Pearl - How I Realized Society Was Not Going to Get Better

00:00:00.000 All right, what's up guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. I'm dealing with some giant file storage

00:00:08.600 issues and I've wasted my day not filming any content. So I thought maybe, you know,

00:00:14.640 while I'm doing this, I'll talk to you guys. So today I want to talk about how I went from

00:00:20.640 being red pilled to being black pilled. Now, there's a lot of disagreement on what red pilled

00:00:29.360 and black-filled means, but I'll tell you what I'm trying to communicate. At one point, I thought

00:00:34.440 that society was going to get better. When I started in the red pill, I kind of had this idea

00:00:41.020 of like a traditional, like society having traditional, traditionalism like coming back,

00:00:48.700 I guess, like abortion getting banned. I don't know, the stable family unit coming back and

00:00:54.980 just having a more like similar upbringing to I don't want to say what I grew up with but it was

00:01:01.520 a little bit more similar um you kind of start to realize that there's just too many incentives

00:01:09.860 in place uh for things to ever go back so I'll give you an example let's talk about sex work so

00:01:17.320 sex work in the last decade since I started has come way more out in the open. Like when I was

00:01:26.140 young, I didn't know a single sex worker. I'd never heard of OnlyFans, never heard any of that

00:01:30.180 stuff. And in a year, a 10 year period, you know, we have politicians running for office that used

00:01:35.240 to do like cam work. And then on top of that, you kind of get to know, like, I actually know

00:01:41.600 people that pay for sex work and also I've met women that do it over the years

00:01:47.480 and you start talking to these people you just realize the incentives are way too strong for

00:01:53.360 example I think the sex worker person that like pays for it spends 5k ish a month on like sugar

00:02:02.660 babies right and that's kind of life-changing money like for a normal young woman 5k a month

00:02:11.540 and I think they only have to see them like one or two times a month, right? So imagine you are

00:02:18.320 a sheltered young woman or you're someone that doesn't want to do that. But you see your friends

00:02:24.560 getting five grand a month every month. They don't have to worry about rent. They don't have to worry

00:02:29.280 about expenses. And you're stuck in like a dead-end job, which most women's jobs are. 1.00

00:02:35.480 um what do you think that they're going to choose even uh you know on paper good woman 1.00

00:02:43.040 you know I mean there's sugar babies getting their college paid for so like girl a that does 0.98

00:02:50.220 the quote-unquote right thing right gets married maybe to an average earning man is going to be in 0.82

00:02:54.860 debt the next 50 years where a girl b that does sex work and then gets married after because men

00:02:59.720 do still marry sex workers after and on top of that a lot of them actually get um proposals from

00:03:06.420 the men that do like the sex work or whatever so anyways um

00:03:12.840 what like you just got to think about the incentives what are they going to pick

00:03:18.260 um working a retail job dead end for 20 years or spending a few years doing sex work and get

00:03:28.720 married after and having the same result. On top of that, there's a whole economy that

00:03:35.440 on social media where they can make careers off of their mistakes. So there's no incentive to do

00:03:40.960 the right thing in the first place because you can just apologize and then make a bunch of money

00:03:45.420 after. Michael Knowles will have you on a show. Why do the right thing when you can do the wrong

00:03:50.080 thing um on top of that when you look at the incentives of what women want at their core 0.91

00:04:00.700 which conservatives kind of deny which is to reproduce and get attention and access to the 1.00

00:04:06.440 highest status men in the world there's really no incentive for women to stop working there's 1.00

00:04:12.080 no incentive for women to uh do the right thing and even if you have like a daughter that you've 0.99

00:04:18.820 raised right um if her friends get it just takes one girl in the friend group to get into it before

00:04:24.280 more are in it you kind of realize that things are cooked now I know what people say like um

00:04:35.760 there's always been declines and things come back together later and you can't really predict where

00:04:42.820 things are gonna go but I just look around and I see all the infrastructure being built

00:04:48.520 around single women so i i see all of the industries that are paid from single women um

00:04:55.060 i always use fitness examples because i'm really into fitness but whether it comes to personal

00:04:59.820 training whether it comes to like townhouse communities that are built for women um and even

00:05:06.640 men that are acting in place of women's husbands so like historically your husband would be the

00:05:13.380 one to give you a plan for your life a business plan if you're going to start one 0.91

00:05:16.500 um he would tell you what to eat in the gym he like he would tell you to do all these things and

00:05:21.860 now um that's really like outsourced you know what i mean like there's too many services that 0.62

00:05:31.720 are going to be offered for women to outsource literally everything you don't have to tell a man

00:05:36.720 about your problems you can get a therapist chat gpt can make you any plan that you want

00:05:41.420 you can get a personal trainer instead of working out with your husband um

00:05:45.000 there's just too much stuff in place and there's going to be individuals that maybe

00:05:50.780 don't do it but I mean in the last five years I don't know about you guys

00:05:56.560 I've seen people that I thought would never get divorced get divorced or like cheat or any of

00:06:02.240 that stuff um and I just think the forces are like too strong and I think that's what God meant

00:06:11.500 I'm not even that religious but he said like the road to heaven is narrow and it's like how many

00:06:17.920 people would do the right thing if whatever they want whether it's love whether it's money or power

00:06:23.860 you don't get it by doing the right thing and there's a lot of pushback from this especially

00:06:29.600 amongst like conservatives but I don't see any evidence that doing the quote-unquote like right

00:06:35.240 thing, results in good things in the long run, especially for women. Um, and I think men view

00:06:47.400 it as like, men are going to view it as, oh, well, women, you're going to have a less stable 1.00

00:06:51.900 life, but women love instability. Women love being unstable. So it's just, I don't think 1.00

00:07:00.580 things are gonna get better and maybe it will like by the time I'm dead but

00:07:06.360 do I think in the next 10 years it's gonna get better not really it's gonna get worse

00:07:13.340 in the next 20 years maybe in the next 30 to 40 but by that time like I'm gonna be so old who

00:07:20.660 gives an f you know what I mean so I don't know maybe I'll react to this video one day and think

00:07:27.500 different but that's just my thought um if you can guys google form in the description for our

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Pearl - July 07, 2026

How I Realized Society Was Not Going to Get Better

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