Pearl - March 09, 2026


“I Have a Defeatist Mindset” ——- OK well, what’s your plan ？

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9 minutes

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174.9

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1,700

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69

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Also mentioned:
Ben Shapiro Beast

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Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

4

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15

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In this episode, I talk about why I believe that in my lifetime, things are not going to get better. Women have the majority of spending power, voting power, and who was born, and we have not been very good with it.

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00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to my Coffee Thoughts. For those of you that don't know, I am a traditional conservative in the sense that when I got into conservative media, I believed that we could swing the pendulum back and bring back traditionalism.
00:00:15.640 Um, unfortunately, as I, you know, started to deal more with the reality of the situation,
00:00:21.820 I came to learn that there's really no going back and that traditionalism is never coming
00:00:26.760 back.
00:00:27.100 The reason I say this is because women got the vote in 1920 and when women got the right 0.65
00:00:32.920 to vote, women got the majority of the political power. 0.95
00:00:35.740 Um, and when women got the right to take out student loans and credit cards with money 1.00
00:00:40.680 that they don't have, women got the majority of spending power. 1.00
00:00:44.000 When women, you know, when we got joint bank accounts and that kind of thing, now women can spend their husband's money either through marriage, you know, where you can't take away your wife's credit card. 1.00
00:00:54.720 Otherwise, it's, you know, financial abuse or, you know, child support, alimony. 0.94
00:01:00.580 Essentially, the biggest wealth transfer in the United States is women stealing money from men, also through useless jobs. 1.00
00:01:06.620 Okay. And I believe that it's never going back. Oh, sorry. Women are also 100% in control of who 1.00
00:01:13.240 is born. Um, meaning that through contraceptives, birth control plan B, a man has no choice in the
00:01:21.160 matter. Um, and I saw a comment on my last video and I said it was going to get worse. Um, I do
00:01:26.800 read the comments and if something's interesting, I'll go back and forth with it. They said that I
00:01:31.960 had a defeatist attitude. Um, they said that I'm a doomer now and I'm black pill because I think in
00:01:39.120 my lifetime, um, things are not going to get better. Now I actually, I don't know if I agree
00:01:46.500 or disagree. Is it defeatist? Okay. I'll put it like this. So again, I talk a lot about the lessons
00:01:51.600 I learned from my father. And one of the lessons I learned from my dad, um, is you always have to
00:01:57.960 think of what is the next step so whenever I would be a woman right and we just get really
00:02:02.860 really frustrated where I'm just like oh I'm so pissed right either you have an employee that's
00:02:07.680 you know doing bad work or you have you know something you know you're trying to learn and
00:02:12.620 you can't get it my dad always taught me to say what is the next step what is the next step is
00:02:17.820 it working or is it not working and I learned this I'm learning music theory right now and
00:02:25.160 whenever I get really frustrated, I always do step one, slow it down. Step two, zone in on where
00:02:31.400 you're getting frustrated. What is the problem? Identify the problem, then you can have a solution.
00:02:36.820 And really, the problem in this country is the women have the majority of spending power, 1.00
00:02:42.760 voting power, and who was born, and we have not been very good with it. And what would be the
00:02:47.540 next step? Well, I have no political power. I simply have a little YouTube channel. Maybe it's
00:02:53.040 big, whatever. I mean, I get what, 15,000 views a video. I'm not Mr. Beast, right?
00:03:02.720 I don't have political power. What am I going to do? And my dad would always tell me there's
00:03:12.180 no problem or there's no point in wasting time, money, and energy on problems you can't solve.
00:03:17.480 and the reality is feminism is here feminism one right women have the majority um i just listed it 1.00
00:03:24.660 off women have power and everything and there's nothing i personally can do about it and i don't 1.00
00:03:32.140 see anybody having any incentive to change anything because why would a politician change
00:03:39.320 the laws if most of his constituents are female why would a business stop being woke when they 1.00
00:03:46.320 make eight dollars off of women and two dollars off of men why would they in some degree we all 0.97
00:03:52.120 take part in the feminist system every single person is a feminist now i was explaining this 1.00
00:03:57.580 to my dad because my dad sold like um software he had a company and he sold um i don't know plumbing
00:04:04.080 it was like hvac he sold um software to technicians and i said dad everybody makes money off of women 1.00
00:04:10.040 even you and he said no i sell i sell software to contractors and business owners b2b is very
00:04:17.520 different i'm like yeah dad who's their customer who's their customer it's women overpaying all 1.00
00:04:25.680 these plumbers like everybody makes money off of women so there's just no incentive um to for 1.00
00:04:34.460 anything to change. And, you know, I could, option A, get really pissed and whine and complain,
00:04:41.940 or B, you know, try to make a plan for the system that we're currently in. I can say, you know,
00:04:47.520 most people are going to either be childless or single parents. There's nothing you can do about 1.00
00:04:52.980 that. That's the future, right? I could say most people I know getting married are going to get
00:04:58.820 divorced, that is the future, unfortunately. You know, you can make a plan and a strategy 0.99
00:05:05.840 to hope, you know, for the best outcome for yourself. Like there's a lot of plans on how
00:05:11.460 to make relationships work, how to make money without selling your soul. You know, there's a
00:05:15.740 lot of, you can find a million plans on the internet, but that doesn't mean it's going to
00:05:19.820 work out. And in my experience, trends just don't change overnight. And I kind of have the perspective
00:05:27.660 of from following conservative content for a decade. 10 years ago, I remember Ben Shapiro
00:05:33.920 saying the pendulum's going to swing back. And I remember saying, yeah, it's going to swing back.
00:05:38.520 And then, you know, now I've said this before, but I got to keep harping on it because it just,
00:05:44.660 it impacted my life. I would say it's not uncommon for me to meet people with OnlyFans or women with 0.90
00:05:51.340 little TikTok followings. Um, the young girls, the young women, pretty much all of them have
00:05:56.520 little like TikTok, like I think it's like a quarter of Gen Z women actively post content on 1.00
00:06:02.040 TikTok. That means you say the wrong thing to a bitch. It's going to be everywhere, right? I'm 1.00
00:06:06.780 sure some of you guys have felt that with the are we dating the same guy page. So to the man that
00:06:12.340 said that to me in my comment section that said I'm a doomer, my question for you is, well, what's
00:06:17.220 your plan? I'm at least being honest to the audience, right? And a lot of times conservative
00:06:23.640 of people come back at me and they you know i think wilson respect to wilson we love andrew
00:06:28.120 but he said ecclesiastical marriages um something like that i heard it in his debate with cooper
00:06:33.580 i'm paraphrasing it and i'm thinking um god can't save you from these hoes um just like it didn't 0.99
00:06:41.120 you know you guys push sarah stock respectfully respectfully no no disrespect here uh but you
00:06:47.140 know she fooled everybody including you guys so an ecclesiastical marriage maybe can lower the 0.96
00:06:54.280 risk a little bit but you know some of the worst divorces i ever saw were from a traditional latin 1.00
00:07:02.740 mass like woman so once you've seen that i just can't unsee it you know most of the couples i
00:07:08.960 meet in church are super simps like the guy is enslaved i don't think he fears god uh because
00:07:14.740 if he, you know, how can you say you fear God when you fear women? And I wish I had some plan
00:07:23.300 that could save everything. But I think the other thing about growing up is when you realize things
00:07:28.800 are out of your depth. I'll give you a different example when this happened. So being in conservative
00:07:35.740 right-wing commentary, I've had the opportunity to comment on like, people have asked my opinion
00:07:41.200 on Gaza, on like, you know, the Middle East. And there were times where I had gotten encouragement
00:07:46.520 to, you know, weigh in on those topics. And I just thought, why would anyone want my opinion on war?
00:07:54.280 Like, I've never been in a fight. I don't really want to be in a fight.
00:07:59.500 I have no concept of violence. I have never led a military into anything.
00:08:05.720 um so i could give you guys a plan for what i would do in the middle east but
00:08:12.640 it would probably be terrible you know and i think when you get older and you lose a little
00:08:18.700 bit of your ego um you realize what things are out of your depth and saving society
00:08:23.000 i don't think most people like most people have no power and no influence i have a little influence
00:08:32.320 it's no power. So, you know, to the guy in the comment section, what's your plan to save
00:08:40.100 everything? I don't think ecclesiastical merit, like, I think we're too far deep,
00:08:47.260 unfortunately. So enjoy the decline, have a beer. And just because the world is falling apart,
00:08:55.960 it doesn't mean your world has to fall apart. And I can tell you guys maybe steps that I've
00:09:01.860 taken personally in the last few years you know that have made my life better but I don't know
00:09:09.540 if that'll help you you know what I mean you can do the exact steps that I did um you might one you
00:09:17.460 might not want what I want you could do the exact steps I did and not get it you know so anyways
00:09:24.020 uh my question to the comment the guy who left that comment is uh what is your plan what's your
00:09:30.720 plan. So like the video, if you can, please subscribe to the channel. I love chatting with
00:09:35.700 you guys. I love these coffee talks. Um, and if you have a topic you want me to make a coffee
00:09:39.920 talk about, please put it in the comments. I love you. And I'll see you next time.