Pearl - June 19, 2026


How I Got Redpilled： Men Wife Hoes All the Time


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

182.67

Word count

1,760

Sentence count

64

Harmful content

Misogyny

35

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Toxicity

27

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Hate speech

37

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how I got "red-pilled" and how to deal with it. I also talk about the women in the market and how they should be doing their part to make sure they are getting the most out of their time.

Transcript

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00:00:00.400 What's up, guys? Welcome to my Coffee Talks. Today, we're talking about how I got red-pilled.
00:00:06.100 And I don't know if this is red-pilled or like de-red-pilled, but yeah, I don't know. We'll talk about it.
00:00:11.460 So, when I first got into the space, I said a lot of things like men don't like whores, they don't like sluts, 1.00
00:00:18.840 they don't want to wife hoes, you know, yada yada and the nine. 1.00
00:00:23.700 um and I think I had some type of moral superiority um because I hadn't made a lot of the decisions 1.00
00:00:31.740 that these straight up uh sluts made you know I never slept with a boss to advance my career um 1.00
00:00:38.880 I never um you know slept with multiple people at the same time and I never did a lot of like 1.00
00:00:46.560 the crazy stuff um you know I'm not gonna say I never slept with someone and it didn't work out
00:00:51.880 but like I'd always go in with the intention of trying to have a relationship. Does that make
00:00:56.940 sense? Are we following? So I sort of had a sense of moral superiority because I just thought,
00:01:01.820 you know, all these women are just, you know, sleeping around doing these slutty things. 1.00
00:01:06.820 But one day I really, I sat down and I kind of had this thought that a lot of men think they're 1.00
00:01:12.880 morally superior because they basically like, they think they're morally superior because they
00:01:21.500 don't cheat but they can never do it and I realized with myself you know I thought I was
00:01:26.540 morally superior because I didn't make a lot of these choices but in my 20s I struggled a lot with
00:01:30.940 my weight it's something just an issue I've always had and not that I was ever giant like obese but
00:01:37.320 I've never been like skinny and I have no idea the choices I would make if I was offered to be
00:01:44.800 pooped on in a boat in Dubai you know what I mean it's like the other thing too was I used to say 1.00
00:01:51.260 men don't like old women they don't like slutty women yada yada and that is true they prefer hold 0.99
00:01:57.260 on guys i'm getting still listen don't leave don't leave don't leave okay so 0.99
00:02:06.940 here's the issue we got in the market uh this is gonna be a little bit
00:02:13.340 please don't please be dry erase okay yes all right so here's the issue
00:02:18.220 the other thing i realized when i was looking back was that all the biggest um the most
00:02:25.540 promiscuous women i knew in school were actually married and they were married before me so i was
00:02:30.920 like well i guess they're doing something right you know what i mean so so anyways i don't know
00:02:36.400 i can't say um how it'll work out for them in the long run but
00:02:40.000 right now like um i found out one of the most promiscuous girls
00:02:47.480 was in a longer relationship than all of the less promiscuous like women I knew okay so 0.98
00:02:55.860 I used to think like men they don't wife whores whatever and I think that's like what people want 0.89
00:03:02.480 to believe because it feels better do you know what I mean like it feels nicer to say that these
00:03:09.960 women will have these consequences um but what I would say is to give up on a revenge fantasy 1.00
00:03:15.600 because somebody will always do it. 1.00
00:03:17.220 So let's say here's the guys and the girls.
00:03:19.460 I do apologize for this.
00:03:21.400 I just wiped off some red marker
00:03:23.140 and it didn't come off too.
00:03:24.220 But can we see it?
00:03:25.300 Is this good enough? 0.98
00:03:27.000 So this guy bangs all of these women in college, 1.00
00:03:29.920 let's say, or when they're young 20s. 0.88
00:03:31.640 That's like Dan Balzerian or something.
00:03:34.160 And the girl in the middle bangs three dudes, right? 0.80
00:03:38.260 Like she bangs all three. 1.00
00:03:40.600 Maybe she only bangs this guy 1.00
00:03:43.360 and this girl gets married or something.
00:03:44.920 I don't know.
00:03:45.600 But the woman banging all three guys, just remember, I'm from a sales background, that's three prospects.
00:03:53.060 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:53.780 If these men body count for men, it's not necessarily body count, it's if they know each other.
00:03:59.620 So if girl in the middle or this girl bangs, I don't know, 20 dudes or 30 dudes that don't know each other, odds are somebody's going to do it.
00:04:11.600 The other thing, this guy here is being left out of the marketplace.
00:04:15.600 So even if this girl bangs, I don't know, let's just make, pretend it's like 50 dudes or whatever. 1.00
00:04:22.640 When the girl in the middle or like the super slut is willing to sell, as long as she's not super fat, 1.00
00:04:29.100 there's always going to be somebody that's in the sexless category that if she's just nice and pleasant, 1.00
00:04:36.240 it's going to say, do you know what? She's not sleeping around right now. And that's good enough 1.00
00:04:41.260 for me. That's good enough. Um, because it's going to be too much work to go get a new girl
00:04:47.100 and whatever she's saying, she's sorry or blah, blah, blah. There's always going to be somebody 0.98
00:04:51.700 that does it. And it's going to be, um, waiting for a revenge fantasy is a waste of time
00:05:00.300 because, uh, I've seen women with three baby daddies. Like I know a woman with two baby 0.99
00:05:07.660 daddies. Um, and one was a crackhead and she married a six figure six foot, uh, can't say how 1.00
00:05:15.380 he was, you know, the last six, I don't know about that, but just on paper and objectively like
00:05:20.720 attractive, good looking guy. And you have to see, like, if this guy wants a child, he's just going
00:05:25.820 to have to negotiate with the horse, um, unless he wants to get a surrogate. But in my experience,
00:05:30.940 because I know a lot of men that really would be great fathers and I you know they've had 0.57
00:05:38.100 troubles with women and I tell them to get a surrogate I'm like why don't you guys just 0.99
00:05:41.340 but they won't do it they like can't do it the wrong way for whatever reason even though women 1.00
00:05:46.260 when women are too insufferable for the opposite sex then they just go get IVF but when men are 0.91
00:05:53.560 too insufferable because they're too nice or too good or whatever for the opposite sex they don't 1.00
00:05:59.020 have the balls to go get a surrogate and say, screw you ladies. I'm going to report, you know 1.00
00:06:02.700 what I mean? They just won't do it. So therefore the whores also the other thing not to take into
00:06:12.540 account, men do like routine and familiarity. So if like, if this girl starts banging this guy, 0.99
00:06:19.580 and this is kind of what I would see with the horse, they would start, you know, banging the 0.98
00:06:22.800 dudes at like 20, rack up a bunch. And then when they're ready to sell, uh, they can, you know,
00:06:28.340 to circle the block and find one that had a positive experience you know what i mean 1.00
00:06:32.040 as long as they didn't know each other they're smart whores and they're stupid whores 1.00
00:06:37.340 um stupid whores are the ones that posted on the internet and leave a bunch of evidence and 1.00
00:06:43.660 they're smart whores that just have their fun and graduate you know what i mean i also saw an 1.00
00:06:48.600 epidemic of let's say this girl i would actually say if there was three women um like let's say 1.00
00:06:54.580 these are let's say these are ordered by sluttiness that um there was women that 1.00
00:07:01.380 i would actually say the women that are the least slutty were least likely to get into 1.00
00:07:06.860 relationships because think about it in a way they have higher standards because no man is good 1.00
00:07:11.660 enough um because really there was kind of like three categories of women it would be like 1.00
00:07:17.080 um the the super sluts that like didn't want a relationship and like they weren't looking for 1.00
00:07:23.920 relationship. And it almost like annoyed want them. My eggs are ready. So forgive me. I'm going 1.00
00:07:30.320 to take you with me. Um, it almost annoyed them when they found one. Then there was the ones in
00:07:35.640 the middle who would sleep around in order to get a relationship because you're just not going to
00:07:40.880 have a 100% callback rate. And then there's the women that would try to do it a more traditional 1.00
00:07:45.760 way. And most of them just were not hot enough to ask those prices. Uh, what are we thinking? 1.00
00:07:52.080 this is done. Two more minutes, two more minutes. So that was kind of a red pill for me was that
00:08:01.900 this idea that, um, women aren't going to find a taker as long as they don't get fat, 0.98
00:08:09.260 they pretty much always will. And he will be an above average guy. We can see this with Lily
00:08:13.680 Phillips. We can see this, um, with Mia Khalifa and you can probably see this with your college
00:08:18.880 slut. There will always be a taker. Somebody's going to do it. So if you're waiting for women 1.00
00:08:25.280 to, you know, regret their choices and blah, blah, blah. Um, now you might say, okay, but Pearl, 0.68
00:08:32.000 they're not going to be happy with those men. And to that, I say to you, women aren't happy 1.00
00:08:39.140 with any men. Women get Tom Brady and they're not happy. So you might say, oh, the whores are
00:08:46.040 gonna have a consequence because oh like they're not gonna be happy they could get the guy they 1.00
00:08:50.940 want and they won't be happy so anyways all right guys let me know what you think in the comments
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