:23.920 Men are evil. Go and do it all by yourself. The daughters took this advice to heart and chose 0.98

00:00:30.860 to forego relationships to get some useless degrees, put themselves in a bunch of debt, 1.00

00:00:36.800 and have bastard kids. What do you get when you mix worthless jobs, debt, and single motherhood? 0.99

00:00:43.600 Homeless single mothers. 85% of homeless families are headed by single mothers.

00:00:49.440 Let's take a look at some of these women. 1.00

00:00:53.920 Okay, wait. Let's make this. Oh. I'm going to plug it up. Okay.

00:01:08.120 We are day one. We are now homeless. I am a single mom of two girls post-divorce at 45,

00:01:18.560 and we've been renting a house after relocating to the suburbs of Chicago.

00:01:26.320 After three and a half years, the owners decided to sell, and I have been looking

00:01:32.660 for a new place to live for the last couple of months. I recently did a post on Facebook

00:01:41.220 about how quick your life can unravel, and my mom asked me, how did you let this happen?

00:01:50.740 It's really not very hard.

00:01:52.120 Women are like Oprah. You know how Oprah used to say, you get a car, you get a car, you get 1.00

00:02:06.900 a car. Women give out terms to men, like you're a narcissist, you're a narcissist, you're a narcissist. 1.00

00:02:13.580 Which, it's probably the most difficult process you can go through. It took three years, over $150,000.

00:02:22.140 And I want to say I lost everything because I got my kids, and that was the only thing that mattered.

00:02:36.140 But I didn't get assets. I didn't get any financial stability. Actually, quite the opposite. I got

00:02:43.580 all of our joint debt. I got very little child support. I ate it all just to be done,

00:02:51.420 and just, just to be free. And that's fine with me.

00:02:57.060 It's always fine with them until they're homeless. Do you know what I mean? It's like,

00:03:01.600 I don't think women understand the reality of what it's like to be a single parent. And you see all 1.00

00:03:06.320 these women on TikTok. They think it's going to be like hot girl summer. Now you're homeless in a park. 1.00

00:03:12.940 I can rebuild, and I can come back from this. That's how we got here. Everybody knows the prices,

00:03:21.420 because of everything are skyrocketing. I have been, I don't want to say struggling, but it's been

00:03:30.500 hard to rebuild, you know, my, my business. I started a new business. I'm sure, I'm sure that

00:03:37.940 will be blamed for, you know, where I am now. But, but it was all the right thing to do. I've

00:03:44.720 found my voice. I've found my passion. I now share. Only women are told that we can make our passion

00:03:51.900 our job. Most people don't get to, it's a hobby. It doesn't get to be their job. But

00:04:00.840 women, we're told we can have it all. We can just do whatever we want. Men are told to

00:04:04.760 make money, you know, openly, which is causing a lot of issues with my family. So I didn't get an

00:04:16.420 offer to stay with anyone in my family. And that's very discouraging. I'm staying with a friend who

00:04:26.120 has graciously opened up his home to, you know, a struggling single mom of two girls.

00:04:35.060 Big heart, thank you so much. It was funny yesterday when I was frantically cleaning the

00:04:40.780 house and getting all the last loads taken care of. I found this piece of paper that I used to keep

00:04:46.440 by my bedside and I kept it in my pocket all day yesterday. And it said, you know, one day you will

00:04:51.520 share your story that will be someone else's roadmap. And, you know, I first started talking

00:04:59.980 about my personal story in conjunction with lingerie briefs and in their online magazine. And it was

00:05:07.760 published last October. That was difficult. That's when, you know, a lot of rifts started happening.

00:05:17.360 Those are family secrets. You're not supposed to let them out. And I did. I would say it started a lot

00:05:24.920 of this. So, yeah. So she also burned a bridge with the one people that are supposed to be able to help

00:05:33.840 her. This is hard. It was really interesting yesterday too, because I, you know, I get a lot

00:05:42.000 of support from friends and people that are watching my journey, but I didn't get so much reach outs

00:05:48.600 as, I guess I didn't get the type of reach outs that I was expecting yesterday. You know, support. I hear

00:05:55.120 you got this all the time, right? Do you know what? The women think everything's about them. They think 1.00

00:06:00.360 the world revolves around their problems. Does she not think that the other people in her life have

00:06:05.860 problems too? I got, I got calls for help from other people that were either experiencing the same

00:06:14.340 issues, they were in the same position, or I got asked to help other domestic violence victims. So I

00:06:24.820 know I, I need to keep going. I need to keep doing this. I'm on the right path. And you know, this,

00:06:34.180 this is an interesting journey and I don't know where it's going to lead. And I know that should be

00:06:40.420 terrifying, but we're just trying to stay positive. And this is a new chapter, new adventures. We'll get

00:06:48.660 through this. We do have applications in and we're waiting to hear if we have a new place to live.

00:06:58.180 So now it's just a waiting game. This is a tough transition, but I'm sure it's necessary. So I'm

00:07:07.700 going to try to do better about posting. I've been shy and nervous about sharing publicly, but

00:07:18.660 I think yesterday just proved. All right. What single mom is next? We got this lady. 1.00

00:07:26.500 She's for sale guys. I mean, DM them a price. Kids to sleep off. They're homeless, single mothers. 0.99

00:07:32.420 They're for sale. If you're interested. Melatonin. Like I got somebody coming over.

00:07:36.580 Oh, this is the shelter. I got a curfew and all that. It's Friday night and I can't go nowhere,

00:07:41.060 but here. So since we're here, let's talk about it. Y'all show is hard up in them comments,

00:07:45.060 but in real life, I gave up everything to be in this shelter. No, a man ain't put no ring on his

00:07:49.460 finger yet, but guess what? He will. Someone will do it. She's not wrong. You know what I used to say,

00:08:01.460 I used to say, what kind of man is going to do that? Do you guys know how scarce sex is? I promise

00:08:08.500 to God. Some man will say, all right, she's got a fat ass. Good enough. Good enough. Y'all only fans 1.00

00:08:14.580 and I'm not what I'm really sacrificing for my kids. Wow. I need a cookie, but of course,

00:08:20.260 y'all not going to give it to me. That's okay. I'll bake them. Speaking of baking. Oh,

00:08:24.180 y'all was on me about the food in my refrigerator. Okay. It wasn't none. Just like I got to take out

00:08:29.300 the trash and there's pillows everywhere. Okay. I got bad ass kids. I told y'all, but bam,

00:08:34.180 I got food in the refrigerator. So how you like me now? Huh? Oh, you want my cash app? Oh, okay.

00:08:39.860 That's what I thought. So let me go back to reading my spirit. Oh my God. You should be applying for jobs.

00:08:50.660 That's not a bad, is that a shelter? That's not bad. It looks like she got a whole apartment.

00:08:56.980 Yeah. Her IG is I love Tanya. If you guys want to message her, see what she says. You know,

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00:10:39.300 All right we got the next one. Now I have 10. All right 10 weeks about to 10 days about to be homeless

00:10:46.980 again she's 37 weeks pregnant. 10 days to get out my mom's house. I noticed yesterday that I literally

00:10:52.900 have 10 days to pack up all my stuff because I am not on her lease or anything like that and she was

00:10:58.420 just helping me out for the time being until I find a place. But I guess her landlord is not gonna wait

00:11:03.300 even though I'm gonna have the baby in two weeks and knows my situation. She found my TikTok also.

00:11:07.620 So I have 10 days to leave and two weeks I'll be having my c-section having my baby. I've been

00:11:12.100 applying places here and there but still no luck. I've been applying for places, paying for application

00:11:18.020 fees, deposit fees, and still nothing. I'm actually waiting on two more this week. This one's the third

00:11:23.620 place that we looked at. I got to take my kids this time and they loved it. But I did mention that they

00:11:28.180 should not get their hopes up because yeah it's rough out here trying to get a place as a single

00:11:32.980 mom with four boys. So in the meantime I'm gonna keep applying places. Oh my god if you're on the

00:11:40.260 verge of being homeless why would you have another child? What would be the... I know you get child

00:11:45.860 support but you know kids cost money. This is keep praying that I find a home soon because if I don't

00:11:53.620 find a place this week I'm gonna be back in my car or back in hotels which I didn't want to

00:11:58.020 do in the first place. But living in a hotel with a newborn is better than living in my car with a

00:12:02.820 newborn and healing from my c-section. So in the meantime I'm trying to distract my kids. What's

00:12:07.460 going on? I don't want them to worry about me because they do especially my two oldest and they

00:12:12.100 have their dad. So they are okay no matter what happens. They will be with their dad. All four kids

00:12:16.900 are good in their dad's hands while I'm trying to figure out where me and the baby are gonna go. Because

00:12:22.100 I'm doing it alone with this baby without the sperm donor. It's just me and the baby that we had to figure out.

00:12:27.060 I'm gonna leave. Can you imagine? You divorce your ex and now she's homeless. She's someone else's problems 0.76

00:12:35.940 or she leaves you and now she's homeless. Leave it in God's hands and just keep praying and just

00:12:40.580 keep distracting my kids of course. Act like nothing's happening. My kids is what keeps me going. I never

00:12:46.020 gave up on them. I never stopped and I won't stop no matter what comes in my way. And for those people that

00:12:51.380 keep telling me to look through my resources here in this little town I have and I got emails that

00:12:56.580 they're not taking anybody right now. I'm on a waiting list for the public housing and that's

00:13:00.740 a two-year waiting list and I even train Cara and Cara's not taking any more people until July which

00:13:06.180 that's not going to help me here at the end. It's May. I need a place now. So in the meantime I'm gonna

00:13:10.980 keep applying places and um my next video you'll probably see me in my car um until I have the baby.

00:13:18.260 I will be staying at a hotel you guys if I can't get approved anywhere here. So wish me luck.

00:13:25.300 Okay let's see what's next. Um we got moved into my second hotel with my daughter as a homeless teen 0.94

00:13:35.620 mom. Look and I actually do have empathy. I know a lot of people have tough situations

00:13:41.220 but I don't understand why if you're in a tough situation you would have a child in the middle of it.

00:13:51.140 With all of the choices of contraception nowadays I just don't know if there's an excuse to be a

00:13:58.820 especially a pregnant single mom. Okay guys so this is our second hotel. 0.99

00:14:06.260 I think I like this one way better than the first one I was purchasing because this one just feels more

00:14:11.940 homey like it has carpet.

00:14:17.620 So I'm liking it. I bought a gate so my daughter can't get out. This girl, she'd be running everywhere. 1.00

00:14:25.220 So let's put the. Those were great. Yeah they do. All right let's get everything

00:14:32.820 up here because I have a lot of stuff. So this is what three weeks as an 18 year old teen mom looks

00:14:40.180 like. Also most of that being the box under her all her toys, dirty clothes, laundry, so like cleaning 1.00

00:14:49.700 supplies, Tupperware and then behind there are just my clothes. So just a little bit of

00:14:55.220 I had to add in a new microwave because they didn't have one dead meat.

00:15:00.260 I couldn't be more thankful when you got everything up here.

00:15:05.540 All right guys would you date a woman? Let's say she's not a single mother but she's homeless. Are 0.99

00:15:10.980 you down? Are you going to do it or no? Let me know in the comments. Please like the video on your

00:15:16.820 way out and subscribe to the channel. I do wish luck to all of these women but they are for sale fellas. 1.00

00:15:21.300 Feel free to DM them. Not actually. That's illegal. Not actually. But like the video on your way out.

00:15:27.060 Subscribe to the channel. I'll see you next time.

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Pearl - June 28, 2025

Homeless Single Moms Continue to Take The L

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