Pearl - How Men Get SCREWED in Grape Allegations

In this episode, I discuss a recent case where a woman claimed that she was raped in her own apartment complex by her partner after he ejaculated during a polygraph. This is not the same as being held at knife point, being pulled off the side of the road, or being overtaken by a stranger.

00:00:00.000 A married 30-year-old female reported that she had been graped in her apartment complex.

00:00:05.180 During a polygraph, she reported that she had been graped because her partner

00:00:08.700 did not stop ejaculation as he agreed, and she was afraid she was pregnant and her husband was

00:00:15.200 overseas. So essentially, she reported this. They put her under a polygraph and she cracked. Now,

00:00:20.560 we can agree that the ejaculation situation, that's not great, right? But that is not the

00:00:27.480 same thing as being pulled off of the side of the road, held at knife point, and being overtaken.

00:00:34.500 And you think, how did we get here? And what you'll notice is when feminists get into the legal system, 1.00

00:00:40.660 what they have a tendency to do is change the definition of everything to be more broad.

00:00:47.820 Because the broader you make it, the more men can be thrown in prison, fired, etc. Because oftentimes,

00:00:55.280 these cases, it's up to the discretion of a judge. So the old definition of great was the carnal

00:01:02.100 knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will. So essentially, forced sex. And the new 0.97

00:01:09.560 definition is penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus within with any body part of 0.97

00:01:17.480 object or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person without the consent of a victim. 0.89

00:01:24.200 Now, what is the key word in there? And I want you guys to be able to hear this because 0.66

00:01:28.780 when you hear people telling stories, there's certain key words that you have to be able to

00:01:34.680 pick up to understand what they're really saying. So the key word is consent. What is consent? And this

00:01:41.760 is where things get a little bit gray. Now, oftentimes, what you hear is I said no, or no means no. But

00:01:49.540 when you get the experience of men or men telling you stories or situations they've been in,

00:01:55.260 oftentimes, women will say that and then change their mind. So what happens if they initially said 1.00

00:02:01.020 no, and then changed their mind later, they can still say that they said no. The other thing is

00:02:07.600 they add in new words to include more behavior that they just don't like. Now, again, I'm not saying

00:02:13.740 that these behaviors are moral or immoral, but let's not pretend it's the same thing as being

00:02:19.980 held at knife point, pulled off the side of the road and having onto the side of the road

00:02:25.760 and being forced to have sex against your will. We can agree those are completely different things,

00:02:30.720 right? Coercion is defined as the use or threatened use of lawful force upon any person which induces him

00:02:38.620 to do an act against his or her will. So the key word in this is threatened use, the use or threatened

00:02:47.000 use of lawful force upon any person which induces him to do an act against his or her will. Now,

00:02:53.900 when I hear this, I think knife point, gun point, or I'm going to go get a gun, I'm going to shoot your 1.00

00:03:00.360 face. That's what I think of. But when I hear it in practice, they're able to put in, oh, I thought he 1.00

00:03:06.620 might get a gun or I thought he, I felt like he was going to hurt me. I don't think that's the same

00:03:12.880 thing.

Pearl - December 08, 2024

How Men Get SCREWED in Grape Allegations

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