Pearl - July 02, 2026


I Got Interrogated by Christians At the World Cup!!


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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show to discuss cheating and what it means to be a Christian in the 21st century. We also discuss the difference between cheating and not being faithful and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 Hi there, how are you? We were hearing that you were doing an interview for the purpose of dating and asking the differences in different countries and ask what your country, where are you from?
00:00:10.740 I'm American.
00:00:11.540 You're American. How would I ever guess that like you told him? I don't know.
00:00:16.140 Okay, what part of America? You like some close by here in Dallas, Fort Worth?
00:00:20.640 I know I'm from the Midwest.
00:00:21.920 From the Midwest. Okay, that's close enough. And so you're asking what question exactly?
00:00:27.580 So there was a study that came out.
00:00:30.060 Well, I kind of tailor it to who I'm talking to,
00:00:32.040 but there was a study that came out that Japanese women cheat the most.
00:00:35.160 And we want to know if they think it's true or not. 1.00
00:00:37.040 Oh, okay.
00:00:37.980 I wouldn't know anything about that.
00:00:40.360 But personally, I'm a Christian.
00:00:42.200 Okay.
00:00:42.500 So my point of view, and I met my wife on a Christian website.
00:00:46.460 Okay.
00:00:46.740 So we did learn a little bit about the aspect of dating and things
00:00:50.000 and learning about people through the online experience.
00:00:53.380 Okay.
00:00:53.880 So, but we would never ask that kind of a question.
00:00:56.680 And why was that question so important to you, being faithful or not being faithful?
00:01:01.440 Okay.
00:01:02.060 Do you have a Christian background yourself?
00:01:05.040 Yes.
00:01:05.680 Oh, you do?
00:01:06.360 Yes.
00:01:06.860 So do you think it's right or wrong?
00:01:08.800 Cheating?
00:01:09.000 To be faithful.
00:01:09.860 Cheating, yeah.
00:01:10.640 I'd say it's wrong.
00:01:11.940 You say it's wrong.
00:01:12.700 Okay, very good.
00:01:14.240 Well, I'm just very curious why you would ask that particular question.
00:01:18.100 I want to.
00:01:19.300 Okay, you want to.
00:01:20.180 Yes.
00:01:20.440 Any other questions that you would have that would be about dating?
00:01:23.740 Is that the only question?
00:01:24.660 Well, we're going from more of an international point of view, so we're asking the differences in different countries.
00:01:30.640 Okay, I'm confused, but interesting question. 0.98
00:01:33.660 Do you think women should obey their husbands? 0.99
00:01:35.740 I do. I believe it's biblical.
00:01:38.180 Okay.
00:01:38.700 Not like out of necessity, but they should be able to follow his lead is really the point that the Bible's making.
00:01:49.360 Men should follow or women should follow. Which do you think? 0.59
00:01:53.980 So do you think that the man should decide how many kids the family has?
00:01:58.340 I think it should be a joint effort to know that both people are involved.
00:02:03.160 Both of them will be having the job of raising the child,
00:02:05.800 so they should both be involved in that answer.
00:02:08.500 Right, but there's a disagreement.
00:02:10.320 A disagreement about the two?
00:02:11.600 He wants three, she wants one.
00:02:13.680 Okay. 1.00
00:02:14.360 I would say women, it's their body, right? 1.00
00:02:17.580 I mean, they have the ability to prevent that if they want to 0.98
00:02:21.120 by medications and things like that right so they can do that but i think they should be in harmony 1.00
00:02:27.380 if they're going to have a child so maybe they could compromise with two do women ever compromise 0.99
00:02:32.380 though they can yeah like generally they can compromise of course they can but they you know 0.97
00:02:38.920 if they did wouldn't you know if they really love their husband as they should i think they would
00:02:44.300 let their husband do what he wishes if he wants a large family and she doesn't then if he can afford
00:02:50.760 it, then absolutely. What would you say that the woman should do if the husband and the pastor 0.61
00:02:56.020 disagree? So the husband says one thing and the pastor or priest, depending on your denomination,
00:03:02.960 says another. I would say whichever is more biblical. If the pastor is in agreement,
00:03:08.560 and I believe the scriptures do say that the woman should follow the man's lead. So I would 0.99
00:03:14.660 say if the pastor is doing his job, he should be able to convince the husband that it's best to
00:03:20.220 be the leader and decide how many children. No, but they disagree. This happens all the
00:03:26.860 time in churches. But I would say the pastor should be able to give him a biblical reason
00:03:31.640 for following the pastor's decision. And he disagrees with them. The pastor gave his
00:03:37.420 reason. The husband doesn't agree. What does the wife do? The wife should listen to her
00:03:43.940 husband. Okay. Always. Awesome. Always. Yeah. Awesome. Great. Okay. All right. Thank you. Any more? 1.00
00:03:50.120 I don't mind talking on one. I don't mind. I think that's all I got right now, but thank you. My name's Greg. What's your name? Nice to meet you. I'm Pearl. Pearl. Nice to meet you. Pleased to meet you. My wife Donna. Nice to meet you. We're Greg and Donna. So we're out here today just telling people about Jesus and that they are loved by him and that they should be willing to even agree with him, even if there's something that's
00:04:13.920 not quite right about the Bible or whatever,
00:04:15.980 they should look to a relationship with Jesus,
00:04:18.480 that he loves them and he died on the cross for them.
00:04:21.420 Great.
00:04:21.920 And so I'm going to give you a million-dollar bill so you're being so kind.
00:04:25.140 Okay.
00:04:25.700 And on the back of it, it just asks, if you died today, Pearl, 0.51
00:04:29.200 would you go to heaven or would you go to hell?
00:04:31.400 I'd go to heaven. 0.98
00:04:32.360 You'd go to heaven.
00:04:33.040 Yeah.
00:04:33.260 Based on what information?
00:04:35.200 My life.
00:04:35.880 How do you know?
00:04:37.040 I just know.
00:04:37.900 Is it your goodness that gets you to heaven or is it Jesus' goodness?
00:04:40.940 Jesus.
00:04:41.720 Okay.
00:04:41.960 Always trust in what Jesus did on the cross
00:04:44.600 And paying for your sin
00:04:45.600 Because you didn't die, right?
00:04:47.500 He died, you didn't
00:04:49.080 So trust in what Jesus did on the cross
00:04:52.180 Okay, I will
00:04:53.240 God bless you
00:04:54.140 Nice to meet you
00:04:55.000 How's it going guys?
00:04:59.220 Yeah
00:04:59.460 Jesus loves you guys
00:05:03.060 That's all I have to say
00:05:04.420 Who are you guys? Are you guys from Texas?
00:05:07.260 Yeah
00:05:07.740 Okay, so there was a study that came out
00:05:11.680 i don't know if this is relevant to you guys that japanese women cheat the most and we want to know
00:05:15.380 we want to we want to know if it's true or not oh because we've heard that in japan yeah i know
00:05:22.260 yeah i never heard that you earned one of these sir
00:05:28.400 what what what is so you guys are in what a church together
00:05:36.720 yeah yeah yeah all right tell me the okay so tell me the difference between dating in the church
00:05:41.760 and outside of the church we don't know is it is it our first date's a little
00:05:48.100 i'm married i met my wife preaching the gospel in the streets the word of god says see first
00:05:52.720 the kingdom of god and everything else will be added to you so i did that my wife did that
00:05:56.680 separately and then we met preaching the gospel as far as what everyone else does that claims to
00:06:00.640 be a christian we don't know so how did what was you guys's first date it was actually while we
00:06:06.700 were preaching the gospel we decided to go eat okay and we just had dinner and god bless who
00:06:12.460 made the first move her or you i did uh-huh it's been me and let's go what about you guys are you
00:06:20.400 guys single in a relationship my husband's on his way and how did you guys did you guys meet your
00:06:26.180 husband and boyfriend in the church or outside of the church and how did you guys meet um well he
00:06:32.220 pursued me he said yeah no so we went on a date and now christ is in the center of that so yeah
00:06:38.140 can you tell me how day to day what it looks like that's different from other people like
00:06:42.780 when christ is the center of your relationship so first we encounter the lord so whatever the
00:06:48.100 lord wants to do in our relationship we let him leave right so day to day it'd be like
00:06:52.480 i let him lead because he's a man so yeah whatever he has planned how can you allow
00:06:59.720 someone to lead, don't they just do it or they
00:07:01.620 don't? Well, as a woman, 0.97
00:07:03.700 I want to submit to my future husband.
00:07:06.080 So do you obey him in all
00:07:07.680 things?
00:07:10.200 If he's being
00:07:11.780 led by the Lord, it makes
00:07:13.700 it easier for her to maybe be
00:07:15.680 led. But who gets to decide if he's
00:07:17.540 following God?
00:07:19.260 I think looking at his fruits, yeah.
00:07:21.820 Those are very good questions.
00:07:23.720 This one got me.
00:07:25.320 Everything needs to be in alignment with the
00:07:27.540 Word of God, right?
00:07:29.280 So why in the world I will follow someone if what he does is not in alignment with the Word of God?
00:07:34.520 But here's a big key.
00:07:36.140 The big key is, do you know the Word? 0.78
00:07:39.540 Well, my question, is it the woman's job to police if he's following God? 0.95
00:07:45.220 No. 0.88
00:07:46.160 I would say in a healthy relationship, there is no police.
00:07:48.980 There is trust.
00:07:50.460 That's the difference between the world versus actually the covenant that people are under, that Jesus is blood. 0.77
00:07:57.080 Is it okay for a woman to tell her husband what to do?
00:08:01.840 Well, sometimes husband might need actually guidance, too.
00:08:04.900 Sometimes the woman is the one that is listening from the Holy Spirit,
00:08:08.580 and she can say an input, and if the husband has got...
00:08:12.240 Yeah, yeah, go ahead. 0.72
00:08:12.760 I don't think either person should be domineering over the other one.
00:08:16.540 I'm one that does speak on, like, hey, the man's the head, like the word says,
00:08:19.960 and it does say, wives, submit to your husbands.
00:08:22.220 I've seen you talk about this, too.
00:08:23.600 but the thing is is it also says that women i mean husbands and wives should submit to one
00:08:29.180 another in christ and in love so honestly if you if you're if you're guiding each other in love
00:08:34.320 like it should be an agreement and it should be like hey at the end of the day if there's an
00:08:38.500 important decision to make and i gotta make it my wife will honor that you know but at the end of
00:08:43.480 the day like if she has input and wants to lead in something and you know we talk about it and i
00:08:49.160 don't feel like it's the wrong thing i'm not gonna oppress her and tell her she has no say so you
00:08:52.860 No, we're not saying she has a no say, but at the end of the day, when there's two people,
00:08:57.240 One's got to drive the wheel.
00:08:58.100 Yeah, one's got to make the final decision.
00:08:59.940 When it gets real, she'll let me lead, because she obeys what the Word says.
00:09:03.600 We're non-denominational Christians, so we believe in the Word of God and the Holy Spirit.
00:09:07.780 We're not Catholics or Methodists or any of those things where they have their own guidance.
00:09:11.280 We just follow the Word, and the Word says the man is the head, as Christ is the head of the church, 0.64
00:09:16.220 and as the church submits to Christ, women submit to their husbands. 0.96
00:09:18.740 So, in a perfect world, that would always be the case. 0.59
00:09:21.100 my wife always like that or am I always really gentle no but we're supposed to be right so if 1.00
00:09:26.860 women can tell their husbands what to do wouldn't that mean that husbands get less obedience than
00:09:32.480 bosses do because you would never tell your boss what to do yeah yeah I've touched on that before
00:09:39.360 but at the end of the day what I've learned is that if me and my wife kneel before the Lord in
00:09:43.880 prayer and seek his will then we usually get along pretty well and none of those issues pop up but
00:09:49.260 If we're doing things in our own strength or if we make our minds God and we follow our thoughts
00:09:53.420 and we don't try to follow the Holy Spirit, then we're not being led by the Spirit of God.
00:09:57.580 We're being led by our own ideas, and that's not what we're supposed to do.
00:10:00.440 So, like, a real Christian follows the Holy Spirit, not just words. 0.88
00:10:04.000 Could you tell your wife to shut up? 0.51
00:10:06.080 I wouldn't. 0.95
00:10:06.920 If I do, I'm out of order.
00:10:08.800 I could ask her to be quiet.
00:10:10.460 If I did it nicely, she probably would.
00:10:11.720 No, but if she wouldn't, you know.
00:10:13.860 Like, she's not, she keeps trying to talk to you.
00:10:16.120 I don't think it's honoring to do that, to tell your wife to shut up.
00:10:19.260 Is it immoral?
00:10:20.760 Probably, yeah.
00:10:21.420 I don't think you're supposed to speak.
00:10:22.620 It's the word of God says not to deal with your wife in a harsh way.
00:10:26.520 Yeah, but sometimes, you know, maybe she's nagging. 0.98
00:10:30.860 She won't stop.
00:10:32.040 Yeah, what I've learned is if I'm rough with her, she'll be rough.
00:10:34.380 Because we both got saved.
00:10:35.880 We were worldly people.
00:10:38.080 We weren't raised in the church.
00:10:39.780 So what I've learned is if I approach her that way, she's going to come back at me with the same vibe.
00:10:44.640 But if I come to her in love and say, hey, can we go pray about this?
00:10:47.380 Is that really submission then?
00:10:49.260 Not really worried about it that much.
00:10:51.060 Because then wouldn't, like, aren't you kind of dictating your behavior based on her?
00:10:56.160 No, I don't.
00:10:57.420 I mean, I take her into consideration, but I follow the Lord and his lead.
00:11:01.140 And today she didn't want to come out here and preach the gospel, but I did.
00:11:04.080 And she was cool with it.
00:11:05.380 Cool.
00:11:05.940 So y'all have a blessed day.
00:11:06.860 Well, you too.
00:11:07.680 Bye-bye.
00:11:09.040 Can we pray for you, Pearl?
00:11:10.560 Yeah, you're welcome to.
00:11:11.740 Can we really?
00:11:12.520 Yeah.
00:11:13.020 Hey, y'all want to pray for Pearl?
00:11:14.120 Yeah, let's pray for Pearl.
00:11:15.920 She said we can.
00:11:16.840 What's your name?
00:11:17.920 This is Pearl.
00:11:18.520 Yeah, I'm Pearl.
00:11:20.280 Can I pray over you?
00:11:21.680 Yeah.
00:11:22.060 I notice you have a Japanese sign.
00:11:23.640 I do.
00:11:24.260 I can pray in Japanese.
00:11:25.580 Oh, okay.
00:11:27.100 Are you with our group?
00:11:28.260 I have no idea who you are, but I love Jesus, and I go around just telling people about Jesus.
00:11:32.960 That's cool that you're here.
00:11:33.820 I feel blessed.
00:11:34.700 Can we pray now?
00:11:35.820 Yeah, go ahead.
00:11:36.980 All right, cool.
00:11:37.440 Pearl?
00:11:38.620 Pearl?
00:11:39.140 Yeah, Pearl.
00:11:39.960 Lord, I'll just lift up Pearl to you, God.
00:11:42.260 We all do, Lord.
00:11:43.180 We bless her.
00:11:43.860 We love her.
00:11:44.480 We think she's beautiful and wonderful, Lord.
00:11:46.120 And we think that what she's doing is controversial, but I actually think it's kind of cool to challenge people and their beliefs and to make them speak what they stand on and to see if they're genuine, Lord.
00:11:57.160 I do believe, Lord, that God is not a feminist, so I do like that she does not exalt feminism, Lord.
00:12:02.000 But I do bless her, Lord, and I do bless you, Lord, as sovereign over our lives.
00:12:06.020 I pray that you would lead her life as you lead ours, that she would receive the Holy Spirit, Lord, that you would fill her with the Holy Spirit, and that she would make disciples, Lord, after she becomes one, Lord.
00:12:14.420 So I just pray in Jesus' name that the blood of Christ, Lord, the revelation of the blood of Christ that washes sins away, Lord, would be manifest to her, Lord, and that she would learn to become obedient to you and not have fear of man or not think about so much of obedience to men, Lord, but that she would have obedience to you, Lord God.
00:12:31.260 In Jesus' name, Lord, we bless you, and we thank you for what you're going to do in her life, what you've already done, Lord, and we bless her with protection and provision, Lord, in Jesus' name.
00:12:39.400 Amen.
00:12:40.020 Thank you.
00:12:40.540 Thank you.
00:12:41.000 Thank you for her, Lord Jesus.
00:12:41.960 Thanks, guys.
00:12:42.800 Glad you had a new video.
00:12:43.620 There is a scripture at the end. I want you to read that one right there, Romans.
00:12:49.620 No, you can read all of them.
00:12:51.620 When this is real, I don't know what country it's from, but that's yours too.
00:12:55.620 Someone gave it to me, so now I'm giving it to you.
00:12:57.620 Wow, that's all I've ever wanted.