Pearl - December 02, 2025


How Women Emotionally Abuse Their Husbands


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

180.25362

Word Count

1,194

Sentence Count

27

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary

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Today we are reacting to 10 ways that women emotionally abuse their husbands. These are things that women do to their husbands that can be subtle or overt and can be very hurtful and make them feel like they are the only ones who are emotionally abusive.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah so many women do not let their husbands just enjoy their free time what up guys welcome to my
00:00:06.240 reaction series today we are reacting to 10 ways that women emotionally abuse their husbands uh
00:00:13.520 today we're going to look at the first five but let's get into it let's get into what are the
00:00:17.120 signs of emotional abuse and again it says emotional abuse centers around control manipulation
00:00:23.200 and demeaning or threatening behavior and it can be subtle or it can be overt and aggressive first
00:00:28.560 one is monitoring and controlling a person's behavior so ladies think of and again i won't
00:00:33.280 give examples for everyone but checking your husband's phone constantly reading his emails
00:00:38.720 checking his internet history telling him who he should and shouldn't hang out with telling this
00:00:44.320 is a hard one for us women we love doing this it's very difficult i don't think women are supposed
00:00:49.520 to have access to like this much information like i don't think we are but we gotta we gotta learn
00:00:54.400 how to control it um yeah nobody likes feeling like they're like watch 24 7. him how he should
00:01:00.560 parent and all the myriad of ways that we are controlling threatening a person number two
00:01:05.920 threatening a person's safety property your loved ones when you threaten divorce and you threaten
00:01:12.160 oh my gosh women always threaten divorce it's like we'd be doing him a favor half the time
00:01:17.520 it's like some peace and quiet leave leave the kids away are you threatened going to your
00:01:25.000 husband's mother that's emotionally abusive uh being demeaning shaming or humiliating
00:01:30.760 i've had many clients um share with me things like i'm so embarrassed of how i treat my husband
00:01:38.300 i actually had a client tell me yeah at my worst i'll tell my husband he's being like a chick on
00:01:43.740 period making fun of your husband to your girlfriends and in your social circles yeah
00:01:49.060 that's women are vicious women socially are so vicious i mean i mean i don't talk about it much
00:01:56.000 but the stuff i was told about my father growing up i i mean i thought he was like a terrible guy
00:02:01.700 you know and it's like women have no idea how bad the stuff we're saying because we get away
00:02:07.440 with saying so much bad stuff or making fun of him in front of his family or your family
00:02:13.360 And we do that with little comments where we think we're being funny and cute, but it's incredibly hurtful.
00:02:20.760 Having jealousy and accusing your husband of wrongdoings that have no basis in reality.
00:02:29.200 Delivering constant criticism and being ridiculing and teasing him.
00:02:34.800 And we do know that, that we do that.
00:02:36.760 Oh, are you going to wear that shirt?
00:02:38.940 Oh, I really wish you wouldn't do that anymore.
00:02:40.960 Oh, are you going to watch football again?
00:02:42.660 haven't you grown out of that and we constantly criticize them for who they are and the things
00:02:47.860 that they enjoy or the things that make them who they are um making acceptance or care conditional
00:02:55.140 on how a person on a person's choices so this is often how we withhold sex as women
00:03:02.260 women like a lot of times it's always about power with women we always always always want power i
00:03:07.380 think that's half the time the reason we get into relationships we want more social power
00:03:12.340 financial power um and once we're in the relationship the only power we have is sex
00:03:18.980 i mean i guess i'm threatening to ruin the guy's life and leave um yeah if you're not going to do
00:03:24.340 this if you're going to continue to be this way then we withhold sex or they do something to upset
00:03:31.060 us then we withhold sex um refusing to allow a person to spend time alone oh my gosh how many
00:03:39.140 of us can admit to you know our husband goes to play golf or they go out with a friend or
00:03:44.260 they just go out and do something and we're constantly blowing up their phone
00:03:48.660 and constantly texting them yeah so many women do not let their husbands just enjoy their free time
00:03:56.820 and the the men end up resenting the wives they really do or they love them but they resent them
00:04:01.940 throw temper tantrums when they want to go do something on themselves by themselves so we
00:04:06.020 We strong arm them into not doing that.
00:04:09.040 Thwarting a person's professional or personal goals.
00:04:12.720 And I will complain if our husband's working too much because he's trying to get a promotion
00:04:17.280 or he's trying to build his business.
00:04:19.100 And we find ways to make them fail and thwart them from their goals or tell them why they
00:04:24.360 shouldn't have those goals.
00:04:26.380 And then the last, or no, two more, instilling self-doubt and worthlessness.
00:04:31.940 How much we make our husbands question themselves.
00:04:34.620 and then gaslighting making a person question it's crazy because so many times i hear that women are
00:04:40.600 the support system but i think that more women are their husband's like worst enemy in their
00:04:46.100 support system their confidence and even their basic perceptual experiences so wonderful example
00:04:53.700 of gaslighting and how as women we gaslight our husbands is they'll say i think i shared this at
00:04:59.700 the at the beginning they'll say like hey i feel like i'm never right you're always right i feel
00:05:07.420 like you never listen because men will just say you win i'd rather just say you win rather than
00:05:11.920 argue with you to me um i feel like you're just you're never available and you're really busy
00:05:18.060 they'll tell us the things that are bothering them in the relationship and our knee-jerk response
00:05:24.540 is to tell them, that's not how it is. Let me tell you how you're feeling is wrong. That's crazy.
00:05:30.760 That's not who I am. Ladies, that's gaslighting. When you dismiss your husband's feelings and his
00:05:36.420 experiences in the relationship and make him feel like he's crazy for feeling that way,
00:05:41.500 that's gaslighting and it's emotional abuse. So those are the signs of emotional abuse.
00:05:46.800 Yeah, I agree with those. I agree. And women are the emotionally abusive gender. So often we talk
00:05:51.680 about men being abusive. It's women that are the abusive ones. And a lot of times
00:05:56.880 women have spent so little time paying attention to their husbands that they don't even realize
00:06:02.380 how awful they are. I mean, the things I have seen women like put online, making fun of their
00:06:08.660 husbands, women would crash out if men did that to us, but women do it to men all the time.
00:06:15.640 The trash talking the husbands and the whole social group, women would freak out if men
00:06:20.240 spoke about their wives like that and they never do you know again men naturally don't really need
00:06:25.400 to be monitored because they're good people um intrinsically where women tend to be bad people
00:06:30.320 intrinsically so anyways guys um let me know what you think in the comments make sure you like the
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