Pearl - June 28, 2025Homeless Single Moms Continue to Take The L
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Summary
Gen X women lied to their daughters. These were women that married men early, usually in their early 20s, had children inside of marriage and lived partnered with men. These women told their daughters, live your life, be free, go and do it all by yourself. The daughters took this advice to heart and chose to forego relationships to get some useless degrees, put themselves in a bunch of debt, and have bastard kids. What do you get when you mix worthless jobs, debt and single motherhood? Homeless single mothers.
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What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're going to be reacting to homeless single
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mothers. Gen X women lied to their daughters. These were women that married men early,
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usually in their early 20s, had children inside of marriage and lived partnered with men. Don't
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be like me. These women told their daughters, live your life, be free. You don't need a husband.
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Men are evil. Go and do it all by yourself. The daughters took this advice to heart and chose
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to forego relationships to get some useless degrees, put themselves in a bunch of debt,
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and have bastard kids. What do you get when you mix worthless jobs, debt, and single motherhood?
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Homeless single mothers. 85% of homeless families are headed by single mothers.
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Okay, wait. Let's make this. Oh. I'm going to plug it up. Okay.
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We are day one. We are now homeless. I am a single mom of two girls post-divorce at 45,
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and we've been renting a house after relocating to the suburbs of Chicago.
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After three and a half years, the owners decided to sell, and I have been looking
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for a new place to live for the last couple of months. I recently did a post on Facebook
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about how quick your life can unravel, and my mom asked me, how did you let this happen?
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Women are like Oprah. You know how Oprah used to say, you get a car, you get a car, you get
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a car. Women give out terms to men, like you're a narcissist, you're a narcissist, you're a narcissist.
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Which, it's probably the most difficult process you can go through. It took three years, over $150,000.
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And I want to say I lost everything because I got my kids, and that was the only thing that mattered.
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But I didn't get assets. I didn't get any financial stability. Actually, quite the opposite. I got
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all of our joint debt. I got very little child support. I ate it all just to be done,
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and just, just to be free. And that's fine with me.
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It's always fine with them until they're homeless. Do you know what I mean? It's like,
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I don't think women understand the reality of what it's like to be a single parent. And you see all
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these women on TikTok. They think it's going to be like hot girl summer. Now you're homeless in a park.
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I can rebuild, and I can come back from this. That's how we got here. Everybody knows the prices,
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because of everything are skyrocketing. I have been, I don't want to say struggling, but it's been
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hard to rebuild, you know, my, my business. I started a new business. I'm sure, I'm sure that
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will be blamed for, you know, where I am now. But, but it was all the right thing to do. I've
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found my voice. I've found my passion. I now share. Only women are told that we can make our passion
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our job. Most people don't get to, it's a hobby. It doesn't get to be their job. But
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women, we're told we can have it all. We can just do whatever we want. Men are told to
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make money, you know, openly, which is causing a lot of issues with my family. So I didn't get an
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offer to stay with anyone in my family. And that's very discouraging. I'm staying with a friend who
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has graciously opened up his home to, you know, a struggling single mom of two girls.
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Big heart, thank you so much. It was funny yesterday when I was frantically cleaning the
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house and getting all the last loads taken care of. I found this piece of paper that I used to keep
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by my bedside and I kept it in my pocket all day yesterday. And it said, you know, one day you will
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share your story that will be someone else's roadmap. And, you know, I first started talking
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about my personal story in conjunction with lingerie briefs and in their online magazine. And it was
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published last October. That was difficult. That's when, you know, a lot of rifts started happening.
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Those are family secrets. You're not supposed to let them out. And I did. I would say it started a lot
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of this. So, yeah. So she also burned a bridge with the one people that are supposed to be able to help
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her. This is hard. It was really interesting yesterday too, because I, you know, I get a lot
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of support from friends and people that are watching my journey, but I didn't get so much reach outs
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as, I guess I didn't get the type of reach outs that I was expecting yesterday. You know, support. I hear
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you got this all the time, right? Do you know what? The women think everything's about them. They think
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the world revolves around their problems. Does she not think that the other people in her life have
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problems too? I got, I got calls for help from other people that were either experiencing the same
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issues, they were in the same position, or I got asked to help other domestic violence victims. So I
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know I, I need to keep going. I need to keep doing this. I'm on the right path. And you know, this,
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this is an interesting journey and I don't know where it's going to lead. And I know that should be
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terrifying, but we're just trying to stay positive. And this is a new chapter, new adventures. We'll get
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through this. We do have applications in and we're waiting to hear if we have a new place to live.
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So now it's just a waiting game. This is a tough transition, but I'm sure it's necessary. So I'm
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going to try to do better about posting. I've been shy and nervous about sharing publicly, but
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I think yesterday just proved. All right. What single mom is next? We got this lady.
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She's for sale guys. I mean, DM them a price. Kids to sleep off. They're homeless, single mothers.
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They're for sale. If you're interested. Melatonin. Like I got somebody coming over.
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Oh, this is the shelter. I got a curfew and all that. It's Friday night and I can't go nowhere,
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but here. So since we're here, let's talk about it. Y'all show is hard up in them comments,
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but in real life, I gave up everything to be in this shelter. No, a man ain't put no ring on his
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finger yet, but guess what? He will. Someone will do it. She's not wrong. You know what I used to say,
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I used to say, what kind of man is going to do that? Do you guys know how scarce sex is? I promise
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to God. Some man will say, all right, she's got a fat ass. Good enough. Good enough. Y'all only fans
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and I'm not what I'm really sacrificing for my kids. Wow. I need a cookie, but of course,
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y'all not going to give it to me. That's okay. I'll bake them. Speaking of baking. Oh,
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y'all was on me about the food in my refrigerator. Okay. It wasn't none. Just like I got to take out
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the trash and there's pillows everywhere. Okay. I got bad ass kids. I told y'all, but bam,
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I got food in the refrigerator. So how you like me now? Huh? Oh, you want my cash app? Oh, okay.
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That's what I thought. So let me go back to reading my spirit. Oh my God. You should be applying for jobs.
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That's not a bad, is that a shelter? That's not bad. It looks like she got a whole apartment.
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Yeah. Her IG is I love Tanya. If you guys want to message her, see what she says. You know,
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I have talked in the past about my struggles with food and sugar. I was just like all of you. I would
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stress eat, celebrate milestones and good times of sugar and greasy foods. I would go on a vacation
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All right we got the next one. Now I have 10. All right 10 weeks about to 10 days about to be homeless
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again she's 37 weeks pregnant. 10 days to get out my mom's house. I noticed yesterday that I literally
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have 10 days to pack up all my stuff because I am not on her lease or anything like that and she was
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just helping me out for the time being until I find a place. But I guess her landlord is not gonna wait
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even though I'm gonna have the baby in two weeks and knows my situation. She found my TikTok also.
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So I have 10 days to leave and two weeks I'll be having my c-section having my baby. I've been
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applying places here and there but still no luck. I've been applying for places, paying for application
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fees, deposit fees, and still nothing. I'm actually waiting on two more this week. This one's the third
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place that we looked at. I got to take my kids this time and they loved it. But I did mention that they
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should not get their hopes up because yeah it's rough out here trying to get a place as a single
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mom with four boys. So in the meantime I'm gonna keep applying places. Oh my god if you're on the
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verge of being homeless why would you have another child? What would be the... I know you get child
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support but you know kids cost money. This is keep praying that I find a home soon because if I don't
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find a place this week I'm gonna be back in my car or back in hotels which I didn't want to
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do in the first place. But living in a hotel with a newborn is better than living in my car with a
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newborn and healing from my c-section. So in the meantime I'm trying to distract my kids. What's
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going on? I don't want them to worry about me because they do especially my two oldest and they
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have their dad. So they are okay no matter what happens. They will be with their dad. All four kids
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are good in their dad's hands while I'm trying to figure out where me and the baby are gonna go. Because
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I'm doing it alone with this baby without the sperm donor. It's just me and the baby that we had to figure out.
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I'm gonna leave. Can you imagine? You divorce your ex and now she's homeless. She's someone else's problems
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or she leaves you and now she's homeless. Leave it in God's hands and just keep praying and just
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keep distracting my kids of course. Act like nothing's happening. My kids is what keeps me going. I never
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gave up on them. I never stopped and I won't stop no matter what comes in my way. And for those people that
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keep telling me to look through my resources here in this little town I have and I got emails that
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they're not taking anybody right now. I'm on a waiting list for the public housing and that's
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a two-year waiting list and I even train Cara and Cara's not taking any more people until July which
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that's not going to help me here at the end. It's May. I need a place now. So in the meantime I'm gonna
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keep applying places and um my next video you'll probably see me in my car um until I have the baby.
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I will be staying at a hotel you guys if I can't get approved anywhere here. So wish me luck.
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Okay let's see what's next. Um we got moved into my second hotel with my daughter as a homeless teen
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mom. Look and I actually do have empathy. I know a lot of people have tough situations
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but I don't understand why if you're in a tough situation you would have a child in the middle of it.
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With all of the choices of contraception nowadays I just don't know if there's an excuse to be a
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especially a pregnant single mom. Okay guys so this is our second hotel.
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I think I like this one way better than the first one I was purchasing because this one just feels more
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So I'm liking it. I bought a gate so my daughter can't get out. This girl, she'd be running everywhere.
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So let's put the. Those were great. Yeah they do. All right let's get everything
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up here because I have a lot of stuff. So this is what three weeks as an 18 year old teen mom looks
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like. Also most of that being the box under her all her toys, dirty clothes, laundry, so like cleaning
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supplies, Tupperware and then behind there are just my clothes. So just a little bit of
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I had to add in a new microwave because they didn't have one dead meat.
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I couldn't be more thankful when you got everything up here.
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All right guys would you date a woman? Let's say she's not a single mother but she's homeless. Are
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you down? Are you going to do it or no? Let me know in the comments. Please like the video on your
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way out and subscribe to the channel. I do wish luck to all of these women but they are for sale fellas.
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Feel free to DM them. Not actually. That's illegal. Not actually. But like the video on your way out.
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Subscribe to the channel. I'll see you next time.