Pearl - May 24, 2025


＂How I Found Out Women Lie About Abuse Too＂ w⧸ @emilysavesamerica


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

216.08568

Word count

343

Sentence count

14

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Hate speech

1

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Summary

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In this episode of the podcast, we talk about how to deal with people lying about abuse in the press and in the public eye. We also talk about whether or not it's better to call the police when someone lies about abuse.

Transcript

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00:00:00.080 That's when I was interviewing. So I interviewed a thousand people in London.
00:00:04.260 That was kind of how I started my media career. I had like a show there.
00:00:08.700 And one of the things that I didn't realize is how many women lie about abuse. 1.00
00:00:15.300 Because when women would say, oh, my abusive ex-boyfriend, you know, a couple of years ago,
00:00:19.620 my initial reaction is to believe them. Right. Because, you know, when someone's telling you
00:00:24.040 something with a really serious face, you think. Yeah. But then someone in the comments section
00:00:28.260 told me to ask like a couple of questions and so really get the specifics yeah and so I'm like well
00:00:33.760 did you file a police report no no well what happened and what happened would be they would
00:00:39.700 tell the story very out of context for example one girl said that she was thrown down a flight
00:00:45.740 of stairs and I'm like that sounds like a terrible thing yeah that sounds like and so I'm like what
00:00:49.880 but the comments kept saying no no ask her more ask her what led up to it yeah like okay what
00:00:54.500 happened long story short she was trespassing okay he told her to leave yeah and they're at
00:01:01.260 the top of the stairs she started an argument in front of his like five-year-old kid she's like 1.00
00:01:06.340 yelling at him and he's pushing her out of the house and yeah okay maybe like i mean it's not
00:01:12.240 smart you shouldn't touch it you should just never touch people but like at the end of the day like
00:01:16.240 well no he i think it's like morally fine to push someone out of your house you told to leave if
00:01:21.860 It's your home and they're trespassing, yeah.
00:01:24.020 But from like a tactical point of view,
00:01:26.480 it's just better to call the cop, you know,
00:01:28.000 cause then she could.
00:01:28.920 Yeah, if you're doing interviews three months later,
00:01:30.760 you should definitely just call the cop.
00:01:32.780 No, no, no, no, no, I meant like.
00:01:34.400 No, I get it.