Pearl - I Got Kicked Out of a Church

00:00:00.000 It said, should Christian women obey their husbands? 1.00

00:00:03.680 What do you think about women taught Bible studies? 0.99

00:00:07.200 Taught? 0.92

00:00:08.080 What's the problem with the sign? What's wrong with the word obey?

00:00:11.680 So maybe not everybody wants to see something like that as they're leaving church. 0.98

00:00:15.200 So the Christian men should obey their wives? 1.00

00:00:17.600 Yeah. 0.77

00:00:18.240 Obviously there's a disconnect between what you understand are Christians. 0.86

00:00:23.920 Christian women are in a marriage with a Christian husband.

00:00:27.280 And if you read the entirety, you'll see that what it says is, have respect and love for one another.

00:00:35.660 It's not one-sided.

00:00:38.000 If you take it out of context like that, there are so many things that can be misinterpreted.

00:00:44.700 God is a crown that has been given to men to be the head of the family.

00:00:49.640 What's up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel.

00:00:52.860 Today we are asking the question, should Christian women obey their husbands?

00:00:57.500 Last week I went to a mega church and a lot of the comments said that I just need to go to a

00:01:02.500 Catholic or a more Orthodox leaning church. So today we're going to ask the ladies if they

00:01:06.900 think they should obey their husbands at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church. So today we're

00:01:12.260 going to tally the yeses, the no's, and the yes buts. Like the video and let's get started.

00:01:18.580 So I go to different churches and I ask this question, and then people just say yes, no, or yes, but.

00:01:24.640 So I was just curious what, I like to get a different idea of what different churches believe.

00:01:29.380 You want to do it?

00:01:30.460 Yeah. So what's your name?

00:01:32.440 My name is Roger. You want the last name?

00:01:35.020 Oh, no.

00:01:35.780 Jones? How's that? Regular spelling.

00:01:38.340 So do you think that Christian women, or in this case Catholic women, should obey their husbands? 0.96

00:01:42.900 I know where that's coming from. It's kind of like a charge question. And people love to get charged, don't they? When my wife says, honey, could you pick this up? I say, absolutely, my dear. And when I say, honey, can you maybe help me with this? And she goes, absolutely, my dear.

00:02:02.920 I think we honor one another, and when there's something important to one of us, it's the essence of marriage and essence of a good relationship when it goes back and forth like that.

00:02:17.400 How's that?

00:02:18.540 So, do you think it's in a wife's duty to tell her husband what to do? 0.91

00:02:23.460 When something really, really bugs her, she needs to tell. 0.81

00:02:28.280 That's her duty to tell her husband.

00:02:30.580 Not to order him around. 0.91

00:02:32.120 I mean, we don't obey like servants, like indentured servants.

00:02:43.220 I think we honor our spouses as servants of the Lord.

00:02:51.600 Well, what would be wrong with that, like obeying like a servant?

00:02:54.780 Like what's wrong with that?

00:02:56.260 Well, I mean, in all humility, right?

00:02:59.500 Some of us are in ministry.

00:03:01.640 We have different ministries in the church.

00:03:07.860 And we go to people as servants, as servants of the Lord and of servants of other people in this world.

00:03:17.280 Well, yeah, because you just said earlier in your question, you said, like, she doesn't have to obey me like a servant.

00:03:23.040 I'm saying, well, what would be like?

00:03:24.320 Remember I changed it.

00:03:25.320 I said like an indentured servant.

00:03:27.160 Oh, indentured.

00:03:27.460 Like she, like, you know what indentured servants were in the United States?

00:03:31.320 it's like they owe a debt almost well kind of did you know that in um uh george washington's

00:03:38.360 inventory of people who he could boss around including enslaved people from africa

00:03:44.520 uh he listed indentured servants because they were his property they had no choice but to listen to

00:03:52.600 him and um uh and behave as though he owned them because he did they signed their lives away to him

00:04:00.920 a certain portion of it okay okay where are you from i'm from chicago okay uh and and i'm on the

00:04:10.120 youtube channel pearl davis just really um pearl davis pearl davis so i just go to different

00:04:16.040 no pearl davis you might are you pearl davis yeah that's me oh hi pearl hi nice to meet you

00:04:21.880 yeah because my question more is like why is it that um you know women will be obedient to 0.96

00:04:27.480 their bosses but not their husbands like they'd never tell their boss what to do yeah but their

00:04:31.800 husband it's like it seems like in society today it's okay it's okay um where do you come from

00:04:40.520 in pearl davis uh where do you come from um uh religiously i mean i grew up catholic oh okay you

00:04:48.760 did well you know how charged a little phrase that is from scripture right yeah but i don't think it

00:04:54.520 should be right yeah people just you just love to get mad don't they it's just like recreation for

00:04:59.640 people yeah yeah give me something to get mad about there is something to get mad about you're

00:05:03.560 not going to tell me what to do yeah um this is a new day new age pay me what i'm worth yeah yeah

00:05:11.080 yeah i'm trying to normalize it yeah well that's good good for you do you think these i don't know

00:05:16.200 that's what i was wondering because you're talking in uniform like saddle up over here and say

00:05:21.000 I don't know I guess I'll find out well thank you very much you've been great

00:05:26.680 stand by where you get somebody else and maybe I can tell them that you didn't coerce me yeah I

00:05:35.520 know I know that's why I try to do that you all the way from Chicago do you want to answer the

00:05:40.180 question of the day a great shirt for church what no it's just for YouTube okay no problem

00:05:50.460 we are recording right now okay so are you part of an organization or something because

00:05:56.860 yeah yeah it was brought to our attention that y'all were out here but again it don't seem like

00:06:02.620 you're reaching nobody's peace or interrupting nobody's path between the um the chapel in their

00:06:09.100 car so as far as i'm concerned it's okay um but you know for the purpose of them wanting to know

00:06:17.740 in terms of the services masses continuing how long do you all anticipate on being out here um

00:06:25.180 what time is it now 10 right now it is like 10 07 maybe till like one so one okay um we'll have

00:06:33.660 one more mass in between nine then so yeah it was just maybe like the beginning and the end of that

00:06:39.260 mass okay um yeah but again as long as nobody as long as you're not you know impeding nobody's

00:06:47.100 progress of reaching nobody's peace this is totally fine and you're not interfering with

00:06:52.620 entrances oh no i would i would never do that no yes ma'am yeah all right well thank you thank

00:06:57.020 you i appreciate you guys thank you you go to other churches you want to answer the question

00:07:03.180 today or no that's the wrong question what's wrong with the question it's not uh focusing on

00:07:11.180 on the overall purpose of marriage it's getting in on a potentially provocative question that

00:07:16.380 misses uh the overall mission that we're all on is married people to serve the church well what's

00:07:22.700 like provocative about it um we are trying to focus on something else with the mass here okay so

00:07:38.220 So, yeah, without being part of the community here, I just appreciate if you didn't try

00:07:47.700 and pull people's attention away from the community, you're trying to be here.

00:07:51.060 Okay.

00:07:52.060 Well, I appreciate your input.

00:07:54.220 If you want to give your opinion on the sign, you totally can, but I legally can be here,

00:07:58.660 so.

00:07:59.660 Yeah.

00:08:00.660 Yeah.

00:08:01.660 Okay.

00:08:02.660 Well, thanks for letting me know.

00:08:05.500 All right. 0.78

00:08:07.380 So we want to know, do you think that Catholic women should obey their husbands? 1.00

00:08:10.880 If yes, tell me why. 1.00

00:08:12.420 If no, tell me why not.

00:08:13.420 Oh, wow.

00:08:14.420 That is a serious, serious question.

00:08:17.520 I think being Catholic means following what the Lord has put in place for us, and that

00:08:26.940 means being a dutiful wife.

00:08:31.680 And I think in all honesty, I think both men and women, husbands and wives, should seek

00:08:40.520 what the Lord has in store for their families and move towards that.

00:08:44.880 And if it means understanding what your husband has to say and understanding what your wife

00:08:50.560 has to say and respecting one another and leading the family towards the Lord, then

00:08:56.800 yes. 0.97

00:08:57.800 So do you think it's okay for a wife to tell her husband what to do?

00:09:02.200 I think it's okay for both a husband and a wife to be able to come together and come to decisions together.

00:09:10.200 And whether it's the husband or the wife coming up with the right solution, then they come together and make that happen.

00:09:19.420 Well, I guess because my question is, you'd never tell your boss what to do, right? 0.99

00:09:23.140 So why do you think it's normal for women to tell their husbands what to do? 0.72

00:09:26.200 i'm not saying that it's normal i'm not saying you i'm just you know the concept in general

00:09:30.880 the concept in general is i mean you do ask your husband to help you out and as well as your

00:09:37.660 husband asking his wife to help help him out i don't really think it's telling people what to

00:09:43.720 do i think it's coming together and doing what needs to be done what do you think about women

00:09:47.880 led bible studies it's beautiful beautiful okay thank you very much nice to meet you you're great

00:09:54.100 Does he want to answer, too?

00:09:55.940 I'm just my channel.

00:09:57.600 What channel is it?

00:09:58.460 Pearl Davis.

00:09:59.640 You could just, if you Google Pearl Davis, it'll come up.

00:10:04.120 I'm just by myself.

00:10:05.280 I grew up Catholic, so.

00:10:06.420 No?

00:10:06.760 Yeah.

00:10:07.120 Are you Catholic now?

00:10:08.220 Are you practicing? 1.00

00:10:09.100 Not practicing, but if I had to pick one, I'd probably.

00:10:13.140 What made you come up with these questions?

00:10:15.420 I mean, what made you?

00:10:16.900 Well, I try not to be partial.

00:10:19.300 I'll tell you my take, though.

00:10:20.320 I think if you're not obeying your husband it's not a marriage because it's

00:10:25.240 like then you're in a partnership because then you're equal so I just kind

00:10:30.520 of wonder I don't like that this is such a dirty word like even the fact that

00:10:34.360 like they're like kind of the word okay I don't think it's dirty but it's crazy

00:10:38.260 to me I go to churches and like they're trying to hide my sign I'm like isn't

00:10:41.500 this the one place you're supposed to teach it you are like it wouldn't be

00:10:45.220 dirty you know I don't think that there's anything wrong with it yeah thank

00:10:48.880 you I appreciate it I love the dress hello ma'am would you like to answer the question of the day

00:10:56.640 no okay hi guys would you like to answer the question of the day no right or wrong answers

00:11:06.400 thanks anyway have a good one it's just crazy a church calls the cops and wants me in jail

00:11:12.000 because I said the word obey.

00:11:14.440 That's like actually insane.

00:11:17.920 Hey guys, you want to do the question of the day?

00:11:20.240 No right or wrong answers.

00:11:22.720 I know he's thinking something. 0.99

00:11:25.660 It's should Christian women obey their husbands. 0.98

00:11:29.260 So we just want to know what... 0.99

00:11:33.160 In front of his wife.

00:11:36.520 Do you have an answer?

00:11:38.260 Yes, no. 1.00

00:11:39.440 Should Christian women obey their husbands? 0.99

00:11:41.280 yes no you could be one day hello would you like to answer the question of the

00:11:48.820 day no right or wrong answers yeah Pearl Davis yeah nice to meet you

00:12:01.980 what do you think of the question yes no okay thanks anyway um can I ask what

00:12:14.900 the problem is like you get it just seems kind of like hostile that you guys

00:12:19.620 are getting like the police and like standing in the way so I just always

00:12:23.220 here well yeah I'm just wondering like what the like what's the problem with

00:12:27.020 the question no there's no problem okay you guys are saying there's no problem

00:12:31.040 but it just seems like you know there's an issue with it right so it just i feel like that's kind

00:12:36.440 of a lie sure so i don't i don't have any problem with it it's just so maybe not everybody wants to

00:12:43.020 see something like that as they're leaving church after giving worship to god and to basically kind

00:12:48.740 of protect people that maybe don't want that right more people weren't willing to engage with you

00:12:53.880 obviously we're not stopping you from engaging with you well you kind of are you you are a little

00:12:58.760 bit right but like you know as adults we pass by signs all the time like i live in the gayborhood

00:13:04.440 i have like i see gay signs all the like you can't as an adult if you're emotionally like

00:13:09.320 charged by a sign don't you think that's like kind of your problems like the children things

00:13:13.480 like that they don't that's up for a parent and adult and a child to have between them

00:13:18.440 that conversation um and sure maybe engaging in that um as children or thinking about it

00:13:26.040 maybe that's that's fine but um time and place kind of deal and it's just like maybe right coming

00:13:33.640 out of church isn't the best place to try and engage especially with as many kids and young

00:13:41.000 people that are here well what's like what can they not see on the sign like as a kid like is

00:13:46.920 is it there's something wrong with the word obey like no no it's it's more so um

00:13:53.080 not provocateur but it's more so

00:13:57.820 having something like this is out it's an outlier right so something like this is out of the norm

00:14:07.460 and so it's calling attention to something that maybe necessarily parents don't want to deal with

00:14:14.320 right now if they have young kids or whatever I'm not saying anything's wrong with that question or

00:14:18.800 thing like that but okay it's more so for the people that don't want to interact to give them

00:14:24.540 a little bit of a barrier that's all yeah i mean i'm not asking anyone to be on camera that's not

00:14:29.760 you know i'm not i'm not forcing anybody but it just to me it just seems like it's an extreme

00:14:35.040 reaction to the word obey which i would think you guys teach here sure so it's like i just don't

00:14:41.380 really completely understand the like it just seems kind of hostile to me i i can you know i

00:14:46.260 understand that it's again not really my call I was I was I understand yeah okay

00:14:53.820 I'm just a warm body yeah no I understand it just seems it seems a

00:14:57.960 little extreme to me but it's okay hi guys would you like to answer the

00:15:02.040 question of the day no right or wrong answers no gotchas we're just trying to

00:15:05.640 get people's opinion on it you got a yes no maybe for me I mean if you

00:15:16.080 marry a godly husband if you marry a godly husband yeah and then does the woman get to

00:15:22.480 decide if he's godly or not i think you discern it you discern it okay all right thank you i

00:15:29.340 appreciate it yeah it totally does do i have to go well here's the deal we're giving you an

00:15:35.220 opportunity to leave okay and if you're not adhering to his opportunity then we get involved

00:15:41.360 with a police report okay their concern is parishioners are not feeling comfortable with

00:15:47.620 you being close to the entrance of the sanctuary but they are giving you the option to go on the

00:15:54.260 other side of that building over there or somewhere on the corner okay um could you just would you be

00:15:59.500 able to show me where i'm legally allowed to stand are you able to show me that yeah um could i just

00:16:04.640 ask him a question really quick before i do is that all right you can ask him he doesn't have

00:16:08.760 yeah um what's the problem with the sign like is what what's wrong with the word obey

00:16:15.120 we're just here to ask you to leave i don't think that there's anything wrong with what you're doing

00:16:19.360 stand by where you get somebody else i can tell them that you didn't coerce me

00:16:23.120 okay um where can i stand legally

00:16:26.680 all the way to the grass it's ours so anything really on the square block

00:16:35.840 or across the street because that's private that's public property across the street

00:16:42.520 the sidewalks is appropriate but it has to be on the other side of the street oh am i able to just

00:16:48.620 stand on the sidewalk over there okay yes sidewalk over there okay yeah but this is their property

00:16:56.160 and they don't yeah but over there that that public sidewalk is public is accessible to the

00:17:02.540 public. Okay, so just across the street. That'll be perfect. Are you fine with that? If you're

00:17:07.680 fine with across the street? I mean, we don't have standing. Right, but on this side, you do have

00:17:14.020 standing rights to say so. Yeah, so they don't. Okay, so I can go there, or I can go, okay.

00:17:22.360 Give me one, is it okay if I just think about where I'm going to go?

00:17:26.160 Just give me one, I'm not going to, hold on, yeah. So, across the street there.

00:17:32.540 where I can go over there.

00:17:35.920 As long as you're on the opposite side of the street,

00:17:38.440 because this is the church's property also.

00:17:42.440 Okay.

00:17:44.620 Okay.

00:17:45.340 Yeah, that's fine.

00:17:46.780 Okay, well, thank you.

00:17:48.340 Thank you.

00:17:49.420 Not you.

00:17:51.200 But, yeah.

00:17:52.240 Thank you, guys.

00:17:52.940 I appreciate it.

00:17:53.740 Yes, ma'am.

00:17:56.860 It's just kind of weird, because it's like,

00:17:59.220 isn't this what you guys teach in the church?

00:18:01.020 You know, I'm Catholic.

00:18:02.540 so it's like i'm just it's just a little strange that there's such a hostile you know response to

00:18:09.660 this it's just kind of weird i just can't believe it's this big of a spectacle for like 0.98

00:18:17.500 god this is black filling me i thought the catholics would actually 0.99

00:18:21.260 i just thought the catholics would have some balls like 0.99

00:18:23.900 Like, it's just crazy out of all the, all the people. 0.98

00:18:31.980 Obviously, there's a disconnect between what you understand are Christians.

00:18:37.680 Christian women are in a marriage with a Christian husband, and it's a partnership.

00:18:43.640 So all decisions are made in a partnership manner.

00:18:47.340 And that's really what you need to know about Christian women.

00:18:50.660 So it's like if there's a decision, it's 50-50?

00:18:53.780 Usually you sit down and you kind of come to a conclusion.

00:18:56.700 But like if both parties disagree.

00:18:58.560 Let me ask you this question.

00:18:59.140 In life, how many of those situations do you have?

00:19:01.640 Are you married?

00:19:02.640 Okay.

00:19:03.340 So there aren't many times in life where you have a decision that is so difficult that nobody can make a decision.

00:19:10.460 Well, but I'm saying what would be wrong with that?

00:19:12.740 Like what's wrong with that?

00:19:14.280 What's wrong with what?

00:19:15.060 Like if he did make the decisions, what's wrong with that?

00:19:17.360 Well, sometimes when there's no decision to be made, either he or she will make it.

00:19:22.080 Whoever felt stronger about it.

00:19:24.600 Okay.

00:19:25.840 So, question. 0.96

00:19:26.900 Do you think it's okay for women to tell their husbands what to do? 0.61

00:19:29.880 No.

00:19:31.020 You don't think it's okay?

00:19:32.320 Men don't tell women what to do either.

00:19:34.580 So, oh, so you don't think it's okay for either party to tell them what to do?

00:19:38.120 No, they come in their own lives.

00:19:39.680 Okay.

00:19:40.700 But I guess because my question is...

00:19:41.760 Would you want someone to tell you what to do?

00:19:44.120 Yeah.

00:19:44.820 Would you now?

00:19:45.440 People tell me what to do all the time.

00:19:47.040 That's a boss.

00:19:47.980 That's a little bit of a deal.

00:19:49.780 I mean, like, you know, the church just told me what to do.

00:19:52.020 They told me to get off.

00:19:53.160 Well, so yeah, you can't, you know, you can't really, they just did it.

00:19:56.960 I'm just telling you, I just tell you, it obviously could be, I don't think that,

00:20:01.460 I don't think that in most cases there is one person that makes all decisions.

00:20:06.640 I don't think that's the kind of marriage that's going to last a long time.

00:20:09.420 Well, because my question is the president tells the vice president what to do.

00:20:12.700 He should.

00:20:13.320 So why is there more obedience for bosses than husbands?

00:20:16.700 I have a question for you inside real quick.

00:20:18.400 Okay.

00:20:18.940 Thank you so much.

00:20:19.780 really appreciate it hey how's it going what nice to meet you I got kicked off

00:20:30.060 today here here they said I gotta stand here even though you're on the side yeah

00:20:37.800 they said I don't know I don't want to get like I don't want to go to I was like

00:20:43.060 There's people with guns. I'll stand over there. I'll go over. It's fine.

00:20:48.720 So why do you think, um, there's such a hostile reaction to the sign?

00:20:53.700 Like, what do you, I just don't understand it. I thought, obey, like, is it a bad word?

00:21:00.480 You know what? It's funny. Um, before I started ranching 10 years ago, I worked in Dallas, right?

00:21:07.800 And the new kids coming up, I call them kids. They're in their twenties. And I say something.

00:21:11.700 I mentioned the word obey in the correspondence with, you know, your superior, you know, and like they just freaked out.

00:21:20.380 And I was like, what? They're like, what are we, a dog? We don't obey.

00:21:24.440 And it's I think it's a it's like a program. Yeah. Yeah.

00:21:28.280 It's like, you know, certain words kind of. I don't know. Yeah. It was just my experience.

00:21:32.920 So, yeah. Yeah. So what do you think? Do you think Christian women, in this case, Catholic?

00:21:36.900 I didn't feel like buying a new sign. Yeah. Do you think they should obey their husbands? 1.00

00:21:41.700 um that's a good point i think the way it was written possibly is in no matter what organization

00:21:50.580 is there's an end of the day there's a leader right um i think generally in marriages we

00:21:59.660 complement each other at least we hope to yeah and there's sub leaders right some things are

00:22:05.100 leading the woman takes the role in man they take a step this way there has to be decision

00:22:10.580 maker you know if it comes down to that my experience me and my wife compliment each other

00:22:16.660 so well it's never really come down to that yeah maybe a couple times and i just made the decision

00:22:23.220 and she went with it is that obeying i don't know yeah is that just her just saying okay 0.82

00:22:30.340 we'll go with so what do you think of the idea that women obey their bosses but they won't obey 1.00

00:22:34.420 their husbands so if they're they would never go to work and tell their boss what to do but they'll

00:22:38.980 tell their husband what to do i was just thinking something similar not exactly similar um

00:22:48.020 i wish i had a good answer for you right um it's a very it's something to think about i mean

00:22:54.500 it's something to think about i will say this something about work we're talking about how

00:22:58.980 the page matriarchy of my wife's line is historically late to events but they're never 0.98

00:23:05.780 late to work. I'm like, okay, so why can't you not be late to work? But you're late to everything else. 0.99

00:23:12.820 No, that's a good question. Back to your marriage. Yeah. I wish I had a better answer for you.

00:23:17.540 What do you think about? Help me along. I don't know. What do you think about women taught Bible

00:23:21.540 studies? Taught? Yeah. Women teaching Bible studies. Oh, 100%. At least in our church slash

00:23:31.060 the Catholic community, the women take the lead in a lot of things as far as 1.00

00:23:37.500 getting actual work done. So if they left with the men, nothing would get done, you know, I mean. 0.89

00:23:43.360 Well, why do you think they don't let women be priests then?

00:23:46.420 That's a great point, and here's where I never want to give incorrect

00:23:52.180 information out. Right. Well, we understand these are, you're not a representative,

00:23:56.380 you're just a normal guy. In my understanding, right, it's different with

00:24:00.800 the priest uh all the way back to the apostles um it's just not like hey i'm gonna ordain you

00:24:09.220 you're a priest now yeah no there's an actual embarking of the holy spirit that's passed down

00:24:14.960 all the way from the beginning to be a priest and the priest stands as they call him persona christi

00:24:20.560 in the person of christ to minister these they call sacraments right communion absolution

00:24:27.500 confession and matter of fact you know to be in persona of christ christ is man you know it's not

00:24:37.460 christ elevated women christ put them on for all purposes a pedestal right and i hope that us as

00:24:45.080 christians slash catholics do the same and they're revered in our church do you think there's ever

00:24:49.780 issues when women start to teach bibles bible yeah like i think just because women yeah i think

00:25:00.300 different levels yeah maybe it's maybe different you know elementary as it goes up yeah right all

00:25:06.920 the way to doctoral yeah there's a difference because we just get caught in our emotions right

00:25:12.140 so like you know you see like in this hasn't happened here but i've gone to some churches

00:25:16.880 where they have like gay flags outside they have blm and sometimes i think maybe that's like because

00:25:22.800 the women have started to teach and we just get you know we're like oh a little bit yeah we're 0.71

00:25:28.080 like yeah yeah uh i can the one thing we have the cattle church is a foundational doctor yeah right

00:25:38.480 let's just take 0.96

00:25:40.340 the gay flag or LG 0.94

00:25:41.940 all the acronyms

00:25:43.100 there's nothing inherently

00:25:46.080 wrong or sinful about having 1.00

00:25:48.340 a homosexual proclivity 0.69

00:25:50.100 there's not it's the act 0.93

00:25:52.440 and the celebrating

00:25:53.340 the celebrating of the sinful act

00:25:56.660 it's just the same way

00:25:58.420 as you or I would be

00:26:00.320 having relations outside of marriage

00:26:02.400 it's the same

00:26:03.660 it's the same thing

00:26:04.780 so that's a good point

00:26:07.820 i don't know if you're trying to you know get in there a little more and see if there's a

00:26:13.340 relationship but uh yeah i don't know some of these things i just take for granted don't think

00:26:17.900 about to be quite right yeah you know like a lot of people yeah who's got the time to stand out

00:26:22.140 here with a sign but me right it was a pleasure so do you live in england i live in dallas now

00:26:28.780 i used to live in england yeah i guess your podcast yeah but thank you so much you were

00:26:33.740 great no you were great actually you're great thank you good morning what's your name

00:26:44.700 is that a nigerian accent nigerian okay so what do you think of the question should women obey

00:26:50.940 their husbands yes ma'am they should and they have a lot to benefit from that okay they get

00:26:57.180 the gift from god and god said just like jesus said that the husband should love the wife just

00:27:04.460 like he loved the church and they should obey him and the women should respect their husbands

00:27:11.580 should respect their husband that's the only thing they need nothing more no matter whatever 0.79

00:27:16.460 you want to give to the man respect is the key and if you know women don't understand 0.98

00:27:22.540 they are the neck and mend is the head they can control the man the way they think they 0.97

00:27:29.580 want to if they obey the husband i respect the husband if they move the neck the neck the head

00:27:36.220 will move but the problem is this pride nobody wants to know about god anymore and if they obey

00:27:44.620 the word of god everything in the bible if we do obey the word of god i'm telling you the truth

00:27:52.300 this world would be a better place for us to live. 0.84

00:27:55.700 And if you're dying, you will die with a smile 0.99

00:27:58.640 going here from heaven.

00:28:00.540 So I have a question.

00:28:01.840 Why is the word obey so controversial?

00:28:06.340 The main thing is this.

00:28:09.880 Why is so controversial is in the sense of,

00:28:14.320 is this something we're talking about, respect?

00:28:17.200 And that is that obedience.

00:28:19.300 and when you're wrong say you are sorry sorry does not kill anybody whether the husband is wrong

00:28:27.620 say sorry to the wife when the wife is wrong say sorry to the wife and the life and the family will

00:28:34.740 live in peace okay so question do you think it's the wife's job to police if the husband's following

00:28:41.700 God? In every situation, what is supposed to be is encouragement. They say, what does it take

00:28:51.700 to rocket a man to the top is to get a good woman to fuel him. And they said, who marries a good

00:28:59.940 woman marries a goal, a jewel. The main thing is this, when pray for each other, rather than you

00:29:10.560 going after your husband to know wherever he is or wherever he's following God, pray for him.

00:29:17.360 Because it's not easy to be the head. Okay, so you're saying instead of like nagging him,

00:29:22.260 they should pray for him. They should pray for him. That is the main thing. Nagging has never

00:29:26.840 solved any problem in any one nugget rather it escalates the problem yeah exactly it escalates 0.99

00:29:34.680 the problem okay so what do you think of women taught bible studies to teach bible stuff like

00:29:41.000 for women to teach by like do you think that women should teach oh yeah you know one thing is this 0.99

00:29:47.880 one thing you have to know about women is this women can do something 0.83

00:29:52.680 and he forgets everything about it within a few minutes and go back to God and God listens to 1.00

00:29:59.500 them. That's what they don't understand. But they think, you know, forcing men or using

00:30:06.400 harsh words will ever solve the problem. It will not. And if you go by what is in the Bible,

00:30:14.460 like Mary, Madeline, and all those Jesus we are with, who we are, the disciples, not the apostles.

00:30:23.400 they contributed to the growth of the church and if you remember when jesus was raised you know

00:30:29.400 rose from the dead who were the one of the people that went there mary madeline right yes this had

00:30:35.800 to teach decided to tell you we are the disciples not the apostles being a disciple of god means

00:30:42.840 you have to bring people into god bring people closer to god and that's why it's good for people

00:30:49.480 to for women to change the bible because and they are closer to the children so a little bit off

00:30:55.080 topic question but i'm curious because you're from nigeria so i'm curious your thought on this

00:31:00.040 do you think it's okay for men to have more than one wife uh just by you know what the bible says

00:31:06.680 it's supposed to be one but he you know in africa it's not a tradition you understand but you indeed

00:31:15.240 it's not the case now that we it was before that we don't know much about christianity well there's

00:31:21.800 some people um that are part of christianity that argue that they can have more than one

00:31:27.560 and so i was just it's not um most christians say no but some say yes so i was just curious

00:31:33.480 yeah like i think they they use the case of like i don't know there's some people in the bio i

00:31:38.360 don't know it but they're they there's people i've interviewed that argue it's okay they thought

00:31:43.080 they think about the old testament yeah yeah they have so you can't go by but is it if you

00:31:49.480 if you can understand or if you may hear from me there is this genetic gene in man that's

00:32:02.280 you know it causes it reduces prostrate because sometimes

00:32:08.120 you may not have urge for your first wife but the second wife you may have that urge

00:32:15.980 to go you know to to be with her and that reduces the you know the prostrate problems in men well i

00:32:26.000 was just more thinking because there's so many women now so there's more single women than single

00:32:31.000 men so i was just curious if you ever thought that like in the future that could be something

00:32:35.480 that comes back no yeah let me tell you you see we have so many ladies so many women yeah that uh

00:32:44.120 do not have husbands you know but they have kids it's because of this behavior we're talking about 1.00

00:32:51.000 respect that's why a lot of women now are not in their husband's home because you can't have 0.79

00:32:57.960 two captains in a ship you cannot come and you want to rule the family no god has is a crown 0.56

00:33:07.160 that has been given to men to be the head of the family okay and you can never take it away from

00:33:13.000 it is originally from god do you think that's taught in this church the what that do you think

00:33:19.720 that's taught that men are the head of the household in in this church oh yeah yeah yeah

00:33:25.240 men are the head of the household well i'm saying like do they preach to the women that they must

00:33:29.800 obey here or would you say yeah they do it here you know there's a retreat here you uh i attended

00:33:36.760 a retreat in 2009 that is one of the topics of the retreat that men women should respect their

00:33:44.440 husband okay so that the family can move very well and it's because of this in all respects you know 0.64

00:33:51.720 women not respecting and obeying their husband this will be you know obey me obedient is not 0.95

00:33:57.720 even the main issue the main thing is respect and when you respect you obey well do you think um

00:34:04.760 that some churches are maybe not this one but do you think some are afraid to teach that the

00:34:09.160 obedience uh yeah i think so you know depending because some churches get afraid because of

00:34:17.960 maybe a lot of women are making some contribution they don't want to

00:34:22.520 they don't want to yes they don't want to preach what will you know what will make them to be

00:34:29.320 against the oh i'm not going to make any contribution anymore but this is the time

00:34:33.960 the world has come to a situation that we have to say the truth and the truth will set us free

00:34:40.440 you know because then they're worshiping their worship because then they're worshiping money

00:34:44.360 right not god that's it because sweeping things in under the carpet has never solved any problem

00:34:49.880 and it's not going to solve the problem tell the way it is that and especially again adultery

00:34:58.520 you know preach and tell them that women one husband and one wife no matter what the situation

00:35:05.480 is even if your husband doesn't know whatever you think he make love or teach him and if you 0.86

00:35:12.600 If the woman knows, teach your husband, and if the husband knows, teach the woman.

00:35:16.520 Why do you think that churches preach against men watching porn, but they don't preach against 0.89

00:35:22.060 women not sleeping with their husbands, even though they're equally as common?

00:35:27.820 Well, my dear sister, you know, like I told you, a lot of things are going on.

00:35:32.240 A lot of bad things are going on that they don't want to be honest to certain things.

00:35:38.640 they try to you know blend it and everything but he has never solved the problem because

00:35:46.000 if they teach the word of god what god says in the bible and if we live by what is written in

00:35:51.920 the bible this world will be a better place because even if you know you see the problem

00:35:56.640 we're having in the world is man-made rainfall comes during rain season this is what made by god

00:36:03.200 Every season comes by itself, and this is what God made it to be.

00:36:11.200 But the problems we have in the world, if you find out, either due to people who want

00:36:17.360 to acquire more than they should, even for those who are not in the world yet, they want

00:36:23.720 to acquire, and a lot of people are suffering.

00:36:26.320 Can women be obedient if they're telling their husbands what to do?

00:36:30.200 ah no you don't you don't tell your husband what to do what you do encourage you know give your

00:36:39.700 advice you come like as a family it's a kind of community and if you know what is going on that

00:36:46.680 without family you can't have church the first church we have is family and if the devil is

00:36:54.920 fighting everything he can do to destroy the world the family and as soon as he destroys the family

00:37:00.840 he has already destroyed the church because two of them if the family is not in a unity or it is

00:37:09.720 not in you know i in the same uh uh what i what will i say in this same agreement you see the

00:37:18.280 wife might be going a different church and the husband would be going a different church and

00:37:22.420 And then the family is divided.

00:37:25.220 And when the family is divided, it can never stand.

00:37:28.580 Why is it viewed as so wrong to view your husband as a superior?

00:37:34.280 Because women always say, oh, I can't be inferior to him.

00:37:36.860 But I say, why is that wrong?

00:37:38.520 You know, like, as a mother, like, I would be above the children, right?

00:37:43.760 So why is it wrong for women to view as men as above them?

00:37:47.160 That is the problem. 0.92

00:37:49.360 has already been said woman should be under a husband but it's because of that craziness of 0.93

00:37:58.320 being on the top that is making women to you know to disobey their husband not to be what they are

00:38:05.520 when you are in your own position it has already you know god has already made it to be be in this

00:38:11.440 position and be in this position does not mean that your contribution cannot you know help in

00:38:17.760 the family in every situation you give your own idea like in my family i would say look at what

00:38:24.640 i think what do you think so that we can come together you know and make it sometimes we ask

00:38:31.040 the children when they choose you know like now the children are grown you ask them what do you

00:38:36.000 think these are what i then we come to a conclusion and pray over it and when we pray over it we ask

00:38:41.360 got to give us a you know a kind of answer that will help the only thing is because it's in the

00:38:48.240 mind of the women that say we will manage superior no it's not like i tell you it's the neck that

00:38:55.680 turns the head yeah you know yeah but that's not wrong right what's what's your boss is superior

00:39:01.360 to you so why is it wrong that your husband's like what's wrong exactly is this something like a

00:39:06.240 company yeah but it's because of this uh you know the craziness the craziness of oh i just want to 1.00

00:39:12.400 given women too much power huh and they get an advice from others yeah you will see women that 0.90

00:39:18.080 are not in their husband's home they'll come and give you tell you oh why are you obeying that over 0.97

00:39:23.120 if it's my husband i will do this and they go to bible study and then they say i will study not to

00:39:28.160 listen exactly and then when you go and try and visit that woman you will see that he she is

00:39:34.800 obeying she obeys the husband more than if she what she teaches she will come and tell you oh

00:39:40.720 i can't take that the way she gets to the husband you you'll be asking the husband sir you know 0.84

00:39:46.560 yeah just to deceive others yeah but it's left for the women if advice is given to you they said 0.93

00:39:52.960 advice is like a medication so we got to get women out of the bible studies then no not to get them

00:39:57.920 out of the bible studies they are supposed to be part of the bible story so that they will know 0.98

00:40:02.560 the teaching of christ and follow it but the only thing that they listen to it they don't do it yeah

00:40:08.880 you know follow my teaching but not my behavior and they you know advice is like a medication

00:40:15.520 you take it and know whether it's good for you and if you find out that it's destroying your home

00:40:19.920 you drop it and say that the side effect is not good for my body that's what it is great thank

00:40:26.640 you you have you have a lot of courage saying those things so i appreciate you coming out thank

00:40:31.040 you so much man yeah sure i'll take one thank you water water is life

00:40:38.560 would you like to answer the question today not at this time okay thanks anyway i appreciate

00:40:43.440 thank you for the water totally welcome to elaborate in any way obey is a broad word okay

00:40:49.360 in my opinion okay um it it

00:40:53.600 i don't know about obey to the strictest sense okay um as far as do this do that 0.78

00:41:04.960 roles absolutely i believe in that uh yes go ahead do you think it's okay for the woman to

00:41:11.900 tell her husband what to do so like if i was if i was getting married this year and i said

00:41:17.620 can I have some advice you know can I tell my husband what to do I again I

00:41:25.060 think he goes back to the strictest sense of tell him you're gonna do this

00:41:29.180 I want you to do this no will you do this sure um so if I wouldn't go to work

00:41:40.480 and tell my boss what to do why would it be okay for me to tell my husband what

00:41:44.600 to do? Like, why does the bosses get more obedience than the husbands, would you say?

00:41:56.100 I think that it's just how society has migrated into, we're taught

00:42:06.800 obey authority. Yeah. And I don't know that you look at your husband as an authority figure

00:42:15.460 anymore. Yeah. Well, why do you think that is? Like, why not? Why is that a bad thing?

00:42:22.820 I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing. I just think that that is how children are taught

00:42:28.620 and raised today. I think it's a migration of society. Do you think that the Catholic Church

00:42:33.840 teaches that women should obey their husbands? Do you think that's like common here?

00:42:38.160 Sweetheart, well, I'm a Catholic. I haven't been to a Catholic.

00:42:41.860 Oh, you're like a new. Oh, did you just come today? 0.93

00:42:44.320 I'm not new. I've been a Catholic my whole life. I was raised that way, but

00:42:47.540 I haven't been involved in a Catholic church enough to answer that or make an opinion even.

00:42:54.080 Okay. I think that's all my questions. That's all I got. Thank you. I appreciate it.

00:42:59.840 Thank you. 1.00

00:43:00.360 If you tell any, I'd love to get some women's point of view. 1.00

00:43:03.040 If you know, I mean, I've just had a lot of guys come up. 1.00

00:43:04.720 I may try to ask my ex-wife if she wants to come in.

00:43:08.140 But she's going to give a definitely. 0.99

00:43:10.360 Definitely.

00:43:11.600 Probably not what you want to do.

00:43:13.400 Or maybe what you do want to hear.

00:43:15.420 There's no right or wrong answers, you know.

00:43:17.220 Where can I see you?

00:43:17.760 I guess Ian, my son-in-law, can tell me where to find him.

00:43:20.100 If you just Google, so Pearl Davis, I'll come up on YouTube.

00:43:23.900 Okay.

00:43:24.220 Let me ask you something.

00:43:25.460 Do you recall Dr. Laura?

00:43:29.000 Ingram?

00:43:29.780 No.

00:43:30.360 Schlesinger, I think, was what she went by.

00:43:33.040 She did a radio show.

00:43:35.660 I've never seen you, but just from what my children have told me,

00:43:38.540 it seems like you're following that path.

00:43:40.900 She was very much, not necessarily to the strict extent of obey,

00:43:46.760 but she was a partnership.

00:43:49.440 You know, if your husband does this for you, why can't you do this for him?

00:43:52.980 Oh, right.

00:43:53.720 A very pro-man.

00:43:55.900 Yeah.

00:43:56.140 Yeah. I think it would be heaven on earth if more husbands told their wives to shut up. 1.00

00:44:04.240 Just imagine growing up. That'd be amazing. 1.00

00:44:06.840 Wow. That would be different.

00:44:09.740 But you know, it's like your boss could tell you to shut up. Why not your husband?

00:44:13.620 You make a good point. Well, why not? I mean, it's...

00:44:17.880 Do you think a lot of men are afraid to say this?

00:44:20.060 absolutely yeah definitely i think that masculinity is yeah plummeting yeah because 0.99

00:44:28.020 it kind of takes courage to demand this right it does and there's nothing like a woman scorn 0.96

00:44:32.800 there's nothing i've lived it all right sweetheart i gotta get in my daughter's

00:44:39.500 thank you you coming yeah hi i'm a big fan hi nice to meet you yeah i've seen a lot of your

00:44:45.860 content thank you arguments and thanks for what you do for gentlemen it is um if you want if you

00:44:53.220 want to do an interview it's up to you but yeah i would love to get your take yes so i agree with

00:44:57.860 what you have here like what's what's what's your what's your perspective on this well i really

00:45:02.500 prefer the interviewees to give their perspective first and then later you're welcome to but i don't

00:45:07.460 like to influence it so um yeah the question is should christian women obey their husbands if yes

00:45:14.260 tell me why if why not um you know tell me why not yeah yes christian women should obey their

00:45:19.680 husbands and i think any any wife who's married to a man should obey the man because the the man is

00:45:25.960 the head of the domestic household just as christ is the head of the church and so as men we're

00:45:31.100 called to follow in the footsteps of christ and there is a certain level of temperaments and you

00:45:36.340 know from a more of a secular standpoint uh or non-christian standpoint you could even say

00:45:40.600 There's like certain temperaments that are given to men to be able to deal with certain situations in a way

00:45:46.240 And then women bring they bring a whole lot of value to probably yeah

00:45:53.320 But no, they bring a whole lot of value to a family, you know, but the whole idea is like

00:45:59.560 They they should learn to obey and I think through that submission they end up actually transforming

00:46:05.940 the like them and and the relationship they have with their husband into a full-fledged family so 0.75

00:46:12.480 so do you think it can still be a marriage if the wife isn't obedient then wouldn't it become

00:46:18.400 a partnership i think that'll be more of a partnership yeah yeah that that ends up becoming

00:46:23.800 more of a kind of like who wears the pants at what time and i think it's like if if the wife

00:46:30.040 trusts the husband that i know that he's going to lay his life down for me and if if the marriage is

00:46:35.480 like that then she's got nothing to lose and neither does he right but there's always going

00:46:40.380 to be times when you don't trust the husband right so is it really the wife's job to decide

00:46:45.240 when he is and isn't following god is it her job to like police it not really but if she knows

00:46:51.580 she's going to the wrong track let's say the husband's addicted to something or like drugs

00:46:55.720 or whatever i i would it would be a good wife to be like no that's that's probably not the right 1.00

00:47:00.660 thing to do and to shape him in in her own feminine way and I know a lot of men 0.72

00:47:05.720 that listen to their wives like listen to the advice from their wives but it's

00:47:11.880 not necessarily like they obey their wives it's very much just like the wife

00:47:15.360 shapes how they how they behave do you think it's okay for men to tell their

00:47:19.800 wives to shut up not and I wouldn't I don't like to use like strong language

00:47:25.200 like that so if it's like necessary like she's really not shutting up if like if 0.99

00:47:30.540 If she's being really annoying, really stupid about things, I would say at that point you 0.98

00:47:34.900 could say... 1.00

00:47:35.900 Isn't that every woman at some point?

00:47:37.780 Yeah, I think you're right.

00:47:41.340 But I think what it is, you can also say that in a different way.

00:47:45.320 And I think shaping the person's behavior to be like, I don't really appreciate you

00:47:50.420 saying this, that, and the other, is so much more effective than just being shut up and

00:47:54.220 then she'll not shut up.

00:47:57.040 how human behavior someone just pushes the boundaries when you tell them to

00:48:00.520 stop so I know but sometimes like you know Trump he's got to tell like his

00:48:05.200 staff to shut up you know yeah yeah it's I mean it's worse in politics but I

00:48:10.060 guess household relationships are like politics in a way so yeah do you think

00:48:15.460 that that like going how long have you gone to this church not this church in

00:48:22.000 particular but I've been a Catholic all my life yeah would you say the Catholic

00:48:25.240 church does a good job of teaching obedience and all things they they do to an extent where it's

00:48:32.360 now it's being policed maybe a little bit more to um you know like not not be able to preach the

00:48:39.160 gospel as clearly as as allowed in certain areas um and i won't name those places but i i i think

00:48:45.560 dallas and especially this church over here they do a great job of kind of preaching the gospel

00:48:50.680 as it's written so that that's one of the things i think the catholic church does a great job of 0.94

00:48:55.160 showing what obedience is and I think they do push it now whether couples

00:48:59.700 take that on board yeah it's a totally different yeah you can't make people do 0.79

00:49:03.240 and you can't take a modern woman and like yeah force her to take it you might 0.83

00:49:06.800 come to church and believe half the things yeah and same with the men right

00:49:10.100 I aligned fully with the church teaching so that's important to me okay well

00:49:15.020 thank you so much I really appreciate it thank you hey guys are you a Christian

00:49:20.900 Well, yeah, I'm Catholic.

00:49:22.340 I'm sorry?

00:49:22.880 I'm Catholic.

00:49:23.520 You are?

00:49:24.060 Uh-huh.

00:49:24.580 Do you read the Bible?

00:49:25.860 Yeah.

00:49:26.820 Are you taking this question out of context, or are you asking, why are you asking?

00:49:32.620 I'm just curious.

00:49:33.340 I just want to.

00:49:33.820 I'm a convert also.

00:49:34.540 Oh, I just want to know what people believe.

00:49:36.400 Oh.

00:49:36.720 So, yeah, I mean, I just.

00:49:38.200 I believe scripture.

00:49:39.940 Okay.

00:49:41.380 I believe scripture.

00:49:43.240 And if you read the entirety.

00:49:45.240 Okay.

00:49:46.180 You get the context in which Jesus was talking,

00:49:48.920 and Paul was actually referring when he wrote his letter to the Ephesians.

00:49:52.400 Okay.

00:49:52.920 Okay.

00:49:53.340 So should I read it, and you can maybe explain?

00:49:55.660 You can take the time and read it.

00:49:57.700 I'm the head usher here, and I'm going to be here until after Mass.

00:50:02.480 Okay.

00:50:03.020 Because I was just more curious, like, how far the obedience goes.

00:50:07.340 Read the context in which Paul's letter to the Ephesians was sent.

00:50:14.540 Okay.

00:50:14.760 Then you might have more of an understanding, because I've been married to the same woman for 56 years, and she had six children, so she submitted once or twice, at least six times that I'm aware of, and yet I've loved her through thick and thin, and she's loved me through thick and thin.

00:50:38.620 And if you read the entirety, you'll see that what it says is, have respect and love for one another.

00:50:46.680 It's not one-sided.

00:50:49.060 If you take it out of context like that, there are so many things that can be misinterpreted.

00:50:55.940 Okay. 0.56

00:50:56.800 So, do you think it's okay for women to tell their husbands what to do?

00:51:01.660 I don't tell my wife. 0.66

00:51:03.000 So, no, I don't think it's okay for one to tell the other.

00:51:06.180 submit if you'll read the letter okay the scripture what we preach you may get a better

00:51:16.760 understanding do I think no I don't think it's right for me to tell you you can't be out here

00:51:21.460 I fought and bled for your right to do this okay so I don't have any issue with that I think you're

00:51:28.120 being very friendly and very and I understand that's why I asked the question okay I'm not

00:51:33.780 being ugly. I'm really not. No, I don't think you are. I was just more trying to get a better

00:51:38.300 understanding. So if a woman wouldn't tell her boss what to do, why is it okay for her to tell 1.00

00:51:47.460 her husband what to do? I guess it depends on whether it's respectful discussion. Same for a

00:51:56.640 man. Should not be telling his wife what to do. He should be guiding her. So he can't tell her to

00:52:03.280 shut up, even if she's being really annoying? Well, I didn't say you can't. I said you shouldn't.

00:52:07.620 And there's a big difference. Really? I think it'd be heaven on earth if husbands told their

00:52:12.100 wives to shut up more. No, I don't know that that's the case. My wife, it took me a long time

00:52:19.080 to understand that I should have been listening to her. Really? Like in what way? Oh, in any number

00:52:27.280 boys I travel I was on the road 120 to 200 days a year and she raised my

00:52:35.080 children and I missed that time and she would say can you be here for this can

00:52:40.480 you be here for that and I didn't pay attention if I'd have been listening if 0.96

00:52:45.580 I had been doing what he said to the effusions then it could very well have

00:52:55.900 made a difference in my family life really because you work to like what's

00:52:59.320 wrong with that if you were you know building I'm assuming it like you were

00:53:02.680 paying for everything and or like well the money the money came in from me yes 0.98

00:53:07.520 that's correct and she took care of I couldn't have hired a woman to do what

00:53:11.200 she did so how do you compensate no I just meant like you kind of um if I'm

00:53:19.000 understanding you right you're almost framing it as if it was like a bad thing

00:53:22.300 that you worked a lot but I'm saying like like what's wrong I don't think

00:53:25.660 anything wrong with that you know with avoiding well with placing my thoughts of needs

00:53:37.740 in front of my family's physical and spiritual needs okay you don't think there was anything

00:53:43.580 wrong with that well i think most men are selfless so they do things for their family

00:53:48.700 and so like they do things for themselves because it makes them feel good you know i didn't have to

00:53:52.780 do what i did yeah well i think a lot of times like women guilt men for things that they shouldn't

00:53:58.060 feel guilty about i'm not saying you in particular but i never felt guilty about it yeah i'm convert

00:54:05.260 converts don't have guilt only only cradle catholics okay okay yeah yeah great catholic

00:54:12.620 had beat into them from day one well because i guess my question is just it seems like bosses

00:54:17.340 have more authority over their employees than husbands do over their wives yeah like if i like

00:54:23.020 my employee right but again okay it all goes back to the entirety of the scripture okay and

00:54:35.580 i've been working hard to try and get back in line with that your timing was perfect for me

00:54:40.300 okay okay what you think people don't i go to a bible study in in really over in uh keller okay

00:54:48.860 and i and another buddy i was in military with the only two catholics in that study

00:54:54.460 and you know that's never once come up okay yeah about that no so do you think um churches

00:55:02.060 are afraid to teach this at times? I don't think so. I think that if they teach what Paul wrote

00:55:13.580 to the Ephesians, the world would be a better place. Okay. I do believe that. I think, and

00:55:20.180 marriages, divorce would probably be a whole lot less. One more question. So if the husband tells

00:55:30.120 his wife one thing and the priest or the pastor tells him, tells her another, who should she

00:55:35.020 listen to? I guess, again, you have to, you can pull things so that I have to answer a question

00:55:42.940 that I don't have all of the details or all of the facts. And so I create the context in which

00:55:50.120 I would make my own decision. I don't think that that's a fair or practical question. I guess it

00:55:57.420 depends. It's like me asking, are you going to quit beating your husband? No, I wouldn't really

00:56:03.000 say that's the same thing. No, it goes back to the... Are you going to listen to your husband?

00:56:08.480 Are you going to listen to your priest? That's what you ask. Yeah, because it's asking who has

00:56:11.600 authority, right? And that's what the whole question's about. It's who has the authority?

00:56:16.520 Does the husband have it? Jesus sent the authority, and he said, if you can read the entirety of

00:56:24.220 scripture, Ephesians 5, 21 through 33. It's really, I'm not even a college grad and I understand.

00:56:34.200 Okay. But thank you. And I can understand, I guess you're having a question.

00:56:43.320 I just don't. Okay. Well, I appreciate you coming out. I appreciate you. Is he going to answer too

00:56:49.640 now now he just wanted to come he thought that i was gonna be ugly and i'm not i'm not no no i'm

00:56:55.400 just no i just wanted to i just wanted to hear that's all no i didn't think you were going to

00:56:59.800 be ugly no i'm sorry no i just wanted to listen that's all he's a good usher he's one of my ushers

00:57:08.200 okay oh nice y'all have a good day and i hope you do get some information now that you say this is

00:57:13.480 just for you yeah i just have a channel pardon i just have a youtube channel oh okay so like

00:57:19.240 Like, it's just my, like, everyone keeps asking who I work for.

00:57:21.700 I don't work for anybody.

00:57:22.900 I just work for myself.

00:57:24.660 So if I just have questions I'm curious about, I just make a sign, and I stand, and then

00:57:32.280 I let people answer.

00:57:33.260 Because I think that, I don't like journalists that don't go to normal people and get answers

00:57:38.260 and just go with, because the people that are online have a lot of time.

00:57:42.300 So you end up getting these, like, warped opinions, and, like, you don't get a real,

00:57:46.600 like it's just all the people with all the time that are commenting so i like to go

00:57:50.680 into the places or outside or whatever and then i get i i don't have to like say what they say i

00:57:57.400 could like show what they say well i've been self-employed since i came back from vietnam

00:58:01.980 so i understand yeah okay yeah and i hope you get the answers you're looking for tell a few

00:58:07.880 of the ladies to come i've gotten guys today i'd love to hear from the women what they think 0.95

00:58:11.880 uh i'm surprised i'm surprised that a couple of them haven't been here is your wife here 0.84

00:58:19.380 tell her to come over actually in katie texas taking care of my great granddaughter who just

00:58:25.560 graduated from baylor oh nice so nice she's getting ready to go work okay well you know

00:58:32.220 she wants to tell her to you could facetime her in you got what's your youtube uh pearl davis i

00:58:37.480 can type it in for you. Sorry, what? I can only kind of hear you. Oh, sorry. Christian men will be their wives. Okay, what do you think? They should? What do I think? Absolutely. Yeah, yeah. So the Christian men should obey their wives. Yeah. Okay, can you explain like why they should? Why they should? Yeah. Well, because it's a, it's a joint, it's a joint relationship. So it's a, it should be symbiotic. So, so whereas Christian women should obey their husbands, the husbands must also obey their wives. It's in the

00:59:07.460 library so yeah so my question though if there's a decision and like you have to at some point

00:59:13.720 people disagree and you're saying we should go with what the woman wants no that's not what i

00:59:18.880 said you get prey on it because again it's a joint relationship okay you have to do what's best for 0.56

00:59:23.460 the family so do you think it's okay for then women to tell their husbands what to do um why

00:59:29.500 is it that you wouldn't tell your boss what to do but you would tell your husband what to do 0.70

00:59:33.580 Well, I do often tell my boss what to do at times.

00:59:38.340 But in general, like, J.D. Vance can't go to Trump and say, like, this is what we're doing.

00:59:43.700 I think Trump would kill him, right?

00:59:45.160 Well, he could present the truth, though. 0.91

00:59:47.700 But he feels that it's the truth.

00:59:49.780 And, you know, so he has the ultimate power.

00:59:52.940 Right.

00:59:53.800 So would you say in, like, a Catholic marriage, the husband has the ultimate power? 0.61

00:59:58.680 Or based on what you're saying, in a Catholic marriage, the wife has the ultimate power?

01:00:01.500 goes back to the bible the bible does not say that a woman no it no it's a it's a like i said

01:00:09.260 a symbiotic relationship with god at the forefront so what does that mean when they say to submit to

01:00:16.140 your husband in all things um do you think that's like misrepresented then i think it is misrepresented

01:00:21.100 okay could you tell me like a little bit more like could you tell me like what is the man is

01:00:25.660 protector okay um but at the same time the woman is the nurturer and uh i'm a father to raise kids

01:00:33.420 you have to have both but i'm my wife we we it's a joint it's a joint uh leadership to raise the

01:00:43.740 family and so we both have our strengths and weaknesses but together that's what forms the

01:00:49.580 family so i don't think that it's uh just women obey their husbands husbands must also obey their

01:00:57.260 wives we have strengths and weaknesses on either side and that's what makes it so that's what makes

01:01:03.260 marriage so beautiful so so well what if like um what if the wife is like i'm thinking women spend 0.99

01:01:13.100 too much money is like an example right so like do you think the husband should have the authority 0.94

01:01:18.140 to tell the wife it's too much money but wouldn't it be better like if women listen to their

01:01:24.060 husbands about that but i mean we talk about it that's where we have a dialogue and say hey honey

01:01:28.100 look we went a little bit over on the budget this year but at some point like you can't out dialogue

01:01:33.220 like at some point there's a disagreement and one person has to win and one person has to win well

01:01:38.060 yeah ultimately you know yeah that's when you you pray on it and uh no but then like one person says

01:01:44.460 this is God says this and one person says God says this right well we all know there's

01:01:49.100 disagreements there are always going to be disagreements but again I think that at least

01:01:54.160 in my marriage we've always been able to settle on what we both agree is God's plan for us 0.94

01:02:01.320 are you okay with women-led bible studies absolutely yeah why not would you want to 0.97

01:02:07.420 see women become priests then or no no no no okay no not necessarily but that's that's above my pay

01:02:15.520 grade so i'm going to defer to the church authorities on that okay well thank you very

01:02:19.920 much charles i appreciate it absolutely yeah how's it going guys would you like to answer

01:02:27.000 my question of the day absolutely awesome so the question we have today is should christian women

01:02:34.000 or in this case, Catholic women, obey their husbands?

01:02:37.680 Yes, no, and then explain what your reasoning is. 0.94

01:02:40.700 Okay, I would say yes.

01:02:44.000 I guess to start with the basis, are you Christian?

01:02:50.200 Just so we know the basis, or are you just trying to get my answer?

01:02:54.280 I'm Catholic. No, I'm Catholic.

01:02:54.820 Okay, awesome, awesome.

01:02:57.060 What's your answer?

01:02:58.800 Well, I don't like to input my opinion too much

01:03:01.080 Because I'm really trying to understand what people believe at the different churches.

01:03:05.020 So if I input my opinion too much, then it's not like, I like it to be an unbiased interview.

01:03:11.040 Does that make sense?

01:03:11.820 It does.

01:03:12.180 And just for reference, so this is not our home parish.

01:03:14.880 We're just visiting here.

01:03:15.740 We're from Houston. 0.55

01:03:17.200 We go to Arlazy of Walsingham there in Houston.

01:03:20.140 I would say yes, because God asked them to obey us.

01:03:25.280 You know, he said, you know, wives, obey your husbands.

01:03:29.020 Husbands, love your wives.

01:03:30.840 like Christ loved the church. That doesn't make us any less equal. If anything, that just puts

01:03:36.780 way more responsibility on the husbands to be able to, we're responsible for those decisions.

01:03:43.180 Plus, I think it's normal for any relationship for there has to be when there is a disagreement,

01:03:50.580 somebody has to make the final word. It has to be somebody. And I would say because Jesus Christ

01:03:56.280 did say, hey, the husbands are going to lead, the wives are going to, you know, obey their husbands

01:04:03.080 and the husbands are going to love their wives like Christ loved the church. And then he kind

01:04:07.100 of set that hierarchy. And so we're just following his lead. Do you think it's okay for women to tell

01:04:12.880 their husbands what to do? Do I think it's okay for women to tell their husbands what to do? 0.99

01:04:21.740 can you give me an example? Telling him to do chores, telling him like what to do around the 0.99

01:04:27.680 house, like where the kids are going to go to school, you know, just like there's a lot of

01:04:33.540 decisions in a long-term marriage that have to be made. So my question is, can you be obedient if

01:04:39.560 you're telling your husband what to do? I would say no, but I would say you'd probably wouldn't

01:04:44.720 be being a very good husband if you're just telling your wife what to do. Okay. I would say

01:04:48.740 it should always start with a discussion you both go through the issue whatever it is what school

01:04:53.240 your children should go to you both say what you think pros and cons are at the end hopefully you

01:04:58.980 come to a mutual agreement yeah but it doesn't always work it doesn't always work and if just

01:05:03.200 like in everything else like at your job right your boss gets the final say and god said the

01:05:08.560 husband's the boss and so we we follow what he says yeah so that's actually my next question is 0.92

01:05:13.780 Why is it that women would never tell their boss what to do, but they'll tell their husbands what to do? 0.90

01:05:21.960 Like, why do the bosses, I'm not saying at this church, but just in general, why do they get more obedience than the husbands?

01:05:28.340 Well, hopefully it's because they feel safer in their marriage to push back.

01:05:36.100 Because I would say the exact same thing about husbands.

01:05:38.540 Like, why do we treat strangers better than we do our wives?

01:05:41.780 there's no way husbands don't treat strangers better are you married no no i i will say there

01:05:50.220 are my parents have been married 30 years yeah yeah i i mean i hope overall i treat my wife

01:05:55.380 better but there are times where i will give her more grief than i would a stranger i would give a

01:06:01.220 stranger maybe you're not responsible for a stranger right true yeah so it's like you know

01:06:06.720 if you're the one in charge of her, right? Yeah. And I hope I'm doing a great job taking care of

01:06:12.220 her, but yeah, I think because in that relationship, you feel you're able to let your feelings come out

01:06:17.500 more. And so you, you may say things or do things that maybe isn't as nice as you would have to a

01:06:26.700 stranger because you, you do feel more open to let that feeling out. Why are men so afraid to

01:06:32.660 tell their husbands, or why are men so afraid to tell their wives to obey them? Because I honestly,

01:06:39.000 I've done a lot of street signs over the years. I've had feminist is a hate group face, like, 1.00

01:06:44.400 like I've had the most controversial abortion. I have never had more hostility than bringing the

01:06:49.880 word obey to church. I've never. And it kind of makes me sad. It kind of makes me so like,

01:06:55.680 it kind of makes me, it kind of black filled me. They called the cops or they're like, yeah, yeah.

01:06:59.580 And it's like, no, I don't care.

01:07:01.780 It's part of the job.

01:07:02.880 I'm allowed to be here.

01:07:03.700 So it's like, but I just kind of, it blackpills me a little bit.

01:07:07.220 Because I'm like, why is obey, you know, why is it a controversial word?

01:07:12.500 The kids have to obey the parents, right?

01:07:14.400 Exactly.

01:07:14.760 And at the church, we all have to obey God.

01:07:17.280 That is his calling for us.

01:07:18.860 We obey him.

01:07:20.440 And in this particular case, he says, hey, husbands, lead your family.

01:07:25.140 I'm sure he has good reasons for that.

01:07:27.600 Yeah, I'm sure we can think of secular reasons why, you know, the husbands may be better leaders than the wives and I'm sure we can come up with, you know, theological reasons why he may have made it that way, but he specifically did.

01:07:40.980 And so do you believe in the natural order of the world, like God, men, women, children?

01:07:46.560 uh definitely god humans uh the order between men women children i think that's more of a

01:07:57.920 responsibility thing and not whereas like we are definitely not equal with god but men women

01:08:03.520 children are all equal in their humanity but do they have different roles to play absolutely and

01:08:10.960 does the world see those roles as one has power over the other unfortunately does that really mean

01:08:17.800 that no well why is that a bad thing to have power over someone or to have this particular

01:08:24.000 well i don't have a boss but if i used to right like if he has power over me i don't think that's

01:08:29.360 a bad thing no like it's only a bad thing it is the order of things yeah he's the boss that's his

01:08:34.820 job yeah so like why would that be a bad thing for the man to have power over the woman i don't

01:08:39.660 think it is yeah i don't think it's a bad thing i think the world has labeled that as bad and they

01:08:44.420 see i think the problem is the world is out searching for power and they think they want

01:08:49.220 power but and not to be cliche and go all like spider-man but like that power comes with

01:08:54.560 responsibility and i think most people they want the power but they don't really want the

01:08:58.520 responsibility yeah and so they really then you probably don't get the power if you're not ready

01:09:03.280 what's responsibility without authority that's good i what is responsibility without authority

01:09:13.360 can i expand on that for me a little bit like what what is if you have responsibility over

01:09:18.240 something but you don't have authority over it so if you have a bunch of employees and you're

01:09:22.560 responsible for them or you have a family and you're responsible but you don't have authority

01:09:26.800 what is that that feels pretty worthless like what's the point because i you see that in the

01:09:32.560 in the workplace a lot where like you have a boss who gives you things to do but they really have

01:09:37.080 very little authority over yeah making you do that or there being consequences if you don't

01:09:44.000 it's yeah i would say that's that's very

01:09:46.560 it's very difficult to then manage that responsibility if you don't have any

01:09:52.520 authority to actually would you say it's close to slavery because you have all the responsibility

01:09:59.340 of working but no authority on over what you can do? Uh, I don't know if I would push those two

01:10:07.780 together because there I would be thinking about the, it's more the slave owner that has the

01:10:13.220 responsibility. But he has authority. And he does also have authority. Yeah. You know, he's

01:10:18.760 just a thought. Potentially not mismanaging that well. Yeah. Yeah. Um, do you think that

01:10:27.120 the Catholic Church teaches this? Like, do you think that they are good about telling the women 1.00

01:10:33.200 to obey? You would say they do a good job? Yes, I would say yes. Okay. That is, granted, that is 1.00

01:10:37.360 the person who's only been a Catholic for a year so far. I've been practicing for five years, but

01:10:40.920 only officially one year. Okay. It's a Baptist before that. Okay. Well, that's all my questions.

01:10:45.920 You're great. It takes a lot of courage to say these things. So I appreciate you coming up.

01:10:49.460 What was your name? Pearl Davis. Very nice to meet you, Pearl. It'll be on YouTube if you just

01:10:53.340 okay pearl davis so tell them i'm nice tell them guys i don't know why i'm i'm i'd love to argue

01:10:59.980 with people anyway so this is super easy for me yeah yeah and i don't know if they what is your

01:11:05.260 stance i would say yeah i would say yes i think that's what's people scared like they don't

01:11:09.020 realize they actually probably totally agree with you or do you get a lot of people i get church i

01:11:13.740 think church is like the most like i i would say if you believe in the the church world view it's

01:11:21.660 yes but some people don't believe in it then you're doing a partnership right but if you believe in

01:11:26.840 like I don't think marriage is marriage if a man doesn't have authority then you're in a partnership

01:11:30.580 I don't you know what I mean like then that's something else I'm not saying it's wrong to do 1.00

01:11:34.660 that right that's your choice but like you know I just I think it's like women want the the status 1.00

01:11:42.400 of marriage without the hard part because obeying is actually I really hate it when women get 0.96

01:11:47.740 married and they say it's like um because I'm not married but I've been in a relationship where I do 0.83

01:11:53.040 have to listen to it's really hard like when you think you're right like and just like biting your

01:11:58.220 tongue and like just doing what he wants to do anyway you know humble yeah it's not easy and I'm

01:12:04.100 like if you were raised as a woman in America there's no way you know how to like do this off

01:12:08.580 the bat and you're gonna have to learn like it's like do you know what I'm saying like and I just 0.96

01:12:12.960 don't think it's helpful even to women to not say that like you're supposed to obey like you do your 0.99

01:12:18.100 boss you know so and I think if you say not trying to say husbands are God yeah but if you think

01:12:23.620 about that same relationship like you I think about the freedom that you get yeah through God

01:12:31.120 I know he he's going to take care of it he's got the responsibility and the authority to handle

01:12:36.120 all of this and I'm free because I've given him my life if you just roll that down one level to 0.58

01:12:41.460 Think of how free the wife can be if she just gives that responsibility to her husband.

01:12:45.440 Yeah, well, and you, look, we spend too much money, we eat too much sugar, like naturally.

01:12:50.580 Like, we have, like, terrible habits.

01:12:52.480 And you don't realize, as a woman, how bad your habits are until you start, like, seriously dating a man.

01:12:59.300 And you just, like, notice.

01:13:00.740 I'm like, oh, I buy Amazon over nothing.

01:13:02.960 You know, like, do you, why don't I...

01:13:04.580 The number of Amazon boxes I break down every day. 1.00

01:13:07.160 Yeah, and so many guys are enslaved to their wife's spending habits 0.98

01:13:10.500 because he can't legally tell her no. 1.00

01:13:13.880 Luckily, my wife does a great job. 1.00

01:13:15.320 She's great at this.

01:13:17.580 Yeah, but I'm saying like I think it's sad that it's not taught in churches.

01:13:22.740 Like a lot of – I can't say which ones do and which don't, right?

01:13:26.180 So I just go to the churches and I see what they say.

01:13:29.540 Yeah, unfortunately, we're not good at holding our people accountable.

01:13:32.440 Like, hey, you know, we teach this, but we're not going to get in your faces.

01:13:36.000 Sometimes you've got to get in people's faces.

01:13:37.640 I don't know the best way to go about it.

01:13:39.460 I just ask questions, but I try not to, I don't want to influence people's answers.

01:13:44.120 So like I try to just let them talk first before I give mine, you know?

01:13:48.220 So yeah.

01:13:49.060 Thank you so much.

01:13:49.680 Thank you.

01:13:49.980 I really appreciate it.

01:13:50.900 Hope you have a great day.

01:13:51.620 Thank you.

01:13:52.720 Good.

01:13:53.200 Would you like to answer my question, sir?

01:13:56.080 Thank you for your service, by the way.

01:13:57.860 I noticed you have a Navy hat.

01:14:01.360 So today we're asking people if they think that women, Christian women should obey their

01:14:07.480 husbands. 1.00

01:14:07.960 Come a little closer this way, I just want you to get out of traffic.

01:14:12.520 And if yes, tell me why, if no, tell me why not.

01:14:15.820 We just like to go to churches and get ideas of what people believe.

01:14:19.020 That's all.

01:14:20.020 No right or wrong answers. 0.85

01:14:21.020 Well, they could both avoid their husbands if their husbands are making decisions, yes. 0.77

01:14:26.040 Do you think it's in the wife's, like is she supposed to police if the husband's following 0.82

01:14:30.680 God?

01:14:31.680 Well, they both should help each other follow God.

01:14:35.400 Well, but in a marriage, I'd imagine there's disagreements, right?

01:14:39.160 And there's going to be times where one person thinks they're right

01:14:42.060 and another person thinks they're right, you know.

01:14:45.240 So, you know, I think there's times where people think, you know,

01:14:50.380 the other's not following God, right?

01:14:52.980 You know, that's kind of a disagreement.

01:14:54.300 So what happens then, I guess is my question.

01:14:56.080 You should still take it to the Lord.

01:14:57.740 So she should go to the Lord. 1.00

01:14:59.000 What do you think about women nagging their husbands and telling them what to do? 0.99

01:15:02.460 well that's that's that's between them it's part of part of being married so are you married not

01:15:10.680 not yet hopefully soon okay well i'm getting advice here okay well i hope you get married

01:15:15.240 do you go to church what do you go to yeah i'm catholic you are catholic yeah good yeah so um

01:15:21.200 what you might do is volunteer do work like you're doing now but also volunteer to be an usher

01:15:28.600 Okay.

01:15:29.600 So you get to meet more people that way.

01:15:31.600 Oh, nice.

01:15:32.600 Okay.

01:15:33.600 Are you from Dallas?

01:15:34.600 No, I'm from Chicago.

01:15:35.600 Okay.

01:15:36.600 Well, my dad was from Chicago.

01:15:37.600 Nice.

01:15:38.600 So, in fact, my mother, if it was my mother tried to convince him to be a Presbyterian,

01:15:42.600 but she ended up converting herself and becoming a Catholic. 1.00

01:15:46.600 What do you think about, why do women, they would never tell their bosses what to do, 1.00

01:15:52.600 but they think it's okay to tell their husbands what to do? 1.00

01:15:55.600 Well, they're a partnership.

01:15:59.820 So when you're a partner with somebody, you give advice to both of them.

01:16:05.260 So it's part of her duty, part of his duty.

01:16:08.300 But then wouldn't it be, like then how is it a marriage if it's a partnership?

01:16:12.820 Because then isn't that more like egalitarian?

01:16:15.440 Well, I wouldn't necessarily say egalitarian, but again, you're going to have, people are

01:16:21.920 They're going to have decisions on how to raise children sometimes, and it's best to

01:16:26.060 try and work that out before they get married, not as they're getting, as they go through

01:16:32.200 life. 1.00

01:16:33.200 Yeah, but you know women, we got 10 different personalities, depending on that. 1.00

01:16:37.320 You do have personalities, but like my parents, my mother made decisions sometimes that my 1.00

01:16:45.020 dad may not agree with, but they still worked it out together.

01:16:50.640 Why do you think people have a problem with the word obey?

01:16:53.860 Whenever I bring this sign up, sometimes people get mad.

01:16:56.840 And I'm just wondering, what is it about the word obey

01:16:59.220 that you think makes people so mad?

01:17:01.520 Well, obey means that you're following orders, okay?

01:17:07.440 And sometimes you don't want to necessarily file orders.

01:17:10.360 So you still need to, what if the husband were to give an order

01:17:16.360 that was not in keeping with the Bible?

01:17:20.640 So, again, you should stand up for yourself.

01:17:26.460 Stand up for the Lord.

01:17:29.400 So, again, my mother wanted to convince my dad to become a Presbyterian,

01:17:37.560 and she ended up converting herself and becoming a Catholic.

01:17:41.120 So, let's just say he does follow the Lord, then should she obey?

01:17:46.400 So, let's say he's following the Lord.

01:17:48.200 They both should follow the Lord.

01:17:49.460 Right. But, you know, because whenever I say, like, should she obey, they always say if he follows the Lord.

01:17:55.600 So my question is, if he's following the Lord and he says, honey, please stop spending money on Amazon.

01:18:00.760 This is the 10th Amazon package this week. This is getting ridiculous.

01:18:05.740 Again, if you're if you've got an obligation to watch your spending. 0.60

01:18:09.580 Yeah. So and he's got he's got overall responsibility as a husband, the family.

01:18:16.320 so um and but she she needs to is a happy wife is a happy family so okay so you got to keep your wife

01:18:25.760 happy an angry wife is an angry family an angry wife well if an angry wife is he's got a reason

01:18:32.320 for her anger so she again that's something they both should take to the lord yeah but is it like

01:18:36.820 a good reason for her anger i don't that i don't that's between them yeah okay well so i hope you

01:18:44.040 meet your husband. I think we can go to Mass and meet your husband. Thank you. I appreciate it.

01:18:49.460 Thank you for your service. One of the best decisions I've made in my life. I've made some

01:18:55.060 bad decisions too. So we all have to go through good and bad decisions. Yeah, we do. So hope you

01:19:01.720 meet your husband and courtesy. Okay, thank you. My name's Skip. I'm Pearl. Nice to meet you.

01:19:06.000 Nice to meet you. Have a good week. I'm saying he listened to her, right? That was his problem.

01:19:12.120 Pardon?

01:19:12.640 He listened to her.

01:19:13.580 That was his problem.

01:19:14.680 No, his problem was not that he listened to her.

01:19:16.940 It was he wasn't strong enough and didn't have a strong enough faith in the God that created him.

01:19:21.540 To say no, right?

01:19:23.380 Yeah. 1.00

01:19:23.720 Say, Eve, shut up. 1.00

01:19:25.420 She says, eat the apple. 1.00

01:19:26.460 He says, shut up, woman. 1.00

01:19:27.440 He should have just said, get behind me, Satan. 1.00

01:19:31.960 Yeah, there you go.

01:19:33.980 Okay, well, thanks for having me today.

01:19:36.620 Well, I hope you get the answers to stuff that you want.

01:19:39.980 I really do.

01:19:40.860 Yeah.

01:19:41.020 I mean, it's tough.

01:19:42.740 I admire the fact that you're out, at least you're out doing something and you're trying to get answers.

01:19:50.640 You're not afraid to engage.

01:19:53.180 Yeah.

01:19:53.300 And I like that. 1.00

01:19:54.180 Did you get any females to talk to you? 1.00

01:19:56.360 Like one or two. 0.99

01:19:57.460 Not many.

01:19:58.960 I mean, I...

01:19:59.460 Two?

01:19:59.960 Two. 0.92

01:20:00.260 Women, I mean, I talked to seven. 0.96

01:20:03.340 Oh, tell me what they said. 1.00

01:20:04.900 They said, oh, no, I'm not going to.

01:20:06.440 I was just wondering if they agreed with, like, they should obey or should...

01:20:09.420 I was just, I wanted to know what the Catholic...

01:20:11.320 No, as a matter of fact, I can tell you one of them, and she's my generation.

01:20:15.040 Okay.

01:20:15.460 Okay, and you were there when she died.

01:20:19.980 She said, well, what's the question? 0.99

01:20:21.420 And I said, should Christian women obey their husbands? 1.00

01:20:23.820 She's absolutely not. 1.00

01:20:27.820 Okay. 0.79

01:20:28.480 So would you say most of the women here would agree with obeying or not agree?

01:20:32.620 i don't know because because we have a a very eclectic it's like a mix of people yeah yeah

01:20:45.300 okay just ages i mean you know here we since easter i think we put 150 new catholics into

01:20:53.420 our church oh wow not i'm not talking about the diocese i mean since easter we have brought 150

01:21:01.600 young kids that's amazing huh that is amazing yeah i know it's it's beautiful to me and and

01:21:07.920 and i guess because i'm a convert myself i understand that so and people are searching

01:21:15.440 yeah well i was just curious the if you had any input on what the women said

01:21:20.640 yeah but if you don't know it's all right totally okay no they they were more afraid or

01:21:25.920 one you know one was very very vocal uh and uh the others were i i think they're more

01:21:35.040 i don't want to say afraid they don't want to look dumb or say something bad

01:21:39.680 or they don't i guess they just didn't it wasn't important to them yeah yeah there you go 0.59

01:21:45.520 yeah that that was you know yeah that's fine i mean yeah yeah well i'm glad you were here

01:21:50.160 thank you for being here get something on your arms because yeah i know it's all right nice to

01:21:54.400 Nice to meet you guys.

01:21:55.400 Nice to meet you.

Pearl - May 29, 2026

I Got Kicked Out of a Church

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